July 12, 2025 • 36 mins
Part 1
One of our listeners decided his goal was to bring the magic of RomComs to his dating life...Now we need to help him finish his love story!
Part 2
The guy on the phone says one text before the date started changed their ENTIRE NIGHT—Find out what it was in your Second Date Update.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What's up. We're giving you a little extra fun always
on a Saturday. Hey, it's working Jeffrey in the morning,
and you found the podcast, uh huh. And today we
give you two double classics, with the idea being that
maybe on the weekend you need something a little bit
longer to get your life finished. Whether it's chores. I
know a lot of people listen to a lot of
chores or they're falling asleep. Yeah, we get a lot
(00:21):
of both of those, yes, yep, or drive in whatever
it is. And we love reading your comments.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Oh yes, and this listener also listens to us when
they do something else. They said, you have a listener
in Columbia. I'm always listening to you guys when walking
my dogs, and I look a little funny when laughing
out loud while crossing the streets in Columbia.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Do your dogs, jah joh John laugh along with you?
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Right?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Oh my god, that's one of the most beautiful countries.
That's awesome. Thank you so much. Ysting wherever you are
and enjoy the next two classic second date updates.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
The most disappointing thing about a good rom com is
knowing that relation ships aren't like that. In real life.
I mean, when I've been walking down the street and
like a gorgeous woman has only tripped and fallen directly
into my arms like four or five.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Times or never, Jeff.
Speaker 5 (01:14):
And then there was that one time I accidentally swapped
bodies with a thirteen year old in a lightning storm.
I moved, I became a kid for a week while
they dated my girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
That's kind of weird. Yeah, But other than that, never
never happened, never never becomes reality now.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
But today one of our listeners decided his goal was
to bring the magic of rom coms to his dating life,
and he went all out with it. You're gonna hear
it in your second Date update right after this Second
Date updated. Man, we've been hearing from our listeners, especially
in the last couple of years, that the dating landscape
(01:52):
is more bleak than ever.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
But like this is the theme song for it, Jeff.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
We know what I do. Appreciate the guys out there
who aren't backing down and aren't giving up. For sure,
it's tough for them to land a date, but when
they do, they get creative with it. I love that,
like a dumpster diving dinner date.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
We did have that Yeah, that was misguided effort.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
But unique or a blindfolded romantic trust walk across a freeway.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
Nothing brings you together like that type of experience.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
You're very far apart depending on who gets hit, well,
it'll bring you together in the same hospital room.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
And one of our listeners, Ben said he went creative
with his date idea and before we even hear it,
Brook's gonna give her sign of approval just for trying.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Whenever you ask for my approval before I hear something,
it's usually because something is not a good idea.
Speaker 5 (02:51):
I don't even know what the date it is.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
You don't, okay, then I think it's good for you.
Speaker 6 (02:54):
Ben.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
I love the Yeah, sorry, I thought I was getting
tricked by free That happens a lot on the show.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
That you don't trust any Mann.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
No, I just don't trust him.
Speaker 6 (03:06):
It's true.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
We want to hear what was this creative date idea
that you came up with.
Speaker 6 (03:10):
So in order to understand this date, you kind of
have to understand, like how we bonded. Okay, So Amanda
and I we met on an app and we bonded
over movies, like we both really love movies.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
If you were about to say you took her to
the movie theater and that's the strange part hang up
on him.
Speaker 6 (03:31):
But yeah, so I had this idea that our first
date would be like a movie theme a.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Movie theme date, not going to the movies, but movie theme.
Speaker 5 (03:40):
What does that mean?
Speaker 7 (03:42):
All right?
Speaker 6 (03:42):
Well, I thought about it. I wanted to have something
to be memorable, and so I thought, well I could,
maybe we could. I could pick a movie where we
had that experience in date for him.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
Okay, okay, so you did Air Force one together and
hijack the plane.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
That's fine.
Speaker 6 (03:58):
Yeah, well yeah, I was thinking like date movies, but
I like your ideas too, But what did you go with?
I decided to do like different movie scenes because I
couldn't think of a whole movie from start to finish
make a good date.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Okay, so what'd you pick?
Speaker 5 (04:12):
The recreating famous date movie scenes.
Speaker 6 (04:15):
Like iconic scenes from movies like for example, the first
thing we did was we had a Shrek themed picnic.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Okay, I think that's a cute thing.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
Of course, Brook thinks a swamp date is cute as.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Long as she figures out the movie associated with it.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
She got it.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
She got it right away. Well, it helped. I was
talking like Shrek too, you know, it's doing my Shrek voice.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
So what was next? What happened after the Shrek Picnic?
Speaker 6 (04:44):
Then I wanted to do like an activity and it
was this pottery studio right around the corner from the pond.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Like Patrick Swayze ghosts what.
Speaker 6 (04:53):
You're saying, that's exactly it. So we had the potter wheel.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
And well, hold on, did you die and come back
as a ghost first? In order to do this problem?
Speaker 6 (05:03):
No, I kept my shirt on.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
You didn't awkwardly go behind her, did you?
Speaker 6 (05:10):
Maybe I did, but you know it's a weird or
I think.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
What was her response?
Speaker 7 (05:18):
So?
Speaker 6 (05:18):
I think she said, are you really doing this?
Speaker 7 (05:22):
Said?
Speaker 6 (05:23):
Yeah, I mean all right.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Are you really doing this? As in like, wow, this
is impressive? Are you seriously going through this much effort?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Tone is going to be really important on that sentence,
and unfortunately we cannot rect.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
I'm going to assume that she loved it, so I
thought she was.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
I thought she was into it. She even said that
Ghost was one of her favorite movies.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
So she told so she said, to.
Speaker 5 (05:49):
Take us to the third and final love scene. What
was the movie? You went with there.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
So at the end, I had a couple of options.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
Okay, let her choose.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
So I told her, like, we could do the dirty
dance thing lift.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Are you even physically capable of that?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
I think I could take her?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
I think, did you really leaning into these? Patrick Swayze? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (06:14):
What was the other option?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
You know what?
Speaker 6 (06:16):
What I thought would be really really cool special moment
is the upside down kiss from Spider Man. Oh wow,
I thought that would be the perfect way to end
off the scene.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
How would you do that?
Speaker 5 (06:32):
Hould her upside down?
Speaker 6 (06:34):
There was a tree out there with a branch there.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
It is did you really hang upside down from a tree?
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Which one did she choose?
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Actually, she didn't choose either one of those?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Probably for the best.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
What she recommended that we do the handshake scene from
Wolf of Wall Street.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Oh I don't know, I remember.
Speaker 7 (06:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
In other words, she just gave me a handshake, very
firm handshake.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
All right, So is that how you guys left it?
With a firm handshake?
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Yeah? Yeah, that was it. And she thanked me for
the dates. That was really cool and thoughtful, And and
I told her I'd like to see her again, and
she said, yeah, let's see if we can make that happen.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
We just went over a list of things that people
say that they don't really mean, and that was one
of the top ones.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Somebody, we'll totally get together. Yeah, sure, have you contacted her?
Speaker 6 (07:27):
I texted her and I messaged her in the app,
and I haven't heard from well, I haven't heard back
from her, And so that's why I was hoping that
you guys can help me hook up that Spider Man kiss.
Speaker 7 (07:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I mean you put in a lot of effort. Whether
or not we agree that they were great ideas or not,
just the effort alone is worth another shot.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
You're even this. He's on a radio show to get
her back.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
It should be Oh, is that sleepless sleepless in Seattle?
She calls into a radio show. She does, We're going
to go full sleepless on this girl when we do
your second date up dates.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
I do kind of remember that.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
Now we're gonna hook you up on top of the
Empire State Building when we do.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
At least the end is definitely Empire State Building a
new movie. I mean, you haven't seen it.
Speaker 5 (08:12):
No, Alexis, leave the room. We're gonna do a second
date update right after this second date update. Three romantic
movie scenes recreated in one very steamy.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Date because the pond next to them love.
Speaker 5 (08:31):
Them moisture coming up from that.
Speaker 7 (08:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
Our listener Bend bonded with a woman named Amanda over
their shared love of cinema, so he thought it'd be
fun to recreate the swamp picnic from the Shrek movie.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
It's actually really cute.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
The pottery scene from Ghost, and after she rejected the
upside down Spider Man kiss, they settled on a regular handshake.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Okay, very business like Wolf of Wall Street.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
That's right hot. Now did something been in the middle
of all that stuff? Because those movie scenes sounded really great?
But Ben, I need to ask you. When you were
reaching around her at the pottery place, you were feeling normal? Right?
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Oh god?
Speaker 6 (09:13):
Jeff oh yeah, yeah, what you mean?
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Brook?
Speaker 5 (09:17):
You know how these go? I mean we had asked
that question, but you understand the physical reaction that pottery
has on a man. When you stick your hands into
that clay. You can't control what your body does.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
It does for me, what happened in your art class
in high school? Jeffrey, I don't want to know.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
Well, I'll ask my art teacher to send you the
video if you're really that interesting the videos. Yes, Ben,
it was all kosher in the pottery place.
Speaker 6 (09:47):
It was just pottery.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Okay, that's the best answer. Pottery is really hard. Yeah,
like I've taken a pottery class before.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
I think a lot of us are feeling hot right now?
Speaker 1 (10:06):
Do you not say anything?
Speaker 7 (10:07):
That's right?
Speaker 5 (10:08):
Let's get more people in on this action. Were dialing
Amanda right now here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking
to speak with Amanda. Is she Hey Amanda, my name
is jeff You're on the radio right now with a
(10:29):
show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Hey Amanda, Oh, Amanda, good morning.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
Don't hang up.
Speaker 7 (10:35):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
Hi, you're pretty chill. She's cool.
Speaker 7 (10:41):
What's up.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
We're doing a segment called a second Date Update, which
is where we try and help out our listeners after
they've gone out with somebody and they'd like to see
them again, try and figure out if there's a reason
why the second meetup hasn't happened yet.
Speaker 7 (10:56):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 5 (10:58):
And so the guy that reached out to us about you,
his name is Ben. Okay, yeah, does that make sense?
Speaker 7 (11:07):
That does make sense?
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (11:09):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Cool.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
So basically, we have heard from Ben about your guys,
is recreate a movie date.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
He put a lot of thought and energy into it
because he was really excited about you.
Speaker 8 (11:22):
Yeah, so I don't know how many details he gave you.
Speaker 7 (11:27):
A lot.
Speaker 5 (11:28):
We heard Shrek Ghost and then you guys settled on
a Wolf of Wall Street thing.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Oh yeah, and shake at the end.
Speaker 9 (11:35):
Okay, which was your right let me yes ghast pottery,
which was very like creative and cute, and I did
like that.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
Yeah, but he.
Speaker 8 (11:46):
Had told me that the last thing was going to
be a surprise. He wasn't going to like tell me
until the end. And he kept bringing up during the
other dates, like you know, we could stop this right
now and just do pretty woman.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Pretty woman, Oh where he pays you for your services?
Speaker 9 (12:06):
Yeah, where he's a businessman and she's a hooker.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
You know, he wanted to be the person who took
you shopping. That's probably what he.
Speaker 5 (12:17):
Meant, a hook Yeah, she's very respectable in that movie.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
But he wanted to kiss. They don't kiss a pretty woman.
Speaker 9 (12:25):
Even if even if he did mean I want to
take you shopping, that's a strange thing for a first date,
and like it was already pretty elaborate, you guys. It
was the first date, Like, I just met this guy.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
So wait, you're upset that he brought up pretty Woman
because that made you feel used? Is that what it is?
Speaker 8 (12:42):
It just was a little oogie Okay, his intentions didn't
feel great.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
But ogre swamp picnic felt right to you.
Speaker 9 (12:52):
It was multiple references to that, you guys.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Yeah, I see what you're feeling. Young people call it
the from Okay, I think.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Very similar.
Speaker 7 (13:09):
Before that.
Speaker 5 (13:12):
When I don't want to like bring up any more
icky ug feelings, but I do need to tell you
that Ben is on the other line right now listening
to this conversation, and he does want to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
Beny there, I am here, and let me tell you
I feel exactly like the guys from Dude, where's my car?
Right now?
Speaker 1 (13:34):
What does that mean? You're hungover?
Speaker 7 (13:36):
On your back, you're high?
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Like, what do you mean that?
Speaker 6 (13:43):
Like, I'm just totally confused, you know.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Confused or something that you know liked confused in the title.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
Why are you so confused?
Speaker 6 (13:54):
Well, I just had no idea, Like so when I
suggested pretty Woman, I mean I was thinking about like
the romance element you know, like the fact that these
two people like really hit it off and fell in love.
I forgot she was a prostitute. That's not why I
was bringing that up.
Speaker 5 (14:09):
Yeah, that's the whole plot of the movie.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
You could have chosen something better.
Speaker 6 (14:14):
Well, it definitely was not my intention. I was not
trying to imply that you were a prostitute in any way.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
You have to say that after it's always a good things,
not try to imply that.
Speaker 7 (14:32):
Okay, I totally get it.
Speaker 5 (14:35):
Are you hearing him, Amanda? Do you see where he's
coming from.
Speaker 7 (14:39):
I don't know how you forget that part?
Speaker 3 (14:43):
Yeah, escort thing.
Speaker 7 (14:44):
Yeah, that's kind of the key.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
So wait, are you not believing him, Amanda? Is that
the issue?
Speaker 8 (14:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (14:54):
I guess not.
Speaker 5 (14:56):
Well, you got to look on the bright side, Amand
at least he didn't bring up Silence of the Lambs. Yeah,
thank you and turn you into.
Speaker 9 (15:02):
There was no less nor skin like, there were no
buckets involved in the date.
Speaker 7 (15:07):
I appreciate.
Speaker 5 (15:08):
Okay, see now we're thinking, we're thinking positive here.
Speaker 6 (15:12):
I also kind of meant it as a compliment because
I think you are a pretty woman.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
That's what Alexis just said. You can hear what she's
saying too.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
So this is a little bit awkward.
Speaker 6 (15:22):
Right now, A little yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
But the way that we can make this all better
is if Amanda, you're willing to give Ben one more
chance at another date. You could pick any other movie
scene that you want to do, or just a non movie.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
You could do a do over and do fifty first
dates you know where he forgets every.
Speaker 5 (15:40):
Time, So we're fifty shades of first date, you know.
Speaker 7 (15:49):
So if you guys are going to send us to Hawaii,
then I'm in.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
But I have the money.
Speaker 5 (15:54):
Yeah, well we'll pay for the taxi to the airport,
then you handle the rest. So Ben, do you have
another date idea? If she says yes, well.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Does it have to be movies?
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (16:06):
Yes, Well, I mean that's how they bonded.
Speaker 6 (16:08):
Movies are kind of our thing.
Speaker 7 (16:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (16:10):
I mean, i'd really like to do like a basic instinct.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
That's like a scary stalker, isn't it.
Speaker 5 (16:20):
He meant it as like she's pretty.
Speaker 6 (16:23):
She's beautiful, beautiful.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 5 (16:32):
Ben, I'm gonna ask you again, maybe try something different,
maybe a little bit more romantic this time.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
You started with Shrek Dude, some.
Speaker 5 (16:41):
Cute what movie do you have in mind for that
second date, Bud.
Speaker 6 (16:44):
I'll be honest, I keep thinking about this and how
but I don't know how we could turn it into
a date. But my favorite movie is Pulp Fiction. It's
a dance scene, the swing.
Speaker 5 (16:58):
Dance scene, all right, you know, Ben, I think just
a Harry Potter dy like, what are you guys doing?
Speaker 8 (17:02):
Ben?
Speaker 5 (17:03):
I think your heart is in the right place, for sure,
but your mind is.
Speaker 6 (17:07):
I mean, I just like a lot of movies.
Speaker 5 (17:09):
I just like your mind is scaring her though, Ben?
Speaker 1 (17:12):
So is she even on the phone.
Speaker 5 (17:14):
I don't know, Amanda. Are you still there?
Speaker 7 (17:16):
Yeah? I'm not sure why.
Speaker 5 (17:20):
Well, Amanda, I'm sorry for all of this, but best
of luck in the dating pool. Ben, you got a
lot of work to do. Yeah, Man, I go away
from movies.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Maybe stick with coms, dude, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (17:35):
Yeah, I can try that. I guess. I am really
super disappointed, though. I did put a lot of work
into that, and that's that's I don't know if she remembers,
but my outfit at the picnic was very reminiscent of Shrek,
and I just, you know, I feel like I should
give credit.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Ben.
Speaker 5 (17:50):
The good news is a lot of single women are
hearing this right.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Now, And.
Speaker 8 (17:58):
Yeah, Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5 (18:03):
You know what, that could have been a really sweet
second date, so close to rom com perfection, but he
ended up being weird.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
Yeah, yeah, I mean it wasn't subtle like I see
a slipping in movies.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
There, But I mean, and she tried, she tried to
like it, she tried to get on with it, and
then she's like, no, my gut is telling me that
something's something's off.
Speaker 5 (18:28):
You know what. I do believe there is a woman
out there somewhere right now thinking when is a guy
finally gonna treat me like a high priced I deserve that.
That's my dream.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Yeah, I'm trying to relate a little more.
Speaker 5 (18:47):
I'm telling you somebody out there for everybody, and we
can help you find them. Email the show. We can
call that person who's not calling you back and go
check out all of our second dates wherever you get
your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5 (19:01):
It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. And don't you
hate it when you're having a normal conversation with someone
that you're interested in and then out of the blue
they say, yeah, I had a good weekend too, other
than getting arrested for selling smuggled gin chillas on the
black market. Other than that, totally normal. I mean, it's
hard to know how to react properly to something that's shocking. True.
(19:26):
That's exactly how our listener Vincent felt when he got
a text from his date right before they were supposed
to go out, and immediately it changed everything. You're gonna
find out what she said in your second date update
right after this second date update. Does it change your mentality?
If you're going out on a date with someone and
(19:48):
you find out they went to Harvard versus like a
community college or something or school, I gotta tell a whole.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Different set of jokes on today.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
I imagine immediately trust fund kid.
Speaker 5 (19:59):
Yeah is that bad?
Speaker 1 (20:01):
I was smart, but I was completes.
Speaker 5 (20:06):
I see where you're coming from. Like if I matched
with a woman who was a Harvard grad, I know
what I'm thinking. What she can do my Texas? I
got to bring my Quicken to the restaurant so that
she can take care of that for me while she
handles our bill. Here's my one nine form.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
Can you help.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
How many jobs you you know, they still have communications
majors there, right.
Speaker 5 (20:28):
I don't believe it, but now, seriously, it is possible
to get a little intimidated before the date even happens.
And apparently that was the case for one of our listeners, Vincent,
But it had nothing to do with the school that
she attended. Vincent, what did you get intimidated by?
Speaker 9 (20:45):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (20:45):
Y'all?
Speaker 4 (20:46):
So, uh, I met this girl on an app Blair,
and she texted me beforehand that she was going to
be running late because she had a therapy session that
was going along.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Okay, oh that's actually a good thing.
Speaker 4 (20:59):
So well, so I replied, are you in therapy? And
she said, no, she's the therapist.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
Oh I am so with you. Oh boy.
Speaker 5 (21:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
I have friends that are therapists, and every time I
leave a conversation, I'm like, they were judging me. I
just know it.
Speaker 3 (21:17):
And we're talking to a girl on tender Ones and
she's like, yeah, I'm a therapist, but don't worry, I
won't analyze you. And I'm like, yeah, right, you will.
Speaker 5 (21:25):
Is that how you felt, Vincent?
Speaker 7 (21:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (21:27):
I mean, you guys hit the nail on the head.
Speaker 7 (21:29):
I was.
Speaker 4 (21:29):
I was immediately nervous because she was going to be
you know, smart and analytical. And I actually changed the location.
I text her a different address to like a nicer,
more upscale boll.
Speaker 5 (21:44):
She knows she's not just breaking down you as a person,
She's breaking down all of the choices that you make too.
So probably a good call.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
So funny. Did it make you more nervous?
Speaker 4 (21:55):
Oh for sure? Yeah. I mean I actually started to
feel hyper aware. And I think I just like say,
sat and everything I was saying, and I just think
I came off weird.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
Okay, you were.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
Uncomfortable, so you still did go out on the date?
Speaker 4 (22:07):
Then? Uh, yeah, we met in person and she was
really beautiful and nice and like very warm.
Speaker 1 (22:14):
Okay, and did you get an invoice for your session?
Speaker 4 (22:18):
Well, she actually made a joke just like that. She
said I was listening a lot and she was talking
and maybe she should pay me.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
That's a big compliment.
Speaker 5 (22:29):
Were you like trying to be really listening and attentive
to her? Was that an accident an accident or it could.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Be just how he is as a person. I feel
like it's out of fear that she'll notice any red.
Speaker 5 (22:41):
Sometimes I go in like wanting to be super confident,
and then I say nothing, and I'm like, oops, is
that the case?
Speaker 4 (22:47):
I did try to listen more than I spoke, but
then as soon as she called it out and I
opened up a little bit more. And then if I'm
being honest, and then I started to like talk about
my own childhood. I had no idea how I got
into it.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
No, I mean, okay, but childhood can be a common
topic on a first date, right like where you grew
up and.
Speaker 3 (23:06):
Or if you were bothing, like self deprecating, and I go,
what was the vibe?
Speaker 4 (23:09):
Yeah, although I would say something that I think was
like self deprecating and she'd inquire more about it.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
Oh, you wanted to laugh there?
Speaker 3 (23:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
So anyway, I just sort of feel like, maybe if
I had been less worried and just more relaxed, and
if you're.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
So intimidated by or do you want to go out
with her again, like you think you can get rid
of those nerves.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
Maybe maybe after one date the nerves are gone and
now you.
Speaker 5 (23:35):
Feel like you're comfortable.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
I honestly wish I could do a redo, because I
really think that if I just took myself out of
the equation.
Speaker 5 (23:41):
We would have a nice time, Okay.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
If I wasn't there, it would have been fantastic.
Speaker 5 (23:46):
So I don't want to think this for you. But
is it possible that maybe you said too much about
your childhood and the things you were into and the
animals used to cut up and sew back together.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
As long as they were already dead. Yeah, well my
uncle put a zipper on a squirrel once, serial killer.
Speaker 5 (24:08):
Not the right person. A second, I'm saying, do you
think you you delved too deep into your own childhood
with her?
Speaker 4 (24:16):
I don't think so. There's no squirrels with zippers in
my past.
Speaker 5 (24:20):
Okay, Well it could be a totally different reason. How
long has it been since you talked to her about
a week ago?
Speaker 1 (24:30):
I mean, honestly, she's a career woman. Maybe she's just
too busy. She's not even no one's.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Too busy to text them one they like sorry.
Speaker 4 (24:38):
I'm just saying, yeah, that's sort of what I'm thinking too,
because I've asked her if she wants to go out
again and shook it back to me, but she won't
actually answer the going out part.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
Oh, but she's so good at mine tricks.
Speaker 5 (24:50):
Yeah, Harvard, Well, I'm excited to go mono emano with
her on the phone and maybe get myself some free therapy.
If she's up for it, about on her.
Speaker 3 (25:00):
And break her down live on the air. She's gonna cry.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
I wonder she takes our company's insurance.
Speaker 5 (25:05):
Okay, we're gonna ask her. I hope you're cool with that, Vincent.
We're gonna take care of ourselves first and then try
and get you a second date update right after this.
Speaker 4 (25:14):
Thanks, guys, whatever works.
Speaker 5 (25:15):
I'm up for man hold on second date update if
you're just joining us, our listener. Vincent thinks he may
have psyched himself out right before his first date started.
Sounds like it because earlier that day he learned that
Blair is a professional therapist, and that made him feel anxious,
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a little hesitant, worried that she might be super analytical
of him. He should have felt excited, though.
Speaker 3 (25:43):
Really, I think everybody agreed that it was a little.
Speaker 5 (25:45):
Well, I've never had a therapy session end with my
pants still on, although.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Oh my god, that's not a good sign.
Speaker 5 (25:53):
Well I do pay extra for it, so anyway, there's
a word therapy somewhere in there. His though his date
ended fully clothed with a little bit of oversharing into
his childhood past, so she wishes that he could get
a redo on the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
I think we've all been there where your mouth is
just spewing out words and your head is.
Speaker 5 (26:14):
Like, no, don't say that, Vincent. If Blair does pick
up here, we're not gonna mention that her job like
affected your mindset for the date. We don't want her
to know that.
Speaker 1 (26:28):
Oh really, I don't think it'd be good to be
honest with a therapists used to it everybody. It seems
like she'd understands.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
Well at least. We don't want to offer that up
right off the bat.
Speaker 6 (26:37):
I'll give you that.
Speaker 5 (26:38):
Let's see how she felt about the date first. Are
you cool with that?
Speaker 4 (26:41):
Vince?
Speaker 7 (26:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (26:43):
Whatever the play is.
Speaker 5 (26:45):
Okay, play out.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
I mean the thing is, are you ready to be
cool because eventually you will be on the phone with
We don't need any more childhood stories, okay, or save
an embarrassing one and toss it in there for us.
Speaker 5 (27:04):
We're down for a little bit of juice. So we're
gonna dial Blair right now. We'll see if she picks up.
Good luck to us all here. We go. Hello, Hi,
we're looking to speak with Blair.
Speaker 7 (27:21):
Yes, this is her.
Speaker 5 (27:22):
Hey Blair, how you doing today?
Speaker 7 (27:25):
I'm doing well? How are you?
Speaker 5 (27:27):
Thanks? Morning?
Speaker 1 (27:28):
Hey Blair. Welcome to the show show.
Speaker 7 (27:32):
Who is this?
Speaker 5 (27:33):
Yeah? This is a radio show. We're called Brooke and
Jeffrey in the Morning. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (27:39):
Ah, oh okay. What can I help you with?
Speaker 5 (27:41):
Well, we have a lot of problems and we're hoping
that you could work through them with us. You've got
to pick one of us because it's gonna be.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
A long time.
Speaker 5 (27:48):
But there is actually a really big issue that we're
looking to fix today right now on the phone with
one of our listeners, that you went on a date
with named Vincent.
Speaker 7 (27:58):
Ah oh okay, this is very fascinating. Why would he
contact you?
Speaker 5 (28:04):
Well, because he really had a good time with you
and he was hoping to see you again for another date,
but that hasn't materialized yet, so he isn't sure if
there's a reason why.
Speaker 7 (28:16):
Yeah, how can I help?
Speaker 5 (28:18):
Well, maybe we could just start with what was your
take on the date with Vincent? How did you feel
about it?
Speaker 7 (28:24):
It was fine? It fine seems like a good word
for it. He's beemed like a pleasant guy.
Speaker 5 (28:29):
It was fine. Isn't usually a good word?
Speaker 3 (28:32):
He well, that's why was there anything bad that happened?
That's a good question.
Speaker 7 (28:36):
I mean he was a little nervous, but aren't we
all when we're first meeting somebody, And.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
That could actually be kind of endearing because it means
that he cares.
Speaker 5 (28:44):
Right, it's you get nervous when you meet people too.
Sometimes she never gets nervous.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Bro have any issues?
Speaker 3 (28:57):
Us issues?
Speaker 7 (28:59):
I see, So he told you what I do for
a living.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
Yeah is that okay?
Speaker 7 (29:04):
Yeah, of course he knows I'm a therapist, but he
probably doesn't know I'm a past life regression therapist.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
What's that?
Speaker 6 (29:13):
What is that?
Speaker 5 (29:14):
What?
Speaker 7 (29:15):
I help individuals access memories or experienced from previous lifetime
to address current emotional and psychological, spiritual She's like unlocked.
Speaker 5 (29:27):
No, because I've heard of people when they breakthroughs, they'll
be like, I unlocked his memory for She's talking about
like you were a king in the sixteen hundred.
Speaker 3 (29:36):
Waits therapy for other lives.
Speaker 5 (29:39):
Yes, how that affects who you are in this new life?
Speaker 3 (29:44):
She almost got my money. I would have signed up immediately.
Speaker 5 (29:47):
Okay, well, let's be polite. This is her career.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
Sorry I didn't understand fully.
Speaker 5 (29:51):
Okay, so that's my apology. We we did not know that.
Speaker 7 (29:54):
Some people don't understand it. But it is something I've
been practicing for over a decade.
Speaker 5 (29:59):
Okay, we did not know that specific We just heard therapist. Yes, okay.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
So what does that have to do though, with why
you aren't calling him back? Well or you just explaining
that to us.
Speaker 7 (30:12):
I usually don't have a personal connection to people that
I date, but in this case I did. I was
home and really thought about it. And I know this
is going to sound silly. I believe in a past
life he was my dog.
Speaker 5 (30:36):
Was your dog in a previous lifetime.
Speaker 7 (30:39):
I know what I know.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
How did you come to that realization? Walk us through
the steps?
Speaker 7 (30:45):
I had many memories of rubbing his belly, him licking
me like a dog. And I know it sounds silly,
but what a coincidence. I mean this is I've been
doing this a long time and I knew I felt
some sort of connection and I couldn't figure it out.
Speaker 3 (31:04):
He's such a good boy. He found you all timelines.
Speaker 5 (31:08):
He found you again.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
So is dating your past dog off off the table?
Speaker 5 (31:15):
Because Brooks hometown that's encouraged.
Speaker 7 (31:17):
I know you're having fun with this and it seems weird. Well,
but what do I say, Like, how do I tell
him I can't date him? He was once my dog?
Speaker 1 (31:26):
I say, to your credit, you have been a really
good sport with us.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
Yeah, and we can tell you're not messing with us.
Speaker 5 (31:33):
The good news is you don't have to figure out
how to tell him, because you already have. He's actually
on the other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 3 (31:43):
Good, very well behaved.
Speaker 5 (31:46):
During this entire thing. Vincent, are you there?
Speaker 4 (31:49):
This is truly not where I thought.
Speaker 6 (31:51):
This was.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
None of us.
Speaker 5 (31:57):
Okay, talk to your previous owner. Say, hi, I'm Blair.
Speaker 4 (32:03):
So you're saying that you had like visions that I
was your dog in another life.
Speaker 7 (32:10):
Yes, there's been multiple visions of me walking you around
in a farm. Yeah, you didn't feel the connection either.
Speaker 4 (32:20):
I mean, I didn't put two and two together with
a dog.
Speaker 5 (32:24):
Blair. Do you have like a century or a decade
when this previous life happened.
Speaker 7 (32:30):
Yes, this is way back. This is the eighteen hundreds.
Speaker 5 (32:34):
Oh oh look at that.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
So yeah, a working dog at that point.
Speaker 4 (32:38):
You know, how come I'm a dog and you're a
human in these visions. It was I not a human before.
Speaker 7 (32:44):
There's nothing wrong with being a dog. I mean, animals
are such a sacred part of our living, and it's
just it's not something that you were once my dog.
It's not something I now I will feel like I'm
walking the fields to you every time I see you.
It's not something I want to have in my romantic relationships.
Speaker 5 (33:05):
It's not that he was a dog in a past life.
It's that he was your dog, Okay, because.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
You already had that connection.
Speaker 5 (33:18):
Trying to figure out where we go from, Vincent, this
all makes sense to you, right, Really, that's the question, Brook.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
I need to see where his head is at, which
tail is wagging? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (33:29):
Are you understanding what she's saying?
Speaker 4 (33:31):
I'm hearing it. I don't know if I'm understanding that.
Speaker 1 (33:35):
Your first question not what type of dog? But you
can I mean, I've been thinking about that too, but
I don't know what was popular back in the eighteen hundreds.
Maybe espaniel, cattle dog, cat dog, cat Okay, yeah, energy
those dogs.
Speaker 5 (33:51):
Vincent, you can understand where she's coming from. If you
were in her position, you wouldn't want to date a
woman who had previously been your fish or your cat
or something, right, that'd be.
Speaker 4 (34:01):
This whole thing is weird. It's hard to believe.
Speaker 3 (34:04):
Yeah, yeah, what do you want to say.
Speaker 7 (34:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (34:06):
I want to date in my old cat.
Speaker 1 (34:08):
Come on, I mean, if you look at it from
the other perspective, right, Like dog is man's best friend,
he's loyal, Like these are all good qualities in a relationship.
Speaker 5 (34:19):
This is Brook advocating for a human dog.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
Yeah, trying, oh yeah, for her to give him a chance.
Speaker 4 (34:25):
Thank you Brook.
Speaker 5 (34:27):
Okay, so, Vincent, you're still interested in dating Blair even
though previously you used to be her pet.
Speaker 4 (34:33):
I mean allegedly if I was her pet, I have
no memory of it.
Speaker 1 (34:37):
Well until you go through a session with her.
Speaker 7 (34:39):
Yeah, I can absolutely help you with that. We can
book a session right now.
Speaker 5 (34:46):
Well yeah, that's great, But what we're interested in booking
is a date. If you're willing to give Vincent another shot.
Speaker 4 (34:53):
Listen, you said we had a pleasant time. You really
don't think we can get past this.
Speaker 7 (34:58):
I would love to have a connection, but I don't
think it's best that we date.
Speaker 5 (35:04):
But maybe she'd be willing to play fetch in the
park with you. One time, I.
Speaker 1 (35:08):
Would know what we all wear in a past life.
Speaker 4 (35:10):
I bet no.
Speaker 5 (35:12):
I think you were probably a parrot jose.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5 (35:21):
Man as a dude. I thought being friend zoned is bad,
but being pet zoned that's way worse.
Speaker 1 (35:28):
Do you call it past life zoned?
Speaker 3 (35:30):
A paste zone?
Speaker 5 (35:32):
Oh? It is brutal and there and there's nothing that
you can even say as a guy in that position.
Whether you believe it or not, it doesn't matter. In
her mind. You're always just going to be that pet
that she owned two hundred years ago on that farm.
Speaker 3 (35:47):
Dude has been trying to hump her leg for hundreds
of years.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
It's like, it's enough to know about somebody's current life.
Speaker 5 (35:56):
Let alone all bringing on the baggage from all their
not to make a successful doctor.
Speaker 3 (36:02):
And she's like, yeah, but you were like a goat
in the fourteen hundred. Yeah, don't get ahead of yourself.
Speaker 1 (36:07):
I saw you eat garbage.
Speaker 5 (36:09):
It's gonna be a tough road for her and for him,
but we're always here to help either of them if
they need help going forward, or you you can always
email the show. We'll call that person who isn't calling you.
Back and go check out all of our second dates
wherever you get your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey
What's up. We're giving you a little extra fun always
on a Saturday. Hey, it's working Jeffrey in the morning,
and you found the podcast, uh huh. And today we
give you two double classics, with the idea being that
maybe on the weekend you need something a little bit
longer to get your life finished. Whether it's chores. I
know a lot of people listen to a lot of
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of both of those, yes, yep, or drive in whatever
it is. And we love reading your comments.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
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they do something else. They said, you have a listener
in Columbia. I'm always listening to you guys when walking
my dogs, and I look a little funny when laughing
out loud while crossing the streets in Columbia.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Do your dogs, jah joh John laugh along with you?
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Right?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Oh my god, that's one of the most beautiful countries.
That's awesome. Thank you so much. Ysting wherever you are
and enjoy the next two classic second date updates.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
The most disappointing thing about a good rom com is
knowing that relation ships aren't like that. In real life.
I mean, when I've been walking down the street and
like a gorgeous woman has only tripped and fallen directly
into my arms like four or five.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Times or never, Jeff.
Speaker 5 (01:14):
And then there was that one time I accidentally swapped
bodies with a thirteen year old in a lightning storm.
I moved, I became a kid for a week while
they dated my girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
That's kind of weird. Yeah, But other than that, never
never happened, never never becomes reality now.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
But today one of our listeners decided his goal was
to bring the magic of rom coms to his dating life,
and he went all out with it. You're gonna hear
it in your second Date update right after this Second
Date updated. Man, we've been hearing from our listeners, especially
in the last couple of years, that the dating landscape
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is more bleak than ever.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
But like this is the theme song for it, Jeff.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
We know what I do. Appreciate the guys out there
who aren't backing down and aren't giving up. For sure,
it's tough for them to land a date, but when
they do, they get creative with it. I love that,
like a dumpster diving dinner date.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
We did have that Yeah, that was misguided effort.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
But unique or a blindfolded romantic trust walk across a freeway.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
Nothing brings you together like that type of experience.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
You're very far apart depending on who gets hit, well,
it'll bring you together in the same hospital room.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
And one of our listeners, Ben said he went creative
with his date idea and before we even hear it,
Brook's gonna give her sign of approval just for trying.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Whenever you ask for my approval before I hear something,
it's usually because something is not a good idea.
Speaker 5 (02:51):
I don't even know what the date it is.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
You don't, okay, then I think it's good for you.
Speaker 6 (02:54):
Ben.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
I love the Yeah, sorry, I thought I was getting
tricked by free That happens a lot on the show.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
That you don't trust any Mann.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
No, I just don't trust him.
Speaker 6 (03:06):
It's true.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
We want to hear what was this creative date idea
that you came up with.
Speaker 6 (03:10):
So in order to understand this date, you kind of
have to understand, like how we bonded. Okay, So Amanda
and I we met on an app and we bonded
over movies, like we both really love movies.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
If you were about to say you took her to
the movie theater and that's the strange part hang up
on him.
Speaker 6 (03:31):
But yeah, so I had this idea that our first
date would be like a movie theme a.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Movie theme date, not going to the movies, but movie theme.
Speaker 5 (03:40):
What does that mean?
Speaker 7 (03:42):
All right?
Speaker 6 (03:42):
Well, I thought about it. I wanted to have something
to be memorable, and so I thought, well I could,
maybe we could. I could pick a movie where we
had that experience in date for him.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
Okay, okay, so you did Air Force one together and
hijack the plane.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
That's fine.
Speaker 6 (03:58):
Yeah, well yeah, I was thinking like date movies, but
I like your ideas too, But what did you go with?
I decided to do like different movie scenes because I
couldn't think of a whole movie from start to finish
make a good date.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Okay, so what'd you pick?
Speaker 5 (04:12):
The recreating famous date movie scenes.
Speaker 6 (04:15):
Like iconic scenes from movies like for example, the first
thing we did was we had a Shrek themed picnic.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Okay, I think that's a cute thing.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
Of course, Brook thinks a swamp date is cute as.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Long as she figures out the movie associated with it.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
She got it.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
She got it right away. Well, it helped. I was
talking like Shrek too, you know, it's doing my Shrek voice.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
So what was next? What happened after the Shrek Picnic?
Speaker 6 (04:44):
Then I wanted to do like an activity and it
was this pottery studio right around the corner from the pond.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Like Patrick Swayze ghosts what.
Speaker 6 (04:53):
You're saying, that's exactly it. So we had the potter wheel.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
And well, hold on, did you die and come back
as a ghost first? In order to do this problem?
Speaker 6 (05:03):
No, I kept my shirt on.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
You didn't awkwardly go behind her, did you?
Speaker 6 (05:10):
Maybe I did, but you know it's a weird or
I think.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
What was her response?
Speaker 7 (05:18):
So?
Speaker 6 (05:18):
I think she said, are you really doing this?
Speaker 7 (05:22):
Said?
Speaker 6 (05:23):
Yeah, I mean all right.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Are you really doing this? As in like, wow, this
is impressive? Are you seriously going through this much effort?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Tone is going to be really important on that sentence,
and unfortunately we cannot rect.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
I'm going to assume that she loved it, so I
thought she was.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
I thought she was into it. She even said that
Ghost was one of her favorite movies.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
So she told so she said, to.
Speaker 5 (05:49):
Take us to the third and final love scene. What
was the movie? You went with there.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
So at the end, I had a couple of options.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
Okay, let her choose.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
So I told her, like, we could do the dirty
dance thing lift.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Are you even physically capable of that?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
I think I could take her?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
I think, did you really leaning into these? Patrick Swayze? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (06:14):
What was the other option?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
You know what?
Speaker 6 (06:16):
What I thought would be really really cool special moment
is the upside down kiss from Spider Man. Oh wow,
I thought that would be the perfect way to end
off the scene.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
How would you do that?
Speaker 5 (06:32):
Hould her upside down?
Speaker 6 (06:34):
There was a tree out there with a branch there.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
It is did you really hang upside down from a tree?
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Which one did she choose?
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Actually, she didn't choose either one of those?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Probably for the best.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
What she recommended that we do the handshake scene from
Wolf of Wall Street.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Oh I don't know, I remember.
Speaker 7 (06:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
In other words, she just gave me a handshake, very
firm handshake.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
All right, So is that how you guys left it?
With a firm handshake?
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Yeah? Yeah, that was it. And she thanked me for
the dates. That was really cool and thoughtful, And and
I told her I'd like to see her again, and
she said, yeah, let's see if we can make that happen.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
We just went over a list of things that people
say that they don't really mean, and that was one
of the top ones.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Somebody, we'll totally get together. Yeah, sure, have you contacted her?
Speaker 6 (07:27):
I texted her and I messaged her in the app,
and I haven't heard from well, I haven't heard back
from her, And so that's why I was hoping that
you guys can help me hook up that Spider Man kiss.
Speaker 7 (07:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I mean you put in a lot of effort. Whether
or not we agree that they were great ideas or not,
just the effort alone is worth another shot.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
You're even this. He's on a radio show to get
her back.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
It should be Oh, is that sleepless sleepless in Seattle?
She calls into a radio show. She does, We're going
to go full sleepless on this girl when we do
your second date up dates.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
I do kind of remember that.
Speaker 5 (08:01):
Now we're gonna hook you up on top of the
Empire State Building when we do.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
At least the end is definitely Empire State Building a
new movie. I mean, you haven't seen it.
Speaker 5 (08:12):
No, Alexis, leave the room. We're gonna do a second
date update right after this second date update. Three romantic
movie scenes recreated in one very steamy.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Date because the pond next to them love.
Speaker 5 (08:31):
Them moisture coming up from that.
Speaker 7 (08:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
Our listener Bend bonded with a woman named Amanda over
their shared love of cinema, so he thought it'd be
fun to recreate the swamp picnic from the Shrek movie.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
It's actually really cute.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
The pottery scene from Ghost, and after she rejected the
upside down Spider Man kiss, they settled on a regular handshake.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Okay, very business like Wolf of Wall Street.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
That's right hot. Now did something been in the middle
of all that stuff? Because those movie scenes sounded really great?
But Ben, I need to ask you. When you were
reaching around her at the pottery place, you were feeling normal? Right?
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Oh god?
Speaker 6 (09:13):
Jeff oh yeah, yeah, what you mean?
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Brook?
Speaker 5 (09:17):
You know how these go? I mean we had asked
that question, but you understand the physical reaction that pottery
has on a man. When you stick your hands into
that clay. You can't control what your body does.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
It does for me, what happened in your art class
in high school? Jeffrey, I don't want to know.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
Well, I'll ask my art teacher to send you the
video if you're really that interesting the videos. Yes, Ben,
it was all kosher in the pottery place.
Speaker 6 (09:47):
It was just pottery.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Okay, that's the best answer. Pottery is really hard. Yeah,
like I've taken a pottery class before.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
I think a lot of us are feeling hot right now?
Speaker 1 (10:06):
Do you not say anything?
Speaker 7 (10:07):
That's right?
Speaker 5 (10:08):
Let's get more people in on this action. Were dialing
Amanda right now here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking
to speak with Amanda. Is she Hey Amanda, my name
is jeff You're on the radio right now with a
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show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Hey Amanda, Oh, Amanda, good morning.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
Don't hang up.
Speaker 7 (10:35):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
Hi, you're pretty chill. She's cool.
Speaker 7 (10:41):
What's up.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
We're doing a segment called a second Date Update, which
is where we try and help out our listeners after
they've gone out with somebody and they'd like to see
them again, try and figure out if there's a reason
why the second meetup hasn't happened yet.
Speaker 7 (10:56):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 5 (10:58):
And so the guy that reached out to us about you,
his name is Ben. Okay, yeah, does that make sense?
Speaker 7 (11:07):
That does make sense?
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (11:09):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Cool.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
So basically, we have heard from Ben about your guys,
is recreate a movie date.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
He put a lot of thought and energy into it
because he was really excited about you.
Speaker 8 (11:22):
Yeah, so I don't know how many details he gave you.
Speaker 7 (11:27):
A lot.
Speaker 5 (11:28):
We heard Shrek Ghost and then you guys settled on
a Wolf of Wall Street thing.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Oh yeah, and shake at the end.
Speaker 9 (11:35):
Okay, which was your right let me yes ghast pottery,
which was very like creative and cute, and I did
like that.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
Yeah, but he.
Speaker 8 (11:46):
Had told me that the last thing was going to
be a surprise. He wasn't going to like tell me
until the end. And he kept bringing up during the
other dates, like you know, we could stop this right
now and just do pretty woman.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Pretty woman, Oh where he pays you for your services?
Speaker 9 (12:06):
Yeah, where he's a businessman and she's a hooker.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
You know, he wanted to be the person who took
you shopping. That's probably what he.
Speaker 5 (12:17):
Meant, a hook Yeah, she's very respectable in that movie.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
But he wanted to kiss. They don't kiss a pretty woman.
Speaker 9 (12:25):
Even if even if he did mean I want to
take you shopping, that's a strange thing for a first date,
and like it was already pretty elaborate, you guys. It
was the first date, Like, I just met this guy.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
So wait, you're upset that he brought up pretty Woman
because that made you feel used? Is that what it is?
Speaker 8 (12:42):
It just was a little oogie Okay, his intentions didn't
feel great.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
But ogre swamp picnic felt right to you.
Speaker 9 (12:52):
It was multiple references to that, you guys.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Yeah, I see what you're feeling. Young people call it
the from Okay, I think.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Very similar.
Speaker 7 (13:09):
Before that.
Speaker 5 (13:12):
When I don't want to like bring up any more
icky ug feelings, but I do need to tell you
that Ben is on the other line right now listening
to this conversation, and he does want to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
Beny there, I am here, and let me tell you
I feel exactly like the guys from Dude, where's my car?
Right now?
Speaker 1 (13:34):
What does that mean? You're hungover?
Speaker 7 (13:36):
On your back, you're high?
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Like, what do you mean that?
Speaker 6 (13:43):
Like, I'm just totally confused, you know.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Confused or something that you know liked confused in the title.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
Why are you so confused?
Speaker 6 (13:54):
Well, I just had no idea, Like so when I
suggested pretty Woman, I mean I was thinking about like
the romance element you know, like the fact that these
two people like really hit it off and fell in love.
I forgot she was a prostitute. That's not why I
was bringing that up.
Speaker 5 (14:09):
Yeah, that's the whole plot of the movie.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
You could have chosen something better.
Speaker 6 (14:14):
Well, it definitely was not my intention. I was not
trying to imply that you were a prostitute in any way.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
You have to say that after it's always a good things,
not try to imply that.
Speaker 7 (14:32):
Okay, I totally get it.
Speaker 5 (14:35):
Are you hearing him, Amanda? Do you see where he's
coming from.
Speaker 7 (14:39):
I don't know how you forget that part?
Speaker 3 (14:43):
Yeah, escort thing.
Speaker 7 (14:44):
Yeah, that's kind of the key.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
So wait, are you not believing him, Amanda? Is that
the issue?
Speaker 8 (14:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (14:54):
I guess not.
Speaker 5 (14:56):
Well, you got to look on the bright side, Amand
at least he didn't bring up Silence of the Lambs. Yeah,
thank you and turn you into.
Speaker 9 (15:02):
There was no less nor skin like, there were no
buckets involved in the date.
Speaker 7 (15:07):
I appreciate.
Speaker 5 (15:08):
Okay, see now we're thinking, we're thinking positive here.
Speaker 6 (15:12):
I also kind of meant it as a compliment because
I think you are a pretty woman.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
That's what Alexis just said. You can hear what she's
saying too.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
So this is a little bit awkward.
Speaker 6 (15:22):
Right now, A little yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
But the way that we can make this all better
is if Amanda, you're willing to give Ben one more
chance at another date. You could pick any other movie
scene that you want to do, or just a non movie.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
You could do a do over and do fifty first
dates you know where he forgets every.
Speaker 5 (15:40):
Time, So we're fifty shades of first date, you know.
Speaker 7 (15:49):
So if you guys are going to send us to Hawaii,
then I'm in.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
But I have the money.
Speaker 5 (15:54):
Yeah, well we'll pay for the taxi to the airport,
then you handle the rest. So Ben, do you have
another date idea? If she says yes, well.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Does it have to be movies?
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (16:06):
Yes, Well, I mean that's how they bonded.
Speaker 6 (16:08):
Movies are kind of our thing.
Speaker 7 (16:09):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (16:10):
I mean, i'd really like to do like a basic instinct.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
That's like a scary stalker, isn't it.
Speaker 5 (16:20):
He meant it as like she's pretty.
Speaker 6 (16:23):
She's beautiful, beautiful.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 5 (16:32):
Ben, I'm gonna ask you again, maybe try something different,
maybe a little bit more romantic this time.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
You started with Shrek Dude, some.
Speaker 5 (16:41):
Cute what movie do you have in mind for that
second date, Bud.
Speaker 6 (16:44):
I'll be honest, I keep thinking about this and how
but I don't know how we could turn it into
a date. But my favorite movie is Pulp Fiction. It's
a dance scene, the swing.
Speaker 5 (16:58):
Dance scene, all right, you know, Ben, I think just
a Harry Potter dy like, what are you guys doing?
Speaker 8 (17:02):
Ben?
Speaker 5 (17:03):
I think your heart is in the right place, for sure,
but your mind is.
Speaker 6 (17:07):
I mean, I just like a lot of movies.
Speaker 5 (17:09):
I just like your mind is scaring her though, Ben?
Speaker 1 (17:12):
So is she even on the phone.
Speaker 5 (17:14):
I don't know, Amanda. Are you still there?
Speaker 7 (17:16):
Yeah? I'm not sure why.
Speaker 5 (17:20):
Well, Amanda, I'm sorry for all of this, but best
of luck in the dating pool. Ben, you got a
lot of work to do. Yeah, Man, I go away
from movies.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Maybe stick with coms, dude, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (17:35):
Yeah, I can try that. I guess. I am really
super disappointed, though. I did put a lot of work
into that, and that's that's I don't know if she remembers,
but my outfit at the picnic was very reminiscent of Shrek,
and I just, you know, I feel like I should
give credit.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Ben.
Speaker 5 (17:50):
The good news is a lot of single women are
hearing this right.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Now, And.
Speaker 8 (17:58):
Yeah, Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5 (18:03):
You know what, that could have been a really sweet
second date, so close to rom com perfection, but he
ended up being weird.
Speaker 3 (18:13):
Yeah, yeah, I mean it wasn't subtle like I see
a slipping in movies.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
There, But I mean, and she tried, she tried to
like it, she tried to get on with it, and
then she's like, no, my gut is telling me that
something's something's off.
Speaker 5 (18:28):
You know what. I do believe there is a woman
out there somewhere right now thinking when is a guy
finally gonna treat me like a high priced I deserve that.
That's my dream.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Yeah, I'm trying to relate a little more.
Speaker 5 (18:47):
I'm telling you somebody out there for everybody, and we
can help you find them. Email the show. We can
call that person who's not calling you back and go
check out all of our second dates wherever you get
your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5 (19:01):
It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. And don't you
hate it when you're having a normal conversation with someone
that you're interested in and then out of the blue
they say, yeah, I had a good weekend too, other
than getting arrested for selling smuggled gin chillas on the
black market. Other than that, totally normal. I mean, it's
hard to know how to react properly to something that's shocking. True.
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That's exactly how our listener Vincent felt when he got
a text from his date right before they were supposed
to go out, and immediately it changed everything. You're gonna
find out what she said in your second date update
right after this second date update. Does it change your mentality?
If you're going out on a date with someone and
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you find out they went to Harvard versus like a
community college or something or school, I gotta tell a whole.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Different set of jokes on today.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
I imagine immediately trust fund kid.
Speaker 5 (19:59):
Yeah is that bad?
Speaker 1 (20:01):
I was smart, but I was completes.
Speaker 5 (20:06):
I see where you're coming from. Like if I matched
with a woman who was a Harvard grad, I know
what I'm thinking. What she can do my Texas? I
got to bring my Quicken to the restaurant so that
she can take care of that for me while she
handles our bill. Here's my one nine form.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
Can you help.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
How many jobs you you know, they still have communications
majors there, right.
Speaker 5 (20:28):
I don't believe it, but now, seriously, it is possible
to get a little intimidated before the date even happens.
And apparently that was the case for one of our listeners, Vincent,
But it had nothing to do with the school that
she attended. Vincent, what did you get intimidated by?
Speaker 9 (20:45):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (20:45):
Y'all?
Speaker 4 (20:46):
So, uh, I met this girl on an app Blair,
and she texted me beforehand that she was going to
be running late because she had a therapy session that
was going along.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Okay, oh that's actually a good thing.
Speaker 4 (20:59):
So well, so I replied, are you in therapy? And
she said, no, she's the therapist.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
Oh I am so with you. Oh boy.
Speaker 5 (21:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
I have friends that are therapists, and every time I
leave a conversation, I'm like, they were judging me. I
just know it.
Speaker 3 (21:17):
And we're talking to a girl on tender Ones and
she's like, yeah, I'm a therapist, but don't worry, I
won't analyze you. And I'm like, yeah, right, you will.
Speaker 5 (21:25):
Is that how you felt, Vincent?
Speaker 7 (21:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (21:27):
I mean, you guys hit the nail on the head.
Speaker 7 (21:29):
I was.
Speaker 4 (21:29):
I was immediately nervous because she was going to be
you know, smart and analytical. And I actually changed the location.
I text her a different address to like a nicer,
more upscale boll.
Speaker 5 (21:44):
She knows she's not just breaking down you as a person,
She's breaking down all of the choices that you make too.
So probably a good call.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
So funny. Did it make you more nervous?
Speaker 4 (21:55):
Oh for sure? Yeah. I mean I actually started to
feel hyper aware. And I think I just like say,
sat and everything I was saying, and I just think
I came off weird.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
Okay, you were.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
Uncomfortable, so you still did go out on the date?
Speaker 4 (22:07):
Then? Uh, yeah, we met in person and she was
really beautiful and nice and like very warm.
Speaker 1 (22:14):
Okay, and did you get an invoice for your session?
Speaker 4 (22:18):
Well, she actually made a joke just like that. She
said I was listening a lot and she was talking
and maybe she should pay me.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
That's a big compliment.
Speaker 5 (22:29):
Were you like trying to be really listening and attentive
to her? Was that an accident an accident or it could.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Be just how he is as a person. I feel
like it's out of fear that she'll notice any red.
Speaker 5 (22:41):
Sometimes I go in like wanting to be super confident,
and then I say nothing, and I'm like, oops, is
that the case?
Speaker 4 (22:47):
I did try to listen more than I spoke, but
then as soon as she called it out and I
opened up a little bit more. And then if I'm
being honest, and then I started to like talk about
my own childhood. I had no idea how I got
into it.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
No, I mean, okay, but childhood can be a common
topic on a first date, right like where you grew
up and.
Speaker 3 (23:06):
Or if you were bothing, like self deprecating, and I go,
what was the vibe?
Speaker 4 (23:09):
Yeah, although I would say something that I think was
like self deprecating and she'd inquire more about it.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
Oh, you wanted to laugh there?
Speaker 3 (23:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
So anyway, I just sort of feel like, maybe if
I had been less worried and just more relaxed, and
if you're.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
So intimidated by or do you want to go out
with her again, like you think you can get rid
of those nerves.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
Maybe maybe after one date the nerves are gone and
now you.
Speaker 5 (23:35):
Feel like you're comfortable.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
I honestly wish I could do a redo, because I
really think that if I just took myself out of
the equation.
Speaker 5 (23:41):
We would have a nice time, Okay.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
If I wasn't there, it would have been fantastic.
Speaker 5 (23:46):
So I don't want to think this for you. But
is it possible that maybe you said too much about
your childhood and the things you were into and the
animals used to cut up and sew back together.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
As long as they were already dead. Yeah, well my
uncle put a zipper on a squirrel once, serial killer.
Speaker 5 (24:08):
Not the right person. A second, I'm saying, do you
think you you delved too deep into your own childhood
with her?
Speaker 4 (24:16):
I don't think so. There's no squirrels with zippers in
my past.
Speaker 5 (24:20):
Okay, Well it could be a totally different reason. How
long has it been since you talked to her about
a week ago?
Speaker 1 (24:30):
I mean, honestly, she's a career woman. Maybe she's just
too busy. She's not even no one's.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Too busy to text them one they like sorry.
Speaker 4 (24:38):
I'm just saying, yeah, that's sort of what I'm thinking too,
because I've asked her if she wants to go out
again and shook it back to me, but she won't
actually answer the going out part.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
Oh, but she's so good at mine tricks.
Speaker 5 (24:50):
Yeah, Harvard, Well, I'm excited to go mono emano with
her on the phone and maybe get myself some free therapy.
If she's up for it, about on her.
Speaker 3 (25:00):
And break her down live on the air. She's gonna cry.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
I wonder she takes our company's insurance.
Speaker 5 (25:05):
Okay, we're gonna ask her. I hope you're cool with that, Vincent.
We're gonna take care of ourselves first and then try
and get you a second date update right after this.
Speaker 4 (25:14):
Thanks, guys, whatever works.
Speaker 5 (25:15):
I'm up for man hold on second date update if
you're just joining us, our listener. Vincent thinks he may
have psyched himself out right before his first date started.
Sounds like it because earlier that day he learned that
Blair is a professional therapist, and that made him feel anxious,
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a little hesitant, worried that she might be super analytical
of him. He should have felt excited, though.
Speaker 3 (25:43):
Really, I think everybody agreed that it was a little.
Speaker 5 (25:45):
Well, I've never had a therapy session end with my
pants still on, although.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Oh my god, that's not a good sign.
Speaker 5 (25:53):
Well I do pay extra for it, so anyway, there's
a word therapy somewhere in there. His though his date
ended fully clothed with a little bit of oversharing into
his childhood past, so she wishes that he could get
a redo on the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
I think we've all been there where your mouth is
just spewing out words and your head is.
Speaker 5 (26:14):
Like, no, don't say that, Vincent. If Blair does pick
up here, we're not gonna mention that her job like
affected your mindset for the date. We don't want her
to know that.
Speaker 1 (26:28):
Oh really, I don't think it'd be good to be
honest with a therapists used to it everybody. It seems
like she'd understands.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
Well at least. We don't want to offer that up
right off the bat.
Speaker 6 (26:37):
I'll give you that.
Speaker 5 (26:38):
Let's see how she felt about the date first. Are
you cool with that?
Speaker 4 (26:41):
Vince?
Speaker 7 (26:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (26:43):
Whatever the play is.
Speaker 5 (26:45):
Okay, play out.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
I mean the thing is, are you ready to be
cool because eventually you will be on the phone with
We don't need any more childhood stories, okay, or save
an embarrassing one and toss it in there for us.
Speaker 5 (27:04):
We're down for a little bit of juice. So we're
gonna dial Blair right now. We'll see if she picks up.
Good luck to us all here. We go. Hello, Hi,
we're looking to speak with Blair.
Speaker 7 (27:21):
Yes, this is her.
Speaker 5 (27:22):
Hey Blair, how you doing today?
Speaker 7 (27:25):
I'm doing well? How are you?
Speaker 5 (27:27):
Thanks? Morning?
Speaker 1 (27:28):
Hey Blair. Welcome to the show show.
Speaker 7 (27:32):
Who is this?
Speaker 5 (27:33):
Yeah? This is a radio show. We're called Brooke and
Jeffrey in the Morning. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (27:39):
Ah, oh okay. What can I help you with?
Speaker 5 (27:41):
Well, we have a lot of problems and we're hoping
that you could work through them with us. You've got
to pick one of us because it's gonna be.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
A long time.
Speaker 5 (27:48):
But there is actually a really big issue that we're
looking to fix today right now on the phone with
one of our listeners, that you went on a date
with named Vincent.
Speaker 7 (27:58):
Ah oh okay, this is very fascinating. Why would he
contact you?
Speaker 5 (28:04):
Well, because he really had a good time with you
and he was hoping to see you again for another date,
but that hasn't materialized yet, so he isn't sure if
there's a reason why.
Speaker 7 (28:16):
Yeah, how can I help?
Speaker 5 (28:18):
Well, maybe we could just start with what was your
take on the date with Vincent? How did you feel
about it?
Speaker 7 (28:24):
It was fine? It fine seems like a good word
for it. He's beemed like a pleasant guy.
Speaker 5 (28:29):
It was fine. Isn't usually a good word?
Speaker 3 (28:32):
He well, that's why was there anything bad that happened?
That's a good question.
Speaker 7 (28:36):
I mean he was a little nervous, but aren't we
all when we're first meeting somebody, And.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
That could actually be kind of endearing because it means
that he cares.
Speaker 5 (28:44):
Right, it's you get nervous when you meet people too.
Sometimes she never gets nervous.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Bro have any issues?
Speaker 3 (28:57):
Us issues?
Speaker 7 (28:59):
I see, So he told you what I do for
a living.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
Yeah is that okay?
Speaker 7 (29:04):
Yeah, of course he knows I'm a therapist, but he
probably doesn't know I'm a past life regression therapist.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
What's that?
Speaker 6 (29:13):
What is that?
Speaker 5 (29:14):
What?
Speaker 7 (29:15):
I help individuals access memories or experienced from previous lifetime
to address current emotional and psychological, spiritual She's like unlocked.
Speaker 5 (29:27):
No, because I've heard of people when they breakthroughs, they'll
be like, I unlocked his memory for She's talking about
like you were a king in the sixteen hundred.
Speaker 3 (29:36):
Waits therapy for other lives.
Speaker 5 (29:39):
Yes, how that affects who you are in this new life?
Speaker 3 (29:44):
She almost got my money. I would have signed up immediately.
Speaker 5 (29:47):
Okay, well, let's be polite. This is her career.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
Sorry I didn't understand fully.
Speaker 5 (29:51):
Okay, so that's my apology. We we did not know that.
Speaker 7 (29:54):
Some people don't understand it. But it is something I've
been practicing for over a decade.
Speaker 5 (29:59):
Okay, we did not know that specific We just heard therapist. Yes, okay.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
So what does that have to do though, with why
you aren't calling him back? Well or you just explaining
that to us.
Speaker 7 (30:12):
I usually don't have a personal connection to people that
I date, but in this case I did. I was
home and really thought about it. And I know this
is going to sound silly. I believe in a past
life he was my dog.
Speaker 5 (30:36):
Was your dog in a previous lifetime.
Speaker 7 (30:39):
I know what I know.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
How did you come to that realization? Walk us through
the steps?
Speaker 7 (30:45):
I had many memories of rubbing his belly, him licking
me like a dog. And I know it sounds silly,
but what a coincidence. I mean this is I've been
doing this a long time and I knew I felt
some sort of connection and I couldn't figure it out.
Speaker 3 (31:04):
He's such a good boy. He found you all timelines.
Speaker 5 (31:08):
He found you again.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
So is dating your past dog off off the table?
Speaker 5 (31:15):
Because Brooks hometown that's encouraged.
Speaker 7 (31:17):
I know you're having fun with this and it seems weird. Well,
but what do I say, Like, how do I tell
him I can't date him? He was once my dog?
Speaker 1 (31:26):
I say, to your credit, you have been a really
good sport with us.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
Yeah, and we can tell you're not messing with us.
Speaker 5 (31:33):
The good news is you don't have to figure out
how to tell him, because you already have. He's actually
on the other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 3 (31:43):
Good, very well behaved.
Speaker 5 (31:46):
During this entire thing. Vincent, are you there?
Speaker 4 (31:49):
This is truly not where I thought.
Speaker 6 (31:51):
This was.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
None of us.
Speaker 5 (31:57):
Okay, talk to your previous owner. Say, hi, I'm Blair.
Speaker 4 (32:03):
So you're saying that you had like visions that I
was your dog in another life.
Speaker 7 (32:10):
Yes, there's been multiple visions of me walking you around
in a farm. Yeah, you didn't feel the connection either.
Speaker 4 (32:20):
I mean, I didn't put two and two together with
a dog.
Speaker 5 (32:24):
Blair. Do you have like a century or a decade
when this previous life happened.
Speaker 7 (32:30):
Yes, this is way back. This is the eighteen hundreds.
Speaker 5 (32:34):
Oh oh look at that.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
So yeah, a working dog at that point.
Speaker 4 (32:38):
You know, how come I'm a dog and you're a
human in these visions. It was I not a human before.
Speaker 7 (32:44):
There's nothing wrong with being a dog. I mean, animals
are such a sacred part of our living, and it's
just it's not something that you were once my dog.
It's not something I now I will feel like I'm
walking the fields to you every time I see you.
It's not something I want to have in my romantic relationships.
Speaker 5 (33:05):
It's not that he was a dog in a past life.
It's that he was your dog, Okay, because.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
You already had that connection.
Speaker 5 (33:18):
Trying to figure out where we go from, Vincent, this
all makes sense to you, right, Really, that's the question, Brook.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
I need to see where his head is at, which
tail is wagging? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (33:29):
Are you understanding what she's saying?
Speaker 4 (33:31):
I'm hearing it. I don't know if I'm understanding that.
Speaker 1 (33:35):
Your first question not what type of dog? But you
can I mean, I've been thinking about that too, but
I don't know what was popular back in the eighteen hundreds.
Maybe espaniel, cattle dog, cat dog, cat Okay, yeah, energy
those dogs.
Speaker 5 (33:51):
Vincent, you can understand where she's coming from. If you
were in her position, you wouldn't want to date a
woman who had previously been your fish or your cat
or something, right, that'd be.
Speaker 4 (34:01):
This whole thing is weird. It's hard to believe.
Speaker 3 (34:04):
Yeah, yeah, what do you want to say.
Speaker 7 (34:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (34:06):
I want to date in my old cat.
Speaker 1 (34:08):
Come on, I mean, if you look at it from
the other perspective, right, Like dog is man's best friend,
he's loyal, Like these are all good qualities in a relationship.
Speaker 5 (34:19):
This is Brook advocating for a human dog.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
Yeah, trying, oh yeah, for her to give him a chance.
Speaker 4 (34:25):
Thank you Brook.
Speaker 5 (34:27):
Okay, so, Vincent, you're still interested in dating Blair even
though previously you used to be her pet.
Speaker 4 (34:33):
I mean allegedly if I was her pet, I have
no memory of it.
Speaker 1 (34:37):
Well until you go through a session with her.
Speaker 7 (34:39):
Yeah, I can absolutely help you with that. We can
book a session right now.
Speaker 5 (34:46):
Well yeah, that's great, But what we're interested in booking
is a date. If you're willing to give Vincent another shot.
Speaker 4 (34:53):
Listen, you said we had a pleasant time. You really
don't think we can get past this.
Speaker 7 (34:58):
I would love to have a connection, but I don't
think it's best that we date.
Speaker 5 (35:04):
But maybe she'd be willing to play fetch in the
park with you. One time, I.
Speaker 1 (35:08):
Would know what we all wear in a past life.
Speaker 4 (35:10):
I bet no.
Speaker 5 (35:12):
I think you were probably a parrot jose.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5 (35:21):
Man as a dude. I thought being friend zoned is bad,
but being pet zoned that's way worse.
Speaker 1 (35:28):
Do you call it past life zoned?
Speaker 3 (35:30):
A paste zone?
Speaker 5 (35:32):
Oh? It is brutal and there and there's nothing that
you can even say as a guy in that position.
Whether you believe it or not, it doesn't matter. In
her mind. You're always just going to be that pet
that she owned two hundred years ago on that farm.
Speaker 3 (35:47):
Dude has been trying to hump her leg for hundreds
of years.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
It's like, it's enough to know about somebody's current life.
Speaker 5 (35:56):
Let alone all bringing on the baggage from all their
not to make a successful doctor.
Speaker 3 (36:02):
And she's like, yeah, but you were like a goat
in the fourteen hundred. Yeah, don't get ahead of yourself.
Speaker 1 (36:07):
I saw you eat garbage.
Speaker 5 (36:09):
It's gonna be a tough road for her and for him,
but we're always here to help either of them if
they need help going forward, or you you can always
email the show. We'll call that person who isn't calling you.
Back and go check out all of our second dates
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