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Speaker 1 (00:08):
Advice. Suree, it's time nice hell level love love love
and love and love and love and Lovello. Welcome to
the naughty but nice Sham your house, drom Shooter. And
it's Thursday. Normally on Thursday we have our delicious friend
Mark Lupo Loopy joins us. He's traveling the world. He's
off having a fabulous time. So guess who we are
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lucky enough to have one day early? One day early,
our dear friend Corey Andrew. Heye, Corey, are you there?
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I am here, darling, And it's one of the few
times in my life I've ever been early to anything.
So but how could to be here?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
I'm I'm quite early. I don't know why that is.
It's almost in my DNA. I have drinks tonight with
a friend at six and I will get there at
five point fifty nine. What time would you get there, Corey?
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Tomorrow? Like the next day. I'd be like Grace Jones.
You know how Grace Jones like shows up later. She's
like Nann even there. She shows up like a whole
day after the photo issue.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
It makes me giggle, like kylet's jump into the show.
What time is it, my friends? It is tea time
big story at the top of the show. So, a
newly discovered letter from Princess Diana reveals her deepest hopes
for her sons, Prince William and Prince Harry. This hope
is devastating because we now know what the outcome is.
They're not closed, they're not even speaking at the moment. Well,
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what Diana really wanted her hopes for her boys as
they grew up. She wanted a stronger, more meaningful bond
between them. Oh gosh, this is heartbreaking. So it was
written in nineteen ninety five after her explosive BBC Panorama
interview remember that begin to view where she said there's
three of us in this marriage. Diana reflected, I'm moving
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forward with her life and the importance of communication, and
according to the letter, it's just being discovered. She looked
forward to teaching her sons the value of connection on
a deeper level and understanding one another better. She wanted
a different life for them than the life that she
was living. The emotional correspondence is now headed for auction,
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which creeps me out a little bit of private letter,
but offers a real poignant glimpse into Diana's personal thoughts
as a mother. Now nearly three decades later, her wishes remain,
especially moving as the brothers are as strange. So she
wanted these two boys to be closed. She always thought
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it was the three of them verse the monarchy, and
she knew not as soon as it happened, obviously, but
they were younger. Parents don't live as long as their
children in the natural order of things. She thought that
eventually these two boys would be one another's rock, that
when she was no longer around to look after them,
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to give them advice, they would always have each That's
why she wanted two children. She knew how difficult it
would be to just have one. She wanted these boys
to be each other's support system, each other's safety net,
each other's comfort blanket. And it is beautiful. And when
she put those words down on paper, I think she
believed that would happen. We all believed that would happen
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until it didn't. And that these two are not even
speaking heartbreaking.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Yeah, it really is. And I think it also has
a bit of irony because the main reason why they're
not so close is because one of them sort of
chose the family lineage as his path, where the other
one totally rejected it. So it's interesting because you know,
Diana's whole thing was this family is going to tear
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us apart, and she thought she could protect them from it.
But one of them actually chose that, and one of
them rejected it. So it just shows you how children
kind of grow up and no matter how much you
parent them, they are going to become their own visual people.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
It's sort of a beautiful thing. I'm going through a
bit of stress at the moment with one of my
sisters who's pretty much rejected the family. She's the harry
of the situation. She doesn't really want to be in
our lives, but then she does pop up every so
often on birthdays, and it's just now too painful for me,
and I think I have to put an end to it.
I think I have to say we either have to
talk about this this big ugliness that I think are
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your decisions she probably thinks they're mine, or we have
to stop talking because this half in, half out doesn't
really work and I don't want that stress in my life.
I don't think about this one sister very much, if
at all, but occasionally, and I know my birthday's coming up,
I know it. I was talking to my other sister, Christine,
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my dear sister who I'm closest to. I will get
a text from the strange, the estranged sister on my birthday,
and I don't know how to respond to that. And
I think, here, this is very difficult because they do
love each that they grew up in the same house.
They're the only two people in the world who know
what it's like to be a child of Charles and Diana.
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They're the only two. They are the only two people
in the world that know what it's like to have
a place in Buckingham Palace where one of you is
going to be the king and the other one is
going to be the spare And so they have this
extraordinary history that they do share. But they've chose different paths.
I wonder is it possible to choose different paths when
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it comes to the family and still be part of
that family. Maybe not if you reject it. It's very
tricky live families, relationships, siblings. Are you close? Do you
have brothers and sisters? Callin?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
You got the story I've shared before, how I'm an
only child to my mom.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
But yeah, when I.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Was thirty eight. You know, a couple of years ago
a brother found me and through him, I actually met
my father who I had never met, and nine other siblings.
So I went from having none to a football team
and so a lot of but five of us are
building relationships with each other now, so I don't have
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that same dynamic, you know. But but when it comes
to Harry and William, I will say, uh, I'm listen.
I'm not convinced that Harry is Charles's kid. I know
that's an old rumor. But Honey, when you look at
the difference in those boys and you look at that guy,
I hate to bring up this rumor, you look at
that guy. I think.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
I think.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I think that William and Harry carry that forward.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I don't know if they're sure if Charles is Harry,
I don't know. I think it.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Creates let's get we need to get ourselves some more.
I love that. I love it. Okay, we're gonna We're
going to get to the poll of the day. Princess
Diana Letter has revealed that she wanted her sons to
have an extraordinary bond closer to have a really meaningful bond.
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Would she be disappointed if she what was going on today?
I think she does know would she be disappointed? I
think the AD's a pretty obvious, But what do you think? Hey?
Go vote on at Twitter x page at Naughty Nice
Rob at Facebook page is Nudi Jozib and be sure
to check back Tom Avrau to hear your results. Hey, Corey,
what do you work it up? Yes?
Speaker 2 (07:18):
Well, Joe Jonas is revealing a very surprising silver lining
after his bitter divorce battle. So it's been nearly two
years after his highly publicized split from Sophie Turner and
the custody battle that followed. Now the singer is praising
the co parenting relationship that he's built with his former
wife and for how well they are parenting as co
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parents for their daughters, Willa and Delphine. And it's really
important people, you know, we're just talking about the importance
of parenting with Diana. It's really important when kids go
through divorced parents that the parents become the growing ups
in the room and really help make sure the kids
are okay. So Jonas that he's grateful to have a
co parent who helps him navigate both the good days
and the difficult ones. And the singer also shared an
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emotional reflection on fatherhood, calling his children his greatest source
of purpose and happiness. Now it's funny for me, Rob,
because I met these boys. I met the Jonas brothers
when they were like ten years old, and I worked
at Sony Music BMG, and I get in and these
three little cute boys had instruments that were bigger than
they were, And so it's just funny for me to
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see what they've become. Amazing artists and stars in their
own right, and and quite good looking. They grew up
to be quite good looking.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Man. These are a handsome family. Talented. Yeah, they're pretty
Did you know did you know back then that they
would become this big when you were working at the record.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Life, No, because we would see listen, you know, you
had hopefuls. I was one of them.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
I was.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I thought I could get a backdoor into the industry
by working as a writer. But yeah, we saw, we
saw tons of young kids who came in and did showcases.
I can't name any that I have remembered that have
gone on to do anything except for the three of them.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
And so that's howitive that is, you know, Yeah, it
really is it's amazing to have Some times you see
these talents. I saw Alsa Alicia Keys before I worked
with her, and she was doing a showcase and I
went and she was extraordinary, just extraordinary the talent levels.
And I said to a friend, she's going to be huge,
and she was. I don't think I've got a good
eye at pointing out who's going to make it and not.
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And often if I like you, you're not going to
make it, because I like nice people and you need
to have really sharp elbows. In fact, if I don't
like you, you're probably gonna make That's how it is
in the reality world. Every reality star I've met that
I liked has sort of been fired or has disappeared
to all the ones that I thought were just awful,
Like I knew better day before before Housewives, she was awful,
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even back then when she had nobody, no fame, and
I just knew she's going to be successful. She was.
She was, Oh, just awful. Teresa. I met Teresa before
first season of Jersey and she was just awful. I
said to my friends, she's gonna make it. And the
ones that I really liked, like Alex and Simon, disappeared,
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the Viva dresser. I love them, just that didn't make
it because they were interesting to me and they were ship.
When you go for dinner we talked. It was normal.
That's interesting, Okay, isn't it. If I like you, you're
in trouble. Okay. Moving along, Do a Leaper's secret wedding
was just the beginning. So Do a Leaper and Callum Turner,
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who is handsome, handsome, the two of them are were
just married in a bit of a secret ceremony in London.
Only eight people there, so by the time they got
back into their cars to leave the ceremony, they they
were married. Nobody knew these two even got married, exchanged
intimate ours in London. But they're heading to Sicily for
a three day wedding extravaganza. All their friends are going
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to be there, I'm told to A source tells me
Elton John might turn up and perform. This is going
to be massive and it is so interesting. Palamo that's
where they're going. Sources tell me I know a few
people who have been invited that this is such a
new interesting way to maybe do a wedding. You get marriage,
you do all the legal stuff, you do the religious stuff.
You do do the stuff with your family, and then
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you wait a few days and then you have a big,
big party. Weddings can be really long days, and you
can get really exhausted, and sometimes you get a little
bit nervous. And the people that I wanted to witness
me getting married were not exactly the same people. But
I wanted to party, right, And so I think this
might be a new, really interesting way. If I got
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married again, I would think about doing it like this,
having a really small wedding, maybe ten people or less,
and then a few days later having a big party.
Don't worry, I can't afford Elton John, but maybe I
could get boy those But what do you think about that?
It's fascinating. I think this is a good idea.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
Well, first of all, I mean that's also a destination wedding, right,
because that means that people who are going to join
you unless you're paying for them to go. In this case,
it's sicily not like she she didn't like book a
banquet hall down the road, so it's a little different
because she's got the means. I wonder though, of Elton John.
You know he's done these sorts of wedding things before,
but he's been paid for them. He didn't just like,
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hey girl, let me sing a couple of songs for you,
darling didn't.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Didn't she record one of his songs? Yeah? They did,
like a single it's tiny dance or so she yes, she,
And so maybe doesn't feel like the ozer, but she
made him a lot of money yecause she got Elton
back in the top ten. And so maybe he'll do
a freebie if we had Elton jobs like I had
to do alfriend O, honey, we'll have to have Countess
Lue and we next get married. That's terrible, it's awful.
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It's all okay, moving along. What's going on with Jason
Sadecas What what's he starting to tiptoe back into the
dating pool?
Speaker 2 (12:40):
What's First of all, I have such a crush on
that man, But that's a whole other story. He's just
such a cute delici.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
It's good, it's a good but.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Yeah, So Jason Sadekas, he's admitting that modern dating feels
daunting after he split with Olivia Wilde, so he's getting
candid about life after heartbreak. The ted Lasso star revealed
that six years after he split from a Living Wild,
he still finds that, you know, that dating thing is
sort of overwhelming. And I agreed that, like you just
talking about if you ever got married a second time
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or got married again, how things would be different. I
can't imagine dating now. I mean, I've been with Joe
for twenty six years, so I can't imagine getting back
out into the dating world. But anyway, rather than juggling,
you know, multiple relationships, he says that he prefers a slower,
more meaningful approach. So the actor explained that his priorities
are clear. He has two children. They come first, and
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a head of romance that children come first, and even
they come before himself, as many parents will tell you,
they put their kids before themselves. He said devoted. He's
devoted father, and he says any potential partner would have
to understand that family will always be his top focus.
He's an Emmy winning writer and introducer, and he admitted
that he remains open to finding the right person and
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having more children someday even but right now, you know,
he will have to make sure that his children that
are here are his priority. So he seems very much
like with that response, it.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Doesn't he just doesn't. He's getting a little bit of
bout clash at the moment. So Hannah Wadding Cam I
think her name is, had a very very controversial thing.
She did the cover of Varioting, and when you do
the cover of those, you do a big long interview.
It's like an hour and you say a few things
we all do. If you spoke to me for an hour,
I'm going to say something stupid. And she said she
had a love hate relationship with Jason, and then he
changed the scenes in the last minute and it was
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a perfectionist and all of it I think was meant
in love, but they felt as if there was a
little frustration there. So this has blown up and now
people are interviewing folks who have worked with Jason and
are saying it was difficult. He wasn't easy. He's a perfectionist.
Then he approached the TV show like SNL where they're
changing sketches right till the last minute, and Hannah's like,
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I don't work like that. I'm a classically trained actress
from the West End stage. I like my script months
in advance, I learn my lines and I go out
and perform. And so now you're going to read a
lot of stories, take them with a little bit of
a pinch of saltea. I hit the phones and people
did say it's difficult. But he's a good guy. He's
not mean, he's not nasty. He has like the ways
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he wants to do stuff and the reason that show
is his success. And the only reason Hannah is on
the cover is because of ted Lassa. So be careful
about that. Biting the hands that feeds you often. I
think these actors think that they can be funny or witty.
You'll say something controversial and it's going to bite them.
You don't need to say. She didn't need to say this.
She wasn't ambushed by TMZ or me or RAG. This
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is just yes, she offered this up. I'm told they're
all a little bit a little bit disappointed in Okay,
we're going to take a quick break and we will
be right back. Welcome back to the Naughty but nice.
Have your heads from shooter. They're dear friend, Corey Andrew. Hey, Corey,
let's get to the polls. Last year we talked about
Buckingham Palace may have conceived concealed evidence against the former
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Prince Andrew for six years did the late Queen know?
Did she know this was her favorite acting? She knew
a lot of people want her. It's a tricky because
we love her. We never want to admit somebody we
care about might be involved. Seventy Yes she knew. Don't
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forget to vote on today's home We're gonna wear Twitter
ant x page and naughty nice ram and she he
was her favorite. Not not excuse him, money absolutely protected.
Now the mom's involved. Gosh, he's destroyed his legacy. If
he destroys Queen Elizabeth, it will just be it will
what a bad man. Also, our Facebook page is naughty
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hear your results. And now it's time for nicest of
the day.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
And this is just nice because you know I'm always
team Jessica. You know how I love her. She was
very kind to me once. But Jessica Simpson's powerful sobriety
confession is making some news and she is saying how
alcohol when she was a drinker, it made the pain
worse than better. So she is opening up about this
and her journey to sobriety, and she revealed that she
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once believed alcohol helped numb her pain. Many people do
believe this, they think it's something they need to cope,
but what she found was instead, she discovered it was
only deepening the hurt she was trying to escape. And
she reflected on how far she actually has come since
choosing sobriety, and she described herself as a work in
progress still as we all should be until we are
no longer here, right, we should all be always changing,
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getting better. But she said now that she celebrates every
day and she feels present, alive, fully connected to herself,
and it's been eight years of sobriety, and she just
wants to give that as a message of hope to
anyone else facing their own battles. And that's why I
love Jessica. She's that person. She's a very sweet.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
She's that person. Yeah, I saw it firsthand when I
was working with Jessica. She was a drunk. She would
drink all day. She'd get a photo shoots and would
sneak bottles of whiskey into the shoots she was actually doing.
I did chuckle because it's so naughty. She was doing
a fitness photo shoot where she was doing shots of
whiskey in between crunches and it was all because of
the pain. I have a rule. I can drink to
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have fun. I can't drink to cover my pain. And
I say that to myself when I go out. I
love going out for my friends. I love drinking, I
love laughing. I love sitting around a table at Bottina's gossiping.
But it's fun. I'm not there to cover up a pain.
I have been there, I have done. It never works,
It never ever works. So enjoy your friends, enjoy your alcohol.
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But the minute that you realize you're doing it for
the wrong reasons, stop won't help. Okay, And I noticed
the dayyughty, it's me. I'm the naughties of the day.
So Mega mortals candle controversy has bit me in the bottom.
So Critics have pointed out that in twenty sixteen, Meghan
did an interview where she called one hundred dollars candles
totally obnoxious. Well, then the internet exploded. I jumped in line.
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I didn't check it, and I was like, how hipocritical
Meghan's now selling these candles. She's not. Her candle is
sixty one dollars, and if you put inflation in that
one hundred dollar candle is now about one hundred and fifty,
so her candle is almost half so she is making
candles for people who can afford them. Sixty one dollars
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is still a lot of money, sixty bus it's a
lot of money, but it is less than the hundred
that she said. And so with Megan, it's so easy
to jump on something and not check it, and I
regret it. So everybody out there that pointed out and
called me out, thank you very much. I'm the naughtiest
of the Dailer's end with a moment of don't delay
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your happiness, enjoy the journey right now. Too many people
are postponing their happiness until they reach your goal, or
earn more money, or get skinnier or meet the guy.
But life isn't about a finish line. No, it's happening
right now. Celebrate the small victories, appreciate the progress, and
find joy in the ordinary days. That's what people who
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are happy can do. They find joy in the ordinary days.
Is it easy for me to be excited when I
get free tickets to see Madonna? Yes? Is it easy
for me to be excited when I'm invited for a
fancy meal? Yes? Where I want to be excited. Where
I want to be happy is when I'm sitting on
the couch by myself reading a book. When I'm sitting
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in my living room looking at TV, when I'm going
for a walk with my dog. It's those simple moments
that you must must learn to find happiness in. Stop
waiting for life to begin, it already has. Hey, that
is it for today? Oh listen to me. Oh, thank
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