Bad Dates & Being a Good Mom in Hollywood feat. Chelsea Tavares

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.
She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children and the
man of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.
She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was
a good woman who always made good choices. We're good
mom's bad choices, you single mom, who said, But the

(00:20):
patriarchy shared all their bad choices and sound out. They
weren't so bad after all, we're experts. Overshairs and your
new bestie. Sit back and near the ride. I can do,
I can do.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
Mone Welcome back to good mom's bad choices. I'm Erica
and I'm Mela. Happy hump day, bitches.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
Happy motherfucking hump day. We're back in the girl cave.

Speaker 1 (00:49):
In good moms, Good mommies.

Speaker 3 (00:52):
Bueno mammies, Bueno mommy.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
Hi, Hi, how are you. Today's just it's been interesting.
But I'm good. I'm here, I'm alive, I'm breathing. What's interesting?

Speaker 4 (01:05):
You know?

Speaker 2 (01:06):
Boyfriends, daughters, baby daddies just all just hitting me from
all angles.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
Oh wow, hey bitch boom, heye, bitch boom boom. Okay, yeah,
so now you're gonna friend. I need to smoke this blunt.

Speaker 2 (01:18):
At the beginning of the episode, I was like, you
need to roll that blunt now, okay with that?

Speaker 3 (01:22):
Now, okay, let me get my aromatic true rap actually
have one right here.

Speaker 1 (01:28):
True wraps are always easier because I don't have to
gut it in.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
I fucking love true raps. Make it simple for the moms.
Please just gut it out, have it ready to go
and roll that motherfucker up.

Speaker 1 (01:38):
Please. Now I'm gonna shure how I do it in
the road because I have a little bit of water.

Speaker 3 (01:41):
I'm gonna show you how you do it in a
quickie when your friend's pressing you do it.

Speaker 1 (01:46):
Now.

Speaker 3 (01:48):
Time me, Well, we have a guest. Let's let's not shat.
Let's introduce our guests.

Speaker 2 (01:56):
I'm excited to introduce to the good Mom's one O
good Mama's Mama seat the cave.

Speaker 1 (02:03):
Bueno, Mama, Mama.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
I'm excited to introduce to the show mother actress, singer.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
And just overall baby Chelsea Tavaris. That's where camera. Oh wait,
and I also have to say and local Valley girl.

Speaker 5 (02:30):
Yes, Sally Black Girls from the Valley is her first
black girl black girl Valley connect no on the show Jessica.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
Who's Jessica. Is Jessica holding her cup? Oh? Just Jessica Valley. Okay, fine,
she just saw she just had a baby. Fun she
didn't just have no baby.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
Don't know that she really had a baby. But Jessica
left the valley, so we're still holding true. We all
still live in the valley.

Speaker 3 (03:03):
Me and Chelsea literally just had a conversation that we
will never leave the valley because why we're going to La.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
We're gonna live in the valley. If I'm gonna leave,
I have to leave this whole state. You wouldn't go
to Malibu or the beaches. Okay, listen, and now if
somebody was like, here's a Malibu house, like expeditiously, but
it's just like I can't do La. Like it's it's
too oh shit, it's too busy. It's just too busy here.

Speaker 4 (03:31):
You know.

Speaker 3 (03:32):
I thought about Malibu recently and I'm like, would be
too white, and it'd be really boring, could be old
and stuff, and it'd be like, why is she here.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
Since I bought a house down the street, Betty, it's boring, boring.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
All this in five years when we get on and
I'll be like why we're gonna be totally Malibu.

Speaker 2 (03:52):
We're Malibuians, so I don't know. We have our own
black community.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
There is there a Malibu black community. Listen, They're like
in the hills, They're like hidden. There's definitely some black
even still there after the fires. There, I just be water.
You got in, Chelsea, I got in, I got in.
Are you okay? Are you fine? I don't know. I
just did it burn And that was like this is

(04:19):
your p No, but that's fine. But I was scared
about that. I was like, I saw a lot of
pigeon feathers, pigeon feathers. I was like, I should get
out of it.

Speaker 3 (04:26):
If if everyone's just tuning in and listening update, nobody
really gets in the water in La since the fire
is because every other week they put out a morning
that says bacteria bacteria in.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
The water don't go on like the whole ocean. Like
I just feel like maybe they're lying. I don't know
about that.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
What I have gotten the water, But I try to
go a little bit farther. The farther west that she
went to Zuoma, that's pretty far.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
It's righting some Malibu Zooma's past Paradise Cove. I feel
like they're altogether zoomar right next to each other. Like,
so you try to go like to Santa Barbara, I
mean or like or like Tunington Beach, right, Okay, Huntington Beach, Hidington,
but then I don't know. I did go to I

(05:12):
did Huntington the other way right in Manhattan Beach. That's
what That's what. I went to, Manhattan Beach. That's when
I went to Manhattan. I went to No. Her Mosta
Beach is where I went. Her Most Do we even
live here? And Mossamon aren't oh Sea? Oh I did.

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I also went to the beach and oc because my
daughter had a what's it called a volleyball tournament out
there that was super clean. I haven't been to the beach.
It was cold California and they're cold ass beaches cold
yesterday and sequal to my own and now it's really hot.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
The water is you know what California Pacific Ocean beaches
are for fucking children who have like, don't give a
fuck about cold ship because I'm like and white people
who are white in the water as a child like
this because I want Cambridge. The Pacific is cold as ship.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
I don't like the Pacific or the Atlantic, both of them.
I be like, Mommy, let's get in. I'm like, I'm like,
Mommy needs to get.

Speaker 3 (06:07):
Extra hot first. I think I read a research or drawn.
I think I read research on this or I don't know,
I'm the research. Dads are supposed to get in the
pool and in the ocean, the moms.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
You're not supposed to be swimming. Last time my baby
daddy got on the ocean, I fucking drowned. So he's
not even allowed to swim. You can swim, you can swim.
He almost drowned me trying to save him. God, it's like,
I don't know. Dad.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
Literally in front of my daughter, I was like, you're
gonna I'm like, wow, this is where it ends. I
get killed by you in the water. I'm trying to
save you in front of our daughter. That's so stupid anyway, Chelsea.
So if you guys don't know Chelsea, some people might
know you from all Americans.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
Some people might know you from Nickelodeon. You've been doing
this shit for a long ass.

Speaker 2 (06:52):
Time, girl, Like from like how old were you started acting?

Speaker 1 (06:55):
And it was like I like it started doing like
print work. Okay, this is gonna sound funny. I was
like thirteen months Like I know that sounds really humid.
I started my career relate. I started like print work
and like, yeah, like Disney catalogs, and like I.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
Did a lot of Disney catalogs. Yeah, I had a
lot of print work when I was a kid.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
Henny Robinson's may yeah yeah, and you're just like that kid,
like look.

Speaker 2 (07:22):
At the next kid that says tomil with like the
other white kid like meeting their quota.

Speaker 1 (07:29):
You're like wow, like this, thanks for accepting me. And
then commercials and then just different guest stars, and like
I was like eight, definitely was like in those law
shows like The Hood Girl, you know what I mean,
Like The Hood Girl Girl. I remember eight years old.
I swear it was a show called the District and

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I had to be My name was like Angie Dayton
and I had to witness a murder and it got
corn rolls in my hair. Yeah. Oh yeah, my my
my parents, my dad beat my mom. California has got
to stop. It's like Hollywood cast. You know.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
My on my my first big thing that I got,
my guest star, I was on Ali McBeal.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
Shut your mouth. Yeah, oh my god.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
I was on Ali McBeal and I was casted as
the girl who basically am like being teased at school
because I'm like overly developed and so like I have
like I have Like yeah, I had like titties and
like they put like they put like fake tits on
me though I put like these I was really twelve.
They pult like these like fake jelly boobs in my

(08:37):
bra And then I had to go into the bathroom
and they were like slut whoor like written all over
the mirrors and I had to go in there and
like be sad.

Speaker 1 (08:44):
And I'm like why did they do this to a
black girl? Like why did they do this to me? Yeah,
And now I think about it.

Speaker 2 (08:50):
When I played young, so Ali McBeal had a friend
who was black.

Speaker 1 (08:53):
I can't remember her name. The actress.

Speaker 2 (08:54):
She was a lawyer on the show with like Ali,
and I was playing her as like a young like
she was having a flashback of her youth, like being
traumatized because as an adult she's very well and plumptuous. So,
oh my god, to look up that episode, I'd probably
need to look it up too. I wanted to check
my acting chop set.

Speaker 1 (09:09):
Did I get that job? Brilliance? I was oscar worthy.
I need to add that to my.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
Real Yeah, I was just you know, I was going
to ask you to, like, because you're your sister also acts,
you come do you come on like an acting family?

Speaker 1 (09:21):
Yeah? I mean my mom got us in the industry
when we were little. Okay, we had a childhood. We
had a childhood. Okay, we were in girl Scouts. We
were still in like public school. Okay, we had a
great time. But yeah, like, my mom's a singer songwriter
and also like an artist. My dad was in music distribution,
and we just started to act. Yeah, my sister's on Disney,

(09:45):
she's on a How about your daughter eleven? Okay does
she meet? She watched Zombies? Are you kidding? My sister's
Kylie Eliza. Oh geez, let me write this down. I
got she lives off Spring up. She's there's there's only like,
oh oh that's not that one.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
I'm getting Descendants, Okay, Zombies, that's all. I watch them both.

Speaker 1 (10:08):
But she's in all four she plays Eliza. Oh my god,
my child, Okay, help me with this.

Speaker 3 (10:13):
No really, because my child makes me watch this ship
and I hate it's just like I fucking I'm like,
am I a bad mom?

Speaker 1 (10:21):
I'm really gonna get it? And they're like they're singing
in there, and there's this guy. Who's this guy? This
is the one everyone likes. I know. That's that's Descendants.
That's Ascendant. Yeah, that's I have a picture of him. No,
that's But don't they cross? Yeah? I think they do?
I think No. Zombies is the one where there's the
zombies five full castroom. Okay, yeah, I don't know Malakai
Alakai Barton, You're right, Okay, look up Zombies Rich, Like,

(10:42):
how does your sister, dude, she is twenty nine years
old and she's playing with your high school se yes,
we say away, I played like seventeen lesbian, sixteen year
old lesbian for years and like she has two kids too,
my sister. Oh wow wow. Okay, now wait till to
a load of this ship. Yeah, can you call it?
Can you call your sister? Can we go to the
line mak a shoot, no, yes, we could be cool.

(11:02):
We Disneyland. I feel like I'm with Beyonce. These little
girls cross, Like seriously, no, the Zombies is a huge,
but my sister. Yes, and then we were we just
went to a party and a girl she was she
was nineteen years old, so I don't know, but she was.
She's starting to cross the nineteen year old. She's such
as a young soul.

Speaker 3 (11:22):
Since I was like, oh my god, wait till I
tell great this ship.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
And we all sing, We all sing my I have
another little sister, Hallie. We all sing and act and
trying to make it, trying to make it. You're making
it knowing it. So okay.

Speaker 2 (11:38):
So since you've been acting, I know you like had
like a you were Nickelodeon for a while too, and
I always see like, maybe not so much a Nickelodeon.
I see how like Disney kids get like kind of stuck. Yeah, like,
is how has that been? I guess departing from the
the I guess like I wouldn' want to say the circus,
but like the circuit of being in that space of

(11:59):
like Nickelodeon teen and then trying to like expand beyond that,
because even now you're playing like a high school student,
so like trying to play older roles, trying to break
out of the teen circuit.

Speaker 1 (12:12):
Is that challenging for you as an actor. It just depends. Obviously,
you get so many auditions and you're just kind of
like whatever one's six, you're just trying to book. Yeah,
but then I think at a certain point you just
have to try to shape your career. And obviously you
want to make money, but like, I don't want to
keep doing I was like, I don't want to keep
doing the Nickelodeon roles. I'm over this, you know. I

(12:33):
wish I would get cast as the high school student forever. No.
I mean it's it's good. I'm like, but sometimes I'm like,
I don't know how long I want to have backpack
my guess you guys the first period, I'm over it.
I'm over it, but I'm blessed. I think now I'm
getting more adult roles, like I think in Animal Kingdom,

(12:53):
I was shocked. I'm like, oh, you guys looked at
me to play a lawyer. I'm like, oh, I got
to have wine and I fake wine. But I'm like
I got to, you know, like being more of an adult.
So I guess it's not that hard. It wasn't that hard.
I think you just have to pick the rules and like, like,
updo myself?

Speaker 2 (13:12):
Is there pressure to like how you present yourself publicly
on social media? Like is there like a monitoring of
you in that way?

Speaker 1 (13:19):
She can't be a high school student in real life.
I don't give a fuck. But I mean now I don't.
I'm before. No, I've always cussed. I think I'm just
a free spirit. I mean, don't get me wrong. I'm
not going to Nickelodeon, like what's up motherfuckers? You know?
But but I think now I think, yeah, you see
my page, I mean smoke a little bit. I'm not

(13:41):
promoting like but kids. Yeah, but yeah, I don't think so.
I don't think so. Wait is all American about high
school sudents? Definitely? Okay, definitely, I didn't know. But yeah,
I don't think I write I don't think you do.

Speaker 2 (13:58):
I was just curious at some point if anything in
your career, maybe not even now, maybe like when you
were on.

Speaker 1 (14:03):
What was were you in Nickelodeon? Was Instagra? Yes? Like
was there like I feel like, oh, there was no Instagram. Okay,
I was gonna say Nickelodeon. I definitely felt pressure. I
was only like token black girl. I was on I Fabulous,
and then I was also on just Jordan but that
was a black show and we had Kids' Choice Awards.
We didn't have. There was Twitter maybe later, Yeah, we didn't.

(14:25):
There was just pressure to like be on like pop
magazine or something like. There was not. I don't know.
It was different the industry trains like, so you had privacy.
We had privacy, you had.

Speaker 3 (14:37):
The life, you got offset and you had a real life.
You didn't have to worry about it blending and being
all in one because.

Speaker 1 (14:42):
There was not like, oh, how many followers do you have?
There wasn't that, so that that was super different. It
was more just like booking and you were in the
room so much more like going in the room. Oh,
I just love it. I do like auditioning. It's just
it's nerve wracking. But it's also like they can fill
your energy in the room. They can give you notes
on the spot. Oh my god, I mean before the

(15:04):
pan it's changed so much since the pandemic. I hate
self tapes because I've been auditioning since. I mean, I
took a lot.

Speaker 2 (15:09):
When I started Good Moms, I stopped acting, but before
that I was I was a working actor and I
was auditioning a lot in person, which at the time
I did love, but I took it for granted because
it was fucking annoying having to drive to Santa Monica
four pm, you know, like and then like get to
Hollywood at like five pm and then.

Speaker 1 (15:27):
Be like, why can't you make it? Yeah exactly, I'm late.

Speaker 2 (15:30):
And then now it being so much of self tape
and there's just like literally you can't get any notes,
you can't make any adjustments, just like I hope I
did my best, and some actors love it because it's like,
well I can do it a thousand takes.

Speaker 1 (15:41):
No, I don't like doing a thousand takes. I'm freaking out.
Then criticize yourself over I do that. There I look stupid.
And then I'm like building life. You should see how
I build my camera, like put books underneath the lighting.
I'm like, ah, it's just too much, but you just
pray they understand. I understand and they see it. But
it just changed. I'm still like working and stuff, it's

(16:02):
just different, like even like verticals now.

Speaker 6 (16:05):
Like.

Speaker 1 (16:07):
Trying to figure that out, but now we just have
to create our own shit. So I'm getting more confident
at that. I fuck it, Oh creating your own stuff? Yes, well,
have her friends like are fun? Even you guys like
what like this, By the way, is this my camera?
This is my cat's your camera? Okay. I've been wanting
to be on the show forever forever. I listen to

(16:28):
them every single freaking day. When I was engaged and
I have a baby. He's five now, and I was like,
oh my god, I gotta get out of here. And
I think you guys actually help. I'm so serious.

Speaker 2 (16:42):
It's like this, I feel like I need to gohip.

Speaker 1 (16:44):
You're encouraging moms to leave your baby daddies. Now you're
encouraging us to leave unhappy situations. I'll take credit for that,
right yeah, because no one's leaving a happy situation. Yeah. Yeah.
And so therapy, we we figured everything out. I we
did all we could.

Speaker 2 (17:02):
And as women do I think this women? I mean,
we're really we don't just walk away.

Speaker 1 (17:08):
No, we tried. We've tried everything, yeah, like literally everything. Yeah. Yeah,
but you guys, you guys pushed the so well, well,
thank you.

Speaker 2 (17:19):
I'm happy that we were able to encourage you to
choose yourself yeah, and be yourself.

Speaker 3 (17:23):
I know this is supposed to be happening for like
a long time coming. I've been I've been seeing in
the d ms for like everything.

Speaker 1 (17:28):
I'm like, you guys like to come on the goddamn show. No,
like you guys also made me feel like, you guys
are fun. You guys are like so fun. You didn't
lose yourself as a mother. You still are like young spirited,
and you know, I went to go like to mom

(17:50):
things and I was like, I can't do this. Ship
like we were like. I was like, oh my god,
my kid cuss the other day. She's like, oh, dear,
like you justn't catch them yet. And I was just like, hey,
I don't want to do this. But Mom's like, you
guys are fun. Oh thank you?

Speaker 3 (18:07):
Okay, I appreciate that, because, yeah, the mom events are
not ideal generally.

Speaker 1 (18:11):
I'm like, how the fuck did I how? I'm hot?
Mine in this club? Alright? I feel too young to
be in the club, but there we are real moms.
You have moms who make bad choices? Have you made?
Have you made any bad choices this week?

Speaker 4 (18:21):
Chelsea?

Speaker 1 (18:37):
Okay? Well I did party as you should, and I
did stay up all I meant to go home. I
meant to go home. I was kind of two am okay,
I'm damn okay, mom, sorry, she spent he spent the
night at my mom's. Like I'm I was in the

(18:59):
study at first. I was in the studio at first,
and then I went to my friend's like little mansion party.
You were the vibe and I was in the pool.
All I didn't sleep. I didn't sleep, and then but
I picked him up. That's all that matters. One twenty
three pm or PM. Yeah, yeah, I didn't think I

(19:20):
was like ready to go to a great night, Like
you know when you feel shaky and fucked up? Oh do?
I So that was I try to act normal.

Speaker 2 (19:31):
Right, I feel like trying to like normal for your mom.

Speaker 1 (19:34):
Came on it, I'm excited. Yeah yeah, I made a
shot class Nate. We made a hit. Then I went,
did you have fun?

Speaker 6 (19:45):
Now?

Speaker 1 (19:46):
I have fun? That's all matters. And I still feel
like I'm like twenty one. Seriously, I feel like I'm
I'm no, how long have you been single? Like from
your okay, child's like five years? Okay, but I love it.
Like at first I was like, no, I'm going to
find a husband. I was like why why not? Like that?
But like I thought I needed to or that. I mean,

(20:10):
I would love a partner, the right partner, but if not,
I like, I love being in the streets. Yeah, I
love the streets. I love just being by myself. I
want to listen to the same song so many times
over and over, and I want to pay. I want
to do things like this, like cute things and just
I like being by myself right now until it's right.
But I was I dated? How did you date? How

(20:32):
does how does one like you?

Speaker 2 (20:34):
Who is recognizable? And like do the men recognize you
because they do the watching, the glotiing to the watch
All America?

Speaker 1 (20:39):
Some I like people that don't know or if they do,
just like be don't be to be weird. Yeah. I
definitely dated a lot of opportunists. But do you date
like through like is it dating apps or you know,
I try to do RYO RYA is bullshit? Yeah I
did it once. Did you meet anyone I met? Not
as a shoke? You met people in person? I not

(21:00):
anyone in person off person. So Michael from the show
from All American about you were putting someone on the
may of Blast, I'm like Michael from RYA. Michael, he
plays oh my God, not Spencer. Oh my god, Jordan
Jordan Baker, and he was like, you used to get
out there. I was like, well, I'll just just date.

(21:22):
I'll just like meet somebody outside. He's like, no, no, no,
good on Mariya so a minute now. And it was
just like like I matched with like Walley, the five
black guys that are on there. It was like so random, right,
I was like, Okay at that moment, we were like,
look like this, did you go out with him? No?
We just talked on the phone. It is great, like

(21:42):
he's nice and whatever. But I met like three three guys.
One was fucking nuts and crazy and he already was
trying to be in my d ms on on Instagram.
Oh so then he found you on Ryan. I was
like I was over and I already already my spirit
already said no. But I was like maybe I'm I
told you like, maybe I'm being a bitch. Maybe I'm

(22:02):
what's the I'll just try it. And he was immediately
was just like it's like, how are you, Like, I'm good,
I'm shooting a movie in two days, don't give a fuck,
Like nobody ask that just you know, so one definitely
and talking him talking about the show so much like
all im and then asking, oh, is your character going

(22:23):
to be like bye, because like I could be I
could be your boyfriend and the ship. I'm serious. And
I was like, because I'm the casting director on the
show that was helping him with self tapes, like oh god,
you were going to his house and reading for him.
He was like, it's gonna be so great. We're gonna
be a couple on the rise. He's like, this week
I broke up with him. He's like, I could have

(22:44):
been a power couple. I couldn't. No, never gonna happen.
So it was a lot of like that. And I
think some people like the idea of me maybe or
maybe I can be like the stepping stone were there,
like to be like Brad Pitt or something. I don't know.
So I'm just like and I am very helpful, like
I love helping people, but I'm not the wrong motherfucker

(23:06):
like not that. Yeah, And I mean I did then
I did it really really sweet amazing guys, Like I
met one really nice guy, Riya, and we're friends.

Speaker 3 (23:15):
So I just you know, have you dated seriously since
you broke up with your ex fiance?

Speaker 1 (23:20):
I thought I did, And then only you only you
were dating seriously, No, no, I was. But he wanted
to propose to me right like it was like four
months in Paris. I said, don't do that, Like, don't.

Speaker 3 (23:34):
He told you? He told you, yes, thank God, so
you could tell me don't do that.

Speaker 1 (23:38):
So but then he left me in Paris. Whoa, he said,
let's go to Paris. I'm gonna propolog you said, don't
propose this story. How the fuck's really bad? He thought
he was like the fun Police. It was really bad.
Oh no, And he was definitely showing everybody like I'm
taking her to Paris, I'm doing all this amazing things
for her and love bombing me. But I thought it
was maybe I'm not I don't know how to receive love.

(24:00):
Maybe right.

Speaker 3 (24:01):
Bitches love to make question themselves when their gud says.

Speaker 1 (24:05):
Nah, yes, my God. To me, it's like, no, bitch,
it's him, it's him. Yeah. And my attraction wasn't even
there for him all the way. But I was like, oh,
the conversation was really nice. I thought at that point
nobody would like me as a mother. So he was like,
I love that. Your mother was like you do, Like whatever,
can I.

Speaker 2 (24:24):
Just milk there's no way faster into a mother's of
pants than you telling them that you love us as
much as.

Speaker 1 (24:34):
Taking off right now like you do. I still have
a little milk in my book. Guy, guys are into
it's lack tape. I'm gonna go there. There's so many stories, okay, anyway, whatever.
So he was getting really serious, like really fast. But
I was like, oh, like he was doing all the
things that the other one wasn't. Like everything was he

(24:57):
was very organized. He was planning trips like a man's ma, right,
but not emotionally there also just a narcissist and very
insecure as far as we went there, as I don't know,
I thought was my dream in Paris, like you know,
if it's looking at yeah, I should be like what
do you doing? We should be falling in love and
getting lost. And he was just like the fucking fun please.

(25:20):
I felt like it was with the principal and I
was just like, it's okay, we can go with the itinerary.

Speaker 3 (25:25):
But also like, let's see if the virgo is saying
that he was so strict with the itinerary, what the
fuck sign was he?

Speaker 1 (25:33):
That's weird? Whatever? And oh my god, we went with
some we met up with some cast members. I'll just
say that. And you know, I'm a free spear, but
I'm also very loyal, like I was with him, I'm
not going to be like. I don't know what he thought,
but I think I think he was projecting. Basically, he

(25:56):
assumed that I had a threesome with somebody. I would
never First, I'm not a threesome girl like that at all.
I'm a free swear but I'm not that. And and
with the wrong castmates, please, like every it's gonna happen
at all at all. And he assumed. And I was like,

(26:19):
what are you talking about? That is a specific assumption specific.
I was like, in what way you have I locate?
Like what is like he thought you did it in Paris,
in Parish, like while he was there something No, yeah,
kind of so so he thought you had time between
him going to wherever the quickie quick three. Yes, I'm
like this, I'm like, I'm that would have been a
good story.

Speaker 5 (26:38):
I was.

Speaker 1 (26:38):
It was on New Year's My whole dress was stunning, Okay,
was like he got mad at the club and I
met these beautiful black girls from like Amsterdam. She was like,
going through a divorce. She was like, stick with me, honey.
I was like, it's like I kind of want to this.
It's like your boyfriend. He looks mad and angry. I
was like, I know. I'm like and I did true,

(27:00):
so I'm even more happy, right, I'm like, I'm like
I felt happy, but then I'm like sad. He's just
over there. I'm like hey, Like I was like, do
you want to pray together? Like, no, you didn't on mushrooms?
So every yes rooms? Was he a Christian? Yeah? Tracks
that tracks for mushrooms at the club. It's a while.
This shouldn't be this, it shouldn't be that he's angry

(27:21):
about other things. And I'm like we're in like we paid,
like we're well. Also he paid, but he also old
people money, so he should have been paid. Appreciate. You
shouldn't have me out in Paris and the old people whatever.
So he was super wrong, absolutely wrong, and he left
the country and left you and left me in there,

(27:42):
left me that blessing.

Speaker 3 (27:43):
This guy.

Speaker 1 (27:43):
I don't get this, get this. He left the country
and I remember my dad was like, don't you leave us? No, no, no, Dad, no, no, no,
let him please let him please don't know, don't come
knocking on my door. And I had the best day.
Embarrassed by myself. I was like this a little scared
at first, It's like I can do this. But then
I get back this ship up, I get back on

(28:05):
the plane. Right, pissed my fucker. Right, I had to
shoot all American. Okay, this motherfucker was in and he
was an extra in the scene, and I was like, this,
you should not have shown up that day. Absolutely, why
did you wait? Had he ever worked on the show before?

(28:26):
I was an extra? And why are you dating the extra? Please? Please?
And he was assisting and something. It doesn't It was dumb.
So then you have to see him after he left
you in Paris, you doing yes, and then and then
he knocks at my door like I'm sorry. I was like,
I don't care, get out of my dressing room. This
gets out going back to craft service where you don't

(28:48):
have a dressing rick. God. So that was wow. Yeah,
so that was like, I'm traumatized. That is well, thank
you for sharing intense. I didn't think I was going
to share that today at all. So I mean, do
you like or intimidated by your success?

Speaker 2 (29:05):
Because imagine like being first of all, spending all his
money to get you to Paris when he owes my
people money.

Speaker 1 (29:10):
So he's so many cases trying to borrowing money from
cast members and the heads up there. I don't know
how he got. He must be somebody's cousin. He just
knows how to finagle his way. He's very good at it.
But just like seeing you in your scene as he's
an extra, what does that do to a man?

Speaker 3 (29:29):
He was asking to for his ego to be stomped on,
because why didn't you even put yourself in this position?

Speaker 1 (29:34):
It was all It was odd. But I do think
like some men like I definitely have to be with
somebody super secure and I don't ever want to make
anybody feel you know, less than me. And I also
don't want to dim my light either. I dated a
lot well, the father of my kid, he didn't. He
wasn't like that, like he was let me be myself.

(29:55):
I think that's why we connected so much, and he
just he wasn't threatened by that. But the other ones,
they say they're not at first, but then like they
just they love my energy. Okay, if your energy come,
my god, I love your fucking energy. You're different, you're
a different rib and then vibes are just wow, you

(30:17):
just yeah. So then when they fall in love with me,
I think not all, but some they fall in love
with me and then they're like they don't like that
energy or they don't like what you know. You know,
when you guys walk in the room, people come to
you like just it doesn't matter if you're wearing a
fucking bag, like you just have like a bright light,
and they don't. I'm sorry some of them didn't. I'm like, well,

(30:39):
you just walk, that's what they do. Just be better
and fun. Do you do you like to date actors?
Is that like something that you are. Are you anti
at this point or you're open to it? I'm not anti.
I just haven't Okay, I'll say this, I'm not really
interested in dating the upcoming actor. Is the ones that

(31:00):
are a little green, like thirsty you want more season? Yeah,
because you know not because they're not pressed like like
the new ones are like yeah, I'm just you know,
they'll say things, Oh god. One guy was like, you're
right back, my reps are calling. Just take the phone
at the phone. The phone call. I don't heard about that,
you know, it's like, yeah, Hollywood does want to red carpet.

(31:23):
It's worth a screening. It's just right carb it free car,
free popcorn. Just sit down, go to the movies. Yeah.
Like I just think it's like that, Like I love
people being excited for their career, like, oh my god,
I booked something. Of course, let's go celebrate. But I don't. Yeah,
I'm Hollywood is a strange place.

Speaker 3 (31:41):
Is like the aspiring actor is a very specific like
prototype that only if you're from the valley or you've lived.

Speaker 1 (31:49):
In Hollywood, ad Jason, that you are very You see
them and they're at every bar, every restaurant. They're you're
a server, you're there, you're sober, they're your bartender talking
about like yeah, have all back, like my third one?
Yeah for the extra role, like you guys going out
for a I've never really I've tried to date no

(32:11):
like one. And he ended up being gay and a
lot of stuff was going on with him. He ended
up being gay, is gay, and he didn't telling me.
It was holmost for a while, it was like he
was like the holiday. He was like on his path, okay,
but he was obsessed, like obsessed with being famous, like
when I tell you. I went to his apartment and

(32:32):
he had pictures of all of his competition and take
to the wall. I'm going to need to get a blind.
He had printed from IMDb all of his competition and
every black male five ten like room. And I was like,
I was like, am I like what the this is brilliant.

(32:53):
That's insane. But then he also had.

Speaker 2 (32:55):
Pictures of Will Smith everywhere because that was like his
idol and he wanted to be like Will Smith, which
makes a lot of sense, and you know with the
gay with the thing. But I just remember, but he's
never gonna come on now. I was trying to get
her mom, but this won't be a clip. But yeah, no,
he he kind of lost it. He went a little crazy,

(33:17):
like he was talking about the Like one point he
knocked on my door in the middle of the night.

Speaker 1 (33:21):
He had lost it. He was talking about the Luminati
was after him. Why is the Luminati after you?

Speaker 2 (33:25):
I don't know, something strange for some change and some
rolls and he was just it was crazy. And then
fast forward one day I was walking in North Hollywood
with my friend and I walked by and I was like,
and I saw this homeless man walking towards me and
he was like talking, mumbling to himself, and I was like,
I can't say his name, but I was like you
is it you?

Speaker 1 (33:45):
And he looked at me and he was all like hey,
and he I was like, he took him a second.

Speaker 6 (33:51):
I know.

Speaker 1 (33:51):
It was horrible.

Speaker 2 (33:52):
So I think about hot poor baby. I think he
already had mental health obviously issues. And then Hollywood, like
you you introduced mental health issues in Hollywood together, and
like that's the recipe for fucking, fucking disaster.

Speaker 3 (34:03):
Yea, Like, yeah, the aspiration to want to be a star,
it's not a healthy nomination.

Speaker 2 (34:10):
That was one time that I did that. Then actually,
you know what, there was one guy I didn't meet
him on Riot. We met, we matched on ryot, but
we didn't connect because of Ryan. We connected later. You
know I'm talking about I.

Speaker 1 (34:21):
Don't you know, Oh oh god, it's crazy. Maybe wait,
that sounds so familiar. Never here is nuts, He's nuts.
That was a nuts situation.

Speaker 2 (34:38):
And then there was there was one other guy even
cursed out about it, cursed out.

Speaker 1 (34:42):
Because I wouldn't help him with the self tape. And
I was like, exactly the one that.

Speaker 3 (34:46):
You talked about because he wanted he let you give
him head, but he wanted to eat his ass.

Speaker 1 (34:51):
Oh yeah, he didn't do that. He said he was allergic.
He said he needs to take like a really big
he's like growing up big time. Now, remember last about this.

Speaker 3 (35:00):
Somebody heard, He's somebody heard, and then he's told to him.
He told Erica he had a condition where he couldn't
get his dig sucked, but he could get his ass.

Speaker 1 (35:14):
Donate actress. Absolutely wait wait, wait, wait Chelsea condition? What
you wait Chelsea? And I told her, I said, he's lying.
That doesn't make any sense. Let me tell you what
he said. He said he was in town doing a
movie or doing a TV show that actually got really successful.

(35:35):
And that was another thing.

Speaker 2 (35:36):
So he's he's English, but he was talking to me
as an American because he couldn't break he was he
was he was in character all the time because whatever.
So I never even heard him actually with his like
actually how he speaks in person anyway.

Speaker 1 (35:49):
I go to his house or whatever he's wherever he's staying.

Speaker 2 (35:51):
We're hooking up and like it's getting hot and heavy
pulls out his pants and I'm like, all right, he
pulls out let's do it.

Speaker 1 (35:56):
We're going to the woman. I'm going to suck your
dick now, Like no, no, no, no, no, no no,
I can't do that.

Speaker 2 (36:02):
I was like, what He's like, I have a really
I get a bad reaction from saliva saliva and me
and my penis like like, I end up having to
go to the doctor.

Speaker 1 (36:11):
I get like infections and daddad it up. But you
can't can lick my balls? And I was like, oh,
I think saliva.

Speaker 2 (36:23):
Yes, okay, First of all, I want everyone to know
I didn't do it. You're like, are you talking about?

Speaker 1 (36:29):
But why are you going from there? Where do you
go from there? Night ended? I went home fellow this.
I'm like, okay, So I thought, I really can you
tell me the condition? What is it?

Speaker 2 (36:40):
I ended up sharing this on another podcast and they
made it a clip, and apparently one of his former
hoes heard it hauled him and said, you'll never believe it.
Like this girl was saying this thing somebody else has,
somebody else has the same condition as you. She was
fucking fucking she said it to him and he was like,
I can't believe that you would talk.

Speaker 1 (37:00):
He was like seriously mad, Yeah, you have to know
nigga that that is a ridiculous be in tears. What
are you talking about? What condition? What condition is that?
I'm gonna google it right now. One. Yeah, the doctors
that are listening and the peans did well, that's a
weird thing to do. So anyway, I don't date actors. Yeah,

(37:22):
I don't. I don't. You're not making this fun for
I don't want to be for anymore. No, I don't
get mad at me because I don't want to help
you with your self tape ever. Oh yeah, that was
another one that was It was just it's just it's weird, weird.
Can you bring a lighter in here, like irritate? We
need a liner. We really need to smoke on this note.

(37:43):
That's actually so funny. Actors are kind of nuts there.
They're story ladies a little bit, just like they need
like that like so much valid and more of the
men like so much validation.

Speaker 3 (37:53):
Maybe because they're getting rejected a lot, because you have
to have tough skin to go to auditions and keep
going and have the tenacity. But like then you then
you add like narcissism and ego and then they just
like they go they like they have to hype themselves
up and then it's just too am I just.

Speaker 1 (38:07):
Leave it in the room. I got it. You rejected
that secks. Okay, moving on right. That sucks, but you
don't need to talk about it like I'm not like,
yeah girl, I'm not talking about my my my work
like that.

Speaker 3 (38:22):
You know, one thing I will say is Valley Women.
And you can tell me if this is the one
thing at the perk about like growing up in this
space in Hollywood, is I can.

Speaker 1 (38:31):
Spot a fucking hollywooder so quickly? Do you mean like
someone who's not from Hollywood again, like someone was from Hollywood? Yes,
you can. Yes, it's the people that are not from here,
out of the weirdos that come in here and.

Speaker 3 (38:45):
They start saying shit that nobody gives a fuck about.
I'm ding bitches that nobody gives a fuck about.

Speaker 1 (38:50):
Oh yeah. So my extra a friend, she was like
a supermodel, like we're live right.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
Literally the other day I went to this mom event
and my friend invited me two months ago, she sent
me the DM I bought tickets to this MOM event.
I was like, okay, like cool. So it was it
was literally down the street from my house. So I
was like fuck it. She knows that I'm I don't
travel past, you know, four miles from my home. So
we ended up going. I was like, I was kind

(39:14):
of like, I don't really want to go to this shit,
but let me just go.

Speaker 1 (39:17):
I went, bitch.

Speaker 2 (39:18):
First of all, the event was from six to nine pm,
because moms can only be out for three hours. I
get I pull up, there's already it's get there around
like seven thirty. There's already a mom drunk as fuck
stumbling out of this bar. And I'm like, oh shit,
oh to get crazy in here.

Speaker 1 (39:32):
I walk in. I text me, I'm like, bitch, this
is crazy. The moms are lit as fuck. A bunch
of white moms, all white moms. There's a few of
us in there. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (39:41):
Anyway, I come out. We end up leaving, and I
and I come out and my friend she's.

Speaker 1 (39:46):
Like, I want a cigarette, and I was like, no, bitch,
come on. And then some white woman is like, let
her have a cigarette, and she puts it in her
mouth and I'm like, oh my god, I'm going to
sit here and talk.

Speaker 2 (39:54):
So this is the white lady who's not from here,
and this is the point of my story. She's like
the first thing she wants me to No, Katy Perry
is like my best friend when ILL like my best friend,
Like I'm not saying like just a friend, like she's
like my best friend. And I know that no way,
because she she told me about Katy Perry in the
four minutes that I was there.

Speaker 1 (40:16):
I know so much about Katy Perry's life. I was like,
this is not your friend, Katie. That is not your friend, bitch.
I know a lot about you, ho, I know a
lot girl lesbian? What else did she saying? You told me? Yeah, yeah,
she said she's just a little a lot of recording
to Ruby Rose. She is lesbian. Yeah, she's lesbian apparently,
so I saw that.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
Anyway, it's the ones that are not from here that
a can't keep their fucking mouth shut, can't keep a secret,
can't hold one's.

Speaker 1 (40:39):
Have the celebrity mouth.

Speaker 3 (40:41):
You need me to know this, Like why why that
the quickest way to have me like too? You that like,
oh you're those Okay, No I.

Speaker 1 (40:47):
Can That's why it's also hard to date, like like
and I thought in my head, like I get a
small town boy that was a small town blet from
I don't know, like just no, they're horrible too. I't
I did that already.

Speaker 2 (40:58):
I love midwestern men, not a small townsh Where do
you go.

Speaker 1 (41:03):
Where I've met some really nice guys. I'm not gonna
say that I have. I'm like, we'll see, we'll see.
Get a good old blue collar worker. Where hotel? That's
what the old sugar daddies are? Yeah? At this point? Sure, God.
I never what's like a dating no for you, like

(41:24):
on the first date? What's like a red flag that? Okay?
I mean I think it's okay for sharing stories because
I can be like an oversharer. I don't fun, but
like going back and forth about like maybe like one
x over and over, like you're still like I get

(41:44):
sharing stories, but you're just one person. You're just you're
not over it. You're not over it or you're so
mad about that. Also, Oh, you know what I hate
when people act like they're too familiar with you fast,
like like like I don't know, like okay, like somebody

(42:05):
could be like, oh I love orange soda. I love orange.
Are we twins? Oh? God? Go away? Like orange soda?
Does that make us twins? Like that? Damn? Like I
love water? You love water? You're here like like you
like like I'm like, I just that makes me red flag.
It's just like, yeah, you're trying trying too hard to

(42:28):
make a connection. Yeah, maybe that's not red fly may
I'm just being a bitch, but like but it kind
of it also let me.

Speaker 3 (42:33):
It kind of lets you know, like where the other
like the level of women that you usually date.

Speaker 1 (42:38):
Yeah, yeah, I can.

Speaker 3 (42:39):
I can immediately tell when someone's like, oh, this usually
impresses bitches and I'm not that bitch, Like oh, that's
always follows by like how are you again?

Speaker 1 (42:47):
Yes? Yeah, you know what you're talking to someone you're
like how are you again?

Speaker 6 (42:50):
Ye?

Speaker 1 (42:50):
Or like when's your birthday? A wait, like how how old? How?
What's the good age? What's the good age to date?
I'm thirty four, what's what's what do you think is
it for older? Okay? People keep saying that, but then
doesn't matter any who knows it's probably true, does it?
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (43:06):
I mean I dated older ish, I mean my baby
daddy's forty five, you know, and he's you.

Speaker 1 (43:11):
Know, he's he's your older guy. Like so doesn't even
make it, he's not really he's a kid. It always
be a big kid.

Speaker 2 (43:18):
I mean, that's why, that's why I love That's why
I fell in love with him because he was a
big kid. Yeah, but I feel like you have to
find the right older man because they don't want to
date a fucking bore and whose dick might not work
for much longer.

Speaker 1 (43:29):
I did that, and then like they've done that, but
then it's like, then you can date a.

Speaker 2 (43:36):
Younger one and then you got to teach him a
bunch of shit because the amount of times I hear
from my friends like he's younger, but he's mature.

Speaker 1 (43:43):
No, No, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (43:44):
Four says like last four six months, They're like fuck him,
and I'm like, no, I also don't know.

Speaker 1 (43:51):
I don't, that's for sure. I do not. I need
something that's responsible and that has their own life and
that can like lead a household.

Speaker 3 (43:59):
I'm there's no happy, like there's no number. The guys
are so okay. PSA announcement, you guys, there's an emergency
with the men.

Speaker 1 (44:08):
They're fucked up. Somebody said it's a it's a an epidemic,
A bitch, bitch ass nigga epidemic. It's a bit epidemic
and babe. Hey, it's an emergency.

Speaker 3 (44:23):
Bntes call me babeler, Hey, girl, come get me, it's
an emergency.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
Hey, I gotta go. It's a babe Spain.

Speaker 3 (44:35):
Just chext babe, a bitch ass nigga epidemic is accurate
as fuck.

Speaker 1 (44:40):
Yeah, these men are a little a lot of slow. Yeah,
there's a lot of slow men.

Speaker 3 (44:44):
And the most the most disappointing is when you talk
to me and you're like, oh my god, he's smart.
I'm already smart, he's handsome, and then he says the
dumbest shit ever and they're like, just just dig a
little bit deeper into them when they seem smart and
then they're dumb. That is the biggest disappointment, Like why
the why are socialized that way? It's America, it's the
world because patriarchy, he said that they lost.

Speaker 1 (45:05):
It was like a study the seventies, Like can I
hit that? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (45:09):
Like pat I know, like I need that more than
you right now. Bach Okay, I told you, I told
you I got hit from all angle.

Speaker 1 (45:14):
Bitch.

Speaker 3 (45:15):
Okay, my bad, my bad. Here back when's the coming
girls and backwanns to come and keep calm. I know
it's I know it's a I know we're in a.

Speaker 4 (45:22):
B A and E.

Speaker 3 (45:23):
I really they got Hey, this is a B an
E blunt. So if you that's cute and bane blunt.
If you were affected by the bitch ass nigga epidemic.

Speaker 1 (45:31):
We should make a pet your backwood. Babe, this is it.
Are you affected by the B and E emergency? Well
I got something for you. It's a blunt a backwood hotline.
Whe hunt a B an E? Wait? Do you have
people call in?

Speaker 6 (45:48):
No?

Speaker 1 (45:50):
Maybe we need you about the b A like a
really cute like lipstick phone and like looks up girl.

Speaker 3 (45:54):
Oh my god, speaking of the ben B A n
E in current events. We hadn't talked about this, I
don't think. And it's very sad, but we won't have
to spend too much time on it. But it's another
B A and E.

Speaker 1 (46:04):
Oh no, let me wait, let me hit the bafore
hit the bane, hit the bank, hit the bane blimp.
Did you guys hear no? I did it that on CNN.
They did it. They did a story A researcher. I
don't know how you say, and they some men made
I just told Rory this. He was also disturbed.

Speaker 3 (46:26):
There's a site where men were teaching other men how
to rape. It was called the Rape Academy. But they
were raping their wives and the bitches that are already
sleeping in their bed, and they were uploading.

Speaker 1 (46:35):
Pictures and think how you can put stuff in their suit?

Speaker 3 (46:39):
And guess how many they had, Like sixty three million
people visit in one month, which is like more like
Spotify has like one hundred million a month. It was
like some insane number. And so basically, hydror kids, how'd
your wives? The bane is killing everybody?

Speaker 2 (46:56):
I want to I want to believe that maybe half
of those were women trying to see what the fuck's going.

Speaker 1 (47:00):
Why would women be looking? I don't even know.

Speaker 2 (47:02):
I don't think women figure out the ways as to
why and how I fell asleep and woke up.

Speaker 1 (47:06):
In my pussy hurt? Yeah, or maybe your asshole, because
why why would my Why would it hurt? When I
have a husband? Why are you raping the bitch that
already signed up for you? That's so fucking grows. Why
in the world but I sign up for you and
you're still raping me. That's the whole reason Bitches get married,
not to get raped. That's actually so crazy. It's it
really okay, what turns you on? Like what makes you hard?

(47:30):
That's crazy? Is it necrophilia? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (47:32):
Is it?

Speaker 1 (47:32):
I think it's like when you play dead, Yes, you
like to fuck dead people. I don't like that ship
next demonic.

Speaker 2 (47:37):
It's like, do we need to like teach her like
telling the boys?

Speaker 3 (47:42):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (47:42):
I literally I am like, yes, hey, don't rape? Just hey, hey,
don't teach my son like hey, like if they say
no rejection, that doesn't mean a bad thing. That's just
like that's their boundaries.

Speaker 3 (47:54):
I have to start now, do me the extracurricular, like,
don't rape one everybody?

Speaker 1 (47:58):
Just hey, be careful, to be careful, get home safe.
How about hey, boys, don't wait, rape, don't rape, don't press.
Why do I have to be careful? Yeah? It's disgusting,
that's crazy. Yeah, what the fuck is stop?

Speaker 3 (48:12):
Stop teaching girls to be more careful and stop and
start teaching.

Speaker 1 (48:16):
Boys not to rape. Disgusting. Let's start with the president.
Go can go. It's crazy that he's still on resident.
No girl got in jail.

Speaker 3 (48:26):
We're we're now, we're too we're too complicit, we're cheap.

Speaker 1 (48:32):
Everybody in America's sheep I'm talking to you. I'm I'm done. Yeah,
we're dumb. They did it on purpose.

Speaker 3 (48:38):
We're distracted, We're Numb're on our phones, we're watching ninety fiance.

Speaker 1 (48:42):
You know you have ADHD really bad?

Speaker 3 (48:45):
No, really really right now, but yeah, this conversation with
twenty places grow up and we only care.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
We care so much.

Speaker 2 (48:50):
I was just thinking about, like thet the Mecalagis happened,
and I was seeing like all of you know, all
of our beautiful black excellences on the carpet and some
of them who boycotted, but most.

Speaker 1 (49:00):
Of them who did it, And I was like, what's
the Like, why is it just for the Instagram post?
Why are we here? Wait? Can you guys? Can someone
explain to me?

Speaker 3 (49:07):
Because I just found I found out that the tickets
cost like five hundred.

Speaker 1 (49:11):
Thousand dollars, but the brands are really paying. But but
also where once you get in there, what are they doing?
They're socializing? Are they eating dinner? You can't sit down
in most of those outfits.

Speaker 2 (49:21):
They eat dinner because they're raising money. They're raising money
for the Met. They're the Met Museum there because they
need money because historic fashion section of the museum basically
raising money to preserve the fashions, preserve the fashions and
any special air.

Speaker 1 (49:40):
Like they you know, they give money to up and
coming designers, bla, it doesn't matter. Is that srue? First,
I'm hearing this, that's what it's for.

Speaker 3 (49:49):
That's the crazy part is that this is my first
year asking what the fuck are they going in there
to do?

Speaker 1 (49:54):
I thought it was an award.

Speaker 2 (49:55):
We're eating dinner, they're talking about excellence and fashion eating,
they're cocaine.

Speaker 1 (49:58):
I feel like they're just they're social rising and like
kind of networking, and then maybe there's like maybe music.
I'm like, is there a dj? Oh?

Speaker 6 (50:07):
I know?

Speaker 1 (50:07):
Somebody please tell us what the funk goes on once
they get in there. All I know is that it
was horrible and everyone looked terrible. I didn't see everyone.
I didn't. I have to say, you know what Behove
come for me? Beyonce looked terrible. Terrible is a strong terrible?
Is how I feel? Really? Yes, the dress was ugly.
It was it wasn't it wasn't tailored well, it was not.
It was not. It was not. It was not. Oh god,

(50:29):
the Behave is gonna.

Speaker 2 (50:30):
Cut I don't give a fuck. It was not It
was not flatter the queen listen. I love Beyonce. I
went to Cowboy Carter, I went some renaissance, I say, car,
it was not flat ter.

Speaker 1 (50:40):
Ring, Okay. Rihanna, now now she was like a clam.

Speaker 6 (50:46):
She was.

Speaker 2 (50:47):
She said she was an oyster coming out the show.
And what was the theme was the oyster, that's what
she said. Under the water theme, No bitch, the theme
was fashion as.

Speaker 1 (50:54):
Art or something like that. But said, that's every year,
every year, so art is fashion.

Speaker 2 (51:00):
So they basically they were inspired by actual art pieces,
so famous pieces of art, and then they kind of
dressed like that in different ways, so beyond. So for
Jeff Bezos's fucking wife, she was dressed as a like
Madam X or something, which is a famous art She's no.
Beyonce was dressed from like a creole, some creole piece

(51:22):
of art, Rihanna, I don't know, Madonna with some other
weird piece of art.

Speaker 1 (51:27):
I don't know. But it was just somebody have a dollar? Yes,
who was that? That was the girl from Sarah Paul
said yes.

Speaker 2 (51:33):
So it was basically like why it was in process,
it was in protest of the one percent.

Speaker 1 (51:37):
But but you're right there, you're there, like you're there.
That was the protest.

Speaker 2 (51:40):
It was the pro It's supposed to be like a
fashion protest of the one percent, but it doesn't make
any sense because you're there.

Speaker 3 (51:45):
Oh my god, it is that said there's no flames.
Somebody's flames on their outfits.

Speaker 1 (51:49):
Well, we're fighting their fucking mortgage and it's fucking crazy, right,
I can't even get gas. I say.

Speaker 2 (51:55):
All that's to say is that it's just it's interesting
because a lot of the people that were there spoken
out excessively around just all the all the things that
America has done, but then they're there, so it's just.

Speaker 1 (52:07):
Like what It's just it's kind of like when people
are like, well, it's all people are already doing, so
we might, you know.

Speaker 2 (52:13):
And it's like if we all adopt that mindset, that
is the sheep mindset that they want us to have.
It's the same with the protesting of target. Then with
this like well it doesn't matter, Well then it doesn't matter,
and that's what we're here.

Speaker 1 (52:25):
I hate people with that mentality. That's even with the festivals,
and I'm a festival girl. Okay, I went to go
cell out so many times, like eleven eleven times. This
would have been this would have been my twelve year.
But I was just like I thought I was gonna
have fomo. I'm not saying that the artists. Artists are great,
it's just like the influence I'm about fashion now about

(52:46):
the music. I went with the bikini and I look dirty.
I was camping whereas I was dirty as fuck, and
I was like, that was fun here and it was
just fun. Like I'm not saying there's some people go
and have a great time, like you know, like if
we want, we would have a fucking blast. We're fun.
We're fucking fun. But the girls are, Yeah, they're making

(53:06):
they're too busy editing there in the real time. I
heard yeah time, but I heard I heard over there.
You know what I think, you guys.

Speaker 3 (53:16):
I hate to break it to you, ladies. I'm going
to be the bearer of good bad news.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
But it's us. We have graduated to a different level.
We are not We're grown women. So the thing I
still want to shake my ass, those don't younges are
not shaking their ass. I rolled up into like a
seventies night at a bar in Hollywood, and I had
said this not that much. This is the last round
I had.

Speaker 3 (53:39):
I went to a bar in Hollywood and it was
like seventies night. They're playing disco. It was all the
old niggas. In fact, one of this niggas was like,
don't let this foo suol you so double let the
soup fool you.

Speaker 1 (53:49):
I said. And I listened to my friends here, I said,
are read the old nigga club? She was like yeah.

Speaker 4 (53:53):
I was like, I like it.

Speaker 1 (53:55):
I was like, great, everybody was dancing, bitch when well
the well in Hollywood on Sundays, you know. Oh?

Speaker 3 (54:04):
And then I first I was like falling in love
with the white DJ. He was playing the disco. I
was like, I never did so many things. I never
did so many of these in mine.

Speaker 1 (54:11):
I was like, am I old? I'm old? And so
for like they danced too, they do well what I've
been to sound that the dance. But maybe that's just
the white people know the whites are on the phones too.
I just hate everything that's happening. I'm sorry, Like, do
you d do you date out? Do you date outsiggeries?
I I dated the rainbow? Okay, usually what usually you

(54:38):
go for black people. I dated one white guy, like
officially for two years. I was young for two years,
like like like what, I don't know because I was young.
It's true. It's like that age go back that sounds
like this. I mean sometimes you get older, you're like no, no, no, no,

(55:01):
your boundaries change. You don't speak of him, very romantic,
blonde hair, blue eyes. I was like in love. We
were in love. I was maybe twenty twenty one, and
you know, it was just things that were missing that
I wanted, like the humor of different culturally and culture cultural.
I dated that. I went through my little Latin stage,

(55:21):
my little puppy Chuto stage, and one of the guys
was like, damn, like I like you because like you
kind of look Latin, but like you were not really
like a thick Latina. I was like, then, go fucking
find a thick Latina. Why are you with me? Yeah?
Like this, he's like you you look about you, you
little dark. The way you're doing this is like he's

(55:42):
a cherseyolo because why okay, Actually he did not talk
like that.

Speaker 4 (55:46):
I like he did.

Speaker 1 (55:47):
Did you have a little with the fuck from traces?
Why are you talking like this? Like Puerto Rican and
he was like he was just like not, I don't know.
So I was like, I also don't want to be
an experiment for anybody.

Speaker 3 (55:57):
I always asked, like, do you have your do you
date black women? If you took home to your mom,
what would she say? What would your family say?

Speaker 1 (56:02):
Like? How many black women?

Speaker 6 (56:03):
All?

Speaker 1 (56:04):
I don't want to have this conversation Persian. I like
they're racist. I mean everybody's racist.

Speaker 2 (56:09):
So he's like, well, wait, he's a great guy, but
apparently someone's We were not allowed to say Persian anymore.

Speaker 1 (56:14):
Oh okay, is that real? So what do we saying?
I don't know if it's not there anymore? No, it's
not there anymore. I rainy. I don't know. It's almost
like you can't say that. And I was like, I
can't sit when we grew up at tap, when we
grew up the Persian Persians, Yeah, I look it up.
I don't know. Yeah. He was like super gentleman, super

(56:35):
so sweet, like so sweet, courted me correctly, like we
hit it off until, like I said, I asked him
a question like I was like, oh, if you were
holding my hand, would you like you know, you could
people watch or whatever. But like would you break your
neck to say another girl like it was a super question.

(56:56):
He was like, no, I'm not like a black man
to do this. I'm like this, that's kind of funny.
And then another time I was dancing, I was like,
not like a buck. I was just dancing like like
shaking my house in my house. He goes, who wha, whoa.
You don't do that with like your son. I was like,
do you think I'm working on my son's head? How

(57:17):
do you think the son?

Speaker 6 (57:18):
Guy? Here?

Speaker 3 (57:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (57:19):
And I'm also almost like what do you what do
you mean? He's like just like, don't do that like
outside or I'm like I will do that outside. What
is what is going on? He's like, and then I'm
like I will do that. Everything was like like are
you are you? I feel like you're a little prejudice
and he's like it was too black. I love the blacks.
I was like this, I can't do this. No, no, no,

(57:40):
I love your baby. I can't do this anymore. He's nice,
but no, wait, what did you date women? I was
gonna ask you that because on your show.

Speaker 2 (57:48):
So if you guys have watched All American because I
know there's all American fans here because Chelsea's now posted
this on her page.

Speaker 1 (57:53):
I'm sure, right, yes, and.

Speaker 2 (57:56):
Now your fans have come and they you know, I
know that you had to relatetionship on the show where
you were in the LESBI.

Speaker 1 (58:03):
Was that like the first? Was that the first c
W gay woman on woman relationship? Was that? Have they
done this before? I don't know, Wait they never had?
Maybe they never had. Might have made history, Chelsea? No, wait, no,
I don't know. I don't want to say that. I
don't want to claim I put it on your I history.
Maybe be the first black one, the first, the first
I don't There was a couple of other on Riverdale,

(58:26):
but that came later, but never people of color. Perhaps, yeah, yeah,
maybe maybe the first woman of a color gay relationship
on the c W. You know what LGBTQ Glad Awards
called maybe could we be your plus twould be my
plus two? What was the question, Oh, oh, are you
do you eat pussy?

Speaker 6 (58:50):
No?

Speaker 1 (58:50):
Okay, So that wasn't my first role. I did another
independent movie called Solace, which I love, I love, love
love that movie. I do you know that artist said
from So that was my first time kissing like I
kiss a girl at a party or something like years
ago or whatever. But that was my first time on screen,

(59:13):
and she just went like tongue went for it went
for her. Really, she looks so shy. That was not shy.
She was like, I'm all good. She's just very shy
she is. But that scene was not. I was like, well, okay,
we're here, but it was. It was fine. I don't.
I just love men like I appreciate beautiful women, like
I love titties. I wish I had bigger titties. I

(59:36):
love almost not Erica, you have your huge ass. And
I think it was I just think like I love men.
I love men. I love the backs of men, I
love arms. I love how they flirt with you. I
don't know, like a couple of girls at flirt with me.
I was like, what's going that's happening? What do I do? Like, Like,
I just like I think I kiss them, they're like

(59:58):
flirt I'm even I know, I just get straight to
it if that's gonna happen because you don't know her
best friends or for flirting, yes exactly? Are you best
Are you flirting with me? Exactly? And then you're like
when they do flirt with You're like, oh wait, hold on.

Speaker 2 (01:00:10):
I was just being like, have you have you ever
had like a relationship in character with someone and then
like got confused, like like you know, like had like
I don't know, like a sex scene or a kissing
scene or just a relationship in on in on set,
like acting with a guy.

Speaker 1 (01:00:31):
Or a girl, Like I'm obviously not a girl because
I didn't get confused. I was with a guy though.

Speaker 2 (01:00:36):
I'm just I always wonder like with act with actors,
like you see a lot of people who do movies
or films together, shows together end up dating because they're
with each other all the time.

Speaker 1 (01:00:45):
And yeah, like in that energy, you know what. I've
seen it happen multiple times. Well, like my first like
was on Nickelodeon. My first boyfriend like took my virginity. Definitely,
we were unjus shortened together. He was the main guy,
like we had a thing, but we also had a
crush on each other kind of before that. I never

(01:01:06):
fell in love with no, Like there was good kissers,
but I just know never say never. Do you have
boundaries around it? Like is it like very strict boundaries
where you work? I usually don't like to do that.
I fucked up on the extra extra extra, I up
with that. So uh, I'm like fucking ship seem everything

(01:01:27):
like this get away? What are you's hiring this extra
specifically way some clout on set? He made it, he
made it in, He made it as an assistant to somebody.
Did he tell everybody? Did he tell everybody? Yeah? Everybody?
Of course. Are you joking? We used to date? Yes,
and and and definitely try to come in with holding

(01:01:49):
my hands in the maker. Oh goodbye, bitch. I hate that. Ever,
I hate to be pissed on, especially at a workplace.
Do not piss on. Definitely that. It was definitely like
Jimmy anything like John to make it seem like extra
guy's a good guy. Yeah, like too much. What was
the question? I guess I was just asking if you ever, like,

(01:02:09):
if you've ever gotten confused on set? No? No, no, no,
like for I was dating. I was dating somebody, so
like I was, I know how to like separate that
and like you know, but also I have I kissed
somebody amazingly hot? No the guy from No I kissed guys,

(01:02:30):
but no, it was it was it was yeah, professional,
I feel like, oh that was a nice kiss and
that's it, like, but never say never it was I
have not kissed chasing I also that would be nice. Yeah,
that'd be I just want to see it with that mountain.

Speaker 3 (01:02:46):
Yeah, I just want to just just just straddle you
and just maybe grab grab your hair like a little
butt in the back and just put in the Okay, sorry,
we're going just spit.

Speaker 1 (01:02:57):
In your mouth a little bit. Just give me on
five minutes. I got nervous around like certain guys on set,
like I'm like, it's so cute, like like oh like
like it would be the stupidest thing. And then he
starts talking and he's like, mind nothing here. They ruin it.
I always ruin it. I'm not jaded.

Speaker 2 (01:03:17):
I want to switch gears and talk about motherhood with you, Okay,
because you are a boy mom, I'm a boy or
girl moms. We've known nothing about this boy life yet.

Speaker 1 (01:03:26):
Oh yeah you have girls? Yeah, so what has been
like what has been like with a boy dating?

Speaker 2 (01:03:31):
Like as a single mom raising a boy Because I
was thinking about this the other day when because my
daughter is going through puberty right now and I had
to go to her school and they had like you know,
the talk before they talk to our kids, so that
we know what the fuck they're going to say.

Speaker 1 (01:03:46):
And they were saying, like, you know, we're not going
to talk about, you know, erections, and you know we're
not going to talk about periods something, So what are
they going to talk about?

Speaker 2 (01:03:58):
And I was like, well, I think it's important that
boys know what periods are so that when if a
girl is like, has not been shaming her, right, yeah, but.

Speaker 1 (01:04:07):
Are also like frightened and terrified.

Speaker 2 (01:04:08):
But then they were saying, like, you know with boys,
how they get random erections and it doesn't it's not
necessarily sexual, it just happens.

Speaker 1 (01:04:16):
And I was thinking about just boys in general, and
I was like, oh my god. So if I was
a single mom, and.

Speaker 2 (01:04:21):
Like, obviously I know your your your baby, daddy's in
your son's life, so hopefully he's going to take the
charge on this. But for women who don't have that,
and you have to like navigate talking about random erections,
what it means, I don't know. I know you're still
early on, but like I'm curious, like what it's been
like dating I'm not dating.

Speaker 1 (01:04:43):
Raising a boy. I mean it's definitely different. I mean
I have sisters, you know, and we have a vagina.
Like even even like when he was first born, I
was like, oh my god, like you opened the divers
as soon as the air hits there will be just
over there.

Speaker 4 (01:05:01):
So it was that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:02):
But he's he's very compassionate. It's also just how you are,
Like he's so compassionate, like he loves to help. He's
definitely fucking hilarious. He's definitely like you know those cars
on my fucking head, like just like it's definitely watched
his mom watch me jump from this culture that couch
like so like that, which like my my niece Kylie's daughter, Grayson,

(01:05:27):
she's just like Auntie Chelsea, Well let's go pint her
nails like and like this is so different. So it's chaotic,
very chaotic, but it's I also he's very sensitive though too,
like still I don't I mean, he's five, but I
don't know if he's a mommy's boy or like I
goes back and forth. And Josh definitely taught him how

(01:05:48):
to pee. Yeah for sure. I was like this just
like this, like I don't know, like have you have
you ever had to like explain like your dynamic between
your child's father and him, like, has that been like
a process of I know he's so young.

Speaker 2 (01:06:02):
Yeah, so maybe it's just like this is all he knows.
But had there been moments where you've had to kind
of explain.

Speaker 1 (01:06:08):
Yeah, like a little bit like he was one when
we broke up, and I think, so he doesn't actually
remember you guys together. So when he sees I'll show
him pictures. When he sees pictures like this, you, I
want to be there. Where was that? I want to
be there? Like, oh, that's a long time ago, baby.
But like if he picks someone like daddy, you want

(01:06:29):
to just come to the house. Why don't you ever
go to daddy's house? Why don't you ever go to
mommy's house? I'm like, oh, like now, But but then
I was like, you know what, like maybe it's good,
like just come in, I'll make you a cup of coffee,
like sit on the couch, and you like watch a
show with him so he doesn't feel, you know, divided.
And then I'll do the same at his house and

(01:06:49):
we'll figure that out. And then you know, we took
him to a monster truck race. He likes togetherness so much,
like regardless if just family, my mom around. He doesn't
even like the door close. He wants every like he
likes everyone to be together together. So I'm trying to
do that. This fifth birthday party, I was like, I'm

(01:07:11):
to do a birthday party. I'm gonnavite, bye y'all. And
it was great. He loved it. It was like, you know,
so he just actually recently asked me and I was
like what. He's like, m hmm, do you have a boyfriend.
So you've never you've never introduced him to anybody. If

(01:07:32):
he met them, they it was like this is mommy's friend.
There was no there wasn't like a kissing in front.
There was not that like the mommy has just friends
friends got home, so and I did have to Oh
my god, sorry I did have to. I'm like, oh,
he's he has a memory now, like oh my god,

(01:07:53):
he's like noticing people, like why isn't that person coming
around or whatever. I'm like, oh, mommy's friend moved moved
away forever, so I'm gonna come back cover. I had
to relax. Like when he was like too, I was like, okay,
he's like catching on him or you know what I mean.
So I had to do better listen, hold on, let

(01:08:14):
me go back. I wasn't over here, just haven't no,
just in and out, you know, but I didn't want
to get them comfortable with somebody that I don't even
you're not going to make it at the end of
the at the day. And I know that too.

Speaker 4 (01:08:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:08:27):
Yeah, and so that's that's like hard for me a
little bit, like well now I just have my boundaries
and my boundaries like I don't I don't want guys
to really come over my house like that, even even
even without him, sorry I love him, my son, but
even like no, you don't need to be here. Yeah,
in my space.

Speaker 2 (01:08:45):
I think like dating as a single mom is such
a journey. I mean for some people it isn't.

Speaker 1 (01:08:48):
Some people are like super separate, like all the time, right,
like there's no mommy has friends, Like mommy doesn't even
entered like talk.

Speaker 2 (01:08:55):
To thee yeah, which you know, to each his own.
I think that I think that's not a great idea.
I think for like for me, it's it was a journey.
Like when I first became single. I remember, like the
rules that I had with my baby daddy, like I
need to meet the girl that you with and like
you can meet the person that i'm with. And I
remember like when I had to act on my rule
and then I was like, this is stupid. Yeah, I

(01:09:18):
don't this is not necessary. And then he was like
it's not you made this rule.

Speaker 1 (01:09:23):
Yeah. He's like, you're like, you have no idea. I
trust to every date. Yeah, that's what he said. The
problem was like, I don't trust who you did, exactly
the problem. But what am I going to do? You're
going to break up with them because I said she's
a fucking weirdo. No, mine dated a drug addict. So
I was like, I think it's not gonna need to
see your ID, Like what the fun now? Trust me?

(01:09:47):
I'm like, if you're bad, okay, you're bad, but you're
not affecting my son. Like I'll keep that separate. He will. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I mean I think I've done the same.

Speaker 2 (01:09:57):
I've like, you know, I've introduced my daughter to guys
that I've been interested in as friends, and then there's
been guys that have never even got to the never
even got to that point of meeting her. But there
has been there's been as I've ventured into actually dating
someone seriously and then it not working out, like there's
been a lot of shame sometimes and regret and like fuck,

(01:10:21):
am I fucking her up? She's ultimately like my daughter,
I think a lot of times moms we are the
obviously it's our job to protect our children, but we're
overthinking a lot of it.

Speaker 1 (01:10:31):
My daughter ultimately just wants to see me happy. You know,
could she have like not met this person? Maybe did
she benefit from it? Perhaps?

Speaker 2 (01:10:41):
I think, yeah, it's important for our kids to also
see that, like shit is not perfect, and also see
when things are perfect, like the journey of a real relationship.
And but there's a level of protection that is for sure.
Even like I was arguing with my my man the
other day and like she was around and I.

Speaker 1 (01:10:58):
Was like super pert. I was like, I don't want
to shut the funk up, Like this is the conversation
is done.

Speaker 2 (01:11:05):
Stop talking to me now, Like I'm not about to
go back and forth with you in front of in
front of you now and now I'm leaving now we're
got to go.

Speaker 1 (01:11:12):
Well, that's why when he was a baby we were
arguing so much. I was like, this is not this really,
I'm already out of love, okay, which she knows I
have to pick up my wedding dress. It is still there,
hopefully five years it's still is it nearby? It's golly,
you love If you see this, I'm really sorry and
want to love that store. I would drive by that story.

(01:11:34):
Wait is no, it's moment like mel Melrose. That's what
it is. Beautiful. You guys give to me the veil,
gift to me shoes, pick left. I'm gonna go out
on the I'm gonna do something, something dramatic with it. Yeah,
the ocean with your dress. Didn't mind do that?

Speaker 2 (01:11:56):
And Dennis Rodman, yeah he did. He brought marry himself
or New York or something. Yeah, make the coppen to yourself,
do a photo shoot, make it, do some drama.

Speaker 1 (01:12:05):
I'm gonna do that. I get vertical, you know, emotion.
We're gonna do a whole vertical over this, around this dress.
It's like we have too got the cameras. We're good,
but but we were. We were arguing so much, and
then I was like, this is he can feel my energy.
He can feel like even though he was a baby,
he could feel old. I was like, so when I

(01:12:26):
moved to my house, I was just like it was
just better. Like even though I was like, great, I
broke up my family. Oh my god, I'm going to
be a statistic. I was like, it was a lot
of shame on me. But my house is structured with him.
It's peaceful. It's like you know, and he's not in
my head I'm thinking of he's gonna look at me

(01:12:47):
like look this black single woman. Yeah, yeah, strugglant. But
he's just like, mom, I want you have a boyfriend?
Like do you like? He said that. I was like,
how do you even know? Like I mean he goes
to school. Yeah, like, but I guess, And he's like
loves like he's like a boy's boy. He loves to
be tossed in throat and just like you know, play

(01:13:10):
outside and so if I do have friends that come over,
like he likes he likes that. How did that make
you feel when he When he said that, I was like, oh, like,
you want me to have a boy Like I felt
a little better, not like because he's very protective over me,
you know, like even if a guy hugs me too long,
he's like, hey, what are you guys? What are you doing?

(01:13:31):
Like don't like that's my mom, But it made me
feel like, oh, like he wants, yeah, he wants me
to be happy like he he doesn't love. He's like,
if I'm crying, He's like, Mama, are these happy tears
or a sad tears or something like, oh the fact
we didn't even know is bad. He's like, there's sad tears,
but that's okay, Like we just we have to work
through our emotions that it's okay to cry. And he's
very like he's very happy again, Like he's like that.

(01:13:53):
So it's not like I cry all the time in
front of him, isn't it? Isn't it beautiful?

Speaker 2 (01:13:58):
Like the relationship that we get to have with our
chill because I think a lot of times parents are
in the role of giving their children permission to do things,
but I think oftentimes kids don't realize how much permission
we need from them too, And just like how that
impacts us, and like how perhaps that like makes your
your heart a little bit more open and available for
love to come in and be able to share in
that way because you know that he's he's telling you

(01:14:19):
it's okay.

Speaker 1 (01:14:20):
Yeah. Like I thought I was going to be like
an impatient mother. I don't know I was going to
be so. But he definitely slowed me down as an
slower to anger and a lot of things, like I
definitely grew up. And yeah, I'm so hopeful. I'm not
like I said, I'm not jaded. I'm exhausted. I'm exhausted.

(01:14:42):
But yeah, like he, like I said, he likes to
go otherness. I want, I want Do you want that right? Well,
you have a boyfriend, yeah, yeah, you're married. Yeah, and
it's better the second time.

Speaker 3 (01:14:56):
Absolutely, you know more, you know more, you know what
you want, you're more, you don't settle, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:15:02):
It's but it is scary because for me, I'm not married.

Speaker 2 (01:15:05):
I'm I'm in a relationship and if it doesn't work out,
I've invested a lot of time. I've invested a lot
of time with us together as a unit. They have
a relationship as well, and you like their relationship. I
love their relationship. It's been healing for me to see
their relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:15:20):
Yeah, I think that would be healing. Like I'm looking
forward to that. So when I see you or like
other people, I'm like, oh, okay, it exists, and I
want somebody to love, even though he has his own father,
Like I want somebody to love him as their own too.
But marriage, I don't. I'm a little it's more of
the paperworkers. I'm scared of all of it.

Speaker 2 (01:15:40):
I'm scared of the aftermath of a potential breakup, even
in this dynamic, not aftermath.

Speaker 1 (01:15:46):
It's more so me.

Speaker 2 (01:15:46):
It's like, I think my daughter, ultimately, what she shown
me in my breakups with the relationship is that she's fine.
I think, yeah, and I'm you know, she just ultimately
again wants to see me happy. But there is, like
I think for single mothers, there's this when we see
men come into our children's lives and take the lead
and ways and take on the role that you know

(01:16:09):
their father is supposed to take or only takes in
the privacy of their relationship together. It is like it's
a beautiful thing and it's and you hold on to it,
and then trying to let it go can be really
really challenging and really really hard, and it's like it's
like thinking about doing that over and over and I'm

(01:16:30):
hoping that you find your husband at some point along
the line.

Speaker 1 (01:16:34):
It's exhausting. I'm exhausted. It's exhausting, and it's scary.

Speaker 2 (01:16:37):
It's beautiful but it's like, yeah, my daughter gets to
see love in all different places and dynamics. But then
ultimately there's a part of me too where I've been
thinking more about my relationship with introducing my daughter to
the men that I date and if I need to
actually be more strict about it and be like because
it's actually it's less about if it's harmful for her

(01:16:58):
actually for me. For me, it's like very painful because
there's a lot of healing that has happened, and then
it's like, oh it didn't work out.

Speaker 1 (01:17:06):
No, yeah, no, I'm I'm I think I'm really cautious now,
like very cautious of that. I'm not saying if they
run into each other, okay, but not like you're over
the house and we're doing.

Speaker 3 (01:17:18):
But that's also like the evolution of the single mom right,
Like we've gone through you know, you you find balance,
you find you know, like in the beginning, and also
as you get older, you're dating with different intention. When
we were dating, we're like, yeah, this is my homie.
Has some moment because what kind of is your homie?
But like you're not going to be like making out
in front of them. But then as you get as
you want something more serious and you're dating with that intention,

(01:17:42):
it's people might stick them around longer. You see how
long you know how much the when you entrench it
and then have to detach it. How that works, So
you refine and you change how you approach it because
you you're changing, you know, and like the dynamic of
which in which you're dating is changing, and it is
healing and every way, like everything's a lesson. Nothing is
like a waste. Everything are coming out with some kind

(01:18:04):
of lesson and you're getting better and better. And like
the more you like communicate with your kid, like our
children are are advanced.

Speaker 1 (01:18:11):
Yeah, he's so smart.

Speaker 3 (01:18:12):
They're so smart they feel you, like when you said
you were arguing, like that ship is lives in there.
There's still an abilic impartive ways energetically, so don't disrespect there,
like intellect and also like yeah, and I probably had
a couple of too many boyfriends around Luna.

Speaker 1 (01:18:26):
She was like and she knew the tea like he
went through my computer went you said when she was sick.
She was like, she was like she looked at I told,
I told he looked at the computer.

Speaker 3 (01:18:34):
He looked at the text messages, she told me, and
she'll never forget that, like he was being sneaky, I
was cheating, but.

Speaker 1 (01:18:43):
It was but I was cheating.

Speaker 3 (01:18:47):
Girls are also like more mature in that way. And
not that she knows all my business, but like I
wasn't gonna lie, like he hear this and and that
wasn't you know. And there's some relationships like I could
have done without. But ultimately, like I'm so grateful like
that she gets along so well with my my husband
and and they've grown their own relationship and it's just

(01:19:08):
it's all right. Yeah, they're both the same age, both
eleven eleven year old girl about to graduate to go
to junior high to keep saying that, keep getting tweet you.

Speaker 1 (01:19:19):
Go to middle school. I know, but it's because her school,
I know, like my daughter's school sixth grade. They're still
on the same campus. So for me, I'm like, she's
not graduating, but that's crazy. No. Five, I'm like, he's
so tall and nuts, I cannot smoke anymore. I'm had
to okay, well about this. Str Yeah, I know anyway,

(01:19:41):
we can talk forever. Forgot we're here. I know. This
is the power of coming into the good Mom cave.
Would you like to choose a card for us? Yes?
I do? Okay, Please be good? Please be good?

Speaker 4 (01:20:20):
What you got.

Speaker 1 (01:20:23):
All the fool that doesn't mean it's bad, mean fool,
the fucking fool fool. Oh my god, please be good.

Speaker 3 (01:20:35):
Beginnings, innocent spots, innocent spontaneity of free.

Speaker 1 (01:20:39):
Spirit culture, exactly like this. Okay. The Full is a.

Speaker 3 (01:20:45):
Card of new beginnings, opportunity, and potential. Just like the
young man, you're the out outset of your journey, standing
at the cliff's edge and about to take your first
step into the unknown. Even though you don't know exactly
where you're going, You're being called to commit to yourself
and follow your heart, no matter how crazy this leap
of faith might seem to you. Now is a time
when you need to trust where the universe is taking

(01:21:06):
you as you undertake the new journey.

Speaker 1 (01:21:08):
The Full encourages you to have an open.

Speaker 3 (01:21:10):
Curious mind and sense of excitement, throw caution to the wind,
and be ready to embrace the unknown, leaving behind any fear, worry,
or anxiety about what.

Speaker 1 (01:21:18):
May or may not happen.

Speaker 3 (01:21:20):
This is about new experiences, personal growth, development, and adventure.

Speaker 1 (01:21:24):
The time is now. Take the leap of faith. Thank
you did, bitty TiO dot com. It's definitely, yeah, that
is definitely I think where I'm at right now more sure. Wow,
see it's not so bad. Yeah, what the hell the fool?
But yeah, I definitely and well I haven't really been fearful.

(01:21:45):
I think when things change and just like even the
show ending and just different things like Okay, what's the
next step of things? The industry has changed so much,
like I now have to like just have the audacity
to just do stuff and stuff that I love, but
not yeah, like go through not in survival mode. I
don't want to be in survival mode anymore. I which

(01:22:08):
I know we live in la Oh my god, I know. Yeah,
Like I also have so many blessings coming to me.
I have such a good friend group, such good family.
I think I need to just focus more on that,
not like what what's gonna go wrong? You know, like

(01:22:28):
I need to be like what's going to go right?
And liked that in my head, Yes, what's going to
go right? Let's go right today.

Speaker 3 (01:22:36):
Yeah, I've been recently being like when I have a
bad thought, like what is the exact opposite of this thought?
It's actually like why the fund I'll go dark And
I'm like, bitch, why are you thinking about.

Speaker 1 (01:22:46):
It won't even be that bad, right, It's anticipation, is
that the affirmation, like who think about what's going to
go right?

Speaker 3 (01:22:52):
Think about what's going to go right? Yeah, yeah, that's
I I know that, I know to do the best
case scenarios.

Speaker 1 (01:23:00):
I know should do that, and then but then I'd
be forgetting. I forgot because I'm like my anxiety took
over there. Yes, Or sometimes it's just like Ronald be
in the wrong, to be in the wrong, and then
we're like, I don't want to think about what's right.
I need to do you know why I got things
like's wrong? I'm bracing myself. Yes, if I know what's coming,
it's probably not gonna hurt that bad.

Speaker 3 (01:23:18):
But the worst part of that is when you do that,
you take away being in the actual happy like you
should take away being living in the best.

Speaker 1 (01:23:26):
Like in the manifestation.

Speaker 3 (01:23:27):
Yes, I know if you're in the manifestation worrying about
the worst case scenario and nine times at the time,
the worst case scenario doesn't even happen, So it's like
you're actually wasting all of your energy and time in
this in this life by accident, yes, in this life,
not living in the manifestation.

Speaker 1 (01:23:41):
So it's just like takes away the joy from the
whole fucking thing, which is the whole point. Yeah no,
oh yeah, I'm my god. Yeah, I think we are
whimsical and we are I think I'm I'm great and.

Speaker 3 (01:23:51):
We're only gonna be in this body on this day
may whatever the fuck it is, and you know, like
together doing this one time.

Speaker 1 (01:23:58):
Yeah, like this is the last day, will be already
seven and a half or I going to be thirty
eight in one month. You are, Yeah that's old. But
like like I just I ever tell ever. But yeah,
like life's too short to be fucking bad.

Speaker 6 (01:24:12):
I know.

Speaker 1 (01:24:13):
Life is good.

Speaker 3 (01:24:14):
Yeah, life there's allowed to be mad at and I
understand like the rage because I but also life is
also good.

Speaker 1 (01:24:21):
Life is good. It is great. Good Mom's bad choices.
You actually love it.

Speaker 2 (01:24:27):
And like it's like we always say, like all the
corny sayings are true, like count your blessings.

Speaker 1 (01:24:32):
Yeah no it too, like, yeah, bitch, count them count yours.
When you were little, all you wanted to do was
like live on your own, live on your own. That
want to and now you do whatever you want, yes,
And I'm like, damn, I right for this, but I
don't want to do what everyone like, what bitch, you
asked for it? So here we are wanting and wanting
a little bit and wanting yeah, and like I don't

(01:24:53):
want to be not satisfied. I don't want to be
not satisfied. But I'm also like reaching for other you know.

Speaker 2 (01:25:00):
That's really I feel like as ambitious women, that's like
the hardest thing for us is that, like I know,
for me, I can only speak personally. My ambition reaches
so far out that like I can always be wanting
because I'm always dreaming. And so it's like how do
I find the balance between like being present in the
what I asked for and being grateful and then and

(01:25:21):
not letting what hasn't happened yet like make me feel
like I have less then and just trusting that like
it's going to happen because it's it always does.

Speaker 1 (01:25:29):
Yeah, it always does. The other night, I was like
smoking a little wead and I was like in the
bathtub and I was like, okay, just calm down, like
a reset, because I was just like my mind was
racing and then I put on like a vinyl and
I was like, this is a high izing Wow, this
sounds really cool. And I was like, look at this,

(01:25:51):
this is a really good song. And I was like,
this is my bathtub. Yeah, this is my bathtub. I
have this. And then I looked outside. I have a
lemon tree. I was just like, life's gonna be okay.
I can do this. I love that plant over there.

Speaker 4 (01:26:09):
I love it.

Speaker 1 (01:26:09):
I love so much. And I was like, oh, like
I'm so happy, Like I'm so a happy person. It's
just like we're so distracted with the bullshit off the world.
Ye crazy, but I'm like, no, I still have that,
like like you said, like dreamer and mean when you're
when you're little, you're not thinking of paying bills. You're
just like I want a house with a lemon tree.

(01:26:30):
And I feel like that. I wanted that. I can't
be like anymore fucking ship like I can't.

Speaker 3 (01:26:41):
Oh god, it's true though, I'm also ladies and gentlemen weed.

Speaker 1 (01:26:46):
I got high.

Speaker 2 (01:26:46):
I was like, everything's lovely, plant, medicine's ground really made
you pray in the club, and I was like.

Speaker 1 (01:26:54):
Your baptop, you know, did people talk about the medicines.
It's amazing. Make it already. My nervous system has already calm.

Speaker 3 (01:27:02):
Literally being in your own house and the like, in
your own music, your own soundtrack, You're like, god, yeah,
I love it here.

Speaker 1 (01:27:08):
It's rich, smells like I wanted to sleep. It looks good, luxury.
I had a silk robe, but I was just like
and they looked like, look at me. Put it in
a hair and masks an adult. Yeah, I'm an adult.
I'm gonna sweep a little bit.

Speaker 3 (01:27:27):
I'm gonna beat my room, baet my roomba on tonight.

Speaker 1 (01:27:32):
It's gonna be clean when I get up. I need
the dish and nobody's ruining it. Nobody's coming home well
with my Okay, maybe you're a mano grad, but I
was like, I know, I love nobody's.

Speaker 2 (01:27:41):
Dirtying anything up. That is part of the reason why
it has been so. It's I have not had a
man live with me since I kicked the firth the
last one.

Speaker 1 (01:27:48):
So he doesn't live with you. Okay, would you ever?
Because I remember my my but I've got we've gotten
close and every time I'm like, I guess I don't
know about that. I don't know if I want to
share Mike, I'm like, yeah, do it? Do it? And
then like right before, I'm like, just kidding, I think
we need more time. Yeah, right, how long is it
We've been together two and a half years. Okay, that's okay,
But like I don't have I gotten too comfortable being

(01:28:11):
by myself in my own home. I love the way
I live. I love it. I think that you'll know,
we will know me. You will know.

Speaker 2 (01:28:21):
Yeah, and if you're listening, you'll know when it's when,
when it's time or if it's time, maybe that time
doesn't come. Maybe you live in separate homes or you
have separate bedrooms. People do this all the time, and
it doesn't have to be a weird thing that you
don't love this person. It's just no, I really know
what I need or to feel like me.

Speaker 1 (01:28:38):
Yeah, and I can also exist in a Yeah, it
depends on the person, Like I have to. If I'm
doing something, you're doing something what was it called parallel
parallel play? Right?

Speaker 6 (01:28:48):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:28:48):
Yeah, like don't when I'm doing something, don't you don't
don't be over I want if I want to watch
van of pump rules, you know, like Lien. Yeah, and
that's okay, or somebody work with your hands, go electricity,
do something. Yeah, you do stuff. People like don't know

(01:29:08):
how to hang frames, and I know that's you made
a hole in my wall.

Speaker 3 (01:29:11):
That's the only Yeah, that's a perk about having a
man in the house put up frames.

Speaker 1 (01:29:16):
All the things I die, I can't do. You hate
out the trash over enough just once the week a
week to take the trash and go home.

Speaker 2 (01:29:25):
So I think Tuesdays and Saturdays is a healthy balance
the trash days a bitch?

Speaker 1 (01:29:38):
Is it Wednesday? Oh my god, Oh my god. I
gotta take it in as when I do.

Speaker 2 (01:29:42):
I'm like this, come on, well you kind of do
have a man in the house learning, he loves it,
teach him early.

Speaker 1 (01:29:49):
Yeah, he has he has structure. I'm like, he's like
Wednesdays we take it in. He's like, I got it, mommy.

Speaker 3 (01:29:53):
But how do you kind of feel like kind of
bad ass me do it? Like I could do stuff
without man? Yeah, So I just want to smile then
other day and it was pissed.

Speaker 1 (01:29:59):
Sometimes, I you Sometimes I don't. I don't want it.
I don't want sometimes I'm like, you know what, actually,
girl moms, girl single moms, you.

Speaker 2 (01:30:05):
Might be killing it because you have a man in
the house. Yeah, you actually may never need a man
in the house until that man.

Speaker 1 (01:30:12):
I don't want to be that. I don't want to
be that. Mom Me, you man, now you can do
You're gonna teach. She's gonna hang frame, he's gonna take
trash out always the doors. Yea for my sister. He
wanted to open the door and she's like, couldn't. I
gotta go. He's like, and she opened it herself. How
would you do that? I want to do it for you?

(01:30:32):
So I'm like, okay, like I want you to be
respectful and like, no, oh my god, I don't have
to worry about that. Yeah, not speaking of rape, but
oh my gosh, this terrible, terrible, terrible transition.

Speaker 2 (01:30:50):
But no, genuinely don't have any horries, horries, any horror stories.

Speaker 1 (01:31:01):
Who stories? Okay, this is not a horror story. Well,
I have a couple, damn it. Okay, I could talk
about like a sex scene that I had no real life. Man, Okay,
fucking fine, Well come on, that sucked. My basis fell

(01:31:22):
off and everybody saw, oh yeah, it's okay, fucking whatever. Okay,
Well it's not a horror but okay. So it was
my like thirty second birthday again, I just stopped dating
the father of my kid. Okay. I was like, I'm
gonna get out there and date whatever. Bro okay, brazy Okay.
This ties in this size into also the Paris guy.

(01:31:44):
Okay crazy wow, full circle. So there was a guy
that was across set right when we were working at
Warner Brothers and where he's like, oh, I'll introduce you guys.
He's not with his fiance, you're not with yours, Like, okay, cool,
he's you know, he's single, said okay, cool, like whatever,

(01:32:06):
some really my tad, but you know he's cool. I'm
just give him a shot, right, he's really tall. It's
like okay, and you know, the conversations were cool, but
it was a little too gassing me up, like I
just want I just want to see you happy. I
feel like you want to Emmy Like it's like like
you know what I mean. It was a little too much, okay,

(01:32:27):
but I was like I was like, whatever you said,
how you said it? Do that again, Like I just
want to I just want to see you win, like okay,
So whatever. I probably many hearing this are like we
can't do anything. I'm sorry, but you know what I'm
talking about, like this, you need something different, exactly, like
you ain't dealt with this before, Like I tell you, yeah, exactly,

(01:32:49):
like you don't know but.

Speaker 4 (01:32:53):
But but.

Speaker 1 (01:32:55):
Whatever. He was nice, but I did stuff too soon.
I was like, I like you, I'm having a birthday
and you should come. I'm renting out like this place
in Malibu. I mean, I was going through it or
I was going through I was like, I spent so
much money for no reason. Right, he didn't get me
a gift, He didn't do anything. You know, it's just
after all that just exactly, but guess what he did.

(01:33:19):
He did get a gift for the lead actor on
our show and he didn't even know him what sidebar.
But that's okay. But trying and play his cards. Yes,
I don't know. What he was was opportunist opportunists its gay.
So he went. A couple of my friends were there.

(01:33:40):
He was definitely flirting with one of my other friends,
like just doing the most. And then I saw him.
I saw him talking to someone I'm like talking to
I'm like, I think that's his like excellently, I have
a funny feeling you're still married. I'm just like, no,

(01:34:00):
I couldn't. I just knew. I found out later he
was I'm like you said talking. Yeah, I'm like you're
going out there, and just how he was moving was
just corny, and I was like over it, you know,
I did how I did funk him like after you
got this information, but the four afterwards, he's like downstairs,

(01:34:20):
like why is he on the phone?

Speaker 2 (01:34:21):
Like, but you you you had sex with him at
the party, and then you realized he was on the
phone talking to something.

Speaker 1 (01:34:26):
And he's like I might go back, and he's like, yeah,
I don't think you should come back. It's okay, Like
just go do whatever you're doing whatever. So the other guy,
I was talking to him too, and I invited him
after just like a switcheroo. Yeah quick was the one
at the end of the night. Yes, right, So I
was like come and then but it just looked like

(01:34:46):
my friend was like who's it. He's like, where's the
other one that he went home forever? I don't know,
I mean like not a hole. No, that's okay, great,
it's that's like my biggest way. Okay, but I have
a question. So the other guy that came. Did he
have at least do his job? Yes, he did his job.
He did his job. He he bought pizza. That's the

(01:35:08):
one who lost me in Paris. But how to find out?
But he got me like that was he healed you
in that moment that way, Yeah, that's person when you
were vulnerable, that was super vulnerable. That makes more sense.
Like I broke up with my eggs and this guy
had a what like that's a wife and my birthday.
I rented a beachfront Malibu. I have Florida ceiling windows.
Actually there was fish in the wall. Fish. Yeah, you

(01:35:31):
need to eat this player. You're not getting a couple
of the works of it and didn't bring anything. It
would have been a waste if it wasn't more than
a couple of hose. You know, I should have you
know what I don't have. I don't use my free
will anyway. Then I should coming out. I should Well,
I'm I hope that we can und a shame you
from this story and empower you. And you paid the
right choice. That wasn't that you had to say the day?

(01:35:53):
I mean, like I had what's another I mean I
don't think there's a whost story, but like I lost
my virginity. I'm a trampoline. Yeah, and my dog was
looking at me the whole time. That's not really a ho. No,
that's just like kind of sweet to the guy from
Nickelodeon because on that sounds fun. This is like, No,

(01:36:14):
it was not story. If I ever heard one, I
love that. So yeah, that's I don't have, like like
I have crazy stories. Well that was great. I gave
you the Pires one. Yeah, they're all great. I love
all your stories. Thank you for blessing us. So I
didn't even I did not plan to do this.

Speaker 4 (01:36:32):
We have that.

Speaker 1 (01:36:33):
We have that power. We have that power of getting
the stories out of the bitch. I forgot. Oh my god,
thank you for coming finally on this show. I'm mouthing us,
me and my person having me, my friend Miranda, there's
nobody's here. Thank you for having me. Oh you're so welcome.

(01:36:56):
Where can people find you? Chelsea? Outside? That's what I'm
talking about, Well, in the street on Instagram, Chelsea Bars,
I'm on TikTok. You be doing like TikTok.

Speaker 4 (01:37:12):
You like that.

Speaker 1 (01:37:13):
Don't do the battles. What a battles? Battling? Give me
a galaxy. I tried. I tried to go live, but
I do. I like TikTok. Actually, I think I'm liking
it more. Are you like mom? Are you the moms
of TikTok side of TikTok? Or are you like I'm
like both? Mine is so chaotic. It's like I have
the mom like boy mom stuff, and then I have
just me, like fucking I don't know. Just looking I

(01:37:35):
see a little outfit photo, your out videos. Okay, yeah,
do more of that, Like I like that. People think
you to have like a niche. I don't have a
fucking niche. You just doing you. I'm the niche. It's
me me. Okay. Yeah. About TikTok Chelsea Arts of ARUs,
I think we'll put all the links in the bars.
Look you'll find her. I also find around the next

(01:38:00):
season of All America. Yeah, I almost. I almost have
Good America to America. Yea. All Americans coming out in July,
the last season, season eight, and then I have a
couple of movies coming out. Yay. I guess let's not
be poor. You can't beave it literally cannot. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:38:23):
Well, I'm wishing you all of the best of luck
and abundance in your career and in your love life
and just being a black creative in this industry.

Speaker 1 (01:38:30):
I know is it ain't easy, but you're doing it
and you're thriving, and kudos to you.

Speaker 2 (01:38:36):
I I just I'm proud to see another black woman
in her art and a creation while also being a
good mom.

Speaker 1 (01:38:42):
Well, they insired me. No, I'm serious, Really you really did.
I was like, Oh, they're hot and fun and cool.
I can do this. I can do this has to
be this type of married mom. I'm out of here.
That's the thing of that today. No, you guys compliment,
you're not. You still have responsibility. You created this amazing

(01:39:04):
like platform and I think you guys should have a show.
But this is a show. We're gonna be on Netflix.
Yeah you're here first, Chelsea said it. Yeah, is that show?
You have to do that thing that you do. You know,
it's a lot of girls. I'm hilarious.

Speaker 2 (01:39:23):
We're hilarious a black people, black people in general areas.
I'm literally living in the comments for my people. Okay
every time, Well, y'all know, would way to find us
or and if you don't make sure you go to
good Mom's bad choices everywhere and just search or just
click the episode description and if you're not doing anything
yet this summer, then you should join us in close.

Speaker 1 (01:39:45):
Batty, what are you doing this summer? Sorry? I know?
Is this the retreat? Trying to fucking listen? Me and
my friend Raven Raven Goodwin. Okay, we were on just
shortting together and she's another actress. Okay, she's amazing and
she's a mom too. She has two kids and she
needs a break. I'm on, she need a break, I

(01:40:05):
need a break. I'm not putting Raven last. Raven Raven
is a common is amazing, so talented, she's a cook.
Go to her page, Raven good One. Let me tell you,
let's fucking go July twenty fourth through the twenty ninth,
because I can to conflict with your little fucking make
it work, Okay, come on that release date. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:40:25):
You've got to do fucking appearances. No, no, I'm going wait,
so what is it's like a Okay? So July twenty fourth,
twenty ninth. Costa Rica is our women's retreat. It's where
we started our retreats. We've been doing them for four
years now.

Speaker 1 (01:40:37):
How we do this sis for you. Oh years, we
just did our twentieth retreat. This is four year anniversary.
Actually that will be our twenty second retreat. What a
special number. Wow, our birthdays.

Speaker 2 (01:40:50):
See see it's we take over this entire property. It's
fucking beautiful. It's magical. It's on the black people side
of Costa Rica, so there's a black people's side.

Speaker 1 (01:40:59):
Yeah, girl, on the Caribbean side, it's like this well here,
like it's like Jamaican like it's it's very yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:41:07):
And the whole retreat is just about you. Is you
spending time with yourself? I connect with that rest. I
need rest in jungle food fourishment being taken care of.
You don't have to do a motherfucking thing.

Speaker 1 (01:41:20):
You're floating around in a moomo in the jungle. Really yeah,
bitch and or very websicle. You're gonna love you. If
you want to add to your whimsy, then come to
this retreat. Okay, I'm actually dumb, but hold me accountable.
Be like, let's group chat, Like, don't worry, we'll stock you,
no problem. We have you on camera. Okay, yeah, come
only fun. People want people.

Speaker 2 (01:41:41):
If you're listening to this and you're interested, then go
check out the Good Vibe Retreat on Instagram or go
to our website Good Mom's Bad Choices dot com.

Speaker 1 (01:41:48):
I love you, I love you, love you, love you.

Speaker 6 (01:41:57):
So good. I went to the wind rout since til
I find out where may not have been known earth.
I used to be broken tail, now got the blues
in to like Beyonce, just hell throat shot.

Speaker 1 (01:42:07):
Or pop in his cowering our voices.

Speaker 6 (01:42:09):
Patriarchy kept it in the box to exploit its women
put the pee in power, so it's pointless. They want
me to be good, so I mean bad choices. Bad mom,
not a bad mom, but.

Speaker 1 (01:42:18):
A bad mom. It he's in on for cannabis in.

Speaker 6 (01:42:21):
Their Bathbon walked in Boston's cap and I blew his
cat ball hop dog.

Speaker 1 (01:42:25):
Now I'm immune to the cat called Herbie.

Speaker 6 (01:42:28):
And the waisted straight to it like a dollar sign.
Mother rent the lover when too, it is like a
water sign where you're rent. The winter resentual will win
the summer time

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