EP #045 - Debunking the Dumb Dad Trope + Will Teaches Rue About Fear | For The Dads - Bussin' With The Boys

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:18):
Episode forty seven. Okay, I think that's myso TE six
welcome to episode forty five For the Dads.

Speaker 1 (00:31):
We are stoked that you're We hope the trash is
taken out. We hope your home is thriving. I also
I hope that there's some bickering and some things you're
trying to solve right now because you have to be
active and intentional because that's a good thing. That's what
that's what life is. Sharing your upset right now. You
forget to take out the trash, Yeah dad, it's okay.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
Dude.

Speaker 1 (00:49):
Hey, I forget it more often than I'm proud to admit. Yeah,
but that's life, man, that's life. But if you just
remember just the small things. And I'm talking to myself too,
I'm not just talking I'm not talking at you, I'm
talking with you. Yes, because I'm included in this. Yes,
these are the small things that you just you get
a win early. You take out the trash. Maybe it's
a nighttime after you clean up, you take out the

(01:11):
trash and clean the dishes, and you're taking your head
or wife. He says, Hey, tomorrow's trash day, and you
have an option right there. Most of the time I choose, Hey,
I'll do in the morning.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
But the consistency that we need to get to is
just taking a couple of minutes, taking a stroll out
to the end of the driveway, setting up the trash.
We have good news on this episode. We have great
Mother's Day Drop is live, live right now, live right now,
Empty sixers for the moms out there, Our Mother's Day
drop is out. It's live right now. BWTB dot com,

(01:45):
b WTB dot com. Yeah, for the moms, for the moms,
for the moms. Guys, matter of fact, what do you got?
What do you want to show them? I got I
got some little teasers of some of the mothers say merch,
show them the teaser. All right, here's the deal with
the Mother's Day merch. I do I got a note,
I got a note and it's right here, or you faster,

(02:06):
faster losing We're losing them. We're losing them. Here's the deal,
all right. The mom's did a great job for the
father's for like the past, stuff moms have been buying
these husbands a lot of merch. We love to see it.
But this show what's the name of this podcast? Again?
For the dad? It is for the dads, isn't it? Yes?

(02:27):
And why not? Why not? To day? Go Hey, my wife,
he got me that pt sicko hat. She got me
the bear with the cigar hat. She got me the
shirt with the for the dads to my wife hooked
me up? My wife is constantly hooking me up all
the time. What if I hooked her up? What if
I put a bow on it? What if I got intentional?

Speaker 1 (02:52):
I went to the website WTV dot com, I bought
her a gift without her knowing, and give gifted it
to her on Mother's Day.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
Look at that little stuff bear for the mom sipping
a little What is that? A little pina colada? Something
bubbly little or maybe a little lollipop, Yeah, maybe a
little lollipop in a teeny glass, a little stuff bear.
Maybe it resembles the kids.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
So if it's a kid, now, maybe that's just apple
cide or some type of carbonated Maybe that lollipop, chrispllipop
in the cup.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
Yes, they got their phone. It's for the moms. It's
a crop top. Yeah. A lot of comments, Hey, Willy
see you can you put the crop top on? Hey? Sure?
And fat staff heep put the crop top on. Yeah, yeah, dude,
I love that shirt.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
And again you can see it in a multitude of
ways if that's mom because the phone. But then you're like, okay,
if that's my kid, my kid should be having that
iPhone right now at three years old. Watch that screen time, Yeah,
watch the screen time. But that's that's just a taste.
There's another one.

Speaker 2 (03:46):
We also got a crop and comfort color as well,
like a more loose fitting crop.

Speaker 1 (03:51):
Yeah, when you wear around in the night in the nighttime,
maybe get a little get a little comfortable before you
get in bed. Maybe you're laying on the couch, you
want to watch some TV, some soaps with your health.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
Be a great shirt. Hey what if it's like real
cold outside, or maybe it's really hot outside and we're
blasting the ac so it's kind of cold inside. I
want to cozy up. I want to curl up next
to my Ptsiico on the couch. Yep, do we have
anything for that? Do we do? We have anything? Here?
We go bang. We have a old mom with their pump.

(04:26):
We have full matching sweat seit we don't know the back,
that's the back. You got the front too, and it's.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
Embroidered, embroidered, high quality, high fashion for the mom's guys,
go shop to you Drop and ladies.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
That comes with matching sweatpants. It's a full sweat set.
We're doing. Were laying it out for the mom. The
moms love the sweat sets, dude, when they're around the
house getting comfy, cozy. They love their jammys. They love
their sweat sets.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
Yeah, they love holding their coffee with it or their tea.
Come on, reading a book and my wife loves a
good book. But shop BWTV dot com or Mother's Day.
Drop is officially live for the empty siccos out there.
We got to take care of them. There's a heart
and soul of the entire operation. Boys and the entire up.

Speaker 2 (05:16):
Go ahead, No, they are they I just don't want
the moms to outdo the dads. It's all I'm saying, like,
this really is a challenge to the dads because I
see all these wifey sikos out there, all these mommies
that are getting their husband's step. It's constant, and you
know how the dad brain works. Boys, fellas, listen to me.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
You just heard this SERMONI going back and forth, and
I've been the guy where it's like, yeah, I need
to get on it. This is a great idea, yes,
but dad's as far as my brain goes. And then
I continue to drive, I get to where I'm going.
You chop it up with the boys, you bust balls,
you forget all the things happen.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
Yes, then you.

Speaker 1 (05:51):
Get home, sweetart, when you're gonna take out the boxes.
It's long gone at that point. It's long gone at
that point out of your brain until you get.

Speaker 2 (05:58):
Reminded and you see the shirt somewhere after the fact,
after Mother's Day, and you're like, damn it, I meant.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
To buy her a shirt and I forgot to do it.
And now you're scrambling to try to get the Walgreens
to buy a little flower set in the front.

Speaker 2 (06:10):
That's you know what I mean. More difficult too, dude.
And I'm I'm talking from a internet shopper myself. You
can literally go to bwtv dot com. You got the
Apple pay set up. Whatever it's sending, it's sent to
your house. It's done, it's over with. I just knocked
out of the frickin' part for my wife for Mother's Day. Yeah, yeah,
in like probably a minute. We got some good action

(06:30):
coming for Mother's Day. We did.

Speaker 1 (06:33):
Wifies are coming on the show. They are rumored, this
is alleged. We're looking into it. We're looking into wife's
looking to come on the show. And also mark down
circle the date. Circle the date May thirtieth, Yes, sir,
circle the date May thirtieth. We've talked. We've talked about
Papa Team Fit. There's been the message boards, the discord,

(06:54):
the reddit's the Papa Team six community on x the
comments sections all over the place. There's talks of where
they should bar three and Papa Team Fit or should
bar three? The wives and the husbands do something together somewhere.
Maybe it's an outdoor class, maybe it's indoor. Who knows all.
We're going to tell you right now. Circle the dates
May thirtieth, May, Tennessee. Circle the dates, May thirtieth, Nashville, Tennessee.

Speaker 2 (07:19):
It will involve pt siccos and empty siccos. That's all
I'm going to say about that. Yeah, correct, Yeah, correct, correct.
It's a pot.

Speaker 1 (07:28):
We embrace the moms man. We embrace the matter of fact.
I have a comment right here that moms will love
to hear.

Speaker 2 (07:33):
Well before you read that, how did they get on
the show for us to read it?

Speaker 1 (07:39):
So you Papa Team six community knows and if you're
new here, we're so happy you're here. Make sure you
are subscribed and following on all channels. We're on Spotify, Apple, Google, YouTube.
We drop comments. This community is the best community on
the internet.

Speaker 2 (07:53):
Boys.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
Yes, however, you want to be featured on the show,
we got. I got so many comments here, I got
dad hacks. Follow us from last week, gener comments, shout outs, emails.
We have a hotline six on one the dads. You
call into that hotline, leave of voicemail. You can you
can vent about everything. You can talk about a win,
you can talk about loss, you can talk about to
learn whatever it is we feature on the show. We
ship you merch, but we read comments and engage with

(08:15):
our community all throughout the episode. They can come at random.
I'm about to read one now from Ryan Hammett on
Spotify Spotify. We love Spotify comments, dive in on them,
and this is for talking about Mother's Day. This right here,
moms are gonna love. They're gonna love to.

Speaker 2 (08:31):
Hear this comment. Fucking here.

Speaker 1 (08:32):
We love Spotify, Ryan Hammett. This was six days ago
on Spotify. I know it's all for laughs and jokes,
but can we please not act like our wives are
the boss or in charge of us. I'm not saying
let's talk shit about them, but they're not immune for
being wrong or messing up something. They're not They're not

(08:53):
immune from being wrong or messing something up, just like us.
If you disagree with her about how something went, then
just say it. I'm thirty three, I've been married for
ten years, been married in ten years in November, been
together for fifteen years since we were seventeen. Sorry for
the wrong, the long rant laugh out loud, but I hate.

Speaker 2 (09:16):
The dumb husband dad trope.

Speaker 1 (09:19):
If we're being honest, it ain't us laugh out loud.

Speaker 2 (09:26):
I'm not an idiot. Does he know our wives listening
to the show? I appreciate him so much, But am
I really not an idiot? Like? Is that true? You're
saying did he really write that? No? No, like he's saying,
we're not idiots. Yeah, we have it all figured out.

Speaker 1 (09:48):
I guess we come off as the dumb husband dad,
like we're doing a trope and let's stop joking and
laughing and acting like our wives of the boss. And
he not tuned in last week and we saw Jilly
being on the phone. We know who runs the sho ship.
We know when we know anything that comes out of
my household when we do an afterpod report, we know
who runs the ship.

Speaker 2 (10:06):
Yeah it's mama bear, buddy. I'll take you down to
my My house is just down the street, and we
can go look and see the Christmas tree that my
wife told me to throw away three years ago. That's
sitting in my trash cans right now because I didn't
take the trash out. Yeah, and wife, he's gonna love
seeing that. Yeah. I don't know what this guy's thinking.

(10:27):
I don't know. Would you when you write a comment
like that, are you showing? Are you showing? Wifey? Hey Sweeter,
I just dropped the comment. I'm sick of these boys.

Speaker 1 (10:34):
Hey, would you agree that these guys laugh and joke
too much about you guys acting like you're in charge
of us?

Speaker 2 (10:42):
Isn't that funny? You think you're the boss of the house.
Go do the dishes? Would you beat the dogs? Hey?
When's the game on? When's how you give me the
give me the TV digest? What was what was the
the cable thing? Was it the TV diejeest? I don't know.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
I'm just smiling and pretending to play along. Wins what
on Hannity? What's Hannity? It was a It was a
political show that my mom hated. My dad would just
blast it. It was on Fox. We missed my mama.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
The problem is and look, I'll just talk from my
own experience here. Yeah. Yeah, because charl and I like,
we're we both number one. Char my wife and I
we have we have a very strong relationship, believe it
or not, very much respect. We both know we're at
the top of the food chain in the house.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
But if you're talking, if he's talking about jokes, and
let's not act like our wives or the boss, we
are in charge of us, Charlo, sit there and tell
you like it will make a lot of his own decisions.

Speaker 2 (11:43):
Will. Will does a lot of things that lead the
way for the family. Tell them, well, she does as well.
But when you're.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
Talking, when you get all the way into the box
of it all, if you're going to be somebody that's
that is in charge, I'm not because I'm like the
most forgetful.

Speaker 2 (12:00):
Like things that we think about. We talk about the
mental load.

Speaker 1 (12:02):
All the time that we as dads and men have
to like teach ourselves and learn through in real time
because we're like we got dog brain at times. Yeah
you know what I mean. Oh we got to bring
this with us. Oh we got to pack that. Oh
we gotta do this. Oh we got to think about
this when we're going on a trip. Oh this is
the schedule this week. Oh no, I didn't think about it.

(12:24):
Oh uh did I get y'ad care? Oh I didn't
get child care. Like there's so many things it's like, oh,
mom's the boss. Hey, not only mom's not the boss,
Like she tells you what to do and where to
be at in all those things.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
Yeah, your wife, happy life.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
But the respect factor of knowing, hey, the mom runs
the ship. They're the heart and soul of the team.

Speaker 2 (12:48):
They're the heart and soul of the team, and is
in our mission statement. We are not experts. And if
you are tuning into this pod, and I'll speak for
myself and you can go next if you want. If
you tune into this pod and you expect me to
have glasses on like this, and I'm putting you on
some crazy good dad game that I know is fact,

(13:11):
so that you could go tell your buddies, Well, actually
we don't do that with our kids, you know, Sherman
Young podcaster, he believes that you should be doing this
with your child. You're in big trouble, buddy. No, I
think you're seeing it all wrong. Will and sure them.

Speaker 1 (13:27):
They spoke about this idea thirty minute coupons for screen time.
So if you're going over thirty minutes, they do six
a week. I see you have eight there and they
say forty five minutes at a time. That's bad for
your child's brain and their development.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
You're doing it wrong. Oh, you did not receive the
latio on your birthday? You know. I actually listened to
a podcast and ends out some free coupons.

Speaker 1 (13:49):
Your wife's not giving you the gluck Luck nine thousand
on your birthday. It's steak and blowjob Day, and you're
not getting any of that on steak and blowjob Day.
I listen to this podcast and it's can blow jop
day or die?

Speaker 2 (14:04):
You know here said it's funny that you bring up
that you haven't gotten laid in months. Listen to these
two intellectuals, Will and Sherman all that they talk about
shockwave maxing. I've been putting a bow on it maxing lately.
It's actually been really great for my marriage. Uh. But yeah,

(14:26):
that's all to say, that's not what the show.

Speaker 1 (14:30):
Is or like in my brain knowing, Like we talk
about all the things dad life like learns, wins, losses,
things that we're just we're figuring it out as we go,
as we fuck it up along the way. A lot
of that is the partnership, like with your wife yep,
and learning about all the things that we need to

(14:50):
do to be better partners for them along with us,
like thinking about ourself and things about that we need.
How we can communicate these things with the wife versus
like simply hey, I'm the breadwinner of the household. These
are all these things that you do with the mental
load as a mom or as a wife, like Yeah,
that's the expectation because I'm the breadwinner of the household.

Speaker 2 (15:12):
Yeah, does that make sense?

Speaker 1 (15:14):
We're not back in decades ago where you have a
few channels on TV, your wife's at home all day
while you're out at work. You come home and everything's
expected to be done, clean, cooked, all that stuff. And
there's more access now, there's more things where we've developed
and grown and evolved over time to where it doesn't
work like that anymore.

Speaker 2 (15:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (15:36):
And then if they get out of line, you might
give them a backhand. And then if they think about
going and telling their friends outside of the house, you
fear monger them in that side the house to where
they don't talk.

Speaker 2 (15:48):
Then they're trapped in this eco, you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (15:50):
They're trapped in this operation, this machine that just isn't healthy.

Speaker 2 (15:54):
You know a lot of your friends, Barbara, they're all bitches.
You know that, Right when you acting ditchy, that's when
I know you've been hanging out with them. Yeah. Yeah, Oh,
you want to work where you've been here? Now? You've
been hearing that the hair dress. You've been hearing that
the hairdress. You go too, Huh. Julie's working now huh,
well you gonna be working. Well, who's gonna hire you?

(16:19):
Good gud dude? Ted Ted the Show, By the way,
have you been watching that at all? Uh? Ted the movie? No,
Ted the Show on Peacock. Have you been watching like
a new series, Ted Lasso, Love Me Some Ted Lasso.
Ted the Show maybe better than both films. It is
with the bear, dude, the dad. It's with the bear.

(16:42):
The Mark Wahlberg character is in high school, so it's
like back in the eighties early nineties. And dude, it
is really good television. And that dad in that show
is literally that character that we've been playing. I'm watching
the Ted series, I'm like, oh my god, like he's yeah,
that's that's who we're playing. Anybody that's a watcher of

(17:05):
that show will know when I'm talking.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
Okay, okay, Ted's in the Jet, Ted's in the chat.
Ted's in the comments. Yeah, Ted, throw a little Teddy
bearry in there.

Speaker 2 (17:13):
Oh hey there you care? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (17:16):
Yeah, matter of fact, I just as I looked over
for the comments, I saw this Jearsey Oh yeah yeah yeah.
Chef and I had an incredible visit on Saturday. We
went to First Form headquarters in Saint Louis, Missouri, got
to do some speaking there.

Speaker 2 (17:28):
Will you break down that hold? Please tell that whole thing,
because that seemed like a really, really cool moment for
you for a multitude of reasons.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
So Ben Newman was a sports psychologist mentor of mine
early in my NFL career. I found him over social media.
I DMed him to see if he would work with
me on sports psychology and the mental side of everything,
like as I prepare for training camp, as I prepare
for all these things, like controlling what I can control
and not getting caught up, and if I don't make

(17:56):
this team, there's thirty one other teams that I can make.
To where you start doubting I wanted to work with
a sports psychology or like a performance coach, because he's
not a psychologist, say he doesn't have his degree in psychology.
I don't think Ben, If you do, my apologies, yeah yeah, yeah.
And we would meet halfway between Saint Louis where he was, Clayton, Missouri,
and Bonterra. We'd meet in Arnold at a Panera or

(18:18):
Saint Louis bredco every Monday in the offseason during the summertime.
As I'm preparing for training camp and he takes me
through exercises, worksheets stuff to write down like law of attraction, things, goals,
how I need to operate on a routine from a
daily basis, like getting it all down and mapped out
so I could practically have something to review and look
at every day and reflect on it every day, like

(18:38):
when I'm going about my unrequired work or going about
my prize fighter day as he would call it. That
was over a decade ago. That was about thirteen years ago.
Over time, Ben worked with me a lot throughout my career.
Ben is now Ben Newman is now big in the
sports performance world to where he's worked with. He had
a job with Nebraska last year. He's worked with Sabin

(18:58):
at Alabama, k State Coach Climban when he was at
North Dakota State, Wentwich in Kansas State. Yeah, he's worked
with Coach Rule. Coach Rule was there. He speaks with
like he on the panel on this one. So now
full circle. Over the weekend Ben hosted an unrequired event,
were two two hundred and fifty like high level thinkers
in the networks of all these people that got together

(19:21):
were there listening to keynotes I was one of the
five or six keynotes. It was me Coach Rule, Coach, Climban,
Coach White who is the head coach of the Indiana
Fever in Canton, Clark Ray Lewis, and Sal Forcella at
First Form South Forsella is the CEO at First Form.
South for Sella is a dad I love to follow
business wise and fatherhood wise on Instagram and we've been

(19:44):
boys since I went on the mf CEO podcast with
Andy Forsella back in twenty fifteen. So it's a big
full circle moment for a lot of people that were
there and he and your Boy.

Speaker 2 (19:53):
Just really quick. The Forsella has then put on this event.
Your Boy did Ben put on the event?

Speaker 1 (19:58):
The Forcellos allowed him to host there because again the
network and everything else like they are super tight. Ben
has done work with First Form Okay, so people will
hire Ben to come in and work with their teams,
work with their high level teams. He'll have his own
boot camp events to where it's days at a time.
He's built an incredible business. He's done incredible things and
I've been around his family and him for thirteen years.

Speaker 2 (20:20):
He's like a big brother.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
Of mine and I've spoke with him on a few
different occasions, like back when I played with Washington. We
would go to different spots, whether it be in Nebraska,
we spoke in Vancouver, or we spoke in Seattle together,
we spoke in Vegas together to where he's like, he's
like brought me with him on a few things to
talk about my undrafted story and everything else. So he
wanted me to be at this one because he wanted

(20:43):
to talk about Busting with the Boys. I sat down
with him and sal Forsella. We did about thirty minutes,
just kind of like a podcast style, each sitting down
in chairs. I did a thirty minute keynote to where
I talked about like creating evidence and a couple of
my pivotal stories in my undrafted careerworks that I've used
that allowed that helped me have a nine year career

(21:03):
in the NFL, and that I used frameworks that I
used to establish Busting with the Boys for the dads
now as well. And so I got to speak on
that for thirty minutes, and each keynote went thirty minutes,
and then I he wanted me to introduce Ray Lewis,
because Ray Lewis indirectly affected my career in my position

(21:23):
as a linebacker. As long as I can remember, I mean,
I've consumed every piece of Ray Lewis content because I've
always been a YouTube listen to podcasts, listen to speakers like,
listen to seminars. I've just always been fascinated with how
people think, if they're established in a world to where
I want to be at one one day, and so
it was sick that I got to go and be

(21:45):
on a panel with all these guys that I know,
like Coach Rule obviously go biggread Nebraska. That's self explained
to US coach Climban. Coach Climban had me out to
North Dakota State during their national title runs. I went
out with Ben because Ben did a lot of work
with him.

Speaker 2 (22:00):
At the end those days.

Speaker 1 (22:01):
But I went out and spoke to the team and
did a lot of whiteboard work as far as like
I had the defense with me and on how I
watched film, how I studied the game, like things that
I could give them to where you know, I really
got to know.

Speaker 2 (22:14):
Coach Climbing is he is he as much of a
stud as he coached Climban.

Speaker 3 (22:18):
He is awesome.

Speaker 2 (22:19):
Good as it fucking gets me. He seems like it.
I hate to sidetrack character, integrity, what he's about, Dude,
I love coach Climbing. It was really sad when he retired. Yeah,
really sad.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
Yeah, I know, I know he dude, he is a stud.
Coach White I met on the flight to Saint Louis
because she was on the plane with us flying out there.
So we got to know Coach White, the Fever coach,
the Fever coach, the head coach of the Indiana Fever.

Speaker 2 (22:46):
South Forcella.

Speaker 1 (22:47):
I've had a history with him about a decade now
because again I was on the nf CEO when I
was playing and got to know them, their Missouri Boys,
and then over time we've just stayed in touch. South
Forcella helped me when I was starting to build Busting
with the Boys ID and asked for if he had
a set of equipment or like an equipment list, like advice,
and he sent me a DM like this long with
all the equipment I need to be getting ways to

(23:09):
think about sponsorships, ads like he helped me when I
was putting together like how to stand up Busting with
the Boys. And now that we're years later on a
panel together talking about it. Just a really cool full
circle moment. So we kind of had that event in
front of two hundred, two hundred fifty people, did dinner,
did a meet and greet in their locker room.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
It was really cool, but ultimately was what I was
going to get to because what.

Speaker 1 (23:30):
I love is when we're out in the wild and
pt sikos come up to me or people that are
fans of the show for the Dads come up to me,
and we had a couple of them there.

Speaker 2 (23:39):
Suko, who was.

Speaker 1 (23:40):
There, shoutout Suco who gifted a for the Dad's Nebraska
jersey that he got made, and he gets that to me,
like when we're doing the meet and greed, he was
stoked about it.

Speaker 2 (23:51):
Bro. He wanted to hit the flex post.

Speaker 1 (23:53):
Just talk about dad life and talk about the pod
and how much he loves listen. Oh yeah, man, Suko
is a dog And I ask I asked, h Succo
or Suco Suko Suco.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
I asked Suko, I'm.

Speaker 1 (24:08):
Like, why the twenty five and he was like, well,
that was the year you guys started it. And I
was like, Bro, that awesome, man. So we're gonna get
this in a frame. We're gonna have a hang up somewhere.
Maybe it hits right there.

Speaker 2 (24:18):
We removed that.

Speaker 1 (24:19):
Photo, put it up somewhere on the set. Yeah, you
got a spot. Yeah, but we got that. Another dad
came up where his wife she has is it ms, Yeah,
and she writes children's books and he give to me
a couple of children's books for Ruined Scotty. He was
just very genuine talking to me, and he was just

(24:40):
so cool getting the I love getting to know the
dads that listen to the show, that come up and
just talk call of the show and then just talk
ball like talk shop.

Speaker 2 (24:49):
You know what I mean. You've been a part of it.

Speaker 1 (24:51):
When we were out at Nebraska the where next thing
you know, we're standing on a standing on a fence
talking to a couple about marriage and parenthood.

Speaker 2 (24:59):
And the last that we share.

Speaker 1 (25:01):
Yeah, people bringing up the time where I talked about
rue missing mom and the full circle with me talking
about my mom. People were mentioning that clip to me.
But it was awesome. It was awesome, man.

Speaker 2 (25:12):
There is something different. I will I will say I've
only had a Tier one shout out once by myself,
but I've seen a lot of Tier one shout outs
with Will and Taylor out in the wild. Those are
always a ton of fun. The four the Dad's ones
are really really fun, dude, because they it's just funny

(25:35):
how much personal stuff they know about our life. And
it feels like you're already talking to somebody that, like
you went to high school with, yeah, because they just
know a lot of information about you. Yeah, And I
just want to like learn about them way more because
I'm like, mane, you already know so much about me,
tell me about you know, your family, You're a kidding.

Speaker 1 (25:55):
It hits different because another example, I was grabbing a
coffee last week and I saw somebody who was a
fan of for the Dads. They were a fan of Busting.
And then we're sitting standing out in the parking lot
talking for thirty minutes, really just about dad life, about marriage,
about a lot of things, just connecting with them, and

(26:16):
those moments hit different on the For the Dads, the
Ptsikos and the PT sixers that are watching, listening wherever
you are, they hit different because it's not like like
with Busting with the boys fan base is incredible.

Speaker 2 (26:28):
They feel like they know us.

Speaker 1 (26:29):
We did something that they love and respect, and they
might have fun questions on what was this coach like
or man, what was this like or this story that
you guys spoke about. They dive into the weeds there
with for the dads and parenthood. Those people are doing
these same things as we are, you know what I mean.
So there's just more of a conversation because we're either

(26:50):
going through the suck and you come across parents that
have been through that part and they're laughing or having
good stories or storytelling about, hey, you know when they
get to this age what to look for again? You
have laught, but you're just connecting on a deeper level.
Or you're talking with a couple, a couple where they're
currently in it. We're talking with a couple they have
a newborn. We listen to your stuff all the time,
and we really appreciate, like the stories that you share,

(27:12):
the vulnerability that you guys have because we go through
the same things. Then you realize, like this is just
one big group. We're all going through this shit together.
So you're just having like a deeper, more meaningful conversation.
Not to say that the ones with the bustle with
the boys aren't. They know they are. But as far
as family dynamic, we're just we're all going through the
same shit.

Speaker 2 (27:32):
The amount of times with the pet stick of ones.
If I'm with Jill and they're with their wife, the
the guy that came up to us at the restaurant
at the golf course, we start having our own conversation
and his wife and Jill are having their own, and
I just hear them start dying laughing, and I overhear
Jill go, oh my god. Sherman does that all the time,

(27:53):
like they're already there you go. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (27:58):
But it was really cool man, getting those gifts, getting
connected with bt siccos on things aside from like you
know there for speaking there, for like on like busting
with the boys.

Speaker 2 (28:10):
Tell the part about the game ball, Dude, that was
such a sick moment. I know that you touched on
it on the bus. I would love for any pt
siccos to hear that story too.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
So there was this game ball that I got, and Derek,
if you it's in my truck on the passenger side
if you want to grab it, so that way I
could show them the prop. But so Ben Newman, as
I was talking about Ben and I met thirteen years
ago over the internet on social media. We had some
common friends. People thought like, hey, will you would like
this guy? And again I was searching for, like somebody

(28:40):
to help hold me accountable and give me some direction
in sports psychology because I'm massive into psychology of everything,
and so I working with Ben fast Forward. That was
in twenty thirteen. I got this game ball in twenty fifteen,
I believe because it was one of the first games
I ended up taking over for the starting job. We're

(29:02):
playing the Tampa Bay Buccaneers and it was the You
Like That game by Kirk Cousins where we have a
big comeback in the second half. You guys know the
meme or the video where Kirk's coming down the locker
room and he saying, on you like that? You like that?
That game was the Tampa Bay Buccaneers games where we
had a big comeback maybe one of the biggest ones
in the franchise history. No, well, you know, we had

(29:22):
we had a losing record. We ended up turning it around,
going to the wildcard, losing the Green Bay, but we
made the playoffs. We end up winning the NFC East
that year. And during that game, as well, at halftime
they made the switch to make me the starter as
the MIC. So that was a memorable game for myself
because I started playing a lot more after that. Yeah,
but I got this game ball, biggest comeback in Redskins history.

(29:45):
We ended up winning thirty one to thirty October twenty fifth,
twenty fifteen, and so a lot of the guys got
game balls. And so when I got this game ball,
one of the next home or the game that Ben Newman,
my performance mentor, was coming to, I got into his
hotel room and laid this on his bed, so that

(30:06):
way when he came in there and saw it, like
he realized like I was gifting him this game ball,
and I wrote him a note that basically said like
I wouldn't be here without your help, and.

Speaker 2 (30:15):
It was very much like a personal big.

Speaker 1 (30:17):
Bro, little bro, like I want you to have this
because you've been a massive part of my journey.

Speaker 2 (30:21):
In the NFL.

Speaker 1 (30:24):
And he got real emotional with the game ball when
we spoke about it after the game, because he started
to get emotional before and I was like, Hey, we
got a game coming up, Like let's let's say tighten up, bro,
let's lock in. I mean Warrior will copy. Yeah, I
gotta paint the I gotta paint the face right now.
Heart's gotta start black. It's not full of blood. It's
gotta go.

Speaker 2 (30:42):
Black right now.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
It's gotta go dark. And we were speaking after and
he was like, he just I remember. I actually I
did not remember telling him this, but he's telling in
a story. As he's gifting this to me at the
event on Saturday, He's like, uh, we'll remember as I
told him, like, when you have a family of your own,
one day, I'm going.

Speaker 2 (31:00):
To give you this ball back. It's that.

Speaker 1 (31:02):
Good news is I got a replica made so it
can still sit in the same spot that I have
it in. But he gave this game ball back to
me because now I have obviously a family of my own.
So again another full circle moment that took place there.

Speaker 2 (31:15):
That was really cool. Yeah, man, and this is the
this is my very first game ball. Can I hold it? Absolutely?
Oh dude, that's so epic, dude. Yeah, that's such a
cool story. The fact that it's the you like that
game just adds so much legacy behind it. Of like

(31:35):
on the field, but off the field story behind this
guy now is.

Speaker 1 (31:40):
Unreal and also full circle moment that you guys know
about me. It's knowing that Levante David's on the field
as well. No, I'm tooking down. Yeah, this is this
is boogie bro. It's Levante giving.

Speaker 2 (31:56):
Him some ship.

Speaker 1 (31:58):
Yeah, because he wasn't responded. I was talking a little
shit to him. But yeah, man, great, great Saturday.

Speaker 2 (32:07):
You're very deserving of that. And you you are. I
know we say here and we say like, oh, we
aren't experts. If there is one thing that you are
an expert on, it is great determination and working for
a cause that feels greater than yourself, something that may
seem out of reach, and like your belief in No,

(32:30):
it is obtainable if you work at it every single
day and you work hard, like you could speak to
that for hours.

Speaker 1 (32:36):
I appreciate it. I'm very uncomfortable. You've given me that
massive competition. I know how the fellows get.

Speaker 2 (32:41):
I just want you to hear that, dude, you're that.
That makes me so happy that you're being celebrated and
you're given that opportunity to do that. Keeps awesome. I
appreciate that.

Speaker 3 (32:52):
Shore me. No, what he's not an expert in keeping
track of his phone.

Speaker 2 (32:56):
Yeah, I forgot the ipety chef today chef, oh yeah,
and then the phone over the weekend two we got
two stories forgot it. You forgot that, you forgot your phone?

Speaker 1 (33:07):
Yeah, oh no, the phone, the phone, Come on now, okay, okay,
don't don't do that.

Speaker 3 (33:13):
I'm not I won't do that to you. I'll explain
it was one hundred percent Will's fault we had lost
in the couch situation.

Speaker 2 (33:20):
Oh okay, okay, not my fault.

Speaker 3 (33:24):
No, it's not your fault.

Speaker 2 (33:25):
Say it. It's it's like on the show, we're about
taking accountability. I was.

Speaker 3 (33:32):
I would give you seventy five percent not accountable. The
other twenty five is knowing that it was one hundred
percent in your pocket when you went on stage. Basically
at the panel, they had you salam bended like a
Busting with the Boys episode, and they brought out these,
uh these kind of like recliner chairs, really cozy, by
the way, first form incredible facility. Uh So, if you're
listening to I walked into one of the bathrooms that

(33:55):
it was spotless. One of your employees walked in after me.
I was taking a piss all him scrubbing the place.
I literally looked and I went, this place is spotless.
You couldn't make it any better. And he was still
putting in works to shout out it was wild and
he's not lying. Christine and spotless. They don't hire cleaners.
It's all standard. We do the work employees, nobody they clean.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
From the photos. It just reminds me of that first
year when like a new building on a college campus
gets pro that's what it looks.

Speaker 1 (34:26):
Like, legit there and they run as far as core
value standard. I'm so excited for when Sal for Sela
comes on the pot. Obviously we'll be talking dad life,
but I just want people to understand that.

Speaker 2 (34:38):
This is that this dude their team, because there's a
lot of them.

Speaker 1 (34:43):
This isn't just Sal, but the way that they operate
on a daily basis their their foundation of thinking, their
foundation of values, their foundation of principles, how they think,
how they go about everything. Man, the details, all of it.
I aspire to be like it. I get like a
sponge around it because I'm so fascinated with how that

(35:05):
trickles down from top to bottom. Because they got I
don't know how many employees do they have the man.
That place is huge, hundreds if not thousands employees. Like,
the place is massive, but it is crazy, man, it
is crazy.

Speaker 2 (35:20):
And Sala is super intentional with his kids too. Again,
I love follow him on Instagram.

Speaker 1 (35:24):
He had me FaceTime in a couple of weekends ago
to give his son a pep talk before they played
a flag football game. He had me thinking on the
spot of talking about attitude and effort. But Sal's just
the man bro I love. But we bust each other's balls.
But dude, I'm a big I think very highly of
salf or Selah.

Speaker 2 (35:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (35:44):
Yeah he's a dog.

Speaker 2 (35:45):
Yeah, he's a dog.

Speaker 3 (35:46):
But to go back, Will lost's phone in the couch
during the episode.

Speaker 1 (35:49):
As I'm sitting there, phone slipped out and falls in
the middle right on stage like on stage. So then
when I get done and I'm looking for it, I
can't find it. I'm retracing. I didn't go very far
like my my my trail from where I was. I
was like, okay, maybe it's in the bathroom because I
went to the bathroom. Could just be sitting on the urinal.
Like when I took it out, scrolled something said it
on the urinal. Yeah, yeah, it wasn't there. I couldn't
find it. We look in the chair four or five

(36:12):
different times.

Speaker 3 (36:13):
For a while.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (36:15):
At on Newman's team too that he had on production,
they were like, I was like, hey, Will doesn't know
where his phone is. They were hell bent on finding
your phone, almost more than me. I was like, I
know it's going to show up.

Speaker 2 (36:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (36:24):
I'm like, I know it's right, and they were. They
were scrambling popa.

Speaker 2 (36:28):
I was like, I literally had I remember looking at
it before I went on stage show. It can't it
has to be around here.

Speaker 3 (36:34):
You would have thought that Will's the president and we
just lost the nuclear football. Yeah, the way this team
is acting, shout out.

Speaker 1 (36:41):
We had the chair turned over looking get it in
the bottom and everything else, and we couldn't find it.
But a couple, a couple Tier one sikos come just
in the crowd and they see us looking and he
just hits his boy as his name is Zach and
justin actually here base out of Nashville. Zach's like, hey,
should we go look for his phone? And they find
the phone in the chair by not only lift get over,
but they started moving it and could hear it sliding? No,

(37:03):
so it was just trapped somewhere that was just tough
to get to. So I don't fully put that, you
know what I mean, like it fell out?

Speaker 2 (37:10):
Yeah, I will, just doesn't deck. How do you feel?
You look like you're thinking about it now. I forgot
my iPad at home today, had dropped off of the house.
That's that's so like, I'm not out.

Speaker 3 (37:24):
Of I wouldn't my mind Why I said seventy five
twenty five is that if the twenty five is like
you know that it's in your pocket, it's in the chair.
I know it's in the chair. I had it before
I went on stage. That's the Hey, if we're doing
the full accountable, like Ray Lewis said, it starts today.

Speaker 2 (37:38):
Yeah, Ray Lewis is speaking. Ain't no coincidence, Ain't no
Coincidence's all looked like you're a twelve year old ago. Yeah,
Ray Ray, Ray did say that. Ray did say that.
But if it was awesome, The gifts are incredible. Thank
you guys.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
Pop a team six members that came up gifted us
some stuff. Got another gift of the week in from Sherm. Yes,
got a gift from Sherm.

Speaker 2 (38:04):
Do you open it? Bro?

Speaker 1 (38:06):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, and there's a funny moment about it.
Oh really, charl and I had so Sherm like him
and Jill gifted Charle and I a gift and it's
an awesome gift.

Speaker 2 (38:18):
It's gonna hang up right over my cold tub, no way.

Speaker 1 (38:21):
Yeah yeah, yeah, but we opened this gift right and
just like thinking us like their transition here, like parenthood, friendship,
all that stuff that Jill wrote us a card, Jill
corner to corner all throughout the car. Jill has her
own card and it's a bigger card. It's like this
and she's writing cover like all over the place. There's

(38:41):
no space on a table of contents. Yeah, people content.

Speaker 2 (38:46):
Sherm writes a card too, and it's it's a smaller
card because it's the only card, the only card we had.
Yeah you can tell what I wrote on it.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
I can't remember, but it was above like you had
a nice joke where I belly laughed out loud because
Sherm is playing like, you know, I'm basically writing on
this little shit card like Jill, she took up all
the stuff.

Speaker 2 (39:05):
So this is the only card I guess I can use.

Speaker 1 (39:07):
And sure it's like making a funny on the card,
but basically thanking us for a lot of stuff. And
open the gift and it's this frame. It's a nice
like glass or a crylic acrylic frame. And I'm thinking
the way Jill's talking about family, when you see this,
I want you to think like family, foundation, all these things.

(39:30):
So in my brain, I'm thinking, we're gonna get a
cool photo of Jill, Shirm and Scarlet. And so we
open this frame and inside this crylic frame is a
piece of art that is essentially like stone or a rock.

Speaker 2 (39:48):
But when I open it, it's like this charcoal color.

Speaker 1 (39:51):
It's got texture all to it and to where if
you go back to the card and read, it's like
this should look like a rock like foundation, like everything
that puts that encapsulates it's a family.

Speaker 2 (40:01):
It's this artwork of a.

Speaker 1 (40:02):
Essentially like a like a rock texture thing. I'm starting
to try and pull off. I'm starting to try and
pull off the art because I'm thinking it's just like
some foam thing over the photo, and I because Charles
like bread, and Charle's like, oh, that's really sweet. And

(40:25):
then if the camera pans over me, I'm going, hey,
how do I go about getting this thing off because
I'm like trying to pull it off in the corners
on the sides, and she's like, no, no, no'm sweet,
you don't pull that off, like that's art, Like it's
just they gifted us a piece of art. And I'm
like and then I kind of hold it on. I'm like,
so it's this, it's just this, and she's like, yeah,
it's art. She's like, look at what Jill wrote rock

(40:48):
Foundation all this stuff. I'm like, oh shit, this is
kind of dope.

Speaker 2 (40:53):
But I'm thinking I.

Speaker 1 (40:54):
Thought that there was a picture underneath, bro that is
very thought gifts.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
By the way, that is the most legendary. The fact
that just knowing my mom's process of when she layers
like paint makes it that much funnier. Yeah, you read
that feeling it because I look at the back and
there's like that that like canvas materials.

Speaker 1 (41:19):
Yeah, that canvas deaded material to where I'm pushing. I'm like, man,
maybe it's like a painting of the family.

Speaker 2 (41:23):
Or something like that.

Speaker 3 (41:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (41:24):
I'm like, I just got to get this thick texture
thing off of it.

Speaker 2 (41:29):
I don't blame I do, Okay, I'll be careful of
how I phrase this. My mom's pieces are very bright
and colorful, and the pieces that she wanted to do
for you and Taylor from how Jill kind of described
y'all's tastes in y'all's colors and like, uh, not minimalistic,

(41:50):
but like y'all's sense of design. My mom was like,
I want to go with like a real neutral, kind
of dark thing, like something I don't usually do right
up my alley, and so she went with that. But
it quite literally looks like obsidian or like some kind
of rock. Like I can see see now now that

(42:13):
I know what it is, truly see where you went.
Knowing me, you can see where my brain was going.
There it was going, but it's not like you know,
my mom's howling right now listening to this. By the ways,
wrapping paper ever, hey, that's the part that was the
that Scarlet helped with the wrapping paper, Like, oh.

Speaker 1 (42:33):
I love that because the wrapping paper was awesome. The
tape on the back was hilarious. What was it, just
like this white thick tape that's just all over the place.

Speaker 2 (42:40):
I guess your first time, like.

Speaker 1 (42:42):
Say that I figured say, say you figured out how
to really do a clean one side of a Christmas gift.
First time wrapping a Christmas gift, and you get the
you get the sides, and you get the top part
really clean, and then you kind of flip it over
and you're like, oh shit, what do I do this
back part?

Speaker 2 (42:57):
This is a hole. There's a hole.

Speaker 1 (42:58):
But great presentation, a gift, awesome card. Let's hang over
the cold tub. Oh, but amazing, Scarlet.

Speaker 2 (43:06):
That was I think Scarlett's first painting was the wrapping paper.
She did the painting on it. Oh, she with my mom. Yeah,
let's go man, that is awesome. It was fun, dude,
and that that kind of goes with like the I
don't think it was my crack of cold one, but
it was something on here because we put in the
show notes of just my mom has been talking day

(43:29):
and night about wanting to get Scarlet into her art studio,
and that was like my mom's super Bowl was getting
her in there and all three of the girls. That
was back when Jill was home for Easter. So I
was getting a bunch of facetimes, a bunch of photos
of the girls just in my mom's art studio in

(43:52):
her garage. She's had other studio spaces in the past,
but like right now it's in her garage, and uh,
it was cool, dude. It was like cool to see
those three generations like working together, really fun that it
was a gift for you and Taylor. And the gift
was because they gifted me for any new listeners night
nurses during my paternity leave when we had Scarlet, So

(44:17):
like that was the thank you of Like it was
very belated, by the way, nine months belated, but I'm
glad we got y'all something finally.

Speaker 1 (44:26):
Yeah, Mama Sharam, thank you so much. That gift is awesome. Yeah, everybody,
the whole family. Jill Scarscar even put a little twist
on it. Your card. Yeah, dude, thank you man.

Speaker 2 (44:36):
Yeah, dude. I didn't I didn't quite know what to
write to Charrow. I didn't. I didn't know because I
like don't know her, like on the superpersonal note, and
I was like, I'm gonna I'm gonna brag about how
cool my wife is and then just say I know
that Will thinks that you're that cool too. There you go, man,

(44:57):
there you go. That's I was like, that'll do it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely, bro.
But it was thank you for the gift. Absolutely is
some dad life.

Speaker 1 (45:06):
Charo had a birthday party, a classmates birthday party on
on Sunday.

Speaker 2 (45:10):
Oh yeah for real?

Speaker 1 (45:11):
Right, yeah, So we did the full thing on Saturday
in the first form. We get back the next day
on Sunday. This past Sunday, we had like a classmates,
so roosed classmates and her friends in her class.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
We invited them.

Speaker 1 (45:22):
To just basically go to the park, have cupcakes, set
do some games with them.

Speaker 2 (45:27):
We did like, was it sack race? We did a
sack race.

Speaker 1 (45:31):
We did uh, pinning the tail on the donkey, but
called it pin the Crown on the Princess.

Speaker 2 (45:35):
And it was just this it's one of Roos's photos
where she's just gone and all the they had.

Speaker 1 (45:41):
You had stick or tape on all these little crowns,
blindfold them, spin them around a couple of times. I
think they're playing hide and seek. They're playing on the playground, dude.
It was a blast.

Speaker 2 (45:53):
That looked like so much fun. Just the one tweet
that I loved the most was like that was at
the Shelby Bottoms said, yes, just that video of you,
Like I got these kids in a blender playing hide
and seek and how wide opening green it was dude,
And I'm like, for any st Sichos or soon to

(46:15):
be if you're in buds and you haven't had kids
yet and you miss those parts of your childhood of
running around in a big open grass field and playing
hide and seek your tag and you're like, oh, man,
I wish I could go back. You get to you
can watch those kids, man, Because I'm going up. I'm like, Sweeter,
are we good to do cupcakes?

Speaker 1 (46:35):
Because I tricked them earlier because they were about to
go to the playgrounds, like are we going to do cupcakes?
And they're like yes, I'll say, hey, kids, cupcakes and
they're like, we don't. We're not doing cupcakes for like
another five to ten minutes. But I had already yelled
cupcakes and the kids just immediately turn row. Yeah, they're
like cupcakes, cupcakes, And I'm like, okay, hey, I was joking.
It's gonna be in about five minutes. Cupcakes in about
five minutes, I see. I was like, how about you

(46:56):
guys instead of going to the playground, you guys go
playing the field or something and they start playing hide
and go seeking and then the cupcakes are ready, So
I'm like all right, So I can do the cupcake call.

Speaker 2 (47:05):
She's like, you can do the cupcake call. So I
start walking over and I.

Speaker 1 (47:08):
See one dad already getting out his phone and he's like, man,
this is gonna be good. And I was like, dude,
I was thinking the same exact thing. They're like in
the middle of play Hide and go Seek, and I'm like,
you know in the video kids cupcakes. And then they
all just stop. They were all getting ready. A lot
of them hide behind trees and stuff. You heard one
kid like counting out loud or something ready or not
here I come. And then just immediately once they heard
the cupcake call, they just swarm like zombies, like zombies.

Speaker 2 (47:32):
Bro like zombies.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
It is like, oh, They're all running, all run from
different angles of the field.

Speaker 2 (47:41):
The best part with kids, too, is you could have
yelled out the like worst thing, the worst thing in
the entire world, not even the cupcakes. You could have
been like, hey, the bubble blower things here, the bubble blower.
It's so stoked for anything.

Speaker 1 (47:57):
Yeah, Oh that was fun. You see Hey, you know,
Dad Bragg, did you see the roo hanging with one hand?

Speaker 2 (48:03):
Come on, break that down, cam fuetting one hand? Oh
my gosh, I'm not allowed to break down.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
We got video running right now. Chef's probably showing the
video right now. But Charle was like, hey, did you
see ru hanging with one hand? And I told her yeah,
but thinking, man, do I remember her hanging with one hand?
I remember her jumping up like holding on when we
were doing the monkey bars and when she's just wanting
to like hang on a bar.

Speaker 2 (48:37):
Oh.

Speaker 1 (48:37):
And then she shows me the video of Rue like
jumping up for this little this metal ring and trying
to grab with two hands at first, but then going
like you know, one, two, three, and then jumping up
and grabbing it with one hand.

Speaker 2 (48:48):
And I'm like, oh, get my Yeah, it's there. She
doesn't know, you know what I mean, she doesn't know
what she's doing the dad, but it's there. Yeah, dad
was doing that back in Bontaire.

Speaker 1 (48:59):
Yeah who knows if. I was like to me, I'm
just I'm just impressed. My you know, she just turned
four years old. And this dude is like, you know,
i'll get her to her if she's wanting to play
on monkey bars, but hey, you want to see how
long you can hang? Like to wear in my brain,
I'm like, let me start like training her grip. Let
me start like training a couple things in like a
fun way. Let's see if you can do it for
twenty seconds or I'm like, you know, and then she

(49:21):
wants to do it again, and then she might fall
like a t I'm like, well, your grip's worn out.
We got to get a couple of rest, like slid
a couple of times. She had to slide a couple
of times. Hey, sweetheart, you want to try again? Yeah, Like,
how long do you want to hang? She's like, as
long as for a hundred seconds And I'm like, okay,
let's try one hundred seconds dead.

Speaker 2 (49:36):
I'll count for you.

Speaker 1 (49:37):
I remember one time she was hanging, bro and she
got like fifty two seconds hanging from the hanging from
the bar.

Speaker 2 (49:44):
Dude, that's very impress She gets out. I'm like, dude,
you were such a beast. You don't even know it.
You're a beast? Is that I'm not a beast? Yeah, honey, yeah,
you don't get it yet. You're a beast. Yeah, you're
the princess beast, prince a very beast. And they used
to ford guppies. Will aren't those your creteam comans? No, no,
flints dun gu Yeah, yeah, yeah, dude, it was.

Speaker 1 (50:07):
It was sick, though, Man, it was fun watching it
get loved. Don't have all the little kid of seeing
her dynamic with her friends, seeing that she has friends
at school, you know what I mean, and meeting all
the parents, getting to see him around and all of
us function together, getting the sack race going. You know,
I'm basically like, hey, eyes on me, like I'm lining up. Hey,
stand over here, Hey Leo, come over here, man, come
over here. I know you're gonna go first. Everybody goes

(50:27):
at the same time, but I need you to stand
right here. They're all talking. Hey, guys, I need you
to listen. I need you to listen. I'm down on
a knee looking at looking at all of them, getting
in my coach speak with them, tell them, hey, hey,
here's how we're gonna do the cadence.

Speaker 2 (50:38):
You're not moving before I say go, how many sacks
are we working with? Going at once?

Speaker 1 (50:44):
I'll give Chef the video so we can see, but
I want to say it's about like seven.

Speaker 2 (50:47):
Oh that's a sack race. Yeah, oh, this is a
full it's a sack race. Yeah. We're not playing around.

Speaker 1 (50:52):
Yeah yeah, but just watching the whole thing take place.
You know, we catered in Lady Bird. Shout out Ladybird,
No free shout outs to Lady Bird.

Speaker 2 (51:00):
Great Texas, Austin, Texas.

Speaker 1 (51:02):
Hello, Hello, flower tortilla's, the corn tortilla's, the cherizo, the
chicken cheese, Kaso rips their patron sauce like spicy patron sauce. Oh,
come on, but awesome, awesome weekend, awesome weekend.

Speaker 2 (51:18):
On my end was that was that your cracker cole one?
I believe that's my crack.

Speaker 1 (51:23):
That's well Craca cole one rue hanging with one hand
at her birthday party on the on the on the
metal rink.

Speaker 2 (51:28):
Come on, I mean well, the only reason I hass
is I was like, it don't get much better than that, Like,
what's this guy's cracker cole one?

Speaker 1 (51:35):
You're right, that's a classic grape kracker cole one right there,
shout out ollipop, my.

Speaker 2 (51:40):
Cracker cold one. Was also a birthday party. It was Brady's,
which is Jeremy klamp Our, chief of staff. Yeah, Ptisico,
pt Siico, his four year old son, Brady's fire truck
themed birthday party. That is my first little kids birthday
party in attendance with my daughter. It's very fun, dude.

(52:02):
I'm glad you made it.

Speaker 1 (52:04):
Oh yeah, he was on the rocks for a second
that nobody was gonna come.

Speaker 2 (52:08):
Oh the buddy, dude speaking people are gonna come. It's
a buddy. It's solo Saturday. Yeah, and I have a
reason to get out of the house. None nonetheless a
birthday party. You just know this, bro.

Speaker 1 (52:19):
As far as Papa Team six members have another Bet
six members back, I had your back did going through
that conversation with it? Because we were flying We did
the spring tour Notre Dame in Miami last week, Notre
Dame blogs out, Notre Dame interviews with Coach Freeman's out,
that's on bus with the Boys channel. Come on, we
were traveling around you obviously weren't traveling with us. But
columb is kind of talking about this, and I'm like, uh,

(52:39):
have you asked?

Speaker 2 (52:40):
Have you asked?

Speaker 1 (52:40):
Sure him, He's like, oh, Jill's out of town for
the weekend. He's got scarlet by himself. And I'm like, bro, bro,
even more reason?

Speaker 2 (52:46):
What does that mean?

Speaker 1 (52:48):
Like you're not giving enough credit to your fellow Papa
Team sixer. You think he's just gonna sit at home
and think he has to do everything at home. Entire
routine has to be home. Like no, bro, you're talking
about a Papa team sicko. Like Sure is more than dialed.
He gets out all the time. You went with him
to the zoodo. He operates solo. You guys, he goes
out to eat with people like he operates. Did you

(53:08):
listen to last week's episode?

Speaker 2 (53:09):
Are we recording right now? Last time I checked? Yes,
we're okay. I'm sorry, Keep going, keep going. That was
a wild get off the the rail were good. Oh no,
I'm saying I'm fucking stoked with what you're saying. Oh yeah,
Oh bro, I'm like this man is dialed. As far

(53:29):
as operating a mission solo, you think he what just guy,
he's got to drive twenty to thirty minutes out to
your place.

Speaker 1 (53:36):
He ain't gonna be ready to go backpack bottles, snacks, toys,
anything to operate.

Speaker 2 (53:41):
Oh, JJ and Brady want to play outside.

Speaker 1 (53:43):
You don't think he's got some matt to just go
out across the lawn and she can operate solo by
herself while he kicks it with you. By the way, clump.
It's your birthday. Even though you're throwing Brady at birthday party,
it's your birthday. Surean would be more than happy if
you just let him know that, like, YO would love
to have you there.

Speaker 2 (54:00):
He wouldn't think twice about it. Bro, There's no question.
I texted him and I said, Hey, Jill's not going
to be there, but we're there. We're there. That's a
walk in the park. That's a walk in the park.
And not to make the birthday sound like it's not
something I want to go to. It's a solo Saturday
with Scarlet. I'm dying for an excuse of a controlled

(54:21):
environment to get out of the house and take my
daughter to I am dying for any excuse to get
out of the house. And I'm like birthday party, free food, friends,
a bunch of kiddos running around, a bunch of people
that want to interact with my daughter. Camaraderie, camaraderie. Can
I come like? Hell? Yes, dude, got the dude, I

(54:45):
I did too. Uh right, this is by crack of
cold one part. But to brag on myself, I did
pack her bag, dude, Jill didn't pack the bag for
the birthday party. I noticed that she All she did
was just lay out an outfit that she wants and
it's scarlet to wear to the party. For me to
take a picture of scarlet with JJ.

Speaker 1 (55:04):
You're telling me, you're you're telling me your wife, the
one who's in charge of you. The boss didn't tell
you what to do, how to do it, trusted you
fully and you not. You not only took that, You
not only took that. Receive that.

Speaker 2 (55:20):
Yeah, you operated. And I have a statement here from
Jill that I get to read. I don't have to
read it. Sherman gets to do careful, careful reading it
coming off like a dumb, dumb husband. Dad, don't do
a trope. Don't trope. This isn't troupe. She wrote this.
Don't trompe, man, I'm not tromping. She wrote this. Sherman
gets to do what he wants and uh he loves

(55:44):
me very much, signed Juli Young. I get to do
what I want, yeah, man, oh yeah you know, yeah,
of course, come on, I get to do what I want.

Speaker 1 (56:00):
I want to know if this man Ryan Hammont too,
like okay, he listened. Maybe he listened to a clip
like do women going that? Can you put your wife
in the doghouse. Does this mean that he just puts
his wife in the doghouse? Would love to understand how
that works. Yeah, how does that work?

Speaker 2 (56:13):
Because my whole thing, don't don't only say yes, break
down how she gets to the doghouse. Yeah, so that
way we can easily poke holes and every and probably
everything that went on for her to be in a doghouse.

Speaker 3 (56:25):
Yeah, would love to be a fly in the wall
and see how he actually handles the situations. Yeah, Like
is he actually just being like you're doing it again, honey?
Like is it like you know, imagine imagine is one
of those things like she finds that comment on Instagram
and she's like, you know, comes home and she goes, oh,
so you just you put me in my place all
the time?

Speaker 1 (56:44):
Yeah, Ryan, Yeah, Ryan Hammond just seems like, uh, he
lets his wife out of the cage when he gets home.

Speaker 2 (56:50):
Yeah, is she doing the three piece? Like I didn't
even know that women could do one of those three piece?
So like, yeah, I'm just like, what's going on? Like
I don't understand he did put ol So he's changed
trying to be as lighthearted as he can. He put
maybe he's doing a bit.

Speaker 1 (57:08):
He could be doing maybe us because we don't want
to maybe we don't want to put him in the
phoenix box.

Speaker 2 (57:13):
No, oh no, he's not even close. I feel like
that's Term's burner account. It could be oh this, hey,
this will get the boys dalk in. Yeah, this will
get a dog in. I what was it? Oh? I
packed my own bag for the birthday party, and I
remembered all the essentials due The only thing I forgot
was a straw. It's that same water cup deacon chef

(57:34):
that I forgot at the barbecue spot. But Scarlet is
a pro. Would just fill up a cup with water
or get a little water bottle and stick a straw
any type of straw in there, and she rocks it.
But I have the sunscreen, I had the sunglasses. I
had the swimsuit because they had an inflatable in the
backyard with like a water slid on it. Oh, dude

(57:57):
was ripping around on that with Scarlet and my lap. Mackenzy,
Jared's girlfriend was there. She is obsessed with Scarlet, and
Scarlett's obsessed with her, and she's like, can I hold her?
Like that's the worst thing she could ask me on
playing at Earth. I'm like Baker, keep her here, you go.
I get I gotta have a couple of lollipops. So

(58:19):
see you in a second.

Speaker 1 (58:20):
Yeah, if I could, if I could break down from
the lens of a Ryan listening to this.

Speaker 2 (58:28):
It's real.

Speaker 1 (58:28):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's real because there are dads that
the Papa team siccos the ones that know the standard
that listen to you, that talk about the show, Oh
I packed my own bag, Oh I did this, Oh
I did that, and those men that are on the
standard of yeah, no shit, you should we know that.
But there's also those dads need to know that there's

(58:50):
a lot of new dads or dads out there that
have that might have no clue that these things get
thought about. That they need to be prepared for that
in the humor of it, that's a win. That's like
a win for the group of like understanding and learning
all the ins and outs of what goes into like
say a solo mission.

Speaker 2 (59:07):
Does that make sense? We're we're talking. If you're you're
sitting there and you listen, I brought the straw.

Speaker 1 (59:12):
I forgot I didn't forget this, And it's like, oh yeah,
no shit, Yeah, we're on the same page with you.

Speaker 2 (59:17):
But there are also a lot of there's a.

Speaker 1 (59:19):
There's a there's a lot of dads out there that
might not even know that this stuff goes on, or
dad's out there that just stay in the house and
stay routine from what their the list that their wife
might have wrote them down if they're not fully trusted
at the house to.

Speaker 2 (59:32):
Know, like this is how you operate. Need we meet uh,
need we need reminding? What's the phrase? Hell yeah, keep
it going? Need we need reminding that I forgot my
freaking diaper bag when I went to that Stars game
with your girlfriend and had to We parked and got

(59:54):
out and I forgot the diaper bag. We had to
get back in the car twenty minutes back to the house,
missed the first spirit of the game because Bozo packed
the diaper bag in the house and didn't put it
in the car. Yeah, like my baseline was like below
this tape if you know the story arc of Shurm. Yeah,
and you're pod that's a big deal, my man.

Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
Look at the way he's grown since the times of
like having some mess ups.

Speaker 2 (01:00:18):
Yeah, dude, And did I forget the stroller? Yes? Did
I need the stroller at the party. Now, I didn't
need it, but I did intend to pack it. I
did forget it. It happens, It happens. Happens. Man. Yeah,
we're not. Nobody's perfect. Nobody's perfect, Noy's perfect. But that
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We were shooting a movie. You did a great job.
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The pretending to be a kid with Will coming in
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Speaker 1 (01:05:37):
I did Dad win last week. When we got back
from Miami on Thursday, I was putting room in beds
Like last week, you know, I was telling the stories
of like storytime, making up stories.

Speaker 2 (01:05:47):
Using the Disney outline. Yet there this one.

Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
I was telling her like we need Dad. AD's gotta
sit down, Brad. Dad's brains exhausted, it's not firing on
all cylinders.

Speaker 2 (01:05:56):
Like, let's do a book.

Speaker 1 (01:05:58):
And so she wanted to read The Big Red lest
read The Big Red Slide. The Big Red Slide is
essentially little Pup who approaches this Big Red slide and
he's scared for days at a time. He sees it,
sees the long line, he sees how high it is.
He gets nervous. He says, I don't want to do
the slide anymore. Mom, maybe tomorrow, She says, maybe tomorrow.
They come back the next day. He climbs up to
the top. Once he gets at the top, he looks

(01:06:19):
down and sees how far down it is, and all
of a sudden, he's brave climbing up the ladder.

Speaker 2 (01:06:24):
Now he stops.

Speaker 1 (01:06:25):
He doesn't feel so brave, so he comes back down
and says, Mom, maybe tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (01:06:28):
So Mom takes him home. They do a.

Speaker 1 (01:06:30):
Little concrete slide like off the like off the stoop
in the front of little pup bills these have I
told this story.

Speaker 2 (01:06:38):
You did during our pre production meeting. That's where your day,
Joa Vasish, I was gonna say, I'm getting massive at
sho okay because we were sitting just.

Speaker 1 (01:06:48):
Builds a cardboard slide for his stuffed animals and tells
him to be brave, have courage, like going down the slide,
attacking your fears, all that stuff, and he's rooting them on.
So later down the road, he goes to the park again,
sees the big Red slide, but he meets his friend.
This friend's name is Little Duck. They talk about going

(01:07:08):
on the big Red slide together and Little Duck they
stand in line. They go with the Big Red slide.
He gets to the top of the big Red slide.
He doesn't feel so brave anymore, and little Duck he
helps him go down the Big Red slide. They down
the Big Red Slide. They have so much fun. Rue
loves this story and I got to tie it into
I was like, hey, Dadda wasn't so brave today. Dada

(01:07:30):
has a story to where I went really high up
and I got really scared, and honestly I wanted to
go down.

Speaker 2 (01:07:35):
I just couldn't because I was so high up. I
forgot about this element to the story. The white Will's
about to tell next truly shocked me.

Speaker 1 (01:07:44):
So We're at Miami and they have this ten meter
diving board. I thought it was like a ten meter
pool and they have like a diving board. So I'm like, hell, yeah,
let's go off the diving board. We're doing the tour
and we get to this pool they're like Olympic pool
or they're swimming team pool, where they have a ten
meter thirty feet in the air. He said, thirty feet
three feet.

Speaker 2 (01:08:04):
You have to say, for any of those at home,
the metric system meters a lot longer than feet, so
don't think ten feet. Yeah, I know, it's three feet
in a yard three point two eight, three point two eight.
This thing is up there, bro, and I'm seeing it
and I'm like, it's like thirty five feet right.

Speaker 1 (01:08:21):
Yeah, I'm like not as young as I used to be,
Like I used to like not have a fear like
being a lifeguard, having a high dive. I'd rip gainers,
I do one and a half. I do things off
of a diving board, like I jump off cliffs. But
I wasn't like I didn't get like, I'm not like
an adrenal in adrenaline junkie, like bungee jumping stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (01:08:39):
I get scared of being high up. I'm scared of heights.

Speaker 1 (01:08:42):
But once you get comfortable doing the diving board stuff,
it feels like, oh, I'm jumping in water, I'm jumping
in a pool, I'm jumping in water off of a
cliff when we go cliff jumping. But I'm looking at
how high this board is and I'm like, yo, this
is I'm kind of not one to do it, but
I said I wanted to do it. And now you
kind of get peer pressure, like Tailor's doing it, Jack's
doing it. The boys are going to Brett Mace, who
went with us. Who's a Miami Hurricane stick and he

(01:09:04):
hit it before you. Yeah, they all did.

Speaker 2 (01:09:06):
Oh will.

Speaker 1 (01:09:07):
I'm climbing up this these diving boards right because you
go up one, then there's a diving board, you go back,
you go up another ladder, there's another diving board. You
go to the side, climb up, climb all the way
up to the top.

Speaker 2 (01:09:18):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (01:09:18):
And as you're climbing up, I'm scared shitless because everybody's.

Speaker 2 (01:09:22):
Getting on climbing. They're climbing up.

Speaker 1 (01:09:24):
So the ladder's like wet, and it's like a tight climb,
so you could slip, you could do anything. I'm just
kind of looking off to the side and I'm like,
yo a, I don't want to do this. But JP,
like I had a GoPro. JP's like, bring this up
with you.

Speaker 2 (01:09:36):
So I put the go pro on my pocket as
I'm climbing up and I get to the top and
you just know the feeling like when you're on a
platform and it's just nothing around you. It's just you
got jumping off your head.

Speaker 1 (01:09:45):
You're on a you're up high, like just a feeling
you get in your con as Bro, I get this
tickling feeling in my balls and just the vibe you
get like in your sides, like in your head, and
I'm just looking and I'm like, I'm thinking in my head,
I don't know if I can jump. I'm like looking
over guys are jumping off. I'm up there for four

(01:10:06):
or five minutes as this go pro is going. It
takes me that long to jump off. Taylor ends up
jumping off. All the boys jump off the women's diving team.
They start chirping me at the time of like, come on,
we don't have all day, and I'm just like, I'm
legitimately I'm legitimately scared, and you're trying to like play
the game, be humorous about it. I know I can
talk myself into it, but internally, like I'm like, I'm terrified.

(01:10:29):
Taylor gets out of the pull and comes back up
to the very top with me. He's a little duck,
I'm little pup. It says like, hey, I'm gonna count
the three, and then when I hit three, you go off,
and my god, got you. I'm with you, like you know,
you're like being men, but also like I got got
you. You count the three, I'm gonna jump off, and I'm
like holding this thing up and like looking over. He's
like one two three, and I like take a step.
I'm like, just get give me another, just give me

(01:10:51):
a little bit more time. I'm going to go. I
just need a little bit more than He's like, I
got you. I got you. So we do it on
the next time, one two three. I have the video,
I can give it to you. Shut but I just
jump off. Whole way down, I jump in get out
and like, hey, how'd you feel? I was like, dude,
I was terrified the whole way down. I'm like, and no,
do you want to do it again? I'm no, I
don't want to do it again. Like Eve, when I
jumped off, I thought I was gonna I knew I

(01:11:12):
was gonna like lose my stomach. I was gonna lose
my body. But it happened. But then you have like
a come to on the way down to where then
it feels fun. I didn't have to come too. I'm
like going down the whole time, Candlin, I'm just.

Speaker 2 (01:11:22):
Like, ah, hit the water. But I'm fired up that
I did it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:28):
Yeah that I was brave little pupp in this scenario,
but I was I'm retired from jumping off with I'm
retired from jumping off a ten meter diving board.

Speaker 2 (01:11:37):
Good career, Hey, good career. It was a good career.
It was a good career.

Speaker 1 (01:11:40):
But as I'm coming home, I'm telling Ruth this story.
Fortunately I had video too. I'm like watch that. She's like, Daddy,
you were scared. I was like, sweetheart, I'm not messing
with you. I was terrified being up there. She's like,
I could do it. No, no, no, no, you cannot do it.
She's like, maybe when I'm ten. Maybe when you're ten,
you can jump off the diving board. She's telling mom
the next day, Mom, when I'm ten, I'm gonna jumf
the dime.

Speaker 2 (01:12:00):
No way.

Speaker 1 (01:12:01):
Yeah, she'd be she'd be terrified. I'd be terrified for yeah. Like, bro,
I'm not not a big I'm not a huge heightsky.
Love roller coasters, but that's controlled. You're like in a seat,
You're doing all the things, but not a big heightsky.
Not a big heightsky.

Speaker 2 (01:12:15):
You'd be terrified for it, just like Keanu Reeves was
terrified for g baby as he stepped to the plate
Amen brother, but he faced face that beer. I will
say with the cliff jumping. I resonated with that. I
saved it for the pot. I didn't tell you this before.
That was my biggest fear as a kid. I was
the kid that sat there and cried and then end

(01:12:37):
up jumping like three or four times. Because we'd go
to Possum Kingdom Lake shout out the tabers every fourth
of July and they have a bunch of cliff jumping,
and I would always cry. I would never jump. And
I went to summer camp and I was like, I
gotta get over this. I can't be that kid at
this summer camp because I saw a kid doing the

(01:12:58):
same thing and crying. Everybody down below being like, oh
my god, if you just jumped, he'd be fine. And
so I swallowed that fear, dude, and I went up
there and I was like, they don't know that you're scared.
They don't know if you just jump, they're not going
to know that you were scared the whole time. And
I just forced myself to jump higher and higher and

(01:13:18):
higher like cliff jumping, and then I got so into it, dude.
I was like throwing gainers and stuff off of like
tall cliffs. And the last time I tried to throw
something was when I was actually a counselor. I was
like twenty three and I tried to do the squirrel
dive where you jump forward and you front flip into

(01:13:40):
a dot one and a half. Yeah, that'd be one
and a half. I'm thinking squirrel dive.

Speaker 1 (01:13:45):
You might be like, grab your ankles, come down, grabbing
your ankles.

Speaker 2 (01:13:49):
Oh sorry, So I'm like yo, because I saw this
guy do it before me, and he did like full extension,
like feet together, kind of like squirppying down the.

Speaker 1 (01:14:01):
Uh yeah, you would like you die, comes like this
and then hits the flip and dives in.

Speaker 2 (01:14:06):
You hit the flip and land feet first. So you
dive forward, hit the flip, and then land feet first.
So it's like a swan dive into a flip. Yes, okay,
And I'm like, oh, bro, I'm gonna hit that. There's
some cute girl counselors watching. I'm already hit some gainers.
I'm like, oh buddy, I'm about to nail this. I

(01:14:27):
had blood seeping out of my back. Dude, it was
like a forty foot cliff and I fully landed on
my back fully will like could not they the people
that were watching were like Sherman, if you had tried
to land on your back like that, you wouldn't have
been able to do it. You were perfectly flat. One

(01:14:47):
of the said cute girls that I was crushing on
had to help me to a boat because yeah, okay,
they give me on the boat. They lay me on
my stomach and I had blood oozing out of my back. Yeah,
and my entire back was purple. Dude. It was crazy.

(01:15:10):
And that was the last time I tried. So I
need to face my fears again and go. She retired
from that moment. You've been retired. Yeah, I might not
do a front flip back. I mean, how high is
the cliff that one? Yeah, it was like forty that's crazy, man.
But the way I would hate gainers is I would
do it like real slow and I felt really in control. Yeah,
Like that wasn't scary for me. It's the front flip

(01:15:32):
that I'm not able to like spot the landing, yeah,
oh buddy. And I was really afraid of the dark,
and so like once I got to college, I was like,
I gotta face this fear. So I'd turn off all
the lights in the house at night and I would
stand in like really dark rooms and like try to
make myself scared and like face it and like stand
in the darkness because I was like it worked with

(01:15:54):
the heights. Yeah, and it kind of worked. I don't
need a flashlight anymore in the house. I can kind
of oh dark Bernie listeners at home, it's a goom
beret winom win boom ber w. Yeah. I don't even
know where I was going. Let's read. Let's read some comments.
Let's read some comments.

Speaker 1 (01:16:14):
You you were resonating with the heights thing retiring, jumping
off the heights.

Speaker 2 (01:16:18):
Yes, from the story Big Red Side. Great great children's book,
by the way, God, great book. I do have a
really funny comment that wanted to read off from this
is uh our flashback comments, but that's not our word flow.
Oh I have a I have a flashback comment. What
do you got?

Speaker 1 (01:16:38):
I got one from Hunter Robertson on Spotify. We did
that hack for my daughter's second birthday and baby's first birthday.
All the animals had a party, had party had sitting
on the living room floor in front of the birthday
presence dad to a two and a half year old
in fifteen month year old girls. Hashtag beat siko So
if you listen to last week's episode, the dad hack
of the week was, you want to find a way

(01:16:58):
to really heighten the start of your birthday. You go
up in the room when they're sleeping at night, like
as they're sleeping on the night right before their birthday.
You get a bunch of stuffed animals. You have them
sitting waiting in the living room for when they come
out of the room. You put them in party hats.
We went as far as work. They're each holding a
balloon and roof comes out where we just talk. We

(01:17:19):
just get so excited about how the animals snuck out
like toy story and are waiting for her on her
birthday to like celebrate them in their birthday.

Speaker 2 (01:17:26):
You need to evolve it every single year, Like you
need to add more and more stuff, like try and
put some little apparatus where they're like holding party poppers
or like blowers.

Speaker 1 (01:17:37):
Yeah yeah, I hit the button and it doesn't go
off and I'm like damn. Or she becomes a teenager.
Just when she becomes a teenager and she's like over it,
you know what I mean? To be like an od
dad just like hire people characters like Elsa and everybody
to come in.

Speaker 2 (01:17:54):
And sweet an't there all your three birthday?

Speaker 1 (01:17:57):
Oh my god, that's that's Pal from Beauty and the Beast.

Speaker 2 (01:18:02):
You're pow. Yeah, Dad, that's really heard. That's really heard.
You're yelling. Hey, Deborah from church. I know, okay, I
know she's being tough. Just staying characters, staying character. It's
what I paid you for, Deborah. Don't don't break. Don't break.
She thinks you bell uh. Jordan Ford on Spotify says
the section with Jill was too good, absolutely laughing out loud.

(01:18:25):
Keep it up, boys, this pod keeps me pushing in
the right direction. PT six official in June. Cheers, congratulations Shorten.
I had another flashback hit it last one. This is
my favorite comment of the week. By the way, this
comes from Coach Web nine nine zero three on YouTube.
He said, I can't believe I just listened to the
CTE Champ tell a ten minute reprise bugs live bedtime story.

(01:18:50):
This pod is ridiculous and I don't miss an episode
that that's what this pod. I mean, that's what this
pod is. That's the pod. That's the pod, that's the show.
Coach Webb gets it. Yeah, I would love to see
what Ryan's thoughts like, Was I doing the dumb dad
and husband trope with telling that game of storytelling? Wait,

(01:19:13):
so you tell you get a story every night? You know,
just tell them to go to bed. Ain't telling you
a story, kiddo. I got a dad loss.

Speaker 1 (01:19:21):
Here a dad lost right in it's bonesy massive fumble.
This is from the reddit channel ov Yeah, on the
four of the Dad's Podcast Reddit channel, And this plays
well because we just went to Miami. This is somebody
who's in around the University of Miami.

Speaker 2 (01:19:36):
No way. Yes, I've been.

Speaker 1 (01:19:38):
Listening to the pod since the first episode and have
loved it so much so that I decided to get
my girlfriend into listening as well, sort of a film
study for a couple of st six ers. She's an
athletic trainer at the University of Miami, and as some
of you know, the boys were just there hitting their
spring tour. In the middle of my workday. I got
a fantastic text from her saying, you won't believe who

(01:20:01):
our part next to.

Speaker 2 (01:20:02):
It was all the boys. In her excitement, she forgot to.

Speaker 1 (01:20:05):
Say hi, or get a picture or sneak in a
little call sign shouting out letting the boys know that we.

Speaker 2 (01:20:11):
Were some st sixers. Oh what do I have to
say to that? Good?

Speaker 1 (01:20:17):
Anyways, there will be another chance, I'm sure, but most
definitely gonna need to run this one up the chain
of command as a massive fumble.

Speaker 2 (01:20:23):
Oh dude, I'm just any st Sico empty Sicico's female
audience out there listening. If she had hit you with
some terminology, dude, that's all you gotta do. You would
have geaked. You would have geeked if it was coming
from an empty Sico. Yeah, absolutely, any again, pet Sico,

(01:20:45):
empty Sico Stcicico. You hit me with one of those,
it's your stopping in looking I did. Dad lost this
week very quick, storry. Dad lost this weekend. We set
up a tea time to go golf. As we're walking
up with Scarlet, they're like, hey, for liability reasons, she
coming with you on the cart. I'm like, yes, sir,
can't have it man, so sorry, let's get you in

(01:21:06):
the clophouse. We'll refund you. I was like, oh no, damn, dude,
I didn't even think about that. But okay, we're gonna
have like a family outing. It's fine. We went to
Good Hey, good good. Anyways, as that like kind of
bummer thing happens, this one guy comes up to me
apologize and he's like, dude, I'm so sorry, but uh
just recognize you and like fucking love the pod. Dude,

(01:21:27):
love for the dads, and gave me a dap up.
I was like, dude, thanks, you kicked me up five
more times something like that. Dude, thank you so much.
And I tried to ask him for his name, but
he was like walking away so quickly that I fumbled.
I fumbled. I was like, I just got y'all have
a good one, thanks for listening, and walked off. I

(01:21:47):
was like, oh, he's just from the Rafts for the Dads.
Like I'm gonna stop in my tracks. I'm gonna be like,
give me a second walking over there. Those footsteps were
like Stee Griffin on the Family Guy, Hey, you listened
the pot. I appreciate you. I have a dad lass

(01:22:09):
here mother in law parked in front of me or
in front of the trash cans last week, which prevented
the city from picking up the trash. Good. Yeah, great,
I should have foreseen this coming. It sounds like this
was Brent Kiello's fault. Brent should have seen this coming. Guys,
don't be like me and plan accordingly. That's not his fault.
Or sorry, that's his fault. Yeah, that's his fault. Good

(01:22:31):
mother in law should park or should have parked there
and didn't park there. You see how my I'm all,
Ryan's got me fucked up. Yeah, dude, right, Ryan's got
me fucked up. Dude, of those dumb motherfuckers. Didn't plan good? Good,
wrong thing happened good, the right thing happened. You didn't
plan for it good. Yeah, yeah, dad hack. You had

(01:22:55):
a really good dad hack from uh Guso. Oh no,
the one, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah Suko Suko,
not Cuso. Suko. Shout out the boy Cuso. Shout out
the boy Cuso. But we're talking about Suco's Cuso. Chef Cuso. Oh,
shout chef Cuso.

Speaker 1 (01:23:12):
Yeah, so Suko had a great dad hack. In the
locker room at the first form event, the man who
gave us this, who gifted us this jersey before the
dad's jersey Nebraska GBR GBR, and he said, hey, I
got a dad hack for I was like, bro feed
it to me. Chicks like, hey, we gotta get going.
There's somebody. You know, we got to get the pictures.
Bah blah, ma'am, just give us a minute. He's got

(01:23:34):
a dad hack here. This is I want to hear
this conference. This is a business comment. Yeah, yeah, it's
a business comment. And he's like, got a dad hack.
He's like, you talk about travel all the time. I
hear you know, the dad guilt, the sadness, like you know,
rue having meltdowns. Like if Dad's not there, here's a
good dad hack for you, because I heard you talk
about storytelling and reading bedtime stories and doing all that.
He was like, take out, do the voice memo, record

(01:23:57):
yourself or even do a video if you want to
record yourself reading her a bedtime story. So that way,
if mom's handling a breakdown and she wants dad, dad,
and she can't reach you on the phone.

Speaker 2 (01:24:07):
She's got to go too. For Hey, Dad has.

Speaker 1 (01:24:09):
Sent in this story for you to read you a
story for bedtime. You can just sit the story up
next to her and obviously she'll be fascinated with it.
Gives mom a breather while she's sitting in the room
to do whatever she's got to do.

Speaker 2 (01:24:21):
Zuka.

Speaker 1 (01:24:22):
Yeah, she's like, Mom can just chow whether she wants
to be on her phone go handle some business or
itch or whatever it is. Yeah, she could just sit
there for a few minutes and listen to Dad tell
her a story for bedtime. Suka, well done, great.

Speaker 2 (01:24:34):
Dad, hack great dad.

Speaker 1 (01:24:35):
And he's like in another one for you, because you
were talking about doing the Disney storytelling with Princess Rue,
Tige and Zue.

Speaker 2 (01:24:41):
Yeah, yeah, he goes.

Speaker 1 (01:24:42):
You can tap into AI to give you a layout,
Like if Rude gives you a few things, you put
it in there. It can spit you out something to
where if you are exhausted, you're not one to think
on your feet or anything else. It gives you a
story that you can tell that AI might give you,
which I was super into. People could be turned off
by the AI thought, I know, my wife's turned off
by the earth AI. I thought, right now, sitting in
her car, she's probably beating her stirring wheel. But the

(01:25:04):
thought of like knowing that something could be could be coming,
and you you're like, Okay, I won't be prepared this way,
or I might be exhausted by the time I get here.
But putting the intention into asking the right questions, building
out the right story and be like, I love this story.

Speaker 2 (01:25:17):
I'm taking it to him. It's like, dude, it's a
home run. I have done that. I have done that
when I'm already feeding forgot to get the book and
I'm doing solo tuck in so I don't have Jill
to like help or whatever if I can't get up
and go to her books across the nursery. I've gotten
on chat GBT and I'm literally I use the voice
thing and i just go, hey, a story about a

(01:25:40):
young princess named Scarlett that wants to fly and touch
the moon money, and it just it will start talking
like you could have them do it, or you read
it like it's kind of sick. Nice. I thought it
was a great day. Shout out Suko, Shout out Suko.
Hey GBR GBR go Big Red, Go Big Red, Go
Big Red. Tawnty on Spotify, Nico says dad hack. For

(01:26:03):
the Nanate users, you can go to the memories in
the app. I highly suggest this, by the way, and
get a free slideshow of your little one growing up.
As my son is about to turn one. I recently
found it and got kicked right into the fields. That
is that is a true story, dude, nanit ribs like
it tracks all this different stuff and it will be

(01:26:25):
like anniversary of the first time your kid slept twelve hours.
Like you're like what, Oh dude, it's crazy. Like they
nanit ribs. Obviously they ate the friends of the show. Oh,
friends of the show for a reason. This is alignment.
This is alignment. This is easy. Yeah. Yeah, we don't

(01:26:45):
just read any mom and pop shop. Yeah, this is
nan it Yeah, roast sparks. We don't just read anything bigger, thicker,
longer erections. Guys, we do have I have a quick
shout out that I'll summarize. I got a wifey shout out.

Speaker 1 (01:27:03):
I see you're holding the book, so I'll just hit
a quick wifey shout out. Hit the wife This from
h T T This from h T Town on YouTube.
Wifey shout out a PR. As of Saturday after this pod,
this Cicico will have proposed to his old lady. Let

(01:27:24):
me let me do whoa HT Town APR. As a
Saturday after this pod, this Cico will have proposed to
his old lady. Huge shout out to the future kinsy
laffy lear la fa Leir Lafalier, Lafallier, Kinsey la Falier.

Speaker 2 (01:27:43):
They say it with a French accident and it will sound.

Speaker 1 (01:27:45):
Right Laflier, Yeah, yeah, that was Oh that's right, that's right,
Kinsey Laflier hard emoji, fire emoji hashtag No, then free
shout outs.

Speaker 2 (01:28:06):
Did he put the roller Custer emogi on there? He didn't?
Did he put the bow emerging on there? He didn't?
All right, we'll send him some coupons, can send him
some coup We'll send him some coupons. Congratulations, congratulations, he's
tee town h t town very quickly before we get
into Collins. Elizabeth Gilmour, this.

Speaker 1 (01:28:23):
Is a do you mind if I go potty while
you did? Got sorry, I'm broken out of this one,
but I just need to go back.

Speaker 2 (01:28:29):
Before you go. Happy birthday, Nathan, Nathan, Happy let go?
You could go partty dude. Happy birthday, Nathan, Happy birthday, Nathan.

Speaker 1 (01:28:39):
How sick was the recording of that video last week? Now,
wifey recording Hubby watching the show that was going back
and forth. He's got like ta like it's like an
emotional vibe. And then we hit him with the funk
coupons at the end and He's like, oh they said it, Bro,
I can't tell you how much that.

Speaker 2 (01:28:58):
Video that unreal dude. That was like we got invited
into their house and got the like hang out and
like interact.

Speaker 1 (01:29:06):
Like yeah, and you still wife. He's behind the phone
smiling like as she's say, here we go.

Speaker 2 (01:29:11):
Bro. Deck was so proud of that video, like just
going around and showing everyone in the office that video.
Like that video truly meant the world to us. Thank
you empty Sicico and pt Sicco, Gracie and Skyler, Gracie
and Scott brown Low and my favorite part of the
video was you going brown Laud how now brown Lau

(01:29:31):
and just seeing his face be like I've dealt with
the ship all the Yeah, so I'm gonna go potty
you go, but you give me a quick summary Happy
birthday names. I don't want to. I'm not trying to Nathan,
I'm not trying to check out the bladder. It's light.
I got the Okay, Willie wants you out, fat staff
and the rest of the pet Cicico's over there. My
name's Elizabeth Proud Milk team sixer of over seven months now.

(01:29:53):
To be honest, I'm not a diehard follower of the pod,
but I've loved the episodes and clips I've watched listen
with my husband Nathan. He's the reason I'm reaching out.
His twenty eighth birthday is on the ninth, Happy belated birthday,
and he be beyond stoked if y'all could give him
a birthday shout out, even if it's late due to

(01:30:16):
my poor planning. Y'all have helped get him through the
early chaos of the newborn trenches and have given him
insight as a fellow girl. Dad of a now seven
month old. He loves the pod so much he recommends
it to friends, co workers, and even acquaintances that are
dads or soon to be dads. He even got his
own dad to start listening, and now they both own

(01:30:38):
a few T shirts between the two of them. Dude, Nathan, Hey,
happy birthday. I know that we said it before, but
happy happy birthday to you, dude. Thank you for supporting
the pod, and we're gonna move on. We're not gonna
say happy birthday to Nathan anymore. Happy birthday, Happy birthday, Dan.

Speaker 1 (01:30:57):
That was the summary, So what was the summary? I
did hear off in the distance. She doesn't listen all
the time, but she watches our clips.

Speaker 2 (01:31:03):
She's like, hey, like I'm starting to get it. Like
he's a sicko. For you guys, I didn't plan accordingly.
This is a belated birthday thing, but like I you know,
I got shout out my hobby, I got shout out
my little seven month old. Look at that dude. They
even got the good onesie. I mean, this guy's a
sick Oh, dude, Nathan's a sick.

Speaker 1 (01:31:24):
Oh hey look a little man, dude, Elizabeth, thank you
for writing in and also maybe become an empty sicko
and I just won't go piss during.

Speaker 2 (01:31:33):
Yeah, maybe Nathan, Maybe Nathan gets his gets his girl Nathan.

Speaker 1 (01:31:39):
If we want to get her full, if we're gonna
get Elizabeth fully bought in, maybe we need some Mother's
Day merch.

Speaker 2 (01:31:45):
BWTV dot com, ewtv dot com, BWTB dot com. Uncle
hats are available as well. Let's do voicemails. Let's get
into him, bro, let's get into him because I already
have them. Yeah, oh, just one voicemail and thankfully we're
just losing cams releasing cams. I already have the voicemail
pulled up and ready to go. Let's go. So we'll

(01:32:05):
go ahead and play it because it's right here and
it's ready to go. Fifteen weeks pregnant? What up? Boys? Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:32:14):
Day one listener and NaN's Wyatt Brinks. I'll be honest
with y'all, kind of stop listening to you for a
little bit. My wife and I went through this carriage,
but this year, I am proud to say that my
wife as up today April what is it nine? My
wife is fifteen weeks pregnant, and I'm gonna be more excited.

(01:32:37):
I'm jumping right back to your podcast. I love all
the stories. I just I want as much advice as
you guys give me. I am pumped up, man and
mind scared, but I can't wait for it. But I
love the podcast.

Speaker 2 (01:32:51):
You boys rock. Priece you crying? Yeah, this is where
you go? No, you go, wyat Hey, thank you? And
yeah I can.

Speaker 1 (01:33:07):
I can imagine we're gonna have our wife's on it
at one point in time. I don't know how freely
I can talk about everything, but just know that I
understand and I empathize with what you and wife you
went through.

Speaker 2 (01:33:18):
With your guys' miscarriage.

Speaker 1 (01:33:19):
So happy that you guys are now pregnant fifteen weeks,
fingers crossed, knocking on wood everywhere that everything goes well,
everything goes healthy. I know that is a dude. It's
massive love that your name's Wyatt. My little brother's name's
Why whyatt herb Tombstone. I feel like I'm connecting with you.
Thank you so much for listening since episode one completely
get out. You know, it's almost like I haven't listened

(01:33:40):
in a while, and then my head kind of goes up.
Then you hear why it's dude. I love you, bro,
we were the boys are with you, We're thinking about you.
We hope everything goes well, dude, sincerely, we hope everything
goes well because that stuff is not easy. Man, you
don't know, and you don't know as you don't know
what you're Number one, you're sad your morning, you were grieving,

(01:34:00):
and also for WiFi. Like we've talked about this before,
but as men, you always want to figure out a
practical solution for the way forward, like moving past whatever
set thing is, whether it's an inspo or a quote
or something that helps all of us compartmentalize and go forward.
That's what I feel like as men, you always want
to solve. You always want to solve what's going on,

(01:34:20):
Whereas a lot of times WiFi what you learn over
time and with relationships and everything else over time. A
lot of the time it's just sitting in it with them,
and it makes you uncomfortable because you feel like you
want to get out of set thing, or you want
to move forward from set thing. But then you realize
like just being in set thing and knowing like you know,
there is no answer right now, but I'm not. I'm

(01:34:40):
right next to you this entire time, and we're going
to be sad together and we're just going to keep
talking about it no matter how long it takes. Yes,
because again, as the dude or you might have a
practical solution and they don't care to hear that thing.
And then you get upset like I'm just trying to
help you, yo, I'm not needing you to solve a
problem right now. I just this is what I'm communicating.

(01:35:02):
I just want you to sit in with me. Yes, So, dude,
I can imagine that is a very hard moment that
I'm sure you guys both went through together.

Speaker 2 (01:35:11):
You obviously you.

Speaker 1 (01:35:12):
Have experienced you you like you'll be better from the
moment because you went through the moment so fired up
that you guys are fifteen weeks right now and they're
that this little one's gonna come into some awesome parents.

Speaker 2 (01:35:22):
It sounds like I the reason I teared up is
because I when he said he was scared, the very
first thing that I thought is I was like, I
want to hug the fuck out of Wyatt. I want
to dap him up. I want to go to the
best wing spot in his town, crack a cold one
with him, and talk about how scary it is. It's

(01:35:43):
okay to be scared. You've gone through stuff, dude, and
I hope that why really if you haven't reached out
to any of your friends to talk about that you're scared,
or any of your family members, dude, I encourage you
to do that, and just like you were saying, embrace
those feelings with your partner, but also like reach out
to people in your net that love you, that are

(01:36:05):
close with you and your boys, your boys, and just
tell him you're scared, dude, because I want to. I
want you dapty fuck out of Wyatt. I'll be your
huck and you.

Speaker 1 (01:36:14):
Want to give him cheers and you say you damn right,
you're scared. Yes, we were all scared. And the moment
he gets closer and closer, you're like, yo, I'm about
to be there, ain't no going back, Like you am
I ready to be a dad? And then at those
moments when you're scared, you just think to yourself, billions
of people have done this, and I'm made of the

(01:36:36):
right stuff for this, yes, Or if you think about, hey,
what stuff am I made of? And if you don't
like the stuff that you're made of, then you immediately
know I know what I don't want to be, and
I can change all of it. Now, I can change
all of it for this next iteration. I just got
to figure out, like, who do I want to be?
What stuff do I want to be made of?

Speaker 2 (01:36:56):
And hearing it in his voice, I know he's got it.
You know he's got and he hopefully is named after
another I know another Wyat back in the day. He
was out manned, he was out gunned, and he still
showed up to that train station, yeah, shooting that shotgun
and saying, you tell him I'm coming here. You might

(01:37:18):
have to name him Doc for Doc Holliday. Dude, Oh
that would be so sick. Anyways, that's all that's shot.
Thank you for calling him. Shout out Wyatt, email email,
mine's a saddle alert. What's yours? I have Aaron Donnelly,

(01:37:39):
No no alerts on it, no sturdy, let's go. Let's
go with yours.

Speaker 1 (01:37:42):
Hi, guys, my name is Aaron, and I don't know
if there is a label for me in for the
dad's universe. I'm not an empty I'm not an empty sixer,
but hope to be someday. And just found your content
through clips on social media. I've loved catching up on
the pod and am almost officially caught up.

Speaker 2 (01:37:59):
That rips. That's insane.

Speaker 1 (01:38:02):
Yeah, over the past few weeks, I've heard you all
talk about being girl dads in the fear of losing
the open communication or close relationships with your daughters as
they get older. So I guess I'm writing with a
dad hack. Courtesy of my dad's shout out Dennis. I'm
the oldest of four. When I was little, my dad
would would read books to me in this one Love

(01:38:24):
Seed in the house.

Speaker 2 (01:38:25):
After reading, we would just talk.

Speaker 1 (01:38:26):
He would answer my unending questions about life and growing up,
and at some point that chair got the name the
chit Chat Chair.

Speaker 2 (01:38:34):
As I got.

Speaker 1 (01:38:34):
Older and no longer needed to need, no longer needed
help to read, he would still make time to sit
in the chit chat chair and catch up with me.
This was always our time, especially as all my siblings
came into the mix. As I hit those pre teen
and teen years when life and emotions seem to get
so much more complicated.

Speaker 2 (01:38:51):
I was always able.

Speaker 1 (01:38:52):
To go downstairs and ask my dad if we could
sit in the chit chat chair, and he would always
join me. He listened so intently. I'm sorry somethings in mind.
I'm not actually something is in my eye it's burning,
but I'm also starting to cry, so it's just a
it's a tough mix right now. He listened so intently,
then talked through my worries and always made me feel better.
For some reason, having that space establishm made it easier

(01:39:15):
to approach him with bigger problems, and we never lost
our line of open communication. Now I'm twenty nine, and
while we haven't sat in the chit chat chair in
a while, my dad and I talk all the time
as he continues to be my biggest supporter and voice
of reason. Thank you guys for all the laughs and
keep up the awesome work raising your daughters very very lovely. Aaron,
thank you, and just knowing that Aaron's got no rhyme

(01:39:38):
or reason to be even on this show, to be
watching this show, do you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:39:43):
We geek out about binging like Game of Thrones on
the bus and he just binged us. That's crazy, that's crazy.
She she just binged. Yeah, she just been sorry. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
she just binged us. That's crazy. It's nuts. There's there's again,
zero rhyme or reason.

Speaker 1 (01:40:03):
It's like for the dads, we got Papa Team six
were built through Papa Team six foundation that includes Empty six,
Mama Team six, Team six. We got Seeming Team six
for the young guns out there, goom berets. We got
butts training in a relationship in it. But no rhyme
or reason that a female just saw sees our content,
enjoys the contents like Yo, I'm gonna.

Speaker 2 (01:40:24):
Follow this podcast and watch this brand. That's why I
didn't cry because I didn't realize it was a girl.
I want to know what clip oh, you realized it
was a girl. I didn't realize there was a girl
and that's why you got got and I didn't, yeah,
because this is one of the few times on the
show that you got got bad. I didn't even flinch,
and I'm like, oh, it was a girl. Was in
my eye. Something was burning in my eye. I was

(01:40:44):
getting much. Yeah, something in your eye though, Yeah, yeah,
my right eye was burning. Like I tell really quick story,
very quickly. I know the cameras are everheating. I put
Scarlet to bed last night, and for the first time,
she she's either wanting to play or she's asleep. There's
no like just laying there awake and like falling asleep.

(01:41:07):
Like she just kind of like bundles up and she's out. Yeah,
because she's a baby. Yeah, little baby, little baby. She
laid on my chest last night, dude, and I was
rubbing her back and I was humming Adelvis to her,
and she started playing with my beard, just rubbing her
her fingers through my chin hairs. And I'm sitting there,
I'm going, is she doing that in her sleep? And

(01:41:29):
this pitch black room And then my phone lit up
because I got a text, So there's a little glow
and I just see her face like right here, and
her eyes are wide open, and she's just looking up
at me with her passy in her mouth, and she's
just slowly just playing with my chin hairs. Bro fucking
bottled that forever. Oh my god, dude, I got whatever

(01:41:55):
was in your eye flew over here? Yeah yeah, right now.
Maybe it's the overheating of the cameras. This Saddlert. I
will summarize because I wanted to be read. This comes
from Hayden Hawks. He essentially tells a story about how
his empty sicco was an absolute beast dog legend. During delivery,

(01:42:24):
she had something that happens to one in fifty thousand
women with a fifteen percent mortality rate, which is a
uterine inversion that happens during delivery. Very serious. She had
to go to the operating room. She is fine, she
made it. She's good. But it was this whole situation
where they're dealing with the they want to celebrate the

(01:42:44):
birth of their child. But then he's like, my empty sicico,
my other half is she gonna be okay? She's getting
rushed off to a room, and Hayden just sharing that
story with us. I just wanted to thank Hayden and
all the awesome stories that we get of, you know,
stuff that can go sideways, topsy turvy. It's not always

(01:43:06):
a perfect delivery, and our audience rips.

Speaker 1 (01:43:10):
Yeah, imagine me so celebratory for like having a kid,
and then some some unexpected things happen, like in the
delivery room, oh, or like as you're you know, as
you're about to deliver, and then it's just it feels
like it's just a whole different ballgame on how you
even feel outside of terrified for your other half. That's

(01:43:33):
so interesting, just you can't help but and then like
you're just imagining the worst. Can I operate without this,
without my other half? That would be tough?

Speaker 2 (01:43:46):
Man. Yeah, I'm legitimately unfortunately, I have that thought sometimes
at night, like when I'm going to bed. I really
do think about especially on those solo Saturdays. I'm like, dude,
if this was every day. Yeah, I missed Jill so
much in those moments at that birthday party. All I

(01:44:06):
wanted was for Jill to be that I still had fun.
But I'm just like dude. Yeah, man. Scarlett officially crawled
at that birthday party for the first time, and lindsay
yes she did. Lindsay saw it, and I told Lindsay
and Jeremy. I said, we're gonna lie. We're not gonna
say shit. She did not crawl, and I'm gonna PLoP

(01:44:27):
her on the floor when I get when Jill gets
home from work tonight and go, whoa, whoa, whoa, who's
she going? I never seen that? What so she's crawled?
Are you recorded? Did it work?

Speaker 3 (01:44:41):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:44:41):
I couldn't lie to my wife. I was too excited.
There's the lesson of the week. Don't lie to your way,
don't lie to your wife, and treat them well. Treat
them well, treat them well. Don't don't you know I'm
talking about Ryan? I did? I did have a very
quick lesson of the week or do we want to wrap? Yeah, dude,

(01:45:01):
my mind's uh. Basically, I had that tweet that I
was very glad that it got a bunch of clicks.
I don't have a lot of stuff go viral about
my personal life. I'm a meme guy. I live in
got a big meme guy and the on name used
to be CFB Memes. You used to be CEFB Meme Zone.
And I had something kind of go viral that was
my own personal life. I was like, oh, that's that's
actually really cool because it was a great message. We

(01:45:23):
went to Smyrna golf Course shout out Smyrna where I
do uh the first t and volunteer there. We because
we got kicked out of that golf tea time that
we had at another place. So I was like, I
know a golf course where we can just go to
the practice range and hang out as a family. And
Scarlet's done up in this bonnet, dude, I'll send picks

(01:45:46):
the chef. I mean, cutest little outfit in the entire world.
And we're sitting there and I see this old man
standing off to the side, and he is one hundred
percent watching us, and the way I'm set up like
hitting balls, I can see him, and I thought that
he was just watching me because we're the only people
on that side of the range. I was like, I
don't have that good of a swing, so I hope

(01:46:07):
this guy doesn't come over to like give me swinging
advice and from my wife and child, like that would
be embarrassing. And he's like late sixties, early seventies. He
walks up and he already has tears in his eyes,
and he's like holding golf clubs and he's standing in
front of me. I'm like, what is about to happen?
And he said the part that I quoted that is

(01:46:28):
like the lesson of the week is these are the
you're in the good old days. These are the good
old days right here. It does not get better than this.
But he was like, I would write you like a
check for any amount, a blank check whatever, to be
in your shoes right now. I got a thirty two
year old and a thirty five year old and buddy

(01:46:49):
with you, like right now, Like that's it, Like this
is it? It was awesome. It was awesome. I didn't tear
up in the moment, but I'm tearing up now. Hot
in hear me, But it's it's fucking hot in here, dude.
But like just seeing it on his face and then
me being able to like look at Scarlett and Jill
like in that moment, I'm like, he's right, like this

(01:47:12):
is so cool. How lucky am I? That's it? Hell? Yeah? Crime,
Crime's dumb dude. Oh they're doing the cry trope. Crime's
dumb dude. Yo. What what's your boys name? Brian Newman
Ben Newman, Ben Newman. Quit fucking talking to me, dude,
I'm trying to do it, pad quick crying dun fuck.

(01:47:37):
Hey that is cool, bro, Oh it was electric. That
is cool. You do you know too? That old man,
he'd be a pet sicko sick o dude.

Speaker 3 (01:47:47):
He was.

Speaker 2 (01:47:48):
He went and started hitting like far away on the
range from us, and I'd see him every now and then,
like looking at our family. You could just see it, dude.
He was like, what do you do to go back? Oh? Yeah,
enjoy guys. Great so great, said great.

Speaker 1 (01:48:05):
So make sure your subscribe, make sure you're following all
of our platforms. We hit seventy k on Instagram, seventy
k on Instagram. We surpassed thirty thousand on YouTube. It's unbelievable.
Thank you guys so much for the support. Papa Team
six man for the dads Mother's Day mercheres out bwtv
dot com.

Speaker 2 (01:48:25):
We will see you next week, uncle,

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