LS Episode 558: Chose Love, Wrote a Song About It (feat. Inayah)

Inayah pulls up to Lip Service and leaves nothing on the table. Fresh off the release of her most vulnerable project to date, Therapy Wasn't Enough, the singer-songwriter-actress opens up about the real story behind the album — a near-engagement blowout on a video set, a breakup that sent her Jamaican fiancé back home, and how therapy alone couldn't fix what life put them through. She breaks down the moment she knew Jay was her soulmate (hint: it happened at her father's funeral), why she almost didn't tell him about her Tyler Perry role, and how being an artist in a committed relationship means constantly navigating between your calling and your partner's comfort.

The girls also get into the sneaky link conversation with Jordy Jor, the difference between a crash out and a bump, what happened when Inayah first played the album for Jay in the dark with candles, and why she still won't let Jay watch the Sugar Daddy video. Plus — circumcision discourse, Apple's new anti-phone-snatching feature, celibacy rosters, the rule about f***ing on the first night, and a 2027 Jamaican wedding that the whole Lip Service team just got invited to.

Therapy Wasn't Enough is out now. The wedding is in Jamaica. You're going.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:03):
What's up a slip service? I'm Angela yee.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
I'm Jeordie jor h.

Speaker 3 (00:10):
Oh sorry, and I'm a nice.

Speaker 4 (00:13):
Welcome to the show, nails, y'all having me? Can we
get these nails now?

Speaker 3 (00:18):
I haven't launched yet since coming soon though, okay, can
can be coming very very soon.

Speaker 5 (00:24):
Listen, I love it.

Speaker 3 (00:25):
I'm an album all right now, so one thing at
a time.

Speaker 1 (00:30):
You're like, don't rush it.

Speaker 4 (00:31):
Well, first of all, congratulations, thank you on an amazing
new project.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
Therapy.

Speaker 5 (00:37):
We want to talk about that.

Speaker 4 (00:39):
Of course we got to start with that because that
is basically therapy. Wasn't enough It's the name of the album,
and you just started doing therapy a couple of years.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
Ago, I did, I'm new to therapy.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
That's not that new, though.

Speaker 5 (00:49):
Two years is good.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
You've been I mean, you know it's people that's been
locked in with there like a way of life, you
know what I mean? So I would I would say
I'm still kind of you know.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
You think, is there a time that you're supposed to stop?
Like how does that work?

Speaker 4 (01:01):
Because I have I'm gonna be honest, I've done like
a couple of sessions, but I've never locked in enough
like I should.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
I think that's why I said I'm still new, because
I didn't. It wasn't even two years straight, like it
was on and off. You know, I didn't because in
the beginning I wasn't as consistent as I should have been.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
I've always gone to therapy my whole life, your whole life. Yeah,
since when, like since I was thirteen?

Speaker 5 (01:24):
Wow, yeah, locked in?

Speaker 2 (01:26):
Yeah okay, and it was something I asked for actually
at thirteen.

Speaker 5 (01:31):
At thirteen, that's amazing.

Speaker 6 (01:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:33):
Well, I guess it depends on what you went through
on life.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
Right, right, So I kind of like a different therapist,
and it's a process. I never really stopped, maybe like
a year or two or something, but I don't think
there's an official.

Speaker 5 (01:46):
Date. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
It's like when you're feeling like self awareness.

Speaker 5 (01:51):
Yeah yeah, yeah, I haven't went chat, but I'm going song.

Speaker 6 (01:56):
I told you, I was like, tell everybody, swear I
need a therapist, and it's like I just know that
I'm gonna end up being the therapist therapist.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
I just know you might need to say that.

Speaker 6 (02:09):
I just got a gift about me to where every
time somebody's supposed to be helping me, I end up
starting helping them.

Speaker 3 (02:17):
Okay, well maybe you should become the therapist.

Speaker 5 (02:20):
You know.

Speaker 4 (02:21):
It's like, well, it's life good for you right now though,
because it feels like, you know, you've gone through some
things in the past, but it seems like life is good.

Speaker 5 (02:36):
How is it?

Speaker 3 (02:36):
I'm a I'm in them. I can say I'm in
a much better space now. Uh. The recovery process was
it was a lot, you know. The last time we
talked it was it was teaches and roses. Good now though, Yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:53):
You know, I do want to say because it's crazy,
but like previously, some of those great songs are the
ones that are like, you know, fuck you type of songs.

Speaker 5 (03:03):
People love that, Like people love a good breakup.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
Song for sure, love some heartache. People love to be
like oh I listened to this and I.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Would cry every time, you know.

Speaker 4 (03:13):
But it's like for some reason people love that, like
pain and vulnerability.

Speaker 5 (03:19):
The downside, it's relatable.

Speaker 6 (03:22):
What's something outside of Okay, therapy wasn't enough, right, what
do you feel? What's something that happened outside of therapy
to make you get to that next step?

Speaker 3 (03:33):
Mmm? Something that happened outside of therapy and on the
tragic side, or it's as far as.

Speaker 6 (03:41):
You feeling like, Okay, I'm moving forward, the therapy won't enough.
But this was, for example, Okay, a lot of people say,
you know, people say you break up with a nigga,
get another nigga, Like what.

Speaker 5 (03:53):
Happened for you? What happened to you that? Hey, I
ain't want to you know.

Speaker 3 (04:03):
I would say, I would say growth overall in all
the areas, Like you know, I'm still very much learning
how to do life with somebody. I ain't never been
a wife before, so I'm still I'm still learning how
just the magnitude, the heaviness of what all of that means.
There was just one particular situation where they say, when

(04:24):
you're in your five and seven is it five or
seven year mark, that that's when you decide whether or
not your relationship is gonna make it? I think it's
is it seven?

Speaker 1 (04:32):
Isn't it the seven year?

Speaker 3 (04:34):
I don't know. It was five for me. I ain't
get seven yet, but that fifth year was like even
in my song what the fuck is the line which
she says, is this really what we won't?

Speaker 1 (04:47):
Like?

Speaker 3 (04:47):
I had to like really lock in, like am I
fit for being somebody's wife.

Speaker 1 (04:54):
So you think it was you.

Speaker 3 (04:55):
I think it was both of us.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
Okay, No, you took some accountability.

Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yeah, I mean I would.

Speaker 1 (05:03):
I would have to because w t F you guys.

Speaker 4 (05:06):
I want to say fighting in public is one of
I am not down to do that.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
It's so like, it's disappointing.

Speaker 4 (05:13):
I'm like, we can't do this right now. Let's wait.
It's so it has definitely happened since.

Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yeah, it's disappointing. But I, like you said accountability. Looking
back now, in hindsight, I guess I could have prepared
my partner for what what made him blow up?

Speaker 5 (05:32):
What happened?

Speaker 1 (05:33):
I gotta know now.

Speaker 3 (05:37):
We just we just jump right in.

Speaker 1 (05:40):
Because that's not I share mind too that there was
not as cool.

Speaker 3 (05:43):
I mean, you know, anytime something impacts my life, I
write it down to make a song. Gotta be mynhilata
Is know me for being real, true and rough. I don't.
I don't really though I've never spoken from such a
vulnerable space. I'm always speaking about true life experiences. This
one in particular, I did not proper prepare my fiance
for a video shoot that I had with a male lead,

(06:06):
and I didn't. To be fair, I didn't detail everything
that had to take place in that video, and it
caught him off guard.

Speaker 6 (06:13):
Yeah, it caught him off guard and understandably, yeah, I
have to know.

Speaker 3 (06:18):
Yeah, I got so in that aspect. I had to
give grace. But the blow up was like, come on,
my nigga, I man worked, you know.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
But at the same time, and I was that kind
of won't mind me to get a crash out of you.

Speaker 5 (06:38):
Let him a little stretch.

Speaker 1 (06:42):
If he didn't say nothing, I.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
Would I probably maybe would have had a few questions.
But we we read each other so well that I
would have peeped the body language and the uncomfortability anyway, So.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
It like Diddy on the sex table.

Speaker 5 (06:55):
Wait, wait what you didn't see it? Okay?

Speaker 3 (07:01):
No, I would have been able to like peak body
language and ship like that because we we study each other.
So it would have been a conversation regardless. But the
blow up was just like.

Speaker 1 (07:12):
So you was arguing back about it, like.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
Yeah, we we had a very big it was. It
was pretty embarrassing. It was it was.

Speaker 4 (07:20):
Pretty because a lot of people were around and it
was a video shoot.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
He did an active video.

Speaker 4 (07:25):
He was there and we had just got engaged to
that's crazy boy.

Speaker 3 (07:29):
Oh my god, the scene was the song. The video
never even came out.

Speaker 1 (07:35):
Wow, so you gave it?

Speaker 5 (07:36):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (07:36):
We never even drive.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
It was like I'm still getting paid for today, right.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
Oh yeah, no, listen, I don't work like that. When
it comes to business. Everybody still get what's old to them.
But no, the video just didn't come out because we
we didn't get to we didn't get to finish shooting
the mother because.

Speaker 5 (07:54):
It was what was the song? What was the scene?

Speaker 3 (07:57):
It was a scene of you know, it was like
intimate touchy Phil. It was me dancing on him in
a very raunchy in a very raunchy way, you know,
you know up. But I just didn't think about, like
I had to take a small piece of accountability, like

(08:17):
I said, because I didn't think about what it would
have made him think or feel.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
Here and that meant but like his family and friends.

Speaker 3 (08:27):
Yeah, and you know he Jamaican, so cultural, Oh girl,
you know, it's just the one thing he asks is
that I never embarrassed or disrespect what you know, what
what we have. And he's super territorial.

Speaker 4 (08:42):
So I have to say both of us were wrong
that day, you.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
Were like, but a great song came out, Yeah for
ship show.

Speaker 4 (08:52):
What did he say when he got that song? Because
I know he also relived that moment when he heard it.

Speaker 3 (08:56):
So after I wrapped the album, I went back home.
Listen candles, turned the lights off, We laid in bed.
I said, I want to play this for you before
because I told him after we recovered from this unfortunate
time in our life. So you know, I'm right about
this shit. You know what I'm saying with respect to
you and not dragging him through the muggcause I love
I love my nigga, but I had to. It's part

(09:19):
of my assignment, you know. I had to share the experience.
And I played the album for him, and after it
was over, he was it was wow, this is this
is where, this is where I took you. You know,
because being able to talk about it and talk through
through therapy and things like that in our immediate relationship helps.
But hearing how I make an art out out of it,
he was just in awe. At the same time, felt

(09:42):
so much regret, like damn, I love you, I did
this to my baby A major heart feel like this,
you know, Yeah, so this is really apologetic and.

Speaker 4 (09:51):
We Sometimes those arguments happen for a reason, like you
get that out the way, and so you know in
the future, like what boundaries to set because if you
never discussed it, then now it's a.

Speaker 3 (10:03):
But I hate to think that because it's some girls,
it's some artist girls that be like, yeah, I date
all these niggas and do all of this because I
need content. I need something to write about. You know,
I'm not well.

Speaker 4 (10:13):
No, but I mean for your relationship to understand like
boundaries because y'all never discussed like yeah, if I'm doing
a video, now.

Speaker 3 (10:21):
You know exactly. Okay, yeah, you're right about that.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
Now you know yeah? And then now it also gives
you the space to tell him what you don't want. Yes,
you know, when you're not in the middle of the.

Speaker 4 (10:30):
Fight made along with things cool down, you're like, Okay,
I'm not cool with this because it's something he probably
never even thought about.

Speaker 3 (10:36):
Yeah, as it's the same and vice versa, because you
write a boundary conversation did end up coming out of
that whole situation.

Speaker 4 (10:44):
So have you ever you already fucked with somebody in
public that you were dating and been embarrassed later like.

Speaker 3 (10:52):
M you got to think about it. That man, You've
been all right.

Speaker 2 (10:55):
I don't think well, because I'm not really in relationships,
so I don't. I don't remember arguing in public with anybody.
I do remember I got broken up with in public
at the airport and left, but that was it.

Speaker 4 (11:10):
I definitely want I will say when I was younger,
I gotten plenty of face in public, and the airport
was bad.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
But then the good thing was I was hysterically crying
and this lady came over and gave me five hundred dollars.
Oh what, shout out to Susie Bell. She just felt
so bad that I'm gonna go crying the airport right,
she thought about it, took me to Fridays or whatever
the restaurant was. I did not even know her. She
gave me her number, and then we spoke one other

(11:41):
time and I never heard from her again, and everything.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
Yeah, right, yea crying at airport happened. I know you
got an advice. I know you just not. I just know.

Speaker 5 (11:59):
I mean, let me see.

Speaker 1 (12:02):
What was the worst one.

Speaker 5 (12:04):
Let me see public fights.

Speaker 6 (12:06):
I ain't never really had a lot of public fight fights.
Let me see the last few niggas m you gotta.

Speaker 5 (12:14):
Was like ship.

Speaker 6 (12:17):
Oh I remember, I ain't had no lot of public fights, okay,
but I had one that was pretty bad.

Speaker 5 (12:26):
I crashed out.

Speaker 1 (12:28):
What happened?

Speaker 4 (12:29):
You know, sometimes you would drink that in nineteen forty
two years to I was drinking then. No, but I'm
saying you used to really be like I was used.

Speaker 6 (12:36):
To get activated. But now this was some years. This
was before I started drinking. And I had found out
some ship with one of the niggas I was fucking with,
and I went up to the job and I cut up. Okay, yeah,
but you know, sometimes people gotta learn their lesson. They
gotta know not to play with you.

Speaker 3 (12:55):
Well, that was a valid crush. That was a valid
crash out. It was shi it was.

Speaker 5 (13:01):
I. I did it, didn't wait it in he he's
the boss. Oh yeah, I was.

Speaker 6 (13:12):
It was because they ain't like them no way, so
they was. It was just like I couldn't help it.

Speaker 1 (13:19):
I was.

Speaker 6 (13:19):
I couldn't wait till he get home and he wanted
to answer the phone, and I went up there and
cut up.

Speaker 5 (13:24):
But it wasn't like bad like that.

Speaker 4 (13:26):
I feel like I'm always trying to avoid it, but
sometimes it's so obvious, like because I'd been trying to
hold it in in public and like try to get
out of there, but sometimes it just doesn't work like that. Yeah,
I've had like so many public arguments. I'm trying to
think of some of the worst ones. One time, I
was with this guy who's to cheating me all the time,
and I went to go see my best friend perform.

(13:47):
She's an artist, Santi Gold, and we were at this
venue and this girl came up to him and was like.

Speaker 5 (13:56):
Oh, so you're not going to answer my colle you
was just with me.

Speaker 4 (13:58):
Last weekend while I'm standing right, oh, and mind you,
it's like my best friend, all her friends, we you
know what I'm saying. We had just walked out of
the little VIP section and this girl ran up on us, and.

Speaker 3 (14:10):
I was like, now that's another valid crush out though.

Speaker 4 (14:13):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying that, But it's also
embarrassing because there's so many people around that I know
you know, so you also don't want to give somebody that.

Speaker 5 (14:21):
Yes, So it's like all those.

Speaker 4 (14:22):
Things going on in your head, like I don't want
to give this person the satisfaction because clearly she did
that to try to cause an argument, and so at
a point and then I'm like, damn, I'm gonna leave.

Speaker 1 (14:33):
My friend's show.

Speaker 5 (14:34):
So I waited till she performed.

Speaker 4 (14:36):
I didn't say nothing to him, and then I just
I left. But I feel like I've gotten into so
many public arguments.

Speaker 3 (14:42):
That's a that's a that's a space to be in
right there, because even in the setting that we was in,
it wouldn't necessarily public, but it was, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (14:51):
People around, Yeah, it was. They could make the blogs too,
you know, because you got to think about it.

Speaker 3 (14:55):
I thank god that they Oh, for for the God.

Speaker 5 (14:58):
In heaven, nobody got that footage, I think.

Speaker 4 (15:01):
Nah, thankfully, thankfully nobody did. But you know, and I
want to talk about even on this album, therapy wasn't
enough when you think about like the space and the
age that we're in with social media, people subbing you,
you get into it, your man go online, delete all
the pictures archive of you might do the same, you know,

(15:24):
So talk to me about how you managed to handle that, Like,
have you been in a situation where it blew up
online or somebody.

Speaker 3 (15:31):
Came Nah, thankfully not yet at least, I mean and
I hope, yeah, I prayed it that never even even happens.

Speaker 4 (15:40):
But like, how do you balance what to put online
and what not to also because sometimes you just be like,
I love him so much, I want to post this
where you got to like, I just feel like putting
stuff on social media sometimes it invites, it does problems.

Speaker 3 (15:55):
It does, you know. I guess for me, I luck,
I don't gotta. I'm entertained enough, Like you know what
I mean, I don't. I don't have to share that
that part of my life for that. Even my damn
engagement video that we talked to Remember, I told you
I never even posted that and it went viral. That

(16:16):
was from the other people being in the room that
that that was share. But things that are special to
me like that, I truly try to try to hold
onto them. But I prefer to be the captain of
my ship. I don't. I don't want to give more
than I'm comfortable.

Speaker 4 (16:30):
You never had nobody hit you up previously, even in
other situations as a woman.

Speaker 3 (16:35):
Oh about another nagg Hell no, I don't got them
kind of problems. Nah, I don't got them kind of problems.
Or maybe like in the past, I might have in
the past. I might have. I do remember there was
one time where me and this one chick was fucking
on the same nigga and she was just like, yeah,
I just want to let you know that he was

(16:57):
with me yesterday, Okay, Which you want me to do
with that information? Like we he not your man or mine? Yeah,
there was no reason to even Yeah, I don't I
don't get into of them types of fights.

Speaker 6 (17:12):
But no, I was just saying I was thinking about
when she said before she said the hit you up
as a woman.

Speaker 5 (17:20):
The online thing.

Speaker 6 (17:22):
I feel like sometimes depending on the gas, like I know,
with me, I'm a little toxic, so I might just
post something a little bit just to let bitches know
or like you know, now sometimes when gas posts up
on their story, people that secretly come in and them
you know, you can see it.

Speaker 5 (17:40):
Yeah, so it's like all that type of shit. It
just make you just want to post some ship to
let bitches know, like, yeah, you with the shit. I'm
a Virgo and a Scorpio, that's what they say.

Speaker 6 (17:53):
What you what you don't feel like you known Scorpio.

Speaker 3 (17:57):
I just yeah, my birthday, So.

Speaker 4 (18:01):
Whether or not you regret it, No, it's not that.

Speaker 3 (18:06):
I don't even want to get I don't want to
get out deep and ship, but I try not to. I,
you know, get into the astrology thing is deeply as
I used to, so.

Speaker 5 (18:18):
You ain't embracing your scorpio.

Speaker 1 (18:20):
Is not as heavily as I used to know and
be the scorpy of men. I don't like women. I'm cool,
but men took men.

Speaker 3 (18:31):
Women enjoy.

Speaker 6 (18:33):
You got to have at least one in your life,
like the scorpios extra freaky, saying that's what I Have
you ever speaking of extra freaky, have you ever did
some like off the wild stuff like invited other women
and I never.

Speaker 5 (18:52):
Will you know?

Speaker 4 (18:56):
Her husbands Jamaican Jamaica don't play that too, by the way,
to make a man, I feel like very conservative when it.

Speaker 1 (19:03):
I mean, they go in for that, but they not
like when.

Speaker 3 (19:06):
Something is theirs, it's theirs. Yeah, there's no experiment the
territorialist for that man. Would I feel like if if
it was a gun in his head and they said
you gotta drink your girl's piss, so I'm gonna shoot
you in the head, he gonna gulp that shit down
with no hesitation like Jay is in love with me.
That's my soulmate.

Speaker 5 (19:27):
Period.

Speaker 3 (19:27):
We don't have to. We're entertaining enough for each other
when we do all the things, we don't need an extra.

Speaker 1 (19:33):
When did you realize he was your soul Maat, because
that's a strong.

Speaker 3 (19:37):
When he picked my daddy's body up out of the
casket and put it in the ground, that was the
day I knew that that that man was my husband.
We were already in love, but what took it over
the top for me was, Okay, God sent you, you
are for me. God made you for me, God made
me for you. Was at my dad's funeral. My dadd

(20:00):
is a Muslim, so they don't bury. Their burial traditions
are different. Jay picked my daddy's body up out of
the casket and put it in the ground with his bars.
And that's when I knew that that was my husband.

Speaker 1 (20:11):
Oh my gosh, that is Listen, that is that's amazing.

Speaker 3 (20:17):
Shout out to him, Hi baby, Well one boy.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
Did you believe in before that?

Speaker 3 (20:23):
Hell? No, I always thought that it was cheesy and
corny and all of their love and for first sight ship.
I never believed in it until Jay. Remember I told
you we met at my baby.

Speaker 5 (20:36):
You guys met at your baby daddy's kickback.

Speaker 3 (20:39):
Yeah, his friend No no, no, no, Jay was all right,
I got I guess I need to clear this up again.
It was a kickback, you know when you had a kickback. Hey,
what you're doing? Come on here? You Oh you got
somebody with you?

Speaker 5 (20:51):
Cool?

Speaker 3 (20:51):
So he was just somebody's extra. I was walking out,
he was walking in. I was getting ready to leave
when he was coming in and we shook him hands
and it was like this feeling. I know how, I
know how cheesy this ship sound, y'all, but I promise
you it really happened. When we shook hands, it was
like this like shock wave that went through warm and

(21:14):
straight to my heart and and you know, in same
for him. And it was just like an instant, like
I'm interested, what's what's where you come from? Who you?
Who you is? I've never seen you around here, befolk,
you know? So I let him take me on a
date two weeks after that period twenty seven bride date.

(21:35):
Oh no, no, a date two weeks.

Speaker 5 (21:37):
After I'm goddamn nol.

Speaker 3 (21:42):
A date two weeks after.

Speaker 1 (21:43):
The Were you apprehensive of knowing where you met him?

Speaker 3 (21:46):
To like, did you think, like, yeah, that's why it
took two weeks for me to even entertain it because
I was like, y'all know, they weren't they're not. Although
they're not friends, it was just still too close for comfort.
That that's where you know what I mean that that's
where we met and he he was friends with the
baby daddy's in law.

Speaker 4 (22:05):
Okay, so that's why I was just like, you know,
how long did it take for them to smooth things over?

Speaker 3 (22:11):
Or was it smooth things?

Speaker 1 (22:14):
Was it ever any issues with your baby daddy? Was
he ever? No? It was never.

Speaker 3 (22:19):
No, No, that's been. That's been. We ain't no sparks,
that's been. It wasn't no issues there. But the but
the in law that Jay was cool with, she was
kind of a little apprehensive, get it. She was a
little way about it. But we neither of us gave
first day first day bitch, I'm.

Speaker 5 (22:42):
Yeah, y'all go through each other phones.

Speaker 3 (22:46):
No, we don't have to. We don't have.

Speaker 5 (22:50):
You know, the.

Speaker 3 (22:52):
Absolutely vice versa. The bitches that are happy for real,
they say we'd be gatekeeping because it's like, oh she
if we talk about it, were bragging. If we don't
talk about it, were keeping out the secrets of a
successful relationship.

Speaker 2 (23:06):
You know.

Speaker 3 (23:07):
But one of the biggest misconceptions is that just because
you're in love and you found the love of your
life or the love of your life found you, is
that shit is beautiful? Like who the fuck wrote that book?
Because because they line it's it's some ship, it's darkness
in there too. It's a process. You're choosing to spend
your life with somebody. That's that's a hell of a commitment.

Speaker 4 (23:28):
I always tell my man, when we're doing good for
a couple of months, I said, oh, we're about to
do for something.

Speaker 5 (23:34):
Damn smooth for.

Speaker 1 (23:35):
A couple of months.

Speaker 3 (23:36):
But ain't that fucked up?

Speaker 4 (23:37):
I have to feel like, man, it don't be nothing crazy.
But I know he's moody, you know what I'm saying.
So I know at some point he gonna get an
attitude about something. Yeah yeah, yeah, So I just be
so when it happens. First of all, I don't even
really entertain it. When he gets an attitude, I.

Speaker 3 (23:53):
Just be like, I do it you reach that point
now where y'all figured each other out.

Speaker 1 (23:57):
I just know he's gonna be mad for a couple
of days. I let him do it.

Speaker 4 (24:00):
I don't even really care, Like you're fine in forty
eight hours, like nothing happened.

Speaker 1 (24:05):
You're gonna text me from the other.

Speaker 5 (24:06):
Room like I miss you. That's what we're doing.

Speaker 4 (24:10):
He gets nath and nothing, and then a couple of
days later he'll text me from downstairs like I miss you.

Speaker 3 (24:17):
What you're doing? Like if Like, now, imagine being that
locked in with somebody and then throwing all the shit
away and then having to start over with a new
nigga and figured him out like that, like.

Speaker 5 (24:27):
Who want to who the fuck want to do that?

Speaker 3 (24:29):
Ship? Yeah, so if we need to go try therapy?

Speaker 5 (24:32):
Does he go to therapys?

Speaker 1 (24:33):
Lay?

Speaker 5 (24:33):
But he does?

Speaker 3 (24:34):
Now, Okay, but he wasn't. I think a lot of
a lot of niggs. Most niggas ain't don't really be
with that. Yeah for real, especially Caribbean niggas. I I
was gonna say, Yeah, it was hard to crack that
crack that code. But it took for us to almost
lose each other for you know, for it to even
be an option.

Speaker 1 (24:55):
Well, so when you say almost lose each other, like
what was going on.

Speaker 3 (24:59):
After that situation? He moved back to Jamaica. What extreme
left yeah, he was gone for how long this happened
in We woke up in October. I gotta go back
to the leg October to January wrote a song about it.

Speaker 5 (25:18):
Did you chase him out the door? You just let
him leave?

Speaker 3 (25:21):
I'm not chasing. No, let me say you song. I
am a lover and I am a lever, And if
you it was, it's gonna fucking suck to not get
to spend the rest of my life with you. But
if you, if this is what we choosing, I'm not finna,
I'm not chasing.

Speaker 6 (25:41):
I'm not chasing, even in times where you feel like
you may have been wrong, like that time, because I'm
a lover.

Speaker 3 (25:48):
Only I was only wrong a little bit. Though I
was only wrong a little bit. I took accountability for
my fuck up, which was, hey, I should have better
prepared you for this. But also, nigga, you know it
exactly who I am and what I do, right, You
know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (26:03):
Now?

Speaker 3 (26:03):
Granted when we met, he had no idea that I
was in the industry. He had no idea I was
a singer. And you can prepare somebody for ship like
that you want to, but until they actually have to
live in it right, They don't know what it what
it entails, you know.

Speaker 4 (26:18):
Yeah, we always think about that with women when it
comes to men, but that's not necessarily men when it
because your music.

Speaker 1 (26:26):
You know, you have some sugardaddy, you know, and I
love it okay.

Speaker 5 (26:34):
The time.

Speaker 1 (26:39):
With his life, but no I become fast in Amazon.

Speaker 3 (26:46):
Sorry, you know, but I could have There was more
that I guess I could have prepared him for. We
met during the pandemic, so nothing was going on. I
had no shows. There was no reason for me to
have to be like but you know, fairness, I did say, hey,
don't don't get used to this version of me, because
when the world opened back up, I'm outside side, I'm

(27:07):
back outside, you know, so side that's on the album.
I gave him grace where it needed to be applied.

Speaker 4 (27:13):
But listen, there's a song Choose that you have that
was a single from this Yes, and basically yes, the
first single from this project, Therapy wasn't enough where you
talk about choosing between love and music. Yeah, and so
tell me about that because this still is quite personal.

Speaker 3 (27:30):
Choose Choose is you know how when you uh, this
is this is what I compared to you know, how
when you go into a bookstore and you you just
browsing and you turn the back of the book over
and you read what it's about. Choose is that for
the album? Choose feels like it's the summary of the album.
So I lead with choose because that's exactly what it

(27:51):
felt like that space. After that, you made me feel
like I had to pick whether or not I'm gonna
be all I want to be in this industry or
if I'm just gonna be your wife?

Speaker 5 (28:02):
Like is that just it?

Speaker 3 (28:04):
And furthermore, if you fuck with me like you say
you do, you you would never make me feel like
I gotta choose between the two of those. So don't
make me because you're not gonna like the answer, right,
you know what I mean? And it sucks because Jay
is also a dream of mind of mine and so
is the music.

Speaker 4 (28:23):
How did you get him to come back therapy? You know,
I mean from Jamaica, Like when he he said he
moved to Jamaica. Girl, tell me the process of like
y'all getting back together?

Speaker 6 (28:32):
Girl?

Speaker 5 (28:33):
You know what that mean? Came home?

Speaker 3 (28:37):
Nah? But aside from the fact that I have a
marvelous vagina, girl, we actually decided that. We didn't want to.
We didn't What good would it would it do us
to throw away all those years of building? You know,
we got kids and ship. We just bought a fucking
house together. We got shipped to lose, you know. And

(29:00):
it ain't nothing not here but fucking STDs and liquor.
And that's it. And I'm saying, for around and come
back with some ship you can't get rid of. And
luckily for us, we don't have bedroom issues anyway. We enjoyed,
We really get down. We enjoy each other for real.
So is that first from Jamaica when he came we

(29:20):
had to get to get back? Yeah, No, it was
I missed my man. I missed him, I missed everything
about him. I missed his body, I missed his conversation.
I missed just the warmth of the presence of having
somebody in my house. And same for him. It's hard.
It's hard sleeping alone after you've done done five years

(29:44):
with somebody.

Speaker 1 (29:45):
And I'm sure it's hard to have kids, like where's Daddy?

Speaker 3 (29:47):
Yeah, well, actually Apollo was in Jamaica too now because
he spends you remember I told you he spends holidays
with his grandmother. Whenever week, whenever we got to work,
whenever I got to work. So Apolo was already there.
And then you know, Austin the oldest, he just he
a teenager. He don't don't letting, he don't know what

(30:07):
the hell going going on. And yeah, so it didn't
really I thankfully the kids weren't really affected. Yeah, they
didn't even really feel it for real, you.

Speaker 6 (30:19):
Know, accountable, Yeah, because that is something. And I'm an
artist as well, and I used to make songs that
was just I still do. But I understand what you
mean when it comes to that.

Speaker 5 (30:32):
But I used to prepare my niggas because they was
just crazy.

Speaker 6 (30:37):
I'd be like, look, letting, you know, now this is entertainment,
me talking about hopping on your homie dick from the
back while you sleep.

Speaker 5 (30:45):
Don't pay no attention.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
But I think you can come up with that.

Speaker 3 (30:49):
Yeah, you can just.

Speaker 6 (30:54):
Say that she No, I'm saying, warning them before even
the song comes out and ship like that.

Speaker 4 (31:00):
I did.

Speaker 5 (31:01):
I did, though I thought you said that video shoot
at least like, let me prepare my pot Okay, yeah.

Speaker 6 (31:10):
For sure, you know it's a certain sound and carry
him because it's like he gets to the video.

Speaker 5 (31:13):
Shoot he see you. It was like, yeah, so I'm
grateful that.

Speaker 4 (31:18):
Well, you're right because even being an artist, right, like
you said, some of the oldest songs that you have,
like this Sugar Daddy song, did he ever come to
you before, like when you first studied dating, like.

Speaker 1 (31:28):
Let me go listen to her music.

Speaker 3 (31:29):
No, he still won't. As we as we gradually got
into one another, he would start listening to but he
skips over. She still won't listen to Sugar Daddy or
watch that video till this day. Till this day. And
if we if we had like an appearance at the
club or some ship and they play Sugar Daddy, he just.

Speaker 1 (31:45):
Like to the bathroom.

Speaker 3 (31:50):
But yeah, he won't. He still won't watch that drink.

Speaker 5 (31:54):
He used to.

Speaker 3 (31:55):
We used to get down real bad with Hennessy, but
that was part of the problem.

Speaker 1 (32:00):
That's that elevate.

Speaker 3 (32:02):
We've since transition and whiskey.

Speaker 1 (32:04):
Okay, Look, so we have a little thing that we
do up here. It's called from the Feed.

Speaker 4 (32:08):
So we're going to talk about different things that are
happening online and.

Speaker 1 (32:13):
Get your opinion on them. Okay, so each of us
have us from the feed.

Speaker 5 (32:17):
Now mine is where's mine. I'm doing unless somebody else
want to lip service.

Speaker 3 (32:24):
Here we go.

Speaker 5 (32:27):
Why don't I see it?

Speaker 1 (32:30):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (32:30):
Here we go?

Speaker 1 (32:30):
Okay the one that I have.

Speaker 4 (32:32):
Apple is working on an iPhone anti snatching feature that
would automatically lock the phone if it detects it was
grabbed from your hand. So if somebody grabs the phone
from your hand, and it's really feel like when phones
get stolen. But I think this could be useful in
other situations too, you know. And so I did have

(32:53):
somebody grab my phone once. It made me lose all
respect for him. He was Yeah, he grabbed my.

Speaker 5 (33:00):
And ran in the bathroom and locked the door. Niggas
loved one. That's good.

Speaker 3 (33:12):
That's how it is.

Speaker 5 (33:13):
That. That's good.

Speaker 3 (33:14):
Pussy problems with that feature though, I love that. Yeah,
I love that, not for reasons of you know, as
far as yeah, I like that. I'm all for it.
Go out on one.

Speaker 6 (33:29):
Hey, and if I love a nigga for real, And
I know I'm still doing sneaky ship because I still
will even Yeah, and I'm not married for sure, because
I don't look at I look at if I'm dating.

Speaker 5 (33:44):
I'm dating until I'm married. Okay, So I just.

Speaker 6 (33:50):
You know, I just put myself second after God, so
I don't put a guide before me.

Speaker 3 (33:56):
Okay, I love that until he puts until he gives
you reason to make okay, So only a husband will
be that for you.

Speaker 5 (34:02):
I'm still I still do what I want to do,
and that's the perfect I swallow my phone for wait,
see what you made me do?

Speaker 3 (34:19):
So only a husband will pull you out of that.

Speaker 6 (34:22):
Like, for example, I'm I'm dating right now, but it
just so happens. I'm only dating one person. Okay, but
normally that's not the case.

Speaker 3 (34:30):
Heard you.

Speaker 6 (34:30):
So I'm really into that person, but I got so
much other stuff going on, I ain't even got time
to be into multiple people, but I definitely will.

Speaker 5 (34:38):
I feel like made the best man win. Heard you.

Speaker 3 (34:40):
I'm with that.

Speaker 6 (34:42):
Because it's like you've been in wasted and not waste
it because I don't like to call none of the
niggas waste.

Speaker 5 (34:49):
All of them had their purpose. But if you with somebody, somebody, yeah.

Speaker 6 (34:59):
No I ain't.

Speaker 5 (35:00):
You gotta live your best life.

Speaker 4 (35:02):
But I also, you know, to counter that, I also
feel like sometimes the energy is if you're doing all that,
it's hard for somebody to be focused on just you two,
and you can mess up like somebody's situation because they
may not take you seriously if they know you doing
other stuff too.

Speaker 5 (35:18):
You know, I don't let see, that's the thing what
we can handle.

Speaker 6 (35:22):
If they show me otherwise, then they won't even have
to deal with that. But it's a reason why I'm
moving like that.

Speaker 4 (35:29):
Okay, So you haven't met anybody that you feel like
would warrant you not talking to anybody else.

Speaker 6 (35:37):
My nigga, for real, gotta be like super obsessed, like
tattoo my name on your neck posts like man, gotta
be willing to I ain't gonna say that for me,
but really live for me, Like it gotta be just
all about me.

Speaker 5 (35:52):
So if I don't get that, ye are you gonna
get that?

Speaker 1 (35:58):
If you're doing it's stuff.

Speaker 4 (36:00):
That's what I think, Like what you mean, because I
feel like if you mess with other guys, I feel
like the energy you put out is kind of the
energy you received it.

Speaker 3 (36:08):
That's for sure. That's for sure.

Speaker 2 (36:10):
Like you can never mess what's for you. And so
if somebody is for her, they're never there, they're not.

Speaker 5 (36:15):
That's not gonna bother them.

Speaker 3 (36:18):
The outcome of what that could have been.

Speaker 6 (36:20):
If I'm like right now, I just say it. For example,
I'm only liking one person, perfect example. If things don't
continue to be like how I need them to be,
then I'm not finna just stay there and just be like, Okay,
well one day, no, because today is what Monday is,

(36:40):
what tomorrow is Tuesday?

Speaker 5 (36:43):
And guess what the day after that is Wednesday. The
day's got to go on. Baby's okay.

Speaker 1 (36:49):
So if he continues to be good, then you'll continue
to be good.

Speaker 5 (36:52):
Yeah, I'll be good.

Speaker 6 (36:53):
But if he ain't stamping it and letting me know
it's all about me, then you're not taking me serious
for real.

Speaker 3 (37:02):
You just I got questions. I'm interested. I'm interested. I
love when I get to talk to people Like, is
this trauma based? Where is this coming from?

Speaker 6 (37:12):
I just it ain't even trauma based because I have
probably been the person from what I heard. I I'm
the lever like you said, I'm the lover and the lever,
So it's not trauma based. Its reality based. I feel
like too many women take too long to let a

(37:34):
nigga decide what's going on.

Speaker 5 (37:37):
You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (37:38):
It's like so he has the power he has it,
but he ain't gonna have it forever, and general men
have the power.

Speaker 5 (37:47):
I feel like that, cook Man, I just flip and
change everything.

Speaker 3 (37:51):
I think I got it. I think I kind of
agree because I fucked on the first night and I'm
marrying this nigga, So yeah, it don't take long to
make your mind up for sure, I fuck with it.

Speaker 5 (38:00):
I can't.

Speaker 6 (38:00):
I'm so mad you said that, because that was gonna
be my question. I want to think about the whole
fucking on the first night thing.

Speaker 5 (38:09):
It worked for her? What your boat?

Speaker 1 (38:13):
I ain't got you talking for two weeks before you
even went out with no, we wasn't.

Speaker 3 (38:17):
I finally I finally entertained it two weeks after meeting
him at at oh Boy House and that was the
first date.

Speaker 4 (38:26):
And I.

Speaker 3 (38:31):
Absolutely not I want was and whatever?

Speaker 1 (38:39):
Like, but what did he have anything else going on
that he had to cut off?

Speaker 3 (38:43):
Because you know how it is, he definitely had He
definitely had hose for sure. He's you've seen j J
is that nigga got no problem getting bitches, you know,
So yeah he had situations. But I think we both,
like I said, I know how Corney it sounds, but
I think we both pretty much knew like, hey, I'm
I want this, you know, and it didn't take long
to figure that out.

Speaker 5 (39:04):
What good? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (39:05):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (39:06):
I mean like when I go with my man, he
was telling me he didn't want to be in a relationship.
He had just gotten out of something that was I
was like, no problem. A couple of weeks later he likes,
so what's going on?

Speaker 3 (39:17):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (39:18):
Yeah, I love.

Speaker 4 (39:22):
That for us, you too, Jordy is coming up for you, Jordy, Jordy,
are you still with your sneaky links?

Speaker 5 (39:27):
Why do not you tell us if you are you
still with Yes, he's around.

Speaker 1 (39:32):
She's had a sneaky link for like years now, he's around.

Speaker 5 (39:35):
You're just crazy.

Speaker 2 (39:37):
That's been like the eleven months November November November.

Speaker 5 (39:43):
That is a long time for me, however, Okay, that
is a long time I have.

Speaker 2 (39:47):
I was celibate for two years, and then I had
a roster for a year, and then I was back
to damn near celibate for a while until sneaky link.

Speaker 1 (39:56):
Okay, but it's not a sneaky link.

Speaker 4 (39:58):
If it's seven months, I feel like because she ain't
really seeing nobody else.

Speaker 3 (40:01):
Yes, it's not sneaky no, mo my girl, it ain't sneaky.
It's loud.

Speaker 5 (40:05):
For seven months.

Speaker 2 (40:06):
I ain't know that, she said, two years, two years
and seven months, two years salibate.

Speaker 6 (40:11):
Yeah, so when you celebrate still playing with your pussy. Yeah,
I just wasn't having any you know, penetrating. It is
to me, no pipe, none, none.

Speaker 3 (40:24):
Okay, I guess it's different levels of I get it.

Speaker 5 (40:28):
Yeah, I mean it was.

Speaker 2 (40:29):
It was more for me than anything else. So my
boundaries was I'm not fucking anybody that isn't my man.
And then I was like, who knows the next time
I'm gonna get.

Speaker 5 (40:38):
A man, So let me just do a year.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
Then I was like, I'm not feeling anybody and continued
for a.

Speaker 3 (40:46):
Year pussy proclamation period. I'm know, right, I love that.

Speaker 5 (40:50):
Cheers, thank you.

Speaker 1 (40:55):
About to turn into a situation at some point.

Speaker 3 (40:58):
Keep in mind he's watching, right, I.

Speaker 5 (41:06):
Don't.

Speaker 2 (41:06):
Okay, So it's getting to a space where I need
to be more aware and conscious of how we move
going forward, right, because it's it was a thing of convenience.
He works right near my apartment, so it's like, okay,
come over, wrap to work.

Speaker 5 (41:22):
But boop. Now there are dates that have happened. He
has met friends.

Speaker 3 (41:29):
Oh, girl, it ain't sneaking up.

Speaker 5 (41:31):
But like, I've never been to his place? Why I've never?

Speaker 1 (41:36):
Has he invited you?

Speaker 2 (41:37):
He lives out of state. Okay, Oh, but I'm like,
it's not it's a train ride, it's not that deep.

Speaker 1 (41:43):
Has he invited you?

Speaker 6 (41:45):
Not?

Speaker 5 (41:45):
Really?

Speaker 1 (41:46):
No?

Speaker 3 (41:47):
No, it sounds to me like, just from my experience
of hoeing in my past, it sounds like y'all both
waiting on like that title before y'all even try to
open it, Like who's gonna invite? Why invite you over?
Invite you over to his place, especially if you work
on the town, if you're not stamped as his girl, and.

Speaker 5 (42:06):
Let's see your water. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (42:15):
He's secretly he got a roommate.

Speaker 5 (42:17):
He lives with his brother and sister.

Speaker 2 (42:20):
Oh yes, I can go, like to the town, Like
I don't need to go to the house, But do
you want to?

Speaker 5 (42:29):
I don't know. That's what I'm talking about.

Speaker 3 (42:31):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (42:32):
I say that, they say that I don't want that.
What if he was like, let's take.

Speaker 2 (42:37):
This to another level, I don't know what I would do.
Knowing me, I get like that's like an immediately, I
got a run away.

Speaker 3 (42:46):
Really that you're a runner, She's a runner.

Speaker 5 (42:50):
I'm definitely a runner. Therapist thousand, is that drama voice?
Absolutely for sure.

Speaker 2 (43:00):
Yeah, it's a false sense of control, and so that
that would make me feel out.

Speaker 3 (43:06):
Of control, absolutely, because you fear what you can't control.

Speaker 1 (43:08):
Exactly, and I gave my heart exactly. How has therapy
changed you?

Speaker 3 (43:17):
Therapy is only a tool, though, right, So I chose
to apply the things that I learned in therapy, and
it only works if you're honest. So therapy has truly
taught me to be honest and to be accountable for
the for the things that I fall short on because

(43:38):
I really used.

Speaker 5 (43:39):
To be like that.

Speaker 3 (43:40):
Well, I would have never did that if you wouldn't
have had And that's not fair.

Speaker 4 (43:45):
That's not fair, especially to somebody who wants you to
be their wife. So therapy has taught me to grow
the fuck up old.

Speaker 1 (43:52):
She needed to give us a session.

Speaker 6 (43:54):
I'm glad she was accountable for that Nigga at the
video thing, because she's talking about sneaky links. You're talking
about nix at the video. I didn't came up with
the scenario on my head, Like if my sneaky link
did a video and he had a bitch doing all
this and I'm just there, I'm just crazy.

Speaker 3 (44:16):
What you would it not? Let's wait, so let's let's
go there.

Speaker 1 (44:22):
Yes, it's a sneaky link your man.

Speaker 5 (44:25):
I swell my sneaky link my man.

Speaker 1 (44:27):
Okay, that's selfish, because I do want to say, I
don't know, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (44:33):
And how long did you doing with him? How is
this selfish? I mean, I am selfish.

Speaker 3 (44:37):
I'm saying if if you said.

Speaker 5 (44:40):
You sneaky link is my man, I swear he my man. Okay,
I'm on him real bad. If you watch y'all.

Speaker 3 (44:50):
So to my question earlier, if he had, if he
wanted to be the only one that's trying to be
the only one, you would definitely be down this one.

Speaker 1 (44:59):
Okay, why we outside this summer?

Speaker 4 (45:01):
Another song on you can't find It's a night outside
the period?

Speaker 5 (45:08):
Girl, girl, you do you really know it's really listen
it is a beautiful boy.

Speaker 3 (45:15):
You be singing to your man, right, But I plan
on singing at the wedding. If I don't cry, you cry,
you definitely think I'm definitely gonna I'm definitely gonna cry,
and I was. I wanted to sing he Is by
Brandy that's I don't.

Speaker 5 (45:29):
Know the song, but you're gonna cry. But you gonna
write your own song.

Speaker 1 (45:33):
I thought about that.

Speaker 3 (45:34):
Yeah, but then that's gonna make me. I'm gonna cry
for now.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
You got to if I write that song and make
that money off of it.

Speaker 5 (45:42):
Period.

Speaker 3 (45:44):
We always need a period the way.

Speaker 1 (45:50):
We're gonna be. Okay, let's see what is this wedding
song gonna be about?

Speaker 3 (45:53):
What is it gonna be about?

Speaker 5 (45:55):
Girl?

Speaker 1 (45:55):
Because the first night I think it's good. I think
breaking up and making up and realizing how much I
need you when.

Speaker 4 (46:04):
You were apart from me around to almost losing each other, yep,
almost losing each other, and you came back. Then we
went to therapy. It's just circling the block yep. Therapy
came back strong, and now we're here.

Speaker 5 (46:17):
What if you.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
Like, I don't think that's a good thing.

Speaker 5 (46:28):
Everybody who got the Jamaican men, because I don't.

Speaker 3 (46:35):
I might as well just got long motherfucker. You know
that can be good?

Speaker 4 (46:42):
Actually, And I want to say something, and I want
to say amazing. Can I just say thank you, my girl? Yeah,
don't ask me up in front of the company and
that thank you girl, because I know you used to
represent for all the girls I do.

Speaker 3 (47:01):
I still do. I still represent for the chunk of
girls now.

Speaker 4 (47:03):
I mean you was looking good either way, but you
look amazing. I just want to also say that, but
that Chunky Girls winning is.

Speaker 5 (47:10):
My song too. You still that one?

Speaker 4 (47:13):
I do.

Speaker 1 (47:14):
I'm not gonna lie even you. You know you wrap
she wrapped.

Speaker 4 (47:18):
I ain't.

Speaker 3 (47:19):
I ain't really, I ain't really no rapper, but no, you.

Speaker 5 (47:23):
Though, thank you, But your voice is thank You got
a voice. That's why you got to sing.

Speaker 1 (47:29):
I think you gotta do an original song for your wedding. Y'all.

Speaker 3 (47:32):
Just set up the hall.

Speaker 4 (47:33):
Play motherfucker, you motherfucker, because you know how many women
can relate. You're like, you know, meeting somebody that's there
so many first night, I knew right away the electricity
when your hands touched.

Speaker 1 (47:45):
But then you broke up. He left and went back
to Jamaica.

Speaker 3 (47:48):
That's good.

Speaker 1 (47:49):
I'm just saying, it's a story. It's a story.

Speaker 3 (47:52):
It's a story, and I'm gonna have to recorded him.
Then you're gonna have to come.

Speaker 1 (47:56):
To the same A little clip from this Seria an video.

Speaker 5 (48:03):
While you heard that, I say, that's right right now, use.

Speaker 3 (48:10):
Let me go.

Speaker 6 (48:11):
I say, don't wait till the wedding day, though, what
if she recorded the song before? Then?

Speaker 4 (48:17):
Might drop black woom played in the while she walking
down the eye d while you.

Speaker 1 (48:25):
Walk down the aisle.

Speaker 4 (48:27):
Okay, and then everybody's gonna be crying, everybody and you
know what, y'all, y'all yelling by it to the most.

Speaker 1 (48:36):
I'll be there because I already is gonna be flowing open.

Speaker 6 (48:41):
Bar open, and everybody in the food'll doing Jamaican food.

Speaker 3 (48:48):
We were getting married in Jamaica, so yeah, yeah, we can't.
None of his family is here, so the wedding has winning.
I'm a twenty twenty seven bride. I haven't I haven't
an the date yet, but coming to make a period, y'all. Yeah,
I promise you'll lad. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (49:03):
I love Jamaica.

Speaker 3 (49:04):
Yeah, it's it's gonna be a time and we don't
have to pay for caterers because everybody in his family
can cook. Period is Mama, My God? That lady is
amazing in the kitchen.

Speaker 5 (49:13):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (49:13):
I want to say I'm a host of the reception.

Speaker 3 (49:17):
Period let's go.

Speaker 5 (49:20):
And I'm gonna find me a little sneak link.

Speaker 3 (49:24):
Your man.

Speaker 4 (49:25):
Your man might be your man plus one. But the
only way y'all could come got it, bring y'all sneaky links.

Speaker 3 (49:36):
Plus one. Whoever you decide that plus one is.

Speaker 5 (49:38):
It's all on you.

Speaker 1 (49:39):
And you say, yeah, twenty twenty seven, I'm there. I'm
telling as soon as you give us.

Speaker 3 (49:43):
A damn promise. Jamaica, Saint Catherine, Okay, yeah, Well, if
that's where he's that's where he's from.

Speaker 4 (49:50):
So I already know where I'm gonna make it a
whole week long where we're gonna stay at Afterward.

Speaker 1 (49:57):
I think we're gonna go to the Trident.

Speaker 5 (49:59):
Not she plan this right, because you want to go anywhere?

Speaker 3 (50:03):
I love it.

Speaker 4 (50:04):
I want to know Jamaica. Honestly, can I tell y'all
during the pandemic, I went to Jamaica. I actually stayed
in Kingston because actually I'm on the board for the
American Foundation for the University of the West Indies, so
I went out there to raise money for the university
in Kingston, Jamaica.

Speaker 1 (50:20):
Shout out to you, a fuey.

Speaker 4 (50:23):
But anyway, when I went out there, we had so
much fun. But y'all gonna think this is like an
amazing dream conto. But Sean Paul hit me and was like, oh,
I see you in Jamaica. He came and picked me
and all my friends up and took us to the
beach and because his manager has a restaurant on the beach.
When I tell you, we had the time of our lives.
And then at the hotel because you know it's the pandemic. No,

(50:44):
we Colan came back, Christopher Martin like all everybody was like, y'all,
let's come hang out like Jesse Royal.

Speaker 1 (50:51):
I had so much fun in jama Yeah.

Speaker 3 (50:53):
Man, I like to say, I feel like God took
a little bit more time when he created Jamaica. That
place is just it's paradise.

Speaker 5 (51:01):
And of course we went to KFC.

Speaker 3 (51:03):
Oh period. You can't go to Jamaica without.

Speaker 1 (51:07):
Yeah, I'm not even playing.

Speaker 3 (51:09):
Yeah, I want you to come. I'm dead as serious.
I'm not bullshiting. And if I send y'all inbody, y'all
better come. I know what special Kentucky Fried Chicken keep
from Cooking.

Speaker 5 (51:23):
Came from cook It's so crazy, it's.

Speaker 1 (51:26):
Such a big Oh God.

Speaker 5 (51:28):
Twenty twenty seven.

Speaker 2 (51:32):
We get through the summer.

Speaker 1 (51:33):
We got that long from now.

Speaker 2 (51:35):
When you're saying that, like, y'all in the bed space, y'all,
we're in a good space.

Speaker 5 (51:40):
But who knows you knows?

Speaker 2 (51:42):
You know what I'm saying. Summer is a different type
of time. It's been cold in New York this whole time.
We we haven't seen reality yet.

Speaker 5 (51:50):
This feels like a song to me. I ladies, but
I promise in my head, I was like, you need
to go jam water?

Speaker 3 (51:56):
Are we after you leave him? That's what That's what
you need to go listen to.

Speaker 1 (52:00):
How do you feel about like hooking, say your friends up.

Speaker 5 (52:04):
With his friends?

Speaker 1 (52:06):
Have you done that yet?

Speaker 6 (52:07):
Well?

Speaker 3 (52:07):
I don't. I don't got no friends. What I don't
have friends? I have one. I have two friends from
middle school and we've been best friends since sixth grade. Y'all,
I have no new people around me?

Speaker 5 (52:18):
What is that about?

Speaker 3 (52:20):
What about us? I just you know, like industry, my
industry colleagues. I have industry colleagues. But I'm telling my friend, like,
when you say friend, you mean a real the definition
of friend. You know what I mean? I have the
same two best friends in sixth grade. I have no
new people around me, and I ain't mad about it.

Speaker 5 (52:39):
What does bridal party?

Speaker 3 (52:41):
All my cousins cousins, we have a we have a
chat right now called sister cousins because we I'm one
of them girls that I don't have friends but I
have all my cousins is so well yeah, but meaning
like you know what I'm saying. But my my group,
my circle, we really really we blood related for real,
sister shout out to my sister cousins. Hey, y'all, but

(53:02):
uh yeah, they're all my bridesmaids. It's ten of them.

Speaker 5 (53:05):
So have you hooked any of them up on any
of his FROs?

Speaker 4 (53:07):
Because you know how guys be, they'd be like but
some people hate doing that, like my man mess China
like he because when it don't work out.

Speaker 5 (53:18):
They get too missed issues.

Speaker 3 (53:20):
And honestly, I don't think I don't think any of
them are wired to handle the career, the cultural difference, okay,
And I mean that was so much respect. And I
love my I love my girls, I love my cousins,
but they wouldn't be able to.

Speaker 5 (53:36):
How was that for you? Though?

Speaker 1 (53:37):
Handling that it was challenging.

Speaker 3 (53:40):
It was challenging. Ship What baited me was the fact
that he was Jamaican and find his hell and everything else.

Speaker 5 (53:50):
Can you look what.

Speaker 3 (53:54):
What Jake can do? The running joke is that Jamaican's
got like ten jobs.

Speaker 5 (53:58):
You know this nigga. He building a.

Speaker 3 (54:00):
Damn boat right now. It's a big ass boat in
our garage period. The garage has turned into a workshop.
He can do everything, Jake and cook, fixed shit, fixed leaks, plumbing, electricity.
He's an engineer, so he do all the things.

Speaker 1 (54:16):
You think he would have liked for you to not
do what you do for a living.

Speaker 3 (54:20):
Absolutely, absolutely. I think if he would have found me
in another life, in another world where I'm not an artist,
that would be like his ideal pick. Has he ever
said that, No, but he's made me feel that. Does
that stop you from like communic haden? I used to

(54:40):
feel like that. Yeah, But I don't feel like that
no more because we're in a better space and we've grown.
But in the beginning, yeah, I.

Speaker 5 (54:46):
Used to not.

Speaker 3 (54:47):
I used to know. When I got the Tyler Perry
movie offer.

Speaker 1 (54:52):
I was number one movie by the way, number one.

Speaker 5 (54:56):
Okay, that is so good.

Speaker 3 (55:02):
I hesitated to share that with him, Wow, because it
was such a big industry achievement that I wondered what
he would feel, And honestly, my fear was exactly what

(55:22):
he ended up asking me. When I shared the news
with him that I got the role. I was like,
Tyler Perry called me back for the role. I got
the part on finding Joy.

Speaker 6 (55:31):
You know.

Speaker 3 (55:33):
It's like, baby, that's amazing. Mama is so proud of
your man is so proud of you. What do you
have any roles with a man? And then what I said, No,
I don't. Actually my character is a supporting actress role.
But I said, but let me ask you.

Speaker 4 (55:52):
You know, if I would have had a role with
a man, how would you have felt if I would
have accepted it, you know? And he was like, well,
I would like for us to have a conversation about it.
You know, at least I at least I can understand
wanting to have a conversation, but argue, yeah.

Speaker 3 (56:12):
And he was initially the first the initial reaction was cats, baby,
you know, and I'm so proud of you, love you know,
and then immediately following it.

Speaker 1 (56:21):
Was so yeah.

Speaker 5 (56:25):
Yeahs after she.

Speaker 3 (56:30):
And mind you we were still new toy, you know
what I'm saying. We were still like figuring it out
month two or something of therapy, so we were still
very very new. So coming from that to then you
get that, So I.

Speaker 1 (56:42):
Got another woman?

Speaker 3 (56:44):
Oh damn, depend on how many zeros.

Speaker 6 (56:52):
Nah.

Speaker 3 (56:52):
But I did ask him, you know, what if what
if I would have? And he said I would at
least like to have a conversation about it, you know.
So I wonder now later if if I end up
because I'm acting now, just got renewed for the next season.
And Miss Pat I love, I love period, I will.
She actually the same way on and off the show too.

Speaker 1 (57:11):
I love her.

Speaker 3 (57:12):
She acts exactly like she's the reason I got the role.

Speaker 1 (57:15):
Actually, I listen, I don't hung out with Miss Patt
a couple of times.

Speaker 3 (57:18):
Yeah, she'll trip.

Speaker 4 (57:19):
Yeah, And I also love the fact that outside of
that she is so passionate about like real estate.

Speaker 3 (57:25):
Yes, indeed you're a business woman for you like that.

Speaker 5 (57:28):
She's a sweetheart.

Speaker 3 (57:29):
Yeah, she put my name in that book. It for
Tyler Perry. She's the reason I got that role, you know.

Speaker 5 (57:34):
So dope.

Speaker 1 (57:34):
Yeah, so is she coming to the wedding with us?

Speaker 3 (57:37):
Miss Patt is definitely coming to my way with us.
She has definitely coming.

Speaker 5 (57:42):
To my wedding.

Speaker 3 (57:43):
Her and her daughter. Actually that's my girl. So yeah,
I'm still navigating how to be mindful of the fact
that this man wants to marry me. You know, this
is somebody who's asking me to be his wife. So
I have to be respectful in a lot of the
offers that I take. I ain't eating no pussy on
no offer. I don't care what how much it costs, whatever.
I'm just not. I can't. I got kids now, and

(58:06):
in another life I would have acted that. I would
have done that role had I not my oldest about
to be fifteen. Yeah, that time has passed for.

Speaker 1 (58:13):
Me, you know.

Speaker 3 (58:14):
But yeah, had I not had little people that are
looking at me, I would have gett eight. I would
have done any.

Speaker 1 (58:23):
That's different.

Speaker 5 (58:26):
But no, I have you know, I got other shit
going on.

Speaker 3 (58:30):
I'm grown.

Speaker 4 (58:30):
So what is it like to because you have, like
you said, you have a teenager and even your oldest
songs like did he ever say anything to you?

Speaker 5 (58:39):
Girl?

Speaker 3 (58:40):
So his entire school knows who I am, right, baby,
Everyone knows that I'm Austin's mom, right, So, uh, he
just before I left to come on this press round.
Actually he was like, man, MoMA, my homegirl was playing
your music in class today. It was last week of school,
so they doing whatever they wanted to do in school.
He was like, uh, she played she didn't play Sugar Dady,
though she played best Thing and that's sweet, he was.

(59:03):
But she played the Bounce mixed version girl. So he
was like, man, MoMA, my homegirl was playing your songs
in class today, and she came over there and said,
sit next to my desk. Was like, Austin, so when
is yoa mama going on tour because it's summertime and
I need to give my you know, he's used to it.
Austin is used to it. You know, he understands who
I am, what I do. Uh my middle son, Jay's son,

(59:25):
my bonus baby Adonna's He's like, yah yah. He calls
me ya ya because he didn't know how to say
naive and it came out yeah yah. It's the most
sweetest thing. He's uh. He's like, yeah, yeah, I saw
your new video on TV.

Speaker 5 (59:38):
You know.

Speaker 3 (59:39):
So he's proud. And the little one think we live
in fucking Wisconsin. He don't know what the hell going on.
He just like, Mommy, that's you mommy, I seen you
on the TV, you know, so they're aware of what's
going on. They also don't give a fuck because I
can be good on stage getting ready for a show
and they telling me they need roebooks.

Speaker 5 (01:00:00):
That's still a thing.

Speaker 3 (01:00:01):
Absolutely minecraft all that ship, Yeah, that's my real job,
being a mom.

Speaker 1 (01:00:06):
And that's full time it is. You know, I never stopped.

Speaker 5 (01:00:12):
One.

Speaker 6 (01:00:13):
But I can relate to the music thing because when
my son was like growing up, I had some of
the most craziest songs.

Speaker 5 (01:00:21):
But what I would do was I will prepare him
before it came out. Oh every time, okay, because living
in Chicago, like you know, the kids, like you said,
the kids talk.

Speaker 6 (01:00:33):
Yeah, so I would tell him, look, I got this
song coming out. It's just entertainment. And even now he's
much older. But I found myself recently because I got
a only fans you do. Yeah, I know, but I'm
telling you, ok So, I don't do ship on that though, right,
not for real.

Speaker 5 (01:00:51):
I can't give it out. I got to make them
whatever subscribed. You got to see it. I do everything.
You gotta see it.

Speaker 6 (01:00:59):
You just got all that milk on my face is
not alo vera Okay, just so, but I used to.
It's mainly feet.

Speaker 3 (01:01:10):
But even that, when people hear only fans.

Speaker 5 (01:01:12):
They think, oh she on not getting a bus yep.
But you can do what you want to do. You can, yeah,
you can, like for real.

Speaker 6 (01:01:21):
But that's a conversation that I just like to have, yeah,
with people who I care about, for my son, to
my sister. Look, you see, only fans don't worry, but
they know I ain't gonna do too much anyway.

Speaker 5 (01:01:31):
But you know, it's just about communicating.

Speaker 3 (01:01:34):
I missed that mark, then I ain't prepare astin for shit,
I'm that marked.

Speaker 5 (01:01:40):
It's too late.

Speaker 6 (01:01:42):
He's fifteen now, yeah, but still even fifteen because if
they still in high school, they get a high school
at seventeen. Like if it's too much, I mean, I
don't know what other songs you're coming out with, but
I know with me, like I had songs. For example,
I had a song pay for This Pussy that was
like one of my most popular songs.

Speaker 3 (01:02:00):
Definitely going to go stream that ship.

Speaker 6 (01:02:06):
That's a conversation I have with my family because I
want them to know before everybody else do.

Speaker 5 (01:02:11):
Like, look y'all, but they know that I'm just creative.

Speaker 6 (01:02:14):
So they don't you still want to like same ship
with the guy the HUDs And I'm like, I tell
my niggas like, oh type shit, and.

Speaker 4 (01:02:21):
You know, it feels like therapy wasn't enough. It does
feel like you made like it's a story, you know,
and you can see like the ups and downs of
a relationship. Absolutely and this and you evolving. But it
ain't no like Sugar Daddy type of songs. This one right,
So it's like an evolution.

Speaker 3 (01:02:41):
That's that's exactly right. Actually, that's exactly right. I've I
have evolved, I have grown. I'm still very much the
same ship talking and aa that everybody fell in love with,
but I've grown up. I grew to fu cup and
I'm actually sharing this life now with someone else, and
I have other feelings to account for and think about.

Speaker 4 (01:03:03):
Because you gotta think about how he's going to react
to certain things too.

Speaker 3 (01:03:06):
Yeah, and I'm never gonna do nothing that out here
to embarrass embarrass my nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:03:12):
I mean, it's it's not you know, yeah, it's not.
It ain't why side is still on hand, but you're
not outside.

Speaker 3 (01:03:19):
Yeah, this this outside is more like I ain't going nowhere, nigga,
I'm just gonna go outside till you come to your mother.

Speaker 5 (01:03:25):
A little fun.

Speaker 4 (01:03:26):
Yeah, you know, but this isn't fun. Yeah, Jordie Joe,
you have her from the feed?

Speaker 2 (01:03:31):
Oh yes, are you someone who switches your voice up.

Speaker 5 (01:03:36):
Like a little baby? I did that to my man.
I like, look at you, and he'd be like, oh
my god, what is wrong with you?

Speaker 3 (01:03:43):
I don't. I don't. I'm not, but I got friends
like this.

Speaker 4 (01:03:46):
And I'll be like, bitch, please girl, you know, but no,
I'm still I'm thinking we passed that part.

Speaker 3 (01:03:55):
Man me and Jay like, hey, baby, what's up? Okay,
I'm in an interview. I call you all right, leve
you by.

Speaker 1 (01:04:00):
I do that when I'm with them. I can't help it.

Speaker 5 (01:04:02):
I feel like I have moments. Yeah what your sniky like?

Speaker 1 (01:04:06):
Yeah okay?

Speaker 3 (01:04:07):
Or who I mean? Yeah, girt, you is definitely gonna
be a girlfriend about twenty.

Speaker 5 (01:04:11):
I need you to get it together.

Speaker 3 (01:04:13):
That is your man and you his girl.

Speaker 5 (01:04:18):
Tbd, TBD.

Speaker 3 (01:04:21):
They do.

Speaker 5 (01:04:21):
I can tell because y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:04:23):
Be cutting in is serious.

Speaker 3 (01:04:27):
Sex.

Speaker 5 (01:04:28):
It's real something, to be fair.

Speaker 2 (01:04:30):
I've never had sex with someone that doesn't cuddle, even
when I'm trying to make excuses I.

Speaker 4 (01:04:36):
Just was about to say, I feel like you're giving
me an excuse or reason not to fall in live.

Speaker 5 (01:04:43):
Fall down, Oh Lord, because I just feel like, ultimately
it's not a match.

Speaker 2 (01:04:51):
So it's like, why am I going to take myself
down this road if I know we're not compatible that way?

Speaker 3 (01:04:56):
Pause? Pause, You feel like it ain't a You feel
like y'all ain't a.

Speaker 5 (01:05:01):
Match, not for long term? M Does he know that
he knows that?

Speaker 1 (01:05:07):
Does he feel that way?

Speaker 5 (01:05:09):
Never asked him, but he know you feel that way? Yeah,
he ain't gone. So you know what that means? He
needs to get to working so that you don't feel
that way. That's on him.

Speaker 3 (01:05:20):
Are you going to work?

Speaker 5 (01:05:21):
I'm a Capricorn, you're a.

Speaker 6 (01:05:25):
You know what they say about them, The Scorpio's freaky
and the Capricorn sneaky.

Speaker 5 (01:05:36):
And I see it. I see it.

Speaker 3 (01:05:42):
I think I understand that.

Speaker 2 (01:05:43):
Yeah, like I am enjoying this experience. Do I think
that that's my person?

Speaker 3 (01:05:49):
No?

Speaker 5 (01:05:50):
And so now I'm like, what does that mean though?
Do I just like keep it here?

Speaker 2 (01:05:54):
Because if I go further and then it's not going
to work out, then I don't see the point.

Speaker 3 (01:05:59):
You potential to be a lover, but you're a laver?

Speaker 5 (01:06:01):
Are you physically attracted to him? Was it just like
a job I did like a job. No, it's not
a job. It's not a job.

Speaker 2 (01:06:10):
But if you would have asked me if there was
no anything, like if I just saw him, I would say, no,
you got the attraction that is built the grown you.

Speaker 5 (01:06:21):
Yes, did Dick have anything to do with it or head?

Speaker 6 (01:06:24):
Absolutely, That's why I said, Dick scraped that stomach.

Speaker 5 (01:06:30):
Yeah, man, I fear, I fear.

Speaker 3 (01:06:33):
That's true. Yep, up the straight and around the corner,
and don't let it have no hook on the beach.
That's another story.

Speaker 5 (01:06:45):
Right there, captain hook. Oh my god, all right, tell
what you feel about uncircumcised next let me tell you something.

Speaker 4 (01:06:59):
Next night said that he wishes he could put his
skin back, because he said that uncircumcised penis has more.

Speaker 1 (01:07:12):
Sensation.

Speaker 5 (01:07:13):
How he know? Oh he's talking about in the pussy
and the pussy.

Speaker 3 (01:07:18):
Not how he knows.

Speaker 5 (01:07:20):
And she don't know that bussy pussy is too.

Speaker 3 (01:07:25):
Much going on in the back.

Speaker 5 (01:07:27):
Yeah, I know what it is, but I didn't know that.
So he's saying, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:07:32):
Yeah, so it's sensation back.

Speaker 3 (01:07:34):
Then you could feel it.

Speaker 1 (01:07:35):
Yeah, in all the way, I guess I turned down.

Speaker 3 (01:07:41):
I can't do.

Speaker 5 (01:07:44):
Though, No, because I can't do it.

Speaker 1 (01:07:47):
How do you know if you never had it?

Speaker 5 (01:07:49):
Because I don't do it.

Speaker 3 (01:07:51):
I've seen one, because I can.

Speaker 5 (01:07:53):
Ribbean men are uncircumcised.

Speaker 3 (01:07:54):
No bullshit, you're for real. Caribbean men are uncircumcised. I ain't.
I don't know about that. I ain't talking about mom, But.

Speaker 4 (01:08:09):
I've seen one and scared the ship out of me.
It will right, and I and I would rather not.

Speaker 5 (01:08:17):
Why was it scary?

Speaker 3 (01:08:18):
Because it just looked like a little.

Speaker 5 (01:08:20):
Terrible look like a little turtle. You just gotta the little.

Speaker 3 (01:08:29):
Scary.

Speaker 6 (01:08:30):
I've never kissed a turtle neck. Okay, I'm definitely not sucking.
I've never kissed and now one.

Speaker 5 (01:08:38):
I lost it again.

Speaker 1 (01:08:42):
Oh, because you came here doing this, I thought it
was okay, I thought you would.

Speaker 5 (01:08:48):
You know, I have never suck nothing.

Speaker 3 (01:08:52):
I mean, you know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (01:08:55):
I've never kissed the turtle neck. Actually I've never.

Speaker 6 (01:09:01):
Okay, so one time I bumped into a turtlenack and
that was my first turtleneck in counter. Okay, that was
my first time seeing it.

Speaker 3 (01:09:10):
Like face that looks scary.

Speaker 5 (01:09:13):
I don't like no turtle.

Speaker 1 (01:09:16):
I don't like.

Speaker 6 (01:09:16):
I don't like it because it's like it's a lot
of work. But for me, it wasn't a lot of
work for me because it was like this was yearsny years.

Speaker 5 (01:09:23):
It was like a job, this one like my nigga nothing.

Speaker 6 (01:09:26):
So we used the condom, but me feeling like I'm
just fe in an unraveled skin and pull I can't.
I hate I would look and I never it was
just that one time. I've never ever fucked with a turtle.

Speaker 5 (01:09:41):
Name don't bother because you pull it down, it looks
the exact same. Who want to pull it down up?
Blanket fandom statue of Liberties.

Speaker 3 (01:10:02):
Yeah, I don't like, I can't. I just like why
they got a jacket off.

Speaker 5 (01:10:08):
I don't like respect for the guy. Give me your tired.

Speaker 1 (01:10:12):
It makes you a little bit of.

Speaker 5 (01:10:14):
Respect for you. It makes me lose respect for them.

Speaker 3 (01:10:16):
Yeah it does. I agree with that. I don't like that,
but it's ways to make them not be that way.
Get it all.

Speaker 1 (01:10:26):
Yeah, now you're a surgeon. Okay, sorry about.

Speaker 5 (01:10:34):
Okay?

Speaker 6 (01:10:35):
So everything they say, everything in Texas is bigger. So
I'm gonna say I was on the internet and I saw.
I don't know if y'all saw Salt Swaka making this
threat right now to Drake because he cracked his BM.

Speaker 4 (01:10:55):
Did y'all see that I tell him, leaving him talking
to his baby about Drake.

Speaker 5 (01:11:01):
Yeah, he's supposed to say something. You know how niggas
be like, oh, you're fucking with that nigga. I kill
that nigga.

Speaker 3 (01:11:06):
I ain't seen that.

Speaker 6 (01:11:09):
Yeah, and I know it's Houston, and you know, I
just thought it was something to it. How do you
feel about because I love my niggas crashing out about me.

Speaker 5 (01:11:18):
You got to Oh you don't care? And you do
so i'd I was trying.

Speaker 1 (01:11:24):
To so bad.

Speaker 5 (01:11:26):
Do you like a chill type to wear? It's like, baby,
I don't care about that, or you like God, yeah, unbothered?

Speaker 3 (01:11:32):
Or you like the one?

Speaker 4 (01:11:33):
Just I need to see a little crash, Yeah, a small,
tiny crash, like a like a fender bender, not maybe
not a major right.

Speaker 5 (01:11:46):
Little niche? You know, so you don't like the copying total,
but you can have a bump on.

Speaker 3 (01:11:51):
Let's see you can not the mump off, but don't
we don't want the one.

Speaker 6 (01:11:57):
A lot?

Speaker 1 (01:11:58):
No, I do not like a crash out.

Speaker 5 (01:12:01):
I don't. I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:12:03):
I listen, you could check me. It's all good. I
don't be doing too much though, that's right, Like I'm
so chill.

Speaker 5 (01:12:10):
I don't be doing too much.

Speaker 1 (01:12:11):
I don't need nobody to do too much of me.

Speaker 4 (01:12:14):
I also don't like for a guy i'm with to
put himself in a situation where he could get into
something worse. Ye, that's true, and so because I care
about you, I don't want you to like go or
do nothing crazy. I also feel like he acts like
that with somebody else. One day it could be me,
and so I never want to feel like somebody can't
control themselves. Okay, So I can understand if somebody do

(01:12:37):
something wild and you got to like protect me, yes
to that. But to be aggressively getting into a situation,
I don't like that because I'm always trying to de
escalate things.

Speaker 6 (01:12:48):
What if it's about you, though, I ain't time about
just a general situation like a nigga just on you real.

Speaker 1 (01:12:53):
Bed, Well, if somebody does something to me and you're
trying to.

Speaker 3 (01:12:59):
You you, I want you yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:13:04):
Like that?

Speaker 5 (01:13:05):
Okay, you're just so close to perfect.

Speaker 1 (01:13:08):
I don't I don't really like like drama like that.
I'm not that's not wrong.

Speaker 3 (01:13:13):
I want to be smooth.

Speaker 4 (01:13:15):
I don't need to you beefing with nobody unnecessarily Now,
if somebody do something to me, I understand that.

Speaker 5 (01:13:22):
But if it's avoidable, less avoid it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:25):
That's how I look at it.

Speaker 5 (01:13:26):
You like, Nope, but.

Speaker 2 (01:13:31):
Yeah, I like a little spicy, spicy little argument.

Speaker 4 (01:13:37):
Like when my man get into that, I just be like,
I don't even entertain it. I'm not even entertaining it.
And that's that, like, I just can't. I don't have
the capacity to do.

Speaker 2 (01:13:50):
I don't like it when it's directed like if it's
something like oh I want to go through something like that,
I'm not into or like challenging me in that way.
But if it's towards somebody else but has said or
done something to me, or like in my yes, I
approved that message.

Speaker 3 (01:14:04):
I think I think, uh, because see for me, I'm
Jay's first love. Wow, he's never been.

Speaker 4 (01:14:11):
In love before me, and he has a kid too, Okay,
but these these he's never been in love before me,
So I think, uh, there's validity in in why you know,
why he would crash.

Speaker 1 (01:14:25):
Out and the guys be so mad when they never
been in love before. They'd be like, yeah, emotions, yes, yes.

Speaker 5 (01:14:33):
How's the relationship with you want his baby mama.

Speaker 3 (01:14:37):
We're cool, We're good. We're better now than we were
in the beginning. In the beginning, there was like there
was just that being so unsure of each other. We
ain't never had no like real hash out beef. We
ain't never had that. We don't have those types of problems.
But now I joke and call her my baby mama.
She hates when I say that. Ship Yeah, she hates

(01:14:58):
when I say that. But we're good now. We co parents,
everybody's everybody's a fucking adult.

Speaker 2 (01:15:04):
You know.

Speaker 3 (01:15:04):
We're straight therapy, but you got to apply.

Speaker 5 (01:15:09):
It because it well, and you know, we always love
having you up here.

Speaker 3 (01:15:13):
Period. Thank you.

Speaker 5 (01:15:14):
Therapy wasn't enough is available right now, So make sure y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:15:17):
Check that out. You're gonna have a good time with
this album.

Speaker 2 (01:15:20):
I am.

Speaker 3 (01:15:20):
I'm so proud of it.

Speaker 4 (01:15:22):
Yeah you should be, like I see it like you
just from where you've been, what you've been through, where
you are now. I love to see it, and I
think it's going to make so many people get therapy too.
Like I know people be on the fence about it,
you know, thinking about it. I'll try to get my
man to do some therapy.

Speaker 3 (01:15:41):
The album first. It's gonna be a good setup.

Speaker 4 (01:15:43):
Yeah, let's let's have these conversations. Listen, we'll be reporting
live from the wedding at some point next My congratulations,
well served, And when are when are we.

Speaker 1 (01:15:57):
Gonna be able to get these beautiful nails Handcake.

Speaker 3 (01:15:59):
I'm really planning to drop hand Candy later this year.
I'm trying to dedicate and evenly distribute my time. This
album is. You know, I'm speaking from a new vulnerable space,
so I've really tried to give it most of my attention.
But I can't abandon my baby hand Candy. I'm really
excited about it, and I hope the girls. I know
the girl's gonna feel me. Girls is paying two hundred

(01:16:20):
dollars for full sets, now, you know, and I ain't
and I ain't knocking.

Speaker 1 (01:16:27):
Yeah please, but by all means, ladies, But then I'll
do that.

Speaker 3 (01:16:30):
We can't.

Speaker 1 (01:16:31):
I'll do that, and.

Speaker 4 (01:16:31):
Especially in my profession, I got to change my nails
out so much, and the quality of them, they thick.

Speaker 3 (01:16:36):
These I feel these.

Speaker 1 (01:16:37):
Girls they out. I mean, this has statement nails. I
love them, Thank you, Phil, I love them.

Speaker 3 (01:16:44):
It's not just the flimsy the usual person.

Speaker 5 (01:16:46):
I need to go adhesives.

Speaker 3 (01:16:48):
Yes, working on a remover.

Speaker 5 (01:16:51):
Tell me what you needed to remove.

Speaker 3 (01:16:54):
Period.

Speaker 5 (01:16:54):
I got you, Yeah, I got you. It's just her
nails that we felt that was thick.

Speaker 1 (01:16:59):
That's it. Just calm here, all right.

Speaker 4 (01:17:06):
Therapy wasn't enough. Getting now and I are always such
a pleasure to talk to you.

Speaker 5 (01:17:12):
Let's tap back in. I want to get a nose
ring too, now actually looking at yours.

Speaker 3 (01:17:16):
Sure, yeah, So it's an artistic expression.

Speaker 5 (01:17:19):
Cheers, it's lip servers.

Speaker 3 (01:17:20):
Cheers, Thank you, ladies,