Snack Closets w/ Rufat Agayev

This week Sydnee and Marie catch up with the Christian Rap Expert (lol) Rufat Agayev! The three chat apartment dating MESS. Is it mess to never have the person you're dating over?? 

 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:02):
You're listening to mess Nah, it's the middle of a wind.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
Okay, walking about Also, so we weren't talking to you.

Speaker 3 (00:10):
Wow, you see how it starts. We weren't talking to you.
Want to end?

Speaker 1 (00:16):
That's wait a minute.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
And that lineup looks fresh and up, it looks Really
it's not.

Speaker 4 (00:22):
It's a swoop because you know I'm receding. So like
what happens when you get in your upper upper thirties,
you they they'll they'll cut this side long, they'll they'll
leave this side longer, and then you swoop it over
the recession.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
Now is there prop got to put it in.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
You got you got a little special combes and you
hope that the wind isn't isn't it high function?

Speaker 3 (00:43):
It's winny. So it's a is this like a baby
hair for for a man like that swoop?

Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yes, it's a bang. It it's a little it's a
little bang. It's a little cover. You know what I
was talking.

Speaker 3 (00:56):
About is a line on the side like it's giving.

Speaker 4 (00:59):
This No, no, that's shout out the genesis. My barber
and Otis and Finn.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
It'sund like a hip. They hooked it up. They hooked
it up.

Speaker 5 (01:08):
Genesis the barber's name, and then Otis and Finn sound
real hipster.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
You paid eighty two dollars for the haircut sixty easy.
Yeah that's not bad including tip.

Speaker 4 (01:18):
Including tip, yeah, twenty percent tip. Yeah, it's not bad.

Speaker 2 (01:22):
I think you guys can get more haircuts, you know,
for sixty dollars. I wish it cost sixty dollars. Get
my he yeah, yeah, yeah, I gotta take out a
small PPP loan to get just the hair.

Speaker 1 (01:33):
You gotta let it grow a little bit, though. You gotta,
like as a man, you gotta let it grow.

Speaker 4 (01:37):
Because I grew up, you know, amongst amongst black people,
my whole life, so then I was like on a
one amongst black people, amongst amongst the black monks, amongst
my people. And I will say, like growing up, the
the haircut schedule was crazy. Like every yeah, that's a
crazy schedule.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
It's all my lunch money. I was spending on haircut
lunch money.

Speaker 5 (01:57):
Okay, yeah, that was broke, no witch lunch money. I
was on free lunch. I didn't get no lunch money.

Speaker 4 (02:04):
Look, my dad looked rich on paper, but he was.
But you got money for lunch. That's what I'm trying
to say that's what people don't give the kids money.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
It sounds like you had allowance pretty much.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
No, don't.

Speaker 4 (02:18):
I lived in in in Florida with no actor Alcatraz. Yeah,
I know I had a rough. I would be at
my friend's house most of the time. Maybe that's why
we'll get into yeah, we'll get into our mess. But
I was mostly at my friend's house most of the time,
and they were like you, like I was on my
best friend's mother's will at one point.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
At what Charlie took you out? She took me off
the wood. What you do now? No, I didn't do anything.
He left the Frene open, he took.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yeah, okay, so we were gonna do.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
Ourn now, you know you more man, You chime in
and we'll get to you.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
Yeah. We didn't even need to do all that.

Speaker 3 (03:04):
Just no, no, no, no, you're in now and here.
You know how it's done.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
Thread.

Speaker 3 (03:08):
What's your mess for the week?

Speaker 1 (03:10):
Oh you don't.

Speaker 3 (03:11):
Let's talk.

Speaker 5 (03:11):
AirPods tricky things to hold on to anything, you know.
I know AirPods is hard.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
Why did you make them so small?

Speaker 2 (03:19):
You know, because they want you to lose them so
you could spend more money.

Speaker 1 (03:24):
And that's what it is.

Speaker 5 (03:25):
I think a new thing at AirPods is like two
hundred and fifty dollars.

Speaker 2 (03:29):
It is it is, Or if you lose one, it's
seventy two seventy two dollars.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
So oh, I didn't know they just sold them individually.
Makes sense Anyway.

Speaker 5 (03:39):
I was on the phone with my mother last week
in a car late night, and I got home, and
you know, usually when I go home, I just take
my AirPods out and throw them on the table. And
the next day I was like, where is the case?
So you know how it says play sound? I want
to go play the sound. They and Jackson Heights Queens.
Some thing's gone. No, the case was there. I have

(04:00):
the AirPods, okay, So I called the man.

Speaker 3 (04:02):
He don't pick up. You know, I'm probably sleeping. I
hit uber up. They're like, oh, we can get them
to you, but it's gonna be a twenty dollar fee
to get.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
Them back, which is nothing compared to how much it
costs to get a whole new house.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
I don't I don't know how much it costs.

Speaker 5 (04:15):
So I was in We were in Harlem that night
for Dwayne's birthday, and the driver was like, well, let
me know.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
How long you're gonna be in Harlem.

Speaker 5 (04:22):
I'll fering him to you, and he just happened to
be close by, dropped off the case. No problems, right,
It's good. The next day I flattered Nashville. Then I
go to Chicago, and when I'm getting ready to leave Chicago,
I'm like, why does it keep saying that my AirPods
are not with me? Because your phone will be like
AirPods and not found or they no longer with you.

(04:43):
And I looked and they were at the restaurant that
I had had lunch at earlier in the day. Now
I didn't have time to get the AirPods back before
I left.

Speaker 3 (04:53):
I've just been looking at them sitting in this at
this diner.

Speaker 5 (04:56):
But I also saw Dwayne in Chicago that same day.
I said, you to come and denominator Dane, mister Wayne
may see you. My AirPods go missing. So I was like,
since you're in in Chicago, can you can you swing
by the place.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
And get my AirPods? And he said, I see what
I can do. Now. My AirPods are in La. Yes,
they're in La.

Speaker 2 (05:18):
They're on tour and they're getting miles just like your
friend girl pretty much platinum they platinum medallion snacks.

Speaker 1 (05:23):
Yep.

Speaker 5 (05:26):
So now I've been I'm using the chord and I
have the big the pros, so I've been using those
or the Max whatever the hell they're called.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Maybe maybe my message I got too many ways to
listen to.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
Music, But you need it regardless of what your which
device you use, you need to have the soundtrack to
what's going on.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
Well, the over.

Speaker 5 (05:44):
Ear ones are good for the winter time, plus you
know stereo. The chord I think is better for you
because I guess the wireless ones give brain cancel or something.

Speaker 1 (05:53):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (05:54):
People are saying they're they're not good for you. Would
you give up air pods if if they cast cancer?
I get them up anyway, I've lost them too many times.
I'm at least five times, like back to back to pack.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
If it either it's the home or one of the
plugs or both of the plugs, and then I just
have the house.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
It's a mess. So now I'm just wired down.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
And yes, yes it looks ugly, but I love that
I could take one out and it's given Bluetooth right
or secretary Assistant and then I can have the other one.

Speaker 3 (06:23):
Open so I can hear what's going on because you.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
Know, you know, it's creepy crawlers everywhere, and you got
to be aware of your surrounding is and the bicyc
let us the way they will just be zooming in
the bike lane.

Speaker 5 (06:34):
You could get hit by a bike like I can
be in the bike lane, maybe on the sidewalk. Sometimes
they do anything. So yeah, I like the wired. I'm
a wired girly. Yeah yeah, wired is back not wired
and like tangled, you got to untangle your cord. Oh
that's oh, Sydney, I feel like you got knots in
your court.

Speaker 1 (06:50):
Yes I do.

Speaker 3 (06:51):
It's very much so a representation at.

Speaker 2 (06:54):
My friend, representation of my life.

Speaker 3 (07:01):
Representation matters, Cidney. What's your mess?

Speaker 2 (07:03):
My mess is that I say yes when I really
should say no. And I realized that I got to
lean on the n Oh, I'm really bad at that.
I got invited to a dinner last weekend, and I
realized I don't want to be in a dinner if
it's more than four people, because what are we doing
more than four more more than four people, because four

(07:25):
people even number and it's even amount of.

Speaker 3 (07:28):
Like considered four times.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
Yeah, space between each other to talk, and we're giving
each other eye contact.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
It's good for.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
Sharing plates, sharing gossip, hitting, you know, just a little
tapped like a bitch, you know what I mean, like
gossiping amongst each other.

Speaker 3 (07:43):
But when it starts to get like six seven eight
not what is this? Were you at a bridal dinner?

Speaker 2 (07:48):
Like yeah, what is this a bridesmaid situation? What is
this a family plan?

Speaker 3 (07:52):
I don't know. It just it's too much.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
So you went to the dinner or you didn't go.

Speaker 3 (07:57):
I did go to the dinner.

Speaker 2 (07:58):
And like the thing is, it's like I hate when
people put things together for convenience, like, oh, I need
to see all these people, but I only have a
certain amount of time.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
So all these people are not that close with each other.
They're cool, but it's not like, Hey, I'm gonna share
the for.

Speaker 2 (08:13):
Katcha with you. You know what I'm saying, it's not that situation.
You can't say for Katcha with a stranger now.

Speaker 1 (08:19):
Is so fucking good.

Speaker 2 (08:21):
And then like the garlic butter or something with like
a little bit of salt on it.

Speaker 3 (08:26):
Ooh, I'm thinking about it now.

Speaker 1 (08:27):
Salt is good for sharing.

Speaker 2 (08:29):
The restaurant was amazing, but I could have done without
most of the people there, unfortunately.

Speaker 3 (08:34):
And I like the people, but I think I'm a
one on one situation.

Speaker 2 (08:39):
But we did get a hookup, so the sort of
bill was very small, very very small, so I was
able to do a little tasting, and the people were
at the dinner.

Speaker 1 (08:47):
Six people. Six is also an even number.

Speaker 3 (08:50):
I don't but it's just too many.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
It's like one person is mute, another person is talking
too much. Another person came forty five fifty minutes late.

Speaker 3 (09:00):
So it's basically you had dinner with four people.

Speaker 5 (09:02):
Sins if one's not talking and one was that late,
and one's talking a lot.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
But we have to we have to wait for all
these different energies. And oh I got a I got
an allergy, I got this. I don't want that allergies
and alergies. I mean food, food is so necessary that
I don't need no outside interference.

Speaker 3 (09:24):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (09:24):
It's like, I love the one on one. I know
what I'm prepared for, I know this person. We have
a good time. And I said, I don't need a
ton of people to share, you know. The Brenzino with so.

Speaker 5 (09:35):
Yeah, I don't need to share thezino with nobody. I'm
just talking by myself. But my question, Cidney, is when
the person invited you to dinner, you didn't say who
I won't be there.

Speaker 1 (09:43):
Did you think it was just gonna be Ah?

Speaker 2 (09:45):
I knew, I knew, and it's just I was just
trying to make sure that I saw this person. But now, hey,
when you come in the city, I might not be
able to see you. I'm busy. I'm busy anyway. So
if i'm I'm fitting you in my schedule. Oh you're special.
But every time you here, I don't need to see you.
You don't need to see me. And that's okay.

Speaker 3 (10:03):
Girl. Trying to make it work when it don't need
to work is mess. It's kind of like trying to
you know, you got a little bit of hair and
then you're trying to put it in a ponytail or
put it in a little bit of bun.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
It's a struggle. I remember the girls in high school
used to do that.

Speaker 5 (10:17):
Who the ponytail used to look like this, this just
a just a loose but they would be like, I
can wrap the hairtop twice.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
You didn't need to. You didn't need to, or they
would try to fold that little thing into a bun. No,
you know what.

Speaker 3 (10:31):
You know the worst part is when you.

Speaker 1 (10:33):
Brushing the ship so far in.

Speaker 2 (10:35):
Now you're like really, and you let me get to jails,
look get back and so yeah, I don't like that
for dinners because we don't need to do that. And
I'll see you when I see you, or we can FaceTime.
It's fine, and you already face time with everybody. So
I don't understand why you need it.

Speaker 1 (10:49):
To go to dinner.

Speaker 5 (10:50):
I need to wrap it up or he was bored. Listen,
you don't even have to just say no. You could
just be like no response. You could not say nothing,
and they'll get the hair. You don't need to ghost
people twenty twenty. It's not ghosting. Some people ask you things.
We're busy, stuff gets buried. If you really want me to,
you'll call me.

Speaker 2 (11:07):
And I'd be like, yeah, Marie is also on D
and D, so it's not gonna go through, So it's fine.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
I am on D and D.

Speaker 3 (11:15):
Yeah, literally, so we got a little guests in the building.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
I'm very I'm very glad that you're here because yeah,
going on, and you were on the unofficial Expert, so.

Speaker 1 (11:27):
Y, yeah's expert. I was the Christian wrath Expert.

Speaker 2 (11:32):
You'll have to go back to that episode because there's
so much information in there.

Speaker 3 (11:38):
Yeah, it's it was a situation where.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
I was like, let me write that word down, let
me write that location down.

Speaker 1 (11:43):
Well, let's bring him in.

Speaker 4 (11:44):
Yeah, it's a lot of I got a lot of
weird history.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
Okay, yeah, the one and only roofot guy in the
building in What's Up?

Speaker 5 (11:58):
Do you have any thoughts on anything that you heard,
either about AirPods or dinners being No.

Speaker 4 (12:03):
I'm banquets, I'm a I'm a what's it called, I'm
a courted man. But also I have a car in
my I have an older car in my Bluetooth broke.
So I've just been listening to like New York Sports
Radio or.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
Ten ten wins. I just ten wins. You shot out
to ten tents. I love that's old people's stations.

Speaker 4 (12:21):
I love ten ten wins, sir, They'll give you the
whole world in twenty two minutes.

Speaker 5 (12:27):
My aunt's radio stays on ten ten wins and it
always sounds like it's a walkie talkie like it's that's part.

Speaker 4 (12:39):
But you know what I love about it, Like you,
in so much of our news, there's like so much opinion.
They just you know, they'll just give you like what's
going on. Like they'll just be like luigim man GIONI
went to court today and that's it.

Speaker 3 (12:51):
That's what could you have an opinion about that? He
looked good like.

Speaker 1 (12:55):
Because you know liberal people that are like, oh he
had Ghaki's on. You can see his dick print, you
know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (12:59):
I don't want to fuck the rules are talking about
them wonder Yeah they love what's the conservative saying about him?
His domestic terrorist CEO killer. You know, they don't care
about size.

Speaker 5 (13:13):
Allegedly, they don't care about size because they ain't got
nothing in the pay exactly exactly.

Speaker 3 (13:21):
Yeah, a lot of keys, but no dick.

Speaker 4 (13:25):
Yeah. Yeah. So I like to just I put myself
through suffering like that. Like I like, I'll go to
a job, I forget my headphones and I just silenced
it up for eight hours, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (13:38):
That's scary.

Speaker 1 (13:39):
Yeah, yeah, it's some weird stuff in there. Man.

Speaker 2 (13:44):
I've had conversations, so I know how you get down
and what about dinners?

Speaker 3 (13:47):
Do you use dinner or you you good?

Speaker 4 (13:51):
I'm a dinner guy, but man, I can't remember the
last time I went to a dinner with like six people.
Not because I don't have like friends, but I think,
like you're a straighten.

Speaker 1 (14:01):
I don't do that.

Speaker 4 (14:03):
Yeah, I like, I like going to like one or
two people types of things.

Speaker 2 (14:08):
You know, you seem like you pull up at the
end when the check has already been dropped.

Speaker 3 (14:13):
Hey man, you want to have a drink at the bar?

Speaker 1 (14:16):
You know, like it's not a fun it's not like
a financial thing.

Speaker 4 (14:19):
But no, no, no, no, wait, I will say that I'm
I'm the type of person where I feel uncomfortable, like
grabbing too much, like I don't want to be You're.

Speaker 1 (14:37):
Not You're not saying anybody gonna take this.

Speaker 4 (14:39):
Yeah, I'm I'm not an only child, but I grew
up by myself most of my life.

Speaker 1 (14:44):
And so.

Speaker 4 (14:46):
What I like sharing is I hate when people buy
me presents. I hate you hate when you get present
because people buy you.

Speaker 1 (14:53):
The worst ship and it's.

Speaker 4 (14:56):
I know, and usually what I want is something like
really good. And I was like myself, you.

Speaker 2 (15:00):
Sound it's not soul and it sounds like you don't communicate.

Speaker 1 (15:04):
Well no, no, no.

Speaker 4 (15:05):
For Christmas presents, like for my mom, I just be like,
give you could just give me some money towards something
that I want for something that, yeah, towards something that
I want, because like people give me stuff and I'm like.

Speaker 5 (15:15):
Let me tell you something. I'm thinking about our Christmas
list right now. Yeah, because last year I was very clear.
I sent links I had. I had uh you know,
the HTTP whatever in the thing, and most of the
stuff on the list I got just to send people
to link.

Speaker 1 (15:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (15:32):
Yeah, I mean that's I mean I did the same
thing and you get it and you're like, thank you.

Speaker 1 (15:36):
You know what. Yeah, I've been doing that.

Speaker 4 (15:38):
I got a zip up like sweatshirt hoodie that I
really like for my mom.

Speaker 1 (15:42):
Little edgery I got for my face, you know, like
a little little.

Speaker 2 (15:45):
Little beer connect Yeah I don't have it. Does have
a beer right now, but yeah, I'm like.

Speaker 1 (15:51):
Two years away from forty. I hope it connects.

Speaker 4 (15:54):
Jesus long, baby, I got here coming out of my
ears now, so I hope something, okay.

Speaker 1 (16:02):
Connected.

Speaker 3 (16:04):
You got more hair in your ear than you have
on your hairline?

Speaker 1 (16:06):
Is that what you were saying not yet, but this
is to Turkey. But they can take that out and
put it back in. I know, I know, yeah, they
could drop from there. They could from your ears. I
don't mind.

Speaker 4 (16:19):
I long for male you male enhancement, male embtterment, Like yeah,
I think we should start taking Like I've seen how
hard women work on themselves. Like so I feel like
we at the very least, like get a little cleanser,
get a little.

Speaker 5 (16:37):
Yeah, tell us three things did you feel like most
men could do to better themselves in twenty twenty five?

Speaker 1 (16:45):
Well, in what way though? Financially anything anyway?

Speaker 5 (16:49):
Any three things anyway you said you off for male
enhancement and empowerment.

Speaker 4 (16:54):
Hey man, stop stop going to the gym and doing
just one exercise how to lift your body weight and
like learn how to get your heart rate up, like
learn how to run and legs.

Speaker 1 (17:05):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yah yeah yeah yeah.

Speaker 4 (17:07):
When you when you work out, you should be squatting,
you should be doing pull ups, push ups, and get
that heart rate going. I'm sick of seeing men like
muscular in one area and then when you ask them
to run, they're wheezing. They're about to die. So like
make sure you get that cardio up.

Speaker 5 (17:25):
It just be a lot of men go to the gym.
I feel like it's back, shoulders, arms, chest. You got
to hate the legs. You gotta hate your calves. You
look like Ninja Turtle.

Speaker 4 (17:35):
You gotta have an ass, you you gotta have an ass.
I have been like I remember the first time I
was a complimented on my ass, it made me want
to keep the ass.

Speaker 1 (17:48):
Yeah you know.

Speaker 4 (17:48):
And then yeah, yeah, never, I've never seen it.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
But it's high, it's high, and it's tight. Yeah high.
Yeah yeah.

Speaker 4 (17:56):
Yeah. So run yeah I used to. Yeah, I've run
a little. I'm starting to run a little bit less.
My goal now is to be faster than a lifter
and stronger than a runner.

Speaker 5 (18:10):
Okay, years cookie, I think, yeah, lift, stronger than a runner.

Speaker 4 (18:16):
Okay, there's that second thing. Get pants, Get pants that fits.
You have a tailor, like, know how you want them
to look like, have good pants.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
That's important. And then and then you know, have yourself
a little etf account that you don't really look at.

Speaker 4 (18:30):
Stop doing the whole crypto trying to bet the house
on everything.

Speaker 1 (18:35):
Just have a little account. The gross eight to twelve
percent every year.

Speaker 4 (18:38):
Man, wait, let me write that down, said you GK.

Speaker 1 (18:47):
Yeah, this is all very boring.

Speaker 4 (18:48):
Manout no no, no.

Speaker 2 (18:50):
No, listen, they're not listening to us, So it's got
to come from your.

Speaker 3 (18:57):
Mouth because they their dirty ears.

Speaker 4 (18:59):
Because because I feel like a man's whole life now
is all parlays, you know what I mean. But on
like a more metaphorical level, you know what parlays is gambling.

Speaker 1 (19:08):
It's gambling, right, it's a gamble.

Speaker 4 (19:09):
But it's when you make like a bunch of gambles
and you hope that they all hit or else you
get none of the money. And I think that's what
men do. Men don't know how to like just take
incremental gains like small little like small little four percent
here this that you know they are. They try to
just bet the house on everything and then they.

Speaker 3 (19:29):
That's the issue with men. Yeah, well think about it.

Speaker 2 (19:31):
That's why they date so many people at the same time,
because they're like not all men got multiple people in
the on they roster nobody.

Speaker 4 (19:40):
I do think you should be dating, like okay, Like
for me this time around, I made sure that I
dated a lot, but like first, second, third type of dates.

Speaker 1 (19:52):
I'm not like in multiple relationships, but.

Speaker 4 (19:55):
Then like when you find somebody, you're like, oh, like
I like them because I went out on all these
different dates and I saw what was out there, and
I but this kind of person is meeting certain needs.

Speaker 3 (20:08):
But that seems like a comparison.

Speaker 2 (20:10):
Will like, well, you're like, well the options is real bleak,
so I might as well be with this person who's
better than below average.

Speaker 1 (20:18):
But that's not it.

Speaker 3 (20:19):
That's kind of what dating needs.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
Yeah, you date, you date.

Speaker 5 (20:23):
As I feel like you should date as many people
as you can, right, and you see what you like,
you see what you don't like, and then when somebody
stands out.

Speaker 4 (20:32):
The winner, like, yeah, somebody that kind of meets like
a lot. I would say for me, it would be
like someone who lowers my anxiety I have, Like I
could be into somebody, but like sometimes I'd be like,
why am I so anxious around this person?

Speaker 3 (20:46):
Like vibe now you need an emotional support girl?

Speaker 4 (20:49):
No no, no, no, not like that got a little
best on nah nah nah nah, not like he's fine
in that regard, but like anxious as far as like
you can't really be yourself around that, got it?

Speaker 1 (21:00):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (21:01):
You're like, maybe that's butterflies.

Speaker 2 (21:08):
I think we sometimes we confuse butterflies with like your
body actually giving you hints like this might not be
the move. It's kind of like your body is like
a mood ring sometimes around people, where it's like you're
next to someone and you're like, oh, I feel calm,
I'm giving the blue. But then there's sometimes you next
to people like it's red, it's itchy and scratchy.

Speaker 3 (21:28):
I'm feeling like, why am I so stressed?

Speaker 5 (21:30):
It is a song, write it down your body, put it.

Speaker 3 (21:42):
You know, for a small fee, I can get.

Speaker 1 (21:43):
In the move with you. I can get more.

Speaker 4 (21:47):
You're right, don't you start noticing these things when you
start treating yourself better?

Speaker 1 (21:50):
Though?

Speaker 6 (21:51):
Right?

Speaker 4 (21:51):
Yeah, like your alarm gets better once you start treating
yourself better.

Speaker 1 (21:56):
I think you start.

Speaker 2 (21:57):
Treating yourself better. And also, you know, up into medication.
You know what I'm saying, The millograms is up. So
I'm feeling I'm feeling less stressed. You know, I'm still stressed,
but my body isn't like reponding like freaking out as usual.

Speaker 4 (22:11):
I haven't went that way yet, but I'm pretty sure,
like I could probably use some like ADHD.

Speaker 3 (22:16):
Stuff and all of us all of us a whole room,
its thing.

Speaker 4 (22:20):
It's hard.

Speaker 7 (22:21):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (22:40):
So uh so you know you hear, what's what's your mess?

Speaker 1 (22:44):
What's my mess? What we're talking about?

Speaker 4 (22:46):
So I think, like what was on my mind when
I wanted to talk to you too? It was like
I'm dating somebody, right and I like them, and that's
not the mess.

Speaker 6 (22:56):
Okay, But like I do not care if she ever
comes to my house, like we only hang at her
house because statistically, in every category, everything is really better
over there.

Speaker 1 (23:13):
So it's like, why even waste our time going to
my place?

Speaker 2 (23:17):
You know?

Speaker 5 (23:18):
I feel like that's an interesting take because sometimes you
think you like a guy and then you go to
his house.

Speaker 3 (23:23):
And you be like, this is how you live. That's
why you got to go to their house.

Speaker 1 (23:29):
Got to go to that house? How you know?

Speaker 2 (23:30):
I was like, I really need to I need to
really know you, and I don't know you just coming
to my place.

Speaker 5 (23:35):
No, that's true, that's true. I gotta go to the
house at least once, but you don't see. But I
don't need to be back there.

Speaker 4 (23:41):
But you don't think once a person like starts like
spending the night, you kind of can catch their.

Speaker 1 (23:47):
Habits and.

Speaker 2 (23:50):
You want your best behavior because you hear in my
house people intending that, you know, like they'll come in
your house. You're like, they'll take their shoes off. But
I know a lot of people who just boots on
the ground and they're apartment just feed five four funk
up and down, always around. Yeah, Tim's in the bedroom, just.

Speaker 4 (24:10):
This little little cobbles around stone New York City.

Speaker 1 (24:14):
Crumbs all over the place.

Speaker 2 (24:16):
And they're not moping. They don't have a swift or
wet jazz. They don't have no utensils.

Speaker 4 (24:22):
No, no, they might say they might have a dust pan.
It's not that like I don't like my place. It's
just that I like my place for me. And you
heard me with my like like I know how to suffer.
I've been taught on how to suffer.

Speaker 5 (24:36):
So you're saying, you got a twin sized bed and
chair in the room. He's saying he's got roommates. That's
what he's saying.

Speaker 4 (24:41):
I had I have a roommates the room. He said,
I have a roommate. But also prefer having a roommate
because I'm not home a lot. So it's like I
don't want to pay for a place like I don't
want to yes my side, like people people.

Speaker 1 (24:55):
Be like he's making excuses for what, you know, living
with your chance, let's go. It's like I don't. I don't.
I don't.

Speaker 4 (25:01):
I'm not home enough to where like I need to
pay all that money for And you know, I like,
I like my roommate.

Speaker 1 (25:07):
I like we got a good way. We be in
there doing squats. He got he got he gotta like
a fifty you all know him to your do it.

Speaker 4 (25:17):
Yeah, but like he has like a fifty pound like
weighted vest, weighted vest.

Speaker 1 (25:22):
So like I think living with your doy.

Speaker 4 (25:25):
I think most of the time it's done well for
me because I'm like, oh, I can't let him out
sexy me.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
You know what I mean. I gotta like, I gotta
be in here, like doing my weight.

Speaker 3 (25:36):
This is your competition in your own home.

Speaker 5 (25:39):
Yeah, in the weight inst is your emotional support workout.

Speaker 1 (25:43):
This is I've never heard this before. Yeah, I gotta,
I gotta.

Speaker 3 (25:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (25:47):
I think we both challenge challenge each other, you know
what I mean? Good way, Yeah, say a healthy rivalry.

Speaker 1 (25:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (25:53):
Yeah, I haven't seen your lifety pack yet, but I
mean maybe he's helping you mentally.

Speaker 4 (25:59):
I think I think we both are like we're physically
in a good place where like yeah, we I think
like we read a lot.

Speaker 5 (26:08):
You go get your book yep, or is it just
Thursdays we read at two?

Speaker 4 (26:13):
Like you know, sometimes I'm on like that Lebron James
thing where I have the autobiography of Malcolm X, but
it's the bookmark has been in the same place. Yeah, yeah, no,
look I'm not saying and now all that, but there
was a there's a meme about him where he like
just has like a book and he'll never like he'll

(26:33):
act like he's reading it. He's kind of like he
kind of spurred the whole performative.

Speaker 1 (26:39):
Men reading in public.

Speaker 4 (26:40):
I missed hit TikTok yet Yeah, prob was you're not
You're not in like the maybe the Sports World Lebron meme.

Speaker 5 (26:47):
That I know was him picking up his his duffel
and walking out of the pass conference with his suit on.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
Or the.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
You know when he's like happy or whatever, like.

Speaker 2 (26:58):
Oh yes he's in the pool and he's like wait, okay,
so so the person you're dating.

Speaker 3 (27:09):
I feel like this is usually how it goes.

Speaker 2 (27:11):
You go to a woman's house, and it's just nice
like they got candles, they got carpete ship whip, okay,
things in the fridge.

Speaker 1 (27:17):
Where friar and she's keeping clean right like.

Speaker 4 (27:21):
The very she got the she got the whats called
she got the she got the thing at night where
it's like wave sounds.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
That's crazy first of all.

Speaker 7 (27:36):
Es.

Speaker 1 (27:40):
But they got ads, you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (27:42):
You know you got yeah yeah, and then you got
what what use did did she have? That?

Speaker 1 (27:48):
I really like?

Speaker 3 (27:49):
So it just sounds like electronics things, air fry.

Speaker 4 (27:52):
You got like a nice little Japanese table, like a
little low table. I like like sitting on the ground
and eating crossing. Good couch couch. I seen like we
were watching Weapons. I watched like three minutes of that movie.
I was asleep the whole time. It's a good couch.

Speaker 2 (28:11):
Felt like a womb, felt like a couch. Or it's
a bad movie, it's a movie. If it's a bad movie,
you're hooking up.

Speaker 3 (28:19):
You're hooking up.

Speaker 1 (28:20):
It's a good couch. He fell asleep.

Speaker 2 (28:21):
Yeah no, But if the movie's bad, you're like, yes,
we can hook up.

Speaker 4 (28:25):
We gotta okay, so look we gotta we don't do
I don't I don't want to be It's fine. We
don't do couch hook up because she has a dog
that's like very active and will try to do let
me get ready, so we gotta like.

Speaker 3 (28:44):
Dog listens trying to join in.

Speaker 1 (28:50):
She don't have a little cage for the dog. No, no, no,
I mean we're fine.

Speaker 3 (28:55):
No, no, it's just I'm putting the dog in the
closet now.

Speaker 1 (28:58):
But he kind of weird. Sounds like all dogs.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
Cat would never cat is being in the corner judging
like cat, a cat on.

Speaker 5 (29:06):
The side of the boom bostic side, looking at that's
how we do it.

Speaker 3 (29:10):
That cat is like you're gonna catch a Charlie Hurst. Now,
don't play too much.

Speaker 1 (29:15):
Lift your leg, lift your leg.

Speaker 4 (29:18):
Yeah, but it's just it's it's like I don't know
if have we had rich we got rich friends. We
even like growing up like I remember my mom would
use my dad's a dress so I could go to
a suburban school. And once I started going to a
suburban school and I seen like snack closets.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
Oh, like a pan pantry, that's what it is. That's
what they call.

Speaker 3 (29:42):
A pantry.

Speaker 1 (29:43):
That closet feels like it should be the name a pantry,
the den.

Speaker 5 (29:50):
The Then the first time I saw a den, I
was like a downstairs living role or a.

Speaker 3 (29:57):
Second living role.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
But then we had our other friend who's like rich rich,
she said, a den, that's nothing.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
She's like, it's called the parlor. It's another room.

Speaker 5 (30:06):
Parlor is the living room that you don't touch. The
den feel like the living room that you actually sit in. No,
the den is just like entertainment only. Parlor is like,
oh we you know, we have little drinks, we're in
the area, and the little cigar, yes.

Speaker 3 (30:20):
Cigar bar. And then the living room is a living you.

Speaker 5 (30:22):
Have more than three couches at least pretty much.

Speaker 1 (30:26):
Wow, living good rests ottomans.

Speaker 4 (30:31):
But no, So it's like if you grow up with
a you're not you're always going to their house. This
is true, you know what I mean, you're not. So
I think like in this in this regard, it's like
she's the rich French she you know.

Speaker 3 (30:43):
She doesn't doesn't have any roommates, roommates.

Speaker 1 (30:47):
I love her. So how do you feel her, how
she's home?

Speaker 3 (30:50):
How do you feel like the women being the bread
women winner?

Speaker 1 (30:52):
She's not the bird winner.

Speaker 4 (30:54):
You said, yeah, yeah, yeah, she's not the bread winner.
But but like, no, I like doing for her. And also,
you know I'm handy.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
I know I have. I have messed up certain things
in both of your houses.

Speaker 4 (31:10):
Things have gone around, we have gone awry. But that's
just because I haven't been in my you gotta understand,
I paint.

Speaker 1 (31:20):
I'm not. I haven't been in my furniture assembly bag
for like years.

Speaker 5 (31:25):
So when I messed you and said, can you do this.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
You should No, No, I did no, No, but I
did do it.

Speaker 4 (31:35):
We had, you know, we I'm not gonna talk about
your uneven floor.

Speaker 1 (31:39):
But no.

Speaker 4 (31:41):
Want to talk about But here's the Here's the thing
is like a lot of the times, like I have
lucked up. I don't know why because I'm five six
point seventy five.

Speaker 1 (31:59):
No, I've lucked up.

Speaker 3 (32:02):
Did you just go to the doctor yesterday.

Speaker 1 (32:04):
I'll get your exact he said, let me tell you
something to me. And you know I have done in
the house where you're.

Speaker 5 (32:09):
Like, you're like, I'm not five six, I'm not five
to seven. I'm five to six point seven five seven five.
I think that means you got a round up.

Speaker 4 (32:17):
I know, But I'm just trying to be I'm just
trying to be honest, so transparent, trying to be down.

Speaker 3 (32:23):
He would never Okay, So what happened.

Speaker 4 (32:26):
And what I'm saying is like I've I've had good
luck when it comes to like getting into relationships with
women who are like doing good.

Speaker 3 (32:34):
Yeah you you stay with a battie with a good job.

Speaker 4 (32:36):
Yeah yeah yeah yeah thanks curl pattern, thank you, thank you,
thank Trick, thank you, thank you. Yeah, and so like,
but what I find about these women's houses is like
they have nice stuff, but it's very poorly put together.

Speaker 1 (32:49):
Like I remember my last relationship.

Speaker 4 (32:52):
I was in her bed and I was like, there's
like a sick there's the bet is like when I'm
in it, I'm like it's like this right, and she's
like I don't eat. I mean, so I lifted the
mattress up. You know, she had her her like the
box sprint. Yeah yeah, no, I knew just like that for.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
You because I have done that before bed spring.

Speaker 2 (33:15):
I haven't had a raisud such a nice it was
such a nice bed or like something so simple.

Speaker 4 (33:22):
It's like her bedposts like I just like screwed it
back on. And so everything in a woman's house usually
when they got their like life together is like it's nice,
but the ship is hanging on by a piece of
their hair.

Speaker 3 (33:35):
Yeah, I'm not a handy man.

Speaker 2 (33:39):
We do so then we just pick out the things
and when they get here, you're like, okay, somebody.

Speaker 5 (33:43):
Something for the white glove service, and you let the
man do it and then they leave.

Speaker 4 (33:47):
So like, I think maybe people might hear this and
be like, oh, like Rufie might be a man who's
just like coming over and is trying to take over
somebody house and sleeping all.

Speaker 1 (33:55):
I'm not even into that. I like, I like my.

Speaker 4 (33:57):
Place for me, right, but when I am over her place,
you know, like I'm helping out, I'm fixing things.

Speaker 1 (34:05):
I'm like, I'm an asset. You know what I mean.
I'm an asset. And do you hear that?

Speaker 4 (34:10):
Man?

Speaker 3 (34:10):
Hello?

Speaker 2 (34:11):
Hello, Hello? Are you listening? You have to be an asset.
What are you providing? It's not always financial, it's not
always emotional. You got to be moving things around and
adding into the environment.

Speaker 5 (34:25):
In twenty twenty five, Love asking the question what do
you bring into the table?

Speaker 3 (34:28):
Can you build a table? Can you fix the tape?

Speaker 1 (34:30):
The leg? Since table fix.

Speaker 3 (34:36):
And I'm not talking. Put a little thing underneath.

Speaker 2 (34:38):
The legs, fix the table, order the parts to get
the table to be even.

Speaker 1 (34:43):
Go to the hardware store. Do you know where that is?

Speaker 3 (34:45):
You know what a hardware story.

Speaker 5 (34:46):
So I had a dude offer the paint my apartment
and hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. I
had a dude offer the paint my apartment.

Speaker 3 (34:53):
Look at him, Man, did you hear him?

Speaker 1 (34:55):
It was bad?

Speaker 5 (34:56):
That's hold hold on, hold on, let me finish what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (35:00):
He offered to paint my apartment and I was like.

Speaker 5 (35:03):
He was like, all right, well, you you can go
get a massage or whatever, and by the time you
get back.

Speaker 1 (35:07):
It'll be done.

Speaker 5 (35:08):
I got back half of a half of a wall
was painted. She used a tiny paint brush. It looked
like a nail brush. Oh my said, you wouldn't go
get a roller, and he was like, oh, I didn't
want to. You know, it hadn't even occurred to him.
Like if you offer to help somebody do something, you
have to do it the right way. Then what ended

(35:29):
up happening is we went to the hardware store, got
some rollers. I had to help paint my apartment, and
I wasn't trying to do that.

Speaker 2 (35:37):
The way the walls would have been wet and I
would have been dried. There's no way if I had
to move a finger, and I will say that, thank you.

Speaker 1 (35:45):
Sidney, thank you, ry drop cry sham wow absolutely powder.
This is giving me anxiety.

Speaker 2 (35:55):
Why I'm not gonna you know, I don't want to.
I didn't want to bring it up. But you know
you came over. You've You've done a couple of jobs
for me that was cute, but the last one I
was like.

Speaker 4 (36:07):
No, no, no, no no, that shoe she okay. So here's
another thing, is like, please consult me when you're ordering things. No,
pay it by right, you've already bought it and you're delivered.

Speaker 1 (36:24):
Yeah, it's been delivered.

Speaker 4 (36:25):
So like you you were having like a shoot thing
built and like, but you could.

Speaker 3 (36:29):
Have said, hey, you need to send that back and
here let me show.

Speaker 4 (36:32):
You know, because look, stop getting cheap stuff from wayfair. Okay,
stop doing it, becamera, make sure you say it's this
build for.

Speaker 3 (36:45):
This thing was actually.

Speaker 4 (36:50):
In way too complex when you could have just paid
a little bit more and got like a did they
make these metal ones that like just pop into the
wall and I would have just attached it to the wall.
And it's like this like metal thing that kind of
looks like a locker and it looks cool.

Speaker 5 (37:04):
Yeah, but that's not really Sydney's aesthetics. And you want
a locker in the room.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
No no, no, no, like a gem wa paresthetic. It's not
Sydney's aesthetic either, Leney weird and yet it's Sydney's athetic
and it gout like me. It had like the mirrors
on it.

Speaker 2 (37:18):
You came into shovel, Let's be honest, and you said
you look like the shelf man you didshovel.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
You said you was you. It was in. It was moody.

Speaker 3 (37:26):
You were like, you know, I'm like dealing with some
stuff right now we were talking.

Speaker 1 (37:30):
I had to help you. Yeah, you help me. Try. No,
I'm not well. You was friends friends, but yeah, I'm gay.
But no matter how.

Speaker 4 (37:41):
Many haircuts I get from a non binary person, I
get it.

Speaker 1 (37:46):
I'm not I'm not your cup of tea. But in that,
in that regard, I felt bad.

Speaker 4 (37:55):
I felt bad because I was like, oh, like and
you don't you know that the half hours, you know,
not anything up around Marie.

Speaker 1 (38:02):
Because like, like my closet.

Speaker 4 (38:04):
Yeah yeah, yeah, what about good No, but with you know,
you're you're a little bit more forgiven, You're a little
bit more forgiven.

Speaker 1 (38:10):
But I stop, I will say, I will say it's me. No,
it's not. It's not your phone, it's not your fault.
That was just a shanky. It was just a thing.
You didn't go up or did not go up. It didn't.

Speaker 4 (38:24):
Yeah, And I felt bad. I felt bad because I
was also I just was like, you don't even.

Speaker 2 (38:28):
Have to pay no, because because something broke while it
like it was it was being honest, you start twisting
and ship and you broke it.

Speaker 3 (38:39):
You saw you were twisting it and then.

Speaker 1 (38:41):
It like it popped.

Speaker 2 (38:44):
Man.

Speaker 1 (38:44):
Yeah yeah, look look somehow I was dealing with you.

Speaker 3 (38:48):
You put it into that out he did exactly.

Speaker 2 (38:52):
Man, you can't be by a cheap ship. I said, okay,
you got to get out.

Speaker 1 (38:56):
You have to go. Look, man, I fis enough.

Speaker 4 (38:58):
You're ordered your ordering, you know, like you order you.

Speaker 1 (39:05):
From a company that does like human trafficking or whatever.

Speaker 2 (39:10):
Yeah, blame it on the kids on Yeah.

Speaker 1 (39:18):
I'm not saying I'm perfect, but.

Speaker 4 (39:22):
I think yeah, yeah, but I think, like you know,
just just ask me and and I'll lead you towards
some better bills.

Speaker 1 (39:29):
Serve me good.

Speaker 2 (39:30):
I'm going to task rabbit and I'm gonna and I'm
gonna yell at a stranger and I'm not gonna.

Speaker 3 (39:35):
I'm not gonna judge my friend because you know he's
judging you in there.

Speaker 1 (39:38):
Yeah yeah, yeah, no, I know, I know. But I've
worked for all three Yeah, another worked for Yeah.

Speaker 2 (39:45):
We were there when you were trying to figure it
out with a mean and we know it.

Speaker 1 (39:49):
Was I did. I figured it out. I've moved swings
that swing from a ceiling. You know it's and not
sex swing. Guys.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
I just want to let you know this. Select them
our friend books. Yeah, that would be nice.

Speaker 4 (40:06):
But I am I am, I am handy, but yeah yeah,
not with cheap stuff.

Speaker 2 (40:11):
It's like, so tell us where we should be ordering
these things from.

Speaker 4 (40:17):
Just I mean, CB two is good, Yeah they a
C B two is good. It's it's better. It's like
it's like the same thing I would say with I'm
big on clothes. I spend I look bohemian, but I
spend a lot of money on my clothes and that's
because like I want things that I could wear for
like a decade.

Speaker 1 (40:38):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (40:39):
Good, Yeah, you got on an acne denim jack right now.

Speaker 4 (40:43):
This is a this is a Type three from the
This is a Levi's Type three from the seventies. Like,
this is very hard, this is hard to get no pockets,
this is no.

Speaker 1 (40:54):
This is no pockets. So we got that before they
started making pockets.

Speaker 5 (40:57):
Yeah, yeah, and from seventy three they didn't have pock
It's in seventy.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
Three they did, but they didn't start putting them in
the Levi' jackets yet. They just put them here here.
They didn't do I'm going to google it piece. Yeah,
and then talking about the genes.

Speaker 4 (41:09):
Uh, these are only denim from yeah, only them twenty ounce,
twenty ounce, yeah, twenty ounce.

Speaker 1 (41:16):
They sell them a by the ounce. They sell them
by that.

Speaker 3 (41:17):
I didn't even know Jenny Announces.

Speaker 4 (41:20):
I'm just saying, like I like more of like a
Wabbi sabby thing, especially with like furniture and like house goods.

Speaker 5 (41:27):
Like you, they don't want to go to saying wabbi
sabby meaning it's not perfect.

Speaker 1 (41:33):
Is that what you're saying?

Speaker 4 (41:34):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it got a little to it, but
it's like supposed to be there, you know, like it's
supposed to be.

Speaker 3 (41:38):
So why are you mad at my mine?

Speaker 8 (41:41):
Why it's too wabby? There's no sabby Sabi is. Nobby
is just wabby wyb You know what's crazy?

Speaker 3 (41:54):
My you know what's crazy.

Speaker 1 (41:58):
I don't realize that.

Speaker 5 (41:58):
The only reason why I know what Wabbi Sabby is
is because literally last night I was watching a clip
on Somebody's Somebody's Real and it was Hank Hill and
Bobby Hill looking at roses. Yeah, and Bobby It's Hank
and Bobby were talking about flowers and Hank was like,
this one is perfect, and he was like, I like
this one it's Wabbi Sabby and Henk was like, whol.

Speaker 1 (42:25):
Yeah, okay.

Speaker 2 (42:26):
So I mean, how do we make your place better
for someone to come over too, because like, not every
not all the time, we want to host. Sometimes we
just want to pull up and put our overnight back down, yes,
and then be treated, but you know, with some treats.

Speaker 5 (42:43):
And I've dated guys whose apartments I never went to,
and I was like, I think he don't have a.

Speaker 3 (42:48):
Hop Yep, he's a vagabond. Yeah, said it's given you know,
no mad on the road again.

Speaker 4 (42:54):
But isn't isn't that the whole theory behind that, Like
they usually give the best dick I need.

Speaker 1 (43:00):
No, I don't need a I don't need.

Speaker 5 (43:05):
Better than I need to see where you live. I
need to see how you live because that informs me
of who you are.

Speaker 1 (43:11):
You are and how you live. Okay, I also think
the thing is is that I'm the one.

Speaker 2 (43:15):
I have a car, so oh, that's just claim the fame,
he said, But I got an automobile, he said, this
is my house.

Speaker 4 (43:21):
Yeah, that's basically the road. No, but like she stays
in Queens, I stay in Brooklyn, so that the divide.
The divide on train is crazy, Like I probably would
not even be dating her if I had to take
a train. However, because I have a car, it's a

(43:41):
twenty minute ride, you know what I mean. So like,
and she has the dog, so therefore, like most nights,
it's like, yeah, you know, but she's never going to
sex in front of head again.

Speaker 2 (43:54):
The kid, that's not that's the old man's mask. You
guys need to have better names for your pets. I
don't like I don't want to pick named Charles.

Speaker 4 (44:05):
I think I think Ted isn't bad I think ted
isn't bad.

Speaker 1 (44:08):
It's not bad.

Speaker 3 (44:09):
If his name is Teddy. I think that's a good
dog name.

Speaker 1 (44:13):
I think when when you like.

Speaker 4 (44:15):
The thing that I don't like is when people try
to get like creative with the names.

Speaker 3 (44:19):
I like, Mochi, that's a cute name for a dog.

Speaker 4 (44:21):
No, Mochi's nice, Like yeah, like when it's like a pun,
what do you mean like rufous and and then I'm like, no.

Speaker 5 (44:31):
Rufous feels like a dog or looks like yeah, I
feel like.

Speaker 1 (44:36):
A dog name.

Speaker 5 (44:36):
And my name should be like a thing. Yeah, like cookie,
come here, cookie, Yeah, like spoons, but.

Speaker 3 (44:43):
Like per Neal. There was a girl who had like, ya,
come here per Neal.

Speaker 1 (44:47):
I was like, but that's poor Spanish.

Speaker 3 (44:49):
Yeah you know she's black. She's black and her dog
name is per Neil.

Speaker 1 (44:54):
What have dog looked like?

Speaker 2 (44:56):
It was like a like like a ship to No.

Speaker 3 (45:00):
Yeah, I didn't. It didn't get per nel.

Speaker 4 (45:04):
Right, that's the I mean, Oh no, no, no, I'm thinking
about no, no, no.

Speaker 1 (45:09):
Yeah ships.

Speaker 3 (45:11):
She's a hurry furry dog.

Speaker 1 (45:13):
Yeah, I was thinking of the one with the ruffles.

Speaker 4 (45:15):
The face, yepecial face full dog.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
Started to start with a ask.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
So wait, okay, so you're dating her. She hasn't been
to your house at all. How long have you all
been together?

Speaker 1 (45:28):
Like you have one it's brand new, Yeah, it's brand new.
Think about the future.

Speaker 5 (45:33):
I think we we at the point where she could
maybe see it in the daytime.

Speaker 3 (45:38):
Yeah, oh no, the daytime is scary. I think nighttime
is better.

Speaker 1 (45:42):
Because you know, because you know you're doing it. Might
be in there doing Coppaera Livy Space.

Speaker 4 (45:51):
We got an office that we uh like kind of
we turned into like a workout, like that's where we
get the toxicity out.

Speaker 5 (45:57):
If he in the office gym, let him get his
little hot kicks split day moves out.

Speaker 1 (46:02):
But sometimes he'd be in the doorway, you know what
I mean.

Speaker 4 (46:05):
In the doorway, your doorway.

Speaker 3 (46:09):
I'm sure he's dating somebody, so just tell him.

Speaker 1 (46:12):
You don't know how to be bringing them back to
the house.

Speaker 5 (46:14):
Yeah, yeah, because you can't. You gotta put a hair
tied on the door or something.

Speaker 4 (46:21):
I like going to Jackson Heights though it's nice, it's
it's like a vacation.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
Jackson Heights. That's where my AirPods were.

Speaker 2 (46:26):
I know I could have picked them up for you
know how rough life is you're like, I'm going to
Jackson Heights for a vacation. That's that's nice out there though,
Like you could get like some massolid chia at one am.

Speaker 1 (46:37):
Like the food is good.

Speaker 5 (46:39):
That's what they keep They keep trying to get me
to go to Queens for the food.

Speaker 1 (46:41):
I have food at home.

Speaker 3 (46:44):
But that's I'm not a food.

Speaker 1 (46:45):
That's your You're a train taker.

Speaker 3 (46:47):
I'm a train taker or or uber.

Speaker 1 (46:49):
It's tough. It's tough to get out there. It's tough.

Speaker 3 (46:51):
Got cars what you're talking about.

Speaker 2 (46:53):
I've got an uber all the way to Connecticut. I
could get to Jackson I just got an uber code
for tonight. Really okay with Jackson Heights.

Speaker 3 (47:01):
What's the ubercold for some.

Speaker 1 (47:02):
Dinner that I'm going to? Are you going to Jackson
Nights for real? For no? But if you're out there,
I can give you some restaurant recommendation. I don't need them.
I'm not going. I didn't even know my airpots.

Speaker 4 (47:14):
You might start dating a little Zoranar.

Speaker 1 (47:18):
You better get yourself zor on from Jackson Heights. Yeah,
he's from Runner Area.

Speaker 3 (47:23):
Over him and then he stole my hairpods'.

Speaker 1 (47:27):
Hey socialism, Uh.

Speaker 3 (47:31):
What do you think you're gonna get your own place?

Speaker 1 (47:34):
My own place?

Speaker 4 (47:36):
Well, you know, the comedy special comes out on November twenty, right,
so there's people your money up, that's my lottery ticket.
I know she's let no, no, no, I'm no listen.
It's look, you never know, Yeah, you never know.

Speaker 1 (47:56):
Look, you put something out you're proud of. It is
coming out. You brought y'all DVDs to DVY. That's how
you beat the algorithm.

Speaker 5 (48:03):
I don't have okay, see this is the beard.

Speaker 1 (48:08):
Yeah that's back when I had the beard. I don't
have a DVD player.

Speaker 4 (48:12):
You gotta PlayStation five right watching it? It's whoever your
days is dope? I love that, isn't it?

Speaker 3 (48:18):
The person I'm dating in another country?

Speaker 1 (48:20):
I don't know. I know, I'm gonna translate. But you
dating somebody? Where are you dating? You date somebody in England?
I knew it.

Speaker 4 (48:26):
I knew it because it's you're not the only woman
I've met who who's from here?

Speaker 1 (48:31):
That's cool that Stayton dudes in like London? Well, I
mean it really is a strong word. They really are
they really infiltrating?

Speaker 3 (48:40):
Were real exotic over there?

Speaker 1 (48:42):
Yeah? Yeah, how do you like the food out there.

Speaker 5 (48:46):
I feel like the food that I eat in the
places that I like is good. You know it's not
Jackson Heights.

Speaker 1 (48:53):
No no, no, no no. We got couples like Cheri
out there or whatever. M I don't know what they're
out there.

Speaker 3 (49:01):
They're not giving beans and toast.

Speaker 1 (49:04):
Beans into betings and toast. That's that's going good for you.

Speaker 2 (49:08):
Want to don't deflect. I'm talking about when you're gonna
get your plans.

Speaker 3 (49:13):
Focused about Brooklyn.

Speaker 1 (49:17):
I don't.

Speaker 4 (49:17):
I don't know, because like if I did get a place,
I'd probably want to get like a like something cute
in like a in a spot of Brooklyn that's like
not as like popular, Like I don't want to do Bensonhurst.
There's a there's a there's like a Palestinian neighborhood where
I so happened to be doing work there for a

(49:38):
lady and I was in her spot and I was
like this is nice, like like this is a really
nice spot, a big kitchen like.

Speaker 2 (49:44):
You Texas, the area was it Kingsington. It's like near
is it like is nice? Really nice apart park like
did miss Park area?

Speaker 4 (49:57):
But like they it's like a it's a large list
Indian a population. But uh yeah, it was like three
fifty for the apartment, Like that's not.

Speaker 1 (50:06):
Between three to buy it?

Speaker 2 (50:09):
Yeah, you talking about buying. I thought I was written, yeah,
let's get Yeah, that's.

Speaker 4 (50:16):
Like the thing is like and I'm not a proponent
like I'm not a proponent of like I don't think
buying a house is a good financial investment or whatever.

Speaker 1 (50:25):
But I think like if you find.

Speaker 2 (50:27):
Some listen to Wabi Sabbi realtor over here talk about it.

Speaker 3 (50:30):
I didn't even know why you was that you was
into buying something.

Speaker 4 (50:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (50:35):
Yeah, I mean you're obviously a collector of good jeans
and whatnot.

Speaker 1 (50:39):
But but I would buy something why not?

Speaker 4 (50:42):
But also but not not for like that reason of
like it's an investment, because then people get like people
like get locked down into a house and I'm like, oh,
you you.

Speaker 1 (50:51):
Heard about the fifty year mortgage or whatever the hell
it is?

Speaker 3 (50:55):
What happened?

Speaker 1 (50:56):
That's what trump? Yeah, it's crazy.

Speaker 3 (50:58):
What is it?

Speaker 5 (50:58):
Imagine a fifty years a mortgage that you gotta pay.

Speaker 4 (51:01):
Because the thing about American houses are like we have
no integrity, Like everything is h and m everything is h.
So you buy a house and you're like the person
selling it to you is like the roof is fucked,
they'll handle it when they when I get there. The
boiler is about to go out in two months. And
so you like buy a house and now you gotta
like you got to start from zero.

Speaker 3 (51:22):
I aren't just supposed to have an inspection.

Speaker 5 (51:25):
And they come and be like that's crap, that's that's shite, yo,
that's worse.

Speaker 4 (51:31):
Some people are selling houses where it's like they say
no inspection, like why don't.

Speaker 3 (51:35):
They do such because they don't want you to find
the cracks.

Speaker 2 (51:39):
And then I would be like, no, thank you, I
don't need a house that bad.

Speaker 4 (51:44):
We live in America where like capitalism, you know, I
wanna get too preachy, but we value this is, this is,
but we value we value like we value profit over sustainability.
So like that's why everything like fast fashion and ship
is so big. But like even in like housing, uh uh,
institutions are buying up houses.

Speaker 1 (52:05):
Why isn't that illegal?

Speaker 4 (52:07):
Like so like if I'm going up to bid for
a house against fucking yeah Jackie Morgan Chase and they
could just bomb.

Speaker 2 (52:15):
They don't need to do mortgage. You're like, I'll pay
the full and then what happens to the house.

Speaker 4 (52:20):
They end up turning like something that could be used
for three units for three families, family to one unit
who probably made their money off the war.

Speaker 1 (52:29):
In Iraq or something black.

Speaker 4 (52:32):
Yeah, like a black rock family, a white family named
black black Rock.

Speaker 3 (52:37):
I met my family black Rocks.

Speaker 2 (52:39):
I think I used to white family.

Speaker 1 (52:42):
Black brown family.

Speaker 3 (52:44):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, So you said.

Speaker 4 (53:05):
If I need to think, I think I would maybe
like look into it, like getting something like maybe like yeah.

Speaker 2 (53:12):
So you're like, I don't want to get a place
until I could buy something.

Speaker 3 (53:17):
Is that what you're saying?

Speaker 4 (53:18):
Yeah, And it's nothing like if I can buy something,
but I also like.

Speaker 1 (53:22):
Want my I want to be doing like comedy like
fool full full full full time, full full time.

Speaker 4 (53:27):
Yeah, but then who knows, like maybe someday I'll just
like release once.

Speaker 1 (53:31):
This the real goal. The real goal is the.

Speaker 4 (53:34):
Frank Ocean is to like something, release something so good
to where I don't ever have to release anything again.
And then like I moved to Japan and like I
buy a little is a kaya I.

Speaker 5 (53:45):
Heard Frank Ocean lived in that little Jenga house that
messing up the timeline.

Speaker 1 (53:50):
I mean the im talking about that building. Yeah, I
know that.

Speaker 3 (53:55):
You want to be the algebra Jan of Frank Ocean.

Speaker 1 (54:00):
Frank Caspian c. Yes, that's where he was telling.

Speaker 3 (54:04):
Us about algebra.

Speaker 2 (54:05):
John, that's where that's that's where I was born born,
That's where he's from.

Speaker 3 (54:09):
Remember, because it sounded like a brand of.

Speaker 2 (54:12):
Denims, Eddy Bowers Algebra Jon's like nineties hip hop clothing.

Speaker 5 (54:22):
So let's talk, right, Sidney. We've all been in people's
apartments that we were like.

Speaker 3 (54:30):
Very bad.

Speaker 1 (54:31):
I was taking my coat off, Yeah, very scary. Yeah.
I will be leading my coat on for the duration
of this.

Speaker 2 (54:38):
Yeah, you went to I went to a guy's house
in Newark and it was a trap house.

Speaker 3 (54:44):
He did not tell me that there were guns on
the table. Uh Newark, New Work.

Speaker 2 (54:51):
The curtains were bed sheets. No no, no, no, no, no, no,
no flat.

Speaker 1 (55:00):
You didn't know.

Speaker 3 (55:01):
You didn't know city.

Speaker 1 (55:02):
I don't need to know that. It was still not
it was crunched on the side.

Speaker 2 (55:08):
It was not went in and I said, wow, I'm
really stuck here now.

Speaker 1 (55:15):
I was.

Speaker 3 (55:16):
This is the time where I did.

Speaker 1 (55:17):
Not have cab money like that.

Speaker 2 (55:19):
No, I did not have an I don't even think
Uber was like popping at that time. So I was
just I definitely took through the Path train into Newark
to go to this man's house, and so we're in
the trap House. Obviously we hook up. I can hear
a drug deal going on.

Speaker 5 (55:38):
Wait, it was it was drug dealer roommates, Yes, he
had roommates.

Speaker 1 (55:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (55:42):
I feel like I think it was a situation where
it was like he was renting.

Speaker 1 (55:46):
A room, oh my room in.

Speaker 2 (55:49):
The Trap House, and I said, you invited me here,
like I wish he had more sense, like you more shame.
But then you know, it's my fault because I still
was there and hooked up.

Speaker 3 (56:01):
But I think he could tell how uncomfortable I.

Speaker 2 (56:04):
Was, because afterwards I was like, Wow, I'd really love
to get back to Harlem.

Speaker 1 (56:09):
I would love that.

Speaker 3 (56:10):
Harlem looks really nice right now. He's like, yeah, it's late.

Speaker 2 (56:15):
I mean I got to Newark at a time where
he's like, yo, when you get out, don't look at nobody,
don't look at me back, just walk five.

Speaker 3 (56:23):
I had to walk five.

Speaker 1 (56:25):
He didn't meet you at the trains things. Don't look
at nobody, but also don't look for me. That's crazy.

Speaker 3 (56:33):
Two.

Speaker 1 (56:34):
I was twenty two. He couldn't leave the trap house. No,
he could not.

Speaker 2 (56:38):
He could not, And it was it was one of
those things where I was like, damn, it's me. I
set this up so bad because he's going to do this.

Speaker 3 (56:45):
To another girl.

Speaker 1 (56:47):
I'm sure you are, of course not.

Speaker 2 (56:49):
But if I would have stood up for all the
girls after me to be like absolutely not, I should
have left immediately. But I felt like if I would
have walked out, I would have got shot and.

Speaker 1 (56:59):
Killed for sure. Well you could have got shot and
killed in the trap house and home breakfast. At least
that would be in our home or shot inside. Is
better than me and shot out? Yes, I would love
to know twenty two year old students.

Speaker 3 (57:13):
No, you don't know.

Speaker 1 (57:14):
You heard it right now. You heard it here first.
Not the move.

Speaker 4 (57:19):
I mean, I've been to women. I'm not saying all
women's places aren't good. No, and we've been to bad
women's place.

Speaker 3 (57:25):
Okay, tell us.

Speaker 1 (57:26):
What they look like?

Speaker 3 (57:28):
How bad was it you walk in?

Speaker 1 (57:29):
Then?

Speaker 3 (57:29):
What the cat on the rug?

Speaker 1 (57:31):
No?

Speaker 4 (57:32):
I had like a similar situation where me and this
co worker up that's where you first met me and
this coworker. She was having trouble finding housing. She was
going couch to couch, right, Oh, she's going couch the
couch at the time, and she finally found like.

Speaker 1 (57:47):
A little spot. But it's just like a room that
might have been like shared with other people or whatever.
It was in the hostel.

Speaker 3 (57:57):
Somebody who's done that.

Speaker 4 (57:58):
We're drinking, and that she was a drinker, like but
like buckets of beer, so we get there buckets.

Speaker 1 (58:07):
Yeah, year, but he was one of the bros at work.

Speaker 3 (58:11):
That's your homie.

Speaker 1 (58:12):
Kind of Yeah she was. She was, Yeah, she was
in the stock she was. And to mind you, I
was young. I was like younger, younger.

Speaker 4 (58:20):
I was like, you know, twenty four two twenty four,
but no, like so we we I had. I tried
to keep up with her drink wise, and uh, I
was doing I was doing stuff.

Speaker 1 (58:36):
But then like I was like, yeah, I'm tapped.

Speaker 4 (58:38):
I can't, like I'm done, you like I can't, couldn't
get I just cut I can't. And I don't ever
feel guilty about that either. I do not give a
about not getting it up.

Speaker 1 (58:47):
I do not care.

Speaker 4 (58:49):
I do not care about what not not being able
to get it up. Okay, yeah, sometimes that's not matters. Yeah,
there's some Look, the reviews are all across the board
with me, Like, there's some women that will be like, oh,
it was too and then someone like it was some
woman would be like, I don't know what happened, and
he was I don't know. She couldn't make it happen,

(59:10):
and so I didn't feel guilty, but like that though,
she went into a rage.

Speaker 1 (59:15):
She went to a rage and she kicked me out,
and I'm an.

Speaker 4 (59:18):
I went drinking beer, but she's you know, she like, yeah,
she kicked me out like she was sucking Larry the
Cable guy style.

Speaker 1 (59:26):
You know what. I'm like, you funk out her and
she threw you off the bus right in the back.

Speaker 5 (59:36):
Yeah, ass ball. She let you get dressed. She threw
her clothes out behind you.

Speaker 7 (59:41):
Yo.

Speaker 1 (59:42):
It felt like did.

Speaker 3 (59:46):
She have overalls?

Speaker 5 (59:48):
She was she had a cigarette in her mouth, and
she said, and did she have a due rap?

Speaker 1 (59:56):
That's what it feels. No, no, no, she wasn't studied.
She wasn't studied.

Speaker 4 (01:00:02):
She and then it's like four am. I'm out on
Alabama Ave.

Speaker 1 (01:00:06):
In East New York, two thousand and eleven.

Speaker 4 (01:00:10):
I love Yama Avenue, Yo, baby, by the by the.

Speaker 2 (01:00:15):
L tram last she kissed you out come.

Speaker 1 (01:00:21):
On Alabama Avenue.

Speaker 3 (01:00:23):
Was it winter or summer?

Speaker 1 (01:00:25):
Winter? Damn?

Speaker 3 (01:00:27):
So not only was it just like flasted, it also
was chili.

Speaker 4 (01:00:33):
And you know that Jay, I'm shit. I think the
Z might have been trying to pick me up at
that far. Like I was waiting and I was nine
dollars an hour, yeah, and you were twenty four nine hour?
Is my first I had to get a This is
when I first came to New York, so like I
couldn't wait to get a job, Like I had to

(01:00:54):
get a job or else the money I made opening
up for Big Sean and Tallahassee was gonna like burned
through in like two weeks.

Speaker 1 (01:01:02):
So I had to get an American Apparel.

Speaker 4 (01:01:03):
Nine dollars an hour job and American apparel, So you
didn't definitely, and there was no Uber then, and I
didn't have enough money for a taxi because that was
my Trader Joe's tune in Shells money that.

Speaker 1 (01:01:15):
I was you know you okay? So I was right
you and her was working at Trader Yeah, I had
been at American Apparel.

Speaker 3 (01:01:24):
So you were folding and unfolding boxes or licras.

Speaker 2 (01:01:27):
Which one you said, likeriss likeris.

Speaker 3 (01:01:32):
In front of the house, but you're talking about on
the back of the house front house.

Speaker 2 (01:01:35):
Okay, so to wait, so wait a minute. And then
you didn't even have like a like a proper coat.
You had you had on like line yeah, yeah, yeah,
you had a wind breaker, the hoodies they had.

Speaker 1 (01:01:47):
I had one of those Florida clothes.

Speaker 4 (01:01:50):
Yeah, I had employee outfit on. You know they give
you like they give you like two free outfits every month.

Speaker 2 (01:01:56):
Yeah, and then you had converse on, so they're not
therese are not insult You never had ankle socks underneath.

Speaker 4 (01:02:03):
Yeah, it was twenty eleven. We was all dressing like
LCD sound system, you know what I mean. Williamsburg was
just just getting gutted.

Speaker 3 (01:02:12):
So you don't even know what the house looked like.

Speaker 1 (01:02:15):
You just know that you was no I just.

Speaker 4 (01:02:16):
Know all I saw was dark bed and then I
was out. But I know that she was just like,
you can't like make any noise. I've lived with three
abused mothers, live with three different You.

Speaker 3 (01:02:28):
Were in a way word was a wayward house women.

Speaker 5 (01:02:33):
And then people hurt, people hurt, people are hurt people.

Speaker 1 (01:02:39):
Oh, my god.

Speaker 4 (01:02:40):
Yeah, why did they name it that? Why diould they
you name an avenue in New York that?

Speaker 3 (01:02:46):
What you mean?

Speaker 1 (01:02:47):
Obama? But they're all named after states?

Speaker 4 (01:02:49):
Oh really, I think it's not a good state. I
was not in a good state.

Speaker 1 (01:02:58):
Mentally.

Speaker 2 (01:03:00):
It's learned their lesson now me then, Yeah, what lesson
was nothing. Gotta get around thet back out there and
to get back on the field.

Speaker 1 (01:03:11):
Boys, you gotta get back. You got to see it
through my boy, you see it?

Speaker 2 (01:03:18):
Oh my god, amazing, Yeah, wow, so much mess. I mean,
I get it. I get it, like not wanting people
to be in your home. Also not wanting to be
in somebody's home. I get Like homes, it's a lot
to build it up to a place where you're.

Speaker 3 (01:03:34):
Like, come over, come see it.

Speaker 2 (01:03:36):
It takes time, It takes money, you know, it takes taste,
it takes tay, it takes hay.

Speaker 4 (01:03:40):
So my apartment is my apartment is like it's good.
It's not a bad apartment.

Speaker 1 (01:03:44):
I got to Yeah, y'all could put it up in
the slider.

Speaker 4 (01:03:49):
Yeah, but no, I just like I said, it's more
of like a rich kid thing. It's like if the
rich kid has the better place. If they got the pants.

Speaker 5 (01:03:58):
Come to my house, I would you got on the
pantry with your good stuff and all the snacks and
the variety pack of chips and the.

Speaker 1 (01:04:07):
Cane for stuff.

Speaker 4 (01:04:08):
I'm getting the meals, I'm getting the door dash. I'm
buying the salmon for the air fright.

Speaker 1 (01:04:14):
For the clean air fry. No talapia here, bitch.

Speaker 4 (01:04:20):
I fear that if whoever the straight men that are
listening to this, I feel like straight man got them
caked up air friers. They got them caked up air friers.
If you put anything in there, it all tastes like
a bread of.

Speaker 5 (01:04:36):
Whatever there was. There was this one dude that I dated.
He had a nice place, duplex situation. He would no, no, no, no,
straight straight. I fell down those stairs on my birthday
a couple of months ago. Nice balcony, big ass windows,
well washing dryer right outside the front door. Just like

(01:04:57):
doing well on the flip side. I was thinking this
other dude, you know, the towels was always a weird
color in the bathroom. It was like, Wow, what you
got this from your like your childhood bedroom?

Speaker 1 (01:05:09):
Like why nothing matched?

Speaker 5 (01:05:11):
I want to say, you know what I'm saying, Like
he was like putting up his own wallpaper that he
ordered from I don't know, Sheen or something.

Speaker 1 (01:05:18):
It was bad.

Speaker 2 (01:05:20):
I hate when they don't have any small towels. So
you only got these long ass medium towels that I'm
supposed to wipe my whole body and face with.

Speaker 5 (01:05:28):
Absolutely and then how it was like maroon or something.
But she's not gonna see him. Small towns are just
for you. Yeah, but them small towns. That's my regular
tox on.

Speaker 1 (01:05:41):
Five six yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:05:47):
Dale.

Speaker 2 (01:05:48):
Also the towel that you step on when you get
out of the shower or you have or you have
a mat I have my slippers, don't have a mat o.

Speaker 5 (01:05:56):
You know, it's just and you just step out of
the show the bare floor. Oh my god, when you're
doing it, I'm going to send you your text.

Speaker 1 (01:06:04):
Yes, no, no, no, no, I want to see you.
Gotta bath man.

Speaker 5 (01:06:13):
Even when you go to a hotel, you know, they
have that little towel that they like, that's your towels there.

Speaker 1 (01:06:17):
Now in Europe, in Europe, they just got all times.

Speaker 2 (01:06:21):
They also don't have a c there, so I'm not
going by them. Okay, we're doing things different.

Speaker 3 (01:06:26):
Oh they Europe invented the black plague.

Speaker 1 (01:06:29):
Were not said, we don't list the.

Speaker 3 (01:06:31):
Advice from them New York.

Speaker 2 (01:06:32):
They don't watch they kiss the mountains.

Speaker 1 (01:06:35):
It's good. Look. You don't want to got to do
a citizenship right. This country is going down, down, down down.

Speaker 2 (01:06:46):
Now, let's see what's going on over there to find
other refuge Okay, we read a message.

Speaker 3 (01:06:54):
Yes, let's read a message and then get on out
of here.

Speaker 1 (01:06:56):
Hi, Sydney and Marie.

Speaker 5 (01:06:58):
I have blasted through mess this past month, and I
am an instant fan. In a recent episode with Demi
as a guest, Marie talks about her landlord mess. I
believe the words were county liquor beach.

Speaker 3 (01:07:10):
My gas was turned off.

Speaker 5 (01:07:11):
I had to lie to National Grid to get my
gas turn back on by telling them I smelled gas,
because they weren't going to send somebody to the building anyway.
My landlord recently tried to install a Google Home in
our apartment so they could control the temperature remotely from
their home based on what they felt was appropriate, so
freezing us in the winter and boiling us in the summer.
Luckily we were able to block this, but they were

(01:07:33):
still banning people in the basement from using heaters in
the winter, where it can get down to negative for fahrenheit.

Speaker 3 (01:07:40):
Quality of life mess.

Speaker 5 (01:07:42):
Since I've binged the show at such an alarming rate,
I've noticed this is the first time Marie's landlord has
been put on. Blessed the one or the whole rental
system at large. Blessings to Sydney for finally getting an apartment.
I wanted to reach out because I'm a volunteer for
a tenant run organization called Rate the Landlord.

Speaker 3 (01:08:03):
We are just like Glassdoor, rate MD, et cetera.

Speaker 5 (01:08:06):
We are a professional and anonymous platform for sharing landlord
mess and keeping our communities informed. Landlords get to know
everything about you, but renters go into the equation with
zero information about who the fuck is going to control
their quality of life. I just wanted to put y'all
onto this site because I think it's a great way
to put the power back into the hands of the
people when it comes to the landlord tenant dynamic.

Speaker 1 (01:08:29):
That's it.

Speaker 5 (01:08:30):
Thanks for bringing all this fun and light into the world. Okay,
so I guess that's not really a message, but now
we need one one yeah, pretty much. But I guess
if I mean yeah, you could rate your landlord in
case you really want to drag somebody so people moving
into a new building can know.

Speaker 3 (01:08:50):
I need to do that.

Speaker 2 (01:08:51):
I need to do that for my building right now,
because our packages are getting stolen, I mean some broken
early yeah, coming into the mailroom, ripping the packages and
taking the contents and then schedutling and just leaving and allegedly,
you know, it's like somebody who doesn't live in a building.
But it's happened like four times, and they're like, oh,
people are coming from the parking lot, sneaking into the building,

(01:09:12):
then using a credit card to get into the mailroom
and then taking this stuff.

Speaker 3 (01:09:17):
And they're like, well, it's New York. That's what the
that's what the landlord decent is.

Speaker 1 (01:09:20):
They have cameras.

Speaker 2 (01:09:21):
They have cameras, and they sent the video to one
of the tenants and they're.

Speaker 3 (01:09:26):
Like, you know, it's New York. It's not really much
we could do. No, it sounds like they need to
increase the security on that day.

Speaker 2 (01:09:31):
Yeah, but it's just crazy that he said that. And
it's like I've been writing them, I've been in the portal.
I'm in the portal every fucking week. They have not
responded to me. Allegedly, they don't respond to the black people.
It's just crazy, you know, responding to the black and
I'm ready, I'm ready to use that.

Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
You got it? Got it? Yeah? But also like three
one one, yeah, three, I.

Speaker 5 (01:09:52):
Called everyone one the minute I got home and didn't
have guess.

Speaker 4 (01:09:55):
I remember, I had a like a waterfall situation when
it came the leaks in one of my apartments. Called
three one one they there was men fixing the roof.
The next day, boom, three one one is like the
way to go. But like living see, like living in
a place like that where like you have a lot
of tenants, they'll like insulate you from ever getting to

(01:10:16):
the whoever runs the actual building or whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:10:19):
It'll be under some LLC blah blah blah. Yeah you
know that.

Speaker 3 (01:10:21):
You know how America does manage the company?

Speaker 5 (01:10:24):
Well, if you want to rate your landlord, it's rate
the landlord dot org.

Speaker 1 (01:10:28):
Okay, okay, let's do that. Go ahead, let's do it.

Speaker 5 (01:10:30):
Drag them, tell people where they can find the special,
tell people where they can see you, and then tell
us where they should eat in Jackson Heights.

Speaker 2 (01:10:38):
Yeah, and then maybe if you need to paint their apartments,
but not use any task rabit things, build a shelf
and whatnot.

Speaker 3 (01:10:44):
Let's you don't do that no more.

Speaker 4 (01:10:47):
Let's see my special comes out on November twentieth on YouTube.
I would say watch it on YouTube share to link,
but you can also see it on Amazon. Yeah, it's
licensed to three one hundred pound Gorilla. You find me
on Instagram on Instagram roofed underscore a guy of I

(01:11:08):
couldn't get the I couldn't get my neck.

Speaker 1 (01:11:09):
You know, somebody got it.

Speaker 4 (01:11:11):
But yeah, I just want to thank you too, because
like ever since I started comedy, you two have always
been like the first two that have always like co
signed me and y'all are just the best. Y'all are
the best, are the best. There's so many people in
the comedy community that like I give credit for and
like you tour high regard Angels and if you and

(01:11:34):
if you want to eat Jackson Heights, Angel is a
good restaurant, a really good restaurant.

Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
Angel is a really good Jackson Heights.

Speaker 2 (01:11:42):
Why don't you take us there? If we've you know,
basically you jump started your career.

Speaker 1 (01:11:45):
You just I mean, we'll catch the we'll catch the
f train right now, train. We got the car situation
you got? You want the car speaker that, don't worry.

Speaker 3 (01:11:57):
I want door to door service, baby pick us.

Speaker 4 (01:11:59):
Up and then.

Speaker 1 (01:12:02):
Feels like it won't take us. Shout out stands war forever.

Speaker 3 (01:12:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:12:08):
Anyway, thanks for being here, guys.

Speaker 2 (01:12:10):
Make sure you keep reviewing us, sharing, make sure you're
leave in.

Speaker 3 (01:12:14):
Comments everywhere, send us a voicemail and.

Speaker 1 (01:12:17):
Send us some messages. Is actually myth. Yes, thank you,
See you next week. Boy.

Speaker 5 (01:12:24):
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and hosted by Sydney Washington and Marie Boston. Executive produced
by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonny, super produced by Beca Ramos,
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Speaker 3 (01:12:41):
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