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October 10, 2025 83 mins

This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with another unfiltered conversation. The mood- grown, honest, and homegirl wisdom. 

Lex opens up about her new homeowner era and decorating her space. The ladies get candid about being in control of your sanctuary and how peace starts at home — literally.

The convo gets deeper, and funnier, why women might need to be just a little mean to men 🤏🏽, and the power of keeping your business to yourself. Because let’s be real, black folks don’t always get the luxury of telling all their business and still winning in peace.

Of course, they still keep it fun! From “are we finally over Swag Surfin?” to “should you really be telling your girls everything about your love life?”, it’s giving transparency with boundaries.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
But anyways, I was saying it was so crazy because
somebody was like, Lex, your your house needs to match
your personality. You need to have a cheetah carpet in there.
Cheetah carpet, y'all are I'm not gonna lie. Some of
the suggestions y'all have been giving me have been great,
love it, but y'all are so tacky with y'all suggestions
that y'all have been giving my house. And don't get wrong,

(00:20):
some people probably look at my house, but like, Lex,
this is tacky, but it works for me.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
I like, but cheetah carpet is crazy. That's the people
that be having them sparkly tables in their hose that
mirrored furniture, and then they be doing a drapes like
a black one a red when God, please don't get
me started. And then they swear they be eating home.

Speaker 1 (00:46):
But they curtains stop at the bottom of the window.
Curtains don't even hit the flow.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
You know what I'm saying, Like, we're not gonna they
pots matched the drape. You know. It's like, hey, everything
ain't for everybody. And I just feel like, if you
are not a professional, you can keep your opinions to yourself.
You can just see content like it I mean, or
not like like or not like you yea watch because

(01:12):
at the end of the day, you ain't never come
in the LIGs, so you ain't never gonna be You
never gotta worry about it. You ain't never gotta worry
about not seeing that Cheeta carpet because you ain't gonna be.

Speaker 3 (01:24):
There, and it ain't gonna be no cheet of carpet.

Speaker 2 (01:26):
But I'm saying they don't have to worry about not
seeing you because they suggested, and you're not gonna heavy.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
And I've only been in my house at this part,
at this point, like by the time this episode airs,
I've only been in the house for a month and
a half, two months.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Just wait the Cheeta coming. Okay, don't kiss me off.

(02:06):
What's up, y'all? It's your girl lex Peth and it's
your girls training a.

Speaker 3 (02:10):
Call, and you are tuned in to another episode of.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
Poor Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought, we
ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no guests today.
I feel like.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
They already be doing that. We don't have a guest
because I'll be on this couch for sure, But the
audio people don't know. Yeah, but the people that watch
and they know because they're like, oh, Lex on the couch.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
But they need to tune in to the YouTube channel
because I feel like we're just so expressive and animated
it that you need to watch it, yeah, instead of listening.
I mean, we still need some audio streams, say direct
them away.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
Sometimes people be on the way to work, they'd be
working now.

Speaker 3 (02:52):
Sometimes they may be in church.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
Are we might what if we the background music for
somebody iffing? Have you ever thought about that? If somebody
is looking to me saying you know what the first
five minutes.

Speaker 1 (03:06):
If somebody is listening to us while they're doing.

Speaker 2 (03:11):
It, but you know, for yourself, I feel like my
voice is soothing, that's what you think it is. Yeah,
I think that people be telling me I need to
start doing audio blo.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
No, I do agree with that.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
I do agree. I took a girl Drey in the
call and you are tuned in too, Sister Soldier, the
coldest one.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
I think that your voice is like soothing to go
to sleep.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
I wouldn't say I hear your voice and it be like,
oh that made me want to do something.

Speaker 2 (03:44):
I feel like, it's sexy, like you make you want
a mom. Biddle was like, I love Drea's voice. She's
just it's so sexy.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
It's okay to me, it's more soothing, Okay, it's more
like it makes me go to sleep, like in a
good way. Like you know, you listen to certain things
that make you like, you know, it's relaxes.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
It's a relaxing I like it. I do like it.

Speaker 3 (04:09):
I do like it.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
So when you're having a bad day, you be like,
we're gonna listen to Drake y'all because let me tell
you something. One thing I know is when you stay positive,
things show exactly. Yeah, you be eating down when you
do your positive TikTok video. Hey baby eating the girls up.

(04:31):
You know out there, I'm full of wisdom.

Speaker 3 (04:33):
You can choose the like. You won't just cutting people out.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
If you don't like somebody, I'd be like, get them
hosst the boot. I love a boot emoji. Kick a
hold of the curve, kick a hold of the curve.

Speaker 3 (04:46):
But outside of that, we're matching today.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
We are we are mashing with our yaggy girl, yaggy world,
yaggy girl in a yaggy world, yagy girls in a
yaggy world. We are mashing with our yaggy world outfits,
and I feel like it's cute because it shows the like,
oh I'm cling, yeah, I know, you tell the rules.
You had an underneath. I never noticed it, but I

(05:11):
feel like it shows the contrast and the versatility of
the outfits because I have mine a little dressed down.
I have on, you know, my little ear mid slides,
and then you have on your lupiscine platforms. So it
shows how you can like dress it up or down.

Speaker 1 (05:26):
First of all, let me tell y'all something. This is
not a game, and this is not a joke. I
love y'agey world me too. This is not an ad.
They just they send us a PR box. And when
I tell y'all, I really wear their self because that material.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
It's the material.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
Like I don't know what you did or what you
put in these clothes or who you working with, But
keep that a secret, because baby Girl.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
Shout them in the house, show.

Speaker 1 (05:53):
Them get up and show down at no dres, show
them what you're working with.

Speaker 2 (05:58):
Bend over too, being over.

Speaker 1 (06:07):
But no, it's really tea. It's really really tea. Yoaggy,
like that's the girl's name. We met Yaggi before we.

Speaker 3 (06:14):
Were in London, super big black owned business.

Speaker 2 (06:18):
Shout out to you, Yaggy. I really love these outfits.
I do too, and we're gonna wear them again because
we got two other colors. So the next time, she's
gonna have on the gray one and I'm gonna have
on the pink win and I'm not gonna lie. Y'all
don't see me in the pinkuin again. I don't care.
Why think about me? I repeat my Yagi, think about it.
We're gonna repeat that yacht. I don't given that's what

(06:40):
it's madefol that's what is madful to repeat it. Hm,
I sure did his thing. These outfits are such good material.
And then on top of that, if you have to
purchase them, like we're so fortunate that she just be finished.
We are so fortunate. We are fortunately that they be

(07:01):
sitting us to stuff for free so we don't have
to pay for it. But these office are expensive, like
this is like one hundred and twenty one hundred and
thirty dollars. Well, but it's worth the money because the
material is good and like you can wash it. It's
gonna bounce bad pristine KADENII. You're not gonna if you
snagg it, but you really ain't gonna snack.

Speaker 1 (07:21):
You're not gonna snag it because it ain't nothing to snag,
because it's all recession.

Speaker 2 (07:25):
I'll be snagging my stuff, but that's just it. That jewelry.
That's not be having my jewelry on. But I don't
have it on today, right, This say't even all my jewelry.

Speaker 1 (07:35):
I just want to say this, though they do send
us stuff, but I have purchased a lot from y'all,
you world, and that's not just a few things.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
That purple outfit I had.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
On with the Bob and all y'all were in the
comments like lex, this looks so good.

Speaker 2 (07:46):
This is purple.

Speaker 3 (07:47):
It was from yagy world.

Speaker 1 (07:49):
Yeah, and I'm not even a girl who wears colors.
I do not like colors.

Speaker 2 (07:53):
You don't.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
I don't think i've ever seen you cream brown and
black me down.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
I don't like it. I don't think i've ever seen
you on purple pink either.

Speaker 1 (08:02):
I mean, I've warned pink a few times. But I'm
very like colorless. I'm very colorless. A colorblind nigga Gonta
see me and be like, she got that shit on
because he don't know.

Speaker 2 (08:12):
You should definitely, though, start incorporating an in your wardrobe
because color look good on you.

Speaker 1 (08:18):
But I don't know. I just feel like it's a balance.
My personality is the color.

Speaker 2 (08:22):
You feel your personality already loud.

Speaker 3 (08:24):
I don't need to wear no pink and orange and blues.

Speaker 2 (08:28):
You know what I mean? No, I feel you though.
It's gotta have.

Speaker 3 (08:32):
I gotta have some type of balance in my life.

Speaker 2 (08:34):
I in colors sometimes every.

Speaker 3 (08:36):
Now and then.

Speaker 1 (08:37):
It's crazy because speaking of colors, I love it. I'm
decorating my home right now. We were talking about this
before we started filming, and I was like, it's so
crazy because everybody's in a tear designer, which I don't mind.
Everybody has their opinions. This is my house, but everybody's
gonna have their opinions. But somebody sent me a message.

Speaker 2 (08:57):
Oh who they came to seat? Who repp it like me,
don't make me get up my seat? Yeah? Oh, and
y'all say it is and Jack and you shout out
to my baby.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
By the time this episode dropped, my baby is getting
so big. It's turning shout out to my neph. But anyways,
I was saying it was so crazy because somebody was like, Lex,
your your house needs to match your personality. You need
to have a cheetah carpet in there.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
Cheetah carpet, y'all are I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (09:33):
Some of the suggestions y'all have been giving me have
been great, love it, but y'all are so tacky with
y'all suggestions that y'all have been giving my house. And
don't get wrong, some people probably look at my house
and be like, Lex, this is tacky, but it works
for me.

Speaker 2 (09:45):
I like, but cheetah carpet is crazy. That's the people
that be having them sparkly tables in their house that
mirrored furniture, and then then they be doing a drapes
like a black one a red when my god, please
don't get me started. And then they swear they be

(10:07):
eating home, but they curtains stop at the bottom of
the window. Curtains don't even hit the flow. You know
what I'm saying, Like, we're not gonna we not they
pots matched the drap you know. It's like, hey, everything
ain't for everybody. And I just feel like if you
are not a professional. You can keep your opinions to yourself.

(10:27):
You could just see content like it I mean or
not like like or not like. You you watch your
business because at the end of the day, you ain't
never come in the LIGs how you ain't never gonna
be You never gotta worry about it. You ain't never
got to worry about not seeing that cheet to carpet
because you ain't gonna be there.

Speaker 3 (10:45):
And it ain't gonna be no cheet ofcrpet.

Speaker 2 (10:47):
But I'm saying they don't have to worry about not
seeing you because they suggested, and you're not gonna heavy.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
And I've only been in my house at this part,
at this point, like by the time this episode airs,
I've only been in the house for a month and
a half, two months.

Speaker 2 (11:01):
Just wait, did she the comeing, Okay, don't kiss me off.
That's what that's what she low, he said. Just wait,
I don't mind.

Speaker 3 (11:11):
She might put it in her office. You know, I'm
not putting off.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
I'm not putting cheta put a little cheta printed, But
I'm gonna put up.

Speaker 3 (11:19):
I'm gonna get another drink machine. Put that in my office.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
I like animal prints a little bit.

Speaker 3 (11:24):
To wear with clothes.

Speaker 2 (11:26):
Animal prints in your house, I don't know. I like them.
Cow hide rugs, Okay, maybe that's maybe that's the country
and me a cow hide rug done right?

Speaker 3 (11:36):
Because I have a cowhide rug and I did it right.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
I'm not mad. I like a little cowhide rug. I'm
not mad at that.

Speaker 3 (11:44):
Yes, yes, that's a little rustic farmhouse.

Speaker 2 (11:47):
I like that. I know. I know. Chita Cheetah was
like high school, middle school, maybe even college. We stick together.
Maybe even in college, a little chittner rug? Would it?
Did you write it? These days? Did you? I've seen

(12:08):
a TikTok. This girl TikTok had went viral. She hired
an interior designer to decorate her dorm room and it
looked so good. I was like, oh my god. If
I had that dorm room when I was in college,
I would have made all a's. I wouldn't have two
classes freshman year. I would have been doing I was

(12:29):
gonna do that anyways, first and foremost.

Speaker 3 (12:33):
That's who I am.

Speaker 2 (12:35):
But I also would have made straight a's because it
just I feel like the environment, how could you not
do well in that environment that its created for you
to flourish and for you to think and for you
to have free thoughts and be able to just really
be in your element and not have no worries. You comfortable.

(12:55):
It was a rat next door, like a.

Speaker 3 (13:00):
Like a what the on rond or a real rat.

Speaker 2 (13:06):
Probably probably both of them. But I lived in the
all girls dorms, so it was a girl rap. Oh
so anyways, I had a rat like my my friend
that lived next door to me in my roommate she
had a rat infestation in her dorm room. That was
the type of ship I had to worry about in college.
Oh God, I'm glad you.

Speaker 1 (13:25):
Said that, because we have to have a serious conversation.

Speaker 2 (13:29):
Bitch had Paisley Prince and all type of shit in
her dorm room. The nerves, yeah, the nerves, the nerve,
the goal.

Speaker 3 (13:39):
But do you know what we have to seriously talk about.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
Y'all know I'm a girl's girl, i am, but we
do have to talk about the cleanliness of my sisters.
When I used to work in the club, every single time,
the women's bathroom was always dirtier than the men's. And
I will say, it's like it be surprising me, you

(14:04):
know what, I'm saying, it'd be surprising me because I
feel like as a woman, that's like cleaning is therapeutic
to me. And like you said, being in a space
like that, it makes you thrive. Like that's why I've
done so much of my house so quickly, because being
in my house it makes me feel cozy.

Speaker 3 (14:20):
I'm comfortable.

Speaker 2 (14:21):
It's my sanctuary. That's what we call it, the sanctions.
That's what I'm saying. Like I did bad in eighth
periods today, let me go back in my dorm room
and lay on my chase. Yes, I had in a dream, bitch,
Mickey Mouse was waiting on that chase for you. Bit.
I had a crate and a dream and an ike
A gift card. That's what I'm saying. But you can't

(14:43):
do that. You can't do that if rather too we
sitting in the corner. Yeah, and luckily that never happened
in our room, but next door it was like, that's
the type of stuff. We used to have to worry
about it, and we used to have to share bathrooms.
We had community bathrooms. You know.

Speaker 1 (14:57):
The worst thing I hate is, though I don't care
how clean you are, going right in the bathroom after
somebody else took a shower.

Speaker 2 (15:05):
It's kind of like a pet peeve of mine. I
gotta let that. What do you mean, because the steam
gotta let that puss the air out, unless we're trying
to go to the club and then it's something Yeah,
now you got to go wrap it up. Or you
can use your ass in the shower you're everywhere.

Speaker 1 (15:19):
White, or you like, sometimes you gotta wipe that puss
it down real quick.

Speaker 3 (15:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (15:23):
Sometimes you gotta take a little hole bag to her fantasy.
But you could also use your kuchi wise, use your
refreshed dell. I'm gonna wipe that and wipe that thing
off in the scene and go about your business, and
they gonna think, shower, Hey, you gotta get it hot.
You'nt smelling so fresh, so clean?

Speaker 1 (15:40):
But can I since we're talking about women in hygiene
and stuff like that, I'm not hiding no more when
I need a pad or a tampon from somebody either.
I know you don't use those products anymore, but you
know how it used to be, like, do you have
a pad? Exactly like we're doing a drug deal, girl,
do you have a pad?

Speaker 2 (15:57):
Hand it to me? I asked the girl for a
path and she was like trying to slide it something.
I said, Girl, give me that goddamn pad. I actually
need a diaper, bitch, That's what my flow was heavy.
Why do we have to hide the fact that I
used to wear that diaper? It was a very traumatic
time for me. But people don't know. I had thought,
because you're used to be sleeping in the bed with
me with a diapery. It's before me and Leix really

(16:20):
like this, before we could afford a super hotel room. Yes,
and we used to share hotel rooms and she would
just be laying in the bed with them big ass
diaper on. But I didn't know I had firebroids taking
granny penies off. I had, I had fibroids. So my
if y'all have.

Speaker 1 (16:38):
Ever had five boys, you know how serious it is.
It was so like No. I didn't know then though,
so I thought wearing a diaper was normal.

Speaker 2 (16:48):
And then she would But I asked him me, do
I want to change you? You should have changed my diapers? No,
you ain't no baby, Google gotta you ain't no motherfucking baby.
You ain't my baby. I'm not about to change on diaper.
What the fuck.

Speaker 1 (17:03):
I just felt like, as friends, if I needed you
to change my diaper, you should.

Speaker 2 (17:07):
Have just wow and get bled on. He was gonna
bleed on me. No, I wasn't. I was gonna hold
it in. Not we blood and I know that we
like the real but no, I do think that we

(17:27):
need to stop acting like that with other women.

Speaker 1 (17:29):
Like if a girl needs a pad, just headed to her.
Who cares? If these men are uncomfortable, nobody cares. Nobody cares.

Speaker 2 (17:35):
Hear me the pad.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
Everybody has a period, I mean not everybody, but y'all
know what I'm saying. Periods are normal. Why do I
have to be acting like you know what I'm saying?

Speaker 2 (17:47):
Men know that we have periods, so they don't care,
though they be annoyed. Lavelle had did a video on
Instagram the other day and he was just like, if
I was a woman, I would have went crazy a
long as time ago, because y'all be having to deal
with these niggas and they don't understand it. Every month,
y'all be literally shutting y'all insides and y'all be going crazy, yes,

(18:09):
and they be mad at you because you can't fuck them.
You're like, man, this beach on her period again.

Speaker 3 (18:19):
He said the same thing. He was like, you know,
being a woman.

Speaker 1 (18:22):
Is like crazy because on top of paying bills, on
top of showing up for your family, on top of
being a mother, on top of doing all this, you
have to bleed every month. You didn't volunteer for this,
you didn't ask for this. You're just bleeding.

Speaker 2 (18:36):
And the only other alternative is being pregnant or menopause.
Them the only other alternatives to having a period every
month either you not having one because you pregnant or infertile,
right or menopausal? Right?

Speaker 3 (18:54):
Right, that's it.

Speaker 1 (18:55):
It's just a lot. It's a lot. It's a lot,
and I'm just I'm not for it.

Speaker 2 (18:59):
So I'm or his directed me, which is worse because
when people get his direct me, it puts them into
early menopause. What are you doing? And why is it
called his? Because it's a really her serect me you.
I said, okay, baby, I'm just issue. I like a

(19:26):
littleh well said, excuse me, shy, do you know where
I can find some booty? What was that from? So
let's move on. Let's move on, let's let's get we
are okay. So the first.

Speaker 3 (19:44):
Topic Drey, What are we talking about today?

Speaker 2 (19:46):
For the first topic, we're talking about should we be
nicer to me? In which I feel like kind of
goes into what we were just talking about. Should we
wash our mouths when we're talking to our men, Should
we in general be meaning to me m hm? Or
should we keep being nice? I personally my best friend
shout out to o Lyne. She had a tweet that

(20:08):
went viral a few weeks ago. Were is crazy a
little bit? She is a little bit, but she had
went viral because she has said me and love mean bitchies,
like be mean to niggas. They like this. She like
the women who are nice to them, you always gonna

(20:29):
end up getting the short end of the stick. And
I'm like, yeah, I understand it. It's just like that
me might be seeing when it be like niggas love bitches.
Swain got shet. I'm thinking of getting rid of all
of mine. I'm gonna get rid of all my sheep.
I might because they love it. They gonna boo, they
gonna build you back up. I don't want to. It's like, yes,

(20:54):
niggas love the bitchwaang got sheet and they love mean bitchies.
Think about your favorite nigga and think about the beach too.
Was the meanness to him that he probably told you
about and all the stuff he did for her m
keeping you ain't never had, you ain't never dealt with

(21:16):
a nigga, and you feel like or you was being
means to him and then he was doing the most
Like I guess I could say that for myself, Like
I feel like I done dealt with dudes and like
I really was cool on them, Like I really wasn't
fucking with him, and they thought I was playing hard
to get. They thought I was playing, Oh, you want
me to chase you? Actually I want you to leave
me the fuck alone. But it's making you go harder.

Speaker 1 (21:37):
Yeah, yeah, now I do agree with that, because men
do like to chase.

Speaker 2 (21:42):
Yeah. Is it to chase though, or is it to
conquer or tame or a tame because sometimes I feel
like it's more trying to conquer and tame a woman
than really just chasing her. Like they want what they
feel like they can't has, and it's a little excitement
for them, just a little bit like person matter you yell,

(22:03):
you raise your voice. I feel like they like that
she got a little bite. It's all crazy because I've
worked to.

Speaker 3 (22:09):
Get away from that.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
But what I have learned in my older age too,
I do believe.

Speaker 3 (22:16):
That men like me and women and I do.

Speaker 2 (22:18):
I don't care.

Speaker 1 (22:18):
I don't care what the narrative is online because this
is not a male versus female conversation, the man versus
woman no more. But I will say it's in the
proof is in the pudding, just like women like assholes,
and it's the same thing, you know. But what I've learned,
if I have to put on this facade right and
be like, you know what, I'm gonna be a bitch
to him so he can do what I want him

(22:39):
to do, then this is not for me. Now back
in the day I used to be okay with it,
I cannot. I'm not a naturally I am. I can
be a bitch, I can. I know that, But naturally
I do enjoy being nice and having fun. So if
I have to start being bitchy to you, do I
really want you around? So it's like, you can be

(22:59):
bitchy and have your way, But that's too much. I
wanna have fun, like how I feel with my friends.
I have a good time with my fucking friends.

Speaker 2 (23:10):
And we're nice and.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
We're living and we're If you don't give me that feeling, honestly,
I'm cool. I get why so many older women are
choosing to be by themselves, though, because we have to
be a bitch in order to get.

Speaker 3 (23:23):
Things out of a man.

Speaker 2 (23:23):
As I half. If I got to do all that,
I'm cool. I don't know I be feeling like what
about that? Deep though, I always feel like I understand.
I always feel like I understand why women want to
be single until I think about the fact that you

(23:46):
ain't getting no deed have a special friend. I do
have a little friend for years. That is her little friend.

Speaker 3 (23:56):
That's her little friend.

Speaker 2 (23:57):
That's her man.

Speaker 3 (23:58):
Legally, that's her little friend.

Speaker 2 (24:01):
That's her little friend. Legally, that's her man. Now all together,
how you know that they might be common law married? Law? Will?

Speaker 1 (24:10):
If they were common law married then that would it
came out a long time ago?

Speaker 2 (24:14):
How would we know it's common law?

Speaker 3 (24:17):
Oh oh you just said common law. Yeah, it's not
like on.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
Paper, it's common law law. Been together for all this time,
and we've decided which we married. That's really what common
law marriage is. It's like we that's my husband and
I don't give a fuck if we didn't go see
it in front of a pasta or we didn't sign
no paperwork. We've been together for twenty years. That's my husband,
and I'm gonna tell people that's my husband. That's what

(24:42):
Kamon Law married.

Speaker 4 (24:42):
You.

Speaker 1 (24:43):
You're right, You're one hundred percent right. But I just
feel like she got a little friends.

Speaker 2 (24:48):
That is her man, y'all. But I love these and
tell me how y'all feel, because it's sidebar a little bit.
But I feel like black people celebrities can not tell
people their business, Like you have to keep people out
of the loop of your business to really like become
a superstar in the black community. Oh white people, they

(25:10):
really thrive by showing all of their business and telling
people everything. I feel like one of the main reasons,
like one of the main allures about Oprah is that
we don't know anything about her personal life like we
know about her instead mean we know that that's being
her men at.

Speaker 3 (25:29):
The beginning of the time.

Speaker 2 (25:30):
Okay, so they were engaged.

Speaker 5 (25:31):
Though they call each other spiritual partners. The spiritual partner, I.

Speaker 3 (25:35):
Got a spiritual partner.

Speaker 2 (25:37):
They were engaged in the nineties. We're low Key married.

Speaker 5 (25:41):
They were engaged in the nineties, and they ultimately decided
marriage wouldn't work for them, as their interpretations of the
roles of husband and wife would have clashed. Winfrey's career
in personal life. Wow, I think she just ain't trying
to cut that check.

Speaker 2 (25:53):
I think that too.

Speaker 1 (25:54):
But that's true though, because you're never going to catch
up to Oprah win here, so let's not even try
to put labels on it.

Speaker 2 (26:02):
So I'm not mad at that. Yeah, I just feel
like you gotta keep a little mystery the thing. Like,
That's why I'm saying, how do we know what's really
going on between the folks? We don't. All we know
is that they never been married. But we don't know
how she's been breaking him off or break him off
real bad. We don't know. I want to know what

(26:23):
they got going on.

Speaker 1 (26:24):
I want to make a point to what you were saying,
because I talked about this on Love lex pe last week.
So it's crazy that you said that, because you said
black people.

Speaker 3 (26:31):
Do not get the.

Speaker 1 (26:34):
Luxury of telling all their business and being successful because
you can't. But I'll tell you why though, because I
feel like in the black community, if a black woman
gets into her relationship and he ends up being a
horrible person, and she has babies for this person whatever
gets married, and it's.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
Like ha ha, I told you so.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
And you can literally get taken down just by being
connected to somebody, Like you could be married to a
man who ends up being horrible, and then they'll connect
you to him. Even if you left him and you
don't talk to him no more, they'll be like, well,
he did this, you knew about it x y Z.
But if any other race does, they'll be like, oh,
my gosh, I know she didn't know y'all. She's a

(27:18):
single mother now, single mother, and other races looks like, oh,
she's so strong, she is powerful. Oh my god, I
cannot believe she's doing this on her own. Thank god,
they don't know that. But Black women, Oh, she's a
single mother. We're your baby daddy. Yet, oh he must
have left. You must have been annoying, you must have
It's such a different narrative. Single mother is baby mama
for black women. Yes, immediately there's a thing going on

(27:42):
on TikTok right now. It was a girl, I don't
know her name, she's a baseball wife, and she was
talking about how she had to go to the hospital
that she's having her first child at and she was
embarrassed because her husband couldn't make it, and she was like,
I didn't want people to look at me like a
single mother. So all the single mothers have been rallying
up for her against her, like, how dare you say this?

(28:06):
You don't know what it took to be a single mother.
My husband passed or you know, he cheated on me,
I got a divorce, and they're like, you know, but
it's like, damn, I wish people would do that for
black women, you.

Speaker 2 (28:16):
Know what I'm saying. So you're one hundred percent right?
Why no, Because I'm just saying, y'all, y'all don't understand.
I'll really be sitting and thinking about stuff, and I
read a lot of books, and I just read a
lot of articles and like me falling down black holes
on Google, like reading information when you really think about it, Like,

(28:37):
one of the most successful families right now is the Kardashians.
Like they're super successful. They're billionaires, and they literally made
so much money from just like showing everything to the
world on their reality show, Like they didn't hold nothing back.
They didn't hold nothing back us know. I mean, of course,

(28:58):
I'm sure it's things that we see don't know, because
they do to a certain extent, control the narrative. But
they have put their lives on display for us so
white and have become unarguably the most successful prominent family
when it comes to like having a reality show, yes, agreed,
building an empire, agreed. Then you think about people like,

(29:22):
for example, I was thinking about this the other day, like,
and I love Young Jock because he came on the show.
Young Jock is somebody that I know, shout out to him,
I fuck with him, I respect him. But Young Jock
went on loving hip hop and like all his at
one point he was like unarguably one of the biggest
rappers out. He ended up going on loving hip hop

(29:44):
and showcasing his personal life and his busneys. And then
people started feeling like they could play you to the
point that like a nigga used you as the intro
line to the hottest song of the summer in twenty
twenty two, twenty twenty one, whenever that was you couldn't
go nowhere and not hear that broke like Jock with

(30:05):
that dog like bed because I feel like in a
black community, nobody take you serious. Once everybody knows your business,
it's like, oh, like, don't take that nigga serious. We
know what's going on with him, and it knocks down
your superstar level Versus in a white community. I feel
like they could do that and like it really like
elevates you want versus over here. It knocks you down

(30:28):
a few notches. And I feel like one of the
main reasons that Beyonce is who she is, don't nobody know.
We still don't know what happened in that elevator Michael Jackson.
Think about the fact that who y'all ever heard doesn't
say it that they fucked Michael Jackson dirty Diana? But
who is dying? But who the fuck is dirty Diana?
Who is Diane? We still don't know who Blank your

(30:48):
mama is?

Speaker 1 (30:49):
Oh we do?

Speaker 2 (30:52):
Who the hell is Billy Jean? Not his lover Debbie who? Okay,
I don't know, Michael want anyway, did you ever see
that video on my sixth hundred pround Life where the

(31:13):
lady was her name Leashanda, I don't know her name.
The lady that be singing all the time, she was
the birthday. Yeah, yeah, she was on six Pround Life. Yeah,
I don't see. I didn't know where she came from.
That's where she came from, Okay. And then she started
doing the birthday songs and stuff, and it was like
a clip from the episode that her mama was like,
because don't know mother, No, no, mother, want no big
fat ass daughter. Yet, why would you say that about

(31:38):
your child? So now me and Shade kind of got
these east Side jokes when we said about everything. What
does this have to do with what we say them?
I don't forgot who was talking about. What was we
just talking about? We were talking about Michael Jackson and
she was like, don't know Michael Jackson, want no big

(31:59):
fast I am. So this is what I have. This
is what I sep. That's why I said I had
to get brought back. It's this drink.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
That's But no, I do agree because that was a
great comparison with young Job. I feel the same way.
Y'all gonna get mad at me in the comments.

Speaker 3 (32:27):
It's the drek. What else is gonna be mad about?

Speaker 1 (32:30):
When how they do watch Jazzy with Cam right, I
feel like they judge her off of her.

Speaker 2 (32:35):
Baby daddy, not who she is.

Speaker 1 (32:36):
Now. You may have what you think about Kim and
things like that, but why are we Because are we
judging Kim kardashing off of Kanye, Because if we're talking
about it, Kanye.

Speaker 2 (32:45):
Is way worse than Cam. But but he wasn't when
she got with him.

Speaker 1 (32:51):
I mean, I see where you're going, but Cam, the
things that he says is just more so of like,
you don't agree with how he runs his relationship. Kanye's
political views and everything has been wild.

Speaker 3 (33:04):
For a very long time.

Speaker 2 (33:06):
He wasn't wrong though on his political views. Oh when
he back in the day when he said.

Speaker 1 (33:12):
George Bush doesn't care about black people, that's.

Speaker 2 (33:13):
When he was and that's behind him. We was like crazy,
will Yeah, but that changed really quick when you wore
that Maga hat. Things started getting a little weird.

Speaker 1 (33:22):
But I will say this, but at the end of
the day, let me tell you what's gonna happen. Though
Kim left Kanye right and we're still Kim is still
very successful. If Jazzy and Kim break up, she is
not going to get the same love and people rallying
around her that Kim got. And I'm not wishing that
on Jazzy and Kim I'm not That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (33:44):
I'm agreeing with you. It's unfair. Yeah, I one percent
agree with you. You're not wrong. She not because she
played exactly. That's literally it it is. It's not it's
not fair, it's crazy. And so that's why I like
And the whole reason like I'm having this conversation with
you was because I was having a conversation with somebody
and it was like, I feel like, you know, like

(34:04):
when we have conversations, I can really tell like your
growth and how you look at things differently over the
past three four years, and how you'll be like, oh,
I probably shouldn't have been in this situation or I
handled this situation wrong. But they was like, but I
feel like you don't really say that on por Minds,
And I was like, I don't feel like I need to.

Speaker 3 (34:22):
I think it's shows, So I.

Speaker 2 (34:24):
Think it shows. But I also don't feel like I
need to just talk about everything that goes on in
my personal life on the show, because all I've ever
seen the dude is be detrimental agree to the black
people in the same space as trying to do the
same things as letting people know too much of your
business ain't never did nothing, in my opinion, and make

(34:45):
you look crazy and not work in your favorite It's
best to keep as much as you can to yourself
and just let them see the personality and let them
see what they're here for. The entertainment. Yeah, I'm here
in the same I am here to entertain my life.
Don't need to be under our microscope, even if I
do have to take the hard lists, like and I
would love to be able to share more of this

(35:06):
stuff with people, but unfortunately for us, we don't have
the same grades. Like people are gonna scrutinize it. All
we can do is sit on the phone with each other.

Speaker 3 (35:14):
And crabby, that's all.

Speaker 2 (35:15):
And that's what we do. And then we get on
like she all good. What We're gonna sit on this
couch and be like what's up y'all.

Speaker 3 (35:26):
We got to though, because you're right, we don't get
that luxury.

Speaker 2 (35:29):
We don't, and we gotta just always keep that in mind.
But you know what luxury we do get.

Speaker 3 (35:34):
We get a drink of the week, because.

Speaker 5 (35:36):
I mean, like, yeah, that's how I like it, all right.
So we got some products around so I was getting
a little inspired. So we're gonna call this one her
fantasy all right, So you can have whatever spirit of choice.
We got some tequila or vodka in these, We have

(35:58):
some apparol, we have some elder our liquor, a little
bit of lemon juice, some angle store of bitters, and
then I added a little bit of sparkling grapefruit on top,
just to give it a little bit of carbonation, a
little bit of that effortvest sence to it. So it's
kind of meeting like a little bit of bitter, but
it's strong because we only.

Speaker 2 (36:13):
Got liquor in it. The only non liquor is the limon.

Speaker 3 (36:17):
Okay, this is really good.

Speaker 5 (36:19):
Like it because it's you know, I don't like a
sweet drink, yeah, and you like grapefruit. Ooh, given it
some of that grapefruit. Those grapefruit notes.

Speaker 1 (36:27):
I like, he's a man about to get my fantasy
box today. I can't wait to finish film in the day.
I'm not gonna lie to you.

Speaker 2 (36:35):
I'm trying to not be judgy. Don't be judging. I
don't care.

Speaker 1 (36:38):
So I told y'all I love these wipes, right, I'm
glad they sent us a box.

Speaker 2 (36:45):
I'm gonna go wipe this thing off and go see
my man. You I am. It's everywhere. Wipe too. You
can do it everywhere, booty hole, every That's what I
love about it. And if you got time, if you
can stop by a sync, you can use the refresh

(37:08):
you clearly ain't at the time.

Speaker 3 (37:13):
I don't got this time.

Speaker 2 (37:14):
Let's get to it. Let's get to it. I'd be
having time to stop. Hie. Oh they're still comment on
that clip. But anyway, shout out to her fantasy box
because baby, they be having me all the way together.
That's why he can't stop.

Speaker 3 (37:31):
Blowing blowing up my phone.

Speaker 2 (37:33):
She seen me calling us. That's how he be. I
believe me. Okay, this was going I ain't gonna lot
to She could and make me feel like topic too,
So uh, let me let me scroll my own cards.

Speaker 3 (37:52):
You know we're professional. We got cards over here.

Speaker 1 (37:54):
What's an artist or a song that everyone loves but
you absolutely hate and refuse.

Speaker 2 (38:03):
To listen to?

Speaker 1 (38:03):
Okay, I think there's a lot of people these days
that can speak out. But I think there's classic records
like what like more so classic records because I don't
like to get into the.

Speaker 3 (38:17):
Stand wars like, we're not gonna do that.

Speaker 1 (38:19):
Like people like Oh, people love Beyonce, don't like people
don't like Rihanna, people don't like Cardi, they don't like Nikki,
they don't like it. We're not talking about it because
y'all don't like stuff because you don't like that person.
And a lot of times you won't like this artist,
not because you don't like them, but because you're a

(38:39):
fan of the other person. Y'all opinions don't matter. We're
talking about This song is literally two packs of ass.
You know a song I'm finna say, and you agree
with me, closer to my dree.

Speaker 3 (38:53):
That shit stinks.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
You're not getting closer to your dreams. You're actually about
to fail. And I'm a hater, so I'm laughing.

Speaker 2 (39:01):
You're I don't turn that ship off. You ain't wrong, Queen,
turn it off, you ain't wrong. I hate every time
I'm at a fucking party because they be playing that
ship at brunches in day parties. I'd be like, bitch,
where the fuck is the migo? Where the future? Why
are you playing? How is it go? I thought it was?

(39:32):
I don't know, bitch, I don't know all I know is,
don't play that hit at my brunch party. It's no
shade to her, and it ain't. It's nice. I swear
to God this night. But I just girl, I love
to listen to this when I clean up my house. Well, bitch,
that's you. I personally, you play at my house is

(39:52):
gonna be dirty. I personally love to listen to a
little bun bee okay in my house. Okay, get down,
you know, get down in the boards and the crimp.
Black community is just gonna be so disappointed. What is
it that song by that man I can't stop love.

(40:15):
I don't like that. Ya you don't like him? I don't.
I didn't say I don't like him.

Speaker 3 (40:23):
I didn't.

Speaker 2 (40:23):
I don't like him. Kim kill Jess put a capture.
It's him, Kim is him. I don't like that song. Okay,
that's fair that I be so tired of. Okay, I'm
special with all the black community. Oh girl, go risk
taken up not fever, because I mean they literally might

(40:49):
not wake up.

Speaker 1 (40:52):
Okay, y'all gonna get mad when I'm in the club
and they play this song. I get so mad because
it's like, give.

Speaker 3 (41:00):
It up delicious man, I got this sweat.

Speaker 2 (41:06):
I have imagined my because I'm a still swag. I
don't like it. No, I hate it.

Speaker 1 (41:12):
I hate swag surfing the club you wild, I can't
it just don't hit like it used to.

Speaker 2 (41:20):
Real. I think they've played it out. It's too much.

Speaker 3 (41:23):
I will do it.

Speaker 2 (41:23):
I'm with you, Dre. I'm still gonna do it. I'm
a It is like I'm a millennial. Yeah, it was
all time to shine twenty When did they come out
twenty eleven, twenty twelve? It was a long time ago. Enough. Yeah,
I'm still and they's very nostalgic for me.

Speaker 3 (41:41):
Yeah, I love it.

Speaker 2 (41:42):
Some moments time I can't. I can't get into it.

Speaker 5 (41:46):
I have one what the black community is also gonna
hate me?

Speaker 2 (41:50):
Family Affair by Mary J. Blish hater ration, holiration. I
thought she was gonna say, by the sisters, it's a
family fat like andration and dancery. I don't like it. Oh,
I can't agree with you. I don't like Yeah, then

(42:11):
I'm flipped them Carls was bouncing that influenced the generation
with them flips, I agree, he birthed the nation. She
sure did. It's like, but this is why I can't.
I can't. This is why I'm high. That's another one.
I turned that all this ship that just made me

(42:33):
think about that she This is why I'm hog turned
it off.

Speaker 6 (42:39):
This is why, this is why, this is why I'm hot.
Su I'm hot because don't fly because you're not. This
is That's why this is why I'm hot.

Speaker 3 (42:50):
That ship stinks.

Speaker 2 (42:52):
But back then it was hard because don't act like
you wasn't in your house. This is why, this is why,
this is why I'm It.

Speaker 3 (43:00):
Wasn't shit hot.

Speaker 2 (43:01):
It was given room temperature. Bitch, it wasn't hut at all.
That was a good song back in the day. Okay,
I'll give it to you back in the day. But yeah,
you was right. Shit was asked just like you know,
it's a few songs that have just.

Speaker 1 (43:18):
Okay, I say, I see Okay. So there's a thing
y'all know. I'm on TikTok heavily. So there's this a
trend going on right now and people are like rapping
to tea pains chopped and screwed, and they're telling.

Speaker 3 (43:31):
People what they're doing wrong.

Speaker 1 (43:33):
So there's this girl going back and forth with Lizzo,
right and what I've noticed is like a lot of
people be like saying this about Lizzo's music and they
feel like, oh, I can't get into it. But y'all
have to realize Lizzo makes music for her audience, and
I think she does it well because you know where
a lot of artists mess up at is they start

(43:54):
making music for their audience. They seek success, then they
want to start let me experiment. No, bit, you're not
ready to experiment. Keep feeding your audience. I'm pretty sure
there's a lot of things we want to talk about
on Poor Minds, but we gotta feed the audience.

Speaker 3 (44:08):
But we still have a fun time doing it fed
the audience.

Speaker 2 (44:13):
You know, So why is Lizo going back and forth
with this lady because the lady said that she was
off beat and she going back and forth with her. Yeah. Yeah,
but it's funny.

Speaker 1 (44:23):
It's like a funny thing, and like they're going back
and forth and the people like, are y'all flirting? It's
kind of funny though, but it's not like a bad thing.
But it's just like, I think y'all need to realize
that sometimes some music isn't for you. This is the
first time I've talked about music that I hate outside
of Troy's songs in Eminem and.

Speaker 2 (44:41):
You ain't all with Tree songs and Eminem because we're.

Speaker 3 (44:45):
Not doing again. We're not doing this again. We're not
doing this again. They've been eating me up for months, and.

Speaker 2 (44:49):
They should because you sound ridiculous. The only great take
that you had today was going GAI. First of all,
that's the only the air.

Speaker 1 (45:00):
Let me clear the air right now for all the
eminem stands out there.

Speaker 2 (45:04):
I never said his music was always asked. I said
it didn't.

Speaker 1 (45:09):
Age well, meaning I liked it at one point in time,
and the way your brain works that you remember things,
so of course I'm gonna remember all the lyrics because
I used to sing the songs because when I was
twelve it was hot five just like you said, this
is why I'm hot.

Speaker 3 (45:26):
I know the words still because I was rapping it
back then.

Speaker 2 (45:29):
After you just trying to act like you would sing,
but I was. I knew it.

Speaker 1 (45:33):
But at thirty six years old, I'm just not listening
to his music.

Speaker 2 (45:36):
We're not gonna click this.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
All I'm saying is y'all been eating me up for
months in my comments, like please give me a break.
I said it was good at one point, it just
didn't age well. You know what aged well?

Speaker 2 (45:47):
Song cry?

Speaker 3 (45:48):
I can't see it coming down my eyes. But I
gotta let this song.

Speaker 2 (45:52):
Cry because that's relatable across all ages.

Speaker 1 (45:55):
This with the lyrics, the beat, everything, everything, it's timeless.

Speaker 2 (46:00):
Were still crying, jay Z were still ya I can't
drink No look good fantasy yo, one of my favorite

(46:22):
jay Z song. Yeah that is yeah. You know what's
funny is that you should do that when we have gigs,
when you be trying to get in the studio, but
you don't even do that. I don't know why you're
doing that for me. I can't get you no studios.
I don't want to make a song with nobody but you.

(46:44):
And what I'm gonna do rap, Yes, I could wrap this.
That's what I'm saying. Dude, No gotta move. We gotta
move on. We're doing this again. We keep stretching.

Speaker 1 (46:56):
So now okay, so but before we move on, let
us know what is a song or a popular artist
or a popular song that y'all just don't like.

Speaker 3 (47:03):
Let us know in the comments. I'm really interested.

Speaker 2 (47:05):
I'm interested to know too. I'm curious to know shout
out to Cocktail Kick and y'all make sure y'all gonna
get that game. Now it's time to get into the
big bowld B bow a bow Bow Bow Bow Bow.

Speaker 1 (47:22):
So this segment of the bed is sponsored by of course,
y'all see her fantasy boxes in the building with us.
We have all their good products. I'm telling you, if
that thing ain't as sweet as it should be, you
need to go to her fantasy box. They're gonna get
you right.

Speaker 2 (47:38):
I mean literally everything. They have all type of washes,
they have to refresh jill. They have the other yummy
jail good for you you're about to get into me.
They got it everywhere. The odor ring, which is good
to just you know, make you smell good, freshen you
up after the gym. I like security in my gym
bag personally. And then they also have the body splash oils.

(47:58):
They have supposits, whoes, they have horror fi a pills,
anything that you need slippery bodies, even if you having
problems getting wet slippery.

Speaker 3 (48:07):
Excuse me, y'all want to know how I saved up
my money to get you.

Speaker 2 (48:12):
I could use some of that tonight. That's what I'm
saying we're getting okay. Gunned his thing. That's a great song.

Speaker 1 (48:25):
Yeah, bought the house and I was able to stack
up my money because I was wiping and giving.

Speaker 2 (48:32):
Them that I was getting okay.

Speaker 1 (48:37):
So anyways, shout out to her fantasy box in the building.
But what a bad topic today. Do you tell your
girlfriends everything about your sex life?

Speaker 2 (48:47):
Like some women tell every detail? Right, Oh, his dick
was small, his dick was big. Uh, it was good.

Speaker 1 (48:54):
He couldn't do it, he didn't have no rhythm. But
other women just be like, I'm not telling my friends that.
Like what makes you choose what friends you tell what to?

Speaker 2 (49:07):
I don't know. I think for me, it's just become
a maturity thing, and I just feel like your friends
don't need to know everything. But when I was younger,
I didn't give a fuck. I used to tell my
friends a lot of stuff just because at the end
of the day, like, who cares the reason to me
why older women will tell their daughters and their nieces

(49:29):
and stuff. Don't tell people your bees is because if
you tell her how good his dick is or how
good the sexy is, she might steal your man. One
of my friends still in my man ain't never been
a fear of mine, So I don't care about telling
them my bees. I'm not worried about that because I'm
confident enough in myself, in my relationship rise to my
man to know that, Like, even if one of my

(49:51):
friends did try some sheit, my man ain't going and
I just got to cut you off because you're you're
weird though, But like that's just not a fear of mine.
I feel like that's what friendship is for. Like you're
supposed to share stuff with your friends. I have had
some funny ass conversations with my friends about six I
have had some serious conversations. I have had some scary
conversations as far as like like pregnancy and stuff package no,

(50:15):
like no bitch, pregnancy scares and stuff like I think
we exactly what the fuck you wrong with this speech?
What at least once an episode? What at least you
did it? Because what? But no, Like, I feel like

(50:38):
that is what womanhood is about. It's about sharing, It's
about having conversations. I mean, I don't know, so how
how do you feel? I agree?

Speaker 5 (50:44):
I feel like if you can't trust your friend, like
if you feel like your friend is gonna snake you,
or you don't want to share that information because she's
gonna use it against you, then.

Speaker 2 (50:51):
That's really not your friends. Yeah, but I think I've
learned a lot about sex and being comfortable with sex
through having those conversations transparently with my friend. It's like,
what you doing? How you sucking? Because I didn't know,
Like my mom didn't teach me that time to teach
you a little more like walk you through that, and you.

Speaker 5 (51:08):
Feel a little more comfortable to kind of explore and
ask more questions.

Speaker 2 (51:13):
I agree.

Speaker 1 (51:14):
I feel like there's never been a conversation. First of all,
there's never been a conversation I've had with a friend
and she'd be like, oh, I fuck this nigga and
his dick was so good, and I'd be like, oh
let me let.

Speaker 2 (51:21):
Me Yeah, it's just ain't crabcakes. This is a man.

Speaker 3 (51:25):
What the fuck are you talking about?

Speaker 2 (51:27):
What do we you know what I'm saying, Like it
gets a little weird. I have never had a common wrong.
I have a real though, like I've never it's not
one size fits all. I'm not like because also, what
is good to you might not be good to me,
And am I really willing to mess up my friendship
to test it out. No, like that's so weird.

Speaker 1 (51:48):
Once you tell me that you have had sex with
a man and y'all are dating and you really like him,
Oh he's off rip, that's broke, Like, that's that's my
bro we ain't never, don't don't say no weird, don't
do nothing weird because I'm stitching. I'm a rat, Like
like Drea's neighbor, I'm a rat. So I just think
that when it's never. If I don't share something with

(52:10):
somebody that's my close friend that I've done sexually, it's
not because like I'm embarrassed.

Speaker 3 (52:15):
It's just like, oh I gotta sit it down. We
gotta have a little tie drink before.

Speaker 2 (52:20):
Hello, what I did? Now? Because sometimes I done did
some shit. That's two for you. Yeah, I'm not gonna
lie I did something.

Speaker 1 (52:28):
So something happened to me the other day that was
so freaky. I said, you know what, I need to
keep this to myself. I'm not ready to share this
with the class.

Speaker 3 (52:35):
Yep.

Speaker 2 (52:35):
Yeah, I'm gonna share it with the class eventually. But
I got it. I got the process this shit. Yeah,
yeah it went down. Sometimes it goes down, it goes down.
I don't know. To me, it's more about bonding and laughs,
like just having a good time, like having conversations, we out,
we having drinks. Are we having a girls night and

(52:56):
we just talking about our week? We talk about girl
this is what I did last night. I don't necessarily
even feel like it's about bragging and stuff, because I
do feel like some women and that's when they get
a little weird. Some women do be telling a friends
stuff to be like bragging.

Speaker 3 (53:09):
But how you bragging on dick? Dick is the easiest
thing to get or a freaky like I don't know.

Speaker 2 (53:15):
I feel like, do you think Dick is easy to get?
I feel like DC ain't good. Deck ain't easy to get.
Quality deck ain't easy to eat.

Speaker 3 (53:22):
It's not.

Speaker 1 (53:22):
But what I'm qual quality Dick is not. But it
has nothing to do with you as a person.

Speaker 2 (53:27):
So you can be the shittiest.

Speaker 1 (53:29):
Woman in the world getting quality Dick. You can be
the best woman in the world getting trash dick. Some
niggas got good Dick. If some niggas don't, they gonna
give you the quality Dick because he just got something.

Speaker 2 (53:40):
Quality Dick will be attached to the worst person in
the world. So sometimes when I think of quality, Dick,
I'm thinking more and so about the person's Like, it's
quality deep if it's attached to a quality person. And
that's what I was. Because you like to make love.
You're talking about sweet sweet love. That's what you're talking about.
I mean.

Speaker 1 (54:01):
Less getting enough had just so week can make sweet love.

Speaker 2 (54:08):
It was the last time you made love, girl, Like
two weeks ago you was making sweet sweet thing. I'm ashamed.
I don't be ashamed of it. Don't be ashamed. I
shouldn't have because I backtracked.

Speaker 3 (54:22):
Sometimes you gotta make sweet love ye the Blue Corn movie.

Speaker 2 (54:26):
But then way because then now your feelings we all
like you be like, oh my god, I love him again.
You never stopped. That's what's crazy about it. But sometimes
when you make sweet love, you be like, oh I
love him again.

Speaker 3 (54:38):
It ain't again, bit you never stopped.

Speaker 2 (54:40):
So what's too much to share? Like Kinks play by play,
Like you don't need.

Speaker 1 (54:46):
To tell me every little thing that he said and did,
but you can tell me, Like there's a difference between
being like, oh, girl, we had anal sex last night
versus girl, we had ama unn he stuck it in
and it hurt and it started bleeding a little bit because.

Speaker 2 (54:59):
It cut my bootyhole. Yeah, you don't have to tell
me all that. Then I had to get her fantasy
box and I had to wipe it up because you know,
the mess was.

Speaker 3 (55:07):
You ain't got to do all that, but you can
give me a little you know, we did aim last night.

Speaker 1 (55:12):
It was it got a little crazy, got a little message. Yeah,
but you don't have to go with specific details.

Speaker 2 (55:17):
And from what I've learned from my married friends, they
try not to embarrass their significant others. So if it's
anything that like will portray them in a negative light,
they usually keep that to themselves as private and they
just don't share all of that information too, because that's
how they protect their relationship.

Speaker 3 (55:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (55:33):
Yeah, I think there's lines where it's like funny and
it's like oh ha ha, and then there's like okay,
you're taking sh it too far, takes.

Speaker 2 (55:41):
Me so good, I say blah blah blah, or I
need to less a wat time, and I'm just saying like,
I don't know, it's really your good friend and y'all
are cool and you trust them. I don't necessarily feel
like it's too much that you could heal. But like
I do agree with hot on the embarrassing part, Like

(56:02):
I can say nothing that's embarrassing, Like I think, in
a relationship till this, I don't care.

Speaker 1 (56:07):
If you've been married for ten years, fifteen years, been
in a relationship ten years, fifteen years, whatever, You're gonna
still have some embarrassing moments in the bed and it
may be funny. Y'all may handle it different, but I
don't need to tell y'all that.

Speaker 2 (56:18):
So have y'all ever regretted sharing too much with your friends?

Speaker 1 (56:23):
That's why I said what I said the other week
when I was like, I don't know how to be
a fifty percent friend and one hundred percent friend. Thank God,
I have never had a friendship that I'm in no,
because my friends aren't weird. People are weird. Those people
become friends with weird those they do I have. I
am so blessed, by the grace of God. I don't

(56:44):
have any weirdo friends. So everything that I share with
y'all's like, ooh, girl, you crazy, and I never hear
about it again unless I bring it up.

Speaker 3 (56:52):
They're not like, but.

Speaker 2 (56:53):
Lex you remember when you told me you busted that
booty hole because you was hungry. We got to tell
people I need to rama noodles in a little Briton.
I thought that was between us and the family.

Speaker 1 (57:06):
Well you know, if that's why I can't surround myself
with weird those, I can't do it. Have you ever
regretted sharing things with a friend?

Speaker 2 (57:15):
Yeah? Yeah, but you learn though I did, but it
was somebody I had to learn. Like I be thinking
people be my friends and they don't really be my friends.
And I feel like that has come with wisdom and age,
Like at this point I be knowing who my friends
are and who I can tell certain stuff to and
who I can't. Just because we'd be having a good
time together and you're a nice girl, and you know

(57:38):
we've been having good conversations and we've been friends for
a few months, that don't mean I could really confide
in you, like right, So yeah, I have regretted it,
just because I told somebody something before Andy and they
told like it got back to the men. Now that's
a messy bee Liz for drama. Yeah, ended up getting
back to him. What I said was she was just

(58:00):
missy as fuck. And she had her own personal agenda.

Speaker 3 (58:03):
I think I remember what situation you were talking about.

Speaker 2 (58:05):
Yeah, she had her own personal agenda with that situation.
So you know it ended up not but it didn't
really matter that much because I mean, we still get
fucking with after that. She said, I can't leave alone.
She's too good. I don't matter that she was talking
about me, and don't give a fuck. I know, my
big bab bitch, you ain't getting me, noughty.

Speaker 3 (58:30):
Okay, moving on to the item of the week.

Speaker 1 (58:34):
Yes, I'm actually really excited about this item of the
week because let me tell y'all something about me Andrea
and poor minds before we get into this, because we
have entered a new era of doing like item of
the weeks with different items because this is what y'all
have requested because every week we talk about you know,
either mused beauty or rich Look Hair, and y'all were like,
we want to actually see some products. But the thing

(58:56):
about it is we have to actually like the product
if you're featured on the show, right, you know what
I'm saying. So like every time y'all see us doing
an ad, whether it's paid or not, these are products
that we actually use and swear about because I think
that I'm over that era of seeing influencers, podcasters, anybody
promote a product that they actually don't stand by.

Speaker 2 (59:17):
And I will say.

Speaker 3 (59:20):
This Kendle smells amazing.

Speaker 1 (59:24):
This is the newest collection by c Freemen. And when
I tell y'all that laundry day life, I.

Speaker 2 (59:32):
Love laundry day. And then I also love the fact
that these CBD infused I feel like, you know, it's
very calm. It brings a sense of calm over you.
It just like fields your house up feels your space.
Because right now we have it in the studio. Yes,
and it smells amazing in here, like I wish that
y'all could scratch a snews. I'm telling y'all it smells

(59:52):
like laundry day for real. Like when I walk in
my laundry room and I open that door, its just
like a burst. Ooh, this smells so fresh and clean.

Speaker 3 (01:00:01):
That's what that smells like.

Speaker 1 (01:00:03):
Yeah, Now we have the Sadin sheets too, Saturn sheet.
Now we have the Sadin sheets too. Saturn sheet smells good.
It smells good.

Speaker 2 (01:00:12):
But this laundry day, that's our fave. Laundry day is
our favor, but satin sheets is amazing as well. I
feel like you can't go wrong with either sins. So
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Speaker 3 (01:00:25):
Candles, Yes, get you a candle. One thing about it.

Speaker 1 (01:00:29):
Y'all know Drea's house is always extremely clean. My house
is always extremely clean. But having a clean house with
no smell good, it doesn't hit the same. If you
don't have candles in your house, I know you are
temporary cleaning ass bitch. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:00:43):
I love for people to walk in my house and
be like, oh, it's smell good in here. And they
say that every time. Every time. You not why because
I got Home by Sea Freeman That's why. Yeah, And
then they be like, now I feel like I want
to take a little nail. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I
love it.

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that's the item of the week.

Speaker 2 (01:01:08):
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Speaker 3 (01:01:18):
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Speaker 2 (01:01:22):
What we got next? Dre Okay, So now it's time
to get into the by a Love. So what you've
been listening to licks? Oh my gosh.

Speaker 1 (01:01:35):
So I'm so excited because y'all know we had Queen
Naje on the show, and I'm not gonna lie. I
haven't heard the song yet, so I'm maybe doing a
pre bop of the week. But by this by the
time this drops, it'll be out. But you know how,
sometimes you hear a snippet and you be like, I
am so ready for this.

Speaker 3 (01:01:57):
I am so ready for this.

Speaker 1 (01:01:58):
So Queen Naja has a song dropping call Rain, and
it sounds so good.

Speaker 2 (01:02:03):
It sounds so good.

Speaker 1 (01:02:04):
I think a lot of times people try to play
with Queen because you know, she did the YouTube. She
was a content creator at first, but we forget how
talented this woman really is. And when I tell y'all
that snippet I heard, I cannot.

Speaker 3 (01:02:17):
Wait to hear the song.

Speaker 2 (01:02:18):
She looks good too, like she has.

Speaker 1 (01:02:21):
Been posting like little clips of her like shooting the video. Y'all,
when y'all do rollouts, This is to all the artists,
because I'm a music stand. When y'all do rollouts, stop
dropping music with no video whenever she drops this song,
the video is dropping too. When I hear a song,
I want to see the video because what are you feeling?
Because how are you singing the song? Because the way

(01:02:42):
you singing it may be different from the way I'm
interpreting it. So I saw that she was shooting the
video the other day. This is how you do a rollout.
Let's bring back proper rollouts. Beyonce got y'all thinking that
y'all can just drop music in the middle.

Speaker 3 (01:02:53):
Of the night. Y'all can't do what Beyonce do. Okay,
let's bring back proper.

Speaker 2 (01:03:00):
She gave us years of rollouts, years of is just
dropping me.

Speaker 1 (01:03:04):
So by the time, like I said, this drops, hopefully
I'll have heard the whole song. But I heard the
snippet of rain by Queen, and I'm really excited. I'm
really excited for the drop.

Speaker 3 (01:03:12):
So okay, as a Queen note.

Speaker 2 (01:03:14):
A girl, you know we love you over here we
do so. Yes, So Mariah is a Scientist came out
with a new album, Yes Heart Soul Simperately, and I
like the album as a whole. I feel like it's
a good album. But my favorite song is Easy to
Crime featuring Kelly Ucci, she's sample. I'm not sure that's

(01:03:34):
a good question. Okay, I don't really know. Okay, I
don't know. That's just the name of the song. But
I'm like, I don't know, because you know, sometimes the
way people sample, so if you can't really necessarily tell
right off the rip, but I don't think so okay,
But yeah, so is it a crime? Mariah the Scientists

(01:03:55):
and Kelly Ucci's it's such a good song, like it's
it's for the real love, It's what the real love is.
You gonna listen to it and be like, oh my god.
At one point in my life, I remember feeling this
way about a man, because men will really take you
down there. And I feel like Mariah the Scientist does
a really good job of capturing that, and like her

(01:04:16):
pen game is crazy. You have to really listen to
the words or really even go sometimes read the lyrics
of her songs and see what she really saying, because yeah,
she really is a voice for the girls. But it's
a good song.

Speaker 1 (01:04:31):
I really like, I can't play with Mara the Scientists
pen you can. It's very deep and it's deeper than
what people realize.

Speaker 2 (01:04:36):
And I think her music career is gonna go very far.
But even like at one point, if she decides that
she doesn't actually want to be an artist anymore, she
has a very promising career being like a writer and
a producer a dream mm hmm. The words, it'd be
the words. Some people just know how to put words

(01:04:57):
together in such like an eloquent way.

Speaker 1 (01:05:00):
Like the way I put the whole as nigga together, okay,
and it just flows off the tongue. It'll make you
feel something.

Speaker 2 (01:05:10):
Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:05:12):
I hear you, but you don't feel me.

Speaker 2 (01:05:15):
I mean you know, I just feel like whole ass nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:05:18):
That's soul, but it ain't like because it's got different
whole as nigga. Okay, because you playing, but you'll be saying,
but I'm in a different moment.

Speaker 2 (01:05:30):
Whole a nigga. That's how you always say it, But.

Speaker 3 (01:05:33):
It depends what that you catch me on. So you
ain't caught me on a good day.

Speaker 2 (01:05:36):
You can't say whole ass niggas an ah, whole ass
nigga like it's no nice way.

Speaker 3 (01:05:44):
It is a nice way to say it because you
know how to be like, bitch, please.

Speaker 2 (01:05:50):
You a whole as niggle my face. You didn't feel
like I really meant you as a whole ass nigga.
I don't know they call me ass nigga'nna take it
a person. If I said it like that, you wouldn't
think gonna be for real. It's three bad words, whole
ass and nigga. That's like a triple insult. Somebody say

(01:06:14):
bitch bitch, just one word Bitch's you crazy? You as nigga,
that's like bitch ass nigga, that's three insul And in
the way you said you'd be like Debo, woe.

Speaker 1 (01:06:31):
Ass nigga who because niggas be whole ass niggas for
free ass niggas, freaky.

Speaker 3 (01:06:35):
Ass niggas for real, you assisting nine go niggas.

Speaker 2 (01:06:38):
Would be freaky ass damn niggas be freaking What is
wrong with y'all? I had a man, I had a
block this morning on Instagram. I don't even know you.
Why you sending me pictures of your penis literally full flash.

Speaker 1 (01:06:53):
I'm just opening like I like to open my messages
like I just because I like to respond to people.

Speaker 3 (01:06:57):
I am an engaged person.

Speaker 1 (01:07:00):
But honestly, I'm getting to the point where like, I
can't even talk to y'all because what am I opening?

Speaker 2 (01:07:03):
Why would you do that?

Speaker 1 (01:07:04):
That's disrespect It's disrespectful because I beat y'all ass when
I see you don't get an I fights niggas.

Speaker 2 (01:07:11):
Baby. He said, you need to see this meat, gonna
bring it to your front doorstep. You gonna see this deep,
shut up, I know you want this. That was a
good song. I don't ask me that, damn because Kindrick

(01:07:33):
and Drago's going bar for ball. I feel like Drake's
verse was better. Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (01:07:38):
Personally, Okay, it was a great song. But what do
you think I think that it was a great song.
What do you think girl song?

Speaker 3 (01:07:46):
Kendrick lumpma ca me just think so you like?

Speaker 2 (01:07:52):
I respect it? Okay, moving on, So y'all know it's
time to get into our favorite segment of the show,
which is pour your heart out. You know, if you
have any questions, you can always send them to askfour
Minds at gmail dot com. That's a skp ou r
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send us show testimonials. I was like, we haven't got
a testimonial in a long time, right, probably.

Speaker 1 (01:08:14):
Want something bad, like giving bad advice or someone been like,
you messed up my life.

Speaker 2 (01:08:19):
But maybe that's the testament to our growth, because we
don't be fucking people life up no more. We've been
giving him good advice. We don't grow all right question them. Awe, Hey, ladies.
I dated a guy from work and things didn't work out.
We broke up his call last April on the fourth.
He married someone else this year, ironically on the fourth

(01:08:39):
of April, and unfortunately, we still see each other once
a week. I've cut ties with him since he got married,
but we recently went out to celebrate one of our
colleagues farewell and he was quite flirtatious with me. This
is the second time we've interactedly since he got married,
and both times he's he's been flirtatious. This time, though,
I realized I'm still being much in love with him.

(01:09:01):
I don't know what to do, to be honest, I
want to move on, but haven't been able to date
since we broke up. I cannot seem to get over
this person, and I feel like that part of my
life is still at a standstill. You want him more
because he's married, and because you can't have him.

Speaker 3 (01:09:16):
You don't really love him. It's a we want what
we can't have type of things.

Speaker 1 (01:09:22):
Y'all stop talking for a reason, and we tend to
romanticize everything, especially women. Men do this too, but I
can only speak from a woman's standpoint. Obviously, you don't.

Speaker 2 (01:09:32):
Want this man.

Speaker 1 (01:09:33):
You just want him more because you feel like he's
off limits. And I think that that's something that you
have to work on internally to understand why. You know,
we need to start wanting things that are for us
that God.

Speaker 2 (01:09:44):
Sent to us.

Speaker 3 (01:09:44):
This is not sent by God. This is not a
situation that you want to be involved in.

Speaker 2 (01:09:49):
He's married, yeah, And I feel like you also got
to keep in mind it's something to be said about
you dating somebody first and him marrying someone else. So
I feel like if youse the toy, if you was
the person he wanted to be with, he would have
chose you, and to me, that would be enough piece
for me to be able to move on from a situation.
It's just knowing like you chose You could have chose me,

(01:10:11):
but you chose to be with somebody else because you
said it was his call to y'all broke up and
then he ended up getting with this other girl marrying
her within a year. He never wanted you like that,
so I just would move on and get overy. I
know that sounds a little harsh, but I mean sometimes
as women as we have to do because he's clearly
moved on, and of course me and are gonna flirt.

(01:10:32):
Flirting is like low key harmless. Well my opinion, it
depends on who it is.

Speaker 1 (01:10:38):
I think that it's harmless. I do agree with you
on that, but some people feel like that's overboard. But
I also think it's also breadcrumbs. I think his flirting
that's something deep when he probably is not even thinking.

Speaker 3 (01:10:51):
About the conversation that he had.

Speaker 1 (01:10:52):
Because a lot of times people would think you're being
flirting and you're really just being nice. Exactly he really
flirting or what's he being nice? But when you like somebody,
somebody be like, oh hey, how you doing. You look
nice today, and you'll be like, oh my god, girl,
he want me so bad, he.

Speaker 2 (01:11:09):
Want me so damage like he ow my deck who
Tom like he was you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:11:14):
So I think it's like I don't really know what
that flirting was, but it could be that he was
seriously flirting. But either way, flirting is breadcrumbs because, like
Drea said, it's harsh to.

Speaker 3 (01:11:25):
Say, but he didn't choose you.

Speaker 2 (01:11:27):
He didn't and he could have right, he could happen,
he didn't. So I think the best thing you can
do is move on. And marriage is permanent. Like Aniza
picked somebody to be their wife and he like, oh,
I'm a marry hood he really sure that he don't
want you, making am I wrong? Can't get clearer, It
can't get clearer, like I'm legally binding myself to these persons.

(01:11:49):
And I don't know what y'all know about divorces, but like,
getting divorced is not necessarily an easy process. So like
for somebody to be like, oh, I'm a marry this woman,
he's clearly making me very plain and simple to you
that like she don and you so just let it go.
See a little flirting here and there, that don't mean

(01:12:10):
she because he probably would even fuck if you let him.
That don't mean he gonna leave his wife though.

Speaker 3 (01:12:16):
All right, So question number tip M.

Speaker 2 (01:12:21):
You know what, Tom, before we wrap this up, I'm
getting shot over here. Girl. I knew he was gonna
say that, but diddo I was exclusive with a guy
for six months.

Speaker 3 (01:12:32):
It was a messy situation because he was my exes op,
but I was still talking to my ex anyways.

Speaker 1 (01:12:41):
After six months, I got a hey girl text and
basically he was on the same ship as he was
with me and her, and she gave me all the
receipts and everything. However, he got mad and blocked her
and said he just wants to be with me and
he doesn't know why he did that.

Speaker 2 (01:13:00):
Maybe he's sick. Should I leave him? I don't know
if he cares or leave it since we're not properly together.
I just feel like would be wrong with people, Like
how do y'all be just dating people for so long
and not stay in boundaries? I agree, I even know

(01:13:21):
whether we together or not? A sad and I also think, oh,
go ahead, Well, I was just gonna say. I feel
like knowing that will naturally prevent a lot of things
from happening, Like if you and this person are sure
that y'all are solidified and y'all are in a relationship
and this is what it is and this is what
we're doing. This is my man, I'm his girl. A
lot of like it won't be so much great area,

(01:13:43):
and you won't have to wonder because I don't know.
In that situation, I kind of feel like, is he
wrong if y'all ain't really together, not really.

Speaker 3 (01:13:53):
Agreed.

Speaker 2 (01:13:54):
And also it's been six months.

Speaker 1 (01:13:56):
I just feel like you don't know somebody in six months,
but you should at least know what you want and
what you want to build towards.

Speaker 3 (01:14:02):
Yeah, and I feel like.

Speaker 1 (01:14:04):
Six months is still the honeymoon stage. Why y'all going
through mess in the first six months like that should
be the blissful Oh my god, he's so perfect still,
So I would say move on and let it go personal.

Speaker 2 (01:14:17):
Because I don't I don't necessarily think he wrong. Y'all
not together. It's never been put on paper concrete that
like this, my man.

Speaker 3 (01:14:27):
Oh yeah, because I'll let it be known.

Speaker 2 (01:14:29):
Will you be making assumptions with the old people say,
make an ass out of you and me when you
assume No, that's right. Yeah, let's close this out with
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if I want to fill blog. I'm trying to figure

(01:15:11):
it out with us. But I do appreciate the fifteen
k subscribers that we do have. Yeah, and you're doing amazing.
I think the blogs are interesting, but sometimes you.

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Gotta pivot, you know what I mean.

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I think that's it.

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Let's take this shot. Take the shots and shout out
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so Mixy in the building period. We'll see y'all next week, y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:16:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:16:42):
Oh, Monday, you and your man had an inaugumen, y'all
always arguing about something. And Tuesday, that Tuesday morning, it
Zarna had you laid for work and you gotta deal
with your bus. And then on Wednesday, your sister says

(01:17:03):
she ain't gonna babysit it on Thursday and it's a
seven time flaking on you. But she would look forward
to Friday because you know when you get home, I'm
gonna be there because I'm your week in love. You
don't have come on you get home because I'm your

(01:17:27):
weekend love. Sell theophone and whatever you got on is
coming off. I'll pick you up, I'll lay you down.
Fridays and Saturdays.

Speaker 3 (01:17:42):
You need me around because i'm your week lover.

Speaker 2 (01:17:48):
So go ahead and sleep in and I'll make sure
you have a good week. And relax. Now I'm gonna
run at bubble bath. You could put your feet up,
feed up. Don't you worry about the same. The baby's
at your mama's house. Got a hundred candles and roses. Baby,

(01:18:10):
I ain't playing no games. Sit on this moment at
my MoU Sit down on the sofa while I cook
you a meal a and when we're done, we'll go
and have some fun in the bedroom. Because I know
you're looking forward to your week in love.

Speaker 1 (01:18:33):
You don't have to call.

Speaker 2 (01:18:35):
I'll be at your dome when you get home because
i'm your weeked love. Please don't ins phone and whatever
you got on, it's coming off. Wat's off. I pick
you up, I lay you down. Fridays and Saturdays you
need me around because I'm your weekend love. Go ahead

(01:19:00):
and sleep and I'll make sure you have a good
week like the queen that you walk as you deserve it.
Girl says you deserve me. Girl, hope you know that
to me, you're a super sorrow met you service girl?

(01:19:21):
Wanna be a servant baby. Let's need a couple head
to go and get away, just closure. I said, you
don't have to leave your place. I'll be your comfort.
You won't need another because I'll give you everything you need. Girl,
I'm your week in love. You don't have to call.

(01:19:46):
I'll be et your doll when you get homes I'm
your week gett love and sell the phone and whatever
you go on, it's coming in off girl.

Speaker 4 (01:20:00):
I'll pick you up, lay your time, gave me your
rounds off your weeked love, So go ahead and sleep
then and know make sure you have a good weekend.

Speaker 2 (01:20:20):
How to make sure you have a good weekend? Have
a good weekend, bitch e bis

Speaker 1 (01:21:05):
Bis turn
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