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Speaker 1 (00:08):
Mother Knows Death starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk Hi.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. On today's episode, we're
going to talk about broadcaster Pierce Morgan, who recently had
an injury and a complete His wife has that many
people who are caregivers can probably relate to. Reality star
and singer ray Ja said he has months to live
due to heart failure, so we'll talk about what's going
on with him. A really freak accident in what appears
(00:43):
to be a series of unfortunate events that led to
a young woman freezing to death outside. Then we have
a really unusual true crime case involving a Florida Airbnb
host who is accused of walking around a resort naked
and engaging in a sex act with a vacuum cleaner.
We'll finish the episode talking about complications from designer vaginal surgery.
(01:08):
All that and more on today's episode.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
All right, Piers Morgan, who is an English broadcaster and
not the homeless Lady from Home alone too, as he
wants everyone to know. He was at a meeting and
apparently he missed a step causing him to fall on
the floor and as a result, he fractured his femur
and needed hip surgery. So now his wife has written
this article about the incident and is complaining about being
(01:31):
his caregiver.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yeah, she says that she agreed to sickness and health,
but it's taking a toll on her. Apparently he's just
really annoying and just like having to just take care
of a person that can't walk is taking a toll
on her, and it is I mean, it's cool that
she comes out and says this because I think a
(01:53):
lot of people she even did say in the article
like she wanted to be the ultimate wife like Jennifer
Connolly in A Beautiful Mind, and that's like she tried
really really hard and wasn't having those similar feelings. And obviously,
like that's a movie and this is real life. So
(02:13):
you have to like kind of respect that she is
putting it out there like that that it's very hard
to do. But at the same time, I'm like, you're
a multi millionaire probably, right, so you have a lot
at your fingertips, Like you don't have to worry about
still going to work to take care of him, and
(02:34):
you could probably hire someone to cook your food and
things like that. So it's it's not equivalent to what
average people go through that have to take care of
something like be a caretaker to a sick person.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
I mean I took away a couple of things here,
like a I think that, like I want to preface with,
caregiving is very hard on anybody, no matter what personality type,
no matter what level of patience. It's a very hard job.
And I don't think caregivers are seen the way they
should be for the hard work it is. But with
that said, I think that a lot of people get
(03:06):
married and then when they face a hardship like this,
all they do is complain about it. And it's like, yes,
and sickness and health, but also it's like that's part
of the deal. So what did you expect.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I want to say, that's a hard Like news flash,
it's gonna get a lot worse for you guys, like
you're getting old.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yeah, because I think of people that I know in
my life that are caregivers and it's just like they
work very hard. It consumes your whole life and everything.
But then you could very easily cross that line of
just being like, well why are you even with this
person if you didn't expect a girl old together and
have to take care of them, because now it just
seems like your entire life is an inconvenience. But it's
(03:45):
like that should be part of the deal of growing
old with somebody. And I feel like, you know, if,
like if you and Gabe, for example, are really old
and one of you is sick God forbid, or just
like in bad condition as an old person, and one
of you is venting to me about it, like I'm
not going to be like, wow, there's such an asshole
for venting about it. I know it's very hard, but
(04:06):
there is a level where you're like, do you.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Even love this person because this is just like part
of marriage. Well, and I would argue a broken hip
is like not that big of a deal. It's not
in kimparison to like I had a friend that was
taking care of a husband that had als and like
couldn't breathe exapt, was wheelchair bound. I had another friend
that was taking care of her dead, her now dead
(04:31):
husband who had cancer. So when you think about looking
at someone that you love and having to do things
like that, but then on top of it them actually
be like having a serious health condition and dying that
that's like something to really complain about. But like, yes,
(04:52):
he broke his hip, but like his mind is totally fine.
It's a minor inconvenience. He's supposed to get better, you know.
It's just two different things to complain about. And and like
like I said, there's I mean, my my one friend
that was taking care of her husband that had als,
like she still had to go to work and like
(05:13):
have someone come over and babysit him while she went
to work, and like a nurse and this and that.
Like it's that's where you're start being like, Okay, this
is hard and these people deserve to vent. So I
don't know. I mean, the thing is is that people
go through this all the time and nobody writes an
article about them because it's not like a famous person's wife.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Well that's the thing. Like I I feel like she
wrote this article in part to vent and maybe a
little bit in jest, right, but like I am just
taking it. Maybe it's my problem in millennials problem and everything,
but I'm just like, this is kind of rude to
write something like this, and you have every right to
(05:55):
do it. And I don't give a shit about him,
but I'm just like it's kind of emasculating the like
right out, You're like being this total little bit about
his surgery.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Well, listen, every man is a bitch, like totally, absolutely,
and trust me, Like I've said this before when Gabe,
I was just making fun of gay for being sick.
Like it's just I had Gabe with the flu at
some point and then like the kids, and it's just
like the husband's always it's a joke that every woman has,
like the guy is difficult to deal with men getting sick.
(06:27):
There's memes all over the place that are like women
that have the flu that are cooking dinner and doing
this and that, and then the man's like in the
bed like shivering when he's got a cough.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Like no, totally, but I was, like, you know, on
a not so serious level, like putting myself in the
position right like I just had surgery less than a
year ago. There were a couple of days after my
surgery where you and Ricky had to like literally help
me get off the toilet, like help me get off
the couch, and like it probably was very annoying for
both of you, but I needed you to do some
(06:59):
things and I'm thinking if like, you go in the
gross room and then you're writing an article venting about
how annoying I'm being because I can't be by myself.
Like that's where I'm kind of coming at, And I
just am like, okay, Like I don't really care about
his feelings necessarily, but he is going through a hard time.
He broke, he had surgery and all this stuff, and
you're just here airing out all your dirty laundry in
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your house. I don't know. I just think it's I
just thought it was a weird move, but whatever, all right.
Ray J posted on social media last week claiming that
his heart is only beating a twenty five percent and
he had months to live, so.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
He I mean, he's saying that his doctor told him
me he has months to live and he's going to
die in twenty twenty seven, and like he might very well.
But I think that there's other things that could be
done with this guy before he just calls it quits
right now. He's he's very young, right, forty five, he's
my age.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Yeah. Well, first he said if he stayed folks and
on the right path, that everything would be all right,
and then he posted a follow up saying no, never mind, me,
health's not okay.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
I only have months to live. So when your heart's
beating at twenty five percent, there's something called dejection fraction,
which is the percentage of blood from the left ventricle
pumps out with each beat. So normally you want to
be around fifty five to seventy percent. So if it's
anything less than that, it starts becoming like, okay, from
(08:29):
we got to watch this too, Okay, you're at a
serious risk of heart failure. So when you if you
get like I know that he said that he's got
he got medications and all these things, like if you
get treatment and you stop whatever's causing the heart failure,
which in his case it said he was drinking and
doing drugs and adderall. Like, if you cut out all
(08:52):
that stuff, you could potentially see your heart function getting better.
But if it doesn't get better, then things like you
could get pacemakers or ventricular devices, and at the bottom
of the line, like if it really foils, you can
be a candidate for a heart transplant. So he's like,
(09:12):
I think he's being dramatic to get attention from Kim
Kardashian or something. I feel like like it's not just like, well,
your fuck, that's it. There's other stuff that could be
done to help him.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Yeah, I mean he's kind of all over the place
because I guess he was hospitalized for pneumonia earlier this month.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Unless he just decided that he's not quitting whatever he's
been doing, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
And then he said the right side of his heart
is black, Like is he's saying that it's deteriorating from
all his substance abuse over theears.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
And then I wanted to bring up that in November,
it says he was arrested after allegedly pointing a gun
at his ex wife and he was charged for making
a criminal threat. And then they also pointed out he's
in i llegal dispute with the Kardashians related to a
settlement agreement surrounding the sex tape that is decades. Oh,
what's just going on with kind of high drama? I
(10:04):
think I also didn't know. I just learned in this
article that his sister is Brandy, the singer, and she's
been paying all his hospital bills.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
I didn't know that either, actually, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Because he was like, I want to thank my sister
for paying all my hospital bills, and I was like, well,
who is your sister, because like, don't you have money?
And then I looked it up and it's Brandy, which
is is he?
Speaker 2 (10:24):
He made a big deal, Like the only reason anybody
even knows who he is is because that whole thing,
isn't it.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
I literally only know of him because of the sex tape,
and I forgot he even existed. And then he resurfaced
on the Kardashians a couple of years ago because Kanye
allegedly went to his house and took the hard drive,
the head the remaining copy of the sex tape on it,
which was totally fabricated, it seemed.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
But whatever, why what does it matter?
Speaker 1 (10:49):
It's like on the internet, who can Like I when
I watched the documentary about Pamela Anderson, for example, like
I understand the cultural impact of why that was such
a problem for her, especially because like somebody took personal
videos of her and her husband making love and turned
them into this salacious porn. Right there was a complete
(11:09):
violation of her privacy, and then everybody was acting like
she was a slut about it, right, And it's like no,
like they just it was videos of her and her
husband being intimate together that somebody took. And where did
they How did they have access to the videos because
they had them in a safe at their house and
the contractor that was working on their house stole the
safe out of their house.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
It's just regardless, I'm saying, like, who does who?
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Who tell us that.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
In twenty two extremely hot people in the nineties do that,
That's what No, But like in twenty twenty six, if
you have a sex tapeer, you're on OnlyFans. It's really
not a big deal. In the nineties, it was a
really big deal. And I understand why Pamela, I understand
is traumatized by that. But like in today's day and age,
Kim Kardashian launched her fame off this sex tape, who
cares about its existence?
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Like, yeah, well she I she cares because she's not, Like,
regardless of how successful and all the stuff she's done,
nobody takes her seriously because that was the root of it.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
Like, but like jokes on everybody else, You're a billionaire,
Why do you care what everybody else thinks?
Speaker 2 (12:13):
It's sound stupid because I mean, I could see why
she cares what she thinks. The money isn't just everything.
Like think about this, Like Katherine O'Hara just died and
she's she's well respected and because she's she's smart and
she's funny, and she built her whole brand on something
(12:35):
that is a positive about her, she didn't she actually,
like Katherine O'Hara was always like like a lot of
the women, especially on Saturday Night Live too, that never
they cared about being funny before they cared about being pretty. Yeah,
like it's it's just admirable and she's a well respected person.
(12:57):
And when someone talks about Kim Kardashian, like, yeah, I
wouldn't say that she didn't do amazing things with the
business and between her whole family whatever they're doing. But
like nobody's saying things like that. They're all just kind
of like, yeah, the only reason she's got anything is
cause of that, you know, And like that doesn't feel
(13:19):
good for her. It doesn't matter that she's a millionaire,
Like it doesn't. It just doesn't make her feel good.
I know that.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
Yeah, I guess I mean something I forgot to mention
with Katherine O'Hara earlier this week too. Is of course,
as started crying about it, she was like, the only
thing she wanted to be remembered for was being a
good mom to her two kids, and of like, this lady,
who's arguably been one of the most iconic actresses of
our time, is just like, forget everything I did. I
just want to remember it as being a good mom,
which is super cool. Yeah, all right, this thirty two
(13:48):
year old woman was found dead of hypothermia in the
front yard of her home, and there's two theories as
to what happened. So first, she took an uber to
the wrong address, left her phone in the car, and
couldn't contact anyone to pick her up, so she walked home.
And then the second theory is she took an uber
to the right address but left her keys in the
car and couldn't get inside.
Speaker 2 (14:07):
This is it's really terrible. Actually, yeah, it's like a
series of just I mean, she probably was she leaving
like a bar or something, or just like they just.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Say, there's really not much information about this case, and
even when you look it up on news outlets, this
thing about the ride share is not necessarily coming up.
So I guess it's important to say that this is
speculation via social media as to what happened or what
family members have released. But this is really scary because
I feel like this can easily happen to anybody, And
(14:39):
it's like the weather was so bad down there that
I just think everybody was unprepared.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Yeah, and if you do get if you get dropped
off at a place, especially because I guess I've had
that happen a couple of times, not with Uber, but
like I remember recently I ordered something from Old Navy
from the case and I haven't ordered something for a while,
but I was like, let me get these leggings and
they never came and it said they were delivered, and
(15:07):
it was like some address I lived at like fifteen
years ago, and and like, I guess it just was
stored in there and I just hit submit and didn't
realize it.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Like it the same thing could happen when you have
like an Uber, you have addresses stored for door dash
or for anything like that, to think like you might
order it and not even really realize that you didn't
change it or you didn't update it, especially if you're
leaving the bar and you might be like drunk or
something and you're not really like one hundred percent, they
(15:41):
like they don't wait to make sure you get in
the door if it's right.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
No, But you also don't always want them seeing Like
like when I looked at Daddie, I would put an
address a couple of houses down and then get out,
you know, and then walk because I'm like, I don't
want you to see the exactly pays I'm going in.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Yeah, I mean, I guess they don't, so I mean,
and then you're you get dropped off in an area
Like in my neighborhood, you could just knock on a
neighbor's door and just say hi, I don't have my phone,
could use But if it was later, people were sleeping whatever.
Like she you're outside and you don't have anything to do.
It's just terrible to think about that, like freezing to death.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
No, one hundred percent, She's like found around noon the
following day in her front yard, steps from her front door.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
It's horrible. We were in the city on Sunday night
for our Grossroom dinner, which was awesome, by the way,
and we were driving home and there was a guy
outside like sleeping under blankets, and I was just like,
is that a person under there right now? It was
twenty degrees It was so freaking cold out and I
(16:44):
just feel terrible for anyone that's outside in this weather
that you know, it's just so bad. And of course,
I mean, they're having hypothermia deaths all over the country
because of it.
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(17:26):
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(18:09):
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Speaker 2 (18:28):
Okay, what's next? Oh this airbnb guy?
Speaker 1 (18:32):
All right, So, just outside of Disney World, a man
was arrested for walking around nude and performing lude acts
with a vacuum.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
So I guess, like, you know, you could use something
called a penis pump to make an erection stronger, especially
if you don't want to take medication or anything, and
a lot of people don't have one of those medically
approved devices that do it the right way, So I
(19:01):
guess that's why he was doing it. I suppose you
could get some sexual satisfaction out of it, but really,
like I think a guy would do it to get
like a really good erection.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Well, I guess he had been doing this for a
while because there was complaints filed with a local homeowners
association about a month before he was seen doing this,
and other people had footage of him doing this.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
It's just so bizarre, like why why is he trying
to do? Like is he carrying around a cordless back
with him?
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Do you imagine a I don't know, Like could you imagine?
Well what I guess do they have a tubing that
would fit around the penis? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
I really I need more information on said vacuum right,
Like was it an industrial vacuum, was it a regular
vacuum leader was it a dustbuster? I really confused, Like
did nobody stop him when they saw him doing this?
Because people, other people are saying they had footage of him?
Speaker 2 (19:59):
What what would you do? You know? What's funny? Actually
I was on I don't know whatever social media I
was on last night, and I saw this video of
someone sitting in the waiting room of a bank. And
you know how like the banks have like their own offices. Yeah,
and the windows were like not tinted, but like frosted glass. Yeah,
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and there was people like this. It looked like like
a woman was like jerking off a guy and then
he like benter over and was having sex with her.
And this person's like sitting in the waiting room recording it,
so you could barely see it, but you could still
see it because it's like frosted glass and it was
like waiting at the bank, be like you know, and
it's just like when you see something like that happening,
(20:45):
or you just like, am I really witnessing this? Am
I really seeing this? Like just a guy like you know,
like wax in his carrot with a fricking a vacuum.
It's just like so gross, and I just don't know
what I would do. I would be like, am I
really witnessing this right now?
Speaker 1 (21:03):
And like he owned a couple airbnbs, so like is
he doing this in the frontal property? I really wouldn't
be comfortable with this knowing that the person did this.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Yeah, and it said he's like a secret camera guy,
Like where's his wife? Yeah? Does she know? I don't know?
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
All right, let's talk about designer vaginas, all.
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Right, So this is a good article actually because there's
so a designer of vagina would be like a woman,
it's really should be vulva, like a woman's not happy
with the way that her labya looks, so she decides
to get surgery done. And of course it's like all
over social media and women have like this whole other
(21:44):
set of insecurities because of the increase of like nakedness
and porn and everything like that. So this woman is
now twenty two years old, but she's saying at the time,
when she was fourteen, that's when she really started becoming
insecure about it and wanted to get it done. A
lot of women get it done too, because having like
really large labia can cause problems, like when you're riding
(22:07):
a bike or if you're having sex, Like imagine if
you have all that extra skin hanging out like a penis,
could like tear on it and stuff. So this woman
went to get the surgery, and she went to get
it because she wanted to not only feel better, but
she wanted it to look better too, and just was
assured that this was going to boost her confidence in
(22:28):
the bedroom and everything like that. And now she's saying
she's having all these complications from it and she's only
twenty two, which is like pain during sex, it's dry
all the time, like all of these things that sound torturous,
because any kind of thing going on down there is
just like uncomfortable as hell. You're sitting, you know, just
(22:51):
you have to sit on it all day. So if
it's not comfortable, and then you know, looking into it,
like one of the biggest complications is that too much
tissue is taken off and causes complications like that could
really be devastating on a woman's life, and it's like,
how do you fix that?
Speaker 1 (23:10):
Well, they're saying they discuss reconstructive surgery, which would be
a procedure that's the same techniques used for women who
have suffered from female genital mutilation.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
Like, well, I mean that's horrible. I mean that's essentially
what it is. It's just in a controlled environment. But like,
and do they cover those costs because they botched it? Well,
I don't know, because you sign all these release forms,
like there's gonna be complications in this and that, and
some stuff is like unforeseen. And it's the same thing
(23:42):
with any surgery, Like you could get a really good
surgery or you could not. And if you have complications
like infections and things like that after having the surgery done,
it could only increase the risk of having like a
long term problem with it.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
I hate these stories when it's like people are just
like trying to do something to have a better quality
of life. This reminds me of like getting Lasik surgery, right,
Like you're inconvenienced by your eyesight being bad, so you're
trying to get this thing that everybody talks really positively about,
and then you end up being blind the rest of
your life.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Yeah, it sucks. It's like one of those It's a
very low risk procedure, and I'm sure that there's women
that are listening to us right now that got it
and they think it's awesome. Yeah, for sure. But I'm
glad that people are speaking out about it because I
think that people just go into it to get it
done and think that it's no big deal and you
(24:36):
can have complications, And like imagine that that's one of
the fears with plastic surgery in general, that because there
are so many people that do have complications, and just
imagine like looking at your face, for example, and being like,
I should have never touched that. It would have looked
better just being old instead of weird looking or this.
(25:00):
She's twenty two years old, She's gonna have to get
the surgery done. She's so young. Yeah, and like especially
if it's uncomfortable and yeah, and she can't be living
the rest of her life like yes, and with something
important like sex, like you need to work down there
and be comfortable just sitting. So it is really awful, all.
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Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. On today's episode, we're
going to talk about broadcaster Pierce Morgan, who recently had
an injury and a complete His wife has that many
people who are caregivers can probably relate to. Reality star
and singer ray Ja said he has months to live
due to heart failure, so we'll talk about what's going
on with him. A really freak accident in what appears
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to be a series of unfortunate events that led to
a young woman freezing to death outside. Then we have
a really unusual true crime case involving a Florida Airbnb
host who is accused of walking around a resort naked
and engaging in a sex act with a vacuum cleaner.
We'll finish the episode talking about complications from designer vaginal surgery.
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All that and more on today's episode.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
All right, Piers Morgan, who is an English broadcaster and
not the homeless Lady from Home alone too, as he
wants everyone to know. He was at a meeting and
apparently he missed a step causing him to fall on
the floor and as a result, he fractured his femur
and needed hip surgery. So now his wife has written
this article about the incident and is complaining about being
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his caregiver.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yeah, she says that she agreed to sickness and health,
but it's taking a toll on her. Apparently he's just
really annoying and just like having to just take care
of a person that can't walk is taking a toll
on her, and it is I mean, it's cool that
she comes out and says this because I think a
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lot of people she even did say in the article
like she wanted to be the ultimate wife like Jennifer
Connolly in A Beautiful Mind, and that's like she tried
really really hard and wasn't having those similar feelings. And obviously,
like that's a movie and this is real life. So
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you have to like kind of respect that she is
putting it out there like that that it's very hard
to do. But at the same time, I'm like, you're
a multi millionaire probably, right, so you have a lot
at your fingertips, Like you don't have to worry about
still going to work to take care of him, and
(02:34):
you could probably hire someone to cook your food and
things like that. So it's it's not equivalent to what
average people go through that have to take care of
something like be a caretaker to a sick person.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
I mean I took away a couple of things here,
like a I think that, like I want to preface with,
caregiving is very hard on anybody, no matter what personality type,
no matter what level of patience. It's a very hard job.
And I don't think caregivers are seen the way they
should be for the hard work it is. But with
that said, I think that a lot of people get
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married and then when they face a hardship like this,
all they do is complain about it. And it's like, yes,
and sickness and health, but also it's like that's part
of the deal. So what did you expect.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I want to say, that's a hard Like news flash,
it's gonna get a lot worse for you guys, like
you're getting old.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yeah, because I think of people that I know in
my life that are caregivers and it's just like they
work very hard. It consumes your whole life and everything.
But then you could very easily cross that line of
just being like, well why are you even with this
person if you didn't expect a girl old together and
have to take care of them, because now it just
seems like your entire life is an inconvenience. But it's
(03:45):
like that should be part of the deal of growing
old with somebody. And I feel like, you know, if,
like if you and Gabe, for example, are really old
and one of you is sick God forbid, or just
like in bad condition as an old person, and one
of you is venting to me about it, like I'm
not going to be like, wow, there's such an asshole
for venting about it. I know it's very hard, but
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there is a level where you're like, do you.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Even love this person because this is just like part
of marriage. Well, and I would argue a broken hip
is like not that big of a deal. It's not
in kimparison to like I had a friend that was
taking care of a husband that had als and like
couldn't breathe exapt, was wheelchair bound. I had another friend
that was taking care of her dead, her now dead
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husband who had cancer. So when you think about looking
at someone that you love and having to do things
like that, but then on top of it them actually
be like having a serious health condition and dying that
that's like something to really complain about. But like, yes,
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he broke his hip, but like his mind is totally fine.
It's a minor inconvenience. He's supposed to get better, you know.
It's just two different things to complain about. And and like
like I said, there's I mean, my my one friend
that was taking care of her husband that had als,
like she still had to go to work and like
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have someone come over and babysit him while she went
to work, and like a nurse and this and that.
Like it's that's where you're start being like, Okay, this
is hard and these people deserve to vent. So I
don't know. I mean, the thing is is that people
go through this all the time and nobody writes an
article about them because it's not like a famous person's wife.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Well that's the thing. Like I I feel like she
wrote this article in part to vent and maybe a
little bit in jest, right, but like I am just
taking it. Maybe it's my problem in millennials problem and everything,
but I'm just like, this is kind of rude to
write something like this, and you have every right to
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do it. And I don't give a shit about him,
but I'm just like it's kind of emasculating the like
right out, You're like being this total little bit about
his surgery.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Well, listen, every man is a bitch, like totally, absolutely,
and trust me, Like I've said this before when Gabe,
I was just making fun of gay for being sick.
Like it's just I had Gabe with the flu at
some point and then like the kids, and it's just
like the husband's always it's a joke that every woman has,
like the guy is difficult to deal with men getting sick.
(06:27):
There's memes all over the place that are like women
that have the flu that are cooking dinner and doing
this and that, and then the man's like in the
bed like shivering when he's got a cough.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Like no, totally, but I was, like, you know, on
a not so serious level, like putting myself in the
position right like I just had surgery less than a
year ago. There were a couple of days after my
surgery where you and Ricky had to like literally help
me get off the toilet, like help me get off
the couch, and like it probably was very annoying for
both of you, but I needed you to do some
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things and I'm thinking if like, you go in the
gross room and then you're writing an article venting about
how annoying I'm being because I can't be by myself.
Like that's where I'm kind of coming at, And I
just am like, okay, Like I don't really care about
his feelings necessarily, but he is going through a hard time.
He broke, he had surgery and all this stuff, and
you're just here airing out all your dirty laundry in
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your house. I don't know. I just think it's I
just thought it was a weird move, but whatever, all right.
Ray J posted on social media last week claiming that
his heart is only beating a twenty five percent and
he had months to live, so.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
He I mean, he's saying that his doctor told him
me he has months to live and he's going to
die in twenty twenty seven, and like he might very well.
But I think that there's other things that could be
done with this guy before he just calls it quits
right now. He's he's very young, right, forty five, he's
my age.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Yeah. Well, first he said if he stayed folks and
on the right path, that everything would be all right,
and then he posted a follow up saying no, never mind, me,
health's not okay.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
I only have months to live. So when your heart's
beating at twenty five percent, there's something called dejection fraction,
which is the percentage of blood from the left ventricle
pumps out with each beat. So normally you want to
be around fifty five to seventy percent. So if it's
anything less than that, it starts becoming like, okay, from
(08:29):
we got to watch this too, Okay, you're at a
serious risk of heart failure. So when you if you
get like I know that he said that he's got
he got medications and all these things, like if you
get treatment and you stop whatever's causing the heart failure,
which in his case it said he was drinking and
doing drugs and adderall. Like, if you cut out all
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that stuff, you could potentially see your heart function getting better.
But if it doesn't get better, then things like you
could get pacemakers or ventricular devices, and at the bottom
of the line, like if it really foils, you can
be a candidate for a heart transplant. So he's like,
(09:12):
I think he's being dramatic to get attention from Kim
Kardashian or something. I feel like like it's not just like, well,
your fuck, that's it. There's other stuff that could be
done to help him.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Yeah, I mean he's kind of all over the place
because I guess he was hospitalized for pneumonia earlier this month.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Unless he just decided that he's not quitting whatever he's
been doing, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
And then he said the right side of his heart
is black, Like is he's saying that it's deteriorating from
all his substance abuse over theears.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
And then I wanted to bring up that in November,
it says he was arrested after allegedly pointing a gun
at his ex wife and he was charged for making
a criminal threat. And then they also pointed out he's
in i llegal dispute with the Kardashians related to a
settlement agreement surrounding the sex tape that is decades. Oh,
what's just going on with kind of high drama? I
(10:04):
think I also didn't know. I just learned in this
article that his sister is Brandy, the singer, and she's
been paying all his hospital bills.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
I didn't know that either, actually, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Because he was like, I want to thank my sister
for paying all my hospital bills, and I was like, well,
who is your sister, because like, don't you have money?
And then I looked it up and it's Brandy, which
is is he?
Speaker 2 (10:24):
He made a big deal, Like the only reason anybody
even knows who he is is because that whole thing,
isn't it.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
I literally only know of him because of the sex tape,
and I forgot he even existed. And then he resurfaced
on the Kardashians a couple of years ago because Kanye
allegedly went to his house and took the hard drive,
the head the remaining copy of the sex tape on it,
which was totally fabricated, it seemed.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
But whatever, why what does it matter?
Speaker 1 (10:49):
It's like on the internet, who can Like I when
I watched the documentary about Pamela Anderson, for example, like
I understand the cultural impact of why that was such
a problem for her, especially because like somebody took personal
videos of her and her husband making love and turned
them into this salacious porn. Right there was a complete
(11:09):
violation of her privacy, and then everybody was acting like
she was a slut about it, right, And it's like no,
like they just it was videos of her and her
husband being intimate together that somebody took. And where did
they How did they have access to the videos because
they had them in a safe at their house and
the contractor that was working on their house stole the
safe out of their house.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
It's just regardless, I'm saying, like, who does who?
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Who tell us that.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
In twenty two extremely hot people in the nineties do that,
That's what No, But like in twenty twenty six, if
you have a sex tapeer, you're on OnlyFans. It's really
not a big deal. In the nineties, it was a
really big deal. And I understand why Pamela, I understand
is traumatized by that. But like in today's day and age,
Kim Kardashian launched her fame off this sex tape, who
cares about its existence?
Speaker 2 (11:57):
Like, yeah, well she I she cares because she's not, Like,
regardless of how successful and all the stuff she's done,
nobody takes her seriously because that was the root of it.
Speaker 1 (12:08):
Like, but like jokes on everybody else, You're a billionaire,
Why do you care what everybody else thinks?
Speaker 2 (12:13):
It's sound stupid because I mean, I could see why
she cares what she thinks. The money isn't just everything.
Like think about this, Like Katherine O'Hara just died and
she's she's well respected and because she's she's smart and
she's funny, and she built her whole brand on something
(12:35):
that is a positive about her, she didn't she actually,
like Katherine O'Hara was always like like a lot of
the women, especially on Saturday Night Live too, that never
they cared about being funny before they cared about being pretty. Yeah,
like it's it's just admirable and she's a well respected person.
(12:57):
And when someone talks about Kim Kardashian, like, yeah, I
wouldn't say that she didn't do amazing things with the
business and between her whole family whatever they're doing. But
like nobody's saying things like that. They're all just kind
of like, yeah, the only reason she's got anything is
cause of that, you know, And like that doesn't feel
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good for her. It doesn't matter that she's a millionaire,
Like it doesn't. It just doesn't make her feel good.
I know that.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
Yeah, I guess I mean something I forgot to mention
with Katherine O'Hara earlier this week too. Is of course,
as started crying about it, she was like, the only
thing she wanted to be remembered for was being a
good mom to her two kids, and of like, this lady,
who's arguably been one of the most iconic actresses of
our time, is just like, forget everything I did. I
just want to remember it as being a good mom,
which is super cool. Yeah, all right, this thirty two
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year old woman was found dead of hypothermia in the
front yard of her home, and there's two theories as
to what happened. So first, she took an uber to
the wrong address, left her phone in the car, and
couldn't contact anyone to pick her up, so she walked home.
And then the second theory is she took an uber
to the right address but left her keys in the
car and couldn't get inside.
Speaker 2 (14:07):
This is it's really terrible. Actually, yeah, it's like a
series of just I mean, she probably was she leaving
like a bar or something, or just like they just.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Say, there's really not much information about this case, and
even when you look it up on news outlets, this
thing about the ride share is not necessarily coming up.
So I guess it's important to say that this is
speculation via social media as to what happened or what
family members have released. But this is really scary because
I feel like this can easily happen to anybody, And
(14:39):
it's like the weather was so bad down there that
I just think everybody was unprepared.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Yeah, and if you do get if you get dropped
off at a place, especially because I guess I've had
that happen a couple of times, not with Uber, but
like I remember recently I ordered something from Old Navy
from the case and I haven't ordered something for a while,
but I was like, let me get these leggings and
they never came and it said they were delivered, and
(15:07):
it was like some address I lived at like fifteen
years ago, and and like, I guess it just was
stored in there and I just hit submit and didn't
realize it.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Like it the same thing could happen when you have
like an Uber, you have addresses stored for door dash
or for anything like that, to think like you might
order it and not even really realize that you didn't
change it or you didn't update it, especially if you're
leaving the bar and you might be like drunk or
something and you're not really like one hundred percent, they
(15:41):
like they don't wait to make sure you get in
the door if it's right.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
No, But you also don't always want them seeing Like
like when I looked at Daddie, I would put an
address a couple of houses down and then get out,
you know, and then walk because I'm like, I don't
want you to see the exactly pays I'm going in.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Yeah, I mean, I guess they don't, so I mean,
and then you're you get dropped off in an area
Like in my neighborhood, you could just knock on a
neighbor's door and just say hi, I don't have my phone,
could use But if it was later, people were sleeping whatever.
Like she you're outside and you don't have anything to do.
It's just terrible to think about that, like freezing to death.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
No, one hundred percent, She's like found around noon the
following day in her front yard, steps from her front door.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
It's horrible. We were in the city on Sunday night
for our Grossroom dinner, which was awesome, by the way,
and we were driving home and there was a guy
outside like sleeping under blankets, and I was just like,
is that a person under there right now? It was
twenty degrees It was so freaking cold out and I
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just feel terrible for anyone that's outside in this weather
that you know, it's just so bad. And of course,
I mean, they're having hypothermia deaths all over the country
because of it.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
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Speaker 2 (18:28):
Okay, what's next? Oh this airbnb guy?
Speaker 1 (18:32):
All right, So, just outside of Disney World, a man
was arrested for walking around nude and performing lude acts
with a vacuum.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
So I guess, like, you know, you could use something
called a penis pump to make an erection stronger, especially
if you don't want to take medication or anything, and
a lot of people don't have one of those medically
approved devices that do it the right way, So I
(19:01):
guess that's why he was doing it. I suppose you
could get some sexual satisfaction out of it, but really,
like I think a guy would do it to get
like a really good erection.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Well, I guess he had been doing this for a
while because there was complaints filed with a local homeowners
association about a month before he was seen doing this,
and other people had footage of him doing this.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
It's just so bizarre, like why why is he trying
to do? Like is he carrying around a cordless back
with him?
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Do you imagine a I don't know, Like could you imagine?
Well what I guess do they have a tubing that
would fit around the penis? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
I really I need more information on said vacuum right,
Like was it an industrial vacuum, was it a regular
vacuum leader was it a dustbuster? I really confused, Like
did nobody stop him when they saw him doing this?
Because people, other people are saying they had footage of him?
Speaker 2 (19:59):
What what would you do? You know? What's funny? Actually
I was on I don't know whatever social media I
was on last night, and I saw this video of
someone sitting in the waiting room of a bank. And
you know how like the banks have like their own offices. Yeah,
and the windows were like not tinted, but like frosted glass. Yeah,
(20:23):
and there was people like this. It looked like like
a woman was like jerking off a guy and then
he like benter over and was having sex with her.
And this person's like sitting in the waiting room recording it,
so you could barely see it, but you could still
see it because it's like frosted glass and it was
like waiting at the bank, be like you know, and
it's just like when you see something like that happening,
(20:45):
or you just like, am I really witnessing this? Am
I really seeing this? Like just a guy like you know,
like wax in his carrot with a fricking a vacuum.
It's just like so gross, and I just don't know
what I would do. I would be like, am I
really witnessing this right now?
Speaker 1 (21:03):
And like he owned a couple airbnbs, so like is
he doing this in the frontal property? I really wouldn't
be comfortable with this knowing that the person did this.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Yeah, and it said he's like a secret camera guy,
Like where's his wife? Yeah? Does she know? I don't know?
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
All right, let's talk about designer vaginas, all.
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Right, So this is a good article actually because there's
so a designer of vagina would be like a woman,
it's really should be vulva, like a woman's not happy
with the way that her labya looks, so she decides
to get surgery done. And of course it's like all
over social media and women have like this whole other
(21:44):
set of insecurities because of the increase of like nakedness
and porn and everything like that. So this woman is
now twenty two years old, but she's saying at the time,
when she was fourteen, that's when she really started becoming
insecure about it and wanted to get it done. A
lot of women get it done too, because having like
really large labia can cause problems, like when you're riding
(22:07):
a bike or if you're having sex, Like imagine if
you have all that extra skin hanging out like a penis,
could like tear on it and stuff. So this woman
went to get the surgery, and she went to get
it because she wanted to not only feel better, but
she wanted it to look better too, and just was
assured that this was going to boost her confidence in
(22:28):
the bedroom and everything like that. And now she's saying
she's having all these complications from it and she's only
twenty two, which is like pain during sex, it's dry
all the time, like all of these things that sound torturous,
because any kind of thing going on down there is
just like uncomfortable as hell. You're sitting, you know, just
(22:51):
you have to sit on it all day. So if
it's not comfortable, and then you know, looking into it,
like one of the biggest complications is that too much
tissue is taken off and causes complications like that could
really be devastating on a woman's life, and it's like,
how do you fix that?
Speaker 1 (23:10):
Well, they're saying they discuss reconstructive surgery, which would be
a procedure that's the same techniques used for women who
have suffered from female genital mutilation.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
Like, well, I mean that's horrible. I mean that's essentially
what it is. It's just in a controlled environment. But like,
and do they cover those costs because they botched it? Well,
I don't know, because you sign all these release forms,
like there's gonna be complications in this and that, and
some stuff is like unforeseen. And it's the same thing
(23:42):
with any surgery, Like you could get a really good
surgery or you could not. And if you have complications
like infections and things like that after having the surgery done,
it could only increase the risk of having like a
long term problem with it.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
I hate these stories when it's like people are just
like trying to do something to have a better quality
of life. This reminds me of like getting Lasik surgery, right,
Like you're inconvenienced by your eyesight being bad, so you're
trying to get this thing that everybody talks really positively about,
and then you end up being blind the rest of
your life.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Yeah, it sucks. It's like one of those It's a
very low risk procedure, and I'm sure that there's women
that are listening to us right now that got it
and they think it's awesome. Yeah, for sure. But I'm
glad that people are speaking out about it because I
think that people just go into it to get it
done and think that it's no big deal and you
(24:36):
can have complications, And like imagine that that's one of
the fears with plastic surgery in general, that because there
are so many people that do have complications, and just
imagine like looking at your face, for example, and being like,
I should have never touched that. It would have looked
better just being old instead of weird looking or this.
(25:00):
She's twenty two years old, She's gonna have to get
the surgery done. She's so young. Yeah, and like especially
if it's uncomfortable and yeah, and she can't be living
the rest of her life like yes, and with something
important like sex, like you need to work down there
and be comfortable just sitting. So it is really awful, all.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
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Speaker 2 (25:33):
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Betrayal Season 5
Saskia Inwood woke up one morning, knowing her life would never be the same. The night before, she learned the unimaginable – that the husband she knew in the light of day was a different person after dark. This season unpacks Saskia’s discovery of her husband’s secret life and her fight to bring him to justice. Along the way, we expose a crime that is just coming to light. This is also a story about the myth of the “perfect victim:” who gets believed, who gets doubted, and why. We follow Saskia as she works to reclaim her body, her voice, and her life. If you would like to reach out to the Betrayal Team, email us at betrayalpod@gmail.com. Follow us on Instagram @betrayalpod and @glasspodcasts. Please join our Substack for additional exclusive content, curated book recommendations, and community discussions. Sign up FREE by clicking this link Beyond Betrayal Substack. Join our community dedicated to truth, resilience, and healing. Your voice matters! Be a part of our Betrayal journey on Substack.