February 23, 2026 • 11 mins
On this episode of First Date Follow Up from The Jubal Show, Gerardo thought he planned the perfect romantic weekend — horseback riding, wine tasting, cozy couch time, and what he believed were all the right vibes. So why has August been ghosting him for three weeks?
Was it something he said… something he did… or something he wore? 😬
When August finally reveals the real reason she disappeared, it’s a hilariously awkward twist no one saw coming. This episode is packed with dating drama, ghosting confessions, relationship red flags, and laugh-out-loud moments you won’t want to miss.
Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Online at Advocates law dot com.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Gerroto is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named August.
So in a second we'll call her and see if
she'll tell us why she's ghosting him, but first we
have to hear about the date. Gerroto, Sorry, you're getting ghosted, man.
How long has it been since you talked to August?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Yeah? No, thank you. It's been three weeks now and
I haven't heard anything. I've text her four times.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Oh it's like a long time.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Sorry, that doesn't feel good.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
I actually got along. I got one of them in
front of me. I wrote, Hey, I don't want to
bother you, but I'll be honest. I really liked you
and would love to see you again. And if you don't,
I accept that, but could you please just let me know.
Oh and I've still gotten nothing, And yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
I feel like that's a I feel like that's cool, right.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
You know, you give her the opportunity to be like, yeah,
I don't want to see you again, no hard feelings. Well,
you're just here, straightforward you need we'll tell us about
the date.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
The date was like the best date of my life.
Speaker 5 (01:07):
I feel.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
So Auguston told me that she has always wanted to
go horseback, right, She just kind of like brought it
up in conversation once, and so I booked a horse
ride for for us to go on, and it included
romantic wine tasting, and I like, guys, when I saw
her on the horse, she was like movie beautiful, you
(01:31):
know yeah, And I'm playing I'm bummed because I feel
like she's the type of girl that I could really
see being with, like long term. And I'm just confused
because after the date, like we spent the whole weekend together.
She stayed over the night. The next day, we hung
(01:52):
out at home all day, snuggling on the couch.
Speaker 5 (01:55):
We watched the Netflix order dinner.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Together again, you know, like it was very romantic, and
in the morning she left and she still seemed into me.
So I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
How did you How did you guys leave it? When
she left, was She's like, Okay, we'll do this again soon, or.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Just like I was getting all positive vibes, Like I
keep replaying that to be like did it same awkward
or something like that, like I don't, I don't know,
I don't think so. I mean, okay, my theory is
she she might be ghosting me because during the day
when she was staying over, one of my friends stopped
by and.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
He came in for a while and he was like,
you know, talking to both of us school.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
And he was telling her stories. And one of the
stories he told her was about this summer where I
documented every fart that I had and I put it
on YouTube as a partumentary and.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Put it on YouTube. I mean, I might go too,
not gonna lie. You documented every fart for a whole year?
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Why for a year? For a whole year, I documented
every part and then yeah, I put it together a
document her.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
I love it, man, I want to watch it. I
bet it's good.
Speaker 5 (03:17):
It's like you think you like it.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
It's better than it sounds.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
And I did take it down a while ago, because.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
All right it I didn't.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
I didn't want to, like genuinely.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Like I feel like enough people told me I had
to take it down, but I was.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Like, yeah, wow, okay, no, well, I mean maybe that
is the reason she's gusting you.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
Maybe grows out like that's the only thing I can
think of.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Gerardo is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by
a woman named August. So we're about to call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him a second date. But first, Gerardo,
why don't you break down your situation for us again
real quick?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Yeah? Yeah, Basically, I went on an amazing day with
this woman. We spent the whole weekend together. She stayed
over and it all seemed good and she left, but
she she's has been completely ghosting me. And the only
reason I can think is because my buddy came over
when she was spending the weekend with me, and he
told her about my part umentary in your documentary, because
(04:22):
the parts that I did for a year, and he
brought that up, and that's the only thing I can think.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Might be grossed out, but that documentary is very good.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
How long was that documentary? Like, I feel like I
kind of need to know.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
It's like it's it's forty four minutes.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
That's sweet.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
It looks like a breakdown in the part, like like
there's an intro.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
I like document like it's like a legit documentary.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
That's cool, man, I really do want to see this.
You guys can exchange numbers out after the show. I'm
imagining like David Attenbro Yeah reading, Yeah, impressive, man, I
mean so validated. If you were going on a day
with me, I would be in pressed by that. I'd
be like, yeah, I would think it was very very
very extraordinary that you did that. Extraordinary.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
All right, here we go.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I'm in the dollar punt of me right now. Okay,
all right, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, man,
I speak to August. Please Hello, Hello, this is she.
(05:29):
Oh hey, how are you. This is a radio show
called The Jebel Show. Hi, August, I'm Nina.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Hi am Victoria.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Oh Mynam's jewel.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Oh hi, hi everybody? Hy hey?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
You ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Actually I have.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Oh cool, okay, well, thank you very much. And we're
calling you today because I don't know if you've heard
the first date follow up segment before. That's where if
you get ghosted by somebody, they can email us to
call you and ask why you're ghosting them. And we
got an email from somebody about you. Oh oh, you
know who might email us to find out why you're
(06:07):
ghosting him?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Yeah, I have I have an idea.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Who do you think it is?
Speaker 2 (06:16):
I went on a date with this guy named Gerardo.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Yes it is Gerardo. Okay, he says, it's been three
weeks since you guys talked. He thought it was like
the best date of his life, and you guys spent
the whole weekend together, and he doesn't know why you're
ghosting and would you mind telling us?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
I mean, yeah, I'll tell you. I So we spent
the weekend with him, and I mean the date itself
was great and everything was cool, and then he uh like,
wake up and he's hanging out watching TV in his
(07:05):
like this big T shirt and just his bundies. And
I was like, okay, you know cool, that's cool, I guess.
And then and then that was how he stayed the
whole the whole day.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
T shirt and undies. Is it likendies or boxers?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Like undies? Like they smaller than mine, like oh tidy
whitey that they weren't I guess they weren't white. I
don't know they were. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
So big T shirt and nundies T.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Shirt like porky pig in it.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Yeah, okay, so.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
He was.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
And just it was just like I was hanging out
with my grandma iron a ninety nighty like it just
it was just like, uh, you know, I mean, I
want to hang out with my you know, my sexy
boyfriend I'm dating, and I just it was not sexy
at all. It was just that we're going to braid
each other's hair and talk about boys. It's just like
(08:11):
I felt like I was hanging out with a girlfriend
because like some some dude came over to visit him
and he stayed like that.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
He said his friend came over and he was just
chilling her with his big T shirt and underwear talking
to his friend.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Yeah, like that was how he I mean, like I
kept expecting him to put on pants, like I guess,
I don't know. I think he owns pants. He wore
pants on the date, but then no pants.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Well thank you, okay, thank you for telling us. Appreciate that. Also,
I need to let you know that Gerardo is on
the phone and wants to talk to you. I don't
know what he's wearing right now, though, Okay.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
Okay, yeah, I have to say I'm just kind of
relieved that it's not about the fartumentary. But at the
same time, I'm like, yeah, this is crazy to me.
This is a non issue, Like are you serious? Like
I also thought that we were having a sexy weekend,
Like that's those are my that's my.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Company, the sexy weekends. Yeah, okay, got it.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
You know that's just like my lazy Boys Saturdays. And
my previous girlfriends have thought that was super sexyday.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Did they?
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Did they?
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Did they? Okay? Yeah? No, Uh you're wearing you're like
you're graining ninety Like no, not sexy.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
Like in romantic movies, you get in your in, your in,
your lazy.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
Boy says your lazy boy Saturdays and you hang out
with your girlfriend all weekend.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Like if your girlfriend is wearing your sexy T shirt,
that's sexy, not not you wearing your three XL I
met a part you mentory T shirt.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
It's not like I don't wear No, I wouldn't pants
all week Sometimes a guy just wants to let his
legs breathe a little bit.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
I mean I get that.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
I mean your friend came over and it's still no pants,
just zero, like just porky picking it all weekend. That
was just totally cool with you, and I was just
I was so okay, it's.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
My boy, like my boys know about my lazy boy saturdays.
Like that's not even.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
It's never been.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
An issue before.
Speaker 5 (10:51):
He didn't even bring it up.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
You notice that I didn't point of conversation. I thought
he thought it was weird too, But maybe not. Maybe
that's your lazy boy thing. I don't know, but.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
No, Well, are you sure, August, would you like to
go on another date with Rod? Will pay for it?
Speaker 2 (11:15):
I don't. I don't. I don't think so. I think
the lazy boy thing is just that's a deal breaker
for me.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
What did you think of the documentary though?
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Like when you heard that, no, de totally made sense
to me. I could just see you there and your
lazy boy t shirt and your lazy boy pianis having
a weekend of it. Document in parts totally sexy.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Ju Will's first date Fall
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Online at Advocates law dot com.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Gerroto is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named August.
So in a second we'll call her and see if
she'll tell us why she's ghosting him, but first we
have to hear about the date. Gerroto, Sorry, you're getting ghosted, man.
How long has it been since you talked to August?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Yeah? No, thank you. It's been three weeks now and
I haven't heard anything. I've text her four times.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Oh it's like a long time.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Sorry, that doesn't feel good.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
I actually got along. I got one of them in
front of me. I wrote, Hey, I don't want to
bother you, but I'll be honest. I really liked you
and would love to see you again. And if you don't,
I accept that, but could you please just let me know.
Oh and I've still gotten nothing, And yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
I feel like that's a I feel like that's cool, right.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
You know, you give her the opportunity to be like, yeah,
I don't want to see you again, no hard feelings. Well,
you're just here, straightforward you need we'll tell us about
the date.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
The date was like the best date of my life.
Speaker 5 (01:07):
I feel.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
So Auguston told me that she has always wanted to
go horseback, right, She just kind of like brought it
up in conversation once, and so I booked a horse
ride for for us to go on, and it included
romantic wine tasting, and I like, guys, when I saw
her on the horse, she was like movie beautiful, you
(01:31):
know yeah, And I'm playing I'm bummed because I feel
like she's the type of girl that I could really
see being with, like long term. And I'm just confused
because after the date, like we spent the whole weekend together.
She stayed over the night. The next day, we hung
(01:52):
out at home all day, snuggling on the couch.
Speaker 5 (01:55):
We watched the Netflix order dinner.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Together again, you know, like it was very romantic, and
in the morning she left and she still seemed into me.
So I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
How did you How did you guys leave it? When
she left, was She's like, Okay, we'll do this again soon, or.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Just like I was getting all positive vibes, Like I
keep replaying that to be like did it same awkward
or something like that, like I don't, I don't know,
I don't think so. I mean, okay, my theory is
she she might be ghosting me because during the day
when she was staying over, one of my friends stopped
by and.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
He came in for a while and he was like,
you know, talking to both of us school.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
And he was telling her stories. And one of the
stories he told her was about this summer where I
documented every fart that I had and I put it
on YouTube as a partumentary and.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Put it on YouTube. I mean, I might go too,
not gonna lie. You documented every fart for a whole year?
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Why for a year? For a whole year, I documented
every part and then yeah, I put it together a
document her.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
I love it, man, I want to watch it. I
bet it's good.
Speaker 5 (03:17):
It's like you think you like it.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
It's better than it sounds.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
And I did take it down a while ago, because.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
All right it I didn't.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
I didn't want to, like genuinely.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Like I feel like enough people told me I had
to take it down, but I was.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Like, yeah, wow, okay, no, well, I mean maybe that
is the reason she's gusting you.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
Maybe grows out like that's the only thing I can
think of.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Gerardo is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by
a woman named August. So we're about to call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him a second date. But first, Gerardo,
why don't you break down your situation for us again
real quick?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Yeah? Yeah, Basically, I went on an amazing day with
this woman. We spent the whole weekend together. She stayed
over and it all seemed good and she left, but
she she's has been completely ghosting me. And the only
reason I can think is because my buddy came over
when she was spending the weekend with me, and he
told her about my part umentary in your documentary, because
(04:22):
the parts that I did for a year, and he
brought that up, and that's the only thing I can think.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Might be grossed out, but that documentary is very good.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
How long was that documentary? Like, I feel like I
kind of need to know.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
It's like it's it's forty four minutes.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
That's sweet.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
It looks like a breakdown in the part, like like
there's an intro.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
I like document like it's like a legit documentary.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
That's cool, man, I really do want to see this.
You guys can exchange numbers out after the show. I'm
imagining like David Attenbro Yeah reading, Yeah, impressive, man, I
mean so validated. If you were going on a day
with me, I would be in pressed by that. I'd
be like, yeah, I would think it was very very
very extraordinary that you did that. Extraordinary.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
All right, here we go.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I'm in the dollar punt of me right now. Okay,
all right, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, man,
I speak to August. Please Hello, Hello, this is she.
(05:29):
Oh hey, how are you. This is a radio show
called The Jebel Show. Hi, August, I'm Nina.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Hi am Victoria.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Oh Mynam's jewel.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Oh hi, hi everybody? Hy hey?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
You ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Actually I have.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Oh cool, okay, well, thank you very much. And we're
calling you today because I don't know if you've heard
the first date follow up segment before. That's where if
you get ghosted by somebody, they can email us to
call you and ask why you're ghosting them. And we
got an email from somebody about you. Oh oh, you
know who might email us to find out why you're
(06:07):
ghosting him?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Yeah, I have I have an idea.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Who do you think it is?
Speaker 2 (06:16):
I went on a date with this guy named Gerardo.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Yes it is Gerardo. Okay, he says, it's been three
weeks since you guys talked. He thought it was like
the best date of his life, and you guys spent
the whole weekend together, and he doesn't know why you're
ghosting and would you mind telling us?
Speaker 2 (06:41):
I mean, yeah, I'll tell you. I So we spent
the weekend with him, and I mean the date itself
was great and everything was cool, and then he uh like,
wake up and he's hanging out watching TV in his
(07:05):
like this big T shirt and just his bundies. And
I was like, okay, you know cool, that's cool, I guess.
And then and then that was how he stayed the
whole the whole day.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
T shirt and undies. Is it likendies or boxers?
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Like undies? Like they smaller than mine, like oh tidy
whitey that they weren't I guess they weren't white. I
don't know they were. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
So big T shirt and nundies T.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Shirt like porky pig in it.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Yeah, okay, so.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
He was.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
And just it was just like I was hanging out
with my grandma iron a ninety nighty like it just
it was just like, uh, you know, I mean, I
want to hang out with my you know, my sexy
boyfriend I'm dating, and I just it was not sexy
at all. It was just that we're going to braid
each other's hair and talk about boys. It's just like
(08:11):
I felt like I was hanging out with a girlfriend
because like some some dude came over to visit him
and he stayed like that.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
He said his friend came over and he was just
chilling her with his big T shirt and underwear talking
to his friend.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Yeah, like that was how he I mean, like I
kept expecting him to put on pants, like I guess,
I don't know. I think he owns pants. He wore
pants on the date, but then no pants.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Well thank you, okay, thank you for telling us. Appreciate that. Also,
I need to let you know that Gerardo is on
the phone and wants to talk to you. I don't
know what he's wearing right now, though, Okay.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
Okay, yeah, I have to say I'm just kind of
relieved that it's not about the fartumentary. But at the
same time, I'm like, yeah, this is crazy to me.
This is a non issue, Like are you serious? Like
I also thought that we were having a sexy weekend,
Like that's those are my that's my.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Company, the sexy weekends. Yeah, okay, got it.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
You know that's just like my lazy Boys Saturdays. And
my previous girlfriends have thought that was super sexyday.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Did they?
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Did they?
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Did they? Okay? Yeah? No, Uh you're wearing you're like
you're graining ninety Like no, not sexy.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
Like in romantic movies, you get in your in, your in,
your lazy.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
Boy says your lazy boy Saturdays and you hang out
with your girlfriend all weekend.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Like if your girlfriend is wearing your sexy T shirt,
that's sexy, not not you wearing your three XL I
met a part you mentory T shirt.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
It's not like I don't wear No, I wouldn't pants
all week Sometimes a guy just wants to let his
legs breathe a little bit.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
I mean I get that.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
I mean your friend came over and it's still no pants,
just zero, like just porky picking it all weekend. That
was just totally cool with you, and I was just
I was so okay, it's.
Speaker 3 (10:43):
My boy, like my boys know about my lazy boy saturdays.
Like that's not even.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
It's never been.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
An issue before.
Speaker 5 (10:51):
He didn't even bring it up.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
You notice that I didn't point of conversation. I thought
he thought it was weird too, But maybe not. Maybe
that's your lazy boy thing. I don't know, but.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
No, Well, are you sure, August, would you like to
go on another date with Rod? Will pay for it?
Speaker 2 (11:15):
I don't. I don't. I don't think so. I think
the lazy boy thing is just that's a deal breaker
for me.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
What did you think of the documentary though?
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Like when you heard that, no, de totally made sense
to me. I could just see you there and your
lazy boy t shirt and your lazy boy pianis having
a weekend of it. Document in parts totally sexy.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
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UConn basketball star Azzi Fudd brings her championship swag to iHeart Women’s Sports with Fudd Around and Find Out, a weekly podcast that takes fans along for the ride as Azzi spends her final year of college trying to reclaim the National Championship and prepare to be a first round WNBA draft pick. Ever wonder what it’s like to be a world-class athlete in the public spotlight while still managing schoolwork, friendships and family time? It’s time to Fudd Around and Find Out!