We addressed the elephant in the room about whether Sam is single and looking to mingle. All the new personalized wedding trends, from family trees to potluck dinners and dogs as flower girls. Plus Jodi shared little tweaks any man can do to boost his attractiveness.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the Murphy Salmon Jody Daily Show podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I want to address an elephant in the room, and
that is if Sam is single and looking to mingle
and the reason.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Whoa whoa, whoa whoa. I didn't know that an elephant.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
It's on social media because we posted we were sharing
this week about dating being expensive, about the average date
supposedly I guess, depending on where you live, up to
two hundred dollars. So we posted it asking you what
do you think of this, and that the responses have
been huge. Most people like, I'm a cheap date. You know,
I'm a forty dollars date. I'm a twenty dollars date.
We've gotten a lot of that. But it's a picture
(00:37):
of Sam. So it's like, I just want to address
the thing in the room that you are not because
there's some quote, is he single again? Is he looking
to date?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Yeah, and you're not interested in dating?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Not right now? Yeah? I mean, and I know you
always like to bring up never say never, but yeah,
it's never say never. But I'm cool that you hood
life is great.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
That's the best way to be cool with the way
you are now, Like being happy is being happy with
what you have, Yeah, not with you know, the promise
of something that may or may not happen.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
So for anyone that really doesn't know, there we go. Well, no,
I'm just saying if somebody doesn't know, I mean, you've
had a couple of marriages, you've dated a few times,
but you know what made you decide to finally go.
You know, I'm just gonna pause this.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Baby. I just don't. I don't, I don't. I don't
know how to describe it. I just don't need it.
I just don't.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Fine, it's complicated, and you don't want to have to
go down that path.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
I know. Yeah, you know what. I know me and
I know what's going to happen because it's happened before.
And I know I can't predict the future, No you can't,
but I know my progression in a relationship, and I
know kind of mentally what's going to happen to myself.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
You feel like you have a pattern.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yeah, and so therefore it's like, hey, you know, lay
off and if the right, right, right, right person comes along, right,
jump on that way right.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I will say this, and I don't want to give
anything away, but one of my favorite shows of all time.
Got a sequel recently, and that's Sex and the City
and then and just like that, and they wrapped up
and just like that with a major plot point with
someone very important not to get anything away, coming to
terms and being fine with her singleness. Yeah, yeah, like
(02:23):
this is who I'm in a relationship with me and
I thought that was a beautiful way to wrap that up.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
And so not only am I comfortable with it, but
it also it takes a lot of pressure off.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
You know, and you can be yourself more. I'm just me,
all right, just the elephant in the room. Wanted to
address it. And yes, dating is expensive. Join the conversation anytime.
Lots of ways to do that. You can email us
at Murphy Samonjody dot com, which Christy has done. She said,
I listen on my way to work a twenty six
(02:56):
minute commute. She's got it really down specific. So it's
funny because this is kind of what it's about. It's
about time heard your report on sleep math that was
the other day on Friday in the morning. Picked me
up about the one thing not to do if you
wake in the middle of the night. You guys, remember, yeah, not.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Count the hours or remember, oh yeah, don't try to decide,
oh my god, I've only got thirty minutes left.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Don't do sleep math, although that's the number one natural
human thing to look and say, oh I have three
hours left of sleep. Oh my gosh, I've only been
asleep for an hour. And it's from sleep specialists not
to do that, because then you've set parameters, you've interrupted
your sleep, and you just don't do it. Don't try
to do that. Christy says, it's funny. This was hilarious
(03:41):
to me because this is something I never do but
did that night. Oh wow, I was so happy that
it was only two am that I had three more
hours of sleep remaining. Yikes. It was funny that we
were talking about it the same day that she had
it the night before. You're human, Christie, you're human.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Any of these sleep experts ever written a book on like,
here is my routine?
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Sure, there are books on everything. You could certainly listen
to somebody else. Look, be in a relationship with your
sleep routine. You know, I believe in that. I'm in
a relationship with mine as much as you and I
are in a relationship. Murphy. I'man you know, I am
loyal to that sleep routine.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Yeah, what's funny about that question, sam As. Anybody will
tell you, though, that just because they're an expert in
something doesn't mean they do it themselves.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
N That's what I wonder.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Even the counselors will tell you that the advice that
they give is excellent advice for others, and it's practical
and it works. But sometimes it's difficult to do yourself, of.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Course, because we're all working on ourselves, and we will
be working on something the day we die. We will.
And that's okay. You're supposed to always work on yourself. Yeah,
so Christy, thank you for that. Love it. Bill sent,
this was listening to the show the other day when
you were talking about going down going down a true
crime rabbit hole, which I have been in the Epstein
(04:57):
world and it's horrible. He said, if you want to
go down another rabbit hole, google this group that traumatized
a whole neighborhood. Google Chandra may Ky solved Scott County, Mississippi.
He said, that'll keep you busy.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
For a while.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Maybe. Thank you, Bill for the recommendation. The latest buzz
Jody's Hollywood Outsider. It was kind of a fun story
this week, and three things to know today That Home
Depot already has you know, scary stuff in the store
as they call it, halfway to Halloween and you can
buy like you know, the huge night Led Knights and
the new Skelly Skeleton and all that.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Well.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
In Boston this week, did you see or did you
hear about the Michael Myers impersonators all in one spot
for the world record for the Guinness World Record there
there were two hundred and fifty four people dressed up
as Michael Myers in the coveralls, in the mask, all
together in one spot and it was all part of
(05:59):
this the the makers of the video game adaptation. There's
a Halloween game coming in September on you know PS
five and Xbox and everywhere you could buy and play
a game, and so they did that for that, but
they also and if you were at the event you
could do the playable demo. But the funny thing to
me is, you've got two hundred and fifty four Michael Myers.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
How did they find that many masks? I guess eBay
comes in handy for.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
That kidding, It is still the most you can still.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Buy a William Shattner mask and stretch it out yourself.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
No, it's the best scariest mask ever.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
It just really is driving down the street, turn the
corner and run into that.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Can you imagine Murphy? Last year at Halloween, I saw
a stuffed Michael Myers like a plush and I wanted
him so badly. That happened, and the game comes in September.
Give us a call anytime. We'd love to hear from you.
You can call or text us at eight seven seven
three one zero four MSJ.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
You know, in speaking of texting, you know there is
a trend that's going right now viral. It's really just
discussions so I guess it's popping up on read it
in other places how people feel about group chats, and
because now the gap between Android and iPhone has been
bridged and you've got what they call RCS messaging. So
if you can always see when someone's typing, you can
(07:17):
always see when someone is, you know, responding, and you
can see if someone has read or not read your messages.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Usually oh really well.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
And some of those features you have to turn on
and off yourself. Okay, But so what's happening is there
are people who are getting frustrated that they're in a
group chat. You see somebody read the group chat and
that person doesn't respond, and you know, I mean, to me,
it seems a bit a little bit superficial. But you know,
I mean, just because somebody read something doesn't mean that
they have to respond, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Maybe they can't respond right now.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Yeah, exactly, unless it's a direct question to you, but
just an ongoing conversation. Some things may not be something
that you've got an opinion on.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Or Look, a lot of people have a lot of
feelings about group chats, like don't put people don't want
to be in group chats because you get ding and
ding and ding and ding about thanks ha ha, and
then there's somebody one upping that and.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
You just want to thought this conversation was over.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
You just want to be removed from it. That's my
perception of it. But then again, it's only if it's
like ten people or more, or if it's something yeah,
I'll be at the party, stop talking about the party.
You know, if it's something that like, we do group chats.
We have a group chat with our you know, with
the show here, and we have to sometimes you know,
(08:33):
don't forget to do this tomorrow. Bring this tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Yeah, And Murphy that leaving or reading something and then
and not responding. My twins, Maddie and Parker told me
about this because Parker used to always ask, why'd you
leave me on red? H R E A D red? Yeah? Whatever, Yeah,
that's that's what that is. If you he can see
that I read it, then that's it. Like I didn't respond,
(08:57):
why did you leave me on red? It's like a disc. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
I don't let mine send Red receipts for that reason
because it's just like I'm not gonna okay, it doesn't
really matter, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
I didn't know what you meant when you started this, Murphy.
By that iPhone and Android have bridged the gap, what
does that mean that they're very similar now?
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Well, it used to be with the Android you couldn't
see somebody typing, you couldn't see necessarily emojis and the
response is easy. Okay, But now I mean, it's not
all finally integrated with each other.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
Pretty well, they caught up to two thousand and seven.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Now, okay, haha, take you out of the group chat.
It's almost a wedding season, a lot of weddings coming up.
So the new trends that you're going to see at
weddings this year, I love this so so much. Weddings
are becoming more personalized, more customized than ever before. You
know why that excites me, Well, I love to go
(09:48):
to a wedding and see something I've never seen before.
But because when I was growing up, we would go
to weddings. They were all exactly the same, no offense
if they were all exactly like a schedule.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Because tradition and formality is what I guess made it special.
That what everybody wanted to do.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
And my grandfather was the pastor for almost every wedding
in the family, and he he said the same things,
he read the same passages, but.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Every family is different, and you know it's everything is
not the same. Affordability, you know what I mean. That's
why customers is everything.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
So what you're going to see what's like trending right
now for weddings, more casual ceremonies were sort of peep
your friends and your family members are saying things in
the ceremony, like the toast almost being in the ceremony
instead of just the pastor, right instead of the pastor
being the or the efficient. Sometimes they're letting a family member,
(10:43):
Like you remember how in Friends Joey was the efficient
for us, for Monica and Chandler like that, getting somebody
to get ordained so they can marry you. You're seeing
you're seeing more of that whatever you want, personalized, customized brides,
not wearing white and doing just full on color, whatever
you want. I've seen when I've seen online, and it's
(11:03):
one of my favorite things is when you know the
bride and groom, you know, you pronounce the man and
wife and they walk down the aisle, they stop now
mid mid aisle to give hugs, to take pictures. The
photographer wants it. They want a picture right there or
right there with everybody in it.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Yeah, that's got to be tough on somebody that has
to go to the bathroom. Please.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I love that idea. I know we've seen for a
couple of decades now the grandma's being the flower girls
and all of that. Your mom was a flower girl recently,
like and other people are getting involved in instead of
just the traditional roles being played. And I've also seen
at the reception instead of it being a book that
(11:45):
you sign photo booths set up. Instead of signing in,
you're taking pictures and then you can write a little something.
But that's a big new thing.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
My niece had that and it took like the three pictures. Yeah,
when it came out, you signed something and you put
it in a special book for.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Him, so special and so different. No offense to the traditionals. Yeah, ladies.
Three nail colors that look good on any body. I'm
not gonna make you wait. We can, you know, tell
tales from the salon and all that good stuff and why.
But the three are a sheer nude pink. Think about that.
(12:22):
Think of any hand in the world, any hand, a
sheer nude pink would look good on it. And so
it's a safe bet. It's a sweet little feminine look.
I think. The second one is Sam's looking at his fingers.
The second one is like a milky Beige's like a
basic milky I'm wearing. The color I'm wearing is called
(12:44):
Let's Be Friends, and it's my.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
It's one of my go to it is you would
consider that beige? Well, it's looking This is.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Why he doesn't I can't take him to the salaon. Well,
it's a cream, but a cream or a milky beige
somewhere in that area. It's a very neutral thing. The
reason I sometimes go for it is because it goes
with everything and I don't have to think about it.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Actually a lot of people wearing that.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
It's just clean looking and it really goes with everything.
And the third one being classic red, and I do
wear classic red nails a lot, but I'm more careful
in my closet when I've got red nails. Am I
gonna rock a bright orange shirt? Maybe not?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
You know, is that clash factor you gotta worry for me?
Speaker 2 (13:26):
That's a that's look. Women overthink things, and women overthink
things like that.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
Okay, I do in.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
The closet at three point thirty in the morning, going,
but my nails are red, Like literally.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Yeah, I'm glad. That's a stress I don't have.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
I love it. I love being a girl.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
You know what I think if Murphy ever had to
choose a nail polish cover color. Oh you know how
when you walk in there and there's like three thousand
colors to choose from, Yeah, girl, I no.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Yeah, I could get stuck. But I would also probably
follow Jody's rule. Of thumb about the basics.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Now, what you would do, Murphy, if you were getting
a collar out of so you would let your nail
tech pick it for you. She would be she would see,
oh my god, he's stuck. We got somebody who's stuck here,
and they would suggest for you based on your skin tone.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
That is so true.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
And then I'm sure a lot of nails nail tech's
love that. I've sat next to girls at this line
like I roll in. I know I'm number eighty seven red,
or I'm doing let's be friends. I know what I'm
doing usually, but I sat next to a lady once
who said I let her pick. She lets her nail
tech pick.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
That's kind of fun.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
She runs rolls out of there with blue nails sometimes
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
I like the recommendation. It's the same reason that I
like seeing clothes on a mannequin. Easier decision.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Yes, morning, pick me up time, Murphy. You're going to
love this. Okay, you're gonna shine right here. Sam, you're
gonna enjoy it too. But for a different reason. One
day this week, yesterday, it was Big Word Day officially
Big Word Day, and that's you know, some people roll
in this life using big words and some do not.
(14:55):
And look if the more well read you are, the
more wonderful words you pick up. You know how many
times I've been reading a book, I'll put it down
and look up the word and tell myself, I'm going
to learn this. In fact, that would be a good
gift for me. One of those calendars that is a
new word every day.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
I'll shout that out for you for christ You got
to make sure it's words that you can actually work
in the conversation.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
And I also want you to remember when you get
that for your birthday that you asked for.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Yes, okay, okay, that's fine, or Christmas or whatever anyway. So,
according to Prepley the website, words that are used most
often that people use to sound smarter. They know what
it means, but they throw it in there because they're
working on their language. Ambiguous is one of those.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Words that's like to me, ambiguous is a normal word.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
I know that's because you're Murphy though. I mean, do
you use the word ambiguous not a lot?
Speaker 3 (15:47):
Not a lot?
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Articulate? I use that word, yeah, me too, Okay, sorry, Sam, No.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
Okay, two for two. Both of those there are words
that I have used, but I don't not on the regular.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
I don't talk fancy exacerbate. That one comes in a
close third that people throw it into. Let's exacerbate the problem.
I think I've heard you say that, Murphy.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Because I've known people who exacerbate problems.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
So, yes, another word that gets used in the you know,
in by Americans to spice up the language. And there's
nothing wrong with self improvement. Like if you're a kid listening,
don't down it.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
And if you do, there are plenty of scholars, plenty
of scholars that would say, absolutely, you know, that's the
way to speak all the time.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Aesthetic. Yeah, I like this aesthetic.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
But that's a common word today considering you know, aesthetics being.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
The Yeah, dichotomy, Well love that word to bring it.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
Yeah, it's a picture.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Conundrum. Now I've heard you use that, I think.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Sam, I think I have.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Okay, there you go, Dan, you got one.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Conundrum is not a big word. I always thought that
was more slang.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
The morning picked me up. Use your big words, guys.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
I've used through to get out of a conundrum.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
Sam's always up on the New Eats, He's the food dude.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
Mark this day down because it's a big win in food.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
Why is that?
Speaker 3 (17:10):
You know, over the years, we've had all kinds of
different shape chicken nuggets, dinosaurs, dinosaurs, bats, Halloween heart shape
turkey nuggets.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
Forgot about all those.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
But okay, but Purdue is coming out with six seven nuggets?
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Is that still? Yeah, it's not too late.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
It's a little on the back side of it.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
But it takes a while to configure a machine to
do that, doesn't it.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
Yeah, we could do the five just fine. And of
course you know, oh I got a bag of sevens
ha ha ha. Okay, you can deal lots with this.
Think of the birthday fund you could have with this.
There is already Grandpa's sixty seven or seventy six.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
True, yeah, you're right, the possibilities.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
He turned the six upside down, it's nine. Oh. The
seven could also be an mind and there.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Will be some families afraid to put too many six.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Yeah, yeah, I guess they won't be serving that at
the old church. Look what I brought. By the way,
these are only available at Walmart.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
May the first nice thank you. Sam.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
Chef boy Ardi is going after Hamburger helper. You know what,
Hamburger helper is right.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
Yes, I never heardmately familiar with that.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
My mom made it multiple times a week.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
We never had it. You didn't no country cooking. They
didn't do that.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
Perfect lily square potatoes in it.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
Chef boy Ardy is doing skillets now, Okay, They've got
the whole bunch of five choices cheeseburger, mac beef, pasta, meat, lasagna,
cheesy Italian, Italian shells, and chicken had a chiny alfredo.
And of course the chef is right there on it.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
I got to remember that hamburger helper helped her make
her hamburger. Help a great hamburger helper, help her hamburger,
great meal, help her.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Okay, boys, I know what you did growing up.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
Watch commercial TV. Yeah, old El Paso ha ha. They're
going after Taco Bell, Mexican pizza kid.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Oh, bring it interesting.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
I mean you know it's everything that's in there is
probably exactly and you know, Stubs barbecue sauce. He is
going into the baked bean business.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Love Stubs barbecue. I don't know just something about him.
He looks awesome.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
Two versions Original and Sticky Sweet now hitting stores.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
Sweet.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Oh and by the way, uh paps blue ribbon check
this out. Two new things. They partner with Grilla's Pickles.
Oh so you're gonna have uh Dill pickle flavored paps.
And also Smithfield Beer Brats are now going to have
paps blue ribbon in them. A PBR fan, whole lot
of stuff.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Come on for summer. I have a surprise for you guys,
you and all the men listening. But I didn't even
tell you this was coming because you would have been
on me about it all day. But little small tweaks,
that little things that any may can do to boost
your attractiveness.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Yeah, all right, I'm listening down.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
I know, I know it matters to you greatly, okay,
But the truth is it doesn't matter your age, or
your body type or your profession. You can any any
man listening can do these little little things. Okay. Shoes matter.
Women notice shoes. Yeah, you know, your shoes tell us
a tale about you. And it doesn't just mean that
they need to be clean, although I think they need
(20:28):
to be clean. But you know, what kind of shoes
are you rocking? Are you proud of those? You know?
Did you put some thought into them? It says a
lot about a person. And women notice shoes we notice
among women too.
Speaker 3 (20:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
You know what's interesting is that is like constant through time.
It's always been the guidance you know. I mean if
you go way way back right exactly. Yeah, there were
songs about you know, shoes in the nineteen fifties.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
You know, posture, whether you realize it or not, it
tells us why are you upset?
Speaker 3 (20:59):
No, it's like, yeah, because I'm I don't sit up
straight usually.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Yeah, it's just something that's obvious. Huh yeah, no, no, no, no, no,
not you. I'm just saying in general, it tells a
story about you, whether they even realize it. It's just
something that you have to pay attention to. That's why
if you want to see.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
My mom always said sit up straight, right.
Speaker 2 (21:18):
But Mom's not going to sell you wrong. Being more specific,
clean and crisp, iron a shirt, seem a shirt, do
your laundry for goodness sake, no wrinkles. Well, just have
pride in what you're rocking. You know. That's another thing
that women pay attention to, you know, And.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
That's one of my Jody knows that this is the case,
you know, for me, even in relaxed times and on
the weekend, there's certain ways. I'm just not going out
in public. I'm just not going to do it because
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
That's just give us an example.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
I'm not going to go out in like my slides.
He will be probably a shirt or sweat shorts or
something like that. You know, I mean, I'm casual. Yeah,
and I like that.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
I really like that. Roll your sleeves a little bit.
There's something about a rolled up sleeve. Women want to
see a man's arms. I can tell you they really do.
Just every once in a while, roll your sleeve up.
If you normally wear the long light blue is good
for almost anybody. Samson, light blue today.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
Sam, how to repeat that on All you have to
do is sit up straight and roll up.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
My show sleeves.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Oh and by the way, also light facial hair. It's masculine,
but it's also kept nicely.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
Yes, that makes sense.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
All right, you guys feel good now?
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I feel good.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
Katie has made my day. My heart is overflowing. She
sent an email to Murphysamanjody dot com that we are
going to start the show with today. All right, he says, Hi, Murphy,
Sam and Jody longtime fan of the show. I've also
convinced my husband to listen to heard the segment on
unique wedding Trends. My husband and I are newlyweds, she says.
(22:53):
October twenty twenty five is when they got married. Ooh, congrats,
brand new. You're don't even know power struggles yet. Anyway,
this is what she says. While our wedding probably would
be considered fairly traditional, we did do a couple of
unique things. We had an outdoor wedding and used a
tree near the porch at the reception to hang photos
(23:14):
of our parents and grandparents' weddings on it. We called
it our family tree.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Ah, that's a great idea. I've never seen that.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
I mean, this gets better, Katie had it going on. Also,
it reads. Instead of renting all of our table cloths,
which gets really expensive, we borrowed cream or white tablecloths
from family and friends, so each table looked a little different.
Our dogs were a major part of our day, as
they should be haha, So they walked down the aisle
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as the flower girls and ring bearers. Oh my god,
let it go to your wedding, and the email continues.
Our dinner was a pot luck and we asked a
few close family and friends to make their best side
dishes to bring to the wedding. So smart. Our family
Bible was the guest book and everyone signed by their
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favorite verse.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
Oh oh wow, that's different.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
Very different. You want more because Katie's got more. You
really thought this through Katie. It made it something so beautiful.
But also you see that she's cut corners here too.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
You mean save money.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Yeah, that's what I mean. Yeah, like save money and
made it very personal and not predictable. It goes on
to read my best friend from elementary school handled the flowers,
and our other best friend was the DJ. I could
go on with diy tidbits and helpful ideas, but those
were a few of the major ones. It was a
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perfect day and definitely could not have happened without the
help of all of our close family and friends.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
Now, how beautiful is that? It did not cost a fortune? No,
but it's a very memorable day, and they have somethings
that arguably are probably more special than just standard fair tree.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Are you kidding me? The tree? And then having your
friends and family, you know, bring their favorite dish. That's
brilliant And congratulations on the newly weds. You and your husband, Katie,
Are you a water snob? Have you ever thought about it?
I never heard that term until Sam dropped it in
here the other day.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
I've never heard anybody called a water snob.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
Well, honestly, a lot of us have become that way
because we're very particular about, very particular about about our water.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Oh yeah, bottle Probably that all started with bottled water
and then grew from there.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Are you kidding me? Do you remember when bottled water
was a new thing. My grandfather thought that was the
most ridiculous thing he had ever heard. I'm not gonna
pay for you know.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
The comedian George Carlin had a thing about the personal
bottle of water. He thought it was really he thought
it was really like it. What's up with people in
their personal bottles of water? But I mean it today?
Speaker 3 (25:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (25:57):
Right, Well, in America, we're pretty picky about where our
water comes from, you know, the kind we drink. We
want to know where it came from. First of all,
we smell it first. Supposedly, if you are loyal to
a certain brand of bottled water, you can tell the
difference between it and a different brand.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
Well, depending on how it's processed. Yes, I can't you've
never noticed that. I mean, Ebby and spring water has
a definite different taste because it's more mineral base than
some of the other I mean, if I.
Speaker 2 (26:24):
Ever thought about it, maybe, And see.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
I'm one of those that I like trying new things.
I want to taste, I want to experiment, you know.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
I'm well, I'm gonna tell you this. I'm gonna sidebar
this for Murphy. You don't even know this yet. I
saw this. I almost dropped it in Three Things to Know.
But sparkling water is something that I never cared about
thought of. And Murphy likes to try new things. And
Murphy started buying cases of bottle of sparkling water, like
here's a strawberry guava flavored Jody, and here's a lime whatever.
(26:53):
And I was like, okay, I started drinking those just
for their I like it.
Speaker 1 (26:59):
It's a it acquired taste. I mean, because it's sparkling water,
it's got the CO two in it.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
Here's here's what I almost put in Three Things to
Know the other day. Sparkling water apparently can aid in
weight loss.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Oh really right.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
It impacts how your body processes blood sugar. It can
increase metabolism a little bit, But the biggest reason is
it makes you feel more full than a regular glass
of water.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Because it's got the air in the carbonation.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
To me, it makes me feel like I'm having a
treat because it looks like it does taste like guava.
Speaker 1 (27:29):
Well, the flavored ones do. But even if you go
with just standard club water, which is really like club soda. Yeah,
you know, it can be an acquired taste. But I
like that and sparkling water and mineral water that's been
part of restaurant dinner tables forever. It's not like that's new.
Speaker 2 (27:43):
Yeah, it sounds like a water snobbed to me. Hang
out with us when it's convenient for you. We know
mornings are crazy. You can always take us along. It's
the whole show, Murphy, Salmon, Jody wrapped up into one
podcast every day, and then there's a after the show.
One of the podcasts from earlier this week was about
(28:04):
how I didn't accidentally lose twelve pounds but started watching
and eating right and paying attention to every bite and
every meal in January, and boom, I looked this weekend
and I'd lost twelve Congratulation.
Speaker 1 (28:18):
That's cool.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
Twelve, and I had only thought. I remember, I told
you I'd like to lose eight or ten. Yeah, so
twelve we could go have fajitas now. Anyway, So a
lot of comments rolling in about this, and I wanted
to share some. Rebecca said, I have lost eighty pounds wow,
last two years. See, I don't even think twelve is
that big of a deal. Its snuck up on me.
(28:40):
Eighty is a life change.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
Yeah, yeah, congratulations.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
Every day I eat an apple, I do too, and
a low fat vanilla Greek yogurt adding blueberries and chia seeds.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Those are supposed to be good for you, Yeah, because
they make you feel full, right they I.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
Bought them one time. Remember we put them in the
refrigerator with something and we looked at them.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
Yeah, I don't know. That's how we really And it's
interesting to note that looking at him didn't help.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
Weight do it. We didn't know what to do with them,
is all.
Speaker 3 (29:11):
So you never used them pretty much.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
I don't think I forgot about that.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
I know I did not.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
And they do go bad after a while, right because
I threw them out? Okay, you're playing them?
Speaker 2 (29:19):
Yeah, okay, Rebecca, thank you for sharing that with us.
We're not laughing at you. We are proud of you.
I know that is Oh yeah, that is such an
accomplishment because it is a when you really need to
lose weight or want to lose weight, it's you have
to get uncomfortable and you're almost at war with yourself.
Hopefully you're doing it for maybe doing it for medical reasons.
(29:40):
I don't know, Dana sent this. I'm losing also, down
twenty six pounds and I'm watching portion sizes, sugary drinks
maybe down to one or two a day without with
and watching my caffeine. Not eating out as much. Yeah,
that's the thing, man Murphy and I love to go
out to eat. Yeah, and adding some white exercise. Starting
(30:02):
to feel much better. I'm very determined.
Speaker 3 (30:04):
Does caffeine affect your diet?
Speaker 2 (30:06):
I don't think so. Just sleep, Actually, if you if
it affects your sleep, it affects your diet because the
more sleep you get, If you get the right amount
of sleep, your body will do all the things you're
trying to get it to do. It will respond in time.
Keep it coming, you know. We like having you along.
Trending now Jody's Hollywood Outsider. So Tom Cruise and Jerry
(30:30):
Bruckheimer confirmed something huge at CinemaCon this week, and that
is that we're getting Top Gun three, that it officially
is in the works because Top Gun Maverick and twenty
twenty two made a go billion zillion dollars and let's
just say that really was a very good sequel. It
(30:52):
was better than I almost expected and the rest of
the world. Right, So the word is. Tom Cruise even said,
we're talking about many different stories that we can do
in what's possible. But he did note it took him
decades to perfect Maverick. He had been thinking of the
sequel Maverick for for years and years and years.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
We took forever.
Speaker 2 (31:11):
Yeah, yeah, but I mean it's.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
And then we're going to quickly get number three.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
The word is the script is being written now. And
he you know, remember it's not just Tom Cruise this.
You've got Miles Teller, You've got Glenn Powell hanging there.
All right, let's go. I thought such a great storyline
for Rooster to be the son of Goose.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
You also had John Ham, oh, you sort did.
Speaker 2 (31:35):
And Glenn Powell was this great, cocky, fun character, and
you know, he had real presence in that movie he
belonged there.
Speaker 3 (31:43):
Do we know if they're all coming back?
Speaker 2 (31:44):
I'm getting too excited about it. We don't know any
of that. But if you were Tom Cruise, of course
the Miles Teller's of course rooster is coming back. Sometimes
a little mistake can show up in big ways in
your life and you certainly can't undo it. Murphy, I'm
gonna tell the Phoebe story.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
So kind of a painful one.
Speaker 2 (32:06):
Our youngest daughter, Phoebe is in school at the School
of Music in college, but she works on the weekends
part time. Well, she also does gigs, plays guitar and
does gigs you know, part time when she can get them.
And then she works with her sister Taylor at like
this catering place where they do weddings. So the other
(32:28):
night they were doing a rehearsal dinner and Phoebe was
bartending and working the bar, and we didn't hear about
this till the next day. She was cutting some limes. Sorry,
I didn't mean to make you flint already, but she
sliced off a little bit of her middle left hand finger, okay,
because she's right handed. So she was slicing limes with
(32:50):
her right and she told me she got the tip
of her yeah, middle finger.
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Yeah enough that you know it could have needed stitches,
but in a place where they couldn't do stitches. So
it's just gonna have to heal on its own.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
And so Taylor took her to the too Urgent Care
and she had a lot of support there, and she
was really glad to not have stitches. And I'm like, oh, Phoebe,
I wish you would have called us and told us.
And I didn't even put two and two together until
after the second part of this conversation, and she said, yes,
and I have to cancel my gig this week. She
can't play guitar right.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
Now that it's her left middle finger, so she can't
do these strings, and she says her pinky is not
strong enough to offset, although she's going to try to
train herself to do that.
Speaker 2 (33:33):
She told me she was gonna look for a friend
or someone to play guitar with her and she'll do
the singing and then split the money from the gigs
if she can't. But it's even more than that. Next week,
early next week, she had a project, like her final
project schedule for one of her classes and what they
had to do was schedule a performance and perform for people.
(33:55):
And she had this whole thing planned out of decades
of different songs like sixties, seventies, eighties, a few song
from each decade, and we were invited and all that.
She has to cancel that because she can't play for it.
Speaker 3 (34:06):
Does she know how long she's going to be out.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
No, nobody knows what, as long as it takes.
Speaker 3 (34:12):
Well.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
You know, I was talking to my friend Randy about this,
who's also, you know, a musician. He says, yeah, he says,
when you use your hands as you're living, you have
to be super super careful. You're protecting your fingers at
all costs.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
Yeah, all for what making some margarita's
Welcome to the Murphy Salmon Jody Daily Show podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I want to address an elephant in the room, and
that is if Sam is single and looking to mingle
and the reason.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Whoa whoa, whoa whoa. I didn't know that an elephant.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
It's on social media because we posted we were sharing
this week about dating being expensive, about the average date
supposedly I guess, depending on where you live, up to
two hundred dollars. So we posted it asking you what
do you think of this, and that the responses have
been huge. Most people like, I'm a cheap date. You know,
I'm a forty dollars date. I'm a twenty dollars date.
We've gotten a lot of that. But it's a picture
(00:37):
of Sam. So it's like, I just want to address
the thing in the room that you are not because
there's some quote, is he single again? Is he looking
to date?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Yeah, and you're not interested in dating?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Not right now? Yeah? I mean, and I know you
always like to bring up never say never, but yeah,
it's never say never. But I'm cool that you hood
life is great.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
That's the best way to be cool with the way
you are now, Like being happy is being happy with
what you have, Yeah, not with you know, the promise
of something that may or may not happen.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
So for anyone that really doesn't know, there we go. Well, no,
I'm just saying if somebody doesn't know, I mean, you've
had a couple of marriages, you've dated a few times,
but you know what made you decide to finally go.
You know, I'm just gonna pause this.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Baby. I just don't. I don't, I don't. I don't
know how to describe it. I just don't need it.
I just don't.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Fine, it's complicated, and you don't want to have to
go down that path.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
I know. Yeah, you know what. I know me and
I know what's going to happen because it's happened before.
And I know I can't predict the future, No you can't,
but I know my progression in a relationship, and I
know kind of mentally what's going to happen to myself.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
You feel like you have a pattern.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yeah, and so therefore it's like, hey, you know, lay
off and if the right, right, right, right person comes along, right,
jump on that way right.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I will say this, and I don't want to give
anything away, but one of my favorite shows of all time.
Got a sequel recently, and that's Sex and the City
and then and just like that, and they wrapped up
and just like that with a major plot point with
someone very important not to get anything away, coming to
terms and being fine with her singleness. Yeah, yeah, like
(02:23):
this is who I'm in a relationship with me and
I thought that was a beautiful way to wrap that up.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
And so not only am I comfortable with it, but
it also it takes a lot of pressure off.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
You know, and you can be yourself more. I'm just me,
all right, just the elephant in the room. Wanted to
address it. And yes, dating is expensive. Join the conversation anytime.
Lots of ways to do that. You can email us
at Murphy Samonjody dot com, which Christy has done. She said,
I listen on my way to work a twenty six
(02:56):
minute commute. She's got it really down specific. So it's
funny because this is kind of what it's about. It's
about time heard your report on sleep math that was
the other day on Friday in the morning. Picked me
up about the one thing not to do if you
wake in the middle of the night. You guys, remember, yeah, not.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Count the hours or remember, oh yeah, don't try to decide,
oh my god, I've only got thirty minutes left.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Don't do sleep math, although that's the number one natural
human thing to look and say, oh I have three
hours left of sleep. Oh my gosh, I've only been
asleep for an hour. And it's from sleep specialists not
to do that, because then you've set parameters, you've interrupted
your sleep, and you just don't do it. Don't try
to do that. Christy says, it's funny. This was hilarious
(03:41):
to me because this is something I never do but
did that night. Oh wow, I was so happy that
it was only two am that I had three more
hours of sleep remaining. Yikes. It was funny that we
were talking about it the same day that she had
it the night before. You're human, Christie, you're human.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Any of these sleep experts ever written a book on like,
here is my routine?
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Sure, there are books on everything. You could certainly listen
to somebody else. Look, be in a relationship with your
sleep routine. You know, I believe in that. I'm in
a relationship with mine as much as you and I
are in a relationship. Murphy. I'man you know, I am
loyal to that sleep routine.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Yeah, what's funny about that question, sam As. Anybody will
tell you, though, that just because they're an expert in
something doesn't mean they do it themselves.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
N That's what I wonder.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Even the counselors will tell you that the advice that
they give is excellent advice for others, and it's practical
and it works. But sometimes it's difficult to do yourself, of.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Course, because we're all working on ourselves, and we will
be working on something the day we die. We will.
And that's okay. You're supposed to always work on yourself. Yeah,
so Christy, thank you for that. Love it. Bill sent,
this was listening to the show the other day when
you were talking about going down going down a true
crime rabbit hole, which I have been in the Epstein
(04:57):
world and it's horrible. He said, if you want to
go down another rabbit hole, google this group that traumatized
a whole neighborhood. Google Chandra may Ky solved Scott County, Mississippi.
He said, that'll keep you busy.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
For a while.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Maybe. Thank you, Bill for the recommendation. The latest buzz
Jody's Hollywood Outsider. It was kind of a fun story
this week, and three things to know today That Home
Depot already has you know, scary stuff in the store
as they call it, halfway to Halloween and you can
buy like you know, the huge night Led Knights and
the new Skelly Skeleton and all that.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Well.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
In Boston this week, did you see or did you
hear about the Michael Myers impersonators all in one spot
for the world record for the Guinness World Record there
there were two hundred and fifty four people dressed up
as Michael Myers in the coveralls, in the mask, all
together in one spot and it was all part of
(05:59):
this the the makers of the video game adaptation. There's
a Halloween game coming in September on you know PS
five and Xbox and everywhere you could buy and play
a game, and so they did that for that, but
they also and if you were at the event you
could do the playable demo. But the funny thing to
me is, you've got two hundred and fifty four Michael Myers.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
How did they find that many masks? I guess eBay
comes in handy for.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
That kidding, It is still the most you can still.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Buy a William Shattner mask and stretch it out yourself.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
No, it's the best scariest mask ever.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
It just really is driving down the street, turn the
corner and run into that.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Can you imagine Murphy? Last year at Halloween, I saw
a stuffed Michael Myers like a plush and I wanted
him so badly. That happened, and the game comes in September.
Give us a call anytime. We'd love to hear from you.
You can call or text us at eight seven seven
three one zero four MSJ.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
You know, in speaking of texting, you know there is
a trend that's going right now viral. It's really just
discussions so I guess it's popping up on read it
in other places how people feel about group chats, and
because now the gap between Android and iPhone has been
bridged and you've got what they call RCS messaging. So
if you can always see when someone's typing, you can
(07:17):
always see when someone is, you know, responding, and you
can see if someone has read or not read your messages.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Usually oh really well.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
And some of those features you have to turn on
and off yourself. Okay, But so what's happening is there
are people who are getting frustrated that they're in a
group chat. You see somebody read the group chat and
that person doesn't respond, and you know, I mean, to me,
it seems a bit a little bit superficial. But you know,
I mean, just because somebody read something doesn't mean that
they have to respond, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Maybe they can't respond right now.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Yeah, exactly, unless it's a direct question to you, but
just an ongoing conversation. Some things may not be something
that you've got an opinion on.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Or Look, a lot of people have a lot of
feelings about group chats, like don't put people don't want
to be in group chats because you get ding and
ding and ding and ding about thanks ha ha, and
then there's somebody one upping that and.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
You just want to thought this conversation was over.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
You just want to be removed from it. That's my
perception of it. But then again, it's only if it's
like ten people or more, or if it's something yeah,
I'll be at the party, stop talking about the party.
You know, if it's something that like, we do group chats.
We have a group chat with our you know, with
the show here, and we have to sometimes you know,
(08:33):
don't forget to do this tomorrow. Bring this tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Yeah, And Murphy that leaving or reading something and then
and not responding. My twins, Maddie and Parker told me
about this because Parker used to always ask, why'd you
leave me on red? H R E A D red? Yeah? Whatever, Yeah,
that's that's what that is. If you he can see
that I read it, then that's it. Like I didn't respond,
(08:57):
why did you leave me on red? It's like a disc. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
I don't let mine send Red receipts for that reason
because it's just like I'm not gonna okay, it doesn't
really matter, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
I didn't know what you meant when you started this, Murphy.
By that iPhone and Android have bridged the gap, what
does that mean that they're very similar now?
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Well, it used to be with the Android you couldn't
see somebody typing, you couldn't see necessarily emojis and the
response is easy. Okay, But now I mean, it's not
all finally integrated with each other.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
Pretty well, they caught up to two thousand and seven.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Now, okay, haha, take you out of the group chat.
It's almost a wedding season, a lot of weddings coming up.
So the new trends that you're going to see at
weddings this year, I love this so so much. Weddings
are becoming more personalized, more customized than ever before. You
know why that excites me, Well, I love to go
(09:48):
to a wedding and see something I've never seen before.
But because when I was growing up, we would go
to weddings. They were all exactly the same, no offense
if they were all exactly like a schedule.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Because tradition and formality is what I guess made it special.
That what everybody wanted to do.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
And my grandfather was the pastor for almost every wedding
in the family, and he he said the same things,
he read the same passages, but.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Every family is different, and you know it's everything is
not the same. Affordability, you know what I mean. That's
why customers is everything.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
So what you're going to see what's like trending right
now for weddings, more casual ceremonies were sort of peep
your friends and your family members are saying things in
the ceremony, like the toast almost being in the ceremony
instead of just the pastor, right instead of the pastor
being the or the efficient. Sometimes they're letting a family member,
(10:43):
Like you remember how in Friends Joey was the efficient
for us, for Monica and Chandler like that, getting somebody
to get ordained so they can marry you. You're seeing
you're seeing more of that whatever you want, personalized, customized brides,
not wearing white and doing just full on color, whatever
you want. I've seen when I've seen online, and it's
(11:03):
one of my favorite things is when you know the
bride and groom, you know, you pronounce the man and
wife and they walk down the aisle, they stop now
mid mid aisle to give hugs, to take pictures. The
photographer wants it. They want a picture right there or
right there with everybody in it.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Yeah, that's got to be tough on somebody that has
to go to the bathroom. Please.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I love that idea. I know we've seen for a
couple of decades now the grandma's being the flower girls
and all of that. Your mom was a flower girl recently,
like and other people are getting involved in instead of
just the traditional roles being played. And I've also seen
at the reception instead of it being a book that
(11:45):
you sign photo booths set up. Instead of signing in,
you're taking pictures and then you can write a little something.
But that's a big new thing.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
My niece had that and it took like the three pictures. Yeah,
when it came out, you signed something and you put
it in a special book for.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Him, so special and so different. No offense to the traditionals. Yeah, ladies.
Three nail colors that look good on any body. I'm
not gonna make you wait. We can, you know, tell
tales from the salon and all that good stuff and why.
But the three are a sheer nude pink. Think about that.
(12:22):
Think of any hand in the world, any hand, a
sheer nude pink would look good on it. And so
it's a safe bet. It's a sweet little feminine look.
I think. The second one is Sam's looking at his fingers.
The second one is like a milky Beige's like a
basic milky I'm wearing. The color I'm wearing is called
(12:44):
Let's Be Friends, and it's my.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
It's one of my go to it is you would
consider that beige? Well, it's looking This is.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Why he doesn't I can't take him to the salaon. Well,
it's a cream, but a cream or a milky beige
somewhere in that area. It's a very neutral thing. The
reason I sometimes go for it is because it goes
with everything and I don't have to think about it.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Actually a lot of people wearing that.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
It's just clean looking and it really goes with everything.
And the third one being classic red, and I do
wear classic red nails a lot, but I'm more careful
in my closet when I've got red nails. Am I
gonna rock a bright orange shirt? Maybe not?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
You know, is that clash factor you gotta worry for me?
Speaker 2 (13:26):
That's a that's look. Women overthink things, and women overthink
things like that.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
Okay, I do in.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
The closet at three point thirty in the morning, going,
but my nails are red, Like literally.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Yeah, I'm glad. That's a stress I don't have.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
I love it. I love being a girl.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
You know what I think if Murphy ever had to
choose a nail polish cover color. Oh you know how
when you walk in there and there's like three thousand
colors to choose from, Yeah, girl, I no.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
Yeah, I could get stuck. But I would also probably
follow Jody's rule. Of thumb about the basics.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Now, what you would do, Murphy, if you were getting
a collar out of so you would let your nail
tech pick it for you. She would be she would see,
oh my god, he's stuck. We got somebody who's stuck here,
and they would suggest for you based on your skin tone.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
That is so true.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
And then I'm sure a lot of nails nail tech's
love that. I've sat next to girls at this line
like I roll in. I know I'm number eighty seven red,
or I'm doing let's be friends. I know what I'm
doing usually, but I sat next to a lady once
who said I let her pick. She lets her nail
tech pick.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
That's kind of fun.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
She runs rolls out of there with blue nails sometimes
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
I like the recommendation. It's the same reason that I
like seeing clothes on a mannequin. Easier decision.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Yes, morning, pick me up time, Murphy. You're going to
love this. Okay, you're gonna shine right here. Sam, you're
gonna enjoy it too. But for a different reason. One
day this week, yesterday, it was Big Word Day officially
Big Word Day, and that's you know, some people roll
in this life using big words and some do not.
(14:55):
And look if the more well read you are, the
more wonderful words you pick up. You know how many
times I've been reading a book, I'll put it down
and look up the word and tell myself, I'm going
to learn this. In fact, that would be a good
gift for me. One of those calendars that is a
new word every day.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
I'll shout that out for you for christ You got
to make sure it's words that you can actually work
in the conversation.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
And I also want you to remember when you get
that for your birthday that you asked for.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Yes, okay, okay, that's fine, or Christmas or whatever anyway. So,
according to Prepley the website, words that are used most
often that people use to sound smarter. They know what
it means, but they throw it in there because they're
working on their language. Ambiguous is one of those.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Words that's like to me, ambiguous is a normal word.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
I know that's because you're Murphy though. I mean, do
you use the word ambiguous not a lot?
Speaker 3 (15:47):
Not a lot?
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Articulate? I use that word, yeah, me too, Okay, sorry, Sam, No.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
Okay, two for two. Both of those there are words
that I have used, but I don't not on the regular.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
I don't talk fancy exacerbate. That one comes in a
close third that people throw it into. Let's exacerbate the problem.
I think I've heard you say that, Murphy.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Because I've known people who exacerbate problems.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
So, yes, another word that gets used in the you know,
in by Americans to spice up the language. And there's
nothing wrong with self improvement. Like if you're a kid listening,
don't down it.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
And if you do, there are plenty of scholars, plenty
of scholars that would say, absolutely, you know, that's the
way to speak all the time.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
Aesthetic. Yeah, I like this aesthetic.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
But that's a common word today considering you know, aesthetics being.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
The Yeah, dichotomy, Well love that word to bring it.
Speaker 1 (16:43):
Yeah, it's a picture.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Conundrum. Now I've heard you use that, I think.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Sam, I think I have.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Okay, there you go, Dan, you got one.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Conundrum is not a big word. I always thought that
was more slang.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
The morning picked me up. Use your big words, guys.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
I've used through to get out of a conundrum.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
Sam's always up on the New Eats, He's the food dude.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
Mark this day down because it's a big win in food.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
Why is that?
Speaker 3 (17:10):
You know, over the years, we've had all kinds of
different shape chicken nuggets, dinosaurs, dinosaurs, bats, Halloween heart shape
turkey nuggets.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
Forgot about all those.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
But okay, but Purdue is coming out with six seven nuggets?
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Is that still? Yeah, it's not too late.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
It's a little on the back side of it.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
But it takes a while to configure a machine to
do that, doesn't it.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
Yeah, we could do the five just fine. And of
course you know, oh I got a bag of sevens
ha ha ha. Okay, you can deal lots with this.
Think of the birthday fund you could have with this.
There is already Grandpa's sixty seven or seventy six.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
True, yeah, you're right, the possibilities.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
He turned the six upside down, it's nine. Oh. The
seven could also be an mind and there.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Will be some families afraid to put too many six.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Yeah, yeah, I guess they won't be serving that at
the old church. Look what I brought. By the way,
these are only available at Walmart.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
May the first nice thank you. Sam.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
Chef boy Ardi is going after Hamburger helper. You know what,
Hamburger helper is right.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
Yes, I never heardmately familiar with that.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
My mom made it multiple times a week.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
We never had it. You didn't no country cooking. They
didn't do that.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
Perfect lily square potatoes in it.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
Chef boy Ardy is doing skillets now, Okay, They've got
the whole bunch of five choices cheeseburger, mac beef, pasta, meat, lasagna,
cheesy Italian, Italian shells, and chicken had a chiny alfredo.
And of course the chef is right there on it.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
I got to remember that hamburger helper helped her make
her hamburger. Help a great hamburger helper, help her hamburger,
great meal, help her.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Okay, boys, I know what you did growing up.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
Watch commercial TV. Yeah, old El Paso ha ha. They're
going after Taco Bell, Mexican pizza kid.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Oh, bring it interesting.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
I mean you know it's everything that's in there is
probably exactly and you know, Stubs barbecue sauce. He is
going into the baked bean business.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Love Stubs barbecue. I don't know just something about him.
He looks awesome.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
Two versions Original and Sticky Sweet now hitting stores.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
Sweet.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Oh and by the way, uh paps blue ribbon check
this out. Two new things. They partner with Grilla's Pickles.
Oh so you're gonna have uh Dill pickle flavored paps.
And also Smithfield Beer Brats are now going to have
paps blue ribbon in them. A PBR fan, whole lot
of stuff.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Come on for summer. I have a surprise for you guys,
you and all the men listening. But I didn't even
tell you this was coming because you would have been
on me about it all day. But little small tweaks,
that little things that any may can do to boost
your attractiveness.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Yeah, all right, I'm listening down.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
I know, I know it matters to you greatly, okay,
But the truth is it doesn't matter your age, or
your body type or your profession. You can any any
man listening can do these little little things. Okay. Shoes matter.
Women notice shoes. Yeah, you know, your shoes tell us
a tale about you. And it doesn't just mean that
they need to be clean, although I think they need
(20:28):
to be clean. But you know, what kind of shoes
are you rocking? Are you proud of those? You know?
Did you put some thought into them? It says a
lot about a person. And women notice shoes we notice
among women too.
Speaker 3 (20:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
You know what's interesting is that is like constant through time.
It's always been the guidance you know. I mean if
you go way way back right exactly. Yeah, there were
songs about you know, shoes in the nineteen fifties.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
You know, posture, whether you realize it or not, it
tells us why are you upset?
Speaker 3 (20:59):
No, it's like, yeah, because I'm I don't sit up
straight usually.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Yeah, it's just something that's obvious. Huh yeah, no, no, no, no, no,
not you. I'm just saying in general, it tells a
story about you, whether they even realize it. It's just
something that you have to pay attention to. That's why
if you want to see.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
My mom always said sit up straight, right.
Speaker 2 (21:18):
But Mom's not going to sell you wrong. Being more specific,
clean and crisp, iron a shirt, seem a shirt, do
your laundry for goodness sake, no wrinkles. Well, just have
pride in what you're rocking. You know. That's another thing
that women pay attention to, you know, And.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
That's one of my Jody knows that this is the case,
you know, for me, even in relaxed times and on
the weekend, there's certain ways. I'm just not going out
in public. I'm just not going to do it because
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
That's just give us an example.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
I'm not going to go out in like my slides.
He will be probably a shirt or sweat shorts or
something like that. You know, I mean, I'm casual. Yeah,
and I like that.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
I really like that. Roll your sleeves a little bit.
There's something about a rolled up sleeve. Women want to
see a man's arms. I can tell you they really do.
Just every once in a while, roll your sleeve up.
If you normally wear the long light blue is good
for almost anybody. Samson, light blue today.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
Sam, how to repeat that on All you have to
do is sit up straight and roll up.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
My show sleeves.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Oh and by the way, also light facial hair. It's masculine,
but it's also kept nicely.
Speaker 1 (22:26):
Yes, that makes sense.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
All right, you guys feel good now?
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I feel good.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
Katie has made my day. My heart is overflowing. She
sent an email to Murphysamanjody dot com that we are
going to start the show with today. All right, he says, Hi, Murphy,
Sam and Jody longtime fan of the show. I've also
convinced my husband to listen to heard the segment on
unique wedding Trends. My husband and I are newlyweds, she says.
(22:53):
October twenty twenty five is when they got married. Ooh, congrats,
brand new. You're don't even know power struggles yet. Anyway,
this is what she says. While our wedding probably would
be considered fairly traditional, we did do a couple of
unique things. We had an outdoor wedding and used a
tree near the porch at the reception to hang photos
(23:14):
of our parents and grandparents' weddings on it. We called
it our family tree.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Ah, that's a great idea. I've never seen that.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
I mean, this gets better, Katie had it going on. Also,
it reads. Instead of renting all of our table cloths,
which gets really expensive, we borrowed cream or white tablecloths
from family and friends, so each table looked a little different.
Our dogs were a major part of our day, as
they should be haha, So they walked down the aisle
(23:46):
as the flower girls and ring bearers. Oh my god,
let it go to your wedding, and the email continues.
Our dinner was a pot luck and we asked a
few close family and friends to make their best side
dishes to bring to the wedding. So smart. Our family
Bible was the guest book and everyone signed by their
(24:07):
favorite verse.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
Oh oh wow, that's different.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
Very different. You want more because Katie's got more. You
really thought this through Katie. It made it something so beautiful.
But also you see that she's cut corners here too.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
You mean save money.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Yeah, that's what I mean. Yeah, like save money and
made it very personal and not predictable. It goes on
to read my best friend from elementary school handled the flowers,
and our other best friend was the DJ. I could
go on with diy tidbits and helpful ideas, but those
were a few of the major ones. It was a
(24:44):
perfect day and definitely could not have happened without the
help of all of our close family and friends.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
Now, how beautiful is that? It did not cost a fortune? No,
but it's a very memorable day, and they have somethings
that arguably are probably more special than just standard fair tree.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Are you kidding me? The tree? And then having your
friends and family, you know, bring their favorite dish. That's
brilliant And congratulations on the newly weds. You and your husband, Katie,
Are you a water snob? Have you ever thought about it?
I never heard that term until Sam dropped it in
here the other day.
Speaker 1 (25:19):
I've never heard anybody called a water snob.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
Well, honestly, a lot of us have become that way
because we're very particular about, very particular about about our water.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Oh yeah, bottle Probably that all started with bottled water
and then grew from there.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Are you kidding me? Do you remember when bottled water
was a new thing. My grandfather thought that was the
most ridiculous thing he had ever heard. I'm not gonna
pay for you know.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
The comedian George Carlin had a thing about the personal
bottle of water. He thought it was really he thought
it was really like it. What's up with people in
their personal bottles of water? But I mean it today?
Speaker 3 (25:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (25:57):
Right, Well, in America, we're pretty picky about where our
water comes from, you know, the kind we drink. We
want to know where it came from. First of all,
we smell it first. Supposedly, if you are loyal to
a certain brand of bottled water, you can tell the
difference between it and a different brand.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
Well, depending on how it's processed. Yes, I can't you've
never noticed that. I mean, Ebby and spring water has
a definite different taste because it's more mineral base than
some of the other I mean, if I.
Speaker 2 (26:24):
Ever thought about it, maybe, And see.
Speaker 1 (26:27):
I'm one of those that I like trying new things.
I want to taste, I want to experiment, you know.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
I'm well, I'm gonna tell you this. I'm gonna sidebar
this for Murphy. You don't even know this yet. I
saw this. I almost dropped it in Three Things to Know.
But sparkling water is something that I never cared about
thought of. And Murphy likes to try new things. And
Murphy started buying cases of bottle of sparkling water, like
here's a strawberry guava flavored Jody, and here's a lime whatever.
(26:53):
And I was like, okay, I started drinking those just
for their I like it.
Speaker 1 (26:59):
It's a it acquired taste. I mean, because it's sparkling water,
it's got the CO two in it.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
Here's here's what I almost put in Three Things to
Know the other day. Sparkling water apparently can aid in
weight loss.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Oh really right.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
It impacts how your body processes blood sugar. It can
increase metabolism a little bit, But the biggest reason is
it makes you feel more full than a regular glass
of water.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Because it's got the air in the carbonation.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
To me, it makes me feel like I'm having a
treat because it looks like it does taste like guava.
Speaker 1 (27:29):
Well, the flavored ones do. But even if you go
with just standard club water, which is really like club soda. Yeah,
you know, it can be an acquired taste. But I
like that and sparkling water and mineral water that's been
part of restaurant dinner tables forever. It's not like that's new.
Speaker 2 (27:43):
Yeah, it sounds like a water snobbed to me. Hang
out with us when it's convenient for you. We know
mornings are crazy. You can always take us along. It's
the whole show, Murphy, Salmon, Jody wrapped up into one
podcast every day, and then there's a after the show.
One of the podcasts from earlier this week was about
(28:04):
how I didn't accidentally lose twelve pounds but started watching
and eating right and paying attention to every bite and
every meal in January, and boom, I looked this weekend
and I'd lost twelve Congratulation.
Speaker 1 (28:18):
That's cool.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
Twelve, and I had only thought. I remember, I told
you I'd like to lose eight or ten. Yeah, so
twelve we could go have fajitas now. Anyway, So a
lot of comments rolling in about this, and I wanted
to share some. Rebecca said, I have lost eighty pounds wow,
last two years. See, I don't even think twelve is
that big of a deal. Its snuck up on me.
(28:40):
Eighty is a life change.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
Yeah, yeah, congratulations.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
Every day I eat an apple, I do too, and
a low fat vanilla Greek yogurt adding blueberries and chia seeds.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Those are supposed to be good for you, Yeah, because
they make you feel full, right they I.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
Bought them one time. Remember we put them in the
refrigerator with something and we looked at them.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
Yeah, I don't know. That's how we really And it's
interesting to note that looking at him didn't help.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
Weight do it. We didn't know what to do with them,
is all.
Speaker 3 (29:11):
So you never used them pretty much.
Speaker 1 (29:12):
I don't think I forgot about that.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
I know I did not.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
And they do go bad after a while, right because
I threw them out? Okay, you're playing them?
Speaker 2 (29:19):
Yeah, okay, Rebecca, thank you for sharing that with us.
We're not laughing at you. We are proud of you.
I know that is Oh yeah, that is such an
accomplishment because it is a when you really need to
lose weight or want to lose weight, it's you have
to get uncomfortable and you're almost at war with yourself.
Hopefully you're doing it for maybe doing it for medical reasons.
(29:40):
I don't know, Dana sent this. I'm losing also, down
twenty six pounds and I'm watching portion sizes, sugary drinks
maybe down to one or two a day without with
and watching my caffeine. Not eating out as much. Yeah,
that's the thing, man Murphy and I love to go
out to eat. Yeah, and adding some white exercise. Starting
(30:02):
to feel much better. I'm very determined.
Speaker 3 (30:04):
Does caffeine affect your diet?
Speaker 2 (30:06):
I don't think so. Just sleep, Actually, if you if
it affects your sleep, it affects your diet because the
more sleep you get, If you get the right amount
of sleep, your body will do all the things you're
trying to get it to do. It will respond in time.
Keep it coming, you know. We like having you along.
Trending now Jody's Hollywood Outsider. So Tom Cruise and Jerry
(30:30):
Bruckheimer confirmed something huge at CinemaCon this week, and that
is that we're getting Top Gun three, that it officially
is in the works because Top Gun Maverick and twenty
twenty two made a go billion zillion dollars and let's
just say that really was a very good sequel. It
(30:52):
was better than I almost expected and the rest of
the world. Right, So the word is. Tom Cruise even said,
we're talking about many different stories that we can do
in what's possible. But he did note it took him
decades to perfect Maverick. He had been thinking of the
sequel Maverick for for years and years and years.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
We took forever.
Speaker 2 (31:11):
Yeah, yeah, but I mean it's.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
And then we're going to quickly get number three.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
The word is the script is being written now. And
he you know, remember it's not just Tom Cruise this.
You've got Miles Teller, You've got Glenn Powell hanging there.
All right, let's go. I thought such a great storyline
for Rooster to be the son of Goose.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
You also had John Ham, oh, you sort did.
Speaker 2 (31:35):
And Glenn Powell was this great, cocky, fun character, and
you know, he had real presence in that movie he
belonged there.
Speaker 3 (31:43):
Do we know if they're all coming back?
Speaker 2 (31:44):
I'm getting too excited about it. We don't know any
of that. But if you were Tom Cruise, of course
the Miles Teller's of course rooster is coming back. Sometimes
a little mistake can show up in big ways in
your life and you certainly can't undo it. Murphy, I'm
gonna tell the Phoebe story.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
So kind of a painful one.
Speaker 2 (32:06):
Our youngest daughter, Phoebe is in school at the School
of Music in college, but she works on the weekends
part time. Well, she also does gigs, plays guitar and
does gigs you know, part time when she can get them.
And then she works with her sister Taylor at like
this catering place where they do weddings. So the other
(32:28):
night they were doing a rehearsal dinner and Phoebe was
bartending and working the bar, and we didn't hear about
this till the next day. She was cutting some limes. Sorry,
I didn't mean to make you flint already, but she
sliced off a little bit of her middle left hand finger, okay,
because she's right handed. So she was slicing limes with
(32:50):
her right and she told me she got the tip
of her yeah, middle finger.
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Yeah enough that you know it could have needed stitches,
but in a place where they couldn't do stitches. So
it's just gonna have to heal on its own.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
And so Taylor took her to the too Urgent Care
and she had a lot of support there, and she
was really glad to not have stitches. And I'm like, oh, Phoebe,
I wish you would have called us and told us.
And I didn't even put two and two together until
after the second part of this conversation, and she said, yes,
and I have to cancel my gig this week. She
can't play guitar right.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
Now that it's her left middle finger, so she can't
do these strings, and she says her pinky is not
strong enough to offset, although she's going to try to
train herself to do that.
Speaker 2 (33:33):
She told me she was gonna look for a friend
or someone to play guitar with her and she'll do
the singing and then split the money from the gigs
if she can't. But it's even more than that. Next week,
early next week, she had a project, like her final
project schedule for one of her classes and what they
had to do was schedule a performance and perform for people.
(33:55):
And she had this whole thing planned out of decades
of different songs like sixties, seventies, eighties, a few song
from each decade, and we were invited and all that.
She has to cancel that because she can't play for it.
Speaker 3 (34:06):
Does she know how long she's going to be out.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
No, nobody knows what, as long as it takes.
Speaker 3 (34:12):
Well.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
You know, I was talking to my friend Randy about this,
who's also, you know, a musician. He says, yeah, he says,
when you use your hands as you're living, you have
to be super super careful. You're protecting your fingers at
all costs.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
Yeah, all for what making some margarita's
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