October 3, 2025 • 58 mins
This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with Serayah and Tyler Lepley for a conversation that’s equal parts entertaining, real, and inspiring. This highly anticipated conversation is all about their new movie, Ruth and Boaz. We’re talking love, balance, what it means to find your “Ruth” or your “Boaz,” and how faith can keep you grounded even when life gets tough.
The ladies spice things up with a round of “Who’s most likely to?” Would Ruth block Boaz just to be petty or the other way around? 👀 From the jokes to the lessons, Serayah and Tyler bring it back to the importance of Black Love today, and keep it real about what it takes to make relationships work in a hyper-sexualized world.
You don’t want to miss this episode! We're talking Ruth & Boaz energy, but with a Pour Minds twist. Because let’s be real, everybody wants their Boaz. This episode is funny, unfiltered, and still full of inspiration — this one will have you laughing and reflecting.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
But how do you navigate feel like being in character
but also being respectful to your partner.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
I can see why it's confusing for people, confusing.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
For me, like, what's up? What we doing that?
Speaker 4 (00:17):
They are the stars of the new Tyler Perry film
on Netflix's Roots and bow As. Did y'all see any
similarities in yourself with the characters that you played in
the movie.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I remember certain scenes where I'm just like, I feel
her you can be guarded even though people are like,
how could you.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Be not giving? In toyl.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
You know, I feel like the character of ball As
is like you know.
Speaker 5 (00:40):
He is the BDB. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Don't talk about that ballance that y'all have to have
because you know, you have a child, you are a
new mom.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
And congratulations you enjoy just have a really good system
of just communication, Like what do you gotta do with all?
Speaker 6 (00:58):
I gotta do?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
How we're gonna do it?
Speaker 6 (00:59):
Well?
Speaker 4 (00:59):
How do you y'all feel about people always over sexualizing
y'all's relationships because I have seen people like in both
of y'all tell me I would love to be a
fly on the wall.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
I know he talked her through.
Speaker 7 (01:11):
It's ridiculous how surface level we've become, all three of
y'all beautiful women. But it's like if we hyper focus
on that, we start to lose what y'all really are.
I mean, you have a certain innocence to you. Try
now that's a fact. Yeah, like you.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
What's up, y'all? It's your girl, Les Pink and it's
schr Girlrea Nicole and you are tuned in to another
episode of four Minds.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Where speaks birthday.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
We gotta yes, Suday, we got some good Suday period.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
We have the beautiful in Tallency Soraya in the building.
I know y'all seen her on Empire and I forgot
I used to watch Kingdom Beusney too.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Yes, girl, I love that show.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
And we have the handsome, intallentcy Tyler Litley in the building.
I know y'all have seen him on Pea Valley and
on Harlem too.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Guess y'all welcome them to the show. We are so
glad to have, y'all. Ina, and they.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Are the stars of the new Tyler Perry film on Netflix,
Ruth and Boas, which we had the privilege of seeing yesterday,
and it was such a good movie.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Yea, y'all did amazing.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Y yes, And I will say, like I want to
give you all y'all flowers, because I know it's hard
in Hollywood and you know, you have the risk films
and everybody wants to see the.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Action and this and that.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
So to do a Christian film and you know, you
still want to be true to the original biblical story, right,
but you also want to have an entertaining right, So
talk about that, like, how did you prepare for a
character that's, you know, a godly character, but you still
want to be entertaining at the same time.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yeah, I think, well, my approach was kind of like
just just remembering that she's just a woman navigating, right.
So for me it was it was I knew that
there was like it was like faith based, but she's
a real girl. She's a real girl rapaghetting life. You know,
she has trauma and you know, things with her mom
(03:28):
and her backstory. So I was just more so approaching
it from that angle.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Okay, yeah, what about you?
Speaker 7 (03:35):
I think for me, it's a it's interesting doing like
a faith based film. Like you said, you know, if
you you know, if you're not careful, you can like
judge it yourself, maybe think it's like cheesy, same thing
with like you know, a g rated film or Disney,
But like, you know, these are beautiful spaces to go
tell art, so you shouldn't like, you know, fall into
that pit that pitfall. I think for me, uh, to
(03:56):
find the reality of any character, I gotta, I gotta.
I got to know him on some level, kind of
like I know myself. So for me, I'm a you know,
my my yin yang, my my juxtaposition, you know, as
Tyler is, I'm a like I'm a deeply feeling man
who's like constantly at war. You know what I'm saying.
That's like, uh, that's that's my base. Everything goes out
(04:18):
from there. Uh. So for Bo, as you know, finding
his finding his contrast, he's a you know, he's like
he's he's rigid in a sense. You know, he's very
he's very determined to make sure that he wins that
best wine at top of show. He wants to win
that and he wants to put his family's name on
the map. Continue to get that respect, you kind of
(04:39):
have to you kind of have to be rigid in
order to bring that to fruition. Uh, so then on
the flip side, he you know, he's got this fluidity
to him to be able to pour into a relationship,
pour into his passion without expecting anything in return, and
kind of listen to where God's taking him. So for
for me, uh, discovering that and you know, getting my
feet set in that foundation makes it real. Right, And
(05:01):
now we can you know, now we can we can uh,
you know, we can talk about a faith based love story.
We could, we could do something that's g rated and
it's still it's still gonna have that, right.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Yeah, And did y'all I was just gonna ask, did
y'all see any similarities in yourself with the characters that
you played in the movie?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Yeah, like Ruth living her life and uh kind of
like just figuring out what she wants to do next.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
You know, I definitely resonate with that.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
I resonate with having a gut feeling about something but
not really knowing what, not really knowing what's on the
other side of that.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Right.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
There's so many things about Ruth that I definitely did
resonate with. And while we were shooting it, I remember
certain scenes where I'm just like I feel her because
if you've had a troubled past or or even if
you had a failed.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Relationship or anything like that, you can be guarded.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Mm and so I was definitely the name with Ruth
on like how guarded she was at first with with Boaz.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Even though people are like, girl, how could you be
not you know, not giving into Tyler?
Speaker 5 (06:15):
But I don't want to saying during the movie, so
I was.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
That she she ice? Yeah, So that's what That's what
makes it. That's what makes it good. And I feel like, honestly, that's.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
That's what if you see his reaction after.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
That, He's he's interested. Yeah, you know, he's down for
the chase.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
They they don't they don't want to play that game
a little bit, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Yeah, what are there any similarity? Boys? Yeah? I think
you know for me, you know, I remember I would
I would say uh in two you know it's twofold
twofold answer. I can. I can connect with pouring into
my relationship having like a condition on it, you know
what I'm saying. Where there's a good bad day, you know,
good day, bad day left right, you know, we just
(07:12):
keep pouring into it the same way you water a plant.
But then also, you know, that's like with my love life,
I understand that and connect with that. But then even
in my h even in my personal life in terms
of like, you know what I'm chasing, and in terms of, like,
you know, my life's purpose. Uh, you know, I remember
I remember leaving leaving Philly to come out to l A,
you know, really having nothing. But but you know, I
(07:32):
felt inside, I knew, I knew what it is that
I wanted to do out here. And it wasn't receiving
anything for the first few years, but every day it
was still I was still pouring into it, pouring into it.
So I don't know if bo I mean, I know
he's determined, but I don't know if he knows that
he's going to win that. I don't know if he
knows I mean, he doesn't doesn't know that he's going
to make his father proud, right, But it doesn't it
doesn't deter him either way, you know, So I connect
(07:54):
with that as well.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
So y'all are both very like private people. I think
the only thing like we really see about y'all online
it's like you know, your relationships, because I think it's
more so of.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
Like not hiding.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
You know what I'm saying, It's like, oh, this is
my partner who I'm with. So I actually saw a
TikTok video that you had made a while back, and
you were just kind of giving us a little background
of like how you grew up and how you grew
up kind of struggling a little bit, and you know,
you moved around a lot and you were always the
new girl. So has it ever been like a role
that you played that kind of reminded you of how
you grew up? And it was like maybe a little
(08:25):
triggering because I feel like the struggle that Ruth went through,
I'm like, you know, that's kind of maybe something that
you went through, moving and being a new person and
kind of starting over. Yeah, those are the parts of
her that I deeply resonate with.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
I mean, obviously not the mother part, right, her mom
right basically abandoned her. But there are so many parts
of like picking it up and putting it back together
again over and over and over that I definitely understand
and I understand like what it is to be a
woman navigating that space too, and see my mom do
(09:00):
it as a single mom, you know, navigating the world
so those those parts of Ruth were very real for me.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Yeah, yeah, okay, I love that you saw that.
Speaker 5 (09:11):
Yes, girl, Look, I like to do.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
My research now, you guys to know what I'm getting
into now, you you know, I feel like the character
of ba As is like, you know.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
He is the BDB, the man that everybody wants.
Speaker 7 (09:24):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
But he's like the people want, you know, and the
women are like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
It's bowl ass.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
You know.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
Yeah, how did you relate that to how you are realized?
Speaker 3 (09:42):
Because we see the material.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
We see the comments, you know what I'm saying, So
how did that feel?
Speaker 3 (09:47):
How did you make that transfer on screen?
Speaker 7 (09:51):
You know? I think it's I think it's more about
uh again, him just staying dedicated to what it is
he was trying to serve, you know what I'm say.
And I feel like, I mean, everybody has their own
aesthetic and you know, people are gonna have their opinion
about it. It really has nothing to do with me.
I think. I think for me, uh, it's a it's
a you know, it's it's attractive to see anybody not
(10:16):
given to that surface level. I feel like, you know
what I'm saying, like, outside of the aesthetics, you know
what I'm saying, it's just it's attractive as a spirit,
as a heart to watch someone show up and pour
into his passion, watch someone watch someone show up and
pour into someone even though she's she's resist you know,
she's resisting him a lot initially, and I think that's
you know, even even watching that chase, it's kind of enticing.
(10:37):
It's like, Okay, I want to see what he does next,
you know, and you know, you end up you end
up rooting for him a little bit because I feel
like you see his heart.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Yeah, because that was surprised me because I feel like
most of the time men they be like, oh, she.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
Doesn't want me a move it around.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
I am, I'm boys, But I feel like men aren't
like that though, when they find someone that they really want,
and that's obviously what it was in that movie.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
Like he really wanted her. So it's like, Okay, I'm
gonna chase it. I'm gonna try to I'm gonna do
what I need to do to prove to her that
I'm not nithing like these other men. So I do
want to ask y'all how did y'all balance.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
With making the movie make well, making your character authentic
to how you wanted to portray it and it still
be entertaining, but then keeping the authenticity from the Bible story.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
I think I think really just kind of like.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Making sure that that she's just a real person. I
didn't I can't say that on set I really was.
I didn't feel the weight of, oh my god, this
is the biblical story. I didn't feel that even though
it is right. It was more about making it was
more about creating the space in the world in which
(11:57):
these characters live right and who they are.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
From the day to day.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Because I don't know if you guys are religious or spiritual,
but I am. And that doesn't mean that I can't,
you know, go out have.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
A drinking and go to church. So that girl, you
are right. So I think it's it's just.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
That element of just remembering that this isn't like a mask.
This is this is more so her the fabric of
who she is.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
That makes sense.
Speaker 7 (12:24):
Yeah, I think I'm not having it feel that daunting
is a testament to the writers. They did a lot
of the work already for us. Yeah, show up and
the script is that strong. It's really on us to
just find the reality in a moment's moment. And I
feel like, you know, you pair, you pair the you know,
the hard work in front of the camera with all
the hard work behind the camera, you know, on the
script and whatnot. And you know, I felt like we
(12:46):
I felt like we did the story justice while still
giving own.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Yeah. So y'all know, I got to be a little
missy now because the chemistry was amazing because one thing
I can't.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Say girls sign.
Speaker 8 (13:01):
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is the Garden of Gray. So this is a great
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(13:21):
a few dashes of lime juice and some fresh sweet
and sour. So definitely make this drink when you're watching
Ruth and Bowez.
Speaker 4 (13:29):
Well, yeah, I want to shy it.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Yeah, so I do have to ask because I'm a
movie girl. I watch movies all day every day, and
one thing I cannot stand is when I see, you know,
people that are supposed to be a couple on screen,
but there's just no chemistry, right, So y'all had amazing,
great chemistry, Like.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
It was truly believable.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
So, but at the same time, how do y'all film
because obviously y'all have been in multiple projects and where
you're somebody's love interests.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
But how do you navigate that space.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Of still like being in character but also being respectful
to your partner because I know sometimes people fall.
Speaker 5 (14:09):
In love whole sick it happens.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
No, No, you're right, I think I don't. It's very
interesting because I get this question.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
A lot, especially from you know, like people like musicians
or just people that are like outside of film.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
Honestly, it's just a part of the craft.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
It doesn't feel although that is a true sentiment.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
It's just a part of.
Speaker 2 (14:32):
The craft to.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
To emulate life.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Like, so what you're really doing is just you're imitating
real life, and so you bring those feelings that you
felt before. You know, we've all felt what it feels
like to stub our toe, So it's like when you
do that, that's what you're doing. It's not as deep
as like, oh my god, I can't like do this
because you know my relationship is obviously that's a separate
(14:59):
situation conversation.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
You got to have a person, right.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
But but I mean with a partner who gets it. Obviously,
I'm also with someone who does the same thing as
he understands. And if you're on set and you see
how not well it is, it's so so many people
around you.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
Yeah, I'm like, do you like me or something?
Speaker 1 (15:27):
I thought that we was kissing read I can't tell nothing.
Speaker 5 (15:31):
I mean, you know what's going on, but I thought
we was really he love.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
But how about you.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
Like, because you have a partner off of as well
that she does acting and things like that.
Speaker 7 (15:46):
So yeah, I mean I think I think way to
hit the nail on the head. It's uh so first
and first it's about communication with you and your partner.
I feel like if you are really locked in and
and y'all understand what's what's going on, this is just
it's a profession. I feel like it starts there. You
have your foundation right at home so that you can
go off to work and do what you're supposed to
do professionally. And then I think when you're a professional
(16:07):
for long enough, it's it's it's kind of like, like
she said, it's you really don't even think about it.
It's kind of just I mean, there's I don't know.
I wouldn't say there's a reality to it. We're finding
truth in the moment for sure, but it's not. It
doesn't follow you.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
It's confusing for people.
Speaker 7 (16:23):
I get it.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
Yeah, confusing for me, kind of like, what's.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
The what are you doing? What are you doing? H
I was just about you.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
You don't don't understand that you are at the number
one etiquette is like making sure your scene partner is right.
So doing those things can make them uncomfortable.
Speaker 7 (16:55):
It's not like choreograph everything, intimacy coordinat Yeah, so everybody
steps off and starts doing something weird. You know that
that hasn't been choreographed. Everybody knows it's weird because we
sat here and we choreographed the whole roll around.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
Okay, but question has that happened to y'all before, to
either one of y'all, Like where they stepped outside of
what was already coordinated and he was like, hold on
the same part of the scrub.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I haven't No, that's good, thank god, thank god.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
I'm like I could imagine that would be Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I have had the opposite though, I have had I
have had to like try to come up with conversation
with my scene with my scene partner outside of filming,
just so that he could like relax because I'm like, but.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
We don't want Yeah, people like they look weird. What's
going on? You know what?
Speaker 2 (17:49):
I'm like, how do we get you to like relax? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (17:55):
View, it's just like you can tell.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
But I think we're seeing such a sensitive.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Climate right now, so it's like you want to make
it believable, but you don't want to make them, you know, uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
So fine line. But I think it's just communication vocal.
Speaker 7 (18:09):
I think once you find that respect and comfort, yeah,
you know, it allows it allows you to find like
find the truth. You can play around and find it.
You understand that there's boundaries here. You feel safe, and
you know, we just just play like we in the playground.
Speaker 5 (18:22):
See y'all too professional for me. I need to go
on a tub movie.
Speaker 9 (18:24):
Okay, But but I look a question for you because
we have had Julian Horton on the show, and we've
had Jaball on the show, and.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
We had Isaiah and Guilty well, I was.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
I met some more two of them because they used
to play sports, and I feel, yeah, like a little
segue that a lot of the guys do like they play,
they somehow end up in the acting world. So talk
about that transition for you.
Speaker 7 (18:54):
I think I think what helps coming from an athletic
background transition into this space is probably just the discipline,
you know, the work ethic that it really takes. Really
really just the discipline the day in day out. You know,
we're used to that. Playing football is not just going
out on Sundays. You know what I'm saying. You got
you got treatment for your injuries, you got the film room,
(19:14):
you got the ice, you got you know, seven on
seven drills, then we got you know, scales, then team
you know what I'm saying. That goes into that you
know that Sunday. So I feel like that's one thing
that helps us through through the transition. I believe it's
just having that, you know, having that sense of discipline.
Speaker 4 (19:29):
Okay, soriya, I do have a question for you. So
you worked with baby Face on the song Goodness of
God for the movie sound track. How was that working
with baby Face? I mean, he's so legendary.
Speaker 3 (19:40):
I know, he's so legendary, and I was so nervous.
You were imagine I was very nervous.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
But he has this calming spirit and he's just very
he's very grounded, and so he's just like, it's fine.
You know, we're gonna find it and we're gonna do
this and it's gonna be great.
Speaker 6 (19:58):
And I was like, okay, Yeah, So talk about like,
because the roles that y'all have played, and I know
a lot of times people get typecasts in Hollywood.
Speaker 5 (20:14):
Right, so what is like a dream role that y'all.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Haven't played, jed that you feel like, Okay, I want
somebody to take a chance and let me do this
because I know I can do it.
Speaker 5 (20:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
I love I want to do an action Okay.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
I love like I'm super I grew up very athletic too,
and I love physicality. Yeah, so that would be something
that I would love to like get in there actually
stunt training, like really be in.
Speaker 4 (20:45):
That mode like a thorm and like a New X
ME movie.
Speaker 5 (20:50):
But also people.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Forget that Vibica A Fox was in Kill Bill.
Speaker 3 (20:53):
Yeah she was.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
It wasn't like oh no, she was in are doing
it a lot of times people are scared to put
black women in those type of roles, like they it'll
look weird, but shoulders She gets down, now she did,
So what about you? What's the role that you feel
like you haven't gotten yet that you want to show
people that I can do this.
Speaker 7 (21:16):
I don't know, you know, I'm real conscious of the
roles that I picked because I like to do different things.
I like to tackle challenges. You know, Yeah, you know, Benny, Benny,
you know, is this color diamond is a different color? Yes,
like Ian on Harlem is a way different color, even
like duplicity. You start getting a little crazy.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
Yes, that was such a good At the end, I
was should you know?
Speaker 7 (21:42):
And then this is like, you know, this is a
pure romance film. I try to switch it up. I
think I'm also like such a like physical person. I
just love physicality. I want to do an action film.
But then on the flip side, I would like to
do something because I am so physical. I could do
something where, uh, you know, there's no physicality in it.
(22:03):
I don't know if it's a you know what I'm
saying opposite, Yeah, Like I don't know if he's uh,
you know, not knock on wood. I don't know if
he's you know, confined and you know, right wheelchair, So
you know what I'm saying, But like something where.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
Thy challenge like challenge Yeah, I.
Speaker 7 (22:18):
Like challenging roles. You know what I'm saying. I can
I can bring that role alive physically. Yeah, So like
what does it look like if you didn't have the
physical right?
Speaker 4 (22:27):
Like when fifty played that role, Remember he had to
lose all of that weight.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
He was like, yeah, he was.
Speaker 7 (22:35):
Dedication to do something.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
Yeah, Okay, I like that.
Speaker 5 (22:39):
Okay, you want to get a little We can't even
got to.
Speaker 3 (22:41):
The first we haven't.
Speaker 4 (22:41):
We haven't even gotten to the first topic. Yet we've
been having such a good time since.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
We're taking a new age approach to Ruth and Bull.
Where as his story, this game is about like a
modern relationship and asking questions. So y'all have to answer
who's most likely to do this?
Speaker 3 (22:56):
Ruth?
Speaker 1 (22:58):
Okay, so first when they is slide in the DMS,
would Ruth or Boas be the first to shoot their shots?
Speaker 5 (23:05):
In twenty twenty five?
Speaker 7 (23:08):
I feel like if now, if you, if you was
really still giving me the stuff farm, I might have
Slip and Ruth DMA.
Speaker 3 (23:15):
Yeah, I can see.
Speaker 7 (23:18):
I feel like Ruth's trying to get off of social media.
Speaker 10 (23:26):
Look as you're doing.
Speaker 4 (23:28):
Let's be in solid in the end, because at first
we were like she loading, she did it was nervous.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
I love this, Okay.
Speaker 5 (23:38):
Do you remember when.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
We had Brianna Bible on the show a long time ago. Yeah,
she told us the story of Ruth and Bow and.
Speaker 8 (23:45):
They ended up being the lineage of Jesus Christ.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
Yeah, it was up. This was the ending.
Speaker 5 (23:51):
I was not ready for it, like I know.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
I heard this before, but go ahead, go ahead, Okay,
So cash app love offering with Ruth sending man forty
dollars for a haircut.
Speaker 3 (24:03):
Before the first day.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
No, don't give me the vibe.
Speaker 5 (24:14):
Ruth said, I'm gonna pray for your.
Speaker 7 (24:15):
Brother a prayer and the Ruth is on the bus.
I don't know if she got it, Okay, all right?
Speaker 5 (24:27):
Posting first?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Who would post a relationship on Instagram first?
Speaker 5 (24:31):
Ruth or Boass?
Speaker 7 (24:35):
Mm hmmm, I don't know both. Bow don't strike me
as like he got social media like that. I don't know,
like held, but I think if I think if.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
Boas, yeah, I think like this is the.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Woman it's like he's a hero.
Speaker 5 (24:54):
He's like, look what I like.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Exactly what off out of my great bushel pulling up?
Speaker 4 (25:08):
I would rule the pop up at bo as this
job unannounced to check in.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
Yep, she.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Was and she did.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Actually that scene got cut.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
She did pop up what's going on with you?
Speaker 3 (25:25):
A little?
Speaker 7 (25:26):
It had a lot, a lot of scenes. They shot
so much great stuff, ended up ended up cutting a
few things, but it really as much as we wanted to.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
See certain things amazing.
Speaker 7 (25:37):
Yeah, they did it justice by kind of staying uh,
you know, on the through line, in the spine of
the story. Yeah, something like great scenes, but it kind
of took away from you know, us us rooting for
them all the way to the end.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
That that party scene where you were performing and then
the camera panned out and the boy was in the crowd.
Speaker 5 (25:55):
That was looking for you. Everybody was like and then the.
Speaker 4 (25:57):
Fire God was on the edge of my.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
Run.
Speaker 7 (26:06):
One of the things I love about the film too,
is like, you know, even every all the excitement you
talked about, right, yeah, yeah, so it's like, of course
it's a faith based film. You know, we all love God,
of course, but even if you know, even if you
just want to watch a great film. It's it's it's
got enough to hold your attention.
Speaker 3 (26:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (26:23):
And I feel like it's a good message too, because
even with Boas is like I would say, his tenacity
and like will to keep moving forward, because even when
the fire happened and the whole vineyard was ruined, he
was still so excited and optimistic. I feel like in
the midst of that, like he was letting Ruth know,
like it's okay because you were really more so the
one that was a little stressed out. He's like, he's
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gonna be fine. Everything is gonna be cool. We just
gonna rebuild. So I feel like that's a good message
for a lot of people in a lot of different,
you know areas.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
And they don't forget to another message because Ruth held
it down.
Speaker 5 (26:54):
She put one bottle and it was all burnt up,
and she said, let me check a switch for my man.
I wasn't drinking none of that.
Speaker 4 (27:03):
Now, I don't try to if she held me down,
she said this is good and it was the thing
she held it down.
Speaker 5 (27:10):
See, I need to learn how to hold you.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
Was trying to send me a message now, Okay, Moving
on password sharing, Okay, who would ask for the Netflix
phone password?
Speaker 5 (27:23):
First? I'll say phone. Who would like be like give
me the passwords to his phone?
Speaker 3 (27:31):
Hmm?
Speaker 5 (27:34):
I think it would probably be.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
Rude, just because of what she went through in the
past and her stressed issues. And I wouldn't think it
would be like she thinks that you're cheating. It would
be more so like she's scared like somebody that you're
maybe having conversations that you're trying to set her up.
You know what I'm saying, like her fear of not
another woman, but like what you got you talking to
the ops?
Speaker 5 (27:54):
Yeah, I gotta watch my back because I'm not.
Speaker 3 (28:02):
And we have been philepathy. Okay X six.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
Who's more likely to respond to a hay stranger from
an eggs?
Speaker 3 (28:16):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (28:16):
I'm an answer like it's me.
Speaker 7 (28:19):
I mean, I feel like they're both focused on, you know,
the now.
Speaker 10 (28:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (28:23):
Neither one of them strike me as something that's going
to entertain the past.
Speaker 1 (28:26):
What you think I was gonna say, bo ass just
but not on some like I want to date you.
It's like I need some more workers to pick These greats.
Speaker 3 (28:36):
Were trying to rebuild the vineyard by now we need to.
Speaker 5 (28:40):
The vineyard or not.
Speaker 3 (28:41):
They wouldn't give me cheating by.
Speaker 5 (28:43):
I got a job for you, I got for you.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
Everybody packed on the back of that pick up bro
he needed I'm telling you so.
Speaker 11 (28:51):
Yeah, I think he.
Speaker 5 (28:52):
Would respond, but it was more so like, do.
Speaker 3 (28:54):
You need a job?
Speaker 7 (28:55):
Do you need somebody?
Speaker 3 (28:56):
You need something? Need this money?
Speaker 5 (29:00):
Last one pulling a toxic move?
Speaker 1 (29:03):
Who would be the one to block unblocked just to
get a reaction?
Speaker 7 (29:09):
I don't know who never done that?
Speaker 5 (29:17):
So we don't follow each other, you guys to get mad.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
I don't think either of them was. No, I don't
think so.
Speaker 5 (29:26):
I agree with that.
Speaker 1 (29:27):
I think the maturity that we saw in both.
Speaker 5 (29:29):
Of the characters they passed that me.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
That's I'm not very want my girl and my four
or four group.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
Okay, okay, you want to move on dry What we're
gonna do the topic one?
Speaker 5 (29:46):
Yes, okay, so we're gonna get back.
Speaker 3 (29:50):
To the movie.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Did you don't want to y'all discover something about the
story that you didn't know before the film?
Speaker 5 (29:57):
Because I think you.
Speaker 1 (29:58):
Know, I was raised in the church. We you know,
go to church, We're familiar with the story. Was there
anything that you learned about the story that you didn't
know before. Oh yeah, I think I think it was
more about like the timeline of how everything happened, because
I've heard it also like referenced in church like find
your bow ass, you.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
Know, because Ruth wasn't looking, you know, when the ass found.
That's what I be saying, wife finds a.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
Good thing, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
So that's that's that's the context that I would always
hear it. But I think actually going and studying to
see really just like the total story, and I think
the timeline and how and how the different events occurred
that got Ruth to even for Boas to even meet Ruth.
Speaker 3 (30:49):
I think that's what I learned. Yeah, what about you?
Speaker 7 (30:54):
Anything new? I don't know. I approach it like I had.
I had read through it, but I didn't I didn't
want to get so locked into it that I was
unable to come up with my own intuition. But like impulses,
So did I learn anything new? I'd see.
Speaker 5 (31:19):
I think for me, something that I learned knew was.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
Seeing the actual dynamic of Ruth and Naomi the mother that.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
It took me.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
Aback just because once the mother learned of why her
son and the father had passed away, but she still
had that love in her heart and it didn't matter.
Speaker 5 (31:39):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
So I know a lot of times we talk about
the dynamic of you know, man and woman, husband and wife,
but a lot of times we don't see that dynamic
of how important it is like parents a child, or
even though it wasn't her real daughter, that love that
was there between two women. So that was something that
I took away from the movie, Like it made me
cheerio because police shod when she when she cried, I
(32:04):
was like, oh my gosh, I cannot It gets me
every time when she cries, it feels so real.
Speaker 5 (32:11):
So I think I took.
Speaker 1 (32:12):
Away from that like actually, because like I said, I
think the story of them you focus on, you know,
Ruth and Boaz, but I think that dynamic of their
relationship too is extremely important that a lot of people
don't talk about.
Speaker 4 (32:24):
You know what else you got, Drea, So I wanted
to ask y'all in your own day in life, do
you feel like you're more like Ruth, like patient, understanding, loyal,
or more like bo Is and you're more of a
protector and provider.
Speaker 7 (32:38):
I mean, I definitely feel a little you know. Of
course I have my own sides you know as well,
but there is a side that I have that's just
like boa as for sure. I think even in my
own even in my own relationship, as we plan for
this wedding, my fiance and I know that's right, I'm
one of them now, I'm a I'm A my fiance Cary,
(33:01):
we love it. But I think that yeah, for sure,
I definitely can connect with just not not It's not
that I don't expect anything in return, but I don't.
I don't demand it, you know what I'm saying, Like
it's gonna come in its own time. And you know,
(33:22):
my job, you know, if if we look at it
from a team aspect, you know, my job in the
dance is not to show up and take from you.
You know, if I show up and feed you and
feed into this and pour into it, and you're doing
the same thing like we all gonna eat, you know
what I mean. So like that aspect of it, Uh,
you know, I definitely I definitely connect with boas On
for sure.
Speaker 3 (33:41):
Yea the same here I.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
Would say her the way that she approaches life. I
definitely like I think I can. I can resonate with
her on that and another thing that is really important,
like you said, patience, having that nurturing side. I've learned
that that's so important, that the balance and the relationship.
Speaker 5 (34:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:05):
Yeah, And you.
Speaker 1 (34:06):
Said something before the movie started last night, when you
were giving like your speech beforehand, and you were talking
about black love, and I think it's just I feel
like a page is turning though, you know. I feel
like it was a moment where everybody was online doing
like the man versus woman things, and I feel like,
and I always say this, we used to join in
on those conversations before in the early days of our podcast,
(34:27):
but we have definitely stopped that because it's just like
it's so important to see, you know, couples like you
in real life, the couples like seeing seeing a black
man sit on this couch and say, my fiance, Like,
we need to see more of that, you know, somebody
coming to support like we saw Jobe last night supporting you.
Speaker 3 (34:43):
And seeing that. I think that's what we need to
see more of.
Speaker 1 (34:47):
And I think this film shows a good example of that,
you know what I'm saying. So kudos see you for
pointing that out any more of that for sure?
Speaker 4 (34:54):
I agree both of y'all are definitely really good examples
I think for younger generations of like healthy black looks.
But just like the just like the story, you know,
it's like there's there are the the trial and error.
Speaker 3 (35:09):
There's the push in the pool.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
And I think that's also a good thing that the
movie portrays.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
It is just like it was. It was sweet at
the end, but it wasn't just sweet the whole time
right to get there.
Speaker 2 (35:20):
That's that's an important message to also get across to
for for the younger generation.
Speaker 4 (35:26):
Okay, all right, so now it's time to get into
the big bow bow.
Speaker 3 (35:36):
So this segment.
Speaker 12 (35:38):
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Speaker 5 (35:42):
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Speaker 4 (36:11):
Okay, So I wanted to talk to y'all about this
because I feel like we all see the people in
the comments all the time under your pictures, you.
Speaker 3 (36:21):
And your fiance, you and your feet because you.
Speaker 2 (36:24):
Got engage recently, girl, And obviously y'all are sorry. Obviously
y'all are both extremely attractive people on your own, but
y'all partners are really attractive as well. So how do
y'all feel about people always over sexualizing y'all's relationships? Because
(36:49):
I have seen people like in both of y'all comments before,
like I would love to be a fly on the wall.
Speaker 3 (36:56):
I know he talked her through it.
Speaker 5 (36:58):
Under both of y'all.
Speaker 4 (36:59):
I'm so y'all feel about people saying this type of
stuff about y'all relationships and y'all partners and like over
sexualized in a relationship because y'all are really attractive.
Speaker 5 (37:10):
You know, you and your fiance are mean you love
that picture?
Speaker 7 (37:24):
Forget that.
Speaker 5 (37:27):
It was so funny, it was so cute.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
It was because I see that picture all the time
when like girls see like a.
Speaker 5 (37:33):
Fine man comment the picture of the comments.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
But honestly, like I said, because I'm a very open person,
but sometimes I'll see comments that he made.
Speaker 3 (37:40):
Me close uncomfortable when I read it.
Speaker 4 (37:44):
Y'all feel when people say that under y'all's coming.
Speaker 5 (37:47):
Yeah, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2 (37:48):
Like being in a in a public relationship is just different.
Everything is like yeah, right, you know, so reading those
comments sometimes are seeing that energy around it is.
Speaker 3 (38:03):
A little it's uncomfortable. Yeah, sometimes I just have to
kind of.
Speaker 2 (38:06):
Like unsubscribe, like I'm just not gonna look at this today.
Speaker 5 (38:10):
You know.
Speaker 2 (38:10):
I think it's something that I had to definitely get
used to because I'm not used to.
Speaker 3 (38:16):
That, right, what do you know?
Speaker 2 (38:19):
I'm not used to that with my partner, like receiving
that energy or those comments and things like that. So
it's definitely something I had to get used to. But
now I'm just like, y'all, Yeah.
Speaker 5 (38:30):
Do you'all ever talk about it, like, look at this?
This is so weird?
Speaker 3 (38:33):
Absolutely absolutely, and you know it's crazy.
Speaker 5 (38:36):
Sometimes I'm going to be a little Devil's Avery here.
I think that.
Speaker 1 (38:41):
Women think that they can say the comments because they're women.
So they feel like, oh, because I'm a woman and
I'm saying it to another woman, it's okay.
Speaker 5 (38:48):
But it's still be like, calm down, girl, Like I'm
a human being.
Speaker 1 (38:53):
Like it just be a lot.
Speaker 7 (38:54):
Sometimes that's the issue, right, Like you just said you're
a human being, yes, right, and we you know, and
I'm not I'm not even the type of preaching man.
You know, I'm the type to get litten, you know,
be myself. I'm not gonna appreciate it all. But you know,
it's it's ridiculous how surface level we've become. It really is.
(39:14):
Everything is hyper sexualized women. Man, It's like it's it's
it's nonsense. Now, Like y'all all three of y'all beautiful
women for sure, you know, but it's like if we
hyper focus on that, we start to lose Like what
y'all really are. I mean, you have a like you
have a even in the short amount of time that
I've been here, Like you have a certain innocence to you,
(39:36):
right like you you know that's the fact. Yeah, like
you like you have you know, you you have this
star quality. You can see the passion coming like from
the inside of you out right. You know what I'm saying.
You have a certain uh, you have a certain discipline
about you. You want to tell us like stopping to
(39:58):
Drake and we go home because she got to doing
a little bit. I've getting them together here whatnot. You
have a little bit of that. And if we hyper
focus on what.
Speaker 5 (40:07):
You'll but in the work world, I'm very I'm very strict.
Speaker 7 (40:14):
You know what I'm saying, I'm picking that up from
And if I'm just focused on what y'all look like,
missed all that human If you're just looking at the pact,
I get it, like like packages look shiny, you want
to look at them. School and social media is like
not even to be taken seriously. That's something I've learned
to take it seriously. Yeah, you know, calm down, it's
not even it's not a big deal. It's like I
(40:34):
have to really Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 4 (40:36):
Yeah, but you the streak on the streak in a relationship.
Speaker 7 (40:40):
Uh, sometimes I can get a love food. But it's like,
you know, if we if we focus on the surface level, man,
you're missing everything.
Speaker 3 (40:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (40:50):
Yeah, it's sad that we like that.
Speaker 3 (40:51):
Yeah, I just let it roll.
Speaker 7 (40:53):
Off the shoulders. Yeah, people gonna talk.
Speaker 3 (40:55):
But I do think about that a lot.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
I think like as women were used to you know,
men doing that to us and telling us like, oh
you so bad.
Speaker 5 (41:03):
You know what I'll do to you and this and that.
Speaker 1 (41:04):
And I'm not saying that we should be used to
it and that it's okay.
Speaker 5 (41:08):
I just think it's.
Speaker 1 (41:08):
More like we're used to it. But when we see
a woman, are women or men do that to another man,
it's like, Oh, he's a man, He's just supposed to
take it, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (41:17):
Right, So I think it's kind of like a double
edged sword.
Speaker 5 (41:20):
A little bit.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
But yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (41:23):
I mean to touch on his point a little bit more.
I do think that the world is just really super
like hyper sexualized, because people will even look at y'all's
relationships and be like, oh, they're such an attractive couple,
like I want a partner like that, and not even
realizing the connection. Like I'm sure both of y'all are
not solely with your partners just because they're fine people
(41:44):
or they look good. It's a deeper connection. But people
look up to other relationships when they see people online
and they're like, Oh.
Speaker 3 (41:52):
They so fine, they look so good together.
Speaker 4 (41:54):
I want that too, But it's much more that goes
into making a relationship work and obviously with both of
y'all about get married, Like, it takes a lot to
meet a partner and decide I'm going to spend my
life with them beyond just looks.
Speaker 3 (42:07):
Yeah, it has to be.
Speaker 4 (42:09):
People are so surface level these days and hyper sexualized.
Speaker 5 (42:12):
Like he said, I think that's just icing on the cake.
Speaker 3 (42:14):
Yeah, together, that's the place, right.
Speaker 1 (42:19):
So I do want to talk about that a little
bit because y'all have been on this crazy run promoting
the movie and stuff. Talk about that balance that y'all
have to have because you know, you have a child,
you are a new mommy, congratulations, So talk about that,
like you on the road, I know you're probably missing
a baby and things like that.
Speaker 5 (42:35):
So how have you been balancing it?
Speaker 3 (42:37):
Oh? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (42:38):
Yeah, I'm I'm not sleeping.
Speaker 3 (42:41):
I'm here. Yeah, that's all I know. I'm just here
right now getting through it. Yeah. And and and that's
and even in.
Speaker 2 (42:48):
That, you know, I give myself grace because I'm like,
I do miss my baby, but I'm like, I'm working
and I'm excited to get back to work, Like I
feel like myself for them, because you know, there's this
whole there's a whole journey when you're you have a kid.
So on one end, I felt really good. On the
other end, I am thinking about him. I literally was
just thinking about him like two seconds ago. I'm like,
(43:09):
I wonder if he's okay, what's going on?
Speaker 3 (43:12):
You know?
Speaker 2 (43:13):
So, but but it's but it's great. I mean I
balance it with Honestly, me and Joy just have a
really good system of just communication like what do you
gotta do, what I gotta do, how we're going.
Speaker 3 (43:25):
To do it, and then that's how we get it done.
Speaker 2 (43:27):
And we have a great support system around this.
Speaker 3 (43:29):
How was your pregnancy?
Speaker 1 (43:30):
Did you have like a good pregnancy or were you
like sick?
Speaker 5 (43:32):
Like how was this?
Speaker 2 (43:33):
I was very sick in the first trimester, but then
after the first was done, I was like, pretty you
sailing like I was back in the gym, I was dancing,
I was doing everything.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
Okay, So is.
Speaker 5 (43:44):
That gonna be another one?
Speaker 3 (43:45):
Are you like I want more? Are you like wanting done?
Speaker 2 (43:48):
It's so funny because I do want more, but not
right now? Okay, she like, give me a seat. I'm
still healing from this.
Speaker 3 (44:02):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (44:03):
So how is it for you balancing fatherhood in your
relationship and traveling and working.
Speaker 7 (44:08):
You know, I just I just do my best, you
know what I'm saying, Like there's there there are times
where I wish I could be around more. Yeah, but
you know they're like I have three kids, yea, so
like they they all know, you know, whether they understand
it or not, they've all heard since they've come out
the womb. You know Daddy that is Daddy's working so
that y'all can be happy, you know what I'm saying.
So they do, they understand them. So as much as
(44:29):
I want to be around, it's so funny. I had
asked the we'll get we'll get back to the real
the second, but I had asked my I'd asked my
oldest he about to be eight, and I explained it
to him. You know, he getting to the point now
where he's h you know, he he can have a
real conversation, like like a grown conversation. He know he
ain't grown, but you know, conversation. And I said, like,
you know, so you know what daddy does for work.
(44:50):
You know, Daddy gotta be away a lot. You know,
if you could prefer for Daddy to be away at
work so that you can go to the school that
you like you know he uh, he feels like the
g wagon is just like a monster truck, right. But
we can drive around, you know, the car that you like.
You uh, you know, you can hang around the friends
that you want and just you know what, we want
you to live the life that you that you want
(45:11):
to live. You know, loves going to piano and swimming
class and all these things. Like if if I was
to stay at home and you would have more time
with me and not have the things, you know, some
of those things I'd mentioned that you like, or you
could have me be away a little bit more so
that you could have some of these things you like.
You know, what would you prefer? He said, Yeah, I
would like you to be away and works that I
(45:32):
can have things that lets me know that he understands. Uh,
you know, the sacrifice. Yeah, you know what I'm saying,
because at the end of the day, that's what it's for.
So I would like to be home. I would like
to be home, you know some more. And when I'm
(45:54):
I'm not making it home as much. You know, we
we we all FaceTime all the time every day. But uh,
you know, it's just one of those things you try
to try to do your best. Dat you try to
give yourself, give yourself grace. Yeah, and always and always
stay communicating him. Understanding how I'm feeling and what's really
going on helps him grass Uh, you know what what
I'm really doing is all for, which is not myself right.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
The information gives him confidence for sure.
Speaker 7 (46:18):
Yeah, absolutely, yeah, I love that.
Speaker 1 (46:20):
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Bow Bow bow. I love talking about music.
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Tell having a time.
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But Cardy drops her.
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It's okay, I have I I have one bop that's
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She has a song with Lizzo.
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And they stample what's going on and it's such a
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Lizo was singing her ass off. I know she was
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Shout out to So yeah, I think I think the
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But what's going on?
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Feature lizz O, Cardi, B Bop love it. I've been
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So I love.
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Cardi's album like I love the album in general. But
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Speaker 3 (47:37):
Okay, I like that. I like that song. It just
came out like last week. So what have y'all been'll
been listening to? Well me this week?
Speaker 5 (47:47):
This?
Speaker 2 (47:47):
Well, thinking about the Cardi drop I was. I was
just saying I didn't get as far to the Lizzo
one though. Yeah, I was just letting it, letting it
play in the car. And there's a song called Hello, Yes, Hello,
It's me Hello.
Speaker 3 (48:00):
I like that song.
Speaker 2 (48:01):
Yah. I feel like it was like when I first
heard Carti's music when she was on Love and Hip Hop.
That's when I started listening to her, and it made
me feel like one of those records off the mix.
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Yes it does, because really like this not like mixtape Cardy.
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People gotta realize Cardi has that music that when you're
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So I'm like, y'all need to understand it got to
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Speaker 5 (48:44):
You not have a certain setting for certain vibes. So
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Tyler Future is real heavy on my playlist?
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By y'all.
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Baby yeah, b b bumbuck luck. So I want you.
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Never never let you go again.
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Shall but leave your side.
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Speaker 10 (55:22):
But now I know I need you in my life.
Why I need you bad? As my hearby that's the
food I eat bad and see hair robbery.
Speaker 3 (55:36):
I can't take this thing. Boy.
Speaker 10 (55:39):
I want to go away saying I need you. I
need you. I need you what I gotta do? I
need you, I need you do it off for you. Baby.
It's nothing I want to do.
Speaker 3 (56:03):
Give what behad?
Speaker 10 (56:05):
We love true? No, lie, give up all the guy
just so I can give back in my spine. That's
a heart beat bad, that's a full man like the hairby.
(56:30):
I need you bad and I can't take this bad.
Speaker 3 (56:35):
Boy.
Speaker 11 (56:35):
I'm about to go insane. I need you, I need
you what I gotta do? I need you, I need
you do it up for you.
Speaker 5 (56:53):
This is how Ruth needed bo as.
Speaker 12 (56:54):
Y'all.
Speaker 5 (56:54):
Y'all got to read the Bible. Sometimes, y'all don't know
what be going on.
Speaker 3 (56:59):
When this so bad and you gotta get him back,
say oh, stop this. You won't get a better than
you go together.
Speaker 10 (57:09):
Say oh if you believe in love and you can't give.
Speaker 3 (57:15):
Him, Mom saying what you want to do to give back?
With your booth saying.
Speaker 10 (57:25):
Oh mad bad, yeah, breathe. I need you bad.
Speaker 5 (57:34):
I can't take the spade.
Speaker 10 (57:37):
Boy. I'm want to go in say I need you,
I need you what I gotta do? I need you,
I need you do it over you.
Speaker 5 (57:55):
I didn't know if that was jassa something I got
damn it.
Speaker 3 (57:58):
Cut the cameras.
Speaker 5 (58:00):
This is the Church episode.
Speaker 3 (58:02):
Boy, ass gona.
Speaker 10 (58:03):
Get your girl.
Speaker 3 (58:06):
Come back to me, baby, Yeah, walk one, walk on,
mack ma clack.
Speaker 5 (58:13):
We ain't no backtay boy.
Speaker 3 (58:15):
Of course we because we girl
But how do you navigate feel like being in character
but also being respectful to your partner.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
I can see why it's confusing for people, confusing.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
For me, like, what's up? What we doing that?
Speaker 4 (00:17):
They are the stars of the new Tyler Perry film
on Netflix's Roots and bow As. Did y'all see any
similarities in yourself with the characters that you played in
the movie.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I remember certain scenes where I'm just like, I feel
her you can be guarded even though people are like,
how could you.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Be not giving? In toyl.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
You know, I feel like the character of ball As
is like you know.
Speaker 5 (00:40):
He is the BDB. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Don't talk about that ballance that y'all have to have
because you know, you have a child, you are a
new mom.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
And congratulations you enjoy just have a really good system
of just communication, Like what do you gotta do with all?
Speaker 6 (00:58):
I gotta do?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
How we're gonna do it?
Speaker 6 (00:59):
Well?
Speaker 4 (00:59):
How do you y'all feel about people always over sexualizing
y'all's relationships because I have seen people like in both
of y'all tell me I would love to be a
fly on the wall.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
I know he talked her through.
Speaker 7 (01:11):
It's ridiculous how surface level we've become, all three of
y'all beautiful women. But it's like if we hyper focus
on that, we start to lose what y'all really are.
I mean, you have a certain innocence to you. Try
now that's a fact. Yeah, like you.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
What's up, y'all? It's your girl, Les Pink and it's
schr Girlrea Nicole and you are tuned in to another
episode of four Minds.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Where speaks birthday.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
We gotta yes, Suday, we got some good Suday period.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
We have the beautiful in Tallency Soraya in the building.
I know y'all seen her on Empire and I forgot
I used to watch Kingdom Beusney too.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Yes, girl, I love that show.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
And we have the handsome, intallentcy Tyler Litley in the building.
I know y'all have seen him on Pea Valley and
on Harlem too.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Guess y'all welcome them to the show. We are so
glad to have, y'all. Ina, and they.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Are the stars of the new Tyler Perry film on Netflix,
Ruth and Boas, which we had the privilege of seeing yesterday,
and it was such a good movie.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Yea, y'all did amazing.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Y yes, And I will say, like I want to
give you all y'all flowers, because I know it's hard
in Hollywood and you know, you have the risk films
and everybody wants to see the.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Action and this and that.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
So to do a Christian film and you know, you
still want to be true to the original biblical story, right,
but you also want to have an entertaining right, So
talk about that, like, how did you prepare for a
character that's, you know, a godly character, but you still
want to be entertaining at the same time.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yeah, I think, well, my approach was kind of like
just just remembering that she's just a woman navigating, right.
So for me it was it was I knew that
there was like it was like faith based, but she's
a real girl. She's a real girl rapaghetting life. You know,
she has trauma and you know, things with her mom
(03:28):
and her backstory. So I was just more so approaching
it from that angle.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Okay, yeah, what about you?
Speaker 7 (03:35):
I think for me, it's a it's interesting doing like
a faith based film. Like you said, you know, if
you you know, if you're not careful, you can like
judge it yourself, maybe think it's like cheesy, same thing
with like you know, a g rated film or Disney,
But like, you know, these are beautiful spaces to go
tell art, so you shouldn't like, you know, fall into
that pit that pitfall. I think for me, uh, to
(03:56):
find the reality of any character, I gotta, I gotta.
I got to know him on some level, kind of
like I know myself. So for me, I'm a you know,
my my yin yang, my my juxtaposition, you know, as
Tyler is, I'm a like I'm a deeply feeling man
who's like constantly at war. You know what I'm saying.
That's like, uh, that's that's my base. Everything goes out
(04:18):
from there. Uh. So for Bo, as you know, finding
his finding his contrast, he's a you know, he's like
he's he's rigid in a sense. You know, he's very
he's very determined to make sure that he wins that
best wine at top of show. He wants to win
that and he wants to put his family's name on
the map. Continue to get that respect, you kind of
(04:39):
have to you kind of have to be rigid in
order to bring that to fruition. Uh, so then on
the flip side, he you know, he's got this fluidity
to him to be able to pour into a relationship,
pour into his passion without expecting anything in return, and
kind of listen to where God's taking him. So for
for me, uh, discovering that and you know, getting my
feet set in that foundation makes it real. Right, And
(05:01):
now we can you know, now we can we can uh,
you know, we can talk about a faith based love story.
We could, we could do something that's g rated and
it's still it's still gonna have that, right.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Yeah, And did y'all I was just gonna ask, did
y'all see any similarities in yourself with the characters that
you played in the movie?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Yeah, like Ruth living her life and uh kind of
like just figuring out what she wants to do next.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
You know, I definitely resonate with that.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
I resonate with having a gut feeling about something but
not really knowing what, not really knowing what's on the
other side of that.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Right.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
There's so many things about Ruth that I definitely did
resonate with. And while we were shooting it, I remember
certain scenes where I'm just like I feel her because
if you've had a troubled past or or even if
you had a failed.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Relationship or anything like that, you can be guarded.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Mm and so I was definitely the name with Ruth
on like how guarded she was at first with with Boaz.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Even though people are like, girl, how could you be
not you know, not giving into Tyler?
Speaker 5 (06:15):
But I don't want to saying during the movie, so
I was.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
That she she ice? Yeah, So that's what That's what
makes it. That's what makes it good. And I feel like, honestly, that's.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
That's what if you see his reaction after.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
That, He's he's interested. Yeah, you know, he's down for
the chase.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
They they don't they don't want to play that game
a little bit, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Yeah, what are there any similarity? Boys? Yeah? I think
you know for me, you know, I remember I would
I would say uh in two you know it's twofold
twofold answer. I can. I can connect with pouring into
my relationship having like a condition on it, you know
what I'm saying. Where there's a good bad day, you know,
good day, bad day left right, you know, we just
(07:12):
keep pouring into it the same way you water a plant.
But then also, you know, that's like with my love life,
I understand that and connect with that. But then even
in my h even in my personal life in terms
of like, you know what I'm chasing, and in terms of, like,
you know, my life's purpose. Uh, you know, I remember
I remember leaving leaving Philly to come out to l A,
you know, really having nothing. But but you know, I
(07:32):
felt inside, I knew, I knew what it is that
I wanted to do out here. And it wasn't receiving
anything for the first few years, but every day it
was still I was still pouring into it, pouring into it.
So I don't know if bo I mean, I know
he's determined, but I don't know if he knows that
he's going to win that. I don't know if he
knows I mean, he doesn't doesn't know that he's going
to make his father proud, right, But it doesn't it
doesn't deter him either way, you know, So I connect
(07:54):
with that as well.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
So y'all are both very like private people. I think
the only thing like we really see about y'all online
it's like you know, your relationships, because I think it's
more so of.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
Like not hiding.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
You know what I'm saying, It's like, oh, this is
my partner who I'm with. So I actually saw a
TikTok video that you had made a while back, and
you were just kind of giving us a little background
of like how you grew up and how you grew
up kind of struggling a little bit, and you know,
you moved around a lot and you were always the
new girl. So has it ever been like a role
that you played that kind of reminded you of how
you grew up? And it was like maybe a little
(08:25):
triggering because I feel like the struggle that Ruth went through,
I'm like, you know, that's kind of maybe something that
you went through, moving and being a new person and
kind of starting over. Yeah, those are the parts of
her that I deeply resonate with.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
I mean, obviously not the mother part, right, her mom
right basically abandoned her. But there are so many parts
of like picking it up and putting it back together
again over and over and over that I definitely understand
and I understand like what it is to be a
woman navigating that space too, and see my mom do
(09:00):
it as a single mom, you know, navigating the world
so those those parts of Ruth were very real for me.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
Yeah, yeah, okay, I love that you saw that.
Speaker 5 (09:11):
Yes, girl, Look, I like to do.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
My research now, you guys to know what I'm getting
into now, you you know, I feel like the character
of ba As is like, you know.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
He is the BDB, the man that everybody wants.
Speaker 7 (09:24):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
But he's like the people want, you know, and the
women are like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
It's bowl ass.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
You know.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
Yeah, how did you relate that to how you are realized?
Speaker 3 (09:42):
Because we see the material.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
We see the comments, you know what I'm saying, So
how did that feel?
Speaker 3 (09:47):
How did you make that transfer on screen?
Speaker 7 (09:51):
You know? I think it's I think it's more about
uh again, him just staying dedicated to what it is
he was trying to serve, you know what I'm say.
And I feel like, I mean, everybody has their own
aesthetic and you know, people are gonna have their opinion
about it. It really has nothing to do with me.
I think. I think for me, uh, it's a it's
a you know, it's it's attractive to see anybody not
(10:16):
given to that surface level. I feel like, you know
what I'm saying, like, outside of the aesthetics, you know
what I'm saying, it's just it's attractive as a spirit,
as a heart to watch someone show up and pour
into his passion, watch someone watch someone show up and
pour into someone even though she's she's resist you know,
she's resisting him a lot initially, and I think that's
you know, even even watching that chase, it's kind of enticing.
(10:37):
It's like, Okay, I want to see what he does next,
you know, and you know, you end up you end
up rooting for him a little bit because I feel
like you see his heart.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Yeah, because that was surprised me because I feel like
most of the time men they be like, oh, she.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
Doesn't want me a move it around.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
I am, I'm boys, But I feel like men aren't
like that though, when they find someone that they really want,
and that's obviously what it was in that movie.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
Like he really wanted her. So it's like, Okay, I'm
gonna chase it. I'm gonna try to I'm gonna do
what I need to do to prove to her that
I'm not nithing like these other men. So I do
want to ask y'all how did y'all balance.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
With making the movie make well, making your character authentic
to how you wanted to portray it and it still
be entertaining, but then keeping the authenticity from the Bible story.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
I think I think really just kind of like.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Making sure that that she's just a real person. I
didn't I can't say that on set I really was.
I didn't feel the weight of, oh my god, this
is the biblical story. I didn't feel that even though
it is right. It was more about making it was
more about creating the space in the world in which
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these characters live right and who they are.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
From the day to day.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Because I don't know if you guys are religious or spiritual,
but I am. And that doesn't mean that I can't,
you know, go out have.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
A drinking and go to church. So that girl, you
are right. So I think it's it's just.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
That element of just remembering that this isn't like a mask.
This is this is more so her the fabric of
who she is.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
That makes sense.
Speaker 7 (12:24):
Yeah, I think I'm not having it feel that daunting
is a testament to the writers. They did a lot
of the work already for us. Yeah, show up and
the script is that strong. It's really on us to
just find the reality in a moment's moment. And I
feel like, you know, you pair, you pair the you know,
the hard work in front of the camera with all
the hard work behind the camera, you know, on the
script and whatnot. And you know, I felt like we
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I felt like we did the story justice while still
giving own.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Yeah. So y'all know, I got to be a little
missy now because the chemistry was amazing because one thing
I can't.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Say girls sign.
Speaker 8 (13:01):
Hey everyone, my name is Daju Nay and today's drink
is the Garden of Gray. So this is a great
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(13:21):
a few dashes of lime juice and some fresh sweet
and sour. So definitely make this drink when you're watching
Ruth and Bowez.
Speaker 4 (13:29):
Well, yeah, I want to shy it.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Yeah, so I do have to ask because I'm a
movie girl. I watch movies all day every day, and
one thing I cannot stand is when I see, you know,
people that are supposed to be a couple on screen,
but there's just no chemistry, right, So y'all had amazing,
great chemistry, Like.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
It was truly believable.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
So, but at the same time, how do y'all film
because obviously y'all have been in multiple projects and where
you're somebody's love interests.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
But how do you navigate that space.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Of still like being in character but also being respectful
to your partner because I know sometimes people fall.
Speaker 5 (14:09):
In love whole sick it happens.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
No, No, you're right, I think I don't. It's very
interesting because I get this question.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
A lot, especially from you know, like people like musicians
or just people that are like outside of film.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
Honestly, it's just a part of the craft.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
It doesn't feel although that is a true sentiment.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
It's just a part of.
Speaker 2 (14:32):
The craft to.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
To emulate life.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Like, so what you're really doing is just you're imitating
real life, and so you bring those feelings that you
felt before. You know, we've all felt what it feels
like to stub our toe, So it's like when you
do that, that's what you're doing. It's not as deep
as like, oh my god, I can't like do this
because you know my relationship is obviously that's a separate
(14:59):
situation conversation.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
You got to have a person, right.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
But but I mean with a partner who gets it. Obviously,
I'm also with someone who does the same thing as
he understands. And if you're on set and you see
how not well it is, it's so so many people
around you.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
Yeah, I'm like, do you like me or something?
Speaker 1 (15:27):
I thought that we was kissing read I can't tell nothing.
Speaker 5 (15:31):
I mean, you know what's going on, but I thought
we was really he love.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
But how about you.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
Like, because you have a partner off of as well
that she does acting and things like that.
Speaker 7 (15:46):
So yeah, I mean I think I think way to
hit the nail on the head. It's uh so first
and first it's about communication with you and your partner.
I feel like if you are really locked in and
and y'all understand what's what's going on, this is just
it's a profession. I feel like it starts there. You
have your foundation right at home so that you can
go off to work and do what you're supposed to
do professionally. And then I think when you're a professional
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for long enough, it's it's it's kind of like, like
she said, it's you really don't even think about it.
It's kind of just I mean, there's I don't know.
I wouldn't say there's a reality to it. We're finding
truth in the moment for sure, but it's not. It
doesn't follow you.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
It's confusing for people.
Speaker 7 (16:23):
I get it.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
Yeah, confusing for me, kind of like, what's.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
The what are you doing? What are you doing? H
I was just about you.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
You don't don't understand that you are at the number
one etiquette is like making sure your scene partner is right.
So doing those things can make them uncomfortable.
Speaker 7 (16:55):
It's not like choreograph everything, intimacy coordinat Yeah, so everybody
steps off and starts doing something weird. You know that
that hasn't been choreographed. Everybody knows it's weird because we
sat here and we choreographed the whole roll around.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
Okay, but question has that happened to y'all before, to
either one of y'all, Like where they stepped outside of
what was already coordinated and he was like, hold on
the same part of the scrub.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I haven't No, that's good, thank god, thank god.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
I'm like I could imagine that would be Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I have had the opposite though, I have had I
have had to like try to come up with conversation
with my scene with my scene partner outside of filming,
just so that he could like relax because I'm like, but.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
We don't want Yeah, people like they look weird. What's
going on? You know what?
Speaker 2 (17:49):
I'm like, how do we get you to like relax? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (17:55):
View, it's just like you can tell.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
But I think we're seeing such a sensitive.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Climate right now, so it's like you want to make
it believable, but you don't want to make them, you know, uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (18:04):
So fine line. But I think it's just communication vocal.
Speaker 7 (18:09):
I think once you find that respect and comfort, yeah,
you know, it allows it allows you to find like
find the truth. You can play around and find it.
You understand that there's boundaries here. You feel safe, and
you know, we just just play like we in the playground.
Speaker 5 (18:22):
See y'all too professional for me. I need to go
on a tub movie.
Speaker 9 (18:24):
Okay, But but I look a question for you because
we have had Julian Horton on the show, and we've
had Jaball on the show, and.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
We had Isaiah and Guilty well, I was.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
I met some more two of them because they used
to play sports, and I feel, yeah, like a little
segue that a lot of the guys do like they play,
they somehow end up in the acting world. So talk
about that transition for you.
Speaker 7 (18:54):
I think I think what helps coming from an athletic
background transition into this space is probably just the discipline,
you know, the work ethic that it really takes. Really
really just the discipline the day in day out. You know,
we're used to that. Playing football is not just going
out on Sundays. You know what I'm saying. You got
you got treatment for your injuries, you got the film room,
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you got the ice, you got you know, seven on
seven drills, then we got you know, scales, then team
you know what I'm saying. That goes into that you
know that Sunday. So I feel like that's one thing
that helps us through through the transition. I believe it's
just having that, you know, having that sense of discipline.
Speaker 4 (19:29):
Okay, soriya, I do have a question for you. So
you worked with baby Face on the song Goodness of
God for the movie sound track. How was that working
with baby Face? I mean, he's so legendary.
Speaker 3 (19:40):
I know, he's so legendary, and I was so nervous.
You were imagine I was very nervous.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
But he has this calming spirit and he's just very
he's very grounded, and so he's just like, it's fine.
You know, we're gonna find it and we're gonna do
this and it's gonna be great.
Speaker 6 (19:58):
And I was like, okay, Yeah, So talk about like,
because the roles that y'all have played, and I know
a lot of times people get typecasts in Hollywood.
Speaker 5 (20:14):
Right, so what is like a dream role that y'all.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Haven't played, jed that you feel like, Okay, I want
somebody to take a chance and let me do this
because I know I can do it.
Speaker 5 (20:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
I love I want to do an action Okay.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
I love like I'm super I grew up very athletic too,
and I love physicality. Yeah, so that would be something
that I would love to like get in there actually
stunt training, like really be in.
Speaker 4 (20:45):
That mode like a thorm and like a New X
ME movie.
Speaker 5 (20:50):
But also people.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Forget that Vibica A Fox was in Kill Bill.
Speaker 3 (20:53):
Yeah she was.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
It wasn't like oh no, she was in are doing
it a lot of times people are scared to put
black women in those type of roles, like they it'll
look weird, but shoulders She gets down, now she did,
So what about you? What's the role that you feel
like you haven't gotten yet that you want to show
people that I can do this.
Speaker 7 (21:16):
I don't know, you know, I'm real conscious of the
roles that I picked because I like to do different things.
I like to tackle challenges. You know, Yeah, you know, Benny, Benny,
you know, is this color diamond is a different color? Yes,
like Ian on Harlem is a way different color, even
like duplicity. You start getting a little crazy.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
Yes, that was such a good At the end, I
was should you know?
Speaker 7 (21:42):
And then this is like, you know, this is a
pure romance film. I try to switch it up. I
think I'm also like such a like physical person. I
just love physicality. I want to do an action film.
But then on the flip side, I would like to
do something because I am so physical. I could do
something where, uh, you know, there's no physicality in it.
(22:03):
I don't know if it's a you know what I'm
saying opposite, Yeah, Like I don't know if he's uh,
you know, not knock on wood. I don't know if
he's you know, confined and you know, right wheelchair, So
you know what I'm saying, But like something where.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
Thy challenge like challenge Yeah, I.
Speaker 7 (22:18):
Like challenging roles. You know what I'm saying. I can
I can bring that role alive physically. Yeah, So like
what does it look like if you didn't have the
physical right?
Speaker 4 (22:27):
Like when fifty played that role, Remember he had to
lose all of that weight.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
He was like, yeah, he was.
Speaker 7 (22:35):
Dedication to do something.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
Yeah, Okay, I like that.
Speaker 5 (22:39):
Okay, you want to get a little We can't even
got to.
Speaker 3 (22:41):
The first we haven't.
Speaker 4 (22:41):
We haven't even gotten to the first topic. Yet we've
been having such a good time since.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
We're taking a new age approach to Ruth and Bull.
Where as his story, this game is about like a
modern relationship and asking questions. So y'all have to answer
who's most likely to do this?
Speaker 3 (22:56):
Ruth?
Speaker 1 (22:58):
Okay, so first when they is slide in the DMS,
would Ruth or Boas be the first to shoot their shots?
Speaker 5 (23:05):
In twenty twenty five?
Speaker 7 (23:08):
I feel like if now, if you, if you was
really still giving me the stuff farm, I might have
Slip and Ruth DMA.
Speaker 3 (23:15):
Yeah, I can see.
Speaker 7 (23:18):
I feel like Ruth's trying to get off of social media.
Speaker 10 (23:26):
Look as you're doing.
Speaker 4 (23:28):
Let's be in solid in the end, because at first
we were like she loading, she did it was nervous.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
I love this, Okay.
Speaker 5 (23:38):
Do you remember when.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
We had Brianna Bible on the show a long time ago. Yeah,
she told us the story of Ruth and Bow and.
Speaker 8 (23:45):
They ended up being the lineage of Jesus Christ.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
Yeah, it was up. This was the ending.
Speaker 5 (23:51):
I was not ready for it, like I know.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
I heard this before, but go ahead, go ahead, Okay,
So cash app love offering with Ruth sending man forty
dollars for a haircut.
Speaker 3 (24:03):
Before the first day.
Speaker 2 (24:06):
No, don't give me the vibe.
Speaker 5 (24:14):
Ruth said, I'm gonna pray for your.
Speaker 7 (24:15):
Brother a prayer and the Ruth is on the bus.
I don't know if she got it, Okay, all right?
Speaker 5 (24:27):
Posting first?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Who would post a relationship on Instagram first?
Speaker 5 (24:31):
Ruth or Boass?
Speaker 7 (24:35):
Mm hmmm, I don't know both. Bow don't strike me
as like he got social media like that. I don't know,
like held, but I think if I think if.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
Boas, yeah, I think like this is the.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
Woman it's like he's a hero.
Speaker 5 (24:54):
He's like, look what I like.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Exactly what off out of my great bushel pulling up?
Speaker 4 (25:08):
I would rule the pop up at bo as this
job unannounced to check in.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
Yep, she.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Was and she did.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Actually that scene got cut.
Speaker 2 (25:20):
She did pop up what's going on with you?
Speaker 3 (25:25):
A little?
Speaker 7 (25:26):
It had a lot, a lot of scenes. They shot
so much great stuff, ended up ended up cutting a
few things, but it really as much as we wanted to.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
See certain things amazing.
Speaker 7 (25:37):
Yeah, they did it justice by kind of staying uh,
you know, on the through line, in the spine of
the story. Yeah, something like great scenes, but it kind
of took away from you know, us us rooting for
them all the way to the end.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
That that party scene where you were performing and then
the camera panned out and the boy was in the crowd.
Speaker 5 (25:55):
That was looking for you. Everybody was like and then the.
Speaker 4 (25:57):
Fire God was on the edge of my.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
Run.
Speaker 7 (26:06):
One of the things I love about the film too,
is like, you know, even every all the excitement you
talked about, right, yeah, yeah, so it's like, of course
it's a faith based film. You know, we all love God,
of course, but even if you know, even if you
just want to watch a great film. It's it's it's
got enough to hold your attention.
Speaker 3 (26:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (26:23):
And I feel like it's a good message too, because
even with Boas is like I would say, his tenacity
and like will to keep moving forward, because even when
the fire happened and the whole vineyard was ruined, he
was still so excited and optimistic. I feel like in
the midst of that, like he was letting Ruth know,
like it's okay because you were really more so the
one that was a little stressed out. He's like, he's
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gonna be fine. Everything is gonna be cool. We just
gonna rebuild. So I feel like that's a good message
for a lot of people in a lot of different,
you know areas.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
And they don't forget to another message because Ruth held
it down.
Speaker 5 (26:54):
She put one bottle and it was all burnt up,
and she said, let me check a switch for my man.
I wasn't drinking none of that.
Speaker 4 (27:03):
Now, I don't try to if she held me down,
she said this is good and it was the thing
she held it down.
Speaker 5 (27:10):
See, I need to learn how to hold you.
Speaker 1 (27:12):
Was trying to send me a message now, Okay, Moving
on password sharing, Okay, who would ask for the Netflix
phone password?
Speaker 5 (27:23):
First? I'll say phone. Who would like be like give
me the passwords to his phone?
Speaker 3 (27:31):
Hmm?
Speaker 5 (27:34):
I think it would probably be.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
Rude, just because of what she went through in the
past and her stressed issues. And I wouldn't think it
would be like she thinks that you're cheating. It would
be more so like she's scared like somebody that you're
maybe having conversations that you're trying to set her up.
You know what I'm saying, like her fear of not
another woman, but like what you got you talking to
the ops?
Speaker 5 (27:54):
Yeah, I gotta watch my back because I'm not.
Speaker 3 (28:02):
And we have been philepathy. Okay X six.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
Who's more likely to respond to a hay stranger from
an eggs?
Speaker 3 (28:16):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (28:16):
I'm an answer like it's me.
Speaker 7 (28:19):
I mean, I feel like they're both focused on, you know,
the now.
Speaker 10 (28:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (28:23):
Neither one of them strike me as something that's going
to entertain the past.
Speaker 1 (28:26):
What you think I was gonna say, bo ass just
but not on some like I want to date you.
It's like I need some more workers to pick These greats.
Speaker 3 (28:36):
Were trying to rebuild the vineyard by now we need to.
Speaker 5 (28:40):
The vineyard or not.
Speaker 3 (28:41):
They wouldn't give me cheating by.
Speaker 5 (28:43):
I got a job for you, I got for you.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
Everybody packed on the back of that pick up bro
he needed I'm telling you so.
Speaker 11 (28:51):
Yeah, I think he.
Speaker 5 (28:52):
Would respond, but it was more so like, do.
Speaker 3 (28:54):
You need a job?
Speaker 7 (28:55):
Do you need somebody?
Speaker 3 (28:56):
You need something? Need this money?
Speaker 5 (29:00):
Last one pulling a toxic move?
Speaker 1 (29:03):
Who would be the one to block unblocked just to
get a reaction?
Speaker 7 (29:09):
I don't know who never done that?
Speaker 5 (29:17):
So we don't follow each other, you guys to get mad.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
I don't think either of them was. No, I don't
think so.
Speaker 5 (29:26):
I agree with that.
Speaker 1 (29:27):
I think the maturity that we saw in both.
Speaker 5 (29:29):
Of the characters they passed that me.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
That's I'm not very want my girl and my four
or four group.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
Okay, okay, you want to move on dry What we're
gonna do the topic one?
Speaker 5 (29:46):
Yes, okay, so we're gonna get back.
Speaker 3 (29:50):
To the movie.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Did you don't want to y'all discover something about the
story that you didn't know before the film?
Speaker 5 (29:57):
Because I think you.
Speaker 1 (29:58):
Know, I was raised in the church. We you know,
go to church, We're familiar with the story. Was there
anything that you learned about the story that you didn't
know before. Oh yeah, I think I think it was
more about like the timeline of how everything happened, because
I've heard it also like referenced in church like find
your bow ass, you.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
Know, because Ruth wasn't looking, you know, when the ass found.
That's what I be saying, wife finds a.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
Good thing, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
So that's that's that's the context that I would always
hear it. But I think actually going and studying to
see really just like the total story, and I think
the timeline and how and how the different events occurred
that got Ruth to even for Boas to even meet Ruth.
Speaker 3 (30:49):
I think that's what I learned. Yeah, what about you?
Speaker 7 (30:54):
Anything new? I don't know. I approach it like I had.
I had read through it, but I didn't I didn't
want to get so locked into it that I was
unable to come up with my own intuition. But like impulses,
So did I learn anything new? I'd see.
Speaker 5 (31:19):
I think for me, something that I learned knew was.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
Seeing the actual dynamic of Ruth and Naomi the mother that.
Speaker 3 (31:30):
It took me.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
Aback just because once the mother learned of why her
son and the father had passed away, but she still
had that love in her heart and it didn't matter.
Speaker 5 (31:39):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
So I know a lot of times we talk about
the dynamic of you know, man and woman, husband and wife,
but a lot of times we don't see that dynamic
of how important it is like parents a child, or
even though it wasn't her real daughter, that love that
was there between two women. So that was something that
I took away from the movie, Like it made me
cheerio because police shod when she when she cried, I
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was like, oh my gosh, I cannot It gets me
every time when she cries, it feels so real.
Speaker 5 (32:11):
So I think I took.
Speaker 1 (32:12):
Away from that like actually, because like I said, I
think the story of them you focus on, you know,
Ruth and Boaz, but I think that dynamic of their
relationship too is extremely important that a lot of people
don't talk about.
Speaker 4 (32:24):
You know what else you got, Drea, So I wanted
to ask y'all in your own day in life, do
you feel like you're more like Ruth, like patient, understanding, loyal,
or more like bo Is and you're more of a
protector and provider.
Speaker 7 (32:38):
I mean, I definitely feel a little you know. Of
course I have my own sides you know as well,
but there is a side that I have that's just
like boa as for sure. I think even in my
own even in my own relationship, as we plan for
this wedding, my fiance and I know that's right, I'm
one of them now, I'm a I'm A my fiance Cary,
(33:01):
we love it. But I think that yeah, for sure,
I definitely can connect with just not not It's not
that I don't expect anything in return, but I don't.
I don't demand it, you know what I'm saying, Like
it's gonna come in its own time. And you know,
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my job, you know, if if we look at it
from a team aspect, you know, my job in the
dance is not to show up and take from you.
You know, if I show up and feed you and
feed into this and pour into it, and you're doing
the same thing like we all gonna eat, you know
what I mean. So like that aspect of it, Uh,
you know, I definitely I definitely connect with boas On
for sure.
Speaker 3 (33:41):
Yea the same here I.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
Would say her the way that she approaches life. I
definitely like I think I can. I can resonate with
her on that and another thing that is really important,
like you said, patience, having that nurturing side. I've learned
that that's so important, that the balance and the relationship.
Speaker 5 (34:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:05):
Yeah, And you.
Speaker 1 (34:06):
Said something before the movie started last night, when you
were giving like your speech beforehand, and you were talking
about black love, and I think it's just I feel
like a page is turning though, you know. I feel
like it was a moment where everybody was online doing
like the man versus woman things, and I feel like,
and I always say this, we used to join in
on those conversations before in the early days of our podcast,
(34:27):
but we have definitely stopped that because it's just like
it's so important to see, you know, couples like you
in real life, the couples like seeing seeing a black
man sit on this couch and say, my fiance, Like,
we need to see more of that, you know, somebody
coming to support like we saw Jobe last night supporting you.
Speaker 3 (34:43):
And seeing that. I think that's what we need to
see more of.
Speaker 1 (34:47):
And I think this film shows a good example of that,
you know what I'm saying. So kudos see you for
pointing that out any more of that for sure?
Speaker 4 (34:54):
I agree both of y'all are definitely really good examples
I think for younger generations of like healthy black looks.
But just like the just like the story, you know,
it's like there's there are the the trial and error.
Speaker 3 (35:09):
There's the push in the pool.
Speaker 2 (35:10):
And I think that's also a good thing that the
movie portrays.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
It is just like it was. It was sweet at
the end, but it wasn't just sweet the whole time
right to get there.
Speaker 2 (35:20):
That's that's an important message to also get across to
for for the younger generation.
Speaker 4 (35:26):
Okay, all right, so now it's time to get into
the big bow bow.
Speaker 3 (35:36):
So this segment.
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Speaker 4 (36:11):
Okay, So I wanted to talk to y'all about this
because I feel like we all see the people in
the comments all the time under your pictures, you.
Speaker 3 (36:21):
And your fiance, you and your feet because you.
Speaker 2 (36:24):
Got engage recently, girl, And obviously y'all are sorry. Obviously
y'all are both extremely attractive people on your own, but
y'all partners are really attractive as well. So how do
y'all feel about people always over sexualizing y'all's relationships? Because
(36:49):
I have seen people like in both of y'all comments before,
like I would love to be a fly on the wall.
Speaker 3 (36:56):
I know he talked her through it.
Speaker 5 (36:58):
Under both of y'all.
Speaker 4 (36:59):
I'm so y'all feel about people saying this type of
stuff about y'all relationships and y'all partners and like over
sexualized in a relationship because y'all are really attractive.
Speaker 5 (37:10):
You know, you and your fiance are mean you love
that picture?
Speaker 7 (37:24):
Forget that.
Speaker 5 (37:27):
It was so funny, it was so cute.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
It was because I see that picture all the time
when like girls see like a.
Speaker 5 (37:33):
Fine man comment the picture of the comments.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
But honestly, like I said, because I'm a very open person,
but sometimes I'll see comments that he made.
Speaker 3 (37:40):
Me close uncomfortable when I read it.
Speaker 4 (37:44):
Y'all feel when people say that under y'all's coming.
Speaker 5 (37:47):
Yeah, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2 (37:48):
Like being in a in a public relationship is just different.
Everything is like yeah, right, you know, so reading those
comments sometimes are seeing that energy around it is.
Speaker 3 (38:03):
A little it's uncomfortable. Yeah, sometimes I just have to
kind of.
Speaker 2 (38:06):
Like unsubscribe, like I'm just not gonna look at this today.
Speaker 5 (38:10):
You know.
Speaker 2 (38:10):
I think it's something that I had to definitely get
used to because I'm not used to.
Speaker 3 (38:16):
That, right, what do you know?
Speaker 2 (38:19):
I'm not used to that with my partner, like receiving
that energy or those comments and things like that. So
it's definitely something I had to get used to. But
now I'm just like, y'all, Yeah.
Speaker 5 (38:30):
Do you'all ever talk about it, like, look at this?
This is so weird?
Speaker 3 (38:33):
Absolutely absolutely, and you know it's crazy.
Speaker 5 (38:36):
Sometimes I'm going to be a little Devil's Avery here.
I think that.
Speaker 1 (38:41):
Women think that they can say the comments because they're women.
So they feel like, oh, because I'm a woman and
I'm saying it to another woman, it's okay.
Speaker 5 (38:48):
But it's still be like, calm down, girl, Like I'm
a human being.
Speaker 1 (38:53):
Like it just be a lot.
Speaker 7 (38:54):
Sometimes that's the issue, right, Like you just said you're
a human being, yes, right, and we you know, and
I'm not I'm not even the type of preaching man.
You know, I'm the type to get litten, you know,
be myself. I'm not gonna appreciate it all. But you know,
it's it's ridiculous how surface level we've become. It really is.
(39:14):
Everything is hyper sexualized women. Man, It's like it's it's
it's nonsense. Now, Like y'all all three of y'all beautiful
women for sure, you know, but it's like if we
hyper focus on that, we start to lose Like what
y'all really are. I mean, you have a like you
have a even in the short amount of time that
I've been here, Like you have a certain innocence to you,
(39:36):
right like you you know that's the fact. Yeah, like
you like you have you know, you you have this
star quality. You can see the passion coming like from
the inside of you out right. You know what I'm saying.
You have a certain uh, you have a certain discipline
about you. You want to tell us like stopping to
(39:58):
Drake and we go home because she got to doing
a little bit. I've getting them together here whatnot. You
have a little bit of that. And if we hyper
focus on what.
Speaker 5 (40:07):
You'll but in the work world, I'm very I'm very strict.
Speaker 7 (40:14):
You know what I'm saying, I'm picking that up from
And if I'm just focused on what y'all look like,
missed all that human If you're just looking at the pact,
I get it, like like packages look shiny, you want
to look at them. School and social media is like
not even to be taken seriously. That's something I've learned
to take it seriously. Yeah, you know, calm down, it's
not even it's not a big deal. It's like I
(40:34):
have to really Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 4 (40:36):
Yeah, but you the streak on the streak in a relationship.
Speaker 7 (40:40):
Uh, sometimes I can get a love food. But it's like,
you know, if we if we focus on the surface level, man,
you're missing everything.
Speaker 3 (40:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (40:50):
Yeah, it's sad that we like that.
Speaker 3 (40:51):
Yeah, I just let it roll.
Speaker 7 (40:53):
Off the shoulders. Yeah, people gonna talk.
Speaker 3 (40:55):
But I do think about that a lot.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
I think like as women were used to you know,
men doing that to us and telling us like, oh
you so bad.
Speaker 5 (41:03):
You know what I'll do to you and this and that.
Speaker 1 (41:04):
And I'm not saying that we should be used to
it and that it's okay.
Speaker 5 (41:08):
I just think it's.
Speaker 1 (41:08):
More like we're used to it. But when we see
a woman, are women or men do that to another man,
it's like, Oh, he's a man, He's just supposed to
take it, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (41:17):
Right, So I think it's kind of like a double
edged sword.
Speaker 5 (41:20):
A little bit.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
But yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (41:23):
I mean to touch on his point a little bit more.
I do think that the world is just really super
like hyper sexualized, because people will even look at y'all's
relationships and be like, oh, they're such an attractive couple,
like I want a partner like that, and not even
realizing the connection. Like I'm sure both of y'all are
not solely with your partners just because they're fine people
(41:44):
or they look good. It's a deeper connection. But people
look up to other relationships when they see people online
and they're like, Oh.
Speaker 3 (41:52):
They so fine, they look so good together.
Speaker 4 (41:54):
I want that too, But it's much more that goes
into making a relationship work and obviously with both of
y'all about get married, Like, it takes a lot to
meet a partner and decide I'm going to spend my
life with them beyond just looks.
Speaker 3 (42:07):
Yeah, it has to be.
Speaker 4 (42:09):
People are so surface level these days and hyper sexualized.
Speaker 5 (42:12):
Like he said, I think that's just icing on the cake.
Speaker 3 (42:14):
Yeah, together, that's the place, right.
Speaker 1 (42:19):
So I do want to talk about that a little
bit because y'all have been on this crazy run promoting
the movie and stuff. Talk about that balance that y'all
have to have because you know, you have a child,
you are a new mommy, congratulations, So talk about that,
like you on the road, I know you're probably missing
a baby and things like that.
Speaker 5 (42:35):
So how have you been balancing it?
Speaker 3 (42:37):
Oh? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (42:38):
Yeah, I'm I'm not sleeping.
Speaker 3 (42:41):
I'm here. Yeah, that's all I know. I'm just here
right now getting through it. Yeah. And and and that's
and even in.
Speaker 2 (42:48):
That, you know, I give myself grace because I'm like,
I do miss my baby, but I'm like, I'm working
and I'm excited to get back to work, Like I
feel like myself for them, because you know, there's this
whole there's a whole journey when you're you have a kid.
So on one end, I felt really good. On the
other end, I am thinking about him. I literally was
just thinking about him like two seconds ago. I'm like,
(43:09):
I wonder if he's okay, what's going on?
Speaker 3 (43:12):
You know?
Speaker 2 (43:13):
So, but but it's but it's great. I mean I
balance it with Honestly, me and Joy just have a
really good system of just communication like what do you
gotta do, what I gotta do, how we're going.
Speaker 3 (43:25):
To do it, and then that's how we get it done.
Speaker 2 (43:27):
And we have a great support system around this.
Speaker 3 (43:29):
How was your pregnancy?
Speaker 1 (43:30):
Did you have like a good pregnancy or were you
like sick?
Speaker 5 (43:32):
Like how was this?
Speaker 2 (43:33):
I was very sick in the first trimester, but then
after the first was done, I was like, pretty you
sailing like I was back in the gym, I was dancing,
I was doing everything.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
Okay, So is.
Speaker 5 (43:44):
That gonna be another one?
Speaker 3 (43:45):
Are you like I want more? Are you like wanting done?
Speaker 2 (43:48):
It's so funny because I do want more, but not
right now? Okay, she like, give me a seat. I'm
still healing from this.
Speaker 3 (44:02):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (44:03):
So how is it for you balancing fatherhood in your
relationship and traveling and working.
Speaker 7 (44:08):
You know, I just I just do my best, you
know what I'm saying, Like there's there there are times
where I wish I could be around more. Yeah, but
you know they're like I have three kids, yea, so
like they they all know, you know, whether they understand
it or not, they've all heard since they've come out
the womb. You know Daddy that is Daddy's working so
that y'all can be happy, you know what I'm saying.
So they do, they understand them. So as much as
(44:29):
I want to be around, it's so funny. I had
asked the we'll get we'll get back to the real
the second, but I had asked my I'd asked my
oldest he about to be eight, and I explained it
to him. You know, he getting to the point now
where he's h you know, he he can have a
real conversation, like like a grown conversation. He know he
ain't grown, but you know, conversation. And I said, like,
you know, so you know what daddy does for work.
(44:50):
You know, Daddy gotta be away a lot. You know,
if you could prefer for Daddy to be away at
work so that you can go to the school that
you like you know he uh, he feels like the
g wagon is just like a monster truck, right. But
we can drive around, you know, the car that you like.
You uh, you know, you can hang around the friends
that you want and just you know what, we want
you to live the life that you that you want
(45:11):
to live. You know, loves going to piano and swimming
class and all these things. Like if if I was
to stay at home and you would have more time
with me and not have the things, you know, some
of those things I'd mentioned that you like, or you
could have me be away a little bit more so
that you could have some of these things you like.
You know, what would you prefer? He said, Yeah, I
would like you to be away and works that I
(45:32):
can have things that lets me know that he understands. Uh,
you know, the sacrifice. Yeah, you know what I'm saying,
because at the end of the day, that's what it's for.
So I would like to be home. I would like
to be home, you know some more. And when I'm
(45:54):
I'm not making it home as much. You know, we
we we all FaceTime all the time every day. But uh,
you know, it's just one of those things you try
to try to do your best. Dat you try to
give yourself, give yourself grace. Yeah, and always and always
stay communicating him. Understanding how I'm feeling and what's really
going on helps him grass Uh, you know what what
I'm really doing is all for, which is not myself right.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
The information gives him confidence for sure.
Speaker 7 (46:18):
Yeah, absolutely, yeah, I love that.
Speaker 1 (46:20):
Okay, So now it's time to get into the about
a bow.
Speaker 3 (46:28):
Bow Bow bow. I love talking about music.
Speaker 10 (46:33):
Tell having a time.
Speaker 3 (46:38):
Day every day. So the week is the song that
we have been jamming and listening to this week.
Speaker 5 (46:44):
And I'm not gonna lie see y'all. Y'all know I'm
an R and B girly at heart. I love R
and B and that's you know, in my in my blood.
Speaker 1 (46:53):
But Cardy drops her.
Speaker 3 (46:54):
Album, Oh my God, that was my Bob two.
Speaker 1 (46:57):
It's okay, I have I I have one bop that's
on there because she sampled a song by two non Blonde.
Speaker 5 (47:05):
She has a song with Lizzo.
Speaker 1 (47:07):
And they stample what's going on and it's such a
good song.
Speaker 5 (47:10):
Lizo was singing her ass off. I know she was
in that studio holding her ear, just going to work.
So I love the song y'all know Lizo is from Houston.
Speaker 1 (47:19):
Shout out to So yeah, I think I think the
album is good.
Speaker 5 (47:23):
But what's going on?
Speaker 1 (47:24):
Feature lizz O, Cardi, B Bop love it. I've been
jamming it all week.
Speaker 3 (47:28):
So I love.
Speaker 4 (47:29):
Cardi's album like I love the album in general. But
if I had to say one specific song, I really
like Faith featuring Kline.
Speaker 3 (47:37):
Okay, I like that. I like that song. It just
came out like last week. So what have y'all been'll
been listening to? Well me this week?
Speaker 5 (47:47):
This?
Speaker 2 (47:47):
Well, thinking about the Cardi drop I was. I was
just saying I didn't get as far to the Lizzo
one though. Yeah, I was just letting it, letting it
play in the car. And there's a song called Hello, Yes, Hello,
It's me Hello.
Speaker 3 (48:00):
I like that song.
Speaker 2 (48:01):
Yah. I feel like it was like when I first
heard Carti's music when she was on Love and Hip Hop.
That's when I started listening to her, and it made
me feel like one of those records off the mix.
Speaker 3 (48:15):
Yes it does, because really like this not like mixtape Cardy.
Speaker 1 (48:21):
People gotta realize Cardi has that music that when you're
trying to really like pop yo shit, you're getting ready
for a night.
Speaker 3 (48:27):
You managed your mingle.
Speaker 5 (48:29):
You ain't talking about ass tonight.
Speaker 11 (48:33):
The world.
Speaker 5 (48:33):
Yeah, we ain't picking no breaks today. That's how Cardi
makes her music.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
So I'm like, y'all need to understand it got to
be in a certain setting.
Speaker 5 (48:44):
You not have a certain setting for certain vibes. So
I like, hello, that's what you've been listening to.
Speaker 7 (48:49):
Tyler Future is real heavy on my playlist?
Speaker 3 (48:51):
Are Toxic King?
Speaker 7 (48:54):
I've been listening to a little bit of a young boy.
Speaker 5 (48:57):
Oh okay, And you know I never really cuts up
right now.
Speaker 7 (49:02):
I was on his music like that and then United
Tour was going crazy. Just see what's going on? You
know what I'm saying. I just started listening to some
of his stuff.
Speaker 5 (49:10):
He got some really.
Speaker 4 (49:13):
That meme had me weak when it was on Twitter
and it was like this looked like when what is
his name? Guards was over Pridian, the Waiians.
Speaker 1 (49:28):
Going, it's one of them artists, Like you just got
to give it a chance because you used to seeing
like the little kids being to it and they like
all you think they bad?
Speaker 7 (49:36):
That's what it was. Yeah, got into it because I'm like,
I got a couple of grades. I'm getting old.
Speaker 5 (49:42):
Like, Yeah, it's got a little box, should I say,
young boy? Okay, all right, what we got next? Dre
oh the item?
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The old school. This is the old school chatstick the
blue the blue stick?
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What you mean? Give me the traditional?
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Are you like.
Speaker 3 (51:54):
What she said?
Speaker 7 (51:54):
He said? Traditional?
Speaker 3 (51:56):
Traditional?
Speaker 7 (51:57):
Men?
Speaker 3 (51:59):
Are you kind of out?
Speaker 1 (52:00):
Like you get your nails done, your feet done, all
that stuff facial?
Speaker 5 (52:03):
Because I think it's important that men do that.
Speaker 7 (52:06):
Uh you know, if I got time, yeah, for sure,
I mean, you know, shower, you know what. I actually
stopped biting my nails recently. Yeah, like i'd be like,
you know, picking out on the fidgeting and whatnot. It's
just like it's just crazy touching everything. Yeah, everybody, I
(52:27):
need to go get them done.
Speaker 1 (52:28):
Little. I hate when people they got the nu That's
that's why I'm like, you don't have the nail.
Speaker 4 (52:35):
You don't have those type of nails that look like
you bite them because normally they be like.
Speaker 3 (52:41):
Blood on the side. They do.
Speaker 5 (52:45):
Blood because they bite them and they start to bleed.
Speaker 3 (52:48):
Well, you know, thank you all for joining us. This
has been an amazing episode because you your hoard off.
Speaker 1 (52:58):
Damn yes.
Speaker 3 (53:03):
That time. So yes, thank y'all so much for joining Goods.
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Tell everybody where they could find you. I mean, I'm
sure they know already, but as on every.
Speaker 7 (53:12):
Platform, everything is at time luckily and when they got
up too.
Speaker 1 (53:17):
Anything else other than Ruth and bos what else can
we expect to see?
Speaker 3 (53:20):
Music dropping?
Speaker 7 (53:21):
Okay, ready for that?
Speaker 3 (53:22):
Girl?
Speaker 5 (53:22):
Give me the background?
Speaker 3 (53:25):
Thanks girl, trying to get in theod.
Speaker 5 (53:30):
What about you?
Speaker 7 (53:32):
We got this coming out on Friday on the twenty
six years. A few other projects. We actually have another
movie dropping later on. Yeah, I'm just finishing up writing
this was having the script written for me that I'm
you know, producing, just just trying to put the producer
hat on and trying to ideas I have to fruition understand,
just staying on it.
Speaker 5 (53:52):
Well, thank y'all so much for joining us.
Speaker 1 (53:56):
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By y'all.
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Baby yeah, b b bumbuck luck. So I want you.
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If I had you back in my world, I would
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I was shown enough.
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Never never let you go again.
Speaker 3 (55:00):
Baby, I was so foolish.
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Shall but leave your side.
Speaker 12 (55:07):
Searching for what was right before my It was me
who did it rehal life Cilia was gold.
Speaker 10 (55:22):
But now I know I need you in my life.
Why I need you bad? As my hearby that's the
food I eat bad and see hair robbery.
Speaker 3 (55:36):
I can't take this thing. Boy.
Speaker 10 (55:39):
I want to go away saying I need you. I
need you. I need you what I gotta do? I
need you, I need you do it off for you. Baby.
It's nothing I want to do.
Speaker 3 (56:03):
Give what behad?
Speaker 10 (56:05):
We love true? No, lie, give up all the guy
just so I can give back in my spine. That's
a heart beat bad, that's a full man like the hairby.
(56:30):
I need you bad and I can't take this bad.
Speaker 3 (56:35):
Boy.
Speaker 11 (56:35):
I'm about to go insane. I need you, I need
you what I gotta do? I need you, I need
you do it up for you.
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This is how Ruth needed bo as.
Speaker 12 (56:54):
Y'all.
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Y'all got to read the Bible. Sometimes, y'all don't know
what be going on.
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When this so bad and you gotta get him back,
say oh, stop this. You won't get a better than
you go together.
Speaker 10 (57:09):
Say oh if you believe in love and you can't give.
Speaker 3 (57:15):
Him, Mom saying what you want to do to give back?
With your booth saying.
Speaker 10 (57:25):
Oh mad bad, yeah, breathe. I need you bad.
Speaker 5 (57:34):
I can't take the spade.
Speaker 10 (57:37):
Boy. I'm want to go in say I need you,
I need you what I gotta do? I need you,
I need you do it over you.
Speaker 5 (57:55):
I didn't know if that was jassa something I got
damn it.
Speaker 3 (57:58):
Cut the cameras.
Speaker 5 (58:00):
This is the Church episode.
Speaker 3 (58:02):
Boy, ass gona.
Speaker 10 (58:03):
Get your girl.
Speaker 3 (58:06):
Come back to me, baby, Yeah, walk one, walk on,
mack ma clack.
Speaker 5 (58:13):
We ain't no backtay boy.
Speaker 3 (58:15):
Of course we because we girl
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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!