Sam & Lilah: She Ghosted Him Over One Unexpected Detail 😳

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Sam is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Lilah.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she can tell us why she's ghosting him, and
also maybe get him a second date if he still
wants one. But before we do that, Sam, how long
has it been since you last talked to Lila?

Speaker 2 (00:16):
Oh, it's been about a couple of weeks.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
I guess a couple of weeks. Okay, that's that's a while. Yeah, yeah,
why do you want to get a hold of out
a few weeks? Like any efficiency?

Speaker 4 (00:29):
I think for me it's it's just getting some sort
of answer. You feel like you're kind of left with
no closure. And maybe I'm one of those people, but
I don't know. I always feel like I need some
sort of that need to make sense, you know.

Speaker 3 (00:39):
Yeah, I get that, especially when you think something went
really well. So why don't you tell us about the date?

Speaker 2 (00:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (00:47):
Yeah, So I met Lilah on bumble, you know, just swiping, and.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
Uh, it was great. I really liked her based on
her profile.

Speaker 4 (00:57):
She seems really grounded at Dorsy and she had a dog,
which I do, so I thought, great connection. Yeah right, exactly,
like an easy kind of you know, sort of shorthand anyway,
I thought it was great.

Speaker 2 (01:08):
So we went and wanted to go on a.

Speaker 4 (01:10):
Date and she said yes, and anyway, that's that's how
that got started.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
And then what.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
And then yes, yeah, I left you.

Speaker 4 (01:26):
And so basically I thought about the dog situation being
such an organic way to kind of connect. So I said,
let's go to the dog park. And we went to
this beautiful park and the dogs kind of ran around,
had a good time.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
They seemed like they really got along.

Speaker 4 (01:41):
It was a nice day date, very PG safe, everybody's happy,
doesn't feel like any sort of like you know, no
one's trying to do anything, just meeting the dogs.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
We went on the park with the dogs.

Speaker 4 (01:52):
And then yeah, and as I felt it was doing
really well, I said, you know, there's a little brewery
in a patio down the street and it's a sunny
day and everybody's chilling out and we started playing old corn.

Speaker 2 (02:02):
Hole and uh, you know, just is a pool table
as well inside and we just we.

Speaker 4 (02:07):
Said all yeah, and the dogs were it was a
dog's friendly place, so like they brought up little dog
water bowls and so here's though, Here's where I'm getting
to is that I think the only reason I could
come up with it might have caused any I don't know,
any ghosting or any of this whatever's going on here.
My dog really like liked Lila's dog a lot more

(02:28):
than I liked Lilah. I mean, the dog was obsessed
with her dog, and it was like it was getting
a little funky, like he would start humping the dog
and just he was just humping her dog a lot,
and I thought it was kind of funny.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
So I was an.

Speaker 4 (02:42):
Awkward I was just like, yeah, that's whatever. It's dog,
he's fixed anyway. It doesn't even doesn't mean anything. I mean,
I wasn't trying to my dog is maybe thinking for me,
I don't know. But long story short, this this kept
going on, and Lilac she's kind of looked at me,
and I was.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
Like, I got it. I got it.

Speaker 4 (03:02):
She definitely seemed annoyed, but I was thinking, like, okay, playful,
it's okay annoyed but not pissed. So we started kind
of talking about what our goals are in life and
what our families do, and I just thought there was
such a real chemistry.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
You know.

Speaker 4 (03:18):
So I asked her basically what her family does, and
she wanted to know what mine did, and I decided,
you know, it's kind of a funky business that my
family does. It's interesting anyway, and so I said, why
don't you guess? So we started playing this kind of
cute guessing game, and I told her I inherited the
family business. So that's where I left her, but I

(03:40):
kept it really cryptic with some clues. I was like, yeah,
there's always a continuing business. It's always kind of built in,
you'll never run out of it. These were my clues,
and I kind of got to a place where we
were sort of getting it, and long story short, I
just kind of got to a place with the dogs
and I felt like I've tolt a little response and

(04:01):
explained that I'll be more careful next time about the dogs.
And the time of the date went on and we
left in good turns.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
Maybe maybe it's something about the game. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Sam is on the phone, and Sam's getting ghosted by
a woman named Lila. So we're about to call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him a second date. But before we
do that, Sam, why don't you break down your situation
again real quick.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
Yeah. We met on a dating app.

Speaker 4 (04:26):
She was really cute. I loved her dog, my dog,
really loved her dog. We went on a great little
dog part date, took it to a brewery. My dog
is a little awkward, did a little bit too much
something on her dog, and basically at the end of
the date we were playing a bit of a guessing
game as to what my family business was, and left
on a pretty good note, I thought, and here we are.
I just hadn't heard from her in like two weeks.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
Now, all right, you're ready for a scholar? Yeah, oh yeah, please, okay,
here we go. Hello, Hi man, I speak Tolilah, please speaking?

(05:08):
Hey Lila, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jubil Show. Hi, Lila Ana, Hi, I'm Victoria.

Speaker 3 (05:14):
And my name is Jubal. What's going on?

Speaker 1 (05:17):
Oh? Hi?

Speaker 5 (05:18):
Hi?

Speaker 3 (05:19):
Have you ever heard the show before?

Speaker 5 (05:20):
Pop up on my TikTok sometimes?

Speaker 3 (05:23):
Oh cool? Oh nice, that's cool. So you you have
heard of the show me?

Speaker 2 (05:29):
So that's weird. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
Yeah, Well we're calling you because we do a segment
on the show called the first date follow up. That's
where if you go out on a date with somebody
and you would up ghosting them, they can email us
to get you on the phone and ask why you're
ghosting them.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (05:43):
Oh so we're like on right now.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
Yeah, okay, and Sam Sam emailed us. Uh huh, Sam
told us.

Speaker 1 (05:59):
A little bit about your date and uh, just wondering
why are you ghosting?

Speaker 3 (06:03):
Would you mind telling guys?

Speaker 5 (06:09):
Yeah? Sure, I mean truthfully, yeah, it's it's really just
about his work. You know, he runs his family business,
and good for him. It's a successful business, but it
is a mortuary, and I just I don't do dead people.

(06:35):
I don't want to be with somebody who comes home
to me after, you know, handling dead people all day.
You know. Yeah, that's really it.

Speaker 3 (06:49):
Well, so I said, he works at a mortuary. You
don't want to do a dude that handles dead people.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
No, I do not do dead people.

Speaker 5 (07:00):
Watch scary movies like no.

Speaker 3 (07:02):
Okay, okay. I thought he kind of runs across this
a lot. I feel like it would be kind of
a weird thing. I mean, that's a family business. He
could make good money.

Speaker 2 (07:13):
Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (07:14):
I mean maybe I'm crazy. But for me, it's like
an energy thing, like if you're around dead people all day,
like spirits can attach to you and stuff, and I
just like I don't want to risk it.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
I want to deal with that.

Speaker 5 (07:28):
Like if if I was in a scary movie, I'd
be the girl that like, first sign of something crazy,
I'd be like I'm out and I would survive.

Speaker 1 (07:35):
You know, so this is your survival movie right now.

Speaker 5 (07:38):
Nobody pulled out parrot cards. I'm out, Like I'm out,
Like they don't mess with this stuff, you know.

Speaker 1 (07:44):
Sure, Yeah, well, thank you for telling us. I I
appreciate it. And just to let you know, Sam is
actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.

Speaker 4 (07:54):
Yeah, I mean right now, I mean you go to
me over over that, you go to me that, Yeah
what you I mean, really you should have just mentioned
that bother you guys could.

Speaker 2 (08:07):
Explain it to you a little better. I don't.

Speaker 5 (08:13):
No, I mean, your dog wouldn't stop helping my dog.
But like I can get over that. But like I
just I don't do dead people. Like I don't have
a better way to put that. But like I don't
want I don't want to be in a relationship with
someone who is around dead people all day, Like just
thinking about it makes me uncomfortable, like they're gonna I

(08:36):
just like I can't stop, Like I couldn't stop picturing it,
Like I have this honestly, I have a fear of
dead bodies even like like I'm actually afraid of zombies,
Like I know they're not real, but I don't think
they're impossible to become real, you know, like when there's
no room lesson how they're going to the earth. You know,

(08:56):
I can't get over it.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
Wow, that's what this is not. This is not the
Walking Dead. It's not sure the Walking Dead. It's none
of those shows.

Speaker 3 (09:08):
This is Listen.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
It's a respectful about the profession. My family's been in
it for a century.

Speaker 4 (09:14):
And it's about money too, Like let me, let me
be honest with you, Like my family's unloaded.

Speaker 2 (09:19):
And it's just demand. There's always going to be a
returning customers, you know what I mean?

Speaker 5 (09:28):
Like that, spirits don't care. Spirits don't care about your
bank account like you.

Speaker 4 (09:34):
That's crazy thought, you got it.

Speaker 2 (09:36):
You gotta maybe get.

Speaker 4 (09:37):
Some sage or some Pelissonto and you know, cleaning your house.
I'm just saying, like you know that says nothing to
do with me. Energy doesn't stick on people like that.

Speaker 5 (09:46):
Listen, No, I'm telling you. I got and I went
to turn off the light in the bathroom and it
like burnt out and it was so loud and it
was away. It was like dramatic in a way. That
light's going out just isn't like I'm knowing you. This
was the universe is telling me not to mess with this.

Speaker 2 (10:04):
That's well right, yeah, That's.

Speaker 4 (10:08):
What I'm trying to say. Is a coincidence though, coincidence.
We had such a great chemistry, and I just want
to think, like, what if we go back and started again.
No dogs, no talk of what my family businesses.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
Or work, just like a normal chill date.

Speaker 5 (10:26):
You after you've been breathing and get the boy zombie
air all day. Come on, I can't do it?

Speaker 3 (10:36):
Well, oh well, are you sure, Lila? Would you like
another date with Sam? Will pay for it?

Speaker 5 (10:42):
No, I'm sorry, I just like I can't do it.
I I there are people that won't care about this,
and I cannot get past this.

Speaker 4 (10:52):
Are you really going to say no to a hot,
rich once in a lifetime kind of man because you're
scared of some zombies.

Speaker 2 (10:57):
I mean, don't get us.

Speaker 5 (11:04):
Say how much money in your brain now morning?

Speaker 2 (11:10):
Okay, they don't you know. I mean, honestly all the
brains are for me. Then I'll eat all the brains.

Speaker 3 (11:17):
All right, your brain's alone, Sam, I'm sorry, makes a
weird bro. Jubile's first Date follow up

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