Bobby gives us an update from the trenches of parenthood after a rough night at home. His baby is teething and we debate whether you should ever “blink” when you’re this tired. We talked about a time Amy went over to a guy's house to buy something off of Craigslist. We advise Amy to STOP having strangers off the internet come to her house. Bobby brings in what could be great news for Amy. A man found a Texas A&M ring on a beach. Could it be hers that's been missing for years?!
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Speaker 1 (00:11):
What's up, everybody? Welcome to Wednesday Show Morning Studio Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Allow me to complain just a bit.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
I'm not a big complainer if it comes to things
happening to me personally, but I'm gonna complain. The baby's teething.
Billy's teething. It sucks so bad. I was up all
night last night. So the night before, she was teething
so bad that she woke up about three just screaming.
So my wife she got this. Honestly, I didn't even
(00:41):
know because she didn't wake me up. And so she
was up from three am until well she went to bed,
and so I felt terrible for her because she had
food poisoning for a couple of days. My wife, and
then she was up with the baby all night.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
It just sucked for her.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
So it's like next night, I'm up. You need me,
I'm up. She's like, no, you have to work. I
said no. So we do that little dance. But so
my wife's asleep, and so I'm staying awake and so
but she's also staying so we're just like battling, staying
awake with each Like anyway, the baby's screaming a teething
(01:18):
and it's just a miserable, miserable, miserable night.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
How long does the teething process last?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Forever?
Speaker 4 (01:23):
They have a bunch of teeth.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Yeah, well I know, but I didn't like.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
She has there two ones all the way out. She's
four months. One broke through yep, it erupted, as they say,
and the other one is getting so close where she
just gnaws on her hands and it sucks so bad
because it feel bad for her. And then everybody at
the house is tired. And then I come in and
I'm tired, and my wife said, you don't have to
(01:47):
wake up. I'll take care of it. But I feel
bad for her because she's been sick. And so we're
just in the middle of that. And I do know
a wise man once said, don't blink and just like
that the not teething or how about that.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
So yeah, but times like that though, you want to
blink and like just have it all. Yeah, you want
to blame blink so we get it over with.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Yeah, so my energy is fine, but I never really
consider teething to be an obstacle in the future, and
it is. And then I go, man, she has a
lot more teeth to come through.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
You're really in a three to five days of symptoms
per tooth.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
It's more than that per tooth.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
But sometimes they come in doubles or triples.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
So then that would mean I think she's been teething
for six months and she's four months old. I know,
I'm fairly certain she's been teething for since she was born. Wow,
she's a early early teeth.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
She's a early teether because generally it says it starts
around the six month marks. So look at her, she's
already ahead.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Let's slow down.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Then, well, no, you're getting it over with. That's awesome.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
I know.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
What's so dumb about that is that they sell all
these like, oh, teething, this will help. Nothing helps.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Everything helps for about five minutes because it's a new
novel toy, and then it just gets I don't like
this one anymore. Yeah, and there you laugh. But there
are a lot of people that have said, hey, put
whiskey on her gums.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Oh no, it wasn't. I mean I was like, yeah,
I know.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Have you thought about it?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
I put it on mine.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Oh no, it went.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
It was the first time that I ever because the
baby was teething. I mentioned that to my wife said,
what if we put whiskey on our gums? And she
just looked at me and then kept going and like
walked off. She was like, stop. So I'm in a
very fortunate place that we have a healthy baby right now.
Is it kind of hard? Yeah? Yeah, man, I got
(03:44):
a d M about you, Eddie.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Oh yeah, it was a good one or a bad one.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
Sounds like a bad one.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
No, it was neither. So you know how all the
food's bad. We can't eat it because we all will all.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Get diarrhea, yes, salmonella.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Basically if you eat anything, you're gonna get diarrhea or something.
Speaker 7 (04:00):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Yeah, So we had a listener named Emily say, Hey, Bobby,
I have about three pounds of fresh, locally grown jalapenos
from my garden. I've canned and frozen enough and would
love to donate these fresh ones to Eddie for a salsa.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Passover that whatever.
Speaker 8 (04:15):
DM.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Yes, I drive by the studio every day going to
work downtown.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
I can drop them by the front desk and meet
Eddie downstairs to give them to him. I've tried calling
the show but can't get through. If you want to
have abby caller arrange. Here's in number.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Yep, yep, yep, sand to Abby, let's figure this out. Well,
she'd like to donate, donate she said the.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Word don't word, She did say the word donate.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
Yeah, But I mean if I like the product, this
could be a future endeavor for sure, a future person.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
She's one of your growers.
Speaker 7 (04:44):
Right.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Oh, that sounds illegal.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
It does sound weird, it doesn't. That sounds kind of
at least my supplier.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Do you really want it?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
This number?
Speaker 9 (04:52):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I thought that was very nice of her to offer
you these jalapenos, because the ones that you're buying will
give us jalapenos penon jalapenos, and you.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Could easily grow your own jalapenos.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
I know, but that's a I mean when do they
start growing? It is a player, yeah, a grower. That's great.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
So I'll pass that over to you. I appreciate it
if you want that. There's the son of this cult
leader that's talking about his three hundred kids and twenty
seven wives. Oh my, I'm so interested in these stories.
So John Kinkston is the son of this polygamy cult leader,
Paul Kingston, and he talked about growing up in the family,
and his dad had twenty seven wives and more than
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three hundred children. And so here's John. This is the
son talking about it.
Speaker 9 (05:36):
My dad has over three hundred kids and twenty seven wives.
Three of those wives are his sisters, two of them
are his nieces. People are wondering at how did my
dad remember all three hundred kids. First off, there's a
lot of repeating names, and if the boy names are
in the Bible, he's probably got a kid name that.
Even still on Sundays when we would line up to
go say bye to our dad, he would still forget
some of our names sometimes, and when he came over
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to our house, he'd forget our names. It's almost impossible
for somebody to get three hundred names right every single time.
Happy to say I have left this group. I've been
out for four years. Life's been amazing.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
His dad was married to two of his sisters and
some nieces. What in the world, I.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Think it's anyone who can reproduce ends up being a wife,
and then that's what you do. You just reproduce.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Thought that that was illegal.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
It's not legal, okay, but you got to kind of
catch them doing it if they're in their own little
private area in the middle of a desert.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
You really don't have a lot.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Of cops going in and out unless there's someone who's
reporting abuse. How crazy. I can't believe. Like the kids,
some of the kids don't have tails and stuff. Right,
if it's like you're having a kid with your sister,
you would think like you have a nose going out
of your cheek, because that's that's we say, can you
marry your cousin? And then you guys give me a
(06:53):
hard time second cousin, Yes we do. Yeah, this is
this is your sister and you're having a kid with
your sister.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Oh, it looks like I just found something to watch
on YouTube called what is the Kingston Clan?
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Oh? Oh wow, here we go.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
Hey will you report?
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Well these stories they're terribly sad and just fascinating at
the same time. And you feel what was the most
recent one that was so popular on Netflix and the
this woman went in undercover like a normal woman, she
kind of infiltrated the You didn't.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Oh gosh, it was last man instinct and that was
crazy and yeah, that.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Was pretty wild. But this was to your point, like
this cult in the middle of nowhere, but she did it.
She snuck her way in and she got close to
the main guy and she tricked him. And so they
were able to success successfully break this up and rescue
some of the women. But some of the women it
was too late. They had already done so much that
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they had to go serve time in jail too. And
I felt so bad for them because these are adult women.
They were endangering, oh my god, children. But I'm like
that they were brainwashed. Yeah, but they went and served
their time, but they had to go to jail for
what they were doing too, even though I just feel
like it was so messed up.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Is it crazy to you guys that this is happening
around us and we had no idea? Yes?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Yes, And I'm going to tell you something that's happening
around us even more so that most people have no
idea and it's trafficking. Yeah, it's happening so close around
us and so often, and we have no idea. And
even me saying this, I have no idea, and I
think I kind of have an idea, yet I have
no idea and I have it won't be on for
(08:42):
a couple of weeks, and it's not the whole reason
we're going to do the interview, but I have Tim
Tebow coming over because he's so involved in ANTI and
I want to learn more about this because I've studied
it a bit. But I still have no idea. So
when you say that, yep, absolutely, and then I go, oh,
everybody's been trafficked around us.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
We have no idea.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
And what I've learned about trafficking is it's not the
kidnap sense of trafficking where like, oh, people go missing
and no, this is like where they brainwashed like Amy's
talking about, and we're voluntary step into a car because
they have no other options and next thing you know,
they're in a trafficking situation.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Yeah, they're so vulnerable that they're put in a situation
and then they cannot be less vulnerable because eiir livelihood
depends on it, or their their families or if it's
someone that's not from the States, they have their passport.
There are so many you.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Know, they're taken somewhere where they don't even know.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Or how to get out, Yeah, how to get.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Out or there, and then there's drugs involved that they
didn't take voluntarily.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
By the way, cold stories, all right, I didn't watch.
I don't like that. I don't like those like I'm
not even really drawn to I'm not too good to
be drawn to something that's freaking crazy. Because I watched
the Ted Bundy and was just enamored with how awful
he was. And I think I'm obsessed sometimes with how
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people cannot feel like they're sociopathic too. And psychopathic and
sociopathic are completely different. Well they cross over a little bit,
but they're different things. How someone can be so sociopathic
and have no remorse or guilt, like it doesn't exist
inside of them. They were built without it. They didn't
choose not to have it, they didn't go you know,
(10:23):
I'd rather not feel guilty. It never was presented inside
of their body as they were born as a chemical.
Therefore they can do whatever they please because it's normal,
it's natural to them. A lot of sociopathic people on
a very very high level, the people that are also psychopathic,
because they can be both, like Ted Bundy both, but
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he felt nothing the sociopathic part of him, but the
psychopathic part of him was doing the stuff, the really
bad stuff, the killing. But the sociopathic part you don't
get it. You don't choose, you don't go. I'd rather
not feel. Now, there are some people whose desires or
selfishness or can override the guilt and they can choose.
(11:08):
You know what, I could feel guilty, but I'm getting
so much pleasure from this, pleasure greater signed than the
guilt or But there are some people that are born
completely without the ability to feel empathized, to have any sympathy,
and that you there's a part of me that feels
sorry for people that have that. Because not every sociopath
(11:30):
is a killer.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
Because that would be psychopath no, but.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Or because one of them kills, and one of them
psychopaths kill, but sociopaths can kill as well. But yeah,
you never we're path in here. But it sucks that
people are born like that. Yeah, and their decisions are
made without that barrier, and sometimes they don't know they
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don't have that barrier.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Till it's too late.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
But there are also people, I would say sociopathic people
because I once asked my therapist, hey, am my sociopath,
and he was like, you asked me that question, do
you mean it? Yeah, you're not a sociopath.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Because you're asking because.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
You actually care and you're worried. I said, but I
don't feel a lot of things, and he's said, that's different.
That's trauma.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
That's huge.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
And you had stuff happened to you before where you
did feel and you don't want to feel it again.
And there's a difference in that and the inability because
it is not something that you're able to do.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
See. I thought that's where most of it came from, trauma,
or I thought all of it can some can?
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Some can?
Speaker 4 (12:41):
I sure know that you could actually be born like that.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Oh it's all that's crazy, but yes, you can be
born that way. That cult story is crazy.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Oh and the cult sure that I watch on Netflix
is called trust Me the False Prophet.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
And what's the one we're going to be watching on
YouTube now?
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Oh the Kingston cult.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
Okay, we I'm not if you got a mouse in
your pocket.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
Well get about it later. But the cult stories, they
are fascinating. But then also, yes, it's difficult to watch
and his tragics like this is how some people are
living and it's so sad.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
I want to shout out this guy who is accused
of robbing the shake Shack, and you wonder, why would
you shout him out?
Speaker 4 (13:28):
Why would you shout him out?
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Man to have this kind of confidence he works there,
went and robbed it and then went back to work.
Speaker 4 (13:36):
Dang, but do they have cameras and all that?
Speaker 2 (13:39):
You the color?
Speaker 4 (13:39):
Of course it did, okay, So I put in his
pin code to get him the cash.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
We shake show employee Shake Shack employees accused of armed
robbery of his own store, and he was arrested when
he goes back thirty three years old, here you go,
he robs it goes back two days later.
Speaker 10 (13:56):
Police say this Phoenix man robbed his own workplace. DeAndre
Simmons accused of armed robbery and kidnapping, as investigators say
he held two coworkers at gunpoint at this Scottsdale shakeshack.
He allegedly forced a manager to open the safe, took
nearly three thousand dollars in cash, and then locked the
victims in a cooler.
Speaker 6 (14:15):
Core paperwork says he.
Speaker 10 (14:16):
Then went on to destroy their phones and say the
coworkers recognized his voice and knowledge of the store. Police
arresting Simmons two days later when he showed up for
his shift at the shake Shack.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
What the crap obviously had a mask on?
Speaker 4 (14:29):
Yeah, but the voice like, yes, of course you didiot.
It's like when Lunchbox tries to do you know his
agents anonymous spill the tea anything, like they know it's him.
Speaker 6 (14:38):
I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
A shout out to that dumbest dude ever for being
the dumbest dude ever. Also, don't be holding people to gunpoints,
sticking them in safe their closets.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
And then obviously he knew where everything was, like they said.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
Yes, he knew exactly. You know, a little too much
kind robber to just be a random kind robber from
ABC fifteen, Ara Zona. So I thought that one was
pretty wild. Okay, I want to talk about parenting your kids.
If you're strict on your kids, do you think that
makes them more honest or do you think that creates
(15:11):
dishonest children?
Speaker 3 (15:13):
M it's tough like strict. I mean, I think you
can have rules but allow for honest communication like freedom
to hey tell me anything.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
If you're strict, though, do you think hey tell me
anything actually works? I'm asking, I don't know. I'm not
asking to set you guys up.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
I think I guess just this is a generalized statement,
but the more super strict you are, you may create
someone that doesn't feel they out of fear, they're not
going to tell you things.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
I'ds go over to Eddie, who definitely lives more of
the strict lifestyle.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
Yeah, or strict for sure, But I think it's it's
either way. Like, if you're a strict parent, yeah, your
kids are gonna not want to get in trouble for
certain things, so they're gonna lie about things, right. But
if you're not strict parent and you want to just
kind of be open with everything, if they want to
do something, they're still going to lie about it. So
I don't think one necessarily means that they're going to
be liars or not.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
I think, well, I do think. I do actually think
that the stricter you are in the less room you
have for conversation around things, the more you're gonna get
sneaky children.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Interesting.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
Yeah, because sometimes I'm just kind of like, you know what,
I'm going to be cool this week, and then they
still lie about that this week.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Yeah, Yeah, I want to trust it week with dad.
If every other week's not cold.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
It's going to flip and start opening up and telling
you things.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
I want to read you this from the Child Development
and Developmental Psychology book here, if you're a strict parent,
you might want to let up on your kids. Many
parents believe that being strict will stop lying or misbehaving.
In fact, it increases it. Authoritarian parents who use punishments
tend to raise children who are more dishonest and will
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lie to get out of trouble. That rolls even into adulthood.
Speaker 4 (17:01):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
I mean, but there's a fine line. You can't be
all gooy, no rules.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
You know, question about parenting go ahead. Isn't it all
just kind of a fine line where nothing's really right
or wrong and you're just kind of figuring it out
as you go, and you don't really stay. You're never
really like right correct.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
Yeah, but I do think the super strict ones probably
think they do have it all figured out. And that's
like my way or the highway.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
So what I've dealt with, what I've started doing with
like the lying situation, is I'm going to give you
a chance to tell me the truth, and you it's almost.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Like I double down and keep lying, you will lessen
your sentence. I double down and keep lying, and it works.
I go, maybe he really doesn't know and he's tricking
me double down, lie.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
Well that's you playing games with me though, But in
my house, they're like, oh crap, dad's gonna find out.
We're gonna be in trouble.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
Do you think they ever get away with lying to you?
Speaker 6 (17:47):
No, you're an idiot.
Speaker 4 (17:49):
They don't they do, because, guys, you want to know why,
I have four boys. Three of them always tell me
to who did it? Every single time.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
And you don't think they ever hoots?
Speaker 4 (18:00):
Nope, No, dude. They are so competitive with each other
that there's no way that they're all going to be like, hey,
let's now, maybe when they're eighteen, when they're older, like,
maybe they'll do something like that. But when they're older,
I won't care as much. Right now, it's like we're
raising the boys. We've got to be strict.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
I would bet just a numbers game. There are things
they've lied to you about you haven't figured out.
Speaker 4 (18:20):
I've been told by one of the boys that he
did I saw him do it.
Speaker 3 (18:26):
Well, then don't you want to tell that kid stopping
a tattletell right?
Speaker 4 (18:29):
Exactly? The little system, guys, the whole system. So we
all end up telling the truth.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
But what if one kid doesn't tell the other kids,
and they're able to lie to you and the other
kids don't even know.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
Oh, that's complicated a lot of mind games going on.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
No, Like they just do something and you're like, did
you do this? They're like no, but they didn't even
tell the other boys.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
Yeah, yeah, sure, sure, Like if the if the other
boys aren't involved, yeah, yeah, Like say this is at school, yep,
and the other kids aren't there.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
I mean, I do think sometimes they try to lie.
But here's the thing. If you really really pay attention
to your kids and just pay attention to their mannerisms,
you know exactly when they're lying. I know exactly when
every single one of my boys is telling a lie.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
Did you ever get away with lying?
Speaker 4 (19:12):
But I've known them since they were Did you ever.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
Get avery lying?
Speaker 4 (19:16):
What's that?
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Did you? Did you ever get away with lying?
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Oh yeah, okay?
Speaker 1 (19:21):
And so do you think your parents thought they knew
when you were lying?
Speaker 4 (19:24):
I think they knew. I think they just kind of
like like he thinks he thinks that he got one,
he got one over on us, but he really didn't.
Like I would go drinking with my friends and I
would come back and I would see them and talk
to them and like, they have no idea that I've
been drinking. Yes, they did.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
My mom picked me up from a party at my
friend Jango's house, and I don't know, maybe we were sophomores, juniors,
had I been I couldn't drive yet, so maybe a
maybe freshman. I threw up on the way home. I
she had to pull over, and I was like, oh
my gosh, Jingo's mom must have made some bad food.
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But like I didn't get in trouble, And I'm like,
what was my mom thinking? Because she I would get grounded,
but like, was she just not does she just not
want to deal with it or address it? Or did
she really think that I ate bad food?
Speaker 4 (20:21):
Some days you don't want to deal with it, right?
Speaker 3 (20:23):
I mean, I will never forget that one. And now
that I'm a parent, I'm trying to think if like
I picked my kids up from a party and they
were like pull over, pull around to be sick and
they threw up, Yeah, right, I'd be like, Okay, what
was going on at the party?
Speaker 1 (20:37):
She was just tired of those that aren't as blatant.
You probably lied to your parents and got away with
it and they probably thought, yeah, he's telling us the truth.
Speaker 4 (20:47):
I don't know. I don't know, and even maybe that
could be my conscience a little bit where I'm just like, oh,
did they believe that or not? But I just feel
like I know exactly when any of my kids are lying.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
And that makes me feel since you think you know
for sure, that you don't know for sure.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
But that's me.
Speaker 4 (21:04):
I can't wait to have this conversation with you when
your daughter's older, because I want to know what you think.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
I'm gonna think she's probably getting away with a little bit,
and she's probably mostly not getting away with stuff. Yeah,
but I don't know right now, no lines have been told.
Four months in completely, the guy was robbed. He did
a Facebook marketplace meet up and so he meets up
and the guy robbed him.
Speaker 4 (21:31):
Oh no, that's a Amy.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
That's who I think of.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
Yeah, is Amy just selling random stuff or having people
come to our house?
Speaker 3 (21:38):
And sold a desk yesterday? Forty bucks? Where did you
sell it on Facebook?
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (21:44):
She can.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
She is a huge desk. She had to come to
my house pick it out.
Speaker 4 (21:47):
Oh my gosh, she went in your house and who
is it at your house?
Speaker 9 (21:49):
With me?
Speaker 3 (21:50):
It was on my porch.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
Okay, but who was at your house with you when't
happened me?
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Yeah, you're like, who else though?
Speaker 6 (21:57):
But it was on the porch, so.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
They know where you live and you're by yourself.
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Yeah, but it was a woman, so you don't think
she has a If it was a man, I wouldn't
have done the deal.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
Police say this nineteen year old who was robbed was
meeting someone to sell from Facebook marketplace that he thought
was between fourteen and seventeen years old, and they pulled
out a gun and said nope, I'll take that, and
then took all the money and they ran off.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
I remember I sold a truck like my dad's cars something.
I was selling it and had I met the people
in the target parking lot and then they wanted to
test drive it and I was like, oh no, this
is where they steal it. So then I was like, sure,
but I'll go with you, and then I'm like they're
going to kidnap me. It ended up being okay, but
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I remember that situation being a little scared.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
That was you probably remember the story. That's what happened
to my mom. She went to meet them at a
parking lot and they tested over car and they never
came back. Oh ever it was stolen, I know, and
I don't. I mean, I guess it was the eighties.
I know that they met in the parking lot of
the restaurant that my parents owned, and it was close
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to our house. And then they came back and we
were like, do you sell the car? And they're like,
they never came back. I mean they called the police.
I think they later tracked something down and they had.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
Mexico and Mexico. Yes, that's why I think they take
everything in Mexico.
Speaker 3 (23:22):
And they get to Mexico. Yeah, a buick.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
But I just think about the times too that you
like went inside that guy's house to get his airplane miles, Like,
you went in his house, into his bedroom.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
I did. It was a listener. He was a listener here.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Talking the male listeners are ever going to lock you
in a room and hurt you?
Speaker 3 (23:43):
And we were so young, and we were I just
had started dating who I ended up marrying, and I
wanted to fly to go see him and I You
could buy points off of people or something on Craigslist,
and so we were talking about it on the show
and we thought, well, this is going to be a
good way to do it. And then I don't know
did he send me an email or something to my
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work email. And I ended up meeting him at his
house and when I got to his house, he said, well,
come in because he had to do it on his
account and like transferred to me. So he said come
back to my office and if that nice, said back there,
and then sure to that he transferred it and I
was able to fly to the Albuquerque or wherever to the office.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
He is one door, shut and latch away from where
amylus here. I sure was talking about that coast we
had that bought the points.
Speaker 3 (24:29):
I would never do that today, but at twenty five
it felt okay. But could you imagine connecting with a
guy on well, I guess it wasn't craigsl like I
think I was looking on craigsl How did did he
email me? Did I find him on craigslist? Because how
did we know he was okay? It was?
Speaker 4 (24:50):
Were you exchanging?
Speaker 3 (24:51):
How did we know he was a listener?
Speaker 1 (24:53):
I think you made that up for some sort of justification.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
No, I wonder if I've emails him.
Speaker 4 (25:00):
What were you guys exchanging?
Speaker 1 (25:01):
Like?
Speaker 4 (25:01):
What was the Why did you have to be in his.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Office he was selling, like the exchange was his rapid rewards.
Speaker 4 (25:09):
You have but a literal paper of miles, Like, I
don't understand why you guys could.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
But he had a book it for me.
Speaker 6 (25:13):
Yeah he had to go online and book it through
his account.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Yeah you had to go back take your clothes off.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
An God, I didn't have to go, did you imagine?
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Yeah, well that was never a part of the deal.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
Well, I know, but what if you're put in some.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Yeah, I know you need to have people come to
your house to sell a desk too?
Speaker 3 (25:36):
Was yesterday twenty years ago that I did the decade
was yesterday. That's like, Look, it's fine. You can on
Facebook when you're selling. You can look to people up
And I was like, okay, she seems safe because what
because she's a she and her name her name was
nice or like everything.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
Of course was nice, was great. It wasn't shady. We're
gonna play a game. I will give you the first
name of a television character. You give me their last name.
Oh man, if I were to say Ross, it would
be Geler from Friends.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
Good.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
If you miss it, you're out. What is uncle Jesse's
last name on Full House.
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Oh gosh, what are you kidding?
Speaker 10 (26:24):
Well?
Speaker 1 (26:25):
This was supposed to be the easy one? Are you
kidding to me? Do we make this too hard? Uncle
Jesse on Full House.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
That he's writing something. Lunchbox is staring at his pin. Mhmm.
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Okay, five seconds, guys.
Speaker 6 (26:48):
It's been real. Guys, have fun in this.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
Game, Uncle Jesse.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
I didn't get that.
Speaker 2 (26:52):
You didn't.
Speaker 6 (26:54):
I got something around it, but it ain't it.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
What do you have?
Speaker 1 (26:58):
You're so close?
Speaker 6 (26:59):
I don't know that though.
Speaker 3 (27:00):
I just knew that was that, that was not it
because I have.
Speaker 4 (27:05):
See there we go, I have.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
You know what you're all in? It's kiss and not
only that. The first season he was Cochrane, but then
he changed it too Cochran.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
But I almost put span out.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
But that's that's show.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
What are you doing? You're helping a later answer?
Speaker 3 (27:28):
Are you going to do another? Jesse?
Speaker 2 (27:30):
Who knows?
Speaker 6 (27:30):
You never know?
Speaker 1 (27:31):
Okay, next up? What's Al's last name? I'm married with children, Al,
I'm in the wind, Amy Bundy, Eddie Bundy, lunch Bundy.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
Correct.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
What's Fraser's last name on the show? Fraser?
Speaker 4 (27:53):
I'm in really?
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Oh wow? Fraser that's not his last name.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
It is a last name, though it sounds like one.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Yeah yeah Fraser.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
Yeah, there areopled latsame Frasier, but no Fraser Blank.
Speaker 3 (28:08):
You know, Lunchoks Doctor Fraser Fraser, doctor Fraser, Fraser, Fraser,
Fraser Fraser. Okay, what do you got McMullen.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Solid so close, Lunchbox, this goes high up in the sky.
Speaker 6 (28:28):
Give me Fraser Crane.
Speaker 4 (28:31):
Fraser Crane.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
Answer is Enspolis Fraser Crane.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Yes, Amy, you're out. I'm sorry you've been boned.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
Lunchbox and Eddie, what is George's last name? In Seinfeld
M one two three, A good job? What's Andy's last name?
And the Andy Griffith Show, I'm.
Speaker 6 (29:01):
In oh man, Oh say it again?
Speaker 1 (29:10):
What's Andy's last name? On the Andy Griffith Show, Lunchbox.
Speaker 6 (29:19):
Griffith, Just like you said, you almost got.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
Me, almost got I almost got got so close? Yeah, Eddie,
griff Griffith, Griffith, Oh my god, are you serious? Are
you serious? I thought you were having a laugh at him.
Speaker 4 (29:32):
No, no, no, no, Griffith's what you said, right.
Speaker 1 (29:34):
I thought you're having a laugh at him, because he
answered Griffith, I thought we were like both laughing. No, No,
I hope his last name on Andy Griffith show, Hopie yeah,
the kid, yeahfith Son, No, nol, Lbie Taylor, Taylor, Albie Taylor,
Willie Griffith.
Speaker 4 (29:48):
And who the heck is Andy Griffith.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
He's the actual person.
Speaker 6 (29:52):
What hold on? Andy Griffith.
Speaker 1 (29:56):
The sheriff guy is Andy Taylor on the show Serious?
Speaker 7 (30:00):
The show?
Speaker 3 (30:01):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (30:02):
On the Cosby Show. What's Bill's last name? Cosby Huxtable?
Speaker 4 (30:07):
Okay, okay, so his character's name is Andy Taylor, but
the actor playing him is Andy Griffith, which is so
confusing that they called Andy Griffith show.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Very confusing, guys, this is having like ten shows.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
Are they just changed.
Speaker 6 (30:22):
I'm just now realizing it because you said the Cosby
is And now my mind is really spinning.
Speaker 7 (30:25):
I know.
Speaker 6 (30:27):
Oh my gosh, I should have thought about that a
little harder.
Speaker 4 (30:29):
And I did laugh too, because I'm like, oh, he's
gonna get this wrong.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
You just said it because it's Cliff Huxtable on the
Cosby Show.
Speaker 4 (30:36):
Why would it he called Cosby Show?
Speaker 1 (30:38):
Right, That's my point, just because the name of the person. Okay,
all right, you guys are still in it.
Speaker 6 (30:44):
Man, we are back. Dude, Hey, Opie, Griffith, Oh man,
I should have really thought.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
What's Blanche's last name from The Golden Girls?
Speaker 6 (30:54):
Good Night?
Speaker 5 (30:55):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (30:55):
I know this one.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
You guys both don't know. I got yeah, Blanche?
Speaker 3 (31:00):
Can I get back in?
Speaker 1 (31:02):
But you can tell him that once it's over.
Speaker 2 (31:04):
Let's walk, right, Eddie Golden, Amy.
Speaker 3 (31:09):
Devereux, Deeux.
Speaker 1 (31:12):
What is Rachel's last name in friends?
Speaker 2 (31:17):
Well?
Speaker 6 (31:18):
All right, which one do you want to go with?
Speaker 1 (31:21):
What? She has one last name?
Speaker 4 (31:27):
Ah?
Speaker 6 (31:27):
Not not true?
Speaker 2 (31:32):
Rachel?
Speaker 3 (31:33):
Wait?
Speaker 6 (31:33):
Who did you say? Who did you say?
Speaker 2 (31:37):
You just said it?
Speaker 11 (31:38):
One?
Speaker 6 (31:38):
Sd you say Rachel or Monica?
Speaker 1 (31:41):
Like?
Speaker 2 (31:42):
No, you literally repeated me.
Speaker 6 (31:44):
I wanted to make sure I heard. I'm just going
Oh my gosh, thank you.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
I got it, Griffith, No, Rachel got it? What green?
Eddie Green?
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Correct?
Speaker 4 (31:58):
What were you thinking of?
Speaker 6 (31:59):
I would say, can kill her? Because she married Ross?
Speaker 7 (32:01):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (32:01):
That's Monica Ross.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
Rachel and Ross at the end, did not get they
got married for? Did she change her name ever? Though?
I don't think she ever changed her name? What's Archie's
last name in all in the family?
Speaker 8 (32:20):
I'm in the lunchbox bunker, Eddie Bunker correct, what's Sheldon's
last name on Big Bang Theory in.
Speaker 6 (32:32):
For the Wind? Yeah, look at me, Bud, I got
it all Eddie dial was look at lunchbox?
Speaker 1 (32:38):
Is Eddie doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (32:44):
Sheldon?
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Wow? What am I thinking? This name?
Speaker 4 (32:50):
You know it for sure?
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Sheldon?
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Oh all right, need an answer here?
Speaker 6 (33:01):
Oh man, I'm in.
Speaker 1 (33:03):
He didn't get it, Eddie Bang, Sheldon Bang from Big
Bank Theory, got nothing. It's good lunch for the Wind,
Sheldon Cooper. Hey, that was more fun than I thought
it would be. I'm sorry you didn't get to play much. Yeah,
we'll save some of these for another game. Eddie is
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wondering if he overreacted toward his kids. Yeah, what did
they do?
Speaker 4 (33:28):
They did something that I hate when people do. Okay,
So we were going someplace and there was a cop
in the front and he saw my whole family walking
in right like me, my four boys, My four boys
were in front. Cop looks at us, opens the door,
holds the door for all of us and our boys
like a row of ducks, just like. Didn't say thank
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you at all. I said, boys, stop, stop. What do
we say to the officer that held the door open?
Speaker 2 (33:58):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (33:58):
Oh yeah, yeah, thank you? And I was like, no,
that's it, Like that makes me so mad. I've taught
them way better than that. So I grounded him. They
had chores all day when we got home. There were
chores all day. You you're mow in the backyard. You
you're a mow in the front yard. You you're edging
the yard. And after that, we're gonna fold all the
clothes and you're gonna find the mismatching socks and you're
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gonna put them all together.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
And so what lesson did you want them to learn?
Speaker 4 (34:24):
When someone holds the door open for you, you say
thank you.
Speaker 2 (34:28):
Did it matter even more that it was a police officer?
Speaker 4 (34:31):
Didn't matter?
Speaker 1 (34:32):
Okay, So anybody just have respect if.
Speaker 4 (34:34):
It was an old lady holding the door, like say
thank you. They acted like like they were supposed to
have the door open for them. When people act like.
Speaker 2 (34:44):
That, mmmmm.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Remember the guy that hold the door for Amy and
then he let it go and it hit her.
Speaker 3 (34:48):
Yeah, and I said thank you. And to be clear,
he wasn't holding the door for me.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
He wanted me to know that, and he said, you
can do it yourself.
Speaker 3 (34:55):
He definitely did not have parents that made him do chores.
Speaker 2 (34:58):
How do you feel about him punishing his kids like that.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
I think that's fine.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
I think it's fine too. Sometimes you go crazy. Yeah,
the one time you made your son saying I'm looking
at the man in the mirror. Yeah, over and over.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
Again, because I said, look, it's gonna have to start
with you the man in the mirror.
Speaker 1 (35:11):
So you made um seeing Michael Jackson, oh, for hours
over in the mirror in the bathroom. I thought that
was a little overboard. Or the time you made me
blowny sandwiches for days at a time, same kid.
Speaker 4 (35:18):
Because I'm like, if you're gonna have bad grades, then
you just expect to not have a good job. You're
not gonna be able to afford good food. You're gonna
eat blowney sandwiches.
Speaker 1 (35:25):
And how many days that one felt like forever? Yeah,
So that one I felt was a little overboard too.
I don't hate this one, all right, good lunchbarks.
Speaker 6 (35:34):
Oh man, this is all Eddie. His wife said this
is what I need to do today, and Eddie made
his kids do it. That's exactly what he did. Way
over reaction. You want your kids to hate you just
because they didn't say thank you one time you make
them cut the grass full of the laundry. Wow, you
are intense.
Speaker 4 (35:51):
Let me ask you this lunch. Oh my god, I
would hate you as a parent if somebody, if you
held the door room for someone and they didn't say
thank you, how would you feel.
Speaker 6 (35:58):
I'm not gonna make them mow my grass, not you
my laundry.
Speaker 4 (36:02):
How does it make you feel when someone doesn't say
thank you when you hold.
Speaker 6 (36:04):
The door from You're welcome? Sarcastically but rude?
Speaker 2 (36:08):
But what about your kids?
Speaker 1 (36:09):
You're teaching them, You're instelling values in that.
Speaker 6 (36:13):
Yeah, you go back and see them, Hey, you need
to say thank you. But making them go home and
uh scrub the tile with a toothbrush seems crazy.
Speaker 5 (36:19):
No.
Speaker 4 (36:20):
But the reason I told them boys, what do we
tell the officer? And they answered thank you? Is because
I've told them a million times before that when someone
holds the door open, you say thank you.
Speaker 1 (36:30):
I don't hate it, thank you, you're welcome. Yeah there, Yeah. Question,
would you rather know how you die or when you die?
But you have to know one of the two.
Speaker 6 (36:43):
God, oh god, I hate this, like this is terrible.
Speaker 1 (36:48):
You have to know one of the two. Like I'm
going to force you to understand either A how you
die or B when you die?
Speaker 3 (36:56):
Can is it the exact date or is it more?
Speaker 2 (36:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (37:00):
Oh, can you change anything about now? So you can't like,
if you're going to die from a heart attack, you
can't eat better?
Speaker 1 (37:06):
Well, you you're still gonna die, have a heart attack.
Speaker 6 (37:08):
Or if you're gonna die in a car right, never
get in a car again, right?
Speaker 2 (37:11):
Right?
Speaker 1 (37:11):
Then a car hits you.
Speaker 3 (37:12):
Okay, So we have to think this through, like would
I rather know? Yeah, if I'm gonna die in a
car wreck, I just don't know when or if I'm
gonna I don't know how, but I know I'm going
to die today.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
But I mean you're going good.
Speaker 6 (37:29):
It could be it could be fifty years from now.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Could be today, it could be fifty The answer fifty
years from now.
Speaker 3 (37:34):
Then that's my answer. I want to know. That's the thing.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Oh do you want to know how you're going to die?
And you have to pick or when you're going to die?
This is sick.
Speaker 6 (37:44):
It is sick. I don't know how you came up
with those. This terrible. It's an easy answer.
Speaker 2 (37:48):
I think I go. Oh, man, I've changed.
Speaker 3 (37:54):
Like three times, I've been back and forth too.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
I think I'm going to go how and I'm gonna
tell you why. If I'm just playing the odds here,
there is a decent chance I die old and of
whatever the natural cause is. And so if that's the case,
I don't think that is as jarring to me as
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knowing I only have three years, two months, and six
days left. Now the news I get could be bad,
it could be worse. I'm just I'm just going odds here,
because if it's like, here's how you die, you fall
onto a single nail and oh yeah, right right, right,
right right, So I'm gonna go how.
Speaker 3 (38:42):
Yeah, I'm gonna go When.
Speaker 1 (38:46):
That's hard, then you're counting down amy, Yeah, well I'll.
Speaker 3 (38:50):
Be able to spend my time wisely.
Speaker 6 (38:56):
And then won't matter what you eat, because you know
you're gonna die either way.
Speaker 1 (38:58):
On that.
Speaker 3 (39:00):
Again, if it says fifty years, then no, I'm not
going to just like do whatever I want.
Speaker 4 (39:05):
Why not?
Speaker 1 (39:06):
I'm doing heroin?
Speaker 3 (39:09):
What what if you have so you for sure can't
die earlier?
Speaker 4 (39:15):
That's correct, it's already been established.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
If you say fifty years, I'm a superhero because I
know I can't die. I'm jumping off buildings. I am
now a superhero.
Speaker 4 (39:25):
You jump off ability You're like, yeah, somehouse.
Speaker 1 (39:27):
Didn't kill me. No, it wasn't gonna die.
Speaker 3 (39:29):
I mean you could be you could still be alive
but paralyzed. Yeah, I'm gonna go with when, Eddie.
Speaker 4 (39:40):
I'm going to be just like Amy. I'm gonna say
when because I want to know when. Like, if it's
in a day.
Speaker 2 (39:47):
We know yours.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
We have the death clock, the clock. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (39:49):
Yeah, like if it's three years, let's get living, just
like old Tim McGraw, you know, like just do it.
But if it's fifty years from now.
Speaker 1 (40:00):
Whatever, then you better say big time of retirement. Yes,
then we start working lunchbox.
Speaker 6 (40:05):
My first thought was, oh, this is easy. You want
to know when, because then I have to I don't
have to worry about retirement, or I do have to
worry about retirement. Am I gonna have enough money? But
then that just made me depress because I would just
be looking at the clock, going, man, in six more weeks,
I'm dead. Uh So I'm gonna go with hol give
me how No, I'm dying, that's it.
Speaker 2 (40:23):
What was your logic to get there?
Speaker 6 (40:26):
Just the the clock counting down was more depressing to
me than the way I.
Speaker 4 (40:30):
Just but what if it's like, you're gonna drown? Okay,
every single time you go to the pool, I would
have I wouldn't go to No, No, you're gonna go
to the pool, and every single time you're gonna think
this could be the day.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Well, but you could also be ninety three in a bathtub.
Speaker 4 (40:45):
True, but you don't know. You just all you know
is drowned, right.
Speaker 6 (40:49):
I would start having a fear of water. Yes, but
it's better than the clock.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
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Speaker 2 (41:05):
Here's a question to be because then hello Bobby Bones.
Speaker 1 (41:14):
About three months ago, I received a panicked call from
my aunt concerning my cousin. She lost her full right
scholarship after citing that going to class wasn't working for her,
so she begged me to let my cousins stay with
me for a few weeks so she could figure things out.
Three months later, she's still sleeping on my couch, not
paying rent, eating my food, and doesn't appear to be
doing much in the way of figuring things out. I've
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told my aunt something's got to give, and she's spoken
to her, but I'm not optimistic that things are going
to change anytime soon. What's my recourse here? Signed cousins
on my couch? You got squatted. You got squatted my
family man.
Speaker 3 (41:50):
That's hard conversation to have, but it's got to happen.
Speaker 1 (41:53):
If you're not seeing that cousin slowly moving out, like
if she's not already making plans or having conversations or
looking for places or then it's an absolute you have
to be out by this day conversation, right, it's family.
Speaker 3 (42:08):
Yeah, you need a plan, we need a deadline.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (42:11):
I think you avoid going. You got to be out
by the end of the week. I think you go.
I know you've been going through a lot. I'm here
for you. Let's find a date to get you moved
out by, to get you transitioned by, and let's set
a date so we're both motivated to do that.
Speaker 3 (42:27):
Yeah, And if they happen to be overwhelmed by that,
because I'm just thinking of different personality types, maybe you
have the gift of some organization or helping them with
the next step and figuring it out. Like you could
also be like, is there something overwhelming about this where
I can I can help you, Like, should we go
look at places, like what's going on and let's take
a look at stuff because maybe they just need a
(42:49):
little a little help. Okay, Well, if you're in that situation,
I could see getting overwhelmed and just ignoring it.
Speaker 2 (42:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
I also feels like something it's just lazy. If they
just stop going to class. Yeah, you just put stuff
out the front. Yeah, if they leave it out, well
that's that's the final, final, final option, and it's going
to be probably a lott awkward within the family, but
it's hey, we need to get you out by this point.
And if they keep kicking the can you wait for
them to leave and you put all this stuff out
and then you change the locks and they got to
(43:19):
go home, and you let the mom know because mom's
going to be like, I get it, I get it,
but I think it is how you've been stating here
a while. Let's just figure something out for you. But
let's find a date that you're fully transitioned by, and
it can be two months down the road. You still
lose a little because you're still on the couch. I'm
assuming it's they said.
Speaker 11 (43:36):
She right, I'm assuming it's a she I feel like, yeah,
she lost yeah, yeah, yeah, But then I think at
the end, it's right, put us out there.
Speaker 3 (43:46):
Now we're getting into the territory where you're enabling.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
So yeah, good luck with that.
Speaker 1 (43:52):
Find a positive way to approach it, and then you
have to hit it dead on if that doesn't work,
but that is awkward because it's family.
Speaker 2 (44:00):
Yeah, good luck, all right, close it up.
Speaker 12 (44:03):
Wake up, Wake up in the morning, and it's on
the radio, and the Doctors keeps on time already, and
the lunchbox more game too, Steve bred Now it's trying
to put you through fog. He's running this week's next bit.
The Bobby's on the box, so you know what this
(44:29):
the Bobby balls.
Speaker 1 (44:31):
Now time for the Morning Corny.
Speaker 2 (44:36):
The Morning Corny.
Speaker 3 (44:38):
What is it called when you get a hangover from wine?
Speaker 2 (44:43):
What is it called when you get a hangover from wine?
Speaker 3 (44:45):
The Great Depression?
Speaker 2 (44:47):
Great Depression? That that was the Morning Corny. Hi a voicemail.
Speaker 13 (44:57):
I'm listening to Friday's episode two and he's talking about
Lindsay Vaughn and her bikini and how she looks, and
he always talks about women like that. I just wonder
how his wife feels when he talks about other women
like that, or is this just a character that he
plays for the show?
Speaker 7 (45:15):
Thanks love the show.
Speaker 2 (45:17):
In a lunchbox.
Speaker 1 (45:18):
I also thought because he was talking about how fast
that she bounced back from surgery. But he just kept
referring to her in a bikini, or she was in
a bikini on a paddle board.
Speaker 2 (45:27):
That was the picture. He just kept going bikini.
Speaker 1 (45:29):
Ya.
Speaker 2 (45:29):
So what does your wife think about that?
Speaker 6 (45:31):
I mean, she knows that guys are going to look
at other women. She probably looks at other guys. I
mean that's just the nature of humanity, and so I
don't think she has a problem with it. She's never
said anything about it, so I don't think she minds.
I can tell her, Hey, man, look how hot she looks.
Speaker 3 (45:44):
You say that we all are in public, yeah.
Speaker 1 (45:47):
Together, you see another woman in a bikini. You could
be like, wow, I how hot she looks in a bikini?
Speaker 6 (45:51):
Yeah? Or I'll say, man, why is that lady?
Speaker 2 (45:52):
Were in a bikini?
Speaker 5 (45:54):
What?
Speaker 2 (45:54):
Oh? So you go both way, but that one. I
don't think that one would be received the same.
Speaker 11 (46:00):
What does he mean by that? Like she should be
wearing Yeah.
Speaker 1 (46:04):
The other one I could understand yeah, the second the
one that one's mean, but the other one, I just
feel like you wouldn't be received well by your wife.
Speaker 6 (46:10):
She doesn't see the mind man.
Speaker 2 (46:11):
All right, Uh, next up, I.
Speaker 4 (46:12):
Just got back for get the massage.
Speaker 2 (46:14):
My wife goes, did you tip the missus? I'm like,
I didn't know I was supposed to tip the missus.
Speaker 6 (46:19):
She goes, oh, I always tip.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
Them twenty bucks.
Speaker 1 (46:21):
I'm like, well, how am I.
Speaker 3 (46:22):
Supposed to know that?
Speaker 2 (46:24):
Like to hear from you thanks team.
Speaker 1 (46:26):
Yeah, that's one of those that someone kind of has
to tell you, because if you're paying cash, you don't
know if you go to that little thing and pay afterward.
They do put a tip line there, so I guess
that could be an indicator. But if it's someone that's
their own business, you don't really have to tip. But
if it's someone that's working for a business, you probably
(46:46):
should tip a missus because they have to give some
of that money to the business. It's just complicated because
the tip of culture is so confusing now and at
times out of control. Then it's ruining it for everybody.
Maybe I used to get tip all the time. I
don't get a single tip now. People are confused. Really, Yeah,
I know, I just have a jaw on my desk here,
and people should just walk in from the streets, but
(47:07):
tips in, but now they can't. So yeah, that's it's
almost like a Netflix show unless a friend tells you
you don't know.
Speaker 11 (47:14):
How do you tip the masseuse cash? Like do you
give it to them after the service is done? Or
do you leave it on the bed?
Speaker 1 (47:20):
Can?
Speaker 3 (47:21):
I mean, I think, like Bobby said, it's different if
they are own their own business, or you're out of SPA,
or because when you're checking out, the person working might
be like, do you want to leave gratuity for your
If I.
Speaker 2 (47:30):
Feel like cash is different, I just put in their
podcast slight.
Speaker 3 (47:32):
Yeah you could, I guess Eddie leave it because.
Speaker 2 (47:36):
They leave the room.
Speaker 1 (47:37):
If you have cash on you, they leave the room
so you can get dressed again. You can leave you that,
you can leave it there, Okay, you leave it anywhere.
Speaker 2 (47:42):
I'm telling you. It's everything is so confusing now, But
that's what's all right.
Speaker 1 (47:46):
Thank you. Voicemail us anytime you want questions comments eight seven,
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Speaker 6 (47:57):
This story comes us from Atlanta, Georgia. Two people were
at the Ikea furniture store and they decided, let's test
out this mattress. They're laying there and then they start
kissing and getting.
Speaker 1 (48:09):
A little hands No way.
Speaker 6 (48:13):
And so they've been banned from Ikea.
Speaker 4 (48:15):
Okay, did it stop.
Speaker 1 (48:16):
With the kiss? Did you stop? Or did it stop?
Speaker 6 (48:19):
It stopped? They said they were kissing, getting handsy and
things were getting steamy.
Speaker 1 (48:24):
So they were getting to like third base.
Speaker 4 (48:26):
Yeah, and they stopped him before they can go.
Speaker 1 (48:29):
Or did they stop? Either way, they got kicked out.
But who stopped I need to know.
Speaker 6 (48:34):
I think an Ikea employees stopped them because they were steamy,
they were getting there.
Speaker 3 (48:40):
They stopped. Then they they wouldn't be boneheads, right.
Speaker 2 (48:43):
If you're doing hand stuff.
Speaker 3 (48:45):
And I don't know what would it be like to
be that attracted to somebody.
Speaker 1 (48:52):
Well, I can tell you because I am. That's why
I'm my wife.
Speaker 2 (48:56):
Back in it.
Speaker 1 (48:56):
No, no, now?
Speaker 2 (48:57):
Oh now? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (48:58):
Yeah, it's different for you.
Speaker 4 (49:00):
Yeah, really different.
Speaker 1 (49:01):
All right, I'm lunchbox.
Speaker 6 (49:02):
That's your bonehead story of the day.
Speaker 1 (49:05):
I was watching a clip of a guy with a
metal detector going through a beach and he's like, I
found something. He's digging it up, and it's in a
bucket and he slowly does the water to get all
the sandy out of the bucket. And in the end
there's a ring in it and it's a Texas.
Speaker 2 (49:17):
A and M ring.
Speaker 3 (49:17):
Oh, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (49:19):
Okay, And for those that don't know, Amy's Texas A
and M ring was stolen from her house and then
like a burglary years ago. And Amy's offered like fifty
thousand dollars to get it back or something.
Speaker 3 (49:33):
You have offered fifteen.
Speaker 1 (49:36):
I forget, but we can't get a ring back. We've
checked everywhere, pawn chobs, We've called criminals, been like, yo,
what's up, you know anything? Nope, all right, check it,
check in later. Nothing.
Speaker 3 (49:47):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (49:47):
So here you go. This is the craziest thing I've
ever seen. Finger quotes found metal at the beach.
Speaker 2 (49:55):
Hit it.
Speaker 3 (49:56):
Oh my goodness, dude.
Speaker 7 (49:58):
Wow, that's a class right Texas and M University. Yeah,
it's it's ten k. It has a full name inscribed
in it. I'm not going to show that part. But
this thing is so unreasonably heavy. This has to be
at least at least thirty grams. That's what it feels
like it.
Speaker 3 (50:17):
Must be a mail ring.
Speaker 4 (50:18):
Yeah, they have.
Speaker 3 (50:18):
The mail rings are so much bigger. The women's rings
are a little daintier. There, I'll be able to see
if it's mail right away.
Speaker 1 (50:26):
Where is the beach located by the ocean?
Speaker 3 (50:28):
But which part of the country that's crazy?
Speaker 1 (50:31):
The edge, the coast, but east coast, west coast, the ocean.
Speaker 2 (50:37):
Yeah great, So here's the ring.
Speaker 3 (50:39):
Yeah, that's a guy ring ring.
Speaker 4 (50:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (50:41):
How crazy would it have been if that was your ring?
Speaker 4 (50:44):
And didn't you just have a stone in it on
it too?
Speaker 3 (50:46):
Mine has a diamond in the middle.
Speaker 2 (50:49):
You found a text a and m ring. It's not amy.
Speaker 4 (50:51):
That ring doesn't look very rusted or anything.
Speaker 6 (50:53):
All like it's brand new in the sand.
Speaker 1 (50:56):
It looks older though twenty what's twenty on for?
Speaker 3 (51:00):
I mean, is that class of twenty? Mine says, oh three.
Speaker 2 (51:04):
Well, that's not it.
Speaker 1 (51:05):
God, let us stray again.
Speaker 2 (51:08):
That is from Clara June can or on. It looks
like Twitter.
Speaker 3 (51:13):
I can't wait for the day that we find it.
And I've thought over the last year for sure about
just ordering a new one so that I can have it,
And then I'm like, no, if I do that, then
I'm giving up on finding the original.
Speaker 1 (51:29):
I don't know that that's true, but I understand why
you feel that way. You could do both. You could
buy a new one and still want the original, but
then what's the use I want that anymore. It's a
bit if you don't. If you want to bet to die,
get the ring.
Speaker 3 (51:41):
No want I want the ring to show up, and
I know it's out there.
Speaker 4 (51:45):
That's the thing could be melted.
Speaker 1 (51:46):
They could have been taking to Mexico and melting, yes,
or just melting America. But I always think everything's taken
to Mexico and don Becau.
Speaker 4 (51:51):
That's where they did the bad day.
Speaker 2 (51:52):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (51:53):
I feel like they anytime the bad stuff's done, it's
like taken down there and done in the which is
unfair of me to think, but that's just what I've
been told. That is all for today.
Speaker 4 (52:04):
Goodbye, Ready.
Speaker 8 (52:08):
Bones.
Speaker 1 (52:09):
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What's up, everybody? Welcome to Wednesday Show Morning Studio Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Allow me to complain just a bit.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
I'm not a big complainer if it comes to things
happening to me personally, but I'm gonna complain. The baby's teething.
Billy's teething. It sucks so bad. I was up all
night last night. So the night before, she was teething
so bad that she woke up about three just screaming.
So my wife she got this. Honestly, I didn't even
(00:41):
know because she didn't wake me up. And so she
was up from three am until well she went to bed,
and so I felt terrible for her because she had
food poisoning for a couple of days. My wife, and
then she was up with the baby all night.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
It just sucked for her.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
So it's like next night, I'm up. You need me,
I'm up. She's like, no, you have to work. I
said no. So we do that little dance. But so
my wife's asleep, and so I'm staying awake and so
but she's also staying so we're just like battling, staying
awake with each Like anyway, the baby's screaming a teething
(01:18):
and it's just a miserable, miserable, miserable night.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
How long does the teething process last?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Forever?
Speaker 4 (01:23):
They have a bunch of teeth.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Yeah, well I know, but I didn't like.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
She has there two ones all the way out. She's
four months. One broke through yep, it erupted, as they say,
and the other one is getting so close where she
just gnaws on her hands and it sucks so bad
because it feel bad for her. And then everybody at
the house is tired. And then I come in and
I'm tired, and my wife said, you don't have to
(01:47):
wake up. I'll take care of it. But I feel
bad for her because she's been sick. And so we're
just in the middle of that. And I do know
a wise man once said, don't blink and just like
that the not teething or how about that.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
So yeah, but times like that though, you want to
blink and like just have it all. Yeah, you want
to blame blink so we get it over with.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Yeah, so my energy is fine, but I never really
consider teething to be an obstacle in the future, and
it is. And then I go, man, she has a
lot more teeth to come through.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
You're really in a three to five days of symptoms
per tooth.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
It's more than that per tooth.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
But sometimes they come in doubles or triples.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
So then that would mean I think she's been teething
for six months and she's four months old. I know,
I'm fairly certain she's been teething for since she was born. Wow,
she's a early early teeth.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
She's a early teether because generally it says it starts
around the six month marks. So look at her, she's
already ahead.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Let's slow down.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Then, well, no, you're getting it over with. That's awesome.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
I know.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
What's so dumb about that is that they sell all
these like, oh, teething, this will help. Nothing helps.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Everything helps for about five minutes because it's a new
novel toy, and then it just gets I don't like
this one anymore. Yeah, and there you laugh. But there
are a lot of people that have said, hey, put
whiskey on her gums.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Oh no, it wasn't. I mean I was like, yeah,
I know.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Have you thought about it?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
I put it on mine.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Oh no, it went.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
It was the first time that I ever because the
baby was teething. I mentioned that to my wife said,
what if we put whiskey on our gums? And she
just looked at me and then kept going and like
walked off. She was like, stop. So I'm in a
very fortunate place that we have a healthy baby right now.
Is it kind of hard? Yeah? Yeah, man, I got
(03:44):
a d M about you, Eddie.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
Oh yeah, it was a good one or a bad one.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
Sounds like a bad one.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
No, it was neither. So you know how all the
food's bad. We can't eat it because we all will all.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Get diarrhea, yes, salmonella.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Basically if you eat anything, you're gonna get diarrhea or something.
Speaker 7 (04:00):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Yeah, So we had a listener named Emily say, Hey, Bobby,
I have about three pounds of fresh, locally grown jalapenos
from my garden. I've canned and frozen enough and would
love to donate these fresh ones to Eddie for a salsa.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Passover that whatever.
Speaker 8 (04:15):
DM.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Yes, I drive by the studio every day going to
work downtown.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
I can drop them by the front desk and meet
Eddie downstairs to give them to him. I've tried calling
the show but can't get through. If you want to
have abby caller arrange. Here's in number.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Yep, yep, yep, sand to Abby, let's figure this out. Well,
she'd like to donate, donate she said the.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Word don't word, She did say the word donate.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
Yeah, But I mean if I like the product, this
could be a future endeavor for sure, a future person.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
She's one of your growers.
Speaker 7 (04:44):
Right.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Oh, that sounds illegal.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
It does sound weird, it doesn't. That sounds kind of
at least my supplier.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Do you really want it?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
This number?
Speaker 9 (04:52):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I thought that was very nice of her to offer
you these jalapenos, because the ones that you're buying will
give us jalapenos penon jalapenos, and you.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
Could easily grow your own jalapenos.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
I know, but that's a I mean when do they
start growing? It is a player, yeah, a grower. That's great.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
So I'll pass that over to you. I appreciate it
if you want that. There's the son of this cult
leader that's talking about his three hundred kids and twenty
seven wives. Oh my, I'm so interested in these stories.
So John Kinkston is the son of this polygamy cult leader,
Paul Kingston, and he talked about growing up in the family,
and his dad had twenty seven wives and more than
(05:32):
three hundred children. And so here's John. This is the
son talking about it.
Speaker 9 (05:36):
My dad has over three hundred kids and twenty seven wives.
Three of those wives are his sisters, two of them
are his nieces. People are wondering at how did my
dad remember all three hundred kids. First off, there's a
lot of repeating names, and if the boy names are
in the Bible, he's probably got a kid name that.
Even still on Sundays when we would line up to
go say bye to our dad, he would still forget
some of our names sometimes, and when he came over
(05:57):
to our house, he'd forget our names. It's almost impossible
for somebody to get three hundred names right every single time.
Happy to say I have left this group. I've been
out for four years. Life's been amazing.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
His dad was married to two of his sisters and
some nieces. What in the world, I.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Think it's anyone who can reproduce ends up being a wife,
and then that's what you do. You just reproduce.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Thought that that was illegal.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
It's not legal, okay, but you got to kind of
catch them doing it if they're in their own little
private area in the middle of a desert.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
You really don't have a lot.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Of cops going in and out unless there's someone who's
reporting abuse. How crazy. I can't believe. Like the kids,
some of the kids don't have tails and stuff. Right,
if it's like you're having a kid with your sister,
you would think like you have a nose going out
of your cheek, because that's that's we say, can you
marry your cousin? And then you guys give me a
(06:53):
hard time second cousin, Yes we do. Yeah, this is
this is your sister and you're having a kid with
your sister.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Oh, it looks like I just found something to watch
on YouTube called what is the Kingston Clan?
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Oh? Oh wow, here we go.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
Hey will you report?
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Well these stories they're terribly sad and just fascinating at
the same time. And you feel what was the most
recent one that was so popular on Netflix and the
this woman went in undercover like a normal woman, she
kind of infiltrated the You didn't.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Oh gosh, it was last man instinct and that was
crazy and yeah, that.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Was pretty wild. But this was to your point, like
this cult in the middle of nowhere, but she did it.
She snuck her way in and she got close to
the main guy and she tricked him. And so they
were able to success successfully break this up and rescue
some of the women. But some of the women it
was too late. They had already done so much that
(07:55):
they had to go serve time in jail too. And
I felt so bad for them because these are adult women.
They were endangering, oh my god, children. But I'm like
that they were brainwashed. Yeah, but they went and served
their time, but they had to go to jail for
what they were doing too, even though I just feel
like it was so messed up.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
Is it crazy to you guys that this is happening
around us and we had no idea? Yes?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Yes, And I'm going to tell you something that's happening
around us even more so that most people have no
idea and it's trafficking. Yeah, it's happening so close around
us and so often, and we have no idea. And
even me saying this, I have no idea, and I
think I kind of have an idea, yet I have
no idea and I have it won't be on for
(08:42):
a couple of weeks, and it's not the whole reason
we're going to do the interview, but I have Tim
Tebow coming over because he's so involved in ANTI and
I want to learn more about this because I've studied
it a bit. But I still have no idea. So
when you say that, yep, absolutely, and then I go, oh,
everybody's been trafficked around us.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
We have no idea.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
And what I've learned about trafficking is it's not the
kidnap sense of trafficking where like, oh, people go missing
and no, this is like where they brainwashed like Amy's
talking about, and we're voluntary step into a car because
they have no other options and next thing you know,
they're in a trafficking situation.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Yeah, they're so vulnerable that they're put in a situation
and then they cannot be less vulnerable because eiir livelihood
depends on it, or their their families or if it's
someone that's not from the States, they have their passport.
There are so many you.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Know, they're taken somewhere where they don't even know.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Or how to get out, Yeah, how to get.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Out or there, and then there's drugs involved that they
didn't take voluntarily.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
By the way, cold stories, all right, I didn't watch.
I don't like that. I don't like those like I'm
not even really drawn to I'm not too good to
be drawn to something that's freaking crazy. Because I watched
the Ted Bundy and was just enamored with how awful
he was. And I think I'm obsessed sometimes with how
(10:03):
people cannot feel like they're sociopathic too. And psychopathic and
sociopathic are completely different. Well they cross over a little bit,
but they're different things. How someone can be so sociopathic
and have no remorse or guilt, like it doesn't exist
inside of them. They were built without it. They didn't
choose not to have it, they didn't go you know,
(10:23):
I'd rather not feel guilty. It never was presented inside
of their body as they were born as a chemical.
Therefore they can do whatever they please because it's normal,
it's natural to them. A lot of sociopathic people on
a very very high level, the people that are also psychopathic,
because they can be both, like Ted Bundy both, but
(10:45):
he felt nothing the sociopathic part of him, but the
psychopathic part of him was doing the stuff, the really
bad stuff, the killing. But the sociopathic part you don't
get it. You don't choose, you don't go. I'd rather
not feel. Now, there are some people whose desires or
selfishness or can override the guilt and they can choose.
(11:08):
You know what, I could feel guilty, but I'm getting
so much pleasure from this, pleasure greater signed than the
guilt or But there are some people that are born
completely without the ability to feel empathized, to have any sympathy,
and that you there's a part of me that feels
sorry for people that have that. Because not every sociopath
(11:30):
is a killer.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
Because that would be psychopath no, but.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
Or because one of them kills, and one of them
psychopaths kill, but sociopaths can kill as well. But yeah,
you never we're path in here. But it sucks that
people are born like that. Yeah, and their decisions are
made without that barrier, and sometimes they don't know they
(11:58):
don't have that barrier.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Till it's too late.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
But there are also people, I would say sociopathic people
because I once asked my therapist, hey, am my sociopath,
and he was like, you asked me that question, do
you mean it? Yeah, you're not a sociopath.
Speaker 4 (12:14):
Because you're asking because.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
You actually care and you're worried. I said, but I
don't feel a lot of things, and he's said, that's different.
That's trauma.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
That's huge.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
And you had stuff happened to you before where you
did feel and you don't want to feel it again.
And there's a difference in that and the inability because
it is not something that you're able to do.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
See. I thought that's where most of it came from, trauma,
or I thought all of it can some can?
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Some can?
Speaker 4 (12:41):
I sure know that you could actually be born like that.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
Oh it's all that's crazy, but yes, you can be
born that way. That cult story is crazy.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Oh and the cult sure that I watch on Netflix
is called trust Me the False Prophet.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
And what's the one we're going to be watching on
YouTube now?
Speaker 3 (12:58):
Oh the Kingston cult.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
Okay, we I'm not if you got a mouse in
your pocket.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
Well get about it later. But the cult stories, they
are fascinating. But then also, yes, it's difficult to watch
and his tragics like this is how some people are
living and it's so sad.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
I want to shout out this guy who is accused
of robbing the shake Shack, and you wonder, why would
you shout him out?
Speaker 4 (13:28):
Why would you shout him out?
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Man to have this kind of confidence he works there,
went and robbed it and then went back to work.
Speaker 4 (13:36):
Dang, but do they have cameras and all that?
Speaker 2 (13:39):
You the color?
Speaker 4 (13:39):
Of course it did, okay, So I put in his
pin code to get him the cash.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
We shake show employee Shake Shack employees accused of armed
robbery of his own store, and he was arrested when
he goes back thirty three years old, here you go,
he robs it goes back two days later.
Speaker 10 (13:56):
Police say this Phoenix man robbed his own workplace. DeAndre
Simmons accused of armed robbery and kidnapping, as investigators say
he held two coworkers at gunpoint at this Scottsdale shakeshack.
He allegedly forced a manager to open the safe, took
nearly three thousand dollars in cash, and then locked the
victims in a cooler.
Speaker 6 (14:15):
Core paperwork says he.
Speaker 10 (14:16):
Then went on to destroy their phones and say the
coworkers recognized his voice and knowledge of the store. Police
arresting Simmons two days later when he showed up for
his shift at the shake Shack.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
What the crap obviously had a mask on?
Speaker 4 (14:29):
Yeah, but the voice like, yes, of course you didiot.
It's like when Lunchbox tries to do you know his
agents anonymous spill the tea anything, like they know it's him.
Speaker 6 (14:38):
I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
A shout out to that dumbest dude ever for being
the dumbest dude ever. Also, don't be holding people to gunpoints,
sticking them in safe their closets.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
And then obviously he knew where everything was, like they said.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
Yes, he knew exactly. You know, a little too much
kind robber to just be a random kind robber from
ABC fifteen, Ara Zona. So I thought that one was
pretty wild. Okay, I want to talk about parenting your kids.
If you're strict on your kids, do you think that
makes them more honest or do you think that creates
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dishonest children?
Speaker 3 (15:13):
M it's tough like strict. I mean, I think you
can have rules but allow for honest communication like freedom
to hey tell me anything.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
If you're strict, though, do you think hey tell me
anything actually works? I'm asking, I don't know. I'm not
asking to set you guys up.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
I think I guess just this is a generalized statement,
but the more super strict you are, you may create
someone that doesn't feel they out of fear, they're not
going to tell you things.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
I'ds go over to Eddie, who definitely lives more of
the strict lifestyle.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
Yeah, or strict for sure, But I think it's it's
either way. Like, if you're a strict parent, yeah, your
kids are gonna not want to get in trouble for
certain things, so they're gonna lie about things, right. But
if you're not strict parent and you want to just
kind of be open with everything, if they want to
do something, they're still going to lie about it. So
I don't think one necessarily means that they're going to
be liars or not.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
I think, well, I do think. I do actually think
that the stricter you are in the less room you
have for conversation around things, the more you're gonna get
sneaky children.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Interesting.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
Yeah, because sometimes I'm just kind of like, you know what,
I'm going to be cool this week, and then they
still lie about that this week.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Yeah, Yeah, I want to trust it week with dad.
If every other week's not cold.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
It's going to flip and start opening up and telling
you things.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
I want to read you this from the Child Development
and Developmental Psychology book here, if you're a strict parent,
you might want to let up on your kids. Many
parents believe that being strict will stop lying or misbehaving.
In fact, it increases it. Authoritarian parents who use punishments
tend to raise children who are more dishonest and will
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lie to get out of trouble. That rolls even into adulthood.
Speaker 4 (17:01):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
I mean, but there's a fine line. You can't be
all gooy, no rules.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
You know, question about parenting go ahead. Isn't it all
just kind of a fine line where nothing's really right
or wrong and you're just kind of figuring it out
as you go, and you don't really stay. You're never
really like right correct.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
Yeah, but I do think the super strict ones probably
think they do have it all figured out. And that's
like my way or the highway.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
So what I've dealt with, what I've started doing with
like the lying situation, is I'm going to give you
a chance to tell me the truth, and you it's almost.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Like I double down and keep lying, you will lessen
your sentence. I double down and keep lying, and it works.
I go, maybe he really doesn't know and he's tricking
me double down, lie.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
Well that's you playing games with me though, But in
my house, they're like, oh crap, dad's gonna find out.
We're gonna be in trouble.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
Do you think they ever get away with lying to you?
Speaker 6 (17:47):
No, you're an idiot.
Speaker 4 (17:49):
They don't they do, because, guys, you want to know why,
I have four boys. Three of them always tell me
to who did it? Every single time.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
And you don't think they ever hoots?
Speaker 4 (18:00):
Nope, No, dude. They are so competitive with each other
that there's no way that they're all going to be like, hey,
let's now, maybe when they're eighteen, when they're older, like,
maybe they'll do something like that. But when they're older,
I won't care as much. Right now, it's like we're
raising the boys. We've got to be strict.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
I would bet just a numbers game. There are things
they've lied to you about you haven't figured out.
Speaker 4 (18:20):
I've been told by one of the boys that he
did I saw him do it.
Speaker 3 (18:26):
Well, then don't you want to tell that kid stopping
a tattletell right?
Speaker 4 (18:29):
Exactly? The little system, guys, the whole system. So we
all end up telling the truth.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
But what if one kid doesn't tell the other kids,
and they're able to lie to you and the other
kids don't even know.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
Oh, that's complicated a lot of mind games going on.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
No, Like they just do something and you're like, did
you do this? They're like no, but they didn't even
tell the other boys.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
Yeah, yeah, sure, sure, Like if the if the other
boys aren't involved, yeah, yeah, Like say this is at school, yep,
and the other kids aren't there.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
I mean, I do think sometimes they try to lie.
But here's the thing. If you really really pay attention
to your kids and just pay attention to their mannerisms,
you know exactly when they're lying. I know exactly when
every single one of my boys is telling a lie.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
Did you ever get away with lying?
Speaker 4 (19:12):
But I've known them since they were Did you ever.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
Get avery lying?
Speaker 4 (19:16):
What's that?
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Did you? Did you ever get away with lying?
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Oh yeah, okay?
Speaker 1 (19:21):
And so do you think your parents thought they knew
when you were lying?
Speaker 4 (19:24):
I think they knew. I think they just kind of
like like he thinks he thinks that he got one,
he got one over on us, but he really didn't.
Like I would go drinking with my friends and I
would come back and I would see them and talk
to them and like, they have no idea that I've
been drinking. Yes, they did.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
My mom picked me up from a party at my
friend Jango's house, and I don't know, maybe we were sophomores, juniors,
had I been I couldn't drive yet, so maybe a
maybe freshman. I threw up on the way home. I
she had to pull over, and I was like, oh
my gosh, Jingo's mom must have made some bad food.
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But like I didn't get in trouble, And I'm like,
what was my mom thinking? Because she I would get grounded,
but like, was she just not does she just not
want to deal with it or address it? Or did
she really think that I ate bad food?
Speaker 4 (20:21):
Some days you don't want to deal with it, right?
Speaker 3 (20:23):
I mean, I will never forget that one. And now
that I'm a parent, I'm trying to think if like
I picked my kids up from a party and they
were like pull over, pull around to be sick and
they threw up, Yeah, right, I'd be like, Okay, what
was going on at the party?
Speaker 1 (20:37):
She was just tired of those that aren't as blatant.
You probably lied to your parents and got away with
it and they probably thought, yeah, he's telling us the truth.
Speaker 4 (20:47):
I don't know. I don't know, and even maybe that
could be my conscience a little bit where I'm just like, oh,
did they believe that or not? But I just feel
like I know exactly when any of my kids are lying.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
And that makes me feel since you think you know
for sure, that you don't know for sure.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
But that's me.
Speaker 4 (21:04):
I can't wait to have this conversation with you when
your daughter's older, because I want to know what you think.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
I'm gonna think she's probably getting away with a little bit,
and she's probably mostly not getting away with stuff. Yeah,
but I don't know right now, no lines have been told.
Four months in completely, the guy was robbed. He did
a Facebook marketplace meet up and so he meets up
and the guy robbed him.
Speaker 4 (21:31):
Oh no, that's a Amy.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
That's who I think of.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
Yeah, is Amy just selling random stuff or having people
come to our house?
Speaker 3 (21:38):
And sold a desk yesterday? Forty bucks? Where did you
sell it on Facebook?
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (21:44):
She can.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
She is a huge desk. She had to come to
my house pick it out.
Speaker 4 (21:47):
Oh my gosh, she went in your house and who
is it at your house?
Speaker 9 (21:49):
With me?
Speaker 3 (21:50):
It was on my porch.
Speaker 1 (21:51):
Okay, but who was at your house with you when't
happened me?
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Yeah, you're like, who else though?
Speaker 6 (21:57):
But it was on the porch, so.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
They know where you live and you're by yourself.
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Yeah, but it was a woman, so you don't think
she has a If it was a man, I wouldn't
have done the deal.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
Police say this nineteen year old who was robbed was
meeting someone to sell from Facebook marketplace that he thought
was between fourteen and seventeen years old, and they pulled
out a gun and said nope, I'll take that, and
then took all the money and they ran off.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
I remember I sold a truck like my dad's cars something.
I was selling it and had I met the people
in the target parking lot and then they wanted to
test drive it and I was like, oh no, this
is where they steal it. So then I was like, sure,
but I'll go with you, and then I'm like they're
going to kidnap me. It ended up being okay, but
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I remember that situation being a little scared.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
That was you probably remember the story. That's what happened
to my mom. She went to meet them at a
parking lot and they tested over car and they never
came back. Oh ever it was stolen, I know, and
I don't. I mean, I guess it was the eighties.
I know that they met in the parking lot of
the restaurant that my parents owned, and it was close
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to our house. And then they came back and we
were like, do you sell the car? And they're like,
they never came back. I mean they called the police.
I think they later tracked something down and they had.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
Mexico and Mexico. Yes, that's why I think they take
everything in Mexico.
Speaker 3 (23:22):
And they get to Mexico. Yeah, a buick.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
But I just think about the times too that you
like went inside that guy's house to get his airplane miles, Like,
you went in his house, into his bedroom.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
I did. It was a listener. He was a listener here.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Talking the male listeners are ever going to lock you
in a room and hurt you?
Speaker 3 (23:43):
And we were so young, and we were I just
had started dating who I ended up marrying, and I
wanted to fly to go see him and I You
could buy points off of people or something on Craigslist,
and so we were talking about it on the show
and we thought, well, this is going to be a
good way to do it. And then I don't know
did he send me an email or something to my
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work email. And I ended up meeting him at his
house and when I got to his house, he said, well,
come in because he had to do it on his
account and like transferred to me. So he said come
back to my office and if that nice, said back there,
and then sure to that he transferred it and I
was able to fly to the Albuquerque or wherever to the office.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
He is one door, shut and latch away from where
amylus here. I sure was talking about that coast we
had that bought the points.
Speaker 3 (24:29):
I would never do that today, but at twenty five
it felt okay. But could you imagine connecting with a
guy on well, I guess it wasn't craigsl like I
think I was looking on craigsl How did did he
email me? Did I find him on craigslist? Because how
did we know he was okay? It was?
Speaker 4 (24:50):
Were you exchanging?
Speaker 3 (24:51):
How did we know he was a listener?
Speaker 1 (24:53):
I think you made that up for some sort of justification.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
No, I wonder if I've emails him.
Speaker 4 (25:00):
What were you guys exchanging?
Speaker 1 (25:01):
Like?
Speaker 4 (25:01):
What was the Why did you have to be in his.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Office he was selling, like the exchange was his rapid rewards.
Speaker 4 (25:09):
You have but a literal paper of miles, Like, I
don't understand why you guys could.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
But he had a book it for me.
Speaker 6 (25:13):
Yeah he had to go online and book it through
his account.
Speaker 1 (25:16):
Yeah you had to go back take your clothes off.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
An God, I didn't have to go, did you imagine?
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Yeah, well that was never a part of the deal.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
Well, I know, but what if you're put in some.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Yeah, I know you need to have people come to
your house to sell a desk too?
Speaker 3 (25:36):
Was yesterday twenty years ago that I did the decade
was yesterday. That's like, Look, it's fine. You can on
Facebook when you're selling. You can look to people up
And I was like, okay, she seems safe because what
because she's a she and her name her name was
nice or like everything.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
Of course was nice, was great. It wasn't shady. We're
gonna play a game. I will give you the first
name of a television character. You give me their last name.
Oh man, if I were to say Ross, it would
be Geler from Friends.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
Good.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
If you miss it, you're out. What is uncle Jesse's
last name on Full House.
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Oh gosh, what are you kidding?
Speaker 10 (26:24):
Well?
Speaker 1 (26:25):
This was supposed to be the easy one? Are you
kidding to me? Do we make this too hard? Uncle
Jesse on Full House.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
That he's writing something. Lunchbox is staring at his pin. Mhmm.
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Okay, five seconds, guys.
Speaker 6 (26:48):
It's been real. Guys, have fun in this.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
Game, Uncle Jesse.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
I didn't get that.
Speaker 2 (26:52):
You didn't.
Speaker 6 (26:54):
I got something around it, but it ain't it.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
What do you have?
Speaker 1 (26:58):
You're so close?
Speaker 6 (26:59):
I don't know that though.
Speaker 3 (27:00):
I just knew that was that, that was not it
because I have.
Speaker 4 (27:05):
See there we go, I have.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
You know what you're all in? It's kiss and not
only that. The first season he was Cochrane, but then
he changed it too Cochran.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
But I almost put span out.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
But that's that's show.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
What are you doing? You're helping a later answer?
Speaker 3 (27:28):
Are you going to do another? Jesse?
Speaker 2 (27:30):
Who knows?
Speaker 6 (27:30):
You never know?
Speaker 1 (27:31):
Okay, next up? What's Al's last name? I'm married with children, Al,
I'm in the wind, Amy Bundy, Eddie Bundy, lunch Bundy.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
Correct.
Speaker 1 (27:49):
What's Fraser's last name on the show? Fraser?
Speaker 4 (27:53):
I'm in really?
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Oh wow? Fraser that's not his last name.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
It is a last name, though it sounds like one.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Yeah yeah Fraser.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
Yeah, there areopled latsame Frasier, but no Fraser Blank.
Speaker 3 (28:08):
You know, Lunchoks Doctor Fraser Fraser, doctor Fraser, Fraser, Fraser,
Fraser Fraser. Okay, what do you got McMullen.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Solid so close, Lunchbox, this goes high up in the sky.
Speaker 6 (28:28):
Give me Fraser Crane.
Speaker 4 (28:31):
Fraser Crane.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
Answer is Enspolis Fraser Crane.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Yes, Amy, you're out. I'm sorry you've been boned.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
Lunchbox and Eddie, what is George's last name? In Seinfeld
M one two three, A good job? What's Andy's last name?
And the Andy Griffith Show, I'm.
Speaker 6 (29:01):
In oh man, Oh say it again?
Speaker 1 (29:10):
What's Andy's last name? On the Andy Griffith Show, Lunchbox.
Speaker 6 (29:19):
Griffith, Just like you said, you almost got.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
Me, almost got I almost got got so close? Yeah, Eddie,
griff Griffith, Griffith, Oh my god, are you serious? Are
you serious? I thought you were having a laugh at him.
Speaker 4 (29:32):
No, no, no, no, Griffith's what you said, right.
Speaker 1 (29:34):
I thought you're having a laugh at him, because he
answered Griffith, I thought we were like both laughing. No, No,
I hope his last name on Andy Griffith show, Hopie yeah,
the kid, yeahfith Son, No, nol, Lbie Taylor, Taylor, Albie Taylor,
Willie Griffith.
Speaker 4 (29:48):
And who the heck is Andy Griffith.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
He's the actual person.
Speaker 6 (29:52):
What hold on? Andy Griffith.
Speaker 1 (29:56):
The sheriff guy is Andy Taylor on the show Serious?
Speaker 7 (30:00):
The show?
Speaker 3 (30:01):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (30:02):
On the Cosby Show. What's Bill's last name? Cosby Huxtable?
Speaker 4 (30:07):
Okay, okay, so his character's name is Andy Taylor, but
the actor playing him is Andy Griffith, which is so
confusing that they called Andy Griffith show.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Very confusing, guys, this is having like ten shows.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
Are they just changed.
Speaker 6 (30:22):
I'm just now realizing it because you said the Cosby
is And now my mind is really spinning.
Speaker 7 (30:25):
I know.
Speaker 6 (30:27):
Oh my gosh, I should have thought about that a
little harder.
Speaker 4 (30:29):
And I did laugh too, because I'm like, oh, he's
gonna get this wrong.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
You just said it because it's Cliff Huxtable on the
Cosby Show.
Speaker 4 (30:36):
Why would it he called Cosby Show?
Speaker 1 (30:38):
Right, That's my point, just because the name of the person. Okay,
all right, you guys are still in it.
Speaker 6 (30:44):
Man, we are back. Dude, Hey, Opie, Griffith, Oh man,
I should have really thought.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
What's Blanche's last name from The Golden Girls?
Speaker 6 (30:54):
Good Night?
Speaker 5 (30:55):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (30:55):
I know this one.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
You guys both don't know. I got yeah, Blanche?
Speaker 3 (31:00):
Can I get back in?
Speaker 1 (31:02):
But you can tell him that once it's over.
Speaker 2 (31:04):
Let's walk, right, Eddie Golden, Amy.
Speaker 3 (31:09):
Devereux, Deeux.
Speaker 1 (31:12):
What is Rachel's last name in friends?
Speaker 2 (31:17):
Well?
Speaker 6 (31:18):
All right, which one do you want to go with?
Speaker 1 (31:21):
What? She has one last name?
Speaker 4 (31:27):
Ah?
Speaker 6 (31:27):
Not not true?
Speaker 2 (31:32):
Rachel?
Speaker 3 (31:33):
Wait?
Speaker 6 (31:33):
Who did you say? Who did you say?
Speaker 2 (31:37):
You just said it?
Speaker 11 (31:38):
One?
Speaker 6 (31:38):
Sd you say Rachel or Monica?
Speaker 1 (31:41):
Like?
Speaker 2 (31:42):
No, you literally repeated me.
Speaker 6 (31:44):
I wanted to make sure I heard. I'm just going
Oh my gosh, thank you.
Speaker 1 (31:50):
I got it, Griffith, No, Rachel got it? What green?
Eddie Green?
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Correct?
Speaker 4 (31:58):
What were you thinking of?
Speaker 6 (31:59):
I would say, can kill her? Because she married Ross?
Speaker 7 (32:01):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (32:01):
That's Monica Ross.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
Rachel and Ross at the end, did not get they
got married for? Did she change her name ever? Though?
I don't think she ever changed her name? What's Archie's
last name in all in the family?
Speaker 8 (32:20):
I'm in the lunchbox bunker, Eddie Bunker correct, what's Sheldon's
last name on Big Bang Theory in.
Speaker 6 (32:32):
For the Wind? Yeah, look at me, Bud, I got
it all Eddie dial was look at lunchbox?
Speaker 1 (32:38):
Is Eddie doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (32:44):
Sheldon?
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Wow? What am I thinking? This name?
Speaker 4 (32:50):
You know it for sure?
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Sheldon?
Speaker 1 (32:58):
Oh all right, need an answer here?
Speaker 6 (33:01):
Oh man, I'm in.
Speaker 1 (33:03):
He didn't get it, Eddie Bang, Sheldon Bang from Big
Bank Theory, got nothing. It's good lunch for the Wind,
Sheldon Cooper. Hey, that was more fun than I thought
it would be. I'm sorry you didn't get to play much. Yeah,
we'll save some of these for another game. Eddie is
(33:24):
wondering if he overreacted toward his kids. Yeah, what did
they do?
Speaker 4 (33:28):
They did something that I hate when people do. Okay,
So we were going someplace and there was a cop
in the front and he saw my whole family walking
in right like me, my four boys, My four boys
were in front. Cop looks at us, opens the door,
holds the door for all of us and our boys
like a row of ducks, just like. Didn't say thank
(33:51):
you at all. I said, boys, stop, stop. What do
we say to the officer that held the door open?
Speaker 2 (33:58):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (33:58):
Oh yeah, yeah, thank you? And I was like, no,
that's it, Like that makes me so mad. I've taught
them way better than that. So I grounded him. They
had chores all day when we got home. There were
chores all day. You you're mow in the backyard. You
you're a mow in the front yard. You you're edging
the yard. And after that, we're gonna fold all the
clothes and you're gonna find the mismatching socks and you're
(34:20):
gonna put them all together.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
And so what lesson did you want them to learn?
Speaker 4 (34:24):
When someone holds the door open for you, you say
thank you.
Speaker 2 (34:28):
Did it matter even more that it was a police officer?
Speaker 4 (34:31):
Didn't matter?
Speaker 1 (34:32):
Okay, So anybody just have respect if.
Speaker 4 (34:34):
It was an old lady holding the door, like say
thank you. They acted like like they were supposed to
have the door open for them. When people act like.
Speaker 2 (34:44):
That, mmmmm.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Remember the guy that hold the door for Amy and
then he let it go and it hit her.
Speaker 3 (34:48):
Yeah, and I said thank you. And to be clear,
he wasn't holding the door for me.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
He wanted me to know that, and he said, you
can do it yourself.
Speaker 3 (34:55):
He definitely did not have parents that made him do chores.
Speaker 2 (34:58):
How do you feel about him punishing his kids like that.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
I think that's fine.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
I think it's fine too. Sometimes you go crazy. Yeah,
the one time you made your son saying I'm looking
at the man in the mirror. Yeah, over and over.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
Again, because I said, look, it's gonna have to start
with you the man in the mirror.
Speaker 1 (35:11):
So you made um seeing Michael Jackson, oh, for hours
over in the mirror in the bathroom. I thought that
was a little overboard. Or the time you made me
blowny sandwiches for days at a time, same kid.
Speaker 4 (35:18):
Because I'm like, if you're gonna have bad grades, then
you just expect to not have a good job. You're
not gonna be able to afford good food. You're gonna
eat blowney sandwiches.
Speaker 1 (35:25):
And how many days that one felt like forever? Yeah,
So that one I felt was a little overboard too.
I don't hate this one, all right, good lunchbarks.
Speaker 6 (35:34):
Oh man, this is all Eddie. His wife said this
is what I need to do today, and Eddie made
his kids do it. That's exactly what he did. Way
over reaction. You want your kids to hate you just
because they didn't say thank you one time you make
them cut the grass full of the laundry. Wow, you
are intense.
Speaker 4 (35:51):
Let me ask you this lunch. Oh my god, I
would hate you as a parent if somebody, if you
held the door room for someone and they didn't say
thank you, how would you feel.
Speaker 6 (35:58):
I'm not gonna make them mow my grass, not you
my laundry.
Speaker 4 (36:02):
How does it make you feel when someone doesn't say
thank you when you hold.
Speaker 6 (36:04):
The door from You're welcome? Sarcastically but rude?
Speaker 2 (36:08):
But what about your kids?
Speaker 1 (36:09):
You're teaching them, You're instelling values in that.
Speaker 6 (36:13):
Yeah, you go back and see them, Hey, you need
to say thank you. But making them go home and
uh scrub the tile with a toothbrush seems crazy.
Speaker 5 (36:19):
No.
Speaker 4 (36:20):
But the reason I told them boys, what do we
tell the officer? And they answered thank you? Is because
I've told them a million times before that when someone
holds the door open, you say thank you.
Speaker 1 (36:30):
I don't hate it, thank you, you're welcome. Yeah there, Yeah. Question,
would you rather know how you die or when you die?
But you have to know one of the two.
Speaker 6 (36:43):
God, oh god, I hate this, like this is terrible.
Speaker 1 (36:48):
You have to know one of the two. Like I'm
going to force you to understand either A how you
die or B when you die?
Speaker 3 (36:56):
Can is it the exact date or is it more?
Speaker 2 (36:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (37:00):
Oh, can you change anything about now? So you can't like,
if you're going to die from a heart attack, you
can't eat better?
Speaker 1 (37:06):
Well, you you're still gonna die, have a heart attack.
Speaker 6 (37:08):
Or if you're gonna die in a car right, never
get in a car again, right?
Speaker 2 (37:11):
Right?
Speaker 1 (37:11):
Then a car hits you.
Speaker 3 (37:12):
Okay, So we have to think this through, like would
I rather know? Yeah, if I'm gonna die in a
car wreck, I just don't know when or if I'm
gonna I don't know how, but I know I'm going
to die today.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
But I mean you're going good.
Speaker 6 (37:29):
It could be it could be fifty years from now.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Could be today, it could be fifty The answer fifty
years from now.
Speaker 3 (37:34):
Then that's my answer. I want to know. That's the thing.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Oh do you want to know how you're going to die?
And you have to pick or when you're going to die?
This is sick.
Speaker 6 (37:44):
It is sick. I don't know how you came up
with those. This terrible. It's an easy answer.
Speaker 2 (37:48):
I think I go. Oh, man, I've changed.
Speaker 3 (37:54):
Like three times, I've been back and forth too.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
I think I'm going to go how and I'm gonna
tell you why. If I'm just playing the odds here,
there is a decent chance I die old and of
whatever the natural cause is. And so if that's the case,
I don't think that is as jarring to me as
(38:19):
knowing I only have three years, two months, and six
days left. Now the news I get could be bad,
it could be worse. I'm just I'm just going odds here,
because if it's like, here's how you die, you fall
onto a single nail and oh yeah, right right, right,
right right, So I'm gonna go how.
Speaker 3 (38:42):
Yeah, I'm gonna go When.
Speaker 1 (38:46):
That's hard, then you're counting down amy, Yeah, well I'll.
Speaker 3 (38:50):
Be able to spend my time wisely.
Speaker 6 (38:56):
And then won't matter what you eat, because you know
you're gonna die either way.
Speaker 1 (38:58):
On that.
Speaker 3 (39:00):
Again, if it says fifty years, then no, I'm not
going to just like do whatever I want.
Speaker 4 (39:05):
Why not?
Speaker 1 (39:06):
I'm doing heroin?
Speaker 3 (39:09):
What what if you have so you for sure can't
die earlier?
Speaker 4 (39:15):
That's correct, it's already been established.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
If you say fifty years, I'm a superhero because I
know I can't die. I'm jumping off buildings. I am
now a superhero.
Speaker 4 (39:25):
You jump off ability You're like, yeah, somehouse.
Speaker 1 (39:27):
Didn't kill me. No, it wasn't gonna die.
Speaker 3 (39:29):
I mean you could be you could still be alive
but paralyzed. Yeah, I'm gonna go with when, Eddie.
Speaker 4 (39:40):
I'm going to be just like Amy. I'm gonna say
when because I want to know when. Like, if it's
in a day.
Speaker 2 (39:47):
We know yours.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
We have the death clock, the clock. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (39:49):
Yeah, like if it's three years, let's get living, just
like old Tim McGraw, you know, like just do it.
But if it's fifty years from now.
Speaker 1 (40:00):
Whatever, then you better say big time of retirement. Yes,
then we start working lunchbox.
Speaker 6 (40:05):
My first thought was, oh, this is easy. You want
to know when, because then I have to I don't
have to worry about retirement, or I do have to
worry about retirement. Am I gonna have enough money? But
then that just made me depress because I would just
be looking at the clock, going, man, in six more weeks,
I'm dead. Uh So I'm gonna go with hol give
me how No, I'm dying, that's it.
Speaker 2 (40:23):
What was your logic to get there?
Speaker 6 (40:26):
Just the the clock counting down was more depressing to
me than the way I.
Speaker 4 (40:30):
Just but what if it's like, you're gonna drown? Okay,
every single time you go to the pool, I would
have I wouldn't go to No, No, you're gonna go
to the pool, and every single time you're gonna think
this could be the day.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Well, but you could also be ninety three in a bathtub.
Speaker 4 (40:45):
True, but you don't know. You just all you know
is drowned, right.
Speaker 6 (40:49):
I would start having a fear of water. Yes, but
it's better than the clock.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
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Speaker 2 (41:05):
Here's a question to be because then hello Bobby Bones.
Speaker 1 (41:14):
About three months ago, I received a panicked call from
my aunt concerning my cousin. She lost her full right
scholarship after citing that going to class wasn't working for her,
so she begged me to let my cousins stay with
me for a few weeks so she could figure things out.
Three months later, she's still sleeping on my couch, not
paying rent, eating my food, and doesn't appear to be
doing much in the way of figuring things out. I've
(41:36):
told my aunt something's got to give, and she's spoken
to her, but I'm not optimistic that things are going
to change anytime soon. What's my recourse here? Signed cousins
on my couch? You got squatted. You got squatted my
family man.
Speaker 3 (41:50):
That's hard conversation to have, but it's got to happen.
Speaker 1 (41:53):
If you're not seeing that cousin slowly moving out, like
if she's not already making plans or having conversations or
looking for places or then it's an absolute you have
to be out by this day conversation, right, it's family.
Speaker 3 (42:08):
Yeah, you need a plan, we need a deadline.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (42:11):
I think you avoid going. You got to be out
by the end of the week. I think you go.
I know you've been going through a lot. I'm here
for you. Let's find a date to get you moved
out by, to get you transitioned by, and let's set
a date so we're both motivated to do that.
Speaker 3 (42:27):
Yeah, And if they happen to be overwhelmed by that,
because I'm just thinking of different personality types, maybe you
have the gift of some organization or helping them with
the next step and figuring it out. Like you could
also be like, is there something overwhelming about this where
I can I can help you, Like, should we go
look at places, like what's going on and let's take
a look at stuff because maybe they just need a
(42:49):
little a little help. Okay, Well, if you're in that situation,
I could see getting overwhelmed and just ignoring it.
Speaker 2 (42:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
I also feels like something it's just lazy. If they
just stop going to class. Yeah, you just put stuff
out the front. Yeah, if they leave it out, well
that's that's the final, final, final option, and it's going
to be probably a lott awkward within the family, but
it's hey, we need to get you out by this point.
And if they keep kicking the can you wait for
them to leave and you put all this stuff out
and then you change the locks and they got to
(43:19):
go home, and you let the mom know because mom's
going to be like, I get it, I get it,
but I think it is how you've been stating here
a while. Let's just figure something out for you. But
let's find a date that you're fully transitioned by, and
it can be two months down the road. You still
lose a little because you're still on the couch. I'm
assuming it's they said.
Speaker 11 (43:36):
She right, I'm assuming it's a she I feel like, yeah,
she lost yeah, yeah, yeah, But then I think at
the end, it's right, put us out there.
Speaker 3 (43:46):
Now we're getting into the territory where you're enabling.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
So yeah, good luck with that.
Speaker 1 (43:52):
Find a positive way to approach it, and then you
have to hit it dead on if that doesn't work,
but that is awkward because it's family.
Speaker 2 (44:00):
Yeah, good luck, all right, close it up.
Speaker 12 (44:03):
Wake up, Wake up in the morning, and it's on
the radio, and the Doctors keeps on time already, and
the lunchbox more game too, Steve bred Now it's trying
to put you through fog. He's running this week's next bit.
The Bobby's on the box, so you know what this
(44:29):
the Bobby balls.
Speaker 1 (44:31):
Now time for the Morning Corny.
Speaker 2 (44:36):
The Morning Corny.
Speaker 3 (44:38):
What is it called when you get a hangover from wine?
Speaker 2 (44:43):
What is it called when you get a hangover from wine?
Speaker 3 (44:45):
The Great Depression?
Speaker 2 (44:47):
Great Depression? That that was the Morning Corny. Hi a voicemail.
Speaker 13 (44:57):
I'm listening to Friday's episode two and he's talking about
Lindsay Vaughn and her bikini and how she looks, and
he always talks about women like that. I just wonder
how his wife feels when he talks about other women
like that, or is this just a character that he
plays for the show?
Speaker 7 (45:15):
Thanks love the show.
Speaker 2 (45:17):
In a lunchbox.
Speaker 1 (45:18):
I also thought because he was talking about how fast
that she bounced back from surgery. But he just kept
referring to her in a bikini, or she was in
a bikini on a paddle board.
Speaker 2 (45:27):
That was the picture. He just kept going bikini.
Speaker 1 (45:29):
Ya.
Speaker 2 (45:29):
So what does your wife think about that?
Speaker 6 (45:31):
I mean, she knows that guys are going to look
at other women. She probably looks at other guys. I
mean that's just the nature of humanity, and so I
don't think she has a problem with it. She's never
said anything about it, so I don't think she minds.
I can tell her, Hey, man, look how hot she looks.
Speaker 3 (45:44):
You say that we all are in public, yeah.
Speaker 1 (45:47):
Together, you see another woman in a bikini. You could
be like, wow, I how hot she looks in a bikini?
Speaker 6 (45:51):
Yeah? Or I'll say, man, why is that lady?
Speaker 2 (45:52):
Were in a bikini?
Speaker 5 (45:54):
What?
Speaker 2 (45:54):
Oh? So you go both way, but that one. I
don't think that one would be received the same.
Speaker 11 (46:00):
What does he mean by that? Like she should be
wearing Yeah.
Speaker 1 (46:04):
The other one I could understand yeah, the second the
one that one's mean, but the other one, I just
feel like you wouldn't be received well by your wife.
Speaker 6 (46:10):
She doesn't see the mind man.
Speaker 2 (46:11):
All right, Uh, next up, I.
Speaker 4 (46:12):
Just got back for get the massage.
Speaker 2 (46:14):
My wife goes, did you tip the missus? I'm like,
I didn't know I was supposed to tip the missus.
Speaker 6 (46:19):
She goes, oh, I always tip.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
Them twenty bucks.
Speaker 1 (46:21):
I'm like, well, how am I.
Speaker 3 (46:22):
Supposed to know that?
Speaker 2 (46:24):
Like to hear from you thanks team.
Speaker 1 (46:26):
Yeah, that's one of those that someone kind of has
to tell you, because if you're paying cash, you don't
know if you go to that little thing and pay afterward.
They do put a tip line there, so I guess
that could be an indicator. But if it's someone that's
their own business, you don't really have to tip. But
if it's someone that's working for a business, you probably
(46:46):
should tip a missus because they have to give some
of that money to the business. It's just complicated because
the tip of culture is so confusing now and at
times out of control. Then it's ruining it for everybody.
Maybe I used to get tip all the time. I
don't get a single tip now. People are confused. Really, Yeah,
I know, I just have a jaw on my desk here,
and people should just walk in from the streets, but
(47:07):
tips in, but now they can't. So yeah, that's it's
almost like a Netflix show unless a friend tells you
you don't know.
Speaker 11 (47:14):
How do you tip the masseuse cash? Like do you
give it to them after the service is done? Or
do you leave it on the bed?
Speaker 1 (47:20):
Can?
Speaker 3 (47:21):
I mean, I think, like Bobby said, it's different if
they are own their own business, or you're out of SPA,
or because when you're checking out, the person working might
be like, do you want to leave gratuity for your
If I.
Speaker 2 (47:30):
Feel like cash is different, I just put in their
podcast slight.
Speaker 3 (47:32):
Yeah you could, I guess Eddie leave it because.
Speaker 2 (47:36):
They leave the room.
Speaker 1 (47:37):
If you have cash on you, they leave the room
so you can get dressed again. You can leave you that,
you can leave it there, Okay, you leave it anywhere.
Speaker 2 (47:42):
I'm telling you. It's everything is so confusing now, But
that's what's all right.
Speaker 1 (47:46):
Thank you. Voicemail us anytime you want questions comments eight seven,
seven seventy seven Bobby Bobby Bone's showad Sorry Up Today.
Speaker 6 (47:57):
This story comes us from Atlanta, Georgia. Two people were
at the Ikea furniture store and they decided, let's test
out this mattress. They're laying there and then they start
kissing and getting.
Speaker 1 (48:09):
A little hands No way.
Speaker 6 (48:13):
And so they've been banned from Ikea.
Speaker 4 (48:15):
Okay, did it stop.
Speaker 1 (48:16):
With the kiss? Did you stop? Or did it stop?
Speaker 6 (48:19):
It stopped? They said they were kissing, getting handsy and
things were getting steamy.
Speaker 1 (48:24):
So they were getting to like third base.
Speaker 4 (48:26):
Yeah, and they stopped him before they can go.
Speaker 1 (48:29):
Or did they stop? Either way, they got kicked out.
But who stopped I need to know.
Speaker 6 (48:34):
I think an Ikea employees stopped them because they were steamy,
they were getting there.
Speaker 3 (48:40):
They stopped. Then they they wouldn't be boneheads, right.
Speaker 2 (48:43):
If you're doing hand stuff.
Speaker 3 (48:45):
And I don't know what would it be like to
be that attracted to somebody.
Speaker 1 (48:52):
Well, I can tell you because I am. That's why
I'm my wife.
Speaker 2 (48:56):
Back in it.
Speaker 1 (48:56):
No, no, now?
Speaker 2 (48:57):
Oh now? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (48:58):
Yeah, it's different for you.
Speaker 4 (49:00):
Yeah, really different.
Speaker 1 (49:01):
All right, I'm lunchbox.
Speaker 6 (49:02):
That's your bonehead story of the day.
Speaker 1 (49:05):
I was watching a clip of a guy with a
metal detector going through a beach and he's like, I
found something. He's digging it up, and it's in a
bucket and he slowly does the water to get all
the sandy out of the bucket. And in the end
there's a ring in it and it's a Texas.
Speaker 2 (49:17):
A and M ring.
Speaker 3 (49:17):
Oh, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (49:19):
Okay, And for those that don't know, Amy's Texas A
and M ring was stolen from her house and then
like a burglary years ago. And Amy's offered like fifty
thousand dollars to get it back or something.
Speaker 3 (49:33):
You have offered fifteen.
Speaker 1 (49:36):
I forget, but we can't get a ring back. We've
checked everywhere, pawn chobs, We've called criminals, been like, yo,
what's up, you know anything? Nope, all right, check it,
check in later. Nothing.
Speaker 3 (49:47):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (49:47):
So here you go. This is the craziest thing I've
ever seen. Finger quotes found metal at the beach.
Speaker 2 (49:55):
Hit it.
Speaker 3 (49:56):
Oh my goodness, dude.
Speaker 7 (49:58):
Wow, that's a class right Texas and M University. Yeah,
it's it's ten k. It has a full name inscribed
in it. I'm not going to show that part. But
this thing is so unreasonably heavy. This has to be
at least at least thirty grams. That's what it feels
like it.
Speaker 3 (50:17):
Must be a mail ring.
Speaker 4 (50:18):
Yeah, they have.
Speaker 3 (50:18):
The mail rings are so much bigger. The women's rings
are a little daintier. There, I'll be able to see
if it's mail right away.
Speaker 1 (50:26):
Where is the beach located by the ocean?
Speaker 3 (50:28):
But which part of the country that's crazy?
Speaker 1 (50:31):
The edge, the coast, but east coast, west coast, the ocean.
Speaker 2 (50:37):
Yeah great, So here's the ring.
Speaker 3 (50:39):
Yeah, that's a guy ring ring.
Speaker 4 (50:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (50:41):
How crazy would it have been if that was your ring?
Speaker 4 (50:44):
And didn't you just have a stone in it on
it too?
Speaker 3 (50:46):
Mine has a diamond in the middle.
Speaker 2 (50:49):
You found a text a and m ring. It's not amy.
Speaker 4 (50:51):
That ring doesn't look very rusted or anything.
Speaker 6 (50:53):
All like it's brand new in the sand.
Speaker 1 (50:56):
It looks older though twenty what's twenty on for?
Speaker 3 (51:00):
I mean, is that class of twenty? Mine says, oh three.
Speaker 2 (51:04):
Well, that's not it.
Speaker 1 (51:05):
God, let us stray again.
Speaker 2 (51:08):
That is from Clara June can or on. It looks
like Twitter.
Speaker 3 (51:13):
I can't wait for the day that we find it.
And I've thought over the last year for sure about
just ordering a new one so that I can have it,
And then I'm like, no, if I do that, then
I'm giving up on finding the original.
Speaker 1 (51:29):
I don't know that that's true, but I understand why
you feel that way. You could do both. You could
buy a new one and still want the original, but
then what's the use I want that anymore. It's a
bit if you don't. If you want to bet to die,
get the ring.
Speaker 3 (51:41):
No want I want the ring to show up, and
I know it's out there.
Speaker 4 (51:45):
That's the thing could be melted.
Speaker 1 (51:46):
They could have been taking to Mexico and melting, yes,
or just melting America. But I always think everything's taken
to Mexico and don Becau.
Speaker 4 (51:51):
That's where they did the bad day.
Speaker 2 (51:52):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (51:53):
I feel like they anytime the bad stuff's done, it's
like taken down there and done in the which is
unfair of me to think, but that's just what I've
been told. That is all for today.
Speaker 4 (52:04):
Goodbye, Ready.
Speaker 8 (52:08):
Bones.
Speaker 1 (52:09):
The Bobby Bones Show theme song, written, produced and sang
by Reid Yarberry. You can find his instagram at read Yarberry,
Scuba Steve executive producer, Ray Mundo, head of Production. I'm
Bobby Bones. My instagram is mister Bobby Bones. Thank you
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