March 3, 2026 • 10 mins
On this dramatic episode of First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, Evan thought he had the perfect rooftop date — flirty vibes, city views, kisses goodnight… the works. 💋🌆 But after two days of nonstop texting, Ruby suddenly ghosted him.
Was it the towel selfie? 📸 Or was something else going on behind the scenes? When a friend sends Ruby a photo she can’t ignore, everything changes.
Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Evan is on the phone today for our first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So in
a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
a second date. But first, Evan, how long has it,
Vinceince you heard from Ruby?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been about four days.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Okay, that's too bad. Yeah, have you hit her up
a bunch in that time?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
I did try a couple of times.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Yeah, I don't want to overdo it, but reached out and
definitely got nothing back.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
Okay, And you feel like that's weird, Like you feel
like four days is a long time? Did not hear
from her?
Speaker 5 (00:41):
Yeah, we're kind of hitting it off, so it is
it's out of the ordinary.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Well, tell us about your date.
Speaker 5 (00:49):
Well, Ruby and I went to Rooftop Bar, and you know,
I had the best view of the city.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
It was it's her idea. Actually it was super cool.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
You know, can't really be beat it for a first dage.
This great, great place to grab drinks, shared a charcoterie
board and you know our conversation was just really easy, natural.
The vibe was laid back and plenty of kind of
flirty moments.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
She's hilarious, you know.
Speaker 5 (01:23):
We're making each other laugh the whole night, and they
were just sparked, you know, the kind you can't fake.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
We ended up taking a.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Walk after and because we were both a little buzzed,
and before we.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Said good night, there are a few kisses and.
Speaker 5 (01:41):
Yeah, you know, it's just a kind of date you'd
never want to stop.
Speaker 6 (01:45):
Okay, well, why do you think you're getting ghosted them?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Honestly, really confused.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
You know, we were texting NonStop for two days after,
so things are you know, they felt promising and then nothing,
it just stop.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
So wait, you went on the date and you ended
up hearing from her after the date.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yeah, that's the date for about two days and then
it stopped. Right.
Speaker 6 (02:12):
Could it be something you texted?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I don't think so. I mean I don't think it was.
I did text her a pick of me, like in the.
Speaker 5 (02:22):
Bathroom with a towel on as a tease, like I
thought it would be harmless.
Speaker 6 (02:27):
Okay, is that the last time you heard from her?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
I believe so.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Rd trip and if I got ghosted after that, she.
Speaker 5 (02:37):
Was teuting me about having abs, so I just decided
to show her. You know, I don't know, maybe it
was too much. It wasn't like a pick or anything.
Speaker 6 (02:45):
You know, do you have abs? Or was joking around
me and like check out mine, but you don't have them?
You know I have abs?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Yeah, I mean I just wanted to prove myself.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Okay, that could be it. So was a selfie?
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah, I mean if you stopped talking to you right
after that, then that probably it probably has something to
do with that.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
I don't know. I mean, I don't think it was
that bad or racy or anything.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
But what did you say when you send the picture
of yourself in a towel?
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Nothing much.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I just I think I've put like a little blurb
like you know, here proved or something like along those lines.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Okay, Evan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted
by Ruby. So we're about to call her and see
if she tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully
get him a second date. But first, Evan, why don't
you break down your date for us one more time?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (03:40):
So we had a lot of great moments on our dates.
Barks flew. Everything was perfect. I thought we had a connection.
And you know, two days after the date, I've not
heard from her.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
And the last thing that you sent her was, let's
not forget this part, a picture of yourself in the
bathroom and a towel.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I did send her my ab.
Speaker 6 (04:03):
All right, Well, are you ready to see if that's
the reason you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Okay, here we go. I'm gonna call it right now. Hi, man,
I speak to Ruby. Please, Hey Ruby, how are you?
This is a radio show, It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Hi Ruby. My name is Nina.
Speaker 6 (04:32):
Hi, I'm Victoria and I'm Jebel. How are you.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (04:37):
I'm I'm good.
Speaker 6 (04:40):
Have you ever listened to the show before? I have dope?
Thank you? Well? What if I told you that you
are the star of a first eight follow up? Right now?
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
God?
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Yeah, we got an email about you from somebody that
you're ghosting, and they don't know why.
Speaker 6 (04:57):
You know who would emails?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Hmmm, I'm pretty sure it's probably Evan.
Speaker 6 (05:05):
You're very smart.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Evan told us about your date, said that he really
liked you, thought you guys had an awesome time. But
you texted for a little while after, and then you
just ghosted him, and he wants to know what's up?
Speaker 6 (05:15):
Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I mean, like, look, I really I thought Evan was
great and we had an amazing time. But then after
my date, my friend showed me something and it just
it kind of killed the vibe for me.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Okay, what was it?
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Okay, So I tested my friend the picture of Evan
when we were on the base because she wanted.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
To do what to look like.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
And then the next night she sends me a picture
of him with some other girl, like literally the night
after we went on the date, and then she was
at another bar and they were making out.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
No, no, no, no, you've got it.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Wrong, Ruby, that's Evan. He's actually on the phone and
wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Oh my god. I mean like, yeah, okay, I knew,
I guess I knew this was con Oh man, hi.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Hi, h Look, You've got it all wrong.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
It's not no, no, even you are literally in the picture.
I mean, it's not hard to recognize someone when you
were just right there, you know.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Oh okay, yeah it happened, but it's not what you think.
Like she's she's someone I've been cooking up with for
a while, and I was I was going to tell
her it was over because I wanted to focus on
you that night, and I just I didn't get to
it yet.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
So you were with someone else right after your day
making out with her?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Technically, yeah, Agan, you were just with.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Me and then you just go and make out with
someone else. I mean, I know I send people date
multiple people, but it just it felt wrong to me.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I swear, I swear I'm done with her. I'm not
seeing anyone else. I like you.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
I was going to tell her that the next day,
but it was like, it wasn't like that anymore.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Like you're the one that I want to date.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Did you tell her that?
Speaker 3 (07:21):
I told her?
Speaker 4 (07:22):
I mean, I wouldn't want to see a picture of
the dude that I just want to date with mixed
like messing around with somebody else again, Like she said,
I get people are dating other people, but if I
don't know, I wouldn't feel good about that either. I
just would have too many questions.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah, like are you just saying that, like do you
want to date me? Or like did you hook up
with her that night? You know, that's just powerful to me.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
You hook up her. Yeah, but it was like this morning.
It was just like a last like last.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Round type of thing. I swear I told her about
you at that point, and that was the last time.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
You told her after you hooked up.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
You're hooked up with her after you told her about me?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Like, seriously, no, I told her about you after I
hooked up with her.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Truthful.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
Yeah, Okay, so you hooked up with her after you
told her about me, Like seriously, no, I hooked.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
Up with her and then I told her about you,
like it's but that's because things so different with you,
Like we've been on one date. It's not like I
cheated on you or anything. I was just I was
trying to do the right thing.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
I mean, it would have been better if you told
her before and didn't hook up.
Speaker 5 (08:43):
Way, Okay, I get that, but it was, you know,
it was just kind of desperate and sad I didn't
get to see you, and.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
You know, I was just trying.
Speaker 5 (08:55):
To break things off and it didn't go as smoothly
as I hoped it was.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
I mean, if we were to date and you didn't
see me, you can't hook up with other people.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Like I'm not trying to do that.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
I swear it's kind of tricky because he kind of
does have a point. He is trying to do the
right thing, like he didn't cheat on anybody, and she's
out of the picture.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Now, Ruby, would you like to go on a second
date with Evan?
Speaker 6 (09:20):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
I mean, Evan, are there any other people I need
to know about?
Speaker 5 (09:28):
I mean, yeah, well yes, but I'm going to text
them and let them know I'm not available via text.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
I'm not going to meet up with them. I will
show you the text.
Speaker 6 (09:39):
What do you think, Ruby, Oh, it sounds like a
serious yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
I mean, like, honestly, we did just go in one
date and it was like a really really good date.
But I swear to God, Evan, if any of my
friends send me more pictures of you out with other women,
you're gonna wish I was just ghosting you.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
It will be way.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Promise you will never see that again. I don't want
to to ever meet that side of you again.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Okay, Sure, all right, we'll go out again.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
Are you happy?
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Yes? Thank you? You love them. Jubile's first day fall
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Evan is on the phone today for our first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So in
a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
a second date. But first, Evan, how long has it,
Vinceince you heard from Ruby?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been about four days.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Okay, that's too bad. Yeah, have you hit her up
a bunch in that time?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
I did try a couple of times.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
Yeah, I don't want to overdo it, but reached out and
definitely got nothing back.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
Okay, And you feel like that's weird, Like you feel
like four days is a long time? Did not hear
from her?
Speaker 5 (00:41):
Yeah, we're kind of hitting it off, so it is
it's out of the ordinary.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Well, tell us about your date.
Speaker 5 (00:49):
Well, Ruby and I went to Rooftop Bar, and you know,
I had the best view of the city.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
It was it's her idea. Actually it was super cool.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
You know, can't really be beat it for a first dage.
This great, great place to grab drinks, shared a charcoterie
board and you know our conversation was just really easy, natural.
The vibe was laid back and plenty of kind of
flirty moments.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
She's hilarious, you know.
Speaker 5 (01:23):
We're making each other laugh the whole night, and they
were just sparked, you know, the kind you can't fake.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
We ended up taking a.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Walk after and because we were both a little buzzed,
and before we.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Said good night, there are a few kisses and.
Speaker 5 (01:41):
Yeah, you know, it's just a kind of date you'd
never want to stop.
Speaker 6 (01:45):
Okay, well, why do you think you're getting ghosted them?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Honestly, really confused.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
You know, we were texting NonStop for two days after,
so things are you know, they felt promising and then nothing,
it just stop.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
So wait, you went on the date and you ended
up hearing from her after the date.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yeah, that's the date for about two days and then
it stopped. Right.
Speaker 6 (02:12):
Could it be something you texted?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I don't think so. I mean I don't think it was.
I did text her a pick of me, like in the.
Speaker 5 (02:22):
Bathroom with a towel on as a tease, like I
thought it would be harmless.
Speaker 6 (02:27):
Okay, is that the last time you heard from her?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
I believe so.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Rd trip and if I got ghosted after that, she.
Speaker 5 (02:37):
Was teuting me about having abs, so I just decided
to show her. You know, I don't know, maybe it
was too much. It wasn't like a pick or anything.
Speaker 6 (02:45):
You know, do you have abs? Or was joking around
me and like check out mine, but you don't have them?
You know I have abs?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Yeah, I mean I just wanted to prove myself.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Okay, that could be it. So was a selfie?
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah, I mean if you stopped talking to you right
after that, then that probably it probably has something to
do with that.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
I don't know. I mean, I don't think it was
that bad or racy or anything.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
But what did you say when you send the picture
of yourself in a towel?
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Nothing much.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I just I think I've put like a little blurb
like you know, here proved or something like along those lines.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Okay, Evan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted
by Ruby. So we're about to call her and see
if she tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully
get him a second date. But first, Evan, why don't
you break down your date for us one more time?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (03:40):
So we had a lot of great moments on our dates.
Barks flew. Everything was perfect. I thought we had a connection.
And you know, two days after the date, I've not
heard from her.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
And the last thing that you sent her was, let's
not forget this part, a picture of yourself in the
bathroom and a towel.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I did send her my ab.
Speaker 6 (04:03):
All right, Well, are you ready to see if that's
the reason you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Okay, here we go. I'm gonna call it right now. Hi, man,
I speak to Ruby. Please, Hey Ruby, how are you?
This is a radio show, It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Hi Ruby. My name is Nina.
Speaker 6 (04:32):
Hi, I'm Victoria and I'm Jebel. How are you.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (04:37):
I'm I'm good.
Speaker 6 (04:40):
Have you ever listened to the show before? I have dope?
Thank you? Well? What if I told you that you
are the star of a first eight follow up? Right now?
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
God?
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Yeah, we got an email about you from somebody that
you're ghosting, and they don't know why.
Speaker 6 (04:57):
You know who would emails?
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Hmmm, I'm pretty sure it's probably Evan.
Speaker 6 (05:05):
You're very smart.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Evan told us about your date, said that he really
liked you, thought you guys had an awesome time. But
you texted for a little while after, and then you
just ghosted him, and he wants to know what's up?
Speaker 6 (05:15):
Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
I mean, like, look, I really I thought Evan was
great and we had an amazing time. But then after
my date, my friend showed me something and it just
it kind of killed the vibe for me.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Okay, what was it?
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Okay, So I tested my friend the picture of Evan
when we were on the base because she wanted.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
To do what to look like.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
And then the next night she sends me a picture
of him with some other girl, like literally the night
after we went on the date, and then she was
at another bar and they were making out.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
No, no, no, no, you've got it.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Wrong, Ruby, that's Evan. He's actually on the phone and
wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Oh my god. I mean like, yeah, okay, I knew,
I guess I knew this was con Oh man, hi.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Hi, h Look, You've got it all wrong.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
It's not no, no, even you are literally in the picture.
I mean, it's not hard to recognize someone when you
were just right there, you know.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Oh okay, yeah it happened, but it's not what you think.
Like she's she's someone I've been cooking up with for
a while, and I was I was going to tell
her it was over because I wanted to focus on
you that night, and I just I didn't get to
it yet.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
So you were with someone else right after your day
making out with her?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Technically, yeah, Agan, you were just with.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Me and then you just go and make out with
someone else. I mean, I know I send people date
multiple people, but it just it felt wrong to me.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I swear, I swear I'm done with her. I'm not
seeing anyone else. I like you.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
I was going to tell her that the next day,
but it was like, it wasn't like that anymore.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Like you're the one that I want to date.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Did you tell her that?
Speaker 3 (07:21):
I told her?
Speaker 4 (07:22):
I mean, I wouldn't want to see a picture of
the dude that I just want to date with mixed
like messing around with somebody else again, Like she said,
I get people are dating other people, but if I
don't know, I wouldn't feel good about that either. I
just would have too many questions.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah, like are you just saying that, like do you
want to date me? Or like did you hook up
with her that night? You know, that's just powerful to me.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
You hook up her. Yeah, but it was like this morning.
It was just like a last like last.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
Round type of thing. I swear I told her about
you at that point, and that was the last time.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
You told her after you hooked up.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
You're hooked up with her after you told her about me?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Like, seriously, no, I told her about you after I
hooked up with her.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Truthful.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
Yeah, Okay, so you hooked up with her after you
told her about me, Like seriously, no, I hooked.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
Up with her and then I told her about you,
like it's but that's because things so different with you,
Like we've been on one date. It's not like I
cheated on you or anything. I was just I was
trying to do the right thing.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
I mean, it would have been better if you told
her before and didn't hook up.
Speaker 5 (08:43):
Way, Okay, I get that, but it was, you know,
it was just kind of desperate and sad I didn't
get to see you, and.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
You know, I was just trying.
Speaker 5 (08:55):
To break things off and it didn't go as smoothly
as I hoped it was.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
I mean, if we were to date and you didn't
see me, you can't hook up with other people.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Like I'm not trying to do that.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
I swear it's kind of tricky because he kind of
does have a point. He is trying to do the
right thing, like he didn't cheat on anybody, and she's
out of the picture.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Now, Ruby, would you like to go on a second
date with Evan?
Speaker 6 (09:20):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
I mean, Evan, are there any other people I need
to know about?
Speaker 5 (09:28):
I mean, yeah, well yes, but I'm going to text
them and let them know I'm not available via text.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
I'm not going to meet up with them. I will
show you the text.
Speaker 6 (09:39):
What do you think, Ruby, Oh, it sounds like a
serious yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
I mean, like, honestly, we did just go in one
date and it was like a really really good date.
But I swear to God, Evan, if any of my
friends send me more pictures of you out with other women,
you're gonna wish I was just ghosting you.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
It will be way.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Promise you will never see that again. I don't want
to to ever meet that side of you again.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Okay, Sure, all right, we'll go out again.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
Are you happy?
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Yes? Thank you? You love them. Jubile's first day fall
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