Grown and Sexy ft. Ari Lennox

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I love all kinds of music.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Marks my life.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
Ever mint and when I walking the back door, same
shine and shit.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
And I would leave each school every time I was
about to get jumped.

Speaker 4 (00:20):
Why are you want to fight you?

Speaker 2 (00:22):
Yeah? I always set everyone off my whole life. Are
you serious? Yeah? Like me?

Speaker 1 (00:28):
I sold this shirt that said freakingly in middle school. Yes,
do you.

Speaker 4 (00:32):
Drink on a plane? Do I? I'm drinking in the
who brough the way there? I do not like either.
When people don't know how to travel. You're taking too
long in a line.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
Do I have to my puppets? That's me. You're nervous.
You're nervous. Take y'all over there. I don't need a
nervous I'm not dating a five to five men. Oh
I could totally date a five, But you're not. Because
I've seen some fine beautiful men know this one. Oh yeah,
wash it with this? I washed Mike. We can't. That's

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what you.

Speaker 4 (01:10):
Let me tell you right now. It is probably at
a nine point five, it's.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
At a ten days. I mat me take off my underwear.
I was, I'm smelling, all right, what's up?

Speaker 5 (01:42):
Y'all's your girl licks Pete and it's your girls rating
the call.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine,
where drunk mind speaks soberthdays.

Speaker 4 (01:51):
We gotta guest today, We gotta guess today. Now, I
know y'all be on my ass talking about i'd be lying,
but I'm not lying this time because y'all have been
asking for this person to come through and we were
finally able to make it happen. This woman is a beautiful, beautiful,
beautiful soul. We are always jamming to her music in

(02:13):
the room. We're trying to get a little vibe about
whatever you got going on. We have the beautiful singer
songwriter all.

Speaker 6 (02:20):
Lennox and a beauty.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
No, thank you, it's good to see you.

Speaker 5 (02:27):
So you look so beautiful, you look so cute flies hell, And.

Speaker 4 (02:34):
Let me say this because I'm not gonna lie. I
was mesmerized when you walked in. I'm not trying to beware.
Your waist is so tiny.

Speaker 7 (02:41):
It is.

Speaker 2 (02:43):
The hungry you are. You don't look hungry, you don't.
You look very very good because I know like you
lost a lot of weight, like not recently. No, I'm
not gonna say that.

Speaker 4 (02:55):
I'm just saying like I remember, like because you were
always fine, but like you popped out and it was like, God, damn,
she's been in that gym.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
You Now you look amazing, You're glowing. Are you a
good girl?

Speaker 1 (03:06):
It was something about turning thirty. I started paying attention
to myself like I've never had before, and I weighed
myself and I said, wow, wow, Like this wasn't what
I weighed in high school.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
I sweart.

Speaker 1 (03:20):
Yeah, I never weighed myself ever. And I looked and
I saw that number and I just I started running.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
For my life.

Speaker 4 (03:26):
Oh you were you were a runner?

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Oh I started running, walking, teaming up with different trainers
and all kinds of things.

Speaker 2 (03:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yeah, now I'm getting back into it again.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
And I look run amazing. You do how much? Like
how many miles do you run a day?

Speaker 7 (03:41):
So?

Speaker 1 (03:42):
Oh, definitely not a day I would like to get there.
But some times a week I like to run twenty
minutes straight and I do about three miles or two
miles of cardio, No, at least three miles of cardio
in general.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Yeah, that's really really good girl.

Speaker 5 (03:59):
I cannot run twenty minutes straight to save my life.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Oh really, No, you can do it. I probably can.
I just have to condition myself right exactly.

Speaker 1 (04:09):
So it starts off with like five minutes, and then
you'll realize once you're at five minutes, I could go
five more. I could go five more unless you really
can't like stop pause, but yeah, it could easier.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah, that's what I try to do.

Speaker 5 (04:22):
I try to do five minis, like I'll run, then
I'll walk five mintings run there five minutes.

Speaker 1 (04:27):
And that's better.

Speaker 5 (04:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
Anyway, it's a hit workout at that point, you know.

Speaker 2 (04:32):
Professionals. Oh yeah, I'm to take my pictures. I was
here all I got. I do that too.

Speaker 4 (04:38):
Yeah, you got the peaky or you are you the
kind of person because obviously you're a singer as well,
Like when you get on the treadmill and whenever you're running,
you like sing while you do it to help me?

Speaker 1 (04:47):
No, okay, I need to though, because I be out
of breath. I have a wallrus on the stage. But
I yeah, at the gym, there's people around, so that
would be really weird to be say you know what
I'm baby.

Speaker 4 (05:03):
No, well, no I say that because you know, when
we go on tour, I'd be out of breath on
stage and.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
All I be doing is cracking Jones.

Speaker 4 (05:14):
Yeah, I'd like, yeah, I'm start laughing. I ain't even
finishing what I said yet.

Speaker 5 (05:19):
But I'll be out of breath, girl, I know what
is important. I'll definitely be out of breath on stage
a little bit too. I mean probably not now these
where they were about to go on. I'll probably be
better because I've been working out consistently, thank you.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
But yeah, a few years ago, we was definitely out
of birth. Oh but we don't get better.

Speaker 4 (05:37):
We're gonna get better, Okay. So I want to start
from the beginning with you. You know you're from DC, right,
So talk about growing up in DC, and like your
background is singing. Were you like the kid that was
always around the house singing, singing in church?

Speaker 2 (05:49):
Like when did you know? Like, okay, I'm really good
at it. So I was born in DC.

Speaker 1 (05:54):
I grew up in Chantilly and Ashburne, Virginia, and I
haven't been back since elementary.

Speaker 2 (06:01):
I've never been back.

Speaker 1 (06:02):
Yeah, And then after that I was in DC for
Brent Elementary School and hind and then for high school.
I went to Coolidge School without Walls, Duke Ellington Wilson,
and Theodore Roosevelt, and I would leave each school, every.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
Time I was about to get jumped. Yeah, I always
piss everyone off my whole life. Are you serious? Yeah? Really?

Speaker 8 (06:31):
Oh god, I know I don't know what it is
used to be saying and do it.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
I wouldn't say anything.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
Like the first time someone tried to jump me, she
was like, I know you stole my metro car and
I was like, no, I did not promise, I swear.
And then I started crying and she stuff, she felt
bad for me, eased up, and the same thing kind
of always happened to start crying and.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
Then they they backed up. Yeah. I try to talk
myself out.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
Of it, you know, but the pears work or just
transfer mom? Can I so.

Speaker 4 (07:16):
You would move a lot because she picking on you?

Speaker 2 (07:20):
Yeah, but it's it's not that deep.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
Who've experienced worst bullying situations.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
I'm just a runner shikari. Okay, but let me ask this.

Speaker 4 (07:30):
No, because I'm a type of person I love like
when people used to like be mean to me and
now like I kind of look back on the my
like ha huh, Like you never had that moment like
look at me, now I'm.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
Getting paper, I'm getting paid. Yeah, liked that moment.

Speaker 4 (07:43):
No, No, no okay, because it's like, no, okay.

Speaker 2 (07:49):
I'm sorry. Actually no, you never felt.

Speaker 1 (07:58):
I'm wait really funny. Yeah, I'm trying to think of
a time where I don't know no okay.

Speaker 4 (08:07):
But that's good though, because I know that that.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
I mean, I remember, I remember the people. No, I
don't think it's childish, but I remember. I do remember
people that said shady things and it did stick with me.
Like one girl, I remember her saying, well, I'm going
to college for a real career because this singing stuff,
you know, it's just not realistic. And I think about

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her like a lot, but not in a bad way.
But it's just that's why it's so important to follow
your dreams, because you never know you really could make
it doing the unthinkable. But I don't think about her
in a shady way. She did used to shave me.
She did want to fight me. That one time.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
She was pissed because I was wearing a wig.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
She was like, why, man, I don't know, it was short,
it was it was ugly.

Speaker 7 (08:55):
And.

Speaker 2 (08:58):
That's what I was about to say.

Speaker 9 (09:00):
What that mean?

Speaker 2 (09:01):
That happens often? That is so crazy. It's very upset
for you.

Speaker 4 (09:05):
Now, I feel like I got to go out in
the streets and fight for your honor.

Speaker 5 (09:08):
Yeah, I will, because that is crazy. I thought you
was gonna say, maybe like wig was raggedy.

Speaker 2 (09:14):
And yours was tea heirs was raggedy. That's probably why
mine was.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
Okay, right, but you know that's what I liked. I
don't know why she cared.

Speaker 4 (09:28):
So were you the type of person like you shared
your dreams with everybody? Like you were like, I have
to sing, I want to do this.

Speaker 2 (09:33):
Like were you like that?

Speaker 1 (09:34):
I just was always singing. Okay, So people, I guess
put two and two together. Lots of talent shows and
grew up in the church singing. I grew up heavy
in the church, Heritage Rechoship Church, Church of Christ and Herndon, Virginia.
So yeah, I always singing somewhere.

Speaker 2 (09:51):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (09:52):
With you being in Virginia, do you consider Virginia the South?
Because I know that's always an ongoing conversation because people's
a lot of people from Virginia be considering.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
It the soul.

Speaker 5 (10:02):
But I'm like, it's way up there.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
It's uh, northern Virginia. I feel like it's closer to
d C. So I will consider that the South but
definitely seven five seven nine five four.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
I think that's no, that's.

Speaker 1 (10:17):
Florida eight h wait one of the area code. Sorry
seven five to seven Virginia Beach. Yeah, that's the South.

Speaker 4 (10:25):
I'm just following along Broken Beach.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
Okay, So I know, okay, okay.

Speaker 4 (10:32):
I just always felt like, I think it's interesting when
people are never like hiding who they wanted to be,
are their dreams, because like I used to walk around
in bears being like, oh my gosh, I want to
be on a talk.

Speaker 2 (10:42):
Show and stuff.

Speaker 4 (10:42):
So I always think it's amazing when people are just like, oh,
this is who I am, and this is what I
want to do. So talk about you know, you graduating
and that transferred into like adulthood.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
And what barely graduating? Oh my god, this is bad.
Oh yeah. I think they just didn't want me to
come back, so they let me get there.

Speaker 4 (11:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (11:00):
I think Theodore was like gone, like get out. Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (11:03):
I got suspended and I couldn't even go to my prom.

Speaker 4 (11:07):
You was bad r D.

Speaker 2 (11:09):
I cursed the teacher.

Speaker 5 (11:11):
Okay, I a few times in high school too, all
the time, but it was fighting.

Speaker 2 (11:15):
Oh I know that's right, but it's me.

Speaker 1 (11:19):
It was just cursing people out trying me, so I
would defend myself right, get into some stuff.

Speaker 2 (11:25):
But you got a little mouth on you. That's what
I'm starting to figure out.

Speaker 4 (11:29):
Because you're so sweet. But you don't fooled me because
I thought you was sweet.

Speaker 2 (11:33):
You over here? What you trying me?

Speaker 8 (11:37):
Do?

Speaker 2 (11:38):
You know what I'm telling? Defend herself. It's different if
you the one that's starting. She she not starting.

Speaker 4 (11:46):
She now I'm saying that's fine, but I'm saying she
got a little mouth on it. No, I can just
tell that sweetness gonna go out the window real quick.

Speaker 2 (11:56):
It does. I get real loud of vaine. Okay, yeah,
I gotta yeah, because people will take advantage of that.

Speaker 4 (12:05):
Let know, I'm not the one.

Speaker 2 (12:06):
To play with.

Speaker 1 (12:07):
Oh it's really bad. I try not to get there. Yeah,
it might happen once a year.

Speaker 4 (12:11):
If that that's good. Once a year, we can we
can handle it.

Speaker 5 (12:15):
So a lot of people describe your music as neo soul,
similar to classic.

Speaker 2 (12:20):
R and B.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
What do you think you're sounding Neo soul? Neo soul
and R and B and soul and I like to
lean into alternative sounds and jazz. It's all kinds of
things I like. I'd like to be pop one day.
I want to expand. I have big dreams. I love
all kinds of music. Red hot Chili peppers, I'm always

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talking about or system of a damn.

Speaker 2 (12:44):
Bag. We can go in? Yeah you do?

Speaker 1 (12:50):
Wait, really processed it way.

Speaker 2 (12:55):
Little groun marks my life. Don't get me started.

Speaker 3 (13:02):
He continue through a base ever mint and when I do,
the back door s same shine of Shane, Goodbye, good Bye.

Speaker 4 (13:21):
I'm ready to.

Speaker 2 (13:21):
The album A little b vocal. I mean we love Daughtry,
we love them.

Speaker 5 (13:29):
Used to listen to Paramour like I went through this
whole base. What you going you let your love when whoa.

Speaker 2 (13:37):
I'm going home? Oh yeah, I get it.

Speaker 1 (13:41):
Oh I love her voice, Haley.

Speaker 4 (13:44):
At the My playlist used to be elite.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
Same game wire. I really don't deserve people's streams.

Speaker 5 (13:55):
I get it because you, yeah, putting virus and computer
and I won't tell you which supermarket, but I well,
maybe I shouldn't say, but I was like five.

Speaker 1 (14:08):
Everything happened when I was five. I was in the
supermarket where you could buy everything electronics and everything I
was in there, went off to the bathroom and I
stole me a CD player.

Speaker 2 (14:20):
Yes, I did.

Speaker 1 (14:21):
And then when I was leaving the doors, it was
like beep, beep, beep, and the lady was like.

Speaker 2 (14:26):
Oh you good.

Speaker 1 (14:28):
Ah she knew no, but what she didn't know was
well she assumed I was a child, and I was good,
what city was it? No? It was a CD player.

Speaker 2 (14:40):
Yeah, I'm all right.

Speaker 5 (14:42):
We stole about it on the show.

Speaker 1 (14:45):
I sold a lot of things, a lot of shirts.
I stole this shirt that said freakingly in middle school.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
Yes, my mom was five.

Speaker 1 (14:56):
Yeah, So I wore it to a church event. I
was always rebellious. I bore it under a jacket so
my mom couldn't see. And then when I was at
that event, I was zipping that jacket down. I have
my hat down. It was a white hat, like I

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was like Sierra or Chris Brown in there, and yeah.

Speaker 2 (15:20):
That is so funny.

Speaker 4 (15:22):
Now, I do want to talk about this because you know,
we have the category neo soul. But I saw recently
in the article Raphael Saediq said something like they used
to use that term neo soul to kind of like
separate like the black artists and things like that. They
were like they used that label so we would know,
you know what, let's not give them as big as
a marketing budget as versus somebody who's like a pop

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artist and thing like things like that. But I think
the neo soul category it was changed because we didn't
care what you call it.

Speaker 2 (15:50):
The music is good. It is good, you know what
I'm saying. So how do you feel about that title?

Speaker 4 (15:54):
Do you think that's something that they need to kind
of get rid of or it's just like, you know what,
we're rocking with it, We're gonna use it.

Speaker 1 (15:59):
I think in the beginning I was triggered by it
because I did recognize that, yes, certain genres get more
marketing than others.

Speaker 2 (16:08):
But now I'm just like, I don't care.

Speaker 1 (16:09):
It's an honor to be received in this way, to
have the co sign that I received from Cole because
like my type of music, not everyone is a fan of.
And to be a part of a genre that rik
Abadu has has been leading in. Jill Scott, let us Y,
Vivian Green, I mean, so many legends, DiAngelo Maxwell, so

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many people we could music soul child alone. I feel
honored that in my way I can contribute that in
this era where it's not as common to make music
like me, but then you have people like Cleo's Soul
who is killing it, you know, and so I feel
like she's also making the genre thrive.

Speaker 2 (16:56):
So yeah, we like that. I like that too.

Speaker 5 (17:00):
So I definitely wanted to talk about your newest album, Vacancy.
So what was your biggest inspiration behind the album?

Speaker 2 (17:09):
Niggas?

Speaker 1 (17:09):
You know, like just niggas being in and out of
my whole soul and also being comfortable in that space
of being alone. And you know, I'm in this hotel
room just luxuriating and enjoying my mean time, and if
somebody wants to come in, you make sure you make
your presence known and make it worth my while. And

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if it's time to leave, it's time to leave. So
this is really just a project of just like just
really feeling that sensuality and individualism and freedom and all
of that. I'm just it's just for the grown and sexy,
Like I'm really owning that that was the term I
was scared of, like as a youngin But man, I'm
grown and sexy. We are, and I don't want to

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be at no baby party.

Speaker 2 (17:57):
Don't you know what I'm saying? Like I'm be at
the grown and second five.

Speaker 1 (18:02):
But that's me.

Speaker 5 (18:03):
I tholease, you talk about that all the time on
the show, just like being in your thirties, how it
really is your grown and thing?

Speaker 2 (18:10):
And I was so thirty?

Speaker 1 (18:12):
Yes were you?

Speaker 2 (18:14):
No? Not really, I was scared. I was bondished you too.
She didd to you too. Uh huh uh huh. It
was gone now she got me, gotcha.

Speaker 1 (18:25):
She's like, yo, no, because I get what you're saying.
But it's just I wasn't thinking. I was like a
puppy like super aloof, like a fish like super aloof
until I don't know, something happened out of nowhere when
I turned thirty that oh shit, I have to grow up.

Speaker 2 (18:44):
But I never had that fear of turning thirty.

Speaker 1 (18:46):
But it's so when I hear people talk about it, Yeah,
it resonates with me because I just was out of it.

Speaker 2 (18:52):
I don't know where.

Speaker 1 (18:52):
I was, just deep in the drink or something, you know,
like yeah, wow, I think that's speaks to your intelligence
and a lot of people's intelligence. My friend, my homegirl,
was talking about this too, just fearing turning thirty. But yeah,
I wasn't thinking. I don't think I was there really
mentally at all.

Speaker 2 (19:12):
Girl, Yeah, I just I don't know. I just felt
like I.

Speaker 5 (19:15):
Was just gonna be old as fuck and my life
was gonna be like halfway over God. Felt terrified to
earn thirty, like I just thought twenties were so lid.
And then same thing with me, similar to what you said.
It was like when I turned thirty. I feel like
this switch just went off in my life. I just
realized it's just beginning acual, Like things actually started to

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get way better for me when I turned thirty those
last few years and my twenties was real.

Speaker 2 (19:41):
Getto oh yes super.

Speaker 5 (19:43):
A few years ago, I was trying to.

Speaker 2 (19:49):
Get the people in the twenties a little hope. It's
still yeah.

Speaker 1 (19:54):
But also I'll say that fifty year olds are looking
at thirties like.

Speaker 2 (19:58):
Oh baby, you young. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (20:01):
Seventy year olds, eighty year olds, oh please child like yeah.

Speaker 4 (20:06):
I think the industry that we're in though, makes us
feel that it does yeah yeah, yeah, yes, I mean
we're entertaining it. So it's like they get younger and
younger than in Fluenier is getting younger. The singers are
getting younger everything.

Speaker 2 (20:19):
If you don't start what you're doing when you three,
you ain't got no experience.

Speaker 4 (20:23):
You got to start a three eight one two three, Yeah,
what is your career gonna be?

Speaker 2 (20:28):
Yeah, it is so deep saying no, yeah.

Speaker 4 (20:31):
Because we didn't really start what we were doing until
I was in my late twenties.

Speaker 2 (20:36):
I had no idea.

Speaker 4 (20:37):
So it's like by the time they was like they
still do that.

Speaker 2 (20:39):
Dang, let you thirty six. Yes, I'm thirty six, and
I'm happy about it.

Speaker 1 (20:43):
If it's a blessings, blessing, So however old I need
to be, that's a that's it is what it is.

Speaker 4 (20:49):
But I think us like, obviously I'm older than both y'all,
But I'm saying us being in our thirties and experience that,
you can't tell them that until they experience. Sometimes we
just have to experience things and they have to go
through it absolutely. Now, I do want to ask you
a little bit about like your songwriting, because sometimes I
feel like when people write a song, it's like they
try so hard to be deep and it kind of

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goes over people's heads a line, and then sometimes things
is so basic.

Speaker 2 (21:14):
It's like I don't want to hear.

Speaker 4 (21:15):
That, but I feel like you do that perfect of
it being deep but it being like.

Speaker 2 (21:20):
Relatable because you have the type of music.

Speaker 4 (21:22):
It's like you talk about six, but are we talking
about six?

Speaker 2 (21:25):
Oh yeah, she talked about it.

Speaker 4 (21:26):
The next song We're gonna cry, We're gonna have a moment.
Then the song's like, oh my god, I love this
man and we in love. So what is your writing
process like? Is it always from inspiration or is it
from like people around you what they're going through.

Speaker 2 (21:38):
My writing process, it basically is just.

Speaker 1 (21:42):
Me and an amazing producer in the studio and he's
or she is making an incredible beat, and I may
feel led to pull out a voice note and you know,
mumble a little bit, or you get the composition book
out right, or get the phone out right. Like with Pretzel,
for instance, I was just driving down ninety five into

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eighty five and had the beat, this cardiac instrumental on repeat,
and yeah, I'm thinking, okay, pretzel and kind of also
looking at the internet like okay, like what are ways
that people can make a pretzel and things.

Speaker 2 (22:21):
Of that nature.

Speaker 1 (22:22):
And then I started thinking of yoga as well, like
what are the terms for yoga? And that kind of
all just made pretzel happen, not even necessarily a situation
or a man, because nobody has been flipping and folding me. Okay,
no one.

Speaker 2 (22:35):
That's what I thought when I heard it. I said,
who is putting that thing down? Flipping over? Not a
damn soul? Okay.

Speaker 5 (22:42):
I was gonna ask you too, though, like do you
cause I know obviously a lot of the times when
people are in the studio and they hear the beat,
then they're like, Okay, I have the perfect lyrics to
write down for these. But then I know a lot
of the time already too, like they'll just already have
lyrics ready for a song, Like so do you ever
just write when something happens to you and you're like, okay,

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I already have a song.

Speaker 1 (23:04):
For these when you here to be No, because that's
just not exciting to me. I'm literally a very present person,
Like if this is on my mind, if this comes
to my mind right now, or if I'm experiencing this
right now and this beat is making me feel amazing
or mad or whatever, then it's easy to pair those
like situations.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
But I don't usually write, you.

Speaker 1 (23:27):
Know, maybe I should, though I think that could be
great for another album, especially as I'm becoming more introspective.
I do want the next project to be more introspective
and in a deeper, darker way.

Speaker 2 (23:39):
But that's the thing.

Speaker 1 (23:40):
Are people really ready for trauma? Traumatized? Are if you say.

Speaker 4 (23:46):
Traumatized above the thousand, these men are traumatized?

Speaker 1 (23:51):
I mean, yeah, yeah, And you know, it's just funny.
I'm curious to know what people really want. Because when
I made a record like Smoke, I'm talking about how
I want to fight and punch person and smack a
bitch in the face, and people were like, oh no,
civil rights.

Speaker 2 (24:11):
And coups like the Holidays.

Speaker 1 (24:16):
So I was like, okay, and then I dropped another
record and oh no, this is pop music.

Speaker 2 (24:24):
I don't leave you, bitch, So what the fuck do
you want?

Speaker 1 (24:30):
And so yeah, now I just know, follow my heart,
trust my intuition. But the next project, there will be
no more seeking any type of understanding or validation from anyone,
because I know people really don't know what they want,
you know, and I have to lead.

Speaker 4 (24:48):
I have cause they'll tell you they want this, then
you give it to them, like, oh never mind, we
want not.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
Ready, they say, go deep go deep like Shade buttered
Baby and I was being fucked by a trash can.

Speaker 2 (24:58):
So what are you talking about?

Speaker 10 (25:00):
That was not d I mean it was, yes.

Speaker 1 (25:05):
It was a thought, but it was about fucking whole album.

Speaker 4 (25:09):
Yeah, And that's why I said, because you get that
sweet spot so they think it's deep.

Speaker 2 (25:12):
Yeah, you went too deep on deep. Yeah they didn't know.
Ye see, so you got to catch them in that middle.

Speaker 5 (25:20):
But that's a really good point that you made about
just not seeking validation. I think we all do that
sometimes when you just have to do what's right for
you because, like you said, people don't know what they want,
and a lot of the time they don't know that
they like it until you give it hello. Then when
you come out with it, they like, oh yeah, I
actually do like that. But I think if you tell
people before you do something, are you let it be known,

(25:42):
they're gonna try to talk you out of it because
people like to stay comfortable, especially when they're fans of somebody.
They don't want to feel like you're switching up on them.

Speaker 1 (25:52):
You're growing, right, evolving, and it's like, I have different
experiences that I'm going to share. You know, this is
my experience in set thirty four, What y'all want me
to talk about? I just got a new house.

Speaker 2 (26:05):
You don't want to hear that, dude? I mean I
did get a new house, so yeah, I do.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
Want to hear all right, fine, the next album I
just dying new More.

Speaker 2 (26:15):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Oh, I don't sing
about that. That ain't happen, is what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (26:19):
It's just like, do you really want to hear that?
I feel like that's silly.

Speaker 4 (26:23):
Yeah, No, I get it though, but I think like,
I don't know. I feel like whatever you're going through,
somebody is going through it and you just never know
until you drop it. Some people don't connect and they not.
I always say I want to connect with people who
are here for me, good, bad, whatever chapter I'm in,
they just want to see me, and they want to
see me when they gonna.

Speaker 2 (26:42):
Vibe through it with me. You know what I'm saying.
It's just like life is different.

Speaker 4 (26:46):
We're not you know, you're not twenty seven twenty six anymore.
It's like things are different. So the people who don't
understand that, that's okay.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
We can fall off. But I'm a find new listeners
and new supporters.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
You know what I'm saying, and I'm leaning into that.
I'm excited about that, trying to figure out how that
can happen for me.

Speaker 2 (27:01):
Do you feel like you have more creative control now? Oh?

Speaker 1 (27:03):
I feel like I've always had all of that creative control. Yeah,
I just I think the difference now is just trusting
myself more. But if the album, if I feel like
the album's not done or whatever, I know, Okay, you
can say no, And that just is across the board,
like I can actually say no, so like really building

(27:26):
up my self esteem in that way, trusting myself.

Speaker 4 (27:30):
Okay, all right, we're gonna get into our first little thing.

Speaker 2 (27:34):
Oh wow.

Speaker 5 (27:34):
Before we do that, of course, y'all know this episode
is sponsored by Taylor Port. Her usual shout out to
our people over at Taylor Port. Y'all know that's what
we keep up in our come and you know what
Taylor Port make.

Speaker 2 (27:49):
All the time I've been to Teleport right now, Okay,
and you know we gotta do. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (27:54):
So our poor decision, oh hold on, got little coconut
my lip. It's just like a bad decision that you
made this week or maybe in the past. It don't
have to be nothing serious, nothing need, nothing too crazy.
So what was your poor decision this week, little drella?

Speaker 5 (28:10):
Oh girl, so something related to the gym. I'm not
they be like this, bitch, you always talk about the gym. Okay,
So normally before I work out, I always stretch and
like do a warm up. The other day when I
was at the gym, I just was like kind of
pressed for time because I had somewhere to go, so
I didn't stretch or do a warm up, and I
think I pulled a muscle in my yeah, and it

(28:33):
hurts so bad, y'all. Like even when I was walking
up the stairs when I was playing for my car,
I could really feel it. When I was climbing the
I was like, why did I do that?

Speaker 2 (28:43):
I know I'm getting old. I want to be thirty
five this year.

Speaker 9 (28:46):
Girl.

Speaker 2 (28:46):
I'm like, you know, okay, You're right. I'm not everyone
to stress.

Speaker 1 (28:51):
The babies need to stress, the eas the young adult everyone.

Speaker 11 (28:56):
Girl.

Speaker 5 (28:57):
But I think when you get to this age, you
really really got to stress.

Speaker 2 (29:00):
You really do. It makes the world of a difference. Yeah, okay, yeah,
you do got a stretch.

Speaker 4 (29:05):
I'm actually about to get somebody that I'm gonna hire her,
she's gonna come help and stretched that.

Speaker 1 (29:10):
Yeah, I'm so still, it's really hard.

Speaker 4 (29:16):
Oh my god, remember that picture.

Speaker 2 (29:22):
I'm so d I just was really pre.

Speaker 1 (29:29):
Proud of my progresm and people hating.

Speaker 2 (29:34):
Plus giving.

Speaker 4 (29:36):
But that's when it was so funny.

Speaker 2 (29:40):
I liked it. I love that picture.

Speaker 4 (29:45):
Okay, my poor decision this week, y'all. Okay, y'all know
I will forever be a Miami girl.

Speaker 2 (29:51):
I love to go to Miami.

Speaker 4 (29:52):
I don't care when nobody say, yes, it's a vacation.
I don't get that it's only a two and a
half hour flight from Atlanta or however long it is.
I just love Miami. So I haven't been to Miami
in a while. And I went to Miami and I
had one day where I kind of like spent by myself,
like I went shopping, I went and had like drinks.
I would just kind of buy myself exploring the city
like I usually do. And y'all, I got so drunk,

(30:16):
like I got it was. It was bad, like I
was stumbling in my hotel.

Speaker 2 (30:20):
Oh no, aw me, I deserved it.

Speaker 4 (30:21):
I deserved that shit, And honestly, I'm just like, that's
my party. I need to stop getting drunk, Like I'm
twenty four.

Speaker 2 (30:28):
I can't do that no more.

Speaker 1 (30:29):
Be careful. I messed you by yourself.

Speaker 4 (30:31):
No, no, no. I was with somebody man, but yeah, so
we went to Miami, but he had to work that day,
so I was kind of just you know, exploring. Then
it was like he had this plan, like.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
We were supposed to go out that time.

Speaker 4 (30:46):
Well he was at work when I was getting drunk,
but by the time he came back, he was like
ready to go party and I was cooked.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
So I messed up like our.

Speaker 4 (30:54):
One of our first nights out there because I was so.

Speaker 2 (30:58):
More of the story is to wasn't there to make
my drinks right, So that's why I messed up. So honestly,
to my girlies, pace yourself, I want to say.

Speaker 1 (31:11):
That's why I can't drink because I don't believe in moderation.
And that's It's the same with candy, it's the same
with bread, all of that. I can't just have one
sour patch, like what is that, like one shot of anything?
I need the whole bottle. Like I flew to Australia
once and I had this big old thing a jack. Well,
I don't know if I'm.

Speaker 2 (31:31):
Allowed to say it.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
Taylor's big old thing a jack. Halfway through that flight,
that bottle halfway was gone.

Speaker 2 (31:41):
I was and I needed the whole day.

Speaker 1 (31:43):
To recovery so.

Speaker 2 (31:51):
That it does.

Speaker 1 (31:53):
Right and it's right. And it's like a choice, I'm
choosing to poison myself and and give my body aches.
I just yeah, I'm choosing to go to jail.

Speaker 4 (32:04):
Like, yeah, was there a certain situation that happened and
you woke up and was like, I can't do this
no more?

Speaker 2 (32:11):
Like was there a.

Speaker 1 (32:11):
Certain Mary waking up passed out in the airport with
sick and all kinds of stuff. They had to wheel
me into a hotel room. It was embarrassing in Detroit.
No cameras, no god, oh my god. It would have
been great for TMZ mor shave room. But yeah, luckily
no one saw that. And there was another situation and

(32:34):
got locked up in Amsterdam. Yeah, that was really really intense.

Speaker 4 (32:39):
And Amsterdam is a crazy city, so you must have
been caughting up.

Speaker 1 (32:43):
I mean the lady she tried it. She was very
very rude to me, and I was hurt. I was hurt,
but I'll go into it one day.

Speaker 2 (32:52):
One day, we got to get into it.

Speaker 1 (32:54):
But I will say that my energy and emotions didn't
have to be as extreme as they were, and I
really feel like alcohol heightened those moors.

Speaker 2 (33:04):
I do believe I have issues.

Speaker 1 (33:06):
With anger, but I genuinely feel like looking back on
all the arguments I've ever had and there was liquor involved,
I just feel like that was the common denominator for me.
It was the liquor that made everything worse.

Speaker 4 (33:19):
And you were around it a lot doing what you do.
You know, your premiere part y'all. I met Aria have
premiere party. What was it like two weeks ago?

Speaker 2 (33:27):
I was about to say years ago. No, no, no, no.

Speaker 4 (33:30):
It was like so was no girl, and I was
so excited to meet her. Mind you y'all know me
big mama gets like. I was like, all right, got
a good podcast, it's fire.

Speaker 6 (33:43):
You're not like this.

Speaker 2 (33:45):
I was so pretty and cool.

Speaker 4 (33:48):
After when I woke up to this morning, I was like,
oh no, you know, my breath be hot.

Speaker 2 (33:53):
Your breath wasn't know, but I was like when I
got home, I was like, oh my god.

Speaker 1 (34:00):
I was just like, you're beautiful and I was amazed
by your hair and everything.

Speaker 2 (34:04):
We had a time that night.

Speaker 4 (34:06):
But I'm saying like, I'm proud of you because you'd
be in situations like, yeah, be maneuvering through it.

Speaker 12 (34:10):
No.

Speaker 1 (34:10):
I like my water, my hot water tea. Yeah, I'm cool,
I have that. I just I don't want to kill nobody,
and I don't want nobody to kill me. Yeah, And
I just I don't know what the future holds with
me and drinking, right, And I know that's extreme, but
I just I don't want to end up on TMZ.
Yeah somehow, some way. Yeah, that really scares me.

Speaker 2 (34:34):
I agree with that.

Speaker 5 (34:35):
I think definitely every situation that I ever looked back
on where I was drinking and I got into an
altercation with somebody liquor just makes it ten times worse
because it could be a situation where, if you were sober,
you would have the conversation a little more calmly, or
you might even walk away, But when you drunk, you
be having that liquid curve like.

Speaker 2 (34:57):
You ain't even gotta go there.

Speaker 1 (34:58):
Never this mad pulled a gun out on who.

Speaker 2 (35:04):
Because you live the life I did.

Speaker 1 (35:06):
I did years ago and I was I don't know when,
but a friend can vouch for me. But in Atlanta
something happened where this man maybe man, I started cursing
him out and he was like, and I was like,
did you use the rose? But I think I said, well,
I don't care. My friend got to go, and That's

(35:30):
what I'm saying. And my friend was like, come on Ari.
But it was just stuff like that, like it could
have happened so fast. I called her like just thinking
I could just talk to anybody and so things any yeah,
anybody in any old kind of way and things like that.

Speaker 2 (35:45):
Definitely, Yeah, a lot of close calls. A lot Jesus Christ.

Speaker 4 (35:48):
That's gonna be your pole decision when you see that
nine millimeter Yeah you got the goal.

Speaker 1 (35:55):
Yeah, well that didn't happened last week, right, but I saw,
oh this is great.

Speaker 2 (36:03):
Yeah it could be. You know that because you cut up.
I knew it. It's something about the soft tolle.

Speaker 1 (36:13):
Like be nice to me, yeah, and I'm gonna be
nice to you.

Speaker 2 (36:16):
Yeah. You do give me that energy.

Speaker 1 (36:18):
You know you're sweet and you're I hope that never happens.
I got close on that stage on tour.

Speaker 2 (36:24):
I couldn't close.

Speaker 1 (36:26):
It was coming out. That was all raw I think
my voice. Oh no, my voice was high. So I
wasn't that mad.

Speaker 2 (36:33):
When it gets deep, that's when it's like people deep
and loud.

Speaker 1 (36:37):
When I'm mad, Oh, it's I'm a whole nother person.

Speaker 2 (36:39):
For sure. God, I can't even imagine that, because you
just give.

Speaker 1 (36:47):
I turned into batman.

Speaker 2 (36:48):
I know, that's right. Yeah, but you got to.

Speaker 4 (36:51):
You got to because one thing about these people that
will have you fucked up, I'm not the one to
be fucked with.

Speaker 2 (36:57):
Yeah. All right, let's go with the first type of drake. Okay, okay.
So for the first topic, we wanted to talk.

Speaker 5 (37:02):
About leaving a good man because you just did an
interview recently on The Breakfast Club and you were talking
about the situation that you had with one of your
exes and how he wanted to pray in the moment
and you just wasn't feeling me. And then it was
so many people in the comments having discourse about like, oh, she.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
Why was she acting like that? That was a good man, X, Y, and.

Speaker 5 (37:24):
Z, And a lot of the time would know this
man exactly.

Speaker 1 (37:28):
You don't know my relationship god exactly.

Speaker 2 (37:32):
Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (37:33):
People think they know everything. They just can't wait to
cycle psychoanalyze.

Speaker 2 (37:39):
They can't wait to judge.

Speaker 1 (37:41):
People are so self righteous and delusional.

Speaker 2 (37:44):
Christy, if you knew.

Speaker 1 (37:46):
Then you would understand, but you don't care to know,
like you're being duped, Like you know what I'm saying,
You're the one who literally can't decipher.

Speaker 4 (37:59):
To God's cheat on me. And then like in the
midst of us arguing wing, he gets on Twitter's like, man,
God is so good, My blissess will always right them.

Speaker 2 (38:07):
My Grandma God ship to Yeah, she us to cover
up for so guess what.

Speaker 4 (38:17):
No, but they use that to be manipula because like
I'm talking to good.

Speaker 2 (38:23):
And that's why I want to talk about it.

Speaker 4 (38:25):
You know what I'm saying, Like.

Speaker 2 (38:29):
He's maybe but a prom example, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (38:34):
So, but that's why I wanted to talk about it,
because I feel like it's so many times where us
as women will feel something in our spirit that is
telling us like this person isn't right for me, this
is the person that I'm supposed to be with, and
then people from the outside looking in, they'll look at
the situation, not knowing the person as well as you
do only on the surface level.

Speaker 2 (38:51):
And be like why would she leave that good man?
And that was a good man, Samannah, why would.

Speaker 1 (38:56):
You him know this man? But what I was saying, though,
is that I feel like people are being duped when
they are being fed a certain narrative. It's like you
aren't even exercising critical thinking, like how about like the
full picture of something instead of just a clip, like
you don't know me, you don't know what I smell,

(39:16):
like what I'm thinking about this person? How on the
first date? This is the same person who jokingly said
I'm gonna kill you. There's a lot And I'm realizing,
and I know this sounds naive, but I'm realizing believe
people when they say things like that, you know.

Speaker 4 (39:35):
And I also feel like they gonna be mad at
me saying this. But I also feel like that American
dream has been sold to us and women are just
now figuring out that maybe that's not for me. All
you get, go to college, you marry somebody, the white
picket fence, and the marriage happily ever after. When you're
a successful woman and you've accomplished so much on your own,

(39:57):
a lot of times they don't have much to add
to you. So unless you are making me happy. I
feel safe around you. I feel good. I don't care
on paper how good you look, because my life looks
good without you. If I feel better without you, even
if you are a good man, I'm okay without you.

Speaker 7 (40:15):
Ye.

Speaker 4 (40:15):
And we have figured that out. We've figured out how
to make money, we figured out how to purchase homes,
we figured out how to have these bomb ass careers.
And it's like, Okay, we're good, and they are hating that.
So instead of them being happy for us and cheering
for us that we have figured this out, they're like, oh,
but you're thirty something, you've never been married, you ain't
got no kids.

Speaker 2 (40:34):
In fact, you can.

Speaker 5 (40:35):
Never make me feel bad about it.

Speaker 2 (40:39):
I hate it. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (40:40):
And then there are people who have been married and
and and maybe it didn't work out or god forbid,
might have lost their styles and things, and and they
wind up single parents, and so I just kind of
feel like it's so much disrespect around single people, single parents,
and I just I feel like it's really it's just weird.

Speaker 2 (40:59):
It's very weird.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
Yeah, people are single for different reasons, and it's best
that we are healthy, and why we're.

Speaker 2 (41:06):
Saying And then you said like especially your mental health.

Speaker 4 (41:09):
A lot of times they'd be like, oh you with
this good man, y'all don't know what goes on behind.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
Two closed doors between two people. I know you're talking
about it. You just never know.

Speaker 4 (41:18):
And that's why I say, but I feel like they
only do that to women. Like if women are in
their forties and single or they have had kids, they're like, oh,
what's wrong with you?

Speaker 2 (41:26):
But when a man is for they're like, oh, he
got money.

Speaker 4 (41:28):
Oh, I know, he's a hot commodity out here.

Speaker 2 (41:30):
And it's just like, why is that. It's so weird
because a lot of.

Speaker 5 (41:34):
Men, because with men, with them getting older, they look
at it like, oh, you're in your prime. As the
men when you get to your forties, when you start
getting the salt and pepper and you start aging, you
ain't in the prime of your life. And realistically too,
like most men don't become extremely successful until I think
they're about forty.

Speaker 2 (41:52):
Yeah, so I really think it's the fifties. It's the
forties and fifties. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (41:57):
So it's like for them as they get older, it's
to look, is, oh, you in your prime. With us,
as women, the older, we get we damage good. Yeah,
you could never be exact, never could never be. But
that's what they be trying to tell us. That's the propaganda.

Speaker 2 (42:12):
Yeah, it really is.

Speaker 4 (42:14):
It's truly propaganda, because I feel like they if we're
not happy in a relationship, they make you feel like, oh,
you're being ungrateful, you're being ungrateful. But if a man
leaves a situation, a man can have a woman who's
good on paper, right, she's successful, she's beautiful, and they're like, oh,
she got too many college degrees.

Speaker 2 (42:32):
I know why he left that bitch, she's probably a
know it all. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:35):
I thought it was everything to have a house, to
have just be taking care of myself and all of
these things, all of these ambitious goals of mine that
I've been able to achieve.

Speaker 2 (42:46):
I thought that would be attractive.

Speaker 1 (42:48):
And in meeting men and dating a lot of successful men,
none of them would ever ever talk about how exciting
it is that I've invested in properties, or would ever
even want to come to see.

Speaker 2 (43:00):
My house or at all.

Speaker 1 (43:02):
It was very much so no just come over here,
or you know, it felt like my all my accomplishments
were minimized. Wow, And so I realized, I don't know
who what I was thinking growing up, thinking that like me,
being accomplished and independent would attract other successful men and

(43:23):
or successful men, and just realizing, Wow, I think.

Speaker 2 (43:26):
It deters them. Yeah, it does.

Speaker 1 (43:28):
It intimidates them.

Speaker 5 (43:30):
I agree with that because I used to feel that
way too, Like I used to think, he don't care
that I got my degree. He don't we gonna care
that I got my own I paid my own bills.

Speaker 2 (43:39):
No, men do not care about that.

Speaker 5 (43:41):
I always say, just get rid of your sheet, because
they like girls without Wow, just get rid of your sheep.

Speaker 2 (43:47):
If you want a man that bad, I don't want
one that bad.

Speaker 1 (43:49):
I'm geting rid of it, But can we really talk
about it. I'm not getting rid of my big dogs. Hey,
that's another thing that scares men away. Like, okay, fine,
I want to far man anyway. I need you to
like big animals.

Speaker 4 (44:05):
It's so crazy, because it really is hard to find
a man that can just really support you and be
happy and be like, look at my girl. Like you
think that everybody wants to praise jay Z and Beyonce,
but a lot of y'all can not be jay Z.
They're in the crowd cheering for her, like they ca Yeah,
I know, and y'all be praising. Yeah, but y'all not Beyonce. Okay,

(44:26):
but you're not jay Z either.

Speaker 2 (44:27):
Whoo exactly speak on this.

Speaker 4 (44:29):
So if we on this level, we both get money
and get into it. Why you can't clap for me,
but I'm always supposed to clap for you. It is
a very strange dynamic. So how is dating for you now?

Speaker 2 (44:40):
And it seems like they want you to be silent
to you? Oh yeah, and just.

Speaker 4 (44:43):
Yeah, you're not supposed to complain about anything because they're
the good man on paper.

Speaker 1 (44:49):
Yeah, that's why I'm happy, like I'm putting all of
like my flaws everything out there. Yeah, because I only
want to attract someone who who isn't intim mandated or
horrified by them by that. So yeah, do you.

Speaker 4 (45:05):
Feel like it's easier to date men in the industry
or outside of the industry. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (45:09):
Outside of the industry, I feel like people they all
they see is ari like the state and stuff. I
don't think they see Courtney. And then I think men
in general, I think they're fans. They're fans, they like
the idea of me, but no one is genuinely trying

(45:30):
to get to know Courtney and yeah, spend some time
with me, build something with me. People want me to
be an accessory to them, you know.

Speaker 2 (45:40):
M, So are you dating?

Speaker 4 (45:45):
Is there a man?

Speaker 1 (45:48):
Hell no, this is no one. This guy texted like, well,
I called. Well we talked last night. But now I'm
thinking in my mind, I'm traumatized, Like I don't even
know if I want to be on the phone with
anyone anymore. Because I was getting to know a guy
and we would talk for like six hours a day.
Come to find out, come to a city and he

(46:08):
didn't want to hang out. It's a long story, but whatever,
it's it's online online. But my point is is that
now I'm afraid to talk to a guy on the phone.
I don't want my time wasted.

Speaker 2 (46:18):
Yeah and then.

Speaker 1 (46:20):
Yeah, yeah, so yeah, I talked to this man last night,
but I don't think he's the one. He's a pisces.
Has this ever happened to you?

Speaker 2 (46:30):
Where they stay? There's something I haven't experienced.

Speaker 1 (46:34):
Their emotions really, you know.

Speaker 2 (46:38):
Me, and are so emotional.

Speaker 1 (46:40):
They're so aloof really and like, yeah, I think with
this aris they're very surfaced.

Speaker 5 (46:46):
Wow, I feel like they feel so deeply and they're
very emotional. Like all of the women pisces, women and
men that I've met, they're all just like almost to
the point that they're like kind of badshit crazy wow. Yeah,
because they let their emotions get the best of them.

Speaker 2 (47:03):
A lot of the time. And they love bomb too. Yeah.
When they first teach you, they're.

Speaker 4 (47:07):
Like, you're the most perfect woman I've ever met in
my life. Been three months later, my grandma died, bitch.
I got to go, Yeah, their grandma's.

Speaker 5 (47:15):
Do that their grandma's grandma's grandy's is dying and never died.

Speaker 2 (47:21):
Yes, because what's going on.

Speaker 4 (47:24):
I remember, like I dated this place season and I
was like, oh my god, this is my forever man.
And I just thought he was the most amazing guy.
I remember we went on a podcast show when I
was talking about how he freed me from because he
did free me, shout out to you, because I was
in the shackles of this capricorn. But he came along
and it was good. And then I realized though, I

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realized maybe he was sensing me just to get me
out of that. But I had to get out of
him too. But it was very much a love bombing situation.
Like they're so emotional and then they're not, and then
they want to spend the block.

Speaker 2 (47:56):
They're too to wishy washy for me.

Speaker 4 (48:00):
Yeah, say so, I can't do that, and I'm not
and I'm truly not into sciens like that, but that
was so weird for me. I had never experienced that
ever in dating.

Speaker 1 (48:09):
The same sign comes to me in bulk.

Speaker 2 (48:11):
Okay, that's really weird. I's this is the year of
the Pisces, and.

Speaker 1 (48:16):
A few years ago I geminized was one year and
then another year. Tourists it's Leo's like, it's weird only
in Bulk. That's why I believe in astrology, because how
do you explain that? Why are they all coming to?
What is this lesson that God in the universe is
trying to teach me about this particular son.

Speaker 2 (48:37):
I believe in astrology too, girl incident. Yeah yeah, I think, yeah,
it's right there. It has to be real.

Speaker 4 (48:46):
I just feel like, I think it's cute and funny
to look up, but I'm not like deep immersed and
I'm not educated enough to like talk about it, and
a lot of other people aren't either. They be like, girl,
you're a virgo, but that's why for me to get
into it. But the people who are like really deep
into it, like I like to talk to them because
they're educated on it.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
You know what I'm saying, it'd be a big difference
for me.

Speaker 5 (49:09):
So do even one of y'all kind of circling back
to the topic a little bit, do either one of
y'all feel like y'all have ever had to leave a
great guy like he was actually really a good man,
but you just knew he wasn't the man for you.

Speaker 1 (49:22):
Yeah, two guys, but we were never together. But this
one guy in particular, he just had beautiful energy and
he was so fine, so chocolate tall, successful, a musician,
he was great. But yeah, I just didn't see it.

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I just I didn't feel like I didn't feel like
we had enough banter.

Speaker 2 (49:50):
I don't know, like.

Speaker 1 (49:51):
That's so important to me. I want to laugh, you know,
all day with my boob, But like, I don't know,
can I have that?

Speaker 2 (49:58):
Am I allowed to have that? From a secure energy? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (50:02):
I feel like, yeah, that's all I'm looking for, a
secure energy that is also funny. Yes, Like I feel
like people try to make me feel like these things
can't Yeah, I think.

Speaker 5 (50:16):
People do that a lot of the time because it's
projection me personally. I feel like we can have whatever
we want, Like, yeah, I believe that you deserve it.

Speaker 2 (50:23):
You go fery. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (50:25):
And I just wouldn't settle, Like I feel like, why
settle if you want somebody that's money, don't be with
on me because they can't make you.

Speaker 1 (50:31):
Yeah, Because I don't want to be with someone and
be like this toxic force in their life because I'm
not happy and I'm resenting them and I wish they
were someone that they're not. And I'm not a fan
of changing the man. I'm not a fan of nagging
a man. I'll leave, I'll remove myself.

Speaker 2 (50:48):
I if you what are you doing here? I don't
want to depress you.

Speaker 4 (50:52):
And I think I realized that too, Like I think
the one situation I was in where I felt like
I left a good man because that's really what it was, like,
I feel like I couldn't laugh with him.

Speaker 2 (51:02):
He would try to make me laugh, but I say
them jokes would not be here.

Speaker 4 (51:07):
But even and it's crazy because I even think when
I dated the Capricorn God, I dated him for a
very long time on and off, but I kept trying
to make it something it wasn't because I thought, Okay,
we've been dealing with each other for this long. One
thing I realized is history and time don't mean she
cost fallacy, yeah, something like that, And I just I
couldn't get and I'm like, you know what, honestly, I

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do like the when I think about the one man
that I really really loves, Like in my younger years,
he was so funny, like he was hilarious and even now,
like my partner is hilarious. All we do is laugh
and I'm like, this is my love language, just sitting
in the bed man laughing.

Speaker 1 (51:43):
Let's have all fine because I'm an emo, so I
need I need that part. Okay, this is what I
need people to know. I am a big emo if
you haven't noticed, but like I am so funny, fun
and so I would need my partner.

Speaker 2 (52:02):
To not have that same emo thing. We're gonna be
Emo tickets, Yeah, I don't want that outside and things.

Speaker 4 (52:12):
It's like we have that balance of Okay, we're gonna
have serious conversations and talk about the future and this
and that, but also we're gonna have a ball. Yeah,
And I think that's hard to successful.

Speaker 2 (52:22):
Men don't like to have a ball, don't want fun.
They're going to work.

Speaker 4 (52:30):
Like yes, like, And I think that's something that I
have been teaching my partners to balance, and he's working
on the balance.

Speaker 2 (52:36):
So that's what I enjoy.

Speaker 4 (52:37):
I'm like, I need to laugh. I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (52:39):
I have to have a good fun.

Speaker 4 (52:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (52:42):
So you're not wrong for that.

Speaker 4 (52:43):
I feel you.

Speaker 2 (52:44):
I feel you. It's hard for that.

Speaker 4 (52:46):
Okay, all right, y'all. And y'all know we sip in
that little drink and drinks that's my tail just for you.
So Tom, what are we drinking today?

Speaker 13 (52:55):
Okay, So especially for miss Ari, we have this one
is gonna be called the Vacancy. And this is a
mock tail. So this is a little bit tropical. I
was trying to go a little bit.

Speaker 2 (53:04):
Sure, ain't nothing in there. It's good and everything whatsoever
at all. I like it a lot.

Speaker 13 (53:18):
So we have a little toasted coconut syrup. We have
some pineapple juice, some lime juice, and then some cranberry
peach as well, and then on the rim of the
glass it's some toasted coconut and then I garnished it
also with a dehydrated pineapple, a little cute, little well
something to sip for the spring that's coming and fastly approaching.
So this is the vacancy, and Lex has some with

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a little taste I had that was floated on top.
So that's the only difference. That's the alcoholic version for
y'all at home. If you want to add any spirit
to it, you are more than welcome.

Speaker 2 (53:50):
But that is the vacancy. Cheers, cheers. It's called vacancy
because it's a vacant of the alcohol. That way, I'm sorry,
we got you. We take that alcohol. That's how misfit.

Speaker 4 (54:06):
Bacon of the alcohol. Okay, So and yeah, so it
is vacancy. And y'all know this episode is sponsored by
Tailor Port.

Speaker 2 (54:13):
Shout out to Tailor Port. Cheers. Yes, period. All right, y'all.

Speaker 4 (54:17):
So today's cocktail is called the Sweet Escape.

Speaker 5 (54:20):
Because sometimes you just need a little moment and this
drink right here will definitely take you there.

Speaker 4 (54:25):
This one starts with pineapple juice, lime juice, toasted coconut syrup,
and a blend of white cranberry and peach juice.

Speaker 5 (54:32):
All of that gets shaken over ice so you get
this bright tropical base.

Speaker 4 (54:36):
Then it's topped with a float of Tailor port, which
adds that rich berry flavor right on top.

Speaker 5 (54:41):
So when you sippy, you get the tropical notes first,
and then that smooth fruity finish from the port, and
the rim.

Speaker 4 (54:48):
Is toasted coconut with a dehydrated pineapple garnish, because we
wanted to lean all the way into those vacation bobs.

Speaker 2 (54:55):
Cheers. Okay, So our second topic, we're.

Speaker 4 (54:58):
Gonna talk about Plaine etique because I've been very open
about you know, you don't really like to fly. Is
that still an issue for you or a love hate? Okay,
so what's your love hate?

Speaker 2 (55:09):
Well?

Speaker 1 (55:09):
I don't Well, you're zooming into the sky like a
rocket at thirty six thousand feet, A little turbulence is happening,
and you're supposed to just be chill about. And I've
seen all kinds of playing crash documentaries, documentaries ever since
I was like ten. I don't know why I tortured

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myself like that, but I'd never imagined that I would
ever have to fly anywhere ever again. I imagined i'd
be driving or taking a boat. Like My plan one
day was to save up enough money to do a
three hundred and sixty five day world boat tour or
whatever tour of the world. That's what I wanted. That's

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how I was going to see the world.

Speaker 2 (55:53):
Lord.

Speaker 1 (55:53):
But like with success, like that's not how life works.
You can't take a boat from California to DC. It's
not how happening. So I had to quickly get to it,
and that's why I was getting drunk as hell.

Speaker 2 (56:04):
To get to get through it.

Speaker 1 (56:07):
But I really do on a calm day, when my
body is regulated emotionally, I love.

Speaker 2 (56:14):
I love a good takeoff.

Speaker 1 (56:15):
Sometimes like I'm looking out the window as it's happening,
and some days it's too much windows, shield is closed
or whatever, it's closed. And sometimes I'm like whatever, turbulence.
And then sometimes I'm like this, but I.

Speaker 2 (56:29):
Haven't screamed in a long time.

Speaker 1 (56:32):
I used to yelp, like, oh my god, all right, girl.

Speaker 5 (56:37):
The babies can yield, so can you exactly? They don't
nobody be shushing news exactly.

Speaker 4 (56:42):
I'm with you on Yeah, I'm not gonna watch y'all.
Y'all gonna get mad at me for this.

Speaker 2 (56:47):
Oh we need saving us. They're angels. They're not trying
to take off the a shut up the row. We
need the baby. They be too loud. This is how
we survive.

Speaker 4 (57:05):
I agree, y'all survived because I'm praying and I bow
your head prayer.

Speaker 1 (57:09):
And the babies are the closest thing to God.

Speaker 2 (57:12):
They are angels. They are protecting us, they are lifting
us up, sister. But it be too loud. The dog's barking.

Speaker 1 (57:20):
Their ears, honey, their ears that altitude.

Speaker 2 (57:23):
They don't know what's happening. You leave them on the back.
The poor baby is just like, what is this pressure
you should have drawn?

Speaker 4 (57:31):
Why you said they should have took the boat from
California to Dhoul.

Speaker 2 (57:36):
It's too hot. I can't do it.

Speaker 4 (57:40):
I cannot do the plane. And I'm not a mean person.
I love I love my nephews, but I just you know.

Speaker 2 (57:46):
What I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (57:47):
Sometimes it gets a little rowdy on the plane. So
we're gonna talk about plane etiquette, you know what I'm saying.
And like things that you feel like you should and
shouldn't do in the airport and flying.

Speaker 2 (57:58):
I feel like this. I do not like either when
people don't know how to travel. You're taking too long
in the line. Do I have to eat you up?
My puckets me get out the way, beef with get
out someway. I'm stressed, so I gotta take my time

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all the times. Did I get my phone?

Speaker 1 (58:20):
It's my phone out of my bag. To have a
ring in my pocket is gonna set the metal detector off.

Speaker 2 (58:25):
I still got water. Nervous, You got to move out
the way. They're nervous, motherfuckers. Take y'all glass over there.
I don't need a nervous and the people who know
what they're doing go to the right.

Speaker 4 (58:40):
But that's not the embrassment. I feel like that's what
pre chick is like. The people who fly, all of
who know what they doing, got the regular line. But
people in sometimes they be over there are still confused
or maybe they knew the pre chick.

Speaker 1 (58:56):
I'm not new to it, but I'm still confused exactly.

Speaker 2 (59:00):
Well, it's Dodn't I keep my water.

Speaker 1 (59:01):
I have to take my time because I have to
process what I'm about to do. I'll zoom into space. Yeah, okay,
we are that close to space up there.

Speaker 2 (59:13):
Okay, there's a lot of process. I can't I can't
you drink on the plane.

Speaker 1 (59:17):
Do I?

Speaker 2 (59:18):
I'm drinking in the who brough the way there?

Speaker 6 (59:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (59:20):
We've been turning up on time. Up, I'll be as
soon as I sit down. Do you want some water?
I want some bottle, especially if it's a long flight.
A good slug yo. I used to have a fall first,
give me that percent. Okay, I gotta get out of here.

Speaker 4 (59:39):
Yeah, me and draft because usually I'll be on the
back because I don't get my ship upgraded.

Speaker 2 (59:43):
So I'll be like, give me a drag back like
I got you.

Speaker 4 (59:48):
Yeah, I don't care.

Speaker 2 (59:49):
I'm a party.

Speaker 4 (59:50):
I don't care.

Speaker 2 (59:51):
Put me in roll thirty six, we turn it up
back in. You know what I'm saying. I know thirty six.
Sometimes I mean I will upgrade my flight.

Speaker 4 (59:58):
I mean, now I have I have an X, so
I get upgradat in ye, put me in the back.

Speaker 1 (01:00:03):
I don't give a Yeah, as long as I get
a window seat.

Speaker 4 (01:00:08):
Yeah, I'm gonna look out and I'm gonna have me
a good time.

Speaker 2 (01:00:11):
I'll stick a little tailor port bottle of a camp yeah. Minis.

Speaker 4 (01:00:20):
Have I ever gotten sick? No, but it's been a
time where I want to say it was. Maybe when
we were headed to Turks for Drea's birthday. I wasn't sick,
but when we landed, I was, I was turned I landed.
I was like, oh, I'm finna go drink some more.

Speaker 1 (01:00:35):
That's what happened to me once. Yeah, and that's when
I got carried into the room.

Speaker 4 (01:00:40):
I will say that that's playing etiquette. Don't get too
too lit.

Speaker 2 (01:00:44):
Yeah, don't have a limit.

Speaker 1 (01:00:45):
See, that's why I have to stop, because I started
early in the morning, and then I did it again
at the airport, and then I was doing it on
the plane, and it was a connecting flight, so you
had to crawl at the dag on that airport. And
that's when everything and.

Speaker 2 (01:01:00):
Went to the little. I do know my limits on
the plane.

Speaker 4 (01:01:02):
I don't know if it's because like the altitude you
of how so you feel it a little more.

Speaker 2 (01:01:06):
So I tend to know my limits, especially a moment
she said speaking us.

Speaker 4 (01:01:14):
I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I can drink a lot.

Speaker 2 (01:01:16):
I can. I used to. But you know what's crazy though.

Speaker 5 (01:01:19):
You don't say shut up, girl, but Dre knows it's
about me.

Speaker 2 (01:01:24):
I am a fun drunk.

Speaker 4 (01:01:26):
I'm not the kind of drunk that like cries and
gets in my feeling. I got now, I got I
like to pop my ship.

Speaker 2 (01:01:32):
I get drunk, I be like, do y'all know who
the fuck I am?

Speaker 4 (01:01:35):
You gonna stop playing with me?

Speaker 2 (01:01:38):
Who are you? Socky? So these bitches.

Speaker 4 (01:01:42):
When I started saying I was the first bitch with
a BBL, you host she was, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:01:49):
I just like to pop my ship. You are great.
I'm my god, I love a little BBL. Shoot. But
you weren't scared. You know, I got it long ago.
I was scared to be built like I was for
the rest of why I was bad built. Now, that's
what I was afraid of. That, that's the part that
was terrified.

Speaker 4 (01:02:09):
Terrified. I was like, I gotta walk around like this
change is gonna come.

Speaker 2 (01:02:13):
Oh my god.

Speaker 5 (01:02:14):
Lex is so dramatic, though, because nothing was nice before
she had the BBA.

Speaker 2 (01:02:18):
Oh no, I have mercy. There is nothing wrong with no. No,
I'm not asked, there's nothing. I just wanted a little
you know what it was. It's not that I was
looking for a big dump truck, Okay, I just wanted
a more you know, just a little hour glass because
I like the way that my clothes fit me now
a lot better.

Speaker 1 (01:02:35):
You know.

Speaker 2 (01:02:35):
It wasn't like, oh, if I'm going to get a BBA.
I'm going to attract a baller like it was never
like that.

Speaker 4 (01:02:40):
And I think that's why a lot of women have
gotten the surgery and really versing them.

Speaker 2 (01:02:44):
Now, isn't that weird to get that's what attracts them?

Speaker 1 (01:02:48):
Sometimes? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:02:49):
Yeah it is? What is?

Speaker 1 (01:02:50):
Why?

Speaker 2 (01:02:51):
Why? Just that? I don't know, it's so strange.

Speaker 1 (01:02:54):
And I won't say all of them, but it's I've
noticed with a lot of successful men, it seems like
there is only one bottle body type, whether it's like
really really slender or just literally like surgery.

Speaker 2 (01:03:06):
Yeah, And I think that's why. I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:03:09):
I never do anything for like the male gates because
I got a breast reduction to if.

Speaker 2 (01:03:13):
They hate that. Wow, I used to have to buy
extra seat for them in a plane. I just know,
Yeah you got about two seats now, No, you did
that was big? I tell people, And I used to cook.
I would burn them on the stone. No you did it.

Speaker 1 (01:03:28):
I can't cook, just be sitting on it, seriously, did you?

Speaker 2 (01:03:40):
That's good? It was a long day.

Speaker 1 (01:03:42):
No, I feel like you could. You could lick your nipples?

Speaker 2 (01:03:46):
Yeah, oh yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:03:49):
Sometimes I would have to throw them under my shoulder,
throw them back, and I wash under their lip on
the side thee oh my, they was big and hefty.
What motherfuckers was they?

Speaker 2 (01:04:07):
I have no kids? What the fuck you big for?

Speaker 5 (01:04:09):
You ain't need nobody, and they were gonna get they
were gonna I will say, I have big ass shoulders
still to this day from my brawls.

Speaker 4 (01:04:17):
Shout out to Lane Brun They had some motherfucking brawls
in there. Because I ain't flixing right now. I'm not flexing,
just saying. I'm just saying though. So, yeah, I did
everything I did because it's like I want to feel
confident in my p I want to feel better, and
I was like, I did this for me, So I
say all had to say. I just think that it's
crazy that the things that a lot of us do

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for the mail gates, because it's like these niggas gonna
be here and they gonna want it.

Speaker 2 (01:04:44):
If it's if it's a whole in this web, they're
gonna want it. I will never get my boobs done, yeah,
I mean keep getting them redone. Yeah that chars. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:04:56):
Someone said you don't have to do them every ten years. Well,
all that to people who have their boobs get oberated.

Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
What is it called contracture or something that happens.

Speaker 5 (01:05:08):
It's like when the silicone ruptures in the the muscle
around the partings, because now it's like foreign, a foreign yeah,
to your body.

Speaker 2 (01:05:18):
Right, Yeah, and you can get infections.

Speaker 1 (01:05:20):
And this woman was talking about how her face was
getting disfigured because of the infections.

Speaker 4 (01:05:24):
Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (01:05:25):
Yeah, I'm just I would never.

Speaker 1 (01:05:26):
Yeah, I think boobs should just hang the way they're
naturally supposed to write.

Speaker 2 (01:05:32):
And I'm thirty four.

Speaker 1 (01:05:33):
I don't need my boobs to touch the sky fiasco
Kanye need.

Speaker 2 (01:05:39):
I don't need them to touch the.

Speaker 4 (01:05:40):
Skuy because I got them removed so they I got
them pulled up today.

Speaker 2 (01:05:44):
But they still hang a little bit. They're gonna hang.

Speaker 1 (01:05:48):
Hang now mine are up a little kind of they
look nice. Hers comes down, they come down.

Speaker 5 (01:05:56):
And I love it, Okay, even with implants. After a
while they start to hang a little bit too.

Speaker 2 (01:06:01):
Yeah, yeah, I love that it happens over time.

Speaker 1 (01:06:04):
If I honestly, who knows. If I wasn't scared of death,
I don't know. Maybe I would have done something.

Speaker 4 (01:06:12):
But I don't think you need anything though, Like you
have the type of body like, you don't need nothing
you don't like. Sometimes I'll be like, I'll see a
little titty, I'm like you, you need to reduce it
a little bit because the.

Speaker 2 (01:06:23):
Bag, I'm telling you, the bag.

Speaker 4 (01:06:25):
And honestly, I would say this, the only woman I
have ever seen who has really big breast and everything
worse for her.

Speaker 2 (01:06:30):
It's niecey net. But she gets you can tell she
gets things tailored. You get it.

Speaker 4 (01:06:36):
Like I mean, if my breast, if I could have
the money that I did, like she had, I probably
would have got them done. But they don't make things
to fit big breasted women.

Speaker 2 (01:06:44):
Yeah, she got the bugs, she got the tailor she
got so it looks she carries it so well.

Speaker 4 (01:06:49):
But other than that, they're not making things for you know,
the big breasted women to feel comfortable. And so it's
like stuff I got a triangle on trying to look
like a little mini circle.

Speaker 2 (01:07:00):
You know what I'm saying. You can't fit them. Yeah,
but that's all right. We live and we learn and
we move on. Amen.

Speaker 4 (01:07:06):
Amen, sisters. I don't know how we got from planes
to cities, but yes, I know.

Speaker 2 (01:07:11):
We didn't even get to talk about the unspoken rules.
What's the unspoken rule?

Speaker 4 (01:07:14):
Well, I mean I feel like everybody has like their
unspoken rules when you're on a plane, just things that
you feel like it's common courtesy.

Speaker 5 (01:07:21):
Like for me, if I'm on a plane, you need
to have headphones in. But why are you playing your
music on your iPad? Or why are you playing your
music on your phone louds or what you can hear
you even if you're talking on the phone. Same because
you know people be talking on the phone before we
take off. I do that, you do, I both with

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you and you get around you need to get you know,
belong in the airport.

Speaker 1 (01:07:48):
I just doesn't feel like I didn't feel like connecting
my headphones and I know the guy out, but like
once we took off, I put my headphones right, okay.

Speaker 4 (01:07:57):
I also feel like, don't if we're sitting next to
each other and I got my headphones in, we don't
need to talk. I don't like when the person they
send me start check if they fine talk to me, yeah,
if they're but I have I don't think.

Speaker 2 (01:08:09):
But that happens rarely rare. It should just be like
somebody real fine on the plane, very very rare. I
always get said by older people.

Speaker 4 (01:08:19):
Yeah, I've never ran into somebody fine on the plane
have it was wine, but yeah, like we exchanged numbers
but nothing came from it.

Speaker 2 (01:08:29):
It was fine too. It was like he was like
from Hawaii or something like six months. I mean that's
the moment. Yeah, he did. He had one kid, but
you know why I saw out y'all his baby mama
was white. Kids was a little too clear for me.

Speaker 1 (01:08:51):
No, they wrong with that sometimes, you know, you like
all kinds of women.

Speaker 2 (01:08:57):
That doesn't scare me.

Speaker 1 (01:08:58):
I've fayed people who've had all kinds of dated all
kinds of people.

Speaker 2 (01:09:02):
I don't know if I want someone with a.

Speaker 1 (01:09:04):
Specific type Necessarily, I want them to fall in love
with me. And I feel so special like and and
he feels special as well.

Speaker 4 (01:09:13):
Yeah, well, I think the thing that kind of turned
me from him because I don't want you to say, oh,
I've never dated somebody like you before.

Speaker 2 (01:09:21):
Oh yeah, don't tell me that what you mean, think it?
But don't tell me a loud, bad bitch with a
fat ass what you're trying to say. But I like,
how do you know that he meant black? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:09:32):
My therapist would, yeah, challenge my thinking, you're right, you.

Speaker 2 (01:09:38):
Just look at that way. It that way right, Get
off of my line.

Speaker 1 (01:09:42):
You probably had the most beautiful, kissable lips.

Speaker 4 (01:09:45):
Oh he was fine.

Speaker 2 (01:09:46):
I think I still follow him as him about it. Hey,
what do you mean by that? Are you racist?

Speaker 7 (01:09:52):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:09:53):
You know crazy? The reason.

Speaker 4 (01:09:58):
He was trying to hang out, he would like, he
was like, oh, I got I gotta come to Atlanta
for work.

Speaker 2 (01:10:02):
But it just never went anywhere. I don't know. I
just wasn't interested. And then at the time it was like,
I am, look y'all love it might be nice.

Speaker 1 (01:10:12):
I would love Let me not say what I want
someone who looks some He did, He definitely did.

Speaker 2 (01:10:20):
He was a cute guy. But I love fine, fine
pretty people.

Speaker 4 (01:10:25):
I love a fine couple. I just said that today
because they have posted a picture of Serena and Cordell.

Speaker 2 (01:10:31):
From Love Is.

Speaker 14 (01:10:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:10:32):
I was like, that is a fine, beautiful couple, Like
they're just both really let me see what my phone?
Oh yeah, you know what, I'm gonna pull it up because.

Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
I saw that picture earlier. Yes, I feel like.

Speaker 4 (01:10:44):
Serena is so cute. And then Cordell is what's his name,
Odell Beckham's brother.

Speaker 2 (01:10:50):
There's a way this is an I got it, I
got it. There they go, I'll be hooking him drinks up. Yeah,
that's a that's a fine couple. They're saxe right. Oh
they're beautiful. That was a good season.

Speaker 15 (01:11:06):
It looks.

Speaker 4 (01:11:09):
And they tiktoks together. They were seasons seven, six or seven.

Speaker 2 (01:11:16):
It's a lot of fun people on that seaton.

Speaker 4 (01:11:18):
Because Leah and Miguel, Miguel. Leah is fine and Miguel
is fine. It's just a lot of fine.

Speaker 1 (01:11:23):
I want them to do a thick season, you know
what they should up.

Speaker 2 (01:11:27):
That would you go on there? What you are on
a show like that?

Speaker 1 (01:11:29):
You would do a celebrity season as well, because I
really would like to date someone. I think it could
be cute if if that that or like love is Blind,
I would totally if they did a celebrity edition, I
would love to do that.

Speaker 2 (01:11:44):
Oh my wow, But I'd be scared. Why. I don't know.
You'd be scared.

Speaker 5 (01:11:51):
Is it because you just I don't know, Like you're
talking to this person but you can't see them, and then.

Speaker 2 (01:11:57):
You don't know if you're really getting to know the
real them. Right.

Speaker 1 (01:12:00):
It does feel like a setup for heartbreak, unless you
genuinely do meet someone like genuine So it's cool when
it's when it's.

Speaker 2 (01:12:07):
Good, but I imagine it to be traumatizing when it's not.

Speaker 4 (01:12:10):
It doesn't work out, And honestly, I'm sorry. I love
my love is not blind, baby. There's your hairline intact?

Speaker 2 (01:12:17):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (01:12:17):
I cannot?

Speaker 2 (01:12:18):
I need Yeah, I love my love is not blind, babe.
I need to see what you look line on your side.

Speaker 4 (01:12:29):
And I'm tallness like, I'm a tall girl, but and
I wear high heels, so I don't care if I'm
like taller than the.

Speaker 2 (01:12:34):
Man with me. Oh nice, Okay, what five five? If
you're five five, I'm not dating a five to five man.

Speaker 1 (01:12:40):
Oh I could totally date a five, but you're not
five eight.

Speaker 2 (01:12:44):
I'm six one in my heel.

Speaker 1 (01:12:45):
Could you date a five six?

Speaker 7 (01:12:47):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:12:47):
Could you date a five to seven? You have to
be at least five eight.

Speaker 4 (01:12:50):
I'll do my I like that. I'll do at least
five eight.

Speaker 2 (01:12:53):
I'll do five five. How tall are you five six?

Speaker 4 (01:12:57):
See? I mean that's in the same area, y'all in
the same I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:13:01):
Just like the money, the money tall he could stand
on it. Yeah, yeah, I feel because I've seen some
fine beautiful men.

Speaker 2 (01:13:09):
That's how usually it's maybe short humh.

Speaker 5 (01:13:10):
But I feel like short men being angry no one,
oh yeah, maybe a little they be a little mad
little yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:13:19):
Yeah, yeah, he was very emotional and angry.

Speaker 4 (01:13:23):
I beg and don't let him have to look at that.

Speaker 2 (01:13:26):
I feel like they mean because they feel cheatey. Yeah yeah,
yeah they do. They feel like I got the short
end of the stick. Yeah, get literally, you know what
I'm saying. They don't like that ship.

Speaker 4 (01:13:39):
They want to take it out on you because you
mad because I got the height. Don't let like we're
not doing that, you.

Speaker 2 (01:13:44):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:13:45):
So I think there's certain I don't like I said,
I can do five eight because we're in the.

Speaker 2 (01:13:49):
Same region, you know, area or whatever. But I could
do like five eight. But yeah, but you were little.
You can't do the same height as you. Yeah, I can't.

Speaker 4 (01:13:58):
I can't do nobody this five to No yeah, no, no, no,
that's a little too.

Speaker 1 (01:14:05):
We can't do nothing with definitely shading the short men.

Speaker 4 (01:14:08):
I don't think so, because I think there's women out
there for them, because all tall is when facts facts, Yeah,
she like five feet a little shorter than me.

Speaker 2 (01:14:18):
So she could date like a five four man and
that would be no mean all damn. But they're raising
that sall. Don't disrespect what they do the same thing
to me. They be like, oh you a linebacker, you big?
No no, oh yeah, you're not.

Speaker 4 (01:14:37):
A linebacker though, okay they I'll go play for the
fam right now, no please. But I say that because
it goes both ways. Just like people make fun of
little men, they may have tall or bigger. Like, I'm
not trying to be funny. It was never cool to
be like the tall girl, or to be tall and
thick and this and that. That is just something that

(01:14:58):
has became a thing recently. Yeah, it was never like Honestly,
when I used to wear heels, I didn't. I used
to wear flats all the time, like a little baby
kitting hill. Then I got someone where like, well, I
don't care because I like big heels. But it ain't
been all, oh my god, we stallions now Megan made
that ship? Cool?

Speaker 2 (01:15:16):
Yees? For real?

Speaker 4 (01:15:16):
You know what I'm saying Because usually in the industry too,
there's not a lot of tall women industry. Every time
I go in the bent, I'm like, dang, you small,
small everybody.

Speaker 2 (01:15:27):
Yeah, people, I never imagined Yah, yeah, yeah maybe tiny
you ready to get into the band.

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Like, yeah, you're gonna feel like this. You're gonna start
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Body water because I don't even know if ola is natural.

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Speaker 4 (01:19:58):
Jackie, we're gonna see about again. Okay, we're gonna get
to the topic. So the topic for today is crying
while you climb.

Speaker 2 (01:20:10):
You know, a time you have that emotional release and
you'd be like, baby, I love you, this is my man.
We fitna get married.

Speaker 4 (01:20:16):
Okay, like, sometimes I feel like an orgasm is like
built up tension within the body and then whenever you
release it. Sometimes it may be an emotional thing, like
you feel like you're connecting to this person, and sometimes
it might just be like a physical thing where you
just feel like, oh my gosh, I had to get that.

Speaker 2 (01:20:31):
I just itched that scratch.

Speaker 4 (01:20:33):
You know what I'm saying. So have y'all ever cried
or shed a tear while that orgasm? Look like you
about to cry right now thinking about it? I am
what a beautiful emotion.

Speaker 2 (01:20:44):
I did.

Speaker 5 (01:20:45):
I definitely cried during sex before it felt like that
Maxwell song.

Speaker 2 (01:20:56):
I felt it gonna try to get me stood with you.

Speaker 4 (01:21:01):
I'm gonna be waiting on you at the du Okay,
I'm like, hey girl, I want.

Speaker 2 (01:21:05):
To go to the studio yesterday. I want to go
to let me know. Yes, so great? In that moment,
was it more of a physical thing or emotional boats?
It was boats like I was really in love with
the person.

Speaker 5 (01:21:19):
But then also you know it was I think for women,
and we don't talk about this that much, but you know,
for most women, it's really hard to climax from penetration alone.
Like most women always say that it usually only happens
when they get head. So I feel like that was
the first time that that had ever happened to me.
So it was a moment where was crying for Wow,

(01:21:39):
So your first time that I climax from penetration.

Speaker 2 (01:21:42):
Wait a minute, A minute, Wait a minute, wait a minute.
When was this yesterday?

Speaker 7 (01:21:46):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:21:47):
No, it was a long time ago. It was like
maybe like five years ago.

Speaker 1 (01:21:51):
No, because this is really inspired. Yeah, because sometimes I wonder, like,
will it ever happen for me? Really, I had a baby.
I feel like, you know how it feels like after
you come like that, that the feeling of what is
that pulsating?

Speaker 2 (01:22:07):
Yeah? Yeah, I felt that.

Speaker 1 (01:22:10):
I felt that while having sex. I don't know what
that is like when it I don't know what that is.
But I've never felt like a full blown orgasm the
way I feel like getting ahead or like, yeah, pleasing myself.

Speaker 2 (01:22:24):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 4 (01:22:25):
I think that's because I think when women and I'm
not speaking for all women, I'm just speaking for myself
because I think most of the time, when women have
an orgasm from penetration, there has to be some kind
of emotional component. Yeah, I have never had an orgasm
from penetration.

Speaker 2 (01:22:43):
We were just like doing it and wow, this is Yeah,
it's an emotional connection.

Speaker 1 (01:22:51):
From horn to have you thinking like dang, I'm like,
I'm so behind not but yeah, I imagine that too.

Speaker 2 (01:23:00):
If I'm in a.

Speaker 1 (01:23:01):
Deep, beautiful relationship, maybe that'll happen for me. And like
with my first boyfriend, like he was the one that
actually made me come for the first time, like be ahead,
because I always thought it would never happen. But and
I think that's probably why I was so into him,
like you really did this for me, and I never
thought it would happen, right, thank you, And one time

(01:23:21):
it happened three times and one, oh god, in one
session it.

Speaker 2 (01:23:27):
Was just wow, we're gonna have to call, right, But no,
I think he's about to be married.

Speaker 4 (01:23:34):
Damn well watching Mary Okay, Yeah, but I think like
clitoral stimulation, it's a physical thing. It's a feeling. So
that's easy. You know, you get here, you get things
done to you whatever like that. That's one hundred percent physical,
But inside there's not really the.

Speaker 2 (01:23:51):
G spot is not really I mean it's but it's
like I'm just so ready to explode in that way. Yes,
I am. So you gotta keep in mind that please
and port that don't even be climax super real and

(01:24:15):
it be.

Speaker 4 (01:24:15):
P Yeah, they just be drinking a lot of water,
so it's not even their acting. Yeah, acting, you know
what I'm saying. But I do feel like, like I said,
but that's.

Speaker 1 (01:24:24):
Still a talent, because how do you force yourself to
like just piss at anytime.

Speaker 2 (01:24:30):
If you drink a lot of water before. No, that't talent.
I can do that. Let me finish. I'm finna gonna
be ready to go. I'm going down. I'm going crazy,
you know what I'm saying. But no, I try and
make that next time.

Speaker 5 (01:24:51):
I definitely think it's an emotional component for sure, because
that was the first time that I really feel in
love too.

Speaker 2 (01:24:57):
Wow, yeah, I love you. I said. It was like
I said, enduring. Look, Oh I belying? Have you faked it?
Those beautiful ever faked the orgasm? Never? Never?

Speaker 1 (01:25:10):
I would never, ever in my life really oh sorry,
but I would never. I'm not gonna lie to you.
You're gonna know nothing happened, but this was good or
this was okay, okay, but no, I would never for
their fun.

Speaker 2 (01:25:25):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 4 (01:25:26):
When I was in my early twenties, I definitely was
a faker. I mean it's probably men walking around right
now like I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:25:32):
A little loud, but I've never been like, oh baby,
I can yeah, I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:25:37):
Yeah, I'm never because that's the reason.

Speaker 5 (01:25:40):
That's truly the reason why I feel like so many
men walking around with bad zeke and anything that's good
because the women.

Speaker 2 (01:25:45):
Be lying it.

Speaker 4 (01:25:47):
I'll take the blame for that, or like she said,
you don't have to be rude about it, but I'm
not gonna tell you it was good if you ask
them to be like you.

Speaker 2 (01:25:53):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 4 (01:25:54):
Yeah, God damn it.

Speaker 2 (01:25:57):
Do you think it'll ever happen for me? I think
it's definitely well.

Speaker 4 (01:26:01):
When you fall in love, yeah, I think it's gonna
come from like you feeling like in that moment, are
you even if you're still not with that person right now,
in that moment, you feel like this is.

Speaker 2 (01:26:13):
What I pray for. Yeah, this is the man.

Speaker 4 (01:26:16):
I know God sent you here for this, Like you
really have to feel that it's not you faking being extra,
that's really what you feel in the moment, and do
it go away?

Speaker 2 (01:26:25):
Sometimes afterward that post met clarity gonna hit you a
little bittime everything.

Speaker 4 (01:26:29):
But in the moment, it's like y'all have emotionally connected
Like it's just a moment where you just feel like
nothing matters but me and this person.

Speaker 2 (01:26:37):
I think it's definitely gonna happen for you. I think
it is sometimes be like.

Speaker 4 (01:26:40):
A mental blockage too, like I feel like it can't
happen unless like it can't happen if you're thinking about it.

Speaker 1 (01:26:47):
Yeah, I do feel like anything is possible because I
really didn't think it would happen via orals. The fact
that it did it is like that blew my mind. Really,
this is happening. It'll surprise you always it happened.

Speaker 2 (01:27:02):
All right, y'all, Well, you just gotta find a good
a good partner, a good Yeah that to that two.

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Okay, so now it's time to get into the bop
A the vibe bow the bob boo boo bow bow bow.
So bop of the week is whatever music that we've
been jamming this week, and it's crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:27:45):
Because you did bring this song up. I was like,
I want to make this my bop of.

Speaker 4 (01:27:47):
The week because well, obviously you told us nobody's phoning
you up in the pretzel. So my bop of the
week is our Lenox pretzel. But the reason I'm making
the bop is because when I was listening to it,
I was like, that's crazy because women, you know, sometimes
a man do be folding us up. And this is
not my story to tell, but my best friend had
a situation where a man was folding her up and
she started crying because he was hurting her.

Speaker 2 (01:28:09):
He put her legs so far behind her head and
he was a big guy. Oh no, and she was like.

Speaker 10 (01:28:16):
I wanted to have the finish and it was like, wait,
this is so sad, big ass to get Yes, I
was she scared.

Speaker 2 (01:28:29):
No, she wasn't scared.

Speaker 4 (01:28:29):
Because it was the guy she was dating. It was
like the first time they had sex and.

Speaker 2 (01:28:32):
This is a big guy. My friend is little, she's
like five three, she's so little and she.

Speaker 4 (01:28:37):
Was like he put his hands, his hands, I guess
were like on her knees and he was like leaning
on them and he was on top and she was
like it was so, it's not funny. But I think
a lot of times women, you know, we're getting the
baby like, yeah, I'm finna put my leg then you know,
if you're gonna only do the R split, you can't
be putting some hands next behind you.

Speaker 2 (01:28:58):
You know what I'm saying. You gotta so sometimes being
folded up like a pretzel. That may be for the
more experienced girls.

Speaker 1 (01:29:06):
Yeah, and if you not, I'm gonna start frightening.

Speaker 2 (01:29:08):
Yeah, I told her an kill me.

Speaker 4 (01:29:10):
I'm not gonna lie. And there's been certain positions that
you know you're getting a little too.

Speaker 2 (01:29:15):
Hey, this doesn't Yeah, absolutely not. I was my hip.

Speaker 4 (01:29:20):
Yes, I said you lucky because imagine if someone would
just yeah, I think this man is so big.

Speaker 2 (01:29:29):
I was like, I am so she's in a relationship
with him.

Speaker 4 (01:29:31):
No, they were talking, they were dating, and I not anymore.
But I was like, he could have literally broke your head. Yes,
Nigga was big as hell.

Speaker 2 (01:29:40):
Yeah, Harry, and it's.

Speaker 1 (01:29:41):
Danger Yeah, tell him, got to tell him and I
understand if she was afraid or uncomfortable to do that.

Speaker 2 (01:29:47):
No, she was afraid. He was just like I just
wanted him thinking out.

Speaker 4 (01:29:51):
She wanted to put that pussy on him. Yeah, that's
what she wanted to. You know, you be like, yeah,
she said the tears feel.

Speaker 1 (01:29:59):
I said, he found that sounds and he because he
was getting right.

Speaker 2 (01:30:08):
No, we gotta tell these we have.

Speaker 4 (01:30:14):
Up literally, So that's my bobble that we are a
Linux pressor but only getting that. Preszel if you're capable again, pretzel, lot.

Speaker 1 (01:30:21):
Don't let him take you out too much.

Speaker 2 (01:30:24):
What you've been listening to.

Speaker 5 (01:30:25):
Okay, So I cannot remember if we said this was
a vibe. I think we had a guess and they
said it was day vibe. But today's my vibe.

Speaker 2 (01:30:33):
I really like t our new song.

Speaker 4 (01:30:35):
Let them.

Speaker 2 (01:30:38):
Good. The old niggas is back. What I'm telling you,
the old niggas have to say the young niggas.

Speaker 1 (01:30:44):
It has a nice boss and.

Speaker 2 (01:30:46):
It was for real.

Speaker 4 (01:30:51):
Yeah that's what I was gonna say. I had my
gym playlist. Yes it's so good.

Speaker 2 (01:30:58):
I just a vibe.

Speaker 4 (01:30:59):
I'm not gonna lie talking like you know, more seasoned
rappers gotta be like, Okay, we're coming back, and niggas
ain't doing it. The girls have completely taken over the
rap scene, and so t I had to say, let
me come back and show.

Speaker 2 (01:31:12):
You little niggas how to do it.

Speaker 4 (01:31:13):
Me and my vocabulary are back to obliterating.

Speaker 2 (01:31:17):
Yes, yeah, wait, the album I think is about to
come out, so we excited. Yeah, shout out too? What
you were listening to? Wow? What have I been?

Speaker 1 (01:31:27):
I mean, well, was I listening to Oh My Body,
All over my body?

Speaker 2 (01:31:34):
LG right, it's over my.

Speaker 7 (01:31:40):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:31:41):
Now you went, that's a classic. Remember when that song dropped,
that video dropped? Remember that? Yes, I remember when the
video came out for you.

Speaker 4 (01:31:54):
Sixteen Wait, there's no way, Imber, but you're the six me.

Speaker 2 (01:32:00):
The reason I was when you were sixteen? No, I
was not came out when I was listen.

Speaker 4 (01:32:10):
But the reason I said is because growing up I
was so into music and why Like most of the
kids were watching like Pokemon and Ship, I was always
watching like Oprah and BT.

Speaker 2 (01:32:19):
I was watching all the videos.

Speaker 4 (01:32:21):
I grew up watching videos galore. So when that video
came out, I used to think, like Keith Sweat was
like everything.

Speaker 1 (01:32:28):
I was like this is my He is everything I was.

Speaker 2 (01:32:32):
I thought, and still to this day, when he gets
drunk on stage. I love a drunk ass nigga. Okay,
they'd be like, I don't killing me. I'm thinking he
gets drunk down and I, oh my god. So till

(01:32:53):
this day he still does it for me. I don't
care what nobody said. I love him.

Speaker 1 (01:32:57):
I love cut close. Yeah, god, everything surrender.

Speaker 2 (01:33:02):
I like luck change. So you got the good r
and b y this nostalgic arm. Yes, okay, what we
got next?

Speaker 9 (01:33:14):
Dry?

Speaker 4 (01:33:15):
So now I was time to get into our favorite
segment of the show. So we're going to get into
the bottled up segment because y'all know this episode is
sponsored by.

Speaker 2 (01:33:22):
Taylor Fork period Beach. So I fucked my favorite rapper.
I low key manifested it.

Speaker 15 (01:33:30):
I met him in September and I said, I'm going
to keep getting on his nigga nerves until he fall
in love with me.

Speaker 2 (01:33:36):
So then.

Speaker 15 (01:33:38):
I fucked on him in February and bach I love
him and we still be communicating commerdiat.

Speaker 2 (01:33:47):
How do I keep him? I want to keep him?
What do I do? What do I do? That man
is not for the stable. I don't know. I mean
you probably would be in his rotation for a minute.

Speaker 1 (01:34:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:34:03):
I don't think there's anything to do to keep a rapper, Yeah,
a rapper I feel like dating wanting to date and
have sex with the rappers and the athletes. It's like
never a good way to go. And then it's like
y'all already fugged.

Speaker 2 (01:34:18):
I mean, it happens. Sometimes it's not the way to
go because I mean, he could end.

Speaker 5 (01:34:22):
Up really liking you. But I don't know if it's
anything specific that you should do.

Speaker 2 (01:34:26):
Just be yourself.

Speaker 4 (01:34:27):
And you can't keep who don't want to be kept.
Will Yeah, you can't keep nobody who don't want to
be kept. At the end of the day, like, if
he wants to still be with you and be around,
he gonna be around. And when he don't, he don't.
So there's nothing you can do. But congratulations on getting that, Dick.
I'm happy for you, you know, I mean, manifestation is real.
Maybe manifest something a little more positive next time.

Speaker 2 (01:34:50):
But I'm with your sis.

Speaker 4 (01:34:51):
I'm with your sis.

Speaker 1 (01:34:52):
What you think, Gary, I think if they were supposed
to be together, they would have been together by now.

Speaker 2 (01:34:59):
She's is that when they start.

Speaker 4 (01:35:00):
Fucking February, but she's been like going after him since September.

Speaker 1 (01:35:05):
Why are you going after him? Is like it's already
over you chasing him. He is not the prize girl.

Speaker 4 (01:35:13):
Yeah, Amy, Well, you know I saw on TikTok the
girls were saying, now what they do? I don't know
what era that we're in right now, the girls being thirsty.
But they'll like post a really cute video of them
on Instagram and they'll tag their favorite rappers and athletes
and like hide the name, so you know, they'll say,
at mentioned you and know, go look at their video
and they're like, oh my god, girl, it works. I've

(01:35:35):
had so many athletes and rappers and now they be
in my dns. It's like girls, yeah, but I've.

Speaker 1 (01:35:40):
Been I've been thirsty all my life. I'm tired of
being thirsty.

Speaker 2 (01:35:44):
You used to do that? No, not that just saying
like yeah, I used.

Speaker 1 (01:35:51):
To slide in people's dms like hey, but I realized
I don't know, it's just nothing was coming out of it. Yeah,
and I just felt, really, I don't know, just it
just wouldn't come go anywhere.

Speaker 2 (01:36:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:36:03):
It's something about a man knowing that you wanted him first.
That just never ends up.

Speaker 2 (01:36:08):
Well, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:36:09):
I just want someone to see me and be sure
about me immediately and go after it and go after me.
I can't chase, no man like that's his job.

Speaker 2 (01:36:18):
I agree. I won't make you like chase forever.

Speaker 1 (01:36:21):
Or anything like.

Speaker 2 (01:36:23):
I want to be sure that you are sure and
in my face absolutely to being women's Yeah, let them
come to you.

Speaker 1 (01:36:33):
Yes, all right, Well but they say, you know, you
can smile things like that. I can realize him little
eye contact, which is really hard for.

Speaker 5 (01:36:41):
Me, Like, yeah, so I don't know, why do you
feel like it's awkward trying to make the eye contact?

Speaker 1 (01:36:49):
Because like what if I like look look at them
like dead in their eyes and then they look away.

Speaker 2 (01:36:54):
That's where you keep looking, keep looking. But what if
he's just like.

Speaker 1 (01:37:02):
Right, that's what I'm afraid of, like that and scared.

Speaker 4 (01:37:11):
But I'm like, but if you get the right man
the eye, he's gonna know to come and talk to you.
And if not, that's not the right man for you.

Speaker 2 (01:37:17):
Absolutely.

Speaker 1 (01:37:18):
One guy, I was just standing at this concert or whatever,
and he came to me and it was like a
movie and he was fine, and he just walked real slowly.
Eye contact never left. He just started talking to me
and it was just hot.

Speaker 2 (01:37:37):
I can't tell you. Damn damn, it was getting juiced.
He's one of the ones I less slide. Okay, shouldn't
have did that. Maybe he was in the blog. He
might see this.

Speaker 1 (01:37:49):
No he won't. It's a wrap.

Speaker 2 (01:37:52):
Damn all right, last one it up? I did.

Speaker 16 (01:38:02):
Hey guys, Okay, So basically, I'm calling because my my,
the nigga I mess with with. We've been messing with
each other for about four years. Four years, we've been
cracking doing all that, you know. Cool, But he's not
my nigga. Like I only say that as a r

(01:38:22):
like he's not my nigga. Like like, no, he'll never
be my nigga. And why do you acts because he's
a bum like he's broke, he's broke, he doesn't go
to school, he's he's he's kind of bummy. He does
he takes parks like it's just a lot going on
and that's not me, like, like, we're definitely not on

(01:38:42):
the state, like I'm I'm really a suburban dude.

Speaker 4 (01:38:45):
I'm really a suburban doe. I'm not with all that.
But he got good dick.

Speaker 16 (01:38:49):
So it's like, I'm not mind you. I'm young, like
like we not girls. It's like not that that's an
excuse to be bummy, but that makes even scarier you
feel me?

Speaker 2 (01:38:57):
So, yeah, that's that.

Speaker 4 (01:38:59):
What should I do?

Speaker 2 (01:39:00):
Fucking are you giving him that ass? Why are you
off a parky? No, but the dick don't be a slinky.

Speaker 1 (01:39:11):
Oh yeah when he does give him like, yeah, really terrible. Yeah,
I would not recommend.

Speaker 4 (01:39:19):
Yeah, I think you need to stop because honestly, I
do believe energy is transferable. Whenever you you haven't sex
with this man for four years, you're gonna wake up
and you were like, damn, I quit my job.

Speaker 2 (01:39:28):
Damn I'm a bum too that Yeah, I.

Speaker 1 (01:39:30):
Don't like the word bum that's me. Yeah, but yeah,
stop giving him that ass.

Speaker 4 (01:39:38):
Four years is four years too long?

Speaker 2 (01:39:40):
Four years fours? Wow? No, honey, yeah you nobody. She
says she's young, but it's like, yeah, I don't know, honey, baby,
I don't.

Speaker 4 (01:39:55):
I just feel like you don't need sex that bad.
You don't need sex that bad. It like I feel
like it's an easy thing to break off because you
don't even like him.

Speaker 1 (01:40:04):
I need it again that's the answer.

Speaker 4 (01:40:07):
M So good luck, good luck, my good.

Speaker 6 (01:40:13):
Go.

Speaker 1 (01:40:14):
There's so many guys, so many guys.

Speaker 4 (01:40:18):
All right, y'all, Okay, this was so much funny. Yes,
So let everybody know where they can find you.

Speaker 2 (01:40:27):
What you got going on? All that good stuff outside
of bacon. Should I put on some whip gloss it?
Do they look dry?

Speaker 7 (01:40:34):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:40:38):
Yep?

Speaker 1 (01:40:39):
Okay, So y'all can find me at ari lenox dot
com or Instagram, Facebook. I have a tour coming up,
the Vacancy Tour. I dropped an album called Vacancy, So yeah,
come and join me on tour. We're gonna get real
sexy and sensual. Can't wait to see y'all period.

Speaker 2 (01:40:56):
This was so much fun yeses, So y'all having me
make sure check in Yes, So make sure y'all check
out lovelex p every Monday at ten a m. And
make sure you go toa muse me the Collection dot com.
Bye y'all, Bye.

Speaker 14 (01:41:13):
A wise man, I couldn't cut it as a poor
man's feeling kind of living as a blinder.

Speaker 1 (01:41:20):
I'm sick gonna say, well, let us sense feeling this.

Speaker 9 (01:41:23):
She's how you remind me, This is how you reminded
me what I really This is how you remind me
of what I really am.

Speaker 14 (01:41:40):
It's not like you she sorry, what's different story? It's
time I'm mistaken for Hender.

Speaker 12 (01:41:49):
You're a homeworld breaking our beer, wrong, our face down
in the bottlemore airy in my worlds and my hair
scream mall we haven't fun yet.

Speaker 6 (01:42:04):
Yeah yeah no no, yeah, yeah, yeah no.

Speaker 3 (01:42:12):
No, it's not like I don't oder I said I
love you when I swear I still do and almost
up being soberl c I live and Muslim killed you.

Speaker 14 (01:42:24):
This is how you remind me of what I really am.
This is how you remind me what I really am.
It's not like you say sorry, now I'm getting no
the difference. Sorry, this time I mistaken for in.

Speaker 12 (01:42:45):
Your hardwork, breaking being bro, I've been a fucking bottle
of my Harry bottle.

Speaker 4 (01:42:52):
These pot words in my hair scream all we haven't
thought years.

Speaker 6 (01:42:58):
Yeah yeah yeah no no yeah yeah yeah no no.

Speaker 2 (01:43:14):
No yeah girl, no no.

Speaker 7 (01:43:24):
Yes now already I was white there you remind me, well,
I really it's not like you say sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:43:38):
No, I was waiting on my dear friend.

Speaker 14 (01:43:40):
Sorry, And this time I'm gonna say I'll go ahead
of your horror break.

Speaker 4 (01:43:48):
I'll bend down the fucking bottom of every fucking bottles
and then you sh my hair and I'm a fucking
didn't have we fucking yet.

Speaker 11 (01:44:00):
Yeah at the bottom of that oh yeah yeah, and
then your hair.

Speaker 2 (01:44:18):
Yeah, so nice to meet you. Yeah, like a AU
fought it was

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