February 19, 2026 • 9 mins
In this dramatic episode of First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, Danny thought she had the perfect mini golf date — flirty banter, laughs about exes, and even staying the night. So why did Max suddenly disappear after saying he’d see her again?
Was it something she joked about? Did bedroom chemistry fall flat? Or is there more to the story than either of them expected?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Danny is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Max.
So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her. But first
let's find out about the date. Danny, how long has
it been since you heard from Max?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been about five days.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Five days, okay, yeah, it doesn't feel too bad. How
many times have you tried to hit him in that time?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
Though?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Twice he tried to hit him.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
You know, that's why you're getting to Yeahlly, he's been
him up a couple of times, though, yes I have.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I made him up a couple of times. I sent
him a couple of texts and nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Well, let's go backwards. Tell us about the date. How
did that go?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Well, actually we went mini golfing. I thought it was
kind of cute. Yeah, you know, something fun, low pressure.
Thanks for going great. At first we were laughing, joking around,
a little flirting.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
I mean, it was all good.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Then we started talking about exes, but not super serious
or anything.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
You just mentioned his ex.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Never like to do anything fun like mini golf, so
I thought it was funny to clown on them a
bit to make him feel better. I was like, your
X sounds super lame. I got I'm way more fun.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
I'm probably more attractively leveled.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
Up, definitely showing him confidence.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Right.
Speaker 6 (01:30):
How did he react to that?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Honestly, he didn't seem to mind at all.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
He laughed and we kept having fun flirting, and I
mean everything was good.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
I mean it went so well that we ended up, well,
we hooked up. Literally, he didn't seem bothered by it.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Yeah, okay you I mean I think it would be
weird if he was super bothered by it, Like, hey,
don't you ever speak ill of.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Okay, well, then that sounds like a good thing. How
did that? How did that end? Did you? Guys? Like,
did you leave that night or did you stay over?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
I mean, you know, he's a great guy, Like, he's funny, chill,
easy to talk to.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I haven't had a date go that smoothie in a while.
He's just got this laid back vibe. But there's something
deeper there. I just I didn't expect him to go
to me after everything seemed so good. You know, after
I stayed the night.
Speaker 6 (02:21):
I okay, I did stay over.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Yeah, So after we hooked up, we were just.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Lying there and I might have kind of joked about
his ex again, you know, like I bet your ex
wouldn't have done this at Minigoff. I thought it was funny.
But now I'm trying to think maybe he didn't think
it was as hilarious as I did. I mean, I
was just trying to make him feel good about it,
like a confidence boost. But now that I haven't heard
(02:48):
from him, I'm wondering if I crossed the line. I mean,
it was just a joke.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
How was it when you say goodbye to him in
the morning?
Speaker 3 (02:57):
It was good.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
We kissed goodbye and he said, I'll see you soon.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Danny is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
a guy named Max. So we're about to call him
and see if you'll tell us why is ghosting her
and maybe get her another day if she still wants one.
But before we do that, Danny, why don't you remind
us about.
Speaker 6 (03:12):
Your date real quick?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
So we went mini golfing, which was really fun, and
we joked around.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
We were very flirty.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
We talked about her ex is, but like not like
anything real serious.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
And you know, I kind of made a joke that
I'm probably more fun than your ex. You leveled up.
I'm probably more attractive, just kidding.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
And I mean it must have been good, because well,
we hooked up and I haven't heard from him in
five days and I've tried to contact him a couple
of times. I mean, we kissed goodbye. The next morning,
he said I'll see you soon, and it sounded like
we were going to get back together.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
All right, Were you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (03:57):
I am all right. Here we go. Hello, h I maan,
I speak to Max. Please Lucy Max?
Speaker 4 (04:18):
How are you?
Speaker 6 (04:18):
This is a radio show. It's called The Jubil Show
him Max.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
I'm Nina.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubell. How are you.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
I'm doing good?
Speaker 6 (04:25):
Are you home great? Have you ever heard of the
show before or listened?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
I've heard of it?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Yeah, yes, sure, okay, sweet, Well guess what what's going on?
You are the star of the show. We do a
segment on the show it's called the first Aid follow Up.
That's where if you go on a date with someone
and then you end up ghosting them. That person can
email us to get you on the phone and find
(04:52):
out why you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 6 (04:53):
So somebody emailed us about you. That's why we're calling.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Okay, do you know who would em fail us?
Speaker 6 (05:01):
Uh, maybe have an idea? Is it Danny? Yes, it
is Danny.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
I want to clap it.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Congratulations. She emailed us. We talked to her a little
bit about your date, and she's really curious. She wants
to know why you're ghosting her. She said she thought
everything was great.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
I mean, look, I we definitely had a fun time.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Like for sure, she's she's super fun girl.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
I I mean I I had high hopes because you know,
we were joking around and you know, it seemed like
a great match. But you know, I'm I'm I'm big
on chemistry, and you know when we got.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
To the bedroom, it just I didn't feel that spark.
You know, It's like it wasn't bad. It was didn't
click for.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Me, you know, So you're saying you just didn't enjoy it.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
I mean, uh, the date was at last, but when it,
you know, came down to it, there's there's no connection
in the bedroom and the chemistry is just really important.
Speaker 6 (06:02):
To me, so you know, so you didn't enjoy it?
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Wait? Wait, wait, wait, are you saying I'm god.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
In bed actually on the phone listening and wants to
talk to you?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Are you I never had any complaints? My actually even
told people I was the most adventurous he'd ever been with.
Are you sure it wasn't you that was off? No? No,
I'm not. I'm not saying you're bad.
Speaker 5 (06:28):
I'm just I'm just saying that we, you know, didn't
have a spark like okay, did well?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Did you think it was amazing? I mean it was fine,
but it was the first time.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
I mean, it's never mind blowing the first time you
get to know each other, right, well.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
I mean it wasn't my ex first times great? What
oh my god?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
But your ex was lame and I'm awesome, And honestly,
I think we both deserve a re do. I can
do better and I'm sure you can too.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Are you calling.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Well, I'm just saying it's never great the first time.
I mean, seriously, I was nervous. It was our first time.
There were a lot of nerves involved. Yeah, No, I look,
I get it.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
I mean, I just you know, it's it's got to
be undeniable for me, you know, I just I'm not
saying that you're first time.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Well you're telling me, you're telling me that every time
you've had sexually the first time.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
It's just been impeccable. I doubt that. Well, I think that.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
I think that, you know, the first time if it's
like you know what I mean, there's I've definitely had
it happen where I knew that I was like way
into this.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
I mean, you haven't even seen all my moves, like
the walk up your move.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
Okay, I mean.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because it's good and you haven't even
seen that yet.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I don't know if I want to see the walker.
You definitely want to see the.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
WALKA I'm very curious about the.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
Is it? It sounds dangerous.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
It's not, it's fantastic.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Well, Max, do you want a chance to see the Walker?
Would you like a second datement? Danny won't pay for it.
I feel like you got to do it for all
of us, Max.
Speaker 5 (08:43):
All right, I yeah, I'm down. I'm down for I'm
down for a second time. Yeah, it's for anything else.
I have to experience the Walker.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
Oh you'll love it. You love it. Be to take
a week off of work after day.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Oh gosh, okay, well, congratulations, Danny got another date in Max.
Speaker 6 (09:09):
Good luck God Black.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Jubile's First Date follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Danny is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Max.
So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her. But first
let's find out about the date. Danny, how long has
it been since you heard from Max?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been about five days.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Five days, okay, yeah, it doesn't feel too bad. How
many times have you tried to hit him in that time?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
Though?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Twice he tried to hit him.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
You know, that's why you're getting to Yeahlly, he's been
him up a couple of times, though, yes I have.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I made him up a couple of times. I sent
him a couple of texts and nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Well, let's go backwards. Tell us about the date. How
did that go?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Well, actually we went mini golfing. I thought it was
kind of cute. Yeah, you know, something fun, low pressure.
Thanks for going great. At first we were laughing, joking around,
a little flirting.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
I mean, it was all good.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Then we started talking about exes, but not super serious
or anything.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
You just mentioned his ex.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Never like to do anything fun like mini golf, so
I thought it was funny to clown on them a
bit to make him feel better. I was like, your
X sounds super lame. I got I'm way more fun.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
I'm probably more attractively leveled.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
Up, definitely showing him confidence.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Right.
Speaker 6 (01:30):
How did he react to that?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Honestly, he didn't seem to mind at all.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
He laughed and we kept having fun flirting, and I
mean everything was good.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
I mean it went so well that we ended up, well,
we hooked up. Literally, he didn't seem bothered by it.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Yeah, okay you I mean I think it would be
weird if he was super bothered by it, Like, hey,
don't you ever speak ill of.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Okay, well, then that sounds like a good thing. How
did that? How did that end? Did you? Guys? Like,
did you leave that night or did you stay over?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
I mean, you know, he's a great guy, Like, he's funny, chill,
easy to talk to.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I haven't had a date go that smoothie in a while.
He's just got this laid back vibe. But there's something
deeper there. I just I didn't expect him to go
to me after everything seemed so good. You know, after
I stayed the night.
Speaker 6 (02:21):
I okay, I did stay over.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Yeah, So after we hooked up, we were just.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Lying there and I might have kind of joked about
his ex again, you know, like I bet your ex
wouldn't have done this at Minigoff. I thought it was funny.
But now I'm trying to think maybe he didn't think
it was as hilarious as I did. I mean, I
was just trying to make him feel good about it,
like a confidence boost. But now that I haven't heard
(02:48):
from him, I'm wondering if I crossed the line. I mean,
it was just a joke.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
How was it when you say goodbye to him in
the morning?
Speaker 3 (02:57):
It was good.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
We kissed goodbye and he said, I'll see you soon.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Danny is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
a guy named Max. So we're about to call him
and see if you'll tell us why is ghosting her
and maybe get her another day if she still wants one.
But before we do that, Danny, why don't you remind
us about.
Speaker 6 (03:12):
Your date real quick?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
So we went mini golfing, which was really fun, and
we joked around.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
We were very flirty.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
We talked about her ex is, but like not like
anything real serious.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
And you know, I kind of made a joke that
I'm probably more fun than your ex. You leveled up.
I'm probably more attractive, just kidding.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
And I mean it must have been good, because well,
we hooked up and I haven't heard from him in
five days and I've tried to contact him a couple
of times. I mean, we kissed goodbye. The next morning,
he said I'll see you soon, and it sounded like
we were going to get back together.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
All right, Were you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (03:57):
I am all right. Here we go. Hello, h I maan,
I speak to Max. Please Lucy Max?
Speaker 4 (04:18):
How are you?
Speaker 6 (04:18):
This is a radio show. It's called The Jubil Show
him Max.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
I'm Nina.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubell. How are you.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
I'm doing good?
Speaker 6 (04:25):
Are you home great? Have you ever heard of the
show before or listened?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
I've heard of it?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Yeah, yes, sure, okay, sweet, Well guess what what's going on?
You are the star of the show. We do a
segment on the show it's called the first Aid follow Up.
That's where if you go on a date with someone
and then you end up ghosting them. That person can
email us to get you on the phone and find
(04:52):
out why you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 6 (04:53):
So somebody emailed us about you. That's why we're calling.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Okay, do you know who would em fail us?
Speaker 6 (05:01):
Uh, maybe have an idea? Is it Danny? Yes, it
is Danny.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
I want to clap it.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Congratulations. She emailed us. We talked to her a little
bit about your date, and she's really curious. She wants
to know why you're ghosting her. She said she thought
everything was great.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
I mean, look, I we definitely had a fun time.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Like for sure, she's she's super fun girl.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
I I mean I I had high hopes because you know,
we were joking around and you know, it seemed like
a great match. But you know, I'm I'm I'm big
on chemistry, and you know when we got.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
To the bedroom, it just I didn't feel that spark.
You know, It's like it wasn't bad. It was didn't
click for.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Me, you know, So you're saying you just didn't enjoy it.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
I mean, uh, the date was at last, but when it,
you know, came down to it, there's there's no connection
in the bedroom and the chemistry is just really important.
Speaker 6 (06:02):
To me, so you know, so you didn't enjoy it?
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Wait? Wait, wait, wait, are you saying I'm god.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
In bed actually on the phone listening and wants to
talk to you?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Are you I never had any complaints? My actually even
told people I was the most adventurous he'd ever been with.
Are you sure it wasn't you that was off? No? No,
I'm not. I'm not saying you're bad.
Speaker 5 (06:28):
I'm just I'm just saying that we, you know, didn't
have a spark like okay, did well?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Did you think it was amazing? I mean it was fine,
but it was the first time.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
I mean, it's never mind blowing the first time you
get to know each other, right, well.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
I mean it wasn't my ex first times great? What
oh my god?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
But your ex was lame and I'm awesome, And honestly,
I think we both deserve a re do. I can
do better and I'm sure you can too.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Are you calling.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Well, I'm just saying it's never great the first time.
I mean, seriously, I was nervous. It was our first time.
There were a lot of nerves involved. Yeah, No, I look,
I get it.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
I mean, I just you know, it's it's got to
be undeniable for me, you know, I just I'm not
saying that you're first time.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Well you're telling me, you're telling me that every time
you've had sexually the first time.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
It's just been impeccable. I doubt that. Well, I think that.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
I think that, you know, the first time if it's
like you know what I mean, there's I've definitely had
it happen where I knew that I was like way
into this.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
I mean, you haven't even seen all my moves, like
the walk up your move.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
Okay, I mean.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because it's good and you haven't even
seen that yet.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I don't know if I want to see the walker.
You definitely want to see the.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
WALKA I'm very curious about the.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
Is it? It sounds dangerous.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
It's not, it's fantastic.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Well, Max, do you want a chance to see the Walker?
Would you like a second datement? Danny won't pay for it.
I feel like you got to do it for all
of us, Max.
Speaker 5 (08:43):
All right, I yeah, I'm down. I'm down for I'm
down for a second time. Yeah, it's for anything else.
I have to experience the Walker.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
Oh you'll love it. You love it. Be to take
a week off of work after day.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Oh gosh, okay, well, congratulations, Danny got another date in Max.
Speaker 6 (09:09):
Good luck God Black.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
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