Deacon & Charlotte: She Thought She Planned the Perfect Date… Then Everything Went Off the Rails

A relaxing day on the water was supposed to be the perfect first date—but somewhere along the way, everything took a wildly unexpected turn. Deacon can't figure out why Charlotte suddenly ghosted him, so he turns to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up for answers. Was it one awkward moment, a personality clash, or something much bigger?

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Deacon is on the phone today for a first day
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Charlotte.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him another date. But first, Deacon, how long has
it been since you heard from Charlotte?

Speaker 2 (00:15):
Dude, she's been ghosting me for two weeks.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
Now, Oh, okay, that's a good amount of time.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a long time. You know, we
had a really really great date, so I'm not one
hundred percent sure what happened, but we had a bright
Saturday kayaking date on the river, perfect weather, you know,
glassy water, dragon flies skimming the surface, birds singing like
they had a soundtrack.

Speaker 2 (00:40):
Deal. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (00:41):
You know, there was one moment where my paddle pulled
some seaweed out of the lake.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
So I took that piece of seaweed.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
Off the paddle and sort of dangled it in Charlotte's face,
pretending to be the locktest monster. But she kind of
seemed like she kind of freaked out, and you know,
I just wanted to let her know I was playing around.
But in hindsight, I think that that might have been
a stupid move for a first date. Might have come
off sort of like a serial killery.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Maybe, yeah, you never want to come off that way
on a first date, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Yeah, I might be getting ghosted because of seaweed?

Speaker 1 (01:20):
Okay? Okay? Did she like say that she wanted to
see you again? Was she acting a little bit different
after you stuck seaweed in her face?

Speaker 3 (01:29):
Oh? I mean there was a moment she seemed like it.
You know, it freaked her out. I could tell that
it freaked her out. So I felt bad about that.
But the date still ended well and she said she
had a good time and we may hang out again,
you know.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
We talked about that on the way out.

Speaker 1 (01:46):
Okay. And then no communication at all afterwards? Or did
you try to reach out?

Speaker 3 (01:51):
I had some texts, called once or twice, maybe maybe
five times.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
Okay, So that could also be a reason too. Maybe
you've called too many times, you think, Oh, I.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
Mean I didn't really think about that as an issue,
but maybe.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
Not not to just add pylon things, you know, and
things on. But serial killer vibes and then calling too
many times could.

Speaker 4 (02:16):
Be is that stuck vibes?

Speaker 1 (02:19):
Well, if he had those before and then is calling
a bunch. Then, you know, both those things hand and
hand are really not very good. But we'll see what
we can figure out. Deacon did Deacon is on the
phone and he's getting ghosted by Charlotte. So we're about
to call her and she'll tell us why she's ghosting
him and maybe get him a second date. But before
we do that, Deacon, remind us about your date real quick.

Speaker 3 (02:41):
Yeah, we had a great date. It was Saturday. We
did some kayaking, perfect weather, The water looked beautiful, the
dragonflies were beautiful. It was like there was a soundtrack
playing in the background with the birds. It was you know,
it was really, really a nice time until maybe I
pulled out some seaweed and scared the poor girl.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
You said you may have had serial killer vibes.

Speaker 3 (03:08):
Right, I don't think that's usually the case. But maybe
putting some seaweed on my face my.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
Come on, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's a tough one
to pull off, you know. All right? Are you ready
for us to call her?

Speaker 2 (03:21):
I think so?

Speaker 1 (03:23):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm asking Charlotte please.

Speaker 4 (03:30):
This is Charlotte, who said.

Speaker 1 (03:32):
Hey, Charlotte, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jewbell Show.

Speaker 4 (03:35):
Hi, Charlotte, I'm Nina.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jewbell. What's up
with you?

Speaker 4 (03:42):
Hi? Okay, can can I help you with?

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Have you ever listened to the show before?

Speaker 3 (03:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (03:50):
I think I have, not that long ago either. This
is so weird. It's just like did I win something?

Speaker 2 (03:58):
No?

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Well, I don't know, depends how you look at it.
But we do do a segment on the show that's
called the First Date follow Up. That's where if you
go out on a date with somebody and end up
ghosting them, they can email us to call you and
find out why you're ghosting them. And so we got
an email about you from somebody.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (04:16):
Wow, Okay, yeah I was not expecting that. Okay, sure,
who is I have a feeling I know who it is? Yeah, yes, yeah,
is it Deacon?

Speaker 1 (04:31):
Yes, it is Deacon. We talked to Deacon about your date.
He said he liked you a lot, he thought it
was great, and he's confused why you haven't talked to
him in two weeks. Would you mind telling us?

Speaker 2 (04:44):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (04:44):
Because he's a thirty year old frat boy, like all
he wanted to do was be wasted and yell like bro, bro, bro,
look bra bro, and I'm not your.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
Okay, just.

Speaker 4 (05:02):
I mean a little too Friday, that's not enough. I
just like this guy. I don't I don't know when
the last time he went on a date or hung
out with another female. But it was just like he
just was like buddy, buddy, and he was being so
weird and like almost gross at times, Like I just
I couldn't he wasn't seeing that. We were just not

(05:23):
vibing whatsoever. Like it was just like we were at
we were like going to go to a keg party
after like he was just prepping before. I don't know,
it just wasn't It wasn't the right vibe for me.
You know.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
So you said he just wanted to get wasted. Was
he getting wasted?

Speaker 4 (05:39):
Yeah, the entire time, Like it was just wanting to
play flip cup and beer pung and we're kayaking like
it's weird. Right.

Speaker 1 (05:49):
I don't even know how you do that. I mean
it'd be really hard, right, Okay, Well, thank you for
telling us why you're ghosting. I appreciate that, sure, And Charlotte,
I'll let you know that Deacon is actually on the
phone and has been listening and wants to talk to you.

Speaker 3 (06:05):
Hey, wow, wow, bro, what's that all about?

Speaker 4 (06:13):
Deacon? Hi? Yeah, look do I need I mean, I
don't know what to say. But you brought us flasking
gummies and you kept trying to get me to party
while we were literally in the middle of a lake,
and I told you I'm not the strongest swimmer, and
then you just kept getting more and more buzzed. I
just felt like you were just making bad life choices.

(06:35):
That's it.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
Nothing but knew.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
I just knew you were nervous. I was just trying
to like loosen you up, take the edge off. It's
like you wanted to be stressed out. Is that your
normal state? Just being stressed all the time. Is that
how you like to live? Stressed out? Yeah, exactly why
I think the gummies?

Speaker 4 (06:57):
Okay, yeah, normal straight? Okay, Well, look at Lisa, like
nearly sword fight a duck with a paddle, like it
was so I can't coming straight at me.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
That duck was coming straight and he was coming at me.
So you wore socks with bows on them. I mean,
that's the come on on the socks.

Speaker 4 (07:21):
Okay? Have have you seen your hair? Have you seen
your hair, like you walked out of the house looking
like you got hit by a tornado, and like, yeah,
at first I thought it was kind of hot, but
now I just see like you're you're just a meg.
You're med.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
My hair is my best is the best attribute I have.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
So how dare you?

Speaker 4 (07:40):
You know.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
You're great?

Speaker 3 (07:42):
You brought enough thumb screen to coat a small yacht?
Why did you need that much sunscreen?

Speaker 1 (07:54):
Right?

Speaker 3 (07:55):
And by the way, I wasn't wasted. I can drink
so much more than that.

Speaker 4 (08:01):
Wow, okay, at least twice as much. Do you think great?
I'm just this big ball of stress and yacht sunscreen
or whatever? Like, why are you trying for a second date, Deacon?

Speaker 2 (08:15):
Why? Because I want to help you. I want to
help you be better.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
I think I get it now. You want to help
her be better at what?

Speaker 3 (08:25):
Yeah, get rid of all that stress and sunscreen?

Speaker 1 (08:30):
Yeah you know, Charlotte. Would you like to go on
another date with Deacon? We'll pay for it.

Speaker 4 (08:37):
I mean look, no, I mean no, no, I'm just
not gonna chance like a Lake Rager part two.

Speaker 2 (08:48):
Not.

Speaker 3 (08:49):
Oh come on, Charlotte, you are so hot, You're so hot.

Speaker 2 (08:54):
I want to go out with you again.

Speaker 4 (08:56):
I'm sorry. There's too many gummies. Deacon bye.

Speaker 3 (09:03):
You had the great freckles, the sun hat, the way
you just sho now I did. And you know what,
your socks before the comment that I made Dick cute socks.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
I like those socks, the bows.

Speaker 3 (09:19):
I take it back, I was I was mean, I
was out of line, but you are a ball stress.
You know what, Charlotte, I guess you're just not going
to have a chance to take.

Speaker 2 (09:28):
A ride on the deep Train. Deep Train, Yeah, google it.