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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect
Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shakety. I am Jaseelle Bryant.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
What's up. What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for
being here with us once again. We're in the streets. Yes,
in the street. Now we're not. We're in the house.
We're in the house. We in the You are back
from the streets. Yeah, you were in the streets, the streets. Yes,
How how have you recovered from your.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
I I was a zombie for a very long time,
like the day so I So I finished, we finished. Well,
I guess I can say this all because like nothing
has been a secret about the show, which.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Is very strange. Yeah. I think it's hard to keep
that a secret, of that of that magnitude, when you
have that many people involved. Sure, it's gonna be hard.
It's gonna be hard. Yeah, And you know it's good bus.
It's a pretty good bus for the Real Housewives. Ultimate
Girls Trip, Ultimate Girls Trip. Yes.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
So we finished in the Berkshires Saturday, okay, and the
Berkshires is in it's like two hours two and a
half hours outside of New York outside of the city.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
It's in Massachusetts, Okay.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
I learned that as I was out there, and I,
you know, God bless Drenda in her house right, and
it's she is a very beautiful house.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Take a very large property, right, large property.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Yes, I didn't, you know, like go all over her house,
but I did see significant rooms. I saw the fish room, okay,
which was key to her Housewives of New York. And
I saw antuluayne, and I saw like the outside back door,
outside area, and then like her main area okay, okay,
which is kind of cut up into like different rooms.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
My point is.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
In my ball gown and and my Tierra on my head.
I got into a vehicle that drove me straight back
to New York.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
When the party was over, I didn't even go back
to the hotel. I said, get me out of hair.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
So I went straight back to New York hung out,
and I was like a zombie that day. My girlfriend
was calling me. She wanted to go to dinner, and I.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Wanted to see her. And I wanted to go to dinner,
but I wanted to stay in the ban right. I
wanted to stay in bed.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
And I was literally like a zombie. My body was aching,
but I was happy that I was there. And then
the next morning I did Sherry Shepherd and then I came.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Home because you all were on the road pretty much
two weeks, two full weeks. Yeah, okay, so living in
hotels for two weeks.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Yeah, and it was like two days in the city,
pack up, move, two days in a city, pack up.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Oh my gosh. Yeah. In the beginning.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I remember Cal called me after we had gone to
like two cities and he was like, I know, you're tired.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
I was like, no, I'm not, I'm good. I'm good.
Shed we got to Atlanta. After Atlanta, I was done
for the rest of the trip. Yeah, who you know
a lot. No, it's it's it's a lot, not just
for me before the crew, right yeah, all that equipment,
oh yeah, every two days, like that's that's a mess. Yeah,
(03:18):
and the crew was probably what how how large was
the crew in comparison to just.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
A regular show, Probably double okay, yeah, okay, but like
we had some of the same guys, like I saw
school school was in the Berkshire's and then you know,
some of the same people from Potomac.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
So it was it was a traveling circus. Yeah, yes,
of sorts, but this is but this is what you
do when you go on trips with your girls. Y'all
go from like city to city, not like this, not
come on out, not like this. No.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
No, we say we might hit in a in a
ten day span, we might hit three different places. Right,
this was in a fourteen day span, six different places.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
It's just team too much for anyone involved, and you're working.
Yeah this when I with my kids, I'm just look pleasure.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, so do you have an idea? Did they tell
you when it's gonna be gonna air? Er? No, they
didn't tell us that. I do know.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
It was highly entertaining. Like I think that the audience
will freaking If you're a housewife fan of eating franchise,
you're going to love it.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
You're gonna get your life, You're going to get your.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Direight because at some point you will see your person
because we saw ship like everybody, right, just about just
about everybody.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Yeah, so yeah, yeah, I wonder the I get the
question more so is not who was there, but who
wasn't there? Yes, you know, no, true, and it's probably
fewer people that weren't there, yeah, than were than were
right exactly.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
So from I'll just speak from Potomac. We don't see Karen, right,
and we don't see Monique. Like those two were the
that I was like, I really wish they were.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Part of this. Okay, okay, do you see but Mia
and Wendy And no, I said that I wanted you
wanted a party. Okay, you were just saying, okay, I'm like, no,
we don't say we don't.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Yeah, we know we don't see Wendy, but you know
she's going through some other things right now. So yeah,
I feel like those so to answer your question, are
to your point, those two, like Karen and Monique would
have been nice.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
It would have been nice to see them. Correct. Got
it out of Atlanta. I felt like we saw everybody. Well,
did you see Deshaun Snow? No? Except her? Oh she
was there.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
No, okay, No, didn't see her out of let's say
Beverly Hills.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Shoot, we saw did you see some of the newer
people in Atlanta? No?
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Okay, yeah, no, And I and I kind of felt
like that was good. Not that was good, but like
when you look at the franchise, you're you don't think
of I don't think these new girls. As a matter
of fact, you don't because they haven't even there there
whatever they filmed has an air yet.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Well, I think the most the newest as far as
I can tell, is from Atlanta. Drew Sodora. Okay, I'm
saying I think she was. She's like the newest one
that was at Ultimate Girls Trip. Yes, like anyone after her. Correct,
I don't know that they were there. No, they weren't.
(06:28):
They weren't.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
And but again, like when you think about Atlanta, you
don't think of these newer girls. You kind of think
of like the older, the older ladies that you know,
held the friend. Oh Candy, Candy was missing, but you know,
Candy's on Broadway. I would have loved to have seen her.
Let's see Beverly Hills.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Shoot, we saw everybody. Really, That's like, that's kind of
how I feel. Yeah, you probably didn't see like the
one it dones, like the the really rich lady what
was her name, Diana. She was married to the young
guy she was on like a few seasons ago. She
was really close with I think with Erica Jane. Oh no,
(07:11):
we didn't. I don't know he's talking about.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
But no, we didn't see her, but I felt like
we saw a lot like Adrian Maloof and maybe I
shouldn't be tang. Who's gonna Let's just change the subject, becau.
I'm about to get in trouble.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I'm about to give it. Okay. I feel like we're
talking about this because we've seen pictures everywhere. Oh yeah,
true but true. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
We did see a Beverly Hills picture and they were
kind of like fall in there. I felt like that
was like they had very good representation.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I'm sure Brandy Glambelle wasn't there. She was not, she
was not.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
I felt like Orange County had great representation. I mean
a lot most of their first season. Let's say I
think they had five girls. Four were there, Okay, Joe
was there? Okay, can I I can't. Let's let's stop talking.
I'm about to get in trouble. Moving on, Okay, what
what's your okay?
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Before we get into our shady moment of the way,
my mama called me. Okay. She was like, I listened
to the podcast last week and it's Black History Month
and I was waiting for a Black History Month moment
and you all for got. And I was like, no, Ma,
I think we said it. Wait, so was February? It
was February second. Oh no, we didn't acknowledge Black History.
(08:24):
We didn't. I don't think so, not, Mama. I don't think
and I'm wrong, right, I say, I don't think so
what you talk about? Yeah, I don't think we did.
Oh okay, well we got some catching up to do this.
But in our defense, Mama, yeah, it wasn't Black History
Month when we recorded that episode. Very true, So we
weren't cognizant of the date. Yes, sorry, mommy. So it's February.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
God damn it February, and we're gonna take every moment
to recognize the fact that it's Black History Month. Okay,
and you know it's it's Black History Month every day
of our lives for us. Absolutely, but we will celebrate
everything black and the black black black like I you know,
the culture is.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
We're doing great things these days as we always do. Absolutely, yes,
and we're trying our hardest to not erase history. No,
history is very important because they trying to erase us
swing all that them. No, no, we not, no, I
promise you once once, once all this is over, we're
going right back to We're going to reverse everything. Yes, okay, Yeah,
(09:28):
we want to build the East East Wing back. Yes,
we building that back. We put all of the artifacts
back into the African American Museum. We're doing.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
I saw them pulling stuff out of off the walls
of in.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Philly, in Philadelphia. Yeah, we put it all back an exhibit.
We already know. We know how to do that. We
know how to put our ship back, put it to
the side. Yeah, we'll be back, It'll be back. Okay.
So I'm John, I'm like, dang, what kind of what what?
I wish we had a fact? A fact? Okay?
Speaker 2 (09:55):
I did like because a lot of times we talk
about black people that have passed. Yeah, when we talk
when we think about African America, I mean when we
think about Black History Month. But I was watching the
view the other day and they were honoring somebody and he.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Was in the audience. Oh I did see that. Yeah,
I thought that that was amazing. Right Y, gotta get
people their flowers, give them their flowers while they are alive. Yes, now,
I know him got to our shady moment, but it's
kind of segue. Did you see the Grammys and the
di'angelo tribute? No, I did not. I wish they could
have done it while he was alive, because it was
(10:29):
it was good, Oh my god, like Lauren Hill. I
mean they brought like everybody out, but Lauren Hill was
like the main one, and I was like up dancing.
It was like so nostalgic. It was amazing. I love that.
Damn Like it's really sad. And they sang some rovert
of ROBERTA Flack as well, but it's like something like that.
(10:52):
If di'angelo was alive and if that tribute probably would
have meant everything to him to experience it. It was
a amazing. It was so good. We got to start
giving people their flowers right there, a line we too. Yeah, yes, yes, yes,
I think you're great. I think you're amazing. Thank you, yes,
thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Okay, so happy Black historyma, Yes, okay, thank you Mama
for getting me and check in together.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
All right, So do you have a shady moment? So
I have like a reverse shady moment. Okay, I love those.
I would call it a reasonable moment, I guess. Oh okay, yes.
So we were out to dinner recently, the four of us,
(11:37):
one Corey Carter, and one's homeboy. That's like always over here.
So we go to dinner. We go to the restaurant
close to my house. Yes, we've gone to Okay, we
go to nice restaurant. Yes, I love the fish. We're
all getting, you know, and we're all we're getting all
the things, the filet mignon, the crabcakes, the steaks, like yeah.
So the bill was, you know, to taching that, all
(11:58):
the drinks whatever. So we're in there and one he's
super observant, he don't miss anything. So Wan looks up
in the ceiling and in the ceiling is like a
bunch of cobwebs and dirt and dust. It's just like
you know. And so the owner was there, He's always there,
and he was like, hey, you know, George, come look
(12:19):
at this. Yeah, like you know, pointed out to George
and George's like, oh my god. Like he was like mortified. Right.
So end of the night, we're like, can we get
the check? And he was like, oh, no, dinner's on
me because I'm just I'm so sorry about that. Yes,
I was like, I mean that bill was gonna be
five hundred dollars, yes, like five hundred and he added
(12:41):
free dessert on tip. No way yes, And so I
was like, oh, wow, like this is a I mean,
he didn't have to do that because it wasn't Wan
wasn't pointing out to him like complaining. It was just
more so like looking out for him, yeah, and saying
like because I mean, he was just like, oh my god,
the cleaning people, I can't believe they've missed it.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
You know, yes, they don't look up like guess right,
but you guys are in there a lot, not a lot,
but enough.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
We hadn't been in a in a very long time,
at least like six months. We hadn't been in a while,
but we do like the owner, you know, we come in,
we give the owner a hub. He's happy to see
it and blah blah blah. But to like fully comp our.
This isn't shady at all. This isn't even reasonable. This
is amazing. I said, it wasn't shady. I said, it's reverse,
it's reasonable, yes, right. So I was just just like, oh,
(13:26):
you know, it's like love that sometimes when you get
like these moments where it's like you don't really experience
a lot of like kindness, you know what I mean,
or just like people just like being kind or or
you know, what's the word generous or generatious or whatever.
So I was like, oh, I love that.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
And every time, well most times that I go there,
they at least bring out for like free dessert. They're
always bringing out something, which which is nice when you
go to a restaurant.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
Right because I'm sure there's a lot of shit they
throw away.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Oh so it's like instead of throwing away, give it
to the people. And then it makes me feel like, oh,
you see me, you love me. You know I'm greedy, right, you.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
Know I want more. I want all the desserts. I
mean he has sent me home with like one dessert,
one of each dessert on a menu before yes, and
I literally go home and I'm like, it's all good,
it's all good. Yeah. I wish we could say the name.
You don't want to say the name, I don't know.
I mean, well, okay, I'll say the name because just
(14:28):
for people local and they clean the ceiling right right,
I'm not said, I'm right. I don't want to put
it out there that you're ceiling with dirty, but I
do want to like just shout them out because they
are really it's a great restaurant. The food is great. Yeah,
the customer service is great. It's called Xenia spelled with
an x x e n i A and it is
a Greek Mediterranean restaurant in Columbia, Maryland.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
So and it's kind of off the beaten path, like
it's not it's like an a.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
Business district kind of. Yeah. Yeah, it's like in an
office building. But they stay open pretty late. They and
like a lot of people just go hang out at
the bar. Yeah. I've had several dates there. Yeah. Yeah,
and you might see you just out there.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
No, you're gonna see Robin and Jan telling him that
you didn't clean the corners and the crevices. My shady
moment very quickly was I, as you we've just said
I was traveling. Yeah, it snowed ridiculously, yes, and so
(15:27):
you know, if you don't shovel the snow when it snows,
it's a disaster.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
I was going to ask you about your house. Did
you take care of the snow at your house? Okay?
Speaker 2 (15:37):
So I had my sister on it. She was like,
she was like, you got to get this done. Yeah,
you got to call the people. So I did call
the people, and he was like, Okay, I'm coming and
then he ended up not coming for two days.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
So on the third day he comes and I could
see him on my ring camera. He's like trying to
get this done. It was it was probably like what
six seven.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Inches, and it was I it was ice on top
of the snow. So it was like six inches of
snow and then ice on top of the snow, which
I've never really seen before and made it really difficult
to get rid of the snow. Right, okay.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
So he's got machines, yeah, and he's got a big
truck and he's getting it done. And then he calls
me and he was like, cause, you know, okay, So
I have a circle in front of my house and
then a long driveway, so he was trying to get
around the circle, which he did not need to do.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
All I really needed was the driveway. So I guess
he was upset with himself. So he calls me. He's like,
I couldn't get the drive No, He's like, I couldn't
get the circle. So I was like, okay, okay, it's
not a problem. It's not he said, that's what's ice.
That's what's ice.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
So I said, oh my god, sir, like, it's why
are you screaming at me? So I guess he was
just angry and kept screaming. This was ice to me.
And then he gave me the bill. That's I think
why he was screaming.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
He wanted to know. He worked very hard. He got
all the ice up because it is it's a blacktop,
like he got down to the black okay.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
So he did his job okay, and then he gave
me a very large bill long that I.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Don't have a choice to pay, right, Yeah, I gotta
pay it. So is that the shady part that I
had to pay it? I mean the shady part it's
not well. I mean the shady part was just the
damn snow nice like that ship was crazy. That ship
was it was insane crazy. I can only imagine what
your bill was because your driveway is really long, it's
super long, and that stuff was hard.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
And he knows he got me. It don't matter what
he said, I gotta pay it.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Do you know how long he was out there and
how many people he had.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
He had too, He had him and another person because
he had a person on like a you stand on
it machine, uh huh. So he had that and then
and then him. He was probably out there two hours.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
Okay, was is that a long time? Not really? I mean,
you gotta tell me what the bill was.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
Yeah, but I appreciated it, and he I just felt
like he didn't need to scream with me about it, right, Yes, sir,
thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
He's trying to justify that bill anyway.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
I do want to talk about Sherry Shepherd, Yes, because
we do love our girl, Sherry love love love.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
And you know they've announced that she her show's being
canceled or it's not being picked up again, same type thing.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
Okay, right, but it's but it's going to be on
through the fall. Yeah, I think they start September is
when the new season start, right, So does that mean this?
This is what I understand. Does that mean that she's
going to have one more season? Oh, if she's on
through the fall, because until the fall, because in the
summertime they're off. Oh that's right. So I didn't understand
(18:42):
what that meant. That's what I read that that Sherry
Shepherds show was canceled or not being picked up and
she would air through the fall. Through the fall. Okay, Well,
I don't know, but I'm mad about it. Yeah, I was.
I was disappointed. So on top of Sherry, it was
Kelly Clarkskin. Yeah, Kelly, Kelly, Kelly Clark, Skinn, Clarkson, Clark
soon you're gonna have me say it wrong Clark Skin,
(19:05):
No Clarkson. But you know she's been in and out
of her show for a little a minute with just
you know her her was it ex husband? Her ex
husband passed.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
Oh, and you know she's just having some stuff and Sherry,
I mean not Sherry, what's her name?
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Kelly?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
I do know it's still like touring and she's still
I think, trying to continue her music, which obviously she
loves to do, and the show, which is.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
Probably a lot to do. Yeah it's a lot. Yeah,
that show, that's a lot. It's a grind, Yeah, for sure,
it's a super grind. Yeah. So Kelly clarks why can
I not the Kelly girl.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
The Kelly girl ain't coming back, Scherry not coming back.
And we don't know about Tameron.
Speaker 1 (19:48):
Yeah. I thought I saw I read somewhere that she
was canceled, but I didn't. It's like I read it,
but I didn't read it. You know what I'm saying,
Like it didn't feel like it was an official announcement.
Announcement let me see tamoron. Okay, okay, but let me
to Sherry. Really, I from what all accounts, the ratings
were great. Sherry is great. That's our girl. So I
(20:10):
don't understand what happened. This doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 2 (20:13):
We know that ratings equal advertising equals money. So if
you if she's still bringing in the money, like what's
I don't understand why you would.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
Let her go? Right, So tamer Hall was not canceled.
So Tamman's back. Let's see if there's a explanation on
why Sherry's show was canceled, because I yeah, I was
very surprised because I thought she had a great audience,
she had you know, great ratings. Yep. I thought I
felt like I enjoy watching her. I actually, when I'm
(20:42):
in the house, it comes on twelve o'clock here, I
make sure I turned to it at twelve o'clock every
day if I'm here, I'm watching the Sherry Show.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
And I felt like she was you know, she has
her monologue in the front part of the show, which
was it's always funny, but I felt like it was
funny shady not toxic. Yeah, because you know sometimes I
could go left, which I appreciate exactly. And yeah, she
knew all things were housewise of Atomac.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
So I was loving Sherry, right. Yeah. So I'm sorry
to hear that, but I do think there is okay,
Fox will continue to run its fourth and final season,
with the last episode airing in the fall. That's what
I don't understand.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
Well, maybe they're saying she's going to run new content
through the summer.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
I don't know. I don't know. I do think that
there are like acquisitions and you know, like networks being purchased,
all of that type of stuff. So let's see. Co
presidents of Lionsgates said the decision was driven by the
(21:48):
evolving daytime television landscape. It does not reflect on the
strength of the show, its production, which has found strong
creative momentum this season, or the incredibly talented Sherry Shepherd.
We believe in this show and in Sherry and intend
to explore alternatives for it on other platforms. So that's interesting. Yeah,
(22:10):
I don't even know what that means, what streaming, I guess.
So okay, Well, we do know that Sherry will land
on her feet yes, she's talented, she's amazing, so for sure.
But I hope the show, not just Sherry, but the
people who work on the show. I mean, yeah, we're
talking about a whole crew of people's livelihoods. So I
do hope that maybe there is an opportunity for them
(22:31):
to be on another platform. Yeah. So we've seen Netflix
go the way of adding podcasts to their platform, which,
by the way, I was looking on Netflix and looking
at the podcast I don't see any African American female
led podcasts on Netflix. So Netflix, we're here, what shady
(22:52):
is here? Y give us a call, We will answer
the phone. But yeah, so maybe there's an opportunity for
her to stream her show on Netflix. I think that
would be great. And it's it's for YouTube or whatever,
but I'm hoping that they can continue it because it
was a great show. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
And in that building, so the building that the studio,
I should say that Sherry's in it used to be
Wendy's studio. Also in that building was Rachel Ray I
think Ricky Lake like this that this building has has
housed many a great daytime television show.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
So we got to figure that out. Yea. So then
the question is Okay, the landscape of daytime television is changing,
So what are they putting in its place? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
I kind of have a feeling it's going to be us.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
It's suspicion, it's going to be robbin In just out.
I'm just saying. I'm just saying for it live from
Robin's couch. It's reasonably. Don't hate y'all when it happens.
Don't be haters. Okay. So I'm going to talk about
waffle House.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
Can we discuss that because I know that she'll spot
Oh it's not so oh it's not just fine?
Speaker 1 (24:02):
O what? Or maybe that's my children? That is not
my Okay, so maybe I should be having this conversation
with my children and not you. Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
So well, Valentine's Day is coming out, okay, okay, and
waffle House has decided to offer candlelight Valentine's Day dinners.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Can you imagine going to the waffle House and it's
like dimly lit and there's candles on the table.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
That's actually kind of cute.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
It's very cute with reservations and romantic decor. Oh at
selected locations. Oh okay, I'm here for it.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
You're here for it. I am so here for a
candlelit waffle with grease on the floor, right, sliding sliding
to your table. Why do all waffle houses floors? How
is it like like.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
Just a she a sheer piece of grease on top
of it that looks like cheesecake factory. Okay, well tell
Wan this year he gets off East, all he has
to do is take you to Yes, okay, because you'll
get I'm sure you'll get waffles. And then they got
the hash browns, eggs, bacon over candid.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
This this is amazing, is this is kind of amazing. Okay,
So if someone now, no, don't even go down that road,
just making sure only because this is not something I do.
Me neither, okay, me neither.
Speaker 2 (25:31):
Speaking of food, France has become the first country to
force all supermarkets to give unsolved food to the poor, which.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
Like, why don't we do that?
Speaker 2 (25:42):
So you know, this is gonna be one of my
questions when I got to Heaven, Yes, like God, why
do we throw so much food away when.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
There are people that are hungry?
Speaker 2 (25:51):
Like why haven't anyone thought, hey, let's give it to
people that really need it? And I do know that
there's like food quality control, like you can't give away
food that's going bad or whatever. And I understand that,
but there's ways to fix that too, right, so much. Yeah,
so I'm very proud of France. Hopefully the United States
(26:12):
will get on board, because no one should be there's
so much food, no one should go hungry.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
It's crazy how much food is wasted. Yeah, crazy, even
so in my own home, like you know, right, no, no,
for real, right, yes, it's crazy yeah, crazy, speaking of
I'll tell you about that, lady. Anyway, lits, can we
talk about Kiki? Oh?
Speaker 2 (26:33):
I want to talk about Savannah. I'm all over the place.
I want to talk about Savannah Guthrie. Guthrie whose mom
is missing. We want to, you know, give her all
of our love and support emprayers. All she's asking is
for people to pray.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
Yes, so yeah, yeah, so I don't. I mean, hopefully
by the time that this podcast airs, they'll have some
positive news. And but this feels like those movies and
shows that I watch, Like I feel like I've never
really heard something like this in real life at least,
you know, where a prominent news anchor parent or mother
(27:11):
or you know, family member is pretty much kidnapped in
the middle of the night. So, wait, she was kidnapped.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
I thought I thought it was like she had Did
I make this up that she had dementia and she
walked out the door?
Speaker 1 (27:23):
You made that up? No, she was kidnapped. Oh, no,
she was kidnapped. She this is horrible. Yes, she was
taken in in the middle of the night. And they
can kind of pinpoint a time around like close to
two in the morning. Her pacemaker, Oh she has a pacemaker. Yes,
so her pacemaker is no longer communicating with her cell phone. Okay,
(27:47):
her cell phone was left at the house. God, so
the last communication that her pacemaker sent to the cell
phone was around two in the morning. Okay, Wait, this
is a whole nother thing.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
So ken, if she's not near her cell phone with
her pacemaker not work.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
No, I think it'll work. I think the cell phone
is just so that they can like make sure it's working,
you know what I mean. So I don't think she
needs her cell phone for the pacemaker to work. But
they were saying there's other important medication that she needs
to survive, So if she has a pacemaker, she probably
needs you know what, the other medication for your heart
(28:23):
and stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Yeah, because my dad had a pacemaker, So yeah, that's important.
And they can, like, depending on what kind of gig,
they can at their facility turn it off eternal.
Speaker 1 (28:33):
Yeah right, they can monitor it. Yeah. Yeah, so her
doctor probably somewhere is monitoring it as well, which could
probably tell them. I don't know, can that tell them
if she's alive?
Speaker 2 (28:44):
Well, they cannot tell them where she is. It doesn't
have like a GPS on it.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
I don't know, but I think they should have that now.
I don't know clearly horrible it must not because I
feel like the story unless they're foiling us stuff. But
I feel like by now because so this happened on
was it Saturday? Late Saturday night?
Speaker 2 (29:03):
I did not know all these details. Yes, I pray
to God that they find this woman? Yes, and who?
Speaker 1 (29:11):
And what? And why would they kidnap? What? Is she
seventy five years old? She's eighty four years old? Yes?
Why would they kidnap her? Right? I don't know. And
so there was blood found they said, on the the
door or something, okay, leaving out of the house. And
it was in the middle of the nighty and apparently
(29:32):
there have been like two ransom letters that were sent
to like TMZ and another news outlet, I think the local. Wow,
why would they send it to her? Well, right, And
so they're trying to verify, okay, legitimacy of it. And
then they also if these ransom letters are legit, then
they need real proof of life. Yeah. And now with
(29:52):
AI you can put out fake voices, fake images, So
they're working through that. So that's kind of where they
are right now. Like I said, I hope this ends positively,
but it's so creepy. It's like a movie, you know,
one of these crime thriller series that I watch. I've
never heard of something like this. And does she live
(30:12):
by herself? Yes? Oh she was living by herself. Oh
this is terrible. Yeah, it's awful, I could, I mean,
so so sad, yeah, so sad. So Okay, So we're
praying for a positive outcome. Yes, please for sure, bring
her mama home for sure. For sure. I hope they're
being whoever has her. I hope they're being kind to her, Yes,
(30:34):
feeding her, making sure she's okay, put her feet up,
like the whole nine. It's terrible. I know, it's awful.
Speaker 2 (30:47):
Speaking of the Epstein files of it all, it's kind
of wild, Like if you really deep dive into the
little bit that they've put out, they only put out like.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
One percent, two percent. They've redacted so much.
Speaker 2 (31:02):
They've redacted, but like even like just the eat. First
of all, why are there so many emails? I guess
it's before text messages and before phone calls, Like, like,
I don't know why there's so many emails.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
Did they think email was more discreet than than phone?
I mean because they had or what were the years
like twenty fourteen you had two way pages. I don't know,
twenty well when I don't know, I don't know why
there's so many emails. Yeah, it's that's bizarre. But if
you did not communicate by email like that, No, but
even if you jump in and check it out for
(31:34):
a minute, like and just scrape the surface of like
what's going on here, it's disturbing, yes, beyond disturbing. Yeah.
And then there's one that I saw and it was like, hey,
that young the young girl, she was a little naughty. Yeah,
and the whole person, the sender, their name is completely redacted, right,
(31:58):
And it's like, why why are we redacting the names
of the perpetrators.
Speaker 2 (32:03):
Yes, why are we hiding? Why are we doing them
any favors?
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Right? I don't get that well behind it, like who
are these people?
Speaker 2 (32:12):
If the person is the person that wears diapers, then
I mean we get it, but like it's terrible and
then apparently.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
Okay, so is this true? Is Trump in there like
mentioned thirteen thousand times or something?
Speaker 2 (32:24):
I thought it was thirty eight thousand times. I thought
it was something ridiculous.
Speaker 1 (32:27):
Apparently Trump is mentioned thousands of times. Right. What I
find interesting is that when you hear other people I've
heard of other people's, other people being mentioned in the
Epstein files, and then you kind of immediately hear like, oh,
they were like fired from their job. Yeah, I can't remember.
Like it was like some executive of like, you know,
(32:48):
big corporation and they've been let go because they appeared
in the Epstein files. Right, And it's like, okay, so
why we use the same energy for Trump. It's like
other people are scared they're going to lose their livelihood
because their name is in the epste But Trump's name
is in your thousands of time thousands still, you know,
and he's he's still the president on sixteen hundred pins
(33:10):
Vania Avenue. Now, Russell, did you see Russell Wilson. He's yeah.
It was something about he booked a jet or something.
He was like, oh no, no, no, no, no, let me clarify
this right now. This is why my name is involved. Okay.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
Yeah, it was something like it's something about booking the jet.
It was something about but it wasn't like it was
something like, oh, we'll call russ.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (33:32):
It was something very like oh hell no, very innocent. Yes,
it was very innocent, but like hell no, Yeah, everybody's
happened to clearly defend themselves. Yeah, and then others aren't.
Others aren't saying a word nothing. Yeah, there's saying nothing.
Speaker 1 (33:48):
Yeah. It's crazy. I don't know, it's it is kind
of disturbing the stuff that you see in there. I
mean it was poor victims. Ooh like victims ooh, just
just young girls were abused and taken advantage of, and
just I can't even imagine how the long term damage
that was done to them. So I feel so bad,
Oh for life, damage for life? Yeah yeah, no, terrible,
(34:11):
horrible anyway.
Speaker 2 (34:12):
Okay, so did you hear what Keki Palmer said recently,
no speaking of my kiki. Okay, I love me some
key Palmer she said, because I think the question was
was she ever like get married again or what what
what does marriage look like for her in the future,
And she said yes, and she said he can still
live in his house and I'm gonna live in my house.
And I still, as I heard it, I was like,
that's my Virgo queen, because that's how Virgo's roll.
Speaker 1 (34:35):
Okay, we can get.
Speaker 2 (34:36):
Married, we can be husband and wife, missus all the things,
but you need to go home to your house right right,
and I'm to stay at my house.
Speaker 1 (34:44):
That is a great concept. Would that work for you?
That would work for me? Yes? Absolutely. The houses should
be like on the same block though, Okay, I'll give
you that, or like in the same neighborhood in the
same comping distance. Fine, fine, but you go over there. Yes.
Absence makes the heart grofond. And I mean I think
(35:06):
the longer women are settled in their like a loneeness,
you know, just kind of comfortable being by themselves. Yeah, yeah,
it's harder to like invite other people into your space.
Shareless space, share space permanently.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
Ooh, ooh yeah, no, definitely different bedrooms. Yes, yeah, yes, see,
if you can get a different bedroom.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
You go for it.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
Oh yeah, no what And then it's the temperature is
how you want it exactly? Because let me tell you something,
nothing beats a good nice leap. If you can get
a good, nice sleep, baby, Yes, life is good.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
And the men, I don't know what, they like to
cuddle and get away.
Speaker 2 (35:52):
I'm hot, I'm like, it's too cut shmuddle, get out
of here with that?
Speaker 1 (35:57):
Oh my okay. And then the snoring.
Speaker 2 (36:02):
The snoring is wild. The snoring is absolutely wild. Yes, okay,
so real quick.
Speaker 1 (36:11):
Yeah. A lot of people have messaged me, what happened?
Would you do? Wanted my thoughts on the Karen Huger interview?
Oh okay, so to be honest, okay, the interview Karen's Karen.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
There was an episode, last episode of this season of
Potomac Karen and Andy did a sit down and Andy
asked her Karen had just come out of uh, what
do we call it jail?
Speaker 1 (36:38):
The county? Yes? Did she call it the county? That's
what you said? She called it? Yeah, jail?
Speaker 2 (36:43):
And he it was kind of like a Barbara Walter
special it was like they sat down and he had
a lot of questions.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
Yeah, and which, by the way, was y'all's highest rated
episode real season. Yes, thank you, karens Well. It was
highly anticipated. Yeah yeah, yeah right. I mean, and I watched,
and I haven't watched anything from the whole season. I
want you to know you got Robin watching. I watched,
(37:10):
well more so because people were messaging me like do
you see this? Have you watched this? Like this is
They were kind of, you know, had their thoughts. I
was like, all right, well let me watch. Okay, So
I watched, and honestly, I don't really I don't want
to really go too deep. Maybe on Patreon I'll talk
a little bit more about my thoughts, but I will
(37:31):
just say I feel like I saw the same person,
the same person you know from years prior, the same
person that I've known from over the years. That was
the same person who did that interview, Like what do
you mean by that? A lot of the same like deflection,
oh okay not. I feel like there was some accountability,
(37:56):
but not in like a what I I wanted to
really see from her was like a sincere apology or
a sincere acknowledgement of drunk driving is never okay. I
apologized to all of the you know any all the
victims and victims families of drunk drivers, like this is
(38:17):
a really serious matter. Like I really wanted to see
her attack that topic and just kind of like say,
like what I did is never acceptible, blah blah blah
blah blah. And what I felt like I saw was
like a lot of blame shifting and a lot of
deflection and then a lot of trying to like, I
(38:38):
don't know, it was weird. It was like she almost
didn't want to embrace the alcoholism part and was putting
it more on like the prescription drugs. And I felt
like that in a way was kind of trying to
blame whomever prescribed her these drugs, drugs, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 2 (38:53):
But not in her defense. But we obviously we knew
Karen drank. We drank with kre Right, But that was
the first time I had heard anything about pills, any
any type of anything adding to drinking.
Speaker 1 (39:08):
Right, Yeah, I agree. I don't find it hard to believe.
Oh no, I believe her, But just even like you know,
even trying to like, you know, be shady towards Wendy
like that was unnecessary. You know, it's like, okay, I
forgot that what happened there? Wendy said someone told her,
like I don't know, she's she met someone and they
were like, oh, that lady always daydreaming, which we know
(39:29):
is true, right, and oh who would talk to Wendy?
She oh, I see, but she admitted that though right,
she admitted it, admitted it happened twenty years ago in
legal seafood, okay, like do you know what I mean?
And then but I'm just saying, like her throwing a
dig at Wendy because she lives far away, and who
would talk to Wendy? Like that was unnecessary? It was no,
just let's just take accountability and let's not deflect. Let's
(39:53):
just kind of address the topic head on and and
be kind of remorse and let's try to like send
a message to the people out here, like I am
sorry because I know a lot of people have lost
loved ones from drunk drivers and that it's never okay. Yeah,
because she even tried to not even say that she
was drunk, like this, I don't know, it's weird. She
(40:15):
tried to downplay and she said, oh, you had four,
do you know I had to like an the other
one where I don't know, you know what I mean,
it's like, yeah, it's just just own it, just own it.
Speaker 2 (40:29):
So and now that you're saying this, I'm remembering because
we have filmed the reunion. Yeah, and Karen is at
the reunion and this obviously comes up again, and she
talks a lot about her story again and I I
feel like you're going to get that at the reunion. Okay, yeah,
I feel like you're gonna get I don't know what
they're gonna show, but I do remember her talking at
(40:49):
the reunion. I felt like, great about what she's saying. Yeah, okayeh,
all right, well that's good to know.
Speaker 1 (40:54):
That's good to know. And maybe I don't know. I mean,
like I said, I don't want to go too deep
because I've never been to j I've never had a
drinking problem. I've never had any of these issues that
she has, and so I don't want to like make
like attack someone. But I just felt like if I
was a victim of a drunk driver like I would
(41:14):
have been totally disappointed in that interview. Yes, yeah, yeah, Okay.
Speaker 2 (41:19):
But it's so crazy because so I've had people comment
to me what you just said, and people have been like,
oh my gosh, Karen was so accountable, Karen, Karen did great,
it was amazing. So it's it's weird people's perception, perspective.
Speaker 1 (41:35):
That point of view. Yeah, yeople. People definitely interpret things differently.
I didn't have I didn't see one person say that
she was, well, you know these are my friends, these
are my friends are DM and me. Yeah. Yeah, I
didn't see one person. Everyone was like what was that?
I mean, but even to go as far as like
to blame your marriage, like you weren't happy in your marriage,
(41:55):
you know, it was always felt like there was like
a blame as supposed to saying it's all on me, right, Yeah,
I get that. So so I mean I walked away
feeling like she's not healed, like she's Oh really you
felt that way? Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, I haven't felt
that way. Okay, I do feel like she is.
Speaker 2 (42:19):
I don't want to say different, she's she is she's
learned some lessons. I'll say that she's learned some hard lessons,
which and I can say this, she don't ever want
to go back there again, she's learned some hard lessons
and hopefully she and she is actively trying to get
(42:39):
to another place. Yeah yeah, right, you know she does
her therapy and all that. So okay, I'm happy about that,
I hope.
Speaker 1 (42:45):
So I did appreciate her resourcefulness. The Maxi pad on
the toilet, that is incredible.
Speaker 2 (42:54):
So for those of y'all don't know, Karen said she
went to the CEO and said she was on her period,
which we all know Karen is not, so that she
could get Maxi pads to line her toilet, the toilet
to make the toilet, I guess better.
Speaker 1 (43:09):
A little more sanitary, like a little more. You give
them a little cushion and like you're not sitting your
ass on all these other people's asses. Totally. How clean
is this thing? Right? And then she says she got
shaving cream. She told me this.
Speaker 2 (43:22):
She did something with shaving cream and used it in
a way that she turned it into like an air
freshener for her room, I mean her room, her.
Speaker 1 (43:32):
Space, her two by four like, so that was like
a genius shaving green. What does she do with it,
I don't know, but she made it be like an
air Freshener okay, of sorts. So that's like who knows?
Who know? Carara was so creative. Yeah, I mean, hey,
look take care. You got all the time in the
(43:52):
world in there, like to think about what can I
do to make make my quarters more homey? Yes for sure? Yes, Okay.
Speaker 2 (44:00):
One other thing I wanted to discuss which bothered me.
It had something to do with mister Cam Newton.
Speaker 1 (44:06):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (44:07):
So Cam was interviewing a guy. I don't know who
this guy is, but we'll figure it out. Put it
in the in the chat. But he was on Cam's
podcast and they and the guy posed a question to
Cam Newton, who has the podcasts called Funky Friday. He
was a big time football player.
Speaker 1 (44:28):
Was he a quarterback? Cam Newton?
Speaker 2 (44:30):
Yeah, he was a quarterback, right, okay, And he the
guy asked him, had you know, have you ever had
like female friends? Cam Newton is like absolutely not, And
so He's like no, no, no, no, like female friends,
like just friends females. And the guy asked him like
fourteen times and Cam's like absolutely not. And the guy's like,
(44:52):
why are you so immature? I Mean he didn't say
it like this, but he was like why is it
that you cannot you don't have the mature to have
a female friend and it not.
Speaker 1 (45:02):
Be like you're trying to get in her pants. Huh.
And he just was like, because I know me, m
and you think that's okay. Like I just so he
has a lot of cam Newton has a lot of
bad takes. I would say, well on just like life
relationships and like men and women. I don't know, Yeah,
(45:25):
he just has a lot of bad takes. But he
has how many baby mamas? No clue, Okay, what a lot. Well,
here's a bunch of kids. I don't know how many
different baby mamas he has.
Speaker 2 (45:35):
Well, he said he cannot have a female friend. There's
not going to be any woman around him that is
going to be his friend.
Speaker 1 (45:44):
So he's saying you can't he can't be friends because
it's going to turn sexual.
Speaker 2 (45:47):
He's going to want to have sex with them at
some point at some point, which I find to be
completely immature.
Speaker 1 (45:55):
It is like, it's incredibly immature.
Speaker 2 (45:56):
But think about the world, Like if all men could
not be mature and keep it in their pants, we
it's gonna be a dark day because it's like, how
do you have an assistant. How do you have a nanny,
or if the nanny is a woman, how do you
have anyone around you in a working capacity that you
(46:18):
feel like it's eventually you're gonna want.
Speaker 1 (46:21):
To get in their pants exactly like Cam, I don't
know you, sir, it's extremely I mature. I just want
to say, I'm gonna pray for you because you got
to be able to keep it in your pants. Like
and so then you're saying basically like, imagine if you're
dating him, right and you know that he can't have
women around him and because he's gonna want to have
(46:41):
sex with them, but are categorizing those people as friends
like the assistant workers.
Speaker 2 (46:48):
Okay, so okay, so let's take those out. But don't
you want to have somebody in your life because I have,
you know, several male friends that are just friends and
like when okay, so when I'm I am dating somebody,
I'm able to like talk to them about the male perspective,
right if, like, if I feel like I'm I'm having
an argument or disagreement with the guy that I'm dating,
(47:08):
I want the male perspective, right, So you have nobody
in your life that you can talk to just about
anything female.
Speaker 1 (47:14):
That's crazy. Yeah, that is crazy.
Speaker 2 (47:16):
That is crazy, and it makes me look at any
man like that. It's like, first of all, so you
don't have control of your penis, right, Like that don't
hurt to me because my vagina. I just want you
all to know my vagina is controlled by me, right,
I don't need to jump on any penis that's around me.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
I'm trying to think where he would. I mean, maybe
being an athlete, his perspective is a little skewed, like
maybe he just thinks that every woman that comes at
him is trying to get with them. I don't know,
you're not even that attractive me. I mean, no, shade,
I don't. I don't know. Okay, let me. I want
(47:57):
to poll.
Speaker 2 (47:58):
I want to know from I want to hear from
men because I want to know is this normal? And
we just women just don't know that this.
Speaker 1 (48:05):
Is how all men think. I guess it's like, okay,
how strong of a friendship are we talking? He said?
Speaker 2 (48:11):
Nobody like he said nobody? He said, and so the
God was like really concerned that God was like no, no, no, no,
like just a friend. He's like, it's going to get
eventually and inevitably it's going to get there.
Speaker 1 (48:22):
Yeah what Yeah? Yeah, So I want to know from men,
is this the norm? Or am I crazy? Or is
Cam crazy? Right? One of the two? Let us know, right, Ken,
men have platonic female friends, yes.
Speaker 2 (48:36):
Now, I do understand that some men play the long
game with women, right and try to just like wear
you know, be in the friend zone and just try
to wear them down until eventually that woman just wakes
up one day and says, hey, I want to be
with you.
Speaker 1 (48:51):
But nine times out of ten that never happens. Yeah,
I mean, I think it depends on the scenario. So, like,
I have a lot of male friends, but it's I'm
not like some of them. I may meet for lunch
every now and then, right, but it's not like it's
not romantic, no help. I mean, it's definitely not romantic,
but like, you can't do it with everybody. It just
(49:13):
depends on the person and how the relationship kind of
the friendship started. I don't know, but I want that
for men.
Speaker 2 (49:23):
I want for men to be able to have female
friends right that are it's strictly patonic, because imagine how
much you're going to learn and grow from the female's perspective, because.
Speaker 1 (49:34):
Like, we rule the world, we are the ones that
keep this world going right. But he makes it sound
like he can't even have a working relationship with the one.
It was so bizarre to me that I just was
like I thought about it and and a I thought,
how was he raised? Right? Like did you what did
he see? What did he witness? Like what happened here?
(49:55):
Like what? Because it can't be professional football? I cannot.
I'm saying like it can't because honestly, it's it's kind
of quite the opposite. Like in sports, there are so
many females that are assistants or admins or whatever, and
they're around a lot, and so of course you got it,
like you you can't look at these women as potential,
(50:17):
you know, sexual partners. You want to knock down a
whole cheerleading squad? Like what is this?
Speaker 2 (50:22):
I need answers. Hopefully somebody can give him to me.
Maybe it's Cam maybe not.
Speaker 1 (50:28):
Yeah, but God bless him. He has a lot of
bad takes on women though, Oh he don't like us. Yeah,
he's kind of like, uh, I don't know his bad
takes on women and relationships with women. Sure, okay, him
and Paul Pierce. Paul Pierce.
Speaker 2 (50:43):
But but I do like the other guy who's Ryan Somebody,
Bryan Clark. Yes, I do like his take on women.
Speaker 1 (50:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (50:49):
Yeah, he seems like he is mature. Yes, and he's
emotionally mature.
Speaker 1 (50:54):
Yes. I like him anyway. That is our episode. We
love y'all so much.
Speaker 2 (50:57):
Don't ever forget to live your life, either reasonable shady
or both.
Speaker 1 (51:02):
Bye.
Speaker 2 (51:09):
Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Effect podcast Network.
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For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
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