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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. I'm welcome to stuff.
When I have told you your production of iHeart.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Radio, and we are back with another happy hour. But
this is a very special happy hour and just as always,
if you're doing anything happy hour ish, please do so responsibly.
(00:30):
And before we get into what we're doing as a
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(00:51):
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Speaker 3 (01:07):
I hope to see you there.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
But with that, yes, we are doing some happy hourish
things and we are so excited to be in the
presence of our super producer Rima.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Hello, Rema, Hello, hello everyone.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Happy to be here on Mike, first time instead of
behind the scenes.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
So excited to have you on.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
And before we start into the questions, because you know,
we got to do a get to know you session.
We wanted to see if anybody's doing anything happy hour ish. Myself,
I'm doing some bubbly water. We'll start with you, Annie.
Do you have anything happy hour ish?
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Well, in my constant plight of not having enough refrigerator space,
I'm trying to get rid of all of the light
beer my friends left at our place. So that's what
I'm lovely.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Is a light beer you got, your course, not a
current sponsor.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
How dare you call me out and tell them what
it actually is too?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Because I think they know any I think they know.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
They've been listening long. I've been like trying to hide
it for years.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
I think they know it's just gonna happen. Rema, As
you are joining us for a happy hour time, are
you doing anything happy hour y? Yes?
Speaker 4 (02:15):
I am currently sipping on a driver mouth Yeah fancy,
it's just hey, it's it might not be the time
of day, but it feels like it in my heart.
For some Vermouth So we're a big Vermouth household in
my house.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Oh you know what, that is so grown up of
grown up of you, because like that is never a
thing that.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
I've ever said and probably will never way older that
I'm like.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
As you will probably hear today, maybe the only grown
up thing I will say for the rest of the episode.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
So we'll take it.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Now. I'm starting to think, like, yeah, you're definitely one
of those that might be uh.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
That's cool, that used to be cool, that used to
be that is cool.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Sorry that hangs out, you know, listening to some good
music with some good drinks.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Music and drinks are always good. I don't know how
cool that makes me though. I'm not sure about the
coolness factor, but I like a good drink and I
like a good song.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I love it well obviously.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Listeners, Yes, we are sitting with our super producer Rima.
Can you do a small introduction of yourself for our listeners?
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Yes, Hello, my name is Rema.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
I am an audio producer, recording artists, sound designer based
in Atlanta and I produce for First Off Mom never
told you. Happy to be on the team. And yeah,
outside of iheartwork, I also do sound for movies sometimes
(03:49):
and also make music sometimes, So I like a microphone.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Okay, I love that because we didn't know you recorded music.
How would you describe your music?
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Well, I haven't released anything in a long time. I
was in a band with some friends of mine, and
but it's always under the the indie rock umbrella. Synth, heavy, bass, heavy,
but yeah, some good old, good old rock and roll,
good old rock and roll. But it's been a minute.
It's been a minute since anything drop o good old rock.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
You know what? We love anything rock and roll, synth, wonderful.
I feel like that's a common uh factor through all
of our producers. They know their music and they lost the.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Good I feel like it's a a lot of people
try to go into audio via music and then sometimes
figure out that they prefer doing more dialogue things like that,
at least from what I've talked to. So a lot
of the producers at iHeart even make their own music
and stuff. It's a common through line.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
I guess I would say so, But I also have
to say, you're sounding cooler by the minute.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Again, we're just starting, Oh okay, just starting. It's downhill
from here, Yeah, it's down.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Okay, I can't wait. But I appreciate being gassed uff,
I appreciate that. Well, we love we're so happier here.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
You really got kind of thrown into the fire because
we were like, well, we do all this stuff and
it happens at random times, and we promised we're normally
not like this, and then we continued to be like.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
That, Yeah, that's all right, that's really all right.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
It's part of the job built for it. I was
raised in the darkness. So they said, well, speaking of.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
How did you get to podcasting, how did this become
your career?
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Good question.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
I was never a kid or an adult even that
knew what they wanted to do.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
And I was never.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
Really good at any specific thing, if that makes sense.
And so I went to college for something completely different
and kind of picked up audio work in.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
My spare time for fun.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
And then I ended up taking a like music technology
class at school, and I was like, oh, this is
so much better than what I've been doing, basically because
I was studying like cognitive psychology and political sci which
is like shout out to the sciences and all of that.
(06:42):
That's great, It just wasn't for me. I wasn't great
at school. So yeah, I started kind of working at
a studio, and then after I graduated, freelanced audio stuff
radio plays and music and also some podcasts, and then
ended up getting a shot here at iHeart And that
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was five years ago.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Now, yeah, and here I am. You came in the
middle of COVID. Yeah, I can't.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
I started working here in twenty twenty one. Oh yes,
we're making faces. You can't see listeners.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
That's like you had to adjust in a way that
was unique timing. And I say this as a person
like it came right before COVID, So I would have been
at the office off and on, and I wasn't even
full time yet for like five or six months, and
then we were like gone.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
So I could only imagine it was a learning curve.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
But also in a way, in a way it kind
of suited me because I was never going to be
at the office from nine to five, you know what
I'm saying. That's that's something that I've ever had to do,
and so in a way.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
It kind of worked out.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
But obviously it was difficult to start anything and do
anything during COVID.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Being nosy, Uh, have you always been in Atlanta or
are you a transplant? No?
Speaker 3 (08:06):
I am a trans weird way to ask, I guess
I'm a transplant in a way.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
I was born in Atlanta, and I lived here until
I was like six six or seven, and then I
moved to Southwest Asia in the Middle East.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
I'm Araon. I grew up over there.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
I went to college there, I graduated college, and then moved.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Back here afterwards.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Okay, yes, because my sister was and yeah, my sister
and brother were living here.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Oh okay.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
And the way things work over there is even though
I lived there for I went to school in the UAE,
and once your student visa expires, like you got to go.
So so when I graduated college, I graduated college and
I had to go, and I was like, well, I
guess I'll go to Atlanta for a little bit, not
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thinking it was gonna last five years. But I love Atlanta,
so this is this is home now.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Okay. I was gonna say, that's a big jump.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
I didn't really think you were gonna be like out,
like out of the country, that you were one of
the few who was truly born in Atlanta. So you
you are unique and so great because like no one's
born in Atlanta.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
It's very rare real. But also you.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
Know, maybe the listeners will catch that. You know, it
wasn't technically Atlanta. It was like I was in Woodstock,
which is north of.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Okay, but you know you're from the neck of the wood. Yes,
I'm in North Georgia.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Yeah, I have to drive past that town to get
to my town further up. My family leg and j
great apples. Did you tell about the accent apples?
Speaker 3 (09:49):
There you go?
Speaker 2 (09:50):
No one else outside of Georgia, and we're talking about.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
I will be going there in a couple of months
to get some apples.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
Probably there you go, there you go, Okay, I don't.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Know what would start us racism.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
That's so that's just a thing fancy or like what's
nicer hospital?
Speaker 3 (10:22):
And then yeah, actually so true. Every time I drive by,
like through there, now, I'm like, this was not how
it was there, but what is that? That's how I feel.
And I'm much older than you.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Okay, well, very excited. I love learning about background. I'm like,
that's one of the things.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
That I, uh, I have to.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
Put in my this is what she did, what she did?
Speaking of notes, because I have to also have this
in my notes. I'll ask you your birthday off mic too,
so because that's gonna be a thing that we do.
But I need to know. One, what is your favorite
type of food that you can have, like, you know,
for whether it's like Mexican, Chinese, all those things too.
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What is your favorite dessert or do you like do
you like dessert us? Another thing? And three with the
one snack that you must have all the time. These
are very important questions for me. I know, I'm just
saying I have to.
Speaker 4 (11:31):
Yeah, I've got a drink going and we're talking serious
stuff now, Okay, So I'm I'm Arab, I'm Palestinian, and
so that to me is the greatest cuisine in the world.
So I guess if we're talking, yeah, like genre of food,
it will always be Arab food.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
Like, no doubt, no doubt on that.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
I'm also vegan and if someone they have to tell
you that they're vegan, it's within the first five minutes
of you know.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Well, you know it's important.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
But a lot of that kind of Mediterranean food lends
itself very easily to veganism as well. So shout out
to my Arabs over there making delicious food.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
So yeah, does that answer the first question? Question? Check? Check? Second?
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Second, do you eat desserts, and if so, what is
your favorite.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
I do eat desserts. I love dessert. That was gonna
be judgement, I don't. I would just give you a lot.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
My favorite dessert is probably a brownie or a cookie.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
I love chocolate. I love chocolate. I like to bake,
and that's usually what I'm baking.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
If I'm bacon, okay, dark chocolate, milk chocolate, white chocolate.
Speaker 3 (13:01):
Milk chocolate for sure, unless you're if you're baking things.
Speaker 4 (13:08):
Sometimes you need to use dark or semi sweet. But
to just eat is milk either oat milk and rice milk.
Those they make good chocolates.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
And then the last question was the one snack that
you need to make sure is around.
Speaker 4 (13:26):
That's actually okay, I'm sure I'll think of a better
answer tonight when I'm rethinking everything I said today. But
now that we're talking about chocolate, I love eating chocolate chips,
so I will literally take straight milk chocolate chips, obvious
semi sweet chocolate chips. So maybe that's because if you're
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ever like late night and you need something sweet, you
just open up a packet of chocolate.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Chips and it'll you'll have a good time.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
You'll have a good time, and that's the market for
a good night, you know what.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Maybe yeah, maybe that, okay, okay, no.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Yeah, those are the things that I have to have
in my list of understanding about you, and later I
will ask about like allergies, but we won't do this
on the secondary or whatever. You know, you know you
letting us know you're vegan is very helpful as well. Yes, again,
we will. We will be making sure that we go
to appropriate places when we go to sealiscate.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Thankfully.
Speaker 4 (14:31):
Atlanta if we're hanging out in Atlanta is a very
vegan friendly city and I always have good food when
I'm here, so m h.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
There's so many new restaurants out there too that I
want to try for sure, like new vegan locations that
I'm like.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
Here, yeah, and a lot of places even if they
don't have vegan food on the menu, which they should,
they'll just make me something, which is basically.
Speaker 3 (14:59):
Yeah for me.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
The walks in and they're like, hey, yeah, what's you
my favorite.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
Restaurant at this point, Like we walk in and they're like, so,
what are we feeling today? And I'm like, well, maybe
something something like a pasta or something or you have
the area and they're like, yes, media, they're just sick
of me asking the server what what can be made
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being and they're.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Like, just we'll do it instead. No, I love it
all right.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
The other questions because this is something that we've discussed
often amongst ourselves, and we've been discussing for a while.
So would you consider yourself an extrovert, an introvert, or
an ambi avert?
Speaker 4 (15:44):
Okay, I consider myself an extrovert generally, but I'm an
extrovert that needs a lot of processing time, a lot
of solo processing time. But I feel I find myself
the having the most fun and the most confident within
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with around people versus by myself.
Speaker 3 (16:08):
Probably.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Okay, so you like to be out? How do you
feel about dancing?
Speaker 3 (16:12):
Love to dance? Okay, that's good to.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
You know some people who just did not want to
do this, you know, they're like, that's their nightmare is
to go to an area that's dancing. So I need
to know because I love good dancing. I am an
introvert that can be extroverted, but I love some dancing.
Speaker 4 (16:30):
Yes, I can an extrovert that can be introverted, for sure.
So we'll meet in the middle, you know, on the
dance floor.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
I like it any because you've gone back and forth
like you, you have been all across the board when
it comes to that level. Do you consider yourself more
of an introvert now?
Speaker 3 (16:52):
No?
Speaker 1 (16:53):
I actually I've taken like test and test and test,
and it's always like.
Speaker 3 (16:57):
You because I'm an extrovert, and not even by a
little by a lot.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
I think the thing is sometimes people forget that.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
You know.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
That doesn't necessarily mean I have to have people. It
means I have to have a new stimulus real I
need something to stimulate me. And I think that's absolutely true.
So even though I'm like not going out as much
as I used to, I do still need that kind
of like new.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
Thing I relate to those. Yeah, I do not have that.
Speaker 4 (17:35):
Do you guys know your Meyer's Briggs. Now I'm asking questions,
do you guys know?
Speaker 2 (17:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (17:44):
I did.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
I have to go back and like I had to
go back and look at the initials mind myself what
it was.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
Yeah, little letters. Uh, I don't think about it.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
Do you know yours?
Speaker 4 (17:56):
Last time I took it, I was in E N
F P. But I've changed throughout my lifetime. Yeah, taking
the test, I guess.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
So I was an I n f P. So where
was that one? Uh huh.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
Annie.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
I still have the results somewhere and I could look
it up, but I remember it started with an e yes.
It was not surprised, and I think it was like
the diplomatic piece.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
One right, all right, So that means where you need
to retake this and come back with the.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
Newer results and see where we are going to do.
I like to follow up every personality.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
This is I love a good quiz like you. Like
we are from that generation that took the sixteen magazine,
seventeen magazine and lived by it. This is my love language.
We are that generation, so we will put you with us.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
Yes, that's awesome.
Speaker 4 (18:53):
That's the equivalent of like an iPad kid now right.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
Essentially, all of my seventeen magazine definitely had their goals
and like this is my soulmate.
Speaker 4 (19:05):
I was so jealous of anyone I wasn't allowed to
get those magazines growing up, and I was really jealous
of any of my friends who had zac efron on
their magazine.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
You know, Okay, I learned this yesterday and I'm still
processing it because I had a huge crush on Ryan Gosling,
like nine years old, huge crush when she says and
I'm much older than you also, So this was like
in his early career, Ryan Gossin. I learned a twenty
(19:37):
year old in my life thinks he's new and like
up and she's discovered him. And let me tell you,
I was fighting back everything to not be like I
was your Hercules every day recording it three day.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
Have you heard about this new guy, Ryan Gotlin.
Speaker 4 (20:01):
That is crazy because he has been working since he
was a child.
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Yes, he was on Miss Barbie, like yeah, oh my gosh,
even recently, how did you miss?
Speaker 2 (20:13):
That's crazy, Like he's gotten to the point in his
career that is no longer independent films, like he's been
able to do that and liked himself the actor that
he can do the MC without any kind of like fallout.
Speaker 4 (20:26):
Absolutely, I mean, he's My brain is just running through
a list of one hundred right constantly movies.
Speaker 3 (20:35):
I couldn't even say anything back. I was so shocked
you were having a moment.
Speaker 4 (20:43):
I am a certified Ryan Gosling fan as well.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
That is my white boy of choice.
Speaker 4 (20:52):
Him and Robert Pattinson are my two white boys of
choice and that's it.
Speaker 3 (20:57):
Well, now he's brought.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
Up Robert Pattinson. I have a question that has is
not on out outline. Uh, do you have a fandom
that you actually was a diehard about? Because when I
think of Robin Pattinson, obviously Twilight is going to be
the number one and I loved Twilight and like that
is my shame and love at the same you know,
(21:19):
so I and Annie has many too. For now, I
think it's still Star Wars. Yeah, Annie, would you still
claim that as Okay?
Speaker 3 (21:29):
So what about you? I do love Star Wars. I
do love Twilight.
Speaker 4 (21:34):
Growing up, Oh my god, I can't believe I'm saying
this on a microphone. Growing up, I was really online.
I was really online, and I was really on Tumblr,
and I had a like blog for my favorite band
at the time, which.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
Was The Killers, So I was really.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
Obsessed with them for a very long time. So probably
that was like my fandom. And then also just being
on Tumblr, you're in many different fandoms at once, the
Sherlock of It All and the Doctor Who and Star
Wars and all that. But I was always a music fan,
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obsessive music fan. But it's I still and I still
love them. I still think they're a great fan. I
just I'm not as I'm don't repost photos of them
for hours every day, you know.
Speaker 2 (22:29):
But yeah, So there's a rumor that the MySpace guy
is coming back to redo MySpace.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
Oh and I feel like.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
That would be a great opportunity to get back into
the Killers fandom and being able to post that song
a different song on the daily.
Speaker 3 (22:47):
So you know what, don't threaten me with a good time?
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Like Amy also has a diehard fandom of a band
as well, Mary and be a part of it.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
I looking back, it's wild to me how much I
like learned to play guitar because of Green Day, because
I thought I could meet Billy Joe Armstrong. I like
joined a band named after Green Day in an attempt
to meet That's awesome.
Speaker 3 (23:21):
Wait what was the name of the band? I don't
think I know this.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
Left turn because we believe me and my friends were
going to a concert and we got behind the tour
bus and they they took a left, and we took
her right, despite us shouting at our poor chaperone, like
take her left, And so we think our whole life
could have been different if we had taken a left right.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
And you're not wrong. You know who knows it would
have happened. I could be a music like a phenomen
right now.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
Well, first of all, that's a fanfic waiting to happen. Really,
it hasn't already happened, Anny, this was true?
Speaker 3 (24:01):
It has has it happened?
Speaker 4 (24:02):
Annie?
Speaker 2 (24:02):
I'm staring at you real hard. Yeah, I try to
see if I can get an answer.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
She's not going to an going silent mode.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
I know.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Okay, all right, okay, killers I got I'm getting such information.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
Yeah, here's one of the ice niche. That's some niche
for you. This is I'm delighted.
Speaker 2 (24:26):
Here's one of the icebreaker questions that I'm like, I've
always loved this question.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
I don't know why.
Speaker 2 (24:31):
I think it's the it's the repetitiveness in the rhyming.
But if you were a tree, what kind of tree
would you be?
Speaker 4 (24:39):
Every time you asked me a question, I guess I'm like, Wow,
good question.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
Question. Oh that's such a good question.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Oh man, it's funny too because it requires the knowledge
of tree. I know.
Speaker 4 (24:55):
I feel like my favorite tree is a willow tree.
I don't and maybe that's what I would be. Then
I like that they they hold a lot in the
world underneath them, and or they flow with the movement
of air. So maybe that maybe a willow tree and
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there's something something sad about them.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
Oh, I was gonna say there's something wise about them.
They feel wild, and I think they just endure and
are long lasting.
Speaker 4 (25:29):
Yes, I believe that there's something about the weeping willow too,
and the maybe that I feel like a big, old,
beautiful tree. Or I'll say a palm tree because I'm
Arab and we had a palm tree growing up.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
Very different, but I love it, very different, very different.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
Yes, maybe, I don't think I've ever asked you that.
Speaker 3 (25:49):
Have I ever asked you that question? No, this is
the first I have that. It's a question. Oh really,
I love that. I don't know why.
Speaker 2 (25:56):
When I like college years, this is what I would
ask So, yeah, any if you were a tree, what
kind of tree would you be?
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Well, I don't know a lot about trees, which is
why I made the comment.
Speaker 3 (26:10):
So I love good. I love a willow.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
I like I would like one, and I don't know
which one it would be, but I like one that
changes its colors, the leaves change colors like the bottom
something with some like transformation.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
See like I get real like theoretical and the ideal
because I'm like the tree that I hate the most
is actually, I think the Georgia State Tree, and I
just have feelings about the Magnolia tree.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
Magnolia, I do, I.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Know. But this is the thing though, because like I
also am like the person who says I love cats.
I mean, I love dogs, but I would be probably
a cat more than a dog myself in personality. But
the reason I say that about the magnolia tree is
because what I remember growing up, because there was a
giant one, which they are. They get huge, they smell
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nice for a short period of time, and then they
get really stinky to me real quickly with the flowers.
And then those damn leaves when they fall off, and
if you get hit by one, if you get poked
by one, it hurts so ridiculously like it's so annoying.
I think, I remember, I have memories of it falling
on my head in the prickly list, and I'm cursing
at a damn tree. And then the amount of leaves
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that are around and that just sit there and that
just like rot, I get so angry for really no
reason at all. And I'm sure I'm having a lot
of like people and are like being arbologists. Those are words, right,
Arbologists are gonna be like, how dare you say this
about the sacred tree?
Speaker 3 (27:48):
But like everything about that?
Speaker 2 (27:50):
But I feel like I'm kind of that tree, and
like I it seems like I could be really nice
and like very like appealing at first, and then more
you get to monomia, You're like, oh, she mean, and
that's kind of how a lot about that Magnolia's.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
So you went on a deeper level. I like, yeah,
because a pretty tree. I think I like his.
Speaker 3 (28:15):
You were like personality wise, were personality rise?
Speaker 2 (28:18):
I mean, you could choose whichever, but personality wise, that
is how I feel. I have discovered a new tree
because as I've gotten older and owning houses and trying
to find things to like make my house look pretty like,
I've started to pay attention to bushes and trees. Oddly,
it's the eastern red bud, which you've seen them around town,
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but they have like heart shaped leaves and they change colors.
Speaker 3 (28:44):
I wish to be that tree. That's a good one.
I could choose it for looks. That's a good one.
It's like this just like painting.
Speaker 2 (28:51):
Yeah, so they turn from green to like that pink color,
that bright color, and they keep they're just and they
are shaped like hearts.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
That's beautiful. I couldn't know. It's like a fruit tree.
We could be a peach tree or some tree coconuts.
You know.
Speaker 4 (29:10):
That also seems to mean my partner really knows a
lot about plants and trees and such things. And I'm
feeling like they're going to listen to this and be like,
you didn't say this tree, and so now I'm trying
to think of it.
Speaker 3 (29:23):
We could do a mulberry tree. Those are nice.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
I feel like we need to do We'll do a
round two with follow ups, because obviously we're getting some good,
hard hitting questions and there's more to be said. There's
so much better said, especially if we're just gonna talk
about trees in itself, and y'all, I have a giant,
giant fig tree in my backyard that only continues to grow,
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and it now smells like rotten fruit around my house
because of the amount of molded figs that have fallen
in the amount of bees and squirrels in the amount
of times that my partner and I have been dungue
by said bees, we are now enemies with this vic tree.
Speaker 3 (30:04):
So you hate magnolia trees, you hate fig trees.
Speaker 2 (30:09):
Really, we're starting to have enemies with some of the trees.
Like there, they're making my lists.
Speaker 4 (30:17):
Real aging is I think having more enemies than you expected,
because right now I'm having me and my partner are
having a war with the squirrels that eat our bird food,
our bird seeds. And I used to like squirrels and
now I don't.
Speaker 2 (30:32):
Right things are from afar, And then you start to
be like you're not. I know you are. You come
to destroy me and I will win this game.
Speaker 1 (30:44):
Yes, absolutely, I feel like that was a very wise
thing you said you did.
Speaker 3 (30:52):
I like that.
Speaker 4 (30:53):
Yeah, I'm gonna, you know, try to keep that energy up,
just gather my enemies yet.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
Okay, Well, continuing with our heart hitten questions, please, what
are your top three favorite movies and what was the
last movie booker show that made a lasting impact on you.
Speaker 4 (31:18):
Let's go dude. Okay, So I love movies.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
Very much. I watch a lot of movies.
Speaker 4 (31:29):
My favorites are and I am on letterbox, so I'm
just gonna name my top four letter box the Lighthouse.
Really I love that movie. And here's another Robert Pts one.
I love Tenant.
Speaker 3 (31:45):
Oh really we love, Yes we do, Yes we do.
You said top three.
Speaker 2 (31:54):
Yeah, you can give us four. You can give four,
and he usually gets.
Speaker 3 (31:57):
Three x I usually you said two. But Eternal Sunshine
of the Spotless Mind. I love that movie.
Speaker 4 (32:07):
And then there's a movie by a Lebanese director named.
Speaker 3 (32:18):
The movie is.
Speaker 4 (32:18):
Called Leila and the Wolves, and I love that movie
so so dearly and so much. It's kind of hard
to find, but if it's ever playing in a local theater,
please check that one out.
Speaker 3 (32:30):
It is a wonderful.
Speaker 4 (32:32):
Movie about kind of like the hidden hidden history of
women through fighting occupation in Palestine and Lebanon. And it
like interviews like dreams and memory and like memories of ancestors,
and it turns into like using collective memory of Arabs
to tell a story that is often not told.
Speaker 3 (32:54):
So yeah, that'll put it on our list. You should
definitely come on Feminist Movie Friday.
Speaker 4 (33:02):
Sometimes I love a movie and I can talk about
a movie for an hour.
Speaker 3 (33:07):
For sure. Yes, on the list.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
Yeah, yeah, any anything that recently has left an impact
on your movie book.
Speaker 4 (33:18):
Oh yes, Well it's funny you say that because literally
yesterday my partner and I finished watching the original run
of twin Peaks, the Lynch TV show. God that was
insane and beautiful and crazy, and I'm still processing that one.
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There's still more to watch, but I'm taking a small break,
so maybe that and then movie wise, I also recently
watched All About My Mother, the Pedro Almodovar movie. Also
highly recommend add it to the Thebtist Friday list. It
was like a gorgeous movie about womanhood, parenthood, friendship, and
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forgiveness in women womanhood And I am listen and I'm
not even I'm I'm a non binary guy.
Speaker 3 (34:14):
So I don't even.
Speaker 4 (34:16):
But there's something about watching a movie about women that
really that really supports and promotes just like the complexity
of each character versus bringing them down to just the
trait of being a woman anyways.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
That we love the intersectionality of it all because that's
that's what we want to see. So I was just yeah,
thinking about like any you were talking about obsession and
like the layers that it has, it keeps you thinking
it's movies like that and books like that and shows
like that that just really like what is happening, but
at the same time like leave you that pondering and
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that feeling of like.
Speaker 3 (34:58):
Hmmm, it stays with you.
Speaker 2 (35:01):
Those moments I love hate those moments, and it's kind
of my general vibe I think in life. All right,
now we're getting down to the nitty gritty, real important stuff,
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real important stuff. You ready. How do you feel about
Sex in the City anyway?
Speaker 3 (35:33):
Everything I just said exactly.
Speaker 4 (35:37):
Because I have watched Sex in the City. I will
say it was a painful watch for me because Carrie.
Speaker 3 (35:44):
Annoys me so much. You're not right.
Speaker 4 (35:48):
Your decision making annoys me so much. And I don't
know where you guys are on your watch of on
the show. I remember you were doing that, but the
way it ends is crazy.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
M Yeah. So Annie has not seen all of these yet.
She is slowly building up. We are very slowly building
up because season three, Okay, we're almost done with season three.
Speaker 3 (36:12):
We're almost done with season three. We're almost done with
season three.
Speaker 2 (36:16):
The reason we asked this is a you will have
to come on as a part of our show. It's
kind of like the initiation watch with us and reaction
with us, because we think it's very important that the
entirety of Semantid does this as a team happy to.
Speaker 3 (36:32):
Be so we will put that in there.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
But with that, just without like following up later with
our quiz, what is what character of the sex city
in the city would you be most like?
Speaker 3 (36:46):
Another bigger? Okay, that's really hard for me.
Speaker 4 (36:48):
Okay, Also to be honest, I have not watched this
in a really long time, so I'm using memory of
why I was annoyed at every single person on the show.
But it's definitely not Care is definitely not Charlotte. Maybe
I would probably say Samantha because Samantha is the most firstly,
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is like gay and so that obviously, and then it's
also the character that actually was kind of the least
taken by the men in her life. I think maybe
from what I remember, kind of owned herself.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
Although have you guys watched the movies yet?
Speaker 2 (37:35):
So she Annie, did you watch the first one?
Speaker 3 (37:38):
Though you didn't want to what you did? Right?
Speaker 1 (37:42):
No, I's everybody to go watch that horrible name Night
Shaalan movie that happening and.
Speaker 3 (37:49):
They were real mad at me though.
Speaker 2 (37:54):
So I seen the first one, I refused to I
was gonna go. I was like, I was already I
would No, we were already. I was not emotionally prepared.
And so when we do, because we will if we
make it through. That's the biggest try to get through that,
because we do want to take it as a whole.
Speaker 3 (38:14):
But no, but why what what?
Speaker 4 (38:18):
Well, just because the second movie is set in the Middle.
Speaker 3 (38:21):
East and it's so bad stereotype it is everything. Yeah,
oh my god, it's so terrible, and why would you
do this in the Middle East? Why would you do that? Literally?
Speaker 4 (38:36):
And that is to say, like Samantha in that movie
really upsets me.
Speaker 3 (38:43):
Okay, but maybe maybe Samantha. What was the fourth ones? Miranda?
Speaker 4 (38:47):
Right, Miranda, Well, Miranda should have been gay too. They
should have all been gay. But that's just my head canon.
Speaker 2 (38:54):
I guess you haven't, just like us, I have not
seen the follow up. So Miranda ends up figuring some
things out, not to not to spoil too much, but
she ends up figuring some things.
Speaker 3 (39:07):
I mean, we'll we'll just leave that up. I mean
we'll live at that.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
Yeah, Because I would say, like Miranda's attitude is probably
even though during its release. She was seen as the
annoying one, but she was probably the most real to
me in like in like understanding she doesn't give up,
have to give up her life if she even with
all these things, and also kind of coming to terms
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with the fact that sometimes Carrie is.
Speaker 3 (39:39):
The worst over the top.
Speaker 4 (39:43):
Excuse me, excuse me to the Carrie fans, I I,
you know, support women's rights and wrongs.
Speaker 3 (39:50):
I think, there you go, there you go.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
But at the same time, we don't have to be fans.
Speaker 3 (39:55):
Of all them. Yes, absolutely right, that's just a thing
we know, okay.
Speaker 2 (40:02):
And then as tradition, because we've been doing a little
bit of Sex in the City such that I had
to send out a quiz to y'all. It is an
updated quiz, so I had to take in myself as well.
Speaker 3 (40:11):
Annie. I'm made sure you took it.
Speaker 2 (40:13):
So in your quiz, who did you end up getting?
Speaker 3 (40:16):
Rima?
Speaker 4 (40:16):
The Sex and the City character I am most like,
was Samantha?
Speaker 3 (40:22):
Really that's what you got? I was so yeah.
Speaker 2 (40:29):
I was just like, oh right, maybe Okay does know,
maybe I'm just kidding.
Speaker 3 (40:34):
Any BuzzFeed I actually knows what's going on, but got
their finger on the this this one time, what about
you Annie, Well, I got Carrie. Carrie, you know you
know what.
Speaker 1 (40:50):
The funny thing is, We've taken similar quizzes I think
three or four times. I still maintain I haven't seen
the show, so some of the questions I'm like, I
don't know who any of these people are, so I'm
just like picking randomly, like this guy I don't know maybe,
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but yeah, it's it. I got Carrie and it said
you probably think you're a Samantha or Charlotte. Try not
to overthink it.
Speaker 3 (41:19):
Yes, which is her?
Speaker 1 (41:21):
Her?
Speaker 2 (41:21):
Acute you feel which, by the way, I was also
a Carrie, and I was very disappointed. I kind of
wanted to throw the phone because I was like, this
is this is a lie.
Speaker 3 (41:29):
You're a lie. I don't know me, you don't know me?
How dare you? How dare you? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (41:36):
I also I was answering and I was like some
of these like faces that they were having us shooes between.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
I was like, I don't remember who this guy is.
I have to say too.
Speaker 1 (41:47):
One time a listener wrote in with what I think
is a really good point is that like usually people
are blended characters, so like you're a Miranda and a
Samantha like you're a blend.
Speaker 3 (41:59):
So some quiz is do it that way. I prefer that.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
I actually I would like the side characters to be
some of the people that we are. They talked about Magda,
I was like she was judgmental, but then she was
a great caretaker.
Speaker 3 (42:13):
I would I would be her. Let me be her,
be is great.
Speaker 2 (42:18):
And then the biggest and the most important question of all,
Team Big or Aiden.
Speaker 3 (42:23):
Don't do this to me? I had to Samantha doesn't
pull her punch.
Speaker 4 (42:30):
So I'm gonna I'm gonna answer this, But it's not
because I like the person I'm gonna say. Let me
be clear, Okay, it's just because I have to say
Aiden because I hate Big.
Speaker 3 (42:42):
I hate Big.
Speaker 2 (42:44):
That is the correct answer.
Speaker 5 (42:45):
That is the correct, and I think that is the
correct and I think he has to stay away from
every woman ever basically, so maybe.
Speaker 2 (42:55):
Aiden, Yes, that is the correct That's the only answer.
The overall answer for all of it is Steve.
Speaker 3 (43:02):
But exactly.
Speaker 2 (43:04):
But what's so funny is I just saw a clip
of the woman who plays Charlotte Kristen's her name is
Kristin something.
Speaker 3 (43:13):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (43:13):
She has a podcast now surprise surprise and she was
talking to someone. It was a celebrity and they were
talking about Big do you have any plans.
Speaker 3 (43:24):
To see and just like that, I didn't. We haven't
watched it. I doubt we're gonna get there.
Speaker 2 (43:29):
We watched the first season, Actually didn't we did, Yeah,
we didn't. We had a spot, we had a sponsor.
But and and just for those listeners right now, if
you're planning to watch, just like that, I would go
ahead and stop. If you don't want any spoilers, do
you mind if I tell you a spoiler?
Speaker 3 (43:47):
Big Dies? Oh you know I did hear that?
Speaker 2 (43:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (43:50):
Yeah, yes, yes.
Speaker 2 (43:51):
So at one point in that podcast, the person was like,
you know, what what happens?
Speaker 3 (43:57):
Can he just go away?
Speaker 2 (43:58):
And Kristen's like, oh Kristen Day, her face goes Should
we tell him? Yes?
Speaker 3 (44:04):
Yes, everyone was like oh thank god. Yeah. I mean
about damn time.
Speaker 2 (44:12):
When we were in the middle of it. I was like,
they went through all that just for him to die.
Speaker 3 (44:16):
That's so true, Oh my god, weird. But okay, that's
a choice.
Speaker 2 (44:21):
But I thought that was hilarious because he has something
that everybody has now got him on board.
Speaker 3 (44:24):
And be like he's the worst. Yeah, he's so bad.
Speaker 4 (44:27):
And and the thing is is that this is why
I'm annoyed with Carrie, because I'm like, girl, how many
times are.
Speaker 3 (44:36):
You gonna let someone do this to you?
Speaker 4 (44:38):
But you know, we all fall into our patterns and
all those things. I love to judge like a TV character,
but if you are relating to carry at all, I'm
not judging you.
Speaker 2 (44:49):
I didn't say, like, I think the back to back
bad choices were the parts that really would just like
why why are we doing this? What's what's happening? But
like some of the things made sense, some of the
things like sure, but the back and board, like we've
talked about the cultural context and honestly, a lot of
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like uh, freedom taught women and like their sexuality and
opening up. Maybe like some of the younger generation be
like that was too much, y'all need to calm down.
Maybe because we were like in our generation, we were
way too repressed that we went way overboard to THEO
Like gen zs are like, stop it, y'all.
Speaker 3 (45:29):
Yeah, isn't it? Like gen Z is like not really
into sex as much.
Speaker 2 (45:34):
They're like, why is this such a big deal to
Y'all's not a big deal to us, and then we
wanted we the uh you know what millennials. I was like,
gen Z millennials slash me, I'm a part gen X millennial.
Speaker 3 (45:48):
Like you're welcome. Yeah, the hard work that we did
not mean allowed you did not have to care. No,
I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2 (45:57):
It's kind of funny because that's kind of the re
or gens. Sex in the City, though, really did bring
in something even for the newer generation of like how
like we started to talk about things. There's a lot
of cringe moments of like, oh yeah that did not age. Well,
this did not.
Speaker 3 (46:12):
Watching things in hindsight is always different. Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 4 (46:16):
Yeah, yeah, I'm I consider myself gen Z, but I'm
like I'm in that cusp gen Z millennial. Okay, so
I kind of have It's like I have an angel
and a devil, but it's like two devils on my shoulder.
Speaker 3 (46:35):
Then, yes, I'm the excellennial. I'm on the Okay, yes, yes, absolutely,
I'm old. Everything's fine.
Speaker 2 (46:43):
Well, I think we should end with one something something surprising,
fun fact about you that you would tell us and
our listeners.
Speaker 3 (46:56):
I was like, I'm like, I've never had a fact
about me ever in my life.
Speaker 2 (47:02):
Actually, oh, there, you've had a few, including uh, like
the being a rock star essentially, right, that's pretty cool.
Speaker 3 (47:11):
Full blown rock start. No, I think not even close.
Speaker 4 (47:15):
But I this is a hard one for me right now.
Speaker 2 (47:21):
We also found out you have a cat. Yes, I
have an eighteen year old cat. I have an eighteen
year old cat and her name is five and I
got her when I was in fifth grade. We found
each other, so.
Speaker 3 (47:35):
We've been that's not the fun fact. I just think
that's fun. It is fun. Yeah, it is fun. And
I also have another cat, my partner's cat, Moshi, And
that's my beautiful family.
Speaker 2 (47:47):
Ah. We have to have some guest appearances because we
love seeing pets. I love a good pet interruption.
Speaker 4 (47:54):
Yeah, if I open this door right now, there might
be a cat behind the door, Like why is this
store closed in my mansion?
Speaker 3 (48:03):
Exactly?
Speaker 4 (48:04):
But yeah, that's maybe my fun fact, if you think
it's fun or not. I am fluent in Arabic and
can kind of speak German fun facts.
Speaker 2 (48:17):
Between the three of us, and he speaks French Mandarin Ish.
Speaker 3 (48:24):
I say, would say this loosely.
Speaker 2 (48:25):
I loosely can speak, and we loosely can speak Spanish.
I loosely can speak Korean. You can speak Arabic and
loosely speak German. Yes, we're doing great, pretty good, We're
doing great. We need to do with our travel show.
Speaker 1 (48:37):
Now, that's pretty good. That's what qualified. That's smincy around
the world. We can speak a handful language.
Speaker 3 (48:45):
We ask a question and where to go?
Speaker 1 (48:48):
Yes, absolutely, yes, I can introduce myself. I'm confident in
the basic skills exactly.
Speaker 3 (48:56):
I can ask where the bathroom is.
Speaker 1 (48:59):
That's important, It's really important. It is well, Rema. We
could keep going on and on. Uh, this has been
a delight. I cannot wait for you to come back on.
Speaker 3 (49:09):
Yeah, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1 (49:11):
We'll definitely have a follow up. We'll have some more
hard hitting questions. But in the meantime, where can the
good listeners find you?
Speaker 4 (49:19):
Oh, you can find me. I have a website if
anyone wants to check that out. I have a cool
sound reel on there of what I.
Speaker 3 (49:28):
What I do, and it's Rema Maade dot com r
E E M A M A d E dot.
Speaker 4 (49:37):
Com Rema made. You could probably find me there. There's
some socials on there too, But if not, then you
can find me in Atlanta at local Hangs.
Speaker 3 (49:52):
I like that.
Speaker 1 (49:53):
That's like you're playing Pokemon Go and you're like, right, rema.
Speaker 4 (50:00):
Oude, Yeah, I was a huge Pokemon Go player, so
I appreciate that reference.
Speaker 3 (50:08):
I'm glad, I'm glad.
Speaker 4 (50:11):
Yes, yes, a huge Oh my gosh. Anyways, that's a
huge tangent. I could go on, but we will stop
for now. Yes, listeners.
Speaker 1 (50:25):
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Speaker 3 (50:39):
Our super producer Rima in.
Speaker 1 (50:40):
The thank you, You're welcome, and our executive bruser Maya,
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