July 13, 2026 • 9 mins
Nate's latest dating experience quickly turns into a full-blown intervention as everyone shares what they think he's doing wrong... and how he can finally break the cycle.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
In the Morning show, Nate.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Decided he's never going to date again. Yeah, I'm done.
So you so you use us stayed home, You stayed
in New York, and you visit family.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
I stayed in New York.
Speaker 5 (00:17):
It was a staycation, went saw some family, and I
kind of just wanted to hit the old reset button
and kind of get my schedule back in order.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
But I did go out. Scared you dating? What's wrong
with you? Well?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
I went, I was scary a couple of times, and
I met a person. I met a girl, and I'm like, okay,
she seemed pretty nice, right, she was very, very pretty,
very talkative, get her information. And then only fans that
actually would have been preferable, but it basically turned in
I was the only fan because the third text she
sent me was, oh MG, you just reminded me you
(00:49):
said you were going to book my helicopter out to
the Hamptons.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
That's so generous of you.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
What what? So then I texted Scary. I'm like, scary, Dad,
I mean, I know, I had a couple of drinks.
Did I say I would get a helic And He's like, no,
d she's playing you.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
She's playing.
Speaker 6 (01:03):
In fact, I give him credit because she was with
a famous food influencer, and Nate didn't go for the
fluid and food influencer.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
He went for her, thinking like I'm gonna go for
the normal girl. Yes, psych, sche big time psych.
Speaker 5 (01:17):
So so I'm thinking, oh, this is just a joke, right,
So I just start being playful and like, yeah, that's great.
You know, by the way, I booked it under some
other name because I couldn't remember your name. And then
she replies with, hey, my flight's not loading in my
blade app I'm kind of concerned.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
I'm like, you know, I'm playing with him, Like okay, okay, okay,
stop everything. First of all, let's not use the word
psych ever again. Secondly, who does that? I met this
guy at this event, and then you know what he did.
He offered me a helicopter ride to the Hampton Fortune.
It wasn't it wasn't even an invitation to join her.
(01:56):
It's like she just needed you to send her there.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
No, oh, you were going with her?
Speaker 1 (01:59):
No?
Speaker 4 (02:00):
No, I bet.
Speaker 7 (02:03):
This happens all the time with her. She probably most
often than not gets what she wants.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
Scary called it perfectly, he goes, dudes have like rich
dudes have ruined it for guys like you because one
guy apparently probably did it at one.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Point, and so what does she do.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
She's gonna go in and the next guy and the
next guy and keep asking.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Okay, okay, I got to stop everything right now, and
don't get don't get upset.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
I just want to like take a different route on
this conversation. Nate.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Yeah, you know I love you. I've known you for
many years now. I just think you have this knack
of choosing the wrong people.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
I really do. I really do. And I'm not saying
this is an insult for you.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
I just I really think you need to really rethink
how you choose these people.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
I really do.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
I was thinking about that last night because based on
this experience and you know, other experiences I've had, I
have to take it out of my control. Somebody has
to choose for me because I'm obviously not forever.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
I think that's you. I don't say it well.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
First of all, I don't want the responsibility because when
you hook someone up with someone else, you're in the
middle of it if there's a problem. Secondly, you need
to learn you need to learn how to sift through
the trash and get to the people who are good
for you.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Do you really do? I just don't know what my
problem is. Right Like this person, I'm like.
Speaker 8 (03:25):
Oh, she's pretty. You know she's texting me back. It's
like okay, yeah, okay, well then that's perfect. Let's go
around the room. Let's tell I need a theme song
for this. It's now time to do a round of
do you know what your problem is?
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Yes, I've been waiting all this.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
It's no time you're playing. That's sure, It's now time for.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
You know what your problem is? You know what I'm
gonna start with. You gone, that's problem?
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Okay. I think there are two things. Two things too.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Okay, everybody gets two now.
Speaker 9 (04:02):
Okay go first, I think the way you present yourself
is interesting.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
You look nice. You wear Rolex, you said to me once, Wearing.
Speaker 9 (04:10):
This thing is the biggest pain in my ass because
it only attracts watch collectors, gold diggers, and thieves. Yeah,
but you continue to wear the Rolex and then get
shocked when somebody.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
Is a gold digger. We're in a siko today. I'm
trying to change it up.
Speaker 9 (04:25):
And then I think that the women you're attracted to.
You're attracted to certain things, and with those certain things
come this lifestyle that then pisses you off in some way.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
You want the appearance of it without actually having to
like do the work for it.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
You can't do that.
Speaker 9 (04:38):
Explain that you like women who wear designer clothes and
are beautiful and well maintained, probably both watched hats.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Yes, wear you date brunch hat with.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Brunch hot women with designer everything.
Speaker 9 (04:48):
And then you're like, just onn me, pay for a helicopter,
get out of here, you know.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
All right, so duly noted Gandhi's Gandhi's entry in uh,
you know what your problem is is wear a psycho
now were a or you'll get a psycho?
Speaker 4 (05:04):
All right now, Foggy you let's go to Froggy. Let's
go live to Tampa, Florida.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Froggy, it's now time for your submission in our round
of your problem is for Nate.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
Go ahead, jeez.
Speaker 10 (05:15):
My kind of further is on gandhis is Nate. You
want somebody that's as pretty as you are, and that's yes,
this is what you're gonna get when you go for
somebody that's pretty as you This is exactly what they want.
They want you to take care of them before you
even like have a reason.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
To take care of them.
Speaker 10 (05:30):
So what's your answer to that. You're gonna need to lower,
not lower, your standard, not lower. You should have your standards,
but maybe what you're looking for needs to look a
little different.
Speaker 9 (05:41):
A plenty of people you can meet that are pretty
that are not asking you to book a helicopter right
on day happen. I also think it's where you're meeting
these people, Nate, think about that.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
Yeah, you're hanging out with scary. Let's go.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Let's go to daniel Danielle, Welcome to, Welcome to. You
know what your problem is today we sit on I'm
going to.
Speaker 7 (06:01):
Say the exact same thing. Like you go for the
girls who are wearing Gucci and Prada and Louisvaiton, and
they are like they're used to being treated a certain way,
they're used to being spoiled, and you're always going for
that gorgeous girl, the hotty Like have you ever heard
(06:22):
the song by Jimmy Soul If you want to be
happy for the rest of your life, get an ugly
woman to be your wife.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
No, no, this is not right, is insane. That's that's
what the song says. But what I'm saying is, I
think I really do think you go for the people
will just expect this.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
The girls that Scotti b runs from anking is running.
You're making some very good points and I am getting
like stuff out.
Speaker 9 (06:52):
You want a farm girl that's dressed in Prada overalls,
and I don't think that's going to happen.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
They will, Now, I know Bluiaga does what's wrong with it?
But I do love it. I really don't think you
should be.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Lowering your The initial attraction is a very important thing.
So I think that's not really a sound piece of
advice to look at the people.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
I think you guys are actually on the ball. But
the problem is, I'm in New York City, right, So
the people that you encounter are the product wearing Gucci.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Everybody a lot.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
But you know what you're.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Hitting, well, hold on, you're hitting You're hitting on something
that's kind of true here.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
New York City is filled with people who are climbing
the ladder, right, Uh, you know, and guys and women.
A lot of people are putting emphasis on their careers
and on where they want to be and who they
need to know, and and sometimes that clouds it up
a little bit.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
See, may I give you mine? Yes, please hit the music. Scary,
you know what your problem is? Today's focus, Nate.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
You you tend to go to the women who have
crazy eyes.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Yes, he loves the psycho, he loves it.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
I'm not saying she's psycho. Stopped going crazy eyes.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
Sometimes the eyes are the windows to the soul. There
is something to that. By the way, I need some
deep diving. I did a little rabbit hole search there.
There is something to the crazy ice things that you're
one hundred percent right. I'm so insulting. I'm so sorry,
but that was about finally, Scary, welcome to your your timeline.
You know what your problem is? Today's focus, Nate.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
You took the words out of my mouth, Elvis. He
basically is going after women in the city. You need
to date suburban women who commute to work, have regular
jobs and are not being the social climber egotisticals. You
know that that's your I think that's your problem. And
you go for the challenge and you've got to stop
(08:58):
going right.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
Sh Yeah, scarily know, but you know what, I still
think this is being a little ridiculous because there are,
to be fair, there are women in the city, there
are women in the country, They are women everywhere who
are totally great for you. I would hate for you
to totally eliminate the possibility of dating.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
Someone in the city. That's that's not You're right, You're right, yea, all,
thank you all. I appreciate knowing what's wrong with me
from just the point of view.
Speaker 9 (09:23):
Wait, there's one we didn't really toss out yet. What
is that a bad personality and you're attracting bad personalities? Oh?
Speaker 4 (09:30):
I don't think that's Look at me, Jesus. I've got
a question for Nate.
Speaker 10 (09:35):
If Nate, if you were going to trust one person
on this show to find somebody for you, who would be.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
I don't think any of you really tell All right,
let's keep it right there. Well, you know what, we'll
continue with this. You know this is an ongoing story.
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
In the Morning show, Nate.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Decided he's never going to date again. Yeah, I'm done.
So you so you use us stayed home, You stayed
in New York, and you visit family.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
I stayed in New York.
Speaker 5 (00:17):
It was a staycation, went saw some family, and I
kind of just wanted to hit the old reset button
and kind of get my schedule back in order.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
But I did go out. Scared you dating? What's wrong
with you? Well?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
I went, I was scary a couple of times, and
I met a person. I met a girl, and I'm like, okay,
she seemed pretty nice, right, she was very, very pretty,
very talkative, get her information. And then only fans that
actually would have been preferable, but it basically turned in
I was the only fan because the third text she
sent me was, oh MG, you just reminded me you
(00:49):
said you were going to book my helicopter out to
the Hamptons.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
That's so generous of you.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
What what? So then I texted Scary. I'm like, scary, Dad,
I mean, I know, I had a couple of drinks.
Did I say I would get a helic And He's like, no,
d she's playing you.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
She's playing.
Speaker 6 (01:03):
In fact, I give him credit because she was with
a famous food influencer, and Nate didn't go for the
fluid and food influencer.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
He went for her, thinking like I'm gonna go for
the normal girl. Yes, psych, sche big time psych.
Speaker 5 (01:17):
So so I'm thinking, oh, this is just a joke, right,
So I just start being playful and like, yeah, that's great.
You know, by the way, I booked it under some
other name because I couldn't remember your name. And then
she replies with, hey, my flight's not loading in my
blade app I'm kind of concerned.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
I'm like, you know, I'm playing with him, Like okay, okay, okay,
stop everything. First of all, let's not use the word
psych ever again. Secondly, who does that? I met this
guy at this event, and then you know what he did.
He offered me a helicopter ride to the Hampton Fortune.
It wasn't it wasn't even an invitation to join her.
(01:56):
It's like she just needed you to send her there.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
No, oh, you were going with her?
Speaker 1 (01:59):
No?
Speaker 4 (02:00):
No, I bet.
Speaker 7 (02:03):
This happens all the time with her. She probably most
often than not gets what she wants.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
Scary called it perfectly, he goes, dudes have like rich
dudes have ruined it for guys like you because one
guy apparently probably did it at one.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Point, and so what does she do.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
She's gonna go in and the next guy and the
next guy and keep asking.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Okay, okay, I got to stop everything right now, and
don't get don't get upset.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
I just want to like take a different route on
this conversation. Nate.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Yeah, you know I love you. I've known you for
many years now. I just think you have this knack
of choosing the wrong people.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
I really do. I really do. And I'm not saying
this is an insult for you.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
I just I really think you need to really rethink
how you choose these people.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
I really do.
Speaker 5 (02:47):
I was thinking about that last night because based on
this experience and you know, other experiences I've had, I
have to take it out of my control. Somebody has
to choose for me because I'm obviously not forever.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
I think that's you. I don't say it well.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
First of all, I don't want the responsibility because when
you hook someone up with someone else, you're in the
middle of it if there's a problem. Secondly, you need
to learn you need to learn how to sift through
the trash and get to the people who are good
for you.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Do you really do? I just don't know what my
problem is. Right Like this person, I'm like.
Speaker 8 (03:25):
Oh, she's pretty. You know she's texting me back. It's
like okay, yeah, okay, well then that's perfect. Let's go
around the room. Let's tell I need a theme song
for this. It's now time to do a round of
do you know what your problem is?
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Yes, I've been waiting all this.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
It's no time you're playing. That's sure, It's now time for.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
You know what your problem is? You know what I'm
gonna start with. You gone, that's problem?
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Okay. I think there are two things. Two things too.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Okay, everybody gets two now.
Speaker 9 (04:02):
Okay go first, I think the way you present yourself
is interesting.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
You look nice. You wear Rolex, you said to me once, Wearing.
Speaker 9 (04:10):
This thing is the biggest pain in my ass because
it only attracts watch collectors, gold diggers, and thieves. Yeah,
but you continue to wear the Rolex and then get
shocked when somebody.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
Is a gold digger. We're in a siko today. I'm
trying to change it up.
Speaker 9 (04:25):
And then I think that the women you're attracted to.
You're attracted to certain things, and with those certain things
come this lifestyle that then pisses you off in some way.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
You want the appearance of it without actually having to
like do the work for it.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
You can't do that.
Speaker 9 (04:38):
Explain that you like women who wear designer clothes and
are beautiful and well maintained, probably both watched hats.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Yes, wear you date brunch hat with.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Brunch hot women with designer everything.
Speaker 9 (04:48):
And then you're like, just onn me, pay for a helicopter,
get out of here, you know.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
All right, so duly noted Gandhi's Gandhi's entry in uh,
you know what your problem is is wear a psycho
now were a or you'll get a psycho?
Speaker 4 (05:04):
All right now, Foggy you let's go to Froggy. Let's
go live to Tampa, Florida.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Froggy, it's now time for your submission in our round
of your problem is for Nate.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
Go ahead, jeez.
Speaker 10 (05:15):
My kind of further is on gandhis is Nate. You
want somebody that's as pretty as you are, and that's yes,
this is what you're gonna get when you go for
somebody that's pretty as you This is exactly what they want.
They want you to take care of them before you
even like have a reason.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
To take care of them.
Speaker 10 (05:30):
So what's your answer to that. You're gonna need to lower,
not lower, your standard, not lower. You should have your standards,
but maybe what you're looking for needs to look a
little different.
Speaker 9 (05:41):
A plenty of people you can meet that are pretty
that are not asking you to book a helicopter right
on day happen. I also think it's where you're meeting
these people, Nate, think about that.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
Yeah, you're hanging out with scary. Let's go.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Let's go to daniel Danielle, Welcome to, Welcome to. You
know what your problem is today we sit on I'm
going to.
Speaker 7 (06:01):
Say the exact same thing. Like you go for the
girls who are wearing Gucci and Prada and Louisvaiton, and
they are like they're used to being treated a certain way,
they're used to being spoiled, and you're always going for
that gorgeous girl, the hotty Like have you ever heard
(06:22):
the song by Jimmy Soul If you want to be
happy for the rest of your life, get an ugly
woman to be your wife.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
No, no, this is not right, is insane. That's that's
what the song says. But what I'm saying is, I
think I really do think you go for the people
will just expect this.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
The girls that Scotti b runs from anking is running.
You're making some very good points and I am getting
like stuff out.
Speaker 9 (06:52):
You want a farm girl that's dressed in Prada overalls,
and I don't think that's going to happen.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
They will, Now, I know Bluiaga does what's wrong with it?
But I do love it. I really don't think you
should be.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Lowering your The initial attraction is a very important thing.
So I think that's not really a sound piece of
advice to look at the people.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
I think you guys are actually on the ball. But
the problem is, I'm in New York City, right, So
the people that you encounter are the product wearing Gucci.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Everybody a lot.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
But you know what you're.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Hitting, well, hold on, you're hitting You're hitting on something
that's kind of true here.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
New York City is filled with people who are climbing
the ladder, right, Uh, you know, and guys and women.
A lot of people are putting emphasis on their careers
and on where they want to be and who they
need to know, and and sometimes that clouds it up
a little bit.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
See, may I give you mine? Yes, please hit the music. Scary,
you know what your problem is? Today's focus, Nate.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
You you tend to go to the women who have
crazy eyes.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Yes, he loves the psycho, he loves it.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
I'm not saying she's psycho. Stopped going crazy eyes.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
Sometimes the eyes are the windows to the soul. There
is something to that. By the way, I need some
deep diving. I did a little rabbit hole search there.
There is something to the crazy ice things that you're
one hundred percent right. I'm so insulting. I'm so sorry,
but that was about finally, Scary, welcome to your your timeline.
You know what your problem is? Today's focus, Nate.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
You took the words out of my mouth, Elvis. He
basically is going after women in the city. You need
to date suburban women who commute to work, have regular
jobs and are not being the social climber egotisticals. You
know that that's your I think that's your problem. And
you go for the challenge and you've got to stop
(08:58):
going right.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
Sh Yeah, scarily know, but you know what, I still
think this is being a little ridiculous because there are,
to be fair, there are women in the city, there
are women in the country, They are women everywhere who
are totally great for you. I would hate for you
to totally eliminate the possibility of dating.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
Someone in the city. That's that's not You're right, You're right, yea, all,
thank you all. I appreciate knowing what's wrong with me
from just the point of view.
Speaker 9 (09:23):
Wait, there's one we didn't really toss out yet. What
is that a bad personality and you're attracting bad personalities? Oh?
Speaker 4 (09:30):
I don't think that's Look at me, Jesus. I've got
a question for Nate.
Speaker 10 (09:35):
If Nate, if you were going to trust one person
on this show to find somebody for you, who would be.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
I don't think any of you really tell All right,
let's keep it right there. Well, you know what, we'll
continue with this. You know this is an ongoing story.
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