All Episodes

May 2, 2026 15 mins

Our men continue to answer your questions. These College frat boys are not holding back. Girls, this is the truth about sorority life you have to hear.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Listen
Watch
Mark as Played
Transcript

Episode Transcript

Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:01):
Welcome to Dirty Rush The Truth about Sorority Life with
your hosts me Gia Judice, Davey Kent, and Jennifer Kessler.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
Welcome back to Dirty Rush.

Speaker 3 (00:16):
Our fraternity panels back to answer all your pressing questions.
So let's get right into it.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
When you guys meet a girl, do you immediately put
her in a box.

Speaker 4 (00:24):
Like a like a like a like a date, a
date and only a date, like only a date, a hookup?

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Maybe you want to marry her right away, anything like that?
Do you guys do that?

Speaker 5 (00:40):
Honestly, I would say with seconds of meeting someone, you
know exactly like the extent, No, I know I was
gonna say, I do probably within the first conversation I
have with her, Like yes, this is somebody that would date,
uh you, I would say, you know pretty.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
Early on, I feel like you know, media, they're gonna
date a girl, but you know that she could potentially
be a girl, like yeah, like yeah, you obviously check
off the boxes where it's like you see your girl
and obviously you're like, oh, me and this girl could
be great friends.

Speaker 6 (01:11):
Potentially for a long time.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
But you like you obviously are like you see, you're
gonna be like oh, I'm not gonna get them this
girl to day there.

Speaker 7 (01:17):
Yeah, there's specific mannerisms I think, especially if it's at
a party where you can just tell immediately, like I
don't know, I think like eye contacts a big thing.
You can tell if girls' just like it's just there
like bow humans, like she doesn't like.

Speaker 6 (01:31):
To anything else, like just like grabbing you.

Speaker 2 (01:34):
Like.

Speaker 7 (01:35):
But then there's girls like where you're actually gonna have
a good conversation with her, where it's like, oh, I
could see myself like hanging out with her after this party.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
Okay. Do you guys think girls put us in a
box when they meet us?

Speaker 6 (01:48):
Maybe, but I don't think they're very good at it.

Speaker 8 (01:51):
I know, like like there's the dudes I see with
girlfriends and like there's no way, like there's no way back.

Speaker 6 (01:55):
Guys like mc grants. Maybe I don't have them well enough, but.

Speaker 8 (01:59):
Like I always we'll see like like a classic sec relationship,
you know that things like I'm there's just no way,
Like there's no way that girls have that same intuition.

Speaker 6 (02:10):
If these are the products of.

Speaker 4 (02:12):
That intuition, I do think girls are worse at ignoring
the red flags.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
Do you think they're better at well.

Speaker 6 (02:20):
I feel like guys at.

Speaker 2 (02:22):
The red flags.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
Girls we'll just like kind of like I feel like
girls accidentally like going into relationship stuff way more than guys.

Speaker 9 (02:29):
They'll be like, oh.

Speaker 3 (02:30):
Like me and this guy dating, everyone's like what Whereas
like guys will be like dating for a little bit,
like looking up and then like be like, oh, I
think I want a dator I don't know, and then
start doing it. So like maybe girls don't do boxes.

Speaker 10 (02:43):
Yeah, I mean, I think like girl's perspective over time
can be swayed by like personality or like spending time
with the girl after a while and like despite that
initial perspective thinking like putting a dude in the box
whether she would dat.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
Him or not.

Speaker 10 (02:58):
I think after talking to some more they're getting to
know that the girls can kind of be swayed a
little bit.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
But yeah, I agree with that.

Speaker 7 (03:05):
I think it's much easier for a guy to give
up get over, or like for a girl to let
a guy get over the first impression where it's like
I think, would you have a bad first impression with
the girl, You're not gonna like follow up on that.

Speaker 6 (03:17):
I don't ye, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
Actually, you know, because I'm thinking about it, and some
guys like have a bad infession of them girl, but
like get super drunk and do whatever and just.

Speaker 7 (03:26):
Like okay, but that's different than like then you're putting
her in the box of like you just like I
want to get with her where it's like you're not gonna.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
Date it that girl.

Speaker 9 (03:34):
Yeah, they totally put us in the box.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
Yeah, definitely.

Speaker 7 (03:37):
But also this school is so small where you they
already have a preconceived notion of you before going into
the conversation.

Speaker 9 (03:43):
They go off, see they kind of know what they're thinking.

Speaker 4 (03:47):
Yeah, so it's similar at this kind of I think
at a bigger school, you just don't know as many people,
so you're gonna give people. Yeah, okay, going into school,
did you know what fraternity were you wanted to join
before coming?

Speaker 11 (04:01):
I visited the school a year before I came here,
like months before I came here, and I was actually
lucky enough to go out with some of the brothers
who are in the fraternity that I'm in now, and
I think I had such a good time with them
that kind of prompted me to have a strong inclination
of where I wanted to go right when I first
got here. I know, Ali though, has a good story
about his perspective on the start.

Speaker 9 (04:23):
I knew Amana when I die here. Now I knew
an older guy on my school, talked to him, liked him.
Didn't me any really of the younger guys my another
Fratorney thought they were cool. Went back to the older
guy onto that fraternity. Now, yeah, living it up. So

(04:45):
you joined the fraternity then draft to come back to
this one. I was shutting my options. Do you want
to drop that first fraternity because I saw what it
had become like around this roll.

Speaker 6 (04:59):
Yeah, it's say on the same lines.

Speaker 3 (05:01):
Coming to Santa Clair, I was kind of trying to
fill out the fraternities.

Speaker 10 (05:04):
I just wanted to kind of see options best as possible.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
You know, it was a good school.

Speaker 10 (05:08):
I didn't want to completely confine myself to one fraternity.
But after getting to know everyone and kind of dealing
everything out with the kind of made the decision easier.

Speaker 7 (05:18):
Well yeah, yeah, Like I went out like similar as
a previous story. I went out with some guys when
I was visiting here like a year ago, and so
I met them and then when I came like for
a Welcome weekend.

Speaker 6 (05:30):
I was kind of hanging out with.

Speaker 7 (05:31):
Another fraternity, but their rush process they focused around a
lot of seniors, and I didn't really get to know
many of the younger guys. And my thinking around it was,
these guys are only here for one more year, Like
I want to be closer with the guys than be
spending the rest of my four years with and I
look like ash the younger guys and.

Speaker 8 (05:47):
The other for turn anymore totally, Uh, I don't. I
didn't really want to join the fraternity at first, or
I wasn't sure if I wanted to. And then when
I got here, a couple guys in from my high
school in this fraternity, and so I was just kind
of hanging around a lot and slowly realized like.

Speaker 6 (06:06):
If I'm going to join any fraternity, it's gonna be
this one. I never went to any other like rush
events or.

Speaker 8 (06:10):
Any other fraternities or anything, so I guess I was
kind of like all or nothing here.

Speaker 3 (06:15):
I know, I definitely like I'm went around with some
different fraternities. It's kind of fun, just like meeting these
guys because obviously during rush they're like, are way more
warm to all these new guys and whatever where It's
not always that way once people actually rush their PCs.
But for me, it was like I did know a
couple guys beforehand, and then there's also the freshmen that

(06:38):
I met and become friends with already what they were
interested in. Like Also, I was like, oh, like, obviously
they have good opinions. Like if these guys are liking
these guys and I like these guys, then.

Speaker 9 (06:51):
It all works.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
Have you guys ever lived in your fraternity house? What
it's like? Any bad stories, any funny stories? How about
you all?

Speaker 3 (07:01):
Uh?

Speaker 9 (07:03):
A few times I've seen people come back drunk and
they've ripped trees out of the ground, of small trees
and then play at them inside the house.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
Making a whole jungle.

Speaker 9 (07:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 12 (07:18):
I think one thing with Rajourney, I was like, we
have a bunch of different houses here. We have some
like inner house wars. Sometimes I think I recall someone
taking in the upper deck of someone's toilet and didn't
tell anyone. They left it there for a couple of months.
What uh, yeah, that was last year.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
In your house.

Speaker 9 (07:39):
Also, guys bought this one was just like like they're losers.
They've bought on Amazon. The cricket noise strip and put
them in everyone's room and it's I think it's still
this dand it's probably been like nine months. It's like
there's like three in this kid's room. You can't find them,
and they'll play every thirty seconds noise.

Speaker 6 (08:02):
Yeah, I guess in my ass right now.

Speaker 10 (08:04):
Too.

Speaker 3 (08:04):
It's like it's a lot of things where people coming
at like four am last like the PA speaker, like
mixing or doing something, and then someone will at tax
like freaking out, I have two midterms tomorrow, like shut
the fuck up. But then they'll be like, you joined
it for turn, this is what you signed up for.
And then it just that happens like three or four
times a week.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
Yeah, it's a very common occurrence. Yeah. Another question, do
you do boys share details about hookups, dates.

Speaker 4 (08:33):
Situationships with other frat bros problems, like not to.

Speaker 6 (08:39):
The extent that girls do.

Speaker 8 (08:40):
I'm assuming Yeah, if someone comes home from a date
like how did it get I'm like, good, we went here,
it was good, it was fun.

Speaker 6 (08:47):
I got kind of it, unless there's like some crazy
detail like that's kind of all you're gonna get.

Speaker 10 (08:52):
I know.

Speaker 6 (08:52):
The hookup too, it's like oh, how'd it get Yeah,
it's fun. Yeah, it's kind of it.

Speaker 2 (08:57):
Some people ask more questions, as that makes me.

Speaker 3 (08:59):
I'm some people ask more questions, but I feel like
that's so.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
True that a lot of them are jokes. A lot
of them.

Speaker 3 (09:06):
Stink that guys are like talking about every detail. But
literally some guy will come back, but yeah, have a
good night. He'll be like, yeah, I'm like sweet, Like
I don't, I don't really can't. I don't know.

Speaker 8 (09:17):
I don't care about like what you said to her,
what she said to you, or like what what exactly
went down?

Speaker 6 (09:23):
Like I don't need those details at all. Yeah, I
think that like girls.

Speaker 7 (09:27):
Are super detail oriented when they break things down with
their friends, whereas like ours is pretty like blanket and
unless it's like a super like crazy thing.

Speaker 6 (09:36):
That happened, like nobody's gonna really talk about it.

Speaker 9 (09:39):
You have the SparkNotes version.

Speaker 4 (09:41):
Yeah, Okay, I got a juicy question for you guys.
One of the biggest red flags and sorority girls that
you guys notice.

Speaker 3 (09:53):
Being like part of a bunch of different like friend
groups and different frats. So it's like your main like
friend group of guys is not just like in a fraternity.

Speaker 6 (10:01):
It's like all of the.

Speaker 2 (10:02):
Fraternities, like they all have a guy frame, not just.

Speaker 3 (10:06):
A friend of few, it's like a whole group of
guys they go over their house and hang out with
and everything.

Speaker 2 (10:10):
Yea, what makes a bad drugs.

Speaker 9 (10:17):
There's a lot of falling down, very sloppy, loud, just
like over doing it. Like they're always running around.

Speaker 6 (10:28):
Walking into our house like unannounced, like a weird, weird hour.
That's like my mistake.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
I feel like if you guys like get too drunk
or whatever, like you know, you'll get sloppy, like eventually
if you have drunks, Like that's the same way with girls, right.

Speaker 8 (10:46):
Yes, but at the same time falling over. I've never
had to have someone like carry me home or like
take me home, And I think I see that every
night at a party you're at as like a girl
needs to be taken home, put her in an uber
center home, carry her home, like somebody has to take
care of a girl.

Speaker 6 (11:06):
And that's like I've never been.

Speaker 8 (11:07):
In a situation where it's like, oh my god, so
and so so drunk, we gotta go get him, like
we gotta make sure he's a couple of times here
that Brits always okay, and if we left him alone,
he could just fine.

Speaker 6 (11:18):
Maybe that's a different well, that's a different thing.

Speaker 10 (11:22):
Monkey girl have free shots and be like super smaller,
so areer dreven.

Speaker 9 (11:32):
And they're just like a lot of this thy It
was just like actually just like don't care.

Speaker 3 (11:39):
Well, I think the smart girl is like really hot
and when you're like super like blatantly like not the smartest.

Speaker 6 (11:47):
Yeah, I like one, girls get drunk. I think when
guys get.

Speaker 7 (11:50):
Drunk, they still have some semblance of boundaries. When girls
get drunk, like there's like free reign they think for
them to do whatever they.

Speaker 6 (11:58):
Want and then it just ends up being so going.

Speaker 4 (12:01):
Guys can totally do that too, though, Yeah, but it
doesn't happen as often.

Speaker 3 (12:04):
I see that every single that crossing boundaries when we
start drinking, Like like we'll be like when we get
back from a party at like three am and we're
sitting down, like shots are kind of fired.

Speaker 6 (12:15):
Like you can totally cross boundaries as guys. What was
what we're talking about?

Speaker 10 (12:19):
Though?

Speaker 7 (12:19):
It's like a really drunk guy won't just stumble into
like a girl's house and like make a fool of themselves.
We're a really drunk girl, like run into your house
and like do some ship like that.

Speaker 6 (12:29):
That boundary still exists for guys, but I see what
you're Yeah. Different note though, for red flags, I'd say if.

Speaker 10 (12:35):
The girl has like a promo code that's her own
for any sort of small brand or anything.

Speaker 2 (12:41):
Like a Bathing Scooper brand or like the br.

Speaker 10 (12:44):
Energy Brandy brand, or like she got her little on
promo code, like, that's probably that's that's not a good.

Speaker 4 (12:49):
Sign, yeah, being a model unless yeah, it doesn't work,
like that's a red flag.

Speaker 10 (12:58):
I'm saying that she's like a to get by this
and use my code, like and she got like under
ten k followers or.

Speaker 9 (13:03):
Something like that for what.

Speaker 10 (13:07):
Yeah, you see your post on your story saying that
that's definitely a big red flag and should be cautious.

Speaker 2 (13:14):
No, yeah, not only fan links thinking.

Speaker 9 (13:17):
I thought, that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (13:19):
Yeah, that's it's a different But I don't like styes
are doing that.

Speaker 4 (13:38):
All right, Well, I guess closing thoughts these are all
questions from storty girls.

Speaker 2 (13:43):
Were there any questions that you guys were surprised to hear.

Speaker 6 (13:47):
The box one? The box that's not something I can
think about.

Speaker 2 (13:50):
Ever, Yeah, you've heard it before, but heard it.

Speaker 8 (13:54):
I just don't think about myself doing that, like definitely
saying that people did.

Speaker 6 (13:57):
I think it was asked because it probably girls, Yeah,
a little more often.

Speaker 2 (14:03):
I don't think you realize you do it. That's the thing.

Speaker 6 (14:06):
It's hard to say.

Speaker 2 (14:09):
Yeah, it's totally yeah, Okay.

Speaker 12 (14:13):
They all seem like questions that I could definitely see asking, like, yeah,
normal basis.

Speaker 2 (14:19):
Yeah, do you guys have any questions for story girls?

Speaker 7 (14:23):
Does anyone want to go to Holly's formal and.

Speaker 2 (14:28):
Serious ones?

Speaker 1 (14:30):
Serious?

Speaker 9 (14:32):
M hmm.

Speaker 6 (14:32):
I just like the same point.

Speaker 8 (14:33):
I do wonder like does it matter what house a
guy is that?

Speaker 1 (14:38):
That's a really good one exactly. A girl's like view
without knowing a guy, you know, it makes them? Does
it make them more attractive? Is it without knowing him?

Speaker 3 (14:48):
Does your perspective on him change based on fraternity?

Speaker 6 (14:52):
Man?

Speaker 10 (14:52):
But what year?

Speaker 9 (14:53):
Like if you're a senior, Yeah, I feel like he's
like not blah blah blah.

Speaker 3 (14:59):
Yeah, yeah, like if he doesn't get as you get
older too, and like you like go to senior year?

Speaker 7 (15:08):
Does a guy being in fraternity even matter at all?
Do you care if they're not fraternity.

Speaker 4 (15:14):
Or maybe even after graduate, like after you graduate, would
you want to your boyfriend or boy Yeah? Okay, girls,
now we need the answers to our questions.

Speaker 2 (15:25):
Let us know below. All right, we're signing off Dirty Rush.

Speaker 3 (15:28):
Be sure to follow us on Instagram and TikTok at
Dirty Rush Podcast so you don't miss our episodes, exclusive clips,
and more
Advertise With Us

Popular Podcasts

Hey Jonas!

Hey Jonas!

Hey Jonas! The official Jonas Brothers podcast. Hosted by Kevin, Joe, and Nick Jonas. It’s the Jonas Brothers you know... musicians, actors, and well, yes, brothers. Now, they’re sharing another side of themselves in the playful, intimate, and irreverent way only they can. Spend time with the Jonas Brothers here and stay a little bit longer for deep conversations like never before.

Stuff You Should Know

Stuff You Should Know

If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.

Dateline NBC

Dateline NBC

Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com

Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2026 iHeartMedia, Inc.

  • Help
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of Use
  • AdChoicesAd Choices