Madison & Jake: He Didn’t Ghost Her for the Reason She Thinks… 🐀😳

In this wild First Date Follow-Up, Madison is convinced her date ghosted her because he couldn’t handle her massive social media following… but the truth Jake reveals is something NO ONE saw coming. What started as a promising date quickly took a bizarre turn, leaving everyone questioning what really crossed the line.

Was it jealousy, intimidation, or something way more unexpected? You have to hear this unbelievable dating story to find out why things went south so fast.

Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
 
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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date follow up.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Madison is on the phone today for a first date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jake.
So in a second we'll call him and see if
you'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her
a second date. But first, Madison, why do you think
you're getting ghosted?

Speaker 3 (00:15):
I think Jake's intimated by my social media following?

Speaker 2 (00:19):
Oh really?

Speaker 3 (00:20):
Why?

Speaker 1 (00:21):
How many followers you got?

Speaker 2 (00:22):
Girl?

Speaker 1 (00:23):
I'm just kidding.

Speaker 4 (00:24):
I don't like a couple hundred thousand? Oh all right,
you got much?

Speaker 2 (00:29):
That's a big following? Is that's a big following. And
you think that he's ghosting you because he's intimidated by
your social media numbers.

Speaker 3 (00:38):
I just don't think he can handle the fact that
I'm successful and have a large following.

Speaker 1 (00:43):
Oh okay, why do you think he feels that way?

Speaker 5 (00:47):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (00:48):
He just got really awkward, like halfway through the date.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
And then after I immediately followed you on my Instagram
because I kind of take it pretty seriously.

Speaker 4 (00:56):
But then he never followed me back.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
Okay, all right, And you're an influencer. That's what you
do for a job, like, that's how you make your money.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
I mean, I have some side gigs, but yeah, that's
my main source of incomes.

Speaker 4 (01:09):
Okay, I don't understand why he's coming.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
He has a boring, like nine to five job, you know,
not as special okay as a.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Normal job normal.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
Yeah, it has a job job, right. I feel like
maybe that made him insecure. And then on top of that,
I just started showing him a few videos about like
my page, and I think that's where he got really intimidated.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
Just by seeing like how many, like the number of
people that follow you, and like how popular you are.
I mean you said several hundred thousand.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
That's a lot.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:42):
Honestly, I feel like he's low key jealous.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
Okay, Well, like, would you want another date with him
if he was jealous of your social media following since
yours is so much bigger than his.

Speaker 3 (01:54):
I mean, maybe I could make it work, you know,
like I'm not posed.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
Did he say he also like wants to be an
influencer or he's happy with his boring, normal job.

Speaker 4 (02:04):
No, I mean he's seemed pretty happy happy with his
boring job.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
Okakay, do you think he's jealous? Aren't the cure?

Speaker 5 (02:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (02:11):
I mean it's not like this is the first time
this has happened.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
Guys see me on my like my spiritual Instagram journey
and they get pretty jealous or intimidated.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
Okay, Well, Madison is on the phone and she's getting
ghosted by a dude named Jake. So we're about to
call him and see if he'll tell us why he's
ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But
before we do that, Madison, why don't you remind us
why you think you're getting ghosted?

Speaker 5 (02:32):
Again?

Speaker 4 (02:32):
Who everybody?

Speaker 3 (02:34):
I think I'm getting ghosted because he's intimidated by my
social numbers.

Speaker 1 (02:38):
Okay, and you said you have like a couple hundred
thousand people that follow you.

Speaker 3 (02:42):
Yeah, I just feel like he's jealous that he didn't
get to have a cool job and she's got to
go to work every day that he's boring nine to five.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
And you see somebody like you and he's like, I
don't know if I can handle her because you know,
she's like in demand, basically, Like that's kind of what
I think.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
Maybe he's going to freak out if people on the
streets like, no, why, I am right?

Speaker 2 (03:01):
That had made for but you liked him and you
would like a second date if it's I.

Speaker 3 (03:07):
Mean, like the dove's pretty good during the first thanks
gop of it until I showed him my following But
all right.

Speaker 5 (03:13):
Well here we go.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
I'm gonna doublas one ofer right now. Okay, okay, Ellen, Hi,
I speak to Jake please.

Speaker 6 (03:26):
This is it?

Speaker 2 (03:27):
Hey, Jake, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jewbel Show.

Speaker 5 (03:31):
Hi, Jake.

Speaker 1 (03:31):
I'm Nina and my name is Jubel.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
Have you listened to the show before?

Speaker 5 (03:38):
Yeah? No, I've heard you guys.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
Oh sweet, Okay, well, thank you for checking it out.
We're calling you today because I don't know if you've
heard the first date follow ups or not. But that's
where if you go on a date with somebody and
you end up ghosting them, that they can email us
to get you on the phone and ask why you're
ghosting them. And we got an email about you from somebody? Ah, okay,

(04:00):
any idea who email us?

Speaker 5 (04:06):
I don't know, I don't I don't think I want
to guess on the radio.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
I'll just tell you that her name is Madison, and you,
guys went out a few weeks ago and you have
not talked to her since your date and she like
h and she liked you, and she's wondering why you
haven't gotten back to her. Can you tell us why
you go? Singer?

Speaker 5 (04:26):
Would you mind very simply, I don't want to be
a rat daddy.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
You don't want to be a rat daddy?

Speaker 1 (04:36):
Does that?

Speaker 6 (04:37):
Listen?

Speaker 5 (04:37):
Rat daddy daddy of rats? Like a father of rats?
That is not me?

Speaker 1 (04:44):
Why would she be that?

Speaker 5 (04:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (04:46):
How does that?

Speaker 2 (04:47):
How does you got to explain that?

Speaker 5 (04:49):
You know, she's she is the queen rat lady, right,
she's like a rat mama, she called herself. I think right.
She has like this Instagram. I mean, she's like obsessed
with rats. It's all these they're crawling all over her.
I asked her, I was like, did you ever like
put out mouse traps for like mice that aren't yours?

(05:11):
And she she thought it was a joke, and I
was like, oh, this is not the vibe.

Speaker 2 (05:19):
She thought you might be ghosting her because she has
like a big social media following and you were intimidated
by that.

Speaker 5 (05:25):
Oh intimidated? I mean no, I what.

Speaker 6 (05:34):
I barely am on Instagram in that way? She kept
take it. She's like she's one of those people that
are obsessed with it, you know, it's like a big
part of her life. And the rats. Dude, I am
not I'm not a rodent guy.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
She calls herself a rat mama's rat.

Speaker 5 (05:50):
Mama, even like that's like, that's undignified. I'm not going
to date somebody a rat MoMA.

Speaker 6 (05:58):
She showed me one of her videos so that you
had just made, and it was like one of those
getting ready with view videos, except for her. There's like
a bunch of rats on her. She's doing an eyeliner
and you can see it crawling, and like it's impressive
that she's not smeary, but.

Speaker 5 (06:14):
Like, wow, what is like what germs are getting in
your eye? You know what I mean?

Speaker 6 (06:21):
I don't I don't want I don't want.

Speaker 5 (06:23):
Rats on my bed. She had them like on her pillow,
you know what I mean? And macin sleeping on a
pillow after seeing a rat on it.

Speaker 1 (06:31):
Well, they're not sewer rats, right, They're like her pets.

Speaker 5 (06:35):
If you see a tiger in the zoo or in
the wild, it's still a tiger.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
All right. Well, thank you for telling us, Jake, and
I do have to remind you that Madison is on
the phone and does want to talk to you.

Speaker 3 (06:51):
Those are my children's ohikes.

Speaker 5 (06:55):
This is matt oh I didn't you guys didn't.

Speaker 4 (06:58):
Tell This is how I make an honest living.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
Madison the rats. That's not an honest living rat means
like dishonest.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
Very clean animals, very clean and they well groomed and
like I even bathe them.

Speaker 4 (07:22):
It's this is my job. I am a rat mama
and I'm very proud of it.

Speaker 3 (07:27):
And you should be proud also and want to be
a rat atty.

Speaker 2 (07:34):
All right, So that that's what you do on social media,
that's why you're like, that's how you're an influencer. Is
like a rat around.

Speaker 4 (07:40):
It's a very niche market.

Speaker 5 (07:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (07:43):
I even have like an only fan for it.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (07:47):
Wow, you're just insecure that I'm a rat mama than you.

Speaker 5 (07:55):
It's definitely not the followers.

Speaker 6 (07:57):
I just don't want like bubonic plague, you know.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
All Right?

Speaker 3 (08:01):
Well, I think what's from Jake?

Speaker 2 (08:05):
Would you like another date with Madison the rat Mama.
We'll pay for it.

Speaker 5 (08:16):
I think I'm good. Uh, maybe she can go out
with her rats.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
Yeah, I honestly I'm good. I don't need another date
with you. I trust my rats more than I trust
most men.

Speaker 5 (08:28):
What Madison you are racket