Pour Minds: Cause And Effect ft. Deante’ Kyle

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Somebody had made the thing like, oh, Future can't rap
no more?

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Stop it, stop near this. I don't. I ain't gonna
lie man. I'm starting to get agentes bro. I don't
want to hear that pins of people younger than twenty five?

Speaker 3 (00:12):
No moss again old yeah, oh Future Bro, shut up, Bro.

Speaker 4 (00:18):
The people was Brandy.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Doing the run?

Speaker 1 (00:22):
That national anthem was beautiful. It was Brandy Brandy, like,
let's stop it.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
There's a lot of revisionist history that be happening with
niggas that we gotta stop.

Speaker 4 (00:31):
We gotta stop, do we do?

Speaker 1 (00:32):
I'll stop acting like Whitney Houston herself didn't say.

Speaker 4 (00:34):
Brandy was the most like.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Stop like Christina aguilaric and saying, y'all don't do this.

Speaker 3 (00:43):
I want to shoot baby.

Speaker 5 (00:46):
I'm sorry, Mike.

Speaker 1 (01:24):
What's up, y'all? It's your girl lexp and it's your
girls training a call and you are tuned in to
another episode of poor Mind.

Speaker 6 (01:32):
Where drunk mind speaks, So birthday.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
We gotta guess today, we gotta guess saday. Okay, when
y'all were first introduced to him, now mind you let
me say this, y'all did ask for this guest because
y'all say, I'd be lying, but y'all was asking for
him in the comment. They have been and y'all been
asking for it, and we delivered. Y'all first introduced to
him on tiptok Now he has a banging podcast. Y'all

(01:57):
seen him on Breakfast Club.

Speaker 4 (01:58):
He's been everywhere.

Speaker 1 (02:00):
If you get on social media, y'all have seen his
clips going viral. He's known for keeping it real, keeping
it one hundred.

Speaker 4 (02:07):
Y'all give it up. But did y'all take her? What's up? Okay?
This is how you starting to show today?

Speaker 2 (02:20):
Is you know?

Speaker 7 (02:21):
Off earth?

Speaker 2 (02:23):
I'm because we've been.

Speaker 4 (02:26):
Trying to get you for a while.

Speaker 6 (02:27):
Schedules have been running into you everywhere.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Schedule.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
Don't act like you meansy to having our schedule books out.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
It's a blessing for real.

Speaker 4 (02:43):
Yes, So I want to kind of talk.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
First of all, I really want to give you your flowers,
like we're gonna get the serious stuff out the way.

Speaker 4 (02:49):
Because I told this to Dre.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
We were talking on the phone one day because we
gossip can talk about everybody.

Speaker 4 (02:54):
So you was on the docket that day.

Speaker 1 (02:55):
And I know it didn't I hate what people say. Oh,
he just came out of nowhere. But the fact that
you started your podcast in what twenty twenty three, twenty four,
twenty twenty four.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah, and are you right it was audio, Yes, it
was audio only.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
I'm not gonna lie. We have been doing this for
a while.

Speaker 4 (03:14):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
I have never seen somebody cover this much ground and
grow that quickly without being a celebrity.

Speaker 4 (03:23):
I've never seen it. I have never seen it.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
So the fact that you have a platform and that
you've grown on and you always stand ten toes down
in your opinions and your things, and you've grown organically.
I have to give you your flowers for that, because especially now,
everybody has a podcast, right.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
Take the mugs. Take the mugs.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
So the fact that you are doing it in a
time where it's the really competitive space and you have
stuck out, I gotta give it you all one.

Speaker 3 (03:51):
That's probably my favorite thing about you. I love that
you just you say what you mean, and you mean
what you say. It's never no retracting of statements. I
said what I said. You can either take it or
leave it. I love people like this.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Yeah, yeah, I mean I ain't nothing to type that.
That's what I meant, yeah, I meant it the first time.

Speaker 6 (04:07):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (04:08):
I don't. I learned how to not to impost post. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying. So like, really a big
part of how I was able to grow so fairst
was I had built like a personal brand on TikTok,
so I already had like one hundred thousand followers before
I started podcast, and then it was like, shit, if
I can get at least ten percent, if I can
get a thousand folks listening, shit, this should have popped.

(04:28):
It'll go because I already know if I post on TikTok,
that shit gonna go up. But I ain't had no
Instagram at the time when I first started. Really yeah,
I ain't had no Instagram to the end of twenty
twenty four.

Speaker 6 (04:38):
That is so wild, that is that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
Yeah, I ain't like Instagram. I was like very entire
because I was like, I ain't taking a picture of nigga.

Speaker 6 (04:47):
So yeah, and how it used.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
To be out every time I seen you on a
red car with you you be everywhere Like That's why
I say, I know, it's like work and everybody puts
in work and people don't see the things behind closed doors,
and this is somebody that we still get that. People
be like, where did y'all come from? And it's like
we've been put it into work. But I ain't gonna lie.

(05:10):
You really did just kind of like pop up.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
You used to drive trucks, right, Yeah, I just I
stopped driving trucks in April.

Speaker 6 (05:16):
Wow, So you just stopped.

Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, I ain't even know you're in when I when
I stopped driving trucks and I could do this ship
for a time. That when this ship really went up,
that when y'all started seeing me everywhere, it was want
something like.

Speaker 4 (05:31):
Yes, because I will go ahead.

Speaker 6 (05:32):
What made you decide okay?

Speaker 3 (05:34):
Because I feel like that's just two different career pads.
So what made you be like, Okay, I'm gonna start
a podcast from driving trucks?

Speaker 6 (05:41):
I was.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
I was actually okay with driving trucks. It was stable.
It was the first time in my life I was
really stable for real. Like I was always just trying
to figure something out, whether it be hustling t shirts
or hustling whatever, you know what I mean. But I
always just kept a job. But it was like a job,
you know what I'm saying, Like I'm driving for lists.
I'm doing something and I've gotta do shit on the side. Yuh.
When I got kids, so it was like I need

(06:03):
a career, I need something to stable and out. You know.
That's when I got turned onto the trades and stuff.
So y'all want to go stay with my granny for
like five years for real, Like granny would like, come
over here, start your career, but bring the kids and everything.
We'll post that I got through kids.

Speaker 4 (06:19):
I did not know that.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
Yeah, I keep my private like private. I got one,
I got one wife.

Speaker 4 (06:28):
You got correct me, audience, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
Man, that's that thing. Look, I think for me, I've
been a consumer of social media long enough to know
like what's for them and what's not Because them folks
will take your life and spend that ship into whatever
they wanted to be so cool on that, you know
what I'm saying, Because ship, if me and her go
through something, I want me and her to go through
that alone. I don't want us to go through that

(06:57):
with the world. Bro That's crazy. That how nigga end
up broke.

Speaker 3 (07:00):
I'm telling you, I feel like it's cool to have
a certain level of transparency, would be in a public figure,
but the things that you care the most about you
need to keep you.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
Niggas hide their drug habits while.

Speaker 1 (07:11):
You ain't exactly But I think it's so crazy how
people be like, why are y'all, Why are y'all hiding stuff?

Speaker 2 (07:18):
Y'all?

Speaker 1 (07:18):
The if I was in a relationship, I would put
it on a.

Speaker 4 (07:21):
Bub lying but also no shade.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
But if you have five hundred followers, you can post
your significant others. It's a little different when you are
literally when somebody is literally watching your every move. Thousands
and thousands, sometimes millions of people are watching what you do.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
That and you know, the way I speak, I'm always
stepping on somebody toes. So you know, like I've been
very open about my adoption and stuff like that. I said,
some niggas ain't like they go find your daddy, niggas
go find your mama, Like they get disrespectful this like
I can't do nothing to the nigga. So I think
for me, it's like, you know, I've also been up

(07:57):
in like we we had a separation. You I was
that what was going through you know, I'm still going
through but working through it type shit. So it's like, man,
I put that on and the niggas fire hunt all that,
then what it's gonna be. They're gonna spend that narrative too,
And it's like, for me, that's my life. She don't
even want to be in see like that. You know
what I'm saying. She good, you know what I'm saying.

(08:18):
So why we I think? I think niggas do that
to validate something else within themselves. I don't need no
validation like that.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
How has y'all's relationship changed since you have nigga?

Speaker 2 (08:28):
This shit crazy? It's it's a one eighty for real,
because like driving trucks, should you be gone a lot?
So our communication game was crazy because it's like that shit,
that's all you got. I call her like thirty six
forty eight hours and I'm back out of there. But
that also was the thing with I was like I
need to get up out of it. That's when you

(08:49):
to your point about what made you start. It's like,
if I'm buzzing like this on the internet, I could
polate this into something and a lot of people wanted
to hear me speak in longer form. So it's like, shit,
everybody do these podcast but like anybody talking about shit
for real? And a lot of them. Folks get centered
and people tune in for me. So it's like, shit,

(09:11):
it's this comedian. I watched thing Tim Dlon he do
his ship do Loo and like he got his people
on the side. They're like, he got like a I guess,
like a peanut gallery, so to speak, people that he
conversed with, but it's really centered around him. So I
was like, shit, I could do that, and that shit
just took off because I was like, I don't feel
like being I'm cool with being a charge all. I

(09:33):
don't know if I want to do this twenty years right, Yeah,
you know what I'm saying. My granddaddy did that ship
for like thirty years, so I already yeah.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
Or ship, they give you back problems and the side
of their face it messes up the side of your
face from the sun coming in.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
Really uh huh. Also, I think that people don't talk
about is how isolating it is. So you pick up
traits of being institutionalized.

Speaker 6 (09:57):
Because you buy yourself by yourself.

Speaker 2 (09:59):
A lot, so you eat by your so you spend
a lot of time alone. You get to a point
where you start like you don't want to talk on
the phone as much. I had got to that, Like
year three, I didn't want to talk on the phone
when I get home. It's like I got to remind myself,
like I'm here that I got to be present my father,
because like I'm so squirreled away in my room doing
what I would not just my routine being by myself.

(10:21):
And so yeah, it took a little while for me
to even be that comfortable being around folks all the time.

Speaker 4 (10:27):
Do you have any lot lizard stories?

Speaker 2 (10:30):
Nah?

Speaker 3 (10:31):
Anyway, lot lizards it's a girls. So like you know
what I'm saying, I'm like a lot of lizards.

Speaker 2 (10:39):
It's a real thing. So like old school truggers is
like you know these big old truck parking lots and stuff.
It'd be prostitutes that go to dough knocking you do
see if you want some company and ship like.

Speaker 3 (10:51):
That, they say ladies the money here.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
Nah. The me is like, I ain't never really had
no women problems, so I ain't up been that down.
If I can't wait for it, you know, yeah, I'm
gonna wait for it. You know that was great. If not,
we're gonna get that hub popping.

Speaker 3 (11:16):
So I wanted to ask you, like, how do you
deal with the backlash, all of the backlash and stuff
online people in their commentary, especially coming from a place
of at one point not really being active on social
media to now having obviously like a booming podcast, booming
social media pages.

Speaker 6 (11:34):
How do you deal with all of the commentary.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
It's something to it just to I literally had no
social media three years ago to like happen, like to
be in the social media nigga, Right, So, uh, I
think I was talking. I was talking to a rapper yesterday,
well very well known.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
I was about to be he as an artist, you
know what I mean. I don't put that way out there.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
We just having the conversation because he was kind of
tell me about how he deal with like a lot
of paranoia, dealing with the public, trying to be normal,
you know what I'm saying. And my my therapist had
taught me, like, don't let these folks deify you, like,
stay human as much as much as you can. So
at first it was like I was always engaged in

(12:21):
the comments, or you know, if I feel like somebody
was like taking my words out of context or misrepresenting
my message, I'll go back and forth with them. But
I really had to like go through like a whole
mourning of that shit too, Like you gotta, like I
gotta let this shit go, Like I gotta really completely
disengage and disconnect from this, cause it's to the point
where it's like it's only one of me, it's so

(12:42):
many of y'all. Where to the point y'all don't even
give a fuck about what my response is. Y'all just
here to push y'all narrative, y'all trying to get the
most lights in the comment session, and or like man,
you know how man nigga piggybacking off my shit, like
trying to get the name for themselves by mentioning my name. Bro,
even that just I know a nigga right now fifty

(13:03):
videos deep run out of his mouth about me.

Speaker 1 (13:04):
Yeah, I hate it because they'd be in the back
talk of but they had me in the middle just
floating around this.

Speaker 6 (13:10):
I hate it.

Speaker 2 (13:12):
I hate the video.

Speaker 6 (13:13):
I hate this.

Speaker 2 (13:16):
Mean not doing this bro, say something, Bro, oh, just
repost my ship and get up out of there, like
get your face out my ship, bro. You know, But
now I keep doing that because that shit a good marketing, Yeah,
I mean, but I think no, But I'm just talking
about people that are like every take you make, they
got the contrary. They contrarian. I'm gonna take opposite stands.

(13:37):
There ain't got no reason to have the opposite stand
They just like, yeah, fought their nigga. Yeah, essentially, that's
what it is.

Speaker 1 (13:42):
I always tell people there is no way because I
see this a lot. If your entire social media is
talking about other people and what they have going on
and their topic points and things like that, you're never
going to be like an influencer of successful pert online
or whatever you want to call it that we do.

Speaker 4 (14:02):
You're not gonna make it.

Speaker 2 (14:03):
You gotta be mindful of like what your content is.

Speaker 1 (14:06):
If your content is just talking shit about other people
and what they have going on, as soon as you
talk about yourself, they're gonna disengage because they don't.

Speaker 4 (14:13):
Care about you. Y'all are all bonding on. I hate this, Nita.

Speaker 3 (14:18):
I mean yes, And I think a lot of people
they just be committed to misunderstanding you, or they want
to be offended by a message because he's you saying it.
If somebody else was saying the same sheet, they would
just let it ride. But because he's you, saying it. Oh,
I gotta argue, I gotta go back and forth.

Speaker 6 (14:34):
I gotta have a rebuttal, right.

Speaker 2 (14:36):
I think it's a thing too. It's like they see
everybody that love you and praise you and like like that,
do you know them?

Speaker 1 (14:44):
The most hated people in the world are not people
who are like, oh, that's staying for something. The most
hated people in the world are people that are really loved. Yeah,
somebody is too loved. They hate it. Beyonce hasn't done
an interview in years, and look at the back that
people are still just being like, oh, when you are
extremely love yeah, when you are extremely loved, people cannot

(15:07):
stand it.

Speaker 6 (15:08):
I think it's confidence too.

Speaker 3 (15:09):
I think it's people who are confident and they speak
with conviction because I understand what you were saying earlier too.
Like I'm the same type of way. If I say
some shit, I'm standing ten tolls on what I say.
I never retract my savings because I don't just say
shit just to say anything that I'm saying. I thought
about it, and I know exactly what the fuck I mean.
So you're not going to get an apology out of me.
Maybe you misunderstood what I'm saying, or maybe you don't agree,

(15:32):
that's okay too, and.

Speaker 2 (15:33):
I'm cool with that, but articulate the disagreement, right, And
a lot of folks ain't doing that because they just
wanted this, Like when you got a name Colin, it's like, yeah,
that's all well, and they ain't talking about it.

Speaker 1 (15:44):
For I like that, articulate the disagreements and.

Speaker 6 (15:47):
People up girl, and they can't rarely ever do that.

Speaker 2 (15:50):
I can't, but a lot of times it's so like
the thing for me is like I'm not really above correction.
I grew up with a mama who was like very
years about making sure like you know what you're talking about.
So if I come to her with idea or opinion,
it's like she's gonna ask me ten questions that might
go against what I'm saying, just to make sure that
I'm ten toes in what the fuck I'm talking about,

(16:12):
or she might see an angle of it where like
I ain't thought about yet. So it's like, let me,
let me poke some holes in your shit to make
sure you solid or just to like like to challenge you.
I need to challenge my child, and the ones like
I can't have you going out in the world saying
this shit and you're just dead wrong. But I think
for me, it's like before I speak, our research, before

(16:34):
I speak, I listen before I speak. I make sure
I know what the fuck I'm talking about, or at
least from my perspective, like I'm solid in what I
believe in, like what my opinions are, because this been
how I felt about this. This ain't influenced by a
nigga on social media. This ain't influenced by somebody I
think cool or whatever like that. This influenced by me
and my lift experience. So I think a lot of

(16:56):
times it's very it's easy to navigate the hate when
I know, like you just hate me.

Speaker 6 (17:03):
For me, you rooted in you, you know who you are.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
You just don't like me. That's cool. I'm cool with that.
You ain't saying nothing about what I said me too, Yoh, I.

Speaker 1 (17:10):
Do with you being Would you consider yourself pro black?
I don't want to, Yeah, for sure pro black? So
why do you think that people instead of focusing on
your message, it was like such a scandal that you
had a or have a white mother.

Speaker 2 (17:25):
Biologically, I think that that's just way to discredit the person,
Like if I tell you I was giving away a
birth right and my mama been my mama since I
was two days, Oh shit, I don't know what we
talking about. I don't know that later. I don't know
that white woman. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Praise y'ah.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (17:40):
But okay, can I and I know y'all gonna be
maybe calling me by some of the comments. If you
wouldn't have said you was mixed, I would have known
you looked like a nigga to me, you are not
white passing.

Speaker 4 (17:50):
You know, it's not giving like hmm, what is he?

Speaker 2 (17:52):
I don't, I don't, but see, I think, you know,
like when people just spend a whole bunch of time
around dogs and ship, they start looking like the dog.

Speaker 3 (18:00):
I mean, I'm agree, like I feel like I could
see it, but.

Speaker 6 (18:06):
I think it's probably because of your hair.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
Because but I grew up.

Speaker 6 (18:12):

Speaker 2 (18:13):
I grew up how I grew up. My mommy and
my daddy is my mama and daddy own't you know?
If them folks had any any need or want to
know who I was, they'll confine me. You gave me away.
You gotta confine me. I ain't gonna looking for you.
And this is also something I found out about upon
my mother's death and shit too, so it's like, you know,
this is new for me too. And if I can

(18:33):
navigate that, if you're gonna use that as a plant
to discredit me, bro, that' shit invalid.

Speaker 4 (18:38):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (18:38):
But I think for me, it's just like, uh, I
think I have to discredit, Like we got to discredit
your blackness. So that means everything you said where you
care about black people or you want liberation for black people,
advancement for black people, or just black people to take
a different perspective or take onto like community over this
devisive shit, it's like we're gonna just credit every thing

(19:00):
he's saying because his mama white. It's like, okay, nigga.

Speaker 4 (19:03):
But I think that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (19:04):
Your mama black and you hate black people? So what
they got?

Speaker 6 (19:07):
How many of them don't be wanting today? Black women
on me?

Speaker 2 (19:11):
And all you're finna make me.

Speaker 1 (19:13):
You your experience through life have been as a black man.
Like I said, you you're to me no offense, but
you're not not. That's not even a physic it's you're
not passing. Well, it doesn't to me personal.

Speaker 2 (19:26):
Because it ain't been my experience. I ain't growing a
white woman. It's like, I don't know what that's like.
Yeah I could, I could see it all niggas whant
I you know what I'm saying. That white mama ship,
that's a real thing.

Speaker 4 (19:36):
Oh trust me.

Speaker 6 (19:37):
Yeah, they move a little different.

Speaker 4 (19:39):
White You can always tell.

Speaker 2 (19:41):
It's like two different it's like two different type of
white mamas too. Like it's because like I got some
homeboys this mixed, but they mama kind of like, for
lack of a better word, nigga out like.

Speaker 6 (19:51):
Yeah got that. It's my keen drop the Nissan off.

Speaker 4 (19:57):
You know what I'm talking about? That swoop and it's
spiked up.

Speaker 2 (20:05):
But I grow up the nigga. These nigga be bad
as fuck, man, But I think, but they rooted it
in who they is. They rooted in their black and
it's like they ain't never I ain't never seen these conversations.
So like a lot of times that like the whole
white mama thing, that ain't something I really knew until
the Internet was prevalent, and then it's like you start

(20:25):
seeing it more and more. But I think anytime you
in black spaces, are you in spaces where you're trying to,
you know, just show a lot of black people or
push community and push unity, it's always going to be
like a number of divisive types that's gonna come out,
And that could be two black parents, four black grandparents
like Nigga still be divisive shit. Nigga. Nigga have a
whole lineage of black folks and they date outside their

(20:48):
racing down top of their race. So it's like, I mean,
what we're really talking about here it is are we
are we trying to unify black people? And do we
have the understanding of like what the history of America is? Like,
what you're gonna tell Thomas difference in children named back? Hen'
telling them that.

Speaker 6 (21:04):
That's true, that's true.

Speaker 3 (21:07):
I need to touch on back on you being a
zoposied a little bit. So I know you said your
mom has passed away a biological mom.

Speaker 6 (21:14):
Is your dad still little?

Speaker 1 (21:15):
No?

Speaker 2 (21:15):
No, no, it's my mother. I don't know these biological folks.

Speaker 6 (21:18):
Oh, so you don't have any type of connection.

Speaker 2 (21:20):
I was giving away that birth so and you're not.

Speaker 3 (21:23):
Interested at all in like finding them having a conversation
with them.

Speaker 2 (21:26):
I'm to be earnest, like I feel whole, you know
what I'm saying. I was love, I was raised a
certain way, like everything that I was raised on, Mamie,
who I am? I mean reaching back I had to.
I had to really get to a point where myself
where like I figured out what the fifty to fifty.

Speaker 3 (21:43):
Of it was.

Speaker 2 (21:44):
Right. Let's say I reached back and I get the rejection,
like they didn't want nothing to do with me for real,
that's going to open up a whole another can of
worms for me. Why I already feel whole within myself,
And it's like if I don't have of course, like
when you come with new information, you want to like
kind of close the loop. And I came to a
point where I kind of got all the information I

(22:05):
wanted and I had to make a decision like it's this.
I'm stable. I got my kids, I got my family.
I know I'm loved by people. I know I got
a support system, and I feel whole within myself. Like
if they ain't never tell me this, this ain't nothing
I would have never been thinking about. So I was like,
I'm cool, Like if they wanted something to do with me.

(22:27):
You made the decision, Like I said, you make decision,
give me away. You got to make a decision to
get back in my life. And it ain't for me
to go searching for that shit because I was raised
in all love, like I was raised by some stand
up women and men, So I don't really feel the
need to like undo that. And then I also understand too,
it's just like, shit, that was a decision that was made,

(22:50):
but that decision paved a way for me, and I'm
good while I'm at like, I'm also you know this
before my social media and anything too. So it's like
these decisions I make and isolation for you know what
I mean. So I had a lot of time to
think about this shit, and I'm very like, I'm very comfortable,
comfortable and confident in my decision, so I don't really

(23:13):
think about this. So like, yeah, when my mother passed,
my mother passed twenty nineteen, of course, like my father
was like, yeah, man, you know what I'm saying. I
kind of pressed them on it, like what's up? Because
you know what I'm saying. I know y'all was holding
to doubt for her because she don't playing no games.
So but my mother had like womb issues and stillborns
and miscarriacters and shit like that. So I was a

(23:34):
bit blessing for her. So like when I'm a yeah,
man once I once I get that part of the information,
it's like, man, I'm a blessing to this woman. Bro, Yeah,
I'm not feinna go fucking folks.

Speaker 3 (23:46):
Yeah, I on that because I have like a similar
situation because I'm adopted as will and I always felt
like I was whole too, But it was always still
something in me that won.

Speaker 6 (24:00):
To know, like very much.

Speaker 2 (24:01):
I wanted to know who it was.

Speaker 6 (24:04):
I wanted to know who they were.

Speaker 3 (24:05):
I wanted to know what they It was just so
many different things, what they look like, maybe what they
personality is like.

Speaker 6 (24:10):
But I still loved my parents, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (24:12):
They raised me and they gave me a very great
life too, and I was raised on love as well.
But it was just always avoid that I feel like,
was me saying I get what you're saying as far
as like the rejection, because I feel like that's a
relationship that me and my biological mom have, like we
don't really I actually grew up around her my whole life,
but we don't really have much of a relationship, and
it's because of her. So it's interesting, Like being adopted

(24:36):
is just a very complex thing that I think most
people don't really understand unless they've been through it because
you have so many different emotions around it.

Speaker 2 (24:45):
For me too, So you gotta think if my mom
and daddy dark skinned, brown skin, my grandparents like all right,
it's like all right, somebody, and you know, when you're
a kid, look kids, like you're around all your cousins
and ship, they're gonna say something like my little cousin
be like, why you're white?

Speaker 7 (25:03):
Bro?

Speaker 2 (25:03):
What right? Just gonna say the blood right now. I
think more than anything, it was a very like South
Spot from my mama. I ain't gonna say she was right.
I don't feel like she was right, but I didn't
processed my anger around it, but I didn't tell you. Yeah,

(25:24):
But I think for me, the the liberation of it
was like knowing that I wasn't crazy, nigga. I always
knew that y'all seen her line that I was different.

Speaker 3 (25:33):
Yeah, And so like once you find out, uh, she
passed May twenty nineteen.

Speaker 2 (25:39):
I found out in June twenty nineteen.

Speaker 6 (25:42):
Oh wow, a few months after well a month.

Speaker 2 (25:45):
But I'm telling you this something this, you know through observation,
I'm smart enough to realize, like fold, this ain't you know?
I only like y'all, So in the whole time, I ain't.
I didn't think I was a doctor. I just think
I thought I had a different daddy.

Speaker 6 (26:01):
Tyke, shit, Oh you thought she was ying by your daddy?

Speaker 2 (26:04):
Yeah, for sure.

Speaker 3 (26:04):
But I do feel like kids are intuitive that way too,
because my parents told me when I was like four
that I was adopteded so I knew my whole life,
but my mom and my dad would never tell me
who it was.

Speaker 6 (26:15):
But as I got older, I knew.

Speaker 3 (26:17):
It was somebody in my family because I started to
look like my cousin.

Speaker 6 (26:21):
Ended up happening. It ended up happening to be heard.

Speaker 1 (26:24):
Let me ask you all a question. Do y'all feel
like like you wanting a relationship with your father or
you're a biological father or mother, or even if you
wanted a relationship with your biological parents, do y'all feel
like that would be kind of like betraying the parents
who raised you.

Speaker 4 (26:41):
Is that kind of something that.

Speaker 2 (26:42):
That decision to me. Yeah, you know, I'm I'm grown,
I'm autonomous. I can have a relationship with the folks
all want, Yeah, because at the end of the day,
they still are a part of my story. You could
see the anxiety or your parents face when you start
talking about it, though, they because they don't want you to.
You know, you got to think about how big a
sacrifice it is for somebody to take on somebody's life,

(27:04):
you know what I mean. So I think that a
little bit of it is a little selfish on their part,
but it's it's you know, rightfully, so like I raised you.
It's kind of like one of those ego things like man,
fuck they like they could have stupped up and vie.
But I think, you know the way my dad kind
of pushed it to me, he was like, he was like,
I want you to remember, like I'm your dad, Like

(27:24):
no matter what you find. I was like, nigga, I
know that. Yeah, like you know what you ain't my
dad like what you know what I'm saying. But I think, yeah,
I think it's very complex because it's it's very emotional, bro,
Like you know what I'm saying. They didn't see me
literally out the wound, you know what I'm saying. So

(27:45):
I think for my mom, I think as time passed on,
it was just harder and harder for her to wrap
her mind around, like breaking that news to me, even
though I had been saying something. You know what I'm saying.
I've been saying something all of Little Boy. But I
think the most liberating part was like, damn, I know what, right,
you know what I'm saying, Like, Okay, cool, I'm good, No,
I ain't crazy. Yeah, I can overly trust myself now,

(28:06):
because that was the biggest complex they came from, that
is not really being able to trust my intuition or
like my thoughts or like like damn man, I'm like
illing fumed about this, Like it's the things I feel
inside real because I think this very strongly about this
situation and they keep telling me I'm wrong about it,
and so like, you know, my all my family got
smoked from that ship because I was like, yeah, niggas

(28:27):
are complexit, y'all gas let nigga for thirty years. Damn there.

Speaker 4 (28:32):
You found out.

Speaker 2 (28:32):
So yeah, yeah, But I mean, you know, my mom
like a matriarch of the family, She's very important. Nobody
wanted to go again. So and then I think it's
a complexe thing, Like you know, I can't make them
decisions for people, I can't undo them decision And I
think a lot of times with women, we don't address
like how you know, how like touchy and vulnerable that

(28:57):
could be around like having womb issues.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
That's how they make us feel if you you are
a woman, because we can bear children, you know what
I'm saying, if you are bit to create life. So
it's like if you can't, they all if you are
a certain age and you don't have children.

Speaker 2 (29:12):
Oh yeah, I think the thing is is like that
caused a big fracture in my parents' relationship but eventually
ended up being divorced. So I think, yeah, man, you know,
I'm I'm real like put myself in other people's shoes
type person. It took me a long time to get up,
but I think I was mature enough when I found
out that I could like really process the situation and

(29:34):
full like But I also then shy away from my
anger about the shit either and like you know, I
have family members I literally just started talking to same.

Speaker 3 (29:43):
I stopped talking to a lot of people too when
I initially found.

Speaker 2 (29:47):
Out y'all, y'all played with my life.

Speaker 6 (29:50):
How can y'all keep this secret from me?

Speaker 3 (29:52):
Like, and you just feel like damns, everybody conspired to
speak to tire. Everybody else knew the street, and I'm
the only one in the darker body, you know, like you.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
Know what I'm saying. I go in the other room,
it's like, hey, you stop talking about this.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
Yeah, yeah, be quiet when you're walking along. But I
definitely felt a certain level of in the beginning when
my dad first passed away, I actually got connected to
my biological dad, and I did a little bit feel
like it was me betraying my dad, even though he
had already passed away. But now I'm in a space
where I realized, like you said, this is my decision,

(30:25):
it's my life. I'm not doing anything wrong by wanting
to know more about that side of myself. And I
think that us is like people that are adopted, Like
you should remove that guilt. And then I felt guilty
as far as with my mom as well, because she
had warm issues too, so she couldn't bear children of
her own, and I always felt like I was like.

Speaker 6 (30:44):
Her miracle baby.

Speaker 3 (30:45):
And because of that, she's super overprotective of me, and
at times I felt like she didn't really want me
to have the relationship with them because she felt like
it would be them taking me away from her.

Speaker 6 (30:57):
It's a fear.

Speaker 2 (30:58):
Around it because you know what I'm saying, Like my
mother had like she had a still born and mischaracters.
You gotta think, like I finally got I got a baby.
All you ever want a little baby. And then you know,
my ante was like she was determined to have a
child named Deontay in the world.

Speaker 6 (31:17):
You know what I say, she already had your name already.

Speaker 2 (31:21):
You know what I'm saying. But I think I think
I have to be mindful of you know, like what
what her state of mind was going through that, Like
even with your mom is like yeah, man, you know
what I'm saying. This is something that I like, again
to your point about the pressure to feel feminine and

(31:41):
that being reliant on you being able to bear children.
This is a very complex shit, and I think that
just dick to donating it to one thing or another.
It's just like it's it undermind the complexity of the
situation for all people involved. And I think for me,
another thing that I find Solace is is like, you know,
I could have been in the foster custles, you know
what I'm saying, and like, you know you did. They

(32:08):
couldn't get rid of me. Man.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
But y'all, I have to tell y'all this story just
because I think it's so crazy that nobody in y'all's
family told y'all. I my older sister had a friend.
I'm not gonna say who everything. My older sister had
a friend. She had a younger sister, so me and
a younger sister would hang out.

Speaker 4 (32:30):
Her and the older sister were friends.

Speaker 1 (32:31):
So they were kind of like the Brady bunch, you know,
they were a blended family. So the friend, the younger sister,
that was my friend. It was like the mom had
her kids, he had his kids, and when they got together,
they had my friend right right. But like one day,
like my sister and the older ones were talking and
it came out that the younger sister it wasn't her

(32:53):
dad for real.

Speaker 4 (32:54):
So I was like, oh, you know, that's not your daddy.

Speaker 6 (32:56):
I told, but I'm you know you always did.

Speaker 3 (32:59):
I've been dascy for our last christ That's what I'm
so like.

Speaker 6 (33:03):
The back to y'all that's kind of crazy.

Speaker 4 (33:05):
No, but it was such a big deal.

Speaker 3 (33:07):
But nobody in my fad, like none of my cousins
that were around the same age as me, and that
none of them knew.

Speaker 2 (33:15):
Just keeping the secrets. But I think as black community
in general, like we got to stop out this secretive ship. Yeah,
I think you know, you don't know when this is
going to become a family problem, you know what I'm saying.
And I think the thing is it's like we we
owe people the truth, Like you don't get to control
or dictate the truth about somebody else's And I think

(33:37):
more than anything, it's it's a bunch of adults thinking
about themselves and not how it's affecting a child. And
this is also you know what I'm saying again them
I god damn Coofie back. But this is things that
we we've been dealing with in this country for a
very long time, is keeping secrets to protect and like
at some point they go beyond protection and they go

(33:59):
into like just negligence, Like, yeah, you got to think
about how you are fitting to other people. And I
think you know, children are autonomous beings too, like they
deserve the truth. You know what I'm saying, because you
shaping their life in one way or the other, whether
you shape it with the truth or a lie, and
then when they act out, you're gonna blame them instead
of blaming yourself. That shit crazy to me.

Speaker 3 (34:19):
Yeah, And I think a lot of parents be doing
their children to the service by not being honest with
them about certain things, because when they become adults and
then they do find out the truth, they might not
want to have a relationship with you.

Speaker 2 (34:30):
That part, and they'll be and they'll be justified in
that right. But also too, you know, we got to
think about these children are gonna go into the world
and be adults. How is this shaping their relationship with
the world. You know what I'm saying, How is this
shaping their relationship with other relationships? They can't trust nobody,
you know what I'm saying, Everything a motherfucker. Like let's

(34:51):
say I find the women in my motherfucking dreams and
I can't trust them because of these motherfuckers. Can't trust
my motherfucker. You do see what I'm saying. It's like
people got to take themselves out of situations that's not
going to directly affect them. Even if you, as the parents,
you is directly affected, the impact that's going to happen
on a child is much greater because this is a

(35:11):
decision you made. You know, I wouldn't say to make
yourself whole. It could be benevolent. You couldn't see this
child in a bad situation and want to get them
out at the end of the day. That's the extent
of your service, though you don't get to dictate the
truth of their life.

Speaker 3 (35:25):
Usually people are making those decisions for their own selfish reasons.
So because more specifically, in my situation, my biological grandparents
made the decision for my mom because my mom was
a minor, so they made the decision that they made
to cover their own ass because.

Speaker 6 (35:42):
They didn't want people to know that at the church
talking about.

Speaker 3 (35:45):
Talking about because she was under asge my mom was
twelve when she got pregnant with me.

Speaker 6 (35:48):
She had me at thirteen. So yeah, every time.

Speaker 3 (35:51):
I hear it, Yeah, and they hid her for my
whole family. Nobody in my family knew except for like
the people involved.

Speaker 6 (35:58):
So a lot of my.

Speaker 2 (36:01):
Twenty four yeah, yeah, that's younger.

Speaker 3 (36:04):
Here, Ye'll go out and have a time to get
right now I'm thirty four forty six. She just, yeah,
you got y'all cool though, y'all. I mean, but like
you said, y'alln't really got well. We grew up around
each other because her mom is my mom's sister, my
mom that raised me.

Speaker 6 (36:22):
Her mom is my mom's sister.

Speaker 2 (36:24):
Technically, aunty take right.

Speaker 3 (36:26):
So my mom that raised me is technically my great grandma, right, Auntie, sorry?
And then her sister is my grandmother.

Speaker 2 (36:33):
Heard you right?

Speaker 3 (36:34):
So I grew up around my Get a little trick,
get a little stinky.

Speaker 2 (36:39):
I don't want to know what the folks got going on.
Whatever nigga's doing. Enough Carolina, you know what I'm saying.
If you a nigga in Concord, North Carolina, little similar
to let me similar to me.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
You said all your cousins and like everybody around you
was like brown skin or dark skin, right.

Speaker 4 (36:59):
So I don't mean to be missy. I'm just really wondering.

Speaker 1 (37:01):
I feel like that's why you be going so hard
to be like pro black, because you got to prove yourself.

Speaker 2 (37:06):
I think a lot of people think that, but this
is like, this is my community, bro. You know what
I'm saying, Like I care about this shit just like
anybody else. It ain't never really been man bro. You know,
I went through it's dark skinned people that get roast
the same way I got roasted for being light skinned.
So like we all went through trial and error. It
was really about how you responded this shit. And like
in my neighborhood, I grew up in a black neighborhood,

(37:28):
it's like working class black folks, and shit, you got
a niggas that business arms, you got niggas that drug dealers,
you got jazz, and you got great people. You know
what I'm saying. Very it's very variety of blackness in
my neighborhood growing up. So like, I ain't never felt
left out of odd man, you know what I mean.
So yeah, I just always always cared about my people.

(37:49):
Eat my folks, you know what I'm saying. I don't
need a reason. I think. I think there is like
some privilege that I experienced that people dark that dark
skinned people want experience, especially men. They'll be a little
bit more criminalized before I am. But I always just
kind of like, shit, use that fin this. I'm finishing.
White folks too, be my folks because at the end

(38:12):
of the day. As soon as I say something you
don't like, you're gonna treat me like a nigga like them,
what we're gonna get down together.

Speaker 3 (38:17):
See that's like, that's funny because that's actually our first topic.
Like why are light skinned people so pro black? Do
you think it's because of historical trauma or do you
feel like if sometimes of proximity to white men.

Speaker 2 (38:30):
I think it's because of colorism. I think we're just
more prone to listen to light skinned folks.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
Because everybody I see two sides of it, because I
sometimes see like.

Speaker 2 (38:41):
People being like, hold on, can I go ahead? This
big cat he probably want to say, hey, y'all because
he his ass a sleep.

Speaker 4 (38:49):
Wake your ass up?

Speaker 6 (38:51):
Hey, big cat? We got a cat too, eighty.

Speaker 2 (38:55):
Five shout about we do say what's up now?

Speaker 4 (39:07):
It's like, what's up, nigga? Where you at?

Speaker 2 (39:09):
Hey?

Speaker 6 (39:11):
What's up?

Speaker 3 (39:18):
Hey?

Speaker 6 (39:18):
How you doing.

Speaker 4 (39:20):
Good?

Speaker 2 (39:22):
We're sitting here with BEYONCEA hey, don't start that ship, bro?

Speaker 4 (39:25):
You missed it? You missed it? How you doing.

Speaker 2 (39:31):
Good?

Speaker 4 (39:32):
You were in here turning up? That's all right, that's okay.

Speaker 6 (39:38):
Next time.

Speaker 2 (39:40):
I told you, nigga. Yeah, they stop, They ain't stop
burning the midnight or nigga all right.

Speaker 1 (39:50):
So I was saying, like, I see two sides of it,
because sometimes I see, like life skinned people will be like, oh,
we were treated differently because I'm so beautiful and I'm
so light, Like y'all don't understand the struggle of being
light skin because y'all be treating me like this because
oh my gosh, I can't help it. I have green
eyes and I have this soft three bed of the struggle,

(40:11):
you know what I'm saying. So it's like Moons is
coming like it's a little disconnect.

Speaker 2 (40:15):
I think it's I think there's an aspect of this
where we don't look at it from all sides. We
just look at it from the vantage point that maybe
make us the most comfortable or best suit the narrative
that racism and colorism affect everybody, all black people. So
just like you can have a dark skin black person
that hate black people, you have a dark skin black
person that love their blackness. You have a light skin

(40:36):
black person that hate black people, you have a light
skinned person that love blackness. Same thing. Go with mixed folks,
same thing with go with everybody. It's a very it
affects us all in different ways. You understand what I'm saying.
The way it makes some niggas militant is the same
way it makes some niggas timit and docile. So it's
gonna affect everybody in different ways. I think that of course,
if you look at if you're gonna look at the

(40:58):
Civil rights movement, if you're gonna look at Black panther movement,
black empowerment movements at all, it's always gonna be men
centered first. A lot of times you're gonna be lighter
skinned men. Your your Malcolm Mets is your huge pre Newton's,
but you also have your Stoker Carmichaels. You're gonna have
women that's listened to, but not your darker skin women.
You're gonna have your Angela Davis's and woo woo woo.
But it's gonna exist in like a spectrum of things.

(41:22):
And I mean that's what it was a dark woman,
but it was a darker skinned woman that actually took
that player, you know what I'm saying. So I think
that black people are always having pr in mind too.
We always want to like kind of dictate the way
we're perceived. And you know that ship come with your

(41:44):
own colorist bias or your own internalized racism and anti blackness.
I'm gonna speak like this even if niggas didn't know me.
So the thing is is like, yeah, ship, I mean, nigga,
I love our community, I love people, I love myself,
So you know I ain't I ain't shy by expressing that.
And then you know, if you want to cycle analyzing

(42:06):
and get to like whatever the deeper meanings is, then
we can go down that road too. But it's like
for me, I just don't know no different.

Speaker 3 (42:13):
I just always felt like this conversation was so stupid
and low vibrational and redundant because again, we're all black
people and we're not gonna see, hear and act like
as African Americans here in the United States.

Speaker 6 (42:24):
All of our blood is not pure everything.

Speaker 2 (42:27):
A monracial black people. Right. Yes, it's nice. That's why
I mentioned Thomas Jefferson children earlier because we know that
like famously, this nigga loved black women. I loved Lucy,
fetishized and whatever the case may be. But see here
the thing right, Okay, it's like that's like, why is
it always the same? It'd be crazy if you ask like,

(42:49):
why is it always dark skinned people that love black
people so much or fight so hard for black people?
It's like that makes sense right as light skinned people.
But then if I if we buff in the room,
we both get called a nigga.

Speaker 3 (42:58):
And what's the difference, right, It's not And I think
like people only take it as a bad thing coming
from lighter skinned people because with the darker skinned people
they feel like, oh, you're more black, but in reality
we all black Okay, more proximity to whiteness.

Speaker 2 (43:15):
Okay, yeah, But if I was going big and and
and Uncle Tom and this ship mm hmm, see this
is light skin ship, it's like right, it's like bron
So it's like, why fight it. I understand racism, colonialism, imperialism, colorism.
I know all the isms, nigga. So if we want
to get into that conversation, we can, but we also

(43:37):
got to be mindful of like how these things affect
us and how we project the way they affect us too,
So you know what I'm saying, Whatever the case may be,
I don't really get caught up in like the wh
I ain't never thought about this ship. I ain't like,
bro nigga really think that I was like, you know,
I'm dark skinned.

Speaker 4 (43:53):
I gotta I gotta prove crazy because you know, this
is when the.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
Somebody I love talking like this, this is this play ball.

Speaker 6 (44:08):
I gotta start doing that.

Speaker 2 (44:12):
Serious when I go here with business. Stop this one
right here. Let me stop doing that because you're already
saying I'm in illuminati. I think, I think really really
more than anything. It's like I never had this conversation
with myself. A lot of things that people project on me.
It's like, damn, I ain't never about this ship.

Speaker 1 (44:31):
Let me let me ask you this because this kind
of goes back to what we were talking about earlier,
in the honesty with your children. Are you gonna tell
your children that biologically they have a white grandmother?

Speaker 2 (44:39):
They know they already as soon as I found out,
I told them. I tell my kids everything, so like
that's the thing. It's like, I got to stand on
the same ship that I believe in. I'm so like
my oldest son. He he's been diagnosed artistic since he
was four. He ain't never tried to dance around that conversation.
When him, we taught them straight up, and we taught
him like, you're gonna showup differently in well, and that's okay,

(45:01):
and we're gonna work through these things that you show
up through differently if this is something you feel like
you want to work on. But if like, I'm always
encouraging my kids to just be completely themselves. So I
think a lot of times when you want, one thing
I ain't never want to be is a nigga that
rides so hard for the community. But I'm a bad dad.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
I hate a bad daddy, bad dad my younger guys,
I love the bad daddy because that means you had
time for me and my good coochie very selfish.

Speaker 4 (45:30):
I didn't get.

Speaker 3 (45:34):
Like that.

Speaker 4 (45:35):
I don't like I was like I was young. I'm like,
he want to take me out on a trip. He
wanted to do this thing. I don't. I didn't give
a damn. I didn't care. I didn't ask.

Speaker 6 (45:44):
But now it's like they drive the kouchie yep.

Speaker 4 (45:47):
But yeah, of course, now, But can I can show up?

Speaker 6 (45:52):
That's how you're gonna show up for me?

Speaker 2 (45:53):
I guess it's too. It's like the act that we're engaging,
and that is how I got these kids in the
first right, But can I ask you?

Speaker 1 (46:00):
I got you my next I'm gonna ask all the question,
and I'm gonna ask you all a question about the
kids and the sick, because this is I want to
ask both of y'all something. But in the meantime, introduce yourself,
my girl, and tell us what we're drinking today, and
give us a little background.

Speaker 2 (46:16):
And people want to know what you walk.

Speaker 8 (46:18):
Okay, little background. Well, hey, everybody, my name is. But
I was referred by titles be cool people.

Speaker 6 (46:25):
Okay, now we're good. We're good.

Speaker 4 (46:27):
I'm a little bit of boy me. You know.

Speaker 6 (46:29):
I'm a local cocktail dealer here.

Speaker 8 (46:31):
I also go by the Agave Princess.

Speaker 4 (46:32):
I'm all things to.

Speaker 2 (46:35):
Why she made it drinks get.

Speaker 6 (46:39):
Yesterday that he was a repo guy. It upon myself.

Speaker 8 (46:43):
I made this a little It's called the Southern spark
because y'all sparking shit up.

Speaker 4 (46:47):
That's you know. I like that. And we in the South.

Speaker 8 (46:50):
A little repo, a little ginger beer, some guava, some pineapple,
cue keipit tropical and a good ship, but good vibe.

Speaker 6 (46:55):
I love what is the delicious?

Speaker 1 (46:57):
It is delicious. I'll take another. I got you you
want another one?

Speaker 6 (47:03):
I got a little special potion in mind.

Speaker 4 (47:07):
On the web.

Speaker 1 (47:08):
So next topic, I do want to ask y'all this.
I saw somebody talking about this and I thought it
was interesting. They said, people don't realize that the reason
why a lot of Black women are dissed and being
we are talked bad about in other cultures and in
our own culture why because we're not married, we're single

(47:28):
when we're baby mothers. But they're like, this is all
has to do with our proximity with black men. So
how do y'all feel about that conversation of like people
every time they diss a black woman, it has something
to do with a black black men not marrying us,
black men not stepping up and me and good fathers
and things that have to do with that.

Speaker 2 (47:47):
I'm gonna say this right, So the world sees the
world through the lens of white people because of colonialism.
So who created this like puritanical monogamous culture. Now I'm
not finna see here in cake like niggas need all
these wives. That ain't what I'm saying. What I'm saying
is like the standard of marriage in our relationship to

(48:09):
women is the it was given example to us from
white people and how they related to their women. So
we know white niggas hate they women. Low key, you
know what I'm saying, Like the only thing that I mean,
black men had the right to vote before white women.
They'll tell you a lot about this country. I'll tell
you a lot about white men in general. I think,

(48:30):
for me, we do need to be more mindful of
like family structure, family breakdown, and how we do those things.
But we also got to be mindful that we was
doing all that shit before crack.

Speaker 4 (48:41):
Yeah, crack. I always say this is the issue.

Speaker 2 (48:45):
Nigga, that shit broke everything down. I keep the reason.
I'm gonna sound like a broken record, but I'm telling
you that ron drugs destroyed literally every facet of our community.
I'm not saying baby mamas didn't exist before then, but
I'm pretty sure they exist at the same right they
do for everybody else. I think we talk about our businesses,
we talk about everything. Every aspect of our neighborhood in

(49:06):
our community were thriving. Construction niggas was thriving, yes, thriving
under the threat of Jim Crow and constant violence from
white people, thriving under the threat of being thrown in
prison for the rest of our life. To work on
a chain or be hung for having too much thriving
under the threat of I own all this land and
a white man could just come over here and kill
me and take my shit. Still thriving, Okay, free market

(49:30):
capitalism is white people, always the free market, free market
until black people build a wall Street. Now we're gonna
drop bombs in America because black people doing too good.

Speaker 6 (49:39):
It's always when.

Speaker 2 (49:41):
Yeah, But what I think the thing is is that
when we left alone, they don't know how to leave
us alone. Because when we left alone, we build, and
we do our thing, and we do for each other.
And I think the biggest thing about colonialism is that
it needs to be in your business. And the only
way to be in your business is to constantly disrupt
your business. So I think, for me, I don't really

(50:04):
if you're only gonna talk about the effects of things
and not the causes, I don't really want to have
no conversation with you because everything you know what I'm saying, like,
you go to therapy today at for if you start
therapy right now, what's the first thing they're gonna want
to address your childhood? Because they're going to want to
get into the root causes of disbehavior. So if we
want to get into the cot like, if we want
to look at the black behavior of black people, what

(50:26):
are the causes and what are and these are the
effects of these behaviors? You can't tell a community that
was ravished by a drug that took mothers out the home,
fathers out the home, incarcerated and make moms like black moms.
The standard of mothers in America raising white people babies
now are bad mothers. Y'all tripping, bro. I don't want
to I don't be wanting to hear that shit. But

(50:46):
I think a lot of times too, it's just like
we also need to be that's not an excuse, Okay,
if we don't talk about the causes of the behavior,
then we want to fix the behavior because then we'll
just make excuses. But I think for me, if we
know the root causes, then we have to fix the behaviors,
even if we're living in there fixed like, oh my
daddy wasn't there, so what be there for your children?

(51:08):
Or don't have children that we were.

Speaker 3 (51:10):
That's what we talk about, we do, and we were
definitely just set up to feil here in America.

Speaker 6 (51:16):
It's just so many instances.

Speaker 3 (51:17):
Where not only were people doing the drugs in our community,
but also in the early nineties, you had so many
young black men going to jail for having small amounts
of weed on them and they were giving them life sentences.

Speaker 6 (51:30):
That happened to my dad.

Speaker 1 (51:32):
And now they owner, they own a dispensary.

Speaker 6 (51:35):
Yeah, now it's legal.

Speaker 2 (51:39):
This is the thing, man, I don't I don't be
giving a fuck about what folks got.

Speaker 3 (51:46):
To say about us, because, like obviously a lot of
the criticism is not rooted in love, and it's rooted
in this better than black people mentality, right, And you
know what I'm saying, If that's if that's gonna be
like the way you approach you, I don't really got
no talk for you like that.

Speaker 2 (52:02):
I'm more so I want to build with people who
want to build. I want to build with builders. I
don't want to build with niggas who look at the
structure and be like, you know what, we should tear
that down and do it different. The niggas shut up.
You won't even hear when we build this shit, you
know what I'm saying. But I think more than anything,
we have to always be mindful of the historical aspect
of who we are. All these great culture, all these

(52:25):
great characteristics that come from our community is also rooting
a lot of trauma and like our responses to trauma,
but also like a lot of times our response to
trauma be community. And we don't live in that aspect
now because we live in a simulation of community because
we got these phones.

Speaker 6 (52:41):
Yeah it's the I'm telling you. And speaking of trauma,
let's talk about it. But the second topic, let's.

Speaker 3 (52:49):
Talk about all black men's preferences in dating younger women
and how it is affecting the black community in a
black household.

Speaker 4 (52:58):
Look about it.

Speaker 1 (52:59):
I feel like, and I'm gonna use myself as an example, right,
I in my head, not in my head, how I
move in the world. I'm creaming the crop. Right, I'm
a great catch, and I know that. But that's because
I'm sure within myself and.

Speaker 4 (53:18):
My community and how I feel. You know what I'm saying.
I know the value in myself.

Speaker 1 (53:22):
But when I get online and I'm popping my shit
and I'm talking, I'm having fun with my homegirl and
we're successful women, there's men in the comments.

Speaker 4 (53:31):
Like, oh, but she's single, she's not married. She don't
have no kids. This is why you gotta get.

Speaker 1 (53:36):
Them when they twenty two to twenty three, and it'll
be a forty year old man saying this, a forty
year old man who should I should be the type
of woman that he's trying to court.

Speaker 4 (53:45):
But instead you're like, this is u's baggage, she's used,
she's dirt. Let me go get a twenty two year old.

Speaker 2 (53:52):
Okay, well, here's the thing. You want, somebody young and dumb,
because then you come out with them and to being
like the type of woman like that, perfect whatever that.
Don't question me, don't challenge me, don't hold me accountable.
A grown woman and I took care of herself, went
through her own trials and triple A. It's a different standard,

(54:14):
and I may expect you to be on the same
growing up standard as me. And our culture infantializes black men.
So when we're talking about a mass incarceration of black man,
these men is going into prison from anywhere from fifteen
to twenty four. And when you go in, you're not
acclimated to society, so you also are not becoming an
adult the same way niggas on the street is becoming adult.

(54:35):
Street culture is very infantalized. What they tell you about
hip hop, All this shit is geared towards the attention
of young people. So you got niggas that's forty years old.
They still dressed like a twenty yeard mirror. But you
understand why you got a Maria. Let me let me
shout it up with litz to break it off. Can
I shout it up with lits?

Speaker 4 (54:56):
You in a fucking kind You are a walker with
tennis ball. At the end of it.

Speaker 2 (55:01):
The thing gives is that it's not necessarily like I'm
not putting niggas down. I just need to understand what
the situation is. Like you've been infantalized, so you haven't
been held to an expectation to grow at the same
rate as other men in this society. Most men at
thirty five is thinking about families, thinking about business. It's
thinking about structural things towards the future, and not thinking

(55:23):
about like what their relationship to young women is. I
don't even want to talk to a woman that don't
got a three in her age. Come on now, bro, like,
get away from me. You know what I'm saying. And
the thing is is like I understand, like the maturity
of things twenty seven, twenty nine, Like, yeah, we probably
could hold each other attention and have a certain conversation,

(55:44):
but then think about this, you don't got if you
don't got no kids, you ain't never married before, then
we definitely don't got nothing to talk about because my
experience in life is just completely different for yours. You
don't got no kids, you ain't trying to be no
step on.

Speaker 3 (55:54):
And one of the main things that a lot of
I mean, unless I can say, but but if you're
talking to a woman that's my same age, if she
don't got kids, she might have already had this conversation
like okay, any man, I'm me from here for he
gonna have kids.

Speaker 2 (56:08):
If I want to be with a nigga that's a
good dad, I have to take on a step up.
This is the thing that comes with maturity, Like I think,
what the fuck? Like I got little cousins, that's twenty
twenty one, twenty two. I don't like talking to these
niggas like right, yeah, because it's like it's not that
I don't love them, it's just our conversation it's so
different different, So it's like, what the fuck these predatory

(56:31):
behavior is so normalized. Pedophiles are protected niggas that you
did what I'm saying. This is a protected class. It's
a protected class of people. We don't talk about the
amount of little boys and little girls that are molested
when they growing up and protected and got to be
around these niggas that did this shit to them or

(56:51):
women that did this shit to them, and everybody acting
like happen. So when you see a nigga talking like that,
he understands how normalized predatory behavior is. Of course, like
he it's legal. You did what I'm saying. So a
nigga look at that like, well, I ain't saying that wrong.
She's twenty two, she's grown nigga. You know better than that.

Speaker 6 (57:09):
And that's what I was, right, and that's what I
was gonna say to me.

Speaker 3 (57:14):
It's like borderline a predatory fetish because at the end
of the day, what.

Speaker 6 (57:19):
Do you want with a woman?

Speaker 2 (57:21):
He was gonna take that, nigga.

Speaker 3 (57:31):
What if do you want with a woman that's significantly
younger than you? And I feel like a lot of
those men, they typically love to say, oh, it's a
fertility things right, because the men has been dispelled that
after thirty five you can't still have children. It's so
many women who are having healthy children, healthy pregnancies thirty
five plus well in today forty.

Speaker 6 (57:50):
So we can't use it as.

Speaker 4 (57:53):
They're saying, Oh, but she's not furtily more. You got
four kids already that you don't even take care of.

Speaker 6 (57:57):
And let's also chat about the fact that it's women.

Speaker 2 (58:00):
It's not it's not about it's an excuse, okay. So,
like here's the thing, right, we got to understand that
like a lot of the standard of beauty in America
and throughout the world is centered around whiteness, and the
white standard of beauty is centered around preprebescent women. They're
like a skinny, frail, hairless, hairless for whatever reason.

Speaker 6 (58:21):
Like, man, that's why Brazilian waxes became a thing.

Speaker 2 (58:24):
Hold on, but I like my wax, you know what
I'm saying. But the thing is is that a lot
of a lot of like rape culture, pedophilia, all that
ship is normalized to the point where it's like, niggas,
don't think they're saying nothing wrong. They something wrong with
you for not agreeing with them. But I think for me,
it's just like it'll take other men too. See, you

(58:47):
got a bunch of weird niggas over here congregating and
talking to each other, and they in the echo chamber
of weird niggas, and they think the weird shit is cool.
Then when they say it in public, they're like, yeah,
not a weird shit be normalized. We see it at
the highest levels in the country, these niggas. Is weird. Yeah,
And I think that, Yeah, man, if you don't if

(59:07):
you're a growl man and you don't want to deal
with another grown woman and you want to start talking
about fertility, nigga, Like, what are you talking about, nigga?
You got on you on high blood pressure medication, That's.

Speaker 4 (59:16):
All I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (59:17):
Though, Yeah, you got you got you you. You're working
too many pills, my nigga to be worried about fertility.
Let's start working about fertility and worry about retirement. Hello,
that's one k my nigga, Stocks and bonds, nigga.

Speaker 4 (59:29):
But I also think, like I said, the society has
done that.

Speaker 2 (59:33):
I don't want to be around forty O on niggas
still chasing bitches, bro, Like that's.

Speaker 1 (59:37):
Come on, now, you're weird, because what they what do
they say as men age, oh, men, they get fine
with time, that men age like wine.

Speaker 4 (59:46):
And they try to make us feel like we exactly.

Speaker 2 (59:49):
Nigga, women be bad as fuck. Man woman out right
now a woman from twenty to twenty five and then
thirty to thirty five, that thirty to thirty five year
old that different.

Speaker 6 (01:00:00):
That's what I'm saying. I literally said that when I actually.

Speaker 2 (01:00:04):
Like grown up women, that the day people loophole her,
pedophilia is there, bro, it's there. Nigga, Oh she's grown,
she's she's the eight. If a nigga mentioned an Asian consent,
lock them up, yup, lock them up. Just let them
do ninety days and solid with a bunch of books.

Speaker 6 (01:00:25):
No, I was no, you're good, you good. I was
just saying.

Speaker 3 (01:00:28):
I was on TikTok Live the other day and I
actually has said that because I feel like, especially like
with me and you, because we're so open about our
age and stuff on the show.

Speaker 6 (01:00:36):
Whenever we be on social media, I'm sure it happened
to you.

Speaker 3 (01:00:38):
So people are always try to leave comments and call
us old when like, my thing is since win A
thirty four and thirty six become.

Speaker 2 (01:00:45):
Old even fantilized culture. I want to be young forever
and Nigga is coming.

Speaker 3 (01:00:51):
And the funniest part about it is, majority of the time,
when Lex and I tell people our age, they're always
shocked and think that we're significantly younger than what we
say we are. So the point that I'm making is
I was literally on Live talking about how when I
was in my early twenties, like I definitely used to
think I was cute, and I was cute in my twenties,
but like, it's something about when I turned the thirty
that grown woman find out. It just hits you different.

(01:01:13):
And I truly feel like I look the best that
I've ever looked right now. So that apps now period,
I'm more focused on health and well needs, like just
a lot of different things an adult.

Speaker 6 (01:01:24):
I'm an adult. I'm grown.

Speaker 2 (01:01:25):
It's fun.

Speaker 6 (01:01:26):
I'm grown.

Speaker 3 (01:01:27):
I have my own bread, I got my own sense
of style. I got wisdom because I have life experience.
Nigga don't care about like twenty year olds is doing
everything that twenty year olds is.

Speaker 4 (01:01:36):
Doing, that's right.

Speaker 2 (01:01:37):
So a thirty five worried about what twenty year olds
is doing.

Speaker 6 (01:01:40):
That's wisd I'm like y'all don't have nothing in common.

Speaker 2 (01:01:44):
Well, you living backwards. You supposed to be focused on
some different shit, And for me, it's like we need
to find like we really need to find like the
beauty and blessing and aging. Like everybody don't get to
do this shit.

Speaker 4 (01:01:56):
Come on, you are you doing?

Speaker 2 (01:01:58):
Niggas will talk about like, oh, they died too young, Like, bro,
this is what y'all like, that's what you'll.

Speaker 6 (01:02:06):
Too young.

Speaker 2 (01:02:11):
I'm thirty five. You're telling me I'm old.

Speaker 1 (01:02:14):
And I feel like to like you said, going back
to like the things that are interested, and I feel
like when me Andred talk on the phone, we're talking
about like how to invest our money, our next moves.
She gives me tips on in the gym, like we
talk about things that.

Speaker 3 (01:02:26):
Are actually important that be talking about people too sometimes.

Speaker 4 (01:02:29):
Oh sometimes.

Speaker 2 (01:02:32):
Listen, man, I'm gonna keep it real, Bros. There's not
no I want everybody to stop this idea that you're
not talking about other people.

Speaker 6 (01:02:40):
Bro, I hate that hate.

Speaker 1 (01:02:43):
Oh if you're gossip thing, you ain't getting no money.
I'm at we're doing bold and I'm talking about you'all
in the comment.

Speaker 2 (01:02:49):
Nigga's rich all duality.

Speaker 1 (01:02:51):
Come on now, I hate I'm not gonna lie. I
hate that narrative.

Speaker 2 (01:02:55):
I think that everybody trying to like everybody's trying to
make themselves seem like peak humans, like shut up.

Speaker 4 (01:03:00):
All I do is wake up in the one wake up.
I drink my tea.

Speaker 2 (01:03:04):
I do yo.

Speaker 6 (01:03:06):
I don't even meditate, but after that gym drink.

Speaker 2 (01:03:09):
My much from I don't even drink the coffee. I
eat it way protein. I'm at the gym at three
forty five in the morning. I didn't even sleep, but
I'm on my third book this.

Speaker 1 (01:03:23):
I do think that there's people like that. I feel
like the closest person I know that's like that is
probably Drea. But best believe my girl. When the tea
is going down, I think you love.

Speaker 6 (01:03:33):
Some missy sheet. Oh, I love somessy.

Speaker 3 (01:03:37):
We are human people, We're humans, We're social, we are
social creatures, nigga. A part of being social is talking
about society. People is in society.

Speaker 2 (01:03:47):
Nigga. I'm talking about people. It may not be my
central focus. Yeah, and also too, it's like we just
exchanging a little information that you know what I'm saying.
I'm hey, man, let me but That's a good point though.

Speaker 3 (01:03:58):
I think that's when it becomes a problem that's a
central focus.

Speaker 4 (01:04:03):
About.

Speaker 1 (01:04:04):
Yeah, yeah, I'm not a lot I feel like we gossip,
but I feel like, honestly, a lot of times we're
talking about us and ourselves, like we do talk about
ourselves a lot in our.

Speaker 2 (01:04:13):
And the people that you got some about is connected
to you, right, it's.

Speaker 3 (01:04:16):
Not well for for me A lot of the time,
it do be people that's connected to me that much
about what strangers.

Speaker 2 (01:04:23):
Like brou Me and my partners will go out, like
if we go out niggas go out with me, especially
in Big Cat, like we go out places and we
meet a new experiences. Nigga got a debrief like that.
Nigga was actingly weird.

Speaker 1 (01:04:34):
I mean, I'm not gonna lie though, just speaking of mess,
you was like involved in a mess you are on
TikTok like it was something that happened with Jamila and
the girl approached.

Speaker 2 (01:04:46):
Oh man, bruh. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:04:49):
I see Lex knowing these times that I be having
no clues.

Speaker 2 (01:04:52):
I know, I know if I was, I involved myself
and I shouldn't have did that. But at the same time,
it's like it was a women business. Nah, they put
me in that shit, Why you approaching me about my friend?
That's my partner. You know, like me and Jamila, we like,
I'm always gonna fuck Jamila. She put me on my
first panel. She the first person to reach out to
me outside of social media and put me in a

(01:05:14):
room where I could actually express who I was. That
shit was a big mama for me. That shit actually
like turned me up, you know what I'm saying. She
ain't have to do that so like for me, and
then anytime there's opportunities present, she always tried to include
me like that been our whole shit. We exchange on
a business level. And I think also, like you know,
I don't think niggas know how to be I ain't

(01:05:36):
gonna say that that's very generalized, but I think we
just need to normalize platonic relationships.

Speaker 4 (01:05:42):
Not talk about platonic.

Speaker 5 (01:05:44):
No.

Speaker 2 (01:05:45):
I wasn't even thinking about No. I won't even think
about Cam when I said that. I'm just saying, like,
that's how a relationship. And I think, you know, you know,
anytime I'm sitting down with women and I start talking sensible,
niggas is the red pill niggas are gearing up. So
after this drop, I'm going to get great marketing. You
know what I mean, Shout out to you niggas. That's losers.
That's going to talk about me and calling me a

(01:06:06):
Pandora for the next two weeks. So I'm gonna lean in.
But the thing is is that yeah shot it. You know,
she approached me in a weird way. I didn't know
what was going on. So it was like, why the
fuck you telling me? She's a lying.

Speaker 3 (01:06:24):
I just for me.

Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
It was just like, why are you telling me that
you got beef with my friend? And so it was
just like when I I didn't know what it was about.
I was working, I was booked to host the show.

Speaker 4 (01:06:33):
I know I'm saying, but you was being messy though low.

Speaker 2 (01:06:37):
Key, being a little missy.

Speaker 4 (01:06:38):
It was a little messy. But I think that's okay
because it was in you were taking up for your friend.

Speaker 2 (01:06:43):
Well, I just wanted to be a little a lot.
Let's clarify, Let's get the facts out there, and then
everybody can really make their decisions. I'm a I'm a
very like, let's get all the information. You know what
I'm saying, I like to be well read and research.
You know what I'm saying, get all the information. I
think that this is I think my perspective was an
aspect that would be your leftop.

Speaker 3 (01:07:03):
Okay, that's fair, and it was lacking. There's a lot
of perspective being that. Let me, let's just put some
texture on the story. I think you're lying a little
bit bit.

Speaker 2 (01:07:12):
You're lying a little bit a little bit.

Speaker 4 (01:07:14):
I think that's fair.

Speaker 1 (01:07:16):
I'll give you a quick rundown. It was a girl
that was talking ship about Jamila on the internet. They
seen each other in person at a party and shit
got weird.

Speaker 4 (01:07:24):
That's that's the basic.

Speaker 2 (01:07:26):
Basically what it was. I think she she came up,
she got a lot of followers talking about yeah, which
is no going you know what I'm saying, And I
guess the whole situation where she approached her to try to,
as she said, extending olive branch, like how you gonna
stand me? Oli branch and you about me? So Jamila

(01:07:49):
was like, I'm good, cool on that, and then she
went to the next day and was like, y'all she
got back on the.

Speaker 4 (01:07:56):
Yes, that's the thing, her thing.

Speaker 2 (01:07:58):
So what she do White you gotta be mindful of
the content you create, because what if you what if?
What if? What if you?

Speaker 4 (01:08:04):
What if you?

Speaker 2 (01:08:06):
What if you? What if you get? What if you
blow up on the weird ship on just that random
video you wanted to make.

Speaker 3 (01:08:11):
Have you ever had a vis be helping but they
don't blow it off the weirds majority of the time.

Speaker 7 (01:08:17):
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Speaker 1 (01:08:17):
Can you imagine somebody who is giving you hell talking
about you, then you see them at.

Speaker 4 (01:08:21):
An event They're like, hey, j I just wanted to
say I there's nothing.

Speaker 3 (01:08:26):
To say, respectfully, I think she's a little bit to me.
Ain't not about to walk up to me after they
was talking walk.

Speaker 2 (01:08:34):
Up to me like, look, I want to give you
an opportunity.

Speaker 1 (01:08:37):
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Speaker 2 (01:08:43):
Was not linger too long because she's gonna get content
for Yeah, but.

Speaker 3 (01:08:50):
Putting their head and then they be having a background.
Let's discuss this poor mind's episode with.

Speaker 2 (01:08:59):
And this is what I talking about this business. This
is a nigga.

Speaker 4 (01:09:05):
Yeah, okay, we're gonna move on what we got now.

Speaker 3 (01:09:08):
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Speaker 4 (01:09:17):
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Speaker 2 (01:09:23):
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we can't go.

Speaker 6 (01:09:32):
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before you go out and you use the couchie wash
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Speaker 4 (01:11:05):
You get home, put it still fresh.

Speaker 1 (01:11:07):
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the bathroom. I told you about using that down soap
on your cochi. You don't even got to do that.

Speaker 4 (01:11:13):
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Speaker 3 (01:11:14):
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Wipe it up, wipe it up. I love to wipe
that kouchi and he put a little oil on it,
so it ain't ashy.

Speaker 4 (01:11:22):
I know that's right. Okay, let's get to the topic.

Speaker 1 (01:11:32):
So for the bad topic today, we want to talk
about the difference.

Speaker 4 (01:11:37):
You know, we're being woke this episode, so we're gonna.

Speaker 2 (01:11:39):
Keep them going.

Speaker 1 (01:11:41):
We want to talk about white porn versus black porn.

Speaker 4 (01:11:45):
It's crazy to think, but.

Speaker 1 (01:11:46):
Everything is segregated, the club, the grocery stores, every.

Speaker 6 (01:11:51):
Porn and porn. Well, I know we come together in porn.

Speaker 3 (01:11:56):
I don't know that should be like that should be
like white angel gets destroyed by big black.

Speaker 4 (01:12:02):
Yeah that's how said. I mean, Queen gets destroyed white.

Speaker 2 (01:12:10):
Like ghetto black.

Speaker 3 (01:12:13):
You're watching, that's all.

Speaker 4 (01:12:21):
You gotta say, Avenue, you gotta start.

Speaker 1 (01:12:26):
Oh my god, So white and black porn can be
totally different.

Speaker 2 (01:12:30):
Usually like bitch takes white cars.

Speaker 4 (01:12:34):
I'm sorry, I just dude, Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:12:38):
It's getting the attention that I mean.

Speaker 7 (01:12:40):
I'm not.

Speaker 2 (01:12:42):
We know what the type being for what we do
programmed us to this degrading ship.

Speaker 4 (01:12:48):
But I'm not gonna lie. I do not like to see.

Speaker 1 (01:12:51):
First of all, I don't like men in my porn period.

Speaker 4 (01:12:54):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:12:56):
I don't.

Speaker 4 (01:12:56):
I don't like to see dick and balls. They're not cute, They're.

Speaker 2 (01:13:00):
Not a little solo VI.

Speaker 4 (01:13:02):

Speaker 6 (01:13:03):
I like a Laurel doing their thing.

Speaker 1 (01:13:06):
I like to see women, women on women, but honestly,
I would rather see a black woman.

Speaker 4 (01:13:11):
I do give me my segregated porn. This is what
this is what we fought for.

Speaker 6 (01:13:16):
Yeah, I mean people segregate.

Speaker 4 (01:13:18):
Some things need to say segregated.

Speaker 2 (01:13:19):
Everybody feel that way, you know what I'm saying. You
know they do this.

Speaker 6 (01:13:23):
I don't know if this was quite all.

Speaker 2 (01:13:25):
For I got this specifically, but you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:13:32):
It wasn't like the seventies. Yeah, yeah, but like.

Speaker 2 (01:13:37):
Something about you know what niggas is freaked out as
soon as the motion picture came, was like we should
fun on and then do y'all they have porn, you know,
to beat.

Speaker 4 (01:13:52):
I know that right.

Speaker 6 (01:13:55):
Where you be on a different beat.

Speaker 2 (01:14:00):
But no, listen, I missed music and porn because, like
you say, what porn. I'm telling you, niggas's freaky. Man,
niggas like, man, I ain't even picture some titties. Man,
what's up?

Speaker 1 (01:14:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:14:11):
Yeah, you're trying to shut the titties. It's one of
these harlots.

Speaker 4 (01:14:15):
The harlets.

Speaker 2 (01:14:16):
Give us some shillings. Man.

Speaker 3 (01:14:18):
Man, I know that eighteen ninety six porn was funky.
I know that room was funky.

Speaker 4 (01:14:24):
Game was wrong.

Speaker 2 (01:14:27):
At some point in human history has traded a goat.

Speaker 4 (01:14:29):
For ooh, and I like a little goat.

Speaker 2 (01:14:32):
That would have been me.

Speaker 4 (01:14:33):
I was giving it up for that goat. You can
do a lot with some goat. Ste Curry, you.

Speaker 2 (01:14:40):
Know what I'm saying. I mean, it's only one goat.
You gotta get what you can, so you have to
kill that more.

Speaker 4 (01:14:44):
But it's something about white even good though.

Speaker 1 (01:14:47):
It's something about white porn that just doesn't give it
up for me. I don't like the word cock.

Speaker 6 (01:14:53):
I kind of like that word.

Speaker 2 (01:14:54):
It's very like it's just funny.

Speaker 1 (01:14:59):
Cock gives close to e R for me, it sounds yes,
I do not like it.

Speaker 2 (01:15:08):
Nigga. He was like, you like the call?

Speaker 4 (01:15:12):
I don't want to jail. You're going you know it's
you know, you have to say like it's something like that.
Did you like that? D I'm like your you know
what I'm saying. I feel like black.

Speaker 3 (01:15:29):
It's just a swag and I don't like like, I
don't like white, the white cadence of like fucking.

Speaker 2 (01:15:36):
Yeah, why so we get off.

Speaker 4 (01:15:43):
It's given like rabbit humpy.

Speaker 2 (01:15:45):
They wouldn't be talking.

Speaker 1 (01:15:46):
Ship yes, like it's very sexy, like we're very sultry
in the it's a rhythm.

Speaker 2 (01:15:52):
Like why it's like white people be sucking in a rush.
They ain't supposed to be doing it.

Speaker 4 (01:15:57):
I don't like that.

Speaker 6 (01:15:58):
I can't gout somewhere to be that do.

Speaker 7 (01:16:02):
Just like that?

Speaker 2 (01:16:03):
God damn what you thought you wouldn't gona get? So
that pass you the run?

Speaker 1 (01:16:10):
Right?

Speaker 4 (01:16:10):
Can I ask?

Speaker 2 (01:16:12):
Bringing on films? They run out of film?

Speaker 4 (01:16:18):
Do you?

Speaker 2 (01:16:22):
I'm glad we're paying ship.

Speaker 4 (01:16:26):
Do you have a favorite porn star?

Speaker 2 (01:16:28):
No, that's weird to have a favorite. Hell yeah, I'm
thirty five.

Speaker 4 (01:16:33):
I mean, but you have somebody like favorite?

Speaker 2 (01:16:34):
When I was younger, man, I'm telling who it was, Pinky,
I knew that little bit was dag.

Speaker 4 (01:16:41):
She got that.

Speaker 2 (01:16:42):
I had like a cople like a little top fire,
a little misking. Sophia Castello had a white girl. Alexis Texas.
Not a variety had Texas. You know what I mean?
Let me tell you something problem. No, no, sir, just
before I knew who dactor umar?

Speaker 4 (01:17:00):
Okay, okay, do you have a favorite boar star?

Speaker 3 (01:17:05):
I don't not currently, No, but like today with this
lady I think her name was was her name Lacey.

Speaker 2 (01:17:16):
Was a young gunnery. Of course she's as how to
make sure she hasn't big titties. Boy, she hasn't big fake.

Speaker 4 (01:17:25):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 3 (01:17:26):
You know that was back then when girls, when black
girls ain't really had a fake.

Speaker 4 (01:17:30):
Like I realized, I like, I.

Speaker 1 (01:17:32):
Like black women that have the fake a little like
I like a little bimbo look sometimes because it gives
like you are a.

Speaker 6 (01:17:41):
Whore, you are a slut.

Speaker 4 (01:17:43):
And that's what I want to Yes, that's what I
want to say.

Speaker 2 (01:17:46):
Look, this is your profession. Do this well.

Speaker 4 (01:17:49):
You need to go in.

Speaker 2 (01:17:51):
I need you to be a real whore.

Speaker 4 (01:17:52):
I need you.

Speaker 3 (01:17:54):
I'm not here for amateur work. I want to and
I need a professional.

Speaker 2 (01:18:00):
You know what I'm saying. I like that y'all star
a point star nigga. No yeah doing it.

Speaker 1 (01:18:12):
I feel like I couldn't do that. Start women, they
be kind of like t like that could be ta
the niggas.

Speaker 4 (01:18:17):
The niggas.

Speaker 6 (01:18:19):
Yeah, I remember, please don't.

Speaker 2 (01:18:23):
I remember the one time watching the point nigga fing
and some loves.

Speaker 6 (01:18:28):
That's compointly, they'll probably be wearing them with the.

Speaker 2 (01:18:32):
S they nigga got a little fan and nigga. The
niggas starting a nigga credible winds, turned by.

Speaker 4 (01:18:59):
And dollars.

Speaker 6 (01:19:05):
But I'm not gonna lie, like get you to be
a real nigga to know about.

Speaker 1 (01:19:12):
Magazine's an East Bay magazine. I never got into like
the brin pumper hype like back in the day.

Speaker 2 (01:19:18):
Like rapping in fucking like what you do well nobody
he's getting the buda in the bed because like one
b you divide the audience because it's like the niggat
bars and it's.

Speaker 4 (01:19:30):
Like, imagine you would have called a nigga Brian Pump hard.

Speaker 2 (01:19:39):
This nigga is a gooner freaked out man, what's nigga?

Speaker 1 (01:19:45):
Man?

Speaker 6 (01:19:46):
Yeah, that's a little you know, is not fire man.

Speaker 2 (01:19:51):
It's like it's like you get a lot of pussy contractually.

Speaker 3 (01:19:54):
I feel like being a poor nigga, it gives I
need this money like you giveing t t off of City.

Speaker 2 (01:20:01):
Away man for shelter man.

Speaker 4 (01:20:03):
Yeah, hold on, you're crazy for shelters. Its definitely.

Speaker 2 (01:20:13):
Two hours of mid and a bitch that was ready,
you know what I mean? She needed somebody.

Speaker 4 (01:20:19):
Hobo sexuals like baby out here season two.

Speaker 2 (01:20:22):
She let me draw her car. No license, I'm going
to see other women. I'm like, look, I got the
Dickey's on, I got this mid you want to smoke,
I got a wheel, I got these.

Speaker 6 (01:20:34):
These dickies and.

Speaker 2 (01:20:37):
Little let's talk about it. Let's talk about it awful.

Speaker 4 (01:20:43):
Let me just say that.

Speaker 2 (01:20:46):
Go ahead.

Speaker 6 (01:20:46):
I just want to ask Sean.

Speaker 3 (01:20:48):
Do y'all have any scenarios like when y'all are watching
porn all off, all of them.

Speaker 2 (01:20:53):
Yeah, it's just all that we stop talking.

Speaker 4 (01:20:56):
Oh my god, so much mail? Who deliver the smell?
And then in a box?

Speaker 2 (01:21:08):
You know what, I ain't gonna lie. The finest porn
hubs be doing the property ship, like where they act
like their real estate. It's like how you gonna pay? Okay, bitch,
all right?

Speaker 1 (01:21:19):
But sometimes in this prop house, but sometimes it's very rare.
But sometimes you'll get a storyline that's kind of good juicy.
I'll be like, let me beat this mean finished, because
I need to know what happened.

Speaker 2 (01:21:29):
I need people to be naked out is talking. I
don't need look if i'm if I'm f I'm so horny. Yeah,
I don't need cut up.

Speaker 4 (01:21:40):
But watching the dialogue of a porn you might be
too horny for me.

Speaker 2 (01:21:45):
Now you will listen. I'm gonna tell you something.

Speaker 6 (01:21:47):
Are you like a good story?

Speaker 1 (01:21:49):
I do like a good story every now, every now
and then, but sometimes people are.

Speaker 2 (01:21:52):
Really to the story. I ain't gonna lot, man, the
whole story is like, I know it's a good but.

Speaker 6 (01:21:59):
Gonna have what's the plot?

Speaker 2 (01:22:02):
I'm gonna tell you something else too. I'm tell you, niggas,
is you gotta go get a psychological evaluation if you
leave in comments under the porn bro.

Speaker 1 (01:22:10):
Okay, yeah that's a little too far. But sometimes I'll
read the comment you do. I'll be like, oh they
went in, let me see what they talking about.

Speaker 2 (01:22:17):
Oh you read the comments before you watch it?

Speaker 4 (01:22:18):
Now your reviews review I don't even know what's going on.

Speaker 2 (01:22:25):
Commonsation with being delusional, Like.

Speaker 1 (01:22:27):
Yeah me next, what is anybody in South Carolina right
now looking for hold on, wait, you need to slow down, niggas.

Speaker 3 (01:22:40):
Okay, but I know I'm a little hood because sometimes
I like the amateur porn over like the professional.

Speaker 6 (01:22:49):
The iPhone.

Speaker 2 (01:22:50):
Yes, I'm trying to see what real humans doing. I
have read this book. It fucked me up about porn
like it fucked me up. So now that's like I
really need to be real people. Like that's all the
way I can really get into it. Because they was
like talking about how like the performance of like how
porn is not six not six, nigga, So it's a
performance of sex. So like, yeah, man, that's why. That's

(01:23:14):
why I'm just like, let me find a woman that's
just doing her thut this. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:23:20):
They recorded for fun, well, but they.

Speaker 2 (01:23:22):
Actually are enjoying. It's not like it's not like I'm fake,
it's not performing. And then yeah, like real people, it's yeah,
we're getting real raw emotions out there more for me.

Speaker 1 (01:23:32):
And you know what's crazy, I think because we've had
a few porn stars on the couch and not like anybody,
like we've had the top tier. We had Janie and
then we had be Nasty and what is.

Speaker 6 (01:23:40):
That other girl Nam knew we had a long time.

Speaker 4 (01:23:42):
Ago that I can't remember her name, Cookie Cookie.

Speaker 7 (01:23:49):
Nasty.

Speaker 2 (01:23:50):
But okay, I saund that.

Speaker 1 (01:23:53):
To say, it's like, well, you actually talk to them,
and I know this sounds so bad, but they be
so cool and chill late back.

Speaker 2 (01:24:00):
I mean, they people, we all fucking yeah. I think
that they get some people fucking getting a little money
off this ship. But she I mean that, you know
what I'm saying, It ain't not really the judge. I
mean they freelancing that ship. They ain't. They ain't got
no pimp, they ain't got them, they ain't signed the
West Coast Productions and like that. You know they get

(01:24:22):
they getting their bad You know what I'm saying. I
think they found a way to heck. You know what
I'm saying. If I could get if I could sell
drugs without a plug, I would you did?

Speaker 4 (01:24:32):
I ain't bad at it going to jail.

Speaker 2 (01:24:35):
Well, nigga, I could go trafficked drugs right now, all
the country, all this country, all this podcast should be
over with niggas. This part is supponsible fitting a niggas. Okay,
you know why not?

Speaker 1 (01:24:52):
How to move on, nigga, get into the bo bow
bow so Bop of the week is the music that
we've been jamming this week. You know, it's a lot
of good new music out and you know, the old
niggas is back, and I don't want to take the

(01:25:13):
old niggas in a derogatory.

Speaker 4 (01:25:15):
Niggas that's really was rapping there.

Speaker 1 (01:25:18):
They gotta show you why in's how to get on
a track. Juvenile got a new record out.

Speaker 6 (01:25:24):
Oh yeah, yeah, I like this new song because yeah,
he's like when I heard that.

Speaker 1 (01:25:29):
He's talking about you gotta you want to fuck you
gotta fuck with the old niggas.

Speaker 4 (01:25:32):
What you doing with the young nigga.

Speaker 3 (01:25:33):
I like it because it's like twerking music. Let's give
it thousands again.

Speaker 1 (01:25:40):
I dropped the song produced Arparel. Let him know he
did fire like, don't get it twisted.

Speaker 4 (01:25:46):
This is t I P. Coming live from the v
I P. Not playing with Stop playing with legends.

Speaker 2 (01:25:53):
I don't. Yeah, that's not that's my ship.

Speaker 5 (01:25:58):
That's what.

Speaker 2 (01:26:00):
My thing is.

Speaker 6 (01:26:03):
Young.

Speaker 1 (01:26:03):
I think the young people, young people too much be
playing with our legends and they feel.

Speaker 2 (01:26:09):
Like, oh, y'all don't know niggas out rapping all city blues.
That's all I've been running. That's crazy that you took
my by that nigga Jaga Pump started some times. You
got to mean to call nigga a punk b Yeah,
I mean you mean that you're a punk.

Speaker 3 (01:26:28):
Ass bit That's what I'm saying this as nigga really
ate whoever came I've seen, I mean, but whoever.

Speaker 4 (01:26:33):
Came up with.

Speaker 2 (01:26:35):
You know, that's a real that's like literary expertise nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:26:40):
That's what I just felt like a lot of times
people get disrespectful about our legends. They'd be like, oh, y'all,
ain't okay. Let Farrell hop on that track. Who at
nigga show you what the fun he can do. Don't
make that Louis Baton don.

Speaker 2 (01:26:52):
Ship for you, nigga, that little come on.

Speaker 4 (01:27:04):
Like come on like with the hair, like that motherfucker clean.

Speaker 2 (01:27:10):
Like two days after he cut his I was like, they.

Speaker 4 (01:27:13):
Said he got a face lift. They said he cut
their hair and it looked like a brand new nigga.
Maybe he's born with it. Maybe it's maybe le whole
ass nigga. Ice him out.

Speaker 6 (01:27:25):
What's all box Well? I feel like Neil's tasted. Maybe he's.

Speaker 7 (01:27:34):
Crazy Brolloyd.

Speaker 6 (01:27:46):
I'm glad we bout up what he looks good?

Speaker 5 (01:27:52):
Let him.

Speaker 2 (01:27:54):
Anything ass nigga is just it's funny.

Speaker 6 (01:27:57):
It's funny they ate with that.

Speaker 2 (01:27:58):
My bad. I ain't mean still yeah ship. I got another.
I got a little bit.

Speaker 3 (01:28:05):
It could be both of hours. What was it his
song that he said? Bounce roll Blues by Jason.

Speaker 2 (01:28:11):
Bounce roll how you all but my bed but roll blues.

Speaker 6 (01:28:16):
Not buns, I mean, not bounce.

Speaker 2 (01:28:19):
A little stop line. Bro, ain't got nothing.

Speaker 4 (01:28:24):
We got a little little sleep in there.

Speaker 2 (01:28:29):
CBD.

Speaker 1 (01:28:30):
But Future because somebody had made the thing like, oh
Future can't rap no more?

Speaker 2 (01:28:35):
Stop it stopped near this. I ain't gonna lie man.
I'm starting to get ages, Bro, I don't want to
hear the pinions of people younger than twenty five again
old yeah, oh Future, shut up?

Speaker 7 (01:28:50):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (01:28:50):
The people was Brandy doing the run That national anthem
was beautiful.

Speaker 4 (01:28:56):
It was Brandy Brandy, like, let's stop it.

Speaker 2 (01:29:00):
There's a lot of revisionist history that be happening with
niggas that we gotta stop.

Speaker 4 (01:29:03):
We gotta stop, do we do?

Speaker 1 (01:29:04):
I'll stop acting like Whitney Houston herself didn't say Brandy
was the.

Speaker 2 (01:29:07):
Most niggas like. It's like Christina Aguilar can saying, y'a
don't do this.

Speaker 6 (01:29:16):
I want to shoot baby.

Speaker 4 (01:29:34):
I'm sorry, Mike, I'm bad Mike.

Speaker 5 (01:29:41):
Exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:29:42):
It's roll bos but also just the whole JA call
the fall Off album.

Speaker 6 (01:29:51):
I've been fucking with the album, but I like that.

Speaker 2 (01:29:54):
Show.

Speaker 7 (01:29:55):
Bro, what the.

Speaker 4 (01:29:57):
But I'm not doing it.

Speaker 2 (01:30:05):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, fat.

Speaker 5 (01:30:16):
Shot. Okay, shut.

Speaker 4 (01:30:25):
Y'all. We gotta figure we gotta wrap.

Speaker 3 (01:30:27):
This up, the whole Jake Holl the Phone Off album,
it's t expired. But I've also been like a huge
Jake Coll fan for a long time. TI I'm glad
that he just came out with the new album and
shout out to Jake Holl because he been following Poor
Minds for like five six.

Speaker 6 (01:30:46):
Years with the girl.

Speaker 2 (01:30:49):
He knew I was.

Speaker 4 (01:30:50):
He was like, oh, I was like, yeah, walk King's
the linked up right. You know what I'm saying. That
would be a good episode.

Speaker 2 (01:30:59):
The whole nigg I know, that's collection collective, whole nigga.

Speaker 6 (01:31:06):
You know what I'm saying, that's a group name, collect collective.

Speaker 2 (01:31:11):
That's gonna be called a whole nigga.

Speaker 6 (01:31:14):
I'm like, I like it.

Speaker 2 (01:31:15):
Yeah, I'm gonna fish that team. Let's call eb after this.

Speaker 3 (01:31:20):
Okay, So y'all know, it's time to get into our
favorite segment of the show, which is for your Heart Out.
If you have any questions, you can always send them
to ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com. That's ask
kp O. You are in my das at gmail dot com. Yep,
so let's get into it. Hey, y'all, I need advice.
When I was about twenty one years old, I dated

(01:31:42):
a guy. He was about thirty two at the time. Wait,
he was about thirty two thirty three at the time.
Handsome guy, drama free, and very private. I ended up
cutting things off due to the lack of connection. We
remain friends though throughout the years. We lost contact for
a while, and recently, within the past year, reconnected on
social media. I'm thirty four, and as I've matured over
the years, I've came to the conclusion that I wasn't

(01:32:04):
mature enough during to our during our time together, and
wasn't quite ready for what he brought to the table.
I've always dated older, so the age gap isn't an
issue for me any longer, and I want to spend
the block. My only issue is a few years after
we dated, I physically transitioned from male to female. I
don't know how he feels about it, and I'm scared
to even ask. I recently spoke to a friend about it,

(01:32:26):
and the next day they told me to put the
plan in motion. So I'm assuming they may have already
put a bug in his ear can y'all help me.

Speaker 4 (01:32:35):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (01:32:36):
I feel like I'm not educated enough to give proper
advice because you said you dated a guy and you
said you transition from male to female. So I'm assuming
that y'all were in a gay relationship mm hmm, and
now you've transition into a female.

Speaker 4 (01:32:52):
But I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:32:54):
You didn't give us enough information though. Is this god
by sexual where he's attracted to women and men? I
don't think there's enough information for me to give you
a proper answer, but I will say I feel like
nothing is wrong with the conversation now. I'm not an
advocate of spending the block. I don't care what you
are l G B t Q.

Speaker 4 (01:33:11):
I don't give it.

Speaker 2 (01:33:12):
Damn.

Speaker 4 (01:33:13):
I'm not an advocate of spending.

Speaker 1 (01:33:14):
The block just because I've spun the block and it
has never worked out in my favorite Yeah, so I
think you do need to be aware of spending the block.

Speaker 4 (01:33:21):
It don't matter what you got. I don't know. I'm
not for it.

Speaker 2 (01:33:24):
Let us spending the block for six That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:33:27):
I feel like, what is your reason?

Speaker 2 (01:33:29):
Like, bro, I'm trying to confluct with you one time.

Speaker 3 (01:33:33):
Yeah, if they still got access, let's get.

Speaker 2 (01:33:35):
These flashbacks oide of my mind real quick. They're gonna
make this a real thing and then we're gonna keep
going with our life.

Speaker 4 (01:33:41):
Yeah, I mean, I feel like it's been a long time.

Speaker 2 (01:33:44):
I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:33:47):
I mean, and I feel like it ain't no harm.
I mean, for real, it ain't no harm in seeing.
But I used to watch that show pos.

Speaker 2 (01:33:53):
I don't know if.

Speaker 3 (01:33:55):
I used to watch Team for You. It's different, brand new, Yeah,
it's brand new, no mouse on it, but smelling.

Speaker 6 (01:34:09):
How Thala.

Speaker 2 (01:34:09):
I used to watch.

Speaker 6 (01:34:10):
Polls and it was a character on Poles.

Speaker 3 (01:34:13):
I can't remember her name, but she had went and
got the surgery, and like when she had went back
to miss with like one of her old dudes, he
was mad.

Speaker 6 (01:34:22):
He wanted her to keep the pennies.

Speaker 4 (01:34:23):
Yeah, so that's he didn't give us because we don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:34:27):
Yeah right, But I mean he said he transitions, so
I soon know because some people and they'll have their Yeah,
you're right, So I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:34:36):
I feel like you just have a conversation. Yeah, it
doesn't hurt. But I think spending the block is not
a good idea.

Speaker 2 (01:34:42):
I think anytime that you engage in the situation honesty,
honestly and lovingly, then you got to live whatever the
results is. If Bro not fucking with him? Yeah ship,
I mean it's still the same nigga you left exactly.
So the people really down times, you know, right, Sure

(01:35:03):
you might getin a new perspective on a few things,
but who you is at your core? Who you who
you are?

Speaker 1 (01:35:08):
And I used to spend the block all the time,
but now I'm no longer. I'm never spend the block
in like, if we're done, we're done.

Speaker 6 (01:35:15):
I agree. You know that this has been such a
fun episode.

Speaker 3 (01:35:20):
Deontai, tell everybody where they can find you, and I
also talk a little bit about your tour because you
want your tour first cousins.

Speaker 2 (01:35:27):
Yeah, me and Big can on first cousin tour. Let
me get these dates. Yeah what I mean? But you
can follow me on our social media at Deontay dot cale,
or you follow the podcast Christine's podcast on YouTube. Oh shit, man,
shout out to the managers. You know what I'm saying.
Just air drop that right. We're going to Raleigh, North Carolina,

(01:35:51):
March twenty second, Birmingham, Alabama, April first, Jacksonville, Florida, April seventh, Charlotte,
North Carolina, April fourteenth, and then Nashville, Tennessee on April
twenty eighth. All tickets are available on Deontay Kyle dot com.

Speaker 4 (01:36:05):
Congratulation.

Speaker 2 (01:36:07):
That's hell yere man that she's gonna be a little
our live show hit a little different, so we'll be
having a good time. Heck yeah, we've been turned up.
We're gonna do the knowledge always, but we're gonna have
a good time.

Speaker 4 (01:36:18):
Good well, thank you so much.

Speaker 6 (01:36:20):
That's an amazing episode.

Speaker 4 (01:36:22):
Y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:36:23):
Make sure y'all gonna follow him on everything.

Speaker 4 (01:36:25):
Y'all, get y'all lips together.

Speaker 1 (01:36:26):
Go to Music Beauty Collection dot com, get your lippies,
your lashes together, all the blushes and things like that.
Make sure y'all tune into lovelexp every Monday at ten am.

Speaker 4 (01:36:37):
Anything else were missing?

Speaker 2 (01:36:39):
By Hey, Hey, Hey, you niggas better?

Speaker 4 (01:36:44):
Is it a A.

Speaker 2 (01:36:48):
A A t.

Speaker 6 (01:36:52):
Hey intro.

Speaker 2 (01:37:00):
This bad one of the songs had to be five minutes.
I'm on the grind, grand hustle, got the mine and.

Speaker 6 (01:37:05):
The muscle cars in the crown.

Speaker 2 (01:37:08):
Just to shine on you still tell the glout failed
for the Hey, this for obation, it for the nigga.
Try to play me security reaching for my junery. Get
your nigga, pop quick still full of hot ship Fritz
shot the butt tip hop in.

Speaker 5 (01:37:24):
The drop seat in the pin Can it stop till
start till not till.

Speaker 2 (01:37:32):
So your baby mama jock tail. You don't want no problem.
I do not slip cron fold field and wheel at
the cor trup with the car right up under it
and start with that. I ain't gonna participate in that.

Speaker 3 (01:37:50):
Finn want an assap a sap, a sap, a sap.

Speaker 2 (01:37:55):
Blowing up the mountain as a pig. That's anybody who
running a g that they're gonna save me a s
A P niggas hating on p C straight as a
p niggas try to play me.

Speaker 6 (01:38:13):
I'm gonna blow them off the map a s.

Speaker 2 (01:38:15):
I know a lot of rappers don't like me, but
they won't fight me. Fist said, don't know why they
want to dykee me?

Speaker 3 (01:38:23):
He count.

Speaker 6 (01:38:35):
Do I take dot com period.

Speaker 2 (01:38:40):
Dot com? And now you really got video vix and
he was like, yeah, I know, I.

Speaker 4 (01:38:49):
IRP still come alive and the b I P. I'll
say it twenty times.

Speaker 2 (01:38:53):
So rocky and my red so icy might be thrown
off my rockers. Slightly feisty, flaming hot tip of Donna
Knight me, I'm only gone. I should find it isn't
one politely, That's all. That's that's what I have to say.
Theta dot com politic tickets, Yonta dot colar a social
media and grist neates podcast on YouTube and follow me

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