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Episodes

  • Dealing with egomaniacs

    Aug 31, 2014 | 7 min
    There is a trick to dealing with self-centered people who prey on your good nature, and it's not what you think!
  • Prenups and separate checking accounts?

    Aug 20, 2014 | 9 min
    Yes, on both counts if you want to have a happy marriage. If he/she refuses to sign a prenup then refuse to marry him. It's as simple as that. And I'll explain why separate checking accounts could save your marriage.
  • Is it OK for him to be friendly with ex?

    Aug 19, 2014 | 6 min
    Is he flirting or just talking about the kids? You have to figure out where his feelings are...for her and for you.
  • Throwing relationship in friend's face

    Aug 17, 2014 | 8 min
    If your friend is involved with someone and all of a sudden she has not time for her bff, what should you do?
  • Why living together ruins relationships

    Aug 17, 2014 | 8 min
    If you love someone, why not marry them? Does living together without a ring mean someone is a commitment phobe? YES!!! Is that someone you want to be with? It has nothing to do with morals or religion. Maintain your independence, people.
  • How to deal with condescending people

    Aug 16, 2014 | 7 min
    You know who they are...and they drive us all crazy! How to manage people who talk down to you...who think they know everything. Truth is, they have self-esteem issues. But that's no excuse....you've got to protect yourself.
  • Are you talking too much about problems?

    Aug 12, 2014 | 4 min
    Are you down in the dumps about something? Yes, you should talk about it to friends. Bottling up your problems isn't healthy. But when is it too much?
  • Is your mom really always right?

    Aug 6, 2014 | 5 min
    I know unwanted advice from mom isn't so easy to take..especially when it is given with a dose of criticism, and an "I told you so," for good measure. But what is your mom really looking for?
  • Why being a third wheel is a good thing!

    Jul 25, 2014 | 5 min
    a single listener wants to know if it is OK to go out all the time with married couples. Yes, you should go...and I'll tell you why.
  • How to tell if relationship will last

    Jul 23, 2014 | 6 min
    How your partner reacts when you tell him/her good or bad news could determine whether you will have a long-lasting relationship or not.
  • youngmenintimacy

    Jul 22, 2014 | 4 min
    We are all lead to believe that all young men want is sex...but maybe that's not true, and they really do crave intimacy
  • How to have more charisma

    Jul 17, 2014 | 6 min
    What exactly is charisma, and why do we want it? How do we get it? Charisma is not the same as confidence, and I'll explain why.
  • Why can't I trust anyone?

    Jul 14, 2014 | 5 min
    Are there really any trustworthy people left out there? And how do you spot them? No, don't let your guard down, but yes, you can find friends who have your back.
  • Why I don't like the Paleo diet

    Jul 14, 2014 | 5 min
    Eating more meat to lose weight? What??? We'll talk about it.
  • Did I just get dumped?

    Jul 11, 2014 | 5 min
    A listener wants to know if a woman just rejected him...or not.
  • I love him more than he loves me!

    Jul 11, 2014 | 5 min
    Should you break up with someone if you think he/she cares less about you then you about them? We'll talk about it!
  • Future sister-in-law hates me!

    Jun 30, 2014 | 5 min
    I hear that a lot! And there are a couple things you can do to rectify the situation....or should you?
  • How to deal with back handed compliments

    Jun 29, 2014 | 5 min
    We've all gotten them. People make the rudest remarks aimed to hurt...but they say it with a smile. How to deal with these types without losing your mind!
  • Why don't I have decent friends?

    Jun 26, 2014 | 6 min
    Should you distance yourself from friends who are just plain lousy? We'll talk about it!
  • How to stop feeling like you're failing

    Jun 25, 2014 | 8 min
    We all set lofty goals in life, but what do you do if you aren't reaching them? We'll talk about how to redirect.
  • boyfriend is flirting with another woman

    Jun 24, 2014 | 6 min
    How do you handle this situation? You don't confront him, but you do have a conversation with him. There is a difference. You don't want to go in with this accusatory attitude...in case you're wrong. But if you don't say anything, the problem will fester, and you will end up blowing up at him. Remember, above all, listen to your gut feeling.
  • How not to compare yourself to others

    May 1, 2014 | 5 min
    Sure, people will be smarter, prettier, wealthier, whatever. Here's how to avoid that jealousy trap.
  • Being criticized about your weight

    Apr 23, 2014 | 5 min
    How do you handle family members who can't wait to lay into you about the pounds you gained? The answer isn't what you think.
  • Crush rejected you & is available again

    Apr 21, 2014 | 4 min
    If you were rejected by someone who chose a different guy, should you ask her out again, now that they have broken up?
  • Misses ex who treated her badly

    Apr 20, 2014 | 5 min
    We'll talk about why you would have trouble getting over someone who was a lousy boyfriend!
  • Mother-in-law wants to name the baby!

    Apr 19, 2014 | 5 min
    If that isn't a controlling mother-in-law, I don't know who is. The troubling aspect to this is that she is likely going to try and control every part of your life. Don't let her!!
  • Traumatized by moving cross country

    Apr 18, 2014 | 5 min
    Moving can be one of the most stressful events in your life. But it is also your path to independence. We'll talk about how to ease into the changes ahead.
  • Following your dream career path or not?

    Apr 18, 2014 | 4 min
    Should you go into Psychology if you have mental health issues? We'll talk about it.
  • Boyfriend might be moving and no ring

    Apr 17, 2014 | 5 min
    What do you do if your boyfriend is looking for a job, but tells you that when he gets one, he doesn't know what will happen between the two of you? Huh??
  • Husband left; What did I do wrong?

    Apr 17, 2014 | 4 min
    A young woman is left with three small kids because his husband decided he liked another woman better. What????
  • Talking to family you don't know well

    Apr 16, 2014 | 5 min
    With all the holidays coming up, sometimes you find yourself surrounded by family members you rarely see and don't know well. What do you talk about?
  • Should you date your ex?

    Apr 16, 2014 | 4 min
    If you didn't see a future with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend before, do you see one now? We'll talk about what's changed.
  • boyfriend is acting distant, aloof

    Apr 15, 2014 | 4 min
    The last thing I would do would be to call him out on it. I'll tell you why.
  • Thirty and not married

    Apr 15, 2014 | 4 min
    Should we have a pity party? I think not, and I'll tell you why.
  • Friend is upset; 30 and not married

    Apr 15, 2014 | 4 min
    So what? Let's have a pity party, shall we? I'll tell you what you need to say to your friend.
  • Snubbed on boyfriend's birthday

    Apr 14, 2014 | 5 min
    What do you say to your boyfriend if he excludes you from his birthday dinner with the family? I'll tell you what to say, and it isn't pretty!
  • Dating a self centered person?

    Apr 14, 2014 | 4 min
    It's the age old question. Can you change him/her? We'll talk about it.
  • Is she really not ready to date?

    Apr 13, 2014 | 5 min
    A listener was rejected by a girl who says she is not ready to date yet because she was "hurt." What does that really mean?
  • Homesick or sick of boyfriend?

    Apr 13, 2014 | 7 min
    A listener doesn't know if she should stay with her boyfriend in a town that she hates, far from her home town. Or if she should leave and go back to where her family lives.
  • Staying friends with your ex's family

    Apr 13, 2014 | 5 min
    So, you hate your ex, but love his family. Should you get all chummy with the people closest to him?
  • My crush is interested in a married man!

    Apr 12, 2014 | 6 min
    I know you are feeling rejected, and your self esteem has taken a real hit...but this is her problem, not yours. I'll explain why.
  • How to get boyfriend to open up

    Apr 11, 2014 | 6 min
    People who are very reserved are hard to talk to. But it doesn't mean you shouldn't try. And saying the right thing could encourage this person to share his feelings.
  • boyfriend is nervous around ex

    Apr 11, 2014 | 3 min
    If your boyfriend clearly seems nervous and a little awkward around his ex, does that mean he is still interested in her? Not at all, and I'll tell you why.
  • Is my girlfriend cheating?

    Apr 11, 2014 | 5 min
    If your girlfriend is spending a lot of time alone with your best friend, does that mean he is cheating? Yes! We'll talk about why.
  • Dealing with boyfriend trolling Facebook

    Apr 11, 2014 | 4 min
    A listener wants to know if she should stay with her boyfriend who keeps checking out other girls on social media. We'll talk about it!
  • Attracted to looks but treats you badly

    Apr 10, 2014 | 4 min
    a listener wants to know why she is having trouble getting over a guy she really only likes for his appearance. Then, what's the problem?! We'll talk about it!
  • Choosing between boyfriend and dogs

    Mar 31, 2014 | 6 min
    Take the dogs and run! I'll explain on today's show.
  • Saying no to people who take advantage

    Mar 30, 2014 | 6 min
    A listener wants to know how to tell her friend that she can't babysit her obnoxious kids! She is afraid of losing the friendship. I have some choice words for this friend...
  • Keep thinking about ex when on a date

    Mar 27, 2014 | 4 min
    Ok, don't do that! I know, easier said than done. We'll talk about why your ex looks so much better after a break up.
  • Should you break family tradition?

    Mar 27, 2014 | 4 min
    A listener wants to know how to handle her mom who insists she become an army wife, not go into the army herself. I'll explain why it's all in the presentation...
  • Dealing with shallow narcissistic people

    Mar 25, 2014 | 10 min
    It's not easy because there are so many out there! In this episode we will talk about how to spot them, and when to set boundaries.
  • How to deal with not having any friends

    Mar 24, 2014 | 6 min
    There are people who have to be surrounded by friends. And they can't possibly rely on themselves. So, is it good to have buddies around? Sure, but a few acquaintances is OK too. And maybe even better for you. We'll talk about why.
  • How to handle someone who puts you down

    Mar 21, 2014 | 7 min
    Whatever you do, don't get defensive. That is what these types want. Remember, they are insecure. Don't let them bring you down! I'll share some tips.
  • So you still have feelings for an ex?

    Mar 20, 2014 | 8 min
    In this episode I will explain what to do to move forward and get over him/her! What you should say to yourself before dealing with those feelings.
  • Will asking her out ruin the friendship?

    Mar 18, 2014 | 8 min
    Well, maybe. It depends how she feels about you. And this episode is dedicated to paying attention to those clues. Guys, you can tell through body language if she likes you!
  • Should you break up if he's talking w/ex

    Mar 18, 2014 | 8 min
    Yes, absolutely. You can't tell me there are no feelings if your girlfriend or boyfriend is still communicating with an ex. And if he throws it back at you, saying you are too possessive...you need to run for the hills. This situation isn't getting any better.
  • How to handle jealousy of friend

    Mar 17, 2014 | 8 min
    I have been there! We all have. A listener is jealous because her friend has a boyfriend and she doesn't! Well, boo hoo...Seriously, I have some tips on how to leave the pity party and really love life! You can do it. And I'll share my own jealousy story.
  • What to do; fiance kissed another woman

    Mar 16, 2014 | 7 min
    Yes, this is bad. But is it a deal breaker...maybe not. It depends on how he reacts to you when you confront him. If he owns up to his mistake, and this has never happened before, he might deserve a second chance. But if he denies, denies, denies, then no. Send him packing. Basically, if you think you will spend your life worrying about whether he will cheat again, and you can't trust him, it might be time to end this relationship.
  • Why you shouldn't dump BFF for a man!

    Mar 15, 2014 | 10 min
    We all know someone who has done this. Your good friend is head over heals for some guy. And she's MIA for months. All of a sudden, she appears again, without the guy and minus a few buddies? How to make sure this doesn't happen to you!
  • Talking To Your Crush Who Doesn't Talk!

    Mar 14, 2014 | 10 min
    It's hard speaking to someone you like who really doesn't say much. How do you get her to open up? And is it really worth pursuing a relationship with a girl who is really quiet? Yes, yes, yes, and I'll explain why.
  • Friends with no Benefits; Platonic?

    Mar 13, 2014 | 10 min
    A listener wants to know if he can stay friends with someone who says she is not interested in him. Give her an emphatic no! She just wants someone waiting in the wings...to feed her ego. You can do so much better! Remember, never ever settle for a number two position in someone's life!
  • Are You Ready to Change for Someone?

    Mar 13, 2014 | 15 min
    Have you ever had an anxiety attack at a warehouse store? If you are in any way a germaphobe, you will be horrified by my experience. Oh, and we will get to a listener question..I promise. This one from a young woman who is having trouble convincing her friend that she has changed.