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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Get your hit us together.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
We're gonna start and party start.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Ready to party the Elvis Duran after Party.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
It's the after Party Podcast. We just kicked this thing
off and I got a pee.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Let's get this. I was thinking.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I was thinking, let's get together and just talk about whatever.
Let's free form this, Let's just let's just freeball this. Okay, okay, okay, okay.
Thoughts Oh wow, yeah, because a lot of people say, well,
do you guys have a meeting to prepare for your show?
That no, And here's proof right now, ok, I have
(00:41):
an idea, all right, embarrassing yourself in public?
Speaker 1 (00:45):
The little things, Danielle.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Yeah, have you ever been in a situation where someone
across the room is waving at someone else across the
room and you think it's to you?
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Have we all been in that situation?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
This actually happened though the other day to me with
somebody else. Like I was waving at somebody and the
other person was looking at me saying what like, who
are you like giving me that fade? And I'm like
so so the Bronx girl came out and I was like, not.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
You the other person, And after I did that.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
After I did that, I was like, oh, that was
really bitchy.
Speaker 5 (01:17):
What did I do?
Speaker 6 (01:19):
But I did?
Speaker 1 (01:20):
And how many people in public saw it happen.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
There's a bunch of people around there. You go, sorry,
what are you gonna do?
Speaker 1 (01:28):
It's typically the don't get this wrong several of you.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
It's typically the people with the louder voices who are
embarrassed in public.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
More.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Look, we all say silly things, but some of us
are louder. Froggy, you're a very loud individual.
Speaker 5 (01:41):
Those people at dinner last night were loud. Remember we
were in the restaurant they were We could hear everything
they were saying, and they would get louder at times.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Their quiet was loud exactly exactly.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yes, I'm loud, Yeah, but they were embarrassing. They embarrassed themselves.
They all kind of you know how your dog does
the explosion bark?
Speaker 1 (01:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Yes, the table all exploded at one time, and we
all kind of looked at them. And that's when I
was like, check, please, let's get out of here.
Speaker 5 (02:05):
I am loud, and I'll say things at dinner that
you shouldn't say at dinner. And I think that I'm
talking quiet, but I'm not.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
You're not. I wanted to say something last night, but
I didn't. You were very loud. Sorry, Okay, embarrassment in public,
go anyone.
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Yeah, Lisa does this thing. She wants to take pictures
every four seconds. Did you notice that she does? She does,
Let's get a picture, Let's get a picture. Yesterday there
was some heart on a wall, some flower of heart.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
We had to stop the world and take a picture.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
She's like, oh, will you take a picture of me
in front? And I'm so irritated by it that I said,
we take a picture of being in front of that heart.
I said, sure, since you don't have one, let's take
a picture in front of that one.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
That was great. Yeah, Gandhi.
Speaker 6 (02:39):
All the people who bitch about pictures being taken are
the same people that are like, hey, send me those pictures.
My friends do it. It drives me insane. They don't ever
want to take a picture. And then they asked me
for all of them. I'm like you, but my sister
love Robin. That's how she takes all the pictures. If
it was not for her, we would have no picture. Yeah,
so even though right, thank you, Robin.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Okay, okay, go ahead, you go ahead.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
My embarrassing is on numerous occasions, I walk into very
clean glass, like really, you.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Were like, if you're like chip your teeth or anything.
Speaker 6 (03:13):
Okay, Twice at my art show I did it, and
I was like, how did I do it? Twice? I
knew this glass was here the first time, and I
did it the second time. And then you leave a
face mark. Oh man, That's why I love watching people
try to lean out the windows here and then they
hit their face on the window. I'm like, yes, all
of us are in this pile of stupid together, and
this is always in public.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Yeah, and it makes a thud noise.
Speaker 6 (03:33):
It's so bad.
Speaker 7 (03:34):
At that time.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
We were standing outside of the theater.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
We ran into some listeners and there was a guy
with a with a girl and I was like, oh, so,
how old is your daughter and He's like, no, that's
my girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Oh god, I was like foot in mouth. We had
to hang out with him all night too. Yeah, he
sat next to us. Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Scary because if one of us in our group says
something embarrassing, we're all accused of embarrassing.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
The stain is across all of us.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Made them them pregnancy mistake too.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Yeah, I will dwell.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
She was in a pregnancy store and she had a belly,
and I said, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
When are you doing.
Speaker 7 (04:11):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Was she just shopping for large clothes?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Oh no, So here's the thing. She had had the
baby already, and sometimes.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Aunt, you have the baby the other one coming out.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
It took a while.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
It took me a while to get back down.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
To what I use. I still have my baby. My
baby's been out of me for years.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
I said to her, Oh my god, I was in
there shopping for someone else for a gift, and I said, oh,
what do you do when she says, oh, I already
had baby.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Over at least she had had a baby.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
So, Claudia, have you had people saying anything to you?
Speaker 5 (04:46):
No?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Not, thankfully. I've been wearing baggy clothes, so that's been
very help. Are you showing it all well? When I
wear tight clothes?
Speaker 7 (04:53):
Yet not today. I have overalls today.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
So so.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Someone will be the first person that says something like, oh,
look at.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
That, and then I would just be like, yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Yeah, no, you should really play it off at first.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
I'm not pregnant.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
I'm not pregnant.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
I should just to get their reaction.
Speaker 6 (05:10):
I don't want it. But one of my friends say
to somebody and I was like, are you out of
your mind? The person was a few months pregnant, and
my friend said, I can tell by your face.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
I was like, oh, you know me.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
Yeah, because sometimes that's what what I thought at the beginning.
Speaker 6 (05:24):
Why Elvis asked me was because I thought my face
that day looked a little puffier than normal.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
But no, it's a vibe.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Too, because if well, they say if you're having a boy,
they say, your face is glowing. You have that pregnancy glow.
So it could be that too, could have been a
positive face thing.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Or I could just go to Claudia go oh, are
you pregnant? Or are you just packing on the pad.
Speaker 5 (05:47):
Butter and jellies.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
That would be so so rude anyway.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
All right, So there you go. There's our free form conversation.
It just came out of nowhere.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
I liked it.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
I don't know, so I guess it's kind of a
lesson to be learned. I could learn something from this
because I'm with people i'm comfortable with. But if I
go to a party and I'm in a room without people,
I know I don't really know how to start a conversation.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
I'm very shy.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Because I say dumb things that we say to each other. Yeah,
and then other people don't get our humor and they're like,
what why is that guy acting?
Speaker 7 (06:17):
I saw a video on this, but as I was
explaining how to have a conversation, and he was saying,
don't talk about yourself, just keep asking questions. So that's
the key to having a conversation.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
But Elvis hates that I'll do that to him. He's like, Froggie,
are you interviewing me? Shut up?
Speaker 7 (06:34):
Well?
Speaker 3 (06:35):
And who else in this room walks into a party
and you're the first one there of your friend group
and you feel like you really need to have a
conversation otherwise it's awkward.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Yeah, and how do you start it?
Speaker 6 (06:47):
You got to start with so you got any secrets?
Speaker 1 (06:51):
See Ghani would do that.
Speaker 7 (06:52):
I do.
Speaker 6 (06:52):
That's what I do all the time.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Learn thing observational, something going on in the moment in
front of you, something visual. There has to be a COMversations,
something tangible happening.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Or how do you and this person connect well, because
you're in the same party, so maybe that's a thought.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
How do you know this person that's throwing the party.
Speaker 6 (07:11):
I like to also ask if you had to pick
one person at this party that's your favorite, not the
person you came with. Who is it? That's always fun.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Too, but without even saying who you are first, Like Hi,
my name is Gandhi.
Speaker 6 (07:21):
Yeah, no, I don't introduce myself.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
That's oh god, Okay. I did one thing one time
and I've I've just remembered that I did it and
it worked. If you're maybe at the bar, you're doing
something or looking at the food or whatever, they're doing
the same thing, so you have that in common.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
You're at the same party, you can look at them
and go, God, what do you think that it? Is
this a good party? Or do you know these people?
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Or it's just as a little stupid conversation to get at
the ball roll because I'm awkward as hell at these things.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
What do you think is in the punch? Like you
know something like that? What do you think's in there?
These are all boring conversation starter.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
No, if you ask somebody, that's scary, I'm thinking.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
That's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
You and a person in a room and you're like,
there's gotta be like I'm just saying a punch bowls
in front of you, like, hey, so, so.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
What do you think is this vodka?
Speaker 2 (08:11):
There is a gym?
Speaker 4 (08:12):
Because if you ask me that, I would have thought
that you didn't right me too, we all thought the
same thing.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Scary.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
But if it's later in the party, you could easily say, hey,
what do you think of this party?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
You know, if it's a if it's like banging fun party,
I don't know. Well, what do you what? We're gonna ak?
Speaker 7 (08:28):
I got a question that you can ask, and it
totally sets the tone for the rest of the night,
and it makes everybody feel at ease.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
You're just asking this. So you ever stab a guy
in a knife fight, I guarantee you're gonna get a
great reaction.
Speaker 6 (08:41):
Someone's calling the cops on you immediately.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
So I got you murdering people, I got scary Putting
roofies in the.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Punch bowl.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
The worst advice ever.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
I tend to do this, and I'm sad to admit this.
If I go to a party.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
And I don't know anyone, I leave, I don't stop,
I don't I don't stay.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
I just I'm you at least like say hey, I'm
going to run to the bathroom, or you just irish
to who?
Speaker 1 (09:06):
I don't I'm not. I don't know anyone. It's it's
as if I didn't exist.
Speaker 5 (09:11):
Who invited you to this party?
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Well, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
I'm just saying in general, if I go to a
party and I'm uncomfortable and I don't know anyone there,
I'll I won't stay, I'll leave.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
I'll do the grab my phone and walk out like, oh,
I got to take a quick phone call real quick,
and to who disappear? But I just it's just I'm like,
oh my phone.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Oh but why are you telling you I'm gonna be
back if you don't know what he wants?
Speaker 5 (09:30):
Sobody sees you walk out, like where'd he go?
Speaker 1 (09:32):
Well, they don't care. That's my point. They don't know
you're there.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
I'm just I feel invisible at parties where I don't
know anyone.
Speaker 6 (09:40):
Ye, yes, So I kind of like that sometimes, though.
I like I like being invisible and feeling like nobody
really gives a crap what I'm doing right now, because
then you can really do naughty stuff.
Speaker 5 (09:49):
Oh you come into my house. I feel that way
all the time in my own.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Home, out of my house, my god.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Well I'm kind of sad about this conversation, all right, Well,
getting to know people parties.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Saddest conversation ever the Elvis Duran after party.
Speaker 7 (10:09):
Mhm