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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Trent is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Kara.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him a second date. But first, Trent, how long
has it been since your date with Kara?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
It's been like a couple of weeks.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Uh, yeah, man, I mean, look, we had a great date,
but don't really understand why she's ghosted me. But anyway,
so I work in it with a big animal guy
and I was volunteering. I was volunteering at the shelter
and that's where I met her, and you know, we
were like kind of talking just casually, and all of
a sudden, like three dogs just climbed up on us,
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and I don't know, it just felt kind of happen.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Me and I was like, yeah, this might be the girl,
Okay for sure, but yeah, I.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Don't I care her, have this like easy want about her.
And it seems like she likes animals the same way
I do. I mean, she was volunteering. Yeah, I don't know,
it just felt like very casual and easy and ifess
she's pretty funny she's really kind.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
What was the date? So you guys met at the
shelter and you got are playing with dogs? Was that
your date or that's like how you guys started to talk.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Well, it's kind of funny. Well that's actually how we met.
But then our date was also going to the shelter there.
I thought instead of like going out to dinner, it
would be kind of fun to, you know, go to
the shelter and have a little picnic there. You know,
there's just like glass ceiling stuff with all these plants,
and it's like really good natural light. And anyways, I
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brought a blanket into food, and you know, the dogs
just kind of went on a date with us.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Yeah, okay, dogs. Anything better?
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Did you guys kiss? Was she flirting back? Did you
feel like you guys had serious chemistry?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
I thought so until there was a parrot in the
room and it s tweaked feed me right when I
was about to kiss her. I thought it was funny
if she got to, but.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
There was a parrot too wild. I love this plates Okay.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Yeah, it's really fun. Yeah. So I don't know, I
just feel like she might be ghosting me because we
were laying on the blanket, and you know how it
is sometimes like a year a little close, and I
forget that her hair is much longer than mine and
how to navigate that. And at one point she tried
to get up and I didn't know my elbow was
on her hair and it yanked a lot of her
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hair out, and I don't know. I felt very bad
and not like fully what she did yell, and then
the dogs started barking. And then remind you that the
parrots just said what it sted up with that it
was kind of a really big collapse of the date,
and its kind of just like that the date was over.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Yeah, your hair gets stripped out, and so it was
after that the date was over. And did she seem
like okay or did she seem just like upset?
Speaker 3 (02:51):
I think she seemed like she was trying to hide
how upset she was. Okay, but you know, before the
hair pulling on, everything was perfect. So I just don't
get it. I thought she was I thought she was
really into it, like I was.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
So okay, Well, we'll see if we can figure it out.
Then Trent is on the phone and he's getting ghosted
by a woman named Kara. So we're about to call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Trent,
why don't you break down your situation for us again
real quick?
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Yeah. So I met the girl Kara at the animal
shelter where we built were volunteering after on a date,
ironically to have a picnic at that same animal shelter.
He's going great, We're hanging out and we were laying
on the on a blanket that I brought and right
at work going to kitcher, a parish squeaked seed me,
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which was I thought hilarious. And she goes to get
up and I didn't realize that her hair was under
my elbow and it pulled a lot of her hair out.
And now she hasn't talked to me.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
So okay, Trent, this sounds so ridiculous. He just like
pictured this moment happening. I'm so sorry. Are you ready
for us.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
To call her?
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, may speak to Kara please?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Yeah? This is she? Who's this?
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Hi Kara? How are you? This is a radio show.
It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Hi Kara, I'm Nina.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Hi, I'm Victoria and my.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Name is Jubell. How are you.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Wait? This is the radio? Okay, I wasn't ready for this.
The radio is calling.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Yeah yeah yeah. We do a segment on the show
that's called the First Date follow Up. That's where if
you go out on a date with somebody and end
up ghosting them, that person can email us to get
you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
And we got an email about you from somebody.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Oh my gosh, okay, you have.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Any idea who would email us orre you're currently ghosting somebody?
Speaker 5 (04:44):
Oh god, this is uncomfortable. I mean maybe would it
be Trent?
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Probably?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Congratulations, that is correct, it is Trent. Would you mind
telling us why you're ghosting Trent?
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Yeah? Yeah, sure, so huh okay.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
I basically I overheard to I don't know how much
she told you, but I overheard two of the other
volunteers we were volunteering with sprain about Trent while I
was on the date with him, and they were whispering
about how like he's done this before, like this whole
indoor picnic was not like he just does it with
cute volunteers, And honestly, I don't want to be the
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next like Pool in his little you know, shelter dating tour.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
So what did he do?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
He like it was very.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Sweet, right, like he created this like indoor picnic at
the shelter and like, you know, it's beautiful, like the
animals are there, it's it's chill, it's there's you.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Had a blanket, there's food. It was very sweet, the
dogs are there. But yeah, like I heard the volunteers like.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Talking about it and be like, yeah, he does this
all the time like every cute new volunteer, and like
I that that feels crummy, right, Like I'm like, I
don't need to be the next person he's because he
was acting like this was, you know what an inspired idea,
right like it was just.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
For meat, like the first time he's ever done it.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Exactly exactly, and I'm like, nope, that feels something.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Little red flag's going off.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
So what a move. So he's just like an animal's
shelter player. Yeah all right, Well, thank you for telling
us why you're ghosting. And I appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Kara, Yeah, thanks, hopefully it's couple.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Yeah, And I also let you know that Trent is
on the phone and has been listening and wants to
talk to you.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
What what?
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Okay, what he's here now?
Speaker 1 (06:48):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Hi, Hi?
Speaker 3 (06:53):
So you ghosted me over that.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
Well, I don't want to be like indoor picnic girl
numbers seven you know, all.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Right, fine, but look I've done the picnics before, but
that's because it's a cool spot. But I didn't want
you to feel that way, like I actually liked you.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
Oh okay, sure, mister saint, like of shelter dates, like
a creditor praying on volunteers. Do you have a punch cart,
you know, like ten picnics and you get a free
cat or something.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
I don't know, this is katy.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
I can't help. Oh come on, I can't help if
that's my move. But you can't go to guys for
creating perfect TV moments.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
Okay, maybe the moments were perfect, but like your motive
was not, Like are you kidding me?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I still don't even know why you like me? What
makes me so different? Like? Are you into me just
because I ghosted you?
Speaker 5 (07:42):
Like I'm suddenly not available and so you can't move
on to the next girl to set the picnic up
for No.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
No, it's just like it's the way you were with
the animals. You don't just play with them, and you
see them, and you remembered every dog's name, their story,
even the one that was nervous around men kind of
looked at me the same way. And I know that
sounds like a TV moment, but look, I wasn't just
another guy at the shelter. That's when I knew you
weren't just you know a moment you were you.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
Oh that was disgustingly sweet, Like I'm pretty sure you
say that to all the girls, And yeah, I don't
know what to say.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Man, Look, you can say whatever you want and I'll
take it, just as long as you don't ghost me.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
I don't know, Like, how can I trust you?
Speaker 5 (08:32):
You know, Like it's very sweet what you just said
to me, but it like doesn't how do I know
it's sincere? I mean all the other volunteers are like
know your playbook, that you've done this before.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
I've never taken another volunteer on a second date. And
how about you trust me? And so I give you
a reason not to trust me?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
All right? So you like what you sleep with them
all the first dates and.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
Then you got what you need and you don't call
them back, or or they just like, don't ghost you.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
So like now now I'm a challenge. That's why you
want to go on second date with me?
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Definitely don't to them on the first date because that
would be in public and.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
You are funny, That's that's for sure. This is so weird.
Speaker 5 (09:13):
I can't believe for all the radio doing this, I
don't I don't know what to say.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
I'm like, I feel weird, like I don't know you.
I feel they were.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Like and you can say whatever you want. I could
take it.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
I promise, Kara, would you like another date? Which one
won't pay for it?
Speaker 5 (09:30):
Maybe, but like no, no picnics, no shelter, and if
I hear you've used the same move again, like honestly.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
I am, I'm sticking the dogs on you. Okay, alright,
that is.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
Good deal, but only if I can keep castanova.
Speaker 5 (09:47):
Okay, yeah, see this is why wouldn't need self respect? Fine, yes,
I will give you another chance.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Okay, this is perfect.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
It's a movie. But she was kind of you know,
tying can the whole thing, like, I can't help it
if I do TV romantic style.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Date because you're so smooth.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Okay, So I can't help that I might be a
helpless romantic and I take her on TV dates, TV
level romantic dates, and Sarah thought it was kind of
funny to call me Casanova, and I actually love it,
and I want that to be my nickname going forward.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
All right, well, congratulations Casanova, you got a second date.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Hey, Kara, I promise you will not regret this, Okay.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
I can't wait for you to prove it to me.