October 30, 2025 • 37 mins
It’s Becca’s birthday!!! We’re celebrating with some fun and games, including a round of “Becca Trillvia”! Some secret info gets revealed that leaves Tanya SHOCKED.
We answer some Dear Banyas, and a fiercely competitive round of the Birthday Game has us on the edge of our seats!
Happy Birthday Becca!! We love you!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
But we're not just scrubbing in because it's Becca Tilly's bird.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Speech.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Speech, speech speech, I'm thirty seven.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Wait, do you want to open your cupcakes? Maybe put
some frosting on your nose.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
I don't need to do that, but thank you. Tanya
brought me a bunch of hefty amount of mini cupcakes.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I wanted to get thirty seven. But that is felt silly.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
That feels Oh that feels excessive. Yeah, how many is
this twenty four?
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
That feels perfect. Yeah that's the age I feel mentally. Yeah, physically, yeah,
thirty seven. I'm excited. I'm excited to be here. Another
year of life with the people I love, Phoebe and
just more things look forward to.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
What do you want to bring in for this new
year of life?
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Mmm? I would say my focus this year is going
to be I want to be better at making decisions. Oh,
explain well, I'm just thinking like if we're getting like eventually,
I'm sure this year will be the year that we
start wedding planning and I want to like be in
(01:25):
a headspace of saying what I want. And you're good
at that. Now, that's so funny. Someone said that to
me the other day and I don't, Oh, that was
you Mark. He asked if I had an opinion on
a chair situation or something, and I was like, I
don't care. I just want to if I don't, I
genuinely really don't care about a lot of decisions that
(01:45):
are day to day stuff, but I want to if
I do care, I want to let myself care without
feeling that I'm doing something wrong by caring, if that
makes sense, Like being assertive and what I want, Like
you want your dress shorterer, I'm gonna say I want
If I want my dress shorder him shorter, I'm gonna
say I want my dress him shorter.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Yeah, I mean, don't get me wrock for my wedding.
I was very vocal.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Yeah, Glinda and the wedding are different. But I was
just saying I want to be and I also want
to be just like I want to have like peace,
and I want my relationships to have just a lot
of love and joy and like put time and care
into the relationships that I have. That's what I want
(02:28):
to focus on.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Okay, what do you want to leave behind?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Mm? I don't know. I'll think about it.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Yeah, I didn't know. I was doing like a soul
searching episode Today's. I wasn't prepared.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
No, you don't know what I'm gonna throw at you.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
No, no, no.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
So yeah, wedding planning in twenty twenty six, Well.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I'm sure. I'm sure we'll start like, well, at least
have to start thinking about location and stuff, because I
you have to book that so far in advance.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
You really don't.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Oh really, I mean that's what everybody says. You have
did a year out?
Speaker 3 (03:06):
We did it five months before.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yeah, well yeah you did do it pretty so stressful
for you. Let's I don't want to be stressed doing
I want to be as least.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Stressed months having that window and trying to choose this one,
then that one was looking rocky for a second. You're
looking at Plan B like that was a stressful time. Yeah,
a year out, I feel.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Like it's gonna be a little more chill.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Yeah. I saw someone say, like, just go ahead, make
all the decisions, as many decisions as you can. Ride
off the bat and that way, when it gets closer
to the date, you're not scrambling trying to figure out
like last minute details that really aren't, you know, like
the cutlery and stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
And I also feel like go with your gut is
like the biggest best advice because we went we the
hotel that we got married at, Suscros. After we visited it,
we both robbing and I were like, this feels so us.
Like this, this just felt every part about it, every
spot felt like it was us what we wanted. And
yet we still planned a whole weekend to like tour
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other venues. And I feel like, not that it was
a waste, because it was still like fun, but I'm like,
I we knew in our gut that like that was
the ones. I feel like, if you feel it in
your gut, like, listen to that, don't try to challenge it.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I think you listen to it, but then you allowed
yourself to have other options, so you weren't going what if.
I think, that's fine?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Yeah, what you've got telling you now?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I literally haven't checked in with her to see I
think I think, what do you think everyone thinks? Hawaii? Yeah,
so predictable, might need to go, might need to pivot
just because everyone thinks it's gonna be St.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Paul, Minnesota, really keeping guessing?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Yeah, so well, the the decision will be like where
what do we want the backdrop to be? Do we
want it to be ocean? And we wanted to be
trees and mountains? You know, So that's really what it's
gonna come down to, and then trying to find a
place that matches that vibe, which Hawaii does have all
those things.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Did you do La? Could you see yourself getting married?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
No? No? Really really? Shall we play games or something? Well?
Speaker 1 (05:15):
I have a couple of things. I have a celebrity
birthday game that's specific to today your birthday. And I
also put together some Becca Tilly trivia which we call
Beka tilvia. Wow, that and Tanya could play to see
who knows you better? I assume Tanya does, but you
never know.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Wow, let's do that.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Let's do let's play that game, because then I always
look like such.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
A Let's do Let's do one game now and then
maybe at dear Bonia and then another game.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Great, okay, let's start with the trivia.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
You'll be fine.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
You answers already that would have been that would.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
Shashu?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Should we give Easton first guests on these and then
you can clarify if he gets it wrong or vice versa,
or just yell it out. I just yelled at, yelled out, Hey,
Becca Tilly was originally on? Which season of The Bachelor? Numerically?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (06:09):
Oh god? Which season? Was it?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Twenty one Easton twenty two nineteen? The answer, so we
give it to Tanya because she was closest.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
No one, Okay, nobody got that right. You don't get
a point if you don't get.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
A round fair enough? Zero?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Is that? Honestly? Both of you should have known.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
All right?
Speaker 2 (06:31):
I was on so I it was Chrysals, Yeah, nineteen
season twenty.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
All right, how tall is Becca? In inches?
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Five?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
It's correct, It's not an inches, but that's correct. In
what city was Becca born? Now this one may have
changed because I was an older website. So you can
tell us the answer. How many tattoos does Becca here?
Speaker 5 (06:58):
Zero?
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Well, so I don't. I don't have anybody. I mean
I technically had two. They had faded, faded, moved, No
I had they were like, uh, they were called like
flesh tone colors or something, and then they like in
the sun and stuff. They just eventually faded of. I'm
(07:20):
so shocked. I never knew this. Wow. I had a
little tiny Jesus fish that was like.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Literally this big and right there on your wrist.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Wrist, and then I had a uh, it looked like
I took lipstick and kissed my wrist right here, so
it was like a lipstick kissing prend.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Yeah, yeah, wow it was. And then my sister and
I got it.
Speaker 5 (07:46):
That's cute.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
It's gone. My eyebrowser technically tattooed. Yeah there, that's what
I can still say too. I've talked about this before.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Your tattoos a plenty.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yeah. No, I'm not disappearing. I never know you have.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Jesus fish tattoo on your What is this part of your.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Rest risk innerest interest?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Yeah, just a reminder. I can't say that you you
could for a long time, you could see it, but
it's fully gone.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Here's a couple more from the questionnaire Becca filled out
when she did the Bachelor. Name any of the four
things Becca lifted on her Bachelor questionnaire as things she
can't live without.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Jesus, wrong, TV, her family, family.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
No, TV's family, Yes, TV. I'm going to give it
to you. She said Netflix, I'm going to give you
that one.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
What questionnaire is this?
Speaker 4 (08:46):
So?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
I guess it was five things. There's five things on you.
You got one, you got you got family, and you
got Netflix.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
So we can just keep going.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Sleep not on there, Taylor Swift.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
Not on there?
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Talk about no no, no, food is food is one
of them, which, by the way, she literally can't live.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
Yeah, water, sleep, I'm what.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
This questionnaire is? I have no memory of this.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
And then she also said friends not to the TV
show like and Wi Fi? Simple, simple, gal, you said that?
All right, well here's the last one. But you may
not even know this one yourself. On that same questionnaire,
what animal did Becka say she would like to be? Oh?
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Dolphin?
Speaker 1 (09:33):
Yeah, you know Becca bass All.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
I was playing. I was like, what did I say? Why?
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Fire?
Speaker 2 (09:42):
So? Why my Netflix? Are really strange?
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Food? Family, Friends, Wi Fi?
Speaker 5 (09:47):
Netflix?
Speaker 4 (09:47):
I can we haven't done this before. This is such
a fun idea.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
Yeah, and I can't believe Jesus wasn't on there.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
It's just a given. I didn't need to put it
on the questionnaire, right.
Speaker 5 (09:59):
That's what he came.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Yeah, Wow, that was interesting. I wonder how I wonder
if that was for.
Speaker 5 (10:08):
What?
Speaker 2 (10:08):
What was it? Does it say the source of what
that's wrong?
Speaker 5 (10:11):
Well?
Speaker 1 (10:12):
I think doesn't everyone have to do that when you
go on The Bachelor?
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Yeah, but I don't know if it's public knowledge. Did
that get.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
It's on Bachelor Nation wiki?
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Oh? Wow?
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Maybe they did and it was from ABC?
Speaker 5 (10:24):
Do they got it from ABC dot com?
Speaker 2 (10:25):
Oh? They probably used it as like you know when
they do the people's bios and stuff. But how uninteresting
that they use.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
Well, so let's keep going since now you don't know.
Speaker 5 (10:36):
So your biggest.
Speaker 4 (10:37):
Date fear rejection?
Speaker 5 (10:40):
Nope?
Speaker 1 (10:42):
What did you put for that? One?
Speaker 3 (10:43):
Bad kiss?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Her?
Speaker 5 (10:45):
No?
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Being stood up?
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Nope, it's more it's very specific and something happening to her.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
Nope, something happening, smelly breath, gas, spilling something on yourself?
Speaker 1 (11:03):
No, time is getting real warm though?
Speaker 5 (11:05):
Oh a book is it?
Speaker 1 (11:09):
No?
Speaker 5 (11:10):
No?
Speaker 3 (11:10):
No, a fly down her? Fly down?
Speaker 5 (11:13):
No? What did you say for that? You're getting warmer?
Speaker 3 (11:17):
Bad breath?
Speaker 5 (11:18):
No, it wasn't that wasn't.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
It bad breath? That wasn't it something in her teeth?
Speaker 5 (11:21):
Nope? Her biggest state fear?
Speaker 1 (11:23):
You said gas and that's getting starting. Okay, here's what
she said ready back at having stomach issues and clog
up clogging up a toilet like dumb and Dumber?
Speaker 2 (11:33):
What did I write this? This is so crazy?
Speaker 3 (11:41):
The call back to dumb and Dumber.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Is really like that scene, and then the along came
poly scene like really stuck with me as scenario.
Speaker 5 (11:50):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
By the way, the reason you wanted to be a
dolphin was they're beautiful and supposedly use twenty percent of
their brains.
Speaker 5 (11:56):
Brilliant.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Who is this? I mean that's valid though.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
If you won the lottery?
Speaker 1 (12:06):
What would you do with your winnings buy a house?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Nope, I don't know, probably something complication by my family,
a house or something.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
I think we've got enough of it here. I would
give a large portion to my family and then travel.
Exclamation point.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
I still.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Oh, you have several most embarrassing moments you shared with
the nice folks at ABC. Can you name any of those?
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Was one of them burping in church?
Speaker 5 (12:33):
No? The list.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
You say you have several, but really you only listed
one one.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
What did I list? Oh? My god, this is crazy.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
Once I was getting gas, is that ring any bells?
Speaker 2 (12:50):
No?
Speaker 1 (12:51):
And the guy asked what kind of gas would you like?
And I thought he said, what kind of guys do
you like? So I responded to all dark and handsome,
and he just stared at me and repeated the question.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
This is so weird.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
I feel like that never happened to you.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
That does actually sound from but I'm just saying like that.
That's my most embarrassing moment that I'm.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
Wow, you know, a simple Wi Fi Netflix friends.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
Are Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
One more from the questionnaire, what is your greatest achievement
to date at that point?
Speaker 5 (13:31):
And you said.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Being an aunt?
Speaker 1 (13:39):
No, no, any guesses the question the greatest achievement.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Getting to the show. Greatest graduated.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Staying in California and living alone when my sister and
brother in law went back home.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
I was very proud of that because the I would
have had a very It was hard and I think
I I at that point, had never done anything that
was super independent on my own, So I think that
was a big deal because I had to just like
live with people that I didn't know very well and
figure it out and it was I felt very proud
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of that.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Yeah, I should have guessed that all right.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
So they could. I couldn't have even guessed this myself.
Those are challenging, I feel like I was listening to
a stranger cog. That's craz That was weird to think
about it.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
You were how old when she was feeling when you
were feeling that out twenty twenty five?
Speaker 5 (14:38):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (14:38):
Yeah, I was like a totally different person at twenty five.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Yeah that was twelve years ago.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
You know where they say every seven years, like every
cell in your body has regenerated, so you like biologically
are a different person.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
I'm nearly two different people. That is crazy. It is
so funny. You know when people are like, oh you've changed,
it's like thank god, like same. I'm glad to hear that.
Glad I haven't stayed the same in every way. Wow,
that was fascinating.
Speaker 5 (15:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
Okay, shall we take a break and do it, dear Bonia.
Let's do it here and there. All right, we are
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back with some dear.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Bonya Jordans, says hi Becca easton Marcantania. Sorry, Tanya, I
am new to dating women, and I need some help
for context. I'm a twenty five year old woman and
I've known I've had an interest in women for years.
Last year I took the leap and officially started going
on dates with them. I'm so used to dating guys
and following the typical dating rules, like the guy paying
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for dates or opening car doors or leaning in for
the first came when dating women, how do you know
who does what? I feel like there's been several dates
that have been awkward in these normal dating situations. I've
been on two dates with a girl recently, and I
think we're both too scared to initiate the first kiss.
Speaker 5 (16:12):
Help.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
I love this podcast so much, so thank you for
being amazing. Love you all, Jordan.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
It's so funny.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
I'm curious this too.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
To be honest, I my whole thing is, I'm so
limited on my experience because I Haley's the only person
I've been I didn't even go on dates. I didn't
have like the typical dating experience in terms of but.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
You still were dating her early on.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
I know, but I'm saying, like I it wasn't I
was going on dates and like meeting different women and
then not knowing how to handle it. But it's funny
because my whole life I was very much a gender
role specific of like the guy does this, you don't
like I don't do this because that's a guy's role,
and there was almost something so freeing for me. I
think when I started dating Haley that I was like, Oh,
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I can do what I want, Like I can make
the first move or I can buy her flowers without
having to feel like there was this like gender role assignment,
which I don't like anyways. And I think you just
go for what you feel because even when there's two
like let's say this email is coming from someone who
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is dating guys. If she was scared to ask him
out or scared to make a first move, but she
could feel that there was chemistry there, what would we say.
We would be like, just go for it. What's the
worst that could happen there's no chemistry or it doesn't
work out, then you move on. You know, you've only
been on two dates. So if you're feeling it and
it's what you want to do, I say, just go
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for it and don't get in your head so much
about the role of what of which things someone's supposed
to do? You know, Yeah, I feel like you would
thrive dating women in your modern woman the sense, like
you would just be like I think.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
I thrived up dating men in my modern woman's sense,
like I always just did what I wanted. I was
never shy about anything like if I wanted to initiate
the first kiss, if I want to say I love
you first, like I just did it.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
And my thing with the anything that's like a gender role,
which I assume would be like paying for a day,
who pays on days, who opens the door. I always
was just like I'm gonna do what I would want
someone to do for me, regardless of if a man
or woman. So I in certain ways like Haley courts
me and in other ways I court Hailey. Like there's
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just it was never this like specific role that one
of us was a sign we I always say when
it comes to like stuff at the house, trash, she
always is like, I'll do the trash, like take out
the trash, and I'm like, yeah, that's a man's job.
I don't do that, but that's trash too.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
We actually don't have those at all with either. Yeah,
he cook's eye clean. We both take out the trash
and it's full. Like there's a couple of things that
like are a little bit more like Tanya primary versus
like Robbie primary, Like I'm not going to be like
fixing like knobs and stuff their skills like that was
just yeah, like that he enjoys doing that. I enjoy
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doing laundry, you know. So it's just kind of we
just like shifted into those roles.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
That's how we are. It's like, what where do you?
What are the things that you enjoy more? What are
the things I enjoy more? We have to get certain
things done, so we both do them. So it's not
really gender. It's not a specific thing as as much
as it is just a personality type thing. So I
would just kind of try to let go of those
thoughts and traditions of what things are supposed to be
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and just lean into the fact that you're spending time
with someone that you enjoy enough to go on another
date with, and that you have interest in kissing, and
if you want to kiss her, then kiss her.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Excellent advice. I want to read this one from anonymous,
although she points out her pronouns or she her, which
I appreciate.
Speaker 5 (19:51):
That's helpful.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Thank you, beca how appropriate for today? Hello Becka Easton
Marcantania point on, thank you for such a wonderful podcast.
The truly is hard to be in a bad mood
when listening to your episodes. I listened attentively to all
the Dear Bonya episodes, and it's almost always a treat
when it feels like the advice applies to me. I
say almost always, because sometimes the advice is a little
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too good and it makes me realize I have to
do something hard that I don't want to do. Case
in point, I've known I'm queer for a while, but
haven't told my parents because it didn't feel like I
had to. I didn't really talk to them about my
dating life anyway, but that changed when I had a
couple of conversations about transgender people with my dad that
were really painful for me. I feel passionately in solidarity
with trans folks in their struggles to live without oppression.
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There's a reason that all the parts of LGBTQ plus
are under the same umbrella. Since I'd had these conversations
with my dad where he doubted trans people's needs, I
felt really uncomfortable being around him, which was super sad
for me because he and I are pretty close. I'd
always get upset having the conversations, but didn't want to
tell him why.
Speaker 5 (20:52):
It was so personal to me.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
It felt like I'd be handing over my agency to him,
since I wanted to tell my parents I was queer
under celebratory, not painful circumstances. But as the months wore
on and so did my resentment, I realized they had
to take Becca's advice and stride. The sooner you tell
your loved ones who you are, the sooner the healing
process can start. Yesterday I called my dad and told
him that I'm queer and that the conversations we had
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about trans people made me uncomfortable around him. I had
jotted down some notes to myself to help me get
through the call, and one of them said, Becca Tilly
says that the sooner you do it, the sooner you
start the healing process. Thankfully, he responded really well, with
lots of apologies and love. I told my mom a
few months ago, so they both know now. Thank you
so much, Beca, for being so open about the hard
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parts of family relationships and forgiving me the courage I
needed to reach out a hand in mind, in mind,
and thank you all for being so caring and for
putting wise words out into the ether where they find
folks who need to hear them. Ah, My love, A
grateful scrubber.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Man I'm so happy that you. To me, that's so
brave to have a hard conversation like that kind of
hear the truth of where your dad stood with you know,
trans people, and being able to also not only share
the such a huge part of who you are, but
also acknowledge that what he said hurt you like that
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shows the relationship that you have with your family. And
obviously what a way he responded, I know, beyond like
I know that that we shouldn't be impressed by the
bare minimum, but for him to acknowledge his part in
hurting you and and also accepting you is such a
honestly rare gift that a lot of people don't have.
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So I'm so happy it went well. And I'm so
proud of you because you not only shared something very
personal and such a big part of yourself, but you
also held him accountable and hopefully moving forward there's more
openness and being able to share the reasons why you
stand for what you stand for. And I am just
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so incredibly proud of you, and I'm so honored that
I had anything to do with that.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
Yeah, that was such a beautiful story, like bottom middle end,
I know, just like yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
And hopeful and it makes you, I think.
Speaker 6 (23:09):
It like you do something so scary and it turned
out so well, I know, and now you don't have
to tiptoe around or feel like you're walking on eggshells
around you know, your parents.
Speaker 3 (23:20):
And I feel like a lot of people keep stuff
in because they're scared of like the responds and this
response was so great.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
Yeah, there are so many people who just get influenced
by media, podcasts, friends, relatives, whoever it is, and they
develop these feelings about trans people, are gay people, or
whatever it is. But then when it happens in their family,
when it's their child, their grandchild, everything changes and they realize,
you know what.
Speaker 5 (23:45):
It's not a big deal.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
I wish everybody could imagine what it would be like
for it to be in their family, because then maybe
they wouldn't have these feelings to begin with. But some
people have the journey they have to go on. So
I think you have to give people grace.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
And unfortunately, sometimes it doesn't change anything, you know, And
that's the truth. And I think that when you choose
to share these things, like for anyone who's listening who
thinks like that might not be my story, that's okay,
and you still you should do it when you're ready
and you are prepared for all outcomes, because sometimes it
doesn't go as smooth and they're not as accepting. But
(24:20):
I think that there's so much beauty and just being
able to share it with you and at least at
the very least it makes them think. It makes them think, Yeah,
it might not change anything, it might not go in
the direction you hope for, but it puts like a
little rock in their shoe where they will think about
it differently because it's someone that they love. So thank
you Anonymous for sharing that was really really special. We
(24:43):
love you, we love you. I'm proud of you, and
we love you and I love you. Okay, we will
be back with Tanya's favorite game, Yes, the birthday game
that she rarely wins but loves to play. Anyway, that
story all right, we are back with another game.
Speaker 5 (25:18):
Well, a couple.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
Would you rather before we play the game back? Would
you rather open presence in front of everyone or have
to make a speech at your party?
Speaker 3 (25:28):
Speech?
Speaker 2 (25:28):
I think speech.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Would you rather get a surprise appearance from Taylor Swift
or a heartfelt handwritten letter from Haley.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
Like for my birthday, a surprise appearance from Taylor Swift.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
The sheer length that took you to answer that is disturbing.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
Would you rather have your friends roast you or give
you a sappy tribute?
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Roast? Woo?
Speaker 1 (25:57):
I probably roast is fun in the the first couple
of jokes I have being like.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
I want to Yeah, they could go a little too.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Yeah. Would you rather have to eat only cake all
day on your birthday?
Speaker 5 (26:09):
Or not be allowed to eat cake at all?
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Do you have other sweets? Can I have other sets? No?
Speaker 3 (26:15):
It's either all cake all day or no cake at all?
Speaker 1 (26:18):
No sweets, you think because you have pie, because candy.
Speaker 5 (26:23):
Donut?
Speaker 2 (26:24):
If I can have other sweets, I'll say no cake
at all?
Speaker 5 (26:26):
All right?
Speaker 1 (26:27):
And would you rather have a birthday dinner with your
younger self or your eighty.
Speaker 5 (26:31):
Year old self?
Speaker 2 (26:35):
My younger self?
Speaker 5 (26:38):
To give her advice?
Speaker 2 (26:40):
Just to have a chit chat with her little shot
investment tips? Yeah, I just yeah, some investment tips and
just to really think about her answers and the questionnaire
for ABC.
Speaker 4 (26:55):
Some castide people are gonna ask you some questions.
Speaker 5 (26:57):
Think about that.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
Yeah, just give some better answers, all right?
Speaker 1 (27:01):
Here we go a birthday game, so I limited it
to today and then time you got mad. So we're
gonna do the whole weekend. Here we go, Bay, how
old turning?
Speaker 5 (27:10):
Today?
Speaker 1 (27:10):
It's this we're starting with huh.
Speaker 5 (27:12):
Always start with you.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
Here.
Speaker 5 (27:14):
We're gonna tell you.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
Becky Easton, all right, Matthew Morrison from Glee, Matthew.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
Morrison is the same birthdays, same.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Birthday as you. Congratulations?
Speaker 5 (27:24):
How old is he today?
Speaker 3 (27:25):
Forty eight? Today?
Speaker 1 (27:26):
He's not Becca?
Speaker 2 (27:28):
Oh he? I think he's probably forty four.
Speaker 5 (27:31):
Forty four Easton?
Speaker 4 (27:33):
He is forty three?
Speaker 1 (27:34):
Is forty seven? That's the point for Tommy.
Speaker 2 (27:37):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (27:38):
I was gonna say forty seven, wow, and then I
thought she's a little older.
Speaker 1 (27:43):
How about Janelle Parish? Remember Janelle Parish? Pretty little liar's
got to seek great God to keep bat.
Speaker 5 (27:49):
How old is she? Thirty?
Speaker 2 (27:50):
Guy?
Speaker 5 (27:52):
Becca?
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Thirty eight, thirty eight?
Speaker 4 (27:57):
Easton thirty seven.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
Years thirty seven?
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Very nice.
Speaker 3 (28:04):
I would have said thirty nine. Anyway, No, we heard.
Speaker 5 (28:08):
Easton?
Speaker 1 (28:08):
How old? It's Henry Winkler today. He was the Fox,
he was in Barry, he was in lots of fun stuff.
Speaker 4 (28:16):
Henry Winkler is.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Seventy five, Okay, Tanya seventy nine, Becca.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
Eighty one.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
He is eighty today. I have to give it to
Tanya because she went.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
Over who was losing? Oh oh, I see, I'll.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
Only enforced the going over prices right role in the
case of a time. Gavin Rossdale from Bush. This is yours,
Tanya Gavin Rossdale formally married to Gwen Stefani. How old
is he today?
Speaker 3 (28:52):
Fifty four?
Speaker 1 (28:54):
Becca fifty six? Easton fifty five sixty that's a that's
the point right there.
Speaker 3 (29:01):
Oh my god, although I don't like him.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
Yeah, nanny issues there. Birthday final one from today and
then we move on to tomorrow. Model Ashley Graham. Ashley
Graham's been on our show. I do believe, yes, not
me this Easton? No, this is yeah, this is Becca Yeah,
Ashley Graham.
Speaker 2 (29:19):
Yep, Ashley Graham is she's probably yeah, she's I'm gonna
go forty one.
Speaker 5 (29:25):
Forty one Easton.
Speaker 4 (29:27):
Uh, I think she's younger than me. Oh so that
makes her thirty four Tanya.
Speaker 3 (29:35):
I'm gonna guess thirty five.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
She is thirty eight today. Oh my god, what did
you say? Forty forty one and Houston thirty five. So
with the tie and Tanya went under Oh wow, Tanya
three Becca one Easton one, as we go to tomorrow's birthday.
Tomorrow is Willow Smith's birthday?
Speaker 5 (29:53):
Easton?
Speaker 1 (29:54):
How old is Willow Smith?
Speaker 5 (29:55):
Tomorrow?
Speaker 1 (29:55):
Will Smith is twenty two? Okay, Tanya, this is tough.
Speaker 2 (30:04):
Twenty four Becca twenty.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Three, twenty five is running away with this one. Yeah,
it's not over yet. Do I have a lot of
four to one to one tough to be? Well, we'll
see Becca vanilla Ice has a birthday tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
He sure does.
Speaker 1 (30:24):
Rolling It is five point zero with the top wreck
top down so his hair can blow.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
Yeah, that's what I was thinking about. I'm gonna say
fifty six.
Speaker 5 (30:39):
He's not fifty six Easton.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
Uh, he is fifty one, okay, Tanya, noa, that's the one.
Speaker 3 (30:48):
I'm gonna say forty nine.
Speaker 1 (30:49):
He's fifty eight point with Becca, and I feel like
a comeback is starting. Wow Easton too one two three
one two three, Uh, this is Becca's I just went
you did Easton Dermott mulroney.
Speaker 4 (31:02):
Who's that remember of Hunting Wives?
Speaker 1 (31:05):
Hunting Wives my best friend's wedding?
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Oh yeah, Dermott.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
He was in Must Love Dogs. Yeah, you know him.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
From the main guy from my best friend's wedding.
Speaker 5 (31:14):
He's the guy. Yeah, the other one, the.
Speaker 3 (31:17):
One who's getting married, the one who's best friend. He's
Julie Roberts's best friend. Yes, okay, got it.
Speaker 1 (31:22):
How old is he?
Speaker 5 (31:22):
Easton?
Speaker 4 (31:23):
Let's see, and if you're my mom, he is not
Benjamin Bratt. We are getting to a lot of our
Dermott mulroney is sixty four.
Speaker 1 (31:33):
Sixty four, Tanya sixty one, Becca fifty nine, sixty two. Tanya, yay,
that maybe the dagger, but we'll keep going. Tanya, Penn badgely.
Speaker 5 (31:47):
Star of you.
Speaker 3 (31:49):
He's thirty eight.
Speaker 5 (31:49):
He's thirty eight.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
Becca thirty nine.
Speaker 5 (31:56):
He is thirty nine.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
Very nice.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Easton, No wait, I'm all confected. Who Becky Jenny McCarthy
on Saturday has a birthday?
Speaker 5 (32:06):
How old is she turning?
Speaker 2 (32:08):
Jenny McCarthy, she's.
Speaker 1 (32:14):
Forty eight, forty eight. Easton, she's fifty two, all right, Tanya,
fifty fifty three.
Speaker 5 (32:22):
That's the point for Easton, Thank god. Easton.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
How about Tim Cook, the CEO of Apple Apple CEO,
Tim Cook.
Speaker 2 (32:32):
We have any visuals he's about to step down. Give
me a friend.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
He's a major deal in this world. Yes, alright, I'm
giving you a photo of Tim Cook.
Speaker 5 (32:43):
All right, there he is, that's Tim Cook right there?
Speaker 2 (32:46):
Oh yeah, all right?
Speaker 1 (32:47):
How old is Tim Cook?
Speaker 4 (32:49):
Tim Cook? Tim Cook is? He is a sixty eight?
Speaker 2 (32:56):
Okay, Tanya seventy five, Becca sixty five.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
He's sixty five.
Speaker 5 (33:04):
Now and we have a game.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
Kanya has five, Becca has four, Easton has twos.
Speaker 5 (33:11):
I'm telling you it's gonna be closed. Now.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
We go to I don't know who do we go
doing this?
Speaker 2 (33:15):
One? Know me?
Speaker 1 (33:17):
Tanya on Sunday? It is David Schwimmer's birthday. How old
is David Schwimmer?
Speaker 3 (33:25):
Fifty four?
Speaker 5 (33:26):
She says, fifty four. We go to Becca fifty two,
fifty two and Easton fifty six.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
He's fifty nine. That's the point for Easton. Rebecca is
still in this. I may need more names now, let's
just end it now. I think I'm going to have
one more here, and then I have to find another
one because then we're, you know, we have the three
with the rounds.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
I think everybody say, I ay.
Speaker 5 (33:57):
I mus stop the count all right?
Speaker 1 (33:59):
Beca Yeah, Nelly has a birthday of this weekend?
Speaker 5 (34:03):
Howel is Nelly?
Speaker 2 (34:07):
WHOA Nelly is fifty one.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
She's saying Nelly is fifty one and he is fifty one.
And it is now tied at five apiece, and I
have one more name for you, and this will be
the tiebreaker. I do a little obscure on this, but
I think this person might have been on our show.
So obscure Easton, you'll start on this one, okay, Paramo Brown,
Karama Brown, he has wey yep uh Karamo.
Speaker 4 (34:38):
Is he was just on? Are you Charlotte?
Speaker 1 (34:40):
Another will determine it right here, unless eastern winds, then
I might have to find another name.
Speaker 4 (34:44):
Karamo is uh Karama's forty.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
Nine, forty nine, all right, Tanya forty three, forty three,
Becca forty five.
Speaker 5 (34:57):
We have a winner.
Speaker 3 (34:58):
Who is it?
Speaker 1 (35:01):
Karama Brown on Sunday is turning forty four? Tie goes
to Tanya underneath and Kanya okay, Nail, that.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
Really was It was exciting.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
I'd like to thank my brain for being so honest
today and my guessing and my gut ability to go under,
to always go under.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
Yes, it's a good lesson in life. Always go under.
Speaker 1 (35:35):
Okay, stop, we have to stop. I made a mistake.
Speaker 2 (35:39):
But what how old is he?
Speaker 5 (35:42):
I'm sorry, forty five.
Speaker 1 (35:44):
Yes, he's thirty forty five.
Speaker 5 (35:46):
Becca is actually the winner. I'm sorry. I'll explain.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
On this website it says their current age, so it
lift says Karamo Brown forty four.
Speaker 5 (35:55):
I forgot to add the woman. He's turning forty.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
Five on Sunday. So Becca got it exactly. You're right,
and she on her birthday has won the celebrity birthday
and that comeback of the year.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
I would like to think Mark stupid.
Speaker 5 (36:13):
La Land of the birthday game.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
That was the best gift to add.
Speaker 1 (36:21):
Shoot, dang, I apologize. It was an honest mistake. I
do that a lot. I just gotta add one, so
it's one.
Speaker 2 (36:30):
More the chances. Thank you everyone.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
I never forget this moment.
Speaker 3 (36:39):
I was writing such a high I'm gonna to make
so many decisions today. My gut is good, like but.
Speaker 5 (36:45):
It's be his birthday.
Speaker 1 (36:46):
You gotta be happy for her.
Speaker 3 (36:50):
Not okay, I gotta go.
Speaker 2 (36:54):
She's mad. Her life. Advice is still always going on.
Always go under, but you might lose if you do that.
Speaker 3 (37:02):
Sometimes you gotta go over.
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Yeah, all right, everybody, Well, thank you for the birthday celebration.
Thank you for the victory. Thanks for the weird questionnaire
that I have in the past. That was good and
I love you all.
Speaker 3 (37:18):
Happy, happy birthday, Happy
Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
But we're not just scrubbing in because it's Becca Tilly's bird.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Speech.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Speech, speech speech, I'm thirty seven.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Wait, do you want to open your cupcakes? Maybe put
some frosting on your nose.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
I don't need to do that, but thank you. Tanya
brought me a bunch of hefty amount of mini cupcakes.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I wanted to get thirty seven. But that is felt silly.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
That feels Oh that feels excessive. Yeah, how many is
this twenty four?
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:44):
That feels perfect. Yeah that's the age I feel mentally. Yeah, physically, yeah,
thirty seven. I'm excited. I'm excited to be here. Another
year of life with the people I love, Phoebe and
just more things look forward to.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
What do you want to bring in for this new
year of life?
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Mmm? I would say my focus this year is going
to be I want to be better at making decisions. Oh,
explain well, I'm just thinking like if we're getting like eventually,
I'm sure this year will be the year that we
start wedding planning and I want to like be in
(01:25):
a headspace of saying what I want. And you're good
at that. Now, that's so funny. Someone said that to
me the other day and I don't, Oh, that was
you Mark. He asked if I had an opinion on
a chair situation or something, and I was like, I
don't care. I just want to if I don't, I
genuinely really don't care about a lot of decisions that
(01:45):
are day to day stuff, but I want to if
I do care, I want to let myself care without
feeling that I'm doing something wrong by caring, if that
makes sense, Like being assertive and what I want, Like
you want your dress shorterer, I'm gonna say I want
If I want my dress shorder him shorter, I'm gonna
say I want my dress him shorter.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Yeah, I mean, don't get me wrock for my wedding.
I was very vocal.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Yeah, Glinda and the wedding are different. But I was
just saying I want to be and I also want
to be just like I want to have like peace,
and I want my relationships to have just a lot
of love and joy and like put time and care
into the relationships that I have. That's what I want
(02:28):
to focus on.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Okay, what do you want to leave behind?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Mm? I don't know. I'll think about it.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Yeah, I didn't know. I was doing like a soul
searching episode Today's. I wasn't prepared.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
No, you don't know what I'm gonna throw at you.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
No, no, no.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
So yeah, wedding planning in twenty twenty six, Well.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I'm sure. I'm sure we'll start like, well, at least
have to start thinking about location and stuff, because I
you have to book that so far in advance.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
You really don't.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Oh really, I mean that's what everybody says. You have
did a year out?
Speaker 3 (03:06):
We did it five months before.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yeah, well yeah you did do it pretty so stressful
for you. Let's I don't want to be stressed doing
I want to be as least.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Stressed months having that window and trying to choose this one,
then that one was looking rocky for a second. You're
looking at Plan B like that was a stressful time. Yeah,
a year out, I feel.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Like it's gonna be a little more chill.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Yeah. I saw someone say, like, just go ahead, make
all the decisions, as many decisions as you can. Ride
off the bat and that way, when it gets closer
to the date, you're not scrambling trying to figure out
like last minute details that really aren't, you know, like
the cutlery and stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
And I also feel like go with your gut is
like the biggest best advice because we went we the
hotel that we got married at, Suscros. After we visited it,
we both robbing and I were like, this feels so us.
Like this, this just felt every part about it, every
spot felt like it was us what we wanted. And
yet we still planned a whole weekend to like tour
(04:05):
other venues. And I feel like, not that it was
a waste, because it was still like fun, but I'm like,
I we knew in our gut that like that was
the ones. I feel like, if you feel it in
your gut, like, listen to that, don't try to challenge it.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I think you listen to it, but then you allowed
yourself to have other options, so you weren't going what if.
I think, that's fine?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Yeah, what you've got telling you now?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I literally haven't checked in with her to see I
think I think, what do you think everyone thinks? Hawaii? Yeah,
so predictable, might need to go, might need to pivot
just because everyone thinks it's gonna be St.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Paul, Minnesota, really keeping guessing?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Yeah, so well, the the decision will be like where
what do we want the backdrop to be? Do we
want it to be ocean? And we wanted to be
trees and mountains? You know, So that's really what it's
gonna come down to, and then trying to find a
place that matches that vibe, which Hawaii does have all
those things.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Did you do La? Could you see yourself getting married?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
No? No? Really really? Shall we play games or something? Well?
Speaker 1 (05:15):
I have a couple of things. I have a celebrity
birthday game that's specific to today your birthday. And I
also put together some Becca Tilly trivia which we call
Beka tilvia. Wow, that and Tanya could play to see
who knows you better? I assume Tanya does, but you
never know.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Wow, let's do that.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Let's do let's play that game, because then I always
look like such.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
A Let's do Let's do one game now and then
maybe at dear Bonia and then another game.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Great, okay, let's start with the trivia.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
You'll be fine.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
You answers already that would have been that would.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
Shashu?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Should we give Easton first guests on these and then
you can clarify if he gets it wrong or vice versa,
or just yell it out. I just yelled at, yelled out, Hey,
Becca Tilly was originally on? Which season of The Bachelor? Numerically?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (06:09):
Oh god? Which season? Was it?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Twenty one Easton twenty two nineteen? The answer, so we
give it to Tanya because she was closest.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
No one, Okay, nobody got that right. You don't get
a point if you don't get.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
A round fair enough? Zero?
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Is that? Honestly? Both of you should have known.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
All right?
Speaker 2 (06:31):
I was on so I it was Chrysals, Yeah, nineteen
season twenty.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
All right, how tall is Becca? In inches?
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Five?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
It's correct, It's not an inches, but that's correct. In
what city was Becca born? Now this one may have
changed because I was an older website. So you can
tell us the answer. How many tattoos does Becca here?
Speaker 5 (06:58):
Zero?
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Well, so I don't. I don't have anybody. I mean
I technically had two. They had faded, faded, moved, No
I had they were like, uh, they were called like
flesh tone colors or something, and then they like in
the sun and stuff. They just eventually faded of. I'm
(07:20):
so shocked. I never knew this. Wow. I had a
little tiny Jesus fish that was like.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Literally this big and right there on your wrist.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Wrist, and then I had a uh, it looked like
I took lipstick and kissed my wrist right here, so
it was like a lipstick kissing prend.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Yeah, yeah, wow it was. And then my sister and
I got it.
Speaker 5 (07:46):
That's cute.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
It's gone. My eyebrowser technically tattooed. Yeah there, that's what
I can still say too. I've talked about this before.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Your tattoos a plenty.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yeah. No, I'm not disappearing. I never know you have.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Jesus fish tattoo on your What is this part of your.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Rest risk innerest interest?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Yeah, just a reminder. I can't say that you you
could for a long time, you could see it, but
it's fully gone.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
Here's a couple more from the questionnaire Becca filled out
when she did the Bachelor. Name any of the four
things Becca lifted on her Bachelor questionnaire as things she
can't live without.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Jesus, wrong, TV, her family, family.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
No, TV's family, Yes, TV. I'm going to give it
to you. She said Netflix, I'm going to give you
that one.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
What questionnaire is this?
Speaker 4 (08:46):
So?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
I guess it was five things. There's five things on you.
You got one, you got you got family, and you
got Netflix.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
So we can just keep going.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Sleep not on there, Taylor Swift.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
Not on there?
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Talk about no no, no, food is food is one
of them, which, by the way, she literally can't live.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
Yeah, water, sleep, I'm what.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
This questionnaire is? I have no memory of this.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
And then she also said friends not to the TV
show like and Wi Fi? Simple, simple, gal, you said that?
All right, well here's the last one. But you may
not even know this one yourself. On that same questionnaire,
what animal did Becka say she would like to be? Oh?
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Dolphin?
Speaker 1 (09:33):
Yeah, you know Becca bass All.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
I was playing. I was like, what did I say? Why?
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Fire?
Speaker 2 (09:42):
So? Why my Netflix? Are really strange?
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Food? Family, Friends, Wi Fi?
Speaker 5 (09:47):
Netflix?
Speaker 4 (09:47):
I can we haven't done this before. This is such
a fun idea.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
Yeah, and I can't believe Jesus wasn't on there.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
It's just a given. I didn't need to put it
on the questionnaire, right.
Speaker 5 (09:59):
That's what he came.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Yeah, Wow, that was interesting. I wonder how I wonder
if that was for.
Speaker 5 (10:08):
What?
Speaker 2 (10:08):
What was it? Does it say the source of what
that's wrong?
Speaker 5 (10:11):
Well?
Speaker 1 (10:12):
I think doesn't everyone have to do that when you
go on The Bachelor?
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Yeah, but I don't know if it's public knowledge. Did
that get.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
It's on Bachelor Nation wiki?
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Oh? Wow?
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Maybe they did and it was from ABC?
Speaker 5 (10:24):
Do they got it from ABC dot com?
Speaker 2 (10:25):
Oh? They probably used it as like you know when
they do the people's bios and stuff. But how uninteresting
that they use.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
Well, so let's keep going since now you don't know.
Speaker 5 (10:36):
So your biggest.
Speaker 4 (10:37):
Date fear rejection?
Speaker 5 (10:40):
Nope?
Speaker 1 (10:42):
What did you put for that? One?
Speaker 3 (10:43):
Bad kiss?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Her?
Speaker 5 (10:45):
No?
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Being stood up?
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Nope, it's more it's very specific and something happening to her.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
Nope, something happening, smelly breath, gas, spilling something on yourself?
Speaker 1 (11:03):
No, time is getting real warm though?
Speaker 5 (11:05):
Oh a book is it?
Speaker 1 (11:09):
No?
Speaker 5 (11:10):
No?
Speaker 3 (11:10):
No, a fly down her? Fly down?
Speaker 5 (11:13):
No? What did you say for that? You're getting warmer?
Speaker 3 (11:17):
Bad breath?
Speaker 5 (11:18):
No, it wasn't that wasn't.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
It bad breath? That wasn't it something in her teeth?
Speaker 5 (11:21):
Nope? Her biggest state fear?
Speaker 1 (11:23):
You said gas and that's getting starting. Okay, here's what
she said ready back at having stomach issues and clog
up clogging up a toilet like dumb and Dumber?
Speaker 2 (11:33):
What did I write this? This is so crazy?
Speaker 3 (11:41):
The call back to dumb and Dumber.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Is really like that scene, and then the along came
poly scene like really stuck with me as scenario.
Speaker 5 (11:50):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
By the way, the reason you wanted to be a
dolphin was they're beautiful and supposedly use twenty percent of
their brains.
Speaker 5 (11:56):
Brilliant.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Who is this? I mean that's valid though.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
If you won the lottery?
Speaker 1 (12:06):
What would you do with your winnings buy a house?
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Nope, I don't know, probably something complication by my family,
a house or something.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
I think we've got enough of it here. I would
give a large portion to my family and then travel.
Exclamation point.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
I still.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Oh, you have several most embarrassing moments you shared with
the nice folks at ABC. Can you name any of those?
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Was one of them burping in church?
Speaker 5 (12:33):
No? The list.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
You say you have several, but really you only listed
one one.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
What did I list? Oh? My god, this is crazy.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
Once I was getting gas, is that ring any bells?
Speaker 2 (12:50):
No?
Speaker 1 (12:51):
And the guy asked what kind of gas would you like?
And I thought he said, what kind of guys do
you like? So I responded to all dark and handsome,
and he just stared at me and repeated the question.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
This is so weird.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
I feel like that never happened to you.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
That does actually sound from but I'm just saying like that.
That's my most embarrassing moment that I'm.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
Wow, you know, a simple Wi Fi Netflix friends.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
Are Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
One more from the questionnaire, what is your greatest achievement
to date at that point?
Speaker 5 (13:31):
And you said.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Being an aunt?
Speaker 1 (13:39):
No, no, any guesses the question the greatest achievement.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Getting to the show. Greatest graduated.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Staying in California and living alone when my sister and
brother in law went back home.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
I was very proud of that because the I would
have had a very It was hard and I think
I I at that point, had never done anything that
was super independent on my own, So I think that
was a big deal because I had to just like
live with people that I didn't know very well and
figure it out and it was I felt very proud
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of that.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
Yeah, I should have guessed that all right.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
So they could. I couldn't have even guessed this myself.
Those are challenging, I feel like I was listening to
a stranger cog. That's craz That was weird to think
about it.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
You were how old when she was feeling when you
were feeling that out twenty twenty five?
Speaker 5 (14:38):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (14:38):
Yeah, I was like a totally different person at twenty five.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Yeah that was twelve years ago.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
You know where they say every seven years, like every
cell in your body has regenerated, so you like biologically
are a different person.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
I'm nearly two different people. That is crazy. It is
so funny. You know when people are like, oh you've changed,
it's like thank god, like same. I'm glad to hear that.
Glad I haven't stayed the same in every way. Wow,
that was fascinating.
Speaker 5 (15:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
Okay, shall we take a break and do it, dear Bonia.
Let's do it here and there. All right, we are
(15:35):
back with some dear.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Bonya Jordans, says hi Becca easton Marcantania. Sorry, Tanya, I
am new to dating women, and I need some help
for context. I'm a twenty five year old woman and
I've known I've had an interest in women for years.
Last year I took the leap and officially started going
on dates with them. I'm so used to dating guys
and following the typical dating rules, like the guy paying
(15:56):
for dates or opening car doors or leaning in for
the first came when dating women, how do you know
who does what? I feel like there's been several dates
that have been awkward in these normal dating situations. I've
been on two dates with a girl recently, and I
think we're both too scared to initiate the first kiss.
Speaker 5 (16:12):
Help.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
I love this podcast so much, so thank you for
being amazing. Love you all, Jordan.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
It's so funny.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
I'm curious this too.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
To be honest, I my whole thing is, I'm so
limited on my experience because I Haley's the only person
I've been I didn't even go on dates. I didn't
have like the typical dating experience in terms of but.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
You still were dating her early on.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
I know, but I'm saying, like I it wasn't I
was going on dates and like meeting different women and
then not knowing how to handle it. But it's funny
because my whole life I was very much a gender
role specific of like the guy does this, you don't
like I don't do this because that's a guy's role,
and there was almost something so freeing for me. I
think when I started dating Haley that I was like, Oh,
(16:58):
I can do what I want, Like I can make
the first move or I can buy her flowers without
having to feel like there was this like gender role assignment,
which I don't like anyways. And I think you just
go for what you feel because even when there's two
like let's say this email is coming from someone who
(17:19):
is dating guys. If she was scared to ask him
out or scared to make a first move, but she
could feel that there was chemistry there, what would we say.
We would be like, just go for it. What's the
worst that could happen there's no chemistry or it doesn't
work out, then you move on. You know, you've only
been on two dates. So if you're feeling it and
it's what you want to do, I say, just go
(17:40):
for it and don't get in your head so much
about the role of what of which things someone's supposed
to do? You know, Yeah, I feel like you would
thrive dating women in your modern woman the sense, like
you would just be like I think.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
I thrived up dating men in my modern woman's sense,
like I always just did what I wanted. I was
never shy about anything like if I wanted to initiate
the first kiss, if I want to say I love
you first, like I just did it.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
And my thing with the anything that's like a gender role,
which I assume would be like paying for a day,
who pays on days, who opens the door. I always
was just like I'm gonna do what I would want
someone to do for me, regardless of if a man
or woman. So I in certain ways like Haley courts
me and in other ways I court Hailey. Like there's
(18:27):
just it was never this like specific role that one
of us was a sign we I always say when
it comes to like stuff at the house, trash, she
always is like, I'll do the trash, like take out
the trash, and I'm like, yeah, that's a man's job.
I don't do that, but that's trash too.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
We actually don't have those at all with either. Yeah,
he cook's eye clean. We both take out the trash
and it's full. Like there's a couple of things that
like are a little bit more like Tanya primary versus
like Robbie primary, Like I'm not going to be like
fixing like knobs and stuff their skills like that was
just yeah, like that he enjoys doing that. I enjoy
(19:06):
doing laundry, you know. So it's just kind of we
just like shifted into those roles.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
That's how we are. It's like, what where do you?
What are the things that you enjoy more? What are
the things I enjoy more? We have to get certain
things done, so we both do them. So it's not
really gender. It's not a specific thing as as much
as it is just a personality type thing. So I
would just kind of try to let go of those
thoughts and traditions of what things are supposed to be
(19:33):
and just lean into the fact that you're spending time
with someone that you enjoy enough to go on another
date with, and that you have interest in kissing, and
if you want to kiss her, then kiss her.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Excellent advice. I want to read this one from anonymous,
although she points out her pronouns or she her, which
I appreciate.
Speaker 5 (19:51):
That's helpful.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Thank you, beca how appropriate for today? Hello Becka Easton
Marcantania point on, thank you for such a wonderful podcast.
The truly is hard to be in a bad mood
when listening to your episodes. I listened attentively to all
the Dear Bonya episodes, and it's almost always a treat
when it feels like the advice applies to me. I
say almost always, because sometimes the advice is a little
(20:13):
too good and it makes me realize I have to
do something hard that I don't want to do. Case
in point, I've known I'm queer for a while, but
haven't told my parents because it didn't feel like I
had to. I didn't really talk to them about my
dating life anyway, but that changed when I had a
couple of conversations about transgender people with my dad that
were really painful for me. I feel passionately in solidarity
with trans folks in their struggles to live without oppression.
(20:36):
There's a reason that all the parts of LGBTQ plus
are under the same umbrella. Since I'd had these conversations
with my dad where he doubted trans people's needs, I
felt really uncomfortable being around him, which was super sad
for me because he and I are pretty close. I'd
always get upset having the conversations, but didn't want to
tell him why.
Speaker 5 (20:52):
It was so personal to me.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
It felt like I'd be handing over my agency to him,
since I wanted to tell my parents I was queer
under celebratory, not painful circumstances. But as the months wore
on and so did my resentment, I realized they had
to take Becca's advice and stride. The sooner you tell
your loved ones who you are, the sooner the healing
process can start. Yesterday I called my dad and told
him that I'm queer and that the conversations we had
(21:16):
about trans people made me uncomfortable around him. I had
jotted down some notes to myself to help me get
through the call, and one of them said, Becca Tilly
says that the sooner you do it, the sooner you
start the healing process. Thankfully, he responded really well, with
lots of apologies and love. I told my mom a
few months ago, so they both know now. Thank you
so much, Beca, for being so open about the hard
(21:36):
parts of family relationships and forgiving me the courage I
needed to reach out a hand in mind, in mind,
and thank you all for being so caring and for
putting wise words out into the ether where they find
folks who need to hear them. Ah, My love, A
grateful scrubber.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Man I'm so happy that you. To me, that's so
brave to have a hard conversation like that kind of
hear the truth of where your dad stood with you know,
trans people, and being able to also not only share
the such a huge part of who you are, but
also acknowledge that what he said hurt you like that
(22:15):
shows the relationship that you have with your family. And
obviously what a way he responded, I know, beyond like
I know that that we shouldn't be impressed by the
bare minimum, but for him to acknowledge his part in
hurting you and and also accepting you is such a
honestly rare gift that a lot of people don't have.
(22:37):
So I'm so happy it went well. And I'm so
proud of you because you not only shared something very
personal and such a big part of yourself, but you
also held him accountable and hopefully moving forward there's more
openness and being able to share the reasons why you
stand for what you stand for. And I am just
(22:58):
so incredibly proud of you, and I'm so honored that
I had anything to do with that.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
Yeah, that was such a beautiful story, like bottom middle end,
I know, just like yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
And hopeful and it makes you, I think.
Speaker 6 (23:09):
It like you do something so scary and it turned
out so well, I know, and now you don't have
to tiptoe around or feel like you're walking on eggshells
around you know, your parents.
Speaker 3 (23:20):
And I feel like a lot of people keep stuff
in because they're scared of like the responds and this
response was so great.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
Yeah, there are so many people who just get influenced
by media, podcasts, friends, relatives, whoever it is, and they
develop these feelings about trans people, are gay people, or
whatever it is. But then when it happens in their family,
when it's their child, their grandchild, everything changes and they realize,
you know what.
Speaker 5 (23:45):
It's not a big deal.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
I wish everybody could imagine what it would be like
for it to be in their family, because then maybe
they wouldn't have these feelings to begin with. But some
people have the journey they have to go on. So
I think you have to give people grace.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
And unfortunately, sometimes it doesn't change anything, you know, And
that's the truth. And I think that when you choose
to share these things, like for anyone who's listening who
thinks like that might not be my story, that's okay,
and you still you should do it when you're ready
and you are prepared for all outcomes, because sometimes it
doesn't go as smooth and they're not as accepting. But
(24:20):
I think that there's so much beauty and just being
able to share it with you and at least at
the very least it makes them think. It makes them think, Yeah,
it might not change anything, it might not go in
the direction you hope for, but it puts like a
little rock in their shoe where they will think about
it differently because it's someone that they love. So thank
you Anonymous for sharing that was really really special. We
(24:43):
love you, we love you. I'm proud of you, and
we love you and I love you. Okay, we will
be back with Tanya's favorite game, Yes, the birthday game
that she rarely wins but loves to play. Anyway, that
story all right, we are back with another game.
Speaker 5 (25:18):
Well, a couple.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
Would you rather before we play the game back? Would
you rather open presence in front of everyone or have
to make a speech at your party?
Speaker 3 (25:28):
Speech?
Speaker 2 (25:28):
I think speech.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Would you rather get a surprise appearance from Taylor Swift
or a heartfelt handwritten letter from Haley.
Speaker 2 (25:39):
Like for my birthday, a surprise appearance from Taylor Swift.
Speaker 3 (25:44):
The sheer length that took you to answer that is disturbing.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
Would you rather have your friends roast you or give
you a sappy tribute?
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Roast? Woo?
Speaker 1 (25:57):
I probably roast is fun in the the first couple
of jokes I have being like.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
I want to Yeah, they could go a little too.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Yeah. Would you rather have to eat only cake all
day on your birthday?
Speaker 5 (26:09):
Or not be allowed to eat cake at all?
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Do you have other sweets? Can I have other sets? No?
Speaker 3 (26:15):
It's either all cake all day or no cake at all?
Speaker 1 (26:18):
No sweets, you think because you have pie, because candy.
Speaker 5 (26:23):
Donut?
Speaker 2 (26:24):
If I can have other sweets, I'll say no cake
at all?
Speaker 5 (26:26):
All right?
Speaker 1 (26:27):
And would you rather have a birthday dinner with your
younger self or your eighty.
Speaker 5 (26:31):
Year old self?
Speaker 2 (26:35):
My younger self?
Speaker 5 (26:38):
To give her advice?
Speaker 2 (26:40):
Just to have a chit chat with her little shot
investment tips? Yeah, I just yeah, some investment tips and
just to really think about her answers and the questionnaire
for ABC.
Speaker 4 (26:55):
Some castide people are gonna ask you some questions.
Speaker 5 (26:57):
Think about that.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
Yeah, just give some better answers, all right?
Speaker 1 (27:01):
Here we go a birthday game, so I limited it
to today and then time you got mad. So we're
gonna do the whole weekend. Here we go, Bay, how
old turning?
Speaker 5 (27:10):
Today?
Speaker 1 (27:10):
It's this we're starting with huh.
Speaker 5 (27:12):
Always start with you.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
Here.
Speaker 5 (27:14):
We're gonna tell you.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
Becky Easton, all right, Matthew Morrison from Glee, Matthew.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
Morrison is the same birthdays, same.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Birthday as you. Congratulations?
Speaker 5 (27:24):
How old is he today?
Speaker 3 (27:25):
Forty eight? Today?
Speaker 1 (27:26):
He's not Becca?
Speaker 2 (27:28):
Oh he? I think he's probably forty four.
Speaker 5 (27:31):
Forty four Easton?
Speaker 4 (27:33):
He is forty three?
Speaker 1 (27:34):
Is forty seven? That's the point for Tommy.
Speaker 2 (27:37):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (27:38):
I was gonna say forty seven, wow, and then I
thought she's a little older.
Speaker 1 (27:43):
How about Janelle Parish? Remember Janelle Parish? Pretty little liar's
got to seek great God to keep bat.
Speaker 5 (27:49):
How old is she? Thirty?
Speaker 2 (27:50):
Guy?
Speaker 5 (27:52):
Becca?
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Thirty eight, thirty eight?
Speaker 4 (27:57):
Easton thirty seven.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
Years thirty seven?
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Very nice.
Speaker 3 (28:04):
I would have said thirty nine. Anyway, No, we heard.
Speaker 5 (28:08):
Easton?
Speaker 1 (28:08):
How old? It's Henry Winkler today. He was the Fox,
he was in Barry, he was in lots of fun stuff.
Speaker 4 (28:16):
Henry Winkler is.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Seventy five, Okay, Tanya seventy nine, Becca.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
Eighty one.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
He is eighty today. I have to give it to
Tanya because she went.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
Over who was losing? Oh oh, I see, I'll.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
Only enforced the going over prices right role in the
case of a time. Gavin Rossdale from Bush. This is yours,
Tanya Gavin Rossdale formally married to Gwen Stefani. How old
is he today?
Speaker 3 (28:52):
Fifty four?
Speaker 1 (28:54):
Becca fifty six? Easton fifty five sixty that's a that's
the point right there.
Speaker 3 (29:01):
Oh my god, although I don't like him.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
Yeah, nanny issues there. Birthday final one from today and
then we move on to tomorrow. Model Ashley Graham. Ashley
Graham's been on our show. I do believe, yes, not
me this Easton? No, this is yeah, this is Becca Yeah,
Ashley Graham.
Speaker 2 (29:19):
Yep, Ashley Graham is she's probably yeah, she's I'm gonna
go forty one.
Speaker 5 (29:25):
Forty one Easton.
Speaker 4 (29:27):
Uh, I think she's younger than me. Oh so that
makes her thirty four Tanya.
Speaker 3 (29:35):
I'm gonna guess thirty five.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
She is thirty eight today. Oh my god, what did
you say? Forty forty one and Houston thirty five. So
with the tie and Tanya went under Oh wow, Tanya
three Becca one Easton one, as we go to tomorrow's birthday.
Tomorrow is Willow Smith's birthday?
Speaker 5 (29:53):
Easton?
Speaker 1 (29:54):
How old is Willow Smith?
Speaker 5 (29:55):
Tomorrow?
Speaker 1 (29:55):
Will Smith is twenty two? Okay, Tanya, this is tough.
Speaker 2 (30:04):
Twenty four Becca twenty.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Three, twenty five is running away with this one. Yeah,
it's not over yet. Do I have a lot of
four to one to one tough to be? Well, we'll
see Becca vanilla Ice has a birthday tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
He sure does.
Speaker 1 (30:24):
Rolling It is five point zero with the top wreck
top down so his hair can blow.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
Yeah, that's what I was thinking about. I'm gonna say
fifty six.
Speaker 5 (30:39):
He's not fifty six Easton.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
Uh, he is fifty one, okay, Tanya, noa, that's the one.
Speaker 3 (30:48):
I'm gonna say forty nine.
Speaker 1 (30:49):
He's fifty eight point with Becca, and I feel like
a comeback is starting. Wow Easton too one two three
one two three, Uh, this is Becca's I just went
you did Easton Dermott mulroney.
Speaker 4 (31:02):
Who's that remember of Hunting Wives?
Speaker 1 (31:05):
Hunting Wives my best friend's wedding?
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Oh yeah, Dermott.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
He was in Must Love Dogs. Yeah, you know him.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
From the main guy from my best friend's wedding.
Speaker 5 (31:14):
He's the guy. Yeah, the other one, the.
Speaker 3 (31:17):
One who's getting married, the one who's best friend. He's
Julie Roberts's best friend. Yes, okay, got it.
Speaker 1 (31:22):
How old is he?
Speaker 5 (31:22):
Easton?
Speaker 4 (31:23):
Let's see, and if you're my mom, he is not
Benjamin Bratt. We are getting to a lot of our
Dermott mulroney is sixty four.
Speaker 1 (31:33):
Sixty four, Tanya sixty one, Becca fifty nine, sixty two. Tanya, yay,
that maybe the dagger, but we'll keep going. Tanya, Penn badgely.
Speaker 5 (31:47):
Star of you.
Speaker 3 (31:49):
He's thirty eight.
Speaker 5 (31:49):
He's thirty eight.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
Becca thirty nine.
Speaker 5 (31:56):
He is thirty nine.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
Very nice.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Easton, No wait, I'm all confected. Who Becky Jenny McCarthy
on Saturday has a birthday?
Speaker 5 (32:06):
How old is she turning?
Speaker 2 (32:08):
Jenny McCarthy, she's.
Speaker 1 (32:14):
Forty eight, forty eight. Easton, she's fifty two, all right, Tanya,
fifty fifty three.
Speaker 5 (32:22):
That's the point for Easton, Thank god. Easton.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
How about Tim Cook, the CEO of Apple Apple CEO,
Tim Cook.
Speaker 2 (32:32):
We have any visuals he's about to step down. Give
me a friend.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
He's a major deal in this world. Yes, alright, I'm
giving you a photo of Tim Cook.
Speaker 5 (32:43):
All right, there he is, that's Tim Cook right there?
Speaker 2 (32:46):
Oh yeah, all right?
Speaker 1 (32:47):
How old is Tim Cook?
Speaker 4 (32:49):
Tim Cook? Tim Cook is? He is a sixty eight?
Speaker 2 (32:56):
Okay, Tanya seventy five, Becca sixty five.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
He's sixty five.
Speaker 5 (33:04):
Now and we have a game.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
Kanya has five, Becca has four, Easton has twos.
Speaker 5 (33:11):
I'm telling you it's gonna be closed. Now.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
We go to I don't know who do we go
doing this?
Speaker 2 (33:15):
One? Know me?
Speaker 1 (33:17):
Tanya on Sunday? It is David Schwimmer's birthday. How old
is David Schwimmer?
Speaker 3 (33:25):
Fifty four?
Speaker 5 (33:26):
She says, fifty four. We go to Becca fifty two,
fifty two and Easton fifty six.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
He's fifty nine. That's the point for Easton. Rebecca is
still in this. I may need more names now, let's
just end it now. I think I'm going to have
one more here, and then I have to find another
one because then we're, you know, we have the three
with the rounds.
Speaker 3 (33:52):
I think everybody say, I ay.
Speaker 5 (33:57):
I mus stop the count all right?
Speaker 1 (33:59):
Beca Yeah, Nelly has a birthday of this weekend?
Speaker 5 (34:03):
Howel is Nelly?
Speaker 2 (34:07):
WHOA Nelly is fifty one.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
She's saying Nelly is fifty one and he is fifty one.
And it is now tied at five apiece, and I
have one more name for you, and this will be
the tiebreaker. I do a little obscure on this, but
I think this person might have been on our show.
So obscure Easton, you'll start on this one, okay, Paramo Brown,
Karama Brown, he has wey yep uh Karamo.
Speaker 4 (34:38):
Is he was just on? Are you Charlotte?
Speaker 1 (34:40):
Another will determine it right here, unless eastern winds, then
I might have to find another name.
Speaker 4 (34:44):
Karamo is uh Karama's forty.
Speaker 1 (34:50):
Nine, forty nine, all right, Tanya forty three, forty three,
Becca forty five.
Speaker 5 (34:57):
We have a winner.
Speaker 3 (34:58):
Who is it?
Speaker 1 (35:01):
Karama Brown on Sunday is turning forty four? Tie goes
to Tanya underneath and Kanya okay, Nail, that.
Speaker 2 (35:17):
Really was It was exciting.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
I'd like to thank my brain for being so honest
today and my guessing and my gut ability to go under,
to always go under.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
Yes, it's a good lesson in life. Always go under.
Speaker 1 (35:35):
Okay, stop, we have to stop. I made a mistake.
Speaker 2 (35:39):
But what how old is he?
Speaker 5 (35:42):
I'm sorry, forty five.
Speaker 1 (35:44):
Yes, he's thirty forty five.
Speaker 5 (35:46):
Becca is actually the winner. I'm sorry. I'll explain.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
On this website it says their current age, so it
lift says Karamo Brown forty four.
Speaker 5 (35:55):
I forgot to add the woman. He's turning forty.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
Five on Sunday. So Becca got it exactly. You're right,
and she on her birthday has won the celebrity birthday
and that comeback of the year.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
I would like to think Mark stupid.
Speaker 5 (36:13):
La Land of the birthday game.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
That was the best gift to add.
Speaker 1 (36:21):
Shoot, dang, I apologize. It was an honest mistake. I
do that a lot. I just gotta add one, so
it's one.
Speaker 2 (36:30):
More the chances. Thank you everyone.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
I never forget this moment.
Speaker 3 (36:39):
I was writing such a high I'm gonna to make
so many decisions today. My gut is good, like but.
Speaker 5 (36:45):
It's be his birthday.
Speaker 1 (36:46):
You gotta be happy for her.
Speaker 3 (36:50):
Not okay, I gotta go.
Speaker 2 (36:54):
She's mad. Her life. Advice is still always going on.
Always go under, but you might lose if you do that.
Speaker 3 (37:02):
Sometimes you gotta go over.
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Yeah, all right, everybody, Well, thank you for the birthday celebration.
Thank you for the victory. Thanks for the weird questionnaire
that I have in the past. That was good and
I love you all.
Speaker 3 (37:18):
Happy, happy birthday, Happy
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