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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, this is Riley and this is Dakota, your favorite
Okay Storytime hosts, and we've got some great stories coming up.
But before that, we have a quick two minute break
from the sponsors that keep the show alive. My husband
and I have an open marriage and my sister in
law discovered it accidentally.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Well, does she wanna also join?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I'm married to Ryan, who has a chronic illness that
rules his life. We have a somewhat open relationship. Ryan
cannot perform spy Silly Sleep very often due to his illness,
and the days where he can, it kicks off incredible fatigue.
I'd rather we be able to go for a walk
together or go out and do something most of the time,
and so would he. We have been together for fifteen
(00:42):
years and in the past seven have had spicey sleep
five times.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Wait how many years?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Seven?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Seven years and only five times.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
It's like zero point eight times per year.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
It's enough for some That was how do you do
that math so quick? Yeah? How did you do that quick? Rightly?
By the way, this comes from you. There's your classic
Web sixty six forty two. If you want to submit
your own stories, go to the oslash Okay story tempts
subret it. I'm Dakota, I'm Sabbathah, I'm Riley. We're here
a yap about this story and maybe provide a little insight.
(01:14):
But you know what, we don't know everything. So tell
us what you would do in the comments, because you're
the smartest person I've ever met. Op says, probably six
years ago, Ryan offered to open up the marriage for me.
I was hesitant for a very very long time, like
a bit three years after his first offer. Wow, but
I do have my own needs. Over the past years,
(01:36):
I've had two other men who I've had this spicy
ibit with, and a nurse Greg and college professor Sam.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Stop it, so.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
You're having segs segs. That's Sam and greggainst getting your
shreg on. They always knew the situation up front, and
both men have been incredibly respectful.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Wait, sorry, sorry about tell about tell about to much?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Mom?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Nurse nurse?
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Nurse, nurse Greg.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Yeah, husband has cancer. He goes to the hospital a lot.
Do you think he picked up on it?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Does he have cancer? He just hasn't note, he just
has an illness.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Illness. Anyways, he has an illness. Yes, he ordered the
doctor a lot, and maybe his nurse was Sam Greg Greg.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Come on anyways, I think, yeah, this could be a
very fortuitous ooh, good word, you're banking and boys, he's
you know, he's taken. He's taken Roy please husband's temperature.
At the same time, he's giving him a check up.
He's checking in pause, checking in to op, and checking
up on her husband, going far more respectful than I.
(02:35):
Most likely they know from the star that I would
never leave Ryan and that he will always be my priority.
A few weeks ago, the college professor Sam and I
would at a restaurant after we'd had spicy sleep mixing,
mixing up the orders. I see. We were being a
little goofy, and my sister in law happened to catch
us while she was out with her daughter. I didn't
know until much later when I was added to a
(02:56):
group chat, where I was immediately confronted and told what
a disgusting, horrible person I am for cheating. They all
took turns reaming me out and saying all kinds of
things to me about how heartless I am. When the
messages slowed down, I told them Ryan knows we have
an open marriage. I explained a little bit more. They
all started apologizing, except my sister in law, who then
(03:18):
tore into me for keeping this a secret and making
it seem like it was something it wasn't. I heard
her out, but told her that the adult thing to
do would have been to confront me one on one
so I could tell her and she wouldn't have embarrassed
herself like this, agreed, Yeah, that's that's what she's a
group chat. She's trying to be like, wow, wow, wow,
So because you didn't tell us that you had an
(03:39):
open marriage for the past seven years, like uh, or
I guess no, for the past four years, a couple
of years. Yeah, that's not none of your business.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Ever heard of anyone getting out in a group chat
for cheating?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Not like this? No, No, that's a good point. Yeah,
and then she still keeps on going but well, no,
this is still your fault and you're wrong. Hmmm. She
said that she shouldn't have to and that it was
degenerate behavior to begin with. Of course, she's insisting this
is entirely my fault. I've always had some difficulty seeing
(04:10):
beyond my own perspective, so really, am I to be clear?
I mean that we haven't told anyone. I don't care
what anyone thinks about the open relationship itself. There's an update.
What are you supposed to send out like an RSVP?
Like a Save the date? Hey, hey, hey, family, just
wanted to let everyone know I'm having relations with other
men who aren't my husband. So if you catch me
(04:31):
out with one of them, don't worry. Everything's fine, And
also send me presents happy boinking other men adversary Boink
Boink boink, Happy men boink Day.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Happy blink point.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
We're moving. We're moving to men Buinkistan.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Oh no, No, this is kind of weird. How would
you bring this up? Do they need to know?
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Psychopath? But made it in a group chat immediately.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
I feel like they didn't like it was none of
their business, and now it is their business because obviously
they found out. But it's not like this will isn't
meant to hurt anyone, and obviously there's an arrangement in mind,
and nobody has to be a part of their marriage
except them.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
So I happened to be there Greg.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
We didn't even get to Greg yet, sarg Really on Sam.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
There's an update. My sister in law, Cleo tried to
tell me that nobody wanted me around for Mother's Day.
She insisted I drop off my husband, her brother, and
if I came with him, she would make it everyone's problem.
Everyone loves the person who makes all of the problems
everyone's problem.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
FUD, How FUD to do that on brother's Day.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
My husband Ryan said that he wanted me to be
there as well, and he knew my mother in law
would also want that. Ryan is aware of my conflict
with Cleo, as he was dragged into it. He is
disabled and she believes she needs to protect him from me.
It stems from her not approving of our open marriage
and not trusting Ryan's lived experience. She tried to confront
me over it and ended up looking foolish. I'm sure
(05:54):
it is partially a bruised ego. Well, Cleo told me
that I'd better not show up and ruin everyone's die.
I have a good relationship with my mother in law,
and I made her a little stained glass piece of Lilax,
her favorite flower.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
My plan was to arrive with Ryan, seek out mother
in law to give her the gift and make sure
that she did want me there. I'd leave if she
didn't because it's her day, not Cleo's. We showed up.
Mother in law was very happy to see us, hugged
us both, and brought us inside. I gave her my gift.
She loved it and immediately put it up in her
kitchen window. Ah Cleo cornered me and asked me why
(06:28):
I'd shown up when she clearly told me not to come,
and said that mother in law deserved a nice time
with her children without interlopers. My phrasing hers was more colorful, colorful, calorful.
She continued to dig it me to the point that
mother in law asked her why. Cleo said that she'd
warned me not to come. Do not come, do not come.
(06:52):
Don't you do it. I see what you're trying to
do here. Mother in law asked Cleo to knock it off.
Cleo doubled down and said that I am the problem,
not her. Mother in law more firmly told her to
knock it off, and whatever is going on between us,
it's just between us. Cleo became very angry about that,
grabbed her person. Left The rest of us relaxed, but
(07:14):
the vibe shifted for all our real ones out there,
boinking dudes who aren't your husband? Your husband knows about
it and is cool with it. You've only boinked him
in the last you know, five times in the last
seven years. Where are you at? Where are you at?
And also they're on Reddit apparently, how do we you know?
How do we make Cleo calm down?
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Should we inform the mother in law at all? Because
there's gonna be tension within this family because Cleo knows.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Well, I think get ahead of it. I assume she
would have been involved in the group chat. Yeah, when
Cleo was.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Like, never yet, and she said that everyone was understood a.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Dirty, disgusting lady. And then she's just like, no, my
husband is ill and we can't boink, so I boink
other people and he's cool with that.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
He gave me permission to boink, so therefore I bink.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
And then and then Cleo is basically just like, wow,
well this is now. Now I'm mad at you because
I should have known this already and then I wouldn't
have looked foolish by making a group chat exposing you,
and instead I did nothing.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Yeah, how do we feel about Cleo?
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Guys? I want her to go away. I feel terrible
about putting a dark cloud over Mother's Day. Ryan said
that it's okay. Cleo was the one with the issue,
and she's alienating the family by thinking she knows best.
He said he would try to talk to her again,
but last time he tried, she wouldn't listen. The next day,
Cleo sent me several long messages that can be summed
(08:34):
up with I do not trust you, and I will
prove to everyone that you are now good and you
ruined about their stay. Was I really the wrong party
in this situation for showing up knowing Cleo would say
or do something. I mean, she did warn me, and
I showed up anyway, even if she was the one
to leave. In the end, Cleo is her daughter, not me,
and that is the end of that story. Is it
(08:55):
your fault that Cleo is an uppity bothersome difficult person
who makes all of her up. But he bothers some
difficult problems everyone else's problems. No, I would say, No,
that's not your fault. No, no, no, that's not really
on you.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
Take responsibility, Cleopatra.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
That's not really on you. Guys. Oh Van campanaitour says
arnr clear, go to get Becky Luuda nor oh, khleiarla,
you never watch that.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
No, I never made show Mermaid show.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Yeah H two O H two O. Wait it's either
H two O or it was H two Old Marine.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
Yeah, H two O was the show.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Aquamarine is the movie which one takes place in Australia.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
BofA think Achamarine takes place and oh wait there is
a blank hold on, I'll be right back.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Are you gonna get a blanket?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
I want one, Give me a blanket, give me a
link and I want a blanky. My son's girlfriend stole
from us and convinced him it was our fault.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
I mean, it is kind of your fault. You got
caught lacking.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Our son and daughter in law twenty six year old
have been together for two years and lived together. We've
always thought she's a very nice girl and she seems
to make my son happy, so no problem from us.
Our son has his own law firm that he's currently
trying to get started. We're very proud of him, and
we're fortunate enough to help him with a startup loan.
Daughter in law works a retail job that she's very
(10:13):
happy with. By the way, this comes from Imaginary Net
twenty three seventy nine and if you want to submit
your own stories, go to the r slash okay storytime subreddit.
And we he had to give some good advice school fully,
but we don't have all the answers. We don't need it,
or we would only tell you what we would do
in this situation. Let us know what you would do
in the comments. EPI says, some time ago, husband and
(10:33):
I were over at their apartment and we decided to
order some food. Husband and I wanted to pay, and
since daughter in law were ordering from her phone, we
gave her our card so she could draw the money
from our account. We thought it goes without saying this
was to draw an amount once.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
For the lunch.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
However, daughter in law apparently put our card into her
Apple pay and has been using it since.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
Don't you have to like approve that before it will work.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
No, you just gotta put the card in and then
it's all like face id after that.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Oh yeah, yep, right, don't tell the children.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Uh oh, I have my mom so much pully up
and you just outed yourself, bro, No, I don't use her.
We're calling the police right now.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
We didn't notice for some months, but recently saw withdrawals
we didn't recognize. We had our accountant look into it,
and he discovered that one daughter in law has been
using her card on her phone, and that too, she's
spent around seventeen K. Oh my goo, whoa, that's crazy, oh, doyal.
(11:37):
I would think it would be like maybe hundreds.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Yeah, like maybe like twenty one hundred dollars yeah, but.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
Not seventeen K is crazy. I don't even know.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
How do you even spend that much on? What?
Speaker 2 (11:50):
What are you spending it on?
Speaker 1 (11:51):
She needed that burkin for real.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
You buy something here, you buy something there, Amazon, blah
blah blah bla blah blah blah.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
I don't know. I keep track of it, so I'm
not like, oh, actually I just spend a million dollars.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Oops.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
We were quite shocked and called her up and asked
why the heck she's been using her card. She got
very defensive tries to deny it, and eventually said she
was entitled to it and why do we care since
we haven't noticed her use it for over four months.
We told her she needed to pay us back immediately
or we'd report her actions for theft.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
She spent seventeen K and four months, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
I mean, I don't even yeah to.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
Go to How much does the most expensive Starbucks drink
thirty dollars? No, it was one hundred and forty eight dollars?
Speaker 1 (12:33):
What oh yeah, because they got like twenty eight shots
of espress, because they got enough espresso to kill an elephant.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
You have to have one of those every single day.
That's your Starbe's drink.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
That's what I need to get my day started.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
I can't with espresso. My heart goes pump pum.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Don't talk to me until I've had my morning eight
thousand milligrams of.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
Forty eight shots of expresso.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Don't talk to me.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
She apparently doesn't have the money to pay us back.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
Well, well that's why she's been stealing from you, genius.
Are you saying, stupid the thief who stole from us
doesn't have the money she stole to pay us backy
crazy that She's like, well, I mean, you didn't notice
I was stealing from you, so I should be allowed
to get away with it. She didn't even notice until now.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
We've gone to our son and he's offered to pay
us back, even though he actually cannot afford to. This
isn't about the money for us, but more about the
fact that she's stolen a huge amount of money. While
we aren't comfortable and it took us time to notice,
we still recognize the seriousness of stealing seventeen thousand US dollars.
Our son has completely dismissed her behavior and excused it
(13:39):
as her being stressed. I'm stressed and I don't go
and spend seventeen k in four months. That would stress
me out more.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
That's not really a stress relief kind of situation retail therapy,
especially when it's with someone else's money.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
Well, you don't have the stress of it being on you.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
Nothing beats a jet to holiday.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
She's take no responsibility and we're honestly wanting to go
forward with the police report to teach her consequences to
her actions. Would we be the a holes for doing this?
And there isn't edit they aren't married. Referring to her
as daughter in law is just easier for the sake
of storytelling. And there are some comments, I think this
girl is a liar and she stole your money.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Yeah, I think if she can't pay back the seventeen thousand,
she's in college, right, No, they're all twenty, they're about
twenty six.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
As a twenty six year old, you just stole seventeen
thousand dollars from your parents. You set up a monthly plan.
How much a month could you give or what do
you think OP should give a month?
Speaker 1 (14:41):
Fifteen dollars fifteen dollars, No.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
I'd say like two hundred a month.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
Seventeen hundred a month.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Fifteen dollars a month would take seven point eight years.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
And then would you say I said two hundred a month.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Two hundred a month.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
I feel like that's like reasonable, That's what I pay for,
like carn shuck.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
That would take seven years.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Deuce, so to either if you do fifteen or two hundred,
I think.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Ninety four years. Actually, yeah, ninety four and yours is
seven years.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
You should do ten percent of the debt per month?
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Oh, one k per month?
Speaker 3 (15:15):
Ten percent seventeen I don't think she has that.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Much seventeen how much? How much is ten percent?
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Seventeen hundred?
Speaker 1 (15:22):
I don't do may were you? We just did the
math in front of you.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Yeah, it's not that you don't. It's okay that you
don't do math. We'll do it. For you. You just
don't listen to us.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
We were right here and we did it.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
I even double checked him because I wasn't sure, and
then he told me again twice.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
I didn't hear any of that, did you hear?
Speaker 1 (15:40):
No? No, no, no, no, no no, this is this
literally life.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
No, no, you know what I was thinking. I was
reading the comments, and then I was also like, how
much do I spend? Do I spend a lot of money?
What do I have to spend? I need to go
do my room. I need to do that. Like it
just spirals.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Yeah, we could tell anyways, back to it.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
Comment number one, I work in law enforcement. If you
report this to the police, they will take a report
and forward charges to the DA. Usually then the credit
card cancels the debit portion as fraudulent. If you just
choose to sue her civilly, you will still be liable
for the debt, and even if you get a judgment,
she may not pay it. I wouldn't give her any
special pass to avoid criminal charges. Coming number two says,
(16:22):
not the a hole. Here's your unhappy situation. You can
either get the police involved, go nuclear, hope for a
felony conviction. Hope your son wakes up with the humiliation
and you save him. Or wait the ten years or
so before your son comes to a sentence and they
get divorced after two children and a mortgage, financially ruining
your son for the next twenty years. Those are your
(16:43):
two choices. Either gonuclear and fight like heck for him
to wake the f up, or let go and be
prepared for his ultimate ruination in ten years. Personally, I
would try everything in my power to save my son,
even if it meant I could fail and he wouldn't
talk to me for ten years.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I would try to not let my son blow up
his entire life and ruin it forever. But that's just me,
me personally. I think that commenter me personally. After painting
this picture, I think that's how I would paint it.
But yeah, she needs to this needs to be like
on a record. Yeah, this needs to be a prosecutable offense.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
Type one if you believe it should be on a record.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
Well, she also just doesn't show any remorse and she's like, well, yeah,
you gave me your card one time and that's your fault.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
As soon as she had doubled down and been like,
well it shouldn't even matter. Like you guys didn't even
notice for four months? Uh, would we like pay it
back tomorrow or do my sign nuclear? No, that didn't
really sound like a it's not really it's not that good.
But yeah, go to jail. You go to jail. You
go to jail. You go to jail.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
Now, do not get you make wine in the toilet.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Oh yeah, you go to jail, make wine into toilet, y'all.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
It's what parents do for their children. We try to
save them. Sometimes it means we need to run into
a burning building and there's an update. We were utterly
and completely shocked with our son's nonchalant way of handling this,
and at a loss. We desperately wanted to fight for
our son, but since initial confrontation, he had been avoiding us.
(18:21):
We decided we would take the advice and call the
police to press charges.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
Oh wow.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
However, we wanted to let our son know before doing so.
Husband and I decided to show up at his office
since he had been ignoring our calls and texts. I
know this might sound boundary crossing to some, but we
desperately wanted to talk to our son. Initially, he got
angry and asked us to leave, but he calmed down
and agreed to hear us out. We told him our
side of the story, and, to say the least, he
was shocked. He apologized profusely, cried a little, and begged
(18:49):
for forgiveness. He told us he was blinded by love,
working fourteen hours a day and under the impression we
had gifted his girlfriend the money. Yeah, okay, that's understandable
now his reaction she died too, Yeah, because she lied
and said no, they gave me the money. I don't
know why they're asking for it back all of a sudden,
and he's like, oh, that is weird, you know, But
(19:10):
now they're like, no, actually, uh, she took that when
we paid for lunch the one time and since then
has been spending all this money for four months.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Would also be upset if I was like, wait, they
gave you seventeen thousand dollars and you didn't tell me
about it until right now, right, because I assume she
didn't just say that immediately. Yeah, after the truth was revealed.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
Yeah, true, I'd be like, wait, why were they giving
you seventeen k.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
So I'm just sick. I'm so cool.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
His girlfriend had apparently told him that we wanted to
spoil her as our future daughter in law, and that
we gave her carte blanc to buy herself nice things.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
Okay, no, it's carte blanche you I mean, I guess
it's carte blanche.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
To buy herself nice things as a way to welcome
her to the family, and that we'd since changed our
minds on her and now wanted all the money back,
knowing she can't afford it. She had told him that
we did that as a manipulative way to force her
out of his life to try and control him. He
was also under the impression she'd spent maybe three to
five K, not seventeen k oh low Wood. He was
(20:16):
livid and was actually the one who, in the end
convinced us to.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
Pursue legal action.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
He actually helped us call the police right then and
there at his office after our talk. We then went
with him home and helped him pack all her stuff
before she came home. Wow, she wasn't on the lease,
living rent free, so kicking her out was no issue.
We offered to stay with him for the blow up,
but he wanted to handle it on his own. From
what he's told me, she didn't take this lightly. Well, yeah,
(20:43):
I wouldn't either.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
This was a lot of money. You could buy a
really nice used car for this.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
You could buy new parents for seventeen thousand wait at
the parents store in Japan.
Speaker 3 (20:54):
Probably she's usually the other way around that, and that's
that's not the good way.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
He had to call the replacements interesting.
Speaker 3 (21:01):
We'll put a pin in that.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
You'd want to ideally spend more than seventeen thousand on
parents like.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
You, maybe one one thousand one parent for seventeen care.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Yeah, there's a little bit left. What do we think.
I think this girl's out.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Yah.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
I think she's done for stealing money.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
I think the marriage is going to continue in prison.
I don't think the marriage will continue in the prison system.
Would have to agree with that. That's my honest evaluation.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
So our son's ex has now been pressed with charges
and we are waiting for their information. Like some of
you pointed out, it's a sufficient amount, and she's been
pressed with criminal charges. Our bank has also been informed
and we're told she'll likely get our money back. She
blew up on the entire family, but no one but
our other daughter in law is taking her side. Other
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daughter in law is a whole story for another time perhaps,
but we are now glad to officially announce that we
are thief free in the family. We appreciate all your feedback, advice,
and engagement.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
That's all.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Wait, I want to.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Know, daughter in law other daughter in law's free family?
Speaker 2 (22:04):
What's with the daughter in laws in this family fiefdom?
Speaker 3 (22:07):
The sons have a type?
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Yeah, don't for like, I don't understand how you're supposed
to reason.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
She stole my heart and seventeen thousand dollars of my parents' money.
Oh no, stole my heart first beat boot bop, Beat
boot Bob.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
That's what counts, all right, Well, that's the in that one.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Yay.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
They definitely got to type them sons.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
That's the end of that story, and we got it
all my come arah up.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
I refuse to give up my dream wedding dress despite
my in laws not attending.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Well, I wouldn't give it up either. I want the
dress and I'm wearing it.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
I'm in a lot of turmoil right now, and it
feels like everything is falling apart. I have never had
a great relationship with my future mother in law. It
isn't terrible, but I can sense that she doesn't like me.
My fiance is very close to his family, so there
has been some tension. By the way, this comes from
user throwaway. Am I the whole bride and if you
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want to submit your own stories, go to the r
slash Okay storytime subverured it and do p says. I
didn't invite mother in law to a wedding dress shopping
because our relationship is awkward, but I thought I would
show her a picture to make her feel included. My
dress is a beautiful, flowy, beachy dress, a fun we've
gotten official fund rating fawn two funds up, but not
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technically a wedding dress and could be ordered in color.
I bought it from a small local boutique that we
both love. Mother in law said that I can't wear
that dress because she bought the same one for her
fiftieth birthday, which is two weeks after my wedding. Mother
in law does have the dress, though in a mint
green color. There is enough detailing that it is clearly
still the same dress, and she has the receipt to
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prove she got its first. Lavish birthday parties are a
thing in our circle, so I know she has invested
serious time and money into this party. I said that
I'm still gonna wear the dress despite the fact I
could easily return it with no loss, because I didn't
do this out of malice and I love it. Mother
in law said, if she wears it two weeks after
I do, everyone is going to think she is pathetic
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and copying her son's wife. I said, I'm sorry, but
not really my problem. Everyone has gone crazy since I
said that his entire side of the family and the
friend's mother in law invited have all backed out of
the wedding, so like fifteen people and it will be noticeable.
His sisters were supposed to be in the wedding party
on his side but dropped out and have blocked him
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on everything. Wow, over a dress that either of you
could look fiftieth birthday party, wedding. The wedding is more
important than your fiftieth birthday, right.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
Am Also, like who cares? Because like they're making a
big deal over a dress and now they're like taking
sides and people are actually canceling going to the wedding,
including the bridal party. That's insane, just because over this
dress that this girl wants to wear for her wedding.
Who cares?
Speaker 1 (24:55):
Don't you know? If mother in law wears the same
dress in a different don't you know what everyone's gonna
think about her? We all have you thinking about what
everyone's gonna think about.
Speaker 2 (25:06):
Her, cause they're two separate colors. Like, I mean, it
is the same dress but in two different colors. But
who cares?
Speaker 1 (25:12):
Truly nobody. I wouldn't care or think about it if.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
Someone is wearing the same dresses me to my wedding
for some reason, Yeah, I care, But like two weeks after,
it's like none of this even matters.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
If you're hanging out with the kind of people who
would make this a big deal and you're not even
You're just not hanging out with the right people.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Yeah, And the fact that everyone cancels is just like
outrageously stupid. Yeah, Like that's just like taking in a
whole other step that doesn't even need to be that
big of a diola.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
His stepdad won't talk to him and says he regrets
raising him and he isn't a real man because a
real man would stand up for his mom. Wow. His
bio dad is even on mother in law's side, which
doesn't surprise me because they are good friends, but he
called us up to shame us. The other night, my
fiance is hurting and found out his family had a
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big beach day and invited everyone but him. He called
mother in law and they talked, but didn't come to
a resolution. She said, if I refuse to do the
right thing, the only answer is no one's going to
her party. That can go to the wedding. He tried
calling sister in law and found out she blocked him.
He is mad at me now and feels like she
had it first. Am I the a hole here?
Speaker 2 (26:25):
I don't think you're the a hole. It's your wedding.
You can wear whatever dress you want. And then also
the fact that like this guy like or this mother
in law like, it's two separate events. So why does
it matter if you if she was coming to the party,
Like if she was coming to the wedding wearing that
dress but in a different color, Yeah, that'd be a
bigger issue. But these are two separate things, two weeks
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out from each other. No one's gonna notice or care.
I don't know. Like in the fact that it has
to be like, oh, well, we're boycotting the wedding now
that is so childish over a dress over my in
my like, this is my day, and then you know
that's your day. And guess what, we can still have
the same taste on two different days.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
Oh well if you if we both end up wearing
the same dress to these different events, everyone's gonna think
I'm pathetic and I'm a loser. So I'm gonna do
the most pathetic losory thing I can do, and I'm
gonna make this into a boycott about your wedding. Yeah,
that's the most pathetic move you could make, for real,
outside of being like, actually, I'm gonna get married a
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day before you, and I'm gonna wear this dress.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
It's like, oh I bought it first, so uh, no
one else can ever wear this? Okay. Also, it doesn't
matter if it's in a different color or not, same dress.
Can't do it.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
I feel like coco cocoa post.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
That's what my mom says. Yeah, everybody, Yeah, everyone's got
a little bit. And anyway, let's let's get into these comments.
Comment one says everyone sucks here. All of you sound
difficult except possibly you're s O who was caught between
a bunch of self righteous entitled people who don't care
about the damage they do. Rub reply says this, the
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mother in law is difficult, but so is OP. You
could have been the bigger person and get another dress.
You said it yourself. You can still return it and
no big loss. Seems like OP chose to make it
more difficult and is a bit of a bridezilla. I
don't know, man, Like I think if you find a
dress so that you're like, I want that as my
wedding dress, it makes sense that you're not like, all right,
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let me just go find a different one now, Yeah,
it's like you found the one you want it. Yeah.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
I just don't understand that it's two separate events and
they're two weeks apart from each other, and they're it's
the same dress but two different colors.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
This could all be fixed by just like if anyone's like,
oh my god, didn't your daughter in law wear that
dress for her wedding, It's like, yeah, oh my god,
we both bought the dress without even realizing it. I
guess we both just have the best taste. That's it.
Instead you're like biting your nails, like, oh what if
everyone thinks I'm a ugh, Oh, what if everyone thinks
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I'm a loser. It only wears dresses that I've seen
on other people.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
Me and my daughter in law can't have the same taste.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
Oh, Bham, you'll be the laughing stalk of the country club.
Speaker 2 (29:16):
Everyone will just spit on our feet.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
And no one will be going to your wedding. Now
no one is allowed to see them dress on on
what and then they just.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
Die spontaneously combust.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
You should help your fiance out and not wear the dress.
Get a different one because you are ruining hester relationship
with hez family and yah, they are being an a
holy but he loves them and you're driving the wedge.
I can't see a good marriage from a start like this,
especially since he's mad at you. Now, shut up, dude,
no comment to info. If her party was before your
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wedding and she wore her dress, would you still wear
your dress to your wedding?
Speaker 2 (29:59):
Hope?
Speaker 1 (29:59):
He says yes. But I do get her point. There
is a lot of stereotypes about mother in law is
being jealous and creepy, and the verdict was everyone sucks here. Well,
but we do have an edit, I guess with some
more information. Yeah, mother in law has never acted like
this before, truly never. She is extremely laid back, doesn't
show emotion, not really seeking attention, which is why my
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fiance is so confused. At this point, I think the
relationship with his sisters and stepdad is beyond repair for now,
and I'm scared to have them at the wedding. To
all the people saying I should wear it to her
birthday at a MAO, but I'm banned and her ex
has already promised to act as a bouncer, not that
I'd ever crash it. There's a second edit. My dress
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is going back and I apologize to her because I
can't understand it, but something deeply hurt her. Mother in
law and my fiance are talking for the first time
in over a month. She seems exhausted and sad, but
maybe there's hope. I really don't think stepfather in law
or sister in laws will ever get over this, but
we will see. And there is an update. Op has
decided to get a new dress. Well, beans, that's.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Always just gonna be in your mind now when you
watch the wedding video and be like, oh, yeah, I
remember I wanted that dress, but I couldn't wear it
because my mother in law said no.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
At this point, everything is just now about.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
That about the dress. It's about matrimony, and I about
like what you're wearing.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
I have a comment here because I had noticed Red
Bull runas in the chat, and we have a comment
that we needed to read. You're a member milestone for
eleven months, Riley. I'm using this to say that I
absolutely love the game show and you've done a great job.
And thank you all so much for the laughs because
I've really needed them. Love y'all. Thank you, Red Bull Ruma.
Riley does do quite a good job the game show.
Speaker 3 (31:42):
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It's gonna be my first game show coming this Friday.
Speaker 3 (31:47):
It's gonna be really good.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
Murder a murder. Hey, it's Dakota, your favorite goofball host here,
and we're gonna get back to the stories. But here's
three minutes of ads from our sponsors. So I posted
here a few more months ago about my mother in
law wanting to wear the same dress to her fiftieth
as I bought for my wedding. She did have the
dress first and receipts to prove it. I got a
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lot of mixed feedback and ultimately decided to return the dress.
It clearly triggered something massive for her. We got married
a month ago and mother in law did agree to
come after originally refusing. Stepfather in law, the man who
raised my husband, would not be swayed, and sister in
laws have him blocked on everything and did not want
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to hear it. What a bunch of sorry. I just
was like, who cares? Who cares? That's it.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
We didn't want you wear in this dress. We hate
you now, blocked because.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
She looked better than her sister did, where I kind
of wondered if she was going to pull something crazy,
which isn't really her style, but this whole thing has
been crazy. She was very quiet and just hung out
with her ex. Mother in law and my husband have
talked a little, and she just isn't in the frame
of mind for a relationship right now. She is extremely
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hurt and I don't get it, but she obviously needs
her space. She barely spoke during the wedding. I actually
reached out to stepfather in law, which probably wasn't my place,
but he said we didn't see her sobbing in his arms.
We can't get what we did to her. I know,
I got a lot of pushback on my decision to
return the dress and people saying it's just a birthday,
but it really isn't. Yeah, she might get one every year,
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but a massive party for her fifty first just seems
a little odd. I remember my mom's fiftieth and how
much she put into that. It was like a wedding.
Mother in law invited us to her party after uninviting
us and her ex pledging to play security. Ultimately we
decided not to go because of how angry stepfather in
law and both sister in laws are, and stepfather in
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law admitted he was uncomfortable at the thought of seeing us.
It was too much for my husband to see his
whole family. There there's a little bit more story left here.
Your mother in law was so emotional that she poisoned
her husband and sisters. Yeah, what did she do?
Speaker 2 (34:02):
I feel like this whole thing was so blown out
of proportion for what Because you both liked to dress,
Get over it. I know who cares.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
Literally could have just been like, oh my god, we
both have such great tastes.
Speaker 2 (34:14):
That would have been it. But nope, we have la
early nails. The fact that a dress is ruining an
entire family is crazy. I would I would tell them that.
I'd be like, listen, let's just back up, zoom out
for a second, and let's see the real The real
issue here is that you didn't want me to buy
this dress, and now the entire family is falling apart
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because of this. That's insane. Just think about that for
a second.
Speaker 1 (34:39):
If I may, if I may curse, if I may go,
I mean yeah, I mean yeah, what a fuck ass family.
In the words of Kim Fine, well what are they
doing over there? Yeah, so she had her party over
the weekend, and yes, I social media snooped a little bit.
It looked great, she looked really happy. I met peace
that I didn't get my dream dress. And and as
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for us, my husband is going to therapy to heal
from the grief. He's realized he needs to respect his sisters.
And they're serious. The younger one broke down sobbing and said,
I did the right thing. He didn't do anything, and
she can't forgive him for just letting their mom get hurt.
I still don't totally get it, but it's okay. Mother
in law doesn't express feelings so for some reason, this
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was her ill to make her last stand on She
doesn't seem too interested in a relationship, so they'll have
the occasional text, I guess, and everything's over. I'm happy
she has a good party, and I'm looking forward to
my husband healing and to the rest of our lives.
All right, and that is the end of that story.
Speaker 3 (35:38):
I think she got a priority straight.
Speaker 1 (35:40):
None of that had to happen at all, Right, what
the whole family over there has got to be like
wrapped around the mother in law's you know, the whims
because it's like, I don't even what was he supposed
to do? So you're gonna keep your own brother cut
off because he didn't what like throw his fiance into
the ocean for wanting the same dress, Like okay, cool,
Like you didn't do a ritualistic Mayan sacrifice on your
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fiance because she made your mom cry, which I don't know.
Did we forget that we're all responsible for our own
feelings and our own emotions all the time. That's our
responsibility as people.
Speaker 2 (36:14):
Lawyer Princess says, I feel like this is meniphos.
Speaker 1 (36:18):
They could be awesome, As she says, they're going to
divorce in a year. Yeah, could be my worm blanket.
This story is so ing cringe. What a crappy family.
That was wild.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
My mother in law braided me for breast feeding, so
I retaliated.
Speaker 1 (36:32):
You put those breasts away right now.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
I'm a single mom with an eighteen month old and
a three week.
Speaker 3 (36:38):
Old, both on both on the milk, both on the milk, both.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
On my human milk. Yes, and these babies they eat
human milk exclusively from the source.
Speaker 2 (36:49):
My oldest is feeding up to five or six times
a day and baby is feeding every two to three hours,
sometimes more often.
Speaker 1 (36:58):
Dude, how do you do it?
Speaker 2 (36:59):
Base? My my bags are no longer my property, and
wearing anything that makes it difficult to pull them out
at a moment's notice is not an option. So no
brawl and very loose tank tops are my life. That's
mean I don't I don't feed.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
By the way, this comes from am I the a
whole bread boob.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
If you want to submit your old stories, go to
the odd slash Okay story time Summer and I had.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
To give some good advice.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
Goofly, we don't have all the answers. We only tell
you what we would do.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
In this situation.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
But let us know what you would do done in
the comments.
Speaker 1 (37:35):
Yeah, sh.
Speaker 2 (37:43):
Okay, As Opie says to the issue, my toddler has
been sick and so I'm very tired. I was feeding
the baby when there was a knock at my door.
I've been expecting my friend over, so I didn't think
twice about opening it, bags out looking at hot miss.
Sadly it was not my friend and instead my ex
mother and sister in law. Sister in law guess it
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made a whole deal of turning away, whereas her mom
looked on displease. So you have two reactions here, and
one was like ah, and the other one's.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
Like how dare you? How dare you open your door?
Put those away?
Speaker 2 (38:19):
Once, of course, my toddler decided this was the optimal
time to start crying, which disrupted and already upset baby,
who stopped latching, and thus my nip was on.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Show to the world. Did a little did a little?
Can can?
Speaker 2 (38:35):
I basically left them in the doorway while I got
my boys situated. I tried to avoid breastfeeding my toddler
in front of them, but he was not having it,
so it was essentially just me walking them back out
and locking the door so I could feed them both
in peace. For some reason, they didn't leave, and when
my friend showed up, they walked in with her. Friend
has a spare key, and I don't know why I
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thought she was at the door in the first place.
I handed baby off because he was done, but realized
my toddler wouldn't be done for a while, so I
succumbed to my fate. Sister in law was still looking
very uncomfortable, and I was expecting some form of judgment
for still feeding my son, which I got. Can always
count on the mother in law. After she finished, I
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hoped she'd just leave, but then she made a rather
appalling comment, No wonder X left you When you're slewing
yourself around like that. Anyone could have been at that
door and you're off swinging your bags about.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
Right, Yeah, because this is definitely the sultry I'm I'm
on the market, trying to sell myself, look disheveled with
a baby on my hip and another one crying that
it wants to drink my chest milk. My chest milk.
That's how you get a man in this day and age.
Speaker 2 (39:50):
I at this point broke down crying. Oh. My friend,
who was upstairs putting the baby down, thankfully took charge
of the situation. She got rid of them, convinced my
toddler into his bed, and then we watched movies and
ate ice cream until babe woke up. I sort of
hoped that would be the end of it, but I
opened up my phone to an array of messages from
my ex, my own parents, and the other sister in law.
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They were all essentially sloot shaming me for feeding my baby,
saying that anyone could have seen me, that some kid
who doesn't need to see that could have been at
the door, and even going as far as saying I
could have distracted drivers and caused a crash.
Speaker 1 (40:29):
Dang. So it's just going, whoa, what are they unroll
like a red carpet, one of those bazangas. They're like
one hundred feet long. It's like, yeah, someone could have
tripped on those walking across the street. These people, I
would I would laugh. I don't know what I would do.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
I would laugh, Yeah, I'd be like, okay, cool, well
I guess what I'll.
Speaker 1 (40:52):
Do it again. These are the people that are like,
who's coming next?
Speaker 2 (40:54):
The Amazon driver, He's in first.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
Show, I would send them on a snipe hunt.
Speaker 2 (40:59):
I'm starting to really doubt myself, so my friend guided
me here. She's insisting that I'm not in the wrong
and seems to think you guys will agree, and if
you do, I plan on showing the comments to my
ex and his family. So am I an a hole
for not putting away my bags before answering the door?
There's an update. I don't think you are the a hole.
I think you can do whatever you want with your body.
And also I don't know, like they know what's in
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for I guess I don't know.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
Yeah, I mean there may they the way that they're acting.
They're acting like you just came to the door fully,
like unclothed, unprompted, cranking your hog or something, and it's
like that is so far away from reality now that
would be not okay. And no matter who you're expecting,
can't answer the door like that, OP has done nothing wrong.
Speaker 2 (41:44):
I have two options here. I could entertain the people
who just randomly showed up at my house, or I
could take care of my child who's hungry. Hmmm, I
don't know, yah.
Speaker 1 (41:55):
And it's also like, why are you here?
Speaker 2 (41:57):
Yeah, like they didn't even call ahead, say anything, or
if they would have made a plan, she would have
done it beforehand. But it's just the fact that like boom.
Speaker 1 (42:05):
You popped in unannounced.
Speaker 3 (42:06):
Here's my thing. These are two women confronting another woman.
I could maybe see the argument of a guy being
uncomfortable and he has to have an uncomfortable talk with her.
Girls support girls? What happened to that?
Speaker 2 (42:16):
Be a girls girl just saying.
Speaker 3 (42:17):
Fully support breast feeding.
Speaker 1 (42:19):
By the way, Riley supports all breasts and all feeding.
Speaker 3 (42:23):
No, not all feeding, breastfeeding, breast and feeding together. I
support it. Oh, there's some types of feeding I do
not support.
Speaker 1 (42:30):
Riley supports feeding on.
Speaker 3 (42:31):
Breasts no matter how old you want.
Speaker 1 (42:34):
Powdered milk. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (42:35):
Also yeah, wait, just some whatever your name is. She's
in her own house. Yeah, Like it's not like she
was somewhere else and she just answered the door like that,
Like this is her own home. She can do what
she wants.
Speaker 1 (42:47):
Yeah. Like she took a front page add out on
the news and was like check it out everybody, Yeah,
who check out these bobs?
Speaker 3 (42:58):
Oh, check out you.
Speaker 2 (43:00):
So it's been a little bit of time since my
previous post. And I'm just here to say huge thanks
to all the comments. A lot of you guys really
helped me realize where I needed help. Shortly after my
post was made, I contacted my ex and essentially asked
if you wanted to actually play a part in our kids'
lives or not. He said he didn't want to, and
we had a long, long conversation about our feelings. We're
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on good terms now and he's starting a new job
in August, so we'll deal with everything legally. Then freeze.
I set up my ring doorbell camera. I did have
one in storage but had just never gotten around to
setting it up, and now I'm much more careful with
who I answered the door to. I also contacted my
parents one final time to let them know that I'm
no longer having contact with them and let them have
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one photo of my boys.
Speaker 1 (43:44):
Your own parents, Yeah, weren't these your ex in laws?
Speaker 3 (43:47):
They were the x in lawseum, what did your parents do?
Speaker 2 (43:51):
They also, well, the ex contact or the ex sister
law and mother contacted them and they also were like
why you Oh, so she's like whatever, I'll just cut
everyone out of my life.
Speaker 1 (44:01):
Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 2 (44:02):
They took it very well. Considering it all, I did
have to take the step of cutting my siblings off
as well, but as much as I love them, I
need to prioritize myself and my babies. I met up
with my excess family to let them know that if
they ever set foot in my house again, I'd call
the police and told them they won't ever have contact
with my children as far as I and my X
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are concerned. They don't have a father and thus have
no paternal family. They were upset, but let it go
and I did breastfeed both my kids in the park
just despite them, which felt quite good.
Speaker 1 (44:35):
Nice.
Speaker 3 (44:35):
Hey, this is Riley the host. I can't really read that. Well,
we're gonna get back to the stories, but here's three
minutes worth of ads from our sponsors.
Speaker 2 (44:43):
I just don't understand how, like, it's really not that
big of a deal. People need like babies need fed,
and that's you can either do formula or you could
do the natural way. It does not matter. Would you
rather have a screaming, crying baby or would you rather
it be fed properly? Just maybe in a not I
don't I don't even know.
Speaker 1 (45:00):
What to say, man, I think like an conventional way.
Open needs to grow up. Teachers stupid little babies how
to eat normal food like regular people, like a steak
and mashed potatoes, and then send them off to the
steakhouse where they can have their baby little business meetings
and they can start earning some income for this family.
(45:21):
Gosh darn it, yeah, because this is getting ridiculous. These
babies need to start carrying their weight and they can't
just be latched onto your boobucles all day long, baby gulls.
All right, you let them out of the nest. All right,
this is getting ridiculous. Well we got a little bit more.
Put those babies in suits and each give them, give
them each three accounts, and tell them to get after it.
Speaker 2 (45:41):
In better news, the friend I mentioned in my previous
post is moving in with us. Initially it was for
financial reasons, but a little something something is sort of happening.
Betweet us suck. Oh no, even if that fizzles out,
I feel safer with a second person. My kids have fun,
financial stability, and a second parent, which I think all
(46:03):
kids deserve.
Speaker 1 (46:05):
Well, let's pump the brakes on considering this person parent
number two already, Right, that's maybe a little too fast.
We're constructing that reality a little too early. I think
maybe we'll start as friend then we'll maybe we can
broach the water of parent number.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
Two Turkey little something sum's happening? Yeah, who knows?
Speaker 1 (46:25):
Gotta be more than a little something something for parent
number two status.
Speaker 2 (46:28):
After everything legal is settled, we're planning to move out
of state. We were both saving separately for a house,
and my ex wound up giving me most of the
funds we'd saved. He is inheriting his father's house and
doesn't want me and the kids to constantly be at
risk of eviction. With both sets of savings, in a
year or so, we should be able to move into
a decently sized house. And we're already planning on getting
(46:49):
a dog. Whoa all right. The plan is to be
moved and settled by July twenty two so the boys
can have their first proper summer in a yard that's
big enough to play in. Kids will have a better
life than I had, And this is just the start
of how perfect it's going to be. So that's it.
Thank you all again. That's the end.
Speaker 1 (47:08):
So that's it. We're gonna have a perfect life together.
Me and my husband and our children, and except there's
no husband because we divorced, and there's maybe a little
something something going on with my friend.
Speaker 2 (47:20):
That's exactly it actually nailed it and everything's perfect. But
that is the end of that story.
Speaker 1 (47:26):
Awesome.
Speaker 3 (47:26):
We got some comments.
Speaker 1 (47:27):
I can lick my mustache now, I'm at mustache licking length.
Speaker 2 (47:30):
Ew.
Speaker 1 (47:31):
What, No, it's not gross, it's nice. It's nice.
Speaker 2 (47:34):
No, I just don't think of licking hair.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
It's just no brooch.
Speaker 2 (47:38):
No, no, no, no, no brooch alert.
Speaker 1 (47:39):
That is right. I dropped a brooch kim fine. Nice
broach alert. Broach tasting. Uh thieves are comments from the
video my officiant sabotage my wedding face, storm my bouquet.
And this was posted on February seventeenth, twenty twenty. See it.
Speaker 3 (47:56):
This is the fourth story.
Speaker 1 (47:57):
In that this is the TLDR for the fourth story.
Opie's boyfriend said he would only marry her with a
prenup that protected all of his family's money and property.
He wanted her to move into a house his parents owned,
with no real ownership or say. He also hinted he
was scared she was after his money. Opie did not
want to feel like a guest in her own marriage,
(48:18):
or like she had to prove she was not a
gold digger. When she talked to his parents, they were
shocked and said that was not what they wanted at all.
Her boyfriend later admitted he was insecure and afraid of
losing her. He suddenly changed his mind and offered everything
she had ever asked for. But after months of feeling
small and unwanted, OPI realized she could not unhear what
(48:39):
he said. So even though it hurts, she is walking away.
If you're curious to know the full story, you can
go watch the full video. Although that felt pretty complete
right there, Yeah, yeah, maybe a little too complete.
Speaker 3 (48:50):
Lauren mcgird mcgirty says that was a predatory prenup thing
is there had to be a version where they both
felt safe with an animal compromises on his end, with
him still working and growing their marital assets, wanting to
protect his family wealth. A gold digger would object to that,
and she never did. But I'm getting fifty percent of
(49:11):
what was largely money she made would be totally unfair
while he was protected. Also, him changing his mind would
be one hundred percent. After his parents blasted his butt
for throwing away a woman with the same money values
and worth ethic as he was raised with.
Speaker 1 (49:26):
What a fool he was, food fool in the rain,
fooling rain, Babe.
Speaker 3 (49:32):
Girl god Deadhead says story four. So from how she
describes the pre knop, whatever assets he has before the
marriage are rightfully his, and he is also intending not
to work and live off the inheritance. But once they
are married, he's screwing her because they could get divorced.
Whatever she's made during the marriage would be half of
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her stuff. He was ensuring that she would just get
financially crippled, and he's out on top. And in the
last comment here from smile fifty two, he's saying personally,
that's his parents' money's and assets. You know, very screwed
up situation there.
Speaker 1 (50:08):
Don't just marry for money.
Speaker 2 (50:10):
But that's the end of that story and the end
of this episode. So if you love us, make sure
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Hey, this is Riley and this is Dakota, your favorite
Okay Storytime hosts, and we've got some great stories coming up.
But before that, we have a quick two minute break
from the sponsors that keep the show alive. My husband
and I have an open marriage and my sister in
law discovered it accidentally.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Well, does she wanna also join?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I'm married to Ryan, who has a chronic illness that
rules his life. We have a somewhat open relationship. Ryan
cannot perform spy Silly Sleep very often due to his illness,
and the days where he can, it kicks off incredible fatigue.
I'd rather we be able to go for a walk
together or go out and do something most of the time,
and so would he. We have been together for fifteen
(00:42):
years and in the past seven have had spicey sleep
five times.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Wait how many years?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Seven?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Seven years and only five times.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
It's like zero point eight times per year.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
It's enough for some That was how do you do
that math so quick? Yeah? How did you do that quick? Rightly?
By the way, this comes from you. There's your classic
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a yap about this story and maybe provide a little insight.
(01:14):
But you know what, we don't know everything. So tell
us what you would do in the comments, because you're
the smartest person I've ever met. Op says, probably six
years ago, Ryan offered to open up the marriage for me.
I was hesitant for a very very long time, like
a bit three years after his first offer. Wow, but
I do have my own needs. Over the past years,
(01:36):
I've had two other men who I've had this spicy
ibit with, and a nurse Greg and college professor Sam.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Stop it, so.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
You're having segs segs. That's Sam and greggainst getting your
shreg on. They always knew the situation up front, and
both men have been incredibly respectful.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
Wait, sorry, sorry about tell about tell about to much?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Mom?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Nurse nurse?
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Nurse, nurse Greg.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Yeah, husband has cancer. He goes to the hospital a lot.
Do you think he picked up on it?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Does he have cancer? He just hasn't note, he just
has an illness.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Illness. Anyways, he has an illness. Yes, he ordered the
doctor a lot, and maybe his nurse was Sam Greg Greg.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Come on anyways, I think, yeah, this could be a
very fortuitous ooh, good word, you're banking and boys, he's
you know, he's taken. He's taken Roy please husband's temperature.
At the same time, he's giving him a check up.
He's checking in pause, checking in to op, and checking
up on her husband, going far more respectful than I.
(02:35):
Most likely they know from the star that I would
never leave Ryan and that he will always be my priority.
A few weeks ago, the college professor Sam and I
would at a restaurant after we'd had spicy sleep mixing,
mixing up the orders. I see. We were being a
little goofy, and my sister in law happened to catch
us while she was out with her daughter. I didn't
know until much later when I was added to a
(02:56):
group chat, where I was immediately confronted and told what
a disgusting, horrible person I am for cheating. They all
took turns reaming me out and saying all kinds of
things to me about how heartless I am. When the
messages slowed down, I told them Ryan knows we have
an open marriage. I explained a little bit more. They
all started apologizing, except my sister in law, who then
(03:18):
tore into me for keeping this a secret and making
it seem like it was something it wasn't. I heard
her out, but told her that the adult thing to
do would have been to confront me one on one
so I could tell her and she wouldn't have embarrassed
herself like this, agreed, Yeah, that's that's what she's a
group chat. She's trying to be like, wow, wow, wow,
So because you didn't tell us that you had an
(03:39):
open marriage for the past seven years, like uh, or
I guess no, for the past four years, a couple
of years. Yeah, that's not none of your business.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Ever heard of anyone getting out in a group chat
for cheating?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Not like this? No, No, that's a good point. Yeah,
and then she still keeps on going but well, no,
this is still your fault and you're wrong. Hmmm. She
said that she shouldn't have to and that it was
degenerate behavior to begin with. Of course, she's insisting this
is entirely my fault. I've always had some difficulty seeing
(04:10):
beyond my own perspective, so really, am I to be clear?
I mean that we haven't told anyone. I don't care
what anyone thinks about the open relationship itself. There's an update.
What are you supposed to send out like an RSVP?
Like a Save the date? Hey, hey, hey, family, just
wanted to let everyone know I'm having relations with other
men who aren't my husband. So if you catch me
(04:31):
out with one of them, don't worry. Everything's fine, And
also send me presents happy boinking other men adversary Boink
Boink boink, Happy men boink Day.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Happy blink point.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
We're moving. We're moving to men Buinkistan.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Oh no, No, this is kind of weird. How would
you bring this up? Do they need to know?
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Psychopath? But made it in a group chat immediately.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
I feel like they didn't like it was none of
their business, and now it is their business because obviously
they found out. But it's not like this will isn't
meant to hurt anyone, and obviously there's an arrangement in mind,
and nobody has to be a part of their marriage
except them.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
So I happened to be there Greg.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
We didn't even get to Greg yet, sarg Really on Sam.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
There's an update. My sister in law, Cleo tried to
tell me that nobody wanted me around for Mother's Day.
She insisted I drop off my husband, her brother, and
if I came with him, she would make it everyone's problem.
Everyone loves the person who makes all of the problems
everyone's problem.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
FUD, How FUD to do that on brother's Day.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
My husband Ryan said that he wanted me to be
there as well, and he knew my mother in law
would also want that. Ryan is aware of my conflict
with Cleo, as he was dragged into it. He is
disabled and she believes she needs to protect him from me.
It stems from her not approving of our open marriage
and not trusting Ryan's lived experience. She tried to confront
me over it and ended up looking foolish. I'm sure
(05:54):
it is partially a bruised ego. Well, Cleo told me
that I'd better not show up and ruin everyone's die.
I have a good relationship with my mother in law,
and I made her a little stained glass piece of Lilax,
her favorite flower.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
My plan was to arrive with Ryan, seek out mother
in law to give her the gift and make sure
that she did want me there. I'd leave if she
didn't because it's her day, not Cleo's. We showed up.
Mother in law was very happy to see us, hugged
us both, and brought us inside. I gave her my gift.
She loved it and immediately put it up in her
kitchen window. Ah Cleo cornered me and asked me why
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I'd shown up when she clearly told me not to come,
and said that mother in law deserved a nice time
with her children without interlopers. My phrasing hers was more colorful, colorful, calorful.
She continued to dig it me to the point that
mother in law asked her why. Cleo said that she'd
warned me not to come. Do not come, do not come.
(06:52):
Don't you do it. I see what you're trying to
do here. Mother in law asked Cleo to knock it off.
Cleo doubled down and said that I am the problem,
not her. Mother in law more firmly told her to
knock it off, and whatever is going on between us,
it's just between us. Cleo became very angry about that,
grabbed her person. Left The rest of us relaxed, but
(07:14):
the vibe shifted for all our real ones out there,
boinking dudes who aren't your husband? Your husband knows about
it and is cool with it. You've only boinked him
in the last you know, five times in the last
seven years. Where are you at? Where are you at?
And also they're on Reddit apparently, how do we you know?
How do we make Cleo calm down?
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Should we inform the mother in law at all? Because
there's gonna be tension within this family because Cleo knows.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Well, I think get ahead of it. I assume she
would have been involved in the group chat. Yeah, when
Cleo was.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Like, never yet, and she said that everyone was understood a.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Dirty, disgusting lady. And then she's just like, no, my
husband is ill and we can't boink, so I boink
other people and he's cool with that.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
He gave me permission to boink, so therefore I bink.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
And then and then Cleo is basically just like, wow,
well this is now. Now I'm mad at you because
I should have known this already and then I wouldn't
have looked foolish by making a group chat exposing you,
and instead I did nothing.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Yeah, how do we feel about Cleo?
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Guys? I want her to go away. I feel terrible
about putting a dark cloud over Mother's Day. Ryan said
that it's okay. Cleo was the one with the issue,
and she's alienating the family by thinking she knows best.
He said he would try to talk to her again,
but last time he tried, she wouldn't listen. The next day,
Cleo sent me several long messages that can be summed
(08:34):
up with I do not trust you, and I will
prove to everyone that you are now good and you
ruined about their stay. Was I really the wrong party
in this situation for showing up knowing Cleo would say
or do something. I mean, she did warn me, and
I showed up anyway, even if she was the one
to leave. In the end, Cleo is her daughter, not me,
and that is the end of that story. Is it
(08:55):
your fault that Cleo is an uppity bothersome difficult person
who makes all of her up. But he bothers some
difficult problems everyone else's problems. No, I would say, No,
that's not your fault. No, no, no, that's not really
on you.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
Take responsibility, Cleopatra.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
That's not really on you. Guys. Oh Van campanaitour says
arnr clear, go to get Becky Luuda nor oh, khleiarla,
you never watch that.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
No, I never made show Mermaid show.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Yeah H two O H two O. Wait it's either
H two O or it was H two Old Marine.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
Yeah, H two O was the show.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Aquamarine is the movie which one takes place in Australia.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
BofA think Achamarine takes place and oh wait there is
a blank hold on, I'll be right back.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Are you gonna get a blanket?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
I want one, Give me a blanket, give me a
link and I want a blanky. My son's girlfriend stole
from us and convinced him it was our fault.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
I mean, it is kind of your fault. You got
caught lacking.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Our son and daughter in law twenty six year old
have been together for two years and lived together. We've
always thought she's a very nice girl and she seems
to make my son happy, so no problem from us.
Our son has his own law firm that he's currently
trying to get started. We're very proud of him, and
we're fortunate enough to help him with a startup loan.
Daughter in law works a retail job that she's very
(10:13):
happy with. By the way, this comes from Imaginary Net
twenty three seventy nine and if you want to submit
your own stories, go to the r slash okay storytime subreddit.
And we he had to give some good advice school fully,
but we don't have all the answers. We don't need it,
or we would only tell you what we would do
in this situation. Let us know what you would do
in the comments. EPI says, some time ago, husband and
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I were over at their apartment and we decided to
order some food. Husband and I wanted to pay, and
since daughter in law were ordering from her phone, we
gave her our card so she could draw the money
from our account. We thought it goes without saying this
was to draw an amount once.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
For the lunch.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
However, daughter in law apparently put our card into her
Apple pay and has been using it since.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
Don't you have to like approve that before it will work.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
No, you just gotta put the card in and then
it's all like face id after that.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Oh yeah, yep, right, don't tell the children.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Uh oh, I have my mom so much pully up
and you just outed yourself, bro, No, I don't use her.
We're calling the police right now.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
We didn't notice for some months, but recently saw withdrawals
we didn't recognize. We had our accountant look into it,
and he discovered that one daughter in law has been
using her card on her phone, and that too, she's
spent around seventeen K. Oh my goo, whoa, that's crazy, oh, doyal.
(11:37):
I would think it would be like maybe hundreds.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Yeah, like maybe like twenty one hundred dollars yeah, but.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
Not seventeen K is crazy. I don't even know.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
How do you even spend that much on? What?
Speaker 2 (11:50):
What are you spending it on?
Speaker 1 (11:51):
She needed that burkin for real.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
You buy something here, you buy something there, Amazon, blah
blah blah bla blah blah blah.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
I don't know. I keep track of it, so I'm
not like, oh, actually I just spend a million dollars.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Oops.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
We were quite shocked and called her up and asked
why the heck she's been using her card. She got
very defensive tries to deny it, and eventually said she
was entitled to it and why do we care since
we haven't noticed her use it for over four months.
We told her she needed to pay us back immediately
or we'd report her actions for theft.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
She spent seventeen K and four months, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
I mean, I don't even yeah to.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
Go to How much does the most expensive Starbucks drink
thirty dollars? No, it was one hundred and forty eight dollars?
Speaker 1 (12:33):
What oh yeah, because they got like twenty eight shots
of espress, because they got enough espresso to kill an elephant.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
You have to have one of those every single day.
That's your Starbe's drink.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
That's what I need to get my day started.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
I can't with espresso. My heart goes pump pum.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Don't talk to me until I've had my morning eight
thousand milligrams of.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
Forty eight shots of expresso.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Don't talk to me.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
She apparently doesn't have the money to pay us back.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
Well, well that's why she's been stealing from you, genius.
Are you saying, stupid the thief who stole from us
doesn't have the money she stole to pay us backy
crazy that She's like, well, I mean, you didn't notice
I was stealing from you, so I should be allowed
to get away with it. She didn't even notice until now.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
We've gone to our son and he's offered to pay
us back, even though he actually cannot afford to. This
isn't about the money for us, but more about the
fact that she's stolen a huge amount of money. While
we aren't comfortable and it took us time to notice,
we still recognize the seriousness of stealing seventeen thousand US dollars.
Our son has completely dismissed her behavior and excused it
(13:39):
as her being stressed. I'm stressed and I don't go
and spend seventeen k in four months. That would stress
me out more.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
That's not really a stress relief kind of situation retail therapy,
especially when it's with someone else's money.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
Well, you don't have the stress of it being on you.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
Nothing beats a jet to holiday.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
She's take no responsibility and we're honestly wanting to go
forward with the police report to teach her consequences to
her actions. Would we be the a holes for doing this?
And there isn't edit they aren't married. Referring to her
as daughter in law is just easier for the sake
of storytelling. And there are some comments, I think this
girl is a liar and she stole your money.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Yeah, I think if she can't pay back the seventeen thousand,
she's in college, right, No, they're all twenty, they're about
twenty six.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
As a twenty six year old, you just stole seventeen
thousand dollars from your parents. You set up a monthly plan.
How much a month could you give or what do
you think OP should give a month?
Speaker 1 (14:41):
Fifteen dollars fifteen dollars, No.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
I'd say like two hundred a month.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
Seventeen hundred a month.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Fifteen dollars a month would take seven point eight years.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
And then would you say I said two hundred a month.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Two hundred a month.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
I feel like that's like reasonable, That's what I pay for,
like carn shuck.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
That would take seven years.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
Deuce, so to either if you do fifteen or two hundred,
I think.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Ninety four years. Actually, yeah, ninety four and yours is
seven years.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
You should do ten percent of the debt per month?
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Oh, one k per month?
Speaker 3 (15:15):
Ten percent seventeen I don't think she has that.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Much seventeen how much? How much is ten percent?
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Seventeen hundred?
Speaker 1 (15:22):
I don't do may were you? We just did the
math in front of you.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Yeah, it's not that you don't. It's okay that you
don't do math. We'll do it. For you. You just
don't listen to us.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
We were right here and we did it.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
I even double checked him because I wasn't sure, and
then he told me again twice.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
I didn't hear any of that, did you hear?
Speaker 1 (15:40):
No? No, no, no, no, no no, this is this
literally life.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
No, no, you know what I was thinking. I was
reading the comments, and then I was also like, how
much do I spend? Do I spend a lot of money?
What do I have to spend? I need to go
do my room. I need to do that. Like it
just spirals.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Yeah, we could tell anyways, back to it.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
Comment number one, I work in law enforcement. If you
report this to the police, they will take a report
and forward charges to the DA. Usually then the credit
card cancels the debit portion as fraudulent. If you just
choose to sue her civilly, you will still be liable
for the debt, and even if you get a judgment,
she may not pay it. I wouldn't give her any
special pass to avoid criminal charges. Coming number two says,
(16:22):
not the a hole. Here's your unhappy situation. You can
either get the police involved, go nuclear, hope for a
felony conviction. Hope your son wakes up with the humiliation
and you save him. Or wait the ten years or
so before your son comes to a sentence and they
get divorced after two children and a mortgage, financially ruining
your son for the next twenty years. Those are your
(16:43):
two choices. Either gonuclear and fight like heck for him
to wake the f up, or let go and be
prepared for his ultimate ruination in ten years. Personally, I
would try everything in my power to save my son,
even if it meant I could fail and he wouldn't
talk to me for ten years.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
I would try to not let my son blow up
his entire life and ruin it forever. But that's just me,
me personally. I think that commenter me personally. After painting
this picture, I think that's how I would paint it.
But yeah, she needs to this needs to be like
on a record. Yeah, this needs to be a prosecutable offense.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
Type one if you believe it should be on a record.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
Well, she also just doesn't show any remorse and she's like, well, yeah,
you gave me your card one time and that's your fault.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
As soon as she had doubled down and been like,
well it shouldn't even matter. Like you guys didn't even
notice for four months? Uh, would we like pay it
back tomorrow or do my sign nuclear? No, that didn't
really sound like a it's not really it's not that good.
But yeah, go to jail. You go to jail. You
go to jail. You go to jail.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
Now, do not get you make wine in the toilet.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Oh yeah, you go to jail, make wine into toilet, y'all.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
It's what parents do for their children. We try to
save them. Sometimes it means we need to run into
a burning building and there's an update. We were utterly
and completely shocked with our son's nonchalant way of handling this,
and at a loss. We desperately wanted to fight for
our son, but since initial confrontation, he had been avoiding us.
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We decided we would take the advice and call the
police to press charges.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
Oh wow.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
However, we wanted to let our son know before doing so.
Husband and I decided to show up at his office
since he had been ignoring our calls and texts. I
know this might sound boundary crossing to some, but we
desperately wanted to talk to our son. Initially, he got
angry and asked us to leave, but he calmed down
and agreed to hear us out. We told him our
side of the story, and, to say the least, he
was shocked. He apologized profusely, cried a little, and begged
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for forgiveness. He told us he was blinded by love,
working fourteen hours a day and under the impression we
had gifted his girlfriend the money. Yeah, okay, that's understandable
now his reaction she died too, Yeah, because she lied
and said no, they gave me the money. I don't
know why they're asking for it back all of a sudden,
and he's like, oh, that is weird, you know, But
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now they're like, no, actually, uh, she took that when
we paid for lunch the one time and since then
has been spending all this money for four months.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Would also be upset if I was like, wait, they
gave you seventeen thousand dollars and you didn't tell me
about it until right now, right, because I assume she
didn't just say that immediately. Yeah, after the truth was revealed.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
Yeah, true, I'd be like, wait, why were they giving
you seventeen k.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
So I'm just sick. I'm so cool.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
His girlfriend had apparently told him that we wanted to
spoil her as our future daughter in law, and that
we gave her carte blanc to buy herself nice things.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
Okay, no, it's carte blanche you I mean, I guess
it's carte blanche.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
To buy herself nice things as a way to welcome
her to the family, and that we'd since changed our
minds on her and now wanted all the money back,
knowing she can't afford it. She had told him that
we did that as a manipulative way to force her
out of his life to try and control him. He
was also under the impression she'd spent maybe three to
five K, not seventeen k oh low Wood. He was
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livid and was actually the one who, in the end
convinced us to.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
Pursue legal action.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
He actually helped us call the police right then and
there at his office after our talk. We then went
with him home and helped him pack all her stuff
before she came home. Wow, she wasn't on the lease,
living rent free, so kicking her out was no issue.
We offered to stay with him for the blow up,
but he wanted to handle it on his own. From
what he's told me, she didn't take this lightly. Well, yeah,
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I wouldn't either.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
This was a lot of money. You could buy a
really nice used car for this.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
You could buy new parents for seventeen thousand wait at
the parents store in Japan.
Speaker 3 (20:54):
Probably she's usually the other way around that, and that's
that's not the good way.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
He had to call the replacements interesting.
Speaker 3 (21:01):
We'll put a pin in that.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
You'd want to ideally spend more than seventeen thousand on
parents like.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
You, maybe one one thousand one parent for seventeen care.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Yeah, there's a little bit left. What do we think.
I think this girl's out.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Yah.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
I think she's done for stealing money.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
I think the marriage is going to continue in prison.
I don't think the marriage will continue in the prison system.
Would have to agree with that. That's my honest evaluation.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
So our son's ex has now been pressed with charges
and we are waiting for their information. Like some of
you pointed out, it's a sufficient amount, and she's been
pressed with criminal charges. Our bank has also been informed
and we're told she'll likely get our money back. She
blew up on the entire family, but no one but
our other daughter in law is taking her side. Other
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daughter in law is a whole story for another time perhaps,
but we are now glad to officially announce that we
are thief free in the family. We appreciate all your feedback, advice,
and engagement.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
That's all.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Wait, I want to.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Know, daughter in law other daughter in law's free family?
Speaker 2 (22:04):
What's with the daughter in laws in this family fiefdom?
Speaker 3 (22:07):
The sons have a type?
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Yeah, don't for like, I don't understand how you're supposed
to reason.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
She stole my heart and seventeen thousand dollars of my parents' money.
Oh no, stole my heart first beat boot bop, Beat
boot Bob.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
That's what counts, all right, Well, that's the in that one.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Yay.
Speaker 3 (22:24):
They definitely got to type them sons.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
That's the end of that story, and we got it
all my come arah up.
Speaker 1 (22:29):
I refuse to give up my dream wedding dress despite
my in laws not attending.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Well, I wouldn't give it up either. I want the
dress and I'm wearing it.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
I'm in a lot of turmoil right now, and it
feels like everything is falling apart. I have never had
a great relationship with my future mother in law. It
isn't terrible, but I can sense that she doesn't like me.
My fiance is very close to his family, so there
has been some tension. By the way, this comes from
user throwaway. Am I the whole bride and if you
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want to submit your own stories, go to the r
slash Okay storytime subverured it and do p says. I
didn't invite mother in law to a wedding dress shopping
because our relationship is awkward, but I thought I would
show her a picture to make her feel included. My
dress is a beautiful, flowy, beachy dress, a fun we've
gotten official fund rating fawn two funds up, but not
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technically a wedding dress and could be ordered in color.
I bought it from a small local boutique that we
both love. Mother in law said that I can't wear
that dress because she bought the same one for her
fiftieth birthday, which is two weeks after my wedding. Mother
in law does have the dress, though in a mint
green color. There is enough detailing that it is clearly
still the same dress, and she has the receipt to
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prove she got its first. Lavish birthday parties are a
thing in our circle, so I know she has invested
serious time and money into this party. I said that
I'm still gonna wear the dress despite the fact I
could easily return it with no loss, because I didn't
do this out of malice and I love it. Mother
in law said, if she wears it two weeks after
I do, everyone is going to think she is pathetic
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and copying her son's wife. I said, I'm sorry, but
not really my problem. Everyone has gone crazy since I
said that his entire side of the family and the
friend's mother in law invited have all backed out of
the wedding, so like fifteen people and it will be noticeable.
His sisters were supposed to be in the wedding party
on his side but dropped out and have blocked him
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on everything. Wow, over a dress that either of you
could look fiftieth birthday party, wedding. The wedding is more
important than your fiftieth birthday, right.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
Am Also, like who cares? Because like they're making a
big deal over a dress and now they're like taking
sides and people are actually canceling going to the wedding,
including the bridal party. That's insane, just because over this
dress that this girl wants to wear for her wedding.
Who cares?
Speaker 1 (24:55):
Don't you know? If mother in law wears the same
dress in a different don't you know what everyone's gonna
think about her? We all have you thinking about what
everyone's gonna think about.
Speaker 2 (25:06):
Her, cause they're two separate colors. Like, I mean, it
is the same dress but in two different colors. But
who cares?
Speaker 1 (25:12):
Truly nobody. I wouldn't care or think about it if.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
Someone is wearing the same dresses me to my wedding
for some reason, Yeah, I care, But like two weeks after,
it's like none of this even matters.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
If you're hanging out with the kind of people who
would make this a big deal and you're not even
You're just not hanging out with the right people.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Yeah, And the fact that everyone cancels is just like
outrageously stupid. Yeah, Like that's just like taking in a
whole other step that doesn't even need to be that
big of a diola.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
His stepdad won't talk to him and says he regrets
raising him and he isn't a real man because a
real man would stand up for his mom. Wow. His
bio dad is even on mother in law's side, which
doesn't surprise me because they are good friends, but he
called us up to shame us. The other night, my
fiance is hurting and found out his family had a
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big beach day and invited everyone but him. He called
mother in law and they talked, but didn't come to
a resolution. She said, if I refuse to do the
right thing, the only answer is no one's going to
her party. That can go to the wedding. He tried
calling sister in law and found out she blocked him.
He is mad at me now and feels like she
had it first. Am I the a hole here?
Speaker 2 (26:25):
I don't think you're the a hole. It's your wedding.
You can wear whatever dress you want. And then also
the fact that like this guy like or this mother
in law like, it's two separate events. So why does
it matter if you if she was coming to the party,
Like if she was coming to the wedding wearing that
dress but in a different color, Yeah, that'd be a
bigger issue. But these are two separate things, two weeks
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out from each other. No one's gonna notice or care.
I don't know. Like in the fact that it has
to be like, oh, well, we're boycotting the wedding now
that is so childish over a dress over my in
my like, this is my day, and then you know
that's your day. And guess what, we can still have
the same taste on two different days.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
Oh well if you if we both end up wearing
the same dress to these different events, everyone's gonna think
I'm pathetic and I'm a loser. So I'm gonna do
the most pathetic losory thing I can do, and I'm
gonna make this into a boycott about your wedding. Yeah,
that's the most pathetic move you could make, for real,
outside of being like, actually, I'm gonna get married a
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day before you, and I'm gonna wear this dress.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
It's like, oh I bought it first, so uh, no
one else can ever wear this? Okay. Also, it doesn't
matter if it's in a different color or not, same dress.
Can't do it.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
I feel like coco cocoa post.
Speaker 1 (27:47):
That's what my mom says. Yeah, everybody, Yeah, everyone's got
a little bit. And anyway, let's let's get into these comments.
Comment one says everyone sucks here. All of you sound
difficult except possibly you're s O who was caught between
a bunch of self righteous entitled people who don't care
about the damage they do. Rub reply says this, the
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mother in law is difficult, but so is OP. You
could have been the bigger person and get another dress.
You said it yourself. You can still return it and
no big loss. Seems like OP chose to make it
more difficult and is a bit of a bridezilla. I
don't know, man, Like I think if you find a
dress so that you're like, I want that as my
wedding dress, it makes sense that you're not like, all right,
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let me just go find a different one now, Yeah,
it's like you found the one you want it. Yeah.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
I just don't understand that it's two separate events and
they're two weeks apart from each other, and they're it's
the same dress but two different colors.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
This could all be fixed by just like if anyone's like,
oh my god, didn't your daughter in law wear that
dress for her wedding, It's like, yeah, oh my god,
we both bought the dress without even realizing it. I
guess we both just have the best taste. That's it.
Instead you're like biting your nails, like, oh what if
everyone thinks I'm a ugh, Oh, what if everyone thinks
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I'm a loser. It only wears dresses that I've seen
on other people.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
Me and my daughter in law can't have the same taste.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
Oh, Bham, you'll be the laughing stalk of the country club.
Speaker 2 (29:16):
Everyone will just spit on our feet.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
And no one will be going to your wedding. Now
no one is allowed to see them dress on on
what and then they just.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
Die spontaneously combust.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
You should help your fiance out and not wear the dress.
Get a different one because you are ruining hester relationship
with hez family and yah, they are being an a
holy but he loves them and you're driving the wedge.
I can't see a good marriage from a start like this,
especially since he's mad at you. Now, shut up, dude,
no comment to info. If her party was before your
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wedding and she wore her dress, would you still wear
your dress to your wedding?
Speaker 2 (29:59):
Hope?
Speaker 1 (29:59):
He says yes. But I do get her point. There
is a lot of stereotypes about mother in law is
being jealous and creepy, and the verdict was everyone sucks here. Well,
but we do have an edit, I guess with some
more information. Yeah, mother in law has never acted like
this before, truly never. She is extremely laid back, doesn't
show emotion, not really seeking attention, which is why my
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fiance is so confused. At this point, I think the
relationship with his sisters and stepdad is beyond repair for now,
and I'm scared to have them at the wedding. To
all the people saying I should wear it to her
birthday at a MAO, but I'm banned and her ex
has already promised to act as a bouncer, not that
I'd ever crash it. There's a second edit. My dress
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is going back and I apologize to her because I
can't understand it, but something deeply hurt her. Mother in
law and my fiance are talking for the first time
in over a month. She seems exhausted and sad, but
maybe there's hope. I really don't think stepfather in law
or sister in laws will ever get over this, but
we will see. And there is an update. Op has
decided to get a new dress. Well, beans, that's.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Always just gonna be in your mind now when you
watch the wedding video and be like, oh, yeah, I
remember I wanted that dress, but I couldn't wear it
because my mother in law said no.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
At this point, everything is just now about.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
That about the dress. It's about matrimony, and I about
like what you're wearing.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
I have a comment here because I had noticed Red
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that we needed to read. You're a member milestone for
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Riley does do quite a good job the game show.
Speaker 3 (31:42):
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It's gonna be my first game show coming this Friday.
Speaker 3 (31:47):
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Speaker 1 (31:48):
Murder a murder. Hey, it's Dakota, your favorite goofball host here,
and we're gonna get back to the stories. But here's
three minutes of ads from our sponsors. So I posted
here a few more months ago about my mother in
law wanting to wear the same dress to her fiftieth
as I bought for my wedding. She did have the
dress first and receipts to prove it. I got a
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lot of mixed feedback and ultimately decided to return the dress.
It clearly triggered something massive for her. We got married
a month ago and mother in law did agree to
come after originally refusing. Stepfather in law, the man who
raised my husband, would not be swayed, and sister in
laws have him blocked on everything and did not want
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to hear it. What a bunch of sorry. I just
was like, who cares? Who cares? That's it.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
We didn't want you wear in this dress. We hate
you now, blocked because.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
She looked better than her sister did, where I kind
of wondered if she was going to pull something crazy,
which isn't really her style, but this whole thing has
been crazy. She was very quiet and just hung out
with her ex. Mother in law and my husband have
talked a little, and she just isn't in the frame
of mind for a relationship right now. She is extremely
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hurt and I don't get it, but she obviously needs
her space. She barely spoke during the wedding. I actually
reached out to stepfather in law, which probably wasn't my place,
but he said we didn't see her sobbing in his arms.
We can't get what we did to her. I know,
I got a lot of pushback on my decision to
return the dress and people saying it's just a birthday,
but it really isn't. Yeah, she might get one every year,
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but a massive party for her fifty first just seems
a little odd. I remember my mom's fiftieth and how
much she put into that. It was like a wedding.
Mother in law invited us to her party after uninviting
us and her ex pledging to play security. Ultimately we
decided not to go because of how angry stepfather in
law and both sister in laws are, and stepfather in
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law admitted he was uncomfortable at the thought of seeing us.
It was too much for my husband to see his
whole family. There there's a little bit more story left here.
Your mother in law was so emotional that she poisoned
her husband and sisters. Yeah, what did she do?
Speaker 2 (34:02):
I feel like this whole thing was so blown out
of proportion for what Because you both liked to dress,
Get over it. I know who cares.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
Literally could have just been like, oh my god, we
both have such great tastes.
Speaker 2 (34:14):
That would have been it. But nope, we have la
early nails. The fact that a dress is ruining an
entire family is crazy. I would I would tell them that.
I'd be like, listen, let's just back up, zoom out
for a second, and let's see the real The real
issue here is that you didn't want me to buy
this dress, and now the entire family is falling apart
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because of this. That's insane. Just think about that for
a second.
Speaker 1 (34:39):
If I may, if I may curse, if I may go,
I mean yeah, I mean yeah, what a fuck ass family.
In the words of Kim Fine, well what are they
doing over there? Yeah, so she had her party over
the weekend, and yes, I social media snooped a little bit.
It looked great, she looked really happy. I met peace
that I didn't get my dream dress. And and as
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for us, my husband is going to therapy to heal
from the grief. He's realized he needs to respect his sisters.
And they're serious. The younger one broke down sobbing and said,
I did the right thing. He didn't do anything, and
she can't forgive him for just letting their mom get hurt.
I still don't totally get it, but it's okay. Mother
in law doesn't express feelings so for some reason, this
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was her ill to make her last stand on She
doesn't seem too interested in a relationship, so they'll have
the occasional text, I guess, and everything's over. I'm happy
she has a good party, and I'm looking forward to
my husband healing and to the rest of our lives.
All right, and that is the end of that story.
Speaker 3 (35:38):
I think she got a priority straight.
Speaker 1 (35:40):
None of that had to happen at all, Right, what
the whole family over there has got to be like
wrapped around the mother in law's you know, the whims
because it's like, I don't even what was he supposed
to do? So you're gonna keep your own brother cut
off because he didn't what like throw his fiance into
the ocean for wanting the same dress, Like okay, cool,
Like you didn't do a ritualistic Mayan sacrifice on your
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fiance because she made your mom cry, which I don't know.
Did we forget that we're all responsible for our own
feelings and our own emotions all the time. That's our
responsibility as people.
Speaker 2 (36:14):
Lawyer Princess says, I feel like this is meniphos.
Speaker 1 (36:18):
They could be awesome, As she says, they're going to
divorce in a year. Yeah, could be my worm blanket.
This story is so ing cringe. What a crappy family.
That was wild.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
My mother in law braided me for breast feeding, so
I retaliated.
Speaker 1 (36:32):
You put those breasts away right now.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
I'm a single mom with an eighteen month old and
a three week.
Speaker 3 (36:38):
Old, both on both on the milk, both on the milk, both.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
On my human milk. Yes, and these babies they eat
human milk exclusively from the source.
Speaker 2 (36:49):
My oldest is feeding up to five or six times
a day and baby is feeding every two to three hours,
sometimes more often.
Speaker 1 (36:58):
Dude, how do you do it?
Speaker 2 (36:59):
Base? My my bags are no longer my property, and
wearing anything that makes it difficult to pull them out
at a moment's notice is not an option. So no
brawl and very loose tank tops are my life. That's
mean I don't I don't feed.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
By the way, this comes from am I the a
whole bread boob.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
If you want to submit your old stories, go to
the odd slash Okay story time Summer and I had.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
To give some good advice.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
Goofly, we don't have all the answers. We only tell
you what we would do.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
In this situation.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
But let us know what you would do done in
the comments.
Speaker 1 (37:35):
Yeah, sh.
Speaker 2 (37:43):
Okay, As Opie says to the issue, my toddler has
been sick and so I'm very tired. I was feeding
the baby when there was a knock at my door.
I've been expecting my friend over, so I didn't think
twice about opening it, bags out looking at hot miss.
Sadly it was not my friend and instead my ex
mother and sister in law. Sister in law guess it
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made a whole deal of turning away, whereas her mom
looked on displease. So you have two reactions here, and
one was like ah, and the other one's.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
Like how dare you? How dare you open your door?
Put those away?
Speaker 2 (38:19):
Once, of course, my toddler decided this was the optimal
time to start crying, which disrupted and already upset baby,
who stopped latching, and thus my nip was on.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Show to the world. Did a little did a little?
Can can?
Speaker 2 (38:35):
I basically left them in the doorway while I got
my boys situated. I tried to avoid breastfeeding my toddler
in front of them, but he was not having it,
so it was essentially just me walking them back out
and locking the door so I could feed them both
in peace. For some reason, they didn't leave, and when
my friend showed up, they walked in with her. Friend
has a spare key, and I don't know why I
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thought she was at the door in the first place.
I handed baby off because he was done, but realized
my toddler wouldn't be done for a while, so I
succumbed to my fate. Sister in law was still looking
very uncomfortable, and I was expecting some form of judgment
for still feeding my son, which I got. Can always
count on the mother in law. After she finished, I
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hoped she'd just leave, but then she made a rather
appalling comment, No wonder X left you When you're slewing
yourself around like that. Anyone could have been at that
door and you're off swinging your bags about.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
Right, Yeah, because this is definitely the sultry I'm I'm
on the market, trying to sell myself, look disheveled with
a baby on my hip and another one crying that
it wants to drink my chest milk. My chest milk.
That's how you get a man in this day and age.
Speaker 2 (39:50):
I at this point broke down crying. Oh. My friend,
who was upstairs putting the baby down, thankfully took charge
of the situation. She got rid of them, convinced my
toddler into his bed, and then we watched movies and
ate ice cream until babe woke up. I sort of
hoped that would be the end of it, but I
opened up my phone to an array of messages from
my ex, my own parents, and the other sister in law.
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They were all essentially sloot shaming me for feeding my baby,
saying that anyone could have seen me, that some kid
who doesn't need to see that could have been at
the door, and even going as far as saying I
could have distracted drivers and caused a crash.
Speaker 1 (40:29):
Dang. So it's just going, whoa, what are they unroll
like a red carpet, one of those bazangas. They're like
one hundred feet long. It's like, yeah, someone could have
tripped on those walking across the street. These people, I
would I would laugh. I don't know what I would do.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
I would laugh, Yeah, I'd be like, okay, cool, well
I guess what I'll.
Speaker 1 (40:52):
Do it again. These are the people that are like,
who's coming next?
Speaker 2 (40:54):
The Amazon driver, He's in first.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
Show, I would send them on a snipe hunt.
Speaker 2 (40:59):
I'm starting to really doubt myself, so my friend guided
me here. She's insisting that I'm not in the wrong
and seems to think you guys will agree, and if
you do, I plan on showing the comments to my
ex and his family. So am I an a hole
for not putting away my bags before answering the door?
There's an update. I don't think you are the a hole.
I think you can do whatever you want with your body.
And also I don't know, like they know what's in
(41:23):
for I guess I don't know.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
Yeah, I mean there may they the way that they're acting.
They're acting like you just came to the door fully,
like unclothed, unprompted, cranking your hog or something, and it's
like that is so far away from reality now that
would be not okay. And no matter who you're expecting,
can't answer the door like that, OP has done nothing wrong.
Speaker 2 (41:44):
I have two options here. I could entertain the people
who just randomly showed up at my house, or I
could take care of my child who's hungry. Hmmm, I
don't know, yah.
Speaker 1 (41:55):
And it's also like, why are you here?
Speaker 2 (41:57):
Yeah, like they didn't even call ahead, say anything, or
if they would have made a plan, she would have
done it beforehand. But it's just the fact that like boom.
Speaker 1 (42:05):
You popped in unannounced.
Speaker 3 (42:06):
Here's my thing. These are two women confronting another woman.
I could maybe see the argument of a guy being
uncomfortable and he has to have an uncomfortable talk with her.
Girls support girls? What happened to that?
Speaker 2 (42:16):
Be a girls girl just saying.
Speaker 3 (42:17):
Fully support breast feeding.
Speaker 1 (42:19):
By the way, Riley supports all breasts and all feeding.
Speaker 3 (42:23):
No, not all feeding, breastfeeding, breast and feeding together. I
support it. Oh, there's some types of feeding I do
not support.
Speaker 1 (42:30):
Riley supports feeding on.
Speaker 3 (42:31):
Breasts no matter how old you want.
Speaker 1 (42:34):
Powdered milk. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (42:35):
Also yeah, wait, just some whatever your name is. She's
in her own house. Yeah, Like it's not like she
was somewhere else and she just answered the door like that,
Like this is her own home. She can do what
she wants.
Speaker 1 (42:47):
Yeah. Like she took a front page add out on
the news and was like check it out everybody, Yeah,
who check out these bobs?
Speaker 3 (42:58):
Oh, check out you.
Speaker 2 (43:00):
So it's been a little bit of time since my
previous post. And I'm just here to say huge thanks
to all the comments. A lot of you guys really
helped me realize where I needed help. Shortly after my
post was made, I contacted my ex and essentially asked
if you wanted to actually play a part in our kids'
lives or not. He said he didn't want to, and
we had a long, long conversation about our feelings. We're
(43:21):
on good terms now and he's starting a new job
in August, so we'll deal with everything legally. Then freeze.
I set up my ring doorbell camera. I did have
one in storage but had just never gotten around to
setting it up, and now I'm much more careful with
who I answered the door to. I also contacted my
parents one final time to let them know that I'm
no longer having contact with them and let them have
(43:42):
one photo of my boys.
Speaker 1 (43:44):
Your own parents, Yeah, weren't these your ex in laws?
Speaker 3 (43:47):
They were the x in lawseum, what did your parents do?
Speaker 2 (43:51):
They also, well, the ex contact or the ex sister
law and mother contacted them and they also were like
why you Oh, so she's like whatever, I'll just cut
everyone out of my life.
Speaker 1 (44:01):
Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 2 (44:02):
They took it very well. Considering it all, I did
have to take the step of cutting my siblings off
as well, but as much as I love them, I
need to prioritize myself and my babies. I met up
with my excess family to let them know that if
they ever set foot in my house again, I'd call
the police and told them they won't ever have contact
with my children as far as I and my X
(44:22):
are concerned. They don't have a father and thus have
no paternal family. They were upset, but let it go
and I did breastfeed both my kids in the park
just despite them, which felt quite good.
Speaker 1 (44:35):
Nice.
Speaker 3 (44:35):
Hey, this is Riley the host. I can't really read that. Well,
we're gonna get back to the stories, but here's three
minutes worth of ads from our sponsors.
Speaker 2 (44:43):
I just don't understand how, like, it's really not that
big of a deal. People need like babies need fed,
and that's you can either do formula or you could
do the natural way. It does not matter. Would you
rather have a screaming, crying baby or would you rather
it be fed properly? Just maybe in a not I
don't I don't even know.
Speaker 1 (45:00):
What to say, man, I think like an conventional way.
Open needs to grow up. Teachers stupid little babies how
to eat normal food like regular people, like a steak
and mashed potatoes, and then send them off to the
steakhouse where they can have their baby little business meetings
and they can start earning some income for this family.
(45:21):
Gosh darn it, yeah, because this is getting ridiculous. These
babies need to start carrying their weight and they can't
just be latched onto your boobucles all day long, baby gulls.
All right, you let them out of the nest. All right,
this is getting ridiculous. Well we got a little bit more.
Put those babies in suits and each give them, give
them each three accounts, and tell them to get after it.
Speaker 2 (45:41):
In better news, the friend I mentioned in my previous
post is moving in with us. Initially it was for
financial reasons, but a little something something is sort of happening.
Betweet us suck. Oh no, even if that fizzles out,
I feel safer with a second person. My kids have fun,
financial stability, and a second parent, which I think all
(46:03):
kids deserve.
Speaker 1 (46:05):
Well, let's pump the brakes on considering this person parent
number two already, Right, that's maybe a little too fast.
We're constructing that reality a little too early. I think
maybe we'll start as friend then we'll maybe we can
broach the water of parent number.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
Two Turkey little something sum's happening? Yeah, who knows?
Speaker 1 (46:25):
Gotta be more than a little something something for parent
number two status.
Speaker 2 (46:28):
After everything legal is settled, we're planning to move out
of state. We were both saving separately for a house,
and my ex wound up giving me most of the
funds we'd saved. He is inheriting his father's house and
doesn't want me and the kids to constantly be at
risk of eviction. With both sets of savings, in a
year or so, we should be able to move into
a decently sized house. And we're already planning on getting
(46:49):
a dog. Whoa all right. The plan is to be
moved and settled by July twenty two so the boys
can have their first proper summer in a yard that's
big enough to play in. Kids will have a better
life than I had, And this is just the start
of how perfect it's going to be. So that's it.
Thank you all again. That's the end.
Speaker 1 (47:08):
So that's it. We're gonna have a perfect life together.
Me and my husband and our children, and except there's
no husband because we divorced, and there's maybe a little
something something going on with my friend.
Speaker 2 (47:20):
That's exactly it actually nailed it and everything's perfect. But
that is the end of that story.
Speaker 1 (47:26):
Awesome.
Speaker 3 (47:26):
We got some comments.
Speaker 1 (47:27):
I can lick my mustache now, I'm at mustache licking length.
Speaker 2 (47:30):
Ew.
Speaker 1 (47:31):
What, No, it's not gross, it's nice. It's nice.
Speaker 2 (47:34):
No, I just don't think of licking hair.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
It's just no brooch.
Speaker 2 (47:38):
No, no, no, no, no brooch alert.
Speaker 1 (47:39):
That is right. I dropped a brooch kim fine. Nice
broach alert. Broach tasting. Uh thieves are comments from the
video my officiant sabotage my wedding face, storm my bouquet.
And this was posted on February seventeenth, twenty twenty. See it.
Speaker 3 (47:56):
This is the fourth story.
Speaker 1 (47:57):
In that this is the TLDR for the fourth story.
Opie's boyfriend said he would only marry her with a
prenup that protected all of his family's money and property.
He wanted her to move into a house his parents owned,
with no real ownership or say. He also hinted he
was scared she was after his money. Opie did not
want to feel like a guest in her own marriage,
(48:18):
or like she had to prove she was not a
gold digger. When she talked to his parents, they were
shocked and said that was not what they wanted at all.
Her boyfriend later admitted he was insecure and afraid of
losing her. He suddenly changed his mind and offered everything
she had ever asked for. But after months of feeling
small and unwanted, OPI realized she could not unhear what
(48:39):
he said. So even though it hurts, she is walking away.
If you're curious to know the full story, you can
go watch the full video. Although that felt pretty complete
right there, Yeah, yeah, maybe a little too complete.
Speaker 3 (48:50):
Lauren mcgird mcgirty says that was a predatory prenup thing
is there had to be a version where they both
felt safe with an animal compromises on his end, with
him still working and growing their marital assets, wanting to
protect his family wealth. A gold digger would object to that,
and she never did. But I'm getting fifty percent of
(49:11):
what was largely money she made would be totally unfair
while he was protected. Also, him changing his mind would
be one hundred percent. After his parents blasted his butt
for throwing away a woman with the same money values
and worth ethic as he was raised with.
Speaker 1 (49:26):
What a fool he was, food fool in the rain,
fooling rain, Babe.
Speaker 3 (49:32):
Girl god Deadhead says story four. So from how she
describes the pre knop, whatever assets he has before the
marriage are rightfully his, and he is also intending not
to work and live off the inheritance. But once they
are married, he's screwing her because they could get divorced.
Whatever she's made during the marriage would be half of
(49:53):
her stuff. He was ensuring that she would just get
financially crippled, and he's out on top. And in the
last comment here from smile fifty two, he's saying personally,
that's his parents' money's and assets. You know, very screwed
up situation there.
Speaker 1 (50:08):
Don't just marry for money.
Speaker 2 (50:10):
But that's the end of that story and the end
of this episode. So if you love us, make sure
to subscribe.
Speaker 1 (50:14):
We love you, and she in to morrow
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