February 18, 2026 • 38 mins
In this episode, Gandhi and Diamond sit down with Straight Nate and Skeery from the Big Show to discuss how exactly men operate on a Dude's Night Out. We also find out something wildly creepy that Diamond says is an absolute necessity when dating someone.
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
Sauce on the side. Diamond Heller, Hi, Hi, We've got
the boys.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I'm so excited. They're not just any boys, They're lunatics.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
We're talking about Nate and Scary. We promise them, I
think maybe last episode, but they were both ducking and
dodging for a long time because they think we're about
to try and set them up. But I don't have
to set them up. Then you just let them talk
and they're interesting, and you have a theory about the
two of them. Yep, and I thought it was a
pretty interesting theory. Let's toss it out right now and
see if that holds true as this episode goes on.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I think that Nate is Scary's translator. He Scary just
says shit that doesn't make sense, but for some reason,
Nate just knows how to decode it and make it
sound normal.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
So okay, yeah, okay, So together they have cohesive thoughts
on their own, not as much.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Nate's not that bad.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
It's Scary. We just want to talk to them about
a lot of their theory. They've been going out together.
They've been having a good time, kind of partying. Native
is single. We'll get to all of that is there
anything else on your mind that you want to talk
about before they join us.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
No, I'm just really excited for this conversation.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Okay, don't have it up too much.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
What if it sucks, Well, if nobody else likes it,
I'm sure I'm gonna get a few laughs.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
So and that's all that matters. We're here for us.
We don't even care if anyone listens. I'm just kidding.
I totally care that you're listening. Thank you so much
for listening. You keep me employed, and that's important. We
had a good laugh at our homie who wanted us
to get eaten by bears. Yes, called us some dumb bitches.
More of that if you would like. We should probably
check talkbacks at some point, but that one I think
(01:46):
we could survive on for so long that.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
One I need injected into my veins at least once
a week.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
You just want me to call you dumb bitch?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Right?
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Only absolutely cool dumb bitches ahead, we should start a
podcast just called dumb bitches. Yeah, they're probably is already
one called dumb bitches.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
But it wouldn't be this.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
It wouldn't be dumb bitches with Diamond and Gandhi all right,
So I think we should just get them in here
because I see them lurking and Nate's acting like he
has things to do, so we gotta grab them.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
I'm ready, all right.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
I'm very excited about this episode. Oh God, why Diamond?
We have Scary and Nate in here?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Is this our.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
Cherry Poppin experience. Scary first time.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
I've ever been invited to saw us on the side,
and I gotta say, it's a pleasure.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
To be You know, I'm not gonna say that yet,
because we're gonna be grilled and we're gonna be made
look like like fools. And I know that's exactly gonna
just as the bait and switch here is.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
You're gonna hear.
Speaker 6 (02:44):
Oh, this is gonna be like an Oprah episode. So
tell me what did you mean when you said, well, no,
there is.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
A little bit of that. But I'm glad I have
the two of you, okay, so that it's not it's
not anyone teaming up on anyone, and you guys can
back each other.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
Safety in numbers.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
This is what we have in the We have Nate
from the show straight, Nate, our lovely producer. We love him.
We're scary Scary. We talk about you often in the podcast,
glad that you're finally here, well.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
Finally here to defend myself. Can I also plug my
podcast while we're at it at the end, I gotta
get going, okay, because I plugged your podcast all the
time on my podcast.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Oh fine, go ahead.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
So if you never listen to the Brooklyn Boys podcast,
check us out because if you likes us on the side,
I think.
Speaker 7 (03:20):
You're like a little bit of the Brooklyn Boys too.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
I'm just saying I hear a lot of people saying
I love your podcast, you know. I'm just saying our listeners,
you know, they love a lot of things we do.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I think they would enjoy it.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Okay, thanks Brooklyn Boys with Scary and Brody. I need
to turn my mic up more, Diamond up higher? Okay,
how about that? Hello, Okay, we've got Diamond. So in
this room we have Nate, who is newly single. We've
sort of addressed this on the air a little bit. Yeah,
if there's anything that you want to get into by
all means, knock yourself out. But he is newly single.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Take applications.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Thank you, you're taking applications. This is perfect. So we're
going to get to that. Okay, Diamond is single, single,
she's been single for a while, scary.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
I'm in a long.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Term relationship, it's like forever, but before that, I had
my single ways.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
And then there's me who I'm in a relationship but
also available.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
That's go ahead, Okay, all right.
Speaker 6 (04:10):
We don't have enough time for all these questions, but
I have recently.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
The three of us have been on a lot of trips. Yeah,
we've been traveling a lot. And I hear them sort
of talking about like dating and what the dating world
is like, and their views on what the dating world
is like. And I can't even step on it because
you guys are coming at it from your angle as
men versus what the dating world is like for women.
They're wildly different, and you guys think about things that
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we don't think about, and vice versa. Okay, first though, Nate,
let's find you your girlfriend.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (04:43):
Well, and I say taking applications, and I'm I'm joking
because I am newly single, basically in the last couple
of years, and I am not pushing things right. I
think I'm just letting things happen. I'm getting into shape.
I'm taking care of myself looking up for my future,
and here.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
We are and you're dating you, and I have to say,
you seem happy and I love that. And everywhere we go,
everyone we meet tries to hook Nad up with somebody.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Yeah, don't do it.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
And the amount of people who are like, I don't
want to hook Nad up with this girl? What do
you think? And my thought is always it no, and
I tell him no, don't do it, but they still
go forth, Yeah, I haven't tried to hook him up
with anyone.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
I think that's people's natural inclination, right, Like, oh god,
you're single.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Now we have pity for you. Like they don't say that, right,
but there's pity.
Speaker 6 (05:29):
And then oh, I got to hook you up with
somebody that's just as messed up as you are, because
I'm sure you know what I'm saying, Like they probably
have that other other person in their head that has
issues as well, because we all have issues.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Like, let's put these two together and it's never a
good combination.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Right You You want to be the slacker in the relationship, correct, right?
Speaker 4 (05:48):
You want a sugar mama that's exactly looking.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
You're very stable.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
When I say I'm taking applications.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
If you're a wealthy woman that wants to just take
care of me and buy me suits and take me
on vacations.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Here, I am.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Wow, Yes, Diamond. Go on.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
When I said something like this years ago, people were
very upset. So I'm not affecting people to rip into
his ass.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
You know why I say this because it's not going
to happen. It's not. There's there's so.
Speaker 6 (06:15):
Many women out there that have guys that want to
take care of them, actually wants to take care of me.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
I think someone maybe double your age, may actually pick
you up on.
Speaker 7 (06:26):
This office nine. Okay, let's call it this way.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
A wealthy woman in her sixties will gladly buy you
suits and take you on trips and make her your rop.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
And this is where I wanted to have the conversation,
because Scary's got these big ideas that he will double
down on a wealthy woman or her sixties.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
You love it about.
Speaker 5 (06:49):
But first of all, listen, you say about dating, I
maybe have outdated ideas of dating because I haven't been
on the scene for some time. But I have my friends,
my hope okeen friends who have their tactics, and I've.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Learned a lot from them.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
And I remember back in my twenties and thirties when
I had my own ways that maybe I tried to
apply to giving Nate advice with coreat So can.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
We start there with one of the things that I
learned about you guys when we did one of our trips.
We were at the Fountain Blue, and the Fountain Blue
has multiple towers, some of them are very far away
relatively from that main entrance where there's this bar and
then the elevators. And as we were checking in, Scary,
who by the way, has got to be like the
best wing man ever for you.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
He's pretty great.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, he really cares like he's he's committed to the costs.
Speaker 7 (07:34):
I just shovel things in his direction.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Shovel he doesn't need it.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
He doesn't need it.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Somebody would be like, oh, you're Scary Jones kind of picture.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Yeah, and this is Nate.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
And then that was single and then I don't see
Nate for the rest of the night. Nate wanders off.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Lady Nate.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Ladies love cool Nate.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
So diamond. Yeah, as we're checking into this hotel, there
were rooms that were in the far away towers, and
then there were a couple of rooms that were right there,
and Scary was like, Nate, right here, he needs a
room as close to this bar and specifically the elevator
as he can get. I don't really think anything of it.
And then later Scary decided to inform me that it's
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very important that single men be as go ahead that's
close to an elevator as possible, because that's how you
get the ladies to your room. But proximity, okay, to
the bar, because no girl wants to walk too far
to get you know, to get a little hookup happening,
and there's a window of opportunity and you gotta get
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in before that window shuts. So the closer you are
to the elevator, the better it is.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
Can I expand on this because this is because because
he sounds like a predator.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
This is crazy, said I said, to drag them back.
Speaker 7 (08:48):
This sounds creepy and cringe.
Speaker 5 (08:49):
Please, if you're listening to this podcast and you were
going to shut it off, at least allow me to
just correxplain myself. Okay on this the two of you
are okay, So with the window of opportunity to.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Stop laughing about this, okay, Okay.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
A buddy of mine has the window of opportunity theater.
I'm gonna I'm gonna just tell them, dox them right now.
Will my buddy, Will, Will across the street, Will across
the street.
Speaker 7 (09:09):
Will across the way.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
With women.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
There's a window of opportunity. Okay where and the window
it's a visual folks, where as you know they're hanging out,
they're having a good time to feel in a good space.
The window is opening, opening, opening, but the second, the
second they get drunk, the window just snaps shut.
Speaker 7 (09:28):
So you have to be kind of.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
Loosey, goosey, in a good mode and a good vibe,
hav a good time as the windows open. But the
second someone becomes inebriated, first of all, you don't want
any part of that. It's like run the up opposite direction. Glad, Yeah, no,
we all do you know every everyone has always done
that over the years, right and well, and then look
(09:50):
the windows snap. The windows snaps shut when they get hammered.
So you have to catch the window of opportunity. But
it's almost like a trap where it goes open, open, open,
and then shut because it comes to a hard stight
on you.
Speaker 7 (10:04):
Dick closed I agree with you.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
So let me just preface this whole conversation by saying,
one of the things that I learned when I was single,
younger and single was that women just want to get
laid to sometimes for sure, and it took me a
very long time to realize that. But in conjunction with that,
they want to get laid on their own schedule. And
what Scary is saying is there is a window of
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time when you were out if you were having a
one night stand, which I don't have. We all had
one in this room. Yes, yes, yes, yes, you've never
had one night stand?
Speaker 4 (10:37):
No, okay.
Speaker 6 (10:38):
If you have a one night stand, or even in
a relationship that starts as a one night stand, there
is a finite amount of time that that one night
stand will happen. And what Scary is saying is there
is a window of opportunity that you can get some right,
and then that opportunity for men or women that window shuts.
Speaker 5 (10:58):
Partly open window is the fact that maybe the friends
have wanted it off with other guys.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
Because nobody couse.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
They feel like well and sometimes they want to do this.
I don't want to be doing this in front of
my friends. I don't want them to see what's going on.
So there's right, so correct. So that's what I mean
by that part of it right now.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
But you also had mentioned a distance when it comes
to heels, girls, I want to walk far.
Speaker 6 (11:21):
You said, well, no, this is when it comes to hell.
You know, you don't want to have to go too
far like if if if Okay, let's say we were
saying the Fountain Blue and we had drinks there and
then somebody's hotel is all away in.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
Brickell or something.
Speaker 6 (11:34):
You aren't getting laid that night because it's going to
take you forty five minutes to get from there, and
nobody wants to get laid after a forty five minute Oberright,
come on, you don't want.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
To Yeah, your window.
Speaker 4 (11:45):
Yes, I'm saying, he's a guy my window. I have
a window as well.
Speaker 5 (11:49):
So what I was trying to say to put Nate
in the best position. You don't want him in the
far tower. And I know I stayed in the far tower.
You stayed in the far tower. But I said, this
man needs to be in the tower.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
He was just out of the way.
Speaker 5 (12:02):
He needs to be in this tower right here by
the bar. Because if he's gonna, you know, kind of
do some schmoozing. The distance and the time between the
drinks and the hanging out and maybe meeting somebody, you know,
someone might wander off with him.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
You don't want to have to go to b f
E to get late, right.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Scary of living in Jersey City, cop block. You meet
someone in the city having a good time, so we're
going to Jersey City, they say no or not.
Speaker 6 (12:40):
So he's a million percent because I live in the city.
And then I have been invited back to Jersey City
or Hoboken by some young woman that night she.
Speaker 4 (12:49):
Invited me, and I'm like, I'm not going there.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
It's like ten minutes from your apartment.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
I'm not going there.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
But here's the thing. My single guy friends who live
in this he refused to come hang out with me
in Hobo go a Jersey City for this very reason. Yes,
because they don't want to come across the river hanging out.
Maybe maybe meet somebody cool.
Speaker 6 (13:08):
Do you know how much that uber is back into
the city, get the hell out of here.
Speaker 5 (13:12):
And there's no way they're gonna meet someone who lives
in Hobo going to Jersey City and they're not gonna
go with Nate to his West Village apartment.
Speaker 4 (13:20):
Not gonna happen. See do you do you see what
I'm saying here? Do you agree in any way, shape
or form?
Speaker 2 (13:26):
But no, I totally agree, thank you.
Speaker 7 (13:29):
This is creepy.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
I wouldn'tdate a guy in Harlem all the way back told.
Speaker 6 (13:35):
Yeah, Or if you met a guy out and you're
gonna have a one night staying, he goes, hey, come
to my place, and I ain't gonna have too far by.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
So I'm very glad that you guys are here together
to explain this, because.
Speaker 6 (13:46):
Up until now does come across as very predatory, creepy
as the day is long.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
The way that you described it was like you gotta
get her, gotta catch her while she's right there by
the elevator. And now I'm.
Speaker 6 (13:57):
Actually and to his joy as a okay, as a
single guy. Uh though there are so many factors. It's
it's like that scene in a beautiful Mind with all
of the numbers flying through the.
Speaker 4 (14:11):
Air, the calculation to actually get laid.
Speaker 6 (14:15):
You have got to be Einstein sometimes in order to
get some. And so what Scary is saying is, Hey,
that's going to be a that's going to be a
set number in your equation. You know exactly where you're
going to be at a certain time because you're constantly
doing the math on how to get.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
He has to catch lightning in a bottle, But to
shut him up to catch the lightning in a bottle.
Speaker 4 (14:33):
You got to say for success.
Speaker 5 (14:35):
He's got to put himself in the best possible situation
for it.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
No, I hear what you're saying. Now I'm going to
say this, Yeah, I'm still appalled as a woman in
the dating world, Diamond, as a woman in the dating world,
if you really wanted to hook up with somebody like
you actually really wanted to does the proximity to the
elevator matter?
Speaker 2 (14:56):
No?
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Would the drive matter?
Speaker 2 (14:59):
No? Not if I really wanted to know?
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Really Yeah, Okay, So here's what I'm saying, which this
is what I found fascinating. When women go out and
we're like having a good time in partying, not one
of these thoughts enters our mind one time, not once,
right when you guys are out having a drink and
doing these beautiful mind equations all night, which I find
fascinating and I think it's a lot easier than all
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of this effort and energy that you guys are putting
into it, I really.
Speaker 5 (15:24):
Think because you're speaking from a woman's h standpoint, right.
Speaker 7 (15:28):
Because women, women could get laid whatever the hell.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
They want anytime they get It.
Speaker 6 (15:34):
Doesn't work like that for guys. It doesn't work like
that for guys. I'm sorry, I know it.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
Doesn't work like that, but I'm just saying I also
don't think all of this like math that you guys
are putting into it makes that much of a difference. Nate,
you are successful, you're good looking, you're young, you're fun.
That's all you need.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
But I wish it was.
Speaker 4 (15:54):
I wish it was.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
You know what I'm saying, though, right it is, I.
Speaker 5 (15:58):
Think he needs a little bit more than that. It
is the window of opportunity to present itself.
Speaker 8 (16:05):
Okay, So even in his own neighborhood, even in his
own neighborhood, Okay, if he's out, and he's out and
and and girls are having a woman with the girl's
night out, he may get into conversations.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
And he's gotten into conversations with people before.
Speaker 5 (16:20):
And you know, I think you might have left with
a phone number or two, right, but never but but
never like that night, were you able to feel like
And it's because to me, that's the embarrassment factor. I'm
not going to do this in front of my girls.
Speaker 4 (16:37):
Yes, yeah, I like the.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
Sexual assault murder aspect of it that women really care about.
Nate is more afraid of getting raped than anyone I've ever.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
Made with the guy. Anyway.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
Do we have a friend Joe, our friend Joe who
displayed this.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Do we just call him out to we did?
Speaker 4 (16:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (16:57):
Anyway, he showed this because he he met these two
girls and then he was bobing with this one girl
and then all of a sudden he took a number,
her number, and then they went their separate ways. And
then later that night she texted him and said, Okay,
my roommate's asleep, I'm coming over.
Speaker 4 (17:16):
Yeah. So the one roommate wanted him. The other roommate
also wanted him.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Look like a six.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
He makes me look like a two.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Here's my question to you, lady.
Speaker 6 (17:37):
So you know, we just made a statement that you
guys could get laid pretty much any time you want
because you're girls. The catch there is do you want
to sleep with the guys that are out with you
right that that you meet when you're out, that you
meet when you're out, because you could easily have sex
with pretty much any guy that you want because you're
a woman. Do you actually want to sleep with those guys?
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Because my content is, yeah, I probably could meet somebody
and hook up that night. Do I want to?
Speaker 4 (18:07):
Probably? I mean, have I fallen on the grenade? Everyone
we all have. We all have. That's guy mentality. Yes,
that happens. That happens.
Speaker 5 (18:25):
I don't think I was ever going to situe. I'm
trying to think way back. I don't think I ever
fell on a grenade?
Speaker 1 (18:30):
Do you think someone fell? Just asking?
Speaker 6 (18:36):
Now, that's funny. What else did you want to talk about?
Because I think we made us enough of a predator. No,
I don't like your final cut rights on this.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Yeah, yeah you can. You can tell us what you'd
like us set it out. But I want to know
from you because another thing that we were talking about,
and I've seen this talked about so much lately and
I find it bizarre, is how important somebody's Internet presence
is to you when you are in the dating world,
Because apparently gen Z needs you to have a big
Instagram following and have some sort of footprint and I'm
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the exact opposite where I'm like, if I can't find
you online, oh yeah, I need something.
Speaker 6 (19:13):
I need something. I don't need posting every day. I
just it is a little weird for our generation to
not have some.
Speaker 4 (19:22):
Sort of online presence.
Speaker 6 (19:23):
Do I care if they're actually doing anything on there,
I'd actually prefer not at this point, and as time
goes on, less and less so.
Speaker 4 (19:31):
But it is a little weird that.
Speaker 6 (19:33):
Somebody doesn't have an Instagram account or.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
You know what I'm saying, an old Facebook or something
like something like.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
Okay, first of all, do you have a secret family
out there with children and everything?
Speaker 1 (19:48):
And he became a stocker?
Speaker 2 (19:49):
See, yeah, I need to know. I need to I
need to find your mom on Facebook. That's my new thing.
I have to find someone's.
Speaker 4 (19:56):
Mom on Facebook.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Listen, listen.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Do you reach out to them, No, never, But you
find the mom because mom's usually if someone has like
a girlfriend that they take home to their family on
the holidays, the mom will post the evidence. So you
need to just look. Okay, there's no one there, no
one in the picture. Okay, well then you know everything
else is up to whatever the world has for me.
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But you need to check the mom's Facebook. If I
can't find your mom's Facebook, you're done.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (20:26):
Yeah, oh no long term stuff just like regular random guys,
No big deal, but like uh uhh scary.
Speaker 5 (20:33):
I think if you don't have a social media presence,
or at least a footprint of social media, I think
I think you're hiding something. And it could be it
could be like something really nefarious. It could be like
like a murder or corruption or something not a murder,
but like you're in trouble with It could be.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Legal issues and stuff.
Speaker 5 (20:52):
Because everyone has everyone has should have something, you know,
like you don't have to be active on it.
Speaker 7 (21:00):
I don't have to be active, but I need to
know that you.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
Have a Facebook page.
Speaker 5 (21:04):
And I think if if you meet a guy I'm
specifically talking about guys that have zero social media presence,
not one, no Facebook, no Instagram, though, Snapchat, not one.
Speaker 7 (21:12):
Piece, I think it's us. I think you need to
be Yeah.
Speaker 4 (21:16):
And I don't think you're going out with that person.
Speaker 7 (21:18):
I don't think something.
Speaker 4 (21:19):
I don't think a woman would go.
Speaker 7 (21:21):
Hiding something clearly.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
Yeah, with a guy, I think another thing they could
be hiding a family yeap that's.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
What Diamond said, and that actually did happen to me.
He had a lady and a child. And then when
I found out, he acted like I did something wrong.
Speaker 7 (21:32):
So did you have a social media presence?
Speaker 3 (21:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (21:35):
I couldn't find it. So here's the thing. I couldn't
find it because as soon as we started hanging out
he blocked me every way. But my best friend shout
out to Ashley. She found his ass and she was.
Speaker 4 (21:45):
Like, look at this, see and you.
Speaker 6 (21:48):
I guess My point to this is they're going to
find out something about you, period, Right, if you dig
deep enough, you're going to find something. I was talking
to a girl and they actually heard and her friends
pay for a background check service that as soon as
they meet somebody, what do they do? They put their
the guy's phone number in, full name in and boom
they do the whole background.
Speaker 4 (22:09):
Check like they're gonna do it anyway. You know, you
might as well have a social media presence at this point.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
Two other things so quickly with you bigger is too
big of a social media presence? Also a red flag
because I feel like I've heard you guys tell me
what you think high maintenance is and I'm like, I
don't think that that sounds like a it's a hardy
she got a good job. Guys like her. I'm out.
Speaker 5 (22:32):
No, it's hard to because we have big media followings
and we post so at least I do. So I
don't have a problem with anyone. Listen, if my if
my girlfriend suddenly blew up and became this huge internet
media star whatever on social so be it.
Speaker 3 (22:48):
That's great.
Speaker 5 (22:49):
I welcome it because that's the world that I'm in.
I live in this world, I swim in this world,
so it's not a problem.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
All Scary needs is a tag and a double Paris filter,
and he is.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
Happy and the point five.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Point five please sorry, Nate, Okay, the bigger the better
or no.
Speaker 6 (23:09):
No, I I I prefer an online presence that is
restricted to like friends.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
You know, we've met you know, I've met.
Speaker 6 (23:20):
Girls out that they have a very strong social media presence,
and you know they just have guys sliding into those
dms constantly. And I'm at an age where I don't
want competition. If you want to hang out with me,
hang out with me. I don't want to have to
be competing with every everybody leaving a comment.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
On your dms.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
But is that competition though, because if you're the winner,
you're just gonna win. She's like, I think the vast
majority of women that I know aren't super interested in
the guys who slide into their dms like hey, because
usually that's all it says, correct and it's awful correct.
Speaker 6 (23:49):
And so what I've been trying to do now is
I'm just meeting people out. If I meet somebody out,
I get their information. I'm not going online. I'm not
sliding into dms. And if it works at it, we're sad.
I met somebody when we were out a couple of
weeks ago, yeah, and so we went out once and
went out. We went out and we went on one date,
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and I've texted her twice. She hasn't replied over the
course of four days.
Speaker 4 (24:15):
Done good free. Sorry.
Speaker 6 (24:16):
If you're not replying back to me after ninety six hours,
you're off.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Well that's yeah, good for you, Nate, stay strong. So
I was telling Diamond this in the last episode. We
were out in Miami not too long ago, and these
guys were trying to buy his dinner and he asked
me for my phone number, and I was like, no,
I'm not going to give you my phone number, you
can here's my Instagram.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
That's just as bad.
Speaker 7 (24:38):
Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
His boys flipped out. They're like, don't do it, don't
follow her. You're not a fucking fan. Fuck that shit.
But they were so angry. Do you guys find that offensive?
If you ask for a number and she's like, no,
here's my Instagram, I think.
Speaker 6 (24:50):
That's actually I mean, here's the thing. You can reach
out on Instagram, So you have this person's kind It's
as good as the phone number in my mind. And
plus you get to see this person in a different light.
You get to do some vetting, you'd get to do
some background research to.
Speaker 1 (25:07):
See who they want you to think they are.
Speaker 6 (25:08):
If you just get the phone number, you have no
unless you're paying for a background check, you have no
idea who this person is. I would prefer the Instagram
at this point.
Speaker 1 (25:17):
That was my exact point. I'm like, if I give
somebody my phone number, anybody, you can search so many
different things about me. And I'm not a fan of
that because I already get enough letters from prison and
that is not fun. So I don't want to give
somebody my phone number. I would much rather just give
them what everybody has access to and then actually talk
to you and if it feels like it's a safe space,
do that. Though when I took these dudes were oh
fin yeah, well like what a bitch?
Speaker 3 (25:41):
No, I don't. I don't have any any skin in
this game.
Speaker 5 (25:43):
But but I observationally, I could tell you that I
think a phone number at this point is more of
It means something a little bit more than someone getting there,
you know, follow each other on Instagram. I mean that
that's my observation. I mean that's I feel like Instagram
d ms are like the new I'll text you kind of.
Speaker 3 (26:02):
Thing, right, is that right?
Speaker 1 (26:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (26:03):
Or Snapchat or Snapchat.
Speaker 1 (26:06):
I'mon just made a face of Snapchat.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Snapchat for me is like maybe I'm stuck in twenty
and sixteen. But Snapchat is just like, oh, I'm going
to send you nudes and then I just kidding. So yeah,
Snapchat is not for texting.
Speaker 3 (26:20):
Snapchat is not for texting.
Speaker 5 (26:21):
But I feel like I read an article recently that
gen z that's how they that's how they communicate is
through Snapchat.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
That's how they text each other.
Speaker 4 (26:40):
Okay, so let me ask you a single Like we're out,
then we're out. Hey, what's up?
Speaker 9 (26:46):
Hey Jesus bar No, not like I know you, but
yeah I don't know him.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
Yeah, okay, go ahead.
Speaker 6 (26:59):
Hey, you know you seem really cool. Uh you want
to get together sometime?
Speaker 2 (27:04):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (27:04):
Me on Instagram?
Speaker 2 (27:05):
We could chat on there.
Speaker 4 (27:06):
Actually I do kind of feel a little offended by that.
Speaker 6 (27:08):
Why I would like it for vetting purposes, but and
like I don't deserve your phone number.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
Well, guys have said that. Guys have been like, oh,
so you think I'm just gonna follow you and you're
never gonna follow me back, or I'm like, if it's
that deep, then don't follow me, but DM me on Instagram,
like if it's that serious. But like, no, I'm not
giving you my number. I lie and tell people. Oh no,
I've had a horrible experience with giving people my number
in the past just because people I know have, so
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why not? But like, I'm not giving you my number.
I don't know you.
Speaker 6 (27:38):
Do you know you could block these people like you
They already.
Speaker 2 (27:43):
Have your number, so then they can use another phone
to call you if I block you on Instagram.
Speaker 4 (27:47):
All right, here's the question.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
And you're afraid of getting I have you.
Speaker 6 (27:53):
Here's the thing with stockers. They will always find a
way to get in touched.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
I've gotten hit up on Venmo.
Speaker 6 (28:00):
I have had people show up at my door. What like,
you know, you block them on social media, you block
their phone number, and.
Speaker 4 (28:08):
They show up at your door. It is not fun.
Speaker 6 (28:11):
So if it's a stock or stalker, they will find
a way to get you. But are you passing up
love just because you don't want to give out your
phone number?
Speaker 2 (28:18):
No? But I'm like I don't. Also, I don't like
when I tell a guy like, oh no, just add
me on Instagram and you make a big deal out
of it, because now I'm like, well, what's on your
Instagram that you don't want me to see just yet?
Now I'm flipping it on you.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
What's going on here?
Speaker 7 (28:33):
You know?
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Like, if it's that big of a deal to you,
then maybe maybe I am passing up on love because
something is not right.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
I don't know, So are you guys?
Speaker 2 (28:41):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (28:41):
And I think there's only one answer to this question.
If when you start talking to someone and maybe start
dating someone, they're also talking to other.
Speaker 4 (28:47):
People, I'm fine with it. I actually fully expect.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
That right as an adult, you should absolutely expect that.
I think it's wild. I mean, we were talking about
this girl we knew who started dating a guy that
she worked with, and one of the other girls was like,
oh my god, he's stating like twenty people. Somebody needs
to tell her why they just started talking. It should
be expected, like I wouldn't it be a.
Speaker 5 (29:07):
Little sudd That's a red flag in my opinion. That's
somebody who's very insecure and has low self esteem if
they expect that you're the only person that they're going
to be speaking to, And like.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
How he if you meet somebody and they aren't talking
to anyone else, that's wrong with you. You don't have anybody
nobody in the hotel.
Speaker 5 (29:23):
If I were single and I was out there, I
would I would expect every woman would would would have
have like fifteen twenty guys that they're talking to.
Speaker 3 (29:31):
I would. I just assume that.
Speaker 1 (29:32):
So, then, Nate, when you said you don't want to
be in competition with all these guys sliding into her dms,
you're okay being in competition with them in real life.
Speaker 6 (29:39):
Yes, absolutely, yeah, I fully expect not to be. I
would like to if I meet somebody that I want
to have a relationship with have that conversation down the road,
there will probably be a natural point to have it, like, hey,
are we exclusive?
Speaker 4 (29:53):
But yeah, that point?
Speaker 1 (29:55):
What's that point?
Speaker 3 (29:56):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (29:56):
God didn't work out for me last time, so okay.
Speaker 1 (30:01):
But the question I asked Simon was how long could
a situation situation should remain that until you had to
have a conversation.
Speaker 4 (30:07):
You when you know, you know you have that conversation.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
Really yeah, no, once I start feeling like this could
be a situationship, we can have one conversation and after
that if the games keep, like if there's still games
after that, well, but you see, guys love the wing,
you know, you know they use that as a way
out ofttle.
Speaker 4 (30:29):
I mean, like, when you know you have the cut
to have the conversation, right, but how.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
Long does it take you to have the conversation? Nate?
Speaker 1 (30:35):
You know, so that's a red flag to you? Okay, Nate.
If people want to, like, say, there's some absolute babe
who's the exact person that you want, she wants to
reach out to you, is there a way to even
do that?
Speaker 4 (30:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (30:51):
I say that jokingly. I would really like to meet
somebody the good old fashioned way when I'm out like
a movie, you know, but I.
Speaker 4 (30:59):
Know it's not going to happen.
Speaker 1 (31:00):
I think up her handkerchief when she drops it.
Speaker 4 (31:01):
I would love that seriously, but I know it's not
going to happen.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
Okay, And then build your woman the things that are important.
Speaker 6 (31:08):
To you, you know, can't he caring? Like just compassion
I think would be the number one thing.
Speaker 4 (31:18):
That's the number one number one.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (31:20):
I can't even really give you physical attributes.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
But you have a type right lines.
Speaker 4 (31:27):
Tan lines is my pornhub search, but.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
Which I think should also be a first date question.
Speaker 4 (31:34):
What is that?
Speaker 6 (31:35):
Is a pretty good Well, depends on the person. Some
people you can get away with it by asking that question.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
But I like to think the person of my dreams
or your dreams, you could get away with that on
the first date because they would laugh.
Speaker 6 (31:44):
Well, and that's that's the thing, right Like I could
like the person I went out with a couple of
weeks ago, I couldn't. I just knew by the tenor
of the conversation, I couldn't ask them that question where
I would ask that question on a first date, So
I knew right then this person really isn't for me.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Okay, so far we're just that compassionate and that's it.
Speaker 6 (32:01):
Compassionate. Yeah, I think that's a great starting and just
get back to me seriously.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Okay, yeah, be compassionate.
Speaker 4 (32:10):
Yeah, that's it. As of now, it takes very little
to get my attention.
Speaker 1 (32:14):
I need to put more thought into this. Scary, what
do you think his dream girls like?
Speaker 3 (32:18):
His dream girl?
Speaker 7 (32:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (32:20):
Ah man, uh some blonde? Okay, I think so definitely blonde.
I think you're staying blonde.
Speaker 1 (32:27):
I don't know. He likes sometimes.
Speaker 7 (32:29):
I also think that you like.
Speaker 5 (32:31):
I think you like women who are five seven, five
eight in that range, like a lower short Okay, see
I don't.
Speaker 3 (32:40):
I don't know because I haven't.
Speaker 4 (32:42):
I have data across suspect.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
I also you like you.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Like what spectrum?
Speaker 5 (32:47):
Yeah, you know he likes He likes uh snippy women
who are kind of slightly rude because he can, because
he feels like he could play with them and give
it back to them and they I do.
Speaker 7 (32:57):
Like a little bit of a fight.
Speaker 4 (32:58):
Scary does know me?
Speaker 7 (33:00):
He loves you?
Speaker 4 (33:01):
No, don't make this rapee Okay, he likes him?
Speaker 3 (33:04):
No, no, no, he likes it.
Speaker 7 (33:06):
No struggle no, he likes. I likes it when a
woman is like it doesn't get.
Speaker 5 (33:11):
Him all the attention right away, and maybe he has
a has a jokey.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
Way about it, like chemistry with I love, and I
love somebody that can make fun of me, right.
Speaker 4 (33:24):
I love somebody.
Speaker 7 (33:25):
That does that, who condish it out and can take.
Speaker 4 (33:27):
It because I feel like that makes me a better time.
Does that make sense?
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Absolutely? It puts you in your best light when you
get to play he gets.
Speaker 5 (33:35):
I like what he gets because he'll get snarky too.
Speaker 3 (33:37):
Give him permission.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
I love snarky Nate. Snarky Nate is so fun to me.
I enjoy it. See if I could build it, build
it for him, which I feel like you should just
let me do it. But I don't also want to
be that personal.
Speaker 6 (33:48):
If you want to set me up guy, that will
be uh sauce on the side number two with.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
Me after the thing.
Speaker 1 (33:55):
Ladies, let me know you think your Nate's type. But
this is what I think. I think he likes a
small woman, maybe blonde hair. I think you'd go for
a brunette too. I think he wants somebody who obviously
is compassionate, fun, playful, like doesn't take themselves too seriously,
but is intelligent and has a good career, not a job,
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like not just going out and being a bartender on
the weekends. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but
I think Nate is interested in somebody who has a career.
I think you led and it's passionate about something and
can also just it's kind of well read. I think
Nate's very well read.
Speaker 4 (34:32):
I do like intelligence.
Speaker 3 (34:33):
Yeah yeah, I noticed that about you.
Speaker 1 (34:35):
Yeah yeah. And I think that there are a lot
of these people out there. I don't know where they are.
I mean, I know where my friends are. But again,
I'm not doing this.
Speaker 4 (34:42):
They're all taken.
Speaker 1 (34:44):
I don't have some single ones. I think it'll be great,
but I leave it alone.
Speaker 7 (34:47):
I will.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
Maybe we'll all hang out one day and you'll just
organically run into them, all.
Speaker 6 (34:51):
Right, if you want to try and you know, pull
those strings, I'm more than happy to be on the
stage with you.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
I only want to pull a string if I know
it's going to succeed.
Speaker 4 (34:59):
Because I don't see you can't do that. You can't
do that.
Speaker 1 (35:04):
I think the arranged marriage thing works well for a
lot of reasons. Yeah, and a lot of people think
it's oh because you can't get divorce, as you can.
But who's gonna come up with a better person for
you then your mom, your siblings and your best friends.
Speaker 4 (35:19):
Well, I've already proven that I'm not the best judge
a character.
Speaker 1 (35:23):
You can't pick a pick. Okay, So people want to
find you, guys online? Where they can find you.
Speaker 5 (35:28):
Scary you could follow me on Instagram at Scary Jones
uh and listen to your podcast, to the podcast The
Brooklyn Boys with Scary Jones and David Brody.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Sar and Brody.
Speaker 3 (35:38):
Scary and Brody. Right, yeah, we we have.
Speaker 5 (35:41):
These kinds of fun conversations as well. Yeah, conversations like this. Yeah, yeah,
but we make fun of each other. But Brodie's a clown,
you know, in a fun way. You know, he's very
snarky bastard. He's Larry David Nate.
Speaker 1 (35:54):
Where can they find you at?
Speaker 6 (35:55):
Nate Underscore Marino and just give me a follow If
you think you my type based on Gandhi's description, be
all those things.
Speaker 1 (36:04):
If you're not those things, leave them alone, do not apply.
I think that's my favorite. When we say this person's
interested in let's say, like we set a petite blonde
and like a six foot black haired chick shows up
like I heard you're interested, no specifically not what he wants,
all right, and you can find Diamond at Diamond sincere.
She just ran out of the room for a minute,
and I am at Baby Hot Sauce. Also follow the
(36:24):
podcast at Sauce on the side like follow, subscribe, leave
us a review, and guys, thank you for joining us
and clearing the air about the elevator situation.
Speaker 5 (36:33):
This is I hope to be invited back again sometimes
for another creepy topic.
Speaker 1 (36:36):
Please come back any time you want. People want to
hear from you, Guys, hear that often.
Speaker 4 (36:40):
Just don't make me sound like a predator. Thank you?
Was Scary?
Speaker 1 (36:43):
Scary the predator? What okay? And you had to run
out at the end of that, and you are now back.
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Same thing that I said in the beginning. Scary says
shit that does not make sense, and Nate is the
only person that can make sense of it. Honestly, Scary
needs Nate by his side. Twenty four to seven.
Speaker 1 (37:07):
Wow, yeah, are you gonna tell Scary that?
Speaker 2 (37:10):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (37:11):
Okay, we play a game with Scary. By the way,
I don't think. I don't know if he knows this,
but now he's gonna know it because he's probably gonna
listen to this episode because he's on it, or someone
he knows is gonna listen to it and tell him.
We play a game where we ask serious, where we
ask Scary a question, and then we all guess how
long he's gonna take to answer the question. If none
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of us interrupt him, how long will he continue talking?
Who is We don't worry about who's we?
Speaker 2 (37:35):
Okay, well, Scary, if you're listening, I have nothing to
do with this.
Speaker 1 (37:39):
I'm a rich lady. Just know that thanks to you, Scary,
he's like our own personal a little like Calshi over here.
He gives us all these little side beats and it's amazing.
So Diamond, I already dropped it earlier, but say it again.
If people want to find you or can they find
you online.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
At Diamond sincere on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (37:57):
Yeah, I'm basically doing the whole end of the podcast
again because now you're back, So like, follow, subscribe, leave
us a talkback, no matter what the talkback says, we
are interested in hearing your feedback. You can find me
on Instagram at baby Hot Sauce and follow the podcast
page at Sauce on the side. We're growing. We're growing slowly,
but we're growing.
Speaker 2 (38:16):
Love it.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
Yeah, I would like to grow faster. I would love
that more. Follow please that's all.
Speaker 2 (38:22):
Say bye bye
Sauce on the side. Diamond Heller, Hi, Hi, We've got
the boys.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I'm so excited. They're not just any boys, They're lunatics.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
We're talking about Nate and Scary. We promise them, I
think maybe last episode, but they were both ducking and
dodging for a long time because they think we're about
to try and set them up. But I don't have
to set them up. Then you just let them talk
and they're interesting, and you have a theory about the
two of them. Yep, and I thought it was a
pretty interesting theory. Let's toss it out right now and
see if that holds true as this episode goes on.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I think that Nate is Scary's translator. He Scary just
says shit that doesn't make sense, but for some reason,
Nate just knows how to decode it and make it
sound normal.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
So okay, yeah, okay, So together they have cohesive thoughts
on their own, not as much.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Nate's not that bad.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
It's Scary. We just want to talk to them about
a lot of their theory. They've been going out together.
They've been having a good time, kind of partying. Native
is single. We'll get to all of that is there
anything else on your mind that you want to talk
about before they join us.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
No, I'm just really excited for this conversation.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Okay, don't have it up too much.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
What if it sucks, Well, if nobody else likes it,
I'm sure I'm gonna get a few laughs.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
So and that's all that matters. We're here for us.
We don't even care if anyone listens. I'm just kidding.
I totally care that you're listening. Thank you so much
for listening. You keep me employed, and that's important. We
had a good laugh at our homie who wanted us
to get eaten by bears. Yes, called us some dumb bitches.
More of that if you would like. We should probably
check talkbacks at some point, but that one I think
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we could survive on for so long that.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
One I need injected into my veins at least once
a week.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
You just want me to call you dumb bitch?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Right?
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Only absolutely cool dumb bitches ahead, we should start a
podcast just called dumb bitches. Yeah, they're probably is already
one called dumb bitches.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
But it wouldn't be this.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
It wouldn't be dumb bitches with Diamond and Gandhi all right,
So I think we should just get them in here
because I see them lurking and Nate's acting like he
has things to do, so we gotta grab them.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
I'm ready, all right.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
I'm very excited about this episode. Oh God, why Diamond?
We have Scary and Nate in here?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Is this our.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
Cherry Poppin experience. Scary first time.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
I've ever been invited to saw us on the side,
and I gotta say, it's a pleasure.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
To be You know, I'm not gonna say that yet,
because we're gonna be grilled and we're gonna be made
look like like fools. And I know that's exactly gonna
just as the bait and switch here is.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
You're gonna hear.
Speaker 6 (02:44):
Oh, this is gonna be like an Oprah episode. So
tell me what did you mean when you said, well, no,
there is.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
A little bit of that. But I'm glad I have
the two of you, okay, so that it's not it's
not anyone teaming up on anyone, and you guys can
back each other.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
Safety in numbers.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
This is what we have in the We have Nate
from the show straight, Nate, our lovely producer. We love him.
We're scary Scary. We talk about you often in the podcast,
glad that you're finally here, well.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
Finally here to defend myself. Can I also plug my
podcast while we're at it at the end, I gotta
get going, okay, because I plugged your podcast all the
time on my podcast.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Oh fine, go ahead.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
So if you never listen to the Brooklyn Boys podcast,
check us out because if you likes us on the side,
I think.
Speaker 7 (03:20):
You're like a little bit of the Brooklyn Boys too.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
I'm just saying I hear a lot of people saying
I love your podcast, you know. I'm just saying our listeners,
you know, they love a lot of things we do.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I think they would enjoy it.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Okay, thanks Brooklyn Boys with Scary and Brody. I need
to turn my mic up more, Diamond up higher? Okay,
how about that? Hello, Okay, we've got Diamond. So in
this room we have Nate, who is newly single. We've
sort of addressed this on the air a little bit. Yeah,
if there's anything that you want to get into by
all means, knock yourself out. But he is newly single.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Take applications.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Thank you, you're taking applications. This is perfect. So we're
going to get to that. Okay, Diamond is single, single,
she's been single for a while, scary.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
I'm in a long.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Term relationship, it's like forever, but before that, I had
my single ways.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
And then there's me who I'm in a relationship but
also available.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
That's go ahead, Okay, all right.
Speaker 6 (04:10):
We don't have enough time for all these questions, but
I have recently.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
The three of us have been on a lot of trips. Yeah,
we've been traveling a lot. And I hear them sort
of talking about like dating and what the dating world
is like, and their views on what the dating world
is like. And I can't even step on it because
you guys are coming at it from your angle as
men versus what the dating world is like for women.
They're wildly different, and you guys think about things that
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we don't think about, and vice versa. Okay, first though, Nate,
let's find you your girlfriend.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (04:43):
Well, and I say taking applications, and I'm I'm joking
because I am newly single, basically in the last couple
of years, and I am not pushing things right. I
think I'm just letting things happen. I'm getting into shape.
I'm taking care of myself looking up for my future,
and here.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
We are and you're dating you, and I have to say,
you seem happy and I love that. And everywhere we go,
everyone we meet tries to hook Nad up with somebody.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Yeah, don't do it.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
And the amount of people who are like, I don't
want to hook Nad up with this girl? What do
you think? And my thought is always it no, and
I tell him no, don't do it, but they still
go forth, Yeah, I haven't tried to hook him up
with anyone.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
I think that's people's natural inclination, right, Like, oh god,
you're single.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Now we have pity for you. Like they don't say that, right,
but there's pity.
Speaker 6 (05:29):
And then oh, I got to hook you up with
somebody that's just as messed up as you are, because
I'm sure you know what I'm saying, Like they probably
have that other other person in their head that has
issues as well, because we all have issues.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Like, let's put these two together and it's never a
good combination.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Right You You want to be the slacker in the relationship, correct, right?
Speaker 4 (05:48):
You want a sugar mama that's exactly looking.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
You're very stable.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
When I say I'm taking applications.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
If you're a wealthy woman that wants to just take
care of me and buy me suits and take me
on vacations.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Here, I am.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Wow, Yes, Diamond. Go on.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
When I said something like this years ago, people were
very upset. So I'm not affecting people to rip into
his ass.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
You know why I say this because it's not going
to happen. It's not. There's there's so.
Speaker 6 (06:15):
Many women out there that have guys that want to
take care of them, actually wants to take care of me.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
I think someone maybe double your age, may actually pick
you up on.
Speaker 7 (06:26):
This office nine. Okay, let's call it this way.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
A wealthy woman in her sixties will gladly buy you
suits and take you on trips and make her your rop.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
And this is where I wanted to have the conversation,
because Scary's got these big ideas that he will double
down on a wealthy woman or her sixties.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
You love it about.
Speaker 5 (06:49):
But first of all, listen, you say about dating, I
maybe have outdated ideas of dating because I haven't been
on the scene for some time. But I have my friends,
my hope okeen friends who have their tactics, and I've.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Learned a lot from them.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
And I remember back in my twenties and thirties when
I had my own ways that maybe I tried to
apply to giving Nate advice with coreat So can.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
We start there with one of the things that I
learned about you guys when we did one of our trips.
We were at the Fountain Blue, and the Fountain Blue
has multiple towers, some of them are very far away
relatively from that main entrance where there's this bar and
then the elevators. And as we were checking in, Scary,
who by the way, has got to be like the
best wing man ever for you.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
He's pretty great.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, he really cares like he's he's committed to the costs.
Speaker 7 (07:34):
I just shovel things in his direction.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Shovel he doesn't need it.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
He doesn't need it.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Somebody would be like, oh, you're Scary Jones kind of picture.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Yeah, and this is Nate.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
And then that was single and then I don't see
Nate for the rest of the night. Nate wanders off.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Lady Nate.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
Ladies love cool Nate.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
So diamond. Yeah, as we're checking into this hotel, there
were rooms that were in the far away towers, and
then there were a couple of rooms that were right there,
and Scary was like, Nate, right here, he needs a
room as close to this bar and specifically the elevator
as he can get. I don't really think anything of it.
And then later Scary decided to inform me that it's
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very important that single men be as go ahead that's
close to an elevator as possible, because that's how you
get the ladies to your room. But proximity, okay, to
the bar, because no girl wants to walk too far
to get you know, to get a little hookup happening,
and there's a window of opportunity and you gotta get
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in before that window shuts. So the closer you are
to the elevator, the better it is.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
Can I expand on this because this is because because
he sounds like a predator.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
This is crazy, said I said, to drag them back.
Speaker 7 (08:48):
This sounds creepy and cringe.
Speaker 5 (08:49):
Please, if you're listening to this podcast and you were
going to shut it off, at least allow me to
just correxplain myself. Okay on this the two of you
are okay, So with the window of opportunity to.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Stop laughing about this, okay, Okay.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
A buddy of mine has the window of opportunity theater.
I'm gonna I'm gonna just tell them, dox them right now.
Will my buddy, Will, Will across the street, Will across
the street.
Speaker 7 (09:09):
Will across the way.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
With women.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
There's a window of opportunity. Okay where and the window
it's a visual folks, where as you know they're hanging out,
they're having a good time to feel in a good space.
The window is opening, opening, opening, but the second, the
second they get drunk, the window just snaps shut.
Speaker 7 (09:28):
So you have to be kind of.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
Loosey, goosey, in a good mode and a good vibe,
hav a good time as the windows open. But the
second someone becomes inebriated, first of all, you don't want
any part of that. It's like run the up opposite direction. Glad, Yeah, no,
we all do you know every everyone has always done
that over the years, right and well, and then look
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the windows snap. The windows snaps shut when they get hammered.
So you have to catch the window of opportunity. But
it's almost like a trap where it goes open, open, open,
and then shut because it comes to a hard stight
on you.
Speaker 7 (10:04):
Dick closed I agree with you.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
So let me just preface this whole conversation by saying,
one of the things that I learned when I was single,
younger and single was that women just want to get
laid to sometimes for sure, and it took me a
very long time to realize that. But in conjunction with that,
they want to get laid on their own schedule. And
what Scary is saying is there is a window of
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time when you were out if you were having a
one night stand, which I don't have. We all had
one in this room. Yes, yes, yes, yes, you've never
had one night stand?
Speaker 4 (10:37):
No, okay.
Speaker 6 (10:38):
If you have a one night stand, or even in
a relationship that starts as a one night stand, there
is a finite amount of time that that one night
stand will happen. And what Scary is saying is there
is a window of opportunity that you can get some right,
and then that opportunity for men or women that window shuts.
Speaker 5 (10:58):
Partly open window is the fact that maybe the friends
have wanted it off with other guys.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
Because nobody couse.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
They feel like well and sometimes they want to do this.
I don't want to be doing this in front of
my friends. I don't want them to see what's going on.
So there's right, so correct. So that's what I mean
by that part of it right now.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
But you also had mentioned a distance when it comes
to heels, girls, I want to walk far.
Speaker 6 (11:21):
You said, well, no, this is when it comes to hell.
You know, you don't want to have to go too
far like if if if Okay, let's say we were
saying the Fountain Blue and we had drinks there and
then somebody's hotel is all away in.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
Brickell or something.
Speaker 6 (11:34):
You aren't getting laid that night because it's going to
take you forty five minutes to get from there, and
nobody wants to get laid after a forty five minute Oberright,
come on, you don't want.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
To Yeah, your window.
Speaker 4 (11:45):
Yes, I'm saying, he's a guy my window. I have
a window as well.
Speaker 5 (11:49):
So what I was trying to say to put Nate
in the best position. You don't want him in the
far tower. And I know I stayed in the far tower.
You stayed in the far tower. But I said, this
man needs to be in the tower.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
He was just out of the way.
Speaker 5 (12:02):
He needs to be in this tower right here by
the bar. Because if he's gonna, you know, kind of
do some schmoozing. The distance and the time between the
drinks and the hanging out and maybe meeting somebody, you know,
someone might wander off with him.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
You don't want to have to go to b f
E to get late, right.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Scary of living in Jersey City, cop block. You meet
someone in the city having a good time, so we're
going to Jersey City, they say no or not.
Speaker 6 (12:40):
So he's a million percent because I live in the city.
And then I have been invited back to Jersey City
or Hoboken by some young woman that night she.
Speaker 4 (12:49):
Invited me, and I'm like, I'm not going there.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
It's like ten minutes from your apartment.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
I'm not going there.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
But here's the thing. My single guy friends who live
in this he refused to come hang out with me
in Hobo go a Jersey City for this very reason. Yes,
because they don't want to come across the river hanging out.
Maybe maybe meet somebody cool.
Speaker 6 (13:08):
Do you know how much that uber is back into
the city, get the hell out of here.
Speaker 5 (13:12):
And there's no way they're gonna meet someone who lives
in Hobo going to Jersey City and they're not gonna
go with Nate to his West Village apartment.
Speaker 4 (13:20):
Not gonna happen. See do you do you see what
I'm saying here? Do you agree in any way, shape
or form?
Speaker 2 (13:26):
But no, I totally agree, thank you.
Speaker 7 (13:29):
This is creepy.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
I wouldn'tdate a guy in Harlem all the way back told.
Speaker 6 (13:35):
Yeah, Or if you met a guy out and you're
gonna have a one night staying, he goes, hey, come
to my place, and I ain't gonna have too far by.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
So I'm very glad that you guys are here together
to explain this, because.
Speaker 6 (13:46):
Up until now does come across as very predatory, creepy
as the day is long.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
The way that you described it was like you gotta
get her, gotta catch her while she's right there by
the elevator. And now I'm.
Speaker 6 (13:57):
Actually and to his joy as a okay, as a
single guy. Uh though there are so many factors. It's
it's like that scene in a beautiful Mind with all
of the numbers flying through the.
Speaker 4 (14:11):
Air, the calculation to actually get laid.
Speaker 6 (14:15):
You have got to be Einstein sometimes in order to
get some. And so what Scary is saying is, Hey,
that's going to be a that's going to be a
set number in your equation. You know exactly where you're
going to be at a certain time because you're constantly
doing the math on how to get.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
He has to catch lightning in a bottle, But to
shut him up to catch the lightning in a bottle.
Speaker 4 (14:33):
You got to say for success.
Speaker 5 (14:35):
He's got to put himself in the best possible situation
for it.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
No, I hear what you're saying. Now I'm going to
say this, Yeah, I'm still appalled as a woman in
the dating world, Diamond, as a woman in the dating world,
if you really wanted to hook up with somebody like
you actually really wanted to does the proximity to the
elevator matter?
Speaker 2 (14:56):
No?
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Would the drive matter?
Speaker 2 (14:59):
No? Not if I really wanted to know?
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Really Yeah, Okay, So here's what I'm saying, which this
is what I found fascinating. When women go out and
we're like having a good time in partying, not one
of these thoughts enters our mind one time, not once,
right when you guys are out having a drink and
doing these beautiful mind equations all night, which I find
fascinating and I think it's a lot easier than all
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of this effort and energy that you guys are putting
into it, I really.
Speaker 5 (15:24):
Think because you're speaking from a woman's h standpoint, right.
Speaker 7 (15:28):
Because women, women could get laid whatever the hell.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
They want anytime they get It.
Speaker 6 (15:34):
Doesn't work like that for guys. It doesn't work like
that for guys. I'm sorry, I know it.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
Doesn't work like that, but I'm just saying I also
don't think all of this like math that you guys
are putting into it makes that much of a difference. Nate,
you are successful, you're good looking, you're young, you're fun.
That's all you need.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
But I wish it was.
Speaker 4 (15:54):
I wish it was.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
You know what I'm saying, though, right it is, I.
Speaker 5 (15:58):
Think he needs a little bit more than that. It
is the window of opportunity to present itself.
Speaker 8 (16:05):
Okay, So even in his own neighborhood, even in his
own neighborhood, Okay, if he's out, and he's out and
and and girls are having a woman with the girl's
night out, he may get into conversations.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
And he's gotten into conversations with people before.
Speaker 5 (16:20):
And you know, I think you might have left with
a phone number or two, right, but never but but
never like that night, were you able to feel like
And it's because to me, that's the embarrassment factor. I'm
not going to do this in front of my girls.
Speaker 4 (16:37):
Yes, yeah, I like the.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
Sexual assault murder aspect of it that women really care about.
Nate is more afraid of getting raped than anyone I've ever.
Speaker 4 (16:45):
Made with the guy. Anyway.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
Do we have a friend Joe, our friend Joe who
displayed this.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Do we just call him out to we did?
Speaker 4 (16:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (16:57):
Anyway, he showed this because he he met these two
girls and then he was bobing with this one girl
and then all of a sudden he took a number,
her number, and then they went their separate ways. And
then later that night she texted him and said, Okay,
my roommate's asleep, I'm coming over.
Speaker 4 (17:16):
Yeah. So the one roommate wanted him. The other roommate
also wanted him.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Look like a six.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
He makes me look like a two.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
Here's my question to you, lady.
Speaker 6 (17:37):
So you know, we just made a statement that you
guys could get laid pretty much any time you want
because you're girls. The catch there is do you want
to sleep with the guys that are out with you
right that that you meet when you're out, that you
meet when you're out, because you could easily have sex
with pretty much any guy that you want because you're
a woman. Do you actually want to sleep with those guys?
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Because my content is, yeah, I probably could meet somebody
and hook up that night. Do I want to?
Speaker 4 (18:07):
Probably? I mean, have I fallen on the grenade? Everyone
we all have. We all have. That's guy mentality. Yes,
that happens. That happens.
Speaker 5 (18:25):
I don't think I was ever going to situe. I'm
trying to think way back. I don't think I ever
fell on a grenade?
Speaker 1 (18:30):
Do you think someone fell? Just asking?
Speaker 6 (18:36):
Now, that's funny. What else did you want to talk about?
Because I think we made us enough of a predator. No,
I don't like your final cut rights on this.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Yeah, yeah you can. You can tell us what you'd
like us set it out. But I want to know
from you because another thing that we were talking about,
and I've seen this talked about so much lately and
I find it bizarre, is how important somebody's Internet presence
is to you when you are in the dating world,
Because apparently gen Z needs you to have a big
Instagram following and have some sort of footprint and I'm
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the exact opposite where I'm like, if I can't find
you online, oh yeah, I need something.
Speaker 6 (19:13):
I need something. I don't need posting every day. I
just it is a little weird for our generation to
not have some.
Speaker 4 (19:22):
Sort of online presence.
Speaker 6 (19:23):
Do I care if they're actually doing anything on there,
I'd actually prefer not at this point, and as time
goes on, less and less so.
Speaker 4 (19:31):
But it is a little weird that.
Speaker 6 (19:33):
Somebody doesn't have an Instagram account or.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
You know what I'm saying, an old Facebook or something
like something like.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
Okay, first of all, do you have a secret family
out there with children and everything?
Speaker 1 (19:48):
And he became a stocker?
Speaker 2 (19:49):
See, yeah, I need to know. I need to I
need to find your mom on Facebook. That's my new thing.
I have to find someone's.
Speaker 4 (19:56):
Mom on Facebook.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Listen, listen.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Do you reach out to them, No, never, But you
find the mom because mom's usually if someone has like
a girlfriend that they take home to their family on
the holidays, the mom will post the evidence. So you
need to just look. Okay, there's no one there, no
one in the picture. Okay, well then you know everything
else is up to whatever the world has for me.
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But you need to check the mom's Facebook. If I
can't find your mom's Facebook, you're done.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (20:26):
Yeah, oh no long term stuff just like regular random guys,
No big deal, but like uh uhh scary.
Speaker 5 (20:33):
I think if you don't have a social media presence,
or at least a footprint of social media, I think
I think you're hiding something. And it could be it
could be like something really nefarious. It could be like
like a murder or corruption or something not a murder,
but like you're in trouble with It could be.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Legal issues and stuff.
Speaker 5 (20:52):
Because everyone has everyone has should have something, you know,
like you don't have to be active on it.
Speaker 7 (21:00):
I don't have to be active, but I need to
know that you.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
Have a Facebook page.
Speaker 5 (21:04):
And I think if if you meet a guy I'm
specifically talking about guys that have zero social media presence,
not one, no Facebook, no Instagram, though, Snapchat, not one.
Speaker 7 (21:12):
Piece, I think it's us. I think you need to
be Yeah.
Speaker 4 (21:16):
And I don't think you're going out with that person.
Speaker 7 (21:18):
I don't think something.
Speaker 4 (21:19):
I don't think a woman would go.
Speaker 7 (21:21):
Hiding something clearly.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
Yeah, with a guy, I think another thing they could
be hiding a family yeap that's.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
What Diamond said, and that actually did happen to me.
He had a lady and a child. And then when
I found out, he acted like I did something wrong.
Speaker 7 (21:32):
So did you have a social media presence?
Speaker 3 (21:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (21:35):
I couldn't find it. So here's the thing. I couldn't
find it because as soon as we started hanging out
he blocked me every way. But my best friend shout
out to Ashley. She found his ass and she was.
Speaker 4 (21:45):
Like, look at this, see and you.
Speaker 6 (21:48):
I guess My point to this is they're going to
find out something about you, period, Right, if you dig
deep enough, you're going to find something. I was talking
to a girl and they actually heard and her friends
pay for a background check service that as soon as
they meet somebody, what do they do? They put their
the guy's phone number in, full name in and boom
they do the whole background.
Speaker 4 (22:09):
Check like they're gonna do it anyway. You know, you
might as well have a social media presence at this point.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
Two other things so quickly with you bigger is too
big of a social media presence? Also a red flag
because I feel like I've heard you guys tell me
what you think high maintenance is and I'm like, I
don't think that that sounds like a it's a hardy
she got a good job. Guys like her. I'm out.
Speaker 5 (22:32):
No, it's hard to because we have big media followings
and we post so at least I do. So I
don't have a problem with anyone. Listen, if my if
my girlfriend suddenly blew up and became this huge internet
media star whatever on social so be it.
Speaker 3 (22:48):
That's great.
Speaker 5 (22:49):
I welcome it because that's the world that I'm in.
I live in this world, I swim in this world,
so it's not a problem.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
All Scary needs is a tag and a double Paris filter,
and he is.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
Happy and the point five.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Point five please sorry, Nate, Okay, the bigger the better
or no.
Speaker 6 (23:09):
No, I I I prefer an online presence that is
restricted to like friends.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
You know, we've met you know, I've met.
Speaker 6 (23:20):
Girls out that they have a very strong social media presence,
and you know they just have guys sliding into those
dms constantly. And I'm at an age where I don't
want competition. If you want to hang out with me,
hang out with me. I don't want to have to
be competing with every everybody leaving a comment.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
On your dms.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
But is that competition though, because if you're the winner,
you're just gonna win. She's like, I think the vast
majority of women that I know aren't super interested in
the guys who slide into their dms like hey, because
usually that's all it says, correct and it's awful correct.
Speaker 6 (23:49):
And so what I've been trying to do now is
I'm just meeting people out. If I meet somebody out,
I get their information. I'm not going online. I'm not
sliding into dms. And if it works at it, we're sad.
I met somebody when we were out a couple of
weeks ago, yeah, and so we went out once and
went out. We went out and we went on one date,
(24:11):
and I've texted her twice. She hasn't replied over the
course of four days.
Speaker 4 (24:15):
Done good free. Sorry.
Speaker 6 (24:16):
If you're not replying back to me after ninety six hours,
you're off.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Well that's yeah, good for you, Nate, stay strong. So
I was telling Diamond this in the last episode. We
were out in Miami not too long ago, and these
guys were trying to buy his dinner and he asked
me for my phone number, and I was like, no,
I'm not going to give you my phone number, you
can here's my Instagram.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
That's just as bad.
Speaker 7 (24:38):
Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
His boys flipped out. They're like, don't do it, don't
follow her. You're not a fucking fan. Fuck that shit.
But they were so angry. Do you guys find that offensive?
If you ask for a number and she's like, no,
here's my Instagram, I think.
Speaker 6 (24:50):
That's actually I mean, here's the thing. You can reach
out on Instagram, So you have this person's kind It's
as good as the phone number in my mind. And
plus you get to see this person in a different light.
You get to do some vetting, you'd get to do
some background research to.
Speaker 1 (25:07):
See who they want you to think they are.
Speaker 6 (25:08):
If you just get the phone number, you have no
unless you're paying for a background check, you have no
idea who this person is. I would prefer the Instagram
at this point.
Speaker 1 (25:17):
That was my exact point. I'm like, if I give
somebody my phone number, anybody, you can search so many
different things about me. And I'm not a fan of
that because I already get enough letters from prison and
that is not fun. So I don't want to give
somebody my phone number. I would much rather just give
them what everybody has access to and then actually talk
to you and if it feels like it's a safe space,
do that. Though when I took these dudes were oh
fin yeah, well like what a bitch?
Speaker 3 (25:41):
No, I don't. I don't have any any skin in
this game.
Speaker 5 (25:43):
But but I observationally, I could tell you that I
think a phone number at this point is more of
It means something a little bit more than someone getting there,
you know, follow each other on Instagram. I mean that
that's my observation. I mean that's I feel like Instagram
d ms are like the new I'll text you kind of.
Speaker 3 (26:02):
Thing, right, is that right?
Speaker 1 (26:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (26:03):
Or Snapchat or Snapchat.
Speaker 1 (26:06):
I'mon just made a face of Snapchat.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Snapchat for me is like maybe I'm stuck in twenty
and sixteen. But Snapchat is just like, oh, I'm going
to send you nudes and then I just kidding. So yeah,
Snapchat is not for texting.
Speaker 3 (26:20):
Snapchat is not for texting.
Speaker 5 (26:21):
But I feel like I read an article recently that
gen z that's how they that's how they communicate is
through Snapchat.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
That's how they text each other.
Speaker 4 (26:40):
Okay, so let me ask you a single Like we're out,
then we're out. Hey, what's up?
Speaker 9 (26:46):
Hey Jesus bar No, not like I know you, but
yeah I don't know him.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
Yeah, okay, go ahead.
Speaker 6 (26:59):
Hey, you know you seem really cool. Uh you want
to get together sometime?
Speaker 2 (27:04):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (27:04):
Me on Instagram?
Speaker 2 (27:05):
We could chat on there.
Speaker 4 (27:06):
Actually I do kind of feel a little offended by that.
Speaker 6 (27:08):
Why I would like it for vetting purposes, but and
like I don't deserve your phone number.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
Well, guys have said that. Guys have been like, oh,
so you think I'm just gonna follow you and you're
never gonna follow me back, or I'm like, if it's
that deep, then don't follow me, but DM me on Instagram,
like if it's that serious. But like, no, I'm not
giving you my number. I lie and tell people. Oh no,
I've had a horrible experience with giving people my number
in the past just because people I know have, so
(27:35):
why not? But like, I'm not giving you my number.
I don't know you.
Speaker 6 (27:38):
Do you know you could block these people like you
They already.
Speaker 2 (27:43):
Have your number, so then they can use another phone
to call you if I block you on Instagram.
Speaker 4 (27:47):
All right, here's the question.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
And you're afraid of getting I have you.
Speaker 6 (27:53):
Here's the thing with stockers. They will always find a
way to get in touched.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
I've gotten hit up on Venmo.
Speaker 6 (28:00):
I have had people show up at my door. What like,
you know, you block them on social media, you block
their phone number, and.
Speaker 4 (28:08):
They show up at your door. It is not fun.
Speaker 6 (28:11):
So if it's a stock or stalker, they will find
a way to get you. But are you passing up
love just because you don't want to give out your
phone number?
Speaker 2 (28:18):
No? But I'm like I don't. Also, I don't like
when I tell a guy like, oh no, just add
me on Instagram and you make a big deal out
of it, because now I'm like, well, what's on your
Instagram that you don't want me to see just yet?
Now I'm flipping it on you.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
What's going on here?
Speaker 7 (28:33):
You know?
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Like, if it's that big of a deal to you,
then maybe maybe I am passing up on love because
something is not right.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
I don't know, So are you guys?
Speaker 2 (28:41):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (28:41):
And I think there's only one answer to this question.
If when you start talking to someone and maybe start
dating someone, they're also talking to other.
Speaker 4 (28:47):
People, I'm fine with it. I actually fully expect.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
That right as an adult, you should absolutely expect that.
I think it's wild. I mean, we were talking about
this girl we knew who started dating a guy that
she worked with, and one of the other girls was like,
oh my god, he's stating like twenty people. Somebody needs
to tell her why they just started talking. It should
be expected, like I wouldn't it be a.
Speaker 5 (29:07):
Little sudd That's a red flag in my opinion. That's
somebody who's very insecure and has low self esteem if
they expect that you're the only person that they're going
to be speaking to, And like.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
How he if you meet somebody and they aren't talking
to anyone else, that's wrong with you. You don't have anybody
nobody in the hotel.
Speaker 5 (29:23):
If I were single and I was out there, I
would I would expect every woman would would would have
have like fifteen twenty guys that they're talking to.
Speaker 3 (29:31):
I would. I just assume that.
Speaker 1 (29:32):
So, then, Nate, when you said you don't want to
be in competition with all these guys sliding into her dms,
you're okay being in competition with them in real life.
Speaker 6 (29:39):
Yes, absolutely, yeah, I fully expect not to be. I
would like to if I meet somebody that I want
to have a relationship with have that conversation down the road,
there will probably be a natural point to have it, like, hey,
are we exclusive?
Speaker 4 (29:53):
But yeah, that point?
Speaker 1 (29:55):
What's that point?
Speaker 3 (29:56):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (29:56):
God didn't work out for me last time, so okay.
Speaker 1 (30:01):
But the question I asked Simon was how long could
a situation situation should remain that until you had to
have a conversation.
Speaker 4 (30:07):
You when you know, you know you have that conversation.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
Really yeah, no, once I start feeling like this could
be a situationship, we can have one conversation and after
that if the games keep, like if there's still games
after that, well, but you see, guys love the wing,
you know, you know they use that as a way
out ofttle.
Speaker 4 (30:29):
I mean, like, when you know you have the cut
to have the conversation, right, but how.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
Long does it take you to have the conversation? Nate?
Speaker 1 (30:35):
You know, so that's a red flag to you? Okay, Nate.
If people want to, like, say, there's some absolute babe
who's the exact person that you want, she wants to
reach out to you, is there a way to even
do that?
Speaker 4 (30:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (30:51):
I say that jokingly. I would really like to meet
somebody the good old fashioned way when I'm out like
a movie, you know, but I.
Speaker 4 (30:59):
Know it's not going to happen.
Speaker 1 (31:00):
I think up her handkerchief when she drops it.
Speaker 4 (31:01):
I would love that seriously, but I know it's not
going to happen.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
Okay, And then build your woman the things that are important.
Speaker 6 (31:08):
To you, you know, can't he caring? Like just compassion
I think would be the number one thing.
Speaker 4 (31:18):
That's the number one number one.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (31:20):
I can't even really give you physical attributes.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
But you have a type right lines.
Speaker 4 (31:27):
Tan lines is my pornhub search, but.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
Which I think should also be a first date question.
Speaker 4 (31:34):
What is that?
Speaker 6 (31:35):
Is a pretty good Well, depends on the person. Some
people you can get away with it by asking that question.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
But I like to think the person of my dreams
or your dreams, you could get away with that on
the first date because they would laugh.
Speaker 6 (31:44):
Well, and that's that's the thing, right Like I could
like the person I went out with a couple of
weeks ago, I couldn't. I just knew by the tenor
of the conversation, I couldn't ask them that question where
I would ask that question on a first date, So
I knew right then this person really isn't for me.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Okay, so far we're just that compassionate and that's it.
Speaker 6 (32:01):
Compassionate. Yeah, I think that's a great starting and just
get back to me seriously.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Okay, yeah, be compassionate.
Speaker 4 (32:10):
Yeah, that's it. As of now, it takes very little
to get my attention.
Speaker 1 (32:14):
I need to put more thought into this. Scary, what
do you think his dream girls like?
Speaker 3 (32:18):
His dream girl?
Speaker 7 (32:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (32:20):
Ah man, uh some blonde? Okay, I think so definitely blonde.
I think you're staying blonde.
Speaker 1 (32:27):
I don't know. He likes sometimes.
Speaker 7 (32:29):
I also think that you like.
Speaker 5 (32:31):
I think you like women who are five seven, five
eight in that range, like a lower short Okay, see
I don't.
Speaker 3 (32:40):
I don't know because I haven't.
Speaker 4 (32:42):
I have data across suspect.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
I also you like you.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Like what spectrum?
Speaker 5 (32:47):
Yeah, you know he likes He likes uh snippy women
who are kind of slightly rude because he can, because
he feels like he could play with them and give
it back to them and they I do.
Speaker 7 (32:57):
Like a little bit of a fight.
Speaker 4 (32:58):
Scary does know me?
Speaker 7 (33:00):
He loves you?
Speaker 4 (33:01):
No, don't make this rapee Okay, he likes him?
Speaker 3 (33:04):
No, no, no, he likes it.
Speaker 7 (33:06):
No struggle no, he likes. I likes it when a
woman is like it doesn't get.
Speaker 5 (33:11):
Him all the attention right away, and maybe he has
a has a jokey.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
Way about it, like chemistry with I love, and I
love somebody that can make fun of me, right.
Speaker 4 (33:24):
I love somebody.
Speaker 7 (33:25):
That does that, who condish it out and can take.
Speaker 4 (33:27):
It because I feel like that makes me a better time.
Does that make sense?
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Absolutely? It puts you in your best light when you
get to play he gets.
Speaker 5 (33:35):
I like what he gets because he'll get snarky too.
Speaker 3 (33:37):
Give him permission.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
I love snarky Nate. Snarky Nate is so fun to me.
I enjoy it. See if I could build it, build
it for him, which I feel like you should just
let me do it. But I don't also want to
be that personal.
Speaker 6 (33:48):
If you want to set me up guy, that will
be uh sauce on the side number two with.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
Me after the thing.
Speaker 1 (33:55):
Ladies, let me know you think your Nate's type. But
this is what I think. I think he likes a
small woman, maybe blonde hair. I think you'd go for
a brunette too. I think he wants somebody who obviously
is compassionate, fun, playful, like doesn't take themselves too seriously,
but is intelligent and has a good career, not a job,
(34:16):
like not just going out and being a bartender on
the weekends. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but
I think Nate is interested in somebody who has a career.
I think you led and it's passionate about something and
can also just it's kind of well read. I think
Nate's very well read.
Speaker 4 (34:32):
I do like intelligence.
Speaker 3 (34:33):
Yeah yeah, I noticed that about you.
Speaker 1 (34:35):
Yeah yeah. And I think that there are a lot
of these people out there. I don't know where they are.
I mean, I know where my friends are. But again,
I'm not doing this.
Speaker 4 (34:42):
They're all taken.
Speaker 1 (34:44):
I don't have some single ones. I think it'll be great,
but I leave it alone.
Speaker 7 (34:47):
I will.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
Maybe we'll all hang out one day and you'll just
organically run into them, all.
Speaker 6 (34:51):
Right, if you want to try and you know, pull
those strings, I'm more than happy to be on the
stage with you.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
I only want to pull a string if I know
it's going to succeed.
Speaker 4 (34:59):
Because I don't see you can't do that. You can't
do that.
Speaker 1 (35:04):
I think the arranged marriage thing works well for a
lot of reasons. Yeah, and a lot of people think
it's oh because you can't get divorce, as you can.
But who's gonna come up with a better person for
you then your mom, your siblings and your best friends.
Speaker 4 (35:19):
Well, I've already proven that I'm not the best judge
a character.
Speaker 1 (35:23):
You can't pick a pick. Okay, So people want to
find you, guys online? Where they can find you.
Speaker 5 (35:28):
Scary you could follow me on Instagram at Scary Jones
uh and listen to your podcast, to the podcast The
Brooklyn Boys with Scary Jones and David Brody.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Sar and Brody.
Speaker 3 (35:38):
Scary and Brody. Right, yeah, we we have.
Speaker 5 (35:41):
These kinds of fun conversations as well. Yeah, conversations like this. Yeah, yeah,
but we make fun of each other. But Brodie's a clown,
you know, in a fun way. You know, he's very
snarky bastard. He's Larry David Nate.
Speaker 1 (35:54):
Where can they find you at?
Speaker 6 (35:55):
Nate Underscore Marino and just give me a follow If
you think you my type based on Gandhi's description, be
all those things.
Speaker 1 (36:04):
If you're not those things, leave them alone, do not apply.
I think that's my favorite. When we say this person's
interested in let's say, like we set a petite blonde
and like a six foot black haired chick shows up
like I heard you're interested, no specifically not what he wants,
all right, and you can find Diamond at Diamond sincere.
She just ran out of the room for a minute,
and I am at Baby Hot Sauce. Also follow the
(36:24):
podcast at Sauce on the side like follow, subscribe, leave
us a review, and guys, thank you for joining us
and clearing the air about the elevator situation.
Speaker 5 (36:33):
This is I hope to be invited back again sometimes
for another creepy topic.
Speaker 1 (36:36):
Please come back any time you want. People want to
hear from you, Guys, hear that often.
Speaker 4 (36:40):
Just don't make me sound like a predator. Thank you?
Was Scary?
Speaker 1 (36:43):
Scary the predator? What okay? And you had to run
out at the end of that, and you are now back.
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Same thing that I said in the beginning. Scary says
shit that does not make sense, and Nate is the
only person that can make sense of it. Honestly, Scary
needs Nate by his side. Twenty four to seven.
Speaker 1 (37:07):
Wow, yeah, are you gonna tell Scary that?
Speaker 2 (37:10):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (37:11):
Okay, we play a game with Scary. By the way,
I don't think. I don't know if he knows this,
but now he's gonna know it because he's probably gonna
listen to this episode because he's on it, or someone
he knows is gonna listen to it and tell him.
We play a game where we ask serious, where we
ask Scary a question, and then we all guess how
long he's gonna take to answer the question. If none
(37:31):
of us interrupt him, how long will he continue talking?
Who is We don't worry about who's we?
Speaker 2 (37:35):
Okay, well, Scary, if you're listening, I have nothing to
do with this.
Speaker 1 (37:39):
I'm a rich lady. Just know that thanks to you, Scary,
he's like our own personal a little like Calshi over here.
He gives us all these little side beats and it's amazing.
So Diamond, I already dropped it earlier, but say it again.
If people want to find you or can they find
you online.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
At Diamond sincere on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (37:57):
Yeah, I'm basically doing the whole end of the podcast
again because now you're back, So like, follow, subscribe, leave
us a talkback, no matter what the talkback says, we
are interested in hearing your feedback. You can find me
on Instagram at baby Hot Sauce and follow the podcast
page at Sauce on the side. We're growing. We're growing slowly,
but we're growing.
Speaker 2 (38:16):
Love it.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
Yeah, I would like to grow faster. I would love
that more. Follow please that's all.
Speaker 2 (38:22):
Say bye bye
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