Jeff & Caitlyn: 🏐 “She Ghosted Him After Their Dodgeball Date… Then Revealed the REAL Reason”

After celebrating a big dodgeball team win, Jeff thought sparks were flying with Caitlyn. Drinks were flowing, chemistry felt undeniable, and the night ended better than he expected. But after what seemed like a great time together, Caitlyn suddenly stopped replying to his texts. 👻📱

Now Jeff turns to The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up to find out what went wrong. When the show calls Caitlyn, the truth behind the ghosting comes out — and it’s a reason nobody saw coming. 😳

Did Jeff accidentally say something that ruined his chances? Or was there a moment during the night that completely changed Caitlyn’s mind? Listen to find out what really happened.

Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
 
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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com. Jeff is on the phone
today for a first date follow up, and he's getting
ghosted by a woman named Caitlyn's. In a few minutes,
we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date.
But first, Jeff, how long has it been since you
talked to Caitlin.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
It's been like two weeks.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
Okay. Have you been trying to hit her up in
that time?

Speaker 2 (00:27):
I did. I texted her about four or five times.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
Oh, sorry, not to be so shocked with that's a lot. Yeah,
all right, and you've heard nothing back.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
Nope, I haven't heard anything back, unfortunately. Yeah, I may.
I don't know if it was because of the text
or what.

Speaker 1 (00:51):
Okay, what'd you say on the text?

Speaker 2 (00:54):
Oh? Well, initially said like, you know, hey, no it
wasn't technically date, but you know, I had a great
time and I really love to take you out for real,
you know. And I said like, if you're if you're
not feeling I totally understand, you know, just just let
me know. And uh yeah, And then after that I

(01:21):
don't know, it's been a couple more.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
Okay, well, I think now you need to tell us
about the date.

Speaker 2 (01:28):
You know, we we've been on the same dodgeball team
and you know I've been kind of crushing on her
all season, and uh, you know, after our team won
a big game, we all went out to celebrate at
a bar nearby, Okay, and a couple of drinks in, uh,

(01:48):
Kaylen started flirting with me pretty hard, and uh, you know,
just laughing at everything I said, like touching my arm
type of thing. You know, I was. I was pretty
sight and one thing led to another and we ended
up going home together and you know, chemistry was pretty insane.

(02:10):
She seemed really into me, and the next morning we
just kissed goodbye and said see you at practice.

Speaker 1 (02:17):
That was it.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
Huh. Yeah, everything seemed really perfect. And now you know
she's not responding.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
Have you had practice since?

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Not since? No?

Speaker 1 (02:32):
Okay, So you don't know if she's going to be
dodging you there either.

Speaker 2 (02:35):
Yeah, I'm not sure.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
So how did you leave it?

Speaker 2 (02:38):
So?

Speaker 3 (02:38):
Okay, so you said that you'll see each other, but
she did it sound like she wanted to see you
again outside of practice or it was just more like thanks.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
I mean, nothing was really like specifically said, but that's
the feeling I got, Like I thought we would definitely
see each other again considering it went so.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
Well, Okay, what do you think happened? Why do you
think she's ghosting you?

Speaker 4 (03:04):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
I think, you know, maybe my text came on too strong,
you know, I told her like I you know, I
never thought i'd be into a dodgeball girl.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
And like the dodgeball girl Escape.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, I usually played Escape real life. And I was like,
you know, you've kind of become a new reason to
show up to practice, and you know, I mostly had
a great time with you. I can't wait to see
you again, and you know, and then I was like,
I didn't mean mostly agnt, like I really did, you know,
my text were kind of clunky.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
Jeff is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by
a woman named Caitlyn. So we're about to call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him a second date. But before we
do that, Jeff, why don't you break down your day
to getting with Kaitlyn for us real quick?

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Yeah, so we went out to celebrate the big game
win and you know, had a few drinks, ended up
going back to my place and yeah, everything went great.
And upon texting her later, there was no response. And
I think I may have came on too strong.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
And when you say big game, you mean dodgeball game,
not the super Bowl. Okay, all right, okay, Well we're
gonna try to call her right now. You're ready to go?

Speaker 2 (04:18):
I'm ready?

Speaker 1 (04:19):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Caitlyn. Please.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
This is she.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Hey Caitlin, how are you. This is a radio show.
It's called The Jubil Show. Hi, Caitlyn. My name is Nina.
I'm Victoria and my name is Jewbell. What's up?

Speaker 4 (04:42):
Oh? Hi? Is that reason why I'm getting called right now?

Speaker 1 (04:48):
Yes? There is. Have you ever listened to the show before?

Speaker 4 (04:51):
Yeah? I have?

Speaker 1 (04:53):
Okay, cool, Well, maybe Caitlyn you've heard a first Date
follow up. That's the segment we do where if you
go on a date with somebody and then you ghost them,
that person can email us to call you and ask
why you're ghosting them. Do you have any idea who
would email us?

Speaker 4 (05:07):
Is it recent?

Speaker 3 (05:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (05:10):
Pretty recent? I would say, within like three weeks.

Speaker 4 (05:15):
Yeah, I think I know. Yeah, is his name Jeff?

Speaker 1 (05:22):
Yes, his name is Jeff. Can you tell us why
you're ghosting Jeff? He really likes you and wants to know.

Speaker 3 (05:28):
Okay, well, isn't a little personal. But he makes these
dodgeball sound effects when we were intimate.

Speaker 1 (05:40):
How he makes dodgeball sound effects when you guys.

Speaker 3 (05:44):
Are internet whispering things in my ear like incoming and
like you can't dodge this one.

Speaker 4 (05:53):
He like tapped my head, but he yelled, that's a
direct hit. The worst part, The worst part was.

Speaker 3 (06:01):
Like when he finished, he said game, set match, My
body was like something to finish.

Speaker 4 (06:11):
And it was like so comfortable.

Speaker 1 (06:14):
That's interesting. Yeah, huh, okay, you guys and you guys
met on your dodgeball team.

Speaker 4 (06:26):
Yeah yeah, yeah, he's nice.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah, okay, but he uses dodgeball like he says dodgeball
stuff while you guys are doing stuff.

Speaker 4 (06:37):
That just really makes me good.

Speaker 1 (06:40):
So you're just not into dodgeball the same way, not
into dodgeball to talk.

Speaker 4 (06:45):
Yeah, no, I just I don't think it's sexy.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
It's like someone says sudden death over time, like while
we're doing things together, and no, like at one point
he rolled away and he whispered, coach would be proud.

Speaker 1 (07:01):
What Oh yeah, well all right, thank you Caitlin for
telling us. Yeah, that's that. I mean, I don't I
don't know for some people that might be sexy obviously
for Jeff, it is And Jeff is on the phone
listening right now and wants to talk to you.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
No really, yeah, oh my god, no, Hi, how are you?

Speaker 4 (07:29):
Jeff?

Speaker 2 (07:31):
I'm good. I was just bummed out that I haven't
heard from you. But I get now, I know. Why
are you just really like competitive and you know, dodgeball park?

Speaker 5 (07:46):
Here?

Speaker 1 (07:46):
I am okay, so you you do do that, Jeff,
like in the bedroom you'll say dodgeball stuff.

Speaker 2 (07:55):
Yeah, I mean I thought it was playful banner. I
mean she called me m v P at the bar.

Speaker 3 (08:01):
Okay, okay, okay, So that was the green light for
you to go in with it double down.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
Yeah, like.

Speaker 5 (08:10):
You know, okay, right, Yeah, I need a man and
not a pe teacher with the whistle fantasy.

Speaker 2 (08:22):
So that's kind of why the teacher. You're a dogball girl,
you know, I figured you'd like it.

Speaker 3 (08:31):
Yeah, but not in bed, you know, like I have
a life outside of dodgeball, like in bed for example,
it's just like, you know, for a baker, you're not
going to use that in bed baking terms, right, like
yeas activator, definitely don't use that in bed.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
I mean I would. I would totally like going on
the baking terms or the case.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
I don't think she's saying she wants to baking talk.
I think she's saying she didn't like the dodgeball talk during.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
I mean, baking is cool, like we could do baking.

Speaker 4 (09:15):
No, that's not the toy.

Speaker 3 (09:20):
I didn't want dodgeball to be like when we were,
you know, doing our stuffs.

Speaker 4 (09:25):
I just yeah, it was. It was a little much
for me, you know, But.

Speaker 2 (09:32):
Like, what are you into then?

Speaker 1 (09:37):
I don't know if I feel like a.

Speaker 4 (09:40):
Lot of people are into just like someone who's.

Speaker 3 (09:45):
Like chill, you know, we just do your thing and
let the let the chemistry go. It's way like I.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
Was at the high spot. Was probably too much, but like.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
I like to dive five might be kind of fun. No, no, hey, Caitlyn,
would you like to go out with Jeff again? We'll
pay for it.

Speaker 4 (10:09):
I'm sorry, I just no, can I five after?

Speaker 1 (10:14):
Are you sure?

Speaker 3 (10:17):
I just really can't hear the un here the direct
hit in my head. It's you know, it's not the
best memory I have.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
I mean, I could have said Grand Slam, but that
would be more date ball.

Speaker 1 (10:33):
Yeah. Hey, well Jeff, I'm sorry you did not get
a second date, but you tried.

Speaker 2 (10:41):
Yeah, oh, thanks for trying. Anyway, if I trying to
bring that championship energy, you know, but like didn't work out.

Speaker 1 (10:50):
It's okay. Now all of them are hell run. He
will be somebody's