EP #046: Dads - Are we just horny cause we’re hungry? + Sherm Messed Up Cooking A Steak | For The Dads - Bussin' With The Boys

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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poping Team six. Welcome to another episode. Afore the Dads.

(00:21):
We are happier here. We hope the trash is taken out.
We have a lot in store for this episode. Sure
them had an incredible weekend, a daddy daughter weekend because
mama was working all weekend working Mama bear. We went
to a Sounds game last week. I know you went
to a Sounds game this weekend. You went to the
Vanderbilt spring game this weekend. I just my question for
parents right now the stage of life that Willy Cee

(00:43):
is in dealing with some of these tantrums. Eh for
more four year olds from Little Scottie Jojo Scotty JoJo's
got She is a mama's girl right now. Yeah, and
she lets you know like no, no, no, no no you
want Dadda to pick you up. If you've seen the videos,
you see Scotty Jaws, just be looking at me, sweetheart.
You know daddy, but as a father dealing with some

(01:06):
of these beefing with Rue in the morning time when
I'm making breakfast, it's starting to get to a lane
her being four. I don't know if it's just her
turning four, but starting to get into a lane to
where she could have a snowball morning. We'll get into
that because I wanted to go off the rails and
talk about the shit that I'm going through. But you
were going through stuff. Every dad out there is going

(01:27):
through some ship right now, and so is Mama Bear.
And you know what we need to do. What we
need to talk about. How we have Mother's Day merch dropping.
It's out in our store right now, your boy, Willy see,
I'm wear in the MT six milk Team six. We
got four of the moms. We got sweatsuits, yep hoodies.
Yep sweatsuits means sweatpants.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
Crop hoodies, cropped hoodies, crop comfort color sick little sick.

Speaker 1 (01:52):
Little shirts that just have this for the moms. A
little crown colored drawing and coloring art drawing colored by Rueh.
Tote bags. We got tote bags. We got coffee cups,
we have wineglasses. All the things your life or your
wife enjoys doing. Yeah, sipping some coffee, reading a book.

(02:15):
Maybe it's hot tea, reading a book, sitting by the fire.
Hey it's late night, it's weekend. Vibe. Let's get the
wine out. You pop a bottle of wine for on
Mother's Day. You use this for the mom's glass that
is on the store bwtv dot com. And men, as
you are listening right now, boys, let me talk to you. Yeah,
why is that important to men? Why would that matter?
I'll speak to myself. If I could just factor in

(02:36):
and talk to one person out there, and it would
be that person would be myself, the dad brain that
goes on in my head. Yeah yeah, yeah, Willie boy,
I know how your brain works. You hear something like
this mother's Day's coming up in about a month. Oh shit,
I need to get on top of that. And I
continue to drive, I continue to go about my day,
and it goes one of your out the other. I
don't write it down, I forget about it. My brain

(02:58):
is fleeting like song lyrics and the next thing. You know,
it's crunch time. It's the week of what do I do?

Speaker 3 (03:03):
How?

Speaker 4 (03:04):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (03:04):
I need to go get flowers. I need to go.
I need to go get this gift. I should have
done it a month ago. Yeah, when that man behind
the microphone was telling me, you know, Mother's Day is
coming now? Is this selfish for me to do this?

Speaker 2 (03:16):
You could argue that, but this is also we are
putting the dads on game. You may be saying to
yourself when while I have the time to purchase something
for my WIFEI you're driving, you're listening to for the dads.
You're at the office listening to for the dads. We're
out on the lawn, you're listening for the dads. Let's
press pause on whatever we're doing. Get on your phone.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
Or if you can, need to listen right now, just
speaking at bi TB dot com, hit that Safari buttoner,
hit Google. Yeah, just type in BWTB dot com. Okay,
it's gonna pop. It's gonna pop right up.

Speaker 2 (03:48):
Is there right in front of you a Mother's Day
collection tab that I can click on the home screen.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
We made it that easy. We made it that easy.
And if it's your first Time Shop and you're gonna
get twenty percent off special gas, special Alert. And he's
here just to announce Mother's Day. Merchant the Monies merchan
on btw TV dot. Yes, dude, I knew, I knew,
my special boys. It's Tuesday. A little bit of drags

(04:14):
happen in the middle of the week. I wanted to
bring you guys coffees. Oh swift day so much guys
for that, I give you this or miss Taylor for
she's gonna look, she's gonna that right now, right in
that how many weeks pregnant? I don't know, as that's perfect,

(04:36):
perfect top day turning around so people can see the
design cameras so people can see the top. Yeah, there
you go. Yeah, perfect, she's gonna love I love it, Taylor,
You're gonna love it. Thirty six weeks pregnant, She'll love it. Perfect.
I love you, guy. Yeah, I love you. Guys, we
love you, we love you, we love your test for
the third trimester.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
It's the perfect shirt. Couldn't get a better one. Love you, Taylor.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
And that's that's just a look into the cookie jar
before the dad's is about. Yeah, we talked about highs
Low's wins losses. Yeah, shit, we're going through. We complain
about tantrum. We bitch about tantrums. Yeah, we know, tantrums
and sleepless nights forgetting to take out the trash. Dad brain,
Oh your daughters hate you will that's good. Friction with wifey,
friction at home, friction at work. We know it's all

(05:23):
part of the game. We know it's the hard parts
of life. Yeah, but we also talk about how to
embrace that song. Yeah, yeah, yeah, ye, how to say
you know what, good, God, glad this shit happened. Oh,
Ruce pissed at me forgetting her out of bed and
it wasn't mama good, oh good.

Speaker 2 (05:37):
Scott Zilla is physically shaking her head. No when I
try to pick her up.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
Oh, Scotty's tiger webbing up or not tiger lama wobbing up?
Just broke good?

Speaker 2 (05:46):
Oh good, And she's gonna cry about that for the
next four hours at least.

Speaker 1 (05:51):
No, bro little scott Zilla, little seventeen month old Scott' Zilla.
She can't say it, but I think she said good. No,
she didn't, and she took the passy part she put
it in her mouth and then she just carried loma
oh good, put her down for a n app lama
in one head, hand passing the other. She makes it work.
She realizes adversity strikes at times in the crib. You

(06:11):
know who she learned that from.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
She learned it from her mom. Man Charo does embrace
the suck. And speaking of moms, on that same vein,
we tease that this month there was something going down.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah, housekeeping, housekeeping, some housekeeping items. We got to keep
the house clean, boys, some housekeeping, Mother's Day merch. We
already talked about that. BWTV dot com, Boom housekeeping. Make
sure you're subscribed to the podcast and following us on
all platforms. We'll get that taken care of them. We'll
clean the house. Hey, pick up your stuff, Press the button,
hit follow, hit subscribe, comment for the boys. Third thing,

(06:51):
save the date May thirtieth. We tease a little some
something last week. That's something, something that is still getting
worked on. So I bring you no progress other than
say the date for May thirtieth. Save the day. There's
gonna be a little something going on, maybe outside, maybe
in Nashville, Tennessee. We will drop those details when the
time is right, when the time comes, but just know moms,
Papa Team six, Milk Team six, Save the date, May thirtieth, Nashville, Tennessee.

(07:15):
Also April thirtieth. I'm hearing that's a big day. What's
April thirtieth. I heard some moms maybe visiting set. I've
just heard rumors. We got mothers coming to the set.
I've just heard rumors. Nothing confirmed. Is there an angle
where it's moms are coming before Mother's Day?

Speaker 2 (07:34):
It might be day so then it's like a Mother's
Say episode that has some moms on here.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
No one's being named.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
No one's being named at this time, correct, but there
we can't confirm two mothers will be featured on the
Mother's Day episode.

Speaker 1 (07:49):
Mothers are coming to the set. We're gonna have fun.
We're gonna have a good time, and maybe there's some
punk coupons involved. Not care. That was crazy for me said.
Once it left my mouth, I was like, oh, well
you said a well you said an absolute note there,
that's not your Yeah, last thing. We'll be at the

(08:10):
draft this weekend or this week tomorrow as you're listening
to this episode, actually today's Wednesday. We will be flying
to Pittsburgh and we are there until Friday, we will
be watching the first round of the NFL Draft. You
might be thinking, what does this even mean for fatherhood.
I'm just saying, dads who are out there aperts. Maybe
you're there with your boy, Maybe you're there with your daughters.
Maybe you're there with other dads. Other PT six Papa

(08:32):
Team six members. Sherman and I will be boots on
the ground. We will be at the draft doing thanks
for busting with the boys. Content be there. The Funkal
will be in action. Chef, we'll send you, We'll send
you pictures. We'll send you photos, will send you videos.

Speaker 2 (08:46):
We have to get something for Chef. We have to
get for Chef.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
But the boys, uh, the three out of the four
for the dad's members. We will be there at the
draft in Pittsburgh Wednesday through Friday. So Thursday, when we're
all there and you see us out in the wild,
come say what's up. We love interacting with PT sixers
out on the wild. Pell at you boy. There are
ptcichos merch. There is ptcickos merch on bwtv dot com.
But don't think about yourself right now. Don't do it.

(09:11):
Think about mama, Do not do it all the ship
we got for Mother's Day dropping.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
Don't even for a second be looking at Oh what
is Sherman wearing? Is that a pt fit shirt that
might drop later on bwtv dot com.

Speaker 1 (09:23):
I want that for myself. I wouldn't even do that. Yeah,
I don't even think we got to slow it down too,
because we're still at the top of the episode. We're
probably a few minutes in. Oh Dee just flashed the
card to me, and my brain just went sideways. Oh good, Yeah,
he met me in the a gap. But I didn't
know how to respond to it. He slashed the sign
of this a BWTB store. All I was going to

(09:44):
say to new listeners out there, what's the show even about? Willie?
We talk about what's Papa Team six? What's Milk Team six? Love?
The Mother's Day announcement? Love that may thirty of the
same today, But what what? What do we even listening to?
We're gonna get into all of that stuff. We got
some bitch in the morning, go on, We got some
to do to have to vent to each other as dads.
We also have some wins to talk about in our

(10:06):
world of parenting in marriage.

Speaker 2 (10:08):
All these dads, They and all these moms. They comment
on all the episodes. They comment on Spotify, on Instagram,
on Apple.

Speaker 1 (10:15):
You see your desk, A plethora, a plethora comments, and
we read them here on the pod. I see one too. Uh,
let's play name that baby. Somebody wants us to name
their baby. I see follow ups, I see callbacks, I
see email write ins, general comments. Dad losses. Yes, we
get in all of it. Maybe, boy, Yeah, I had
a little shock wave this morning. No, not this morning,

(10:38):
not this morning. This morning. Where'd you hit something? Dad?
We're both tired. This morning. We had to get up
and put in some puppetine fit work. This morning. He
came in. You came in the office like a new
man the other day.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
Did you hit it over the weekend or did you ride?

Speaker 1 (11:01):
That's too much.

Speaker 5 (11:04):
I wanna, I wanna look at the camera. I want
to to your wife, Charlie Compton. You are a beautiful,
wonderful woman, and you are strong and and you respect her,
and I respect you for the person that you are,
but the mother and the wife that you are.

Speaker 2 (11:23):
And so I will rephrase my question. We're gonna rewind.
I'll go back over there and I'll rephrase.

Speaker 1 (11:28):
Okay, my mother was kid. Come on, man, hey, will
did you ride Shockwave anytime recently? We'll get into Okay, good,
we'll get it, okay, good. Hey, hey, hey, you came

(11:49):
in with a different repuges money. You hit that on
the weekend. That's my boss's wife that I was read
very alive and right now and you know the boys
are pointing like that is how that shit goes down.

Speaker 2 (12:03):
It is it is empty sixers. We also apologize, yes
we apologies.

Speaker 1 (12:07):
Yeah, yeah, love women apologies, apologies, mother.

Speaker 2 (12:11):
Say merch available at BWTV. I'll find my way to
get back at old Jilly Bean.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
Yeah. Yeah, but you got some pep in your stack.
I've had my I've had some pepping myself, honestly, the
pepping my step. Yeah, the Shockwave stuff like that plays
a factor into it. But your boy has been consistent
with some Papa team fit, with this Papa team fat,
with the new gym. Yeah, yes, sore Next came in

(12:37):
outfitted the gym. There was very much the conversations I've
had with myself that I've talked about on for the
dads that it's time to go now, it's the time.
I'm too sick and tired of being sick and tired
about not doing things that I know will feed me
the right way. Yeah, and so I've built some good
momentum going into it's been like a two weeks now,

(13:00):
a couple weeks now, and then when that speech is
going viral to create evidence thing, it's almost like another
accountability thing of like, yo, hey, this is the evidence.
These are the facts about Willy C right now? Yeah, yeah,
about your build, your makeup, your same weight you were
in your playing days, you're ten percent higher in body fat.
Those are the facts. And it ain't about what was

(13:23):
the line I dropped. Creating evidence isn't about running from
what's true. Now, it's time to create so much proof
that when I look at myself a year from now
and look back on these photos and look back at
Willy C when I was getting a little getting a
little softer in the body, now, I know those facts
are in those labels are irrelevant. Facts are you said?
Facts are true, but they're not permanent. Yes, they don't

(13:45):
you yeah, man, So all to say, yeah, there's been
an extra pep of myself because I've been trying to
dominate my mornings. This morning was one when you're like, oh,
did the shock wave happened this morning? There's a big
battle with myself because I snoozed about three times. And
then on the third one one, you know when you're
like up and then you're thinking to yourself, Willie, Hey,
get your ass up, man, like let's go, let's go,

(14:07):
and then for whatever reason, you just doze back off.
You're just there. You're like, Okay, a minute or two,
I'll be let me get up out of the bed.
And then next thing I know, my next alarms going off.
And then when that that third one I believe went
off literally like whispering out loud, Get the fuck up, man.
So I just set up in my bed, go out
throwing the clothes, throw on the Miami fit because it's

(14:27):
Miami Hurricane week for the Spring four, and go out
there and get it in garage, Sir.

Speaker 2 (14:33):
Arln and Pennytree leaned over you get up, But it
was Luke Keithley. Yeah, he said exactly, get up. Yeah bro,
yeah man. So some good momentum, come on, dude, that's huge.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
Derek earlier flashed a card he was trying to talk
to us before the show started about people who have
been writing in or sending messages about like orders, and
he started talking to me, and then the light and
then I kind of, you know, I had to look
in my face that rude gives me when I'm trying
to explain what the A gap is to it. And
then the last thing I heard was B TOWTB store

(15:08):
on X and I'm like, well, what's that? Instead of
me trying to explain it, Hey, Derek, how about you
take the microphone to try to explain it. I have
no clue what you're talking about. Star.

Speaker 6 (15:17):
I apologizing because I did see like the deer in
the headlights look from you, and I that was nuts
on me.

Speaker 1 (15:22):
I should have known that it's all right. You just
got to know when you see that, that's the toddler
brain happening. I saw the gear's going yeah, uh yeah.
So we've had a bunch of people we love you
and hear you. There are people reaching out to our
personal pages, people reading out before the dads to bust
in all avenues. There have been from wrong sizes, to
receiving wrong merch, to filling out the form for calling

(15:43):
and not quite getting your merch yet. So we have
been in the works and it is finally live BWTB store.
It's at b to B t B store on X.
That is where you can go for all your help.
We are working with our third party team who handles
all of our merch. This is where you should send everything.

Speaker 6 (15:59):
So if you have some thing that you can't get
tracking you have something that We had one guy who
got a chip to his old address and wasn't able
to get it because he moved across the country. We
have people's sizes all of that at BWTB S t
O r E on X hit It. The dms will
be open. We're launching it Tuesday night, so it'll be
live for the episode Wednesday for you guys to go.

(16:19):
That is all busting across the board. BWTB store on
X hit It.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
Dude, you're so well spoken.

Speaker 6 (16:25):
Come on, you hit that. I'm not gonna play a
little weird games. Sure, I'm team Charro and I'm team
Wilt You cross.

Speaker 1 (16:35):
Yeah, sure you fucking crossed the line. BWTB Store on X.
Yes on X, make sure you go. You guys are Derek.
You guys are Derek. You heard Deke Let's not in.
We have some follow ups here from last week's episode
that I'm looking at. I'm looking at Gabriella Sestra on
Spotify Cestra Castra Will referencing the gluck Luck nine thousand

(17:02):
took me out funny Emoji's hashtag caller Daddy Daddy Gang,
Daddy Gang. I'm glad somebody out there got the reference.
I figured some Milk Team stickers, some Milk Team sickos
knew what I was saying, knew what I was referencing,
and even some some some of the dads out there
that probably know and they're like, hey, oh, so you

(17:25):
know what they're talking about. I've been hoping you would.
Ron looks like you're not deaf. We'll cross the line
too much right.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
Now, and we got to keep it under on Spotify,
he said, sure, mixing up the names and saying you
got a really good dad hack from q SOO and
Will just responding with, oh no, tells us everything we
need to know about that guy. And I think also
the I think the oh no, if I had to
guess you was you automatically defaulting to oh god, some

(17:58):
guy named q SOO gave me a.

Speaker 1 (17:59):
Dad act forgot about it? Probably is that where your
brain was listen, I don't even know what you're talking about.
There we go, Yeah, yeah, they were, they were there.
Like I remember Cuso being brought up and I'm like, oh,
chef Cuso. But that's about as much as I remember
about that moment.

Speaker 6 (18:14):
I believe you had said something about like SUCKO and
you said no, it's Q, so you like framed it wrong.

Speaker 1 (18:20):
There was an O. No moments cross, I got one here.
Ryan hamlet Oh rights in on Spotify good Sport Alert,
good Sport Alert. Ryan Hammett says, really feel like yall
went out of your way to miss my point left.
I love we did, we did, Ryan, Then he leaves

(18:43):
another comment, also, I'm cackling like a hyena every time
y'all chirted me. Left my ass off. No offense taken
because you're a painty sicico Bro. He's a sick. He's
a sick.

Speaker 2 (18:53):
We knew he was in a phoenix. We said he
wasn't a phoenix. I'd like to picture Ryan walking in
the garage. We're sitting there sipping on some ollipop.

Speaker 1 (19:00):
And we're busting balls, we're doing our thing, and he
just says, why you guys got to keep doing this
dumb dad trope, like you all ain't the boss of
the house, and we kind of just take a sip
and I just look at you and I'm like, hey, relax, bro,
we're just having fun. We're just goofing. Like do I
think I'm the man of the house. Yeah? I do?
But also like, chill, bro, Do I like run ship

(19:22):
around my place?

Speaker 7 (19:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (19:23):
Dull? Yeah, like of course sometimes, but dogs sit down
drinking hollipop. Take a load off everything, right, wife sticks
her head in the ground. Hey honey, Hey dude, do
I run it? You know, I fucking run this ship? Bro?
Hey honey, yes, yes, ma'am.

Speaker 2 (19:40):
Oh yeah, no, I got I got that. Oh ride
about the dryer, right, Love you too, Love you too.

Speaker 1 (19:47):
Did you get a text? Come to your phone? I
thought you weren't having friends over. Don't wear their text back,
don't where they're gonna leave? Suit? Yeah, fellas, something just
something popped up. We have an emergency. Ryan on the news.

Speaker 2 (19:59):
You guys get did you driver? Did you uber here?

Speaker 1 (20:03):
Have you called your uber yet? I was just wondering, Yeah,
I called you. Don't have to leave, no rush, no rush.
You can eat dinner with us if you want to.
I don't know if we made enough though, but oh yeah, dude,
all your dinner with you? Fuck hey, give me a
give me five minutes to go inside.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
I gotta go talk to the WIFEI we have NOA.
Kramer wrote in on Spotify. Noah said, talk about Ted
reminded me a few months back. I was standing in
line at the gas station with my four the dad's
Teddy Bear hat on, and the guy behind me goes,
I just got to ask, what is that hat? After
putting him on game about the pot. He goes, oh, man,
I thought it was Ted. It started laughing hysterically. I

(20:40):
hadn't thought about that until this guy brought it up.
But I see how he got there. Since Ted does
enjoy a drink and a smoke, yes he does. That
comes from Noah Kramer.

Speaker 1 (20:51):
Thank you no for writing in dude, what Papa Team?
I'm just the Papa Team six community I'm thinking about.
I was at the Sounds game last week. My wife
and I we took we got a sitter for Scotti.
We took root of the Sounds game to hang out
with their one of her classmates, and so the classmate
and her parents they come. We do like a double

(21:12):
little family day for the kiddos to enjoy a sounds game.
Get out of the house, go get some Dippin' dots. Dude,
can Dippin' Dots rip started in Texas, by the way,
started in Texas. A shoutout Texas, Texas. This Dippin' dot
stand in Sound Stadium did not have banana split. Banana
split is my favorite Dippin' dot of all time.

Speaker 2 (21:28):
That's a good flavor. It's an incredible that's a hard
one to find. That is a hard one to find.

Speaker 1 (21:32):
Growing up in wrestling, Bro, they had Dippin' dot stands
at every wrestling tournament and banana split would have would
be calling my name. But we go to the Sound
Stadium and speaking of Papa Team six, like dude, dads
will just come up and be like, Bro, love the
show for the Dead. Dads will come up They're like wait,
because I'm sure they're seeing Rue just be a menace.
Like you know, you know, when you're going down the
stairs to go to your to go find your seats,

(21:54):
that rail that separates the stairs or the sides of
the stairs. Ru's just hanging and climbing all over and
I'm like, hey, people are coming like, you got to
get out of the way, and she'll again four year
old's at she's at the point of her life, her
career where it's she'll stop, Oh, oh no, I want
to And I'm thinking, oh, hot, out here in public,

(22:15):
like I will tan your ass, not in front of people,
but don't challenge me right now in front of every
dad that's been hit the gym the last two weeks.
You want to be god by the way, I've never
spent d but you know, when who she looks at
you and gives you the stomp, I'm thinking, don't don't
piss me off, sweetheart, Hey, come over here, because I'm thinking, like,

(22:39):
you know, because people had already come up and said
what's up? So you feel like people are already watching you,
dad or whatever it is. Hey, sweetheart, come sit watch
the game. Get we're here to watch the baseball game.
You and Luella can play, like in between innings we
can go to the little play area. Yeah yeah, yeah,
But she's giving me the stomp and the know and
I just look down at my wife and she's like

(22:59):
gotta figure out how to reel her in, And I'm like,
you just got to give her. You got to give
her a couple of minutes. And then I'm kind of
sitting there stewing on, like, all right, how do I
get her attention? To get her ass in the will
come to here? Hey, Denna's gotta take your secret. I
gotta show you something. She beg. She beg what I'm like,
Come here, Denna's got to tell you a secret. She'll
run over. I'll tell her a little secret. I'll pick
her up and put her on my lap. And that's

(23:21):
kind of how I relegated. That's even the right word.
Calm down the situation. My wife might not even been
feeling it, but she saw when Rue gave me the stomp,
and I'm like, how do I what do I even
do to go about this? She's walking all over me
right now. You did a fantastic job. Pop A Team six.

(23:41):
After that moment, we go to leave because tantrums are
starting to take place. You can tell they're overtired. It's
probably eight o'clock at this point. Oh Wowually we start
hitting bedtime. Yeah, you usually start hitting bedtime with Rue.
Around seven fifteen. We're walking up the stairs and a
pet Siko just comes up shout out the boys that
bro a great scene and just wanted to say, what's up.

(24:04):
Somebody got a little selfie with me. But the way
people talk about for the dads. Alex Legos, I saw
one of my one of my old I mean he
is a friend of mine, but he used to work
for Busting with the Boys early in our career the
first few years. Yes, also he's a contractor. He's got
his own business doing digital content here in Nashville. And
saw him at out to dinner right before we went

(24:25):
out to dinner and we dap each other up, great
pop and he hugs me. He's like, Bro, don't ever
stop doing for the dads. No way. Interactions like that
out in the wild to where these writings that come
and everything that happens like it's just cool. I got it. So, Noah,
thank you for writing in. Noah, thank you for writing in.

Speaker 2 (24:45):
And to add to that, because I talk to you
a little bit about my Sounds game, I'll just keep
it on that same vein since the Sounds Game as
part of my like crack a cold one.

Speaker 1 (24:54):
But the amount of dads that.

Speaker 2 (24:57):
Came up to me, dude was so humbling and so
bad ass, like truly I had never had that many
people like come up to me and be like, bro
for the dad's dude, here with the here with the
five week old because you all took the six week
old to the Auburn game. Dude, hey they could do that.
We're taking her to the Sounds game. I'm like, no way.

(25:18):
He points his wife and she's just got a blanket
over like a little bundle of y.

Speaker 1 (25:23):
No way.

Speaker 2 (25:25):
Another dad comes up to Hey, sure, hey, don't want
to bother you, but is this her first game?

Speaker 1 (25:30):
I was like yeah.

Speaker 2 (25:31):
He goes, well, you gotta go to customer relations. They
give a little pin whenever it's their first game. They
write the date and her name on it. It's a
great little you know.

Speaker 1 (25:40):
Little dad hacking, little dad hack in the wild.

Speaker 2 (25:43):
Dude, Oh dude, you would have lost your mind. This
guy comes up to me shorter than me.

Speaker 1 (25:50):
That's rare. That's your first sign he might be a wrestler.

Speaker 2 (25:53):
Second sign, calliflower out the ass on the ears, hits
me up, says love for the dads, blah blah blah.
He's talking in at the very end when he's like,
I could tell he was with a group of friends.
So he's like kind of walking. He goes, Man, I
just really want to thank you for talking about wrestling
on the pot.

Speaker 1 (26:12):
Man.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
Every time you bring up Dan Gable, every time you
bring up to you, it gives me juice.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
S up, Man, I just see that caulflower just ready
to burst as you know what Dan Gable poster was
like hanging in his room.

Speaker 2 (26:23):
Oh dude, yes, this guy was a sick Oh shout
out everybody that I met at the Sounds game.

Speaker 1 (26:30):
You had to wrestlers. That's Lord Gable, shod dude who
doesn't get enough respect.

Speaker 2 (26:36):
And then these two bozo dads are like out here
just quoting them.

Speaker 1 (26:39):
All the time because we love them. Because we love them.
You know that slide, the big blow up slide at
the Sounds You rock that bro. No, but rue, she
tried big red slide, red slide? What happened red slide?

(27:00):
She's she's on the part where doesn't feel so brave
as she's doing it. Her and her classmates, they're want
to go do the thing right. Oh this was this
a part of the birthday party. No, this is at
the Sounds game. Well, my classmates so so her her
best friend, she's got a little sister who's like closer
in age to where she can run around to cool cool.
They want to go do this slide. Yeah, And I'm thinking,

(27:21):
how is this going to go down? Like, I know,
rue She'll she'll get there, She'll get nervous being up there.
And I'm watching all these kids like they're like wrestling
at the top trying to like go down. This is
a big little blow up slide, huge large slide. Yeah,
And I'm like airing, no way she's gonna go up
there and slide down. But she's super into the idea.
It's like the little you know, you get the little

(27:41):
crowd thinking going on. They all think that they want
to do the slide. So we fill out the little form,
the little waiver. Pay a couple of bucks, you get
two slides. Yeah. So I'm sitting back watching Rufe. They
start climbing up. I'm like, shit, she I mean, she's
climbing up there. I can't wait to see what happens
when she gets to the top. Because we had a
smaller scale water slide in Bonte, Missouri for fourth of July,
and she was having issues with that. So I'm just

(28:02):
curious how she's going to handle being all the way
up there going down the streat This is like a
twenty footer for people listening at. Yeah, bro, yeah that
ten meter dive in the Miami vlog, some big blow
up slide. Yeah, she gets up there. Nah, she ain't
going down. I'm down. Hey, Rue, just just slide down, like,

(28:23):
just get on your button. She's already crying. She's already
starting to cry, like, hey, come on down, I need
you to come up here, sweetheart. Dadda can't climb up there.
There's all these kids like climbing up the middle thing,
and there's these two massive slides on each side, but
all these kids, it's like war. It's like watching three
hundred trying to climb the doors. And she ends up
making away down. She's crying. I pick her up, I

(28:44):
hold her, you know, I'm smiling. She went down the slide. No,
she climbed back down. Oh, somebody like, hey, your friend
will help you climb back down. The only reason I'm
not saying her name is I don't know if they
want me to scream the po and they help her
like climb back down. She comes to dead and I'm
holding I'm hugging her. I walk away to sit down
and I boom. Hey, remember that diving board video that

(29:06):
we've been watching for the last two weeks. Remember a
big red slide your little pup. Right now, you're getting
up to the top. You feel brave climbing up there.
You don't feel so brave when you get to the top.
It doesn't in the way you think it ends. Oh, okay, okay,
and she wants to continue to try. In the middle
of her still being teared up, she just wants to

(29:27):
get back in on the action. She sees her friends
doing it, she wants to be involved and do it too.
And the youngest one, like the second child to her
best friend, she actually goes down first, like the Scottie,
the Scott's Zilla. The second one kind of has no fear,
and so that gives Luela Lluella ends up going down
and she's trying to tell ruh, it's fun, blah blah blah.
So they start climbing up again. Halfway up climbing, she

(29:48):
starts breaking down again. Sweetheart, come here, Hey, it's okay.
You know, there's a lot of people around. I'm trying
to tell her, Hey, I know, I'm sure you feel embarrassed.
I'm sure you feel like you're trying to be brave
and you can't do That's okay, sweetheart, you do not
have to go down the slide. We can try again tomorrow. No,
we're not going to go tomorrow. But I'm trying to
tell her the stuff that's in like big Red Slide

(30:09):
or the Big slide. It's called the Big Slide, not
the Big Red Slide APR report. My wife corrected me
on that last week, and so she's crying. I'm sitting
with her again and she's like, oh, I want to
go on the slide. A sweetheart, you listen, you're not.
You don't anything that proved anybody. You don't have to
go on that slide. You're just gonna you're gonna be
scared again unless you get fully calm and know that
you want to go up on that slide. I don't

(30:30):
want to let you go up on that slide. She
wants to do it. She's still tearing up as she
starts walking. She gets up on the thing again that's
start climbing. Before she even gets the one step, she
starts breaking down again. Sweetheart, come here, come here, hey, Like,
let's you know what, We're not doing this pick her up,
holding her. You know, it's like parents around. We're sitting
there kind of like smiling, like knowing the deal of
what's happening. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but couldn't get my girl

(30:53):
to go down the big slide, the big blow up slide.
And I'm like, dude, it's okay. One day you're going
to be able to. Just like you your scooter. It
took time. Come just like you were doing gymnastics. It
took time, ballet, it took time. Do all the your bike.
She's got a bike right now where there's training wheels
on each side. She's tumbled a couple of times, but
it's like, dude, it's just like get on your bike.
You're gonna be scared. These things are gonna happen. Yeah,

(31:14):
some of these things are just gonna take reps and
they're gonna take time. And it's completely okay that you
can't do it. No, I'm sitting there. It's like I'm
like smiling the whole time, just knowing that a moment
is happening. It's like, dude, you're okay. So that was
that was like a I don't even know how to
that's a dad win, dude, Dad went, how epic was that?

Speaker 2 (31:35):
Because that's something I'm so hungry for with Scarlet, Like
I can't wait for that for those moments.

Speaker 1 (31:41):
Yeah, it's it's it's fun to like witness, Like obviously
the tantrum part's not like the most fun thing, but
you know when a moment's happening as a dad, like
I'm gonna be curious if she's gonna actually go up
there and slide down, and then when tears break and
all that what you assume is happening, you're just almost
like prepared for them. You're like prepared to have the

(32:03):
moment with them because you can tell they're scared. They're
very scared. They're probably a shame that they couldn't go down.
They're embarrassed around all these people parents down on the
ground they're watching, Like you can put yourself in the
mind of why they're struggling the way that they can't.
Their brain can't compartmentalize and figure out why they're fully upset,
but you kind of know what they're going through where

(32:23):
you just kind of find the words and you have
the words to just be like you need to feel
like you know they're you're their safe, but you're their
safe space right now. Yeah, let them know that it's dude,
it's fine, Like listen, you're gonna be able to slide
off that You're gonna have so much fun the day
that you do do that, And it's completely normal to
be scared. Yeah. And then when I have an example
of being on that ten meter dive when I was

(32:44):
honestly terrified, I would have I would have went down
if I could have, but the the ladder going up
was so narrow, there's no I have to jump. It
can't be a pus. Yeah, But knowing that I had
that to pull from and her seeing it on video
to where I can like speak to that with her
is like helpful because you have your own examples to

(33:05):
like pull from. You're not just telling her, hey, it's okay,
it's okay to be it's okay to be scared. It's
all good that you can't do it. You have like
things to like pool from to like help her in
the moment. She didn't end up going down, We ended up.
Then the real situation happened after that to where you
just know all the kids are overtired. It's just a
feeling too, you know, the feel like, say you're on
a plane where you're parenting and you're doing like you're

(33:29):
doing your thing, but there's some things that are just uncontrollable,
and you feel like everybody's watching because you're like, I
trust me, guys, I don't want some of this stuff
happening either.

Speaker 2 (33:37):
Yeah, I didn't sign up for Hey, I hope my
daughter throws the Biggest Dancer ball.

Speaker 1 (33:43):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, dude, I feel that.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
The other thing that gets me really stoked about that
is I may need some help.

Speaker 1 (33:51):
From you, guys.

Speaker 2 (33:51):
I'll remember what it's called the Deadpool movie with the timeline,
there's like certain moments where it's like, uh, it defines
the rest of the timeline. What's that called dead Pulling Wolverine. Yeah,
the Dead Pulling Wolverine movie.

Speaker 1 (34:05):
Uh, that is a the butterfly effect, and it's kind
of like the butterfly it's branches.

Speaker 2 (34:10):
Yes, dude, we're like a convergent, a converging moment of
essentially like.

Speaker 1 (34:16):
That like anchor beings.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, where you in that moment and
Rue's timeline. Essentially we're there for like this epic defining moment,
even though it seems really small in the moment you
built rue up with a ton of confidence when she
was really really low on self esteem, on confidence, and

(34:41):
like those are defining moments, Like even though that seems
so small, and she may ever remember that moment again,
like here down the road, after a build up of
all those things, she will have the confidence to try
out for that part in the school play.

Speaker 1 (34:57):
Or you know, do whatever, just say one of those
foundational pieces of Even next time, even if she doesn't
go up it or whatever, the next thing she does
that scares her, you're able to pull from that example,
and let's just say it's a slide. She's gonna know
going into it, the conversations we already had, all the
things that's going on in her mind. Hey, if she's
not ready, maybe next time. It's not tears. She just

(35:17):
realizes I'm not ready yet. Yeah, and then she comes down. Hey, dude,
it's totally okay. One day, you're gonna you're gonna conquer
that and you're gonna be so happy when you did. Yeah,
and then it does help build that foundation over time.

Speaker 2 (35:28):
Yes, It's it's almost like the definition of what parenting is.
It's like all those little small movements, all those little wins, losses, lessons,
stud of like they all build into when Rue is
going to be faced with like a defining moment for
her own life where she's out on her own away
from mama's. Yeah, that's she's had all these tools instilled

(35:52):
in her by mom and dad to then make the
right choice, maybe make a mistake, whatever it may be,
learn from it.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
But like y'all are setting her up for six Yeah,
and I'm thinking too, Like on the parenting side, it's
like the quote, how do you want them to be
in the next ten years instead of the next ten
seconds or thirty years thirty seconds? Yeah, yeah, because a parent,
you're in a moment too, to where say you've had
a long day or your patience is low, and then
she starts a tantrument. It's like, hey, come on, we're
not doing the slide, Like no, no, no, we're not
doing the slide. Like you're just having a bad moment

(36:22):
versus intentionally taking time to sit down and talk with
them about Hey, I get that you're probably feeling this
or is it too high? Dude, It's totally okay. You're
having a full on conversation, taking a moment to parent
them and know that this lesson is going to be
big for the next moment where they get scared or
they have fear, or just the next moment of your
scene as their safe space, and to just water that

(36:47):
plant of being like, yeah, I'm the protector, I'm their
safe space, mom, and Dad has got your back. Dude,
It's okay. Don't worry about everybody else standing around watching
you right now, that's going to be all good. Let's
sit here and talk through this. But that helps lays
that foundational piece for like you were saying, in the future,
the next moment that comes about, and.

Speaker 2 (37:03):
Dude, I had a dad loss that turned into a
major Dad win from I wasn't even going to pitch
it in that same vein, but it made me think.
Like something that my dad has often said like frustrates
and is something that he frustrated frustrates himself with, is
his lack of patience with like when you were talking

(37:23):
about New York and like, find the biggest fucking line
in New York. I just want to go stand in
Like that's my dad's worst nightmare too. It's like crowded events,
big lines, security check ins.

Speaker 1 (37:36):
All that drives my dad a wall. I use drive everybody.

Speaker 2 (37:40):
He drives everyone crazy. But my dad was the type
that like, if something was too long.

Speaker 1 (37:45):
We're gone, Hey, we're not doing this.

Speaker 2 (37:46):
Yeah we'rell And I'm saying, Dad, we can still, No,
We're out. And I showed up to the Vandy spring game. Dude,
and I again, I said in the video I posted
on Twitter, I'm not trying to make this sound like
a major plight because I at the end of the day,
I'm going to a spring football game with my daughter.
That's a fun thing. But everything that led up to

(38:06):
that moment of getting her up a little extra early
because we're going to be missing her nap time, and
getting the bottles packed, getting diapers, wipes, you know, getting
her in this cute outfit, and I'm facetiming mom with
the bow and the gold.

Speaker 1 (38:22):
And like she's gonna look precious. I can't wait.

Speaker 2 (38:26):
And oh, I forgot I forgot the uh the bird
thing where you like hold him on the chest, mount,
forgot that car, got carry my daughter good good, got
this army back back on my back of all this
baby stuff. And I'm so happy. Dude, I'm walking in
this screen game. I hear cleats running past me. Who's
that turn arounds THEO Vaughn decked out and dandy stuff.

(38:50):
I'm like, oh man, we're gonna have some fun today.
Get to the security line. That bag's going to be clear.
What that bag on your back, it's got to be clear?

Speaker 1 (39:01):
Oh good?

Speaker 2 (39:02):
I go, oh great, Well, it's full of bob O's
and Diapi's and wipes, So like, do y'all want to
just check it? Like you can open it and go
through every single pocket. I don't care. Sorry, Sarah, you
can't come in with that.

Speaker 3 (39:14):
Ooh good, buddy, Papa Shirm would have been out of
the out of five thousand so fast, and I had
to swallow so much pride.

Speaker 2 (39:27):
I was so fucking angry, dude. I called jerm immediately. Jeremy,
a producer that was taking his family to the game.
I'm dog cussing the security people not to their face
on the phone with Jeremy basically walking him through. I'm
gonna have to He's like, are you just gonna go home?
I said no, I'm gonna walk my happy ass back

(39:47):
to my car. I already mapped out a target that's
four miles.

Speaker 1 (39:50):
Down the road.

Speaker 2 (39:51):
I'm gonna go buy some clear bags and I'm going
to this football game and I win did it and
it sucked.

Speaker 1 (39:59):
And I only saw three three minutes of the spring game.
Once I sat.

Speaker 2 (40:02):
Down, good good, Good committed to the mission. Concessions were
closing all day. That was the breakfast for Rito for
you to buy good. I'm starving, anythink poor Jeremy and lindsay,
I'm like, can you hold Scarlet like a fucking piss?

Speaker 1 (40:19):
So I.

Speaker 2 (40:23):
Wanted to have a bad attitude, so bad, but I
really was so happy, even though that was miserable, to
take all those extra steps and be like, we're going
to this spring game. I said that we were gonna go.
I told Jeremy we're gonna go. Told Cad that I
was going. He's a player for Vanderbill he plays guard

(40:43):
for them. He was an intern here at Bustin. I'm
gonna stick to that. I'm going to this fucking game.
We're gonna make it happen, and I'm.

Speaker 1 (40:51):
Not gonna let the security go ruin my day. We're
in my day, not gonna let it happen.

Speaker 2 (40:55):
And dude, it was so worthy when over the announcer thing,
they were like, now, I'll at the you know, commencement
of this event. We would like to invite everyone in
the stands onto the field for an opportunity to meet
with the team. I'm like, worth it, worth it. Set
out on the center field with Scarlet. They're just they

(41:16):
played Kodak Black Rilla, Scrilla. They were bumping tunes with
everybody on the field and Scarlet's literally sitting there. I'll
send you a video, Chef, and she actually like is dancing.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
Now.

Speaker 2 (41:31):
That was worth it, sending videos to mom, Grandma, Grandpa.
Got a picture with Cade where I was like, did
we hold Scarlet? And I just get a picture of
y'all two and even his parents were geeking out on that.
You could tell the little because it's about to get
married grandparent.

Speaker 1 (41:51):
They started taking pictures. Yeah, dude, it was so worth it.

Speaker 2 (41:56):
And it was the biggest dad loss of all time.
I had the worst attitude, the worst attitude. I got
my diactor back and I'm gonna bomb this spring game.
Don't want to let this dad in because he's gonna
bomb it. Sneaking liquor in with his bob os and pass.
He's like, dude, I had such a dog shit attitude,

(42:19):
and uh, it.

Speaker 1 (42:19):
Sounds like you push through it, you embrace the sub
we embrace the sun. Dude. That is so fucking awesome
to hear. That entire story was awesome to hear because
even like Scarlet, she's not a one enough to understand
what's happening.

Speaker 7 (42:32):
Then.

Speaker 1 (42:32):
Yeah, but dude, in the future, just the just the
callousing that you're doing, yes, to exemplify that one day
that's going to be an example for her. Yeah, you
know what I mean, Like, I know you're you're using
a thought process of your dad, and your dad's done.
Everybody's done a lot that everybody does a wonderful job
in their own iteration of parents. Dude. Yeah, and you're

(42:53):
using the thought of something that you learned when you
were little, being little shrem seeing something not necessar understanding,
but just having that in your mind when you're going
through your own iteration of it now and deciding I'm
going to push through all of this suck because I'm
going to that damn football game. I'm going Ell Higher
Eller high Water, Heller high Water. I'm going to that
football game. Yes, that security guard he pissed me off,

(43:16):
I'm still going to prove a point, mission accomplished. We're
going four months away, I'm getting a clear back, I'm
getting in there, We're doing all the things it felt
worth it to you. But one day Scarlett's going to
be old enough to see you go through something like that,
and she's it's going to help build her perspective of
how to approach situations like, Yeah, there's gonna be moments
where you're calling your boy and you're just cussing on
the phone and you're upset about something and shit just

(43:38):
not going your way, and you could just the easy
decision let's just go home. I tried. It didn't fucking work.
Fuck that guy. Oh yeah, but you made it all
happen in all work to where the end result of
it to where when you're having that example moment or
teaching moment with Scarlett one day, that's going to build
a that's going to be a foundational piece for her.
So that is an awesome sort of year.

Speaker 2 (43:58):
It was great every part of it then, which we
talk about a lot, when we embrace the suck, it
becomes funny. We have brought that up in a ton
of situations where like you cross that line of hysteric,
you know, episode into this is now funny.

Speaker 1 (44:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (44:15):
I pull into Targets parking lot. Whoosh, rain starts coming down.
I go, good, no, umbrella, that's great.

Speaker 1 (44:22):
Get in there.

Speaker 2 (44:23):
I see the little photo where the clear backpack would
be sold sold out.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
God, get the They just said cashers are people. Just
to hear, just somebody in the bag or in the
corner dis screaming, this is awesome.

Speaker 8 (44:38):
I'm fucking lie, it's great. I mean, they have the
Indiana Jones satchels. Oh they're only twenty bucks and they're
about this big.

Speaker 1 (44:48):
That's brank. God. Oh excuse me, sir, are you excited
about something you need double date? No, it's great. Look
at that.

Speaker 8 (44:54):
You guys are out of clear bags, but you have
the satchels. Okay, two of those for forty five after taxes.

Speaker 1 (45:00):
That's perfect.

Speaker 2 (45:02):
Oh, he us the once. Oh but it did become
fun It became funny. And again I ran into a
pet stico. There a ticket guy, his name is Nick,
and he had like the greatest quote ever, and he goes, man,
that's so funny that you're here. I was listening to
you and Will this morning on the way to work,

(45:25):
and I thought, I wonder if Sherman's gonna have one
of those solo Saturdays this weekend. This would be an
event that would probably be fun for him to come to.
I know, the connection with kid and stuff. But I
in my mind was like, I wonder if he's gonna
come to this. He's like, I'm glad you came, dude.

Speaker 1 (45:39):
I was like, and you're like, so you're gonna give
me my receipt? Yeah? Yeah, do I just get free
tickets for life? Now the hell you put me through
a great story. I gotta make it to the last
five minutes of the spring game. That's the reason's whiny
saw three minutes. But we, dude, I diagree, that's that's

(46:02):
the that's the way, and sometimes I hate that being
the way. But my wife, Charles, she's very much like,
we're gonna figure it out. Went and did a nature
walk over the weekend and it was somewhere up by
Percy Priest. Took a couple hours or a few hours. Gorgeously.
We had so much fun, man, like being out on
the rocks, kids are playing there. You know, Scotty's wanting
to walk everywhere. Hell getting there, because Scotty was just upset.

(46:25):
We don't even know why. I end up to where
I'm biting off a meat stick and feeding it to her,
and that was calming her down for a little bit.
Well she's the Zilla, but she's like screaming the whole
way there. It's like a thirty minute drive. Good, yeah, awesome.
I'm in my head like hey, befo, are we going sweetheart?
And I'm like looking at the maps, like, god, this
is we know the threshold for scott Zilla is about

(46:46):
fifteen minutes. You keep her, you keep her pinned down
for more than fifteen minutes in that car seat, she's
gonna lose her shit. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We end up
getting there, you know, we go into probably we don't
leave till closer to two pm, which is over Scotty's naptime.
Scotty's been operating. She falls on the way home. But
it's like in those moments to where it's like, dude,
my wife, she's just a bad like she'll just push
through anything that's happening because it's like, hey, let's take

(47:07):
the family on her nature walk. Let's go spend a
day walk around the lake, take breaks, and we want
to take breaks. Kids wanted to play on the rocks
Rue scootering everywhere, yeah, Scotty where It's like, we're you
want Scotty in the in the stroller because then we
can kind of keep up with Rue. I'm literally Ruth's scootering.
I'm in the middle of Rue scootering to where I
can see her. And then I'm like, row, don't go

(47:28):
too far, sweetheart. My wife's way down on the other
end because Scotty doesn't want to be in the stroller.
She wants to walk. So Scotty's just walking, finds a
stick and then she's like, wants to stop and play
with the stick, Like, scooter back to me, go find
mom and then come back to me, just to give Rue,
continue to continue to give her something to do. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
don't go too far, swear. She's just got her little

(47:48):
helmet on going everywhere. Yeah. But and then you're just
driving home knowing like, hey, sweetheart, are we gonna like
it's we're already in cutting into Scotty's nattime. She's like, oh,
she'll probably sleep in the car right home. Then we
can put her down when we get back. And I'm like, yeah,
I guess we can do that, dude.

Speaker 2 (48:01):
Mom's right for that exact. The way y'all operate is
almost identical to me and Jill. Yeah, bro, they're just
on it, dude. They always find a solution.

Speaker 1 (48:11):
And then when our dad brain's happening on, like, dude,
let's not let's choose a path least resistant. Yeah, then
you push through the path that's harder, the obstacles, the
way they're more stoic than we are. Yes there, Like, damn,
I'm glad we did do that. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (48:23):
That was actually way better than I thought. And it
only sucked for about this much of good. This much
good that came out of it.

Speaker 1 (48:29):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Strong weekends. Sounds like we had
some strong weekends. Some fun time.

Speaker 2 (48:34):
Dude, it was a really good weekend. I did have
one APR thing I wanted to touch on.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
Hit the APR for it again. We got to keep it.

Speaker 2 (48:41):
Wet under an hour because we got to hit these
do we want to hit these next? We need to
hit some comments, Okay, we need to hit some comms APR.
And this is just uh self grading. I want to
put this out there. Uh, Jill hated my steak last night?
What Yeah, Jill hated my steak last night? She ate
the entire thing. God bless, but she hated it. Suman,

(49:02):
Why did Jill hate your steak last night? Because I've
been putting off getting a new grill great having called
the Lifetime Grills shout out, no free shout out. Having
called Lifetime, I think I warranty on their grades. Man,
I can have this thing to my house in no time.
I just got called to guys, so I tried to
cook it in the oven, and I'm just really bummed
at myself. Dude, that's probably my dad loss for Indy game.

(49:25):
Isn't even the dad loss.

Speaker 1 (49:26):
You get a steak wrong and it's nothing to hit
the ego.

Speaker 2 (49:30):
I got upset at dinner and I swallowed my pride.
And because Jill's got some exciting stuff going on this
week that I can't really talk on the pod right now,
but I needed to.

Speaker 1 (49:41):
It's about her, It's not about my fucking steak.

Speaker 9 (49:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (49:44):
When you're a man and you fail at preparing a
steak correctly, allie, do you think you stay up at
night thinking about it. I went to bed at twelve
o'clock last night, just laying staring at the ceiling.

Speaker 2 (49:59):
I swear to I went to bed at twelve o'clock,
because not only it was a multitude of things. I
love cooking steaks in the oven. I've done it before
and they turn out great. But Jill's looking at me
and going, I need this steak ready in this many minutes,
and you have to cook it at this temperature on
the oven because I already have the veggies in there,
and you know, blah blah blah.

Speaker 1 (50:21):
So I'm like, I'll make it work. Good, good, I'll
make it work. Sure, don't. I don't want to kick
you while you're down. Yeah, I know, chef's pissed off
that you messed up a steak.

Speaker 9 (50:29):
I just had the taste. I'm not pissed. I've screwed
up mini meals. I know the feeling. That really sucks,
especially when you're cooking for someone else. Grow great, needed
to grow great. Do we not have a cast iron
at home?

Speaker 1 (50:43):
We do?

Speaker 2 (50:44):
We do for the reverse year you're reverse hearing it.
Have done it before, have found success.

Speaker 1 (50:52):
But the oven had to stay at a high temp.
Oven had to stay at a high temp. What was
the temp? Four twenty five?

Speaker 2 (50:57):
And I had to cook it at the top of
the oven because the veggies I couldn't fit it all
at the same time. So the eighteen minutes that I
had it in there to cook to where leave it
out for like ten minutes of the oven to let
it sit, then reverse hear it to a perfect medium rare. Well,
then when I cut open the reverse yere because it
was at the top of the oven, this thing's moving, mooing,

(51:20):
So then I have to put it back in the oven.

Speaker 1 (51:22):
I mean, it was a fucking nightmare.

Speaker 2 (51:25):
And once you reverse your and then you're throwing it
back in the oven, and then all the juices are
coming out.

Speaker 1 (51:29):
So it's like, oh, that's all the good tasty part.
You failed. I failed.

Speaker 9 (51:34):
You can you can throw it back on on the stovetop.
Just turn it to me like a low medium, yeah,
and just keep it going there. Don't even worry about
throwing back in the oven.

Speaker 1 (51:42):
I don't like I would get the cast iron on
the top of this the top of the stove and
just yeah, cook it like you're on the grill. Yeah,
that's what he's sucking.

Speaker 9 (51:49):
But he's even saying low like whatever you have even
if your ovens, you know, like you can't change your
oven tempt I don't mind if you do it right,
throw high sere and then drop down the medium. Maybe
throw a little butter in a baste, and then that's you.
Just keep that keeping you keep.

Speaker 1 (52:05):
Her hiding, and just throw it on there and get
some you know, I cook it up a little bit.
You can, I can. Your ego got in the way.
My ego got in the way.

Speaker 2 (52:16):
And the time constraint was the big one with basting
and all that stuff.

Speaker 1 (52:20):
It was true. I gotta get I gotta get the bed.

Speaker 2 (52:23):
Honey, you said you were gonna be hume at this time,
and I did say that.

Speaker 1 (52:27):
Sorry, sue me. You know, whatever you feel, I failed,
you fail.

Speaker 6 (52:31):
You feel set yourself up for failure, is what it
seems like. Boom boom. You weren't friendly to our friend Shurm.

Speaker 1 (52:39):
Shah. You gotta be nicer to our friend Shurm.

Speaker 2 (52:41):
One have to do that. And two, I've had a
month to get this new grill. Great, had a month.

Speaker 1 (52:47):
Yeah, you failed. I failed.

Speaker 2 (52:50):
All angles perfect were the vegetables, they were awesome. They
were the only part of the meal that was good.
The veggies were great. Jill killed it good. Hey, wife
and I had a little date night on Saturday.

Speaker 1 (53:03):
Where'd y'all go Iggy's. What's Iggy's, Dude, you gotta check
out Iggys. I've talked about before. It's our second time
going to Iggy's. Was all time, bro Iggy got a
little drink, got a little drink beforehand. What were you
sitting on? Wife? He was looking like a smoke and
mom and dad were you know? First song comes on

(53:24):
the car, Young Wilden Free by Whiskalifa, Like, let's set
the tone for tonight. Yeah, Scott us leaving the house,
which that's that's normal against Gott' Zilla, she's the Zilla.
But uh, day and night was awesome. Got some food,
full bellies. I'm thinking, oh, here we go, funk coupon
time tonight. But dude, there's something about getting older and

(53:48):
in the in the world of marriage to where when
you have a full belly, Yeah, bruh, we're there and
you have like a you know, you do a date
night like they are reservations are ant like eight or
eight thirty, so like a later dinner. Yeah, you know,
you get a get a couple of drinks in you.
I might throw a chocolate in the mouth. The real

(54:09):
ones know what that means. And uh, have a little fun.
You have a little fun, dude, have a little excitement
on the way home. But you both kind of know intuitively,
like Shockwave being going down to night. Yeah, but you
kind of know we're shake hands tomorrow morning. It's up.

Speaker 2 (54:23):
Do you remember when we were kids and we were
actually riding Shockwave, like we were going to the theme
parks and riding the coasters, yep, and that feeling of
you had a little bit too much slurpy, you had
a little bit too much pretzel, and you're riding that
roller coaster and you're like, I might hurl.

Speaker 1 (54:40):
It's now that in adulthood with yeah, shop, you get
home and you change and everything else, and you're just like, god,
le I'm exhausted, man, you both are. You feel sleep right?
We want to get some sleep.

Speaker 2 (54:54):
And yeah, you kind of you're kind of doing that
half pasted down like you know, the hands are kind
of you know, I.

Speaker 1 (54:59):
Love you, but yeah, you're you're like a lion. You're
ready to that. But all morning we were a run.
I'm a morning Shockwave guy. I'll just put it out there.
I'm becoming that buddy.

Speaker 2 (55:12):
If I could, if I could, if we could talk
about anything on the spot and I lead you down
any path, dude, morning shockwaves where it's at.

Speaker 6 (55:21):
Yeah, I got throwing a popular dad hack that seems
to be on the internet right now.

Speaker 1 (55:25):
I believe it was Mel Robbin's podcast.

Speaker 6 (55:27):
She had a relationship advice person on ride the shockwave
before dinner, because you know you're gonna come back full
and that way there's no expectation you come back, you
fall asleep.

Speaker 1 (55:35):
It's a it's it's probably a task.

Speaker 6 (55:37):
But her advice on her podcast was trying to ride
the shockwave before dinner so you can't eat and you
can drink and you can come back and go to
sleep no guilt.

Speaker 1 (55:44):
There is I believe science out there that you're a
hornier on an impire stomach. Oh that's got to that
has to that's gotta be true. Bro, I have to
seem in team sixer. I get why the giggles, the
elementary school giggles are happing. But this fact we're talking about,
you're talking about and if you think about just the
male hormones, like think about how you wake up in

(56:07):
the morning, dude, Yeah, Hello, Hi, good morning. If you
think about it, like, that's when it's time for us
to operate mostly not on a full tummy. At nighttime
when you're ready to wind down and go to bed,
you gotta kind of get yourself up to doing that.

Speaker 2 (56:24):
Yeah, It's all I'd say, is I wou would be
a problem on date night if I'm hitting shockwave before Yeah,
and then I'm rolling up to popstroke, get a little
mini golf going.

Speaker 1 (56:37):
And if you just audit yourself, think about the times
where you are feeling more excited, it's probably because you
have an empty tummy. M h you just the hungry
your dollar, we're on faster, you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (56:55):
Yeah, man, you roll up to that popstroke after he's
a sorry we're late for the rest.

Speaker 1 (57:00):
Yeah, all to yourself, chef, it's a good homework and
sif for you you're younger, you're ready to go more often. Thanks,
But just think about it. Think about when you're starting
to get in the phase like then think to yourself,
do I have an empty stomach right now? And then
you'd be like, you know what, the boys are fucking
onto something and that's something that you can start writing down.

Speaker 2 (57:17):
Sorry if I don't know if you journal it all,
but you can start like kind of being like, hey,
I'm a bit hornier at this time of the of
the day.

Speaker 1 (57:24):
Then, like other times in the day, I knew going
to bed a sweetheart because she had to teach in
the morning. So what time you're sending your alarm? She's like,
I'm sending it for six forty five. I got on
my garment, I set my alarm for six fifteen. Then
tell her, but I'll strategic ye six, so b.

Speaker 4 (57:44):
Strateg All right, okaylrighty, gay lighty, what what's going.

Speaker 1 (57:56):
On under now? We're pushing time?

Speaker 9 (57:59):
Make a two minute shout out real quick to a
fellow SC sixer ten minutes Will Will hasn't heard the
sake five.

Speaker 1 (58:06):
Take fine, take five. You guys are too nice.

Speaker 3 (58:09):
Uh.

Speaker 9 (58:09):
Saturday night, I went on a little fella's date with
Ryan Nolan neighbors bar and grill over in the gulch
and we're going to go meet up with other SC
sixer Matt Malone, who fell asleep until nine o'clock at night.

Speaker 1 (58:21):
That's a good rays getting together, is what that is?
The little boy day. Yeah, yeah, just go get a
cut U.

Speaker 9 (58:27):
NHL playoffs were on, grabbed a beer, some food and
they went up with some friends and uh, there are
about two tables over there were a group of girls
and when they got up to leave, one went over
to Ryan, handing over a little napkin with her. I
guess roommates number inside, and I think you're really cute.

(58:50):
First time in my life I've ever seen that happen.
Couldn't have happened to a better person, if you know
Ryan Nolan. Ryan Nolan is the best. I was sitting
there going, I fucking rip, dude.

Speaker 1 (59:02):
That's a demon Team six W.

Speaker 9 (59:05):
It changed the trajectory of the night fully because it
was it was a little rough a Saturday, because we
had Shane Gillis the night before. Yeah, we responsibly drank
some bud lights and we were both like we might
call it early.

Speaker 1 (59:17):
Completely re routed everything. Ryan Nolan's got some juice. Bro
Chef Chevy a video and it looked like a kid
on Christmas. Like Chef Chef was operating on the recording session.
Ryan looks like a kid on Christmas. No one's hurt.
But I need you over here really really quick. What's
going on. I'm getting Ryan over here just really quick,
just really an hour. Gotta keep it under an hour.

(59:38):
I just gotta I want to give him a round
of applause.

Speaker 2 (59:42):
Ryan, come here, come right here, Yeah, come here, come here,
come come here, coming.

Speaker 1 (59:47):
We're just gonna give you a round of applause. And
then this is this is Ryan Nolan, not married, he's
not a Papa Team sixer, he's not in Buds training
Breeding until Dad status. He is a st six er.
That is a Semen teams. So it's right now, it's
more for the love of the game than anything else.
I heard you had a little story over the weekend.

Speaker 8 (01:00:08):
Yeah, So Chef and I went out to neighbors in
the Gulch on Saturday night. Yeah, we're getting ready to
go out with our friends, some of Matt's friends. Yeah,
and uh, boys only, right, boys only, of course.

Speaker 1 (01:00:20):
Come on, man, start to start, Come on, man.

Speaker 8 (01:00:23):
So there's these group of girls sitting to the table
to the left of us, and they're like a little
bit ahead of us in the process. So we're like
finishing up eating and they, I guess pay the bill.

Speaker 1 (01:00:33):
There's three of them.

Speaker 8 (01:00:35):
Two of them go out, one stays behind, and I'm
like not even thinking anything of it.

Speaker 1 (01:00:39):
The one girl comes up to.

Speaker 8 (01:00:40):
Me and Chef are chopping it up, yeah, and watching
like playoff hockey, playoff basketball, et cetera. And she comes
up She's like, hey, this isn't from me, but this
is from my cute friend who was sitting to the
left of me.

Speaker 1 (01:00:51):
And I was like, oh shit, and did you when
she said that? Were you like? Okay, I know which
friend you're so yeah.

Speaker 8 (01:01:03):
So I was like, okay, great, thank you and looked
at it. Just give me your name and number. I
was like, all right, so hit her with a text
on Sunday morning and getting it rolling.

Speaker 1 (01:01:12):
An appropriate resp course of course, respectable, respectable What did
you say? I said, Hey, I was told. What did
I say?

Speaker 9 (01:01:22):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (01:01:22):
I was sold if a Texas number? Pretty Carl would respond.

Speaker 7 (01:01:29):
This is apparent show, This apparent show. But yeah, just
doing it right. We're gonna hit the boy he's got.

Speaker 1 (01:01:40):
I'm telling you, a little cute boy. It's like Joe
Burrow but hotter. Yeah, I appreciate it. He does got
the Burrow sway. Thank you for coming on, of course,
thank you for having me on. Absolutely pleasure to be here.
Shout out for the dads.

Speaker 2 (01:01:52):
Shout out for the dads. PT. We interrupt this episode
to talk about what day.

Speaker 1 (01:02:00):
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Speaker 2 (01:02:09):
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and I are moving May fifteenth? Put that on your
calendars May fifteenth, Because Lord knows I will not put
on my own calendar. I'll forget about it.

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Head to Wayfair dot Com. April twenty fifth, three of
the twenty seven what.

Speaker 1 (01:03:10):
Day, way Day, Wayfair every So every home ive a,
I'm hole near, I'm holding the wifey shout out. Oh please,
Milk Team Mama checking in. This is from Samara Flores
say that grat it sounded great. My husband Gilberto is

(01:03:31):
turning thirty and he's the ultimate Papa Team six Dad.
I wanted to give him a shout out because he's
really leveled up lately, never miss his trash day and
anytime life throws us a curveball with the kids, maybe
security guard's not letting them in the building, he just
gives me a good let's do this. He's a diehard
listener and shows up for us every single day. If
you could show him some love on the pod, it

(01:03:52):
would make his year. Keep it rowing, Milk Team Mama out.

Speaker 2 (01:03:56):
Samara Gilberto Hilberto keel, shout out, dude, shout out.

Speaker 1 (01:04:02):
What she just did here is put him in a
spot to where now he's got to go to b
towtv dot com has to and shower mama with all
of the Mother's Day merch that we got in this
what's your Name? Samorrow? Tomorrow?

Speaker 2 (01:04:14):
I needs cropped up, needs cropt up, putty needs sweat
set need Come on, Gilbert, and I love.

Speaker 1 (01:04:21):
Too that Gilberto just knows in his mind when he's
operating and saying good and showing up all the time.
He just knows that he's carrying the standard. He's holding this,
he's keeping the bar high. Is a second, he knows
like this is the way. I might be a little
pissed off internally right now, but I know this is
the way.

Speaker 2 (01:04:42):
I got Rylan maves here on Spotify with the dad
Hack of the Week.

Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
We we Dad Hack of the Week.

Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
Set a reminder or alarm on your phone for trash today,
make it reoccurring so you don't have to remember to
reset it. I have reminders for pretty much everything from birthdays, anniversaries,
to doctor's appointments and everything in between. I also have
in my note section info about my wife daughter, an
even extended family, birthday, favorite colors, candy, drink, restaurants, movie, candle, hobbies,

(01:05:11):
and anything else I think of. I also have a
photo album for pictures of gift ideas.

Speaker 1 (01:05:17):
That is a dad that understands his weaknesses so well
that he's built a formula ina structure around him. It's
now his strengths. I need it. That's a great dad.
That's a great dad. This is me, this is Papa.
Team six are listening to that Mother's Day is coming up.
They feel excited about doing it. Hey, I'm gonna do that,
and then they forget to do it. Hey, when's Mother's

(01:05:38):
Day again? Like I'm thinking I need to get that
in my life. But I just know, yeah, knowing my weaknesses.

Speaker 2 (01:05:44):
Yeah, May tenth fellas May tenth, just so that that's
the that's Mother's Day.

Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
See there you go there, I'm thinking, Oh, we said
a reminder from May thirtieth, which is also important. That's
an important day. May tenth his Mother's Day. Yeah, oh yeah,
twenty first, you got about three weeks. Boy, I got
a wife. He shot out here from Brittany is so isau?

(01:06:12):
Dude the wife? He's just writing in man, Yeah, what's
going on? Dude? Empty six takeover Empty six take Oh
hey boys. My name is Brittany, proud member of Milk
Team sixers. My husband Dean and I have a fifteen
month old daughter, and Dean has been listening since day one.
He absolutely loves everything about the show. He drives. He
drives a lot for work, so he's always caught up

(01:06:32):
on the episodes. His birthday is Tuesday, April twenty first.
Today's April twenty first, Happy birthday, Dean. So this is
a little late, but I love you, babe. Dean probably
rocks his Papa Team six gear everywhere he can and
gets so excited when people ask him about it. You've
helped make him feel more comfortable in the discomfort that
can come with fatherhood, especially raising a little girl. Thank

(01:06:54):
you so much for what you're doing with this podcast.
It honestly means the world to him and to us
so much. Brittany Milk Team sick. Oh God, damn it, man,
get my piss hot, dude, Happy birthday, Dean.

Speaker 2 (01:07:07):
You think your piss is high, just wait because Isaiah
Magnaqsack is falling that one up with another Papa shout out. Hey,
there will and Sure just wanted to write a quick
email hoping to get a shout out for the April
twenty second episode for my son Cason, as he's just
turned the big one on the twenty first, the day before.

(01:07:30):
Every Wednesday, when I get home from work, I put
on for the dads and watch it together or just
in the background or just in the background as noise.
He's been absolutely blessing to my fiance Hayley and I.
When we got together, we kind of decided that kids
really wasn't for us and we never really wanted to
have them. Well fastward four years later and we finally

(01:07:50):
had our own kid. He's the biggest basket and blessing. Sorry,
he is the biggest blessing. We never knew we needed
the biggest shit stain.

Speaker 8 (01:08:00):
I was about to dude, just wait when I get
to that part the line that I was about to read,
instead of he's absolutely maniac of a kid, but we
wouldn't have it any other way, always getting into every
toy and basket and trash can and any dog water
bowl that he sees.

Speaker 1 (01:08:18):
Shout out.

Speaker 2 (01:08:18):
So that was actually Isaiah a papa shout out about
his wife Hayley and his son Cason, whose birthday is today.

Speaker 1 (01:08:26):
Happy birth Pason, Happy birthday.

Speaker 7 (01:08:28):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (01:08:29):
Let's go, and you said Isaiah, Isaiah, Isaiah Isaiah magnaq sack.
I I'd love to be on a fly on the
wall when they sit there and talk about, Hey, remember
four years ago when we didn't want kids, You know
what I mean? In there they were sitting there one
year old. Then they're going to be reviewing the photo.
How you sweeter? Can you send me these photos? Hey?
You take pictures that he sent him to my phone.
Then you're sitting there basking on the couch, like, dude,

(01:08:50):
look at our little boy turning one years old. And
I think four years ago we didn't want kids do
it as much as how shitty is as much as
it's bucks at times, and how this dude's a little maniac.
I'm with you on grabbing the little one grab is
a scott Zilla. Bro will get into everything to the
point where I look at her and it's almost like
I don't correct her. I just say, Scottie, stop, like

(01:09:12):
stop grabbing this. You can't. You gotta stop. No one
wants you to do that. She like mess with this
little like bowl that has like a small little lid
on the top, and the lid if it goes sideways,
it'll fall in the bowl. So as she tips it
and then you just hear the little crash that it
makes on the bottom. And then I just look over
it and she's going, uh oh. It's like yeah, dude,

(01:09:33):
Oh you do this every day. Man, what are you
gonna learn? You gotta stop. D is gonna take it
every time and put it up here on the counter.

Speaker 2 (01:09:39):
Hey, show up hands, who here? Wants goott Zilla to
keep doing that. Oh no one, oh day.

Speaker 1 (01:09:44):
I don't know if you want to ask it like that.
Oh oh Dan, No one wants you to do that anymore. Dude.

Speaker 2 (01:09:51):
I was begging Jill to push it. Oh, we'll try around.
Thanks again, We'll try around December.

Speaker 1 (01:09:57):
Blah blah blah. And I don't know if I'm ready
to uh insert scrilla. Dude, another dude, we're gonna before
you said, another dude, We're gonna have on. Derek posting,
Derek posting. He came with Shane Gillis last week. He's
a comedian. He's got an eleven month old right now,

(01:10:17):
and I'm like, bro, the next time you come to Nashville,
you've got to get on for the dads. He was
a sick Oh, he was all about it. He knew
how old Scarlett was. Which a man. Some of the
crazy'll just go and show my wife. We sit there
and laugh about him or cry about him, whatever it is.
He's like, bro, I love and you've got to come on.

Speaker 9 (01:10:32):
He's like, yeah, man, is he a comedian? Because I
ended up talking to him a lot at in the
green room.

Speaker 1 (01:10:38):
He's been on Rogan like his He was part of
one of the opens for Shane. Like he's on tour, Like, yeah,
he travels. He's like a growing comedian who's ascending. And
what's funny with Derek is a full circle moment we
were having because we were hugging. I'm like, bro, come
see this side of the shop. Here's where our bus
is now. But Derek Posting whenever we had Brinan shawb
on in year one in that summer it was me

(01:10:59):
Shawp and Mike Chan where Mike Chandler co hosted with
me when we had shob on, but part of Shab's
crew or whoever he's doing comedy with, Derek Posted was
one of them. So Derek Posting was sitting on the
back of the bus back when he was sweating his
ass off. We ended up having to stop the pod
because it's like, all right, it's getting way too hot
in here. Old boys about to pass out in the corner,
and we're just laughing about it because Bro, now he's

(01:11:20):
doing his thing again. He's been on Rogan. He was
just a Bridgetonne Arena opening for Shane Gill. Yes, essentially, he.

Speaker 6 (01:11:27):
May be the only Derek spelled worse than mine. It's
d E R I see Yeah, I love it. I
love him already.

Speaker 1 (01:11:33):
Yeah, bro. And then a few years ago we were
sitting on the couch at AJ Brown's house and where
you know, we had some vitamins and and it's not
even a few years ago. This is about five or
six years ago now, and we're just calling back reliving
moments of us just busting balls, having fun before we
were dad's, before you know, these media comedy worlds were
taken off for us. And now that he was back

(01:11:55):
with Shane, we were just having like a full circle moment.
And I'm like, dog, you're a dad, Like you have
to come on for the dads. He's the man. Bro.
He was a bout about it. Yeah he was about it. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:12:05):
He was not just saying yes to be nice. Like
he was like, bro, I'll seeing you my dates, dude,
that'd be awesome. Yeah, like that was saying.

Speaker 1 (01:12:11):
And I was like, and then by the time you
come on, your little one will be around eighteen months old.
And like when my man wrote in they have a
fifteen month old, It's like that fifteen mark is when
the personality and the zilla kind of comes out. I
have word that Brett Mays is here. Brett Mays is here.
We have a big we have a big meeting. We
gotta we have a big meeting. Yeah, okay, keep it

(01:12:32):
under now or keep it under now.

Speaker 2 (01:12:34):
Kaylin Knox wrote in just really quick, we want to
shout out her husband Jared. It is his thirtieth birthday
on the April. On April the twenty third, So so tomorrow, Jared,
Happy birthday, dude, and welcome to the third.

Speaker 1 (01:12:50):
Floor, Jared, Happy birthday. Man. The dirty thirty dirty thirty
And you might think, man, I don't want to turn thirty. Bro,
thirties have been the best. Thirty is sick. It's been
my favorite decade. Now I am getting a little more
nervous when I turned thirty seven this year. That now
you're closer to forty forty seems daunting for the forty
year olds out there watching right now. Maybe some words

(01:13:10):
of encouragement as you got closer to forty Did you
feel the way that I'm feeling? But thirties have it's
the best decade. Yeah, especially when you got the family
vibes going. Yeah, thirties so far.

Speaker 2 (01:13:23):
My favorite part is when Jill's asking for the dessert menu,
or we're wanting to order something that you get the
nice steak. Oh, thank you so much. God, that's beautiful.

Speaker 1 (01:13:32):
That's the wine glass for selling. That's the wineglass we're selling.
Cool on for the moms. Dude, that's actually beautiful, Derek,
that's like really well done. And you can sit there.
Even with that one. You could say, oh, you could say,
oh where my flowers, as sweetheart, the flowers are on
the glass. Ooh oh, this is a noformance material, No buddy,

(01:13:58):
this is coming. Hey, and you've seen some of the
comments people coming at the old physique. The haters are
going to be sick when the Papa Team fit form
takes place. Just wait till they see footage of the
PPK today. Just wait, Papa Team from pt FICO to

(01:14:19):
pt Sicico.

Speaker 2 (01:14:20):
Come on, man, dude, that's so huge. Hey, but happy birthday, Jared,
Happy birthday Jared. All right, voicemails and then emails.

Speaker 1 (01:14:30):
Yeah we can we can rock again. We actually do
have a meeting, so we can rock. One voicemail, one
voicemail in the club, rocking with my voicemails.

Speaker 2 (01:14:41):
And Evans got an email that I'm already excited to read.
This is kJ the pt siico.

Speaker 1 (01:14:49):
Forgot to take up the trash. I'm a fucking piece
of ship. Luck voice, kJ hold on forgot to take

(01:15:10):
up the trash. I'm a fucking piece of ship.

Speaker 2 (01:15:14):
Luck boys, get this side off at the end kJ four.
The dads play task.

Speaker 1 (01:15:23):
Emails, email emails like I want to hear from Evan
eagleson and again. If you want to write in. The
hot mail is six on one. The dad's call in.
Leave a voicemail vent to us like my man right
there forgot to take out the trash. He just to him.
He just wanted to be grade himself, hold himself accountable,
accountable to the Papa team six community. Yep. You can
talk about a win, a loss. You can talk about
anything you want. Six on one of the dads. That's

(01:15:45):
a hot line. If you'd rather write in and your
or your international you can write into six O one
the dads at gmail dot com. I have one here
from Evan eagleson what's going on a fellas. My name
is Evan. An awesome moment happened today. I have to
tell you guys about it. I'm a father of four
seven year old stepson, three year old daughter and twin
one year old daughters. God God bless him, Come on,

(01:16:08):
God bless him. And my wife and I are currently
down at Disney World for our anniversary. We never had
a chance to go on a honeymoon since my wife
was pregnant with our three year old at the time,
so we decided to take her to her favorite place
for a getaway. I just got my fourth Dad shirt
and wore today see picture. My wife took after a
long day at the park and joined some good old

(01:16:29):
fashioned cold drinks, and while waiting in line for a ride,
a fellow pt Sicico tap me on the shoulder and
dapped me up. No, yes, Bro told me it was
awesome to see another Siko in the wild, and we
chatted it up until it was time to ride the ride.
He was there with he was there with his kids,
and let's see here, he was there with his son
while his wife is at home thirty four weeks pregnant

(01:16:50):
with their next little one. Just wanted to say shout
out that guy. I failed to get his name and
his picture, but I know he's listening because we talked
about how we both listened weekly and congrats on the
new addition to the family. The community you're building is
also know. I'm proud to be a part of the
PT six family. Keep rocking. I gotta see that pic, dude,
I'm not I'm not feeling it.

Speaker 2 (01:17:09):
Oh that's all right, because Slick Rick send in a
picture just the same time.

Speaker 1 (01:17:14):
Is there a photo? So sorry.

Speaker 6 (01:17:15):
The picture that was sent was just of him and
the shirt, not of them together, so I did not
include it. Is a photo of just that gentleman in
the shirt, not the two of them.

Speaker 1 (01:17:23):
People can visualize the Papa Team fit shirt just on somebody.
People rocking this stuff in the wild. Your dad seeing there.
Oh he's wearing a PT six shirt.

Speaker 2 (01:17:31):
I already know. I already know what time it is.
My boy, Well, I see it, I see it right now.

Speaker 1 (01:17:36):
We're imagination God. I imagine the tap on your shoulder.
You turn around and it's yo, hey, Papa Team Sicico Yeah,
and then you point it. Then you point at your chest,
Papa Team sicko. And then you just embrace the biggest
dap and hug of all time. Well you listen to God.
That gets me juiced. And then say you say, you

(01:17:57):
got a stack of coupons in your pocket and you
got an extra one. Yeah. Next, Hey, hey buddy, here's
a fun coupon. Throw a wink, throw a white. He's
back at home with the with the newborn. Oh thirty
four weeks, bring through this funk coupon. Little that one's
from that one's from Will. It's real. Yeah, we'll go
to the back. We love that fun on the show.

Speaker 2 (01:18:18):
This came from slick Rick four five zero four on
the for the Dad's Reddit page. His nine year old
daughter's first turkey. I just had to shout that out, dude, loved.

Speaker 1 (01:18:29):
The same time. That's her first turkey. That's her first turkey.
What a moment for that dad. Dude. Even if she's
like against maybe going out and then hunted like sweetheart,
like you know, just come with you all me, You're
gonna love it. It's gonna be fun. I'm sure she
seems like a sick oh as well, so maybe there
was none of that friction.

Speaker 2 (01:18:47):
But then imagine that big smile, dude rocking. I mean,
she's out there with their dad. As you know, that
photo has been sent to all of his boys five
million times and now this clip and gods.

Speaker 1 (01:19:02):
Yeah, he runs into somebody at the Vanderbilt store and
they're out like, oh you listen to before the Dads.

Speaker 2 (01:19:07):
And he just pulls out his phone. Hey, check out,
check out this turkey my daughter got. I was on
the latest episode. You watch the latest episode? Yeah, girls,
little turkey was on there.

Speaker 1 (01:19:16):
Tell you.

Speaker 2 (01:19:19):
I have a topic quote lesson of the week, Please
please share. I caught myself the other day holding my
nine month old daughter while she stared at something that
I would have walked right past, light coming through the
window with some dust floating in the air.

Speaker 1 (01:19:35):
To her, it was magic. To me, I couldn't have
given two rips.

Speaker 2 (01:19:40):
Being a dad has a way of waking you up
if you let it. The places I go every day
are not ordinary to her. A football scrimmage on a
drizzly day that might as well be the super Bowl
a super Bowl for her. Some five dollars pomp poms
are the most beautiful, shiny toys she's ever seen, and
just the act of me shaking them and seeing in
a fight song makes her giggle NonStop. On the walk

(01:20:03):
back to the car, I realize that I've been standing
in good moments without actually being in them. So I'm
trying something simple to slow down and look where I
am notice what she notices, and let small things be
big again. There's a kind of wonder that I thought
I grew out of, but it turns out it was
just buried under routine and distraction.

Speaker 1 (01:20:22):
She's showing me how to find it again.

Speaker 2 (01:20:24):
Touching the soft grass on the berm at the minor
league baseball game, smiling at everyone sitting around us, sparking
up conversations with at least ten strangers. Sometimes the best
view is the one that you've been standing in the
whole time. Just needed a nine month old to point
it out to you.

Speaker 1 (01:20:42):
Nice, great vine bro. Thank you be in the moment.
Thank you. Oh you wrote that, I wrote that.

Speaker 2 (01:20:55):
Oh that's a good that's good?

Speaker 1 (01:20:58):
Was that actually good? I just it made me pull
out my phone and send Chef a video because obviously
the theme is like just being in the moment and
looking around and knowing, like the amount of times you
just catch yourself smiling at what's happening, Like yesterday, I
was getting dinner ready to go, and I'm sitting there
and Charle might have been finishing up some work or

(01:21:20):
doing something to help me get dinner at the table.
Whatever it is. Yeah, but the kids are playing, They're
playing together. Scotty's obviously getting older, She's at seventeen months
rubying four. They're engaging a lot more and learning how
to play together, like getting Rude to realize that Scotty
wants to play with her. When Scotty takes her things
and tries running, like, oh, she's she thinks you're chasing her.
She's not like trying to be mean to you. Maybe
there's a part of Scott's deal of being a sicko

(01:21:42):
and being mean to her. But they were playing yesterday
and I'm just hearing them. I'm just hearing the noises,
and I just turn and look and Rue is just
Scotty is on her stomach and ru is dragging her
by the ankles on her stomach and they're giggling and
absolutely loving it. Bro Since shift the video videos, I
just looked at my right, left and right. They kept

(01:22:03):
going down, you know, in my living room, and then
you say, you're taking the hallway to the fitness area
with the tauna. Just that entire strip. Rue's just dragging
Scotti back and forth. So I just take my phone
out and record it, and then just as it goes by,
it's just Rue dragging Scotty across the floor and just
loving it, bro, And it's like, you know, I'm sitting here,
we're mom and I were getting stuff ready and you're

(01:22:25):
just hearing the laughs, the giggles and then playing together
and it's just like, Bro, We're like, these are we're
in it. We're in the best times of our lives
and here and Ruge just oh, Scotty, I'm getting tired
because Rue will take breaks and stop and sit down
for a second, and Scotty will stay on her stomach
and be like, eh, like lifting her ankles. I'm like,
keep dragging me, keep dragging me. This is the best.

(01:22:48):
It's a big day. That can you help me. I'm like,
it seems like Scotty really loves you doing it. And
then just kind of grab out my phone and catch
one of the one of the fleeting moments of her
dragging across the floor and you're right, man, very well written,
very well said, be in the moment. Great lesson for
this week, great sign off too, great sead, great sod.

(01:23:08):
We're dead meat, dude, Yeah, we're in the rest fire.
We gotta name that baby. Oh oh my gosh, let's
play name that baby, You're right, and I'm glad you.
I'm glad you reminded Usank. We don't have a lot
of time, so we don't have a lot of sunf
We got to keep it under an hour. Andrew Douglass
on Instagram. Name that baby, boys, I need y'all's help.
The old lady and I are trying to agree on
our baby girl's name. We like Grace Remy Rowan, r

(01:23:34):
O w yn three options? Is that Rowan? I am
saying that right, r O w yn not the spelling
I want. Old boy Andrew might be sitting there like,
se see confuses people. It's confusing, Willie Boy and then
Milk Team sickles, like, yeah, everything confuses Willy Boy. Pipe
down was wondering if you guys can help us aside
Grace Remy Rowan. Uh, I'm on three? Should we say

(01:23:57):
it on three? Name once? We all have different ones?
That's okay? Oh okay, well say that's that's the point.
They want us the name, Like, let's just not even
go through how we read about each name. We just
say what the name we think is. I'm gonna say one,
two three, say the name, yes, sir, okay, one two
three Grace, What were you rem remy remies and a Grace?

Speaker 2 (01:24:22):
Okay, three remies and a Grace. Hope that helps and
make the full name Remington. That would be so sick
and she can just go by.

Speaker 1 (01:24:29):
Remy would have gone with thrown if it was spelled correct,
Remington College R O W probably a N. I don't
know if that's correct. I'm just saying I like Remy
because Andrew here he said, don't not not the spelling.
I want r O W I N g rowing rowing bush.

(01:24:53):
Who's going to carry the bugs? Juckle willing good good
ode Sorry chef on Grace. Maybe Grace is their favorite,
though we put ourselves in.

Speaker 9 (01:25:05):
I was actually thinking Grace Roan or like Roan Grace
double name it.

Speaker 1 (01:25:10):
Oh you're you're taking both of these names in here.

Speaker 9 (01:25:12):
I think there's a there's a play there for like
a like a what about Remy Grace. Remy is the
name of a cat that I had that passed away.

Speaker 1 (01:25:21):
So I can't go there, believe, I don't want. I
don't want to. You might have to edit that out
like people things to ship like that. I know That's
why I didn't want. That's why I assume I said,
I just realized, I'll probably edit that. Yeah, we'll cut
that out. You can't say like I had a cat,
he was a ship cat.

Speaker 6 (01:25:38):
We can't on the show. We can't have like real
emotions on the pot anymore.

Speaker 1 (01:25:42):
True. We can't suppress that. We can't. We can't suppress that.
That's his truth. That's what is stuff like that that. Now,
if we're like, oh we do Remy, I'm gonna give
you this ship cat that died.

Speaker 9 (01:25:53):
Actually ran off, but yeah, whatever, it's probably good.

Speaker 1 (01:25:57):
Probably got mauled by a fucking wolf out in woods.
Also want to apologize.

Speaker 2 (01:26:02):
We didn't talk about Chef's turkey, but we talked about
this one. Yes, that's messed double messed up on Chef.

Speaker 1 (01:26:09):
Don't double messed up. However, we had a favorite, but
we also shipped on it in case you have an
insurance policy, white on it for Remy. Remy is a
great name. We love Remington, we love Chef and his gout,
and we love Papa Team sweet before the dance good
to take out the fucking trash

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