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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's see after show, after the show podcast. Easy for
me to say, right, may be done before this after
show work it is after show. Uh, and thank you
for being a podcast subscriber.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Okay, So today we learned that I didn't know what
soft it and facial were until I met and married Murphy.
And he always uses that word and we talked about
those words when he talks about the house, like soft
it and facio soft it in facia and well that's
not all he talks about about the house, no, but
when he starts talking about the house, have.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
You ever seen soft it in facial life?
Speaker 1 (00:33):
And every time I've had to reverence it, it's been
for legitimate reason. I know, the sofa was actually rotting
at our old house and we had to replace it.
It was I said that in the what do you
call that in the you know, the purchase agreement when
you actually write down the it's when the inspection's done
and they write down and the inspector wrote down, you know,
rotting soft it. And so after I looked up the
(00:53):
word soft it, I knew we had to replace the
boards in.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
The back wait overhead, that's when you learned it. Uh,
you know, I thought this is something you know, you
knew your whole life. You throw it around like your
dad taught you.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Well, my parents never had rotten softa so I don't
think you anyway.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Look, I bring it back up because that's just the
way life is. There are certain things you maybe never
knew until knew about until you met.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Me, right well, especially I mean people that specialize in things.
There are terms of the trade in every trade. Think
about people attorneys, for example, there are going to be
a lot more legal words that you know that they're
familiar with that I'm going to be, you know, familiar with.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Right So, I don't know what that means, and they
all use it.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
It means you do something for me, I do something
for you. Oh okay, I'm not a legal person, and
I know that. I don't know that one tortious interference.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
I used to think that was preventing the turtle from
going back into the water, but it's not. It's interfering
with the contract that's in place.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Well, you know what else, I never knew anybody who
called everything a unit until I met Murphy.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Everything's a unit.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
A heater, an air conditioner, a phone, a computer, everything's
a unit.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
So don't mess with the un see as a unit.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Yeah, it's he.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Throws that around a lot. I'm just I'm not picking
on you. I'm just saying that is what happens when
you, you know, get outside of your own family and mingle
with other people, you learn different terms and things like that.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Right, right, I remember it was. It came up recently, Joe.
Do you asked me what h fact? You asked me
what HVAC means? Somebody did. It's heating, ventilation, air conditioning, right,
And I never knew it that well. I'd see it
as a kid like HVAC. H fact. That sounds serious.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
The air conditioner, I was going to say for your
mom probably said the air compressor. That was th right, right?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
You thought space heaters were something to do with NASA
and okay space? Is there anything like that? And you
don't have to go full country on me, but is
there anything like that that you never heard of until
you met me? Murphy that I've said that I, you know,
grew up hearing.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
No, most of that I picked up in the second grade.
So I'm just kidding. I knew it. I knew you
were going to do that. I mean, there's something off
the top of my head that I can told.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Us some great stories about skinning squirrels, and oh.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I did that. I did you.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
I was forced to do it once and I ran
in crying, No, I mean I didn't skin it. I
held it well, it was big skin.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
It was horrible. I think I understood what an f
stop was when I met you, because you were a photographer.
I am joking about some of the things, but f stop,
you know, and all that I learned probably from you.
I'd heard the worry, but I didn't really understand apertures
and f stops until you.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Right, we had some good photography conversations early on.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
You spent a lot of time in the dark room.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Before I met you.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I did you get a kiss there too?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
But once I was in the dark room some other
students and then the lights got flicked on and there
was some making out going on. Really, I was grossed
out because I didn't like those two together.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
That'd be kind of dangerous while those chemicals around.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
You know, I'm sure it happened a lot. Excuse me
as a dark room on a college camp.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
But if you flick a light on in the dark room,
you ru in the US right, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Right, you've killed all the time for it to come on.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
You know, it's like over there had been done that
they didn't know they were. They were all caught up
in what they were doing.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
See, that's again another thing you don't have to worry
about in a digital technology world.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
It's true, I missed the smell of the dark room,
though I know this chemical smell good anyway, I just
wanted to that was part of the problem.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
It smell like a mimiograph machine.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
I don't remember the machine compared. Oh, I know that machine.
It's not like grape to me. I loved it. I
know that machine smell. I used to love to put
my papers up to my face smell. But it smelled
sort of grapeish to me anyhow, i'd I just want
to say, you know, make fun of me for not
knowing what soft fit and facier were until I met you.
(05:06):
But it was called the overhang, and I probably never
had a conversation about it as a kid because I
didn't care about that stuff.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Well, there are contractors and builders that know a lot
more about that than I do, you know. I mean,
there are a lot of terms for architectural style roofs
and the way that things come together and right. I
actually didn't really understand anything about floor joist until we
moved into the second house that we lived in, because yeah,
because it was a peer and mean home, it was
off the ground. And so the last house, the first
house that we sell it you talk it. The first
(05:35):
home that we were in was on a foundation, you know,
I mean it's a slab. And then the same thing.
Now we're in a home with a slab. But so
I had to learn a lot of that. You know,
my friend Randy was talking about, you know, well maybe
this floor joist is rotted. It's like, man, that sounds bad.
So what is a floor joys?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Oh you had one though, because remember that the gem
and your high school? What does it have?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Flying buttresses?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Boo that that gym still exists.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
It's beautiful.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Oh yeah it is. I love that great wooden floor
and that.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
General it's cool. You remember that, Sam, because I didn't
recall and I did learn that term from Jody.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
I did see you thought it was a term from
once you played basketball. Okay, we're going to run the.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Flying buttress right or a cartoon character?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Ah? That is the gem I played basketball in by right.
So the point is that you can learn different terms
from different people.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Period.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
You know, get out there and you.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Know, Sam, you've had a lot of spouses. Anything you
picked up along the way, the things that you didn't you.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Don't have to name the spouse, But like, did you
learn certain terms from different spouses you learned?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
I'm sure I learned a lot of terms from these spouses.
I have one term I did learn was irreconcilable difference. Oh,
of course I thought it was a Hollywood term.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Apparently not
Speaker 2 (06:48):
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