April 14, 2026 ⢠56 mins
FLO pulled up to Lip Service and got real about everything — from their viral Tiny Desk performance to dating, relationships, and the chaos of modern love.
They break down the meaning behind “Therapy At The Club”, why going out can actually feel like healing, and how their new music reflects a more confident, grown version of themselves.
The convo gets wild as they debate:
- Should men always pay on dates?
- Are “sneaky links” ever worth it?
- Is sex really that important in a relationship?
- And… should you get paid back for wasting your time in a relationship?
Plus, things take a turn when strip club stories come up — including one of the craziest stories ever told on Lip Service đł
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yeah, it's lip service. I mean Antela yee, I'm g
G maguire.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
I'm Jeordie Geor and we've.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
George just sellah, thank you so much for joining us
on the couch.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
I'm saying we got a nice packed house, but it's
well worth it, you know, flowers in the building. And
I do want to start it off by saying, what
an amazing tiny desk.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
That's you are head like, thank you phenomenal. How did
you feel about the response after that?
Speaker 4 (00:30):
So happy because that's just scary ship doing. That's more
scary the performance.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Yeah, so the reaction is good.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
Since we filmed it, we've been like, okay, it's actually okay.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Since when we filmed.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Yeah, we were every day. I was thinking it's going
to come up.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
We're going to get trolled, like people are going to
come for us, but they like it.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
We couldn't hair ourselves.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Oh wow really and we didn't hair.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Ourselves, so we were just like, you're just guessing when
you sing, and.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
We just naturally assumed the worst.
Speaker 6 (00:58):
The mics were on you guys get to practice before
in the.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Space one time, one run through.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Yeah, we're husted with the intention of not hearing ourselves
to try and get used to it.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
It's still very different different yeah, well flawless executions.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Yeah, thank you, you know, starting it off at carbre
bags too. I want to ask, and this is for
the ladies in the room. There's all been air time
when you've been to somebody's house and realized that they
were cheating on you because you found something, right, has
that happened?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
It actually hasn't happened to me.
Speaker 5 (01:34):
It has its.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Version of it has happened to me, but not not
no pies and no yeah no yeah when even it's
actually was my current partner, what did you see?
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Very beginning?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Okay, I was going through his drawers because because I
was looking for something and I pulled up my I
was like, okay, but we were barely even together. Okay,
but it was early, you know, it was it was
a leftover. It was a transitional period.
Speaker 5 (02:05):
Listen to him that you found it.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
You just threw it away from in front of him.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
What is this?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
It's just like, yeah, I was like, well, of course.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
For you. Never I was at a guy's husband time
and I sa used condom behind the.
Speaker 7 (02:25):
Bed behind Yeah, first all, why don't you have a headboard.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
But but what were you going to say?
Speaker 2 (02:43):
I don't really go through stuff. I haven't seen anything.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Well, not on purpose, because sometimes you don't in Tennessee,
like you might be like, where did this dark brown
here come from? It's not mine?
Speaker 8 (02:52):
You know?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Now you.
Speaker 5 (02:58):
Lashes where they coming from?
Speaker 3 (03:02):
And they were the last yeares that you were?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Not so silly though, Like I feel like he probably
saw that and like you'll probably think of.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Realized they were in his shower.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Wow, So she took the lastes of the shower and
she was getting busy.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Maybe that was intention.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
I think she was like, let me leave these heres.
So whoever else came, she's what they were his, because.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
A guy would do that, they'd be like those are
my babe, Like you know what about you? You never
found I never have found anything.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Then again, I'm like, when was the last time I
was in a relationship? Oh no, But I want to
ask you guys to about leek it and the video
is amazing. So tact was about the whole concept of
the video, how you came up with it. Was it
treatment somebody sent to you or was this something that
(04:10):
you guys came up.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
With someone sent it, so we we sent out like
a brief, but I think it was quite a like
broad breathe and Olivia's sent it over and it was
just so like interesting and like different like the other
ones were just like baddies were like Baddie's doing.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
What was that one?
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Like?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Working in? Yeah, like corporate es cool.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
But we wanted something special and it was just outside
the box. And then she was so collaborative, like when
we were looking at what our like PR stunts were
gonna be, we were like, so she was super collaborative
in us, like really picking something that we were like, yeah,
this is like because originally it was like us stumbling
(04:54):
out of the car. I was thinking, huh, where's the contract?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
That's regular day.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
So yeah, we were like we need to you know,
just but she was like, oh, I didn't know you
guys wanted to go there. I was keeping it cute,
so listen, she was like, let's do with them.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
It feels like a little mini movie.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yeah, when I watch it, like I don't know what's
going to happen every time, but the two.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
People do a lot of stance nowadays, absolutely, Yeah, have
you ever been in a situation even earlier on in
your career where it's like, how are we gonna, you know,
get out in the blogs?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
The blogs are scary. We've actually been like, how can
we stay off?
Speaker 5 (05:45):
You think good at it?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Yeah, until you came away, kid.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
It'll just catch you.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
And you know what, it's not even getting posted. It's
the comments.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Yeah, that's one of the credible comment Yes, very entertaining.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Through if it's not you sometimes.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
But how hard is it to keep your private life private?
Because I feel like all of you have been pretty
good at like, you know, there's been some slip ups
where somebody might say something that's unexpected and then it's like,
oh damn. But as far as like do you sometimes
want to just be like let me show this person
to the world, let me do this, like but you
(06:26):
kind of don't do it because of the comments and
the trolls.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Not really.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
I feel like, as long as you know how to
engage with social media, then you can kind of protect
your privacy because a lot of the times, like it's
more about not wanting to reply, Like you might get
a comment and want to reply, and then that's your
privacy is broken. But if everyone's commenting and you're not
(06:52):
saying anything like they don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Yeah, so you don't comform anything. Yeah, because I'm going
to say something anyway, regardless out of.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
The three of you, who is the most likely to reply.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
It depends on what the whole thing's about.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Yeah, but I've actually been I've been typing and deleting
recently and I just think, don't my comeback is not
even good enough to delete that? Yeah, So definitely picking
and choosing.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Now, we have a little fun segment we're going to
do with you guys. It's caused in the Grid, and
we're going to talk about things on social media that
have gone viral to get your opinion on it. Still Okay,
here's one story. Splitting the bill is the fastest growing
trend in modern dating. Seventy six percent of first dates
are funded by men, twenty three percent are split, and
(07:52):
only one percent are covered by women, But it's quickly
becoming one of the biggest shifts. When more dates are
still paid for by men, there's now a growing percentage
that's being split. What do you guys think about splitting
the bill?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
It depends like not on the first day, never on
the first or the second or the second I think
for the majority, like the man should pay for the food,
but it is nice to split the bill. It's not
that I feel like as well, it's like lunchtime gives
split the my boyfriend doesn't really let me split the bill.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
He's like, I got it.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Yeah, But I'm just also like, it's like, at the
end of the day, our money is basically each other's money.
So I'm thinking, so you're just spending our money like that.
But what was I going to say? Oh, yeah, dinners
should be paid for by the man, lunch could be split.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Okay, interesting, listen, what about what do you think?
Speaker 3 (08:46):
I think?
Speaker 4 (08:47):
I think when you're in the start of a relationship,
you should the man should want to pay exactly like
he should want to show you where. I think that
I think it's situational once you get into.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
It actual relationship.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
Like if I'm up right now and you're not so much,
I will offer, but it's like, obviously I would prefer I.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Feel like, last time I saw you, you were in a situation.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
But when did we see you?
Speaker 4 (09:13):
This was like, yeah, entering might have been the start
of my relationship.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Okay, you're still here, but I want to ask you this. Okay,
So let's say you guys all go out to eat
and then your man comes. Also he just happens to
be there. Should he pay for everyone, like like all
of us?
Speaker 8 (09:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (09:40):
Did he?
Speaker 3 (09:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I don't think he has to.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
But if I'm out with my girls.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
And then he comes, yeah, and he's there, that's why.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Eat?
Speaker 1 (09:54):
What's the rule? Like? You know? Because then the bill comes.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
And I can stop to him if he pays for it, thanks, Yeah,
I wouldn't ask him to, right, So it's like being
a good Samaritan.
Speaker 5 (10:05):
Yeah. Yeah, if he's smart, he'll pay.
Speaker 6 (10:11):
And if he has it, he has like that, I
feel like he should say, yeah, that's the gentleman thing.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
A gentleman, it's him showing a good gesture to your girls.
It's also giving you that like, Okay, got.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
It, girls, Daddy got it by he leves me me,
he loves my friend, gust money in my friend. I
know women though, who purposely will call a guy and
be like we're out here can meet us and be
like okay, good, he's gonna come. He's gonna pay the
bill for all of us.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
That's like.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
A trick.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
Yeah, it has a different tone.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Yeah, it's like I don't care about him, so let's
get him to run it. The only time I've done
something similar to.
Speaker 6 (10:58):
That is when they're on my body and they want
to see me so bad, like I'm with my homegirl.
Like literally two weeks ago, I was like, well, then
you can come and pay for this, right, you doing something?
Speaker 1 (11:12):
I'm busy here coming come for this and you ever
check to see what type of tip they leave?
Speaker 6 (11:18):
I do and I embarrassing And Saturday they look at
the bill too when they get it, are they.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Like yeah, all right, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Doing home yea, now I'm Jeordie. I think you had
it in the grid win.
Speaker 6 (11:39):
Oh yeah, mine was so in China, some men are paying,
like paying you back for wasting your time.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
If you if you have a break.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Period, dates gifts, what do you feel about I love it?
Speaker 1 (11:55):
I mean I love it, I love it, I need
but wast you.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Decided that the men decided this or the women who
made this rule?
Speaker 1 (12:03):
I don't know it didn't actually say.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
I just feel like we go through so much as women.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
The reason I want to be paid in my.
Speaker 5 (12:11):
Period, that's real.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
To make you look forward to it, right, like maybe
if I could do something with the Flow from the beginning,
I feel like that would make so much.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
So have you, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
I think we've had multi like tiny encounters with them,
nothing serious, but we want to do something with the
Period company for sure. Yes, Okay, obviously Flow makes my sense,
like I feel like they're more of like they give
me sustainable Period brand, not one of them ones given
the girlies cancer.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
No, you're right about that. Now, what does it mean
to waste your time? Because I feel like there's a
lesson learned in any relationship.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Mm hmm been wasted?
Speaker 5 (13:12):
Yeah, good for you.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Yeah, I feel like it's only a waste of time
if the like you misunderstood their intentions or their intentions
weren't genuine. It's like you want plaid, You wasted my time. Yeah,
But if it's mutual and it just didn't work out, Yeah,
an experience is an experience. Yeah, it's very true.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
You feel like you've ever had somebody waste your time?
Speaker 5 (13:33):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Absolutely?
Speaker 2 (13:36):
A couple.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
About people. Absolutely.
Speaker 6 (13:41):
I mean, like you said, it's the intention. If you
know I'm looking for something and you're not, and you're
not honest about that. You played in my face. Yeah,
and you wasted my time and you owe me a check. However,
if I knew what it was going in, then I
was a willing participant. We can all leave the situation
without being compensated for you.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
And it's interesting you say that because I don't know
what you want. Well, I don't want anything right now.
Speaker 6 (14:05):
But when times when I did want a relationship and
I'm like, okay, what are we doing and he was like,
never mind, I thought I wanted to be no boop.
Those type of situations, It's like he waited for you
to ask the question exactly exactly, but we were acting
like a couple, carrying on like you were selling me dreams.
Speaker 5 (14:26):
So I'm catching it conversations.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
But I feel like any guy that like spends time
with you will treat you like you're a couple at
that time that they're with you.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
But I feel like, you know if you want something,
or you know if you're willing to, like get that
steep down.
Speaker 5 (14:42):
I feel that guy's always know you want Yeah, do
I want to? Or do I just want to? You
know for exactly?
Speaker 1 (14:50):
I just I don't know. It's hard for me because
I also feel like sometimes you may think in the
time that you're there, you're like, this is amazing, and
then it's just you're there, you know what I'm saying.
And then I go home and I'm like, I'm straight,
like in my current situation. Yeah, yeah, that's still going on.
Speaker 6 (15:08):
Yeah, she has somebody that she yes, yes, expecting anything. No,
I mean, but we do. It's it is weird. We
do go on dates, but emotionally we're not tapped in
in that way.
Speaker 1 (15:24):
I don't see how, because y'all have been doing this for.
Speaker 6 (15:26):
A long time, okay, yeah, because we just don't look
at the big important things the same way. We have
very interesting, you know, debates about it, but we are
not aligned in the bigger picture of voting for Trump.
He can't vote, but no, he didn't vote.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
I think voted. He would have voted for Trump.
Speaker 5 (15:47):
You think.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
I don't think so. I hope not. I don't think so.
Speaker 6 (15:52):
But it's just other things. It's other small things. And
I'm like, why are we even like something as dumb
as evolution. I'm like, why are we finding about pollution
dinosaurs and they're not even here, you guys thought about
I was trying to watch that dinosaur on Netflix y'all
saw that the evolution I.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Was trying to get my education sounds good. It's like
I can't. I can't deal with the like conspiracy theory.
Speaker 4 (16:15):
Oh my boyfriend's very much like that, very much. But
like I've just learned to understand him. Like we agree
about the important things, right, but it can be it
can be like.
Speaker 6 (16:28):
To not have the same Yeah, but it's probably good
not too yeah, because they.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Agree about that important stuff, right.
Speaker 6 (16:35):
But you said, you guys don't and we don't. Like,
I don't think he could ever be a faithful partner.
I don't think he doesn't believe in race. You're in
it for what you're in it, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
It's fine.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Does he take me about other women? No? Okay, I
don't know.
Speaker 6 (16:50):
I just know you know what I mean, Like when
you can sense that, like, yeah, it's it's not getting exclusive.
Speaker 5 (16:56):
Okay, that's good for me.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
All right now? Z you have it in the grid.
Speaker 5 (17:00):
Yes. So there's a couple that in New York City
who had this big, extravagant wedding, but they charged their
wedding guests three hundred and thirty three dollars each.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
The wedding was seventy thousand dollars.
Speaker 5 (17:12):
Seventy thousand dollars wedding and the charge three hundred and
thirty three dollars for each guest to come. If you
had a close family for a close friend or a
family member that was getting married and said, hey, here's
an invitation, but here's the link for you to pay
for your would your seat in my wedding.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
If it was my good friend, I would have to,
But yeah, I would feel if you can't afford your wedding,
ye have a wedding a.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
Conversation like why are you making people pay to come
to your wedding? That's not something that is done.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
It definitely, I know it happens like on a destination
wedding sometimes.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Yeah, that's fine. Like flights if I were if I
was to get married abroad, I would pay for like
my close family, but for like people at like I'd
love for you to come, but if you don't come,
I'm not going to die. You can just say for
your flying an accommodation, but not that that's not contributing
(18:08):
towards the wedding.
Speaker 6 (18:09):
Very literally towards a ticket a ticket literally.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
They have a destination wedding and somebody pays for a
flight in room, do they still pay for a gift them?
I'm not off if you came yeah, yeah you said
you're not offending. No, yeah, because you already paid a
lot together. Leave the card or something, yeah, for sure,
for sure. Yeah. Wedding etiquette is very interesting to me
(18:35):
because I think it's also hard when people are getting married.
Sometimes people come and don't give a gift at all,
and don't they just show up. And I think that's
crazy too.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
I mean, I don't know, it's so hard.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
But if you have a wedding like people you know,
you see at a wedding, you have a magistry, you.
Speaker 2 (18:54):
Have ye need to be something sentimental though, because if not,
if anything, yeah, why would you get me like something
with my wish list the top a bag? Well no,
it's like it's like a specific wish list for wedding gifts,
like what's the wedding gift?
Speaker 9 (19:10):
The UK people, it's different yeah okay, yeah, because here,
you know, we know everything, we have a registered it's literally.
Speaker 4 (19:22):
I've ever got on a wedding presently.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
Wedding for money, some people just give money yeah okay,
which is the gift, you know, because I think it's
easier people do a register. You just pick something off there.
You could see if somebody that's so you guys don't
do register. I think we do, okay.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
I just think it's like.
Speaker 1 (19:41):
Yeah, yeah, okay. I felt yeah my friends is getting
married young, but they was never mind. I'm not gonna
say why all right now Therapy in the Club that
is the new song that is a one of my faves.
So congratulations, aren't that? I want to know about the whole,
(20:04):
like you know how this song came about? What y'all
was thinking? Why you were like, this is amazing, I
just got to hear about Therapiana Club.
Speaker 2 (20:13):
Well, it was actually written by one of our really
good friends, Lauren Keenan, and produced by Lost Boy, And
apparently the song was sent to us ages ago, like
over a year ago. We never heard it, and when
we heard it again, we were like, this is beautiful, like,
this is a beautiful ballad. So we recorded it and
(20:34):
this was the time we were like thinking about the
next album, like what's that going to be like? And
it really provided a sense of identity, like we are young,
and we work a lot, and we don't get out
much and it just kind of felt really relatable for us.
But when we do get out and it is therapeutic.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Yeah, what are some interesting club experiences.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
I could remember? I think I can share.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
It sounds like a good one.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
When I was younger and before flow, like me and
my best friend we would go to tape in London
and like it was just so much more fun than
it is not.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
You can't go.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Yeah, you can't get crazy anymore.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
You can't the thing in the club there, yes, because
I know here, like yeah, they say that ruined New York.
Speaker 4 (21:29):
Clubs, the group because then you just have the people
who can afford bottles get you know.
Speaker 1 (21:36):
What I mean?
Speaker 2 (21:37):
Well, there's still there's still people.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Yeah, but you want to have a table. People want
to start and then they let you in if you
buy get a table. The segregation is because sometimes you
don't even want a whole battle. Like true, I think
the bad guys go out, they got to spend that
whole month.
Speaker 5 (22:00):
It's already bade.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
Think I want someone if I should stay with what
I had before.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
The wine is a great vibe, and you guys were
drinking the killer with me.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
That's what we're doing. You gotta be consistent, consistently key. Yeah,
you know, Whine now worked in the club. She worked
in Magic City.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
We took a private jat from where were we somewhere
else America from Yeah, it was like really dumb and
impulsive from somewhere's birthday. We were on tour with kl
and her birthday fell on a Monday. Magic Monday. Magic Monday.
Been to We've only been on like a Saturday or
(22:46):
Tuesday or yeah, I think one time we went on
a Tuesday and we were like, we just missed it
and we were like, we're doing the food the Wings.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
She produced and narrated Magic City documentary series because she
was like the girl and magic the.
Speaker 8 (23:08):
Whole.
Speaker 5 (23:08):
The title of this Magic City I retired.
Speaker 1 (23:10):
Like the still a way and they uses.
Speaker 4 (23:14):
But my.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
Back. Her name is Fancy. We need to go. You
gotta take them. She will take you to a time. Yeah,
and we had the time of your lives.
Speaker 5 (23:29):
But tell me about your experience when you did go.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
I mean, every time we've been, it's been amazing.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
The one day was Monday, so you went with.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
We said we had one day off before we said
we're going, we'll come back. We got there a bit late,
so I think we were only there for like an
hour and a half before.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
That's a long.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Time, three hours, but we did a strip, We did
a pold in class. Yes, it's so like I have
so much, it's when it's still hard.
Speaker 5 (24:07):
When I retired, I actually used the money that I
made from our retirement performance party to open up a
pole dance studio where I taught pole dancing as a
mean as a means of fitness, you teach.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
Us, I will.
Speaker 5 (24:20):
I've retired, but I will come out of retirement and
give y'all, I would definitely got to make it a
whole thing.
Speaker 1 (24:27):
Is coming out with definitely.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
Hell yeah, they actually wanted in the therapy of video.
Speaker 5 (24:33):
Really, kay, did you want to do that? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (24:39):
I feel like y'all. I mean, it makes sense. But
I was saying this because Giji was kind of a
therapist also, and she would talk to us about men
coming to the club and basically a lot of times
they just want to like talk and have a conversation.
Speaker 5 (24:56):
They want to come to the club and they want
to v right, they want to talk about what they
have going on in their personal lives and their work
lives or whatever the case. But they also want to
feel like you like them, you want them, or that
there's a possibility of them being to be able to
be with you. So it's a whole like cat and
mouse game of life. You have to flirt, but you
also have to be like a listener. And there are
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different kinds of clubs. So there's clubs where there's the
gentlemen's clubs where you do a lot of talking, and
then there's clubs like Magic Cheetah exactly, And then you
have your magic.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
City, you know your shit. Then you have your magic.
Speaker 5 (25:29):
City which is your booty club, and you don't really
do a whole lot of talking. You let that ask
to the class really where it goes with that. But
but even that magic city, on the slower days or
in a day shift, you'll have that guy that wants
to talk and you just have to really be that
ear or that shoulder for him to lean on. And
that's how you get your money. He feels like you
really like him enough that he wants to pay you,
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and then you make your money like that. But I've
also had like some people tell me like some key
key things.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Like what's the craziest thing a guy's told you.
Speaker 5 (25:57):
Well, I don't really know about Toby, but you know,
my ultimate story is the guy that used to pay
me the drink shots of my urine.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
He drank, not her, he drank shot her.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
He would pay me five hundred dollars and you would
drink it like a shot in the strip club.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
In the club, Oh my gosh, wow.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
In the club.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Well, nobody knew that that's what he was doing.
Speaker 5 (26:18):
So we would order around the shots, and you know,
we would do our shots and then I would take
good cup and I would go in the bathroom and
he did it, and I would bring it back and
sitting on the table and he would drink it. No,
he g This whole thing is that he's a doctor.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
So maybe.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Yeah, he can get away with Yeah.
Speaker 5 (26:46):
It took me a while to agree to do it
because I was just like, I was really young at
the time. It was like when I kind of first
started dancing. I was just like, why do you want
to drink? He caught me on one of them days
where the rent was doing it was.
Speaker 9 (26:56):
Swell, and I was like, here you go, let me goad.
Speaker 5 (27:01):
I will say this though, I would always take a
cup and throw the cup away because yeah, I wasn't
giving a cup back to get I would always but yeah,
he definitely, and this went on for some some times.
Speaker 7 (27:12):
He partial, Yeah, period, I'll do it.
Speaker 10 (27:23):
You're in sample ready for you, and if you don't
have to go, somebody will says I need you to
come here and but listen.
Speaker 1 (27:34):
But in therapy in the club, you ladies talk about
you're the ones that sometimes want to go to the club,
and sometimes it is easier to talk to a stranger, yeah,
than to talk to somebody who's really close to you.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
Definitely, that's what female bathrooms are like. Yeah, just like
you find your best friends.
Speaker 1 (27:53):
I feel like I wonder where male bathrooms are like
because I know it's don't talk to each other. Yeah,
they try to avoid each other.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
It's so weird that that's so close to each other,
but that so much each other's peace. Like it's just
imagine if we had no cubic.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
Right each other from.
Speaker 5 (28:17):
Conversation.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
I don't even with the door closed in the club,
I don't want to miss.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
Out what's happening. Good niece is squat trying to be drunk,
and you're like together. But it is interesting because I
do feel like sometimes when I'm like in an uber
or something. It's nice when somebody has no idea who
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you are and you can just like kind of have
like a regular ass conversation.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
I do enjoy those, like even when like you got
a random uber driver and they're very talk it's like, yeah,
let's have a nice conversation.
Speaker 5 (28:56):
Sweet strangers, and like you know, venting or telling them
things that are going on with you is it gives
you a sense of like, I can tell this person
anything because they're not going to judge on and care again,
so it's just like, let me just fill out my
guts and then you have that same release of back
when we were talking about writing the comments and deleting it.
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It's like you have that same like you released it
and you let it out and it doesn't matter where
it went because again, this person is complete stranger.
Speaker 6 (29:25):
I feel like it also happens at the bar, Like
if you've ever sat by yourself at a bar or
with one of your homegirls, people love spilling tea.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
Me and Nalla were at.
Speaker 6 (29:34):
This bar once and this guy was fully telling us
about his sex life, showed us his videos videos, and
paid for our dinner because I'm sure he traumatized us
for life. He clearly needed to flee that for whatever reason.
And his girlfriend right, man, and it was giving him
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life that it was like, still got it. So I
felt like we were contributing to you know, how are
his taints graphic?
Speaker 1 (30:08):
They were graphic and we were like, oh wow.
Speaker 2 (30:12):
Her.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
He showed his full videos full and y'all watched and
we shirted. We got some lobster and crap.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
He said, you're gonna pay for.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
This another round? Thank you? What are we like? Man?
I talked to it. Uber driver went and I felt
so bad because he was an older man. He told
me that his wife was like bedridden and he was
talking to some women he met on Facebook and they
kept on like supposed to meet. They were supposed to
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go to like Mexico. He flew out there, she didn't
show up. He paid for it. She said she lost
the phone. He sent her money to get a new phone.
He was just sending her money, and I was like,
stop sending her money.
Speaker 2 (30:58):
It's probably the wife.
Speaker 3 (30:59):
Literally his wife.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
Okay, you want to play, no, But I felt I
honestly felt really bad. He was older, But then I
didn't because I'm like, you're doing this with your wife
and yeah, like you know, but then I also was
thinking like, well, what is he supposed to do? He's
got her there, he's taking.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
Care of her and just clueless.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
Yeah, I'm like, But I also was like, bro, if
you're sending her money and she's never coming to see
you and you've never FaceTime, I was like, have you
face timed her? Never? But even that, even that now
with AI, you can still FaceTime somebody and look like
someone always.
Speaker 5 (31:34):
We just can't move too much.
Speaker 1 (31:39):
But it is, Yeah, it is absolutely ridiculous the way
that things are now. So talk to me about this
new album because I just told you we got a
little taste with therapy at the club and I just
I like the whole vibe that it's on. So talk
to me about what's happening with the new project.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Well, we're still figuring things out. We've made a lot
of music and it feels a lot more fun, a
lot more upbe more confident. I feel like we mean
the things we say. I think access to Hilarias we
were like young girls, you guys are don't know whereas
like them songs we've been writing recently is like we
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mean it and we'll double back on business.
Speaker 1 (32:22):
Yeah, is it hard sometimes because people know you from
being younger, Like you said, we're access our areas. But
which was it being? I mean Missy Elliott that is
my joy and got her in a video because it's
not like she does a lie. It's true. If we
were honored, yeah, so that's that's huge and she's an
I can all right. But even thinking about that, because
sometimes people find it hard to like, what's their favorite
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artists like grow women? What's the balance with that?
Speaker 4 (32:48):
I feel I feel like a lot of our fans
are like growing with us, So I feel like they
feel us growing. But I'm sure people still think of
us that way. But I think when we have new
music out on our project, jobs and stuff, I think
even the stuff we're talking about and how we've written it,
I think they're going to see us small grown.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
I feel like there's a sound sex in peace.
Speaker 5 (33:08):
Yes, yes, how do you know that?
Speaker 1 (33:19):
Yes? So tell me about sex and peace.
Speaker 3 (33:27):
And pieces.
Speaker 4 (33:28):
I feel like it's a real feeling, like we're in
the club, your man and you're like, we can't do
it here, We've got to go.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
I think it's just a real feeling.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
It's very literal. Yes, it's not like, let's not beat
around with the bush. Let's get to the point somehow.
The songs three minutes long.
Speaker 1 (33:50):
But how importting is sex in a relationship? Out of
you know? And like let's just say because some people
could love somebody, they could be perfect, but the sex,
ay and all that, what would you say percentage wise?
Speaker 2 (34:12):
Chemistry is so important?
Speaker 1 (34:17):
Ie I I feel like there are other things that
are really important.
Speaker 2 (34:24):
But if the sex isn't good, then something isn't right.
It doesn't make sense if your bodies can't gel. I
definitely feel like it's in terms of like the hierarchy
of importance. It's it needs to be good, but other
things need to be good for otherwise then it's like
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it is it a relationship or are we just as
it's double?
Speaker 5 (34:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (34:50):
Yeah, friends, can you teach somebody to be good in bed?
Speaker 3 (34:57):
I think you can teach the more you like.
Speaker 4 (35:00):
I think that's just like a rhythm.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
Ye literally yeah, like choreography, Yeah, like it's got.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
Next song.
Speaker 3 (35:23):
That to me is almost is important hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (35:26):
The choreography, the rhythm, the lingus. Okay, okay, oh that listen.
That is what? So what if a guy said, I
don't do that, you got it's.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
Because what do you mean?
Speaker 5 (35:46):
Then?
Speaker 2 (35:46):
Do you want me.
Speaker 5 (35:52):
So many?
Speaker 2 (35:54):
Quality?
Speaker 5 (35:55):
Fair exchange is no briberary.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
I think it's not that he don't love you. If
he doesn't that exactly, it's a respect like Yeah.
Speaker 6 (36:03):
But I also like my man to actually like it. Yeah,
I don't even want to have that conversation like it
needs to be automatic.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
Yeah, and he needs to do you like eye contact memories.
Speaker 8 (36:26):
It's sexy and the like, let's check in and then
let's let's get.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
Over get back to business. Yeah, what about for you
making eye contact where you're as George eloquently said, sucking dick.
Speaker 2 (36:47):
I think that's more important, that's for sure.
Speaker 4 (36:50):
Yeah, that connection, it works better than Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
Guys love that too. I think I feel like men
are more visual than women when it comes to like
I feel like emotionally like I like to kiss and
stuff like them, but men like to like see stuff.
Yeah for sure, you know, like they don't care if
we're turned around staring at the pillow and so good.
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But for them, they want to like they like to
be able to see you know that sneaky like loves
to make out sneaky. That's good. You're in a relationship
like he does. That's really good in a relationship. We're not,
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but you guys, he might he loves to make out.
Speaker 6 (37:38):
I'm just like okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (37:41):
But I will do it every now and then.
Speaker 5 (37:44):
But I'm just definitely not.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
Yeah, you're like that.
Speaker 1 (37:47):
I am. I just thinking different kills, you know.
Speaker 6 (37:50):
I mean, I making a breakthrough, it is, but her
breakthrough is crazy.
Speaker 1 (37:54):
We're not compatible in the kissing way either.
Speaker 6 (37:58):
You don't like how he no, not really, it's definitely
aggressive and like a messy.
Speaker 2 (38:05):
Oh you need to tell him though, I've had to
tell and we have to get that start that some
things you have to teach. Don't feel bad. He will
probably respect it more because he wants to do things
the way you.
Speaker 5 (38:19):
Like because you're in a relationship, and I feel like
if they were in a relationship, they definitely she should say, yeah,
you can't teach him how she likes me since this
is only this and.
Speaker 2 (38:29):
That, but it could be more enjoyable for you. True,
it's just a few care about but if you don't
care about it, like, I'm not a big maker around.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
Okay, Okay, have you ever had a sneaky linked turn
into a relationship.
Speaker 3 (38:44):
I've never had a sneak.
Speaker 2 (38:45):
Link, Okay, I mean I guess, well it's what sneaky ends.
We were definitely sneaking around, but that was more like
obviously we've begun the relationship, not we begot as not boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (39:09):
And girl right right?
Speaker 2 (39:10):
Yeah, but you around like sneaking around my mom. That
type of sneaky link.
Speaker 1 (39:17):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (39:17):
I think a sneaky link is when like.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
I lost my chain of thought, where is everybody?
Speaker 2 (39:29):
Sneaky link is like you you don't even discuss being
in a relationship, like you're just here for a good time,
when what the time is, and that's that's that? Okay?
Then I was not.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
That was not so wait tell me how it started.
I want to know, like how did this even? I
know you guys met on social media? Instagram is your thing,
you know.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
Yes, well that was like a first time okay, I
mean as.
Speaker 1 (39:57):
Far as even know each other. When you think about
and then it really works, it does.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
Yeah, Like just was he likes some of my pitches,
I like some of his bitches, and then he d
M me and then and then I gave him my
Snapchat and he was actually, I don't think I should
just information, I should chat. I was a baby, I
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was seventeen. He's only he's like, he's not he's not
he's not. Thank but yeah, and then we just started
seeing each other. And then literally within a few months
we were living together. Wow, because it was in COVID
and it was like, am I gonna stay at home
(40:52):
or am I going to like be with the sky
that I like like being around? Yeah? So we just
like just live together. And then we got doors, and
then we got another dog, and then we got another dog.
Speaker 1 (41:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:07):
Yeah, children, Yeah, and then yeah.
Speaker 1 (41:11):
What was it about him there? Because I'm sure plenty
of people have DMD. You like all of you, I'm
sure plenty of people have DMD. What was it about him?
Speaker 2 (41:21):
Well, obviously I found him attractive. That's definitely was the.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
Because it's a lot of attractive. Take this in there yourself.
Here you go so much.
Speaker 2 (41:32):
I'm worried about the slaves.
Speaker 6 (41:36):
It's nice.
Speaker 2 (41:37):
I found him attractive. And then when I saw him, please,
thank you. When I met him, I don't know, I
think he's really funny. I also thought he was cool,
which is like as like a as a seventeen year old, Like,
you know, sometimes it's about the coolness. I thought, so cool.
Speaker 1 (41:57):
What did your mom say when she found out?
Speaker 2 (42:01):
To be honest, she was pretty cool because I got
with him just before I turned eighteen. Once I turned eighteen,
she was.
Speaker 1 (42:09):
Like, you're an adult now again.
Speaker 2 (42:12):
Which was like really new for her because she's quite strict.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
Oh wow, really, so that's hard to have strict a
strict mom when you're in this business too, but it's necessary.
Speaker 2 (42:25):
No, she was strict, and then all of a sudden,
she just became like not strict.
Speaker 1 (42:29):
She trusted your judgment because I think that when your
parents raise you in a certain way, they're comfortable with
knowing your makes my decisions when they're not around.
Speaker 2 (42:37):
She's like, I've given you the tools, now fuse amuse
them if you don't.
Speaker 1 (42:45):
Yeah, Selah, how did you know your man was the one?
Speaker 5 (42:51):
Well?
Speaker 3 (42:52):
Okay, so actually actually we went to the same college.
I didn't go with him. He was older than me.
Speaker 4 (43:00):
Okay, so he was like three years above me, and
I hadn't met him. And I said to my friend,
I'm like, so gonna like be with him. I hadn't
met him, though, I just like heard his music and stuff,
so I feel like even that was like listen, and
then he was in the.
Speaker 3 (43:16):
Studio with us. He was in the studio with us,
and it was just always some chemistry.
Speaker 6 (43:21):
He was actually wrote fly Girl, Yeah okay, and we
talked about that already, like it.
Speaker 3 (43:30):
I don't know. I think I was willing to work
for it.
Speaker 4 (43:35):
Like in the past, I'm very much like once once
it's too much, once you're too annoying, I'm just gonna go.
Speaker 1 (43:41):
Joy did you hear?
Speaker 5 (43:41):
That's me.
Speaker 4 (43:43):
All my previous relationships, after like a year, I'm just
out too much, or it's like I like you and
I don't want you too much.
Speaker 3 (43:52):
But this time I'm like, let's go.
Speaker 4 (43:54):
Like your guard was always up and yeah yeah, like
it was just going to be too much work, but.
Speaker 3 (44:01):
Willing to work, let's go.
Speaker 1 (44:09):
We went.
Speaker 2 (44:17):
Yeah, I know I'm single.
Speaker 1 (44:18):
Okay, that's fun too though, yes, yeah it is.
Speaker 2 (44:23):
You know what I'm like, For the longest time, I
felt that I'm really young and I want busiers to
be about me and to really just figure my shout.
And so I'm not sure of the opportunity.
Speaker 1 (44:38):
You haven't found the right and that's great.
Speaker 2 (44:41):
People are complicated. I'm also very complicated and the life
we live is very fast paced.
Speaker 1 (44:47):
And it any of their guys do they be trying
to hook her up? Has it happened?
Speaker 2 (44:57):
Women trying to match make you guys so many millions
and it doesn't work. It doesn't work in particular. Oh,
she does a list.
Speaker 1 (45:10):
We want to hear this list.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
This is really hard right now? Well, I like them
toll okay, dark and handsome, love me a chocolate man, ambitious, respectful, mature, funny, energetic. Okay,
(45:36):
somebody that's like willing to just do all the random
things that I wanted to do.
Speaker 1 (45:43):
What are some things you would like to do?
Speaker 2 (45:45):
Well, it's like little side quests.
Speaker 5 (45:48):
Like riding a bike.
Speaker 1 (45:51):
It's not but I get it.
Speaker 2 (45:55):
You go and play with this like one time me
and some but he drove, he drove me, he drove
It was really cute that I have to say, he
drove me two hours to go and play with Dalmatians
because I really wanted a dalmation.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
That's really sweet though. It was really sweet. Where is he.
Speaker 2 (46:20):
Knows?
Speaker 1 (46:21):
Listen? I've had great days like that. One guy drove
me to the beach to go to eat, like and
you know, we don't have beaches out here like that,
and this is yeah, this is a while ago, but
he was like, you know, he was like, I'm gonna
take you out to eat. Didn't tell me we were going.
I like guys who planned things, yes, so that you
don't have to you know, what do you want to do? Right,
Like you come up with that's cool, yeah, and so's
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Sometimes it's a little things like that's really dope.
Speaker 3 (46:45):
For sure it didn't work out.
Speaker 2 (46:49):
We don't know. Yes, I'm just life is a Johnny.
Speaker 1 (46:52):
No, you're right.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
And we shall see.
Speaker 1 (46:59):
I feel good about it.
Speaker 2 (47:00):
I feel like I will end up married and happy.
Speaker 1 (47:05):
But you're right about that. You are young and you
should be enjoying yourself and you guys are busy and
living a fast paced life. And sometimes I think people
feel pressured to get into something just to say that
they are when you should really wait until it's the
right and you'll know when it's right, Like how they
light up when they talk about like you know that's right.
(47:25):
You're not doing it just to do it, Yeah, exactly,
so you have fun because trust me, there's benefits to
both sides.
Speaker 2 (47:34):
This is not the first time i've been single.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
Yeah, so and I'm listen, it's about to be living
on the DMS honestly, and sell will be. Do your
boyfriends get along with each other too long?
Speaker 2 (47:57):
When we go when we go ontour? So funny we
went on tour was this our last tour? And all
the boyfriends were there and.
Speaker 3 (48:05):
It was just like, yeah, we have so much one together.
Speaker 5 (48:09):
Yeah, they get so good.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
Yeah, that's a blessing. We've been trying to say that our
men up, but like play dates with other like friends, boyfriends,
You're like, Okay, I hope they get along with each other.
Speaker 3 (48:18):
But I feel like it's easier for men to get
along than girls.
Speaker 2 (48:22):
I don't know, because sometimes men are a bit I
think women are better at faith.
Speaker 4 (48:26):
Baking it yeah, yeah, memory in any ways, Yeah, no,
I'm sorry, that's one thing that honestly.
Speaker 3 (48:35):
Saying baking it. What's the point you're not getting?
Speaker 5 (48:40):
Yes, you're not feeling like you.
Speaker 1 (48:43):
Sometimes we said sometimes I mean I've been there before. Yeah,
sometimes you're like he's trying so hard.
Speaker 4 (48:55):
But.
Speaker 2 (48:59):
Not as relationship because I'm not going to do it again.
Yeah you know, so let's nip it in the body.
Speaker 1 (49:05):
But sometimes they always can do it, but this particular
time is just not okay. And I think that happens
more in relationships when you're like you, But tonight it's
just off for some reason, right, like get down there
kind of medical term. I love that.
Speaker 2 (49:37):
It's like the.
Speaker 1 (49:41):
I love that we know nobody technical term.
Speaker 2 (49:46):
I feel like Felacia was more male.
Speaker 5 (49:49):
Yeah, it's cool though.
Speaker 1 (49:52):
Listen, they said, you guys gotta go, But I know
I don't want you to the fact that y'all have
a great time, because I do want to say, y'all
got other.
Speaker 2 (50:10):
We go found to see, we'll see, we'll see them
all right now, I want to ask you this question,
and I'm thinking about another time that you guys have,
but thinking about like how we've all evolved.
Speaker 1 (50:23):
And grown and changed throughout our lives. What is something
that you could say that you've learned from a past relationship,
Because you know, earlier we were talking about wasting time,
but I feel like we do learn things and nothing
is a waste of time necessarily, So from a bad experience,
what would you say is something that has been a
great takeaway? You could jump in here too.
Speaker 5 (50:46):
Y'all, I mean.
Speaker 1 (50:49):
Experience, Yeah, but maybe you learned a really valuable lesson
from it.
Speaker 5 (50:57):
Don't accept scared, don't accept the proposal when it's three
days into.
Speaker 1 (51:03):
The Yeah, I got engaged. I forgot about that three
days Yeah.
Speaker 5 (51:11):
And I was so happy about it.
Speaker 3 (51:12):
I was like, yea, such a nice thing is there.
Sixty five days later, I was like, what I.
Speaker 5 (51:19):
Did?
Speaker 8 (51:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (51:21):
I got his name. I got his name, his name,
Oh my god?
Speaker 1 (51:27):
Yeah, did you remember recoverage? Okay, yeah, nothing's permanent when
it comes to obviously for sure. What about you yearn
that lesson?
Speaker 5 (51:38):
We'll do that again.
Speaker 1 (51:40):
I don't believe you. I don't you are such a lover.
Girl will be like she will come in here next
week and be like, guys, I have a man, I
still have a girlfriend. She came in with her girlfriend.
(52:01):
Would imagine outfit.
Speaker 5 (52:04):
Every year, I've got to match your boots. We dressed
it like all the time. It's okay, like little twins.
It's very cute. But I don't know.
Speaker 1 (52:12):
It's weird.
Speaker 5 (52:13):
It's a weird. It's a weird girlfriend relationship.
Speaker 1 (52:17):
Because because what.
Speaker 5 (52:20):
Come on, know, I mean right, because this is all
I'm going to say between the lines, sharing is caring, Okay, I.
Speaker 1 (52:30):
Said, there's another person involved sharing. Okay, were thinking, yeah.
Speaker 3 (52:35):
Sharing is Karen that's the one.
Speaker 2 (52:37):
Okay, that's not.
Speaker 3 (52:38):
What do you think I get that she's selfish in bed?
Speaker 1 (52:42):
Oh no, okay, good would work.
Speaker 3 (52:47):
We have a lot of a lot of fun.
Speaker 1 (52:54):
What is something you've learned from a relationship that didn't
work out to take into the future or an experience?
Yeng learnership from me?
Speaker 2 (53:03):
The main the thing is, the main thing is that
it's about me. Like the main thing I've learned is
that I'm young, and I don't We shouldn't spend I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (53:17):
Actually, no, say it because it works.
Speaker 2 (53:19):
It works sometimes. But I think while we're young, these
years are for really about learning who we are absol
rather than building a relationship, because I put a lot
into a relationship to the point whereas to my own
self detriment and I need to learn how to not
do that. But also I need to live my young
see it.
Speaker 1 (53:38):
That is a good lesson though, because sometimes learning to
still be an individual and I put your all into
somebody else, that's a really valuable lesson to learn early on,
where I'm still doing my thing and he should be
supportive of that, whoever he is, and even if I'm
losing myself, you should be like, no, girl, you need
to go and do yeah.
Speaker 2 (53:56):
Yeah, which I didn't have.
Speaker 1 (53:58):
Yeah, I didn't have.
Speaker 2 (54:00):
I just had lot. He loves it here, Yeah, of course.
Speaker 5 (54:02):
He loves it here.
Speaker 1 (54:03):
But what about me?
Speaker 3 (54:05):
What about me?
Speaker 1 (54:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (54:07):
Okay, I mean it's hard for me because I've obviously
been in my current relationship since I was seventeen. So
I was like, it's already been.
Speaker 1 (54:15):
Man, that's amazing that you yeah, that you found somebody
like and that's that and it's forever, hope. So you know,
so we got to just say that, we got to
put that in the atmosphere and it's forever, you know. Okay,
but if it doesn't, you can come back. We'll talk
about it. What would you say, something you learned it's
(54:41):
something that didn't work?
Speaker 2 (54:50):
Can I say what I think? I? Can I say
what you've learned to put fast?
Speaker 1 (54:57):
Yeah, that's the main theme I think.
Speaker 2 (54:59):
So yeah, period, Okay, I can because.
Speaker 1 (55:05):
Now because even working with somebody in the same field
sometimes that's not easy.
Speaker 2 (55:09):
No, yeah, no, I'm talking about the previous yeah.
Speaker 4 (55:12):
Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I mean, yeah,
for sure, I think it's hard to find someone who's
in the same field as you, who doesn't have ego,
you know, and doesn't isn't jealous, isn't jealous, and isn't weird.
Speaker 5 (55:29):
But yeah, so true.
Speaker 2 (55:31):
But I also feel like it makes so much sense
because you both go through the same thing.
Speaker 1 (55:36):
Yeah, so it's like you can talk about it and.
Speaker 2 (55:39):
Understand that because he's like he could be in a
position where he has to do, you know, behave like
how you behaved in the video period. Actually he's not allowed.
That was like really supportive, was know?
Speaker 3 (56:00):
You know, yeah, you know he does for sure.
Speaker 1 (56:04):
Yeah, he gets it. But listen, do we know when
the album is coming out?
Speaker 2 (56:12):
We have okay public information?
Speaker 1 (56:16):
Okay, but soon this year this year, Okay, don't lighten
me that.
Speaker 5 (56:25):
Way to find out?
Speaker 1 (56:26):
Go flow. I appreciate you for coming through. Thank you
so much.
Speaker 5 (56:28):
We have.
Speaker 1 (56:29):
Honestly, I enjoyed this and I'm glad you did too.
Speaker 2 (56:33):
So much.
Speaker 1 (56:33):
Yeah, yes, maybe, yeah, what's the date again? It's lip service,
it's lip service.
Yeah, it's lip service. I mean Antela yee, I'm g
G maguire.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
I'm Jeordie Geor and we've.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
George just sellah, thank you so much for joining us
on the couch.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
I'm saying we got a nice packed house, but it's
well worth it, you know, flowers in the building. And
I do want to start it off by saying, what
an amazing tiny desk.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
That's you are head like, thank you phenomenal. How did
you feel about the response after that?
Speaker 4 (00:30):
So happy because that's just scary ship doing. That's more
scary the performance.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Yeah, so the reaction is good.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
Since we filmed it, we've been like, okay, it's actually okay.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Since when we filmed.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Yeah, we were every day. I was thinking it's going
to come up.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
We're going to get trolled, like people are going to
come for us, but they like it.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
We couldn't hair ourselves.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Oh wow really and we didn't hair.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Ourselves, so we were just like, you're just guessing when
you sing, and.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
We just naturally assumed the worst.
Speaker 6 (00:58):
The mics were on you guys get to practice before
in the.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Space one time, one run through.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Yeah, we're husted with the intention of not hearing ourselves
to try and get used to it.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
It's still very different different yeah, well flawless executions.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Yeah, thank you, you know, starting it off at carbre
bags too. I want to ask, and this is for
the ladies in the room. There's all been air time
when you've been to somebody's house and realized that they
were cheating on you because you found something, right, has
that happened?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
It actually hasn't happened to me.
Speaker 5 (01:34):
It has its.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Version of it has happened to me, but not not
no pies and no yeah no yeah when even it's
actually was my current partner, what did you see?
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Very beginning?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Okay, I was going through his drawers because because I
was looking for something and I pulled up my I
was like, okay, but we were barely even together. Okay,
but it was early, you know, it was it was
a leftover. It was a transitional period.
Speaker 5 (02:05):
Listen to him that you found it.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
You just threw it away from in front of him.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
What is this?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
It's just like, yeah, I was like, well, of course.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
For you. Never I was at a guy's husband time
and I sa used condom behind the.
Speaker 7 (02:25):
Bed behind Yeah, first all, why don't you have a headboard.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
But but what were you going to say?
Speaker 2 (02:43):
I don't really go through stuff. I haven't seen anything.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Well, not on purpose, because sometimes you don't in Tennessee,
like you might be like, where did this dark brown
here come from? It's not mine?
Speaker 8 (02:52):
You know?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Now you.
Speaker 5 (02:58):
Lashes where they coming from?
Speaker 3 (03:02):
And they were the last yeares that you were?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Not so silly though, Like I feel like he probably
saw that and like you'll probably think of.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Realized they were in his shower.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Wow, So she took the lastes of the shower and
she was getting busy.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Maybe that was intention.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
I think she was like, let me leave these heres.
So whoever else came, she's what they were his, because.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
A guy would do that, they'd be like those are
my babe, Like you know what about you? You never
found I never have found anything.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Then again, I'm like, when was the last time I
was in a relationship? Oh no, But I want to
ask you guys to about leek it and the video
is amazing. So tact was about the whole concept of
the video, how you came up with it. Was it
treatment somebody sent to you or was this something that
(04:10):
you guys came up.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
With someone sent it, so we we sent out like
a brief, but I think it was quite a like
broad breathe and Olivia's sent it over and it was
just so like interesting and like different like the other
ones were just like baddies were like Baddie's doing.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
What was that one?
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Like?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Working in? Yeah, like corporate es cool.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
But we wanted something special and it was just outside
the box. And then she was so collaborative, like when
we were looking at what our like PR stunts were
gonna be, we were like, so she was super collaborative
in us, like really picking something that we were like, yeah,
this is like because originally it was like us stumbling
(04:54):
out of the car. I was thinking, huh, where's the contract?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
That's regular day.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
So yeah, we were like we need to you know,
just but she was like, oh, I didn't know you
guys wanted to go there. I was keeping it cute,
so listen, she was like, let's do with them.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
It feels like a little mini movie.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yeah, when I watch it, like I don't know what's
going to happen every time, but the two.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
People do a lot of stance nowadays, absolutely, Yeah, have
you ever been in a situation even earlier on in
your career where it's like, how are we gonna, you know,
get out in the blogs?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
The blogs are scary. We've actually been like, how can
we stay off?
Speaker 5 (05:45):
You think good at it?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Yeah, until you came away, kid.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
It'll just catch you.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
And you know what, it's not even getting posted. It's
the comments.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Yeah, that's one of the credible comment Yes, very entertaining.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Through if it's not you sometimes.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
But how hard is it to keep your private life private?
Because I feel like all of you have been pretty
good at like, you know, there's been some slip ups
where somebody might say something that's unexpected and then it's like,
oh damn. But as far as like do you sometimes
want to just be like let me show this person
to the world, let me do this, like but you
(06:26):
kind of don't do it because of the comments and
the trolls.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Not really.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
I feel like, as long as you know how to
engage with social media, then you can kind of protect
your privacy because a lot of the times, like it's
more about not wanting to reply, Like you might get
a comment and want to reply, and then that's your
privacy is broken. But if everyone's commenting and you're not
(06:52):
saying anything like they don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Yeah, so you don't comform anything. Yeah, because I'm going
to say something anyway, regardless out of.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
The three of you, who is the most likely to reply.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
It depends on what the whole thing's about.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Yeah, but I've actually been I've been typing and deleting
recently and I just think, don't my comeback is not
even good enough to delete that? Yeah, So definitely picking
and choosing.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Now, we have a little fun segment we're going to
do with you guys. It's caused in the Grid, and
we're going to talk about things on social media that
have gone viral to get your opinion on it. Still Okay,
here's one story. Splitting the bill is the fastest growing
trend in modern dating. Seventy six percent of first dates
are funded by men, twenty three percent are split, and
(07:52):
only one percent are covered by women, But it's quickly
becoming one of the biggest shifts. When more dates are
still paid for by men, there's now a growing percentage
that's being split. What do you guys think about splitting
the bill?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
It depends like not on the first day, never on
the first or the second or the second I think
for the majority, like the man should pay for the food,
but it is nice to split the bill. It's not
that I feel like as well, it's like lunchtime gives
split the my boyfriend doesn't really let me split the bill.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
He's like, I got it.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Yeah, But I'm just also like, it's like, at the
end of the day, our money is basically each other's money.
So I'm thinking, so you're just spending our money like that.
But what was I going to say? Oh, yeah, dinners
should be paid for by the man, lunch could be split.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Okay, interesting, listen, what about what do you think?
Speaker 3 (08:46):
I think?
Speaker 4 (08:47):
I think when you're in the start of a relationship,
you should the man should want to pay exactly like
he should want to show you where. I think that
I think it's situational once you get into.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
It actual relationship.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
Like if I'm up right now and you're not so much,
I will offer, but it's like, obviously I would prefer I.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Feel like, last time I saw you, you were in a situation.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
But when did we see you?
Speaker 4 (09:13):
This was like, yeah, entering might have been the start
of my relationship.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Okay, you're still here, but I want to ask you this. Okay,
So let's say you guys all go out to eat
and then your man comes. Also he just happens to
be there. Should he pay for everyone, like like all
of us?
Speaker 8 (09:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (09:40):
Did he?
Speaker 3 (09:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I don't think he has to.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
But if I'm out with my girls.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
And then he comes, yeah, and he's there, that's why.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Eat?
Speaker 1 (09:54):
What's the rule? Like? You know? Because then the bill comes.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
And I can stop to him if he pays for it, thanks, Yeah,
I wouldn't ask him to, right, So it's like being
a good Samaritan.
Speaker 5 (10:05):
Yeah. Yeah, if he's smart, he'll pay.
Speaker 6 (10:11):
And if he has it, he has like that, I
feel like he should say, yeah, that's the gentleman thing.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
A gentleman, it's him showing a good gesture to your girls.
It's also giving you that like, Okay, got.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
It, girls, Daddy got it by he leves me me,
he loves my friend, gust money in my friend. I
know women though, who purposely will call a guy and
be like we're out here can meet us and be
like okay, good, he's gonna come. He's gonna pay the
bill for all of us.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
That's like.
Speaker 3 (10:49):
A trick.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
Yeah, it has a different tone.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Yeah, it's like I don't care about him, so let's
get him to run it. The only time I've done
something similar to.
Speaker 6 (10:58):
That is when they're on my body and they want
to see me so bad, like I'm with my homegirl.
Like literally two weeks ago, I was like, well, then
you can come and pay for this, right, you doing something?
Speaker 1 (11:12):
I'm busy here coming come for this and you ever
check to see what type of tip they leave?
Speaker 6 (11:18):
I do and I embarrassing And Saturday they look at
the bill too when they get it, are they.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Like yeah, all right, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Doing home yea, now I'm Jeordie. I think you had
it in the grid win.
Speaker 6 (11:39):
Oh yeah, mine was so in China, some men are paying,
like paying you back for wasting your time.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
If you if you have a break.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Period, dates gifts, what do you feel about I love it?
Speaker 1 (11:55):
I mean I love it, I love it, I need
but wast you.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Decided that the men decided this or the women who
made this rule?
Speaker 1 (12:03):
I don't know it didn't actually say.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
I just feel like we go through so much as women.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
The reason I want to be paid in my.
Speaker 5 (12:11):
Period, that's real.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
To make you look forward to it, right, like maybe
if I could do something with the Flow from the beginning,
I feel like that would make so much.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
So have you, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
I think we've had multi like tiny encounters with them,
nothing serious, but we want to do something with the
Period company for sure. Yes, Okay, obviously Flow makes my sense,
like I feel like they're more of like they give
me sustainable Period brand, not one of them ones given
the girlies cancer.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
No, you're right about that. Now, what does it mean
to waste your time? Because I feel like there's a
lesson learned in any relationship.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Mm hmm been wasted?
Speaker 5 (13:12):
Yeah, good for you.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
Yeah, I feel like it's only a waste of time
if the like you misunderstood their intentions or their intentions
weren't genuine. It's like you want plaid, You wasted my time. Yeah,
But if it's mutual and it just didn't work out, Yeah,
an experience is an experience. Yeah, it's very true.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
You feel like you've ever had somebody waste your time?
Speaker 5 (13:33):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Absolutely?
Speaker 2 (13:36):
A couple.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
About people. Absolutely.
Speaker 6 (13:41):
I mean, like you said, it's the intention. If you
know I'm looking for something and you're not, and you're
not honest about that. You played in my face. Yeah,
and you wasted my time and you owe me a check. However,
if I knew what it was going in, then I
was a willing participant. We can all leave the situation
without being compensated for you.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
And it's interesting you say that because I don't know
what you want. Well, I don't want anything right now.
Speaker 6 (14:05):
But when times when I did want a relationship and
I'm like, okay, what are we doing and he was like,
never mind, I thought I wanted to be no boop.
Those type of situations, It's like he waited for you
to ask the question exactly exactly, but we were acting
like a couple, carrying on like you were selling me dreams.
Speaker 5 (14:26):
So I'm catching it conversations.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
But I feel like any guy that like spends time
with you will treat you like you're a couple at
that time that they're with you.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
But I feel like, you know if you want something,
or you know if you're willing to, like get that
steep down.
Speaker 5 (14:42):
I feel that guy's always know you want Yeah, do
I want to? Or do I just want to? You
know for exactly?
Speaker 1 (14:50):
I just I don't know. It's hard for me because
I also feel like sometimes you may think in the
time that you're there, you're like, this is amazing, and
then it's just you're there, you know what I'm saying.
And then I go home and I'm like, I'm straight,
like in my current situation. Yeah, yeah, that's still going on.
Speaker 6 (15:08):
Yeah, she has somebody that she yes, yes, expecting anything. No,
I mean, but we do. It's it is weird. We
do go on dates, but emotionally we're not tapped in
in that way.
Speaker 1 (15:24):
I don't see how, because y'all have been doing this for.
Speaker 6 (15:26):
A long time, okay, yeah, because we just don't look
at the big important things the same way. We have
very interesting, you know, debates about it, but we are
not aligned in the bigger picture of voting for Trump.
He can't vote, but no, he didn't vote.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
I think voted. He would have voted for Trump.
Speaker 5 (15:47):
You think.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
I don't think so. I hope not. I don't think so.
Speaker 6 (15:52):
But it's just other things. It's other small things. And
I'm like, why are we even like something as dumb
as evolution. I'm like, why are we finding about pollution
dinosaurs and they're not even here, you guys thought about
I was trying to watch that dinosaur on Netflix y'all
saw that the evolution I.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Was trying to get my education sounds good. It's like
I can't. I can't deal with the like conspiracy theory.
Speaker 4 (16:15):
Oh my boyfriend's very much like that, very much. But
like I've just learned to understand him. Like we agree
about the important things, right, but it can be it
can be like.
Speaker 6 (16:28):
To not have the same Yeah, but it's probably good
not too yeah, because they.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
Agree about that important stuff, right.
Speaker 6 (16:35):
But you said, you guys don't and we don't. Like,
I don't think he could ever be a faithful partner.
I don't think he doesn't believe in race. You're in
it for what you're in it, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
It's fine.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Does he take me about other women? No? Okay, I
don't know.
Speaker 6 (16:50):
I just know you know what I mean, Like when
you can sense that, like, yeah, it's it's not getting exclusive.
Speaker 5 (16:56):
Okay, that's good for me.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
All right now? Z you have it in the grid.
Speaker 5 (17:00):
Yes. So there's a couple that in New York City
who had this big, extravagant wedding, but they charged their
wedding guests three hundred and thirty three dollars each.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
The wedding was seventy thousand dollars.
Speaker 5 (17:12):
Seventy thousand dollars wedding and the charge three hundred and
thirty three dollars for each guest to come. If you
had a close family for a close friend or a
family member that was getting married and said, hey, here's
an invitation, but here's the link for you to pay
for your would your seat in my wedding.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
If it was my good friend, I would have to,
But yeah, I would feel if you can't afford your wedding,
ye have a wedding a.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
Conversation like why are you making people pay to come
to your wedding? That's not something that is done.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
It definitely, I know it happens like on a destination
wedding sometimes.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Yeah, that's fine. Like flights if I were if I
was to get married abroad, I would pay for like
my close family, but for like people at like I'd
love for you to come, but if you don't come,
I'm not going to die. You can just say for
your flying an accommodation, but not that that's not contributing
(18:08):
towards the wedding.
Speaker 6 (18:09):
Very literally towards a ticket a ticket literally.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
They have a destination wedding and somebody pays for a
flight in room, do they still pay for a gift them?
I'm not off if you came yeah, yeah you said
you're not offending. No, yeah, because you already paid a
lot together. Leave the card or something, yeah, for sure,
for sure. Yeah. Wedding etiquette is very interesting to me
(18:35):
because I think it's also hard when people are getting married.
Sometimes people come and don't give a gift at all,
and don't they just show up. And I think that's
crazy too.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
I mean, I don't know, it's so hard.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
But if you have a wedding like people you know,
you see at a wedding, you have a magistry, you.
Speaker 2 (18:54):
Have ye need to be something sentimental though, because if not,
if anything, yeah, why would you get me like something
with my wish list the top a bag? Well no,
it's like it's like a specific wish list for wedding gifts,
like what's the wedding gift?
Speaker 9 (19:10):
The UK people, it's different yeah okay, yeah, because here,
you know, we know everything, we have a registered it's literally.
Speaker 4 (19:22):
I've ever got on a wedding presently.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
Wedding for money, some people just give money yeah okay,
which is the gift, you know, because I think it's
easier people do a register. You just pick something off there.
You could see if somebody that's so you guys don't
do register. I think we do, okay.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
I just think it's like.
Speaker 1 (19:41):
Yeah, yeah, okay. I felt yeah my friends is getting
married young, but they was never mind. I'm not gonna
say why all right now Therapy in the Club that
is the new song that is a one of my faves.
So congratulations, aren't that? I want to know about the whole,
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like you know how this song came about? What y'all
was thinking? Why you were like, this is amazing, I
just got to hear about Therapiana Club.
Speaker 2 (20:13):
Well, it was actually written by one of our really
good friends, Lauren Keenan, and produced by Lost Boy, And
apparently the song was sent to us ages ago, like
over a year ago. We never heard it, and when
we heard it again, we were like, this is beautiful, like,
this is a beautiful ballad. So we recorded it and
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this was the time we were like thinking about the
next album, like what's that going to be like? And
it really provided a sense of identity, like we are young,
and we work a lot, and we don't get out
much and it just kind of felt really relatable for us.
But when we do get out and it is therapeutic.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Yeah, what are some interesting club experiences.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
I could remember? I think I can share.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
It sounds like a good one.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
When I was younger and before flow, like me and
my best friend we would go to tape in London
and like it was just so much more fun than
it is not.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
You can't go.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Yeah, you can't get crazy anymore.
Speaker 1 (21:22):
You can't the thing in the club there, yes, because
I know here, like yeah, they say that ruined New York.
Speaker 4 (21:29):
Clubs, the group because then you just have the people
who can afford bottles get you know.
Speaker 1 (21:36):
What I mean?
Speaker 2 (21:37):
Well, there's still there's still people.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Yeah, but you want to have a table. People want
to start and then they let you in if you
buy get a table. The segregation is because sometimes you
don't even want a whole battle. Like true, I think
the bad guys go out, they got to spend that
whole month.
Speaker 5 (22:00):
It's already bade.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
Think I want someone if I should stay with what
I had before.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
The wine is a great vibe, and you guys were
drinking the killer with me.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
That's what we're doing. You gotta be consistent, consistently key. Yeah,
you know, Whine now worked in the club. She worked
in Magic City.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
We took a private jat from where were we somewhere
else America from Yeah, it was like really dumb and
impulsive from somewhere's birthday. We were on tour with kl
and her birthday fell on a Monday. Magic Monday. Magic Monday.
Been to We've only been on like a Saturday or
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Tuesday or yeah, I think one time we went on
a Tuesday and we were like, we just missed it
and we were like, we're doing the food the Wings.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
She produced and narrated Magic City documentary series because she
was like the girl and magic the.
Speaker 8 (23:08):
Whole.
Speaker 5 (23:08):
The title of this Magic City I retired.
Speaker 1 (23:10):
Like the still a way and they uses.
Speaker 4 (23:14):
But my.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
Back. Her name is Fancy. We need to go. You
gotta take them. She will take you to a time. Yeah,
and we had the time of your lives.
Speaker 5 (23:29):
But tell me about your experience when you did go.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
I mean, every time we've been, it's been amazing.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
The one day was Monday, so you went with.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
We said we had one day off before we said
we're going, we'll come back. We got there a bit late,
so I think we were only there for like an
hour and a half before.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
That's a long.
Speaker 4 (23:51):
Time, three hours, but we did a strip, We did
a pold in class. Yes, it's so like I have
so much, it's when it's still hard.
Speaker 5 (24:07):
When I retired, I actually used the money that I
made from our retirement performance party to open up a
pole dance studio where I taught pole dancing as a
mean as a means of fitness, you teach.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
Us, I will.
Speaker 5 (24:20):
I've retired, but I will come out of retirement and
give y'all, I would definitely got to make it a
whole thing.
Speaker 1 (24:27):
Is coming out with definitely.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
Hell yeah, they actually wanted in the therapy of video.
Speaker 5 (24:33):
Really, kay, did you want to do that? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (24:39):
I feel like y'all. I mean, it makes sense. But
I was saying this because Giji was kind of a
therapist also, and she would talk to us about men
coming to the club and basically a lot of times
they just want to like talk and have a conversation.
Speaker 5 (24:56):
They want to come to the club and they want
to v right, they want to talk about what they
have going on in their personal lives and their work
lives or whatever the case. But they also want to
feel like you like them, you want them, or that
there's a possibility of them being to be able to
be with you. So it's a whole like cat and
mouse game of life. You have to flirt, but you
also have to be like a listener. And there are
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different kinds of clubs. So there's clubs where there's the
gentlemen's clubs where you do a lot of talking, and
then there's clubs like Magic Cheetah exactly, And then you
have your magic.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
City, you know your shit. Then you have your magic.
Speaker 5 (25:29):
City which is your booty club, and you don't really
do a whole lot of talking. You let that ask
to the class really where it goes with that. But
but even that magic city, on the slower days or
in a day shift, you'll have that guy that wants
to talk and you just have to really be that
ear or that shoulder for him to lean on. And
that's how you get your money. He feels like you
really like him enough that he wants to pay you,
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and then you make your money like that. But I've
also had like some people tell me like some key
key things.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Like what's the craziest thing a guy's told you.
Speaker 5 (25:57):
Well, I don't really know about Toby, but you know,
my ultimate story is the guy that used to pay
me the drink shots of my urine.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
He drank, not her, he drank shot her.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
He would pay me five hundred dollars and you would
drink it like a shot in the strip club.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
In the club, Oh my gosh, wow.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
In the club.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Well, nobody knew that that's what he was doing.
Speaker 5 (26:18):
So we would order around the shots, and you know,
we would do our shots and then I would take
good cup and I would go in the bathroom and
he did it, and I would bring it back and
sitting on the table and he would drink it. No,
he g This whole thing is that he's a doctor.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
So maybe.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Yeah, he can get away with Yeah.
Speaker 5 (26:46):
It took me a while to agree to do it
because I was just like, I was really young at
the time. It was like when I kind of first
started dancing. I was just like, why do you want
to drink? He caught me on one of them days
where the rent was doing it was.
Speaker 9 (26:56):
Swell, and I was like, here you go, let me goad.
Speaker 5 (27:01):
I will say this though, I would always take a
cup and throw the cup away because yeah, I wasn't
giving a cup back to get I would always but yeah,
he definitely, and this went on for some some times.
Speaker 7 (27:12):
He partial, Yeah, period, I'll do it.
Speaker 10 (27:23):
You're in sample ready for you, and if you don't
have to go, somebody will says I need you to
come here and but listen.
Speaker 1 (27:34):
But in therapy in the club, you ladies talk about
you're the ones that sometimes want to go to the club,
and sometimes it is easier to talk to a stranger, yeah,
than to talk to somebody who's really close to you.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
Definitely, that's what female bathrooms are like. Yeah, just like
you find your best friends.
Speaker 1 (27:53):
I feel like I wonder where male bathrooms are like
because I know it's don't talk to each other. Yeah,
they try to avoid each other.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
It's so weird that that's so close to each other,
but that so much each other's peace. Like it's just
imagine if we had no cubic.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
Right each other from.
Speaker 5 (28:17):
Conversation.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
I don't even with the door closed in the club,
I don't want to miss.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
Out what's happening. Good niece is squat trying to be drunk,
and you're like together. But it is interesting because I
do feel like sometimes when I'm like in an uber
or something. It's nice when somebody has no idea who
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you are and you can just like kind of have
like a regular ass conversation.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
I do enjoy those, like even when like you got
a random uber driver and they're very talk it's like, yeah,
let's have a nice conversation.
Speaker 5 (28:56):
Sweet strangers, and like you know, venting or telling them
things that are going on with you is it gives
you a sense of like, I can tell this person
anything because they're not going to judge on and care again,
so it's just like, let me just fill out my
guts and then you have that same release of back
when we were talking about writing the comments and deleting it.
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It's like you have that same like you released it
and you let it out and it doesn't matter where
it went because again, this person is complete stranger.
Speaker 6 (29:25):
I feel like it also happens at the bar, Like
if you've ever sat by yourself at a bar or
with one of your homegirls, people love spilling tea.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
Me and Nalla were at.
Speaker 6 (29:34):
This bar once and this guy was fully telling us
about his sex life, showed us his videos videos, and
paid for our dinner because I'm sure he traumatized us
for life. He clearly needed to flee that for whatever reason.
And his girlfriend right, man, and it was giving him
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life that it was like, still got it. So I
felt like we were contributing to you know, how are
his taints graphic?
Speaker 1 (30:08):
They were graphic and we were like, oh wow.
Speaker 2 (30:12):
Her.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
He showed his full videos full and y'all watched and
we shirted. We got some lobster and crap.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
He said, you're gonna pay for.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
This another round? Thank you? What are we like? Man?
I talked to it. Uber driver went and I felt
so bad because he was an older man. He told
me that his wife was like bedridden and he was
talking to some women he met on Facebook and they
kept on like supposed to meet. They were supposed to
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go to like Mexico. He flew out there, she didn't
show up. He paid for it. She said she lost
the phone. He sent her money to get a new phone.
He was just sending her money, and I was like,
stop sending her money.
Speaker 2 (30:58):
It's probably the wife.
Speaker 3 (30:59):
Literally his wife.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
Okay, you want to play, no, But I felt I
honestly felt really bad. He was older, But then I
didn't because I'm like, you're doing this with your wife
and yeah, like you know, but then I also was
thinking like, well, what is he supposed to do? He's
got her there, he's taking.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
Care of her and just clueless.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
Yeah, I'm like, But I also was like, bro, if
you're sending her money and she's never coming to see
you and you've never FaceTime, I was like, have you
face timed her? Never? But even that, even that now
with AI, you can still FaceTime somebody and look like
someone always.
Speaker 5 (31:34):
We just can't move too much.
Speaker 1 (31:39):
But it is, Yeah, it is absolutely ridiculous the way
that things are now. So talk to me about this
new album because I just told you we got a
little taste with therapy at the club and I just
I like the whole vibe that it's on. So talk
to me about what's happening with the new project.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Well, we're still figuring things out. We've made a lot
of music and it feels a lot more fun, a
lot more upbe more confident. I feel like we mean
the things we say. I think access to Hilarias we
were like young girls, you guys are don't know whereas
like them songs we've been writing recently is like we
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mean it and we'll double back on business.
Speaker 1 (32:22):
Yeah, is it hard sometimes because people know you from
being younger, Like you said, we're access our areas. But
which was it being? I mean Missy Elliott that is
my joy and got her in a video because it's
not like she does a lie. It's true. If we
were honored, yeah, so that's that's huge and she's an
I can all right. But even thinking about that, because
sometimes people find it hard to like, what's their favorite
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artists like grow women? What's the balance with that?
Speaker 4 (32:48):
I feel I feel like a lot of our fans
are like growing with us, So I feel like they
feel us growing. But I'm sure people still think of
us that way. But I think when we have new
music out on our project, jobs and stuff, I think
even the stuff we're talking about and how we've written it,
I think they're going to see us small grown.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
I feel like there's a sound sex in peace.
Speaker 5 (33:08):
Yes, yes, how do you know that?
Speaker 1 (33:19):
Yes? So tell me about sex and peace.
Speaker 3 (33:27):
And pieces.
Speaker 4 (33:28):
I feel like it's a real feeling, like we're in
the club, your man and you're like, we can't do
it here, We've got to go.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
I think it's just a real feeling.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
It's very literal. Yes, it's not like, let's not beat
around with the bush. Let's get to the point somehow.
The songs three minutes long.
Speaker 1 (33:50):
But how importting is sex in a relationship? Out of
you know? And like let's just say because some people
could love somebody, they could be perfect, but the sex,
ay and all that, what would you say percentage wise?
Speaker 2 (34:12):
Chemistry is so important?
Speaker 1 (34:17):
Ie I I feel like there are other things that
are really important.
Speaker 2 (34:24):
But if the sex isn't good, then something isn't right.
It doesn't make sense if your bodies can't gel. I
definitely feel like it's in terms of like the hierarchy
of importance. It's it needs to be good, but other
things need to be good for otherwise then it's like
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it is it a relationship or are we just as
it's double?
Speaker 5 (34:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (34:50):
Yeah, friends, can you teach somebody to be good in bed?
Speaker 3 (34:57):
I think you can teach the more you like.
Speaker 4 (35:00):
I think that's just like a rhythm.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
Ye literally yeah, like choreography, Yeah, like it's got.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
Next song.
Speaker 3 (35:23):
That to me is almost is important hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (35:26):
The choreography, the rhythm, the lingus. Okay, okay, oh that listen.
That is what? So what if a guy said, I
don't do that, you got it's.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
Because what do you mean?
Speaker 5 (35:46):
Then?
Speaker 2 (35:46):
Do you want me.
Speaker 5 (35:52):
So many?
Speaker 2 (35:54):
Quality?
Speaker 5 (35:55):
Fair exchange is no briberary.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
I think it's not that he don't love you. If
he doesn't that exactly, it's a respect like Yeah.
Speaker 6 (36:03):
But I also like my man to actually like it. Yeah,
I don't even want to have that conversation like it
needs to be automatic.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
Yeah, and he needs to do you like eye contact memories.
Speaker 8 (36:26):
It's sexy and the like, let's check in and then
let's let's get.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
Over get back to business. Yeah, what about for you
making eye contact where you're as George eloquently said, sucking dick.
Speaker 2 (36:47):
I think that's more important, that's for sure.
Speaker 4 (36:50):
Yeah, that connection, it works better than Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
Guys love that too. I think I feel like men
are more visual than women when it comes to like
I feel like emotionally like I like to kiss and
stuff like them, but men like to like see stuff.
Yeah for sure, you know, like they don't care if
we're turned around staring at the pillow and so good.
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But for them, they want to like they like to
be able to see you know that sneaky like loves
to make out sneaky. That's good. You're in a relationship
like he does. That's really good in a relationship. We're not,
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but you guys, he might he loves to make out.
Speaker 6 (37:38):
I'm just like okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (37:41):
But I will do it every now and then.
Speaker 5 (37:44):
But I'm just definitely not.
Speaker 2 (37:45):
Yeah, you're like that.
Speaker 1 (37:47):
I am. I just thinking different kills, you know.
Speaker 6 (37:50):
I mean, I making a breakthrough, it is, but her
breakthrough is crazy.
Speaker 1 (37:54):
We're not compatible in the kissing way either.
Speaker 6 (37:58):
You don't like how he no, not really, it's definitely
aggressive and like a messy.
Speaker 2 (38:05):
Oh you need to tell him though, I've had to
tell and we have to get that start that some
things you have to teach. Don't feel bad. He will
probably respect it more because he wants to do things
the way you.
Speaker 5 (38:19):
Like because you're in a relationship, and I feel like
if they were in a relationship, they definitely she should say, yeah,
you can't teach him how she likes me since this
is only this and.
Speaker 2 (38:29):
That, but it could be more enjoyable for you. True,
it's just a few care about but if you don't
care about it, like, I'm not a big maker around.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
Okay, Okay, have you ever had a sneaky linked turn
into a relationship.
Speaker 3 (38:44):
I've never had a sneak.
Speaker 2 (38:45):
Link, Okay, I mean I guess, well it's what sneaky ends.
We were definitely sneaking around, but that was more like
obviously we've begun the relationship, not we begot as not boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (39:09):
And girl right right?
Speaker 2 (39:10):
Yeah, but you around like sneaking around my mom. That
type of sneaky link.
Speaker 1 (39:17):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (39:17):
I think a sneaky link is when like.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
I lost my chain of thought, where is everybody?
Speaker 2 (39:29):
Sneaky link is like you you don't even discuss being
in a relationship, like you're just here for a good time,
when what the time is, and that's that's that? Okay?
Then I was not.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
That was not so wait tell me how it started.
I want to know, like how did this even? I
know you guys met on social media? Instagram is your thing,
you know.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
Yes, well that was like a first time okay, I
mean as.
Speaker 1 (39:57):
Far as even know each other. When you think about
and then it really works, it does.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
Yeah, Like just was he likes some of my pitches,
I like some of his bitches, and then he d
M me and then and then I gave him my
Snapchat and he was actually, I don't think I should
just information, I should chat. I was a baby, I
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was seventeen. He's only he's like, he's not he's not
he's not. Thank but yeah, and then we just started
seeing each other. And then literally within a few months
we were living together. Wow, because it was in COVID
and it was like, am I gonna stay at home
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or am I going to like be with the sky
that I like like being around? Yeah? So we just
like just live together. And then we got doors, and
then we got another dog, and then we got another dog.
Speaker 1 (41:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:07):
Yeah, children, Yeah, and then yeah.
Speaker 1 (41:11):
What was it about him there? Because I'm sure plenty
of people have DMD. You like all of you, I'm
sure plenty of people have DMD. What was it about him?
Speaker 2 (41:21):
Well, obviously I found him attractive. That's definitely was the.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
Because it's a lot of attractive. Take this in there yourself.
Here you go so much.
Speaker 2 (41:32):
I'm worried about the slaves.
Speaker 6 (41:36):
It's nice.
Speaker 2 (41:37):
I found him attractive. And then when I saw him, please,
thank you. When I met him, I don't know, I
think he's really funny. I also thought he was cool,
which is like as like a as a seventeen year old, Like,
you know, sometimes it's about the coolness. I thought, so cool.
Speaker 1 (41:57):
What did your mom say when she found out?
Speaker 2 (42:01):
To be honest, she was pretty cool because I got
with him just before I turned eighteen. Once I turned eighteen,
she was.
Speaker 1 (42:09):
Like, you're an adult now again.
Speaker 2 (42:12):
Which was like really new for her because she's quite strict.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
Oh wow, really, so that's hard to have strict a
strict mom when you're in this business too, but it's necessary.
Speaker 2 (42:25):
No, she was strict, and then all of a sudden,
she just became like not strict.
Speaker 1 (42:29):
She trusted your judgment because I think that when your
parents raise you in a certain way, they're comfortable with
knowing your makes my decisions when they're not around.
Speaker 2 (42:37):
She's like, I've given you the tools, now fuse amuse
them if you don't.
Speaker 1 (42:45):
Yeah, Selah, how did you know your man was the one?
Speaker 5 (42:51):
Well?
Speaker 3 (42:52):
Okay, so actually actually we went to the same college.
I didn't go with him. He was older than me.
Speaker 4 (43:00):
Okay, so he was like three years above me, and
I hadn't met him. And I said to my friend,
I'm like, so gonna like be with him. I hadn't
met him, though, I just like heard his music and stuff,
so I feel like even that was like listen, and
then he was in the.
Speaker 3 (43:16):
Studio with us. He was in the studio with us,
and it was just always some chemistry.
Speaker 6 (43:21):
He was actually wrote fly Girl, Yeah okay, and we
talked about that already, like it.
Speaker 3 (43:30):
I don't know. I think I was willing to work
for it.
Speaker 4 (43:35):
Like in the past, I'm very much like once once
it's too much, once you're too annoying, I'm just gonna go.
Speaker 1 (43:41):
Joy did you hear?
Speaker 5 (43:41):
That's me.
Speaker 4 (43:43):
All my previous relationships, after like a year, I'm just
out too much, or it's like I like you and
I don't want you too much.
Speaker 3 (43:52):
But this time I'm like, let's go.
Speaker 4 (43:54):
Like your guard was always up and yeah yeah, like
it was just going to be too much work, but.
Speaker 3 (44:01):
Willing to work, let's go.
Speaker 1 (44:09):
We went.
Speaker 2 (44:17):
Yeah, I know I'm single.
Speaker 1 (44:18):
Okay, that's fun too though, yes, yeah it is.
Speaker 2 (44:23):
You know what I'm like, For the longest time, I
felt that I'm really young and I want busiers to
be about me and to really just figure my shout.
And so I'm not sure of the opportunity.
Speaker 1 (44:38):
You haven't found the right and that's great.
Speaker 2 (44:41):
People are complicated. I'm also very complicated and the life
we live is very fast paced.
Speaker 1 (44:47):
And it any of their guys do they be trying
to hook her up? Has it happened?
Speaker 2 (44:57):
Women trying to match make you guys so many millions
and it doesn't work. It doesn't work in particular. Oh,
she does a list.
Speaker 1 (45:10):
We want to hear this list.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
This is really hard right now? Well, I like them
toll okay, dark and handsome, love me a chocolate man, ambitious, respectful, mature, funny, energetic. Okay,
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somebody that's like willing to just do all the random
things that I wanted to do.
Speaker 1 (45:43):
What are some things you would like to do?
Speaker 2 (45:45):
Well, it's like little side quests.
Speaker 5 (45:48):
Like riding a bike.
Speaker 1 (45:51):
It's not but I get it.
Speaker 2 (45:55):
You go and play with this like one time me
and some but he drove, he drove me, he drove
It was really cute that I have to say, he
drove me two hours to go and play with Dalmatians
because I really wanted a dalmation.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
That's really sweet though. It was really sweet. Where is he.
Speaker 2 (46:20):
Knows?
Speaker 1 (46:21):
Listen? I've had great days like that. One guy drove
me to the beach to go to eat, like and
you know, we don't have beaches out here like that,
and this is yeah, this is a while ago, but
he was like, you know, he was like, I'm gonna
take you out to eat. Didn't tell me we were going.
I like guys who planned things, yes, so that you
don't have to you know, what do you want to do? Right,
Like you come up with that's cool, yeah, and so's
(46:42):
Sometimes it's a little things like that's really dope.
Speaker 3 (46:45):
For sure it didn't work out.
Speaker 2 (46:49):
We don't know. Yes, I'm just life is a Johnny.
Speaker 1 (46:52):
No, you're right.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
And we shall see.
Speaker 1 (46:59):
I feel good about it.
Speaker 2 (47:00):
I feel like I will end up married and happy.
Speaker 1 (47:05):
But you're right about that. You are young and you
should be enjoying yourself and you guys are busy and
living a fast paced life. And sometimes I think people
feel pressured to get into something just to say that
they are when you should really wait until it's the
right and you'll know when it's right, Like how they
light up when they talk about like you know that's right.
(47:25):
You're not doing it just to do it, Yeah, exactly,
so you have fun because trust me, there's benefits to
both sides.
Speaker 2 (47:34):
This is not the first time i've been single.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
Yeah, so and I'm listen, it's about to be living
on the DMS honestly, and sell will be. Do your
boyfriends get along with each other too long?
Speaker 2 (47:57):
When we go when we go ontour? So funny we
went on tour was this our last tour? And all
the boyfriends were there and.
Speaker 3 (48:05):
It was just like, yeah, we have so much one together.
Speaker 5 (48:09):
Yeah, they get so good.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
Yeah, that's a blessing. We've been trying to say that our
men up, but like play dates with other like friends, boyfriends,
You're like, Okay, I hope they get along with each other.
Speaker 3 (48:18):
But I feel like it's easier for men to get
along than girls.
Speaker 2 (48:22):
I don't know, because sometimes men are a bit I
think women are better at faith.
Speaker 4 (48:26):
Baking it yeah, yeah, memory in any ways, Yeah, no,
I'm sorry, that's one thing that honestly.
Speaker 3 (48:35):
Saying baking it. What's the point you're not getting?
Speaker 5 (48:40):
Yes, you're not feeling like you.
Speaker 1 (48:43):
Sometimes we said sometimes I mean I've been there before. Yeah,
sometimes you're like he's trying so hard.
Speaker 4 (48:55):
But.
Speaker 2 (48:59):
Not as relationship because I'm not going to do it again.
Yeah you know, so let's nip it in the body.
Speaker 1 (49:05):
But sometimes they always can do it, but this particular
time is just not okay. And I think that happens
more in relationships when you're like you, But tonight it's
just off for some reason, right, like get down there
kind of medical term. I love that.
Speaker 2 (49:37):
It's like the.
Speaker 1 (49:41):
I love that we know nobody technical term.
Speaker 2 (49:46):
I feel like Felacia was more male.
Speaker 5 (49:49):
Yeah, it's cool though.
Speaker 1 (49:52):
Listen, they said, you guys gotta go, But I know
I don't want you to the fact that y'all have
a great time, because I do want to say, y'all
got other.
Speaker 2 (50:10):
We go found to see, we'll see, we'll see them
all right now, I want to ask you this question,
and I'm thinking about another time that you guys have,
but thinking about like how we've all evolved.
Speaker 1 (50:23):
And grown and changed throughout our lives. What is something
that you could say that you've learned from a past relationship,
Because you know, earlier we were talking about wasting time,
but I feel like we do learn things and nothing
is a waste of time necessarily, So from a bad experience,
what would you say is something that has been a
great takeaway? You could jump in here too.
Speaker 5 (50:46):
Y'all, I mean.
Speaker 1 (50:49):
Experience, Yeah, but maybe you learned a really valuable lesson
from it.
Speaker 5 (50:57):
Don't accept scared, don't accept the proposal when it's three
days into.
Speaker 1 (51:03):
The Yeah, I got engaged. I forgot about that three
days Yeah.
Speaker 5 (51:11):
And I was so happy about it.
Speaker 3 (51:12):
I was like, yea, such a nice thing is there.
Sixty five days later, I was like, what I.
Speaker 5 (51:19):
Did?
Speaker 8 (51:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (51:21):
I got his name. I got his name, his name,
Oh my god?
Speaker 1 (51:27):
Yeah, did you remember recoverage? Okay, yeah, nothing's permanent when
it comes to obviously for sure. What about you yearn
that lesson?
Speaker 5 (51:38):
We'll do that again.
Speaker 1 (51:40):
I don't believe you. I don't you are such a lover.
Girl will be like she will come in here next
week and be like, guys, I have a man, I
still have a girlfriend. She came in with her girlfriend.
(52:01):
Would imagine outfit.
Speaker 5 (52:04):
Every year, I've got to match your boots. We dressed
it like all the time. It's okay, like little twins.
It's very cute. But I don't know.
Speaker 1 (52:12):
It's weird.
Speaker 5 (52:13):
It's a weird. It's a weird girlfriend relationship.
Speaker 1 (52:17):
Because because what.
Speaker 5 (52:20):
Come on, know, I mean right, because this is all
I'm going to say between the lines, sharing is caring, Okay, I.
Speaker 1 (52:30):
Said, there's another person involved sharing. Okay, were thinking, yeah.
Speaker 3 (52:35):
Sharing is Karen that's the one.
Speaker 2 (52:37):
Okay, that's not.
Speaker 3 (52:38):
What do you think I get that she's selfish in bed?
Speaker 1 (52:42):
Oh no, okay, good would work.
Speaker 3 (52:47):
We have a lot of a lot of fun.
Speaker 1 (52:54):
What is something you've learned from a relationship that didn't
work out to take into the future or an experience?
Yeng learnership from me?
Speaker 2 (53:03):
The main the thing is, the main thing is that
it's about me. Like the main thing I've learned is
that I'm young, and I don't We shouldn't spend I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (53:17):
Actually, no, say it because it works.
Speaker 2 (53:19):
It works sometimes. But I think while we're young, these
years are for really about learning who we are absol
rather than building a relationship, because I put a lot
into a relationship to the point whereas to my own
self detriment and I need to learn how to not
do that. But also I need to live my young
see it.
Speaker 1 (53:38):
That is a good lesson though, because sometimes learning to
still be an individual and I put your all into
somebody else, that's a really valuable lesson to learn early on,
where I'm still doing my thing and he should be
supportive of that, whoever he is, and even if I'm
losing myself, you should be like, no, girl, you need
to go and do yeah.
Speaker 2 (53:56):
Yeah, which I didn't have.
Speaker 1 (53:58):
Yeah, I didn't have.
Speaker 2 (54:00):
I just had lot. He loves it here, Yeah, of course.
Speaker 5 (54:02):
He loves it here.
Speaker 1 (54:03):
But what about me?
Speaker 3 (54:05):
What about me?
Speaker 1 (54:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (54:07):
Okay, I mean it's hard for me because I've obviously
been in my current relationship since I was seventeen. So
I was like, it's already been.
Speaker 1 (54:15):
Man, that's amazing that you yeah, that you found somebody
like and that's that and it's forever, hope. So you know,
so we got to just say that, we got to
put that in the atmosphere and it's forever, you know. Okay,
but if it doesn't, you can come back. We'll talk
about it. What would you say, something you learned it's
(54:41):
something that didn't work?
Speaker 2 (54:50):
Can I say what I think? I? Can I say
what you've learned to put fast?
Speaker 1 (54:57):
Yeah, that's the main theme I think.
Speaker 2 (54:59):
So yeah, period, Okay, I can because.
Speaker 1 (55:05):
Now because even working with somebody in the same field
sometimes that's not easy.
Speaker 2 (55:09):
No, yeah, no, I'm talking about the previous yeah.
Speaker 4 (55:12):
Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I mean, yeah,
for sure, I think it's hard to find someone who's
in the same field as you, who doesn't have ego,
you know, and doesn't isn't jealous, isn't jealous, and isn't weird.
Speaker 5 (55:29):
But yeah, so true.
Speaker 2 (55:31):
But I also feel like it makes so much sense
because you both go through the same thing.
Speaker 1 (55:36):
Yeah, so it's like you can talk about it and.
Speaker 2 (55:39):
Understand that because he's like he could be in a
position where he has to do, you know, behave like
how you behaved in the video period. Actually he's not allowed.
That was like really supportive, was know?
Speaker 3 (56:00):
You know, yeah, you know he does for sure.
Speaker 1 (56:04):
Yeah, he gets it. But listen, do we know when
the album is coming out?
Speaker 2 (56:12):
We have okay public information?
Speaker 1 (56:16):
Okay, but soon this year this year, Okay, don't lighten
me that.
Speaker 5 (56:25):
Way to find out?
Speaker 1 (56:26):
Go flow. I appreciate you for coming through. Thank you
so much.
Speaker 5 (56:28):
We have.
Speaker 1 (56:29):
Honestly, I enjoyed this and I'm glad you did too.
Speaker 2 (56:33):
So much.
Speaker 1 (56:33):
Yeah, yes, maybe, yeah, what's the date again? It's lip service,
it's lip service.
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Angela Yee
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