🚨 This is the healing conversation everyone needs to hear! Danny Morel joins the podcast for a powerful conversation about healing, awakening, and the deeper reasons behind the patterns we repeat in life.
After the loss of his mother and the collapse of his marriage, Danny began asking difficult questions about happiness, purpose, relationships, and the childhood experiences that shape who we become. He shares how those moments forced him to confront his deepest fears, explore the impact of early childhood trauma, and rethink everything he believed about success, religion, and identity. The conversation dives into generational trauma, the difference between living from fear versus love, why many people feel disconnected from their families, and how forgiveness and self-awareness can transform the way we experience life. Plus, the reason why real peace comes not from achievement, but from understanding ourselves at a much deeper level.
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Speaker 1 (00:14):
Personally Felsman.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
As we continue to look in words at our own
lives and have some personal reflection in this series. This
episode is going to continue us on that journey, and
I cannot be more excited to share this episode with
you guys. His name is Danny Morrell and we were
walking on the same path during this interview. I think
it's something really special.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Let's do this.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
I'm excited to be joined by Danny Morrel. Danny, you
have insane amounts of things happening on social media because
you've blown up there for all your words of wisdom
and the incredible stories that you share.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Thanks for coming on the podcast, Thanks for having me.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
You have a new book that's out by the time
this podcast is out in the world, Awaken your Highest Self.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Yeah, and it's not your first one. You're an author,
you're a speaker, you know the drill.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Yeah, in many ways, it does feel like my first one,
because my first one was life from my old life.
In the book, I talk about the story of business, Danny,
and this is very much coming from a completely different
version of me. Like that guy that wrote that first book,
he doesn't exist any So is it.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Weird for you when you look at that book that
you wrote, and you're in this different place of your life. Now,
does it feel weird that it's almost two completely different people.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
It's so much of two completely different people that I
literally tell people, please don't read that book.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Really.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Yeah, I was in my ego, I was in drive,
and I just to share this point. The name of
my event used to be relentless. Think of the energy
of that name, and that was very much the sales,
the business, the driving. And then once I healed my heart,
I realize there's nothing to really be relentless about in life. Interesting,
as a matter of fact, if you are relentless, it
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shows that you're actually wounded.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay, so break down for me.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
When the transition happened right when you finally were like, okay,
I'm not actually realless, I'm this other person.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
What happened in your life?
Speaker 1 (02:09):
So it was twofold, and it all happened right about
the same time as it does for us when we're
ready to awaken. It was the combination of my mom's
passing and my divorce, which was triggered by an affair.
So I know that's a lot. We can get into
all of it. Yeah, but like all of it happened
at once, because to be honest, I wasn't picking up
(02:33):
on the signs. I was like, bypassing myself, I was
pushing down the parts of myself that were not happy
that we're afraid to speak his truth and be in
his essence and in his masculine. Quite frankly, I was
really avoiding the parts of myself that had some really
deep pain that no one had ever told me to
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process or to work through. I was just like the
perfect good boy that did everything the right way. And
the truth is that all of that came from a
need within myself to get you to like me, because
I didn't like me. And when my mom passed away,
it's like, literally it was when she transitioned. It was
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as if she went to the other side and was like,
oh my god, I didn't know how to love him
back then, but I'm gonna love him from here. And
love sometimes puts you through some pretty tough circumstances because
it loves you enough to have you go through them.
And so that's what started happening. I started asking questions
like I mentioned in the book, are happy, And I
already knew the answer, and the answer was no. I
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was just avoiding asking myself the question for most of
my life. Do you love what you do? The answer
was no. Are you in love in your marriage? The
answer was no. All of a sudden, all of these
questions started asking that I think most of us humans
are like afraid to. And when I asked them and
had the courbage to face the answers and the truth,
that's when my life changed forever.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
So when you look back at that time, do you
feel like a lot of what impacted you is just
how you were raised, the things that you were taught,
the values that were instilled in you.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, I think it's deeper than that. I talk a
lot about this in the book. We all have masculine
and feminine energy, Yeah, and that masculine and feminine energy
is literally created through the masculine and feminine energy inside
of our mother and our father. Because if you think
about it, like when you're a child, you are defenseless.
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You can't speak, you can't run, You're just there laying
on your back. And so when you look up and
you open your eyes, you got these two people, which
some of us have won or some of us have none.
And so that's when everything starts. Is it's all based
off of what you received or didn't receive from your
mom and dad. Literally the way that they looked at you,
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the way that they showed their love with you, their
capacity to allow you to hold feet links, the space
that you had to be your authentic self. And as
I'm saying that, I think we can both agree our
parents didn't know how to do any of that.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
We weren't even having these conversations, yeah, exactly ten years
ago before now.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
And there's a reason for that is on an energetic level,
the collective consciousness is starting to awaken, and it's starting
to awaken because whether we realize it or not, there's
this thing called AI that's starting to show up that
it's literally trying to replace us. And I'm not trying
to be a conspiracy theorist. I'm just telling you, like it,
just look around. Look, you didn't have driverless taxis, you
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didn't have robots before. And when we're unconscious, we're like, wow,
that's cool. No no, no, no, no, this is very scary.
And that's why we're all starting to have these conversations
because the more that we talk about it, the more
aware we become, the more that we can heal and
the more that we can start coming from a place
of authenticity versus fear.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
And you mentioned that because it's interesting when you say
conscious awakening, that's really happening right now collective one. And
I was going to ask you about this from your
perspective because we are seeing such a huge shift happening
in society right now where we are just learning a
lot of things that really had an impact of how
we believed and see all the world, and all of
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that's coming crashing down. Everything that we believed, everything we thought,
all the things that were so just deeply ingrained into us, everything.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
And now everybody just feels like, literally what if?
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Yeah, what do I do?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
What happens now? What's your perspective on that when we
talk about that, I.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Think there's two parts to the world, and there's two
energies that we can live in as human First, I'll
start with parts of the world on an energetic basis.
This is not something you think, This is not something
you consciously do. This is energy. Everything is energy, everything
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that you see, everything that you experience, everyone that you
see and experience, And as such, we can either live
in the energy of fear or love. Okay, Now, when
you look at the energy of fear, right underneath fear
(07:20):
is separation and this is really deep. But when we
live in separation, then we are separate from each other
by race, economic class, religious believes all of these things
that society puts in between us, and as a result,
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we're separate from God and as a result, we are
separate from ourselves. In other words, when we are in
separation energy, it's me like against life. And when you
are in love, right underneath love, you're in oneness where
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instead of it being like me and you, if we
go deep, if I had the time, I could probably
guarantee you that there's parts of your life story that
are very similar to parts of my life story, and
we could probably cry together and we could probably help
each other heal. And it's a very beautiful thing. But
like out on the street, I don't know. You might
judge me and I might judge you. You know what
(08:23):
I'm saying. And this is the difference between like consciousness
and unconsciousness. Right when you are unconscious, you're literally unaware.
You are unaware of this beautiful, spiritual and energetic side
of life because you've been following the program for so
long like I did, and then when you awaken and
become conscious, you go, holy shit, Wait a minute, life
(08:48):
isn't happening to me like life has been happening for me.
Like that guy that I called a narcissist that I hate,
Oh shit, he was actually my life's greatest teacher. Oh
my god. And if he was my life's greatest teacher,
then instead of hating him, then maybe I can love him,
(09:08):
I can appreciate him. You see what I'm saying. That's
the difference is when we're in separation, we're also in
victim energy like he did it to me. When we're
in oneness, we're in creator energy, I called him in.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
So do you feel like that's what you're seeing too?
Speaker 2 (09:25):
As a lot of people are either awakening or coming
into this crossroads of I either am gonna stay in
this separation or I am going to choose to make
the jump, to make the uncomfortable choice.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
This is even more beautiful. Let's take it a step further,
because think of choosing as like masculine. It's so beautiful
that you said that word. Because the other thing is
that when we live in fear and separation. We live
in the mind, which is the masculine, and the mind
is constantly trying to protect us to con oh yeah,
oh yeah, because fear controls and love allout. The feminine
(10:02):
is the heart. Yeah, And the thing that we are
the most afraid of is returning to our heart. Why
because if you go back to what I said earlier,
when we were little boys and little girls, our mother
and father, the people who should have loved us, should
have protected us, should have put us first, should have right.
(10:22):
They didn't. They couldn't. It's a perfect part of life.
They couldn't meet our heart's needs. And that made us say,
uh ah, I'm not going down there no more. I'm
going to stay up here. And there's really severe examples
of that, by the way. But ultimately what happens is
you return to oneness and you return to love by
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returning to your heart, by returning to your feminine This
is man or woman, by the way, by returning to
the one place that maybe we unconsciously told ourselves that
we never would. And the reason why I said this
is not a choice. This is literally about an allowance.
It's always there for us. It's just will we allow
ourselves to remember, will we allow ourselves to start seeing
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the patterns in life that continue happening. You keep attracting
the same kind of partner, you keep attracting the same client,
you keep attracting the same money you make it, and
then it finds a little ceiling then and it falls,
and all of it is just a reflection of what's
happening inside of here. M M.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
Yeah, very much so.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
And you mentioned this conversation of obviously our parents didn't
have this, so it was hard for us to even
have this. Yes, and you were talking about losing your mom.
I'm curious because a huge thing that's happening on the
internet right now too, is this disconnection from our families.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
Right we very much are.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
People are learning their boundaries, are learning the things that
they went through, the things that they had experienced, and
then disconnecting. What's your take seeing this. I don't want
to call it a trend because it's not. There's a
level of it where it's we know better, we do better. Yeah,
but there's also just a lot of conversation.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Happening around that. And family is important, but there's also
boundaries that are important.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Are there's a balance in this. I think that what
you're seeing happening on the internet with families and people
leaving their families is terrible because we are made to
be in family, we're made to be in community, and
there's some families that have done some terrible things. So
every situation is a little bit different. I've seen some people,
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and I've actually worked with people that I have actually
guided them because of because of trauma and because of
control and manipulation where it's actually time to create a
little space for a season. What I think you see
happening is people are choosing to just cut people off completely,
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and as a result, they're not allowing themselves the space
to integrate the pain and heal it together. And that's
where the magic actually is. And I think that we're
missing out on a big piece of what could be
providing healing when we say no to our family.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Yeah, it very much is what's happening.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
You're just seeing people in general too, cutting off just
a quick something happens. Sometimes it goes a lot deeper
than that. Obviously, social media only tells one side of
the story. Yeah, but you see this just cut off
and it's just very blaant, very blunt, there's no nuance
to it. Yeah, And when it comes to relationships, I
am on the side of belief that there's a lot
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more nuance to that story. And teaching people just to
cut cold turkey is not quite helping us.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Really bad, really bad. This brings up I don't know
why I brought it up, but like when I got divorced,
part of what happened obviously because I had an affair.
My ex wife had a lot of pain, and I
acknowledge that, and I completely understand that the issue is
is that pain got transferred into my kids in an
unhealthy way. I don't blame anybody, it is what it is.
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And so when I saw that happen, my kids decided
for quite a few years to not spend the night
at my house and to not be around me. And
that broke my heart. But I understood it and I
allowed it. And all I did was I stayed here
and worked on myself and worked on my heart, and
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worked on the parts of myself that, quite honestly, was afraid,
afraid to speak his truth and his marriage, afraid to
be himself and his marriage, afraid. I was a people pleaser,
and that people pleasing. What it did is after thirteen
years of doing that, I found an outlet. You understand
what I'm saying is so there's a nuance in everything,
even in affairs. And people hate it when I say this,
(14:43):
but affairs are co created. It's not one day your
partner just all of a sudden decides I'm going to
go sleep with somebody else. There's a lot of things
that have been unseat. There's a lot of things that
have been unallowed. There's a lot of parts of both
of you that didn't show up one hundred percent for
each other. There's a lot of truths that you were
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afraid to speak out. And the truth is that real
love cannot breathe in secrecy. It can only breathe and
cultivate in truth. And we're afraid to speak our truth.
And I can speak for the men. The man's number
one priority in an awakened relationship is to connect to
and live from his truth and his essence, no matter
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how she reacts to that truth in that essence, Because
the only way that the woman can ever actually feel
safe in a man's presence is if he is living
in his truth.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Yeah, yeah, I can see from experience of the different
partners that I've had in my life makes sense very much.
You understand the safety that you feel with someone who
is genuinely the best.
Speaker 3 (15:49):
Version of themselves, can I say, or just themselves?
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Yes, maybe not even the best, but you know what
you're dealing with.
Speaker 3 (15:56):
Yes, yes, and yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
And I say best version because it truly I was like,
how could they get any better?
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Such a great human being. But I've also been with
people where I'm like, man, this is rough for both
of us, and you're not happy. I'm not happy. What
are we doing?
Speaker 2 (16:13):
But you can't fix them. Everybody has to make the
choice to do that for themselves. And I do applaud
you for speaking on something from your perspective, because an
affair is difficult for all parties involved, and owning the role.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
That you play in it, it's difficult.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Was that a big part of why you wanted to
I know you talked about it a little bit in
this book.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
I know you've referenced it before.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
Or is that why you wanted to do just to
bring the elephant out of that room.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
No, it's really a commitment to authenticity. It's the only
way I know how to live my life. Like you.
I'm an open book. And the reason why I'm an
open book is because I've got nothing to hide. And
I would rather be that way than to hide anything,
because if I'm hiding something, it means means that I'm
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actually in shame of it. It means that I feel
guilty of it, which means that I haven't processed it,
which means that I haven't healed from it, which means
that I literally can't do the work that I am
doing today.
Speaker 3 (17:11):
Yeah, and you cann't speak on it.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
You're going to go in this life because you haven't
owned that part of your life.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
That's right. And I can trace my affair down literally
to the first two weeks of my life. And this
is what the book is going to help you do.
The book is going to help you like access, like
where did this come from? Where did this trauma, this darkness,
this confusion, this anxiety, Where did it come from? All
you have to do is allow, and the book will
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take you there. The first two weeks of my life.
My mom had a C section, so she wasn't there.
So remember what I said, when you're born, you're defenseless
and you're just looking up and you're just looking especially
for that mother. The mother literally is teaching you how
to be with yourself. Yeah, so what I correlated life
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was in those first two weeks of life is not
feeling wanted, not feeling safe, not feeling nurtured. So then
I was my entire like young adult life as a
man looking for a wife because I thought that was
the answer.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
I wanted to feel that, I wanted to feel, not
all things that you hadn't felt, not consciously.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
By the way, this is like the deepest thing we
have to understand. We're just operating all of us from
like our deepest woundings until we heal them.
Speaker 2 (18:29):
And isn't that just so wild to thing about that
the deepest wound come from apart where we.
Speaker 3 (18:35):
Really don't even remember.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
Oh no, you get older and you're like, dang, I
can't remember seven years beyond right, you're one through seven.
I have no idea what happened, couldn't tell you. And
it's crazy that so much of an impact of our
life is from those moments.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
We can't even get to them.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
Well, we can. This is what I dedicate my life to.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
This is what we're going for.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
I'll give you two examples. So A woman I was
working with never felt safe around men. If you don't
feel safe around men, guess what you'll attract men to
validate that story. Men to not feel safe around.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Yeah, which is only going to make you feel less.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
That's safe.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
You're just perpetuating in the.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Cycle because now you can say, see, I told you
I wasn't supposed to feel safe with them. It validates
the story. So she came to me. She came to
the event Awakening Your High Self as an actual three
day event. She came to the event. It blew her
heart wide open. She started working with me for a
year so I really uncover this, and we use tools
like plant medicine, breathwork, meditation, all of it to help
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you uncover what is literally uncoverable. It's that deep. It
was her third awaken. She pulls me aside, she's crying.
She goes, You'll never guess what happened. I said what
she said. I was taken back to when I was
a little girl, summertime by the pool, and I was
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walking like just by the edge of the pool innocently,
and I looked in the water, and my dad looked
in the water and looked at me and said if
you jump in there or you fall in I'm not
coming to save you. It was that moment that was
the imprint, that was the imprint that showed her like,
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I am not literally valuable enough or worthy enough to
be saved or protected by the one man that is
supposed to save and protect.
Speaker 3 (20:35):
So tell me.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Why something like that is such a catalyst in our lives.
Tell me why something that feels to the outside world innocent. Right,
you're gonna hear people talk about this of where they're like,
I've said stuff like that that before and it didn't
mean anything, or you know that's the argument, right, But
tell me why, because I believe it.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
Words matter?
Speaker 2 (20:57):
Yeah, why is that such a cat listener life? Why
are those moments such catalysts.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
Because you feel, Because you feel them, you have a
reaction to them, and whether we realize it or not,
that reaction gets literally imprinted into our nervous system because
our mind, our masculine is designed to protect them. Yep,
the masculine. Think about a man and a woman. The
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masculine is literally designed to protect the woman. That's his duty. Yep. Yeah.
And what is the woman inside of you? The woman
is the heart and what is the masculine. Your mind,
so your own mind, it's as within so without your
own mind is consciously and unconsciously just trying to keep
you safe, always protecting you, always protecting you.
Speaker 2 (21:45):
Why it's always the barrier to everything away.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Because it's just right, no, no, no, you're not going
to hurt me. So if the mind in this case,
the little girl at age I think she was four
or five, like, think about how young she was, earned
the man will not jump in to save you and
protect you, even if your life depended on it, then
what did that mind decide to do? Okay, well from
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this day forward.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
And went into mode to save her.
Speaker 1 (22:16):
That's right, that's right. And it actually goes so deep
as to protect you from men because men showed you
that they weren't going to be there for you. The
way the story ends up, however, and this is the
beauty of the work that we do, is she actually
saw herself falling into the pool and her father coming
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in and holding her and saying, of course I would
have jumped in, and of course I would have saved you.
And after she saw that, she saw how the words
that he said, this is the deepest thing that you
have to understand the words that he said to her
were actually imprinted in him him, and they that pain
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is literally imprinted in us and in all of our
ancestry until we heal it. And that's what's actually happening
right now. We are collectively healing these wounds and this
energy that isn't even ours.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Yeah, there's a lot of talk about ancestral healing and
how we are carrying the trauma, the wounds, the things
that our ancestors went through, that's right, and the experiences
and if you think about it and you go all
the way back, we're just now starting to have the
tools and the resources to understand our traumas, understand different
levels of this.
Speaker 3 (23:37):
So can you imagine the work that's being done to
try and heal generations of that? Yeah, yeah, and it is.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
It's very much a conversation of understanding. And it's interesting
to me when people will say that's like woo woo,
there's no way, And I'm like.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
Is there is that really no way when you really
think about it.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
But again, isn't that their way of trying to protect themselves? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:01):
H And does that make you then see the world
too when you have interactions with people that are questionable
and people that just want to put up blocks, and
because change is hard and all the things, doesn't that
make you then just want to be like, I really
want to help you.
Speaker 3 (24:15):
I really help you want to see this other side?
Speaker 1 (24:18):
No, okay, And I'll tell you why because I remember
when that was me, and that's where you can really
connect to the understanding that all of life is perfect
and everyone is on their own journey. Fear controls, love allows.
The control in me is like I really want to
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help you, and the love and me goles when it's
your time.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
And allowing the pick of the book, you'll start the
work to find the journey and it's all okay, yeah,
there has to be a peace with that as well.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Beautiful when you reach that point.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
That's it and that is ultimately what we're all looking for.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
Peace. Oh my gosh, yes.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
That's it. What we are looking for in the business goal,
in the follower goal, in the relationship goal, in the
how do I look in my body goal? What we're
actually looking for is peace. We have just not been
shown how to access peace. Real peace. We think peace
is through achievement. We think piece is in doing. We
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think peace is in being relentless and going after what
we want in life. But real peace is actually the opposite.
Real peace is not needing to do a thing. Real
peace is not needing to achieve anything. Real piece is
understanding that there's nowhere to go. There's nothing to relentless
about because you've always been exactly where you need to
be since the moment.
Speaker 2 (25:43):
Let me ask you, when you did the crossover, you
talked about the very beginning of this where you were
this person and now you're a different person. Does it
feel like because I feel like when you're the person
on the front end of your life, the world feels
like a weight on your shoulders. Everything feels your chest
feels heavy, you tense up, your jaws always tached. The
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second part of your life is the weight gone, the
jaw tensing gone, the piece that you feel a whole
body experience.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
I think there's a third part, okay, and that's the
work that you get to do in between those of
both of those new realities. And what came to me
to share with you was I went through a really
deep process where I was afraid of death. That's how
deep this can get. Because fear is fear. Yeah, yeah,
and I just happened to I want to face all
(26:37):
of my fears, and so when I did, that's what happened.
I spent a year where I barely slept. I think
I slept three nights.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
And because of that fear, you're afraid to go to sleep,
fear of not waking up, fear of just what could come.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
That's how much I was in control by going through
it and facing it. And that's where I say a
lot of people don't like it when I say that,
but that's where I say, And all I can offer
is the thousands of people that I work with This
has changed my plant medicine is a very important tool
for us human to participate, whether it's ayahuasca or mushroom
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cannabis used in a ceremonial way. It's the thing that
takes you deep with it yourself so that you can
bring up those parts of yourself been like shoving down.
And I actually built book that way to take you
into those depths of yourself. And that's why I decided
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to include my breath work. So you'll see, you'll get
in the chapters and you'll go to the link of
the breath work and be able to download it and
lay down and listen, and I'll lead you through it.
Get ready, you're gonna have a beautiful experience.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
And it's like that this is really for people who
are ready to take that next step, is what I'm hearing.
Like they're in that phase of their life. They're ready
for this change, They're ready to take whatever step.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Is necessary to become the highest self.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
Yeah, you're starting to notice that there's parts of your
life that you have been unhappy with for quite a
few years now, and you're starting to ask yourself, like
why is life this way? And you want answers and
no one seems to be giving you answers. And the
book won't give you the answers. The book will guide
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you to find the answers within yourself. I think that's
what's so beautiful about it.
Speaker 2 (28:32):
And I don't know if other people have felt this
way when they've started to do work with you. So
I'm curious because I often say it because change is hard.
Change is a really hard experience. We get used to comfortability.
There's so many securities in not changing. But I think
for me, and i'd probably speak for a lot of people,
there's a scariness to knowing that your potential is so
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much higher, and it's almost like you're afraid of that.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
It's our deepest fear.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
Okay, so it's normal. I'm not strained in having that
feeling normal.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
Our deepest fear is actually how powerful we actually are.
I'm going to go into a part. One of the
things that I really faced was like the construct of religion. Yeah,
so I started to go to Bible seminary, I used
to alter calls, I used to baptize people. I was
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just like highly religious, and when my mom passed away,
it just made me question everything, something that I had
been afraid to do. I can remember. I think I
was like, I was really successful in business early on,
and so I think I bought like my first not mansion,
but like really big house, probably at twenty seven or
something like that. And I remember the people from the
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church used to say, Oh, my God, God has blessed you,
and then in the back of my head, I would
go the work so no, no, no, never mind, don't ask that.
There were so many moments like that where I I
would just start to challenge, but I was afraid to
do so. Yeah, and that's what actually led me to
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my most beautiful awakening is that what we don't realize
is that religion causes us to believe that God is
like out there somewhere, and what you end up discovering,
think about separation when the discovering is you are actually one.
It was actually Jesus's message. It's actually what got him killed.
It wasn't that he came like for our sins or
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any of that, because I don't know the story, but
it was that he actually was speaking I am the Father,
are one, and to all of the religious zealous. Then
like that completely contradicted everything that and then they told
the people and that's what got him killed. Jesus literally
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was the physical embodiment of what is possible for human life.
Chin Light.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
It's I love that you brought this up, because I
did want to touch on this with you. I really
was so intrigued watching your videos talking about religion and
spirituality because you're one of the first people that I
see that's not afraid to touch on this topic because
it's something that people are afraid to talk about.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
Oh no, I've been very afraid.
Speaker 3 (31:14):
Yeah, Journey, but now here you are today and you're
in the space.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Yes, because think about it. Think about it. It's remember
what I said, like true masculine is about embodying your
own truth. So it's the truth I discovered. What was
going on with the fear was I was attached to
your reaction to the truth that I discover, and I
was attached to them, and I'm no longer attached to them.
(31:41):
And for a while I was angry about it because
I feel like, oh my god, they've been lying. Was
so it was that energy, and even that energy is gone.
I just want to share your experience, my experience, and
then if you want to test it, go experience it yourself.
What I can guarantee you, if you go deep enough,
you will find the exact thing that.
Speaker 2 (32:03):
I found and the reason why it drew me so much,
to so much of your work and you talking about
it's funny because you were afraid of the responses, But
what your mind was protecting you from seeing was all
the people you could connect with of speaking to it, right, right,
That's what happens. But I loved it because church has
always been incredibly difficult for me.
Speaker 3 (32:22):
I've had really bad experiences in churches, just horrible. We
could be here all day talking about those moments.
Speaker 2 (32:28):
But I decided very early on through those experiences that
I just church wasn't for me, But what was for
me was just living a life full of love. I
wanted to take care of people. I wanted to be
the person that somebody could come up to and feel
comfortable talking to. I wanted to take care of my neighbors.
I wanted to show up for my community. I wanted
to be there for strangers.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
I wanted to live in love. That's what I wanted.
Speaker 1 (32:53):
That's it.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
You are the first person I've really seen just have
that conversation about It's not about what you think it's about.
It's really about this inner piece of you that just
should be wanting to give love instead of demanding everybody
sees things a certain way.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Okay, you know what you're saying right now, let me
show it to you. So if I do this, let's
see what comes up for you. If I'm doing this,
what am I doing? What part of me am I
feeding right now?
Speaker 3 (33:21):
Your mind?
Speaker 1 (33:22):
Which means that I am receiving knowledge?
Speaker 3 (33:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (33:24):
Right, you know what you just said. What you just
said is God is actually and life and love is
actually not about knowledge. It's about embodiment. That's what you
just said, and that's what we have a hard time
finding in church people that embody because church actually blocks
you from embodying. The only way that you can embody
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is to go into, is to discover, is to feel,
is to let go of, is to surrender. It's to
have the human experience. It's to face your shadows, it's
to face the darkest parts of your Church actually blocks
you from doing any of that because it keeps you
stuck in belief, it keeps you stuck in waiting for
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a savior that is not coming, and it keeps you
thinking that there's an enemy that doesn't exist. The enemy
you've been calling the enemy is just your shadow. So
you are actually detaching yourself from both of the parts
of yourself that if you were to bring them together,
you can integrate them and become the living embodiment of love.
Speaker 3 (34:32):
Wow, I just felt like I went to a servant.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
And I know we're not in trolley that that's exactly
what I needed, But what did that feel like? I
loved hearing somebody speak to the things that are happening
in my head and I can't get anywhere else.
Speaker 3 (34:48):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (34:48):
And that's why I loved you talking about it was
because it's so hard to find people who are one
willing and two to just have that open conversation and
just have the conversation that.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
Looks a little different.
Speaker 2 (35:01):
Yeah, it doesn't mean it's wrong. It doesn't mean anything's
wrong or right. And like, I really don't identify with
wrongs and right. It's very much of how does it
make you feel and what is your way of perceiving
it and the openness that comes up right right, And
so listening to you say that, it was like somebody
sees the way that I see and that was really cool.
Speaker 1 (35:20):
And when you talk about like wrong or right, wrong
or right is the ego's way of protecting.
Speaker 2 (35:26):
Its story, putting you into these categories of like, what
you're doing here is wrong, what you're doing here is right.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
That's right. So watch this. This is what religion does.
By the way, if I believe that my way is
the only way, then I am what. I am right
and you are wrong. And if I am right and
you are wrong, then we are in oneness or in separation.
And if we're in separation, are we in love or fear?
Speaker 3 (35:52):
Fear?
Speaker 1 (35:53):
And if we are in fear. Are we in victim
energy or creator energy?
Speaker 3 (35:57):
Victim energy?
Speaker 1 (35:57):
And if we're in victim energy, can we ever actually
create the human embodiment and life that we actually are
capable of creating?
Speaker 2 (36:06):
No?
Speaker 3 (36:06):
Absolutely, it is no, iile, It's like we're just like
the same thought. Not really, it's it's so cool to me.
Speaker 1 (36:20):
You know it lands though, because it's universal truth.
Speaker 3 (36:25):
It's not.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
And the way that universal truth is you can go
into it and test it, test it, go experience it
for yourself. This is why I say, like, you know,
you come to my three day event. I literally start
off every event saying, you're not here for me, Because
if you're here for me, you're right back in the church.
You're right back listening to the preacher. You're right by
believing and what no, no, no, no no. And as you're
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not here for knowledge, you are here to literally get
naked with yourself so that you can experience and feel
and challenge and test everything so that you can become
the teacher, the leader, the guide, the spiritual version of
yourself that has been trying to come online literally since
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you were born. And that only happens when you actually
stop believing and you start becoming.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
I know this isn't a church, but I just you're
really good at preaching and it's really good and not
on a preaching is probably the wrong word.
Speaker 1 (37:25):
So let's talk about that.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
Yeah, because you made me feel certain things then like
just captivated, just understood, just wanting to attract the energy
that you have per se.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
Okay, it's really interesting. So have you done your human
design yet?
Speaker 2 (37:40):
No?
Speaker 1 (37:41):
Okay, you need to. Okay, so go nowadays you can
just do it for free on any CHADGYBT or anything
like that. Go get your birth date, your birth time,
and your birth location and type it in and say
you're a human design expert. Tell me my human design
and if people and if you want remind me, I'll
get it for you for free. You go to podcast
dot Dannymorell dot com, backslash human Design and you can
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get it's a full customized story of you, your life.
There are certain different human design types. There's generators, there's projectors,
there's manifest generators, and there's reflectors and all of this
is based off of your time and date of birth
and all of this. Reflectors are less than one percent
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of the human population. I'm a reflector. So what that
means and what you're feeling right now. And by the way,
what I am feeling right now is that curiosity that
was in You gave me the space to say what
needed to be said so that you can hear what
you needed to hear. See, we're co creating this moment
right now. That's the way it happens.
Speaker 3 (38:47):
That's so cool.
Speaker 1 (38:48):
Yeah, because I've been on podcasts before like this is
I've spoken about this. I was on Lewis House's podcast, Yeah,
and I was a mess because his energy is very
like this and I was very like this and I
wasn't myself. Yeah, that's how it happened.
Speaker 3 (39:03):
Because you're gl isn't that cool too?
Speaker 2 (39:05):
Because also you think about partnerships, right The most important
thing that you choose in this life is a partner.
Speaker 3 (39:11):
That you're gonna spend your life with.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
Yeah, And when you think about people making those choices.
Speaker 1 (39:16):
Without the tools, That's why I'm saying, go get your
human design, Go get the his human design, Go stick
it in a GPT and say, tell us about each other.
I'll give you an example. So when you look at
energy and when you look at human designs, you'll notice that,
like different parts of you are defined or undefined as
a reflector energetically, I'm undefined and I have an undefined spleen.
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What happens when you have an undefined spleen is and
I bet you a bunch of compans will relate to this,
what happens when you have an undefined spleen is that,
like you outsource parts of your power onto your partner
and you don't do the things that you know that
you should do for or yourself, but you actually blame
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them for it. And all of this is happening unconsciously
and it's all energetic, and no one has ever told
us like how this stuff works. That's why I talk
so much about it because once you discover it, you
want the world to know.
Speaker 2 (40:15):
Yeah, so you you want to be the vessel to
allow people to experience the things you're experiencing that and
so you're in this place now and you're like, I haven't,
so why wouldn't I share it?
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Yeah? And when I said I used to be afraid
of it is I literally used to think, if I
share this, they're gonna kill me. Because it was my
deepest fear of the fear of that Ye see how and.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
When I'm assuming when you say they, it's just anybody
who thinks that you could be hurting a narrative that's
been created.
Speaker 1 (40:43):
And what is happening right now because of social media
is all narratives are literally being destroyed. The political narrative
is being destroyed, the religious narrative is being destroyed. Everything
is out in the open, because that's how we act,
transcend darkness. It's we've been shoving it down forever. All
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of the Epstein files, what happened with Charlie Kirk, all
of this stuff, it's all coming up into the light.
And the more that it comes up into the light,
the more that all human secrets they're just going to dissolve.
And the more that they dissolve, the more that fear dissolves,
and the more that fear dissolves, the more liberated we.
Speaker 3 (41:22):
Actually go and love finally does win.
Speaker 1 (41:24):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (41:26):
Gosh, Yeah, I know it's not preaching, but like I
don't feel it, and it feels good.
Speaker 2 (41:30):
It's a great feeling, and it's cool to hear you
talk and just to connect with somebody who truly puts
a lot of my feelings into words, because it's a
weird feeling when you have all these things and you
just they feel jumbled and they don't quite make sense.
Speaker 3 (41:44):
But then when somebody says them, you're like, dah, that's
what I meant, That's what I wanted to hear.
Speaker 2 (41:48):
I do love to end this podcast in a space
because I have a feeling I could keep you here
all day.
Speaker 3 (41:53):
I'm not going to here.
Speaker 2 (41:54):
You have places to be, things to do, But I
really like to end this podcast in a space where
either it's a piece of advice, motivation, inspiration, or maybe
something we just didn't get to that you feel heavy
on your heart to share.
Speaker 3 (42:05):
Yeah, and go anywhere.
Speaker 1 (42:07):
Yeah. The greatest piece of advice I have for anyone
listening is that absolutely everything in your life that has
happened prior to today, all of it has happened for you.
And the thing that keeps you from seeing that is
the resistance that you have for it. And the most
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important thing that you can heal is the relationship that
you have with your mother involvement, because any negative energy
that you have with your mother, negative energy that you
have with yourself and your heart, Any negative energy that
you have with your father, it's negative energy that you
have with your masculine and other people, because your father
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literally teaches you how to relate to others. So when
you are attracting partners that aren't meeting you, that aren't
loving you, and that aren't choosing you, it is somehow
connected to the relationship that you had with your father.
And when you're in a constant state of anxiousness and
worthy and unworthiness and self doubt and fear and not
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feeling connected and not able to own your truth, it's
because of something that you experience with your mother. And
this is why healing is so important. And I would
say that if you want to start understand once and
for law, that the only pain that your mother and
father could have ever passed down to you is pain
that they received as little boys and girls from their
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mother and father. And that's when you get to go,
Wait a minute, It's either I resist and hold on
or I let go and I allow myself to forgive
them and see them and see their pain in them.
And that's where everything heals is when you can look back,
offer forgiveness, offer love, and your whole life will literally
change for everyone.
Speaker 2 (43:57):
Mat you mentioned the little boys little girl's moment one
of my favorite things to say to people. When I
hear they're having difficult relationships with families, you do realize
it's also their first time going through life too, right,
they're still learning.
Speaker 3 (44:10):
That's right, and again, didn't.
Speaker 2 (44:12):
Have a lot of tools and resources that we have now,
and there has to be grace given.
Speaker 3 (44:17):
I'm not saying you have to.
Speaker 2 (44:19):
Forgive and forget in that moment, but understanding that they're
also a human that is experiencing things for the first
time too.
Speaker 3 (44:27):
Almost takes out the relationship and makes the more human.
Speaker 1 (44:30):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (44:31):
That's right, and that's what you mentioned.
Speaker 1 (44:32):
It opens you up to allowing you could literally just
tell God say I'm ready to forgive my mother, I'm
ready to forgive my father. I don't know how to
do that. I don't know how to forgive. I don't
know how to open my heart. I actually don't want
to do this. Every part of me is telling me
to keep holding anger towards them, but I can see
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how that's hurting. So meet me where I'm at, Show
me the path, bring me the people, bring me the
circumstances that would all allow me to forgive them. Because
I'm finally starting to realize that the pain that I
harbor towards them is actually pain that I'm harboring towards myself.
And all you have to do is speak that into
existence and forget about the how and watch how literally
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life will magically start to bring you whatever help and
support you need to forgive the people that you need
to forgive the most.
Speaker 2 (45:22):
That's so powerful and truthfully, I don't know that you
can hit on anything more important in this moment, so
it's a perfect place to end. Check out Danny's book,
Awaken Your Highest Self. You'll love it if you loved him.
The book is just more of that.
Speaker 1 (45:35):
The website is awakenbook dot com.
Speaker 2 (45:37):
Perfect and he has all all kinds of content on
your Instagram. Yeah yeah, there's all kinds of stuff there too,
so check it all out.
Speaker 3 (45:44):
But it sounds like I'll.
Speaker 2 (45:45):
Be doing some meditating coming up and these next few weeks,
So Danny, thank you for being here. I know interviews
like this one can be challenging because they may bring
up our own belief systems or internal values, but that's
where so much of our own personal work begins. This
interview opened up something and you, like it did for me,
you can check out Danny's new book linked in the
show notes, and while you're there, subscribe it up. Let
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me know who you want to hear from on this podcast,
and don't forget. You can watch on YouTube or follow
along on social media at take this personally. I'm so
happy that you're here.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
I love you. Bye.
Personally Felsman.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
As we continue to look in words at our own
lives and have some personal reflection in this series. This
episode is going to continue us on that journey, and
I cannot be more excited to share this episode with
you guys. His name is Danny Morrell and we were
walking on the same path during this interview. I think
it's something really special.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Let's do this.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
I'm excited to be joined by Danny Morrel. Danny, you
have insane amounts of things happening on social media because
you've blown up there for all your words of wisdom
and the incredible stories that you share.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Thanks for coming on the podcast, Thanks for having me.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
You have a new book that's out by the time
this podcast is out in the world, Awaken your Highest Self.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Yeah, and it's not your first one. You're an author,
you're a speaker, you know the drill.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Yeah, in many ways, it does feel like my first one,
because my first one was life from my old life.
In the book, I talk about the story of business, Danny,
and this is very much coming from a completely different
version of me. Like that guy that wrote that first book,
he doesn't exist any So is it.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Weird for you when you look at that book that
you wrote, and you're in this different place of your life. Now,
does it feel weird that it's almost two completely different people.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
It's so much of two completely different people that I
literally tell people, please don't read that book.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Really.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Yeah, I was in my ego, I was in drive,
and I just to share this point. The name of
my event used to be relentless. Think of the energy
of that name, and that was very much the sales,
the business, the driving. And then once I healed my heart,
I realize there's nothing to really be relentless about in life. Interesting,
as a matter of fact, if you are relentless, it
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shows that you're actually wounded.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay, so break down for me.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
When the transition happened right when you finally were like, okay,
I'm not actually realless, I'm this other person.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
What happened in your life?
Speaker 1 (02:09):
So it was twofold, and it all happened right about
the same time as it does for us when we're
ready to awaken. It was the combination of my mom's
passing and my divorce, which was triggered by an affair.
So I know that's a lot. We can get into
all of it. Yeah, but like all of it happened
at once, because to be honest, I wasn't picking up
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on the signs. I was like, bypassing myself, I was
pushing down the parts of myself that were not happy
that we're afraid to speak his truth and be in
his essence and in his masculine. Quite frankly, I was
really avoiding the parts of myself that had some really
deep pain that no one had ever told me to
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process or to work through. I was just like the
perfect good boy that did everything the right way. And
the truth is that all of that came from a
need within myself to get you to like me, because
I didn't like me. And when my mom passed away,
it's like, literally it was when she transitioned. It was
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as if she went to the other side and was like,
oh my god, I didn't know how to love him
back then, but I'm gonna love him from here. And
love sometimes puts you through some pretty tough circumstances because
it loves you enough to have you go through them.
And so that's what started happening. I started asking questions
like I mentioned in the book, are happy, And I
already knew the answer, and the answer was no. I
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was just avoiding asking myself the question for most of
my life. Do you love what you do? The answer
was no. Are you in love in your marriage? The
answer was no. All of a sudden, all of these
questions started asking that I think most of us humans
are like afraid to. And when I asked them and
had the courbage to face the answers and the truth,
that's when my life changed forever.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
So when you look back at that time, do you
feel like a lot of what impacted you is just
how you were raised, the things that you were taught,
the values that were instilled in you.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, I think it's deeper than that. I talk a
lot about this in the book. We all have masculine
and feminine energy, Yeah, and that masculine and feminine energy
is literally created through the masculine and feminine energy inside
of our mother and our father. Because if you think
about it, like when you're a child, you are defenseless.
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You can't speak, you can't run, You're just there laying
on your back. And so when you look up and
you open your eyes, you got these two people, which
some of us have won or some of us have none.
And so that's when everything starts. Is it's all based
off of what you received or didn't receive from your
mom and dad. Literally the way that they looked at you,
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the way that they showed their love with you, their
capacity to allow you to hold feet links, the space
that you had to be your authentic self. And as
I'm saying that, I think we can both agree our
parents didn't know how to do any of that.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
We weren't even having these conversations, yeah, exactly ten years
ago before now.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
And there's a reason for that is on an energetic level,
the collective consciousness is starting to awaken, and it's starting
to awaken because whether we realize it or not, there's
this thing called AI that's starting to show up that
it's literally trying to replace us. And I'm not trying
to be a conspiracy theorist. I'm just telling you, like it,
just look around. Look, you didn't have driverless taxis, you
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didn't have robots before. And when we're unconscious, we're like, wow,
that's cool. No no, no, no, no, this is very scary.
And that's why we're all starting to have these conversations
because the more that we talk about it, the more
aware we become, the more that we can heal and
the more that we can start coming from a place
of authenticity versus fear.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
And you mentioned that because it's interesting when you say
conscious awakening, that's really happening right now collective one. And
I was going to ask you about this from your
perspective because we are seeing such a huge shift happening
in society right now where we are just learning a
lot of things that really had an impact of how
we believed and see all the world, and all of
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that's coming crashing down. Everything that we believed, everything we thought,
all the things that were so just deeply ingrained into us, everything.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
And now everybody just feels like, literally what if?
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Yeah, what do I do?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
What happens now? What's your perspective on that when we
talk about that, I.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Think there's two parts to the world, and there's two
energies that we can live in as human First, I'll
start with parts of the world on an energetic basis.
This is not something you think, This is not something
you consciously do. This is energy. Everything is energy, everything
(07:00):
that you see, everything that you experience, everyone that you
see and experience, And as such, we can either live
in the energy of fear or love. Okay, Now, when
you look at the energy of fear, right underneath fear
(07:20):
is separation and this is really deep. But when we
live in separation, then we are separate from each other
by race, economic class, religious believes all of these things
that society puts in between us, and as a result,
(07:41):
we're separate from God and as a result, we are
separate from ourselves. In other words, when we are in
separation energy, it's me like against life. And when you
are in love, right underneath love, you're in oneness where
(08:01):
instead of it being like me and you, if we
go deep, if I had the time, I could probably
guarantee you that there's parts of your life story that
are very similar to parts of my life story, and
we could probably cry together and we could probably help
each other heal. And it's a very beautiful thing. But
like out on the street, I don't know. You might
judge me and I might judge you. You know what
(08:23):
I'm saying. And this is the difference between like consciousness
and unconsciousness. Right when you are unconscious, you're literally unaware.
You are unaware of this beautiful, spiritual and energetic side
of life because you've been following the program for so
long like I did, and then when you awaken and
become conscious, you go, holy shit, Wait a minute, life
(08:48):
isn't happening to me like life has been happening for me.
Like that guy that I called a narcissist that I hate,
Oh shit, he was actually my life's greatest teacher. Oh
my god. And if he was my life's greatest teacher,
then instead of hating him, then maybe I can love him,
(09:08):
I can appreciate him. You see what I'm saying. That's
the difference is when we're in separation, we're also in
victim energy like he did it to me. When we're
in oneness, we're in creator energy, I called him in.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
So do you feel like that's what you're seeing too?
Speaker 2 (09:25):
As a lot of people are either awakening or coming
into this crossroads of I either am gonna stay in
this separation or I am going to choose to make
the jump, to make the uncomfortable choice.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
This is even more beautiful. Let's take it a step further,
because think of choosing as like masculine. It's so beautiful
that you said that word. Because the other thing is
that when we live in fear and separation. We live
in the mind, which is the masculine, and the mind
is constantly trying to protect us to con oh yeah,
oh yeah, because fear controls and love allout. The feminine
(10:02):
is the heart. Yeah, And the thing that we are
the most afraid of is returning to our heart. Why
because if you go back to what I said earlier,
when we were little boys and little girls, our mother
and father, the people who should have loved us, should
have protected us, should have put us first, should have right.
(10:22):
They didn't. They couldn't. It's a perfect part of life.
They couldn't meet our heart's needs. And that made us say,
uh ah, I'm not going down there no more. I'm
going to stay up here. And there's really severe examples
of that, by the way. But ultimately what happens is
you return to oneness and you return to love by
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returning to your heart, by returning to your feminine This
is man or woman, by the way, by returning to
the one place that maybe we unconsciously told ourselves that
we never would. And the reason why I said this
is not a choice. This is literally about an allowance.
It's always there for us. It's just will we allow
ourselves to remember, will we allow ourselves to start seeing
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the patterns in life that continue happening. You keep attracting
the same kind of partner, you keep attracting the same client,
you keep attracting the same money you make it, and
then it finds a little ceiling then and it falls,
and all of it is just a reflection of what's
happening inside of here. M M.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
Yeah, very much so.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
And you mentioned this conversation of obviously our parents didn't
have this, so it was hard for us to even
have this. Yes, and you were talking about losing your mom.
I'm curious because a huge thing that's happening on the
internet right now too, is this disconnection from our families.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
Right we very much are.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
People are learning their boundaries, are learning the things that
they went through, the things that they had experienced, and
then disconnecting. What's your take seeing this. I don't want
to call it a trend because it's not. There's a
level of it where it's we know better, we do better. Yeah,
but there's also just a lot of conversation.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Happening around that. And family is important, but there's also
boundaries that are important.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
Are there's a balance in this. I think that what
you're seeing happening on the internet with families and people
leaving their families is terrible because we are made to
be in family, we're made to be in community, and
there's some families that have done some terrible things. So
every situation is a little bit different. I've seen some people,
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and I've actually worked with people that I have actually
guided them because of because of trauma and because of
control and manipulation where it's actually time to create a
little space for a season. What I think you see
happening is people are choosing to just cut people off completely,
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and as a result, they're not allowing themselves the space
to integrate the pain and heal it together. And that's
where the magic actually is. And I think that we're
missing out on a big piece of what could be
providing healing when we say no to our family.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Yeah, it very much is what's happening.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
You're just seeing people in general too, cutting off just
a quick something happens. Sometimes it goes a lot deeper
than that. Obviously, social media only tells one side of
the story. Yeah, but you see this just cut off
and it's just very blaant, very blunt, there's no nuance
to it. Yeah, And when it comes to relationships, I
am on the side of belief that there's a lot
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more nuance to that story. And teaching people just to
cut cold turkey is not quite helping us.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Really bad, really bad. This brings up I don't know
why I brought it up, but like when I got divorced,
part of what happened obviously because I had an affair.
My ex wife had a lot of pain, and I
acknowledge that, and I completely understand that the issue is
is that pain got transferred into my kids in an
unhealthy way. I don't blame anybody, it is what it is.
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And so when I saw that happen, my kids decided
for quite a few years to not spend the night
at my house and to not be around me. And
that broke my heart. But I understood it and I
allowed it. And all I did was I stayed here
and worked on myself and worked on my heart, and
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worked on the parts of myself that, quite honestly, was afraid,
afraid to speak his truth and his marriage, afraid to
be himself and his marriage, afraid. I was a people pleaser,
and that people pleasing. What it did is after thirteen
years of doing that, I found an outlet. You understand
what I'm saying is so there's a nuance in everything,
even in affairs. And people hate it when I say this,
(14:43):
but affairs are co created. It's not one day your
partner just all of a sudden decides I'm going to
go sleep with somebody else. There's a lot of things
that have been unseat. There's a lot of things that
have been unallowed. There's a lot of parts of both
of you that didn't show up one hundred percent for
each other. There's a lot of truths that you were
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afraid to speak out. And the truth is that real
love cannot breathe in secrecy. It can only breathe and
cultivate in truth. And we're afraid to speak our truth.
And I can speak for the men. The man's number
one priority in an awakened relationship is to connect to
and live from his truth and his essence, no matter
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how she reacts to that truth in that essence, Because
the only way that the woman can ever actually feel
safe in a man's presence is if he is living
in his truth.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Yeah, yeah, I can see from experience of the different
partners that I've had in my life makes sense very much.
You understand the safety that you feel with someone who
is genuinely the best.
Speaker 3 (15:49):
Version of themselves, can I say, or just themselves?
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Yes, maybe not even the best, but you know what
you're dealing with.
Speaker 3 (15:56):
Yes, yes, and yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
And I say best version because it truly I was like,
how could they get any better?
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Such a great human being. But I've also been with
people where I'm like, man, this is rough for both
of us, and you're not happy. I'm not happy. What
are we doing?
Speaker 2 (16:13):
But you can't fix them. Everybody has to make the
choice to do that for themselves. And I do applaud
you for speaking on something from your perspective, because an
affair is difficult for all parties involved, and owning the role.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
That you play in it, it's difficult.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Was that a big part of why you wanted to
I know you talked about it a little bit in
this book.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
I know you've referenced it before.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
Or is that why you wanted to do just to
bring the elephant out of that room.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
No, it's really a commitment to authenticity. It's the only
way I know how to live my life. Like you.
I'm an open book. And the reason why I'm an
open book is because I've got nothing to hide. And
I would rather be that way than to hide anything,
because if I'm hiding something, it means means that I'm
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actually in shame of it. It means that I feel
guilty of it, which means that I haven't processed it,
which means that I haven't healed from it, which means
that I literally can't do the work that I am
doing today.
Speaker 3 (17:11):
Yeah, and you cann't speak on it.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
You're going to go in this life because you haven't
owned that part of your life.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
That's right. And I can trace my affair down literally
to the first two weeks of my life. And this
is what the book is going to help you do.
The book is going to help you like access, like
where did this come from? Where did this trauma, this darkness,
this confusion, this anxiety, Where did it come from? All
you have to do is allow, and the book will
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take you there. The first two weeks of my life.
My mom had a C section, so she wasn't there.
So remember what I said, when you're born, you're defenseless
and you're just looking up and you're just looking especially
for that mother. The mother literally is teaching you how
to be with yourself. Yeah, so what I correlated life
(17:59):
was in those first two weeks of life is not
feeling wanted, not feeling safe, not feeling nurtured. So then
I was my entire like young adult life as a
man looking for a wife because I thought that was
the answer.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
I wanted to feel that, I wanted to feel, not
all things that you hadn't felt, not consciously.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
By the way, this is like the deepest thing we
have to understand. We're just operating all of us from
like our deepest woundings until we heal them.
Speaker 2 (18:29):
And isn't that just so wild to thing about that
the deepest wound come from apart where we.
Speaker 3 (18:35):
Really don't even remember.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
Oh no, you get older and you're like, dang, I
can't remember seven years beyond right, you're one through seven.
I have no idea what happened, couldn't tell you. And
it's crazy that so much of an impact of our
life is from those moments.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
We can't even get to them.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
Well, we can. This is what I dedicate my life to.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
This is what we're going for.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
I'll give you two examples. So A woman I was
working with never felt safe around men. If you don't
feel safe around men, guess what you'll attract men to
validate that story. Men to not feel safe around.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Yeah, which is only going to make you feel less.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
That's safe.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
You're just perpetuating in the.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Cycle because now you can say, see, I told you
I wasn't supposed to feel safe with them. It validates
the story. So she came to me. She came to
the event Awakening Your High Self as an actual three
day event. She came to the event. It blew her
heart wide open. She started working with me for a
year so I really uncover this, and we use tools
like plant medicine, breathwork, meditation, all of it to help
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you uncover what is literally uncoverable. It's that deep. It
was her third awaken. She pulls me aside, she's crying.
She goes, You'll never guess what happened. I said what
she said. I was taken back to when I was
a little girl, summertime by the pool, and I was
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walking like just by the edge of the pool innocently,
and I looked in the water, and my dad looked
in the water and looked at me and said if
you jump in there or you fall in I'm not
coming to save you. It was that moment that was
the imprint, that was the imprint that showed her like,
(20:26):
I am not literally valuable enough or worthy enough to
be saved or protected by the one man that is
supposed to save and protect.
Speaker 3 (20:35):
So tell me.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Why something like that is such a catalyst in our lives.
Tell me why something that feels to the outside world innocent. Right,
you're gonna hear people talk about this of where they're like,
I've said stuff like that that before and it didn't
mean anything, or you know that's the argument, right, But
tell me why, because I believe it.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
Words matter?
Speaker 2 (20:57):
Yeah, why is that such a cat listener life? Why
are those moments such catalysts.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
Because you feel, Because you feel them, you have a
reaction to them, and whether we realize it or not,
that reaction gets literally imprinted into our nervous system because
our mind, our masculine is designed to protect them. Yep,
the masculine. Think about a man and a woman. The
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masculine is literally designed to protect the woman. That's his duty. Yep. Yeah.
And what is the woman inside of you? The woman
is the heart and what is the masculine. Your mind,
so your own mind, it's as within so without your
own mind is consciously and unconsciously just trying to keep
you safe, always protecting you, always protecting you.
Speaker 2 (21:45):
Why it's always the barrier to everything away.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Because it's just right, no, no, no, you're not going
to hurt me. So if the mind in this case,
the little girl at age I think she was four
or five, like, think about how young she was, earned
the man will not jump in to save you and
protect you, even if your life depended on it, then
what did that mind decide to do? Okay, well from
(22:12):
this day forward.
Speaker 3 (22:13):
And went into mode to save her.
Speaker 1 (22:16):
That's right, that's right. And it actually goes so deep
as to protect you from men because men showed you
that they weren't going to be there for you. The
way the story ends up, however, and this is the
beauty of the work that we do, is she actually
saw herself falling into the pool and her father coming
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in and holding her and saying, of course I would
have jumped in, and of course I would have saved you.
And after she saw that, she saw how the words
that he said, this is the deepest thing that you
have to understand the words that he said to her
were actually imprinted in him him, and they that pain
(23:02):
is literally imprinted in us and in all of our
ancestry until we heal it. And that's what's actually happening
right now. We are collectively healing these wounds and this
energy that isn't even ours.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Yeah, there's a lot of talk about ancestral healing and
how we are carrying the trauma, the wounds, the things
that our ancestors went through, that's right, and the experiences
and if you think about it and you go all
the way back, we're just now starting to have the
tools and the resources to understand our traumas, understand different
levels of this.
Speaker 3 (23:37):
So can you imagine the work that's being done to
try and heal generations of that? Yeah, yeah, and it is.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
It's very much a conversation of understanding. And it's interesting
to me when people will say that's like woo woo,
there's no way, And I'm like.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
Is there is that really no way when you really
think about it.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
But again, isn't that their way of trying to protect themselves? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:01):
H And does that make you then see the world
too when you have interactions with people that are questionable
and people that just want to put up blocks, and
because change is hard and all the things, doesn't that
make you then just want to be like, I really
want to help you.
Speaker 3 (24:15):
I really help you want to see this other side?
Speaker 1 (24:18):
No, okay, And I'll tell you why because I remember
when that was me, and that's where you can really
connect to the understanding that all of life is perfect
and everyone is on their own journey. Fear controls, love allows.
The control in me is like I really want to
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help you, and the love and me goles when it's
your time.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
And allowing the pick of the book, you'll start the
work to find the journey and it's all okay, yeah,
there has to be a peace with that as well.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Beautiful when you reach that point.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
That's it and that is ultimately what we're all looking for.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
Peace. Oh my gosh, yes.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
That's it. What we are looking for in the business goal,
in the follower goal, in the relationship goal, in the
how do I look in my body goal? What we're
actually looking for is peace. We have just not been
shown how to access peace. Real peace. We think peace
is through achievement. We think piece is in doing. We
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think peace is in being relentless and going after what
we want in life. But real peace is actually the opposite.
Real peace is not needing to do a thing. Real
peace is not needing to achieve anything. Real piece is
understanding that there's nowhere to go. There's nothing to relentless
about because you've always been exactly where you need to
be since the moment.
Speaker 2 (25:43):
Let me ask you, when you did the crossover, you
talked about the very beginning of this where you were
this person and now you're a different person. Does it
feel like because I feel like when you're the person
on the front end of your life, the world feels
like a weight on your shoulders. Everything feels your chest
feels heavy, you tense up, your jaws always tached. The
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second part of your life is the weight gone, the
jaw tensing gone, the piece that you feel a whole
body experience.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
I think there's a third part, okay, and that's the
work that you get to do in between those of
both of those new realities. And what came to me
to share with you was I went through a really
deep process where I was afraid of death. That's how
deep this can get. Because fear is fear. Yeah, yeah,
and I just happened to I want to face all
(26:37):
of my fears, and so when I did, that's what happened.
I spent a year where I barely slept. I think
I slept three nights.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
And because of that fear, you're afraid to go to sleep,
fear of not waking up, fear of just what could come.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
That's how much I was in control by going through
it and facing it. And that's where I say a
lot of people don't like it when I say that,
but that's where I say, And all I can offer
is the thousands of people that I work with This
has changed my plant medicine is a very important tool
for us human to participate, whether it's ayahuasca or mushroom
(27:17):
cannabis used in a ceremonial way. It's the thing that
takes you deep with it yourself so that you can
bring up those parts of yourself been like shoving down.
And I actually built book that way to take you
into those depths of yourself. And that's why I decided
(27:39):
to include my breath work. So you'll see, you'll get
in the chapters and you'll go to the link of
the breath work and be able to download it and
lay down and listen, and I'll lead you through it.
Get ready, you're gonna have a beautiful experience.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
And it's like that this is really for people who
are ready to take that next step, is what I'm hearing.
Like they're in that phase of their life. They're ready
for this change, They're ready to take whatever step.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Is necessary to become the highest self.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
Yeah, you're starting to notice that there's parts of your
life that you have been unhappy with for quite a
few years now, and you're starting to ask yourself, like
why is life this way? And you want answers and
no one seems to be giving you answers. And the
book won't give you the answers. The book will guide
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you to find the answers within yourself. I think that's
what's so beautiful about it.
Speaker 2 (28:32):
And I don't know if other people have felt this
way when they've started to do work with you. So
I'm curious because I often say it because change is hard.
Change is a really hard experience. We get used to comfortability.
There's so many securities in not changing. But I think
for me, and i'd probably speak for a lot of people,
there's a scariness to knowing that your potential is so
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much higher, and it's almost like you're afraid of that.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
It's our deepest fear.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
Okay, so it's normal. I'm not strained in having that
feeling normal.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
Our deepest fear is actually how powerful we actually are.
I'm going to go into a part. One of the
things that I really faced was like the construct of religion. Yeah,
so I started to go to Bible seminary, I used
to alter calls, I used to baptize people. I was
(29:26):
just like highly religious, and when my mom passed away,
it just made me question everything, something that I had
been afraid to do. I can remember. I think I
was like, I was really successful in business early on,
and so I think I bought like my first not mansion,
but like really big house, probably at twenty seven or
something like that. And I remember the people from the
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church used to say, Oh, my God, God has blessed you,
and then in the back of my head, I would
go the work so no, no, no, never mind, don't ask that.
There were so many moments like that where I I
would just start to challenge, but I was afraid to
do so. Yeah, and that's what actually led me to
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my most beautiful awakening is that what we don't realize
is that religion causes us to believe that God is
like out there somewhere, and what you end up discovering,
think about separation when the discovering is you are actually one.
It was actually Jesus's message. It's actually what got him killed.
It wasn't that he came like for our sins or
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any of that, because I don't know the story, but
it was that he actually was speaking I am the Father,
are one, and to all of the religious zealous. Then
like that completely contradicted everything that and then they told
the people and that's what got him killed. Jesus literally
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was the physical embodiment of what is possible for human life.
Chin Light.
Speaker 2 (30:56):
It's I love that you brought this up, because I
did want to touch on this with you. I really
was so intrigued watching your videos talking about religion and
spirituality because you're one of the first people that I
see that's not afraid to touch on this topic because
it's something that people are afraid to talk about.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
Oh no, I've been very afraid.
Speaker 3 (31:14):
Yeah, Journey, but now here you are today and you're
in the space.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Yes, because think about it. Think about it. It's remember
what I said, like true masculine is about embodying your
own truth. So it's the truth I discovered. What was
going on with the fear was I was attached to
your reaction to the truth that I discover, and I
was attached to them, and I'm no longer attached to them.
(31:41):
And for a while I was angry about it because
I feel like, oh my god, they've been lying. Was
so it was that energy, and even that energy is gone.
I just want to share your experience, my experience, and
then if you want to test it, go experience it yourself.
What I can guarantee you, if you go deep enough,
you will find the exact thing that.
Speaker 2 (32:03):
I found and the reason why it drew me so much,
to so much of your work and you talking about
it's funny because you were afraid of the responses, But
what your mind was protecting you from seeing was all
the people you could connect with of speaking to it, right, right,
That's what happens. But I loved it because church has
always been incredibly difficult for me.
Speaker 3 (32:22):
I've had really bad experiences in churches, just horrible. We
could be here all day talking about those moments.
Speaker 2 (32:28):
But I decided very early on through those experiences that
I just church wasn't for me, But what was for
me was just living a life full of love. I
wanted to take care of people. I wanted to be
the person that somebody could come up to and feel
comfortable talking to. I wanted to take care of my neighbors.
I wanted to show up for my community. I wanted
to be there for strangers.
Speaker 3 (32:49):
I wanted to live in love. That's what I wanted.
Speaker 1 (32:53):
That's it.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
You are the first person I've really seen just have
that conversation about It's not about what you think it's about.
It's really about this inner piece of you that just
should be wanting to give love instead of demanding everybody
sees things a certain way.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Okay, you know what you're saying right now, let me
show it to you. So if I do this, let's
see what comes up for you. If I'm doing this,
what am I doing? What part of me am I
feeding right now?
Speaker 3 (33:21):
Your mind?
Speaker 1 (33:22):
Which means that I am receiving knowledge?
Speaker 3 (33:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (33:24):
Right, you know what you just said. What you just
said is God is actually and life and love is
actually not about knowledge. It's about embodiment. That's what you
just said, and that's what we have a hard time
finding in church people that embody because church actually blocks
you from embodying. The only way that you can embody
(33:46):
is to go into, is to discover, is to feel,
is to let go of, is to surrender. It's to
have the human experience. It's to face your shadows, it's
to face the darkest parts of your Church actually blocks
you from doing any of that because it keeps you
stuck in belief, it keeps you stuck in waiting for
(34:09):
a savior that is not coming, and it keeps you
thinking that there's an enemy that doesn't exist. The enemy
you've been calling the enemy is just your shadow. So
you are actually detaching yourself from both of the parts
of yourself that if you were to bring them together,
you can integrate them and become the living embodiment of love.
Speaker 3 (34:32):
Wow, I just felt like I went to a servant.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
And I know we're not in trolley that that's exactly
what I needed, But what did that feel like? I
loved hearing somebody speak to the things that are happening
in my head and I can't get anywhere else.
Speaker 3 (34:48):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (34:48):
And that's why I loved you talking about it was
because it's so hard to find people who are one
willing and two to just have that open conversation and
just have the conversation that.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
Looks a little different.
Speaker 2 (35:01):
Yeah, it doesn't mean it's wrong. It doesn't mean anything's
wrong or right. And like, I really don't identify with
wrongs and right. It's very much of how does it
make you feel and what is your way of perceiving
it and the openness that comes up right right, And
so listening to you say that, it was like somebody
sees the way that I see and that was really cool.
Speaker 1 (35:20):
And when you talk about like wrong or right, wrong
or right is the ego's way of protecting.
Speaker 2 (35:26):
Its story, putting you into these categories of like, what
you're doing here is wrong, what you're doing here is right.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
That's right. So watch this. This is what religion does.
By the way, if I believe that my way is
the only way, then I am what. I am right
and you are wrong. And if I am right and
you are wrong, then we are in oneness or in separation.
And if we're in separation, are we in love or fear?
Speaker 3 (35:52):
Fear?
Speaker 1 (35:53):
And if we are in fear. Are we in victim
energy or creator energy?
Speaker 3 (35:57):
Victim energy?
Speaker 1 (35:57):
And if we're in victim energy, can we ever actually
create the human embodiment and life that we actually are
capable of creating?
Speaker 2 (36:06):
No?
Speaker 3 (36:06):
Absolutely, it is no, iile, It's like we're just like
the same thought. Not really, it's it's so cool to me.
Speaker 1 (36:20):
You know it lands though, because it's universal truth.
Speaker 3 (36:25):
It's not.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
And the way that universal truth is you can go
into it and test it, test it, go experience it
for yourself. This is why I say, like, you know,
you come to my three day event. I literally start
off every event saying, you're not here for me, Because
if you're here for me, you're right back in the church.
You're right back listening to the preacher. You're right by
believing and what no, no, no, no no. And as you're
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not here for knowledge, you are here to literally get
naked with yourself so that you can experience and feel
and challenge and test everything so that you can become
the teacher, the leader, the guide, the spiritual version of
yourself that has been trying to come online literally since
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you were born. And that only happens when you actually
stop believing and you start becoming.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
I know this isn't a church, but I just you're
really good at preaching and it's really good and not
on a preaching is probably the wrong word.
Speaker 1 (37:25):
So let's talk about that.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
Yeah, because you made me feel certain things then like
just captivated, just understood, just wanting to attract the energy
that you have per se.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
Okay, it's really interesting. So have you done your human
design yet?
Speaker 2 (37:40):
No?
Speaker 1 (37:41):
Okay, you need to. Okay, so go nowadays you can
just do it for free on any CHADGYBT or anything
like that. Go get your birth date, your birth time,
and your birth location and type it in and say
you're a human design expert. Tell me my human design
and if people and if you want remind me, I'll
get it for you for free. You go to podcast
dot Dannymorell dot com, backslash human Design and you can
(38:05):
get it's a full customized story of you, your life.
There are certain different human design types. There's generators, there's projectors,
there's manifest generators, and there's reflectors and all of this
is based off of your time and date of birth
and all of this. Reflectors are less than one percent
(38:26):
of the human population. I'm a reflector. So what that
means and what you're feeling right now. And by the way,
what I am feeling right now is that curiosity that
was in You gave me the space to say what
needed to be said so that you can hear what
you needed to hear. See, we're co creating this moment
right now. That's the way it happens.
Speaker 3 (38:47):
That's so cool.
Speaker 1 (38:48):
Yeah, because I've been on podcasts before like this is
I've spoken about this. I was on Lewis House's podcast, Yeah,
and I was a mess because his energy is very
like this and I was very like this and I
wasn't myself. Yeah, that's how it happened.
Speaker 3 (39:03):
Because you're gl isn't that cool too?
Speaker 2 (39:05):
Because also you think about partnerships, right The most important
thing that you choose in this life is a partner.
Speaker 3 (39:11):
That you're gonna spend your life with.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
Yeah, And when you think about people making those choices.
Speaker 1 (39:16):
Without the tools, That's why I'm saying, go get your
human design, Go get the his human design, Go stick
it in a GPT and say, tell us about each other.
I'll give you an example. So when you look at
energy and when you look at human designs, you'll notice that,
like different parts of you are defined or undefined as
a reflector energetically, I'm undefined and I have an undefined spleen.
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What happens when you have an undefined spleen is and
I bet you a bunch of compans will relate to this,
what happens when you have an undefined spleen is that,
like you outsource parts of your power onto your partner
and you don't do the things that you know that
you should do for or yourself, but you actually blame
(40:03):
them for it. And all of this is happening unconsciously
and it's all energetic, and no one has ever told
us like how this stuff works. That's why I talk
so much about it because once you discover it, you
want the world to know.
Speaker 2 (40:15):
Yeah, so you you want to be the vessel to
allow people to experience the things you're experiencing that and
so you're in this place now and you're like, I haven't,
so why wouldn't I share it?
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Yeah? And when I said I used to be afraid
of it is I literally used to think, if I
share this, they're gonna kill me. Because it was my
deepest fear of the fear of that Ye see how and.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
When I'm assuming when you say they, it's just anybody
who thinks that you could be hurting a narrative that's
been created.
Speaker 1 (40:43):
And what is happening right now because of social media
is all narratives are literally being destroyed. The political narrative
is being destroyed, the religious narrative is being destroyed. Everything
is out in the open, because that's how we act,
transcend darkness. It's we've been shoving it down forever. All
(41:04):
of the Epstein files, what happened with Charlie Kirk, all
of this stuff, it's all coming up into the light.
And the more that it comes up into the light,
the more that all human secrets they're just going to dissolve.
And the more that they dissolve, the more that fear dissolves,
and the more that fear dissolves, the more liberated we.
Speaker 3 (41:22):
Actually go and love finally does win.
Speaker 1 (41:24):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (41:26):
Gosh, Yeah, I know it's not preaching, but like I
don't feel it, and it feels good.
Speaker 2 (41:30):
It's a great feeling, and it's cool to hear you
talk and just to connect with somebody who truly puts
a lot of my feelings into words, because it's a
weird feeling when you have all these things and you
just they feel jumbled and they don't quite make sense.
Speaker 3 (41:44):
But then when somebody says them, you're like, dah, that's
what I meant, That's what I wanted to hear.
Speaker 2 (41:48):
I do love to end this podcast in a space
because I have a feeling I could keep you here
all day.
Speaker 3 (41:53):
I'm not going to here.
Speaker 2 (41:54):
You have places to be, things to do, But I
really like to end this podcast in a space where
either it's a piece of advice, motivation, inspiration, or maybe
something we just didn't get to that you feel heavy
on your heart to share.
Speaker 3 (42:05):
Yeah, and go anywhere.
Speaker 1 (42:07):
Yeah. The greatest piece of advice I have for anyone
listening is that absolutely everything in your life that has
happened prior to today, all of it has happened for you.
And the thing that keeps you from seeing that is
the resistance that you have for it. And the most
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important thing that you can heal is the relationship that
you have with your mother involvement, because any negative energy
that you have with your mother, negative energy that you
have with yourself and your heart, Any negative energy that
you have with your father, it's negative energy that you
have with your masculine and other people, because your father
(42:53):
literally teaches you how to relate to others. So when
you are attracting partners that aren't meeting you, that aren't
loving you, and that aren't choosing you, it is somehow
connected to the relationship that you had with your father.
And when you're in a constant state of anxiousness and
worthy and unworthiness and self doubt and fear and not
(43:14):
feeling connected and not able to own your truth, it's
because of something that you experience with your mother. And
this is why healing is so important. And I would
say that if you want to start understand once and
for law, that the only pain that your mother and
father could have ever passed down to you is pain
that they received as little boys and girls from their
(43:37):
mother and father. And that's when you get to go,
Wait a minute, It's either I resist and hold on
or I let go and I allow myself to forgive
them and see them and see their pain in them.
And that's where everything heals is when you can look back,
offer forgiveness, offer love, and your whole life will literally
change for everyone.
Speaker 2 (43:57):
Mat you mentioned the little boys little girl's moment one
of my favorite things to say to people. When I
hear they're having difficult relationships with families, you do realize
it's also their first time going through life too, right,
they're still learning.
Speaker 3 (44:10):
That's right, and again, didn't.
Speaker 2 (44:12):
Have a lot of tools and resources that we have now,
and there has to be grace given.
Speaker 3 (44:17):
I'm not saying you have to.
Speaker 2 (44:19):
Forgive and forget in that moment, but understanding that they're
also a human that is experiencing things for the first
time too.
Speaker 3 (44:27):
Almost takes out the relationship and makes the more human.
Speaker 1 (44:30):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (44:31):
That's right, and that's what you mentioned.
Speaker 1 (44:32):
It opens you up to allowing you could literally just
tell God say I'm ready to forgive my mother, I'm
ready to forgive my father. I don't know how to
do that. I don't know how to forgive. I don't
know how to open my heart. I actually don't want
to do this. Every part of me is telling me
to keep holding anger towards them, but I can see
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how that's hurting. So meet me where I'm at, Show
me the path, bring me the people, bring me the
circumstances that would all allow me to forgive them. Because
I'm finally starting to realize that the pain that I
harbor towards them is actually pain that I'm harboring towards myself.
And all you have to do is speak that into
existence and forget about the how and watch how literally
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life will magically start to bring you whatever help and
support you need to forgive the people that you need
to forgive the most.
Speaker 2 (45:22):
That's so powerful and truthfully, I don't know that you
can hit on anything more important in this moment, so
it's a perfect place to end. Check out Danny's book,
Awaken Your Highest Self. You'll love it if you loved him.
The book is just more of that.
Speaker 1 (45:35):
The website is awakenbook dot com.
Speaker 2 (45:37):
Perfect and he has all all kinds of content on
your Instagram. Yeah yeah, there's all kinds of stuff there too,
so check it all out.
Speaker 3 (45:44):
But it sounds like I'll.
Speaker 2 (45:45):
Be doing some meditating coming up and these next few weeks,
So Danny, thank you for being here. I know interviews
like this one can be challenging because they may bring
up our own belief systems or internal values, but that's
where so much of our own personal work begins. This
interview opened up something and you, like it did for me,
you can check out Danny's new book linked in the
show notes, and while you're there, subscribe it up. Let
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me know who you want to hear from on this podcast,
and don't forget. You can watch on YouTube or follow
along on social media at take this personally. I'm so
happy that you're here.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
I love you. Bye.
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