August 5, 2026 • 9 mins
More women now hold salaried jobs than men, sparking a conversation about stay-at-home boyfriends, shifting relationship dynamics, and what makes a partnership work.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Okay, Gandhi, what did you start? What did you start?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Oh god? Am I allowed to say this? Okay? We
were people were talking about at what age they had
sex for the first time? Okay, yeah, and then we
were getting answers, and then it took a turn from
there and I can't I cannot repeat what was said
by Skeary tell about Danielle.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
We can only say these things about each other in
this room.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Can anyone else said it?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
It would not be good and we'd defend each om.
Speaker 4 (00:32):
Okay, I repeat what Scary said. But where Ghani said Scary?
Scary gave his age. Daniel then gave her age and
said it was a little older, and Gandhi goes, Okay,
here's hold thought.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Okay, okay, hold on, Froggy, look what are the ages.
Let's get skip to the potatoes. Here the age he
first had sex. Froggy, give us your age.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
I was a freshman in high school. So however old
you are?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Oh wow, like fifteen fourteen?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
You know what that was?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Okay? When we say sex, what.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
What we're saying the actual deed getting it in? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Well, I know.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Oh really okay, yeah, okay, my parents were at home.
It was it was very quick, so, Daniel.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
So I was in college college age, so I think
like it twenty nineteen twenty something like that.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Scary I was nineteen or twenty as well. We were
in the bathroom at Z one hundred, right, yeah, that
was later on. I was twenty two. Scary showed where
Scary showed me. Okay, Nate, I just need to answer
the non conversation eighteen. I can't remember if it was
before or after my eighteenth birthday too, And that was
in Eerie, Pennsylvania. Yeah, yeah, all right, what about you?
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Gandhi seventeen?
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Okay, so we are you elder Elvis. I'm not entering.
You can't come back, you can't answer. I can do
whatever I want today. Okay, Well so you said, you know,
get that. Is that what you're saying? Yeah, it was
like freshman in high school. Okay, yeah, that sounds good. Okay,
(02:08):
Actually that's not true. Oh my god, it's not true.
Oh my god. I can't even tell you. No, no, no,
it was it was several years before that. Wow.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
When when Scary gave his age, Daniel gave her She's like,
I might be a little bit older. God, he goes,
that doesn't count yours is by choice? Scary, Wasn't.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Scary?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Said something really rude about me.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
People don't don't want to know you guys. If you guys,
if you have heard of that one more time, you're
gonna have to say what you said.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Okay, we want to say it again.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
He insinuated. People were handing things out left and right.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Yeah, and I said, no, not the case. Shit down
over there, scary.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Okay, moving on, moving on?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Can I can I say one more thing? It's not bad?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
No, okay?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
What So I called and because we were having this conversation,
and I said, hey, you're on the speakerphone with Diamond
and Scotty, and I asked him the question and he
just answered and then hung up. That was it. Like,
no one around here gets phased by any of these questions.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
No, things like that don't phase us. No, But you know,
I have to break this to you all. There are
people living in this world of ours that are phased
by these kinds of conversation. Yeah, they don't want to
talk about the first year they stuck it in.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
Yeah, I mean it was quick man, it was fast.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Sorry that he's that old lawnmower engine that just won't
turn off. All right, you know you don't it's too late.
It's like, oh, the jury will disregard that. Well, the
jury just frigging hurt disregard that.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Our listeners are texting and now with their stories. This
is great this.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
I was fifteen years old. It lasted fifteen seconds. I
was I was twenty one with an acquaintance's mom. Wow,
I was seventeen, I was fourteen, I was sixteen.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
All right, do you know we have a couple of friends,
actually have two friends male who told me that they
think their parents got somebody to do it with them
of their friends, you know, but a friend of the family,
just to get it over with.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I've seen this in movies. Yeah, yeah, but this is
real life.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Yes, there's two people that I knew growing up told
me that they cannot confirm it, but they think that
might have been what.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Okay, well, then I will ask you a question, Danielle,
mother of two sons.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
I would never in a million now kill them.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
What if they got to be like thirty seven, if
they and.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Didn't do that, then maybe at that.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Point, No, no, Danielle, I think your mother would say no,
I don't care if they ever do it ever in
their entire life. I want grandkids at some point.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
I mean they'll adopt, they could adopt.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
True. I told them to stop playing with them when
they were kids, and I still don't want anyone playing
with it.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I told my husband, you know, he's from England, so
like what they were doing over there, I was like,
please don't tell your children that that's the ages you
were doing.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Whatever over there.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Really, what do you mean what Europe.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
They start a lot younger. Yeah, I don't pay well,
I'm gonna think they still do.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
But yeah, yeah, same with Brandon when he told me,
I said, what, oh my god.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Yeah yeah. Well I'm moving this on right now. Okay, hey,
I love this article. You were talking about Gandhi about
how men versus women. Okay, let's talk about men versus women. Okay.
The stat we were talking about about employment, correct, there
are more women employed than men? Is that an age
(05:48):
group of certain demographic.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
No, it's just working age, so across the.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Board, working age across the board. Okay, so what are
the stats? Because I find this fascinating.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
So it says now there are more women in salaried
jobs than there are men, and it has made up
a gap of millions and millions from the nineties that
women have just started to move faster and get these
jobs and men have started to withdraw from the working demo.
And now the rise of the stay at home boyfriend
is everywhere.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Wow, the stay at home boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Stay at home boyfriend. Yeah, apparently it used to be
something people were embarrassed about, but now they're saying it's
just sort of becoming very accepted in a norm that
is happening all over the place.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Huh.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Okay, all right, So, as a woman who is working,
who is in a professional field, or you know, doing
whatever you're doing to make a living, yeah, you're you're
okay with a guy who's a stay at home boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
I am not, but I understand that there would be
people who are, And I totally get, especially when it
comes to childcare, that if you know, the mom is
making more money than dad is and it makes more
sense for dad to stay home. Sure, I totally get that.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Oh no, no, no, I get that stay at home father.
That's to me, that's a totally different thing.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
Stay at home boyfriend. No, no, you got it.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
You gotta unless as a child what he is the child.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Sometimes the boyfriend was trying to get his career off
the ground, like maybe he's a musician or something like that,
and he's just like, give me some time.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Is that?
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Are asking me?
Speaker 2 (07:18):
I'm asking you.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
I don't know if I would consider that stay at home?
Like are you trying? You're you're going and playing gigs
and you're going out. You're just not making a ton
of money. Yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Okay, So stay at home is sitting on the couch
with your ath on account, not trying to do anything.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Or or just at least trying to, you know, help
out with a household. Yeah, stay at home. Let's let's
define that, right, stay at home? And sometimes not by choice? Right,
I mean sometimes you know, different different professions have different
types of high ability in this and then you know,
you know what I'm saying, right, And sometimes you know,
in this day and age, a lot of companies are
(07:52):
downsizing and people lose their jobs. And okay, we we
understand that. But if there's no inkling at all of
how to get a job, or there's no motivation to
get off or out of the couch, off the couch
and out of the house to go look for a job.
That's that's not a good issue. I guess that's what
(08:13):
we're saying.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Yeah, and I mean, I know we had this conversation
sort of a little while ago about how one in
three men of working age are not working at all,
and a big part of it has to do with
crypto and day trading and gambling and thinking that you're
gonna do this like get rich quick stuff that's not
really working out for most people. So that is playing
into it. Also that men are more prone to doing
(08:34):
those kind of things and women are.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Okay, look, you know, I know all stories are very unique,
and so I don't want to sit here and say,
oh god, I first start, you're at home, you're a loser. No, no, no,
no, no no. We can't do that because we understand, working
with millions of people listening every day, we hear different
different scenarios from everyone's it's hard to say everyone's the same. Correct.
Do we agree with that?
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Right, all right, I just want to make that very clear.
That's the Moody Show, These bullying people who aren't working.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
No, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
No, not at all but the numbers are very clear.
Women now hold more jobs than men in the US,
and the stay at home boyfriend is on the rhinse
for whatever reason.
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Okay, Gandhi, what did you start? What did you start?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Oh god? Am I allowed to say this? Okay? We
were people were talking about at what age they had
sex for the first time? Okay, yeah, and then we
were getting answers, and then it took a turn from
there and I can't I cannot repeat what was said
by Skeary tell about Danielle.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
We can only say these things about each other in
this room.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Can anyone else said it?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
It would not be good and we'd defend each om.
Speaker 4 (00:32):
Okay, I repeat what Scary said. But where Ghani said Scary?
Scary gave his age. Daniel then gave her age and
said it was a little older, and Gandhi goes, Okay,
here's hold thought.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Okay, okay, hold on, Froggy, look what are the ages.
Let's get skip to the potatoes. Here the age he
first had sex. Froggy, give us your age.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
I was a freshman in high school. So however old
you are?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Oh wow, like fifteen fourteen?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
You know what that was?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Okay? When we say sex, what.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
What we're saying the actual deed getting it in? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Well, I know.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Oh really okay, yeah, okay, my parents were at home.
It was it was very quick, so, Daniel.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
So I was in college college age, so I think
like it twenty nineteen twenty something like that.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Scary I was nineteen or twenty as well. We were
in the bathroom at Z one hundred, right, yeah, that
was later on. I was twenty two. Scary showed where
Scary showed me. Okay, Nate, I just need to answer
the non conversation eighteen. I can't remember if it was
before or after my eighteenth birthday too, And that was
in Eerie, Pennsylvania. Yeah, yeah, all right, what about you?
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Gandhi seventeen?
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Okay, so we are you elder Elvis. I'm not entering.
You can't come back, you can't answer. I can do
whatever I want today. Okay, Well so you said, you know,
get that. Is that what you're saying? Yeah, it was
like freshman in high school. Okay, yeah, that sounds good. Okay,
(02:08):
Actually that's not true. Oh my god, it's not true.
Oh my god. I can't even tell you. No, no, no,
it was it was several years before that. Wow.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
When when Scary gave his age, Daniel gave her She's like,
I might be a little bit older. God, he goes,
that doesn't count yours is by choice? Scary, Wasn't.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Scary?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Said something really rude about me.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
People don't don't want to know you guys. If you guys,
if you have heard of that one more time, you're
gonna have to say what you said.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Okay, we want to say it again.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
He insinuated. People were handing things out left and right.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Yeah, and I said, no, not the case. Shit down
over there, scary.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Okay, moving on, moving on?
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Can I can I say one more thing? It's not bad?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
No, okay?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
What So I called and because we were having this conversation,
and I said, hey, you're on the speakerphone with Diamond
and Scotty, and I asked him the question and he
just answered and then hung up. That was it. Like,
no one around here gets phased by any of these questions.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
No, things like that don't phase us. No, But you know,
I have to break this to you all. There are
people living in this world of ours that are phased
by these kinds of conversation. Yeah, they don't want to
talk about the first year they stuck it in.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
Yeah, I mean it was quick man, it was fast.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Sorry that he's that old lawnmower engine that just won't
turn off. All right, you know you don't it's too late.
It's like, oh, the jury will disregard that. Well, the
jury just frigging hurt disregard that.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Our listeners are texting and now with their stories. This
is great this.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
I was fifteen years old. It lasted fifteen seconds. I
was I was twenty one with an acquaintance's mom. Wow,
I was seventeen, I was fourteen, I was sixteen.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
All right, do you know we have a couple of friends,
actually have two friends male who told me that they
think their parents got somebody to do it with them
of their friends, you know, but a friend of the family,
just to get it over with.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
I've seen this in movies. Yeah, yeah, but this is
real life.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Yes, there's two people that I knew growing up told
me that they cannot confirm it, but they think that
might have been what.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Okay, well, then I will ask you a question, Danielle,
mother of two sons.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
I would never in a million now kill them.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
What if they got to be like thirty seven, if
they and.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Didn't do that, then maybe at that.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Point, No, no, Danielle, I think your mother would say no,
I don't care if they ever do it ever in
their entire life. I want grandkids at some point.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
I mean they'll adopt, they could adopt.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
True. I told them to stop playing with them when
they were kids, and I still don't want anyone playing
with it.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
I told my husband, you know, he's from England, so
like what they were doing over there, I was like,
please don't tell your children that that's the ages you
were doing.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Whatever over there.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Really, what do you mean what Europe.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
They start a lot younger. Yeah, I don't pay well,
I'm gonna think they still do.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
But yeah, yeah, same with Brandon when he told me,
I said, what, oh my god.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Yeah yeah. Well I'm moving this on right now. Okay, hey,
I love this article. You were talking about Gandhi about
how men versus women. Okay, let's talk about men versus women. Okay.
The stat we were talking about about employment, correct, there
are more women employed than men? Is that an age
(05:48):
group of certain demographic.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
No, it's just working age, so across the.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Board, working age across the board. Okay, so what are
the stats? Because I find this fascinating.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
So it says now there are more women in salaried
jobs than there are men, and it has made up
a gap of millions and millions from the nineties that
women have just started to move faster and get these
jobs and men have started to withdraw from the working demo.
And now the rise of the stay at home boyfriend
is everywhere.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Wow, the stay at home boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Stay at home boyfriend. Yeah, apparently it used to be
something people were embarrassed about, but now they're saying it's
just sort of becoming very accepted in a norm that
is happening all over the place.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Huh.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Okay, all right, So, as a woman who is working,
who is in a professional field, or you know, doing
whatever you're doing to make a living, yeah, you're you're
okay with a guy who's a stay at home boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
I am not, but I understand that there would be
people who are, And I totally get, especially when it
comes to childcare, that if you know, the mom is
making more money than dad is and it makes more
sense for dad to stay home. Sure, I totally get that.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Oh no, no, no, I get that stay at home father.
That's to me, that's a totally different thing.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
Stay at home boyfriend. No, no, you got it.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
You gotta unless as a child what he is the child.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Sometimes the boyfriend was trying to get his career off
the ground, like maybe he's a musician or something like that,
and he's just like, give me some time.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Is that?
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Are asking me?
Speaker 2 (07:18):
I'm asking you.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
I don't know if I would consider that stay at home?
Like are you trying? You're you're going and playing gigs
and you're going out. You're just not making a ton
of money. Yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Okay, So stay at home is sitting on the couch
with your ath on account, not trying to do anything.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Or or just at least trying to, you know, help
out with a household. Yeah, stay at home. Let's let's
define that, right, stay at home? And sometimes not by choice? Right,
I mean sometimes you know, different different professions have different
types of high ability in this and then you know,
you know what I'm saying, right, And sometimes you know,
in this day and age, a lot of companies are
(07:52):
downsizing and people lose their jobs. And okay, we we
understand that. But if there's no inkling at all of
how to get a job, or there's no motivation to
get off or out of the couch, off the couch
and out of the house to go look for a job.
That's that's not a good issue. I guess that's what
(08:13):
we're saying.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Yeah, and I mean, I know we had this conversation
sort of a little while ago about how one in
three men of working age are not working at all,
and a big part of it has to do with
crypto and day trading and gambling and thinking that you're
gonna do this like get rich quick stuff that's not
really working out for most people. So that is playing
into it. Also that men are more prone to doing
(08:34):
those kind of things and women are.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Okay, look, you know, I know all stories are very unique,
and so I don't want to sit here and say,
oh god, I first start, you're at home, you're a loser. No, no, no,
no, no no. We can't do that because we understand, working
with millions of people listening every day, we hear different
different scenarios from everyone's it's hard to say everyone's the same. Correct.
Do we agree with that?
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Right, all right, I just want to make that very clear.
That's the Moody Show, These bullying people who aren't working.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
No, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
No, not at all but the numbers are very clear.
Women now hold more jobs than men in the US,
and the stay at home boyfriend is on the rhinse
for whatever reason.
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