January 9, 2026 • 9 mins
Maya thought she’d found a real connection after a perfect first date—great conversation, flirty vibes, even a kiss. But just days later, she was completely ghosted. With no explanation and plenty of confusion, she turns to First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show to finally get answers.
What Trevor reveals when confronted leaves everyone stunned and sparks a heated back-and-forth you have to hear to believe. Is it a harmless coincidence… or a major dating red flag?
Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocates la dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Maya is on the phone today for a first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Trevor.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
So in a few minutes.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
We'll call him and see if he'll tell us why
he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Maya,
how long has it been since you heard from trevormost
three weeks?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Oh, okay, that's quite a while.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Yeah, well, so I tried reaching out, you know, a little.
I texted one snick, oh it's fun, because it was fun,
And then I.
Speaker 5 (00:32):
Texted again, bick, how was your week?
Speaker 4 (00:34):
And then I just uh on TikTok that one that
I thought I would like because we already connected on there,
But then I stopped because I didn't want to be
that girl, you know.
Speaker 6 (00:43):
Okay, so three attempts and no, Yeah, I don't know.
After one date that feels like a lot, But that's okay.
I don't think that's why you're getting ghosted, though, because
if he really liked it, it wouldn't.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
Matter, right. That's why I'm so confused, because it really was.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
A great date. We'll tell us about it. What do
you guys do?
Speaker 5 (01:00):
Well, they just you know, did something low key. We're like,
let's you're go to a coffee you know, a trendy
coffee shop.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
I guess it was. It ended up being, you know,
one of those ones where it's like plants and coffee,
but then there's just like one plant and it's behind
the counter, so you can't tell if it's fake, you know,
but whatever. Everything costs nine dollars, but it's pretty good.
They have like lavender anyway, Okay, we yeah, so we
like you know, got our drinks and ended up talking
for a long time. And let's see. He he got
(01:30):
a cold brew. I remember, because he made this like
little speech about how he drinks coffee for the vibes,
not the caffeine.
Speaker 5 (01:36):
I was like, I mean that's funny, Like okay, sir, serious, but.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
So I mean we were we were just vibing. But anyway,
so that's just an example, but okay, it was fun.
And then we walked around like when near by like
outdoor market, you know, like sometimes it's a what do
you call it on weekends, like a farmer's market, but
there's just like little little stuff had them sample. I
bought this really good honey for just to take home. Anyways,
(02:03):
I love local honey. Anyways, Yeah, we have about travel
and people watched and we just we're clicking, you know,
just like teasing me, like in a flirty way kind
of it felt like sarcastic. It just felt like rob
and commed meet hee. It was just one of those
like perfect days, you know, it's just nice, sat like,
it was just great. And then we you know, sat
down on the bench from at the end of the
day to finished our coffee and he put his arm
(02:26):
around me and it wasn't awkward.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
It was felt natural. And yeah we did kiss on
the bench.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Aw Okay, all right, he kissed on a bench and everything.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
You're still getting ghosted?
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Yeah, what do you think when I'm wrong?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
This sum's dumb. But I'm like, I feel dumb for
even thinking that this is why he could be ghosting.
But I can't think of anything else. I did steel
still my drink on him. Well while I was laughing
when we were sitting on the bench, and it kind
of went everywhere, you know, like there's just.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
A little bit left.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
But man, that like what just goes you know, like
on him on the ground on the bench. So, but
he joked about it and stuff. I thought that was fine,
but I was like, well, maybe he thinks I'm too
much of a mess because of that.
Speaker 5 (03:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
I hope that's not why he goes.
Speaker 6 (03:08):
Did you how did he act after he spelled so
you said he was kind of joking about it, but like,
did you kiss again after the bench?
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:15):
I think actually I'm gonna spilled that before I kissed him.
But yeah, no, it didn't seem to like change anything.
I also like posh about my mom a lot. I
just remember that, like bringing it up more than once.
It's not like a trauma way, but I was like, yeah,
to bring up, but it was just my mom.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
That can't be weird. I talk about my mom all
the time.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
It was probably fine, Like you said, that depends on
how you're bringing it up. Maya is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Trevor for
three weeks now. So we're about to get him on
the phone and see if he'll tell us why he's
ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But
before we call him, Maya, why don't you break down
your date with Trevor again real quick.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
So it was great.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
It really was coffee date, daytime date. Low key, we kissed,
I stilled coffee some of her back.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Okay, Well are you ready for us to call him up?
Speaker 5 (04:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Okay, here we go. I'm in a Dallas number right now. Hello, Hi, man,
speak to Trevor. Please.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
This is Trevor.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Hey, Trevor, how are you. This is a radio show.
It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Hi, Trevor. I'mina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jewbel.
What's up?
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
This is real right now?
Speaker 6 (04:46):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Is anything really real Trevor? If you think about it,
I don't know philosophical bout it. Anyway, I feel like
you can have that conversation right now.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Have you ever listened to The Jebel Show before?
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Yeah, I am okay, thank you?
Speaker 4 (05:02):
All right?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Well you might know or not. No, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
But we do a segment called the First Date follow Up.
That's where if you go on a date with somebody
and you end up ghosting them, they can email us
to get you on the phone and ask why so
we got an email about you from somebody?
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Oh? Okay, is it that.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
It's probably about Maya?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Isn't it is about Maya? You're correct, Trevor. Yeah, she
emailed us and we talked to her a little bit
about your date. Sounded fun. She sounds like she really
liked you. Yeah, and she's confused. Do you mind telling
us while you're Ghostinger?
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Oh? All right? Look, first of all, like I didn't,
I didn't hate the date. She was great, she's fun,
she's cute. She just honestly did like one little thing.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
That kind of freaked me out. What did she do?
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Well?
Speaker 5 (06:00):
She she ordered the same drink as me, like right
after I ordered it.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
And that breaked you out. What's your drink again, Trevor,
I like cold brew.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
We went to a coffee shop and I got a
cold brew.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
So you got just a straight up cold brew.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
You're ghost because you got the same drink as you.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Yeah, but it's not just like that she ordered it,
like she said that sounds good, I'll have that too,
Like that's his intense to me. Wait, is this a joke?
That's I can't believe it. That's how you go to
me because I because I said that sounds good, I'll
have that too.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
That's Maya. She's on the phone and she wants to
talk to you. Obviously didn't know she can't hear me.
Speaker 5 (06:45):
All right, yeah, I need you to know. And I
just are you serious? Is that a joke?
Speaker 4 (06:51):
So you're ghosting me over why I ordered a coffee
shop number A? I didn't.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Yeah, well I also didn't know you were going to
order the same exact drink is me?
Speaker 4 (07:07):
I mean, wait, because I ordered a cold brew? Are
you freaking kidding me?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
It's just in the past, like I've dated girls of
like I mean one thing, Like one minute, you're ordering
the same drink as me, and then like if I ride.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Motorcycles, you're riding motorcycles.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
If I do, I've been through that.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
So you think it starts with the drinking the same
drink as you, and then they're wanting to do everything
the same as you.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
Look, man, I've just that's in my past.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
That's what I'm It's what I've experienced.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
It is one coffee, not a whole lifestyle change.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Look, you put your arm around me and you kissed me,
and then you disappeared over a drink order. From the
beginning of the date.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
When we when you say it like that it sounds bad,
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
I mean, I still stand by it.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
I really don't want somebody to like copy my personality.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Is what it is.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
Man does psychotic, right, But I'm the psycho. You're the
one who's trying to morph into me. Next day, I
know you're going to be learning the same thing.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
And made dinner saying like you're not hungry and eating
all my food and absolutely not for that.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I've had enough shape shifters in my life. I do
not want another shape shifter.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
Are you serious?
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Have you ever met a woman before when you.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Just yeah, I've met at least three of them, and
then all of a sudden they were dude, they were me.
Speaker 4 (08:47):
Start riding a motorcycle, you crazy person?
Speaker 3 (08:51):
You kiss me?
Speaker 5 (08:53):
Yeah? I did, But you know you ordered the same
drink as me.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
It's only a matter of time before fel like I'm
kidding myself.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
Okay, okay, well have fun? Was that?
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Would you like another day with Maya? We'll pay for it. Honestly,
I don't think so I can go take myself out
to dinner.
Speaker 4 (09:16):
Oh well, that's good, because if I did work into you,
I would become incredibly uninteresting and I wouldn't want that
to happen to me. Oh, you know, don't hate the player,
hate the game.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
If you really want to.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
Be mad at someone, be mad at Maddie made its
Maddie Maddie.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
So the last girl copied my drink order right for her.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
Yeah, I'm wised to that now. He's shape shifter.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Okay you Will's
Speaker 1 (09:50):
First day follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney
online at Advocates Law dot com
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocates la dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Maya is on the phone today for a first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Trevor.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
So in a few minutes.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
We'll call him and see if he'll tell us why
he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Maya,
how long has it been since you heard from trevormost
three weeks?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Oh, okay, that's quite a while.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Yeah, well, so I tried reaching out, you know, a little.
I texted one snick, oh it's fun, because it was fun,
And then I.
Speaker 5 (00:32):
Texted again, bick, how was your week?
Speaker 4 (00:34):
And then I just uh on TikTok that one that
I thought I would like because we already connected on there,
But then I stopped because I didn't want to be
that girl, you know.
Speaker 6 (00:43):
Okay, so three attempts and no, Yeah, I don't know.
After one date that feels like a lot, But that's okay.
I don't think that's why you're getting ghosted, though, because
if he really liked it, it wouldn't.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
Matter, right. That's why I'm so confused, because it really was.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
A great date. We'll tell us about it. What do
you guys do?
Speaker 5 (01:00):
Well, they just you know, did something low key. We're like,
let's you're go to a coffee you know, a trendy
coffee shop.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
I guess it was. It ended up being, you know,
one of those ones where it's like plants and coffee,
but then there's just like one plant and it's behind
the counter, so you can't tell if it's fake, you know,
but whatever. Everything costs nine dollars, but it's pretty good.
They have like lavender anyway, Okay, we yeah, so we
like you know, got our drinks and ended up talking
for a long time. And let's see. He he got
(01:30):
a cold brew. I remember, because he made this like
little speech about how he drinks coffee for the vibes,
not the caffeine.
Speaker 5 (01:36):
I was like, I mean that's funny, Like okay, sir, serious, but.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
So I mean we were we were just vibing. But anyway,
so that's just an example, but okay, it was fun.
And then we walked around like when near by like
outdoor market, you know, like sometimes it's a what do
you call it on weekends, like a farmer's market, but
there's just like little little stuff had them sample. I
bought this really good honey for just to take home. Anyways,
(02:03):
I love local honey. Anyways, Yeah, we have about travel
and people watched and we just we're clicking, you know,
just like teasing me, like in a flirty way kind
of it felt like sarcastic. It just felt like rob
and commed meet hee. It was just one of those
like perfect days, you know, it's just nice, sat like,
it was just great. And then we you know, sat
down on the bench from at the end of the
day to finished our coffee and he put his arm
(02:26):
around me and it wasn't awkward.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
It was felt natural. And yeah we did kiss on
the bench.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Aw Okay, all right, he kissed on a bench and everything.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
You're still getting ghosted?
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Yeah, what do you think when I'm wrong?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
This sum's dumb. But I'm like, I feel dumb for
even thinking that this is why he could be ghosting.
But I can't think of anything else. I did steel
still my drink on him. Well while I was laughing
when we were sitting on the bench, and it kind
of went everywhere, you know, like there's just.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
A little bit left.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
But man, that like what just goes you know, like
on him on the ground on the bench. So, but
he joked about it and stuff. I thought that was fine,
but I was like, well, maybe he thinks I'm too
much of a mess because of that.
Speaker 5 (03:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
I hope that's not why he goes.
Speaker 6 (03:08):
Did you how did he act after he spelled so
you said he was kind of joking about it, but like,
did you kiss again after the bench?
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:15):
I think actually I'm gonna spilled that before I kissed him.
But yeah, no, it didn't seem to like change anything.
I also like posh about my mom a lot. I
just remember that, like bringing it up more than once.
It's not like a trauma way, but I was like, yeah,
to bring up, but it was just my mom.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
That can't be weird. I talk about my mom all
the time.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
It was probably fine, Like you said, that depends on
how you're bringing it up. Maya is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Trevor for
three weeks now. So we're about to get him on
the phone and see if he'll tell us why he's
ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But
before we call him, Maya, why don't you break down
your date with Trevor again real quick.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
So it was great.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
It really was coffee date, daytime date. Low key, we kissed,
I stilled coffee some of her back.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Okay, Well are you ready for us to call him up?
Speaker 5 (04:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Okay, here we go. I'm in a Dallas number right now. Hello, Hi, man,
speak to Trevor. Please.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
This is Trevor.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Hey, Trevor, how are you. This is a radio show.
It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Hi, Trevor. I'mina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jewbel.
What's up?
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
This is real right now?
Speaker 6 (04:46):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Is anything really real Trevor? If you think about it,
I don't know philosophical bout it. Anyway, I feel like
you can have that conversation right now.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Have you ever listened to The Jebel Show before?
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Yeah, I am okay, thank you?
Speaker 4 (05:02):
All right?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Well you might know or not. No, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
But we do a segment called the First Date follow Up.
That's where if you go on a date with somebody
and you end up ghosting them, they can email us
to get you on the phone and ask why so
we got an email about you from somebody?
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Oh? Okay, is it that.
Speaker 5 (05:23):
It's probably about Maya?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Isn't it is about Maya? You're correct, Trevor. Yeah, she
emailed us and we talked to her a little bit
about your date. Sounded fun. She sounds like she really
liked you. Yeah, and she's confused. Do you mind telling
us while you're Ghostinger?
Speaker 4 (05:39):
Oh? All right? Look, first of all, like I didn't,
I didn't hate the date. She was great, she's fun,
she's cute. She just honestly did like one little thing.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
That kind of freaked me out. What did she do?
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Well?
Speaker 5 (06:00):
She she ordered the same drink as me, like right
after I ordered it.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
And that breaked you out. What's your drink again, Trevor,
I like cold brew.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
We went to a coffee shop and I got a
cold brew.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
So you got just a straight up cold brew.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
You're ghost because you got the same drink as you.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Yeah, but it's not just like that she ordered it,
like she said that sounds good, I'll have that too,
Like that's his intense to me. Wait, is this a joke?
That's I can't believe it. That's how you go to
me because I because I said that sounds good, I'll
have that too.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
That's Maya. She's on the phone and she wants to
talk to you. Obviously didn't know she can't hear me.
Speaker 5 (06:45):
All right, yeah, I need you to know. And I
just are you serious? Is that a joke?
Speaker 4 (06:51):
So you're ghosting me over why I ordered a coffee
shop number A? I didn't.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Yeah, well I also didn't know you were going to
order the same exact drink is me?
Speaker 4 (07:07):
I mean, wait, because I ordered a cold brew? Are
you freaking kidding me?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
It's just in the past, like I've dated girls of
like I mean one thing, Like one minute, you're ordering
the same drink as me, and then like if I ride.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Motorcycles, you're riding motorcycles.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
If I do, I've been through that.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
So you think it starts with the drinking the same
drink as you, and then they're wanting to do everything
the same as you.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
Look, man, I've just that's in my past.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
That's what I'm It's what I've experienced.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
It is one coffee, not a whole lifestyle change.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Look, you put your arm around me and you kissed me,
and then you disappeared over a drink order. From the
beginning of the date.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
When we when you say it like that it sounds bad,
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
I mean, I still stand by it.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
I really don't want somebody to like copy my personality.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Is what it is.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
Man does psychotic, right, But I'm the psycho. You're the
one who's trying to morph into me. Next day, I
know you're going to be learning the same thing.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
And made dinner saying like you're not hungry and eating
all my food and absolutely not for that.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I've had enough shape shifters in my life. I do
not want another shape shifter.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
Are you serious?
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Have you ever met a woman before when you.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Just yeah, I've met at least three of them, and
then all of a sudden they were dude, they were me.
Speaker 4 (08:47):
Start riding a motorcycle, you crazy person?
Speaker 3 (08:51):
You kiss me?
Speaker 5 (08:53):
Yeah? I did, But you know you ordered the same
drink as me.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
It's only a matter of time before fel like I'm
kidding myself.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
Okay, okay, well have fun? Was that?
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Would you like another day with Maya? We'll pay for it. Honestly,
I don't think so I can go take myself out
to dinner.
Speaker 4 (09:16):
Oh well, that's good, because if I did work into you,
I would become incredibly uninteresting and I wouldn't want that
to happen to me. Oh, you know, don't hate the player,
hate the game.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
If you really want to.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
Be mad at someone, be mad at Maddie made its
Maddie Maddie.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
So the last girl copied my drink order right for her.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
Yeah, I'm wised to that now. He's shape shifter.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Okay you Will's
Speaker 1 (09:50):
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