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December 8, 2025 11 mins

Rachel thought her concert date with Zayne was perfect, sparks flying, front-row make out session, and even going home with his jacket. But five days later, he’s ghosting her while still active on social media… and the real reason leaves everyone stunned.
In this First Date Follow Up episode from The Jubal Show, the team digs into the unexpected deal-breaker and puts Zayne on the spot to explain himself.


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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Rachel is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Zaye.
So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
I feels else why he's ghostinger, and maybe get her
a second date if she still wants one. But first, Rachel,
how long has it been since you heard from Zaye?

Speaker 2 (00:14):
It's been five days since I heard from Zay?

Speaker 3 (00:17):
Okay, because we're not counting or anything, right.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Oh no, we're definitely not kidding.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
Now have you tried to reach out to it?

Speaker 2 (00:25):
I have been, like, you know, I heard from him
like right after our date, like that night, and like
everything seemed chill, and then I heard nothing after that.
Oh yeah, And like he even posted some stuff on
his like in the story about the we went to
a concert and he you know, he also actually like
posted it in his grid and stuff like that, and

(00:46):
people who have commented on it, he's responded to them there,
So I guess if you can respond on Instagram, why
can't you respond to your day?

Speaker 3 (00:53):
That's so frustrating, that's weird.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
Yeah, So that's like me the big like, oh what's
going on?

Speaker 3 (01:01):
Dude? All right? Tell us about the date.

Speaker 2 (01:04):
Yeah, so we like met at this venue in and
it was this total dive bar like vibes. It was
very punk energy, like we had message on and off
about the band that we both happened to like have
tickets to this underground indie group thing like so it
was just perfect. It was like, you know, a thing

(01:25):
that we're both into, you know, and like it was
a blast. We were in the front row. We were
like both super sweaty and dancing and screaming the lyrics
like he actually knew all the lyrics. Like so he
wasn't a poser, you know what I mean, And it
just felt like we were teams again, like you know,
he pulled me close during this one like slow build song,
and like we made out hard in the front row,

(01:48):
no shame, like teenagers. Like it was still good. Yeah,
like you know, like it got a little handpeper, like
I'm not gonna lie, Like it felt like natural and
like in the moment, it wasn't a seemed like sleepy,
so he wasn't like there were no bad vibes or
like red flags like.

Speaker 4 (02:06):
The night of the day, you know, m hm, did
you guys do anything after the concert?

Speaker 2 (02:12):
I mean we didn't do anything like after the concert,
you know, like we were outside and like talk and
stuff a bit, but like you know, we didn't we
didn't go to like you know, like take a coffee
or something afterwards. It was just a concert. Yeah, we
were staying up pretty late.

Speaker 3 (02:28):
You know. Okay, it was okay, you know, we felt.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
Like seens at that point. It was like I'm tired.

Speaker 4 (02:35):
Yeah, is there anything that happened then during the concert
or at any point that may have been why he's gone.

Speaker 2 (02:43):
I don't know, Like it felt so real and like honestly,
like so many guys pretend to like live music and stuff,
but like Zain actually knew the stuff, like I said,
like he was scream singing the lyrics and he knew
all of them, like he didn't have to try hard.
He was like actually into it like I am. So

(03:04):
I don't know, it felt real, Like there are definitely
some guys who like you know, again, I guess they're
just posers who like try to be like, oh yeah
I love pop punk still.

Speaker 3 (03:14):
Right, Okay, well, why do you think he's ghosting you?

Speaker 2 (03:19):
I don't know, Like so like maybe like when we
were outside, like it was freezing so I asked him
for his jacket, and like jokingly I said, like, oh,
a real gentleman would have offered it to me by now,
and like we both laughed and like then he gave
his jacket to me and like kissed me on the
cheek and like it was kind of like a stiffer

(03:42):
kiss than like I mean a full on makeout like
we did in the front row. But like I don't know,
he said, like, oh, you didn't give me a chance
to be a gentleman before you just took it and
like laughed and walked away. So it seemed very like oh,
like I don't know, it was slirty, but like weird.
Maybe like maybe I offended him by asking for his jacket.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
I don't know, that would be it's weird.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
Yeah, that would be a strange reason to go somebody,
I think, Yeah, Like and he.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
Gave me the jacket, like if he was like hah no,
and then didn't and it was like, oh I said
something wrong, or like I really offended him. I don't think,
like I have his jacket, Like he didn't even take
it with him at the end of the night. So
it also felt like he's letting me wear his jacket
and I'll give it to him like back to him
on the second date.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
Maybe he just felt weird that you got to it first,
because you know, dudes can be like that, like if
it's not their idea or if they're not the ones
in control, they get all weird.

Speaker 3 (04:42):
I mean, which again would be a stupid reason somebody,
but just.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
You know, especially because I have his jacket like I
have it. Yeah, don't go if you want your clothes back.

Speaker 3 (04:53):
All right, well we'll see if that is the reason.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
Well, play a song, come back, and then call him
and see if hoo, tell us why is ghosting you,
and maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay, all right,
we'll get your first day follow up. Next, Rachel is
on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy
named Zaine. So in a second we're going to call
him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger
and maybe get her a second date if she still
wants one. But before we do that, Rachel, why don't

(05:16):
you break down your situation with Zaane real quick?

Speaker 2 (05:20):
First date went and thought some live music, made out
in the front left row like we're teenagers, had a
great time. He maybe I upset him because I said, hey,
a gentleman would have offered his jacket by this point
when we went outside and it was cold. Maybe you
took it the wrong way. I still have his jacket.
I haven't heard from him in five days, but he

(05:41):
is responding to comments on his coach from the concert.
So yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
You ready for us to call him? I am okay,
here we go.

Speaker 5 (05:53):
Okay, Hello, Hi, man speak Tosain please?

Speaker 6 (06:07):
Yeah, this is where's going?

Speaker 3 (06:10):
Hey, Zane? How are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Imina. Hi, I'm Victoria
and my name is Jebel. What's going on?

Speaker 7 (06:17):
Oh yeah, I know you guys.

Speaker 6 (06:19):
Yeah, what's up?

Speaker 3 (06:20):
Oh cool?

Speaker 1 (06:20):
Hey, thank you man, I appreciate it. Well, we're calling
you today because somebody wanted us to call you.

Speaker 6 (06:27):
Okay, So I don't know if you how.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
Much you listen to the show, But we do a
segment called the First Dight follow Up. That's where if
you go out on a date with somebody and then
you got them, that person can email us to get
you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting.

Speaker 7 (06:42):
Oh yeah, yes.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
It is about Rachel. Do you have a segment to
tell us why you're ghosting her?

Speaker 3 (06:50):
Man, God, okay, all.

Speaker 6 (06:54):
Right, Uh look, I mean she's super cool, like fun,
but there's pous.

Speaker 3 (07:04):
It's like it's just.

Speaker 2 (07:05):
Like this thing. Man.

Speaker 7 (07:06):
Uh, she's got this she's got this nose ring and
it's like this this like giant hoop, right, and it's
got this like dangly little charm that's just kind of like.

Speaker 6 (07:20):
Hanging out of her nose. And like god, it kept
like moving when she was talking, and like I didn't
really notice it at first, Like when we were we
were in a veggy writing like super dark. Yeah, like
once we got outside and like I couldn't take my
eyes off.

Speaker 4 (07:35):
It was just like immediately, oh no, so like you
kissed her and stuff though, right, yeah, no, for sure.

Speaker 6 (07:43):
I mean like you know, we were on the heat
of the moment in the show and it was you know,
kind of dark inside, and you know, it's all felt
really good at the moment, but like once we got
outside and like the street lights and stuff, like it's
just like, I mean, this thing is not just like
a nose ring, it's like a wind. I could not
stop looking at it, Like I had like a nightmare

(08:06):
about it.

Speaker 2 (08:06):
That night they were bad.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
Oh no, and that's the reason just that, I mean
where I just.

Speaker 7 (08:15):
Like I just like could not stop looking at it.

Speaker 6 (08:19):
Like the whole time she was talking to me, I
was just like, this is just I just I just
could not do it.

Speaker 3 (08:25):
It was not what if she took it out? Can
you just not unsee it?

Speaker 2 (08:32):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (08:33):
I mean it feels like I don't know, man, she's
like kind of I put her whole look and aesthetic
and like, I don't know, I just was not feeling it.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
All right, Well, thank you for telling us. Appreciate that.
I want to know how big this nose ring is? Hey, Rachel,
how big is your nose ring? Oh wins, that's Rachel.
She's been listening and let's talk.

Speaker 6 (09:01):
No, okay, did not realize you were on there too, Okay, oh.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
Yeah, I like aesthetic takedown. So you're ghosting me because
of my style with my like average sized nose ring,
my nose jangle.

Speaker 6 (09:20):
Look, okay, Like I'm not trying to be a jerk
or anything. It's just not for me, all right, you know,
it's just not as to do it.

Speaker 2 (09:28):
You made out with me like you were going to
propose and then you disappeared because my jewelry wasn't minimal
enough for your sensitive indie eyes.

Speaker 6 (09:39):
Come on, Like that's kind of funny, but like it's
not personal, right, I just like I couldn't unsee it,
like the things just so like it had like its
own personality, like it was like on a game.

Speaker 2 (09:50):
His name is Gerald, he swings my laugh and you
live been great friends. Okay, Okay, that's kind of funny.
Actually okay, but like you're such a poser, like you're
acting like you're into punk shows, but you can't handle
a nose ring.

Speaker 6 (10:12):
Look, I'm obviously clearly I've did to puncture, all right, Like,
I mean, I just don't want to date the merch table.

Speaker 2 (10:19):
You know, and I don't want to date a suit
who stakes his way through life.

Speaker 6 (10:27):
What are you talking about? Doesn't make any sense.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
Listen, I'm going to keep your jacket, Vain. You don't
deserve it. It's too cool for you, you know what.

Speaker 6 (10:42):
You can keep the jacket because I don't really ever
want to see that thing again.

Speaker 3 (10:46):
Honestly, saying would you like another date with Rachel won't
pay for it.

Speaker 6 (10:51):
No, No, that's gonna be a hard pass with you.

Speaker 3 (10:53):
Guys.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
Oh cool. You know Gerald feels the same way and
he doesn't want to see you again. So yeah, I'm
with Gerald. We don't want to see you again. We
don't need this day.

Speaker 7 (11:04):
Cool.

Speaker 6 (11:04):
I got a guy who named you, named your nose
ring Gerald.

Speaker 3 (11:08):
You know, Kurle.

Speaker 6 (11:08):
Well, I'm gonna let you guys have a happy life together.
And you know what, you can keep the jacket, you know,
I don't. I don't ever need to wear that thing again.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
Oh yeah, I'm sure you have a ton more in
your closet because you're such a fake opposer and you
just have them there to like, try and be cool
and recapture your youth. Bro, I got it.
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