January 15, 2026 • 9 mins
Alejandro thought he planned the perfect first date—until he got ghosted. Now he’s turning to The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up to find out what really went wrong. From a rock climbing adventure to an unexpected moment that may have changed everything, this call takes a turn no one saw coming.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesloud dot com. Aleijandro is on the phone
today for a first day follow up and he's getting
ghosted by a woman named Tasha. So in a few minutes,
we're gonna call her and see if she'll tell us
why she's ghosting him. But first, Alejandro, how long has
it been since you heard from Tasha?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Hey man, Yeah, thanks for having me. It's been a
couple of days now, the last weekend.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Actually, okay, that's not too bad. How did you guys
leave it after the date?
Speaker 4 (00:29):
I mean, I thought it went really well. So I'm like,
you know, a little stress over here because I thought
we were gonna kick it off right away, you know
what I mean.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
And I don't want to be the first one to
call and I yeah, I'm just really confused. I thought,
ay went really well, so I want to know what's on.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Okay, we'll tell us a little bit about the date.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
So, I mean, Tasha is doping now. I'm just like
attracted to her vibe, like right away.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
You know, she's just a kind of person that's like
effortless and everything that she does, and oh, man, the
way she knows about her life.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
The way she swings and moves.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
I mean, it's just so natural and confident, like like
the dream woman, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
What was the thing that was most dreaming about her?
Speaker 2 (01:09):
I mean, she's just like just so natural and confident.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
Like.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Yeah, she's the type of person that can.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Walk up to anybody and talk where I'm like super
afraid to say anything to anybody because I think.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
They'll hate me. She just has this love for everybody
that's just you could feel it, you know. When she
walks by, like.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
A cashier at the she's the type of person that says, hello,
hell's your day.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
You know, I'm just like in and out the door,
you know what i mean.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
So she's a good influence on you. You guys balance each.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Other, I think, so. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
Every time I see her talk to people, though, she
smiles and the way people smile back at her, it's
it's I'm melting over it.
Speaker 6 (01:41):
Here.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
What does you guys do on your day?
Speaker 4 (01:45):
So I like to do like rock climbing, that's like
my hobby. So I thought I'd take her somewhere, you know,
where I'm comfortable. And she had told me that she
had never been, but you know when she like was
adventurous and fearless, and she was like, let's go, even
though she had like never done it before.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
So I thought it was a good opportunity.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
To me, like, you know, to do you know, like
that movie Ghost or he's like behind her making pottery.
F would be me, but instead of like pottery, it's
helping her climb. I thought I was going to be like,
you know, the the awesome guy here. But there was
a little like thing that happened while I was there,
and like, I'm scared that that's the reason why she's
probably not calling me.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Why do you think she's not calling you?
Speaker 4 (02:25):
So when we were climbing, you know, things are going grave,
She's she's doing it.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
I'm being encouraging.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
And then as I'm growing up about halfway up the wall,
like I kind of slipped my foot and I panicked,
and then like I yelled to the the layer below me,
and I was like, you know, yo, can you know
watch out? And it wasn't like a it wasn't like
a manly yell, you know, it was more like a.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Poddler losing his balloon kind of yelled.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
You know, it was just like instinctual, like I didn't
have time to talk about it.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
So you squeaked a little bit, just.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Just a little bit, you know, I left it off.
She just seemed like she was laughing, and I just
thought it wasn't doing. I felt like we like shared
a moment, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7 (03:07):
Okay, Well maybe this squeak did it.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
I don't know that would This sounds kind of silly
to go somebody over squeak unless you keep squeaking.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Which even after that, I was like really nervous, and
so I did, like I have a thing where like
I get like really sweaty when I get nervous, and
I was trying my best. I wore like an undershirt
and I was trying my best to like not show it.
But like I mean, I switched so much like he
and my chalk back turned into like paste, you know.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
What I mean.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
I basically left the gym looking like I had been
hosed down. Okay, And I was to say it was
not my sexiest moment.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
You know, Alejandro is on the phone and he's getting
ghosted by a woman named Tasha. So we're about to
call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting him and maybe get him a second day if
he still wants one. But first, Alejandro, why don't you
break down your situation again real quick?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
All right? Cool? So, Tasha, you know I won a
second day with her.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
But on the first day, we went rock climbing, and
I was a little nervous.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
I kind of like had a squeal at one point.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Because I almost fell off, and then I was sweating
so much that I was just basically drenched in my
sweat and it will be a good look.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
And I'm hoping that that's not the reason why she.
Speaker 7 (04:12):
Won't call me squealer. I mean, all right, are you
ready for us to call her?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Please? I'm dying here?
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to Tasha please.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
This is her.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Hey Tasha, how are you? This is a Jubil show.
It's a radio show. Hi Tasha. I'm Nina, I'm Victoria
and my name is Jubil. What's up?
Speaker 6 (04:51):
Oh? Okay? Wow, I wasn't specting this.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Be weird. If you were, have you ever listened to
the show before? Yeah, I have sweets.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Well, then you might have heard a first date follow
up before you know, it's the segment where if you
end up ghosting somebody, that person can email us to
get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
And we got to email about you. Oh you did,
yes from Alejandro?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Remember him?
Speaker 6 (05:20):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:21):
He says it's been a while and.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
You haven't called him back and he is just wondering
if you'll tell us why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 6 (05:30):
Yeah. Like, honestly, he was sweating a lot, but that
wasn't the problem.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
I mean, he was basically like a human waterfall with
like chalk paste ripping down his arms. But the real
reason is, well, we were climbing on one of.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
Those rock wall things and.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
He slipped on the wall, and when he slipped, he
yelled and it was so high pitched, like a cartoon
character high pitch.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Okay, he told us about that. Yeah, I was a
little worried about it. He thought that is that the
reason you're ghosting? Because that's what he thought.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
Uh No, not exactly. He was making like.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
A bunch of noises when he was climbing.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
What do you mean.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
No, he was making like weird like grunting sounds and
like not to be like too graphic or anything, but
I it made me, like, picture him doing like something else.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
And it really just turned me off.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Who He's climbing rocks, squealing a little bit when he
fell off, and then making grunting noises and you were like,
I don't want to.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Hear that in another bedroom type situation.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
So yeah, I mean it makes you sound like that now,
like I don't even even want to think about when.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
He's like, you know, oh wow, well, thank you for
telling us the reason why a Tasha. I'll also let
you know that Alejandro is on the phone listening and
wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (07:11):
Oh he's here, yes, hey.
Speaker 8 (07:15):
Tasha, Wait, is that really the reason? Come on, let's
look Craig Gray, right, I'm sorry, but no, I mean
it is. It is the reason. Oh, come on, you're
gonna go see over that.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Oh come on, hey, look you know what, at least
you're thinking me that way. And I'm kind of happy
to think that you're thinking that. That's kind of cool,
but look, come on over that.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
I think about it.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
Hey, And look, you know, by the way, I definitely
do not sound like that when that's going on.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
You know what I'm saying, like, you know, you don't
got to worry about that are you sure you promise
you I'll show you what's up.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:57):
Like all I can think about was like you're looking
at me and spilling and being like.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
You know I was going on that used to Those
are not regular sounds.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
I'll stick to.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
The medium, hard wall. You got a word about that, baby,
Just give me another chance.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Yeah, you're just animated.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Yeah, I mean you know I was working hard. I
was trying to impress you.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
But again, guarantee you that sound and that other sounded
completely different, completely different compartments.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Like another date with Alejandro will pay for it.
Speaker 6 (08:39):
I'm sorry, but no.
Speaker 9 (08:42):
Really, but we'll be near it. You could gate weird
sounds doing not too Hey, I'll make whatever weird sounds
you want me to make. Just give me another second date. Yeah,
I promise, I'll make it up to you.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Look, they're gonna pay for it, so you know we're
not losing anything. At least we get a dinner together.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
I love that. You know, things go well, we go back.
You could take my mouth shut, you could take me up,
tie me up. Whatever's that second day?
Speaker 6 (09:11):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (09:12):
What do you think, Tasha? Just one more chance? I mean,
you know he's really willing to. Yeah, you're also jumping
to conclusions on that you don't know. I mean, you
know I can't.
Speaker 6 (09:24):
I am sorry.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
Sorry man, no second date for you.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
What can you say? I appreciate you trying, though,
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesloud dot com. Aleijandro is on the phone
today for a first day follow up and he's getting
ghosted by a woman named Tasha. So in a few minutes,
we're gonna call her and see if she'll tell us
why she's ghosting him. But first, Alejandro, how long has
it been since you heard from Tasha?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Hey man, Yeah, thanks for having me. It's been a
couple of days now, the last weekend.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Actually, okay, that's not too bad. How did you guys
leave it after the date?
Speaker 4 (00:29):
I mean, I thought it went really well. So I'm like,
you know, a little stress over here because I thought
we were gonna kick it off right away, you know
what I mean.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
And I don't want to be the first one to
call and I yeah, I'm just really confused. I thought,
ay went really well, so I want to know what's on.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Okay, we'll tell us a little bit about the date.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
So, I mean, Tasha is doping now. I'm just like
attracted to her vibe, like right away.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
You know, she's just a kind of person that's like
effortless and everything that she does, and oh, man, the
way she knows about her life.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
The way she swings and moves.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
I mean, it's just so natural and confident, like like
the dream woman, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
What was the thing that was most dreaming about her?
Speaker 2 (01:09):
I mean, she's just like just so natural and confident.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
Like.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Yeah, she's the type of person that can.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Walk up to anybody and talk where I'm like super
afraid to say anything to anybody because I think.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
They'll hate me. She just has this love for everybody
that's just you could feel it, you know. When she
walks by, like.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
A cashier at the she's the type of person that says, hello,
hell's your day.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
You know, I'm just like in and out the door,
you know what i mean.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
So she's a good influence on you. You guys balance each.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Other, I think, so. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
Every time I see her talk to people, though, she
smiles and the way people smile back at her, it's
it's I'm melting over it.
Speaker 6 (01:41):
Here.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
What does you guys do on your day?
Speaker 4 (01:45):
So I like to do like rock climbing, that's like
my hobby. So I thought I'd take her somewhere, you know,
where I'm comfortable. And she had told me that she
had never been, but you know when she like was
adventurous and fearless, and she was like, let's go, even
though she had like never done it before.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
So I thought it was a good opportunity.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
To me, like, you know, to do you know, like
that movie Ghost or he's like behind her making pottery.
F would be me, but instead of like pottery, it's
helping her climb. I thought I was going to be like,
you know, the the awesome guy here. But there was
a little like thing that happened while I was there,
and like, I'm scared that that's the reason why she's
probably not calling me.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Why do you think she's not calling you?
Speaker 4 (02:25):
So when we were climbing, you know, things are going grave,
She's she's doing it.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
I'm being encouraging.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
And then as I'm growing up about halfway up the wall,
like I kind of slipped my foot and I panicked,
and then like I yelled to the the layer below me,
and I was like, you know, yo, can you know
watch out? And it wasn't like a it wasn't like
a manly yell, you know, it was more like a.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Poddler losing his balloon kind of yelled.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
You know, it was just like instinctual, like I didn't
have time to talk about it.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
So you squeaked a little bit, just.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Just a little bit, you know, I left it off.
She just seemed like she was laughing, and I just
thought it wasn't doing. I felt like we like shared
a moment, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7 (03:07):
Okay, Well maybe this squeak did it.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
I don't know that would This sounds kind of silly
to go somebody over squeak unless you keep squeaking.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Which even after that, I was like really nervous, and
so I did, like I have a thing where like
I get like really sweaty when I get nervous, and
I was trying my best. I wore like an undershirt
and I was trying my best to like not show it.
But like I mean, I switched so much like he
and my chalk back turned into like paste, you know.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
What I mean.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
I basically left the gym looking like I had been
hosed down. Okay, And I was to say it was
not my sexiest moment.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
You know, Alejandro is on the phone and he's getting
ghosted by a woman named Tasha. So we're about to
call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting him and maybe get him a second day if
he still wants one. But first, Alejandro, why don't you
break down your situation again real quick?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
All right? Cool? So, Tasha, you know I won a
second day with her.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
But on the first day, we went rock climbing, and
I was a little nervous.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
I kind of like had a squeal at one point.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Because I almost fell off, and then I was sweating
so much that I was just basically drenched in my
sweat and it will be a good look.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
And I'm hoping that that's not the reason why she.
Speaker 7 (04:12):
Won't call me squealer. I mean, all right, are you
ready for us to call her?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Please? I'm dying here?
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to Tasha please.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
This is her.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Hey Tasha, how are you? This is a Jubil show.
It's a radio show. Hi Tasha. I'm Nina, I'm Victoria
and my name is Jubil. What's up?
Speaker 6 (04:51):
Oh? Okay? Wow, I wasn't specting this.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Be weird. If you were, have you ever listened to
the show before? Yeah, I have sweets.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Well, then you might have heard a first date follow
up before you know, it's the segment where if you
end up ghosting somebody, that person can email us to
get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
And we got to email about you. Oh you did,
yes from Alejandro?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Remember him?
Speaker 6 (05:20):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:21):
He says it's been a while and.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
You haven't called him back and he is just wondering
if you'll tell us why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 6 (05:30):
Yeah. Like, honestly, he was sweating a lot, but that
wasn't the problem.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
I mean, he was basically like a human waterfall with
like chalk paste ripping down his arms. But the real
reason is, well, we were climbing on one of.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
Those rock wall things and.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
He slipped on the wall, and when he slipped, he
yelled and it was so high pitched, like a cartoon
character high pitch.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Okay, he told us about that. Yeah, I was a
little worried about it. He thought that is that the
reason you're ghosting? Because that's what he thought.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
Uh No, not exactly. He was making like.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
A bunch of noises when he was climbing.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
What do you mean.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
No, he was making like weird like grunting sounds and
like not to be like too graphic or anything, but
I it made me, like, picture him doing like something else.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
And it really just turned me off.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Who He's climbing rocks, squealing a little bit when he
fell off, and then making grunting noises and you were like,
I don't want to.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Hear that in another bedroom type situation.
Speaker 6 (06:48):
So yeah, I mean it makes you sound like that now,
like I don't even even want to think about when.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
He's like, you know, oh wow, well, thank you for
telling us the reason why a Tasha. I'll also let
you know that Alejandro is on the phone listening and
wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (07:11):
Oh he's here, yes, hey.
Speaker 8 (07:15):
Tasha, Wait, is that really the reason? Come on, let's
look Craig Gray, right, I'm sorry, but no, I mean
it is. It is the reason. Oh, come on, you're
gonna go see over that.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Oh come on, hey, look you know what, at least
you're thinking me that way. And I'm kind of happy
to think that you're thinking that. That's kind of cool,
but look, come on over that.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
I think about it.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
Hey, And look, you know, by the way, I definitely
do not sound like that when that's going on.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
You know what I'm saying, like, you know, you don't
got to worry about that are you sure you promise
you I'll show you what's up.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:57):
Like all I can think about was like you're looking
at me and spilling and being like.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
You know I was going on that used to Those
are not regular sounds.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
I'll stick to.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
The medium, hard wall. You got a word about that, baby,
Just give me another chance.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
Yeah, you're just animated.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Yeah, I mean you know I was working hard. I
was trying to impress you.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
But again, guarantee you that sound and that other sounded
completely different, completely different compartments.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Like another date with Alejandro will pay for it.
Speaker 6 (08:39):
I'm sorry, but no.
Speaker 9 (08:42):
Really, but we'll be near it. You could gate weird
sounds doing not too Hey, I'll make whatever weird sounds
you want me to make. Just give me another second date. Yeah,
I promise, I'll make it up to you.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Look, they're gonna pay for it, so you know we're
not losing anything. At least we get a dinner together.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
I love that. You know, things go well, we go back.
You could take my mouth shut, you could take me up,
tie me up. Whatever's that second day?
Speaker 6 (09:11):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (09:12):
What do you think, Tasha? Just one more chance? I mean,
you know he's really willing to. Yeah, you're also jumping
to conclusions on that you don't know. I mean, you
know I can't.
Speaker 6 (09:24):
I am sorry.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
Sorry man, no second date for you.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
What can you say? I appreciate you trying, though,
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