Rachel & Zayne: He Was ALL In… Until One Tiny Detail Killed It 😬

On this First Date Follow-Up, Rachel thought she found her perfect match after a wild, high-energy night at a live show—front row, instant chemistry, and a connection that felt undeniable. But just days later… total radio silence.

What went wrong after such a promising start? The answer leaves everyone stunned—and sparks a surprisingly heated debate about attraction, style, and what really matters on a first date.

Is it a petty dealbreaker… or something you just can’t unsee? 👀

Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
 
➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com

---

This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…

➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts

---

The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places:

• Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com 
• Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow 
• X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow 
• Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show
• Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow 
• YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh

Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribe

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Rachel is on the phone today for our first Date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Zaye.
So in a few minutes we'll call him and Cee
feels he us why he's ghosting her and maybe get
her a second date if she still wants one. But first, Rachel,
how long has it been since you heard from Zaye?

Speaker 1 (00:21):
It's been five days since I heard from Zaye. Okay,
because we're not counting or anything, right, Oh, no, we're
definitely not counting right now.

Speaker 3 (00:30):
Have you tried to reach out to it?

Speaker 1 (00:32):
I have been, like, you know, I heard from him
like right after our date, like that night, and like
everything seemed chill, and then I heard nothing after that.

Speaker 3 (00:41):
All right, tell us about the date.

Speaker 1 (00:43):
Yeah, So, we like met at this venue in and
it was this total dive bar like vibes. It was
very punk energy, like we had message on and off
about the band that we both happen to like have
tickets to this underground in the group thing like, so
it was just perfect. It was like, you know, a

(01:04):
thing that we're both into. You know, and like it
was a blast. We were in the front row. We
were like both super sweaty and dancing and screaming the lyrics,
like he actually knew all the lyrics, like so he
wasn't a poser, you know what I mean. And it
just felt like we were teams again, Like you know,
he pulled me close during this one like slow build song,
and like we made out hard in the front row,

(01:28):
no shame, like teenagers, Like it was so good. Yeah,
like you know, like it got a little handsy, but
like I'm not gonna lie, like it felt like natural
and like in the moment, it wasn't anything like sleezy,
so he wasn't like there were no bad vines or
like red flags like the night of the day, you know.

Speaker 3 (01:47):
Mm hmm, Well, why do you think he's ghosting you?

Speaker 1 (01:51):
I don't know, Like so like maybe like when we
were outside, like it was freezing, so I asked him
for his jacket and like jokingly I said, like, oh,
a real gentleman would have offered it to me by now,
and like we both laughed and like then he gave
his jacket to me and like kissed me on the
cheek and like it was kind of like a stiffer

(02:14):
kiss than like, I mean, a full on makeout like
we did in the front row, but like I don't know,
he said, like, oh, you didn't give me a chance
to be a gentleman before you just took it and
like laughed and walked away. So it seemed very like, oh,
like I don't know, it was flirting, but like if
I have his jacket, like I have it, Yeah, don't

(02:35):
ghost me if you want your clothes back.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
Rachel is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
a guy named Zaye. So in a second we're gonna
call him and see if he'll tell us why he's
ghostinger and maybe get her a second date if she
still wants one. But before we do that, Rachel, why
don't you break down your situation?

Speaker 3 (02:49):
Was Zaane? Real quick? Uh?

Speaker 1 (02:51):
First date when and thoughts on live music? Made out
in the front row like we're teenagers, had a great time.
Maybe I upset him because I said, hey, a gentleman
would have offered his jacket by this point when we
went outside and it was cold. Maybe you took it
the wrong way. I still have his jacket. I haven't
heard from him in five days, but he is responding

(03:14):
to comments on his coach from the concert. So, yeah, I.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
Don't know you ready for us to call him?

Speaker 1 (03:22):
I am okay, here we go.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
Okay, noll hi, Man, I speak to say please.

Speaker 4 (03:32):
Yeah, this is who's going?

Speaker 3 (03:34):
Hey Zane? How are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi. I'mina. Hi, I'm Victoria
and my name is Jubel. What's going on?

Speaker 5 (03:42):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (03:42):
Yeah you guys?

Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah you do?

Speaker 3 (03:44):
Oh cool?

Speaker 2 (03:45):
Hey, thank you man, I appreciate it. Well, we're calling
you today because somebody wanted us to call you.

Speaker 4 (03:52):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (03:53):
So I don't know if you how much you listen
to the show, But we do a segment called the
First Dight follow Up. That's where if you go out
on a date with somebody and then you go some
that person can email us to get you on the
phone and ask why you're ghosting Oh yeah about yes,
it is about Rachel.

Speaker 3 (04:13):
Do you have a second to tell us why you're
ghosting her?

Speaker 1 (04:15):
Man?

Speaker 4 (04:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (04:17):
Yeah, okay, all right?

Speaker 4 (04:19):
Uh. Like I mean she's super cool, like fun, but
there's pals.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
It's like it's just.

Speaker 4 (04:30):
Like this thing.

Speaker 6 (04:30):
Man. Uh, she's got this, she's got this nose ring
and it's like this it's like giant hoop, right, and
it's got this like dangly little charm that's.

Speaker 5 (04:44):
Just gonna lay hanging out of her nose, and.

Speaker 4 (04:47):
Like god, it kept like moving when she was talking,
and like.

Speaker 5 (04:52):
I didn't really notice it at first, like when we
were because we're in a beg you writing, super dark,
Like once we got outside and like I couldn't take
my eyes off of it, just like immediate.

Speaker 3 (05:02):
Oh no, so like you kissed her and stuff though.

Speaker 6 (05:06):
Right, Yeah, no, for sure.

Speaker 5 (05:08):
I mean, like you know, we were on the heat
of the moment in the show and it was you know,
kind of dark in that, and you know, it's all
felt really good at the moment, but like once we
got outside and like the street lights and stuff, like
it's just like, I mean, this thing is not just
like a nosing. It's like a wind shime.

Speaker 4 (05:25):
Like I could not stop looking at it, Like I
had like a nightmare about it that night.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
They were bad.

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Oh no, then that's the reason just that.

Speaker 4 (05:39):
I mean, yeah, I just like I just like could
not stop looking at it, Like the whole time she
was talking to me, I was just like, this is
just I just I just could not do it.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
It was not what if she took it out? Can
you just not unsee it?

Speaker 1 (05:56):
I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (05:58):
I mean it feels like I don't know, man, it's
just like kind of I put her whole look and
aesthetic and like, I don't know.

Speaker 6 (06:05):
I just I was not feeling that.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
All right, Well, thank you for telling us. Appreciate that.
I kind of won't know how big this nos ring is. Hey, Rachel,
how big is your nose ring?

Speaker 1 (06:18):
A windshine?

Speaker 3 (06:22):
That's Rachel. She's been listening. I wants to talk to you.

Speaker 4 (06:26):
No, okay, I did not realize you were on there too.

Speaker 1 (06:31):
Okay, oh yeah, I love like aesthetic takedown. So you're
ghosting me because of my style with my like average
sized nose ring, my nose jangle there.

Speaker 4 (06:45):
Look okay, Like I'm not trying to be a jerk
or anything.

Speaker 5 (06:48):
It's just not for me, all right.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
You know, it's just not as good. You made out
with me like you were going to propose, and then
you disappeared because my jewelry was a minimal enough for
your sensitive The eyes.

Speaker 4 (07:04):
Come on, like that's kind of funny, but like it's
not personal, right, I just like I couldn't unsee it,
Like the thing just felt like it had like its
own like personality, like every like on a date.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
So his name is Gerald, he swings my laugh, and
you would have been great friends.

Speaker 4 (07:20):
Okay, okay, that's kind of funny.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
Actually okay, but like you're such a poser, like you're
acting like you're into punk shows, but you can't handle
a nose.

Speaker 4 (07:35):
Ring to my cot am.

Speaker 5 (07:38):
Obviously, clearly I did to puncture, all right, Like, I mean.

Speaker 7 (07:42):
I just don't want to date the merch table, you know, wow,
And I don't want to date a suit who stakes
his way through life.

Speaker 5 (07:52):
What are you talking about? It doesn't make any sense.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
Listen, I'm going to keep your jacket, saying you don't
deserve it. It's too cool for you, you know what.

Speaker 4 (08:07):
You can keep the jacket because I don't really ever
want to see that thing again, honestly, insane?

Speaker 3 (08:12):
Would you like another date with Rachel? Won't pay for it?

Speaker 4 (08:16):
No, No, that's gonna be a hard pass from you.

Speaker 6 (08:18):
Guys.

Speaker 1 (08:19):
Oh cool. You know Gerald feels the same way and
he doesn't want to see you again. So yeah, I'm
with Gerald. We don't want to see you again. We
don't need this date.

Speaker 6 (08:29):
Cool.

Speaker 4 (08:29):
I got a guy who named you, named your nose
ring Gerald.

Speaker 5 (08:33):
You know, well, I'm gonna let you guys have an
happy life together, and you know what, you can keep
the jacket, you know, I don't. I don't ever need
to wear that thing again.

Speaker 1 (08:41):
Oh yeah, I'm sure you have a ton more in
your closet because you're such a fake poser and you
just have them there to like, try and be cool
and recapture your youth. Bro Jubile's first date fall