Single Ladies: How To Be Safe On A First Date - THE WEEKEND SHOW PODCAST 4/10

Single ladies: How to be safe on a first date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the Murphy Salmon Choty Weekend Show podcast, highlighting
some of our favorite moments from this past week.

Speaker 2 (00:08):
If you are a woman and you are single and
you are dating, one of your number one concerns is
you guys probably don't realize this, but is safety. Women
think about safety so often, especially single women. How much
energy went into feeling safe and then especially the chance
the occasion of let's just say you're meeting someone that

(00:31):
you've been talking to online and you're finally meeting them
in person. You know, if you've watched too many true
crime documentaries, that can be scary.

Speaker 3 (00:40):
And it should be scary.

Speaker 1 (00:41):
Well, yeah, because you're meeting the stranger for the very
first time.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
You men never feel that way.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
You ever feel unsafe when you were dating and you
were meeting people sort of online and meeting at a
coffee shop. Sam, I know, Murphy, haven't dated in thirty
years because we're married.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
That's right now.

Speaker 4 (00:57):
It didn't bother me.

Speaker 2 (00:58):
Okay, See, I don't know, but one's mind. Yeah, it's
a woman thing.

Speaker 3 (01:02):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:03):
So the ideas the things that women who are single
and dating, what they say really really works, and some
of the obvious ones. Always make sure a trusted friend
or family members member knows where you're going.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
You know what time.

Speaker 2 (01:18):
Always choose like a public place, Always somewhere with lots
of lighting, lots of other people and cameras. Choose a
place that you know is surveilled to meet someone. That's
one oh one. Let a friend know where you are,
but not just that that's kind of obvious, like who
you're meeting, where you met this person online?

Speaker 3 (01:40):
Also, make sure you know their last name.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
Oh so you could do that look them up thing first,
I'll just you know some supposedly I don't know, but
supposedly online.

Speaker 3 (01:49):
Sometimes it's just like Murphy h.

Speaker 1 (01:52):
I think I would want to know the last name
before I went and met somebody for try correct.

Speaker 2 (01:56):
But that way you can look up, look somebody up.
Some women have gone as far as and I think
it's really smart. You meet somebody, you walk in together,
take a picture of their car, of their license plate,
of them, send it to your best friend. Now, if
you're having to do all that, this is you know
it's worrisome.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
Well, yeah, it's the basics that you're talking about. And
to me, it's like drive to meet the person, don't
necessarily let them pick you up, you know, meet in
a neutral place, meet in a public place, like you said. Yeah,
And you know what, when you're talking about letting your
friends know you can do that, put them in your
life three sixty circle or find me on iPhone, that
sort of thing, so that you know, if you were
just concerned.

Speaker 3 (02:32):
You tacked to your advantage.

Speaker 2 (02:34):
My other favorite one is have a secret code word
with a friend, that friend who knows where you are,
and make sure they call you mid date. And if
you say the secret code word, if that's cool, whip
they come get you.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
I don't know why that's the word. Be safe, Be safe.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
Do you think you know when a dog your dog
is in pain? And what signs to look for. We're
going to talk about several signs, the obvious ones and
the ones that are not so obvious.

Speaker 1 (03:04):
Well, the obvious ones would be that they're not moving
around as much. A pattern change is usually a sign
of something.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
Yeah, the number one is change in personality.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
Now dogs, if a dog is getting older and just
because they're not as active doesn't mean they're in pain,
but a change in true personality. Yeah, the day that
our dog champ doesn't want to go for a walk,
I'll know something's up. Yeah, because even as slowed down
as he is, he sleeps eighteen twenty hours a day
and he walks slower, he still wants to go for

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the walk. He still does a very reduced zoomie when
it's time.

Speaker 3 (03:39):
You know.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
Yeah, he's excited. He makes noise. But even when he's
in the backyard now he doesn't run back to the
house the way he used to.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
And he just can't.

Speaker 4 (03:47):
Yeah, my old boy Gus before he passed away. Yeah,
he he still tried to keep up a you know,
the happy attitude. He would limp around or he would
be slower, but you could tell, yeah, everything's okay.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
You know.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
They say what you're saying is true. They say dogs
will show up for you. They keep showing up for you.
That's what they are, companions, the ultimate companion. So change
in personality being the number one Murphy, You're correct, hesitant
paw lifting. If they used to lift their paws like hey,
and they were hesitant about it.

Speaker 3 (04:21):
It's like letting you know that.

Speaker 1 (04:22):
Maybe it hurts. Maybe what's crazy about Champ and our
dog is that he he has gotten so happy or
accustomed to us reaching up and shaking that. If you
just walk up and he's excited, you walk up to him,
he starts to or.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
Not, he just I guess he thinks you're gonna want
it anyway he raises. He does it involuntarily. It's like
muscle memory for him. You walk up to him, he's
going to go.

Speaker 3 (04:44):
Hey, yeah, I'm champed.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
It's funny.

Speaker 2 (04:47):
Reduced play, that's obvious. Reduced play. Fluctuating mood. If your
dog was happier more often and has become less happy,
it should be that turning their head or body away
from you when they normally would sit in a room
and look toward you. They say, that's a little bit soever, like, well,
it's not something we are trained to look for. It's

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not something we know to look for. Murphy, I'm gonna
say this next one, and you're gonna know. You're gonna
think of Sparky and that is freezing in place.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
Oh yeah, which he does a lot, and just stop.

Speaker 2 (05:20):
Like like somebody said freeze or whatever that old that
game was, and it it bothers us because we know
as back is bothering him or something like that.

Speaker 3 (05:28):
We have a couple of really old dogs. Increased grooming
is another one.

Speaker 2 (05:33):
If they're just constantly licking all the time, some say
vets say it doesn't mean that they are, but it
means that they could be because that's one of the
ways they are dealing with.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
So you just take him to the vet, just as over,
just to find out.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
Join us anytime we do read and see every single
message that rolls into YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Messenger, all the places.
Joanna sent this regarding what we had posted about how
we all struggle as human beings with doing nothing we're
used to be. Oh yeah, it's the busy effect. You
get used to rolling that way and you don't know

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how else to be, and then your you know, vacation
comes and you're like, I don't even know who.

Speaker 3 (06:14):
I am, right, Okay.

Speaker 2 (06:16):
So Joanna sent a picture of her sitting in front
of some beautiful blue water. We just spent a week
in the Bahamas and it was just so relaxing, just
sitting on a patio watching the ocean. I left my
phone on airplane mode the entire week and loved it.

Speaker 1 (06:35):
Oh wow, that's impressive.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
Yeah, I always I've never left my air my phone
on airplane mode except when on an airplane.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
And even then I forget.

Speaker 2 (06:44):
Yeah, the first time I left, I forgot to put
it on airplane mode, and then I was and then
we were in mid flight, and I realized that I panicked.
I thought, oh my gosh, they're gonna single me out
and they're gonna come and fuss at me. Isn't it
about the signal, It's about the pilot's hearing noises or
something like that.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
I mean, you know, I don't even know where to go.

Speaker 3 (07:10):
You're the technical person.

Speaker 4 (07:11):
What I'm telling you. What Murphy doesn't want to say
is I don't think we really.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
Want to do that. Well, they can, I mean, it.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
Can interfere with the pilot.

Speaker 1 (07:21):
Just do it. Do what the flight attendant says to do.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
Excuse me, if the aviation administration wants us to do it,
we should do it. There's a reason, right, even if
it's just it sounds like a fly in their ears
what I've heard, and if it's a whole planeful of three.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
Hundred people hear that, really I read about it at
that time that I lie.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
That time that I accidentally left mine on, I was
so panicked that I had done something wrong.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
Now I'm picturing the pilot the Copali. Do you feel
a flyer now someone has got their phone on back.

Speaker 4 (07:53):
Say the message again, ladies and gentlemen, please.

Speaker 2 (07:58):
I know you don't want to say it, Murphy, but
I've heard that too from other people's like, you don't
need to put it on airplane.

Speaker 1 (08:03):
I think you need too. But anyway, but back to
Joan's relax relaxation.

Speaker 3 (08:08):
Yes, I'm so glad that you were able to relax.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
An airplane mode on the ground is a great way
to do nothing.

Speaker 4 (08:17):
I don't know if you've ever had to put a
lifelong dream on hold. That's kind of what I'm doing.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
Wow, a lifelong dream.

Speaker 4 (08:25):
Well, maybe not a lifelong But in the past few
years I told you that, you know, whenever retirement rolls around,
I've considered, strongly considered van life. Yes, you know, buying
the van, living in.

Speaker 3 (08:37):
The van down by the river.

Speaker 4 (08:39):
Yeah, any feeling that's where it would go.

Speaker 1 (08:42):
So meaning that your van would be your home, yeah,
meaning sell your house by the vehicle.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
Yeah, and everything is right there, being committed.

Speaker 4 (08:50):
Yeah, And I was all gung ho about it. But
in the past two weeks I have started investigating the situation,
you know, everything that's involved in it. Oh, it's really
taking a little of the shine off of my idea.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
Not a same thing.

Speaker 4 (09:04):
I don't think so I can handle I mean, solitary life,
that's for me. I can handle that, no problem. But
it's just all the other stuff that's involved in it.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
Connecting to sewage, I mean, you gotta have enough.

Speaker 4 (09:18):
You gotta have enough water, and then you know you've
got gray tanks and black tanks and all that, and
you connecting to the sewage to dump it. Where do
you fill up the water at? Power wise, you're going
to have to have solar. You got to keep your
batteries charged. You got to have enough to do this
and do that. Yeah, and it's like everything I'm happy
with now in life and you're home putting that in
a van. It's just not going to compute.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
It sounds like it's a lot of work.

Speaker 4 (09:43):
It sounds like it's a lot of work, and especially
at that time in your life, you know, do you
want seventy years old trying to compute. Okay, I've got
enough ampiers here to run their head and all that.
It's just maybe maybe it'll be something where I can
rent a van and take a trip.

Speaker 1 (10:01):
That's the greatest way to try it. If you're not committing,
you're not buying something that's really expensive, right, Yeah, you know,
and you enjoy live vicariously for a weekend.

Speaker 2 (10:11):
Yeah yeah, go treat it like or do a camper
and go spend some time like in a national park
it's been a week or two, and then come home
and see how you like the comforts of homes.

Speaker 4 (10:20):
If I'm going to rent, I think it'll be a
camper because it's like, why I rent a tiny little van?
And that common sense is finally kicked in, is what
I'm saying here. I did enough research on it where
it's like, that's not going to be what I wanted.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
That's really smart. That's good to know before I bought
the van. Yeah, being impulsive.

Speaker 3 (10:36):
You know what's not in one of those vans? Your
big bathtub.

Speaker 4 (10:41):
There's a hose on the bat.

Speaker 2 (10:46):
Morning pick me up time. You may have seen this
story trending or seen the headline. We're going to take
you to this story of this entire elementary school that learned,
I mean the students, the teachers, even the administration, everybody
in the school learning sign language so that one death,
first grader could communicate and have a full on school experience.

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His name is Ben, and he was struggling to connect
and his aid was the first person to notice it.

Speaker 5 (11:12):
He didn't have relationships with his peers or teachers for
that matter. He was very alone and he acted very alone.

Speaker 2 (11:21):
He only had the aid, you know, and he would
see her like once a day if if that. So
it was just like ah, and the students, you know,
were the first ones to notice it.

Speaker 3 (11:32):
His friends. One of his friend's name is Reid.

Speaker 5 (11:35):
If he's your friend, you can play with him, and
he's and he's my friend.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
Oh, So they started to notice it, like how can
we talk to him?

Speaker 3 (11:44):
How can we play with him? And so one students.

Speaker 2 (11:47):
Ask a teacher, and teachers start getting involved and then
they start learning it in the classroom together all the
students around him, I see.

Speaker 3 (11:59):
How to sign. So it's trickled into the whole school.

Speaker 2 (12:02):
There are teachers not even in his classroom, in Ben's
classroom who are now doing sign or signing even when
he's not around, so that everybody in the school is
learning it. It's something that they're all learning. They're just
making it a part of the curriculum.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
That's amazing.

Speaker 3 (12:16):
It's the most beautiful story.

Speaker 2 (12:17):
And if you've ever been around someone who's death and
then they're in a group full of people who are
not and then someone else comes in who signs, you
see that person like we've seen it before, connecting. Yes,
and he's an adopted child. He has some other special needs,
so he, you know, potentially had that the potential to
feel left out a lot.

Speaker 3 (12:38):
His mom commented on it as well.

Speaker 5 (12:40):
You could just watch his world like open up with communication.
It was amazing.

Speaker 2 (12:45):
So it spread through the whole school. Everybody can't everybody
at the whole school can communicate with him a little bit,
some more than others. And then of course his friend
read wraps up this little story for us. It's fun
communicating with Ben, playing with them the.

Speaker 3 (13:02):
Morning pick me up.

Speaker 2 (13:06):
Are you guys interested in these seven books that thrift
stores wish you would donate?

Speaker 1 (13:11):
Yeah, because they've never really wanted any of mine. I
don't want management books, they don't want self help book.

Speaker 3 (13:17):
It was one time that you got turned away?

Speaker 4 (13:20):
Is that all seven Harry Potter books?

Speaker 2 (13:22):
Oh, they would love Harry Potter books.

Speaker 3 (13:26):
Okay, seven different types. So we're gonna get to you.

Speaker 1 (13:30):
I said, seven genres, not seven titles.

Speaker 2 (13:32):
No, not titles. Yeah, none of the ones that your
rocket number one recently published fiction and bestsellers. I mean,
obviously those have high resell value.

Speaker 3 (13:44):
They actually do.

Speaker 2 (13:44):
So if you've just finished a really great novel and
you happen to have the actual, you know, physical book,
and you don't want it sitting on yourself, donate it.
Somebody else will grab it really quickly. I've got a
couple of those, and I'll donate. Also on the list
number two, gently you used and loved kids books. Those
are always big for resale, and why not let another

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kid or family enjoyed It could become a favorite, It
could become the story. And if you also, if you're
look I kept a going. I'm going to keep a
few of the girls books forever, but most of them
I've donated, you know, are kids books.

Speaker 3 (14:19):
Cookbooks number three on the list.

Speaker 2 (14:21):
Oh really, they have a pretty good request value at
thrift stores. Thrifting is hot because of the economy. The
more modern the cookbook, the better.

Speaker 3 (14:31):
Obviously that makes sense.

Speaker 2 (14:32):
Yeah, so if you've got a Joanna Gaines that you're
not using anymore, drop it off.

Speaker 4 (14:37):
Yeah, modern and a higher name person recognized.

Speaker 2 (14:40):
Yeah, classic novels or school reading books.

Speaker 3 (14:44):
You know, you know they're going to be reading certain titles.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
Yeah, if it's on the list.

Speaker 2 (14:49):
Yeah, yeah, donating it makes sense. There's no need for
it to look. Some people love a big collection of books,
but after a while, if you've read it, why is
it just sitting there.

Speaker 1 (14:58):
Donation is always a great thing. You know you've done
this and I haven't used bookstores? Do they buy from you, Jody?
Or do you selling consignment?

Speaker 3 (15:05):
I've never done it with books. I just donate.

Speaker 4 (15:07):
Usually the use stores that I've dealt with, you sell
them the books. I've sold them the books. I mean
they buy them for pennies on the dollar because obviously
they have to resell them of money.

Speaker 3 (15:16):
Okay, yeah, okay.

Speaker 2 (15:17):
The other one's Murphy's self help and lifestyle books.

Speaker 1 (15:21):
Well, there you go. I can donate a bunch of those.

Speaker 2 (15:24):
You got rejected once, but you could try again. Coffee
table books are hot. They're beautiful. People wanting to decorate
a lot of us grabbing stuff from thrift stores to decorate.
Coffee table books included and good without too much writing
in and notes in bibles. People are sometimes looking for
an old, gently used bible. If there is a shirt

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or a pair of jeans, or jewelry or some sort
of accessory that you love that is not in that
you are told it is old and ugly. I hope
you hold on to it. I hope you rocket if
you want. Because trends are trends.

Speaker 3 (16:02):
Who cares? I say that?

Speaker 2 (16:04):
Because we touched on this and three things to Know
the other day. It takes it's less time for fashion
trends to return. Now, it used to be twenty years.
It would be twenty years, like something's really really hot,
and then it get cools off and it's uncool and
it stays in a vault forever, and then a whole
new generation, two generations come.

Speaker 3 (16:21):
Go, oh this is cool, let's start rocking it again.

Speaker 4 (16:24):
Something that was hot in two thousand and five or
six as would be now.

Speaker 3 (16:28):
Well, yeah, it used to be that way.

Speaker 2 (16:29):
But now fashion trends return in half the time, and
ten years it's faster thanks to things like social media,
thanks to just just a visual connected world that we
live in.

Speaker 1 (16:40):
Yeah, I mean, look, the mustache trend is back. And
Jody was really sad when I shaved mine the first time.

Speaker 2 (16:47):
Well, you shocked me with it. Yeah, you didn't even
tell me, just walked into the living room. I'm like,
who is this man?

Speaker 1 (16:52):
Yeah, But ever since then, I've dune the beard, you know,
mustache combo, I've done. But I've just noticed that's a
trendy cyclical, right, it disappears and then it comes back.

Speaker 3 (17:01):
All trends come back, all turns.

Speaker 2 (17:03):
Do you guys have any I mean, I have so
many that I always rock wear regardless because I think
some things are classic and if somethings are, you you
should wear them anything.

Speaker 4 (17:13):
For me, it's a Geene jacket, and I don't know
that that's a trend. That's just that's a classic cling.
You never throw away your Jeene jacket.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
Correct, Okay, good one. See it's good to pick a
classic for that. In Murphy your mustache very classic one.

Speaker 1 (17:26):
Yeah, I don't know that. I mean, I stay so
basic in solids. I don't know that I necessarily follow trends.
I did get rid of my sweaters from the nineties,
you know, which was probably a good thing.

Speaker 3 (17:36):
I got rid of your sweaters from the nineties, but they.

Speaker 1 (17:38):
Were such a big they were such a big you know,
those haven't come back. Have you noticed that there was
a reason it does not come back yet.

Speaker 3 (17:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (17:47):
So one of the some of the things that are
back for women, big blowouts, glam makeup, Yeah, what about you. Well,
one thing that's back that I won't play. I will
not play the game is low rise jeans. Low rise
jeanes were in when I had just had my first
C section?

Speaker 3 (18:03):
Are you kidding?

Speaker 2 (18:05):
I could not even look at that waistline low hanging
right there where my problem was.

Speaker 3 (18:11):
I was so upset about that.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
And now I know that you should be wearing your jeans,
your pants where your natural wist is, which is like
a mid rise or high rise from me.

Speaker 1 (18:23):
Well, and some of us guys look like we're wearing
low rise. No matter what.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
That's a different situation. Murphy and I have a new binge,
or I think that we.

Speaker 1 (18:34):
Do, because we think it's not just what you mean.

Speaker 2 (18:38):
Right, I think it's We watched the first episode together
of Scarpetta, starring Nicole Kidman.

Speaker 3 (18:45):
Times Charm, Good Luck, Doctor Scarpetta.

Speaker 2 (18:48):
She's the medical examiner, and so you know it's a serious.
It's based on the Patricia Cormill books, which I never
read those books. So it's like a brand new story
and they take you modern day to flashbacks to her past,
which is really well done.

Speaker 3 (19:04):
I want to know if you're going to be able
to continue though, Murphy, because it's.

Speaker 1 (19:08):
There's only one small thing about it. You know. It's
because it involves a medical examiner. Take I guess at
what you're seeing on screen a lot, you know, smalltops,
it gets, it gets a little. And it's not just that.
I mean because it's a crime scene. You see crime scene,
so like I got to tell you, they've got it down.
It looks very realistic. But I don't really like that
kind of stuff.

Speaker 3 (19:26):
Yes I'm not.

Speaker 1 (19:27):
I don't. I don't like the gruesome shirt.

Speaker 3 (19:28):
Guess what.

Speaker 2 (19:29):
I wanted to watch it because I want a new show.
I love Nicole Kidman. But the three reasons you should
watch this Jamie Lee Curtis God, I.

Speaker 3 (19:38):
Can't believe it. We will literally fight about anything, anything,
a song from our childhood, because I mean fighting is
the idioma, the language of siblings. She plays her sister.

Speaker 1 (19:50):
She is really good. Seen Stealer's totally the scene stealer,
and I think that's the reason I will be in
to give it an extra chance with you Joey.

Speaker 3 (19:58):
So a second episode you're willing to do?

Speaker 1 (20:00):
Yeah, well, I mean they've only they've only teed up
just enough to keep you like, okay, so what is
coming next? In the previews they look interesting enough, So yeah,
I'm gonna stick with it.

Speaker 4 (20:10):
Like Jamie Lee Curtis is the one who brought this
whole thing to life.

Speaker 3 (20:13):
Yes, who knew.

Speaker 2 (20:14):
So she's a fan of the books and she called
up the author and said, look, who owns your books?
I want to do something with them? And she was like,
you know, nobody owns it. It's like what So Jamie
Lee Curtis, as I understand it, I read it. I
read a story that she bought the rights to it.
And then she's the one that wanted to make this happen.
And so Nicole Kidman on board boom lead character, and

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you know they're having a blast together. They literally are
like oil and water on the screen, a completely different sisters.

Speaker 1 (20:43):
I mean, I think they're onto something here. I guess
we'll let the judge when we get later into it.
But the first episode is definitely enough to hook you
into the series. And I know we've had a couple
of you know, emails come to us say yes, watch it.

Speaker 2 (20:56):
So yeah, I'm so glad you're willing with the autopsi's
and everything.

Speaker 1 (21:01):
I may turn my head every now and then you
see me looking through my fingers. You know why, Jody,
I have to warn you about something I'm not sure
you know about. And this is something that Murphy is
unintentionally doing. Oh Lordie, I think he's throwing out the
vibe to the ladies.

Speaker 3 (21:18):
Oh always, but this is not news to.

Speaker 4 (21:21):
Me because I'm not a lady. And I caught this.

Speaker 3 (21:24):
Oh right, you said it already.

Speaker 4 (21:26):
Yeah, I said it to you yesterday and I just
caught it again today. What yeah, that your sent Murphy?

Speaker 1 (21:32):
Oh really?

Speaker 3 (21:33):
Yeah, it's intoxicating.

Speaker 4 (21:34):
It is. It's intoxicating. I mean it's so it sound
like a commercial, but it's so fresh and vibrant.

Speaker 3 (21:40):
Sam wants to trade seats with me so he can
sit closer to you.

Speaker 4 (21:43):
I think, yeah, I know you've told me before what
it is, but I got I don't remember, but I'm
writing it down this time.

Speaker 1 (21:50):
I'm having to actually think because Jody says I buy
too much cologne. I mean, I don't wear too.

Speaker 3 (21:54):
Much, but he has tripled the amount of fider.

Speaker 1 (21:58):
I like variety. This one is to Versace.

Speaker 4 (22:01):
Okay, it's well, you wore yesterday and I caught a
whiff of it yesterday. But today I just opened the
door after you'd come in, and it was like, is
it too much? If it hits, it's not too different.

Speaker 2 (22:12):
Did you really just wear today and yesterday you just
switched to Versace?

Speaker 1 (22:16):
Yeah? Well no, I have three different Versaces, so I rotate,
keep on and I don't remember the name of this one,
but I will.

Speaker 3 (22:25):
He'll buy it for you for Christmas.

Speaker 4 (22:27):
I just need another name because I was just like,
it froze me in my tracks when I caught a
whiff of it. It's like, okay, this is just so refreshing.

Speaker 1 (22:36):
It looks like I'm attracting the wrong.

Speaker 2 (22:39):
A man smells cologne on another man like you did,
does it make you want to buy it?

Speaker 3 (22:45):
Does it work that way?

Speaker 4 (22:46):
Yes? Right, I don't know what it'll smell like on me.

Speaker 3 (22:48):
See, it'll be different.

Speaker 4 (22:49):
You know, you get in the elevator or you run
past these guys that have cologne on, it's yes, right,
it's like, oh, that's just whatever, But this is like,
it's different.

Speaker 1 (23:00):
Jodi likes this as the three. So this one's Versachi
poor um poor man.

Speaker 4 (23:05):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (23:05):
And then but I like this one and Dylan Dylan
Blue are the two that I rotate with each other.

Speaker 4 (23:10):
Dylan Blues Versachi too.

Speaker 2 (23:12):
Yeah, Okay, he has so many fragrances that I can't keep.
I couldn't tell you what he's wearing on a given
day because he has a lot to choose from. And
that's because he really likes the he likes smelling good.
He always has.

Speaker 1 (23:23):
Really apparently you can write Walmart online too. No, not
nothing cheap in the moment, you know.

Speaker 4 (23:28):
Just watch out. Jody because the live is going out.

Speaker 2 (23:34):
Did a whole after the Show podcast earlier this week
about how parents really know within like a minute whether
a kid is really sick or not, and that moms
sort of even have the advantage in that in that game.

Speaker 1 (23:47):
That I mean, whether they want to go to school
or not.

Speaker 2 (23:50):
Right, you know, if you get the call that your
kid is sick, it does does a certain percentage percentage
of you wonder if they really are.

Speaker 3 (23:57):
I mean, it depends on who you are.

Speaker 2 (23:59):
If you're it has some sort of condition and your
phone rings and it's a school, you're gonna be like, oh,
I gotta go, you know.

Speaker 1 (24:05):
Right, But it's a very common parental decision. You're having
to decide. Okay, you're evaluating as you hear this. It
doesn't mean you're a skeptic. It just means you're evaluating.

Speaker 3 (24:14):
Yeah, you know what I want to say about this.

Speaker 2 (24:15):
And we're gonna get some of your comments based on
that podcast because we're hearing from a lot of you.
I think it is very important, very important that you're
that you believe your children. They need to know that
you that they have a You're a safe space if
they tell you they don't feel well or anything and
they come to you and tell you something, you do
need to be that safe place for them to tell

(24:36):
you the truth for all the reasons that you can imagine.
That's why the sick thing is a tricky parent Okay,
so Danny said, one time I sent my daughter to
school because I thought she was faking. The school called
me about an hour after I got settled in at
work and she said, I told you I was sick. Anyway,
you live and you learn, Danny, We've all been there. Yeah,
when you're when you think really.

Speaker 1 (24:57):
You're not going to be perfect, They.

Speaker 3 (24:58):
Just want to stay home and they really spike a fever.

Speaker 4 (25:01):
Was she sick or was she just really committed to
getting the day off?

Speaker 3 (25:04):
Okay, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (25:06):
There's a lot of guarantee, a lot of things that
you'll know the patterns though that if there's just if
something's been going on at school that they've talked about,
it's been a concern or something else, you'll know if
there's something else that's an issue.

Speaker 2 (25:16):
And just regarding the fact that we talked in that
podcast about how I feel like moms especially, I know
within one second of seeing my child if everything is
okay or if something's wrong. And I know within one
second of hearing their voice when they call me if
something is wrong. You knew from the jump when they
were babies, and you know now. Michelle said, it's not
what they say, but the tone that speaks to us moms.

(25:39):
Amy said, yes, we do, meaning moms always know. I
can tell instantly by one look or one word, one word. Yeah,
Debbie said, there is a turning point in this though.
A child can see the same thing in their parents
as they age.

Speaker 1 (25:55):
Oh wow, that's oh, that's very true.

Speaker 3 (25:58):
Keep it real, Debbie. We appreciate you so much.

Speaker 2 (26:02):
Join us, join us, Join us anytime, all the ways, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, TikTok,
lots of ways.

Speaker 3 (26:10):
To jump in.

Speaker 4 (26:12):
We have an email here for Murphy, Sam and Jody,
and it is for you Jody and probably you too, Murphy.
It's from Quaid. Coolna q U A d e Oh. Yeah,
Quaid says, The Madison is a show you need to watch.

Speaker 3 (26:26):
My center, My soul is gone.

Speaker 4 (26:30):
You will.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
I trust and believe that this is on my radar.
It's Michelle Pfiffer. You had me at Michelle Pfiffer and
then you had two checks Matty Kurt Russell.

Speaker 4 (26:40):
Yeah, Quaid says, I wanted to watch it because I've
always been a fan of Michelle Pfeiffer and Kurt Russell.
I sing on the cakes her husband.

Speaker 1 (26:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (26:48):
He touches all senses. You're gonna laugh, you will cry,
you'll be angry, you'll be happy, and it really makes
you think and reflect about the important things in life. Oh,
stellar cast, fabulous writing. Of course, it's Taylor Sheridan and
everything he touches turns to gold. But it's not like
Yellowstone or Marshall.

Speaker 1 (27:04):
Okay, well that's good. And everything Taylor Sheridan touches does
turn to gold and every male character always has to
talk like that and not sure why.

Speaker 2 (27:12):
This sounds perfect and always does. I'm going to watch
this without you, Murphy, though, because I just don't. I
don't want to watch something sad with you.

Speaker 1 (27:21):
Oh is it sad?

Speaker 3 (27:22):
It's about grief?

Speaker 1 (27:23):
Okay, Well yeah you can have it.

Speaker 4 (27:25):
Why not because he cares on about it.

Speaker 2 (27:28):
He's a sponge as we all are. But he will
be sad and he might even cry.

Speaker 1 (27:34):
And I who wants to go to bed like that? Right?

Speaker 2 (27:36):
No?

Speaker 3 (27:37):
So I will look forward to that.

Speaker 2 (27:38):
You've got some stuff from work coming up, you know,
even a little trip soon, So I'm going to watch
it alone.

Speaker 3 (27:44):
Something else. I'm finishing up by myself.

Speaker 4 (27:46):
You know.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
We're watching Scarpetta together. Yeah, but I'm also finishing up
and just like that, which is the sequel series to
Sex and the City. I didn't care for the first
season that much, but it's really hard for me. Not
when Carrie Bradshaw is on TV. I feel like I
know Carrie Bradshaw. In fact, I do know her.

Speaker 1 (28:05):
I'm sure there are a lot of people that feel
that way, that love the franchise, and so it's like
friends together.

Speaker 2 (28:11):
And there's only like three episodes left and the series
is done. And I accidentally I was watching like episode seven,
and I googled what's the last episode?

Speaker 3 (28:21):
And I got the spoiler, the one where Carrie died.
But I'm only a couple more until I'm.

Speaker 2 (28:26):
Hey, Murphy, let's call our oldest daughter to start the day. Okay, Hi,
if you record your name and reason for calling, I'll
see if this person is hello.

Speaker 1 (28:41):
Hey man, that's cool. I didn't know you were screening
your calls like that.

Speaker 5 (28:45):
Well, yeah, I just started because you know, I've been
hitting spam and things like that, and it's so Taylor.

Speaker 2 (28:51):
I wanted you to join us because the last couple
of times you've come over to the house, when you
have something in your hand wrapped in foil, I get excited.
My heart rate is wildly for your homemade banana bread death.

Speaker 4 (29:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (29:05):
Yeah, I really enjoyed making it a lot lately, and
basically every time I've come home, I've just.

Speaker 4 (29:11):
Wanted to be able to share it because it's really good.

Speaker 1 (29:13):
It is good. Well, you've been working unperfected it. The
first one Mom and I thought were great and then
the second batch was like, oh wow, this is even better.

Speaker 3 (29:21):
The second batch was better. Why do you think that is?

Speaker 2 (29:23):
Hey, I think the second batch was better because, well, actually,
you gave me some ripe bananas for the second batch, and.

Speaker 5 (29:33):
They were bigger than the ones that I bought last time,
and I think because.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
Of that, there was more moisture in the bread.

Speaker 1 (29:40):
That makes sense. I mean that's the same, right, Bigger
bananas make better banana bread.

Speaker 2 (29:45):
Yeah, I guess we all know that's okay. It's chocolate
chip banana bread. And I know you put an at
what your recipe says, like half a cup, but I
think you put more.

Speaker 3 (29:56):
Don't you put more chips than that? You're super generous,
roughly about half a cup.

Speaker 2 (30:01):
It just seems like a lot.

Speaker 4 (30:03):
Because you don't usually see uh, chocolate chips and banana bread.

Speaker 1 (30:06):
But one of the things I love about.

Speaker 2 (30:08):
Putting chocolate chips in the banana bread is that even
days after it's done, the chocolate chips still say gooey
because that moisture gets trapped.

Speaker 3 (30:17):
In the banana bread.

Speaker 1 (30:18):
Now, I was wondering about how that little bit bit
of magic worked.

Speaker 2 (30:21):
This is becoming one of your things Taylor, you know,
I don't know if you meant to do it, but
I'm I think you're not. You're gonna be known in
the family for your banana bread.

Speaker 3 (30:29):
I love it.

Speaker 2 (30:30):
Even Phoebe said the other night, I love how generous
you are with the chocolate chips. I think you use
the fat chips too. They're big, yes, yes, okay, And
you know we want to taste it and eat it
anytime you want to make it.

Speaker 3 (30:44):
I haven't even had it warm yet, and do okay.

Speaker 1 (30:46):
I think there Sham wants you to make enough that
it could brings some here too. I can see it
in his eyes.

Speaker 3 (30:54):
I'll definitely make you some, Okay.

Speaker 2 (30:55):
Thank you sweet all right, baby, it's nice to talk
to you this early. I know you have school, I
know you have work, but thank you for sharing the recipe.
We have posted it at Murphy Salmon Jody dot com
Taylor's chocolate chip Banana Bread. Thank you.

Speaker 3 (31:10):
I love you, have a great day, Love you, love you,
Bye bye bye