FDFU:Benny & Savannah: His Pre-Date “Alpha” Ritual Left Her Running—But Did He Still Get a Second Chance?

Benny thought everything was going great with Savannah—until she suddenly ghosted him. He assumed it might've been the awkward duck incident from their date, but the real reason is something no one saw coming. When Savannah reveals what she witnessed moments before things got romantic, the entire studio is left speechless... and laughing.

Was Benny's confidence-boosting "alpha" routine a total dealbreaker, or could his over-the-top explanation actually win Savannah back? Listen to this hilarious First Date Follow Up from The Jubal Show to hear one of the most unforgettable ghosting stories yet—and find out whether these two end up giving love another shot.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
R even if your first day follow up and if
you're just joining us.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Benny is on the phone and Bennie is getting ghosted
by a woman named Savannah. So we're about to call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Bennie,
why didn't you tell us again why you think you're
getting ghosted? I can't, I can't stop laughing at it.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
Well, I mean, oh, I want to help it.

Speaker 4 (00:21):
Yeah, like like, you know, amazing dinner, little hammered man,
freaking walking and you know, this duck started following us
and similarly kicking it and it was actually behind us,
and I kicked it.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
So, oh, I don't I'm hoping that's But the duck
that you kicked was fine.

Speaker 5 (00:39):
Yeah, it was totally fine.

Speaker 6 (00:40):
I checked on it.

Speaker 1 (00:41):
It was a little date, but it was fine. Okay.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
But but yeah, I mean maybe she thinks that that
that you, Well.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
It would definitely be an awkward moment in a date.

Speaker 7 (00:48):
It would be I'm so WEIRDO kicks ducks?

Speaker 2 (00:52):
All right, Well, I'm on a dollar for him right
now here we go, Hello, Hi, man, I speak to
Savannah please.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
This is she. Hey Savannah, how are you? This is
a radio show. It's called The Jewbill Show.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
Hi Savannah, I'mina.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubel.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
Hi.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
Have you ever listened to show before?

Speaker 8 (01:18):
I actually definitely, and I've heard of.

Speaker 1 (01:21):
The Jubile Show.

Speaker 9 (01:22):
So now I am slightly freaked out, a little confused.

Speaker 2 (01:28):
Okay, Well, so we do a segment on our show
that's called the first Date follow Up, where if you
go out on a date with somebody and you end
up ghosting them, that person can email us and.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
Ask us to find out why they're getting ghosted. And
so we got an email about.

Speaker 2 (01:44):
You from somebody that you went out on a date with,
and now you're not talking to them.

Speaker 8 (01:48):
Oh gosh.

Speaker 1 (01:52):
His name is Benny.

Speaker 8 (01:53):
Well this is awkward.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
You mind telling us why you're ghosting Benny.

Speaker 8 (02:02):
I can't date a guy who turns four play.

Speaker 3 (02:06):
Into an action movie training montage. Whoa, Oh please explain.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Action movie training montage. What you said? Yeah, what you mean?

Speaker 9 (02:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (02:20):
The problem started when we got back to his place,
and you know, like one thing it led me to
the other. We're like, well, go have a cocktail and
just hang out. Of course that never happens. You know,
we're about to get busy. He went to the bathroom
excuse himself, like I'll be right back, but I heard talking,

(02:41):
and I heard him talking, so I was like, maybe
he's on the phone or something. I just, like, honestly,
just like quietly walked towards the bathroom and I realized
the door was open a little crack. So what I
saw changed everything, Like are you ready? Are you?

Speaker 3 (03:02):
I don't know, please tell us anyway.

Speaker 8 (03:06):
Okay, So okay, So he's standing shirtless in front of
the mirror, which I didn't mind. I was like, okay,
like cool, you know, but okay. He was doing like
full on lunges and between the lunges he was like
he was doing this like aggressive man slap, like like
a like he's slapping himself in the face and then
like pointing at himself.

Speaker 1 (03:26):
In the mirror.

Speaker 8 (03:29):
And it was like but he was whispering. He was
whispering that you are the alpha, you are.

Speaker 9 (03:36):
The lion, the king of a joke o.

Speaker 8 (03:41):
Like and I'm like, oh whoa, Like what is.

Speaker 9 (03:45):
He like prayed himself with body spray, did two more
push ups, kissed his biceps like inner buying himself in
the mirror, and then he like whisper yelled.

Speaker 8 (03:54):
He was it isd.

Speaker 9 (03:57):
I was like, holy, Like I immediately ran back to
the bedroom and pretended to be asleep. I like, I
ran so fat and I was like, you.

Speaker 8 (04:09):
Know, like I last first thing in the morning, and
that I just knew right there.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
I could never I could never see him.

Speaker 1 (04:14):
The round two is not giving it.

Speaker 3 (04:17):
Wow, I mean it's kind of like he was clearly nervous,
like you wanted to prepare himself for the situation. The whispers.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
On the other hand, well, thank you for telling us, Savannah.
I'll also let you know that the King of the
Jungle is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk.

Speaker 3 (04:37):
He did not earn round two. So like you that Hi?
You you so you saw that.

Speaker 5 (04:47):
I I mean, I mean, you know, it's just like
a confidence ritual loss the successful people, if you don't know,
especially men.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
I'm like, these rituals a rituals.

Speaker 6 (05:02):
Okay, billionaires have rituals.

Speaker 4 (05:04):
Yeah, I mean you understand, you know, like, so you know,
don't make fun of self improvement something and self improvement.

Speaker 3 (05:13):
And this is normal, Benny, you do this all the time.

Speaker 8 (05:16):
Yeah, I'm all about self improvement.

Speaker 9 (05:18):
Self is.

Speaker 8 (05:19):
Self improvement is one thing, you know, but like watching
a grown man that you're on a date with, like
about to get busy with, like screaming whisper, screaming mind
you in the mirror, like.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
At two thirty in the morning.

Speaker 9 (05:34):
Other thing, Benny Noel.

Speaker 1 (05:40):
Preparing for battle.

Speaker 9 (05:42):
It was, it was, it was scary.

Speaker 6 (05:43):
Like, let me tell you something, Savannah. I'm a winner. Okay,
winners celebrate. Michael Jordan had rituals, Kobe had rituals. Okay,
champions have rituals. The Stallion must gallup. Okay. You can't
expect to Borman without preparation. I'm a gamer, Okay, I'm

(06:06):
that guy, all right.

Speaker 9 (06:13):
The gamer, and I respect the I respect your self improvement, hustle.
I mean like all of that is is great stuff.

Speaker 8 (06:23):
It's just like moment and play, you know, like it
was just right right in tension, wrong play.

Speaker 1 (06:31):
For me to see it.

Speaker 8 (06:33):
You know.

Speaker 5 (06:33):
Hey, Savannah, I'm sorry.

Speaker 6 (06:36):
I'm a winner, you know, I mean, plain and simple.

Speaker 4 (06:39):
You know that's cool that you saw me.

Speaker 6 (06:42):
I don't care about that.

Speaker 7 (06:43):
It's all about you. And when I go to battle
game time, I'm trying to please or take care of
my opponent. You know, so that's just what I do. Okay,
And you know what, Savannah, you let the stallue gallup.
I assure you you would want to ride it again.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
All right?

Speaker 2 (07:06):
Well, I know I need to ask you if you
were to reinterested in going on another date with Bennie,
we will pay for it.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
Can you just try and then report back? Because this
comment has got me really curious.

Speaker 9 (07:20):
I'm serious today you got me?

Speaker 1 (07:24):
What?

Speaker 9 (07:24):
What got me?

Speaker 1 (07:26):
It's ridiculous, but.

Speaker 9 (07:28):
Now I'm interested?

Speaker 1 (07:30):
Wow, Benny? What really? Congratulations?

Speaker 5 (07:36):
Of course that's what I'm talking about.

Speaker 6 (07:38):
Baby kicks, you know, time with you in the winner's circle.

Speaker 1 (07:44):
Savanna, please.

Speaker 3 (07:47):
Again?

Speaker 1 (07:52):
You will's first date follow up