July 28, 2026 • 48 mins
Becca and Tanya are back from their spa day birthday tradition and it was productive! But could this be the exit of “Tender Tanya”??
We dive into a major shake-up with a Love Island couple we thought would go the distance, a college is offering an “influencer” degree, and if “liking” a post on Instagram counts as cheating.
Plus, Tanya opens up about her emotional journey to becoming a mom.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Becka Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hello everybody, We are scrubbing.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
In Happy Monday, July twenty seventh for everybody listening. Shot
out of a Cannon today.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
She is in a timestamp mood. Yes, she's focused on
time stamps today.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
So I'm focused on improving our podcast with time stamps.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
With time stamps, I think it's gonna help, you know, one,
one little improvement at a time.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Not full video episodes, but timestamps.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Well, don't get me started out. Don't get me started
on that.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
I've been fighting that good fight for years and I
have to pick and choose my battles. This is something
I feel like I can take on my own and
it's just a small sliver of improvement.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
That I think you love.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Is a consumer of podcast?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, So you're shot out of the canon.
What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Shot out of a cannon means like I'm full four
let's go bring it on type of thing.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
Oh, I have to bleep that, John.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
What prompted that energy?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Well, I'll tell you Becca.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
So actually I got a lot of really sweet dms
from last week's podcast that I want to say thank
you to our listeners because it is really really sweet
that people care that much and it means a lot
to me. I don't want to cry, so I'm not
going to cry.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Also, I want to say that so many people resonate
and relate, whether they're on the journey right now or
have you experience the journey.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
So and a lot of people were dming me like
why do you not talk about your fertility journey on
the podcast? And I there's several reasons, the main one
being that we decided BECA and I. You and I
decided years ago that we wanted the podcast to be
a place of joy, levity, light. We didn't want to
bring seriousness into it.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Remember this, Yeah, but not so much about our personal lives.
I don't think that. I don't feel aligned on that.
Oh really, yeah, I don't really feel aligned on that
that part of it.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Because here's the thing.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
If I come in here every week and I'm sitting
here and I cry every week because I'm actually sharing
what I'm going through.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
It's so sad.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
It's like sad, I'm crying every week. It's not a
like light place. It's not a happy place, but it's
triggering for people that it.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Can be triggering for people, and we can when we
talk about it, put you know, a trigger warning. But
I also think it's your life and what you're going through,
like it's the biggest thing in your life right now.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Really Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
And also two tiered tiered step two huh is coming
to work gives me like an escape. It's like the
only time in my day where I'm like not constantly
thinking about it. Okay, So it's like that that three.
I feel like it's triggering for people because it's all
I see. It's like my whole algorith them like I'm
(03:01):
it's just it's so consuming. So it's like again, this
is a podcast where we go for like levity and
lighthearted and like fun.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
And the final thing is I'm just up to my
ears with advice, like I can't have any more in
my ear, you know. I'm coming home every day with
like a different coworker that saying, have you tried musin X.
It helps like your mucus and your vagina thicken or whatever,
you know. And then I'm coming home and telling Robbie
I want to try musinx and he's like babe, like.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
You do really ingest advice as opposed to thank you.
But I'm I'm good, I'm on my own journey with this.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I yes, I ingest, and I also too don't want
to like people are always ask me questions and I'm like,
I don't not a doctor, So the last thing that
I want to do is like share what I'm doing,
because I'm just throwing spaghetti at the wall at this point,
just seeing what sticks, no pun intended.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I think that you're I don't really think you have
to ex blame yourself on why you don't want to
talk about it, but I do think it's totally up
to you how much you want to talk about my
whole thing. Well, I do want this podcast to be
a safe place, but this I mean a happy place
and like light. But I also like we are living
life and going through things, and we've always shared, Like
(04:17):
even through your dating experience, you shared when you were down.
You know, there's been times where we've shared things that
aren't exactly happy, go lucky, and that's okay. So I
never want you to feel that you don't have space
to talk about it on here because of like me.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
No, no, no, and not you at all, but I
do we specifically. I remember vividly having these conversations with
you years ago about planemic, and.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
It was like it was about the state of the world,
which can be very heavy, yes.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
But we were very much like aligned in the sense
of like, we don't want heaviness, we don't want any
of that. We just want this to be like joy, light, lighthearted.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
But I don't think it was relating to I don't
think I took on that agreement with it being about lives.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
I honestly never experienced anything like this in my life,
so this is the first time for.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Me, I know. But I'm just saying, share as much
or as little as you want. And there's gonna be
people who are triggered by it because it's traumatizing, or
they're going through it and they don't want to see anymore.
Or there's gonna be people who are like, it's so
nice to hear someone talking about it and going through
this because it makes me feel like I'm not alone.
And you're always gonna have different versions of what people
are going through and how they resonate with things.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Yeah, Like I'm I don't even call it, I call
it fertility. Journey.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
I'm not people like infertility. I'm like, I don't I'm
not infertile, yo, Like my levels are high.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Okay, so let's get that straight.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
What do we call this lack of control journey?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Like, yeah, like let go let god journey.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
I was like I've seen so my algorithm is so
much like the fertility journey for a type a person
is such a struggle because you're so used to just like, Okay,
you put in the work and you get your outcome,
you know what I mean. Like this is just so
not that, like it's.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
A crazy not lesson, but it's a good practice of
letting go of control because I don't like to do that.
I'm saying, a good practice for someone who doesn't like
to do that. You know, I don't like to do speak.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Practice is not making perfect. Let me tell you I've
been practicing. It's not working.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yes, it is. It's just it's on its own timeline,
and you don't like something not being on your timeline.
Which we knew that about. Even Robbie proposing that was
a whole thing too. Oh, you didn't have control over
when he was going to.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Propose that man, and he made you practice well, Tortoise
the turtle over there. I think back on that, I'm like,
she really took his time with all due respect in
a timely manner.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Yeah, as someone who got engaged seven years after the fact,
I felt like he did a perfect time timelife.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
If I were engaged to you, we'd have some talks.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Yeah, well, y'all do have talks because we went and
had a little small day.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
So oh wait, hold on, I meant to get to
somewhere about this fertility conversation. Why I'm out of cannon, No, no,
we can go back to that. But why I'm shot
out of the cannon is because I got my period
and I decided that I'm taking a month off of
just all the everything everything in my head, and I've
(07:32):
like refocused into just like work.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
And live and laughing and love and live.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
And laughing and loving, and so I do I feel
a little bit lighter. And so I'm like trying to
rail and rejigger the podcast. I want to like make
the podcast better. I want to like keep working out
and like kind of get my physical shape back into
you know, lots to take on in one month. But anyways,
that's why I find this middle ground.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Maybe we don't go from wanting stream to the next
and we just like merge the two together.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, we'll see. But anyways, I'm feeling good.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
I'm glad to hear you got your period.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
I was feeling what I would describe as menstrel ludial energy. Yes, well,
we went to so many moms. I feel like every
year we go to the SPA for Tony's birthday. But
she feels like it's only happened twice before. But anyways,
I feel like it's.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Three times out of the last I went to my
for my birthday last year.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
I think that's what I was. Anyways, we love a
spa day tradition. Yeah, And so we were at the
SPA and I'm like, we're just having a great relaxing
time and then Tanya goes, I just miss you. Mind you.
I deal with this with my beautiful, wonderful fiance as well.
When we're in the same room and have been together NonStop,
(08:54):
and I'm like, oh, well, I'm I'm here, I'm right here,
and she was like, I just you know, I feel
like we haven't had quality time and we're drifted. Our
friendship has drifted apart, and I'm like, I have not
felt this at all, So I'm so sorry I haven't
picked up on this. But next time, just communicate with
(09:15):
me so we can just re establish things. Because I'm
feeling fine. I'm feeling good. Nothing's changed in my heart.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
And I was reassuring to hear as someone who feels
their friend is drifting away, I feel nothing.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I feel fine.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
No, I just have secure attachment with you.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
Ah. Yes, it must be nice, so.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
I said, Unfortunately, whether you try to push me away
or not, I'm not going anywhere. We had to re
establish things. So I didn't know we were drifting, but
we're back.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
So it was a combination of things. Because I've been
on one.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
I'm upset. I didn't tell her about the Taylor Swish wedding,
so okay, yes, however, that's why she felt like we
were drifting.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
No, it was before. It was weak before that. But
what I did not take into consideration was a lot
of your emotional mental energy was going to with your
going to your fiance for the movie release, and so
you were a little bit distant, but but rightfully so,
you had a lot going on, which I wasn't really
thinking about I wasn't that wasn't in the forefront in
(10:19):
my mind. I'm like, she's just not available to me,
and like she hates me. And now she's not telling
me about Taylor and Travis's wedding, and now she did
not hear for my birthday and she hates me.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
I asked about like go go, and then it's brought
back up in the conversation of a strip.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
So anyways, anyways, a lot of progesterone in my system
combode with that, combode with Haley's movie coming out.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
I was just feeling a lot of things and I.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Need I need to get away. I think I think
I need a break, just someone people just giving to me,
filling me up.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Well, I'm here, I'm here to do that now, right, Yeah, yeah,
I'm good.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
I'll be seeking that out.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
Yeah yeah yeah. But I want to miss you. I mean,
I feel the same way about Robbie what.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
You've shared on your story. Yeah. And then he actually
initiated the conversation.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
He said I miss you, which he never does.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
So I was like, you've trained him well, and I
was like so taken aback by it.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
I was like, you finally understand the feeling. Oh yeah,
because I'm like it's.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
We Yes, I see you every day, so it's like,
how can I miss you? But like the quality time's
not there because we've been constantly We worked during the day,
so we're not together during the day, and then we've
had a social event every single night, and then we
were in San Diego, so it was like we just
had and then the week before we had the kids, so.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
There was just no quality time.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Yeah. I messaged telling you on her story and I
was like, I just am so happy I'll found each other.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
Same, same, yeah, And I think about that a lot.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Whenever I get like sad about the fertility stuff, I'm like,
at least I have a partner in life at is
as amazing as he is, right truly, Yeah, carries me through.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Yeah, tgfr Stable. Thank God for Robbie. Yeah yeah, yeah.
We were always looking for your study.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
Eddie, and I found him, I know, thank God.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
So you want to say to you this weekend?
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Yeah, would you do this weekend?
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Well? So Haley was out of town, so Friday night
I was just like a lone ranger and I ordered
every meal to my home. I only talked to Haley
on the phone. That's the only person I actually spoke
out loud to other than Phoebe, which I realized I
talked to her a lot.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
I talked to her when it's just us in the house.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Yeah, And then I realized, I'm essentially talking to myself,
but I do it a lot. Like I was really
thinking about how often I'm like saying my little ritual
things to her, you know her in the world.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
You always talk to me.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
No, but I didn't. Sorry, I didn't want to talk.
I was like happy to be silent, you know. But anyways,
I was Carson and Alley came over with their son,
their one year old son, and I was telling them.
I was like, yeah, Friday, I only talked to Haley, like,
that's the only time I spoke out loud. And I
just sat in silence. And he was like, and you
just ordered every meal to your door. And I was
like yeah. And he's like, wow, that's a dream. He's like,
(13:22):
you don't get that when you have when you have
a child.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
That's honestly not my dream.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
I know it's not. It's not everyone's dream, yeah, but
I know it's yours.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
I'm happy for you.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Thank you. I had a great time. I got olive
garden delivered and what else, Well, I had ice cream
and then also snacks late at night, and then I
had hi that's not neither here nor there.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Yeah that does matter, It really doesn't, it really does.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
I don't think I was high that night, oh yeah, yeah, okay,
but anyways, I would do that on a sober night
as well. Yeah. So I was just vibing by myself.
And then Saturday I had a day with children. I
Alian Carson came over and swam, and then that night
I went to the park Huntington Gardens with Hailey's sister
(14:07):
and then.
Speaker 3 (14:08):
Oh it's the Huntington Gardens. Is it pretty?
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Oh my god, it's gorgeous.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
Yeah. Everybody tells me that it's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
And they talked aren't allowed, no, Yeah, but they had
a swing band played. They do like summer concert so
it's like people all bring their like picnics and stuff.
So I went with Haley's sister and then her two kids,
niece and nephew, and it was really fun, so hot,
just so hot, but I was doing cartwheels and round
offs because there was an open field and I just
(14:33):
felt youthful. My whole body is in pain. Yeah, like
every muscle.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
It creeps up on you and you do stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
But it felt so easy doing it, Like I was like,
it's like riding a bike.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
I just whenever I play in the pool with the kids.
The next day, I'm like.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
Aha, my shoulders maybe into some stretch glasses or something.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Let me tell you it's coming back. I'm doing it
this month. This is the month for me to get
it back.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Yeah. Is this like the exit of tender Tanya? What's happening? Wonderful?
Speaker 3 (15:03):
That extreme? I still love, Like I'm still gonna like
sleep and kitten heels. Yeah, and we're not like going
to the clue or anything like that.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
But but like if we went and had dinner, would
you get a drink? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (15:16):
I had a drink on Friday too. Actually, how was
it amazing? Except you know what I realized, Well, I'll
tell you when we come back.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
Wow, we're back.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
We're back. Do you know what I realized? But I
don't like drinking.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
The tease of a century. But you just said it
was amazing.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
It was in the moment.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
So here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
I just had this conversation with Ali.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Oh really Yeah, So Okay.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
So my we had like a really fun dinner and
my inlaws. My in laws wanted to take me out
for my birthday. What I also realized when you don't
have like a activity for your birthday, like you don't
have like a dinner or anything like that, you want
a lot of little activities with with a lot of
people my birthday celebrate you, yes, which is so nice.
So I'm like, I feel like I've been celebrating my
I'm going to lunch tomorrow for my birthday. I'm like
(16:19):
I've been celebrating my birthday for two weeks now.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Fun so loved. Oh what is the the my house is?
What is the saying where people complain about things?
Speaker 3 (16:31):
About complaining? I love it so nice, Like you know
what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
When people come like, yeah, some mistake's to buttery, the
lobsters to lobstery. No, not a lobstery anyways.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
I understand, but it is nice.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
So I went to my in laws took me to
dinner and it was a really fun dinner. It's like
this restaurant that I love. And I had a glass
of wine.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Okay, then I.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Basically finished pauline A's glass of wine.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Then my mother in law was like flirting with not
flirting with, like trying to talk to this job at
the table, charming to like set Pauline up, and so
they sent over champagne. Wow, So I had what is
that one and a half plus champagne? So two and
a half drinks by the time I got home that
night at a headache.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
Champagne destroys me.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
I literally had I was like, how am I hungover
before the next day? Like this, this is some.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
Crazy I even drink in like a year, right.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
I'll have like a little bit like when I get
my period, I'll have, you know, a little something to
take the edge off. But it's not more than like
a half a glass of wine. I'm not you know,
throwing anything back really right, So yeah, it's been a minute.
But like the fact that I had a headache at
ten pm on a Friday or whatever, it was like
nine pm.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
I will rarely drink champagne because I immediately feel like
I will nap and have a headache.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Yeah, it's horrible. So it's like the drinking was fun
in the moment.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
I had so much fun, but then I'm like, I
have a headache now, and I'm trying to go to
bed and this is gonna mess up my sleep.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
This happened when we were in Cabo, and I don't
know if it's just everything's better quality and stronger if
they just do heavier pores. But we would get a
drink at the pool and we were like, we need
to go nap.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Well, also because of the heat.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
It was very hot in here. Yeah, but normally you're
sweating it out, so you almost sometimes you feel like
you're actually not like, I.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
Know, are you kid?
Speaker 2 (18:28):
Say it's your wedding, but yeah, yes, And when.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
We were Palm Springs and you were like throwing up
during our Sabrina Carpenter.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
However, that was different because I was in the pool drinking,
so I wasn't even feeling.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
How No, So the heat dehydrates you and then alcohol
dehydrates you.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
It's like a double whammy.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Okay, Well, anyways, the whole time we were like, gosh,
we are such lightweights. We immediately need a nap after
we go to like drink. And then Ali texted me
and said she hasn't basically drink in a year, and
she said she had a margarita and she was like,
I feel drunk from one margerity, yeah, even why do
we do this?
Speaker 1 (19:04):
And I was like, well, it's so it's when you're
at a social it's so fun.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
There's nothing better than just like that first fiel or
first drink, feeling nothing better.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
Nothing better. I was flying high at dinner.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
And then you wake up and you're like, was it
that fun?
Speaker 3 (19:20):
That's fine. I took some motrin and I was able
to sleep, So it was fun. It was that fun.
So yeah, I don't know, maybe I'll have like a drink.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
With you, but well, how lucky would I be? How
lucky could I be?
Speaker 3 (19:33):
Do you know what else?
Speaker 1 (19:34):
I realize that that I'm so awkward. I always talk
about Zoom.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
And stuff like that. How much I hate Zoom.
Speaker 1 (19:40):
I really hate Zoom because I just don't think I'm
my best self on Zoom. I had this like meeting
with this person from the Food Network. It was just
like a get to know them type thing, and I'm like,
I'm so awkward.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
You probably weren't awkward I am, but what I don't
even I can't even picture you being awkward. I know
I don't have that vibe at all.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
I don't think so either, But I left it like
not feeling confident and I don't like that. And I'm like,
it's the zoom. It's these screens.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
Yeah, it's the damn phone because I don't know, I
can't be one hundred percent myself through the zoom.
Speaker 2 (20:23):
Well, now you should just request in person meetings.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
Yeah, I'll come to you.
Speaker 2 (20:26):
Yeah, I'll come wherever you are.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
Yeah, whatever city you live in, I'm there.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
You should just say before we if you have to
do a zoom, you should say, can we start with
an icebreaker and just play the Guess Who game?
Speaker 3 (20:37):
Really quick? An excellent idea. It might take a while.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Tell them to allow fifteen minutes you know start time.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Yeah, could work. Also, I might take an AI camp
this summer.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
An AI camp?
Speaker 3 (20:55):
What is that where I learned about AI?
Speaker 2 (20:58):
Where like the Apple Store or they do like free
things for older people?
Speaker 3 (21:04):
No, at a college campus, Thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
I mean, I'm like, it's weird because AI is so
complicated my feelings towards it, because it's happening, whether I
want to support it or not, you know, like it's
it's it's inevitable.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
In twenty years, AI is probably gonna be doing your surgeries.
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Yeah, I mean you won't even say twenty years then,
I mean, I don't know. It's going fast.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
It's going fast.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Anyways. It's kind of like get on the boat or
get left behind exactly, And it's hard to know where
like the moral part of me stand, like my morality
around it, you.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
Know, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
But it's also like it is one of those things
where you go, Okay, our parents didn't want to learn
things about technology, and if you didn't choose to learn
and move forward, you know, I don't know, complicated, But anyways,
where are you taking it? Are you going to code?
What are you going to do?
Speaker 3 (22:01):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
I'm not one hundred percent sure this is the place
for me. I'm just like doing some initial investigating.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Huh what are you trying to do with AI?
Speaker 3 (22:09):
Just like learn about it?
Speaker 2 (22:10):
But like what are you wanting to learn? Which you want?
Speaker 1 (22:14):
What I can?
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (22:14):
Yeah, yeah, Like CHATCHYBT is like my Google, my like
Google search, but beyond that, like what can it do
for me?
Speaker 3 (22:20):
How can I help me with?
Speaker 2 (22:21):
You say, to figure that out? You're going to pay
for a class?
Speaker 3 (22:24):
Can I just help you? Know?
Speaker 1 (22:26):
I need like I need initial base and care. Yeah,
hands on definitely get not through a screen, not with
an AI.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
I don't need AI.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
Teaching me about AI. That could be a disaster. Okay,
I feel like Robbie could.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
He seems quite knowledgeable in his he's very knowledgeable. Yes,
maybe he can give you some tips and then if
you need further you could take a class.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
I don't know about that.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
What else are you learning about?
Speaker 3 (22:51):
I need something? Is over?
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Okay? Tanya sent me up. She was like, oh Hannah
Berner got bowtok and her drawings. You can't smile. And
then Sam said, the article is from June Thirtieth's like
a month since Donya has missed about this happening breaking
news here in grubbing in Hannah Burner.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
First of all, Okay, so it's not about the breaking news,
because nobody comes here to get breaking news. This is
not the podcast for breaking news. However, it is our
interpretation or our perspective on that news that I think
is of interest.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
What's what's your perspective?
Speaker 3 (23:29):
Well, so I don't follow Hannah Burner.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
Oh my gosh, you're missing out.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
I don't follow Hannah Burner, nor do I follow the
Giggly squad fill and no I never watched Summer House.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
I don't know who these people are.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
There are two women in podcasts.
Speaker 3 (23:41):
Well, they came late in the game.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
They took off though, that's why surpassed us quickly.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
That's neither here nor there. Okay, they're not in my orbit.
So this popped up in my like discover page and
I now follow the Giggly Squad because I really enjoy
this clip that I saw. But it was of Hannah.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
She was like laughing and her face wasn't moving, and
so I was very intrigued of like what she got done.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
But I thought it was also really cool that.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
She didn't like go to get it like fixed or whatever,
or like cancel the podcast and yeah you can get
it like dissolved.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
No not you can't get filler dissolved, not like.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Yeah, you can go into a sauna and like heat
it out, because like the sauna.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
You can get stuff done, but it's not in it.
I think she's probably doing all the time, assuming she's
probably doing everything she can.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
They could have paused their podcast for a beat, like
you know what I mean? If she I just like
that she's owning it.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
Yeah, Well, a podcast isn't typically audio.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
So I saw THEIRS, I was like a clip.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
You know they have they have the video option, But
she could have just said The impressive part is that
she didn't say, we're only releasing audio. Yeah, for however
long this takes. She's giving the people the gift of
going through this with her because one of the funniest things,
like when someone goes to the dentist and gets a
shot and they can't smile, but hers is permanent until
(25:08):
it goes.
Speaker 3 (25:08):
Away for like a three months.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
So basically she had I think she got it for
her TMJ.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Yeah, but I've also had TMJ botalks and my face
did not do that.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
The girl that does my bowtox Brianna. She was saying
that sometimes if you go to someone who specializes in
the TMJ aspect and not the cosmetic part, they just
put as much as they need it. They just are
focused on making your TMJ pain go away, as opposed
to thinking about the cosmetic repercussions. And I don't know, I.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
Always have to think about the cosmetic repercussions.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Spoiler alert botox. I'm just like throwing caution to the wind. Really,
I mean, I trust her, she knows where to put it.
But like I've had times where I've gone to someone
in my eyebrow was like up higher than the other.
But that you can fix because you can do different muscles,
you know. But I think with the jaw you can't.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
Really.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
I think it just has to run its course. But
it is hilarious and Page, oh my god, the video
is hilarious. If you had that, I would not be
able to control my laughter.
Speaker 3 (26:13):
Would be able.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
I don't even know what I would do if I
had that. It would stress me out. It would stress
me out. Yeah, it would send me into a spiral.
Speaker 2 (26:24):
Yeah, No, I love her. I love She's so funny.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
Yeah, new fans. Shout out to Hannah and Page. You
got a new fan and me and they've.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
Really got something going on. Girls. Welcome to the.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Podcast Onto something over there at Giggly Squad.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Okay, so speaking of last wait, No, I want to
talk about. Did you go to Arizona State? Is that
where you went? No? The other one? You went to
the other one, the party School?
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (26:52):
I did you went to the party School? Yes? What
was that one called University of Arizona.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Oh, it's tough. Why there's so many there's two Okay,
well I had a fifty fifty I missed a so
Arizona state. I'm assuming your rival, yes, rival has launched
is launching a degree on becoming an influencer.
Speaker 3 (27:13):
Yes, I saw this.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
What are your thoughts on this?
Speaker 1 (27:17):
I think it's a terrible idea. Really, Yes, why Because
here's the thing.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
I think that.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
A lot of a lot of kids these days, the
kids these days, that's like their go to. If you
ask all these kids what they want to be, they
say they want to be TikTok stars and influencers. Giving
them a course where they think that that's something that
like they all. I don't know, I just find it
to be problematic for our future.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
Yeah, I mean that's fair. But I also think it's
a specific personality of someone who, once they get into
the world of making videos and editing videos and doing it,
decid I, oh, do I have the is this what
I want?
Speaker 5 (28:03):
Like?
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Do I have the personality for this? Do I have
the like desire the consistency? Because the thing about it's
such a luck It's such a lucky thing. And I
think there is a way that you can use tools
and metrics to grow a platform like I do think
you could just start from the bottom and use like
information you have to build. But I think it's I
(28:27):
would say luck that your a video goes viral, And
then I think it's being someone that's interesting. Like I
think about Alex Earl and she was just consistent in
like making videos of her getting ready for her parties
in college and people loved that. She was so like
she was such a party girl and owned it, like
she was just who she was and she was taking
us along with her. And instead of staying stagnant and
(28:49):
that being even though she still like shows her getting
ready to go out and party and stuff, she's elevated
herself into this business woman and has done so much
more and that it's not a lack of hard work.
Is it a fun job? Is it like a dream job? Sure?
But like is she working her ass off? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (29:10):
I don't think that this is Like I think there's
space for everybody and anybody that wants to be an influencer.
I think can be I think where my where I
feel like, And I think people do this in real
life where they like go to build their social media
whilst they also are doing something else that's like paying
the bills, right, and then if they catch them, if
(29:31):
they are able to get brand deals, if they're able
to make a living out of it, then they.
Speaker 3 (29:34):
Let go of that job.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
But I feel like just like going straight into it
taking a course and like graduating with an honor or
an honor and influencing or whatever.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
I just I was just a class.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
Wait, I agree, it is a degree.
Speaker 1 (29:51):
Yeah, it's concerning to me for just for that purposes,
because I feel like it's something that you should do
in tandem with alongside something else. And I just feel
like when your frontal lobe is not developed, you're not
gonna see that.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
Here's the thing. They're already online. Every the kids are
already online. They're already being to do it. So if
they have a chance to use their brain and have
a marketing mindset to where even if it wasn't them
being an influencer working with brands and knowing how marketing
strategy works, I don't think it's a negative thing. If
they're already going to be online, why not make money.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
Because they can learn all this on AI? Why are
you taking a class?
Speaker 2 (30:34):
I hate when it goes back around like that.
Speaker 3 (30:38):
Damn, damn, I hate that for me.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
Anyways, it's it's interesting and it might be one of
those things where it was like that was a bust,
you know, we don't need to do that again, or
it might create more people good at marketing and strategy.
Speaker 3 (30:54):
Good job as U.
Speaker 1 (30:56):
Speaking of social media, you know, it's so freaking funny
and that, like.
Speaker 3 (31:01):
I I.
Speaker 1 (31:04):
Get what's the word tricked so much on social media?
So there's this girl that I follow. I don't follow her. Sorry,
I don't follow her. She came up in my you
know whatever, my discovery phage.
Speaker 3 (31:16):
And it was like.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
I lived this amazing life and like click or like
comment below comment class for me to send you what.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
Was her name? The lazy Millionaire?
Speaker 1 (31:30):
No to send me, I'll send you my five day
crash course on like whatever.
Speaker 3 (31:38):
This is right, So what do I do? Comment below class? Okay?
Speaker 1 (31:43):
So she DMS me and she goes and it's all automated.
I can tell it's not her, right, it's like all
it's just like it's a message and it goes. In
order for me to send you the class, you have
to follow me, okay, So I go over to her
page click follow. Meanwhile, Robbie's right next to me during
this whole thing. I'm like, babe, this girl's gonna get
this class and like learn all this stuff. And then
(32:03):
she goes click the link and like answer these questions.
And Robbie was like, babe, this is some sort.
Speaker 2 (32:09):
Of pyramid scheme. Yes, em mel, yes, and everybody's doing it.
Speaker 3 (32:15):
Yeah, but why Okay, So I was gonna fall for it.
Speaker 1 (32:18):
But then so she kept sending me the link and
I wasn't clicking the link, and then she like sent
me another automated thing like make sure you click the
link you to get my course, And I was like,
I don't want your course anymore. You said that, no,
but I just ignored it because then Robbie told me,
this's like some scheme. But then I'm like, obviously a
lot of people are falling for it. What's the scheme?
How am I getting schemed?
Speaker 2 (32:38):
Not schem? I don't think it's that. I think it's
just like your it's probably like you buy my course.
So that's how she makes money.
Speaker 3 (32:45):
Oh so I would have to buy it. You probably
she was gonna send it to me for free.
Speaker 2 (32:49):
I don't think nothing's for free. But girl, shoot, yeah,
it's a it's a thing. It's like a business plan. Basically,
it's almost like how to build it's basically becoming an
influencer degree.
Speaker 3 (33:02):
So this is what they would teach you at ASU.
Literally it's a step.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
By step probably generated from AI, of like how should
I teach people to grow their platform?
Speaker 3 (33:12):
Wow, she got me this girl.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
It's very I mean, listen, it's business minded, it's marketing.
I followed this girl and she sent me a what
I think is of generated voice memo and it was like,
oh my gosh, I can't believe you followed me. That's
how it started to us, like oh, like she knows
me from watching The Bachelor or something. No, just like
(33:35):
anonymate basically that same thing, which is genius because the
text is the text is deceiving, but a.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
Voice note, Yeah, that's what do you want from a girl?
By the way, my dad okay, so you know my
dad's a retired psychiatrist. Yes, So everything is like this
like analysis of whatever.
Speaker 3 (33:57):
And when I was.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
There this weekend, Robin were having a conversation with him
about somebody, somebody in our life that wants to become
an influencer. And my dad's just like trying so hard
to like understand the life of it and like, so
he was like, I can't remember we brought your name
up and my dad was like trying to understand that.
Speaker 3 (34:18):
So why why do people follow beca? Like what is
it about Becca that people say?
Speaker 2 (34:25):
Hard to say?
Speaker 1 (34:26):
But like we're trying to like differentiate, and like he
just wasn't getting it.
Speaker 3 (34:30):
And I was like, that's exactly why.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
Because I think when you have someone who has a
niche platform and you're like, oh, they follow me for this,
it's easier to explain to somebody.
Speaker 1 (34:39):
But my dad knows you. So it's really the example
that I can give because if I gave him somebody else,
he would not know who they are, do you know
what I mean?
Speaker 3 (34:46):
I had to give him like well, you.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
Could just be like, oh, this is so and so
she's known for her cooking videos and her recipes like
brock your body, and so everyone follows her to get
recipes that are like dupes from their favorite restaurants. I'm
a tough It's a tough soun for someone who doesn't
understand what was really tough prob.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
Me and I were really trying and then I'm just like, you.
Speaker 2 (35:07):
Know what, that's the thing about me? I got so
mine literally was luck like I was on the Bachelor
at the right time, influencing, merged with that at the
right time, and it just.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
I but you're likable, you're funny.
Speaker 2 (35:23):
I've been able to maintain it. I've been able to
maintain like having that career and lifestyle. But I'm saying
how it happened. I didn't grow it from nothing, right,
And that's so hard. I think people don't realize if
everyone could do it, everyone would do it.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Yeah, that's so true. If everybody could do it, everybody
would do it.
Speaker 2 (35:41):
I'm speaking of social media. I want to what, what
are you going to talk about?
Speaker 3 (35:44):
Well, you look sad, so what are you going to
I want to talk about this breakup?
Speaker 2 (35:47):
Oh, okay, let's do it when we come back.
Speaker 3 (35:49):
Okay, we're back, We're back.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
So it's not breaking news because it's happened not that
long ago, a few days ago. But Landria and Nick
from Love Island USA Season seven announced they're split.
Speaker 3 (36:30):
And I told you this. Oh wait, they were the
runners up on season seven? Who won Season seven?
Speaker 2 (36:39):
Amaya Papaya.
Speaker 1 (36:40):
Oh that's right, that's right, that's right, that's right. Yeah,
so they were runners up. I didn't believe this relationship
from the beginning. I thought it was not real from
the beginning. This breakup did not shock me.
Speaker 3 (36:54):
I was waiting for it.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
However, I would like to say props to Landria and
Nick for keeping the charade going for a year, because
nothing irks me more as a Love Island fan than
these couples that break up like two weeks after they
leave the villa.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
Yeah, so even if it was a charade.
Speaker 1 (37:15):
And they were just playing us, I applaud it.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
Okay, claps for Nick and Orlandria.
Speaker 1 (37:22):
Yes, honestly because remember last well you don't watch the UK,
but Sammy and uh what does nuts the guy who
won with her last season, they broke up literally like
weeks after leaving the villa and they won. They won
the season, so did Amya Pathaya and Brian.
Speaker 3 (37:37):
Yeah, but they were like not even real.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
Oh but Samy and they were like legit.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
They were dating like half of the season. They were together.
They were like such a strong couple. So anyways, I
never believe that they were a couple, but I'm happy
that they gave they they put in the work.
Speaker 2 (37:58):
They said, we can do one year of this.
Speaker 3 (38:00):
Yeah, like we're friends. That's the thing. They were friends.
I think it was just like a friendship.
Speaker 2 (38:03):
I didn't follow their relationships so closely, so I only
saw photos of them if it got picked up where
people were posting clips of them somewhere, but it was
always at events. I never just saw like shots of
them like at home, like menapasta, not domesticated. Never images. Yeah,
but again I didn't follow it super closely. But I
liked that they were like we're ending and Bryce and
(38:26):
Trinity are beginning. That's why I thought that model the
model guy, the model boyfriend with the stunning DJ.
Speaker 3 (38:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
Yeah, yeah, So I did see that Melanie and Sincere
were spotted out together recently in LA, which I thought
they had I just assume maybe they broke up to
but they were hanging out. Yeah, Haley is watching, like
and when I say watching, she's skimming through Love Island
(38:55):
UK this season.
Speaker 3 (38:57):
Yeah, you can't skim through. It's so good a.
Speaker 2 (39:00):
Boring, Like, I mean, it's so many conversations, and.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
I know, I actually think about all the time the
editors of that show and like how many boring conversations
they have to watch to get like these little clips
to put into an hour episode every single day.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
No, they're really the MVPs.
Speaker 3 (39:18):
Yeah that do that.
Speaker 2 (39:19):
Yeah, and Ian him having the voiceovers.
Speaker 3 (39:22):
I watched one of his, Like, I changed.
Speaker 2 (39:23):
My tune on Ian because I used to be like
so I found him. It was the reason why I
wouldn't watch the show. I found him so irritating, and
I've changed. I laugh out loud.
Speaker 3 (39:32):
I think he's so funny. Sometimes his jokes don't hit,
but like you can't get a hundred, you know, oh,
night after night, Yeah, you can't bat a hundred. But
the ones that hit are very good.
Speaker 2 (39:41):
But Haley's like, where's the host of this show? Why
is there no host? Because Ariana comes in for every
coupling and everything.
Speaker 1 (39:48):
So I had the same thoughts. Apparently she was shooting
Trader's UK or.
Speaker 2 (39:55):
Something like she's all contestant.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
Yeah, like they're doing like a celebrity version and she's
she was like shooting, So that's why she was like gone, booked, yeah,
booked and busy Maya Jama. But she's back, she comes back.
She's been back the past couple of weeks, but it's
almost over. I have like not very many episodes. Well yeah,
and I'm so sad.
Speaker 2 (40:14):
So she got through about six episodes last night just
skimming through.
Speaker 3 (40:18):
She can't scam.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
She's pretty easy to skim. Me figure things out pretty
quick when you're not watching it, like one episode at
a time.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
It's I know, I know, but I will say that,
like this season of Love Island UK has been top
tier entertainment for me personally.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
I told her you said that, so her expectations are high.
Speaker 3 (40:35):
It should be okay.
Speaker 2 (40:38):
I wanted to talk since we're talking about dating. Do
you consider liking an Instagram post is cheating?
Speaker 3 (40:44):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (40:45):
Really, I mean no, but kinda, but like, I don't
think it's innocent.
Speaker 3 (40:50):
I don't think it's nice.
Speaker 1 (40:52):
If there's like a thirst trap the squirrel has like
her boobs out and her butt out, and Robbie was
to like it, I'd be like, what are you doing?
Speaker 2 (40:57):
Right? So it's totally on the basis of how much
skin is exposed, yes, yeah, but otherwise it's fine.
Speaker 3 (41:05):
Mm depends on the girl.
Speaker 2 (41:09):
Wow, all those gut do you have a mic? Can
we turn you on super disrespectful no matter no matter
what it is. Well, back to your point, if it's
like boobs but out, totally that's out of the question
like that is just you have an intention and it's
not good.
Speaker 3 (41:27):
Why you don't think it's cheating.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
That that I I don't know that. I would say
it's cheating, but I think.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
She's super extreme extreme word, but I would conversation.
Speaker 2 (41:39):
But what so you? But you said it's not always
if it's the skin skin.
Speaker 5 (41:45):
I have a boyfriend of year, okay, and I see
him like girls that I don't know. If it's girlfriends
that I know, yeah, I'll be like, Okay, I get it,
like we both know her. But if it's a girl
that I don't know, I'm not crazy about it.
Speaker 2 (42:02):
That's so true though, because why is he liking a
girl that you don't know?
Speaker 3 (42:06):
What do you ever see?
Speaker 2 (42:11):
No things you don't know, No like other chefs and stuff.
Speaker 1 (42:16):
Robie would never he's near of a silent. He's very
engaged our watcher. Yeah, he's very engaged with our friends,
and he'll engage with like all of our friend's content.
But outside of that, he's not like.
Speaker 2 (42:27):
Yeah, I think if I saw like a really like
a hot girl and I didn't know her, and I
saw Haley like she liked it, I'd be like, who
is she?
Speaker 3 (42:37):
Yeah, it's weird.
Speaker 2 (42:39):
Yeah, no, I'm not. I'm not that chill. I used
to be chill, and I'm not that chill.
Speaker 3 (42:46):
So weird to me, but that you're not chill like
that what.
Speaker 2 (42:50):
It used to be chill? Is it? I really wasn't
that chill with Robert either, Like really, Yeah, he'd go
on trips with all these like bikini models and stuff
and if I didn't want to, but he was an agent,
so like he was. And honestly, I never once doubted
that anything or I never thought anything was happening. But
it was just like this guy that I'm dating is
around all these hot models, right staying in the same
(43:14):
like house or wherever they are, you know. Yeah, So
I grew some thick skin through that, and then it
got weaker and we got weakened again when I met Haley.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
Is Hailey like Rando's on Instagram? No, no, no.
Speaker 2 (43:27):
She loves she Last night was watching this family who
lives in like the forest and eats fruit off the tree.
So that's kind of her. Her algorithm makes me feel
very safe with very safe. Yeah, and I'm mostly just
like watching like pranks or people. Okay, we had this
conversation the other day, but I if someone is okay, like,
(43:49):
I know they're okay, went after the fact. I think
it's so funny when people post videos of someone falling,
like if they're walking on ice or something like with
that Love Island challenge where they were having to run
on that slip bring Matt, I was almost crying laughing.
I think it's so funny when it's again when they're
not injured. Haley, I'll show her a video that I
(44:09):
think is so funny and she's like, oh, like, I
don't like that. I know you're the same way.
Speaker 3 (44:14):
I don't really like that either.
Speaker 2 (44:16):
So we were with her friends yesterday and we were
celebrating her friend Monica's birthday, and I was I brought
this up, and all her friends are like, oh my god,
I die laughing at videos of people following, and I
was like, oh, this makes me feel so much better.
Because both Tanya and Haley don't like pranks and they
don't like when people fall or get hurt. I don't
like when people get hurt, but I love like a
(44:38):
compilation of people slipping on ice or something.
Speaker 1 (44:42):
Speaking of this is so right, just because you said
yesterday and I remember what I did yesterday pottery?
Speaker 3 (44:48):
No, have you seen the movie The Invite?
Speaker 2 (44:50):
No? But I'm curious about it.
Speaker 1 (44:53):
It is so freaking funny, so freaking funny funny. It
is so freak funny. Okay, you need to see it,
and we need to discuss it. It's like really just
gonna fall flat if I just like sit here talk
about it.
Speaker 2 (45:08):
And I don't want spoilers, so.
Speaker 1 (45:10):
Okay, I'm not gonna you spoilers. But there's it's it's
also very like real, you know what I mean. Like
there's like so much realness about like relationships and marriage
and like just being with somebody for a long time,
and there's something about that that's so sad to me.
Like I'm like, I don't want to see people in
like a sad, horrible marriage, do you know what I mean? Yeah,
(45:31):
Like there's something so I'm like, I have mixed feelings
on it because like I haven't laughed that hard in
a movie theater in a long time. Like it is
so funny and they're comedic timing. Like to me, to
have that type of banter with Seth Rogan and Olivia Wilde,
to have that dynamic is very hard, and I feel
like they did it so perfectly, like literally laughing out loud,
(45:52):
but also with this like undertone of just yes.
Speaker 3 (45:56):
And I don't think I like that.
Speaker 2 (46:00):
Seem like you do?
Speaker 3 (46:01):
I love yah.
Speaker 1 (46:02):
Yeah, I know. It's really it's like it's a tough
pickle that I'm in because I did find it so hilarious,
but also just like so sad and like I get
in the car and I internalize everything, and Robi's like, Babe,
this has nothing to do with us.
Speaker 3 (46:17):
And I know.
Speaker 1 (46:18):
I'm like God, and I go, I know, but we're
married and I don't ever want to become that, and
He's like, we're not going to and I'm like, but
I don't think they thought that they would become that,
you know, Like I internalize.
Speaker 2 (46:28):
Oh, you like to make an effort in our marriage,
you know.
Speaker 3 (46:31):
Yeah, that's I.
Speaker 2 (46:32):
Think the key is if you get comfortable and let
it that happen, it happens.
Speaker 3 (46:36):
I know.
Speaker 1 (46:37):
But like with this couple in the movie, it just
like happened so slowly and then over time it just
you're strangers.
Speaker 2 (46:46):
Thank you for ending the podcast on such a high note. Sorry, guys, No,
it's okay. I mean I'm gonna I want to go
see it. Oh, I was gonna say I did pottery
yesterday like a seram. Yeah, I'm so bad at it,
Like I'm just not watching the girl, the girl that
was like our teacher do it and everything she did
(47:07):
it was perfect, and then I'd be like, Okay, I've
tried to do it and just tough. But I kind
of I've been thinking about it this morning because at
first I was like, I don't think I need to
do it again, because I would, And that's my mentality
on everything. If I'm not immediately good at something, I'm
just like, oh, I don't think I want to do
it again.
Speaker 3 (47:25):
And I'm like, what are you going to do? Make
pottery for like your house?
Speaker 2 (47:28):
Yeah? Like what if I made plates for us? Like
how gorgeous if I got good at it and gifts,
the gifts I could make.
Speaker 3 (47:34):
For Ooh the gifts I'd love to get that gift.
Speaker 2 (47:37):
Well, I won't give you one. How on that, I'll
get you your toat socks and your dish gloves and
be on my merry way making beautiful pottery for others. Robbie,
I'll make him beautiful plates that he can plate his
beautiful food on. Yeah, anyways, So I was like, I
need to change my mentality on if I had a
(47:59):
good time doing so something even though I wasn't good
at it, If I can practice and get good at it,
what's the worst that can happen?
Speaker 3 (48:04):
I agree, I think practice makes perfect.
Speaker 2 (48:06):
I'm gonna on a positive note, yes, practice everything, Practice
letting go of control, practice working on your marriage and relationship.
Practice things you're not immediately good at. And I'm gonna
leave you all with that. But we will be back
on Thursday for a Dear Bonia episode where we might
(48:27):
play another game where I beat Tanya. I don't know
hard hard to say.
Speaker 1 (48:31):
I've been reading the Facebook. We'll get into it on Thursday.
Speaker 2 (48:34):
Okay, okay, We'll be back on Thursday. And we love
you so much, love you, Bye bye.
Scrubbing In with Becka Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hello everybody, We are scrubbing.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
In Happy Monday, July twenty seventh for everybody listening. Shot
out of a Cannon today.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
She is in a timestamp mood. Yes, she's focused on
time stamps today.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
So I'm focused on improving our podcast with time stamps.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
With time stamps, I think it's gonna help, you know, one,
one little improvement at a time.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Not full video episodes, but timestamps.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Well, don't get me started out. Don't get me started
on that.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
I've been fighting that good fight for years and I
have to pick and choose my battles. This is something
I feel like I can take on my own and
it's just a small sliver of improvement.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
That I think you love.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Is a consumer of podcast?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, So you're shot out of the canon.
What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Shot out of a cannon means like I'm full four
let's go bring it on type of thing.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
Oh, I have to bleep that, John.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
What prompted that energy?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Well, I'll tell you Becca.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
So actually I got a lot of really sweet dms
from last week's podcast that I want to say thank
you to our listeners because it is really really sweet
that people care that much and it means a lot
to me. I don't want to cry, so I'm not
going to cry.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Also, I want to say that so many people resonate
and relate, whether they're on the journey right now or
have you experience the journey.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
So and a lot of people were dming me like
why do you not talk about your fertility journey on
the podcast? And I there's several reasons, the main one
being that we decided BECA and I. You and I
decided years ago that we wanted the podcast to be
a place of joy, levity, light. We didn't want to
bring seriousness into it.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Remember this, Yeah, but not so much about our personal lives.
I don't think that. I don't feel aligned on that.
Oh really, yeah, I don't really feel aligned on that
that part of it.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Because here's the thing.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
If I come in here every week and I'm sitting
here and I cry every week because I'm actually sharing
what I'm going through.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
It's so sad.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
It's like sad, I'm crying every week. It's not a
like light place. It's not a happy place, but it's
triggering for people that it.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Can be triggering for people, and we can when we
talk about it, put you know, a trigger warning. But
I also think it's your life and what you're going through,
like it's the biggest thing in your life right now.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Really Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
And also two tiered tiered step two huh is coming
to work gives me like an escape. It's like the
only time in my day where I'm like not constantly
thinking about it. Okay, So it's like that that three.
I feel like it's triggering for people because it's all
I see. It's like my whole algorith them like I'm
(03:01):
it's just it's so consuming. So it's like again, this
is a podcast where we go for like levity and
lighthearted and like fun.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
And the final thing is I'm just up to my
ears with advice, like I can't have any more in
my ear, you know. I'm coming home every day with
like a different coworker that saying, have you tried musin X.
It helps like your mucus and your vagina thicken or whatever,
you know. And then I'm coming home and telling Robbie
I want to try musinx and he's like babe, like.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
You do really ingest advice as opposed to thank you.
But I'm I'm good, I'm on my own journey with this.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I yes, I ingest, and I also too don't want
to like people are always ask me questions and I'm like,
I don't not a doctor, So the last thing that
I want to do is like share what I'm doing,
because I'm just throwing spaghetti at the wall at this point,
just seeing what sticks, no pun intended.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I think that you're I don't really think you have
to ex blame yourself on why you don't want to
talk about it, but I do think it's totally up
to you how much you want to talk about my
whole thing. Well, I do want this podcast to be
a safe place, but this I mean a happy place
and like light. But I also like we are living
life and going through things, and we've always shared, Like
(04:17):
even through your dating experience, you shared when you were down.
You know, there's been times where we've shared things that
aren't exactly happy, go lucky, and that's okay. So I
never want you to feel that you don't have space
to talk about it on here because of like me.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
No, no, no, and not you at all, but I
do we specifically. I remember vividly having these conversations with
you years ago about planemic, and.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
It was like it was about the state of the world,
which can be very heavy, yes.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
But we were very much like aligned in the sense
of like, we don't want heaviness, we don't want any
of that. We just want this to be like joy, light, lighthearted.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
But I don't think it was relating to I don't
think I took on that agreement with it being about lives.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
I honestly never experienced anything like this in my life,
so this is the first time for.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Me, I know. But I'm just saying, share as much
or as little as you want. And there's gonna be
people who are triggered by it because it's traumatizing, or
they're going through it and they don't want to see anymore.
Or there's gonna be people who are like, it's so
nice to hear someone talking about it and going through
this because it makes me feel like I'm not alone.
And you're always gonna have different versions of what people
are going through and how they resonate with things.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Yeah, Like I'm I don't even call it, I call
it fertility. Journey.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
I'm not people like infertility. I'm like, I don't I'm
not infertile, yo, Like my levels are high.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Okay, so let's get that straight.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
What do we call this lack of control journey?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Like, yeah, like let go let god journey.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
I was like I've seen so my algorithm is so
much like the fertility journey for a type a person
is such a struggle because you're so used to just like, Okay,
you put in the work and you get your outcome,
you know what I mean. Like this is just so
not that, like it's.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
A crazy not lesson, but it's a good practice of
letting go of control because I don't like to do that.
I'm saying, a good practice for someone who doesn't like
to do that. You know, I don't like to do speak.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Practice is not making perfect. Let me tell you I've
been practicing. It's not working.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yes, it is. It's just it's on its own timeline,
and you don't like something not being on your timeline.
Which we knew that about. Even Robbie proposing that was
a whole thing too. Oh, you didn't have control over
when he was going to.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Propose that man, and he made you practice well, Tortoise
the turtle over there. I think back on that, I'm like,
she really took his time with all due respect in
a timely manner.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Yeah, as someone who got engaged seven years after the fact,
I felt like he did a perfect time timelife.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
If I were engaged to you, we'd have some talks.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Yeah, well, y'all do have talks because we went and
had a little small day.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
So oh wait, hold on, I meant to get to
somewhere about this fertility conversation. Why I'm out of cannon, No, no,
we can go back to that. But why I'm shot
out of the cannon is because I got my period
and I decided that I'm taking a month off of
just all the everything everything in my head, and I've
(07:32):
like refocused into just like work.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
And live and laughing and love and live.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
And laughing and loving, and so I do I feel
a little bit lighter. And so I'm like trying to
rail and rejigger the podcast. I want to like make
the podcast better. I want to like keep working out
and like kind of get my physical shape back into
you know, lots to take on in one month. But anyways,
that's why I find this middle ground.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Maybe we don't go from wanting stream to the next
and we just like merge the two together.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, we'll see. But anyways, I'm feeling good.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
I'm glad to hear you got your period.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
I was feeling what I would describe as menstrel ludial energy. Yes, well,
we went to so many moms. I feel like every
year we go to the SPA for Tony's birthday. But
she feels like it's only happened twice before. But anyways,
I feel like it's.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Three times out of the last I went to my
for my birthday last year.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
I think that's what I was. Anyways, we love a
spa day tradition. Yeah, And so we were at the
SPA and I'm like, we're just having a great relaxing
time and then Tanya goes, I just miss you. Mind you.
I deal with this with my beautiful, wonderful fiance as well.
When we're in the same room and have been together NonStop,
(08:54):
and I'm like, oh, well, I'm I'm here, I'm right here,
and she was like, I just you know, I feel
like we haven't had quality time and we're drifted. Our
friendship has drifted apart, and I'm like, I have not
felt this at all, So I'm so sorry I haven't
picked up on this. But next time, just communicate with
(09:15):
me so we can just re establish things. Because I'm
feeling fine. I'm feeling good. Nothing's changed in my heart.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
And I was reassuring to hear as someone who feels
their friend is drifting away, I feel nothing.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I feel fine.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
No, I just have secure attachment with you.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
Ah. Yes, it must be nice, so.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
I said, Unfortunately, whether you try to push me away
or not, I'm not going anywhere. We had to re
establish things. So I didn't know we were drifting, but
we're back.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
So it was a combination of things. Because I've been
on one.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
I'm upset. I didn't tell her about the Taylor Swish wedding,
so okay, yes, however, that's why she felt like we
were drifting.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
No, it was before. It was weak before that. But
what I did not take into consideration was a lot
of your emotional mental energy was going to with your
going to your fiance for the movie release, and so
you were a little bit distant, but but rightfully so,
you had a lot going on, which I wasn't really
thinking about I wasn't that wasn't in the forefront in
(10:19):
my mind. I'm like, she's just not available to me,
and like she hates me. And now she's not telling
me about Taylor and Travis's wedding, and now she did
not hear for my birthday and she hates me.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
I asked about like go go, and then it's brought
back up in the conversation of a strip.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
So anyways, anyways, a lot of progesterone in my system
combode with that, combode with Haley's movie coming out.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
I was just feeling a lot of things and I.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
Need I need to get away. I think I think
I need a break, just someone people just giving to me,
filling me up.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Well, I'm here, I'm here to do that now, right, Yeah, yeah,
I'm good.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
I'll be seeking that out.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
Yeah yeah yeah. But I want to miss you. I mean,
I feel the same way about Robbie what.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
You've shared on your story. Yeah. And then he actually
initiated the conversation.
Speaker 3 (11:08):
He said I miss you, which he never does.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
So I was like, you've trained him well, and I
was like so taken aback by it.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
I was like, you finally understand the feeling. Oh yeah,
because I'm like it's.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
We Yes, I see you every day, so it's like,
how can I miss you? But like the quality time's
not there because we've been constantly We worked during the day,
so we're not together during the day, and then we've
had a social event every single night, and then we
were in San Diego, so it was like we just
had and then the week before we had the kids, so.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
There was just no quality time.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Yeah. I messaged telling you on her story and I
was like, I just am so happy I'll found each other.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
Same, same, yeah, And I think about that a lot.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Whenever I get like sad about the fertility stuff, I'm like,
at least I have a partner in life at is
as amazing as he is, right truly, Yeah, carries me through.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Yeah, tgfr Stable. Thank God for Robbie. Yeah yeah, yeah.
We were always looking for your study.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
Eddie, and I found him, I know, thank God.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
So you want to say to you this weekend?
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Yeah, would you do this weekend?
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Well? So Haley was out of town, so Friday night
I was just like a lone ranger and I ordered
every meal to my home. I only talked to Haley
on the phone. That's the only person I actually spoke
out loud to other than Phoebe, which I realized I
talked to her a lot.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
I talked to her when it's just us in the house.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Yeah, And then I realized, I'm essentially talking to myself,
but I do it a lot. Like I was really
thinking about how often I'm like saying my little ritual
things to her, you know her in the world.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
You always talk to me.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
No, but I didn't. Sorry, I didn't want to talk.
I was like happy to be silent, you know. But anyways,
I was Carson and Alley came over with their son,
their one year old son, and I was telling them.
I was like, yeah, Friday, I only talked to Haley, like,
that's the only time I spoke out loud. And I
just sat in silence. And he was like, and you
just ordered every meal to your door. And I was
like yeah. And he's like, wow, that's a dream. He's like,
(13:22):
you don't get that when you have when you have
a child.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
That's honestly not my dream.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
I know it's not. It's not everyone's dream, yeah, but
I know it's yours.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
I'm happy for you.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Thank you. I had a great time. I got olive
garden delivered and what else, Well, I had ice cream
and then also snacks late at night, and then I
had hi that's not neither here nor there.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Yeah that does matter, It really doesn't, it really does.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
I don't think I was high that night, oh yeah, yeah, okay,
but anyways, I would do that on a sober night
as well. Yeah. So I was just vibing by myself.
And then Saturday I had a day with children. I
Alian Carson came over and swam, and then that night
I went to the park Huntington Gardens with Hailey's sister
(14:07):
and then.
Speaker 3 (14:08):
Oh it's the Huntington Gardens. Is it pretty?
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Oh my god, it's gorgeous.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
Yeah. Everybody tells me that it's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (14:12):
And they talked aren't allowed, no, Yeah, but they had
a swing band played. They do like summer concert so
it's like people all bring their like picnics and stuff.
So I went with Haley's sister and then her two kids,
niece and nephew, and it was really fun, so hot,
just so hot, but I was doing cartwheels and round
offs because there was an open field and I just
(14:33):
felt youthful. My whole body is in pain. Yeah, like
every muscle.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
It creeps up on you and you do stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
But it felt so easy doing it, Like I was like,
it's like riding a bike.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
I just whenever I play in the pool with the kids.
The next day, I'm like.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
Aha, my shoulders maybe into some stretch glasses or something.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
Let me tell you it's coming back. I'm doing it
this month. This is the month for me to get
it back.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Yeah. Is this like the exit of tender Tanya? What's happening? Wonderful?
Speaker 3 (15:03):
That extreme? I still love, Like I'm still gonna like
sleep and kitten heels. Yeah, and we're not like going
to the clue or anything like that.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
But but like if we went and had dinner, would
you get a drink? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (15:16):
I had a drink on Friday too. Actually, how was
it amazing? Except you know what I realized, Well, I'll
tell you when we come back.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
Wow, we're back.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
We're back. Do you know what I realized? But I
don't like drinking.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
The tease of a century. But you just said it
was amazing.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
It was in the moment.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
So here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
I just had this conversation with Ali.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Oh really Yeah, So Okay.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
So my we had like a really fun dinner and
my inlaws. My in laws wanted to take me out
for my birthday. What I also realized when you don't
have like a activity for your birthday, like you don't
have like a dinner or anything like that, you want
a lot of little activities with with a lot of
people my birthday celebrate you, yes, which is so nice.
So I'm like, I feel like I've been celebrating my
I'm going to lunch tomorrow for my birthday. I'm like
(16:19):
I've been celebrating my birthday for two weeks now.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Fun so loved. Oh what is the the my house is?
What is the saying where people complain about things?
Speaker 3 (16:31):
About complaining? I love it so nice, Like you know
what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
When people come like, yeah, some mistake's to buttery, the
lobsters to lobstery. No, not a lobstery anyways.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
I understand, but it is nice.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
So I went to my in laws took me to
dinner and it was a really fun dinner. It's like
this restaurant that I love. And I had a glass
of wine.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Okay, then I.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Basically finished pauline A's glass of wine.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Then my mother in law was like flirting with not
flirting with, like trying to talk to this job at
the table, charming to like set Pauline up, and so
they sent over champagne. Wow, So I had what is
that one and a half plus champagne? So two and
a half drinks by the time I got home that
night at a headache.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
Champagne destroys me.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
I literally had I was like, how am I hungover
before the next day? Like this, this is some.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
Crazy I even drink in like a year, right.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
I'll have like a little bit like when I get
my period, I'll have, you know, a little something to
take the edge off. But it's not more than like
a half a glass of wine. I'm not you know,
throwing anything back really right, So yeah, it's been a minute.
But like the fact that I had a headache at
ten pm on a Friday or whatever, it was like
nine pm.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
I will rarely drink champagne because I immediately feel like
I will nap and have a headache.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Yeah, it's horrible. So it's like the drinking was fun
in the moment.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
I had so much fun, but then I'm like, I
have a headache now, and I'm trying to go to
bed and this is gonna mess up my sleep.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
This happened when we were in Cabo, and I don't
know if it's just everything's better quality and stronger if
they just do heavier pores. But we would get a
drink at the pool and we were like, we need
to go nap.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
Well, also because of the heat.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
It was very hot in here. Yeah, but normally you're
sweating it out, so you almost sometimes you feel like
you're actually not like, I.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
Know, are you kid?
Speaker 2 (18:28):
Say it's your wedding, but yeah, yes, And when.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
We were Palm Springs and you were like throwing up
during our Sabrina Carpenter.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
However, that was different because I was in the pool drinking,
so I wasn't even feeling.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
How No, So the heat dehydrates you and then alcohol
dehydrates you.
Speaker 3 (18:45):
It's like a double whammy.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Okay, Well, anyways, the whole time we were like, gosh,
we are such lightweights. We immediately need a nap after
we go to like drink. And then Ali texted me
and said she hasn't basically drink in a year, and
she said she had a margarita and she was like,
I feel drunk from one margerity, yeah, even why do
we do this?
Speaker 1 (19:04):
And I was like, well, it's so it's when you're
at a social it's so fun.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
There's nothing better than just like that first fiel or
first drink, feeling nothing better.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
Nothing better. I was flying high at dinner.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
And then you wake up and you're like, was it
that fun?
Speaker 3 (19:20):
That's fine. I took some motrin and I was able
to sleep, So it was fun. It was that fun.
So yeah, I don't know, maybe I'll have like a drink.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
With you, but well, how lucky would I be? How
lucky could I be?
Speaker 3 (19:33):
Do you know what else?
Speaker 1 (19:34):
I realize that that I'm so awkward. I always talk
about Zoom.
Speaker 3 (19:38):
And stuff like that. How much I hate Zoom.
Speaker 1 (19:40):
I really hate Zoom because I just don't think I'm
my best self on Zoom. I had this like meeting
with this person from the Food Network. It was just
like a get to know them type thing, and I'm like,
I'm so awkward.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
You probably weren't awkward I am, but what I don't
even I can't even picture you being awkward. I know
I don't have that vibe at all.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
I don't think so either, But I left it like
not feeling confident and I don't like that. And I'm like,
it's the zoom. It's these screens.
Speaker 4 (20:12):
Yeah, it's the damn phone because I don't know, I
can't be one hundred percent myself through the zoom.
Speaker 2 (20:23):
Well, now you should just request in person meetings.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
Yeah, I'll come to you.
Speaker 2 (20:26):
Yeah, I'll come wherever you are.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
Yeah, whatever city you live in, I'm there.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
You should just say before we if you have to
do a zoom, you should say, can we start with
an icebreaker and just play the Guess Who game?
Speaker 3 (20:37):
Really quick? An excellent idea. It might take a while.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Tell them to allow fifteen minutes you know start time.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Yeah, could work. Also, I might take an AI camp
this summer.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
An AI camp?
Speaker 3 (20:55):
What is that where I learned about AI?
Speaker 2 (20:58):
Where like the Apple Store or they do like free
things for older people?
Speaker 3 (21:04):
No, at a college campus, Thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
I mean, I'm like, it's weird because AI is so
complicated my feelings towards it, because it's happening, whether I
want to support it or not, you know, like it's
it's it's inevitable.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
In twenty years, AI is probably gonna be doing your surgeries.
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Yeah, I mean you won't even say twenty years then,
I mean, I don't know. It's going fast.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
It's going fast.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Anyways. It's kind of like get on the boat or
get left behind exactly, And it's hard to know where
like the moral part of me stand, like my morality
around it, you.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
Know, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
But it's also like it is one of those things
where you go, Okay, our parents didn't want to learn
things about technology, and if you didn't choose to learn
and move forward, you know, I don't know, complicated, But anyways,
where are you taking it? Are you going to code?
What are you going to do?
Speaker 3 (22:01):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
I'm not one hundred percent sure this is the place
for me. I'm just like doing some initial investigating.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Huh what are you trying to do with AI?
Speaker 3 (22:09):
Just like learn about it?
Speaker 2 (22:10):
But like what are you wanting to learn? Which you want?
Speaker 1 (22:14):
What I can?
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (22:14):
Yeah, yeah, Like CHATCHYBT is like my Google, my like
Google search, but beyond that, like what can it do
for me?
Speaker 3 (22:20):
How can I help me with?
Speaker 2 (22:21):
You say, to figure that out? You're going to pay
for a class?
Speaker 3 (22:24):
Can I just help you? Know?
Speaker 1 (22:26):
I need like I need initial base and care. Yeah,
hands on definitely get not through a screen, not with
an AI.
Speaker 3 (22:32):
I don't need AI.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
Teaching me about AI. That could be a disaster. Okay,
I feel like Robbie could.
Speaker 2 (22:38):
He seems quite knowledgeable in his he's very knowledgeable. Yes,
maybe he can give you some tips and then if
you need further you could take a class.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
I don't know about that.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
What else are you learning about?
Speaker 3 (22:51):
I need something? Is over?
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Okay? Tanya sent me up. She was like, oh Hannah
Berner got bowtok and her drawings. You can't smile. And
then Sam said, the article is from June Thirtieth's like
a month since Donya has missed about this happening breaking
news here in grubbing in Hannah Burner.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
First of all, Okay, so it's not about the breaking news,
because nobody comes here to get breaking news. This is
not the podcast for breaking news. However, it is our
interpretation or our perspective on that news that I think
is of interest.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
What's what's your perspective?
Speaker 3 (23:29):
Well, so I don't follow Hannah Burner.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
Oh my gosh, you're missing out.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
I don't follow Hannah Burner, nor do I follow the
Giggly squad fill and no I never watched Summer House.
Speaker 3 (23:38):
I don't know who these people are.
Speaker 2 (23:39):
There are two women in podcasts.
Speaker 3 (23:41):
Well, they came late in the game.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
They took off though, that's why surpassed us quickly.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
That's neither here nor there. Okay, they're not in my orbit.
So this popped up in my like discover page and
I now follow the Giggly Squad because I really enjoy
this clip that I saw. But it was of Hannah.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
She was like laughing and her face wasn't moving, and
so I was very intrigued of like what she got done.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
But I thought it was also really cool that.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
She didn't like go to get it like fixed or whatever,
or like cancel the podcast and yeah you can get
it like dissolved.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
No not you can't get filler dissolved, not like.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Yeah, you can go into a sauna and like heat
it out, because like the sauna.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
You can get stuff done, but it's not in it.
I think she's probably doing all the time, assuming she's
probably doing everything she can.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
They could have paused their podcast for a beat, like
you know what I mean? If she I just like
that she's owning it.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
Yeah, Well, a podcast isn't typically audio.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
So I saw THEIRS, I was like a clip.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
You know they have they have the video option, But
she could have just said The impressive part is that
she didn't say, we're only releasing audio. Yeah, for however
long this takes. She's giving the people the gift of
going through this with her because one of the funniest things,
like when someone goes to the dentist and gets a
shot and they can't smile, but hers is permanent until
(25:08):
it goes.
Speaker 3 (25:08):
Away for like a three months.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
So basically she had I think she got it for
her TMJ.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Yeah, but I've also had TMJ botalks and my face
did not do that.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
The girl that does my bowtox Brianna. She was saying
that sometimes if you go to someone who specializes in
the TMJ aspect and not the cosmetic part, they just
put as much as they need it. They just are
focused on making your TMJ pain go away, as opposed
to thinking about the cosmetic repercussions. And I don't know, I.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
Always have to think about the cosmetic repercussions.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Spoiler alert botox. I'm just like throwing caution to the wind. Really,
I mean, I trust her, she knows where to put it.
But like I've had times where I've gone to someone
in my eyebrow was like up higher than the other.
But that you can fix because you can do different muscles,
you know. But I think with the jaw you can't.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
Really.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
I think it just has to run its course. But
it is hilarious and Page, oh my god, the video
is hilarious. If you had that, I would not be
able to control my laughter.
Speaker 3 (26:13):
Would be able.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
I don't even know what I would do if I
had that. It would stress me out. It would stress
me out. Yeah, it would send me into a spiral.
Speaker 2 (26:24):
Yeah, No, I love her. I love She's so funny.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
Yeah, new fans. Shout out to Hannah and Page. You
got a new fan and me and they've.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
Really got something going on. Girls. Welcome to the.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Podcast Onto something over there at Giggly Squad.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Okay, so speaking of last wait, No, I want to
talk about. Did you go to Arizona State? Is that
where you went? No? The other one? You went to
the other one, the party School?
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (26:52):
I did you went to the party School? Yes? What
was that one called University of Arizona.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Oh, it's tough. Why there's so many there's two Okay,
well I had a fifty fifty I missed a so
Arizona state. I'm assuming your rival, yes, rival has launched
is launching a degree on becoming an influencer.
Speaker 3 (27:13):
Yes, I saw this.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
What are your thoughts on this?
Speaker 1 (27:17):
I think it's a terrible idea. Really, Yes, why Because
here's the thing.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
I think that.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
A lot of a lot of kids these days, the
kids these days, that's like their go to. If you
ask all these kids what they want to be, they
say they want to be TikTok stars and influencers. Giving
them a course where they think that that's something that
like they all. I don't know, I just find it
to be problematic for our future.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
Yeah, I mean that's fair. But I also think it's
a specific personality of someone who, once they get into
the world of making videos and editing videos and doing it,
decid I, oh, do I have the is this what
I want?
Speaker 5 (28:03):
Like?
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Do I have the personality for this? Do I have
the like desire the consistency? Because the thing about it's
such a luck It's such a lucky thing. And I
think there is a way that you can use tools
and metrics to grow a platform like I do think
you could just start from the bottom and use like
information you have to build. But I think it's I
(28:27):
would say luck that your a video goes viral, And
then I think it's being someone that's interesting. Like I
think about Alex Earl and she was just consistent in
like making videos of her getting ready for her parties
in college and people loved that. She was so like
she was such a party girl and owned it, like
she was just who she was and she was taking
us along with her. And instead of staying stagnant and
(28:49):
that being even though she still like shows her getting
ready to go out and party and stuff, she's elevated
herself into this business woman and has done so much
more and that it's not a lack of hard work.
Is it a fun job? Is it like a dream job? Sure?
But like is she working her ass off? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (29:10):
I don't think that this is Like I think there's
space for everybody and anybody that wants to be an influencer.
I think can be I think where my where I
feel like, And I think people do this in real
life where they like go to build their social media
whilst they also are doing something else that's like paying
the bills, right, and then if they catch them, if
(29:31):
they are able to get brand deals, if they're able
to make a living out of it, then they.
Speaker 3 (29:34):
Let go of that job.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
But I feel like just like going straight into it
taking a course and like graduating with an honor or
an honor and influencing or whatever.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
I just I was just a class.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
Wait, I agree, it is a degree.
Speaker 1 (29:51):
Yeah, it's concerning to me for just for that purposes,
because I feel like it's something that you should do
in tandem with alongside something else. And I just feel
like when your frontal lobe is not developed, you're not
gonna see that.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
Here's the thing. They're already online. Every the kids are
already online. They're already being to do it. So if
they have a chance to use their brain and have
a marketing mindset to where even if it wasn't them
being an influencer working with brands and knowing how marketing
strategy works, I don't think it's a negative thing. If
they're already going to be online, why not make money.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
Because they can learn all this on AI? Why are
you taking a class?
Speaker 2 (30:34):
I hate when it goes back around like that.
Speaker 3 (30:38):
Damn, damn, I hate that for me.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
Anyways, it's it's interesting and it might be one of
those things where it was like that was a bust,
you know, we don't need to do that again, or
it might create more people good at marketing and strategy.
Speaker 3 (30:54):
Good job as U.
Speaker 1 (30:56):
Speaking of social media, you know, it's so freaking funny
and that, like.
Speaker 3 (31:01):
I I.
Speaker 1 (31:04):
Get what's the word tricked so much on social media?
So there's this girl that I follow. I don't follow her. Sorry,
I don't follow her. She came up in my you
know whatever, my discovery phage.
Speaker 3 (31:16):
And it was like.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
I lived this amazing life and like click or like
comment below comment class for me to send you what.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
Was her name? The lazy Millionaire?
Speaker 1 (31:30):
No to send me, I'll send you my five day
crash course on like whatever.
Speaker 3 (31:38):
This is right, So what do I do? Comment below class? Okay?
Speaker 1 (31:43):
So she DMS me and she goes and it's all automated.
I can tell it's not her, right, it's like all
it's just like it's a message and it goes. In
order for me to send you the class, you have
to follow me, okay, So I go over to her
page click follow. Meanwhile, Robbie's right next to me during
this whole thing. I'm like, babe, this girl's gonna get
this class and like learn all this stuff. And then
(32:03):
she goes click the link and like answer these questions.
And Robbie was like, babe, this is some sort.
Speaker 2 (32:09):
Of pyramid scheme. Yes, em mel, yes, and everybody's doing it.
Speaker 3 (32:15):
Yeah, but why Okay, So I was gonna fall for it.
Speaker 1 (32:18):
But then so she kept sending me the link and
I wasn't clicking the link, and then she like sent
me another automated thing like make sure you click the
link you to get my course, And I was like,
I don't want your course anymore. You said that, no,
but I just ignored it because then Robbie told me,
this's like some scheme. But then I'm like, obviously a
lot of people are falling for it. What's the scheme?
How am I getting schemed?
Speaker 2 (32:38):
Not schem? I don't think it's that. I think it's
just like your it's probably like you buy my course.
So that's how she makes money.
Speaker 3 (32:45):
Oh so I would have to buy it. You probably
she was gonna send it to me for free.
Speaker 2 (32:49):
I don't think nothing's for free. But girl, shoot, yeah,
it's a it's a thing. It's like a business plan. Basically,
it's almost like how to build it's basically becoming an
influencer degree.
Speaker 3 (33:02):
So this is what they would teach you at ASU.
Literally it's a step.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
By step probably generated from AI, of like how should
I teach people to grow their platform?
Speaker 3 (33:12):
Wow, she got me this girl.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
It's very I mean, listen, it's business minded, it's marketing.
I followed this girl and she sent me a what
I think is of generated voice memo and it was like,
oh my gosh, I can't believe you followed me. That's
how it started to us, like oh, like she knows
me from watching The Bachelor or something. No, just like
(33:35):
anonymate basically that same thing, which is genius because the
text is the text is deceiving, but a.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
Voice note, Yeah, that's what do you want from a girl?
By the way, my dad okay, so you know my
dad's a retired psychiatrist. Yes, So everything is like this
like analysis of whatever.
Speaker 3 (33:57):
And when I was.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
There this weekend, Robin were having a conversation with him
about somebody, somebody in our life that wants to become
an influencer. And my dad's just like trying so hard
to like understand the life of it and like, so
he was like, I can't remember we brought your name
up and my dad was like trying to understand that.
Speaker 3 (34:18):
So why why do people follow beca? Like what is
it about Becca that people say?
Speaker 2 (34:25):
Hard to say?
Speaker 1 (34:26):
But like we're trying to like differentiate, and like he
just wasn't getting it.
Speaker 3 (34:30):
And I was like, that's exactly why.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
Because I think when you have someone who has a
niche platform and you're like, oh, they follow me for this,
it's easier to explain to somebody.
Speaker 1 (34:39):
But my dad knows you. So it's really the example
that I can give because if I gave him somebody else,
he would not know who they are, do you know
what I mean?
Speaker 3 (34:46):
I had to give him like well, you.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
Could just be like, oh, this is so and so
she's known for her cooking videos and her recipes like
brock your body, and so everyone follows her to get
recipes that are like dupes from their favorite restaurants. I'm
a tough It's a tough soun for someone who doesn't
understand what was really tough prob.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
Me and I were really trying and then I'm just like, you.
Speaker 2 (35:07):
Know what, that's the thing about me? I got so
mine literally was luck like I was on the Bachelor
at the right time, influencing, merged with that at the
right time, and it just.
Speaker 3 (35:19):
I but you're likable, you're funny.
Speaker 2 (35:23):
I've been able to maintain it. I've been able to
maintain like having that career and lifestyle. But I'm saying
how it happened. I didn't grow it from nothing, right,
And that's so hard. I think people don't realize if
everyone could do it, everyone would do it.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Yeah, that's so true. If everybody could do it, everybody
would do it.
Speaker 2 (35:41):
I'm speaking of social media. I want to what, what
are you going to talk about?
Speaker 3 (35:44):
Well, you look sad, so what are you going to
I want to talk about this breakup?
Speaker 2 (35:47):
Oh, okay, let's do it when we come back.
Speaker 3 (35:49):
Okay, we're back, We're back.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
So it's not breaking news because it's happened not that
long ago, a few days ago. But Landria and Nick
from Love Island USA Season seven announced they're split.
Speaker 3 (36:30):
And I told you this. Oh wait, they were the
runners up on season seven? Who won Season seven?
Speaker 2 (36:39):
Amaya Papaya.
Speaker 1 (36:40):
Oh that's right, that's right, that's right, that's right. Yeah,
so they were runners up. I didn't believe this relationship
from the beginning. I thought it was not real from
the beginning. This breakup did not shock me.
Speaker 3 (36:54):
I was waiting for it.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
However, I would like to say props to Landria and
Nick for keeping the charade going for a year, because
nothing irks me more as a Love Island fan than
these couples that break up like two weeks after they
leave the villa.
Speaker 3 (37:13):
Yeah, so even if it was a charade.
Speaker 1 (37:15):
And they were just playing us, I applaud it.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
Okay, claps for Nick and Orlandria.
Speaker 1 (37:22):
Yes, honestly because remember last well you don't watch the UK,
but Sammy and uh what does nuts the guy who
won with her last season, they broke up literally like
weeks after leaving the villa and they won. They won
the season, so did Amya Pathaya and Brian.
Speaker 3 (37:37):
Yeah, but they were like not even real.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
Oh but Samy and they were like legit.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
They were dating like half of the season. They were together.
They were like such a strong couple. So anyways, I
never believe that they were a couple, but I'm happy
that they gave they they put in the work.
Speaker 2 (37:58):
They said, we can do one year of this.
Speaker 3 (38:00):
Yeah, like we're friends. That's the thing. They were friends.
I think it was just like a friendship.
Speaker 2 (38:03):
I didn't follow their relationships so closely, so I only
saw photos of them if it got picked up where
people were posting clips of them somewhere, but it was
always at events. I never just saw like shots of
them like at home, like menapasta, not domesticated. Never images. Yeah,
but again I didn't follow it super closely. But I
liked that they were like we're ending and Bryce and
(38:26):
Trinity are beginning. That's why I thought that model the
model guy, the model boyfriend with the stunning DJ.
Speaker 3 (38:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
Yeah, yeah, So I did see that Melanie and Sincere
were spotted out together recently in LA, which I thought
they had I just assume maybe they broke up to
but they were hanging out. Yeah, Haley is watching, like
and when I say watching, she's skimming through Love Island
(38:55):
UK this season.
Speaker 3 (38:57):
Yeah, you can't skim through. It's so good a.
Speaker 2 (39:00):
Boring, Like, I mean, it's so many conversations, and.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
I know, I actually think about all the time the
editors of that show and like how many boring conversations
they have to watch to get like these little clips
to put into an hour episode every single day.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
No, they're really the MVPs.
Speaker 3 (39:18):
Yeah that do that.
Speaker 2 (39:19):
Yeah, and Ian him having the voiceovers.
Speaker 3 (39:22):
I watched one of his, Like, I changed.
Speaker 2 (39:23):
My tune on Ian because I used to be like
so I found him. It was the reason why I
wouldn't watch the show. I found him so irritating, and
I've changed. I laugh out loud.
Speaker 3 (39:32):
I think he's so funny. Sometimes his jokes don't hit,
but like you can't get a hundred, you know, oh,
night after night, Yeah, you can't bat a hundred. But
the ones that hit are very good.
Speaker 2 (39:41):
But Haley's like, where's the host of this show? Why
is there no host? Because Ariana comes in for every
coupling and everything.
Speaker 1 (39:48):
So I had the same thoughts. Apparently she was shooting
Trader's UK or.
Speaker 2 (39:55):
Something like she's all contestant.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
Yeah, like they're doing like a celebrity version and she's
she was like shooting, So that's why she was like gone, booked, yeah,
booked and busy Maya Jama. But she's back, she comes back.
She's been back the past couple of weeks, but it's
almost over. I have like not very many episodes. Well yeah,
and I'm so sad.
Speaker 2 (40:14):
So she got through about six episodes last night just
skimming through.
Speaker 3 (40:18):
She can't scam.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
She's pretty easy to skim. Me figure things out pretty
quick when you're not watching it, like one episode at
a time.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
It's I know, I know, but I will say that,
like this season of Love Island UK has been top
tier entertainment for me personally.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
I told her you said that, so her expectations are high.
Speaker 3 (40:35):
It should be okay.
Speaker 2 (40:38):
I wanted to talk since we're talking about dating. Do
you consider liking an Instagram post is cheating?
Speaker 3 (40:44):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (40:45):
Really, I mean no, but kinda, but like, I don't
think it's innocent.
Speaker 3 (40:50):
I don't think it's nice.
Speaker 1 (40:52):
If there's like a thirst trap the squirrel has like
her boobs out and her butt out, and Robbie was
to like it, I'd be like, what are you doing?
Speaker 2 (40:57):
Right? So it's totally on the basis of how much
skin is exposed, yes, yeah, but otherwise it's fine.
Speaker 3 (41:05):
Mm depends on the girl.
Speaker 2 (41:09):
Wow, all those gut do you have a mic? Can
we turn you on super disrespectful no matter no matter
what it is. Well, back to your point, if it's
like boobs but out, totally that's out of the question
like that is just you have an intention and it's
not good.
Speaker 3 (41:27):
Why you don't think it's cheating.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
That that I I don't know that. I would say
it's cheating, but I think.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
She's super extreme extreme word, but I would conversation.
Speaker 2 (41:39):
But what so you? But you said it's not always
if it's the skin skin.
Speaker 5 (41:45):
I have a boyfriend of year, okay, and I see
him like girls that I don't know. If it's girlfriends
that I know, yeah, I'll be like, Okay, I get it,
like we both know her. But if it's a girl
that I don't know, I'm not crazy about it.
Speaker 2 (42:02):
That's so true though, because why is he liking a
girl that you don't know?
Speaker 3 (42:06):
What do you ever see?
Speaker 2 (42:11):
No things you don't know, No like other chefs and stuff.
Speaker 1 (42:16):
Robie would never he's near of a silent. He's very
engaged our watcher. Yeah, he's very engaged with our friends,
and he'll engage with like all of our friend's content.
But outside of that, he's not like.
Speaker 2 (42:27):
Yeah, I think if I saw like a really like
a hot girl and I didn't know her, and I
saw Haley like she liked it, I'd be like, who
is she?
Speaker 3 (42:37):
Yeah, it's weird.
Speaker 2 (42:39):
Yeah, no, I'm not. I'm not that chill. I used
to be chill, and I'm not that chill.
Speaker 3 (42:46):
So weird to me, but that you're not chill like
that what.
Speaker 2 (42:50):
It used to be chill? Is it? I really wasn't
that chill with Robert either, Like really, Yeah, he'd go
on trips with all these like bikini models and stuff
and if I didn't want to, but he was an agent,
so like he was. And honestly, I never once doubted
that anything or I never thought anything was happening. But
it was just like this guy that I'm dating is
around all these hot models, right staying in the same
(43:14):
like house or wherever they are, you know. Yeah, So
I grew some thick skin through that, and then it
got weaker and we got weakened again when I met Haley.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
Is Hailey like Rando's on Instagram? No, no, no.
Speaker 2 (43:27):
She loves she Last night was watching this family who
lives in like the forest and eats fruit off the tree.
So that's kind of her. Her algorithm makes me feel
very safe with very safe. Yeah, and I'm mostly just
like watching like pranks or people. Okay, we had this
conversation the other day, but I if someone is okay, like,
(43:49):
I know they're okay, went after the fact. I think
it's so funny when people post videos of someone falling,
like if they're walking on ice or something like with
that Love Island challenge where they were having to run
on that slip bring Matt, I was almost crying laughing.
I think it's so funny when it's again when they're
not injured. Haley, I'll show her a video that I
(44:09):
think is so funny and she's like, oh, like, I
don't like that. I know you're the same way.
Speaker 3 (44:14):
I don't really like that either.
Speaker 2 (44:16):
So we were with her friends yesterday and we were
celebrating her friend Monica's birthday, and I was I brought
this up, and all her friends are like, oh my god,
I die laughing at videos of people following, and I
was like, oh, this makes me feel so much better.
Because both Tanya and Haley don't like pranks and they
don't like when people fall or get hurt. I don't
like when people get hurt, but I love like a
(44:38):
compilation of people slipping on ice or something.
Speaker 1 (44:42):
Speaking of this is so right, just because you said
yesterday and I remember what I did yesterday pottery?
Speaker 3 (44:48):
No, have you seen the movie The Invite?
Speaker 2 (44:50):
No? But I'm curious about it.
Speaker 1 (44:53):
It is so freaking funny, so freaking funny funny. It
is so freak funny. Okay, you need to see it,
and we need to discuss it. It's like really just
gonna fall flat if I just like sit here talk
about it.
Speaker 2 (45:08):
And I don't want spoilers, so.
Speaker 1 (45:10):
Okay, I'm not gonna you spoilers. But there's it's it's
also very like real, you know what I mean. Like
there's like so much realness about like relationships and marriage
and like just being with somebody for a long time,
and there's something about that that's so sad to me.
Like I'm like, I don't want to see people in
like a sad, horrible marriage, do you know what I mean? Yeah,
(45:31):
Like there's something so I'm like, I have mixed feelings
on it because like I haven't laughed that hard in
a movie theater in a long time. Like it is
so funny and they're comedic timing. Like to me, to
have that type of banter with Seth Rogan and Olivia Wilde,
to have that dynamic is very hard, and I feel
like they did it so perfectly, like literally laughing out loud,
(45:52):
but also with this like undertone of just yes.
Speaker 3 (45:56):
And I don't think I like that.
Speaker 2 (46:00):
Seem like you do?
Speaker 3 (46:01):
I love yah.
Speaker 1 (46:02):
Yeah, I know. It's really it's like it's a tough
pickle that I'm in because I did find it so hilarious,
but also just like so sad and like I get
in the car and I internalize everything, and Robi's like, Babe,
this has nothing to do with us.
Speaker 3 (46:17):
And I know.
Speaker 1 (46:18):
I'm like God, and I go, I know, but we're
married and I don't ever want to become that, and
He's like, we're not going to and I'm like, but
I don't think they thought that they would become that,
you know, Like I internalize.
Speaker 2 (46:28):
Oh, you like to make an effort in our marriage,
you know.
Speaker 3 (46:31):
Yeah, that's I.
Speaker 2 (46:32):
Think the key is if you get comfortable and let
it that happen, it happens.
Speaker 3 (46:36):
I know.
Speaker 1 (46:37):
But like with this couple in the movie, it just
like happened so slowly and then over time it just
you're strangers.
Speaker 2 (46:46):
Thank you for ending the podcast on such a high note. Sorry, guys, No,
it's okay. I mean I'm gonna I want to go
see it. Oh, I was gonna say I did pottery
yesterday like a seram. Yeah, I'm so bad at it,
Like I'm just not watching the girl, the girl that
was like our teacher do it and everything she did
(47:07):
it was perfect, and then I'd be like, Okay, I've
tried to do it and just tough. But I kind
of I've been thinking about it this morning because at
first I was like, I don't think I need to
do it again, because I would, And that's my mentality
on everything. If I'm not immediately good at something, I'm
just like, oh, I don't think I want to do
it again.
Speaker 3 (47:25):
And I'm like, what are you going to do? Make
pottery for like your house?
Speaker 2 (47:28):
Yeah? Like what if I made plates for us? Like
how gorgeous if I got good at it and gifts,
the gifts I could make.
Speaker 3 (47:34):
For Ooh the gifts I'd love to get that gift.
Speaker 2 (47:37):
Well, I won't give you one. How on that, I'll
get you your toat socks and your dish gloves and
be on my merry way making beautiful pottery for others. Robbie,
I'll make him beautiful plates that he can plate his
beautiful food on. Yeah, anyways, So I was like, I
need to change my mentality on if I had a
(47:59):
good time doing so something even though I wasn't good
at it, If I can practice and get good at it,
what's the worst that can happen?
Speaker 3 (48:04):
I agree, I think practice makes perfect.
Speaker 2 (48:06):
I'm gonna on a positive note, yes, practice everything, Practice
letting go of control, practice working on your marriage and relationship.
Practice things you're not immediately good at. And I'm gonna
leave you all with that. But we will be back
on Thursday for a Dear Bonia episode where we might
(48:27):
play another game where I beat Tanya. I don't know
hard hard to say.
Speaker 1 (48:31):
I've been reading the Facebook. We'll get into it on Thursday.
Speaker 2 (48:34):
Okay, okay, We'll be back on Thursday. And we love
you so much, love you, Bye bye.
Hosts And Creators
Tanya Rad
Rebecca Tilley
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