Snooki & Joey UNPACK A Toxic Love Story, Lindsay Clancy trial & psycho exes

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Speaker 1 (00:07):
It's happening with Snookie and Joey. Call me and mos.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
Welcome to show me when ladies again. It's swipping at Wednesdays,
Suby and I are here, real queer, get.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
Used to it?

Speaker 4 (00:24):
Spooky.

Speaker 2 (00:25):
Yes, I would saying you look like you were in
disguise earlier, but I guess you do wear that every day?

Speaker 1 (00:30):
Yeah, with us every day. And I decided to put
my hair up because it was so greaty that I
just didn't want to put it up yet you look crazy.
But our hair is up and we're ready to go, bitches.
And you know what, I'm ready for a fall because
I have my Salem you know, witchy sweatshirt on today.
I did more of a dark lip today because you know,

(00:52):
that's the only makeup that I wear for this because
I'm lazy. But I'm like, I'm ready. I'm ready for
the fall feels and I'm ready.

Speaker 4 (00:59):
Let's do it, bitch, bitch, I'm beyond ready.

Speaker 2 (01:02):
And you know what I was thinking because I have
a little list I keep in the uh that I think,
like when I'm eventually able to have things I want
in life. I have a list of like important things
and one of them on there is I want to
be so rich or just not even that rich. I
just want a way to afford to be able to
turn your house into a different season whenever you want
it like I want.

Speaker 4 (01:20):
I'm not like I have three.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
I have three air conditions in this two room fucking
apartment I live in, and it does not even begin
to cut it.

Speaker 4 (01:26):
I need to be able to make my entire house.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
With wind and flurries maybe, or just like even like
to be like thirty degrees or say, like I want
like low freezing temperature, yeah for a snowstorm party. I
want to be able to go from zero to one
hundred degrees in my house with wind and flurries and
things at all times. So like I'll start with just
the temperature, but like there should be a way that
I should I should be able to afford luxuries like

(01:52):
living in winter all times in my own home.

Speaker 4 (01:54):
Thank you same.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
And I just posted something or reposted something on Instagram
where people just leave their decorationstuff for Christmas all year round.
If I lived by myself and like Geanny didn't care,
like my kids didn't care, my house would be decorated
for Christmas all year round. I don't give a shit,
and I would like, you know how people leave their
tree up all year round and then they do different like

(02:17):
holidays and stuff, Like I would just die and I
would love that. And there's this couple that actually did
do that for like fifty years. They were like, it's
too hard to put everything back, so we're lazy, and
we just keep it up all year round for twenty
years now and then now like there's all these airbnbs
that are Christmas all year so like even if it's
the summertime like forth the July weekend, you can rent

(02:38):
out this Christmas Airbnb and it can be Christmas in July.
I mean, I just I love all the things.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
That's amazing to call. That's that's what we're saying. Living
in a simulation and life. That's the way we've come
to with everything else in our life, where we have
the AI doing and things for us. We have robots
fucking running our lives simulating what you know normal life is.
We need to be able to simulate fucking seasons, holidays. Look,
next thing I want to I want to be able
to teleport next to like wherever I need to go,
But the Christmas lights I cannot. I can completely understand

(03:08):
to a degree, like the how the lights. Nicole has
this lady that comes to your house every year. They're
the cream of the crop. I don't know their name
in New Jersey and they do all the rich people's
houses where they install the professional Christmas lights. They edge
the entire house, the ceiling, the roofs, like all the
looks and crannies of.

Speaker 4 (03:24):
The house, and it looks flawless.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
But they put them up and then and then and
then every year they take them back down. If they
if you're getting it done so professionally and so tight
and clean and professional like that, I would just leave
them up all fucking year round.

Speaker 4 (03:36):
Why why do you take them down every year?

Speaker 1 (03:39):
Well, because you can see it. You can can see
it during the day. Yeah, like you could see the
bulbs hanging, and I don't know, I guess it looks
tacky on the outside.

Speaker 4 (03:47):
I guess so. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:48):
So I like to take the lights down outside of
the house because during the summer, like you can see them.
But I do like to I put the lights up.
I always request Halloween. I want my lights up Halloween
or November first, and then I want them taking down,
like mid February March. So I like to keep them

(04:09):
up for a minute.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
Wait, can I ask you a question? So I first
two this is a two part nicole. First of all,
do you when you the company that you use, do
you keep the light?

Speaker 4 (04:19):
Are those yours lights?

Speaker 2 (04:20):
Or and you keep them you have to store them
somewhere or they come with the lights and then saw
them each year and just put they take them away
when they're done.

Speaker 4 (04:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (04:27):
So basically, and there's lighting companies everywhere. Just google it
and then you can find somebody or some company. But
you basically just pay for the lights in the beginning
and the installation, and then you keep the lights so
they'll come back take it down, and then you put
it in your bins and then you keep it in
your garage. So those are your lights. You already bought them.
So now instead of using her company because it's expensive,

(04:49):
I end up using my landscapers and they've been doing
a great job putting it up and I'm saving money.
So yeah, you buy the lights and they're yours forever.
But oh, it's just it's so like North Poley.

Speaker 4 (05:01):
Yes, I can't know what you know.

Speaker 2 (05:03):
What I would suggest to do is to have them
like like maybe LED lights or whatever, like have them
at the house or you can't see them all year around,
but then be able to change them for colors like
fourth of July. I want to be able to have
a red, white and blue ribbon going around and like
changing the design of it and like not like full
on like hieroglyphics, but just like have them be able
to like you like the LED oRGB it's called you

(05:23):
can change like the back of my TV. I can
change all the colors I want, but then can you
patterns like maybe just the ceiling white, just the middle
blue and then the bottom red or for pride, have
a rainbow going around it.

Speaker 4 (05:33):
Like that's what I would have a lot of home.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah, a lot of homes now they're not doing the
lights and they're doing that where they're installing. They're basically
like landscape outdoor lights like for your regular house, like
during the night, so obviously they're always white, but then
they have a little button and like for Valentine's Day,
they'll make it like red and pink and you could
change it. Yeah, So a lot of people are actually
doing that right now, and I don't mind that, But

(05:58):
if I had that I still feel like I would
still do the lights.

Speaker 4 (06:03):
I know you would do it all, but you'd go crazy.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
You you'd have like you know you you would celebrate
like some random thing with Gigi and like light you
up your house so like CJ dot Com.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
Oh my god, CJ and my house would be blue
the whole time.

Speaker 4 (06:14):
I know, Oh, I would love it.

Speaker 2 (06:16):
Nostalgia nostalgia. I mean, I'm ready for I'm always ready
for fall. But it's like, literally still my electrics electric
is so expensive to have to have the air conditions running.
I can't be living like like an iguana. It's like
fucking the walls are sweating in here. It's like I
always hated summer, though you like the summer, but we're
fall people through and through.

Speaker 4 (06:37):
And I was summer.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
I hate the summer all right, but you oh, that's right.

Speaker 4 (06:42):
We're both cold weather. You were both born and cold.

Speaker 1 (06:45):
I hate the summer.

Speaker 5 (06:47):
I think.

Speaker 4 (06:49):
Is that a thing?

Speaker 2 (06:50):
I mean, I don't if there's any psychologists or biologists
in the chat, but I think it may be something
where the season that you were born in is a
season that you resonate and it's your favorite season. Like
I was born in January third, and it's like dead
of winter, and I love freezing ice ice cold.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
That makes sense.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
You're in November in the fall. You love being cozy
in the fall. People that are born like and think
about this, anyone born in the summer. Have you ever
met someone born in the summer that's fat and sweaty
and like hates the hates the weather. I've never met
like a summer person or a summer baby person that.

Speaker 4 (07:23):
Was like fat and sloppy.

Speaker 2 (07:24):
Do They're always like fit and skinny and like wanting
to be outside doing, like going on a run. I've
never met a fat shut in that like so like
gorge and hates the heat, that was born in the summer.
So I think again, I don't know if there's any
any palaeontolligensces in the chat, but if there is, I
want to know what the correlation of fuck off correlation,
What the correlation between the season you're born is and

(07:45):
your your true calling season.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
Mama, no crusaders sound off. If you're born in the
summer but you hate summer, then I guess that's breaking
our theory. But I agree, I feel like that's very true.

Speaker 2 (07:58):
Peaky's born in the summertime. His birthday's next month, and
he loves the heat. He hates to be cold. He
shivers an extramatic.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
So Rocky's birthday is October third, so he is a
fall baby, and he hates the summer. He hates sweating.
He'll be outside for like not even ten minutes and
he's like finding shade and gagging. So Rocky does not
like summer.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
See, I think it's a real thing. I got to
call the universe, gregs wait. I locked Peaky. I locked
Peaky up the other like earlier, and I forgot about him,
like I was in the house.

Speaker 6 (08:30):
I was.

Speaker 2 (08:32):
No, I didn't lock him in a closet. I put
him in the kitchen, and I have this like this sloop.
I have this thing because when he was starting to remember,
He's always go in the kitchen and steals like bad
things off the floor, like I'll be cutting onions or
gar like, and he'd run in like they're toxic for
no obviously I know, So he would run in there
and try to like nibble off the floor. I'm cooking,
and I'm you know, I'm cooking, chopping away and things

(08:53):
are flying. So I got the gate and like polling
and saw so he can't go in there. I totally
forgot that I have, so I was like, you know,
let me. I'm cleaning the house and doing all this
stuff out because of glass broke, That's what it was.
So I was I was trying to clean the glass up.
So I was like, get away, sup running around touching
some I was afraid he was gonna eat it, so
I put him in the kitchen and this whole thing.

Speaker 4 (09:11):
It must have been like an hour. I totally forgot
about him.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
I'm sure he was fine. It's probably taking an app
Oh no, he was.

Speaker 4 (09:16):
He was fine.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
But now I know that I have that little area,
I'm gonna start outfitting it with little blankets and like
and little cozy things for him and keeping him in
there during the day.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
Here's Rocky.

Speaker 4 (09:28):
Oh hi Rocky. How's his the peggy? Look this Rocky.
How's his foot feeling after he got the injection?

Speaker 1 (09:34):
Oh he's fine. He was so dramatic, but he's all
better now and ready to go. And he's staying with
me this weekend because I want him to help me recover.

Speaker 2 (09:46):
You know they have that in hospitals like dogs and cats. Yes,
recovery dogs leave some not not all for terminal illness.
I mean, if I make a wish foundation, I would
live in a zoo. Mike Osh, you know, Mom, I
wish would be I would want to get eaten by
a tiger if I knew I was gonna die, I
want to tiger to cuddle with me and like scratch
me a little bit and bite my coolie and just
take me out.

Speaker 6 (10:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (10:05):
I don't want to feel though. I would want to
like be put to sleep and then he can eat me.

Speaker 4 (10:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (10:14):
But they have like emotional suppor jokes where you can
bring them into the hospital and have them lay with
you if you're like going through it.

Speaker 1 (10:21):
Did you know they do that in jail also because
they're trying to like get the criminals to and they're
trying to get the criminals to like become empathetic and
like nice and like have feelings. And the cats, some
cats are really turning these hardcore criminals into like angels.

Speaker 4 (10:38):
That's such a smart idea. Not all, I mean, if
they try.

Speaker 2 (10:41):
But the thing is if they try to fuck with
and hurt the animals, then then they'll then they should
be put down. They should be like electrocuted chair the
electric chair right away. But like having them there, like
you know, I can't imagine, Like I'm not I'm not
siding with I'm not empathetic with the with the murderers,
but I'm just saying that you're there, you're in there
to like, you know, to rot, you know, and that's
gonna in the life. But like you know, having these
there's so many animals that need homes. They don't care

(11:03):
if they're in a cage. They're they're just fucking happy
to be there and hang out as long as like
the staff is feeding them and like the people are watching,
like the wardens watching these animals to make sure they're
not getting hurt and abuse. I think it's a fabulous
idea to get these cats. These got these cats off
the street. I would have the whole sanctuary.

Speaker 4 (11:21):
I would run I would run the Vet Wing documentary
on it.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
And they just bring all these animals and the criminals
are just obsessed with them and they love them and
they feel like they have a purpose and they're they're
literally in there for a life, like they murder people,
they did crazy shit, like they're not They're they're there
till they die, and they just become such softies with
the doggies and cats.

Speaker 4 (11:44):
I would love that.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
I would be like, I'd be like wanting to run
to steal everyone's dogs and cats that like.

Speaker 4 (11:48):
Iash a house robber.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
I'd want to steal all the animals and hide them
with me, like like Noah's Ark.

Speaker 1 (11:55):
Well, speaking of documentary, we have to talk about the
Netflix document that everybody's talking about.

Speaker 4 (12:02):
Show me your Port, show Where is Your Port?

Speaker 1 (12:08):
I was, you're lying, Where's your Port?

Speaker 2 (12:11):
I was able to break into a loved one's Netflix
account because after mine got shut off. Spotify got shut
off this week, so I can't even listen to my
own podcast what I know, But I was able to
break into someone's Netflix and I got to watch the documentary.
And we're talking about, of course, the documentary. What is

(12:32):
it called toxic love or toxic relationship?

Speaker 1 (12:35):
What is it called toxic something? It's it's trending, it's
on Netflix.

Speaker 2 (12:42):
Oh, toxic love story. It's a it's tangled web we
weave like and I love documentaries like this this one has.
But the thing is, Nicole, can I say something before
we get into this. The thing is with us being
for ensnic scientists and we're so good at it, naturally, we're.

Speaker 4 (12:56):
So into.

Speaker 2 (12:58):
But the thing is, it ruins it for us to
like I said, it's just like it's I said about
like all the amazing things you can do in the world,
like you know, go to the red carpetet at the
award show, and it's like so amazing.

Speaker 4 (13:07):
We're so sterile to it.

Speaker 2 (13:10):
It's like we can't even enjoy it anywhere because it's
like so like normal, not normal to us. But it's
like we nothing surprises us anymore. Nothing is exciting for
us anymore. That's a hyden good. Documentaries we have we
have solved single handedly so many cases on our own, yes,
and in the in the cruise true crime space, that
it's like it's hard for us to like see a
documentary and be like, oh my god, truly blown away

(13:30):
with it, like Nicole and I or Nicole clocked what
happened the first sentence in the document she knew what happened.

Speaker 1 (13:38):
Oh, I knew right away that the girl, the new wife.
I was like, no, something's up herself. I didn't expect
the guy, but I knew, like, nah, something's weird about her.
So I knew already that there's gonna be twists and turns.
But like Joey said, like we're obsessed with documentaries, we
we know exactly what's gonna happen. We call it it's
our intuition. Like I literally watched docuseries and murderers and

(14:02):
serial killers every single day, Like there's not a day
that goes by that I don't watch something about murderers
and like evil criminal people. So I feel like we're
professionals at this point, like we know, we know what's
going on.

Speaker 4 (14:15):
Okay, that's right.

Speaker 2 (14:17):
I'm gonna read you about what the I'm gonna bead
a synopsis of what the show is about, so you
guys can follow our ranch about it while you break
down the show. So the accusation, the newly weds Angela
Diaz then Angela Connell reported violent threats from a sender
named Lilith Lilith's this is a tongue twister, Lilith like
Lilith Fair Lilith's truths, pointing suspicion at her husband, Ian

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Diaz ex fiance Michelle Hadley.

Speaker 4 (14:41):
The exhalation.

Speaker 2 (14:41):
The harassment claims expanded from to fake Craigslist ass luring
men to Michelle luring men to Michelle's condo for assault fantasies,
leading Michelle's leading to Michelle's arrest, eighty eight days spent
in jail.

Speaker 4 (14:53):
This is this is Ian's X husband.

Speaker 2 (14:56):
The investigators eventually unraveled that Angela herself engineered a collaborate
frame scheme, leading to her twenty seventeen guilty plea for
five year prison sentence, while Michelle was fully exonerated.

Speaker 4 (15:05):
Basically, there's a couple, Michelle and Ian.

Speaker 2 (15:08):
Michelle and Ian get broke, they divorced, and Ian goes
with a snow bitch, Angela. Mitchelle and Angela and Ian
are living together, and now all of a sudden, apparently
Michelle is sending death threats to Angela, the new wife,
saying that she's gonna kill her and I'm gonna have
that she should be killed and raped, and all these
horrible things are happening. So now Ian Angela are like,

(15:28):
oh my god, what's going on? Michelle needs to be
put to prison. So they finally get enough evidence to
put Michelle in prison. But that's not what happened. What happened, Michelle, Nicole,
What actually happened?

Speaker 1 (15:42):
I was a listening. Sorry, what what happened.

Speaker 4 (15:47):
I just wrote a full book report. Oh jes So
everyone thinks that it was Michelle.

Speaker 2 (15:53):
Everyone thinks okay, yeah, okay, everyone thinks it was Michelle
sending these letters and threatening these things, But it wasn't
what actually was going on to call.

Speaker 1 (16:02):
So it was, well, are we spoiling it for everyone?

Speaker 4 (16:05):
I don't know, but I think they needs it.

Speaker 2 (16:06):
We're gonna spoil it anyway, So we're gonna start telling
everything that we think of what happened in all the
exciting things.

Speaker 1 (16:11):
Oh yeah, So if you don't really were spoiled, Yeah,
if you don't want it to be spoiled, because it
is a crazy twist and turns that, like you watch
it and you're like, oh my fucking god, what is
going on? Like how crazy are these people? Just just
fast forward? But it wasn't. It wasn't Michelle, and Michelle
didn't even know it wasn't her because she was going
through a mental fucking breakdown. And then it ended up

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being the man the entire time, the freaking us Marshall,
who was actually like abusing the girl before, so she
was all fucked up from him.

Speaker 4 (16:43):
That's why Michelle left.

Speaker 1 (16:45):
And then the lady that he's with now, the wife
who said she was pregnant with twins isn't fucking pregnant
because she's a carn artist and she pretended she had
cancer like with a previous relationship. So all she's just
a victim player and she just makes up all these eyes.
It's there's just a ton of crazy fucking people in
this and the the one that we thought was like
the crazy girl that was just talking people was actually

(17:08):
the innocent one that got sucked over by all these people.

Speaker 4 (17:11):
Michelle was the last one to do any of these
crazy Angela.

Speaker 1 (17:14):
She just kept getting bad in bad, worse, worse.

Speaker 2 (17:16):
Angela who pretended she had cancer. What was her other
lie that she was doing. She was pretending to have
cancer for sympathy.

Speaker 1 (17:21):
She was like, she said she had stage four cervical
cancer and she had molling. Yeah, she had moles that
she was getting removed because.

Speaker 4 (17:30):
It was just cancer. She had a cancer's mole in
her ankle, and she acted like she had full blown
cancer and was getting chemotherapy and she was sending pictures
to her husband of the bag of the fucking drip
bag of chemo nice.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
She said she had she said she had cervical stage
four cancer. Oh so she's she So first she said,
I have a stage four cervical cancer. I have to
go get chemo. He was like, all right, let me
go with you. She's like no, and then he finally
you know, he was asking, he was asking. Then she's like, fine,
come with me, but don't come. She ended up going
to a surgeon, and she went to a plastic surgeon.

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She was removing a mole and he was like, you're
here to remove a mole. This is not for your
cervical cancer. And she was like, no, this is like
a part of it, because like I have skin cancer too.
So she was just she was all fucked up in
her lie and what was the other She was too
deep in it.

Speaker 4 (18:20):
Wait remember that.

Speaker 2 (18:21):
And then her her fiance or her boyfriend whatever had
an intervention, so she had her best friends and all
her family and friends convia they should walk in.

Speaker 4 (18:28):
She got crazy, crazy crazy. What was the other lie? Though?
Besides the cancer? Something else?

Speaker 2 (18:33):
She was like, you were never you didn't have cancer,
and you never worked somewhere or.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
Oh she was a lawyer. She said she was a lawyer.
Oh right, she she never got her degree she's not
a lawyer.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
Yeah, so she's so she was ready was nuts and
then she finally finds out she finally gets h with
this the other guy Ian who I think it was
like it was a perfect person to fall into his
lap because he's a r idea fucking nut job and he
wants to do all these things.

Speaker 4 (19:01):
So they started like you.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
Know, now what the question my question is called, do
you think that Angela in the house knew anything about this?
Or did you think, like, do you think the guy
really came to the house and strangled turned the garage
or did she has rub a scara on her eyes
and act like That's what I was confused about.

Speaker 1 (19:19):
I feel like she thought it was real in the beginning,
and then she caught on and maybe he was like
I just want this girl to get out of our life,
so can you play along? And she was like, yeah,
I do this for a living, so I don't. I
feel like I feel like he dressed up as the
guy and she didn't know it was him because she
really did look scared. But then also like I could
see her just like pretending and fake crying because she

(19:42):
fucking said she was dying of cancer. So I don't know,
I can't tell like what part she was in on
it and not in on it, but she was definitely
in on it.

Speaker 2 (19:49):
So yeah, So basically this guy, the man in the house,
uh freak ian the husband Iann was writing emails sending
them to Angela, his wife for fiance at the time,
saying like and so, and then he probably like planted
in a seat and was like, oh, this is definitely Michelle.
She's a psycho, and she like she definitely wants to,
you know, get back at us.

Speaker 4 (20:09):
And then maybe I think that.

Speaker 2 (20:11):
Maybe since she's a scam artist show, she probably was
like adding onto the she was adding little fuel to
the fire, like you know, she would like he would
make up the lie and say like you know, this happened,
but then she would be like, oh yeah, and then
they did this, and then and then she even did this,
so she was like, you know, kind of going with it.
People are fucking nuts. This isn't and like it just
shows to show you don't know who the fuck you're
going with, or who you're marrying, or who's laying next.

Speaker 4 (20:32):
To you in the bed.

Speaker 3 (20:33):
Peek.

Speaker 4 (20:33):
You could be a serial case for exactly. He was
adopted from a bad neighborhood.

Speaker 1 (20:38):
Yeah, so you guys have to watch it. It's really
really good and there's twists and turns, and it's it's
pretty long. I like the length of it because I
feel like docu series are usually like so quick and
you're like, oh, I wish there was more, But like,
once I thought it was over, there was still like
forty five minutes left. So I give it. I give
it a ten out of ten.

Speaker 4 (20:57):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (20:57):
And then Ian's friend, the blonde lady who's in the
beginning of the throw the whole thing.

Speaker 4 (21:01):
She was with him exactly.

Speaker 1 (21:05):
She's like, I love him, but I'm not in love
with him. But you're lying.

Speaker 2 (21:09):
You're lying, like I didn't know who she was from
the beginning, And Billy kem yelling because every time I
asked her like who is this, she's like, you're not watching,
You're on your fucking phone. That's why you can't, can't whatever,
like like yelling at me, as was like, you don't
even know who the fuck this bitch is. You don't
know who this fucking random lady take at the kitchen
table is, and no one knew who wasn't to the
end of the show, she was like some guy girl
that was in love with him, like her best friend.

Speaker 1 (21:29):
She starts off, she starts off with the documentary. You
know exactly who she is. She's the best friend. Say
she said you clearly weren't paying attention with.

Speaker 4 (21:38):
Billy, then well you she starts off.

Speaker 1 (21:41):
The whole thing and she's saying how they're best friends
and you know she was friends with the ex girlfriend
and like she's always been in his life and she's
always there for him, Like she started off with the
whole thing and like talking so highly of him.

Speaker 2 (21:54):
Right, well, yeah, a documentary. Go over to Toxic Love Story.
You can't use my login anymore because it's cut off,
but look over there and they're gonna like what you say.

Speaker 4 (22:05):
I guarantee it.

Speaker 1 (22:06):
So well, everyone's talking about this movie Odyssey, and I
definitely want I want to watch it because everybody's in it.
Tom Holland, my my husband, he's in it, Robert Pattinson, Patton.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
And Diya works there. Wait, Sandya works there and her
husband they have the Sindia works there.

Speaker 1 (22:28):
Yeah, he's yelling, there's there's some actors in this, like
I need Anne Hathaway.

Speaker 4 (22:35):
I'll tell you, Mac Damon and Hathaway are in it.

Speaker 1 (22:39):
Oh, I wonder how much budget they had to pay
all these freaking crazy actors.

Speaker 2 (22:44):
Give me all the facts of the movie Odyssey with
actors their salaries and a synopsis of the story.

Speaker 4 (22:52):
Okay, ready, okay. So it's Christopher Nolan's.

Speaker 2 (22:54):
The odyssey follows Greek king Ajusis and his ten year
journey home after the trope War. Key cast members include
Matt Damon, who got paid fifteen million, Tom Holland got
paid ten million, and Anne Hathaway got paid seven million.

Speaker 4 (23:09):
It also also shows Robert Pattinson for six million, Zendayer
five million.

Speaker 2 (23:15):
Charlie's Tharron works there. She got six million. Lupita Noongo
works there. She got God four million, John berth and
All I don't know who is he got three million?

Speaker 4 (23:27):
Who else? All this money?

Speaker 1 (23:30):
What was the budget for the shop?

Speaker 2 (23:32):
John leg Wozamo gets two point five and Elliott Page
formerly Ellen Page got one point five million. That's sucked
up because she's she's a trans transman. She only got
paid one five million dollars. Okay, So the story is
the Trojan War's aftermath. A does this and his men
depart from Troy I don't know who Troy is old school,
but Hubris angers the gods, particularly pus Poseidon. The decade

(23:57):
long voyage, so this is a voyage going somewhere for
ten years, forces aduces to face monsters like Cyclops.

Speaker 1 (24:04):
Oh I like that, Ercy Jackson.

Speaker 4 (24:08):
And also the.

Speaker 2 (24:11):
Seductive nymph Calypso while Dus is fighting survival atsy his wife, Penelope,
and son for Penelope and his son Timoxious fend off
aggressive suitors trying to steal his throne.

Speaker 4 (24:24):
So he's out.

Speaker 2 (24:25):
He's just trying to get home to the mother, to
the mother, the kid and the mother, the kid and
her son, the kid and wife.

Speaker 1 (24:32):
The son is Tom Holland right, and Matt Damon.

Speaker 2 (24:35):
Is the father son let me see, I feel like
it's right son.

Speaker 1 (24:41):
And Hathaway is the mom wife, Tom is the son,
and then Matt Damon because I saw the trailer and
Matt Damon is the dad. Trying to get home. Weren't
you going to go to that crazy theater where the
seat shaken something?

Speaker 2 (24:57):
No, Billy and his roommate went yester day to go
see and I asked open to good. I haven't spoken
to him yet today, but yeah, I'm assuming it's good,
but I want to go because there's ones where there's
there's theaters and they call four DK theaters. They have
them all over the city where you can go sit
in the chair and then the whole room shakes and
the chair shakes, water sprays at you and like things
grab your ankles. It's like it's like this whole experience.

Speaker 1 (25:19):
That is the coolest thing ever.

Speaker 4 (25:22):
I'm going to go by myself, I really am.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
Have you ever went to the movies by yourself? Because
I did it once and I fucking loved it. I
loved it.

Speaker 4 (25:31):
Yeah, I had I enjoyed.

Speaker 1 (25:33):
I enjoyed going on a date by myself. It was
the best thing in the entire world.

Speaker 4 (25:37):
Oh, I've done everything about myself. Okay, what else is it?

Speaker 2 (25:40):
Who does Elliott Page play anyway of just as finally
returns in disguise and slays the slays the people, restores
his family and his kingdom. That sounds amazing, Like I
think that again, these budgets like they have And who
who is Christopher Nolan?

Speaker 4 (26:02):
Is he an actor too?

Speaker 6 (26:03):
Is he?

Speaker 2 (26:03):
Is he a director? He sounds like an that sounds
like an actor's name. Oh, Christopher Nolan. He's a prominent
he's a prominent film director. He's like everyone wants to
work with him. Apparently. You know who is pissed about
this is an insight tea Apparently because I saw it
on TV. Our good girlfriend Jennifer Lawrence was asked about it,

(26:25):
and she goes, she was and she was like pissed
that she wasn't asked to be on the show. Like
she's like, she's like, what's one of the director you
want to work with so bad? And that that would
love to work with it. She goes Christopher Nolan, but
he's never fucking slided my dms and never asked me
to be on.

Speaker 4 (26:37):
The show, like and thinks she's pissed it. I think
a lot of actresses were.

Speaker 2 (26:40):
Like wanted to go up for this role because it's
first of all, the money is good everyone, they're fucking
paying billions a yeah. And but Jennifer Laurence is one
of my favorite actresses.

Speaker 1 (26:51):
I missed her well. I feel like she hasn't been
in a movie in a minute, and I love when
she's in a movie. Did you did you know when
she was in How Games when she had to sing
that song was no she sang a song and she
was terrified to do it and she was like, I
don't want to do it. I don't want to do it.
They were like, you have to do it, like this

(27:12):
is this is a huge part of the series and
it really was. And she was so embarrassed. Supposedly she
was so embarrassed and scared to sing the song that
she got bombed. She drank in her trailer and got
drunk to do the scene.

Speaker 4 (27:28):
How fun. She's always drunk she was.

Speaker 6 (27:30):
She was.

Speaker 2 (27:32):
Always like I remember she was up on some show
where she was like she had to like go on
a red carpet and she was gonna she had to
go to like a watch what happens live beforehand.

Speaker 4 (27:40):
I don't know, so she can't.

Speaker 2 (27:41):
She had she got wasted and she had to be
on the red carpet and she was like looking she
had to like like not look try to not look drunk,
and she looked like a psycho, like opening her eyes
like this.

Speaker 1 (27:49):
Like I love her so much, you know what.

Speaker 4 (27:52):
I take that, I take that back. I don't. She's
not my favorite actress of times. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (27:56):
I don't like her for her acting abilities. I just
like her for her personality, because she's just like a
lit fun bitch like I.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
Just like herself.

Speaker 2 (28:04):
But the only movie I really seen that I remember
of her is when she was sleeping in the Spaceship
and then Chris Pratt woke her up passed friends with her.

Speaker 4 (28:14):
I loved that movie.

Speaker 2 (28:15):
And that's normally I'm not a sci fi queen normally,
but like that, and I would I normally would never
understand how that is.

Speaker 1 (28:20):
But I atun't remember from Hunger Games.

Speaker 2 (28:22):
No, I like to her in Hunger Games too, and
I'm thinking about it. And then when she had sex
with sex with the Nerd. I liked that movie. Actually,
I do like her as an actress.

Speaker 4 (28:31):
I loved that. I loved that movie where she got
woken up.

Speaker 1 (28:34):
Okay, no, yeah, she's She's the best. I love her.

Speaker 4 (28:39):
How do we get on? She was pissed that she
didn't get to work at Christoph Nolan's house.

Speaker 2 (28:42):
Christ Nolan, if you're looking for chwo up and coming actresses,
Spooky and I are also available and are also our dogs.

Speaker 4 (28:50):
Yes, oh this is just a ranch.

Speaker 2 (28:53):
I was trying to make a video on my phone
the other day the other day, and I needed to
find a why for it.

Speaker 4 (29:01):
And I have this big box. It's a fucking huge box.

Speaker 2 (29:03):
It's electronics on it, and I have in my closet
every there's why fat billion wires, a million one billion
wires in there, little little du dads, little clips, and
ship and and like camera equipment and lights and all
this stuff. And it got me thinking that it's like this.
I was so fucking pissed because I went, once I

(29:24):
found this one thing I needed, I went to go
plug in the computer and it wasn't the right fucking plug.
It was like, you know, the the little card, a
SD card would go in but then the plug was
for some old iPhone go in there. And I'm going
back and forth like this. I need to fucking talk
to who's in charge? Is there a first question?

Speaker 4 (29:42):
Jesus?

Speaker 2 (29:43):
Is there a division or a company or like a
law place like that like that that owns everything, unites
everyone in the entire every every nation in the entire
worlds United Nations, probably the u N that's what it's called.
I need to talk to about whoever is in the
UN doing the doing the collect collective things, so that

(30:03):
that's like that involves everyone in the fucking world. Someone
at the UN needs to hold an all hands on
meeting and make a law that everywhere, every fucking corner
of every nation, world, planet, every other any fucking place
in the world has to come together and make one

(30:23):
fucking wire that has to be the law for anything
that you plug in anywhere in the world. I don't
care if it's a fucking camera, a lawnmower, a fucking
a cell phone, a fan. They need to have one
fucking cord that universally is the law. They have electricity everywhere,
electricity works the same there's electricity comes from the fucking Earth.

(30:46):
Everywhere on Earth needs to have the same exact fucking cord,
no exceptions, no exceptions.

Speaker 4 (30:53):
I'm tired of it.

Speaker 2 (30:54):
That's how fucking Apple has been getting away with this
for fucking decades, making making bank on our poor people,
Like oh no, this needs to be plugged in now,
this one has to do this, so you have to
buy charges and buy more things. And then the fucking
tacky rip off people that are on TikTok or like
making banks on like I'm gonna make a this cheaper,

(31:14):
like make this version of this, so you have to
you can plug all these things into one. It's like
it's it's like it's a it's the calls come from
inside the house and I'm just trying to fuck us
with no lube.

Speaker 4 (31:23):
It's like I'm fucking sick of it. One chord for
all people.

Speaker 1 (31:29):
You take your pills today?

Speaker 4 (31:31):
No, not yet. And that's another thing. Thank you?

Speaker 1 (31:34):
Do you want to do? You want to go snort
them real quick?

Speaker 2 (31:37):
Oh my god, I had to get off my chest.
Another thing is I'm having brains apps. I I switch
for medications and no even surprisingly, Nicole has never been
on an antidepressant, but I'm sure ninety crusaders have been.
I had to switch from my delaxitine, which is the
Zimbalta is the the generic onto well bututrin that I take.

Speaker 4 (32:02):
Now.

Speaker 2 (32:02):
When you stop taking deloxey, which is an s sd
I or something you you know, if you have it,
you get these things called brain zaps nicles, and it's
it feels like constantly. If I forgot one pail like one,
if you forget one paill it happens to you. I've
been off these pails now for a month now because
I'm trans I just I tapered off them onto my
new medication. So these things are called brain zaps, Nicole,

(32:25):
and you hear them in your ears. It sounds like
in your ear you hear you hear that physically like
someone's blowing your ear, like you hear that, and then
you hear a buzzing and your brain, the top of
your brain like from here to here goes like numb
and like you can feel your brain like moving in
your head. It's and it's it's zap, zap zap. I'm

(32:48):
getting zapped like fucking left and right. I need to
know when's it's gonna stop. I call the doctor. He
says it's gotta taper off, and naturally goes away as
your naked, as your head gets used to the new stuff,
I going crazy, Like I can tell why.

Speaker 1 (33:02):
You've been medicated your entire life. So I feel like
your body is.

Speaker 4 (33:06):
Just like thirty years for thirty years.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
Yeah, so when you change something, your your body's like
what the fuck is happening because you've been on it
for so long.

Speaker 2 (33:15):
Yeah, So the brains apps are not stopping and I
have I'm having like im having a manic episode, like
I'm afraid, like the brains apps are telling me to
you know, get it together.

Speaker 4 (33:26):
Sell those chairs.

Speaker 1 (33:28):
Yeah, that's scary, that would freak me out. That give
me anxiety. Actually, I was gonna remember, I was gonna
do the anxiety medication. But I was talking to like
all my doctor friends like that actually like care and
they were like, he was like, do not go on it. Yeah,
And like my two other.

Speaker 4 (33:45):
Mom friends a doctor.

Speaker 1 (33:48):
His father's a doctor and he literally knows everything doctor
and he should be a doctor because he's so smart.
But he was like, do not go on them. You're
gonna become a zombie. It's going to ruin your brain.
And he told me, like stuff to get that's all natural,
that will help. And I ended up doing the old
natural and it freaking worked.

Speaker 4 (34:08):
What is it? Share the wealth, Mama? What did you get?

Speaker 1 (34:11):
I forget?

Speaker 4 (34:11):
It's like think below about astral gander.

Speaker 1 (34:14):
It's like this blue this blue dye that you put
like a drop on your tongue. What yeah, and some
other stuff. I have to look at our old text messages.

Speaker 4 (34:25):
But I've never heard of that.

Speaker 1 (34:27):
I don't want my brain to be all drugged with drugs.

Speaker 4 (34:33):
Well, I love drugs.

Speaker 1 (34:35):
Yeah, look how you're acting. You're screaming over a chord.

Speaker 2 (34:42):
That doesn't frustration you, Nicole, No, you don't care that
they get to buy fucking million different chords when you're
trying to find a chord.

Speaker 4 (34:49):
I know I've.

Speaker 1 (34:50):
Rans crazy, but I mean it's annoying, but it's not
like ruining my life.

Speaker 4 (34:55):
Well that's one thing. I can't believe. It's not ruining
your life.

Speaker 2 (34:58):
I think there should be a lot and I'm gonna
the unn is right out my house. I sort of
got should I go over there? I mean probably speaking
of a true crime. There is a new case underway
coming out of the Massachusetts area. You know I was
covering the Yeah, the Karen Reid case for Manys I was,
I was. I was a juror on the case.

Speaker 4 (35:17):
Well, now that's a new case's there?

Speaker 1 (35:19):
Now you have her phone number.

Speaker 4 (35:21):
I have Karen Read's phone number. So cool.

Speaker 2 (35:24):
I know I should text her. But now there's a
new case coming out of Massachusetts. What's going on over
in Massachusetts? Mama's it's filing out Lindsay Clancy case I
believe that's how it's pronounced. Is just started trials in
Massachusetts right now. Now, this case I never heard of
was brought across my desk this week actually, and I

(35:44):
had to get into so as of what's going on,
I know the backstory, which should I read the backstory?
I'm liking that were doing fact stuff and then we're
like discussing it.

Speaker 4 (35:54):
I think that's.

Speaker 1 (35:54):
Yeah, this is a very this is a very sad story,
and a lot of people are divided on how to feel.
But it's it's fucking wild and it's very very sad.

Speaker 2 (36:04):
Let me get the facts on it, because this we
are fact checkers. I work at the un Okay, So,
Lindsay Clancy a thirty five year old former labor and
delivery nurse from Duxbury, Massachusetts. It's currently on trial for
the January twenty fourth, that's Poppy's birthday, January twenty fourth,
deaths of her three young children.

Speaker 4 (36:22):
The core, highlight profile detail.

Speaker 2 (36:24):
Wait, the core of the high profile legal case does
not dispute that she killed the children, rather than it
hinges on her entire mental state and whether she should
be held criminally responsible.

Speaker 4 (36:34):
So basically a long story show, I'm going to tell
the story. What I know.

Speaker 2 (36:38):
She had these babies, and shortly after she had her
third child, she became very depressed.

Speaker 4 (36:43):
She was in and out of treatment.

Speaker 2 (36:45):
She called all the doctors, she was in psychiatric help
in the hospital.

Speaker 4 (36:48):
She was put into the hospital for her depression.

Speaker 2 (36:51):
And it wasn't it wasn't just a case of like
after baby blues or or what is it called a
prenatal what is it called when you have a depression
after postpartum postpartum depression. It was like a legal illegal
I'm sorry. It was a real thing where she had

(37:12):
like psychosis of like she basically went nuts after this,
and she was in the hospital trying to get treated
for this. She was released. They gave her pills, her
doctors did all these medication. They were treating her. She
was having these symptoms. She was a regular ass mom,
a regular ass mom. She was a good woman, a nurse,
She delivered babies herself. She was a perfect, perfect health
everything else she was. So she obviously was going to

(37:35):
get help. And then one day she snapped out of
nowhere and she was she said, he heard a man's
voice that said, kill kill your three children, and then
kill yourself.

Speaker 4 (37:45):
So she ended up doing just that.

Speaker 2 (37:47):
She strangled her three children and then she jumped off
her jumped off the balcony of her house and tried
to kill herself, and that's where her husband found her.
Now the case is everyone's saying is should she be
held criminally responsible? Obviously, and now she's paralyzed to the
neck down by the way from that fall, should she
be helped? I I personally there's everyone's thinking that. So

(38:07):
now of course all these people are gonna come out
and be like the prosecution is gonna be like, no,
she did. She knew exactly what she was doing, which
I think is kind of weird and annoying that, like, like,
who gives a fuck? Obviously the kids are down, this
is horrible, But why would this other than money? Why
would this the state give a fuck to like want
this woman to rotten health of the murder if it's

(38:30):
do you know what I mean? Like, why are they
pushing back so so hard on the criminal things? If
the husband doesn't even care, nothing, doesn't care. The husband's
not sewing her because he's with her thinking knowing it
was a psychosis thing.

Speaker 4 (38:41):
So what that's what all the drama is about. Should
she be held criminently responsible? Nicole? What are your thoughts?

Speaker 1 (38:47):
I don't know, because it's all fucked up. She she
went to psychiatrist's doctor. She tried to admit herself into
the hospital, saying, I'm hearing voices that I'm gonna kill
my kids. I'm worried for the safe my kids and
myself and my husband, and no one's fucking helping her.
They're like, oh, we're gonna put you on some meds
and then go back home. And then the husband's like,

(39:07):
the meds aren't working. She's still hearing voices, and they
put her on more meds, and then they put her
on more meds and they do higher doses, Like what
the fuck? So I don't know. I feel like if
if that were me and I didn't know what to
do when I was worried I was gonna hurt my kids,
I would literally like just go away. I would I
would leave. Or if my husband you, yeah, yeah, I'd
be like, I can't be around my kids because I

(39:28):
don't trust myself. I don't know what the fuck I'm
gonna do because I'm crazy, or no one's helping me
now the doctors are helping me, or my husband would
be like, okay, so the fact that you're still feeling
these things that it's getting worse, I don't want you
here at the house with us, God forbid, I'm sleeping.
I'm not here, Like why why would he leave her
alone with the kids knowing how she felt? Like, are
you dumb? I don't understand my question.

Speaker 4 (39:51):
I just don't.

Speaker 1 (39:52):
I don't know, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (39:54):
That's what I questioned, Coled. Did she when she was
going to the thing at the hospitals and stuff? Was
she was she saying that she is getting messages to
kill the kids? Or was she just saying I'm depressed
and I feel like I'm gonna tell you, Like, like,
what did she say that she was gonna do that
and then do it? That's why they're suing. That's why
the husband's suing the hospital. That's why she was suing
the hospitals.

Speaker 1 (40:15):
Yeah, she is so fucked up. That's supposedly what the
reports are saying is that she was saying, I'm gonna
the voices are saying to harm my children. I'm scared
I'm hearing voices. And they didn't keep her in the
hospital because she had no prior like psychological issues. If
she had prior psychological issues, then they would have admitted her.

(40:37):
But like what that doesn't seem scarier. That doesn't make
sense because what if one day I wake up and
I'm like, fuck, I want to kill my entire family.
You're not gonna admit me and help me and keep
my family safe because I didn't do that before. Like
there's always got to be like a jump start. It doesn't,
you know, it doesn't just like do you know what
I mean?

Speaker 2 (40:58):
Especially since she was such a a nice, normal woman,
like she's a nurse and she's working hospital in the
in the nic you and like in dealing with babies.

Speaker 1 (41:07):
This hospital should definitely be held accountable because they did
not do their job.

Speaker 4 (41:12):
Like they did. Don't don't.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
Don't take threats like this seriously, especially when there's children obviously,
any any life at stake, but you can't there's children involved,
and like you're like, and this is this is an
odd case. This is not something that that she's normally
like just a bad like a bad woman that's like
always doing bad stuff. She's like, oh she's not, she's
looking for attention again. No, this came out of fucking nowhere,
and it's a real fucking thing. My opinion obviously knows

(41:34):
she shouldn't go to prison. She should obviously be in
in a I don't think she should be set free.
She should I mean, I think she should be in
a rehabilitation or now after she did that, is she
is she's still.

Speaker 4 (41:46):
Having crazy feelings? Is she still nuts in the head?

Speaker 2 (41:49):
Or is she is she compt one thing and she's
is she and the medication is she still is?

Speaker 4 (41:54):
She's still being medicated in a different way.

Speaker 2 (41:56):
Does the government and the government and these these doctores
into mental institutions, did they have the ability to preppeteer
us into doing things?

Speaker 4 (42:04):
Did they make her do it? Did the hospital make
her do it.

Speaker 2 (42:07):
By getting doing the teaching her, telling these things, or
doing the therapy to make her want to do this?

Speaker 4 (42:13):
Are they are?

Speaker 3 (42:14):
They?

Speaker 2 (42:14):
Are they responsible? There's so many fucking weird things happening.
I personally never heard a voice and tell me to
kill myself. I've heard a voice that says, go eat
the rest of that McDonald's out of the garbage. I've
surely heard that voice, but not to kill anyone. So
I believe that the question is should she be I
think it should be up to the husband because not,

(42:35):
I don't know what do you think about her out?

Speaker 1 (42:37):
I really, I really know I honestly don't know. I
don't know how to feel. And the crime was so horrific,
Like those poor babies. Her youngest baby was eight months,
and then I think it was five and seven. There
were babies. Did she put them in the basement and
she choked them with her workout bands like one by one.
Horrific and that poor baby. I can't imagine them, all

(43:01):
of them. I just can't fucking imagine. And then she
went upstairs. She slit her wish, she slit her throat.
I think she took pills. She was like, really trying
to fucking kill herself.

Speaker 3 (43:10):
Oh she did.

Speaker 4 (43:11):
I thought she just jumped.

Speaker 1 (43:13):
Well, from what I read, she took pills. She slid
her wrists and her throat, and then she jumped out
the window. So she was like, I have to die.
I'm going to do all the things. So it's it's
fucking crazy. It's going on right now. I don't I
don't know what's happening right now, But I don't know
that the husband was just on the stand and he
was he was speaking. Oh, by the way, he remarried

(43:37):
and has children.

Speaker 4 (43:42):
Is she I'm looking at her now? Is she paralyzed? Like, no,
she's not. She's touching her face.

Speaker 1 (43:49):
Maybe from the waist down.

Speaker 2 (43:50):
I'm not sure I could read from the chest down,
maybe just her chest and maybe she can move her arms.
So yeah, everyone's not knowing what to make of all this.
I mean, I this is ah, this is the devil
in its highest form. This is some evil, weird ship
that it's horrible.

Speaker 1 (44:10):
Also, like this is why mental health needs to be
taken seriously, Like this is the sin clock.

Speaker 4 (44:17):
Oh, that's that's that's fucking very important.

Speaker 2 (44:20):
Again, we're we're we're not making light of this situation,
and any I means it's fucking horrible and terrible. If
you and or someone you know is in trouble, there's
help out there. Just don't go to the place that
she went to because they obviously don't know what they're doing.

Speaker 4 (44:33):
Literally.

Speaker 2 (44:35):
Yeah, so I'm gonna follow it closely. But my opinion is, no,
she's not. She's not because if I was in jury,
absolutely not. She's not criminally responsible. This is she did
more than enough to fucking try to help herself and
try to help her children, And it just proves that
it's that it's it's real. But you know, people are
they're gonna try to come against her saying, you know,
she told the man to go over, to leave the

(44:57):
house and go do this. Well, yeah, probably that, of
course she did. She all so the person also told
her to kill her children. Of course, she just wanted
to kay the house because she knew that she had
to do it. She knew she was going to do
it because the guy who was telling her in her
fucking ear to do it. She thinks she's gonna slit
her mat throat because because she wanted to know. So
my thing is, no, she should not be criminally held responsible.
I think she should be in a treatment facility and

(45:19):
try to figure out.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
Where she should have been with in the beginning, by
the way, so none of this would have happened.

Speaker 2 (45:25):
She needs to be under supervision of the rest of
her life, I think she. I don't think she should
be in a prison cell. I think an institution or
she should be having a constant supervision of some sort.
But yeah, this is definitely a mental uh in a
in a medical thing, not a fucking criminal thing. She
is not a criminal and she should not be held
responsible for what went on with those kids. That's my opinion.

(45:48):
And you know, that's why there's opinions. So that's why
this jurors. But if I was on that case, no,
she's not. She's not guilty of man of killing those
kids voluntarily.

Speaker 4 (45:58):
Alight.

Speaker 1 (45:58):
So I feel like me and you were just like
obsessed with crime and me I'm obsessed with like a
crime and podcast. I feel like that's like literally the
only thing that I do now and in my older age,
like as I'm cooking dinner, like I don't want to
listen to music anymore, and like jam out, I'm listening
to crime shows or I'm listening to UFO podcasts, Like

(46:19):
I feel like I'm just getting older as the day
goes on.

Speaker 4 (46:22):
I know what you mean.

Speaker 2 (46:23):
It's like things that you would like when you're younger,
if you would hear about them or like even think
about doing them, or like we it would be so
foreign to us, like oh my god, that's so grandma,
that's so.

Speaker 4 (46:32):
Old, Like how literally dinner at five o'clock?

Speaker 2 (46:35):
How can you want to go on a walk or
like you know, be like listen to the music at
that volume. It's like literally I wish like and now
that we are at that age, it's like it's it's
the best thing in the world to us. I think
that's that is the universes in God's way of I've
just I just I'm just like doing things in life
because like now the things that we thought we can

(46:56):
never even dream of doing are the most comforting and
the best things world to us. And I think that's
what's great about getting older and having life. You have
you have something to look forward to because like things
get Things that you didn't like before, now you like again,
now you would like. So it's like it's like it's
it's comforting to know things like you know, like going
to bed at five o'clock.

Speaker 4 (47:17):
Like I go to bed.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
My orring tells me to go to bed at nine o'clock.
I go to bed at nine o'clock every night. I
take my medicine at ooh around eight thirty. I took
my pillolas at seven o'clock. And I showed you my
or ring thing yesterday. This morning, I text you, I
got eleven hours and fifteen minutes of sleepless night.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
I was slept for eleven hours, sane. I wish I
could sleep for eleven hours.

Speaker 2 (47:37):
That's as it was the best thing ever. So that
that's another thing when you're a kid, like you know,
going to early oh heighte going to bed. Now, going
to bed is the best part of my day.

Speaker 1 (47:47):
It's like babies, like when they're toddlers and you're forcing
them to take a nap. If someone forced me to
take a nap, I'd be like, bitch, put me on
the couch and make me into a potato. Like I
I love now. I love sleeping. I want I always
want to be in bed by seven thirty even like
you know, my older kids, they can shower, they take

(48:07):
care of themselves. But like Angelo, I'm like Angela, we
are in the tub at seven thirty or six thirty,
seven o'clock. I want us in bed by seven forty five.
And I want to be lights out by nine. Like
I want to be in bed. I want to be cozy.
I want to sleep. Just the other day, I'm like,
oh my god, I'm so old. I because my my
grandma used to do this all the time. But if
something is expired, like I don't know, say like hummice

(48:29):
tip or pickles or you know, not anything crazy that
will like get you super sick. But it's just like okay,
I opened up my hummer tip, and I really wanted
hum missing carrots as like, you know, a little snack.
And I looked at the hummice and it was a
week old, a week and a half old. So I
opened it up. I smelled it and I was like,
looks fine, I don't see any mold. And then I

(48:51):
ate it and it was totally fine, and I'm like,
oh my god, I'm so my grandma that you know,
back in the day, if this was like two days old,
I'd be like, ugh, like I don't want to get
sick and like throw it out. Now I'm like, what
fucking ever, I'm eating this homm stip that's, you know,
a week and a half old.

Speaker 4 (49:07):
Am I really slowly getting there?

Speaker 1 (49:08):
It's totally fine.

Speaker 4 (49:10):
I'm slowly getting there.

Speaker 2 (49:12):
Like for me like that that the food thing is
specifically because I had omit. I had omit phobia, which
is the fear of throwing up for my whole life
and actually was very sick with it for years.

Speaker 4 (49:21):
I was terrified at throwing up. So that was that
stuck out to me, like if I would go, my
father would.

Speaker 2 (49:26):
Have and even expired ChIL and all I wouldn't take
because I was afraid it would make me sick. Now
it's like I'm not quite where you are yet, but
like I will, like if it's not opened, like if
something's opened.

Speaker 1 (49:38):
Sealed, Yeah, yeah, I'll do it.

Speaker 2 (49:40):
But that was like to your parents' house, like my
father's house, our parents house. It's like you would go
there and you would like to think from there were
decades old, like there was there was like there was
a hot sauce in the back, and I even I.

Speaker 4 (49:52):
Don't even think there was two years old.

Speaker 2 (49:54):
No, like from before they was doing websites, Like that's
how I used to find out if something was old.
But back in the day, if didn't have it decoration day,
if there was a website on it, I knew it
couldn't be that all because because websites were just invented.

Speaker 4 (50:04):
So that's how I would know.

Speaker 2 (50:05):
That's how I would realize if something it was good
to eat or not, because you know, the a website
meant it was within the last year or so, because
that's when.

Speaker 4 (50:13):
Websites are invented.

Speaker 2 (50:15):
Yeah, that's how I know. But yes, that and then
like what other things do I love? I love I
love eating.

Speaker 1 (50:23):
I can't I can't say. Now, well, yeah, like an
old thing. That's not like an old thing, like loud noises,
like or like driving driving and you're trying to find
a place and you have to lower the volume because
you can't.

Speaker 4 (50:38):
Literally why do we do that.

Speaker 1 (50:41):
Every fucking time? And I used to like blast my music.
I love my music loud. Now I'm like, oh, it's
too loud where the kids are fucking yelling and screaming.
I'm like, you're hurting my ears. Like it's irritating me.
I feel like I sound like my parents now, like
I need peace and quiet, like I'm a lady.

Speaker 4 (50:58):
But it's it's you know what it's.

Speaker 2 (50:59):
It's that it's about finding what you enjoy in life,
and like that's what we enjoy now. It's like I told,
I'm all about it. I'm basically a seven year old.
I am a seven year old woman, but you are am.
I just love doing things like that, and I yeah,
it just gets comforting.

Speaker 4 (51:14):
I love it.

Speaker 2 (51:14):
I want to I want to eat dinner at five,
I want to be in bed by by nine, and
I want Yes, my priorities change. And that's what's great
about live. You can you can just go with the
flow and it's already been it's already written.

Speaker 4 (51:27):
And the rest is unwritten.

Speaker 1 (51:31):
Well, other things are there that makes us feel old.
I feel like I had so many in my head.

Speaker 2 (51:37):
Oh a sale, anything like like anything that's maybe that's
not an old thing either, but like you know now
that I'm like, I'm being like not frugal, but like
you know, like I'll take advantage of if it's a
good deal like I was always just like you know,
I don't give a fuck.

Speaker 4 (51:50):
If I want it, I'm buying it.

Speaker 1 (51:51):
Yeah, or like Coons or Ones. Yes, I bitch, we're
getting that.

Speaker 2 (51:59):
I am obsessed with this grocery store. It's called I
don't know how to pronounce it. It's it's l I
d L. Little Little and there's one city I go
to it. I think, no, there's they're having a jersey
because Poppy goes to it. I think it's like aldi flavored.

Speaker 4 (52:14):
Look at it. L I d L.

Speaker 2 (52:15):
I'm going to tell you about it. Oh, okay, And
I think it's part of like the Trader Joe's and like.

Speaker 1 (52:21):
Ol okay, there's one. There's one in Livingstone.

Speaker 2 (52:24):
Yeah, there's one there, Nicole. I'm telling you. I always, like,
you know, go the fanciest places. Could go to Whole Foods,
but you know, I can't go there anymore because I
got in fist fights with people.

Speaker 4 (52:34):
I would go very priced.

Speaker 2 (52:37):
I want the best ingredients and like all these these
like specialty like you know, mustards and specialty meats and
like all these grass fed things. This I found this
place that's trip sick. I made the other day was
nine dollars nine dollars and it's grass fed. It was
a grass fed steak. They have organic, all organic ship there.
The cheapest fucking prices I've ever seen in my life.

(52:58):
I was blown away. I had no idea that you can,
like I can go there and send sixty dollars and
get my whole house fucking stocked for two weeks.

Speaker 4 (53:05):
It's like everything they have there, the.

Speaker 2 (53:07):
Everything they have, all the brands you want, and it's
the best place in the world. I have no idea
where it even came from. Yes, that gets me excited
to go to like to the little and like get
a good deal on shredded carrots or slantra was seventy
nine cents. I was like, oh my god, work bitch,
I'm just getting excited about doing all these things.

Speaker 1 (53:26):
That's why I love That's why I love Trader Joe's
because going in there Trader Joe's, I buy so many groceries,
and like the amount of groceries that I would like
buy the same at like a Target or like a
stopping shop. It's like four hundred and fifty dollars. I
go to Trader Joe's and get the same fucking amount
and the same things. It's like one f It's like, best.

Speaker 2 (53:47):
Are we just poppies? Just discovering Trader Jokes every time
it comes over. I know that he goes there once
in a while, but like my mother used to get
my med there, used to go there when she was
with us, and he would never like he's never really
been over there.

Speaker 4 (53:59):
He was always like, you're doing chefy stuff. But now
he's learning about Trader Joe's.

Speaker 2 (54:02):
So I go every time I know it there's something
he's gonna like, because like, I just know what my.

Speaker 4 (54:06):
Father likes to eat.

Speaker 2 (54:07):
I'll go there and pick it up and I'll bring
it to him, or when he comes over, i'll give
it to him.

Speaker 4 (54:10):
I'll have a bag going for him, and he gets
so excited.

Speaker 2 (54:13):
So Bobby's gonna take a discovered for Trader Joe's. Now,
like the like they have the best stuff. I want
to be a consultant Trader Joe's. Just so many things
I would make that if they sold, they would fucking
be billionaires. Because, like I'm telling you right now, my
first example, I need to they strike with the irons hot.
They should be making frozen Krispy rice that you can
put in the air fire and top with your raw tuna.
Krispy rights on the sushi scene is the most fancy thing.

(54:35):
Everyone of their mother's doing it. Every cool restaurant has
a tune and Krispie rice tune, Chrispray salm and Chrispi
rightce avocado Crispy rice. You need to make frozen blocks
of the Krispie rice already cut into the squares that
you could throw in the air fryer, spray with a
little avocado oil, and then top with your favorite things.

Speaker 4 (54:50):
Other companies are doing it now.

Speaker 2 (54:51):
You can get the fat deliveries strike while the iron's
hot Trader Joe's and tell them Joey Sanha things like that.

Speaker 4 (54:57):
I know.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
I hat set up a meeting se and these are
all my ideas.

Speaker 2 (55:01):
I already DMed them, and I know the owner of
Trader Joe's son, but like, I don't, I feel I'd
feel weird asking about business stuff. But anyone in the
marketing team hit me up. I have some good ideas
and I want my own collab.

Speaker 1 (55:17):
There you have it.

Speaker 2 (55:19):
But yeah, the grocery stores we get excited about. We
get excited about, you know things, things going on, yard
sales and like, you know, going going antiquing, Like imagine
going to department stores. Remember being a kid being in
a department store. You want to fucking kill yourself. What's
department stores?

Speaker 1 (55:35):
What are those sales where you go because somebody died
and they're trying to essay sales? Oh my god, those
are my favorite things to go to. You find the
craziest shit there.

Speaker 4 (55:47):
You've been to an estate sale?

Speaker 1 (55:49):
Yes, we did a ton when me and Jeohnny were
doing our shore flip and then ever since I discovered
estate sales and what they were. Anytime I see a
sign of state sale, I'm going in there. I'm going
in there. You can find like vintage, like furniture, vintage clothes,
like designer vintage bags, like a crazy show, gorgeous like platters,

(56:10):
and like crystal stuff. It's it's beautiful.

Speaker 2 (56:14):
Oh silver and yeah, and a crystal I hear. I
love it too. I love antiquing. I love going ah.
I love sitting by a sitting by you know, a
flea market, sitting by the side of the of the water,
just sitting there and quiet and enjoying the view. Sitting
and enjoying the view. Sit front porches. Fucking bring it,

(56:35):
front porch on, Mama, I have a balcony. Even though
it's it's it looks out on the disgusting, chaotic, fucking
city with horns and homeless people.

Speaker 4 (56:42):
And screaming need to move.

Speaker 1 (56:44):
I'm over it.

Speaker 4 (56:46):
I can't move. I can't.

Speaker 2 (56:47):
I can't physically move off this couch. I have to
sell it first. I have zero dollars. I can't go anywhere.
But when I do, I'm going to Hutson Valley and
I'm gonna have my house and I'm gonna have all
these dreams come true. Happy, I know, but yes, sitting
on the front porch and just just you know. That's

(57:09):
what I love about growing older, is just enjoying this
and taking taking to Oh that's what I said. That's
what it's called. Taking time to smell the flowers. That's
where that So that's where that saying comes from. Just
like just taking it all in and being appreciative for
what you are, you know.

Speaker 4 (57:28):
That's that's what's about. There's you know, there's a thing
called bumble BFF.

Speaker 1 (57:35):
Not where you can find best friends friends.

Speaker 2 (57:39):
So apparently I can't imagine guys, just girls. Girls are
doing this all around the new cities. If they move
to a new city, they don't want to like and
they don't know anyone that maybe have a couple of
work friends. But there's this thing called bumble BFF and
these girls and guys are going on it and like
it's just fine. You find people like I guess I
haven't gone on the interface to know how it works,
but you find people that have common interest like say,

(58:00):
like you like doing pilates, or say you like doing
so you like sushi, or you like doing like this
special workout class or whatever. You go on there this
place thing and you can find other girls. I specifically
like it for young girls in new cities that are
just moved there because it's a safety community thing. It's like,
you know, you want you want good girls to hang
out with that you know, are into what you're into,

(58:22):
and like you're not gonna be hit on by men
by going to like clubs and bars and meeting girlfriends.
Like you know, it's a great tool to like, you know,
say to learn about the neighborhood you're in, or just
find a group of friends. So I need to do that,
But but I need one with like you know. I
only want a friend if they're if they can offer
me something. That's the only reason I'm having friends. If so,
I need like wealthy friends with good connections in the

(58:44):
entertainment space. So if you are rich, or you have
you know, an opportunity for me and a job wise,
or you have a yacht or a boat or something
I can utilize as a friend, please hit me up.
Go to peaky.

Speaker 1 (59:02):
Yeah, I'm good with friends. I have the bestest friends.
No new friends, I feel.

Speaker 4 (59:08):
But yeah, isn't that a fun thing? Would you ever
do that? Do you think?

Speaker 2 (59:10):
Do you think the two thousand and nine Sickie would
do that? If the website?

Speaker 1 (59:18):
No, I feel like she was so outgoing that she
loved to meet people outside. Yeah, and like meet people
at bars and like traveling and stuff. But I feel
like now, like if I wanted to have new friends,
which I don't, but if like I wanted to, I
would definitely try it out.

Speaker 2 (59:34):
Yeah, it's just it's just so foreign to because I
have everything, Like anything online like that was always for me,
was for dating, so like I never aren't you curious
to go on Like I would be so curious to
go excuse me on a dating site and see what
they're like. Now I haven't been on them in ten years.

Speaker 1 (59:50):
Oh, I feel like it's horrific, horrific, but I.

Speaker 2 (59:53):
Would love to, like, and I don't think any of
my friends have them, Like I think all my my
my only friends I have are like married, so like
I don't have like single friends, like they're like out
there looking for love, so like I never even I
want to grab someone's phone and just be able to
look and like playing.

Speaker 1 (01:00:08):
I don't think it's good at all out there.

Speaker 4 (01:00:10):
Do you have to, like you do they have videos now?

Speaker 2 (01:00:12):
Like I would assume, like you know how like catfishing,
Like like to avoid catfishing, you have to do FaceTime
to make sure you're talking to the right person. Do
you think that like new what you like dating sites
and dating matches apps and stuff? They have to have
a video, like you, you're forced to have a video.
I would if that had a dating app, I would
make them have a video because I want to hear
their voice and make sure they're real.

Speaker 1 (01:00:32):
Wait, speaking of that, we missed a total huge thing
about that documentary. What about about cat fishing? So rewind?
So so was Ashley the wife who faked her pregnancy?
She okay, so she did know that Angela. That Angela

(01:00:56):
did know about the craigslist because the husband was finding
somebody to come and play rape her. And remember, he
needed uh proof, and she was like, hey, it's Angela.
Come like he needed to hear the female voice, so
she knew about it. Oh, remember he needed to prove
He's like, he's like, I don't believe this because I

(01:01:17):
guess a lot of people, you know, do fantasies like that,
which is freaking sick. But I guess it's people's fantasies.
And he was like, I need proof that you're actually
a woman and this is real before I come over.
And she was like, yeah, hey, it's Angela, it's me.
You can come over. So she fucking knew about it.

Speaker 2 (01:01:33):
That's fucked up, sick bitch. But yeah, dating sites, I
would require him in a video.

Speaker 4 (01:01:41):
I don't even know.

Speaker 2 (01:01:42):
Like I hated having to talk about myself, like you know,
like what are your your hobbies?

Speaker 4 (01:01:46):
Like I'm a slob? Comeop?

Speaker 2 (01:01:47):
I wanted to just like I wanted to drink and
just fucking like leave me alone, Like like I don't
have hobbies.

Speaker 4 (01:01:52):
Actually I do. I like, I like to feel some things.
But it's I'm just so.

Speaker 2 (01:01:56):
Interested to see what the new age of dating sites
and like dating websites are for these people trying to
find love, because back when I was d back in
my day, it was the beginning of it all. Like
it was like, you know, fifteen years ago when I
was on that, it was like it was like we
were just figuring out getting our feet wet, trying to
figure out how to date online. And it was it

(01:02:17):
was looked down upon back when I was a kid. No,
but if you found someone online, you'd be like, ew,
that's creepy and desperate, and it's it's not real. It's
like you should be a shame that you went on
on on match dot com to meet your boyfriend. It's
like it's like it's like no one took it seriously.
It's like, you know, and your relationship was less than
anyone else's relationship because because it was online, you felt

(01:02:38):
people felt bad to be like, oh we.

Speaker 4 (01:02:40):
Met on should we met online?

Speaker 1 (01:02:41):
Like on the internet.

Speaker 4 (01:02:43):
Yeah, like, oh, it's like.

Speaker 1 (01:02:45):
You know, the world Wide Web.

Speaker 2 (01:02:47):
It wasn't considered a good thing to do that. I
think nowadays it's like just such the norm. But back yeah,
back then, it was like it was looked at as
dirty or like it was like you're like, you're like
a sexy, like a slutty, like secret thing. Yet it
was something you were secretive about. You never tell anyone like,
oh I met you met online? It was it was
considered a bad, nasty thing back then. But yeah, I'd

(01:03:07):
be curious to know what goes on. But yeah, if
you're looking for friends in the if you're looking for
friends in your area, go to bumble BFF and tell
m Peaky sent you. Yel Okay, Crusader, it's time for
the Crusader call in hotline. All through that we're taking
your calls. Let's see who's who's uh who needs some
advice this week? I lost, by the way, I lost
the I can't find the furry phone, so I'm still

(01:03:30):
using my Canna beans. Oh my god, my land line.

Speaker 7 (01:03:33):
But first caller, Hi, Snucky, Hi Joey, my name is Amber.

Speaker 1 (01:03:38):
I wanted to tell you guys a little story about that.

Speaker 7 (01:03:41):
One time my ex starved me. Was in a relationship
for about six years with the a narcissist, alcoholic.

Speaker 3 (01:03:48):
Things got so bad and controlling to.

Speaker 7 (01:03:51):
The point where I wasn't allowed to eat for a
couple of weeks and none of the things were so insane,
to the point where he was literally cooking blay steak
dinners and eating them in the room next to me
while I was starting. They got so bad I ended
up in the hospital and then he was mad at
me for being in the hospital, which then later turned

(01:04:14):
into him if you needed my car, hitting my car,
trying to get into my car, playing where where that
came from? Hope you guys, enjoy and you know, remember
if stay safe out there. People are razy. They will
do anything they can to tear you down.

Speaker 4 (01:04:27):
Okay, well is he in jail?

Speaker 1 (01:04:30):
Who the fuck is this guy?

Speaker 4 (01:04:32):
What a fucking nightmare?

Speaker 2 (01:04:33):
Thank god, man, she's obviously alive, safe and a live
because she's textly calling us.

Speaker 1 (01:04:37):
Thank god, you got out.

Speaker 2 (01:04:38):
Wait a minute, Okay, that I can't forget you imagine
that first of all, and you can't I can't even
like like ask questions about It's like, you know, you
don't know. No, we don't know any situation. Like everyone
would say, why don't you just leave? It's like, girl,
you don't know what the fuck was going on. That's
fucked up. I'm so sorry to hear that. Terrifying. That's
why I'm saying you need to have we need to

(01:04:59):
have the people. You need to be verified when you
meet people before Eugene, I need background checks and I.

Speaker 4 (01:05:04):
Need all the animations. Poor thing.

Speaker 2 (01:05:08):
And it's just like, you know, he's obviously mentally ill,
and I'm sorry the chances to be a part of that.
But you know, people do crazy things for love, and
you know, it's it's a scary world out there.

Speaker 4 (01:05:18):
I'm sorry you went through that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:19):
It's terrible, but we are so glad that you're out, bitch.
And I really hope that karma gets him, if he's
not already like prosecuted, because that's fucking wild, crazy.

Speaker 4 (01:05:28):
Fuck him eating steak right in front of a now.

Speaker 1 (01:05:33):
Crash.

Speaker 2 (01:05:34):
And we did get a little update from Amber, she
is newly sober and thriving. So thank you for your
second message.

Speaker 4 (01:05:39):
Amber. We're happy for you. Yes, Queen, congrats, Okay, next cooler, Hi.

Speaker 5 (01:05:44):
That's this thereroll So luckily I have a super toxic egg.
A story just like kind of came to mind. But
this one time, he was out drinking all day. I
didn't really know where he was, and we had been arguing.
He wasn't like Anthon Yellow up throughout the day, so
at night time, I'm like laying in bed or arguing,
and I just know that he's like drunk, and I

(01:06:07):
guess I tried to maybe like break up with him
or I told him that I was leaving him. He
basically texted me back, starting to hurt himself the phone
call for he is still like texting me, and he's
kind of like read crumbing like where he may be at,
like leaving clues. He made it seem like he was
at this reservoir near my house, like where we had

(01:06:28):
loved job.

Speaker 3 (01:06:28):
So I didn't know what to do.

Speaker 5 (01:06:29):
I called my friend at the time and at kicked
me up and we drove around the reservoir trying to
like look for him, and we couldn't find him. He
still like wasn't answering a phone call, was barely answered
text messages, and then I get this text message of
a picture of him like passed out in the grass
and it looked like something was wrapped around his neck.
I'm like freaking out, thinking that he like did something

(01:06:53):
or anything. My friend was like, Sarah, you need to
call the cops, that you'd rather be safe than sorry.

Speaker 3 (01:06:59):
I called the cops, and by the time they.

Speaker 5 (01:07:01):
Found him, because I think they just pinged his phone,
he was already back at his towel for and how
and drinking all day drunk, and then somehow made it
home and was passed down his bed and the cops
were banging on his door, got him and then took
him to like like ward for a couple of days,
and then he got out and we got back together

(01:07:24):
like nothing ever happened.

Speaker 7 (01:07:25):
What okay, bitch, Yeah, we were rooting for you.

Speaker 2 (01:07:33):
We were all rooting for you.

Speaker 6 (01:07:36):
Why.

Speaker 1 (01:07:39):
I've heard of stories of this before, and my friends
have experienced this before. They're fake. It's it's insane. So
many guys do this to like keep you and it's
fucking fake. It's not real. These men are crazy.

Speaker 4 (01:07:56):
It's harbor.

Speaker 2 (01:07:57):
So basically we're talking regarding this to the fake so
side threats like that.

Speaker 4 (01:08:00):
That is the that is like the number one thing
that insecure, controlling people do.

Speaker 2 (01:08:06):
That it's in the back in the pockets. That's the
only fucking card they have to pull is.

Speaker 1 (01:08:10):
And they're not really gonna do anything. They're just trying
to keep you and make you feel better.

Speaker 4 (01:08:14):
Like they're gonna kill themselves.

Speaker 2 (01:08:15):
They're gona kill themselves. It has nothing to do with you.
And don't let them put them on themselves. It's a
horrible thing to say, but honestly, that's the that's how
the only thing they can do to control you.

Speaker 4 (01:08:23):
And conductive and whatever.

Speaker 2 (01:08:26):
I'm not saying if take to take through suicide fetsu
un seriously in any by any means. But again, it's
it happens to toxic men all over the place. But
what we're really concerned is with you, is you got
back with him, the opportunity to run away and get
rid of him.

Speaker 1 (01:08:43):
Girl, he's gonna do it again, and that's annoying, and
that that's a lot on you.

Speaker 2 (01:08:47):
Absolutely not Oh my god, poor thing. You know, she
probably maybe she likes maybe she likes the drama.

Speaker 4 (01:08:55):
Okay, some people do your toxic the next literally cooler.

Speaker 6 (01:09:03):
Hi's nick and Joey. I'm so nervous. So in my
early twenties, I had a roommate, were best friends, did
everything together, both single. Then I started to date this
guy really knew, probably just about a month in casually
seeing each other, and we would hang out pretty often.
My roommate was jealous. He created a fake Instagram account

(01:09:28):
with like this drop dead gorgeous girl started messaging him
on Instagram to try to catfish him. Showed me and
said that he is talking to other girls, which is
kind of crazy because it was so new with us.
But she didn't like the fact that I was hanging
out with him and not hanging out with her, so

(01:09:50):
she literally catfished him and try to tell me that
he's talking to other girls, so I should stop talking
to him. After I found that out, we me and
my other roommate moved out, and now ME and the
guy are fully together and six years in and Hi can.

Speaker 4 (01:10:06):
Be wait to call. I wasn't listening what happened. What
happened with her?

Speaker 1 (01:10:10):
Sorry, I wasn't listening either.

Speaker 3 (01:10:13):
Stop.

Speaker 2 (01:10:15):
Because I was thinking a wait nic because I was
thinking of when me and my best friend from home.

Speaker 4 (01:10:20):
I totally forgot when she said catfish.

Speaker 2 (01:10:22):
I totally forgot that me and my best friend were
pretending to be the same.

Speaker 4 (01:10:27):
Thing was she had her boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (01:10:28):
We thought he was cheating, so we pretend, we pretend
to beat other people, and we like were talking to
him for for like like six months under this fake person,
and it got so bad that we had to get
out of there. So we had to lie and say
that she died and say that, said, say, hi, this
is her mother, this is her mother. She actually passed
away away and he wanted to go to the funeral
and like find out where she was and stuff, and
he was and we were like, oh my god, that's

(01:10:49):
why I totally forgot what she said.

Speaker 1 (01:10:50):
You were too you were too deep into it, so you.

Speaker 2 (01:10:53):
Had to kill if it felt too real. Okay, So,
oh my god, the cat so her boyfriend, so the
cat fishing. I totally understand that because I did it
with my best friend. You got we got it. What's
something wrong with us everyone? I know that everyone's safe
in the relationship now and we we're with you, sister,
but it I mean more common than you think.

Speaker 1 (01:11:10):
I guess from inc so I know what's wrong with us.

Speaker 2 (01:11:15):
We need to get more secure in our own rights
and relationships younger and life. This is something like nowadays,
I could give a fuck what you're doing. Go talk
to go with him, please, go go with him. And
if you're talking to someone else, mama, have him. It's
like the last thing I were. But back then then,
when you're young and insecure like that, it's such a
common thing that you like, you know, you need validation

(01:11:37):
for for whatever, and you're so you're making we're making
problems like this for ourselves when they're not even there.
We're creating these these things and making ourselves fucking crazy
when we're teenagers. I wish that if I could go
back and say to my younger selves, or to any
younger selves, I wish that you could. I could shake
myself back then and say, what the fuck's wrong with you?
Get some self, see me, get the fuck out of there.

Speaker 4 (01:11:58):
Let him go. Then if he wants to be he
go go on, go on. That's what I would tell me.
That was my future self over there. I kept looking over.

Speaker 1 (01:12:06):
There, go on, Literally, who are you talking about?

Speaker 4 (01:12:11):
Okay, this is we have a time for one more
qualar on the Canna Beans.

Speaker 3 (01:12:15):
Hi guys, I'm a UK listener here. Love you guys
who've been listening since the very beginning. I absolutely love
the redo of your podcast. Oh my god, I'm stands.
My one bad day is I've had eight thousand. I
was thinking for five years. But one time I went
out with a guy who brought his whole work with
him to the day and he turned up absolutely fucked

(01:12:38):
off his face. Excuse my language, but it was very drunk.
He tried to get off with me, I mean kissed me.
I'm sorry that doesn't make sense in the US, but
we say get off here in the UK, and vomited
into a pizza in front of me, and then ate
the pizza after vomiting into it. And then there was
another day where the guy lied about his height. Was
an Australian guy actually, and we've been speaking on I

(01:13:00):
was bumble for a bit and he said he was
six to one. Because I'm five foot ten, she's a
big gal. I'm a big goal. He turned up and
he was five foot one with black teeth, and that
I had to tell you what happened was he left
the day through the so we all have to say
everything's fine now, crusaders. I'm now with a lovely man

(01:13:21):
who has been with for a very long time, I
think four years, and we're very happy together. And Joey,
can you ship your Facebook marketplace shares to Mama in London?
I would absolutely love them. I'd probably actually if if
I got those shares from New York to hear I
would there would be pride of places in my house.
So yeah, thank you guys. Keep up the good work back.

Speaker 2 (01:13:42):
Okay, first with the chairs, first class. You're not getting
up now that Nicole, this is discussing.

Speaker 1 (01:13:49):
We told you, We told you the dating world is
not great, Like look at that.

Speaker 2 (01:13:54):
How this is another thing that millennials know about. And
then then the gen Zers have no idea about this.
Everyone was an alcoholic growing up. Every single person and
become in contact was a raging alcoholic. And this is
the behavior that was going on. Then gen Zers aren't
This isn't happening, gen Zers. Gen Z is not throwing
up on pizzas and and facing it and jumping out

(01:14:16):
the bathroom windows. It says like they're all taking they're
all doing colostrum cleanses. It's like, no, I was out
there for for a girl. For guys and girls, back then,
the dating world was fucking nuts. We were hiding in bushes,
doing criminal crimes of stalking, drinking like a fucking alcoholic,
and throwing up and jumping out windows. It's like we

(01:14:36):
were fucking nuts back then. This is just this is
a regular Wednesday for us, after happy hour.

Speaker 1 (01:14:41):
I wonder where that guy is now.

Speaker 4 (01:14:44):
He's with her? Oh no, no, no, he's what something.

Speaker 1 (01:14:46):
You know, the guy that threw up on the pizza, he's.

Speaker 2 (01:14:49):
Probably doing great. But again, this isn't crazy for us
to hear, because nowadays it's crazy because if someone in
there and a teenager or a young person today did that,
and'd be like, what the fuck's with them? But back then,
this was just a Wednesday afternoon.

Speaker 1 (01:15:02):
Yeah, here's another one.

Speaker 2 (01:15:05):
At the fucking at the pool hall or at the
fucking sports bar. This is just like a regular fucking thing.
It was harder to throw up in front of a date, and.

Speaker 4 (01:15:14):
It was called puke and rally it was a normal thing. People.

Speaker 2 (01:15:18):
You would get so fucked up that you would vomit,
make yourself vomit, in front of everyone and that and
then just go kiss another girl on the dance floor.

Speaker 4 (01:15:25):
It was it was a normal thick We were just gossing.
Thank god we made that out alive.

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Speaker 1 (01:18:31):
So my confession is and this happens all the time
to me, But I get like spurts of moments where
I want to talk on the phone. I am not
a talk on the phoner unless like I'm freaking out
or I'm going crazy, or like I'm just in the
mood to talk like I'm if I'm in the car
and I know i'm driving for a while, I'm like,
who should I call? So if I'm calling you and
you pick up, they're like, is everything okay? What's going on?

(01:18:52):
I'm like, oh, I just want to chat. So I
am not a chatter. I'm a Texter. So I ended
up calling like twelve people yesterday in the car because
bored and I felt like talking. And then once I
got home and like, I got in the couch and
I was like, you know, settled. Everyone kept calling me
back because nobody answered, and I'm like, deny, deny, like goodbye,
that that moment has stopped. I don't want to talk

(01:19:13):
anymore and I'm not going to answer you. So if
I do call you, that's the moment where you have
to pick up, because that's the only time that I'm
in the mood to speak. If not, then you're gonna
have to text me.

Speaker 2 (01:19:23):
I can vouch for that, Nicole, because Nicole it's such
a foreign thing. Like when I went to call. If
Nicole ever calls me, I'm like, oh, fuck, someone's dead.

Speaker 4 (01:19:31):
Who's dead? What just happened?

Speaker 1 (01:19:33):
Or I'm drinking?

Speaker 4 (01:19:34):
Am I in trouble? Or am I?

Speaker 2 (01:19:35):
Well? That's what I'm gonna at to or am I
in trouble? Did I did I post something bad and
that she just saw it? Did I did I say
something that was bad? That's my first question? Or second
paular opposite the second call? The second a drop of
akasling hole's lips. She's facetiming me, spamming in like a
fucking animal. She wants some one hundred FaceTime as calls,
and I just know she's fucking whatever, like drunk somewhere.

Speaker 1 (01:19:58):
So yeah, that is true. My confession is, I'm not
a talker on the phone. But if I'm calling you,
you you, You're asked better pick up because it's time,
it's happening.

Speaker 2 (01:20:10):
It's happening. My confession is, I'm thinking, with me being gross,
I don't have to. You don't have to wash your
underwear after wearing them one time. If I went to
bed in my underwear, Wow, no, okay, hear me out.

Speaker 4 (01:20:23):
My confession is I do. I do change my underwear.
But like, for instance, I shower for bed.

Speaker 2 (01:20:28):
So I showered before bed, and I got into bed,
and I put on a fresh pair of underwear. The
next morning, I'm getting ready for the day, I'm gonna
change my underwear those underwear aren't dirty. I just slept
in them, so I'll put them in. I'll put them
back in the draw because otherwise, why do.

Speaker 1 (01:20:41):
You just wear them for the rest of the day.
If they're not you're already wearing it.

Speaker 2 (01:20:44):
Because I like to wear loose, cozy underwear, like to bed,
because they're cozier and like for a slimmer silhouette, I
would wear a fresh pair. And I guess the mentality
of it is like I slept in those, so I'm
not gonna wear them again all day.

Speaker 1 (01:20:56):
I don't wear underwear to bed, but I'll put.

Speaker 4 (01:20:59):
Them back in the draw.

Speaker 2 (01:21:00):
So I'm not saying go out and like going out
to like walking around doing stuff, and then wear them
the next day.

Speaker 4 (01:21:05):
Actually I probably have been.

Speaker 1 (01:21:06):
No, that's still sick.

Speaker 4 (01:21:08):
I don't change my I I I don't watch my
underwear after one use.

Speaker 1 (01:21:13):
What if you're sweating and your sleep and your balls
are sweaty.

Speaker 2 (01:21:17):
I sleep in an igloo, so there's no there's not
a chance in hell I'm sweating unless there's something's going on.
But yeah, I just I just think that it's it's okay,
that's maybe I don't want to waste the waste the
laundry detergent because that's a you know, nowadays it's expensive.

Speaker 1 (01:21:32):
Yeah, you're an old jertey bitch.

Speaker 2 (01:21:34):
Well, this has been lovely, This has been great. What
a toxic episode where this is very toxic. You talked
about murder, murder, very fun.

Speaker 4 (01:21:42):
All this stuff. But uh, thank you for listening to
the program. We love you all.

Speaker 2 (01:21:46):
Make sure to follow us like com, subscribe all through
that book us.

Speaker 4 (01:21:49):
On cameo, go to the Sookie Shop. But we love
your Crusaders. We'll see you next time.

Speaker 2 (01:21:53):
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