March 19, 2026 • 38 mins
Becca and Tanya are back to help some Scrubbers with anything-but-expert advice!
What if your partner has no hobbies? Is that a red flag? How should you handle it if a friend left you on read for weeks… after sending a birth announcement?? And Mark and Easton reveal the moment they found out about Hayley and Becca!
Plus, we make a trepidatious return to Grey’s.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing in with Bea Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Dear Banya, it's dear Bonia.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Who you gonna call it? Why?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Everyone said they don't need it? So I'm here for
the I'm listening to the people.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Well, I'm not listening to the people. We don't have
to play the jingle. We can create our own jingle
every time.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
I don't want to hear about the jingle anymore.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
They'd rather hear you say scrub a dub dub in
the top.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Question.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Fine, then I'll bring it back.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
I know you haven't watched Grays in like five years,
but Mark, are you caught up?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Okay, So the other night, I you know, I've had
this theory that when I drink coffee, I can just
go to sleep after So I've never worried about when
I drink.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Coffee in the day. Okay, And I haven't had.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Coffee in a long time outside of the morning hours,
and the other day I was just like crashing in
the middle of the afternoon. So I ordered a coffee
at like four and drink it well, I was just
like wide awake. So I go and lay on the
couch because I didn't want to wake up Hailey.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
And I was like, you know, I'm just gonna put
Grays on sleep.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
You know, it's.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Familiar if I've all sleeping and I really miss anything.
So I put it on and I quite enjoyed the episode.
I was like, Okay, I'm not like, oh my gosh,
I'm enthralled, but I was entertained enough that I watched
the next episode.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
The other day, my wife said to me, I was
watching Grace. She came in the room. You're watching Grassy, yeah,
she said I, And I said it's not great. She goes,
so why are you still watching it? And she's it's
a very good point. But I feel like, I don't know,
I get comfort from these characters I've known for so long.
There's something about the hospital. I don't know what it is.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
We watched the old episodes again, because.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I would never do that. That's not my personality. Though,
just to rewatch old.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Stuff incredible, But you know what I was thinking about
that really upset me in my rage on the couch.
Why are they like it's so obvious that they're filming
in La. It's always sunny in these coffee stops, out
the coffee trailers out outside of the hospital, which they
(02:33):
recently introduce, and they're supposed to be in gloomy Seattle,
and it's like a beautiful sunny day every day.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
I mean, that's the least of my complaints about the show,
all right.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
So I saw that there was a new love interest
for Amelia, and I felt like they had a lot
of chemistry and the like teaser I saw, so I
was like, this could get me back into it, a
good relationship with chemistry because we even had that in
a minute.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Yes, but it's so okay. So she and the new
doctor they hook up in the on call room and
she just happened quick, yeah, very quickly. Do you want
to go on a date tomorrow? And she goes, Oh,
I would, but I have my son, my sun rise
yoga hike. Yeah, my sun Rise hike. That's what I
meant when I said son. Yeah, who's writing this show?
(03:23):
But I think I hate watching at this point. I've
never been a hate watcher, but I think I've actually
turned the corner.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Oh, so sad, I give.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
To quite a few episodes before I just put this
one on.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
So I was like, I think I'll catch up quick
based on how the seasons have gone recently and from
what I've seen, Teddy needs to sign the divorce papers.
We're still dragging out this divorce, but she needs to
sign the divorce papers.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
But every time she's going to do.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
It talking about divorce.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Last time I wted well, guess what it's still going on.
They have this conversation and he's encouraging her for this
big surgery she's doing, and then she has to do
it and he needs to watch the kids or whatever.
So she gets home and she's like, thanks for watching
the kids and thanks for you know, supporting me, even
though I was like, rude to you.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Give me hook up.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
They start making out and I'm like, I'm done that.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
I don't gut. They have to the producers that you
have to know we're not big fans of those two together,
So why you had an out? It was over, they
split up, and now you're gonna put him together again.
I'm not interested.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I'm bored.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
I'm way more interested in Teddy Altman and Sophia Bush
much more interesting.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Give me that and give me this w l W show.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Will be good, and no one can go date whoever
he wants to date.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
I don't care he can go.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I don't care.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Dis Switzerland and I would watch that from my girl Sandra.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Oh yeah, I'd be back. I'd lock in locked and
then Joe and Link. I'm just so irritating.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Link as a secret man cave. It's a house that
he rents out and nobody's living there right now, so
he goes there to escape from the tzin the Twins, and.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Joe's at home just like almost died and is watching
the kids and he's in his man.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Cave with beers and his guitar.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
It's as bad as it sounds.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I need Camilla to come on and I just need
to ask, like, what's happening?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
What happened YI?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Anyway, So that's a little bit about where I'm at.
And I got a crick in my neck from sleeping
on the cap. I got punished for watching Grays.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
You know what they don't tell you about aging, the
crick the creiks and the cracks and the crinkles.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Oh my gosh. People didn't know what a creek was.
They were like, I call it a king.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Different parts of the country have different words for that.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
We've just always called it a crick and it's I
cannot look to my this side really hurt. This side
is tender.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
When we came back from the Bahamas, my lower back
was hurting from like just laying down I guess, or
just like sitting down for so long. And because I
don't know when I when we flew there, I was
like sleeping on the chairs of the airport, so like
my back was like it just was not good. And
somebody was telling me, They're like, yeah, every morning when
I wake up, I stretch. I was like, well, who
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started doing that? And when do you start doing that?
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Because nobody told me this, but you don't stretch anyway?
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Up never feels I know that's true.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
I know, but you know what, I started doing the
vibration plate that like everybody.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Was posting about.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Do you like it messed up my back? Sure enough?
I text my chiropractor, Hey, doctor J, like, my lower
back's been like acting up. He's like, did you make
any changes, like when you're doing the vibration ration play
every morning? He goes, yeah, it's not great for the
disks in your back. Who told me that? Nobody on TikTok.
I just slipped right out dis right when it's laden.
(07:02):
Nobody's telling me that on TikTok. They're just showing me
all the benefits of your lymphatic system and the high
you get from it. But nobody's telling you about the
back pains I come along.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
I haven't mentioned those. The spoiler alert.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
If you are interested in getting one of those vibration plates,
make sure your back is in good shape.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
It's not. Actually, yeah, I have a crick a kink.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Yeah, it's a pain where you can't look right or
left comfortably.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
And that's what you need day rex, the whole day.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
So anyways, Yeah, the creeks and the cracks do be coming.
They hit you, yark, And I'm sorry if you're uthaful
and not experiencing this listening to this, but it does.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
I always hit you fast.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
I always thought when people talked about this, I was like,
oh my gosh, like people just need to like stretch
and work out and they don't need just you won't
have those issues, but you do.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
You stretch, I don't do anything, So of course I
have issues, But you have issues. You don't, I know,
Haley can't.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Did you see the video of Haley trying to reach
her hold her feet.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Oh my gosh, I was peeing my pants watching that
and I didn't even have sound on.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
This sounds actually really fun.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
I need to go back and listen to a sound.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
She had scoliosis as a as a child and had
to wear a back brace, so her back is already
just like not great. But I was like, we need
to tap into some yoga moves or something.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
This is this is serious.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
It was tight.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
When she went to.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Bend down, her knee cracks so loud. It was like, damn,
this is Startnald.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Tom he wants to try that with me?
Speaker 3 (08:36):
By the way, y'all could do it, Oh definitely.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
But we tried to do one where I was on
the bottom of shoes lifting me and it does hurt.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
You gotta lock in your everything.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
Those girls made it look too easy.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Yeah, okay, we have a quick transition. So, uh, who
you gonna call with the question on? Yeah, I have
an idea, dear Bonya nice.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
I don't want to bully you're the jingle thing too much,
but what about doing this? Have we discussed a little.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Paging doctor Tillian, doctor Redd.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
They did say they missed that stuff more than the jingle.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
Well, we could make that our new thing, but we.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Don't need to be doctor Tilly and doctor Ratt.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Correct.
Speaker 5 (09:20):
Yeah, you haven't earned that yet.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Sorry, we actually lost that. Yeah we lost it. Yeah, okay,
but we are going to do Dear Bonia, so shall
we just kick it right off?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Here we go from anonymous Dear Banya and Mesten. I'm
a thirty one year old single, independent woman looking for
my future husband. I finally decided to give a guy
at the gym a chance when on a first date.
Am I being too picky? That is her question? Am
I being too picky? He's twenty five? All right, she's
thirty one. And as we talked on our date, he
asked me a lot of insightful questions to which I
(09:52):
would give thoughtful, deep answers to. When I flipped the
question back on him, he had nothing. He gets up,
he goes to the gym, goes to work, he goes
to bed. He has no hobbies, he has no friends.
I think he hates that I have a dog. Am
I wrong for one? To write him off?
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Or?
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Do I give him another chance? Two years ago, I
under a three year situationship and have been spending a
lot of time creating the best version of myself. I
don't want to have someone cling on to me because
I have a life and he doesn't. I want a
partner who's going to grow with me, but also has
their own hobbies and interests that excite them. As I
heard someone say recently, my husband is not the most
exciting thing about me, and I believe this. So what
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do I do? Longtime listener, looking forward to hearing your
advice from a hopeless romantic looking for her forever.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
Well, hobbies are overrated.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Oh my gosh, No way, no way.
Speaker 4 (10:41):
What hobbies do you have?
Speaker 3 (10:43):
I don't care about mine?
Speaker 4 (10:44):
Well, exactly, No, this is a point.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
No, No, I has hobbies, I have friends.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
I like to travel, I love to go eat, I
get some friends.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
No, I think he's gonna be I get what she's saying.
He's going to cling on to her and everything will
be what she likes. She wants some one who has
their own life, like I love doing everything with Haley,
and I am totally independent to do whatever I want
by myself, And you want to meet someone who is
independent in that regard.
Speaker 4 (11:13):
I'm just saying not having hobbies does not make him
not have his own life.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
But you want to be able to have a conversation.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
She's a sentence when she said what he does in
his day? Where was that mark?
Speaker 3 (11:25):
He has no hobbies, doesn't go out with friends, et cetera.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
He goes to the gym, he goes to work, he
goes to bed.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
Sounds like my day and I love me and she
thinks he low key. I think I'm a great partner.
That literally exactly me, But that sentence is me. I
get up, you go to ares, I go home, I
make my egg pods, and I go to bed like.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
That's my day, But that wasn't your day when you
were dating you?
Speaker 4 (11:51):
Why I cleaned my makeup brushes on Friday night? I
was not much cooler when I was single. Like, I
think you got to give this guy.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
She's cool. Sounds she's cooler than you. Sounds like she's
got a lot more going on.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
See, but here's I feel like she's trying to find
negatives about this guy's thing about it because you can
twist these. He goes to the gym, crazyself. That's good,
works ten to seven every day. That's commitment. He's a
provider's his career for the job.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
Do you know many people want people with jobs? Continue Mark,
who doesn't go out with his friends.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
You don't want an alcoholic always out there partying, going.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
The friends always sway.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Guys, guy friends are the worst.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
This is terrible advice.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
I say, girl, find someone that you want to have,
that can have it on the first few days at least,
pretend to have interesting conversations and deep answers. You want
any low he hates your dog, red flag immediately get out.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
The deep answers thing would be nice if you can
carry on a decent conversation. But he had insightful questions.
That's positive.
Speaker 4 (12:58):
And he's twenty five. A couple of years is an oof.
It's gonna ripen up real nice.
Speaker 5 (13:02):
Does he go to bed at seven? When he gets home? Like,
I'm so curious what he's doing between work and bed.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
That's probably like.
Speaker 4 (13:07):
Meal prepping and like showering and watching a little Paradise.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Boring.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
I'm yeah, I say move on. Being too picky is okay?
Speaker 1 (13:21):
You know I agree with that. But is he super hot?
Like maybe that's an element year She doesn't mention that,
but maybe he's younger.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
He's going to bring a youthful spirit when he's when
he's thirty, you're gonna be I can do this.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Six He has no friends. He has no friends at
twenty five when he should. This should be where he's thriving.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
I think give him a few more dates.
Speaker 3 (13:43):
I do too.
Speaker 4 (13:44):
Okay, car from Love is from Love Island what nobody
understands them on?
Speaker 1 (13:52):
All right, the next one, we're going to tease. It's
about friendship boundaries. Oh boy, something you guys said in
the Bahamas made think about her friends and her boundaries,
and we're gonna get into that. We're gonna dig deep.
Coming up right after this, how about about Oh I'm
(14:30):
not sure who won that one? That was like the
La Marathon right there?
Speaker 4 (14:33):
Oh yeah, so crazy and so crazy.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
All right, this is from ray she listened to the
tube changes everything. The second episode from Baja mar And
there's a question about friends and boundaries. Quick story, quick question.
I'm a thirty eight year old first time mom and
I had a friend who left my literal baby announcement
on red. She could have just hearted the photo, give
me a little bread crumb of friendship, but no acknowledgement whatsoever.
(15:00):
My baby is now eight weeks old and I still
haven't heard from her. Where's the line where we have
to give grace to our friends, knowing they may struggle
with be overwhelmed by time blindness, decision fatigued, while also
respecting yourself. You deserve to have friends to show up
for you and want to make you feel loved and
that your news matters. Would love to hear any thoughts
or advice you have when it comes to navigating texting
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relationships with friends. Love you, guys from Ray.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
I am offended that I'm being compared to the eye
am inspiring the thought process of the friend who didn't
even acknowledge the baby announcement.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
You know, I, even though I read a lot, you
are left on red a lot, but not for important things.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
I think Tiny's definition of important things is different than yours.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
Yeah, it's timeline, and I guarantee if I did a
poll on what important things or we know where.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
There's a fine line.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
But I would never leave you on red for a
baby announcement or a big life event as such. If
you go, guess what and I don't respond because I
know you'll go.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
When you're something crazy. I knew my period was coming
this month, and it came. It came on the day
that I was feeling that story. Okay, very impressing anyway,
like leaving you on.
Speaker 4 (16:27):
Red for that is fair saying I could see you
leaving me on red for like saying I'm pregnant or
something that is such a.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Bull and you're just trying to get me fired up.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
No, because if I said it in like that way,
if I said, like a guess what, and then you
would just like leave me hanging there, and then I
would never pay it off because you would never ask
me what.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
You would never give me a guess what for a
pregnancy announcement.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
You never know, And don't take advantage of me.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
Don't be boy who cried wolf, because if you keep
going guess what, guess what, and I keep answering and
it's still period things, it is going to get left
on red because you took advantage of my curiosity.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
All I'm saying is Ray, I understand you.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
Oh my god, ray, this this is not her friend.
And whether if you want to know why she's not
responsive or say like, hey, I don't know if you
have things going on in your life, but it hurt
my feelings that I, you know, told you something that's
so exciting and meaningful and you didn't respond. I think
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that's a valid conversation to have. And if she doesn't
respond to that, then it's time to say friends for
a season and a reason.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
What are you smiling about?
Speaker 4 (17:42):
There's two paths you can take with my God. The
one beca is saying where you can head on, hey, like,
have a conversationalization, which I have done with you before.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
Yes, and it works. Yes.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
However, passive aggressiveness also works, Tonya.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
This is a bad habit that you don't need to
give advice on it to share on.
Speaker 2 (18:04):
You need to work through it yourself, and we don't
need other people to be.
Speaker 3 (18:07):
Being passive aggressive.
Speaker 4 (18:08):
Sometimes it works so aggressive, I don't know, because she's
not really giving you much to work with here. So
sometimes when Becca's being silent, I'll give her the silent
treatment back.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Unfortunately, it doesn't do anything for me. I just I
just know, and I'm like, oh, she's mad, all right,
I have to get in her good graces again.
Speaker 4 (18:29):
And then and then we suddenly end up at dinner.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
Yeah, so it works.
Speaker 4 (18:33):
All I'm saying. Ray two paths.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
I think you have a conversation. Let her know that
that hurt your feelings and that you can understand that
she has things going on, but for big life events,
you know you want her to be excited and.
Speaker 4 (18:46):
Maybe send it again double text, riple text, who cares?
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Or just move on? Can just move on?
Speaker 4 (18:50):
Well, if it's a really good friend, my best friend.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
How good a friend is this? If she ignores your
birth announcement, live your life?
Speaker 4 (18:58):
What is a birth announcement?
Speaker 3 (18:59):
I think saying I'm pregnant, showing a photo.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
Of your baby on the message.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
Yeah, look I had my baby. Imagine you sent me
I had my baby. Imagine I wouldn't know.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
You're taking pictures in the room.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
Yeah we can't relate because I'll be in the room
my baby out.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
Okay, wes that?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
But Ray, I think a true she's not a true friend,
and I think, GUF, she's someone you need that you
really want your life, then you have a conversation. If
she's someone that you're okay not having in your life,
you move on.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
That's my advice. You deserve. We're so happy for Send
us a photo of the baby.
Speaker 4 (19:42):
I want to see a baby eight week old baby.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
Oh so good? Yeah, send her over him.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Her they the boy girl didn't say Jazzy, says Hi,
Becca Easton, Tanya and Mark? Could you have Easton all right?
I'm meaning to I didn't ask this question that pops
in my mind. I started listening to the podcast after
the official Becca and Haley relationship reveal. I've listened to
most episodes since then, have occasionally listened to older episodes.
(20:09):
Did I miss the conversation about when Mark and Easton
found out about Becca and Haley dating and what their
reaction was Listening to some mentions of Haley before the
ninety five p nickname from some of the eighteen nineteen episodes,
They say or ask things that make me think they
didn't know. Also, after listening to the recent episode, Rebecca
casually mentions Haley's mom being a figure skating choreographer. Trailblazer
(20:32):
icon Z Sarah Kawahara is an O G modern woman.
Can we get her on the pod? She's a legend.
We'd love to hear her thoughts on the American skaters
and all her personal career accomplishments. PS. It was me
asking if we were getting trolled about the jingle ha
ha ha. Love you guys. Maybe it's time to phone
a friend or fiance. Love the podcast. Thanks for being
(20:54):
so gracious and positive with the feedback you get from listeners.
We want the podcast to be as impactful in the
podcast world as it is to scrubbers. Thank you guys.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
That's so nice. Yeah, Haley's mom is a legend. She's
like if you mentioned her in the ice skating world,
everyone knows her.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
It's pretty crazy and it's really cool.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
It was fun because, like we watch a lot of
the Winter Olympics ice skating and it was fun to
like watch.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
Them with her and hear her opinions on everything. I
try to get her on.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
The plus see if she's available for the podcater on
the schedule, get on the books.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
Yeah wait, I feel like y'all knew quite early on
about me and Haley.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (21:29):
My favorite moment from that was if you go back
and listen to this was so early. It was just
you and I and we're interviewing the people from the sandlot.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
Yeah, yeah, I remember that.
Speaker 5 (21:42):
Yeah, it was a lot of fun. But you had
gone on tour with Haley at that point, uh huh,
and you were telling and you're like, yeah, I got
to sleep on the bus. It was so cool, and
I was like, wow, how cool. What a good friend
to have. And I had no idea.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
I wonder when that was. That must have been like
really early, because in my mind, I felt like y'all
knew within the first few months.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
I remember a stretch of knowing you were dating someone
but not knowing who. I don't remember that happening, but
maybe it did.
Speaker 4 (22:08):
Oh you always know, was Haley.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
That's I'm saying. I don't think I was ever dating
someone Like.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
I don't think I ever talked about dating someone without
y'all knowing that who It was.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
Right, because we kind of had to know so we
could avoid pronouns.
Speaker 4 (22:20):
And that was the biggest challenge Ricky as.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
We did it for years, almost four years.
Speaker 5 (22:27):
So it was June twenty eighteen, was that Sandlot?
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
I feel like y'all may have found out in like July,
because that was when she performed with Taylor Swift and.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
I came home from it and I think I was
I don't know, I was upset about something and I
feel like I.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
Told y'all about it because I remember crying and I
was like I was like having a hard time, and
I was. I think I told y'all about it that time,
so I feel like from twenty eighteen y'all knew.
Speaker 4 (23:00):
Yeah, I feel like when you were telling people, you
were telling people it.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
Was bad reaction.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
So I think I would come in as like comfort
from y'all. Like I think I told y'all like knowing
that y'all were going to be supportive, and so it
was like a comfort to tell y'all. I never felt
like the people that were consistently in my life had
I hid it from anyone. I don't know what I'm
saying either, but yeah, we did the pronoun thing for
long years.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
Yeah, you gotta be careful because by avoiding the pronoun,
you can draw attention to the fact that you're avoiding
a pronoun to I just have to be so careful.
Every story I.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
Told I was like restructuring the sentence you.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
Any time I asked you anything, it was like, I
was that was hard on my brain.
Speaker 3 (23:42):
Yeah, honestly, everyone.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
That for four years.
Speaker 2 (23:47):
Yeah, well, we'd do it for ninety five p didn't
it start till twenty twenty, which is when we did
the live show.
Speaker 4 (23:55):
And then we just started calling Haley ninety five p Yeah, which.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Was the first time we kind of started talking about it.
Speaker 5 (24:01):
Yeah, I remember, yeah that he I'm just looking back
at my notes. I have notes from August thirty first,
twenty twenty, and there's like five different pronoun moments and
then part like, Jesus is this is so hardout pronounce.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
It was?
Speaker 3 (24:14):
It was a challenge. So I really thank y'all for that.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
Yeah, and I think you we also want the podcast
to be as impactful in the podcast the world.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
As it is to you all. Yes, we just hear
about y'all, so we want you all to be happy.
That's this. It's just funny that this whole dear Bonia
thing that I started the episode saying, like they don't
want from the script.
Speaker 4 (24:41):
It's a real three sixty for Jazzy.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Yeah, Jazzy, I hear you and I see you. Okay.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
I like this question about bot mitzvah questions because I
don't know much about I'm learning through you.
Speaker 4 (24:55):
Yeah, you just found out what Shabbat was, which was, yeah,
so interesting.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
So it's crazy because I grew up in the South obviously,
and I was not surrounded by many Jewish people at all,
so I know nothing about like I really only knew
about my beliefs and my culture.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
And like that was it.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
So then when I moved out here, I started meeting
people obviously from like all different walks of life and
beliefs and cultures. And then Haley and I were talking
about it, and She's like, almost all my friends growing.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
Up were Jewish.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
So I went to all the bar mitzvahs and bot mitzvahs,
and like, she knows everything in the Jewish culture.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
So I feel like I'm like learning.
Speaker 4 (25:33):
Like you I grew up. I mean, I guess where
I grew up in Orange County. I didn't really grow
up with many Jewish people at my high school. Yeah,
so I never went to a bought mitzvah until recently
as an adult.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Well, I Wisconsin. I grew up in Monona, Wisconsin, and no,
not only were they no Jewish people, like I heard
about Jewish people, but it seemed like this far away
things like interact with Jewish people. Well, that's like the
other side of the world thing. And then I went
to college in Madison, which is literally eight miles from Monona,
and a huge population of the University of Wisconsin is
(26:09):
Jewish and that that was my education. That's when I
learned I can count to tend in Hebrew. I learned
very much. No, thanks to my friend Josh.
Speaker 4 (26:20):
You best believe I'm going to be going to a
little taking some lessons with a rabbi.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
Yeah, I just love it. I love like I love this.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Email from the scrubber because I love people wanting to
expose their kids to other religions and cultures, because the
world makes up so many different belief systems, and it's
like to only know or like learn about your own
is so limiting for yourself.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
So I love that. Well, you can go ahead and
read that.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
Sure. Thank you so much, Kristin, Banya and Marston on
this one, thank you so much. This is more of
a fun question for Tanya. My son's invited to a
bought mitzvah. I'm so excited I did for him to
be exposed to other religions and traditions, but we have
never been to anything like this. Instead of asking shat GPT,
I was hoping Ton you could give me some tips.
What does you wear? What kind of a gift does
he give to her? What is the evening like? Any
(27:11):
info you give can be helpful. Thank you so much.
It's Kristin.
Speaker 4 (27:15):
So I wouldn't consider myself an expert considering I'm rk.
You might know more considering I've only been to a handful,
but i'd say what your son should wear. I think
most of the kids I see they wear like buttoned
downs and slacks and like, you know, maybe sneakers or
nice shoes, like more, you know, a little more dressed up.
(27:36):
In terms of a gift, we always just give like cash,
I think is that and like a little bit more
than you would give than like a birthday gift, you
know what I mean, like a little bit more than
you would give for like a gift, because this is
like the big birthday, you know, and then uh, what
is the evening? Like it could be? I mean I've
(28:00):
been to some that are like near pond and water,
and then I've been to some that are like dance
parties like glow sticks and like the people that are
you know, like like total just dance parties. Yeah, so
I don't really know. I mean I think it just
depends on like the family.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
Yeah, but it's all it's a party, right, It's not
like serious. Once you get to the party.
Speaker 4 (28:21):
There's like a ceremony portion and then there's like a
party portion. Yeah, kind of like a wedding. Oh, like
that's the reception kind of.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (28:28):
And they're often as expensive as a wedding too, Yeah,
depending on like some like some can be like very.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
Big, big deal big deals. But I think the over
arching concept of this conversation we're having is it is
great to learn about these other cultures because that's the
issues of the world in a nutshell. In my opinion
is that you know, when I was growing up, people
don't there are people who don't celebrate Christmas. That was
so weird to me. And that's weird. Those people are weird,
(28:54):
and then you meet them, like, oh, they're people like me,
and we all like similar things and we're all similar ale.
Speaker 4 (28:59):
Yeah, And you know what's actually I didn't know much
about like the Jewish holidays, and like they're very like
there's some that are so meaningful and sweet and they're
all about like just like bringing your family together at
the end of the day, you know. So I really
I love the Jewish holidays.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
That's what I was gonna say. A lot of it
when I've asked Tanya about it. It's like, it's about
togetherness and being together with your family and the people
you love.
Speaker 3 (29:23):
And I'm like, how it's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (29:25):
Yeah, but yeah, I love I love people exposing it's
it's it's a It only benefits your child to expose
them to more, otherwise they grow up like me, and
they're like.
Speaker 3 (29:35):
What, all right? Shall we finish the episode?
Speaker 1 (29:46):
I think we should take a break and notice on
the birthday game. I'm on it. Let's do it.
Speaker 6 (29:58):
Coming up next, we're back, no competition, none.
Speaker 1 (30:23):
Before we get to the birthday game, the celebrity whatever
birthday game, Anika says, Dear Becca, Tanya, Mark, and Easton.
I thought you'd find this funny. On Valentine's Day, my
boyfriend and I worked together. He drove me up to
Tahoe to skew with my cousin and he hiked around
there with his brother. We said Happy Valentine's Day, but
that was it. No cars, no present, no nothing. We've
been together for five years. We have the best relationship.
(30:44):
He's very kind and thoughtful and sweet. Flash forward to
me listening to the podcast when you guys were talking
about that, even a card or flowers, it's all that's needed.
I was folding laundry and he came in and he
was listening as well. Easton said the guys should do
something at the bare minimum. My boy headford really bad
and said, did you play this for me? And we
were both cracking out. The next day, I came home
with it to a card, a full weekend of plans
(31:06):
for a late Valentine's Day weekend. Thank you all for
the little push. Love you guys, And I'm a day
one scrubber. You might remember me. I was the one
who wrote in early who wrote in early on asking
you to harmonize for Becca, back when you were the
code for every commercial.
Speaker 2 (31:22):
Wow, I'm still it should be scrubbing.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
It's scrubbing.
Speaker 3 (31:28):
Yeah, we love that. I love that. I just want
to give her an a plug.
Speaker 4 (31:36):
But I'd also like to point out that she said
he did nothing for her originally. I know she's still happy.
Speaker 3 (31:41):
She is happy, but she said thanks for the push,
which means she she did want it deep down, just
saying Tonya's still hanging She's rolling down, but she's hanging on. Wait. Okay.
Speaker 2 (31:56):
Also, the last the cat the girl that had the
scary cats into photo and it is the cutest I know.
Speaker 4 (32:02):
It's sow.
Speaker 3 (32:03):
It looks like the cat from a Shrek.
Speaker 5 (32:07):
Ess.
Speaker 3 (32:09):
There's no evil, I know.
Speaker 4 (32:11):
The fact that this cat is so mean to people
makes me like.
Speaker 2 (32:16):
It was so funny watching picturing the scene of people
running and hitting their head and falling downstairs.
Speaker 3 (32:22):
Though from this cat, it makes it even funnier.
Speaker 4 (32:25):
Matt Matt Matt Mark told me today that he thinks
I was a cat in a former life.
Speaker 1 (32:28):
I didn't. That was somebody else that said that I
didn't want you tag team. I tag teamed, Yes.
Speaker 3 (32:33):
He said. I won't deny that. Yeah. I was like,
excuse me, that makes sense, but not.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
Sicany said it because I was on my computer and
you were hovering next to me at a closer than
normal human distance. And I don't even think I was
looking something up for you. You were just watching what
I was doing on my laptop.
Speaker 4 (32:52):
I was curious.
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Great, All right, are you ready for our little birthday
game action here? Yes, a week for birthdays here in
the world that we live in. All right, let's begin.
You want to play Easton?
Speaker 2 (33:05):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (33:05):
Yes, I would?
Speaker 1 (33:06):
All right, right, then we will start with Tanya on
this first round. Here we go putting my score sheet together, Tanya.
How old is bad Bunny this week? Bad Bunny as
a birthday?
Speaker 4 (33:19):
Bad Bunny is thirty four?
Speaker 1 (33:22):
He's thirty four. Well he's not so Becca, How old
do you think he is turning?
Speaker 3 (33:26):
He is thirty two?
Speaker 1 (33:27):
He is thirty two? Very nice, And that's how this
game usually goes. And we don't even get to Easton
on that one. Becca will start with you on this one.
Carrie Underwood has a birthday this week? How old is
she turned on this Oh?
Speaker 3 (33:38):
I would say Carrie Underwood is.
Speaker 1 (33:45):
Forty two, forty two? No Easton thirty seven, thirty seven, Tanya?
Speaker 4 (33:50):
She is forty three, Yes, very nice.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Very good. She is turning forty three currently forty two. Easton,
We start with you on this one. How old is
John hamm turning? This week? We all love John Ham?
Speaker 5 (34:01):
John Ham is fifty one, not fifty.
Speaker 4 (34:04):
One, Tanya, fifty five?
Speaker 1 (34:07):
Fifty five, Yes, he's fifty.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
Five because he seems younger.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
That goals for John Ham. All right, back to you, Tanya.
Jack Harlowe has a birthday this week? How old is
Jack Harlow?
Speaker 4 (34:21):
I think he was young when he found success, So
I'm gonna guess twenty nine.
Speaker 1 (34:25):
Twenty nine.
Speaker 3 (34:26):
Becka, I'm gonna say twenty seven.
Speaker 1 (34:28):
Twenty seven Easton twenty six, twenty six. He is twenty
eighth tie between you two, but Becca, Tanya went over,
So Beca gets the point and we are tied at.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
Chris is right right, Rice is right. Rules.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
This is right, but only as a tie record. That's
the price is right rules coming to play? All right, Becca,
We go to you now for Olivia Dan no banks
to star up and coming.
Speaker 4 (34:54):
She was up and came, okay, man I need.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
Olivia Dean has a birthday this week? How old is
she turning? Becca, I just feel oh not twenty five? Easton?
Speaker 4 (35:04):
Guess though, Olivia Dean.
Speaker 5 (35:06):
Yes, Olivia Dean, she's twenty two.
Speaker 4 (35:09):
No, Tanya, I'm gonna say twenty seven.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
She is turning twenty yes, help, thank you. Tanya is
one correct answer away from winning this game. This is
a big and we are starting with Easton on this one. Easton.
Will I am has a birthday this week? Will I
am from the Black Eyed Seas? How old is will
i am turning?
Speaker 5 (35:32):
Let's get it started. Will i Am is fifty four.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
Fifty four, Tanya fifty six fifty six Beca fifty one
fifty one is correct? Time the game. Three for Tanya,
three for Becca, none for Easton.
Speaker 4 (35:49):
Could you get three August seven?
Speaker 1 (35:52):
One more? We have one more for you. I'm gonna
make it a good one, all right. Here we go
coming up this week we have a birthday four Eva Longoria.
Eva Longoria has a birthday this weekend. How old is
she turning? And for this one we go to Tanya
to begin. And this one should decided, might not, but
should forty five forty five for Eva Longoria. We go
(36:16):
to Beccatilly now forty seven, Easton forty three this weekend.
Whether we have a winner, it has been determined the winner.
This will decide it this weekend. Eva Jacqueline Longoria, bath
(36:36):
Stone on Sunday, turns fifty one years old.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
Becca, your winner, Longoria, we weren't even clad. Mostly con
runs to her. Yeah, Clo, shoot next time.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
And you knew Carrie Underwood, so one of them was
a layup for you. And still the Angels.
Speaker 4 (37:08):
Why do you like to play the game is a
little joy? Okay, okay, yeah.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
Well that's all for now, folks. But don't worry, don't worry,
don't worry.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
We're not We're not we because one thing we are
is consistent.
Speaker 4 (37:23):
For nine years, half and half half.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
Yeah, long show, short shows, it doesn't matter. It's consistent.
Speaker 4 (37:30):
Yeah, we got shows. We got shows in different area code.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
I don't know what's on your area.
Speaker 2 (37:38):
We got shows, the multiplying and.
Speaker 1 (37:45):
Control.
Speaker 3 (37:47):
All right, Well, we'll be back Monday. We love you
so much.
Speaker 1 (37:51):
Have a great b
Scrubbing in with Bea Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Dear Banya, it's dear Bonia.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Who you gonna call it? Why?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Everyone said they don't need it? So I'm here for
the I'm listening to the people.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Well, I'm not listening to the people. We don't have
to play the jingle. We can create our own jingle
every time.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
I don't want to hear about the jingle anymore.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
They'd rather hear you say scrub a dub dub in
the top.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Question.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Fine, then I'll bring it back.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
I know you haven't watched Grays in like five years,
but Mark, are you caught up?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Okay, So the other night, I you know, I've had
this theory that when I drink coffee, I can just
go to sleep after So I've never worried about when
I drink.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Coffee in the day. Okay, And I haven't had.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Coffee in a long time outside of the morning hours,
and the other day I was just like crashing in
the middle of the afternoon. So I ordered a coffee
at like four and drink it well, I was just
like wide awake. So I go and lay on the
couch because I didn't want to wake up Hailey.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
And I was like, you know, I'm just gonna put
Grays on sleep.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
You know, it's.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Familiar if I've all sleeping and I really miss anything.
So I put it on and I quite enjoyed the episode.
I was like, Okay, I'm not like, oh my gosh,
I'm enthralled, but I was entertained enough that I watched
the next episode.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
The other day, my wife said to me, I was
watching Grace. She came in the room. You're watching Grassy, yeah,
she said I, And I said it's not great. She goes,
so why are you still watching it? And she's it's
a very good point. But I feel like, I don't know,
I get comfort from these characters I've known for so long.
There's something about the hospital. I don't know what it is.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
We watched the old episodes again, because.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I would never do that. That's not my personality. Though,
just to rewatch old.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Stuff incredible, But you know what I was thinking about
that really upset me in my rage on the couch.
Why are they like it's so obvious that they're filming
in La. It's always sunny in these coffee stops, out
the coffee trailers out outside of the hospital, which they
(02:33):
recently introduce, and they're supposed to be in gloomy Seattle,
and it's like a beautiful sunny day every day.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
I mean, that's the least of my complaints about the show,
all right.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
So I saw that there was a new love interest
for Amelia, and I felt like they had a lot
of chemistry and the like teaser I saw, so I
was like, this could get me back into it, a
good relationship with chemistry because we even had that in
a minute.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Yes, but it's so okay. So she and the new
doctor they hook up in the on call room and
she just happened quick, yeah, very quickly. Do you want
to go on a date tomorrow? And she goes, Oh,
I would, but I have my son, my sun rise
yoga hike. Yeah, my sun Rise hike. That's what I
meant when I said son. Yeah, who's writing this show?
(03:23):
But I think I hate watching at this point. I've
never been a hate watcher, but I think I've actually
turned the corner.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Oh, so sad, I give.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
To quite a few episodes before I just put this
one on.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
So I was like, I think I'll catch up quick
based on how the seasons have gone recently and from
what I've seen, Teddy needs to sign the divorce papers.
We're still dragging out this divorce, but she needs to
sign the divorce papers.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
But every time she's going to do.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
It talking about divorce.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Last time I wted well, guess what it's still going on.
They have this conversation and he's encouraging her for this
big surgery she's doing, and then she has to do
it and he needs to watch the kids or whatever.
So she gets home and she's like, thanks for watching
the kids and thanks for you know, supporting me, even
though I was like, rude to you.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Give me hook up.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
They start making out and I'm like, I'm done that.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
I don't gut. They have to the producers that you
have to know we're not big fans of those two together,
So why you had an out? It was over, they
split up, and now you're gonna put him together again.
I'm not interested.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I'm bored.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
I'm way more interested in Teddy Altman and Sophia Bush
much more interesting.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Give me that and give me this w l W show.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Will be good, and no one can go date whoever
he wants to date.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
I don't care he can go.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I don't care.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Dis Switzerland and I would watch that from my girl Sandra.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Oh yeah, I'd be back. I'd lock in locked and
then Joe and Link. I'm just so irritating.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Link as a secret man cave. It's a house that
he rents out and nobody's living there right now, so
he goes there to escape from the tzin the Twins, and.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Joe's at home just like almost died and is watching
the kids and he's in his man.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Cave with beers and his guitar.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
It's as bad as it sounds.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I need Camilla to come on and I just need
to ask, like, what's happening?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
What happened YI?
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Anyway, So that's a little bit about where I'm at.
And I got a crick in my neck from sleeping
on the cap. I got punished for watching Grays.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
You know what they don't tell you about aging, the
crick the creiks and the cracks and the crinkles.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Oh my gosh. People didn't know what a creek was.
They were like, I call it a king.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Different parts of the country have different words for that.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
We've just always called it a crick and it's I
cannot look to my this side really hurt. This side
is tender.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
When we came back from the Bahamas, my lower back
was hurting from like just laying down I guess, or
just like sitting down for so long. And because I
don't know when I when we flew there, I was
like sleeping on the chairs of the airport, so like
my back was like it just was not good. And
somebody was telling me, They're like, yeah, every morning when
I wake up, I stretch. I was like, well, who
(06:24):
started doing that? And when do you start doing that?
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Because nobody told me this, but you don't stretch anyway?
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Up never feels I know that's true.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
I know, but you know what, I started doing the
vibration plate that like everybody.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Was posting about.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Do you like it messed up my back? Sure enough?
I text my chiropractor, Hey, doctor J, like, my lower
back's been like acting up. He's like, did you make
any changes, like when you're doing the vibration ration play
every morning? He goes, yeah, it's not great for the
disks in your back. Who told me that? Nobody on TikTok.
I just slipped right out dis right when it's laden.
(07:02):
Nobody's telling me that on TikTok. They're just showing me
all the benefits of your lymphatic system and the high
you get from it. But nobody's telling you about the
back pains I come along.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
I haven't mentioned those. The spoiler alert.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
If you are interested in getting one of those vibration plates,
make sure your back is in good shape.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
It's not. Actually, yeah, I have a crick a kink.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Yeah, it's a pain where you can't look right or
left comfortably.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
And that's what you need day rex, the whole day.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
So anyways, Yeah, the creeks and the cracks do be coming.
They hit you, yark, And I'm sorry if you're uthaful
and not experiencing this listening to this, but it does.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
I always hit you fast.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
I always thought when people talked about this, I was like,
oh my gosh, like people just need to like stretch
and work out and they don't need just you won't
have those issues, but you do.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
You stretch, I don't do anything, So of course I
have issues, But you have issues. You don't, I know,
Haley can't.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Did you see the video of Haley trying to reach
her hold her feet.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
Oh my gosh, I was peeing my pants watching that
and I didn't even have sound on.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
This sounds actually really fun.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
I need to go back and listen to a sound.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
She had scoliosis as a as a child and had
to wear a back brace, so her back is already
just like not great. But I was like, we need
to tap into some yoga moves or something.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
This is this is serious.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
It was tight.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
When she went to.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Bend down, her knee cracks so loud. It was like, damn,
this is Startnald.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
Tom he wants to try that with me?
Speaker 3 (08:36):
By the way, y'all could do it, Oh definitely.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
But we tried to do one where I was on
the bottom of shoes lifting me and it does hurt.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
You gotta lock in your everything.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
Those girls made it look too easy.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Yeah, okay, we have a quick transition. So, uh, who
you gonna call with the question on? Yeah, I have
an idea, dear Bonya nice.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
I don't want to bully you're the jingle thing too much,
but what about doing this? Have we discussed a little.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Paging doctor Tillian, doctor Redd.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
They did say they missed that stuff more than the jingle.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
Well, we could make that our new thing, but we.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Don't need to be doctor Tilly and doctor Ratt.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Correct.
Speaker 5 (09:20):
Yeah, you haven't earned that yet.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Sorry, we actually lost that. Yeah we lost it. Yeah, okay,
but we are going to do Dear Bonia, so shall
we just kick it right off?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Here we go from anonymous Dear Banya and Mesten. I'm
a thirty one year old single, independent woman looking for
my future husband. I finally decided to give a guy
at the gym a chance when on a first date.
Am I being too picky? That is her question? Am
I being too picky? He's twenty five? All right, she's
thirty one. And as we talked on our date, he
asked me a lot of insightful questions to which I
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would give thoughtful, deep answers to. When I flipped the
question back on him, he had nothing. He gets up,
he goes to the gym, goes to work, he goes
to bed. He has no hobbies, he has no friends.
I think he hates that I have a dog. Am
I wrong for one? To write him off?
Speaker 2 (10:07):
Or?
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Do I give him another chance? Two years ago, I
under a three year situationship and have been spending a
lot of time creating the best version of myself. I
don't want to have someone cling on to me because
I have a life and he doesn't. I want a
partner who's going to grow with me, but also has
their own hobbies and interests that excite them. As I
heard someone say recently, my husband is not the most
exciting thing about me, and I believe this. So what
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do I do? Longtime listener, looking forward to hearing your
advice from a hopeless romantic looking for her forever.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
Well, hobbies are overrated.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Oh my gosh, No way, no way.
Speaker 4 (10:41):
What hobbies do you have?
Speaker 3 (10:43):
I don't care about mine?
Speaker 4 (10:44):
Well, exactly, No, this is a point.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
No, No, I has hobbies, I have friends.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
I like to travel, I love to go eat, I
get some friends.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
No, I think he's gonna be I get what she's saying.
He's going to cling on to her and everything will
be what she likes. She wants some one who has
their own life, like I love doing everything with Haley,
and I am totally independent to do whatever I want
by myself, And you want to meet someone who is
independent in that regard.
Speaker 4 (11:13):
I'm just saying not having hobbies does not make him
not have his own life.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
But you want to be able to have a conversation.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
She's a sentence when she said what he does in
his day? Where was that mark?
Speaker 3 (11:25):
He has no hobbies, doesn't go out with friends, et cetera.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
He goes to the gym, he goes to work, he
goes to bed.
Speaker 4 (11:30):
Sounds like my day and I love me and she
thinks he low key. I think I'm a great partner.
That literally exactly me, But that sentence is me. I
get up, you go to ares, I go home, I
make my egg pods, and I go to bed like.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
That's my day, But that wasn't your day when you
were dating you?
Speaker 4 (11:51):
Why I cleaned my makeup brushes on Friday night? I
was not much cooler when I was single. Like, I
think you got to give this guy.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
She's cool. Sounds she's cooler than you. Sounds like she's
got a lot more going on.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
See, but here's I feel like she's trying to find
negatives about this guy's thing about it because you can
twist these. He goes to the gym, crazyself. That's good,
works ten to seven every day. That's commitment. He's a
provider's his career for the job.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
Do you know many people want people with jobs? Continue Mark,
who doesn't go out with his friends.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
You don't want an alcoholic always out there partying, going.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
The friends always sway.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Guys, guy friends are the worst.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
This is terrible advice.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
I say, girl, find someone that you want to have,
that can have it on the first few days at least,
pretend to have interesting conversations and deep answers. You want
any low he hates your dog, red flag immediately get out.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
The deep answers thing would be nice if you can
carry on a decent conversation. But he had insightful questions.
That's positive.
Speaker 4 (12:58):
And he's twenty five. A couple of years is an oof.
It's gonna ripen up real nice.
Speaker 5 (13:02):
Does he go to bed at seven? When he gets home? Like,
I'm so curious what he's doing between work and bed.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
That's probably like.
Speaker 4 (13:07):
Meal prepping and like showering and watching a little Paradise.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Boring.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
I'm yeah, I say move on. Being too picky is okay?
Speaker 1 (13:21):
You know I agree with that. But is he super hot?
Like maybe that's an element year She doesn't mention that,
but maybe he's younger.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
He's going to bring a youthful spirit when he's when
he's thirty, you're gonna be I can do this.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
Six He has no friends. He has no friends at
twenty five when he should. This should be where he's thriving.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
I think give him a few more dates.
Speaker 3 (13:43):
I do too.
Speaker 4 (13:44):
Okay, car from Love is from Love Island what nobody
understands them on?
Speaker 1 (13:52):
All right, the next one, we're going to tease. It's
about friendship boundaries. Oh boy, something you guys said in
the Bahamas made think about her friends and her boundaries,
and we're gonna get into that. We're gonna dig deep.
Coming up right after this, how about about Oh I'm
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not sure who won that one? That was like the
La Marathon right there?
Speaker 4 (14:33):
Oh yeah, so crazy and so crazy.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
All right, this is from ray she listened to the
tube changes everything. The second episode from Baja mar And
there's a question about friends and boundaries. Quick story, quick question.
I'm a thirty eight year old first time mom and
I had a friend who left my literal baby announcement
on red. She could have just hearted the photo, give
me a little bread crumb of friendship, but no acknowledgement whatsoever.
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My baby is now eight weeks old and I still
haven't heard from her. Where's the line where we have
to give grace to our friends, knowing they may struggle
with be overwhelmed by time blindness, decision fatigued, while also
respecting yourself. You deserve to have friends to show up
for you and want to make you feel loved and
that your news matters. Would love to hear any thoughts
or advice you have when it comes to navigating texting
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relationships with friends. Love you, guys from Ray.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
I am offended that I'm being compared to the eye
am inspiring the thought process of the friend who didn't
even acknowledge the baby announcement.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
You know, I, even though I read a lot, you
are left on red a lot, but not for important things.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
I think Tiny's definition of important things is different than yours.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
Yeah, it's timeline, and I guarantee if I did a
poll on what important things or we know where.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
There's a fine line.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
But I would never leave you on red for a
baby announcement or a big life event as such. If
you go, guess what and I don't respond because I
know you'll go.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
When you're something crazy. I knew my period was coming
this month, and it came. It came on the day
that I was feeling that story. Okay, very impressing anyway,
like leaving you on.
Speaker 4 (16:27):
Red for that is fair saying I could see you
leaving me on red for like saying I'm pregnant or
something that is such a.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Bull and you're just trying to get me fired up.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
No, because if I said it in like that way,
if I said, like a guess what, and then you
would just like leave me hanging there, and then I
would never pay it off because you would never ask
me what.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
You would never give me a guess what for a
pregnancy announcement.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
You never know, And don't take advantage of me.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
Don't be boy who cried wolf, because if you keep
going guess what, guess what, and I keep answering and
it's still period things, it is going to get left
on red because you took advantage of my curiosity.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
All I'm saying is Ray, I understand you.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
Oh my god, ray, this this is not her friend.
And whether if you want to know why she's not
responsive or say like, hey, I don't know if you
have things going on in your life, but it hurt
my feelings that I, you know, told you something that's
so exciting and meaningful and you didn't respond. I think
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that's a valid conversation to have. And if she doesn't
respond to that, then it's time to say friends for
a season and a reason.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
What are you smiling about?
Speaker 4 (17:42):
There's two paths you can take with my God. The
one beca is saying where you can head on, hey, like,
have a conversationalization, which I have done with you before.
Speaker 3 (17:52):
Yes, and it works. Yes.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
However, passive aggressiveness also works, Tonya.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
This is a bad habit that you don't need to
give advice on it to share on.
Speaker 2 (18:04):
You need to work through it yourself, and we don't
need other people to be.
Speaker 3 (18:07):
Being passive aggressive.
Speaker 4 (18:08):
Sometimes it works so aggressive, I don't know, because she's
not really giving you much to work with here. So
sometimes when Becca's being silent, I'll give her the silent
treatment back.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Unfortunately, it doesn't do anything for me. I just I
just know, and I'm like, oh, she's mad, all right,
I have to get in her good graces again.
Speaker 4 (18:29):
And then and then we suddenly end up at dinner.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
Yeah, so it works.
Speaker 4 (18:33):
All I'm saying. Ray two paths.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
I think you have a conversation. Let her know that
that hurt your feelings and that you can understand that
she has things going on, but for big life events,
you know you want her to be excited and.
Speaker 4 (18:46):
Maybe send it again double text, riple text, who cares?
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Or just move on? Can just move on?
Speaker 4 (18:50):
Well, if it's a really good friend, my best friend.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
How good a friend is this? If she ignores your
birth announcement, live your life?
Speaker 4 (18:58):
What is a birth announcement?
Speaker 3 (18:59):
I think saying I'm pregnant, showing a photo.
Speaker 4 (19:04):
Of your baby on the message.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
Yeah, look I had my baby. Imagine you sent me
I had my baby. Imagine I wouldn't know.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
You're taking pictures in the room.
Speaker 2 (19:13):
Yeah we can't relate because I'll be in the room
my baby out.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
Okay, wes that?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
But Ray, I think a true she's not a true friend,
and I think, GUF, she's someone you need that you
really want your life, then you have a conversation. If
she's someone that you're okay not having in your life,
you move on.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
That's my advice. You deserve. We're so happy for Send
us a photo of the baby.
Speaker 4 (19:42):
I want to see a baby eight week old baby.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
Oh so good? Yeah, send her over him.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Her they the boy girl didn't say Jazzy, says Hi,
Becca Easton, Tanya and Mark? Could you have Easton all right?
I'm meaning to I didn't ask this question that pops
in my mind. I started listening to the podcast after
the official Becca and Haley relationship reveal. I've listened to
most episodes since then, have occasionally listened to older episodes.
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Did I miss the conversation about when Mark and Easton
found out about Becca and Haley dating and what their
reaction was Listening to some mentions of Haley before the
ninety five p nickname from some of the eighteen nineteen episodes,
They say or ask things that make me think they
didn't know. Also, after listening to the recent episode, Rebecca
casually mentions Haley's mom being a figure skating choreographer. Trailblazer
(20:32):
icon Z Sarah Kawahara is an O G modern woman.
Can we get her on the pod? She's a legend.
We'd love to hear her thoughts on the American skaters
and all her personal career accomplishments. PS. It was me
asking if we were getting trolled about the jingle ha
ha ha. Love you guys. Maybe it's time to phone
a friend or fiance. Love the podcast. Thanks for being
(20:54):
so gracious and positive with the feedback you get from listeners.
We want the podcast to be as impactful in the
podcast world as it is to scrubbers. Thank you guys.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
That's so nice. Yeah, Haley's mom is a legend. She's
like if you mentioned her in the ice skating world,
everyone knows her.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
It's pretty crazy and it's really cool.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
It was fun because, like we watch a lot of
the Winter Olympics ice skating and it was fun to
like watch.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
Them with her and hear her opinions on everything. I
try to get her on.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
The plus see if she's available for the podcater on
the schedule, get on the books.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
Yeah wait, I feel like y'all knew quite early on
about me and Haley.
Speaker 1 (21:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (21:29):
My favorite moment from that was if you go back
and listen to this was so early. It was just
you and I and we're interviewing the people from the sandlot.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
Yeah, yeah, I remember that.
Speaker 5 (21:42):
Yeah, it was a lot of fun. But you had
gone on tour with Haley at that point, uh huh,
and you were telling and you're like, yeah, I got
to sleep on the bus. It was so cool, and
I was like, wow, how cool. What a good friend
to have. And I had no idea.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
I wonder when that was. That must have been like
really early, because in my mind, I felt like y'all
knew within the first few months.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
I remember a stretch of knowing you were dating someone
but not knowing who. I don't remember that happening, but
maybe it did.
Speaker 4 (22:08):
Oh you always know, was Haley.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
That's I'm saying. I don't think I was ever dating
someone Like.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
I don't think I ever talked about dating someone without
y'all knowing that who It was.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
Right, because we kind of had to know so we
could avoid pronouns.
Speaker 4 (22:20):
And that was the biggest challenge Ricky as.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
We did it for years, almost four years.
Speaker 5 (22:27):
So it was June twenty eighteen, was that Sandlot?
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Yeah? Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
I feel like y'all may have found out in like July,
because that was when she performed with Taylor Swift and.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
I came home from it and I think I was
I don't know, I was upset about something and I
feel like I.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
Told y'all about it because I remember crying and I
was like I was like having a hard time, and
I was. I think I told y'all about it that time,
so I feel like from twenty eighteen y'all knew.
Speaker 4 (23:00):
Yeah, I feel like when you were telling people, you
were telling people it.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
Was bad reaction.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
So I think I would come in as like comfort
from y'all. Like I think I told y'all like knowing
that y'all were going to be supportive, and so it
was like a comfort to tell y'all. I never felt
like the people that were consistently in my life had
I hid it from anyone. I don't know what I'm
saying either, but yeah, we did the pronoun thing for
long years.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
Yeah, you gotta be careful because by avoiding the pronoun,
you can draw attention to the fact that you're avoiding
a pronoun to I just have to be so careful.
Every story I.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
Told I was like restructuring the sentence you.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
Any time I asked you anything, it was like, I
was that was hard on my brain.
Speaker 3 (23:42):
Yeah, honestly, everyone.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
That for four years.
Speaker 2 (23:47):
Yeah, well, we'd do it for ninety five p didn't
it start till twenty twenty, which is when we did
the live show.
Speaker 4 (23:55):
And then we just started calling Haley ninety five p Yeah, which.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Was the first time we kind of started talking about it.
Speaker 5 (24:01):
Yeah, I remember, yeah that he I'm just looking back
at my notes. I have notes from August thirty first,
twenty twenty, and there's like five different pronoun moments and
then part like, Jesus is this is so hardout pronounce.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
It was?
Speaker 3 (24:14):
It was a challenge. So I really thank y'all for that.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
Yeah, and I think you we also want the podcast
to be as impactful in the podcast the world.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
As it is to you all. Yes, we just hear
about y'all, so we want you all to be happy.
That's this. It's just funny that this whole dear Bonia
thing that I started the episode saying, like they don't
want from the script.
Speaker 4 (24:41):
It's a real three sixty for Jazzy.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
Yeah, Jazzy, I hear you and I see you. Okay.
Speaker 2 (24:50):
I like this question about bot mitzvah questions because I
don't know much about I'm learning through you.
Speaker 4 (24:55):
Yeah, you just found out what Shabbat was, which was, yeah,
so interesting.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
So it's crazy because I grew up in the South obviously,
and I was not surrounded by many Jewish people at all,
so I know nothing about like I really only knew
about my beliefs and my culture.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
And like that was it.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
So then when I moved out here, I started meeting
people obviously from like all different walks of life and
beliefs and cultures. And then Haley and I were talking
about it, and She's like, almost all my friends growing.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
Up were Jewish.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
So I went to all the bar mitzvahs and bot mitzvahs,
and like, she knows everything in the Jewish culture.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
So I feel like I'm like learning.
Speaker 4 (25:33):
Like you I grew up. I mean, I guess where
I grew up in Orange County. I didn't really grow
up with many Jewish people at my high school. Yeah,
so I never went to a bought mitzvah until recently
as an adult.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Well, I Wisconsin. I grew up in Monona, Wisconsin, and no,
not only were they no Jewish people, like I heard
about Jewish people, but it seemed like this far away
things like interact with Jewish people. Well, that's like the
other side of the world thing. And then I went
to college in Madison, which is literally eight miles from Monona,
and a huge population of the University of Wisconsin is
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Jewish and that that was my education. That's when I
learned I can count to tend in Hebrew. I learned
very much. No, thanks to my friend Josh.
Speaker 4 (26:20):
You best believe I'm going to be going to a
little taking some lessons with a rabbi.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
Yeah, I just love it. I love like I love this.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Email from the scrubber because I love people wanting to
expose their kids to other religions and cultures, because the
world makes up so many different belief systems, and it's
like to only know or like learn about your own
is so limiting for yourself.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
So I love that. Well, you can go ahead and
read that.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
Sure. Thank you so much, Kristin, Banya and Marston on
this one, thank you so much. This is more of
a fun question for Tanya. My son's invited to a
bought mitzvah. I'm so excited I did for him to
be exposed to other religions and traditions, but we have
never been to anything like this. Instead of asking shat GPT,
I was hoping Ton you could give me some tips.
What does you wear? What kind of a gift does
he give to her? What is the evening like? Any
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info you give can be helpful. Thank you so much.
It's Kristin.
Speaker 4 (27:15):
So I wouldn't consider myself an expert considering I'm rk.
You might know more considering I've only been to a handful,
but i'd say what your son should wear. I think
most of the kids I see they wear like buttoned
downs and slacks and like, you know, maybe sneakers or
nice shoes, like more, you know, a little more dressed up.
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In terms of a gift, we always just give like cash,
I think is that and like a little bit more
than you would give than like a birthday gift, you
know what I mean, like a little bit more than
you would give for like a gift, because this is
like the big birthday, you know, and then uh, what
is the evening? Like it could be? I mean I've
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been to some that are like near pond and water,
and then I've been to some that are like dance
parties like glow sticks and like the people that are
you know, like like total just dance parties. Yeah, so
I don't really know. I mean I think it just
depends on like the family.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
Yeah, but it's all it's a party, right, It's not
like serious. Once you get to the party.
Speaker 4 (28:21):
There's like a ceremony portion and then there's like a
party portion. Yeah, kind of like a wedding. Oh, like
that's the reception kind of.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (28:28):
And they're often as expensive as a wedding too, Yeah,
depending on like some like some can be like very.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
Big, big deal big deals. But I think the over
arching concept of this conversation we're having is it is
great to learn about these other cultures because that's the
issues of the world in a nutshell. In my opinion
is that you know, when I was growing up, people
don't there are people who don't celebrate Christmas. That was
so weird to me. And that's weird. Those people are weird,
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and then you meet them, like, oh, they're people like me,
and we all like similar things and we're all similar ale.
Speaker 4 (28:59):
Yeah, And you know what's actually I didn't know much
about like the Jewish holidays, and like they're very like
there's some that are so meaningful and sweet and they're
all about like just like bringing your family together at
the end of the day, you know. So I really
I love the Jewish holidays.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
That's what I was gonna say. A lot of it
when I've asked Tanya about it. It's like, it's about
togetherness and being together with your family and the people
you love.
Speaker 3 (29:23):
And I'm like, how it's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (29:25):
Yeah, but yeah, I love I love people exposing it's
it's it's a It only benefits your child to expose
them to more, otherwise they grow up like me, and
they're like.
Speaker 3 (29:35):
What, all right? Shall we finish the episode?
Speaker 1 (29:46):
I think we should take a break and notice on
the birthday game. I'm on it. Let's do it.
Speaker 6 (29:58):
Coming up next, we're back, no competition, none.
Speaker 1 (30:23):
Before we get to the birthday game, the celebrity whatever
birthday game, Anika says, Dear Becca, Tanya, Mark, and Easton.
I thought you'd find this funny. On Valentine's Day, my
boyfriend and I worked together. He drove me up to
Tahoe to skew with my cousin and he hiked around
there with his brother. We said Happy Valentine's Day, but
that was it. No cars, no present, no nothing. We've
been together for five years. We have the best relationship.
(30:44):
He's very kind and thoughtful and sweet. Flash forward to
me listening to the podcast when you guys were talking
about that, even a card or flowers, it's all that's needed.
I was folding laundry and he came in and he
was listening as well. Easton said the guys should do
something at the bare minimum. My boy headford really bad
and said, did you play this for me? And we
were both cracking out. The next day, I came home
with it to a card, a full weekend of plans
(31:06):
for a late Valentine's Day weekend. Thank you all for
the little push. Love you guys, And I'm a day
one scrubber. You might remember me. I was the one
who wrote in early who wrote in early on asking
you to harmonize for Becca, back when you were the
code for every commercial.
Speaker 2 (31:22):
Wow, I'm still it should be scrubbing.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
It's scrubbing.
Speaker 3 (31:28):
Yeah, we love that. I love that. I just want
to give her an a plug.
Speaker 4 (31:36):
But I'd also like to point out that she said
he did nothing for her originally. I know she's still happy.
Speaker 3 (31:41):
She is happy, but she said thanks for the push,
which means she she did want it deep down, just
saying Tonya's still hanging She's rolling down, but she's hanging on. Wait. Okay.
Speaker 2 (31:56):
Also, the last the cat the girl that had the
scary cats into photo and it is the cutest I know.
Speaker 4 (32:02):
It's sow.
Speaker 3 (32:03):
It looks like the cat from a Shrek.
Speaker 5 (32:07):
Ess.
Speaker 3 (32:09):
There's no evil, I know.
Speaker 4 (32:11):
The fact that this cat is so mean to people
makes me like.
Speaker 2 (32:16):
It was so funny watching picturing the scene of people
running and hitting their head and falling downstairs.
Speaker 3 (32:22):
Though from this cat, it makes it even funnier.
Speaker 4 (32:25):
Matt Matt Matt Mark told me today that he thinks
I was a cat in a former life.
Speaker 1 (32:28):
I didn't. That was somebody else that said that I
didn't want you tag team. I tag teamed, Yes.
Speaker 3 (32:33):
He said. I won't deny that. Yeah. I was like,
excuse me, that makes sense, but not.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
Sicany said it because I was on my computer and
you were hovering next to me at a closer than
normal human distance. And I don't even think I was
looking something up for you. You were just watching what
I was doing on my laptop.
Speaker 4 (32:52):
I was curious.
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Great, All right, are you ready for our little birthday
game action here? Yes, a week for birthdays here in
the world that we live in. All right, let's begin.
You want to play Easton?
Speaker 2 (33:05):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (33:05):
Yes, I would?
Speaker 1 (33:06):
All right, right, then we will start with Tanya on
this first round. Here we go putting my score sheet together, Tanya.
How old is bad Bunny this week? Bad Bunny as
a birthday?
Speaker 4 (33:19):
Bad Bunny is thirty four?
Speaker 1 (33:22):
He's thirty four. Well he's not so Becca, How old
do you think he is turning?
Speaker 3 (33:26):
He is thirty two?
Speaker 1 (33:27):
He is thirty two? Very nice, And that's how this
game usually goes. And we don't even get to Easton
on that one. Becca will start with you on this one.
Carrie Underwood has a birthday this week? How old is
she turned on this Oh?
Speaker 3 (33:38):
I would say Carrie Underwood is.
Speaker 1 (33:45):
Forty two, forty two? No Easton thirty seven, thirty seven, Tanya?
Speaker 4 (33:50):
She is forty three, Yes, very nice.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
Very good. She is turning forty three currently forty two. Easton,
We start with you on this one. How old is
John hamm turning? This week? We all love John Ham?
Speaker 5 (34:01):
John Ham is fifty one, not fifty.
Speaker 4 (34:04):
One, Tanya, fifty five?
Speaker 1 (34:07):
Fifty five, Yes, he's fifty.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
Five because he seems younger.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
That goals for John Ham. All right, back to you, Tanya.
Jack Harlowe has a birthday this week? How old is
Jack Harlow?
Speaker 4 (34:21):
I think he was young when he found success, So
I'm gonna guess twenty nine.
Speaker 1 (34:25):
Twenty nine.
Speaker 3 (34:26):
Becka, I'm gonna say twenty seven.
Speaker 1 (34:28):
Twenty seven Easton twenty six, twenty six. He is twenty
eighth tie between you two, but Becca, Tanya went over,
So Beca gets the point and we are tied at.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
Chris is right right, Rice is right. Rules.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
This is right, but only as a tie record. That's
the price is right rules coming to play? All right, Becca,
We go to you now for Olivia Dan no banks
to star up and coming.
Speaker 4 (34:54):
She was up and came, okay, man I need.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
Olivia Dean has a birthday this week? How old is
she turning? Becca, I just feel oh not twenty five? Easton?
Speaker 4 (35:04):
Guess though, Olivia Dean.
Speaker 5 (35:06):
Yes, Olivia Dean, she's twenty two.
Speaker 4 (35:09):
No, Tanya, I'm gonna say twenty seven.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
She is turning twenty yes, help, thank you. Tanya is
one correct answer away from winning this game. This is
a big and we are starting with Easton on this one. Easton.
Will I am has a birthday this week? Will I
am from the Black Eyed Seas? How old is will
i am turning?
Speaker 5 (35:32):
Let's get it started. Will i Am is fifty four.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
Fifty four, Tanya fifty six fifty six Beca fifty one
fifty one is correct? Time the game. Three for Tanya,
three for Becca, none for Easton.
Speaker 4 (35:49):
Could you get three August seven?
Speaker 1 (35:52):
One more? We have one more for you. I'm gonna
make it a good one, all right. Here we go
coming up this week we have a birthday four Eva Longoria.
Eva Longoria has a birthday this weekend. How old is
she turning? And for this one we go to Tanya
to begin. And this one should decided, might not, but
should forty five forty five for Eva Longoria. We go
(36:16):
to Beccatilly now forty seven, Easton forty three this weekend.
Whether we have a winner, it has been determined the winner.
This will decide it this weekend. Eva Jacqueline Longoria, bath
(36:36):
Stone on Sunday, turns fifty one years old.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
Becca, your winner, Longoria, we weren't even clad. Mostly con
runs to her. Yeah, Clo, shoot next time.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
And you knew Carrie Underwood, so one of them was
a layup for you. And still the Angels.
Speaker 4 (37:08):
Why do you like to play the game is a
little joy? Okay, okay, yeah.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
Well that's all for now, folks. But don't worry, don't worry,
don't worry.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
We're not We're not we because one thing we are
is consistent.
Speaker 4 (37:23):
For nine years, half and half half.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
Yeah, long show, short shows, it doesn't matter. It's consistent.
Speaker 4 (37:30):
Yeah, we got shows. We got shows in different area code.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
I don't know what's on your area.
Speaker 2 (37:38):
We got shows, the multiplying and.
Speaker 1 (37:45):
Control.
Speaker 3 (37:47):
All right, Well, we'll be back Monday. We love you
so much.
Speaker 1 (37:51):
Have a great b
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