Enrique & Hope: One First Date Disaster Led to an Even Bigger Discovery

Enrique thought he knew exactly why his date with Hope never called him back. After an embarrassing accident forced him to cut their night short and make an unexpected trip to the hospital, he was convinced that was the reason he got ghosted. But when Hope finally reveals what really changed her mind, the truth catches everyone off guard. Was it a misunderstanding, a dealbreaker, or something far stranger? Find out in this hilarious and unforgettable First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show.

Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
 
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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date follow up. Enrique is on the phone today
for a first day follow up and he's getting ghosted
by a woman named Hope. So we'll see if we
can help him out. But before we do that, Enrique,
why do you think that you're getting.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Ghosted because I had to end the date early because
I zipped up my PEP.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
You said, so casually, you zipped it up?

Speaker 2 (00:27):
Likely invested? No, no, no, hoping. I were having a
great date before it happened.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
You know.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
We went out to a jazz bar because we were
both binding about how much we like jazz, and honestly,
everything was going really well. We were talking and laughing
and I a lot of good music playing, and uh,
and I excused myself to the bathroom. And I don't
know how it happens, because it hasn't happened. So I

(01:00):
was in elementary school. But yeah, I went to zip
up my pants and accidentally got my singing caught.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yeah, dang, wow. Does that hurt as bad as I
think it does? It hurts a lot, But yeah, normally
it stops happening after elementary school. Maybe a little bit
in junior high school. That's like normal. Yeah, yeah, I
think every guy goes through that, but to do it
as an adult. I've actually done it on accident before too,
a little bit as an adult, and it hurts a
lot worse. Sorry, you had to go through that on

(01:35):
your dage and.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
You explained this to Hope.

Speaker 4 (01:39):
Yeah, I mean I was in a lot of pain.
You know, I was limping back to the table, so.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
I couldn't couldn't really hide it, and you know, I
tried to explain it to her and she seemed cool
about it, to her credit. But yeah, eventually it was
so bad that later that night I had to go
get three stitches at the hospital.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
Damage to it?

Speaker 3 (02:02):
Is it broken?

Speaker 2 (02:05):
I don't think it can get broken, but I mean
the kind was broken.

Speaker 3 (02:09):
I don't know how. I mean, I don't know, like
work whenever.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
Wow, Okay, so that's how your date ended then, with
you being like, I gotta go because I had an accident.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:21):
Yeah, it wasn't wasn't the best experience. But yeah, once
I got out of the hospital next day.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
I texted her and I thanked her for a great time,
and you know, I told her that I didn't need
the stitches and how how you know I was? I
was upset because I had to get the stitches, but
even more upset because I you know, I really liked her.

Speaker 1 (02:43):
Okay, yeah, I mean this is so out there.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
Maybe she thought you were making it up.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
Yeah, no, definitely wasn't making it up.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
Enrique, Why don't you refresh our memory again on why
you think you're getting ghosted?

Speaker 4 (02:57):
So I went on a really nice date with Hope to.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
A jazz bar. We were enjoying it. I went to
the bathroom and when I finished doing.

Speaker 4 (03:08):
My thing, I I zipped up my my.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
You know. Yeah. I had to end up going to
the hospital and ever since then, I haven't heard some Hope.

Speaker 1 (03:29):
All right, Well, I'm sorry that sounds Here we go.
I'm gonna dial her phone number right now. We'll see
if that is the reason she's ghosting you.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
Oh hi, man.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
I speak to Hope. Please. Yeah, this Hi Hope. How
are you? This is a radio show. It's called The
Jewbil Show.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Hi, Hope. I'm Nina.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubele. How you doing?

Speaker 3 (03:55):
Hi?

Speaker 1 (03:56):
Hi? What's up? Have you ever listened to the show before? Hi?

Speaker 3 (04:00):
No, I haven't.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
Okay, well I'll tell you a little bit about It's
called the Jubil Show and it's a radio show. And
then also we do a segment on the show that's
called the First Date follow Up. That's where if you
go out with somebody and end up getting ghosted, you
can email us to call the person that's ghosting you
and ask why you're getting ghosted. So we got an
email about you from somebody that you're not calling back

(04:22):
after going on a date with Okay, and his name
is in and he told us about your date. He said,
he really really likes you, but he's not sure why
you're ghosting him. Would you mind telling us?

Speaker 5 (04:36):
Yeah, yeah, I definitely, I definitely can. Okay, it's because
I want to date a man and not a five
year old boy.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
Oh I think I might know what that means maybe,
But what do you mean by what do you mean
by that?

Speaker 5 (04:55):
Well, the day well until he had his accident in
the bathroom, I don't know how much was you know, shared.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
Yeah, he zipped up his stuff like like an elementary
school kid.

Speaker 3 (05:14):
Huh. And it was embarrassing. And I, you know, I
totally get it, you know, And I'm.

Speaker 5 (05:20):
Really I'm not ghosting because of that. I'm honestly ghosting
him because he's showing me pictures on his phone, a
painting in his apartment, and I noticed his bed.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
I don't know if he told you guys this, but
he sleeps with a race car bed, like a kid's
race car bed. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
So I'm like a little kid.

Speaker 3 (05:42):
I found that out.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
He sleeps on a little kid, little kid's race car bed.

Speaker 5 (05:48):
Yeah, And so I just kept picturing him and like
making race car noises and you know, things.

Speaker 3 (05:53):
Like that when he gets out dove and I was
totally turned off by it, honestly, thing.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
Yeah, that's a lot. That would do it for me too. Well.
Thank hey, thank you for being honest with us. I
didn't know that. I don't know if they make race
car beds for adults. Maybe it's a really cool race
car bed. I don't know. I'm sure it is, but
for a kid. We should ask him, don't you think, Hope, I.

Speaker 3 (06:19):
Mean, look, I guess I'm as curious as you are.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
Cool. Well, Enrique is actually on the phone listening and
wants to talk to you, so we could just ask
him about the bed right now. Oh, I think we
should Enrique.

Speaker 3 (06:36):
Bye, there, what's up? So that's it.

Speaker 2 (06:43):
You're you are ghosting me because because I because of
my bed. That's the reason.

Speaker 5 (06:51):
M Yep, it's not just a bed. It's a race
car bed for a little child.

Speaker 2 (06:58):
It's not just a bed. It's it's a manifestation. It's
a literal replica of McLaren f one. It's the same
type that Lewis Hamilton drives. I'm gonna have one of them. Yeah, okay,
So I built a replica and I figured I could
sleep in it every night and visualize one day I'll
actually own the real car.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
You built it yourself, Yes, I built the car myself.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
I built my own bed.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
Okay, So you built a replica of a McLaren f
one because one day you want to have one. So
you figure you'll sleep in it and visualize yourself in
there and then one day you'll have it. Is that
what you're saying?

Speaker 2 (07:35):
Yeah, yeah, it's visualization. I mean, come on, hope, like
you do you not have dreams? Like maybe if you
took your dreams more serious, you wouldn't just be a baristas.

Speaker 5 (07:45):
Oh okay, okay, I don't think.

Speaker 1 (07:50):
That's brutal.

Speaker 3 (07:52):
He's a little too far.

Speaker 5 (07:54):
I'm sorry, but honestly, just please don't try to make
this more adult, because what you're manifesting is like you're
like a thirteen year old, like tiktoking. Okay, look I
was Okay, you got your drump plot in your zippers.

Speaker 3 (08:06):
That's cool.

Speaker 5 (08:07):
Well, like, you're the only person I've ever known that
has done that except for my eight year old nephew.

Speaker 3 (08:13):
And you have a race car.

Speaker 5 (08:14):
Bent, but do you sleep in plenty si dam with
two you know?

Speaker 3 (08:17):
Like, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (08:18):
I just look, I'm trying to be nice, but like,
since you're being like, I'm not dating you because you
have flames tattooed around your waist.

Speaker 1 (08:29):
Flame tattooed around your waist to the car, Enrique, Yeah,
is that true?

Speaker 3 (08:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (08:36):
So after a date, he sent me a picture from
the er where he gets stitches on his junk. Okay, hey,
sure was up a little bit and there were tattooed
flames coming out of his waistband.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
Oh yeah, I do have flames tattooed on me because
Enrique brings the heat, all.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
Right, brings the heat, Enrique. Well, I hope would you
like another date with Enrique? We will pay for it.

Speaker 3 (09:05):
He does bring the heat.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
No, thank you, that's your loss, because I do bring
the heat. I got flame tattooed on my and I
sleep in a race car bed.

Speaker 3 (09:16):
That's just how I roll.

Speaker 1 (09:19):
Wow, Juli's first date fall