Lilah & Kai: She Called Him a “Pervert”… Then It Somehow Got Even Worse 😳

In this chaotic episode of First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, Lilah can’t figure out why her perfect first date with Kai suddenly turned into total silence. Was it an innocent texting mistake… or something way more unexpected?

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date is follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com. Lilah is on the
phone today for a first day follow up and she's
getting ghosted by a dude named Kai. So in a
few minutes, we're gonna call him and see if they'll
tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
a second date. But first, Lilah, why do you think
you're getting ghosted?

Speaker 2 (00:20):
I think it's.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
Because I called him a perver?

Speaker 1 (00:25):
Okay, was that being playful or you called him a pervert?

Speaker 3 (00:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (00:31):
Yeah, but I.

Speaker 3 (00:32):
Didn't, like I didn't mean to. We actually like went
out on a first date and it was so great.

Speaker 4 (00:40):
I like, we got along so well.

Speaker 3 (00:42):
It was like the best first date I ever had.
And then at the end, no, yeah, it was. He
was so sweet. He watched me to my car and everything.
At the end of the night, Like before that, like
we did go to his car and like mess around
a little, but we didn't like hook up, but like

(01:03):
you know, it got close and we're like okay, okay,
next time. So yeah, and then like you know, later
that night he texted me and he was like, hey,
you know I hope. You know, I wasn't like too forward.
And you know, I'm glad that like we waited because

(01:26):
I really like you and I want this to like continue,
and I want to make sure that I'm like respecting
you and your boundaries. So I texted him back, you
were perfect. And I haven't heard from him anymore. I
went to check my text and there's nothing. And then
I looked at my last text and I see that,

(01:49):
like my phone auto corrected perfect to pervert. Oh yeah,
that could have done it. Yeah, I don't you didn't
noticed at all, he.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
Said, I hope I wasn't pushing any boundaries. And you
responded you were a pervert instead of you were perfect.

Speaker 3 (02:10):
Oh no, no, oh gosh, I was so excited when
I was like testing him that like I didn't notice
it at all. Yeah, And a few days went by
and now and I.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
Saw that, and like, so you know, if you tried
to reach out to him and be like, hey, I
didn't mean to call you a pervert. I was actually
saying you were perfect, not you're a pervert.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
No, because I don't know if she's going to be
believe me. You know, I'm like a little embarrassed.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
Okay, Lilah is on the phone and she's getting ghosted
by a guy named Kai. So we're about to call
him and see if I tell us why he's ghosting
her and maybe get her a second date. But first, Lila,
why don't you refresh our memory on why you think
you're getting ghosted again?

Speaker 3 (02:56):
Because I accidentally called him a perfect But it wasn't
It wasn't intentional. It was like auto cracked and.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
I didn't notice.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Yeah, and I haven't heard from him.

Speaker 4 (03:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Kids, you guys mess around a little bit, and he
sent you a text being respectful saying you hope he
wasn't pushing any boundaries and you meant to say you
were perfect, but you said you were a pervert.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
So that means we can tell him that there's a
chance you could get a second date.

Speaker 3 (03:27):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I hope.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
All right, Well here we go. I'm gonna dallas phone
of her right now.

Speaker 3 (03:33):
Okay, okay, okay.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
Hello, Hi man speak to Kai?

Speaker 3 (03:41):
Please yes speaking?

Speaker 1 (03:44):
Hey Kai? How are you? This is a radio show.
It's called the Jebel Show.

Speaker 4 (03:47):
Hi Kai A Nina.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
Hi, I'm Victoria and my.

Speaker 1 (03:49):
Name is Jewel. What's up?

Speaker 3 (03:52):
Hey? How are you.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Have you ever heard of the Jebel Show before.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
Yeah, you guys are the ones that catch like cheeters
and stuff.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
Yeah, we do. You're you're not cheating on anybody. I
don't think.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
Are you scared? What's up?

Speaker 1 (04:10):
We're calling you today because we also do a segment
on the show called your First Date follow Up. So
that's where if you go out with somebody and you
end up ghosting them, they can email us to get
you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
And we got an email about you Kai.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
Okay from uh.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
Yes it is Lilah. She told us a little bit
about your date, said that she actually thought it was
one of the best dates of her life. She just
wants to know if she did something wrong.

Speaker 3 (04:41):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
Yeah, I'm ghosting here for two reasons. Actually one she
called me.

Speaker 4 (04:48):
A pervert about that.

Speaker 3 (04:51):
Yeah, Tom is crazy.

Speaker 4 (04:54):
Her mom is a crazy.

Speaker 1 (04:56):
Yeah yeah, like nuts written. Okay, she told us about
the perfect thing. Just to let you know that was
an autocorrect. She told us that you texted or something
about like you hope you weren't pushing any boundaries. She
meant to text you back to say you were perfect
and different. Auto corrected to you were pervert.

Speaker 5 (05:14):
So yeah, all I got was that I was just
trying to be respectful.

Speaker 1 (05:19):
You were, Yeah, but her mom's crazy. What does that mean?

Speaker 5 (05:23):
Yeah, that's the thing, like the pervert thing.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
It's like, okay, sure autocorrect.

Speaker 4 (05:28):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (05:28):
Maybe she was at the time. I was like, oh,
are you serious. I thought she might have been joking,
but I just left it alone.

Speaker 3 (05:33):
But I don't know.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
So I decided to go snooping on her Instagram a
little bit, and yeah, I saw a picture of her
mom and I recognized her the mom from a parking lot,
you know. Recently a woman got out of her car
and just started like cursing me out and like kicking
my tires. She thought I stole her parking space.

Speaker 4 (05:55):
I didn't.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
I was there first, and it was her mom.

Speaker 1 (05:59):
It's her mom. Oh no, her mom road raged on you.

Speaker 5 (06:04):
Like total Karen behavior, like absolute like call. It was embarrassing.

Speaker 4 (06:09):
Are you sure it was her mom?

Speaker 2 (06:11):
I'm positive. Yeah, they like crazy eyes and everything.

Speaker 4 (06:17):
Oh you know, no, no, no, no, no, what did
you say about my mom? Hey?

Speaker 1 (06:25):
Kai, that's Lilah. She's actually on the phone listening and
wants to talk to.

Speaker 3 (06:29):
You crazy eyes? Are you kidding me?

Speaker 5 (06:35):
Your mom totally cursed me out in public, and I listen,
I'm not.

Speaker 4 (06:39):
Trying to tell you the whole sorry, tell the whole
story because she told me, so.

Speaker 3 (06:45):
You knew this, Lila, don't know. I'm like, I didn't
know it was him, but like she told me about
this guy. Well, like she she went up went.

Speaker 4 (06:54):
To park, this guy like cut and like took her
there party pot and then you're you're not gonna believe
what happened. He got out of the car and like farted,
like he let out like a large allowed.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
Fart, like at your mom, Mom, this is disgusting, insane.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
Like who does that? And now he's saying that she.

Speaker 4 (07:23):
Has crazy eyes when when he's doing something like that, Come.

Speaker 3 (07:26):
On, listen.

Speaker 5 (07:29):
I did not start with the fart, all right. It
was a whole situation where she was yelling at me.
I wanted to get away from this woman. She kept
coming towards me. What else am I going to do?

Speaker 1 (07:39):
All right?

Speaker 4 (07:40):
So I yeah, you know, normal human being.

Speaker 5 (07:45):
Listen, I did what I had to do. I farted
in her general direction, and I do it again.

Speaker 3 (07:53):
Listening to yourself like this in crazy that's insane, Like
I'm not gonna hit her.

Speaker 5 (08:00):
I'm not gonna punch her. I'm gonna I'm gonna solve.

Speaker 3 (08:05):
Disgusting.

Speaker 1 (08:06):
I mean, I kind of get the logic.

Speaker 5 (08:09):
No, listen, I don't. I don't date someone who's crazy.
I don't date and and listen, women turn into their mothers, right,
so it's clear that you're going to become crazy if
you're not.

Speaker 4 (08:20):
You're kind.

Speaker 3 (08:22):
You haven't yet.

Speaker 4 (08:25):
No, no, no, that's so disrespectful, Like you don't talk.

Speaker 3 (08:30):
About my mother like that?

Speaker 1 (08:32):
Well, Kai, would you like another date with Lilah? We'll
pay for it.

Speaker 2 (08:37):
No, I think I'm good.

Speaker 1 (08:41):
Cool Lilah.

Speaker 3 (08:46):
No, And like, how dare you fart? And my mom?
You pervert?

Speaker 1 (08:56):
You will first date fall up