June 22, 2026 • 9 mins
Where do you draw the line on input from your stylists?
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
You hit us together, and we're gonna stop and part.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm ready to party the Elvis Duran after party. Hi, y'all,
how you doing?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I was over? I was over.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
I was overhearing a conversation between Gandhi and Danielle. You know,
all conversations in here are fair game.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
For the show.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
Well, this, this is why.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
While the song was playing, well this is no big deal, really,
Gandhi was saying that she had to cheat on her
nail technician.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Yes, I admit it. I had to m hm.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
And then we're definitely gonna go back to that same
person and they're going to see what you've done, and
there's gonna there could be hell to pay.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
There will be hell to pay. I'm ready for it.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I love my guy, Steve, but he gets very persnickety
about me cutting my nail because I have very long nails.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
They grow fast, and he's like, oh, don't ever cut them?
Speaker 5 (01:04):
Do you?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
People kill for this?
Speaker 1 (01:05):
And I don't like long nails, so I always want
to chop them short. And then he gives me, crap,
what do you go back?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
I mean, don't you shouldn't you get what you want?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yes, he will do it.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
He will just give me crap about it, and then
I'm like, I don't want to hear this. And then
as he does it, he kind of like, ugh, I hate.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
This so much.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Once I send him a picture of me, I just
cut him myself. I sent him a picture and he
sent back the vomit emoji. So I went and I
got it short from a stranger. But now he's gonna
see when I go back today, So wish me luck.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Oh boy, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Look, I do understand that what they're doing is an
art form kind of thing. And they know your hair
or they know your nails, so they you know, for instance,
when it comes to hair, I like it. I like
my haircut really short. But my guy's like, no, no, no, no, no,
you don't have a lot of hair left. Let's try
to make sure it's longer hair. I really want it
short for summer. Nahna, you don't want that. You're not
(01:57):
a fifteen year old boy anymore.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
What do you do?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Just cut it the way I want?
Speaker 6 (02:02):
And they it's funny they know if you cheated on them.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Yeah, like no, of course.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
They do, yeah yeah, because they get that look in
their face like, oh God, who did this?
Speaker 4 (02:12):
What have you.
Speaker 6 (02:13):
Done, and have you been going to someone for a
long time, Like I've been going to my my girl
Michelle for my hair for the longest time. I will say, well,
this is what I want and she'll go, no, you don't,
But it really is Nana. I know you, and I
know in a week you're gonna call me and you're
gonna say, Michelle, I want to be a redhead again,
or Michelle I don't like blah blah blah. I'm like, fine,
(02:33):
I don't do it.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Because she me, where do you draw the line?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Where do you draw the line between what they want
you to do to their hair or nails versus what
you want to do to their hair and nails.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
It's a tough one because my same thing, as Danielle said,
my style of Dina.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
We know Dina with the painter. I love her. I
went in one day and I was feeling.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Crazy and I was like, give me all white. I
just want to see what it looks like always. She
said absolutely not, And I'm glad she said no because
it would have killed my hair in so many ways.
So maybe just what's best for you to do? A Google?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I don't know. I don't know what's your line.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Well, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I mean to actually have anxiety as you walk through
the door and knowing, okay, it's about to go down. Yes,
it shouldn't be that way, should it.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
No, but I'm ready for it.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
But they are very honest, Like Dina cuts Preston and
Spencer's hair right, so so Preston always wants this thing,
and Preston's hair is straight. They didn't have any way
of nothing.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
So Dina's very honest.
Speaker 6 (03:29):
She's like, I'm so happy you like that, but it
is not going to do that. Hair is not going
to do this. So she's like, let's compromise. Let's find
something maybe in the middle that it might do. So
I guess that's a good thing to do if they
want to do a compromise.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
But when they tell you straight out n.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
That's happening, Like I'm just like, well, wait a minute, we.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Should just trust them. We should trust them.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
That's yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
They're there to do more than just like mow the lawn.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
They're there to like do.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Something to go in and say we want braids and
go like, you ain't got enough hair to Breathe gonna
tell me you better find something else. You like, I mean,
so they got to be honest with you at some point.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
But I feel like we should pay attention to this
because they are the professionals, so they know what they're doing.
And when it comes to things like plastic surgery, how
many times have we seen people went to a plastic surgeon,
the surgeon said, no, I'm not going to do that.
This is not a good idea. They want somewhere else,
got it done, and then they died. At least your
hair though, Like right, this isn't easy to die.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
You can't get the boss.
Speaker 7 (04:27):
Of me my my, my hairstylist does this. She's like,
I know what's right for you. You look better with long hair,
and I'm like, no, I don't. I look like thirty
years older with long hair, So I want it chopped off.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
And you don't walks me on.
Speaker 7 (04:40):
Instagram to make sure that I didn't cheat on her.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
You see, I can't. I think that's too much. You don't,
am I crazy?
Speaker 6 (04:47):
That is a lie?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I mean, look, I know, like I said, there's a line.
I understand. We want to listen to their consult but
and and we'll listen.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
What about you, Nate?
Speaker 5 (04:56):
I was punished one time.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
That hap.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Yes, I had this guy David that I used to
go to and he did a pretty good job cutting
my hair. And I was out of town for several weeks.
I had to go to a wedding. Needed my haircut.
I went to some random guy did a pretty good job.
But when I went back to David, he looks at
me and he's like, who cut your hair? Like, I
had a wedding and I had to look good, and
(05:21):
he proceeded to give me, as punishment, the worst haircut
of silence.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Then you're done.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
And they had to break up with him, and I
don't know if it was punishment or he said I
have to stop from square square one now, you know, because.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
That's a really crappy thing to do.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
Yeah, that really, that was it.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I had to I got to break up.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
But wait, I'm gonna go back to something you said
scary about al your hair person keeps an eye on
you on social media? Yeah, okay, So so what I
know has a doctor who she's always monitoring what he's
doing out in public or you know, on social media
rather and he'll be drinking, having a good time, and
(06:02):
he will go in and see her and she'll like, oh, oh,
I see you're having cocktails.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
Yep.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
I mean.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Looks like every night last week you went out, looks
like you've been very busy.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
Well really, it should.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
That be admissible in the should.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Know my doctor did that to me, and I kind
of agree with it because people are not that honest
with their doctors, and it's really important that you be
honest when you're going into the doctor and maybe they
don't trust you.
Speaker 7 (06:34):
My private time. I don't need to just because I
went on a cruise and I needed a haircut and
I was in between cuts and I went to go
see somebody else and then she saw my hair all
chopped off.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
No, this is I'm talking about a doctor.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
But either way, No, it's the same idea. Is somebody
in your that you pay for a service is your
personal life?
Speaker 4 (06:51):
No, they got to clean up the mess you've made.
If you don't take care of yourself when you're not
at the doctor's office and you don't tell them the
truth about all the crap you're doing, they got to
clean up that that you made.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Yeah, well good, that's their job clean up my mess.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
But the hairdresser also has to clean up the mess
that the other person made. Yeah, that's happened before where
the person would say to me and what would you
like me to do?
Speaker 7 (07:12):
Now?
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Well, I'm not sure I can fix this.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
What you know, remember that guy look like you got
the my f my stuff up at haircut. When you
get that man, they can't fix that fix I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I think looking at your stuff on social media, I
can see how look they need to help you. You
need for them to help you.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
I get that.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
What if they charge you when you're the doctor, they
charged you extra because you're not doing what you're supposed
to do, So they charged you extra because therefore it's
more work for them to fix you. Or a hairdresser.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
Technically do that.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
If you don't get a physical, they charge you a
higher at least with our insurance. If you don't get
a physical to just do the baseline, they charge you
more in the insurance.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
What's your questions carrying?
Speaker 4 (08:00):
So?
Speaker 7 (08:00):
Does Charles, your personal trainer, watch you on social media
after you've canceled a session on him?
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (08:09):
He watches anyway.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Yeah, he's always keeping an eye on what's going on.
Speaker 7 (08:12):
You ever caught you like, ah, you're out to lunch
eating fried chicken.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
I am very very honest with him at all times.
He'll go, so, Elvis, how's your eating?
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Oh great?
Speaker 5 (08:25):
We had the.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Best best fried chicken last night. You know that's not
what I mean. I know, and it's a joke.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
You know.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
They keep an eye on it on you.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
But you used to do that here. You would have
a doctor come in. You would clear out all the
bad food we were eating earlier that morning. For the
doctor walked in and like, yeah, we're not eating that
bad today. We're doing great.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Nothing?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
It's it's the same as walking into your your gets
your nails done, gandhi, and you know, you know you're
gonna you're gonna get your peepee whacked. God, no, no,
I'm ready, all right, all right, we pay them, so
I guess we all sort of agree. We pay them
to keep us in line as best they can. How's
that okay?
Speaker 3 (09:16):
Elvister ran after party
You hit us together, and we're gonna stop and part.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm ready to party the Elvis Duran after party. Hi, y'all,
how you doing?
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I was over? I was over.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
I was overhearing a conversation between Gandhi and Danielle. You know,
all conversations in here are fair game.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
For the show.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
Well, this, this is why.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
While the song was playing, well this is no big deal, really,
Gandhi was saying that she had to cheat on her
nail technician.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Yes, I admit it. I had to m hm.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
And then we're definitely gonna go back to that same
person and they're going to see what you've done, and
there's gonna there could be hell to pay.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
There will be hell to pay. I'm ready for it.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I love my guy, Steve, but he gets very persnickety
about me cutting my nail because I have very long nails.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
They grow fast, and he's like, oh, don't ever cut them?
Speaker 5 (01:04):
Do you?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
People kill for this?
Speaker 1 (01:05):
And I don't like long nails, so I always want
to chop them short. And then he gives me, crap,
what do you go back?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
I mean, don't you shouldn't you get what you want?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yes, he will do it.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
He will just give me crap about it, and then
I'm like, I don't want to hear this. And then
as he does it, he kind of like, ugh, I hate.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
This so much.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Once I send him a picture of me, I just
cut him myself. I sent him a picture and he
sent back the vomit emoji. So I went and I
got it short from a stranger. But now he's gonna
see when I go back today, So wish me luck.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Oh boy, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Look, I do understand that what they're doing is an
art form kind of thing. And they know your hair
or they know your nails, so they you know, for instance,
when it comes to hair, I like it. I like
my haircut really short. But my guy's like, no, no, no, no, no,
you don't have a lot of hair left. Let's try
to make sure it's longer hair. I really want it
short for summer. Nahna, you don't want that. You're not
(01:57):
a fifteen year old boy anymore.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
What do you do?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Just cut it the way I want?
Speaker 6 (02:02):
And they it's funny they know if you cheated on them.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Yeah, like no, of course.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
They do, yeah yeah, because they get that look in
their face like, oh God, who did this?
Speaker 4 (02:12):
What have you.
Speaker 6 (02:13):
Done, and have you been going to someone for a
long time, Like I've been going to my my girl
Michelle for my hair for the longest time. I will say, well,
this is what I want and she'll go, no, you don't,
But it really is Nana. I know you, and I
know in a week you're gonna call me and you're
gonna say, Michelle, I want to be a redhead again,
or Michelle I don't like blah blah blah. I'm like, fine,
(02:33):
I don't do it.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Because she me, where do you draw the line?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Where do you draw the line between what they want
you to do to their hair or nails versus what
you want to do to their hair and nails.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
It's a tough one because my same thing, as Danielle said,
my style of Dina.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
We know Dina with the painter. I love her. I
went in one day and I was feeling.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Crazy and I was like, give me all white. I
just want to see what it looks like always. She
said absolutely not, And I'm glad she said no because
it would have killed my hair in so many ways.
So maybe just what's best for you to do? A Google?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I don't know. I don't know what's your line.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Well, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I mean to actually have anxiety as you walk through
the door and knowing, okay, it's about to go down. Yes,
it shouldn't be that way, should it.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
No, but I'm ready for it.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
But they are very honest, Like Dina cuts Preston and
Spencer's hair right, so so Preston always wants this thing,
and Preston's hair is straight. They didn't have any way
of nothing.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
So Dina's very honest.
Speaker 6 (03:29):
She's like, I'm so happy you like that, but it
is not going to do that. Hair is not going
to do this. So she's like, let's compromise. Let's find
something maybe in the middle that it might do. So
I guess that's a good thing to do if they
want to do a compromise.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
But when they tell you straight out n.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
That's happening, Like I'm just like, well, wait a minute, we.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Should just trust them. We should trust them.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
That's yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
They're there to do more than just like mow the lawn.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
They're there to like do.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Something to go in and say we want braids and
go like, you ain't got enough hair to Breathe gonna
tell me you better find something else. You like, I mean,
so they got to be honest with you at some point.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
But I feel like we should pay attention to this
because they are the professionals, so they know what they're doing.
And when it comes to things like plastic surgery, how
many times have we seen people went to a plastic surgeon,
the surgeon said, no, I'm not going to do that.
This is not a good idea. They want somewhere else,
got it done, and then they died. At least your
hair though, Like right, this isn't easy to die.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
You can't get the boss.
Speaker 7 (04:27):
Of me my my, my hairstylist does this. She's like,
I know what's right for you. You look better with long hair,
and I'm like, no, I don't. I look like thirty
years older with long hair, So I want it chopped off.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
And you don't walks me on.
Speaker 7 (04:40):
Instagram to make sure that I didn't cheat on her.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
You see, I can't. I think that's too much. You don't,
am I crazy?
Speaker 6 (04:47):
That is a lie?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I mean, look, I know, like I said, there's a line.
I understand. We want to listen to their consult but
and and we'll listen.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
What about you, Nate?
Speaker 5 (04:56):
I was punished one time.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
That hap.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Yes, I had this guy David that I used to
go to and he did a pretty good job cutting
my hair. And I was out of town for several weeks.
I had to go to a wedding. Needed my haircut.
I went to some random guy did a pretty good job.
But when I went back to David, he looks at
me and he's like, who cut your hair? Like, I
had a wedding and I had to look good, and
(05:21):
he proceeded to give me, as punishment, the worst haircut
of silence.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Then you're done.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
And they had to break up with him, and I
don't know if it was punishment or he said I
have to stop from square square one now, you know, because.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
That's a really crappy thing to do.
Speaker 5 (05:38):
Yeah, that really, that was it.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I had to I got to break up.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
But wait, I'm gonna go back to something you said
scary about al your hair person keeps an eye on
you on social media? Yeah, okay, So so what I
know has a doctor who she's always monitoring what he's
doing out in public or you know, on social media
rather and he'll be drinking, having a good time, and
(06:02):
he will go in and see her and she'll like, oh, oh,
I see you're having cocktails.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
Yep.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
I mean.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Looks like every night last week you went out, looks
like you've been very busy.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
Well really, it should.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
That be admissible in the should.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Know my doctor did that to me, and I kind
of agree with it because people are not that honest
with their doctors, and it's really important that you be
honest when you're going into the doctor and maybe they
don't trust you.
Speaker 7 (06:34):
My private time. I don't need to just because I
went on a cruise and I needed a haircut and
I was in between cuts and I went to go
see somebody else and then she saw my hair all
chopped off.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
No, this is I'm talking about a doctor.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
But either way, No, it's the same idea. Is somebody
in your that you pay for a service is your
personal life?
Speaker 4 (06:51):
No, they got to clean up the mess you've made.
If you don't take care of yourself when you're not
at the doctor's office and you don't tell them the
truth about all the crap you're doing, they got to
clean up that that you made.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Yeah, well good, that's their job clean up my mess.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
But the hairdresser also has to clean up the mess
that the other person made. Yeah, that's happened before where
the person would say to me and what would you
like me to do?
Speaker 7 (07:12):
Now?
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Well, I'm not sure I can fix this.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
What you know, remember that guy look like you got
the my f my stuff up at haircut. When you
get that man, they can't fix that fix I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I think looking at your stuff on social media, I
can see how look they need to help you. You
need for them to help you.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
I get that.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
What if they charge you when you're the doctor, they
charged you extra because you're not doing what you're supposed
to do, So they charged you extra because therefore it's
more work for them to fix you. Or a hairdresser.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
Technically do that.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
If you don't get a physical, they charge you a
higher at least with our insurance. If you don't get
a physical to just do the baseline, they charge you
more in the insurance.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
What's your questions carrying?
Speaker 4 (08:00):
So?
Speaker 7 (08:00):
Does Charles, your personal trainer, watch you on social media
after you've canceled a session on him?
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (08:09):
He watches anyway.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Yeah, he's always keeping an eye on what's going on.
Speaker 7 (08:12):
You ever caught you like, ah, you're out to lunch
eating fried chicken.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
I am very very honest with him at all times.
He'll go, so, Elvis, how's your eating?
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Oh great?
Speaker 5 (08:25):
We had the.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Best best fried chicken last night. You know that's not
what I mean. I know, and it's a joke.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
You know.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
They keep an eye on it on you.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
But you used to do that here. You would have
a doctor come in. You would clear out all the
bad food we were eating earlier that morning. For the
doctor walked in and like, yeah, we're not eating that
bad today. We're doing great.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Nothing?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
It's it's the same as walking into your your gets
your nails done, gandhi, and you know, you know you're
gonna you're gonna get your peepee whacked. God, no, no,
I'm ready, all right, all right, we pay them, so
I guess we all sort of agree. We pay them
to keep us in line as best they can. How's
that okay?
Speaker 3 (09:16):
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Betrayal Weekly is back for a new season. Every Thursday, Betrayal Weekly shares first-hand accounts of broken trust, shocking deceptions, and the trail of destruction they leave behind. Hosted by Andrea Gunning, this weekly ongoing series digs into real-life stories of betrayal and the aftermath. From stories of double lives to dark discoveries, these are cautionary tales and accounts of resilience against all odds. From the producers of the critically acclaimed Betrayal series, Betrayal Weekly drops new episodes every Thursday. If you would like to share your story, you can reach out to the Betrayal Team by emailing them at betrayalpod@gmail.com and follow us on Instagram at @betrayalpod and @glasspodcasts. Please join our Substack for additional exclusive content, curated book recommendations, and community discussions. Sign up FREE by clicking this link Beyond Betrayal Substack. Join our community dedicated to truth, resilience, and healing. Your voice matters! Be a part of our Betrayal journey on Substack.