August 31, 2022 • 43 mins
Glasses Malone and co. tackle the idea that "body count" is defined by how many sexual partners someone has. This idea has recently resurfaced via social media. Listen as No Ceilings breaks it down and offers some perspectives on the subject.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Sillers Podcast with your host not funk that with your
low glasses Malone. I was looking at this post on
Instagram Pete, and it blew me away and it was
they were talking about um they were it was okay,
(00:27):
So the post itself was about a woman and they
were saying that the woman specifically on the post, they
were talking about her body count as a way. The
discredited was as if her pussy would be worn based
off how many dicks she took. I'm not so sure
(00:50):
that's how it works. I'm one seventeenth sure that's not
how it works, right, Yeah, because I have I have
slept with true slut or two. Yeah, and some of
(01:12):
the vagina was the greatest thing that has happened to
my penis when it comes to actually just feel itself.
Oh oh yeah. Why do you think guys think that?
Like what is it about? Like it's metaphorical. Went into
(01:32):
sex thinking to myself like, oh, she fucked a lot
of people. I think that's what most guys think. They
think like, oh, she slept with a lot of guys.
The vagina is not gonna be good. I'm not sure
that that's really what they think. I think it's more
metaphorical too. Oh, this woman slept with a lot of guys,
(01:54):
so the you know, social credit value of me having
knocked it down as inverted. No, but they don't really
think that that's what that's what that's what the better
minds think. Most guys think the vagina changes. I think
that there's to some extent there might be some minor
(02:16):
elasticity issues there. But think about it this way, those
same guys are taken down girls who've had two or
three kids. That's a lot bigger than a male appendage. Yeah,
but even then, I don't think it's true at all.
I wonder how true is it, Like, I don't think
it's true at all. It probably I'll say this much.
(02:38):
I remember in college there were girls on my track
team who would say, like over the course of like
if they weren't getting knocked down for a while, like
during training, that afterwards it would be super tight. Mm hmm.
That's true. So uh but also all parks girls were
(03:04):
cause I knew him, and it probably wasn't gonna remain
that way for very long. I'm just saying some of
the craziest horns. I remember sleeping with a girl man
that was like super out there, and I remember not
(03:25):
trying to sleep with her. This girl they're doing porn.
She was like a prostitute to some degree that she
had to be. And like I did a lot of
things to not sleep with this girl, Like I went
out of my way to not sleep with her. She
she was trying, Like I became her target, Like I
knew god she slept with and I'm like, like, yo,
(03:46):
like I'm not sleeping with you, you know what I mean.
Like she was a beautiful girl, I mean, she attractive,
had a couple of dollars whatever that means. But I
was like, when I'm not sleeping with you, like you
sleep with everybody, And she just wanted to give me
some pussy so bad, and it just really was weird.
So I pretty much steered clear away from the pussy
for years, you know what I mean. I kept a
(04:07):
cool relationship with her because I thought she was a
really good friend. And the way she like we end
up sleeping together, which was crazy, you know what I'm saying.
It was almost unbelievable when I think about how it happened.
It happened at a Kid's Pop Warner Football like a
Snoop League football game. Snoop was actually at the fucking
(04:29):
games and it happened in the parking lot. Oh, I
thought it was gonna said it happened in the middle
of the field like a halftime show. No, it happened
because in the parking lot got you and um when
I tell you that pussy was incredible, it was almost crazy,
(04:54):
like you would think a motherfucker that then took that
many dicks, it's no way. That's why I knew I
would think the opposite that wasn't true. Why what do
you think that a person with a broader spectrum and
deeper volume of practice would be worse at something? I
(05:18):
don't think I thought she would be worse. I actually
believe so there's nothing she can do to to mask
the damage done with all the skill repertoire. Well, I
mean it's not the experience. I think the experience works
out better for women. You know what I mean that
the experience. But I thought the actual you know, immaturely
(05:39):
thinking that it would be warned like time and that
that's how I realized it wasn't Truebe think some of
these other girls that ship not true. And then I
slept with a girl that was a virgin that's happened
to me twice, and it was like, don't get me wrong,
the sex was great, but it was like you thought
she'd been sucking all the time, got you? Yeah, So
(06:04):
I don't know. I mean, because I thought that there
was like some uh validation to the like Cagle exercise
kind of theory, you know what I mean, I don't
know to what extent that holds water? Mm hmm. So
(06:25):
first off, no ceilings, Jail PB and Peter Bosh, are
we going to change the name of the podcast for
this particular episode from no ceilings to no walls to
no feeling? Yeah? So what's your issue? Does body account
really matter? What's your issue with body count? So if
(06:49):
it's not, if it's not a physical thing, what's your
issue with how many women? I mean how many men
a woman that slept with? It's it matters reputationally speaking,
and that's our reputation or your reputation both because her
reputation then it's tied to your. It depends on what
you what the end game is, whether you know, if
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it's just like, well I've got some time, it's only
two o'clock, then it doesn't matter all that much. If
it's like trying to be seen around with this woman,
then that's when it starts to matter a little bit more.
You know what's funny culturally speaking? You know, I have
been saying prejudicially, I've been very prejudiced when I said
(07:34):
this that it's almost like white people, coach really just
don't care about that, right, because you would take something
that is the farthest thing. I would say the absolute
complete opposite. What's funny is though, because when I think
of people like right, um the harmy that run, no jumper,
real good dude, Adam, Right, Adam sided, but Adam like
(07:56):
he's dating like a porn star, Like I think they're
ever read this something? And I'm like, he don't even care.
He's one of those alternatively white people though, Like here
Rebel and Ship so white culturally, it does matter. If
you brought home afore and start, your dad would look
at you grazy. The list of things that my family
(08:18):
and like my old circle of friends and all that
ship would would be like the cringeworthy things is significant
and it's unforgiving. Mm hmmm. And that was true all
the way back through high school, through whatever. We're just
like brought up kind of that way. Yeah, m hm.
(08:40):
You know what I realized too. I was watching Forest
Gump the other day and Forests slept with Jenny when
Jenny had HIV. That's correct. I'm not sure Forest knew
how to spell HIV, but it was unfair. It was
fair for him a little bit. So his first pussy
(09:05):
was HIV pussy. Yeah, that's rough. It's probably a whore. Yeah,
the filthiest back to the point. Um, I just thought
about that. Um, that's an interesting one because I didn't
know where you. I was like, boy to tie Forest
com through this conversation. This has to be really creative.
(09:25):
But I forgot about that part of the movie. No,
I had COVID. I had COVID, and so I was
just watching movies and reading books, and I was like, damn,
this is Jenny was a real dirt bag. Yeah, but
her pussy was actually more like Forest than Forest because
it just kept running as it is. I had to
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do it. I couldn't avoid it. Do you think body
counts shouldn't matter? Like our is God, our guys being
ridiculous at this point, Like like is it really ridiculous
this to care? Is that really an estimation of character?
Because I think that's where we both I think we
both agree at the point of what we we both
(10:09):
know physically, how many penises she had probably doesn't really affect,
you know, the actual greatest feeling of the vagina. And
so if it's not a physical thing, are we being
a bit ridiculous? I mean thinking outside of the normal
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thinking of how we judged. Like I think my fear
is the soul of her, Like her soul is being
compromised over and over again. That could possibly be true
in a vacuum. There's an argument that com be made
that like the locality of the bodies matter, you know,
like if you like it, Like I'm in Miami, right,
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I could go start dating some check from the Dominican
Republic who ran through two in the d R. I'm
never gonna see those people. But the skill set, you know,
came through customs, so I'm kind of winning. True. So
there's that. So is it? So let's say if she
(11:16):
was a whore in Puerto Rico, yeah, and you know
nothing about that or you've heard about it, but she's
not a whore in America or in Florida. That's yeah,
I think to a degree, that's a different conversation. It's
kind of like if if if a pussy drops in
the forest and nobody is there to hear, it doesn't
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really make a sound like a little like confucious ask
type of take on the matter. What's the fear? What's
the fear of the high body counts? Like, let's be honest, like,
what's the fear fear? I don't know. I mean if
we're just talking to fear, I mean like, yeah, if
you my minus you, you could take the pussy getting
(11:59):
checked out graded grating. I think it's purely reputational. I
think there there is a certain capital on getting on exclusivity.
It's it's it's almost sort of like a supply and
demand perception even though it's past supply. Sort of strange
in that regard, But also like practically speaking, do you
(12:22):
want to be like you ever saw that movie Best
In Show, the comedy about the Dog Show. No, I
never saw it. It's it's a very very funny, like
it's an excruciatingly white comedy, but it is very funny,
and they're making fun of like weird people who are
like weird white dog people, and one of one of
them features like a wife who's like a burnt out
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slut and her nerdy husband, And everywhere they go her
name is Cookie. They go to the store of the cashier,
Oh Cookie, Yeah, hey, what's up? Remember that time we
got busy at the fair on the ferris wheel. And
then they go somewhere else the electrician. Oh oh hey, Cookie,
Hey remember that time back behind the math building at
the high school. Like it's everywhere that they go, And
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that's not probably the greatest. Like you could also have
a mathematical likelihood that you're gonna bump into somebody that's
really piste off because she because he's still wants her.
I mean, like, who the hell knows. Yeah, that is
a really weird feeling. Nothing is like being in the
room with another dude that slept with your girl. It's
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not it's not great. Yeah, and especially first, I don't
know what quite the feeling is. If I think about it,
if I investigate, I don't quite know what's wrong. It's
because it just credits I think what exactly it is
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that you have, Like you want to think that you
have something very valuable. Another person walks bhind and goes,
I had that not through with the trash. It's not
that valuable, bro, It's deflating because the only way that
you can have been ridiculous because in the sense that
like we have her, it's gonna be corny, Oh God,
like you have her love right? You you she's fucking
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with you, right, he might have slept with her, right,
because I don't feel the same way if if I
have a car, like right, if I my Malibu wagon,
whoever had it before? If he see me with it
and it's all fixed up, clean and last thing and
now it ain't got the six center that was in it,
good pain on it now, good interior is nice. I
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don't feel the same when he's in the room with
my car, and I don't want to compare it. Well,
it can't be comparable because I don't feel like that.
If I mean, it can be comfortable, like if your
girl was like I don't know, who's a girl that
really upgraded herself visually, Like that's a public figure um
of note. I don't know, but like Susie Q look
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kind of like mediocre or whatever. In two thousand and eighteen,
then all of a sudden she's she's in the gym,
she's eating right, she's got to do job, she's dressed great,
everything's to the nines. And now you were there. Now
it's like, oh, yeah, I had her. But then there's
also like, but I couldn't get her again, you know,
so that sort of changes things like buying a used card.
(15:23):
But like, I don't think if I made a girl
and I knocked her down and I had my way
with her, and then she lost forty pounds and she
looks better, I'd be thinking to myself like, oh I
couldn't get her again, I would still look like I
had her. Yeah, Like you might want to think to myself,
what really bothers me? If I'm in the room with
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the guy who had the woman that I'm with, it
might have some degree be doubt and knowing could he won't, won't.
Once he's been there, it's easy to be there again,
you know. I don't think that's true though, I mean, well,
not with me. I don't know if I'm insecure thinking like, oh,
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we can have her again. I mean, I don't think
so I'm thinking. I'm thinking, I'm thinking, I'm thinking, do
I really feel that way? I don't. I think the
public perception that creates this like climate of the way
it's viewed is like a cocktail of all these things.
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It's like, well, that guy might have had her and
not wanted her, and then I she stumbled down onto me,
or maybe she still looks over at you know whatever
kind of winks or something or whatever. It could be
any of a so you think rudy and insecurity potentially,
(16:53):
I think it's I think it's rooted more so in
the I got the backdrop for it. I think that
might be foundational to what it really has to do
more with like that innate competitive nature among men, you know,
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and that you part of why you want a super
good looking woman and dressed up take a round, because hey,
I got the best woman in the building, you know.
Like that people feel like that though of course they're
called there's a term trophy wife. It's not something that
(17:34):
you have the trophy it so people see the trophy
that you have, But do they really feel like that.
I don't think I've ever thought of it like that.
I never thought a girl I was dealing with was
the best woman anywhere or whatever, or just like a
better reflection of you or not you know better than
the other one. But it's certainly like societally, that certainly exists.
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I would be pretty shallow to think that that's I
don't think I ever felt that well. I never think
I ever thought like, like you know, you you always
heard that thing with women say I want to be
I want him to make me feel like I'm the
only woman in the world. Like that just don't make
sense to me. But that don't I never see why
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would you want to feel like a lie? Like women?
What if I made her feel like she was my
woman and she was the best thing in my life?
That makes sense. What don't make sense is having a
woman that you think is the finest woman in the
world when literally there's no such thing. Like I don't
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think there's a woman I could get and I don't
think that she would be the finest woman in the world,
Like I don't even know who the finest woman in
the world is. I don't think that's a realistic, very subjective,
very subjective. Uh yeah, I mean, like to me personally,
I just need you to look good enough for me
to not want to cheat on you when you aren't there.
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I don't even know if that's possible. Yeah, yeah, because
once you sleep with a woman, bro like how she looked,
changes was special about the way she looked. The more
you sleep with her, that goes out the door. Yeah.
But like my personal calculus is, like, if I'm gonna
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cheat with this chicken with that one, I gotta risk
the potential that I'm that's gonna blow up my face.
I'm gonna lose the first one, so I have to
be prepared to get stuck with the second one if
that's what I want. If I'm a relationship type of guy,
I should your relationship type of guy, but a relationship
type of guy to the less. But even then, is
it really? Is that really something you think most guys
worried about? Is the way the one looks? Statistically? Probably not,
(19:54):
because evidence would suggest otherwise. Yeah, Yeah, I just I
don't know, Like I don't think. I think when you
you know what I mean, when you don't cheat, the
motivation is not the cheat is, yes, you don't want
to lose something, But I don't know. That would be
pretty crappy for God to be worried about how a
(20:15):
bitch look and that's why you're worried about losing her, Yeah,
like you would have to really be a slave to
some like lane, Ship. But one thing I have realized
is guys. Guys are the the cheapest standard in beauty.
Like you can do anything for a guy, and a guy,
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you know, a guy sees beauty a lot easier than
a woman does, right, but let me see it a
lot more mechanically, like where it's like how long your
eyelashes are? Silly? Ship? But I was just thinking about that,
why do we like what's really the issue? And body counts?
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And I was thinking about that ever since I saw
that post, Like, well, you know, I obviously know it's
not you know what it is. It's the fact that
you think she doesn't have morals and she will cheat
if that's also a factor, that's what I think that
that's what I would think if she's so loose. But
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I also think, the same motherfucker you are single is
the same motherfucker you are in a relationship, you know
what I mean? I don't, I don't. I always tell
my home girls it's like, if you gotta nig of that,
like if you gotta men that like sleeping with women,
that's his thing, that's what he likes. He doesn't like
because he single. What about what like the really impassioned
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woman who's all head over heels in love with the
guy and the guy cheats on her, leaves her for
another girl or whatever the hell, and she goes through
a slutout phase and then finds another guy a couple
of years later than she just loves to her dying
day because she's just a passion individual and that's just
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how she coped with being that heartbroke. And it's just
like a hardcore slut out because that happens all the
time dealing with other people. Yeah, it's like drinking alcohol
or doing drugs. It gives you a temporary relief of
the thought of that person, but then once it's over,
feel me, you'll be thinking about that person. So then
it becomes a drug, like a high. You just changing
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it over and over again. I do think that happens
a lot. Um. I could name some names, Okay, but
is it wrong for me to think that? Am I
wrong by thinking that? Like if a girl was super
duper loose as a single woman, that she probably likes
sex too much or she likes men's company too much,
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either which way? Um, the one usually manifest. The latter
manifests often into the former. But I think the idea
of being wrong by assessing past behavioral patterns to predict
future behavioral patterns, it's tough to sell that as being wrong.
You know, it's foundational for so many things. I mean,
background checks and credit checks are based purely on that,
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which we could have some sort of Pico index for
these women. Wouldn't be probably terrible scoreful little vagina. Yeah,
like equipus, I call it right. I called it like
when they were the cars, they called it the car facts. Yeah,
cat facts can't fact. Would be great. I wouldn't mind
(23:47):
a yelped page. We could get at least some reviews
on quality, a yell pay for the pusson. Yeah, that's
a great idea. I saw this man, you should start that.
I saw this thing on next mostated man on Internet.
For sure, you'd be the most hated man on the Internet.
And we had a yell page for vagina for women.
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Could you imagine what that would do to the pussy market.
Like we talked about pussy inflation before, imagine if your
pussy goes down from four point one to three point six,
you'd have to funk your way back into the forest.
But it could be some and you'd have to do
so with a very serious intent to throw it back
like you. That could be all right, but they could
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also include what she cooks? Well, does she clean up? Well,
that's in a different app, my friend. No, that should
be on the same yo, because then the quality of
customer can change. The quality of customer can Like let's say,
if you you're like the head is bad, right, which
(24:52):
takes points down, but then he Lacaronian cheese is fire
like I still would like because I'm not super big
fan of head, like, that's not as important, but I
enjoy macaroni and cheese. I feel with I still could
see myself patronizing their business. So in a straight up
trade cheese for head. Yeah, okay, at least it's the
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rest of my life macaroni and cheese and head macaroni
and cheese, okay and hands down cool? Cool? That's yeah,
that's that wouldn't be a bad Yeah, I'm not mad
at that. Like, have you had really great macaroni and
cheese with brown the top? The cheese and brown that
I live without? That you know where the best macaroni
(25:39):
and cheese I've ever had in my life. Was there
was a Trinity restaurant in Long Beach that was owned
by a family of like Indian people from Trinidad, and
they made the best mac and cheese I have ever had,
I believe it. And the poor place went out of business.
It was a shame. They made great food, macaroni and cheese.
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That's fun. Um So, But am I being ridiculous? Like, sure,
I agree with you, right, Like that's how credit works
the same way. But am I being ridiculous as a
human being? I would say, no, you're not, because if
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you're gonna look at a woman who's like, doesn't mean
that just because she was what if the thought of
she was single? And it was like, I hate the
thought of them saying I'm just having fun mhm right,
Like fucking is fun. Fucking you know, forty niggas is fun.
Fucking forty men is fun, right, And it's fun. That's
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just because cooking fun. Right, So I have forty I
have forty men. I'm I'm thirty seven years old. I
have forty men on my account. I've been fucking since
I was seventeen. I'm thirty seven now, I have forty men,
So over twenty years, I've had sex with it on
average two many a year. Yeah, is it fair to say?
(27:09):
Should I really be judging that woman? Thinking to myself like,
oh yeah, she really cannot be a righteous woman moving forward?
I mean the more ideal scenario would be, is there
a cheat index there of the forty or five of them,
(27:31):
you know, cheat on in a relationship? Whatever? Private? What
what if? What if she was she was in a
relationship from high school the first with her boyfriend from
UM until she was in two and then they broke
up and a twenty three she had her wild summer.
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She slept with six guys, you know one year, you know,
she was just trying to be single, you know what
I mean. Then she went out and had sex with
six guys in that one year, and then after that
it was three guys the next year. Then I got
with the guy. We was together for years, so we
just slept together, and you know, that number became one
(28:14):
to three per year, which is probably the more I
think about it is actually unrealistic. It's like women body
count gotta be high because nigga, like, because men as
fucking men getting some pussy, like all my father pussy,
so somebody fuck it. I cracked into a phone one
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time the guy left in my possession, and I was like,
what's what's what's going on in the female lifestyle. It
was brutal. It's brutal. So I don't know. I think,
I think you'd have to have a little bit of
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willful ignorance or some sort of delusional sense of arrogance
to think that, if that you're so special, you know
what I mean? And I refused, Yeah, same, So unless
you're there, there's there's a conflict, like it's it's you
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have that propensity or you don't. And if you don't,
I mean other than like there's probably some realistic age arcs,
you know, like they say like men, for example, are
more impulsively violent until they're about like depending on the guy,
(29:39):
between thirty to thirty five. Then it tapers off radically
in in in occurrences. So I don't know if from
a brain development, hormonal whatever the hell. There's ebbs and
flows in that with women where you can say, well, yeah,
she was Looney Tunes from twenty to twenty six, but
she's thirty five and her whole perspective on everything and
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priorities are radically different. Okay, Now, if you're statistically that
holds water. Mm hmmm. So what's too many women for
a thirty five year old woman? Is there actually just
a number that context doesn't matter? What would be the
(30:24):
number that Kyle man? I think the reality is it's
gonna be really hard for me to assume that a
woman has been single all that time, you know. And
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a lot of women like to do that cute thing
where they say, well, we're together, but we're not officially together,
so I'm gonna go get piped down here and they're
on a sneak like in their own heads. They love
that too, so to me, and to be honest, if
we're if we're like getting up into and beyond like
(31:09):
the twenties, I'm gonna have some questions because I know
that you were in a relationship for probably most of
that time, because we're gonna just sitting stupid, deadened relationships
for long periods of time in general, you know. So
it's like, well, when you're on the market, you're wild
or do you like to walk that line of officially
(31:32):
being on or off the market and try to play
with that to your advantage and I don't women like
to lie and play with reality to their advantage. So
m hm, so twenty at thirty five is a bit
too much over yeah, and it also kind of depends
on like Again, another thing is that that also does
(31:53):
depend on how local that is, because like, if you
your life's path, you moved to four cities whatever, typically
you life operates in a first choice, second choice, third choice,
fourth choice, you know, succession. So if you ran through
twenty people in your neighborhood, you're probably just waving and
(32:15):
anybody passing by. Okay, who that's in Hollywood, you know,
very conservative town. Thank you. I'm not going to ask
you this ship. No ask away in Hollywood. Who's had
(32:36):
too many? Oh you mean celebrities? Fun? I don't know,
I don't um. The issue is a lot of the
time with life celebrity women, it's like they'll have had
three four guys, but they're all really high profile, they're
all in very close proximity, and it does matter me.
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I've got back for a girl, you like Pete, like
she had twenty four guys mm hmm, but twelve of
the guys are NBA player or NFL players over twenty years.
I think that to me personally would matter less than
(33:23):
if I knew them personally from around. Like, because you
you're an athlete, you know, you ran track to some
you know, high level, so you fit her type of
being an athlete. But you know, she she dated Katie,
she slept with uh Dame Lillard before, she slept with
(33:48):
Bradley Bill before. But it's over twenty years. Here's one
that's a little bit different. For Like, I'm not gonna
care so much about that because I think it more
of it matters too, because those people I don't know,
I'm not gonna bump into, you know. I think where
it matters with celebrities is like and again, like I
don't keep tracking celebrity gossips, so I'm using some names
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pretty haphazardly here, But like I know, like Rihanna has
been with numerous high profile people in the same industry,
same niche of the same industry. So that circle, now
you're painting yourself into a corner in the room. You know. Yeah,
that's fair. And I have known girls that been with
a lot of NBA players, and there's that's also a
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close fraternity, So there becomes some issues there for a
guy if you're the fifth NBA player that supposed been
with for the NBA guy that tried to be in
the relationship with her, his his, his journey is gonna
be different than you, who's not gonna be in those
circles per se. Yeah, I gotta see the guys all
the goddamn time. So there is an issue with seeing
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guys that slipped with the girl your dainty, yeah, and
just the communication network in general. Like I'd be willing
to bet like if you're some you know, money hungry, blonde,
whatever the hell girl who likes to hang out at
the hottest happy hour near the giant Century City law firms.
Like if you're at what Xavier's over there all the
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time trying to pick up attorneys from Century Park East,
we're just gonna get around and and and you could
be a big time monster litigator. But if you just
knocked down Kimberly, well, Kimberly just ran through shorts, shorts
and shorts last summer, that's not a good look for
you because everyone's gonna be laughing at you behind your
back because you just party, huh at the Christmas party
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exactly exactly, and all of that. There's gonna be eggnog
all over your face, not eg Well, the expression is
egg on your face, so eggnogg on your face at
the Christmas party. We gotta do it. We gotta do
it with that. So I think that that kind of
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a thing. What do you think about these situations where like,
um so, like g Herbo right is a rapper from Chicago,
his baby moms you feel me or it was just
I think I think they have a child together. I'm
not sure if that's his child, and I can't say it,
but his girl right. It's always weird for me when
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I see somebody like g Herbo's baby mom, who now
is kind of popular for she don't really have talent,
but she's kind of popular. And next thing you know,
the boxer Tank Davis is dating her and the only
reason she's famous or has any familiarity is because she
was g Herbo's girlfriend or his baby mom, and that's
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why you know her. And then next thing you know,
Tank David's is dating her, and then next thing you know,
money bag Yo is dating her. M hmm. What do
you think about guys who look at, you know, like,
out of all the women, they find the woman that
was the local woman in your town that was Yo, bro,
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is that a weird thing? Like weird guys? Do you
think that's a guy? You put value on a woman
because of who she slept with, Like, I don't do that,
Like I think all women are the same unless the right. Yeah,
but I've never looked at a woman more valuable because
this guy slept with her. That's not a thing for me,
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Like the the only way that that would even be
a thing because if I was, like, well, ship this
last four boyfriends that this girl had all had twenty
five million dollars a pop. Now she's dating me. This
is on borrowed time. But like, other than that, I
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don't personally here and I'm not out there trying to
head hunt chicks to try to one up a guy,
because I think, how are you even one up? And
the guy he already like ray J had a hit
song suggesting the opposite. Yeah, Like, I don't think there's
any situation where I feel better because like automatically, it
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turns me off. That's my problem. If I know somebody
who slept with one major problem I have And this
might be a bit arrogant, I'm like, you gave him
some pussy like That's how I feel. I would feel like, damn,
like you gave him some pussy, like and I felt
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like this over Brad too have slept with like they
might have slept with a famous person like mad Way
more famous than me, but he's a fucking clown. And
I'm like, you would get that clown as nigga some
pussy because he was famous, you feel me, or you
would get this suck ass nigga like I've never like.
I don't think I would feel better if Michelle Mama
gave me pussy. I wouldn't be like, oh you fun,
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but I'm like, man, you're fucking nigga. I didn't even
know real nigga like that, Like I would feel like
and I don't know if it's me or if it's arrogance,
but I remember I was on a no Jumper and
I was talking and one of my homies like from
from from Us, from Uh from Parou from ray J Neighborhood,
got at me about something I said about ray J.
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He was like, man, you try to play the hommie.
I'm like how he said, you know you was talking
about Kim kardash and he was like, if she'd give
ray J some pussy. You feel me that I could
suck her. And I remember telling that nigga, like, I
think what you're trying to say, because like I ain't
like I'm nigga, I'm for really need streets with this
ship nigga, Like I'm a real like I'm something like
Niota held my own at every level, you feel me,
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I'll survive this life. I've been a man like you
think I shouldn't feel like I'm like a cold and
nigga and ray J. Now I'm not saying I have
more j as a as a wealthy man, a really
intelligent man, a thousand things, but like we talk out
really being that nigga out in the life, mhm, like
being a nigga nuts on the table, like you don't
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want to think of myself at a high level when
it comes to that, you feel me so And I
was explaining to him and by the end of the
conversation's like I feel you. I'll see what you're saying,
like and I had to listen to them. Is that
really playing ray J down? And it's like, no, I'm
just counting myself where I'm specialist. I don't let the
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world dictate why I'm spared. I don't let the world
tell me because I don't have more money than ray
J that I'm not as special or more special as
a motherfuckering nigga than ray J. That's not like a
solid nigga. I met him great dude, really could dude.
But I just thought to myself, like, nigga, I'm a man.
I exuberate masculinity more than ray J or or most
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motherfuckering niggas. So I think that's attractive to women, you
know what I'm saying. So that's why I'm like, I'm
a nigga, I'm a masculine man. Fuck my my money.
They're like if if if if it's me and you somewhere,
if me and a girl somewhere and ray J and
this girl somewhere and some nigga start tripping fee me.
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I like my chances better than ray like his chances.
I think that's fair, you know I'm saying here like so,
And I think that's where being in a relationship really
comes down to. Like I can provide enough. I couldn't
provide a life that's as great or as fabulous as
ray J. Ray J is a very successful person and
really talented and underratedly smart. What I'm saying, but ray
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J could put you in the mansion. But if it's
four niggas coming right here to trip, you want to
be with me because these motherfucker's gonna go, these hands
gonna beet cracking, feel me, ain't gonna be nothing, but
on back up, let's do it for me. So I
think as a protector, I value myself. Yeah, and and
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and that's like, and I could provide, like I can't
give you. I mean, I think ray J can give
you a ten bedroom house, but I mean I can
get you four or five bedrooms. Yeah, you know, I
can get you four or five bedrooms. I can get
you a if I've really tried, I can get you
a a little bit struck, you know what I mean.
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I'll be mad as a motherucker, but I can get that.
But I'm saying, if we scale back and I put
you in four bedrooms and get you that new kid,
that stinger or that K five, you feel me, then
your life is luxurious. There's no pressure. Every day is good. Mhm.
You know what I'm saying. So I was just thinking
about that body counts, Like why do I trip, and
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I think it's a fear. It's a fear within about
what type of woman she is, you know, I'm saying
that's what my be. What would be fear and the
body count thought of a woman mine, It would be
purely I'm as sorry as it is gonna sound. I'm
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not even gonna lie to you. It's just purely external perceptions,
purely external perception. So that's what it is, you know.
I don't I don't need eggnog on my face. Good
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Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Sillers Podcast with your host not funk that with your
low glasses Malone. I was looking at this post on
Instagram Pete, and it blew me away and it was
they were talking about um they were it was okay,
(00:27):
So the post itself was about a woman and they
were saying that the woman specifically on the post, they
were talking about her body count as a way. The
discredited was as if her pussy would be worn based
off how many dicks she took. I'm not so sure
(00:50):
that's how it works. I'm one seventeenth sure that's not
how it works, right, Yeah, because I have I have
slept with true slut or two. Yeah, and some of
(01:12):
the vagina was the greatest thing that has happened to
my penis when it comes to actually just feel itself.
Oh oh yeah. Why do you think guys think that?
Like what is it about? Like it's metaphorical. Went into
(01:32):
sex thinking to myself like, oh, she fucked a lot
of people. I think that's what most guys think. They
think like, oh, she slept with a lot of guys.
The vagina is not gonna be good. I'm not sure
that that's really what they think. I think it's more
metaphorical too. Oh, this woman slept with a lot of guys,
(01:54):
so the you know, social credit value of me having
knocked it down as inverted. No, but they don't really
think that that's what that's what that's what the better
minds think. Most guys think the vagina changes. I think
that there's to some extent there might be some minor
(02:16):
elasticity issues there. But think about it this way, those
same guys are taken down girls who've had two or
three kids. That's a lot bigger than a male appendage. Yeah,
but even then, I don't think it's true at all.
I wonder how true is it, Like, I don't think
it's true at all. It probably I'll say this much.
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I remember in college there were girls on my track
team who would say, like over the course of like
if they weren't getting knocked down for a while, like
during training, that afterwards it would be super tight. Mm hmm.
That's true. So uh but also all parks girls were
(03:04):
cause I knew him, and it probably wasn't gonna remain
that way for very long. I'm just saying some of
the craziest horns. I remember sleeping with a girl man
that was like super out there, and I remember not
(03:25):
trying to sleep with her. This girl they're doing porn.
She was like a prostitute to some degree that she
had to be. And like I did a lot of
things to not sleep with this girl, Like I went
out of my way to not sleep with her. She
she was trying, Like I became her target, Like I
knew god she slept with and I'm like, like, yo,
(03:46):
like I'm not sleeping with you, you know what I mean.
Like she was a beautiful girl, I mean, she attractive,
had a couple of dollars whatever that means. But I
was like, when I'm not sleeping with you, like you
sleep with everybody, And she just wanted to give me
some pussy so bad, and it just really was weird.
So I pretty much steered clear away from the pussy
for years, you know what I mean. I kept a
(04:07):
cool relationship with her because I thought she was a
really good friend. And the way she like we end
up sleeping together, which was crazy, you know what I'm saying.
It was almost unbelievable when I think about how it happened.
It happened at a Kid's Pop Warner Football like a
Snoop League football game. Snoop was actually at the fucking
(04:29):
games and it happened in the parking lot. Oh, I
thought it was gonna said it happened in the middle
of the field like a halftime show. No, it happened
because in the parking lot got you and um when
I tell you that pussy was incredible, it was almost crazy,
(04:54):
like you would think a motherfucker that then took that
many dicks, it's no way. That's why I knew I
would think the opposite that wasn't true. Why what do
you think that a person with a broader spectrum and
deeper volume of practice would be worse at something? I
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don't think I thought she would be worse. I actually
believe so there's nothing she can do to to mask
the damage done with all the skill repertoire. Well, I
mean it's not the experience. I think the experience works
out better for women. You know what I mean that
the experience. But I thought the actual you know, immaturely
(05:39):
thinking that it would be warned like time and that
that's how I realized it wasn't Truebe think some of
these other girls that ship not true. And then I
slept with a girl that was a virgin that's happened
to me twice, and it was like, don't get me wrong,
the sex was great, but it was like you thought
she'd been sucking all the time, got you? Yeah, So
(06:04):
I don't know. I mean, because I thought that there
was like some uh validation to the like Cagle exercise
kind of theory, you know what I mean, I don't
know to what extent that holds water? Mm hmm. So
(06:25):
first off, no ceilings, Jail PB and Peter Bosh, are
we going to change the name of the podcast for
this particular episode from no ceilings to no walls to
no feeling? Yeah? So what's your issue? Does body account
really matter? What's your issue with body count? So if
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it's not, if it's not a physical thing, what's your
issue with how many women? I mean how many men
a woman that slept with? It's it matters reputationally speaking,
and that's our reputation or your reputation both because her
reputation then it's tied to your. It depends on what
you what the end game is, whether you know, if
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it's just like, well I've got some time, it's only
two o'clock, then it doesn't matter all that much. If
it's like trying to be seen around with this woman,
then that's when it starts to matter a little bit more.
You know what's funny culturally speaking? You know, I have
been saying prejudicially, I've been very prejudiced when I said
(07:34):
this that it's almost like white people, coach really just
don't care about that, right, because you would take something
that is the farthest thing. I would say the absolute
complete opposite. What's funny is though, because when I think
of people like right, um the harmy that run, no jumper,
real good dude, Adam, Right, Adam sided, but Adam like
(07:56):
he's dating like a porn star, Like I think they're
ever read this something? And I'm like, he don't even care.
He's one of those alternatively white people though, Like here
Rebel and Ship so white culturally, it does matter. If
you brought home afore and start, your dad would look
at you grazy. The list of things that my family
(08:18):
and like my old circle of friends and all that
ship would would be like the cringeworthy things is significant
and it's unforgiving. Mm hmmm. And that was true all
the way back through high school, through whatever. We're just
like brought up kind of that way. Yeah, m hm.
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You know what I realized too. I was watching Forest
Gump the other day and Forests slept with Jenny when
Jenny had HIV. That's correct. I'm not sure Forest knew
how to spell HIV, but it was unfair. It was
fair for him a little bit. So his first pussy
(09:05):
was HIV pussy. Yeah, that's rough. It's probably a whore. Yeah,
the filthiest back to the point. Um, I just thought
about that. Um, that's an interesting one because I didn't
know where you. I was like, boy to tie Forest
com through this conversation. This has to be really creative.
(09:25):
But I forgot about that part of the movie. No,
I had COVID. I had COVID, and so I was
just watching movies and reading books, and I was like, damn,
this is Jenny was a real dirt bag. Yeah, but
her pussy was actually more like Forest than Forest because
it just kept running as it is. I had to
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do it. I couldn't avoid it. Do you think body
counts shouldn't matter? Like our is God, our guys being
ridiculous at this point, Like like is it really ridiculous
this to care? Is that really an estimation of character?
Because I think that's where we both I think we
both agree at the point of what we we both
(10:09):
know physically, how many penises she had probably doesn't really affect,
you know, the actual greatest feeling of the vagina. And
so if it's not a physical thing, are we being
a bit ridiculous? I mean thinking outside of the normal
(10:30):
thinking of how we judged. Like I think my fear
is the soul of her, Like her soul is being
compromised over and over again. That could possibly be true
in a vacuum. There's an argument that com be made
that like the locality of the bodies matter, you know,
like if you like it, Like I'm in Miami, right,
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I could go start dating some check from the Dominican
Republic who ran through two in the d R. I'm
never gonna see those people. But the skill set, you know,
came through customs, so I'm kind of winning. True. So
there's that. So is it? So let's say if she
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was a whore in Puerto Rico, yeah, and you know
nothing about that or you've heard about it, but she's
not a whore in America or in Florida. That's yeah,
I think to a degree, that's a different conversation. It's
kind of like if if if a pussy drops in
the forest and nobody is there to hear, it doesn't
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really make a sound like a little like confucious ask
type of take on the matter. What's the fear? What's
the fear of the high body counts? Like, let's be honest, like,
what's the fear fear? I don't know. I mean if
we're just talking to fear, I mean like, yeah, if
you my minus you, you could take the pussy getting
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checked out graded grating. I think it's purely reputational. I
think there there is a certain capital on getting on exclusivity.
It's it's it's almost sort of like a supply and
demand perception even though it's past supply. Sort of strange
in that regard, But also like practically speaking, do you
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want to be like you ever saw that movie Best
In Show, the comedy about the Dog Show. No, I
never saw it. It's it's a very very funny, like
it's an excruciatingly white comedy, but it is very funny,
and they're making fun of like weird people who are
like weird white dog people, and one of one of
them features like a wife who's like a burnt out
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slut and her nerdy husband, And everywhere they go her
name is Cookie. They go to the store of the cashier,
Oh Cookie, Yeah, hey, what's up? Remember that time we
got busy at the fair on the ferris wheel. And
then they go somewhere else the electrician. Oh oh hey, Cookie,
Hey remember that time back behind the math building at
the high school. Like it's everywhere that they go, And
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that's not probably the greatest. Like you could also have
a mathematical likelihood that you're gonna bump into somebody that's
really piste off because she because he's still wants her.
I mean, like, who the hell knows. Yeah, that is
a really weird feeling. Nothing is like being in the
room with another dude that slept with your girl. It's
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not it's not great. Yeah, and especially first, I don't
know what quite the feeling is. If I think about it,
if I investigate, I don't quite know what's wrong. It's
because it just credits I think what exactly it is
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that you have, Like you want to think that you
have something very valuable. Another person walks bhind and goes,
I had that not through with the trash. It's not
that valuable, bro, It's deflating because the only way that
you can have been ridiculous because in the sense that
like we have her, it's gonna be corny, Oh God,
like you have her love right? You you she's fucking
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with you, right, he might have slept with her, right,
because I don't feel the same way if if I
have a car, like right, if I my Malibu wagon,
whoever had it before? If he see me with it
and it's all fixed up, clean and last thing and
now it ain't got the six center that was in it,
good pain on it now, good interior is nice. I
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don't feel the same when he's in the room with
my car, and I don't want to compare it. Well,
it can't be comparable because I don't feel like that.
If I mean, it can be comfortable, like if your
girl was like I don't know, who's a girl that
really upgraded herself visually, Like that's a public figure um
of note. I don't know, but like Susie Q look
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kind of like mediocre or whatever. In two thousand and eighteen,
then all of a sudden she's she's in the gym,
she's eating right, she's got to do job, she's dressed great,
everything's to the nines. And now you were there. Now
it's like, oh, yeah, I had her. But then there's
also like, but I couldn't get her again, you know,
so that sort of changes things like buying a used card.
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But like, I don't think if I made a girl
and I knocked her down and I had my way
with her, and then she lost forty pounds and she
looks better, I'd be thinking to myself like, oh I
couldn't get her again, I would still look like I
had her. Yeah, Like you might want to think to myself,
what really bothers me? If I'm in the room with
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the guy who had the woman that I'm with, it
might have some degree be doubt and knowing could he won't, won't.
Once he's been there, it's easy to be there again,
you know. I don't think that's true though, I mean, well,
not with me. I don't know if I'm insecure thinking like, oh,
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we can have her again. I mean, I don't think
so I'm thinking. I'm thinking, I'm thinking, I'm thinking, do
I really feel that way? I don't. I think the
public perception that creates this like climate of the way
it's viewed is like a cocktail of all these things.
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It's like, well, that guy might have had her and
not wanted her, and then I she stumbled down onto me,
or maybe she still looks over at you know whatever
kind of winks or something or whatever. It could be
any of a so you think rudy and insecurity potentially,
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I think it's I think it's rooted more so in
the I got the backdrop for it. I think that
might be foundational to what it really has to do
more with like that innate competitive nature among men, you know,
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and that you part of why you want a super
good looking woman and dressed up take a round, because hey,
I got the best woman in the building, you know.
Like that people feel like that though of course they're
called there's a term trophy wife. It's not something that
(17:34):
you have the trophy it so people see the trophy
that you have, But do they really feel like that.
I don't think I've ever thought of it like that.
I never thought a girl I was dealing with was
the best woman anywhere or whatever, or just like a
better reflection of you or not you know better than
the other one. But it's certainly like societally, that certainly exists.
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I would be pretty shallow to think that that's I
don't think I ever felt that well. I never think
I ever thought like, like you know, you you always
heard that thing with women say I want to be
I want him to make me feel like I'm the
only woman in the world. Like that just don't make
sense to me. But that don't I never see why
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would you want to feel like a lie? Like women?
What if I made her feel like she was my
woman and she was the best thing in my life?
That makes sense. What don't make sense is having a
woman that you think is the finest woman in the
world when literally there's no such thing. Like I don't
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think there's a woman I could get and I don't
think that she would be the finest woman in the world,
Like I don't even know who the finest woman in
the world is. I don't think that's a realistic, very subjective,
very subjective. Uh yeah, I mean, like to me personally,
I just need you to look good enough for me
to not want to cheat on you when you aren't there.
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I don't even know if that's possible. Yeah, yeah, because
once you sleep with a woman, bro like how she looked,
changes was special about the way she looked. The more
you sleep with her, that goes out the door. Yeah.
But like my personal calculus is, like, if I'm gonna
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cheat with this chicken with that one, I gotta risk
the potential that I'm that's gonna blow up my face.
I'm gonna lose the first one, so I have to
be prepared to get stuck with the second one if
that's what I want. If I'm a relationship type of guy,
I should your relationship type of guy, but a relationship
type of guy to the less. But even then, is
it really? Is that really something you think most guys
worried about? Is the way the one looks? Statistically? Probably not,
(19:54):
because evidence would suggest otherwise. Yeah, Yeah, I just I
don't know, Like I don't think. I think when you
you know what I mean, when you don't cheat, the
motivation is not the cheat is, yes, you don't want
to lose something, But I don't know. That would be
pretty crappy for God to be worried about how a
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bitch look and that's why you're worried about losing her, Yeah,
like you would have to really be a slave to
some like lane, Ship. But one thing I have realized
is guys. Guys are the the cheapest standard in beauty.
Like you can do anything for a guy, and a guy,
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you know, a guy sees beauty a lot easier than
a woman does, right, but let me see it a
lot more mechanically, like where it's like how long your
eyelashes are? Silly? Ship? But I was just thinking about that,
why do we like what's really the issue? And body counts?
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And I was thinking about that ever since I saw
that post, Like, well, you know, I obviously know it's
not you know what it is. It's the fact that
you think she doesn't have morals and she will cheat
if that's also a factor, that's what I think that
that's what I would think if she's so loose. But
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I also think, the same motherfucker you are single is
the same motherfucker you are in a relationship, you know
what I mean? I don't, I don't. I always tell
my home girls it's like, if you gotta nig of that,
like if you gotta men that like sleeping with women,
that's his thing, that's what he likes. He doesn't like
because he single. What about what like the really impassioned
(21:46):
woman who's all head over heels in love with the
guy and the guy cheats on her, leaves her for
another girl or whatever the hell, and she goes through
a slutout phase and then finds another guy a couple
of years later than she just loves to her dying
day because she's just a passion individual and that's just
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how she coped with being that heartbroke. And it's just
like a hardcore slut out because that happens all the
time dealing with other people. Yeah, it's like drinking alcohol
or doing drugs. It gives you a temporary relief of
the thought of that person, but then once it's over,
feel me, you'll be thinking about that person. So then
it becomes a drug, like a high. You just changing
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it over and over again. I do think that happens
a lot. Um. I could name some names, Okay, but
is it wrong for me to think that? Am I
wrong by thinking that? Like if a girl was super
duper loose as a single woman, that she probably likes
sex too much or she likes men's company too much,
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either which way? Um, the one usually manifest. The latter
manifests often into the former. But I think the idea
of being wrong by assessing past behavioral patterns to predict
future behavioral patterns, it's tough to sell that as being wrong.
You know, it's foundational for so many things. I mean,
background checks and credit checks are based purely on that,
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which we could have some sort of Pico index for
these women. Wouldn't be probably terrible scoreful little vagina. Yeah,
like equipus, I call it right. I called it like
when they were the cars, they called it the car facts. Yeah,
cat facts can't fact. Would be great. I wouldn't mind
(23:47):
a yelped page. We could get at least some reviews
on quality, a yell pay for the pusson. Yeah, that's
a great idea. I saw this man, you should start that.
I saw this thing on next mostated man on Internet.
For sure, you'd be the most hated man on the Internet.
And we had a yell page for vagina for women.
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Could you imagine what that would do to the pussy market.
Like we talked about pussy inflation before, imagine if your
pussy goes down from four point one to three point six,
you'd have to funk your way back into the forest.
But it could be some and you'd have to do
so with a very serious intent to throw it back
like you. That could be all right, but they could
(24:31):
also include what she cooks? Well, does she clean up? Well,
that's in a different app, my friend. No, that should
be on the same yo, because then the quality of
customer can change. The quality of customer can Like let's say,
if you you're like the head is bad, right, which
(24:52):
takes points down, but then he Lacaronian cheese is fire
like I still would like because I'm not super big
fan of head, like, that's not as important, but I
enjoy macaroni and cheese. I feel with I still could
see myself patronizing their business. So in a straight up
trade cheese for head. Yeah, okay, at least it's the
(25:18):
rest of my life macaroni and cheese and head macaroni
and cheese, okay and hands down cool? Cool? That's yeah,
that's that wouldn't be a bad Yeah, I'm not mad
at that. Like, have you had really great macaroni and
cheese with brown the top? The cheese and brown that
I live without? That you know where the best macaroni
(25:39):
and cheese I've ever had in my life. Was there
was a Trinity restaurant in Long Beach that was owned
by a family of like Indian people from Trinidad, and
they made the best mac and cheese I have ever had,
I believe it. And the poor place went out of business.
It was a shame. They made great food, macaroni and cheese.
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That's fun. Um So, But am I being ridiculous? Like, sure,
I agree with you, right, Like that's how credit works
the same way. But am I being ridiculous as a
human being? I would say, no, you're not, because if
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you're gonna look at a woman who's like, doesn't mean
that just because she was what if the thought of
she was single? And it was like, I hate the
thought of them saying I'm just having fun mhm right,
Like fucking is fun. Fucking you know, forty niggas is fun.
Fucking forty men is fun, right, And it's fun. That's
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just because cooking fun. Right, So I have forty I
have forty men. I'm I'm thirty seven years old. I
have forty men on my account. I've been fucking since
I was seventeen. I'm thirty seven now, I have forty men,
So over twenty years, I've had sex with it on
average two many a year. Yeah, is it fair to say?
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Should I really be judging that woman? Thinking to myself like,
oh yeah, she really cannot be a righteous woman moving forward?
I mean the more ideal scenario would be, is there
a cheat index there of the forty or five of them,
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you know, cheat on in a relationship? Whatever? Private? What
what if? What if she was she was in a
relationship from high school the first with her boyfriend from
UM until she was in two and then they broke
up and a twenty three she had her wild summer.
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She slept with six guys, you know one year, you know,
she was just trying to be single, you know what
I mean. Then she went out and had sex with
six guys in that one year, and then after that
it was three guys the next year. Then I got
with the guy. We was together for years, so we
just slept together, and you know, that number became one
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to three per year, which is probably the more I
think about it is actually unrealistic. It's like women body
count gotta be high because nigga, like, because men as
fucking men getting some pussy, like all my father pussy,
so somebody fuck it. I cracked into a phone one
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time the guy left in my possession, and I was like,
what's what's what's going on in the female lifestyle. It
was brutal. It's brutal. So I don't know. I think,
I think you'd have to have a little bit of
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willful ignorance or some sort of delusional sense of arrogance
to think that, if that you're so special, you know
what I mean? And I refused, Yeah, same, So unless
you're there, there's there's a conflict, like it's it's you
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have that propensity or you don't. And if you don't,
I mean other than like there's probably some realistic age arcs,
you know, like they say like men, for example, are
more impulsively violent until they're about like depending on the guy,
(29:39):
between thirty to thirty five. Then it tapers off radically
in in in occurrences. So I don't know if from
a brain development, hormonal whatever the hell. There's ebbs and
flows in that with women where you can say, well, yeah,
she was Looney Tunes from twenty to twenty six, but
she's thirty five and her whole perspective on everything and
(30:01):
priorities are radically different. Okay, Now, if you're statistically that
holds water. Mm hmmm. So what's too many women for
a thirty five year old woman? Is there actually just
a number that context doesn't matter? What would be the
(30:24):
number that Kyle man? I think the reality is it's
gonna be really hard for me to assume that a
woman has been single all that time, you know. And
(30:48):
a lot of women like to do that cute thing
where they say, well, we're together, but we're not officially together,
so I'm gonna go get piped down here and they're
on a sneak like in their own heads. They love
that too, so to me, and to be honest, if
we're if we're like getting up into and beyond like
(31:09):
the twenties, I'm gonna have some questions because I know
that you were in a relationship for probably most of
that time, because we're gonna just sitting stupid, deadened relationships
for long periods of time in general, you know. So
it's like, well, when you're on the market, you're wild
or do you like to walk that line of officially
(31:32):
being on or off the market and try to play
with that to your advantage and I don't women like
to lie and play with reality to their advantage. So
m hm, so twenty at thirty five is a bit
too much over yeah, and it also kind of depends
on like Again, another thing is that that also does
(31:53):
depend on how local that is, because like, if you
your life's path, you moved to four cities whatever, typically
you life operates in a first choice, second choice, third choice,
fourth choice, you know, succession. So if you ran through
twenty people in your neighborhood, you're probably just waving and
(32:15):
anybody passing by. Okay, who that's in Hollywood, you know,
very conservative town. Thank you. I'm not going to ask
you this ship. No ask away in Hollywood. Who's had
(32:36):
too many? Oh you mean celebrities? Fun? I don't know,
I don't um. The issue is a lot of the
time with life celebrity women, it's like they'll have had
three four guys, but they're all really high profile, they're
all in very close proximity, and it does matter me.
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I've got back for a girl, you like Pete, like
she had twenty four guys mm hmm, but twelve of
the guys are NBA player or NFL players over twenty years.
I think that to me personally would matter less than
(33:23):
if I knew them personally from around. Like, because you
you're an athlete, you know, you ran track to some
you know, high level, so you fit her type of
being an athlete. But you know, she she dated Katie,
she slept with uh Dame Lillard before, she slept with
(33:48):
Bradley Bill before. But it's over twenty years. Here's one
that's a little bit different. For Like, I'm not gonna
care so much about that because I think it more
of it matters too, because those people I don't know,
I'm not gonna bump into, you know. I think where
it matters with celebrities is like and again, like I
don't keep tracking celebrity gossips, so I'm using some names
(34:10):
pretty haphazardly here, But like I know, like Rihanna has
been with numerous high profile people in the same industry,
same niche of the same industry. So that circle, now
you're painting yourself into a corner in the room. You know. Yeah,
that's fair. And I have known girls that been with
a lot of NBA players, and there's that's also a
(34:34):
close fraternity, So there becomes some issues there for a
guy if you're the fifth NBA player that supposed been
with for the NBA guy that tried to be in
the relationship with her, his his, his journey is gonna
be different than you, who's not gonna be in those
circles per se. Yeah, I gotta see the guys all
the goddamn time. So there is an issue with seeing
(34:59):
guys that slipped with the girl your dainty, yeah, and
just the communication network in general. Like I'd be willing
to bet like if you're some you know, money hungry, blonde,
whatever the hell girl who likes to hang out at
the hottest happy hour near the giant Century City law firms.
Like if you're at what Xavier's over there all the
(35:21):
time trying to pick up attorneys from Century Park East,
we're just gonna get around and and and you could
be a big time monster litigator. But if you just
knocked down Kimberly, well, Kimberly just ran through shorts, shorts
and shorts last summer, that's not a good look for
you because everyone's gonna be laughing at you behind your
back because you just party, huh at the Christmas party
(35:41):
exactly exactly, and all of that. There's gonna be eggnog
all over your face, not eg Well, the expression is
egg on your face, so eggnogg on your face at
the Christmas party. We gotta do it. We gotta do
it with that. So I think that that kind of
(36:07):
a thing. What do you think about these situations where like,
um so, like g Herbo right is a rapper from Chicago,
his baby moms you feel me or it was just
I think I think they have a child together. I'm
not sure if that's his child, and I can't say it,
but his girl right. It's always weird for me when
(36:29):
I see somebody like g Herbo's baby mom, who now
is kind of popular for she don't really have talent,
but she's kind of popular. And next thing you know,
the boxer Tank Davis is dating her and the only
reason she's famous or has any familiarity is because she
was g Herbo's girlfriend or his baby mom, and that's
(36:49):
why you know her. And then next thing you know,
Tank David's is dating her, and then next thing you know,
money bag Yo is dating her. M hmm. What do
you think about guys who look at, you know, like,
out of all the women, they find the woman that
was the local woman in your town that was Yo, bro,
(37:12):
is that a weird thing? Like weird guys? Do you
think that's a guy? You put value on a woman
because of who she slept with, Like, I don't do that,
Like I think all women are the same unless the right. Yeah,
but I've never looked at a woman more valuable because
this guy slept with her. That's not a thing for me,
(37:38):
Like the the only way that that would even be
a thing because if I was, like, well, ship this
last four boyfriends that this girl had all had twenty
five million dollars a pop. Now she's dating me. This
is on borrowed time. But like, other than that, I
(37:58):
don't personally here and I'm not out there trying to
head hunt chicks to try to one up a guy,
because I think, how are you even one up? And
the guy he already like ray J had a hit
song suggesting the opposite. Yeah, Like, I don't think there's
any situation where I feel better because like automatically, it
(38:20):
turns me off. That's my problem. If I know somebody
who slept with one major problem I have And this
might be a bit arrogant, I'm like, you gave him
some pussy like That's how I feel. I would feel like, damn,
like you gave him some pussy, like and I felt
(38:40):
like this over Brad too have slept with like they
might have slept with a famous person like mad Way
more famous than me, but he's a fucking clown. And
I'm like, you would get that clown as nigga some
pussy because he was famous, you feel me, or you
would get this suck ass nigga like I've never like.
I don't think I would feel better if Michelle Mama
gave me pussy. I wouldn't be like, oh you fun,
(39:01):
but I'm like, man, you're fucking nigga. I didn't even
know real nigga like that, Like I would feel like
and I don't know if it's me or if it's arrogance,
but I remember I was on a no Jumper and
I was talking and one of my homies like from
from from Us, from Uh from Parou from ray J Neighborhood,
got at me about something I said about ray J.
(39:23):
He was like, man, you try to play the hommie.
I'm like how he said, you know you was talking
about Kim kardash and he was like, if she'd give
ray J some pussy. You feel me that I could
suck her. And I remember telling that nigga, like, I
think what you're trying to say, because like I ain't
like I'm nigga, I'm for really need streets with this
ship nigga, Like I'm a real like I'm something like
Niota held my own at every level, you feel me,
(39:44):
I'll survive this life. I've been a man like you
think I shouldn't feel like I'm like a cold and
nigga and ray J. Now I'm not saying I have
more j as a as a wealthy man, a really
intelligent man, a thousand things, but like we talk out
really being that nigga out in the life, mhm, like
being a nigga nuts on the table, like you don't
(40:06):
want to think of myself at a high level when
it comes to that, you feel me so And I
was explaining to him and by the end of the
conversation's like I feel you. I'll see what you're saying,
like and I had to listen to them. Is that
really playing ray J down? And it's like, no, I'm
just counting myself where I'm specialist. I don't let the
(40:26):
world dictate why I'm spared. I don't let the world
tell me because I don't have more money than ray
J that I'm not as special or more special as
a motherfuckering nigga than ray J. That's not like a
solid nigga. I met him great dude, really could dude.
But I just thought to myself, like, nigga, I'm a man.
I exuberate masculinity more than ray J or or most
(40:51):
motherfuckering niggas. So I think that's attractive to women, you
know what I'm saying. So that's why I'm like, I'm
a nigga, I'm a masculine man. Fuck my my money.
They're like if if if if it's me and you somewhere,
if me and a girl somewhere and ray J and
this girl somewhere and some nigga start tripping fee me.
(41:13):
I like my chances better than ray like his chances.
I think that's fair, you know I'm saying here like so,
And I think that's where being in a relationship really
comes down to. Like I can provide enough. I couldn't
provide a life that's as great or as fabulous as
ray J. Ray J is a very successful person and
really talented and underratedly smart. What I'm saying, but ray
(41:38):
J could put you in the mansion. But if it's
four niggas coming right here to trip, you want to
be with me because these motherfucker's gonna go, these hands
gonna beet cracking, feel me, ain't gonna be nothing, but
on back up, let's do it for me. So I
think as a protector, I value myself. Yeah, and and
(41:59):
and that's like, and I could provide, like I can't
give you. I mean, I think ray J can give
you a ten bedroom house, but I mean I can
get you four or five bedrooms. Yeah, you know, I
can get you four or five bedrooms. I can get
you a if I've really tried, I can get you
a a little bit struck, you know what I mean.
(42:25):
I'll be mad as a motherucker, but I can get that.
But I'm saying, if we scale back and I put
you in four bedrooms and get you that new kid,
that stinger or that K five, you feel me, then
your life is luxurious. There's no pressure. Every day is good. Mhm.
You know what I'm saying. So I was just thinking
about that body counts, Like why do I trip, and
(42:48):
I think it's a fear. It's a fear within about
what type of woman she is, you know, I'm saying
that's what my be. What would be fear and the
body count thought of a woman mine, It would be
purely I'm as sorry as it is gonna sound. I'm
(43:08):
not even gonna lie to you. It's just purely external perceptions,
purely external perception. So that's what it is, you know.
I don't I don't need eggnog on my face. Good
looking out for tuning into the No Sellers Podcast. Please
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(43:30):
episode was recorded right here on the West coast of
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