December 4, 2025 • 66 mins
Ashlee and Kristal join us from Perth, Australia, to discuss the case of their mother, Donna Nelson. In January 2023, their 58-year-old mother was arrested in Tokyo on international drug-smuggling charges. Right away, they suspected the man Donna had been dating online. Together, Ashlee and Kristal share their family’s heartbreaking story, their ongoing fight for justice, and the warning signs of the elder drug mule scam.
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Speaker 3 (00:51):
And he was saying, I just left there or looking
for your mam. I was there for two hours. I
said to him, well, she landed this morning. Why weren't
you there this morning to pick her up?
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Welcome to the night.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
I'm Patia Eton, I'm Hannah Smith. This week we're speaking
with two sisters Ashley and Crystal. In January of twenty
twenty three, their fifty eight year old mother, Donna, was
arrested in Tokyo on international drug smuggling charges. The news
stunned her family, especially because Donna had long been fiercely
anti drug.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Immediately, Ashley and Crystal knew this had something to do
with a man named Kelly that Donna had met while
online dating and developed a relationship with. Together, Ashley and
Crystal tell their family's heart wrenching story of the elaborate
scheme their mother became entrapped in, and their ongoing efforts
for justice.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Let's get into the interview.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Ashley and I'm Donna's second eldest daughter and I'm Crystal,
Donna's eldest daughter. We are both in Perth, Western Australia.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
So tell us a little bit about what kind of
person and what kind of mother your mother. Donna Nelson is.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
So our mom. She's fifty nine years old at the moment.
She's a mother of five and a grandmother of three.
She's an Indigenous woman. I think she's always looked to
fall in love ever since the breakup with our dad,
and I guess she was a very devoted mother and wife,
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so when the breakup happened, I think she had lost
a lot of her identity as well and didn't know
where she fit in the world.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Actually, in Crystal said, their parents separated in two thousand
and three after twenty years of marriage. They both remember
the divorce being pretty hard on their mother Donna.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
For a long time, she had hopes that the relationship
would reconcile, and I think it just got to a
point where she realized it wasn't really going to happen.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
She stopped going to church as well.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I guess she felt like she failed in that area,
and it was quite a few years later that she
started to date.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Like a long time later, wasn't it. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Mum's also the type of person who's always looking out
for younger people, like looking out for people who are
affected by substance abuse and you know, drugs and alcohol
and trying to help them move forward to have a
better life.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
That's like mum's life's work.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
She's always dedicated herself to people who need her, and
she's always been the voice people who don't have a
voice or comfortable speaking up.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Dina poured her time and energy into helping others in
her community, which was fulfilling, but the desire to find
love again never left her, and so she decided to
try online dating. Donna cast a wide net geographically. She
was looking for the right person and she didn't want
to limit herself to just dating someone who lived nearby,
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and it seemed to work. She met a man he
lived in the US, and eventually Donna went to meet
him in person.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
She had met a man in Oklahoma and she had
flown over there to go see him, and they got
along really well, to the point where it wasn't really
a relationship, but they were able to remain friends.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
And I feel right up.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Until this happening even they were still friends. So she
did have I guess what you might call some success
in online dating. Actually met her husband through the internet
as well. I met my husband through the internet, So
she definitely saw it as a safe place to meet
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like a potential husband or lifelong partner.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Yeah, I mean I met my husband online. It's a
very common way to meet people. So Tana ends up
meeting a guy online that actually lives in the US
and goes all the way there to meet him to
Oklahoma actually, and he turns out to be this really
nice guy, but in the end it's not a romantic connection.
I imagine that that maybe gave her some confidence that
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dating someone, even if they're in another country, could still
work out. So then sometime during COVID she gets back
on the dating apps and how does that go for her?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
So she met this guy, She started to talk to
him quite frequently. He had adult children. He lived in Japan,
but traveled all around the world. He seemed very interested
in her life and what she was doing and her
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children as well. And I think that's what really won
her over, because Mum's a real family oriented person.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
Oh his name is Kelly, That's what she said his
name was.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I remember it would have been in June of twenty
twenty two that I believe Mom first brought him up
to me.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Of Donna's five daughters, Ashley is the self proclaimed skeptic.
When she heard about her mother's new online long distance
relationship with this man named Kelly, she was cautious. She
warned Donna about online scammers and what red flags she
should look out for. She said things like, never give
out your bank account details.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Don't send him any money, don't accept anything from him
that sort of thing, but didn't really think too much
of it because she said, no, he doesn't ask me
for anything, and he's never asked me for any of
my personal information.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
So I gave her that pre warning and didn't really
think too much of it.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
After that tell us about like the progression of this
new relationship.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
She would talk to him all the time.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Sometimes Mum would come over to our house or I'd
pick her up to take her somewhere, and he would
call randomly. So we saw him on video calls and
it was a very regular I wouldn't even say daily thing.
Sometimes it was all throughout the day that they were speaking.
He never really spoke with us, it was just a
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quick hello, I'll talk to you when you're back home.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
Let me know when you're home.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
So I guess in a way I should have maybe
saw that as a red flag. If he was so
interested to know more about the family, why did he
not really engage in conversation with us. He always would
want to only speak to Mum when she was alone. Yeah,
we definitely saw the frequency of the conversations.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
It wasn't until I think it was mid December twenty
twenty two that mum actually told me when she wanted
to go and meet him in person that I dug
a bit further and started to ask her, Okay, so
his name is Kelly, does he have any identification? What
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does he do? Where does he live?
Speaker 3 (08:45):
Four sorts of questions, and that's when I found out
that he told her that his real name is Rex,
but his nickname is Kelly. And I didn't think it
was strange that his nickname was Kelly because we have
family members who have very strange nicknames as well, so
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it's kind of normally in our family for someone to
be given a nickname that you can't really see where
it comes from. But she sent me a copy of
his Japanese residence card that looked kind of legit. I
asked her if she had any photos of him, and
she said no, They were on his dating profile and
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he deactivated it. So I asked her, the next time
you have a video call with Kelly, can you just
take a screenshot off his face? And that's where the
original photo of Kelly came from.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
You had asked her what does she do for a
living and what was her answer to that?
Speaker 3 (09:46):
She said that he owned his own clothing design business
where he designed women's gowns, couture gowns, and that he
had shops in several locations worldwide.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Okay, yeah, how did your mom seem to be feeling
in the relationship.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
It seemed to be feeling really secure and really excited
about meeting him. She would say, Oh, I've finally got
someone that is going to look after me. He doesn't
want anything from me, because in the relationships that she
had had before this, it was always someone that she
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was almost sort of I wouldn't say a project, but
maybe like they weren't set up or established the way
that she was, and it was more she would sort
of take care of them, or she would help them
to find a job and set them up and build
them up to be like a strong, independent person that
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equally contributes in every way in the relationship. And this
was the first time that she was finding somebody who
needed nothing from.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Her, so she was really excited about that.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Crystal was happy for her mom. She could tell how
excited Donna was and it was nice to see her
feeling loved, especially after spending so much of her life
caring for others. But then Donna started to talk about
getting married to Kelly, and that was a little alarming,
after all, none of them had met him at the
same time, the wedding talk didn't seem all that real
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to Crystal. Donna and Kelly had been planning to just
meet in person for over a year and that still
hadn't happened, So how real could this wedding talk be.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
So the wedding was going to be in Nigeria, where
he was from. So he lived in Japan but would
fly back and forth to Nigeria very often or his
family were back there. He wanted a big, traditional wedding,
and it was kind of like he was really proud
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to be having her as his wife and wanted to
show her to all of his family and for us
to meet all of his family as well. I remember
thinking when she said that she was going to get
married to this guy and how the wedding would sort
of be. I sort of thought, well, that's nice, but
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I wasn't really sure if it would really happen yet
because they hadn't met in person, and so I thought
once they meet in person, she'd know for sure and
have a better idea. And she had been talking about
meeting up with him, and I remember saying to her,
how about he come to Perth and meet you here first,
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and then we all get to meet him. We can
see what we think of him as well. You're here
in your home city. And she had gone away and
spoken to him about that, and he sort of brought
up how busy he was with his work and that
it probably wouldn't be something that he'd be able to do.
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Then she brought up Japan, and before that she brought
up Brazil, and I know I was thinking, these are
countries where the people don't really speak English. Can he
not come here first? Like I'd feel much better about
you coming here. She again would go away to him
and express her concerns, and his response, which I thought
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was quite reassuring, was that he would be willing to
have one or several of us go over with her
if we're so worried, she can take some people with
her so that she feels more comfortable, so that we
feel more comfortable about her going.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
When he sort of said that, I thought, oh, well, someone.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Who's in it for something else would not care to
make an offer like that. It didn't really bring any
red flags for me. It actually made me feel like,
oh wow, He's really considering her and how we feel
and our concerns.
Speaker 4 (14:12):
He's got nothing to hide.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Donna and Kelly continued to talk about meeting in person,
but there were still no concrete plans. In the meantime,
they spoke daily on the phone or on feast time.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
I think one thing to add about him in general
is the way that he structured his story to Mum.
He made himself very palatable to her as a divorcee
with children because he claimed to be divorce from his
Japanese wife.
Speaker 4 (14:44):
And had three sons.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
And I think that's a huge part for Mum, because
he didn't claim to be this young, fit, muscular like,
blond head, blue eyed guy who he wanted to be
in a relationship with her. He was an older guy,
wasn't a very strikingly handsome sort of person. He was
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just like an average older guy. It was a divorce,
had his life sorted out.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
Yeah, And I mean they seemed very aligned and like
their station in life, and I can totally see that
would be reassuring, you know. I also wanted to touch on
something I read researching the story that you can maybe
tell me about, which is were they looking at homes? Together.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
During this time, he had inquired about homes in Australia,
so he wanted to move over here and build a
life with her so that she could be close to
her family. Yeah. I think she really.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Sold her on his commitment to family and supporting her
with her family commitments.
Speaker 4 (15:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
You know, you mentioned he said he had children as well.
Did she ever speak with his kids over FaceTime or
however they were communicating?
Speaker 3 (16:09):
No, I don't think these children of his really existed.
One was a doctor or studying to be a doctor,
one was a lawyer, and one was something else, like.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
It was a pharmacist or something.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
Yeah, so he really gave off this well grounded, successful
life and that his family were on that path as well.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
After two and a half years of dating remotely, Donna
announced she was finally going to meet Kelly in person.
This was September of twenty twenty two. Apparently Kelly said
he would cover the cost of the plane ticket. Initially
the plan was to meet up in Hong Kong, but
that changed.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Then after that it was going to be Brazil because
he also said he had a brother who had a
construction business and he was set up in Brazil. So yeah,
He just seemed to travel around a lot, and it
depended on where he would be at the time. And then,
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oh gosh, it was very last minute that she said
she was going to meet him in Japan.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
In September of twenty twenty two, Donna and Kelly were
making plans to meet in person for the very first
time after dating remotely for two years. Kelly kept telling
Donna he wanted to purchase her plane ticket to Japan,
except the months started to go by and still there
was no plane ticket. They would decide on a date
for her to leave, and then Kelly would change that
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plan last minute. Something would come up and it didn't
work for him anymore, and then they would set a
new date, but then that date would come and go,
no concrete plan, no plane ticket, And then suddenly it
was late December of twenty twenty two and the holidays
were upon them, and still Donna had no idea when
or even if she was going to Japan.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
So she was originally meant to go to Japan at
some point early in December, but she kept asking him like,
when am I going? When are you going to send
my flight details through? And it just seemed to not
be happening, so she focused her attention on like enjoying
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Christmas with us all, and we had Christmas Day that
was really good. When she was questioning, why haven't you
got my flights yet? Is this even going to happen?
I really want to see you, he was having the
excuse that it's the Christmas period, things are really busy.
I'm trying to get the flight sorted.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
And then a few days after Christmas, Kelly told Donna
the ticket had been purchased. So Donna headed to the
airport excited to finally be going to Japan.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
She gets to the airport that night and she goes
to her put in her flight details on the machines,
and there's no flight.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
So she goes home.
Speaker 3 (19:18):
She's feeling really down, and I think she was sort
of giving up on hope of actually meeting him. And
then it was a few days later, when it might
have been the twenty ninth, where he says, oh, you're
going to go tomorrow, and so it was it was
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a massive blur. We didn't really get time to sit
down and have a conversation with her. It was a
very hectic period where you know you're going to Christmas
and Boxing Day family things, and mums already said she's
going on a flight, which didn't eventually way. All throughout December,
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she wasn't given flight details. I guess in a way,
I sort of didn't think she was going to go.
I thought he stalling, like he doesn't really want to
meet her.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
Even though Donna had been talking about meeting Kelly for years,
there had never been a plane ticket, and then suddenly
there was, and Donna was set to leave in less
than twenty four hours. It was in the middle of
the holiday rush, and Ashley and Crystal said everything was
so hectic they barely had time to talk with their
mom about the trip. Crystal said she felt like this
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was something her mother was determined to do after two
years of talking online to Kelly. She wanted to know
if the relationship was real, if it was going anywhere.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
I think she really really had her heart set on
going to finally meet this guy.
Speaker 4 (20:52):
It had been so long.
Speaker 3 (20:54):
I feel as though in her mind it was like,
I need to go meet him now, like to progress
this relationship. You can't just stay at this point. I
don't think it's going to go any further. It's sort
of the vibe that I got, especially with the flights
that he was planning to take her on and never
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really did. It just seemed like a lot of failed
promises at that point, and she just really wanted to
go meet him to see like are we compatible in person?
Is this going to work? But just before she left
it was such a blur. So I had a quite
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young daughter at the time.
Speaker 4 (21:40):
One of the other sisters had a quite.
Speaker 3 (21:43):
Young son, and I remember we were very flat out
with those two. And the last time I saw Mum
before she left, my other sister and I were at
a water park with the kids and Mum she was
really stressed out in that time. I think she was
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just flustered trying to have everything organized. She didn't want
to forget her passport, and I guess it sort of
showed when the trial was on and we saw her
suitcase that she had, there was.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
Like very few belongings in there.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
You think that she was going there in December January,
when it's winter time in Japan. She didn't have any
winter clothes, she didn't have any jackets or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
So she does end up going to Japan. When do
you first hear that something has gone wrong?
Speaker 3 (22:48):
So before Mum left, we've got her to download the
Life three sixty apps so we can track her. So
once she landed at Mariita Airport in Tokyo, we could
see that she landed. She messaged us and told us
just landed, and told us how cold it was, had
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a little back and forth laugh about the weather, and
then it was just silence. So that was first thing
in the morning that she landed, like seven am local time,
and it was about i'll say one pm Perth time,
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which is two pm Japan time. We hadn't heard anything,
and I messaged all my sisters and said, has anyone
heard from Mum? I figured my sisters with the babies
would have heard from her first. And as everyone started
to come back and say no, I haven't heard from her,
then it started to make us all very worried. I
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could see on the tracking app that she was still
at the airport, but she wasn't answering her phone or anything.
And it was very out of the ordinary that we
didn't hear from Mom. Because I just wanted to add
that Mum is the kind of person who we would
speak to her, not even just once in the day,
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like there were constant conversations and video calls all throughout
the day.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
Donnah was usually in constant contact with her children, but
she'd gone silent on that very first day. Ashley printed
out any information that she had about Kelly, including a
screenshot of his face that she'd encouraged her mother to
take during one of their facetimes. She gathered it all
up and she headed to her local police station and.
Speaker 3 (24:42):
I told them I want to lodge a missing person's
report for my mum. She's overseas in Tokyo. She's landed there.
And I said, I know that it takes twenty four
hours at least until you can lodge a missing person's report,
but if it's out of the ordinary, then you can
do it sooner. And this is out of the ordinary
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for my mom. So that night I did that missing
person's report. While I was speaking with a police officer
in an interrogation room, Kelly called me and he was
looking for my mom and he was saying, I just
left the airport looking for your mom. I was there
for two hours, and I said to him, well, she
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landed this morning. Why weren't you there this morning to
pick her up? Why are you only there tonight and
the police officer was guiding me and saying what to
say to him to gain information from him, but not
tell him anything.
Speaker 4 (25:43):
And in our little report he.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Had noted down that I received a phone call from
a man with a Nigerian accent and after that the
missing person's report was done. So I knew I had
to do that to open a consular case with the
Australian government. So the next morning I called our consular
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emergency center and asked them to create a case for
my mum. They didn't have the missing person's report information,
so I made sure the police sent that through to them.
So that's on the fifth of January. She landed on
the fourth of January around yees seven am. Then the
consular case was created on the fifth of January and
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they told us, look, it might take a few days,
or it could take a week, or it could take
a couple of weeks to locate your mum. And we
asked them if they could please, no matter what time
it was, as soon as they got information back about
our mum, could they make sure that someone calls us.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
At this point in all of this, what did your
local police, local law enforcement think, maybe happening during those
first twenty four hours, because you know, it was unusual
that she just went completely silent, and she's been at
the airport and the person that she was trying to
meet there can't find her, And what did they think
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might be happening.
Speaker 4 (27:19):
The place?
Speaker 3 (27:20):
Didn't indicate what their thought process was. They did say
it was a little bit strange, and they did say
to me, once they heard Kelly call me and they
heard that conversation, they did say that that's very suspicious.
So that's all they indicated to me.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
What about the call that law enforcement overheard had made
them say that's suspicious.
Speaker 3 (27:48):
I think it's the fact that he wasn't waiting at
the airport for her when she was only there to
meet him, and.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
The fact that he wasn't there at the time that
she arrived.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
He was there at least twelve hours later, or maybe
over ten hours later. He went to the airport to
look for her. So she landed at seven am local
time and he wasn't there until six pm local time. Yeah,
that's like eleven hours later. But also it was how
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he was talking. I think he mentioned that he knew
a lawyer who might be able to help, and they
were like, oh, why is he talking about that?
Speaker 2 (28:32):
At this stage, it was all so strange. Why had
Donna gone silent? And why was Kelly Colin Ashley, twelve
hours after he was supposed to pick Donna up from
the airport in Tokyo an even stranger? Why did he
think she needed a lawyer? Crystal Ashley and the rest
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of the family had no idea where their mother was.
They called the airport, but it was hard to get
any information with the language barrier. They reached out to
Vietnam Airlines, the carrier Donna had flown on, and they
were told only this The flight had landed safely in Tokyo,
but Donna had not picked up her checked bag. All
they could do was wait and hope that she was
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okay and that someone somewhere would call with news.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
You just feel sick for an endless amount of time.
You can't sleep, you can't eat, You're just worried. There's
no way to contact her. You go from thinking the
worst to I know the best that I was thinking was, Oh,
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maybe she's filled out the immigration part wrong and they
have not accepted her. And she's just on a flight
right now coming home. And then you bounce to is
she dead somewhere? Did something happen to her? And this
person's not telling us anything. Is she in a hospital somewhere?
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And you start googling all the different hospitals over there,
and you just don't know where to start. I know,
we had the thought of trying to call as many
police stations and hospitals as we could, but it just
felt like a needle in a haystack. You have no
idea where to start or where to get answers from,
and it's just a horrible feeling.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Yeah, and so when do you learn what has happened?
And sort of take me to that moment.
Speaker 3 (30:37):
So in the days leaping up, we were really struggling.
Ash was over in Brisbane, the rest of us were
here in Perth. We weren't really eating or getting any sleep.
So our dad had kind of made it a commitment
that each day we're going to catch up at a
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park or something and just get out and get some
fresh air, have some time together. This was now on
the Saturday, and Dad wanted to take us out to lunch.
So this place where we went to go have lunch,
it was out in a pr and it was really
lovely on a sunny day, and it was about an
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hour's drive from where we all live. We got out
there and I remember it was the first real meal
that I had been able to eat in those days.
And just as I had gotten through it, I see
Dad's phone ring and he kind of quietly gets up
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and walks away, and then I just sense like, this
is not good. This is someone calling about Mum, and
it's not going to be good. A few minutes later,
Dad returns and we all leave the table where we're
eating and go to a I wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (32:00):
Even say a quiet spot.
Speaker 3 (32:01):
It's just a footpath out the front of the restaurant.
And Ash's on the phone at this point with Dad.
Dad's really serious and sits us all down and I
can't remember the words, but he just sort of breaks
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when news that Mum is okay, she's safe, but she's
been arrested. She's not coming home, and she's been arrested
for drug smuggling. And I remember thinking in that moment, oh,
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it's all a big mistake, like she would get allergies,
and I knew, like Japan, they were very strict on
what medications you can bring into the country. So I thought,
maybe she's taken some of her allergy steroids and that's
what it is. It's all just a big mistakes. No
way Mom would ever be involved in anything to do
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with drugs. This is all a big mistake. And I
asked Dad, is it her medication? And I didn't want
to know any details beyond yes or no, so he
just said no, it's not.
Speaker 4 (33:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
That's when he said she had one point eight kilograms
of methamphetamine. And that's where it was really confusing, because
we were all kind of like, how did this happen?
Because we know mum, and you know the person who
raises you. You know that they're totally against drugs, like
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their life's work has been helping the people affected by
drugs and alcohol. So we were kind of like, how
did this happen? I just had a weird feeling. I
just thought, Okay, it's Kelly. It's got to be Kelly.
So that's when I didn't speak to him again after
that moment. I blocked him because I thought, Oh, this
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man's in some really bad stuff.
Speaker 2 (34:02):
It was shocking for them to hear that Donna had
been arrested at the Tokyo Airport for the possession of methanphetamine.
This was their same mother who had devoted years to
helping her community combat the harms of addiction. Donna had
also carefully planned what medications she even brought on the trip,
knowing full well that Japan's drug laws are notoriously strict.
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Ashley said she knew immediately that Kelly was somehow behind this.
Many details would come out later during Donna's trial, including
something that happened during Donna's three day layover in Laos
before flying to Tokyo.
Speaker 3 (34:41):
So she was in Laos for three days and he
told her that she needed to stay there for three
days because it was the holiday period and there weren't
many flight options. They were like really busy, it's like
the busy period or whatever, And that's why she stayed
in Laos three days and then ended up going to Japan.
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But really, he had someone meet her in Laos at
her hotel, and he was a business partner of Kelly's.
Speaker 1 (35:11):
And why did Kelly need a business partner of his
to meet this woman that he's been dating at her hotel?
Speaker 3 (35:20):
So there were discussions that mum was having with Kelly
that we found out during the trial where they were
talking about he needed a certain type of suitcase for
his business. He was expanding his clothing design business to
include a line of suitcases and the specific type of
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one he needed. Mum tried looking for one in Australia,
but apparently there were none that were what he wanted.
Then he said, oh, I will figure it out, and
he ended up getting his business partner in Laos to
take a suit suitcase to Mum and said, like, put
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all of your stuff into this suitcase and get rid
of your own and bring this with you. And the
tricky part about the suitcase is firstly the timing of
when they brought it to Mum. She had like fifteen
minutes to leave the hotel and get to the airport
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to check in for her flight. So she's like flustered
and she just wants to just get on her flight.
And this guy brings the suitcase and it had some
fabrics like clothing in there that Mum and Kelly hadn't discussed,
and so instead of Mum being able to examine the
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suitcase on its own, it's like the clothing was put
in there to distract her and get her to.
Speaker 4 (36:52):
Focus on that instead of the suitcase itself.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
Because she did open it up and look.
Speaker 3 (36:57):
Yeah, and when she looked at the clothing, she called
Kelly and said, what is this clothing doing inside the suitcase?
We didn't discuss any clothing, and he said, these are
samples from my business. Please bring them with you. And
so she kind of like lifted the clothing, looked in it,
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didn't see anything of concern. She tried to examine the
suitcase a bit and didn't see anything concerning. So she
just put her things into the suitcase and quickly got
into a taxi and went to the airport.
Speaker 2 (37:34):
Donna's family knew their mother was in big legal trouble
in a foreign country. Once again, Ashley sprang into action,
collecting information that she thought might be useful for her
mother's case. She gathered email correspondence between her mother and
Kelly and any other documents she could think of that
might help prove that Donna was an upstanding person who
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just trusted the wrong guy. They also needed legal help.
Ashley said she just googled English speaking lawyers in Japan
and eventually found a firm that would take the case.
And that is when more details started to come out,
such as how the drugs were expertly hidden inside the suitcase.
Speaker 3 (38:17):
So the suitcase had like little grooves, you know how
you get the ones with the grooves.
Speaker 4 (38:23):
On the end.
Speaker 3 (38:25):
And the drugs were like finger shaped little lengths in
plastic and they were in the grooves. So even if
you are to press down and feel all around the suitcase,
you're not going to figure what's in those grooves.
Speaker 4 (38:44):
Right, it was really well hidden.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
Really well hidden, and your mom even went through the
contents of the suitcase. But like, how could she have
ever known how much time does Donnas spend from the
moment that she's seeking into custody to the trial.
Speaker 3 (39:03):
So she was taken into custody on the fourth of
January twenty twenty.
Speaker 4 (39:09):
Three, and her trial began with November twenty twenty four.
Speaker 3 (39:15):
From the moment mum was arrested up until she testified
in her trial, which started on a Thursday, I feel
like it was the nineteenth or twentieth of November. As
soon as Mum finished her testimony, that's when the communication
ban was lifted and we could finally communicate with our mum.
Speaker 4 (39:38):
So that whole time.
Speaker 3 (39:39):
We weren't allowed to write to her, speak to her anything.
Speaker 1 (39:44):
And am I understanding correctly, that's twenty three months.
Speaker 3 (39:50):
So the first time where seeing her, hearing her voice,
having any sort of interaction with her is looking on
with her when we're seeing her in her trial.
Speaker 4 (40:03):
And even then.
Speaker 3 (40:05):
The girls weren't allowed to hug Mum or even say
anything to her. It was kind of like a hello,
because you can get in trouble like Mum can get
in trouble, so it was sort of secretly like miming
I love you and hoping that the judges don't see.
Speaker 2 (40:26):
Donna was fifty eight years old at the time of
her trial. She'd already spent almost a year in jail
in Japan, unable to speak to or see her loved ones.
Her family flew to Japan for the trial, and they
were hopeful. They felt strongly that they could prove Donna
had absolutely no idea about the drugs and the suitcase
she'd been tricked.
Speaker 3 (40:48):
One of the customs officers being interviewed he had about
twenty years of experience in the job, and they asked him, you,
with all your experience looking at this suitcase, would you
have been able to tell that there were drugs inside
this suitcase? Not lifting it up, but by looking at it,
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would you have been able to know?
Speaker 4 (41:13):
And his answer was no.
Speaker 1 (41:16):
How did the Japanese court see it?
Speaker 4 (41:20):
Well?
Speaker 3 (41:21):
When they delivered their verdict, they admitted that Mum was
the victim of a romance scam, and they also said
that because she had been tricked by Kelly, her potential husband,
that she deserved sympathy, and that's why they gave her
a six year sentence, because realistically she was facing at
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least twenty But they also said she ignored red flags
as well, so I think that's where they based that
verdict on, is.
Speaker 4 (41:58):
Her ignoring red flags their opinion.
Speaker 1 (42:02):
What did it feel like to hear that verdict?
Speaker 4 (42:06):
It was very very hard.
Speaker 3 (42:10):
So in the courtroom everything spoken in Japanese, but there
was a translator there for Mum's benefit, and so Mum
had like a earpiece on and the translator had an
earpiece on, and she was speaking very very softly. But
I heard six years and something to the equivalent of
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ten thousand dollars in a fine. I didn't really register
at the time because the talking kept continuing, and then
I saw all of the media jump up and rush out.
Speaker 4 (42:48):
So I looked at my husband and asked, what is it.
Speaker 3 (42:53):
He said six years and he had to rush out
to quickly notify the rest of the family before that
found out through the media. So I was in there
watching mum trying to take in all this information, which
was really hard.
Speaker 4 (43:09):
She had her head down on the desk and was crying.
Speaker 3 (43:14):
And when she was leaving, I kind of mind to her,
don't worry, we'll get you home, and she just cried
and added, but my grandchildren, I think the thought of
you six years for such little people, They're going to
be completely different people by the time she gets to
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see them. And that was the hardest thing for her
to take in. It was just a real shock. I
felt like it wasn't right. I was worried about how
she was going to cope, Is her health going to
be okay?
Speaker 4 (43:53):
And it was just very difficult.
Speaker 1 (43:55):
What are her conditions in prison? What is her d
to day life like there right now?
Speaker 3 (44:03):
At the moment, I believe she's in her we like
to say room. We don't like to say anything else,
but she's in her room for twenty three and a
half hours per day. She showers twice a week, and
at this stage, because she's now changed from a detainee
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to a sentenced prisoner. She's undertaking some type of work
in there, which from what I understand, is done.
Speaker 4 (44:36):
In her room.
Speaker 3 (44:38):
We're hoping that she gets to interact with others. We're
not too sure on that at this point, because it's
the transition to being a sentence prisoner is a new one.
So we depend heavily on consular updates to know how
mum's doing because we don't get phone calls or anything
like that. So when we're say the letter from her,
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it's usually about three weeks after she's written a letter,
so we never really know how she's doing in real
time unless the consular officers have been able to visit.
Speaker 1 (45:12):
So as it stands today, when is your mother's release date?
Speaker 3 (45:19):
Her projected release date is early February twenty twenty nine.
Speaker 2 (45:25):
Donna's lawyers filed an appeal, but it was denied. Ashley
and Crystal say they've never been able to speak to
their mother on the phone. The only way to reach
her are through letters that take weeks to travel between
Japan and Australia, or through rare in person visits. Before this,
they've never even heard of an elder drug mule scam.
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But since their mother's case, they've learned about others people
lured in by online romance, unknowingly used to transport drugs,
now serving sentences in foreign prisons. Their family left behind
desperate to figure out how to help. Meanwhile, the people
who orchestrated it, all the ones who set the trap,
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are long gone. As far as we know, Kelly or
Rex or whoever he is, has never faced any legal consequences.
Speaker 3 (46:19):
Is he in Japan, is he in Nigeria? Is he
in one of these other places that he had invited mum.
Speaker 4 (46:26):
To go to.
Speaker 3 (46:28):
There were potential sightings of Kelly in Hong Kong after
a reporter started doing an investigation, but we're not sure
if anything came of that and if it is him.
But yeah, as far as we know, he hasn't been
held accountable for anything, and he's just free to find
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his next victims. Because we do know Mum wasn't the
only person he was speaking to. There were at least
two other women, even in the US, that he was
speaking to.
Speaker 1 (47:02):
How did you learn that?
Speaker 3 (47:04):
Through the lawyers they had reviewed evidence on Mum's phone
where he had accidentally screenshotted information and sent it to
Mum and it was it showed a name and it
said I think it was a name, age and location
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and it was for two women that were texting him.
So it's like text notifications and said, just say Donna
fifty seven or fifty eight in Australia. Even going back
to the Hong Kong part where there was a reporter
(47:48):
who went over there. So he went there to meet
with an Australian priest who helps women in the same
sort of situation.
Speaker 4 (47:57):
He's like a prison chaplain.
Speaker 3 (48:00):
He had met this reporter and he had a photo
of Kelly that he took into the women's prison and
showed it to some of the inmates there. And there
were several inmates there who said that this was the
person that they dealt with and they're in prison in
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Hong Kong for drug smuggling.
Speaker 1 (48:24):
Wow. So he has many victims.
Speaker 3 (48:28):
Yes, and it seems in various locations throughout the world.
Speaker 1 (48:33):
Wow, that is just unbelievable. So are there any other
sort of legal avenues or ways to potentially try to
appeal Dona's conviction.
Speaker 3 (48:45):
At this point, Mum has waived her right to a
second appeal to the Supreme court. The reasons being is
because there's only a zero point three percent chance of success.
They don't accept, they don't accept new evidence.
Speaker 1 (49:05):
I'm wondering just because I feel like the story is
so compelling. I think, because your mom did nothing wrong
and is this beloved member of her family and her community,
and yet she's in this unimaginable situation. And there are
many victims of a crime like this. She is at
the center. But of course her family who now misses her.
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How do you for your children, who are growing really
quickly while she is in custody in Japan? How do
you sort of keep her presence active in their minds
during this time.
Speaker 3 (49:45):
So my daughter, she's five now, obviously she doesn't understand
or doesn't have any awareness of where her grandmother is
and why we tell her that her grandmother works on
the planes and she flies around fighting fires and saving lives.
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So whenever she sees a plane flying over, she's like,
good night nanny or good morning nanny. She also would
always have these ice creams in her freezer, like these
little drumstick ones.
Speaker 4 (50:20):
I don't know if you guys have them.
Speaker 1 (50:21):
Like we're.
Speaker 3 (50:23):
Oh yeah, yeah, So those used to be Mum's favorite
ice creams, and her freezer was always stocked with them,
and my daughter, whenever she'd go to mum's house, would
go straight to the freezer and grab one. So whenever
my daughter's not home and I happen to have been
at the shops, I'll bring those back and put them
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in our freezer and we just sort of say, oh,
Nanny's been passed and she's dropped off some ice creams
for you. We play videos for her, we show her photos,
always writes letters, and in the letters, she'll include like
two pages that are sketches that she's done for the
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two little kids, and it will be like Lilo and
Stitch or Spider Man, or she'll always do a drawing
with their names on it for them.
Speaker 4 (51:19):
So it's a special treat that they get to have.
Speaker 3 (51:22):
I think something that's a little bit sad, and it
makes Mum sad as well, is whenever there's an eyelash
and you have to blow it and make a wish,
or when you blow out a candle and make a wish,
or there's a shooting star. My daughter's wish is always
I wish Nannie could come home.
Speaker 4 (51:41):
Now as she gets.
Speaker 3 (51:44):
Older, like, I really hope that we can have Mum
home as soon as we can have her home, because
I don't know how I would explain what the situation
is to her. I think it would break her little
heart to understand and where her grandmother is.
Speaker 4 (52:03):
And Mum also has an older grandson.
Speaker 3 (52:06):
He's sixteen, so it's obviously he knows exactly what's going on,
and he's got to deal with, you know, seeing the
media stuff. He understands that all of that stuff is
really good for Mum's situation because it highlights her case.
It keeps her in the public eye sort of thing,
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and applies the pressure where he needs to be applied.
But he still goes to school where his nan used
to drop him off and pick him up every day
and they'd have their own time. And he doesn't have her,
hasn't had her in almost three years now.
Speaker 1 (52:48):
How is she holding up in all of this?
Speaker 4 (52:51):
She's the strongest person I know.
Speaker 3 (52:54):
And when all of this started, if I was to
have known that she'd still be not home by this time,
I wouldn't have thought she'd still be the same her
that we know and love. But she's really focused on
her Christianity and her walk with God. That's given her
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a lot of strength. It's helped her that she can
now have letters, because up until December last year, she
wasn't able to have any letters. She's somebody who always
thinks of others, and as hard as this situation is
for her, she doesn't think of it like that. She
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thinks of how hard it is for us. She thinks
of the other women who are her neighbors over there
and how hard it is for them. She thinks about
how they may not get to have visitors, they may
not be sent money for food items. Like she is said,
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She's always looking at well, this person has it worse
than me.
Speaker 4 (54:06):
She's just such a strong person.
Speaker 1 (54:09):
Yeah, I mean it's you know, I think people like
her'll make everybody want to be better. It's like being
able to think of others when you're in that situation.
And it's definitely palpable how important she is to everyone
who knows her. And you know, her story is so
important because of the I think increasing prevalence of scams
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like this, and you know, there's a lot of shame
that some people carry when this happens to them. And
it's like these con artists, they do a really good
job finding out what is important to someone and praying
on that.
Speaker 2 (54:53):
Ugh, this episode was so heartbreaking to me.
Speaker 1 (54:57):
Yeah, there's no silver lining in these moments, but it
was one of those interviews where I was glad they
were together, Ashley and Crystal, which we typically don't do.
Speaker 2 (55:05):
Yeah, they told the story really well together, and I
mean there are only two of her five daughters, so
it was really they were representing her family. But you know,
we had been wanting to tell a story like this
for a while because we heard about this elder drug
mule scam a couple years ago and thought that it
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would be a great story, especially because I just feel
like a lot of people don't know about this.
Speaker 1 (55:32):
A lot of people don't know about it, and we're
in this. I feel like maybe it's just our age
group or our generation right now, where our parents are
aging and technology has changed so quickly that you know, recently,
I even told a story on here about a very
small time scam my grandpa almost got caught up in.
(55:52):
And so it's like, I just have to imagine our
listenership maybe know someone who could potentially be you know,
someone who's targeted for a scam like this yeah, which
is really scary.
Speaker 2 (56:06):
Totally and there was a bright spot in this otherwise
heartbreaking story. We actually ended up cutting it out for time,
but we wanted to mention it. Ashley and Crystal told
us that there is this American woman who lives in
Tokyo who had heard about Donna's story. She'd never met
Donna before, but now she goes and regularly visits her
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in prison, which I think is so sweet.
Speaker 1 (56:31):
It's so sweet, and it has to just feel so
good for Donna to have someone there in this place
that she's so unfamiliar with, where she doesn't speak the language.
Ye visit her, you know, show her support in person,
and also, you know, to then be able to communicate
with Donna's family, Hey, I saw her today. You know,
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just that someone laid eyes on her has to just be.
Speaker 2 (56:55):
So nice to hear. Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (56:57):
Ashley said something in the interview that I just think
is so insightful, and that is that seeing someone on
FaceTime or you know, any sort of visual like zoom
these days, it doesn't necessarily mean that they're credible or
that they're legit. And I think that maybe ten years
ago that's kind of the stories we were hearing about
online dating scams was oh, he could never FaceTime. His
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face time was always frozen or his computer didn't work.
And that doesn't always now act as like a gauge
of whether or not someone is actually who they say
they are, because you can get on FaceTime and you
can still be lying about everything.
Speaker 2 (57:34):
Oh yeah, the red flags to look out for. It
feels like a game of whack a mole, like it's
always changing. Because Ashley talked about warning her mom about
all the common red flags that she would think of
to warn someone, like don't give out your bank account information,
but none of that actually ended up being very relevant
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in this case because the red flags were so different,
and it made me think of this other their story.
Speaker 1 (58:01):
Well, yeah, I actually want to touch on that for
a second, because also one thing that stuck out to
me is like, Okay, you're traveling to Japan just like
they were. I would have my own hesitations about a
family member traveling alone to a foreign country to meet
someone that they'd so far only met online. However, it's
like Ghana had traveled internationally before to meet someone she'd
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met online and that person was who they said they were,
and even though it doesn't totally calm your fears. I
think it reinforces the idea that that's possible, that you're
not necessarily being scammed.
Speaker 2 (58:35):
Right, It's possible to date someone in a different country
and it not be a scam. Yes, of course. Yeah,
So there was this other case. There's multiple, but I
wanted to touch on this other case. It's actually from
twenty fourteen, but this man named Ralph Souls was caught
in a very similar type of scheme. He was seventy
four years old at the time, and he was caught
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transporting methamphetamine into New Zealand, was arrested and then spent
eighteen months in custody. He ended up getting out. You know,
it also depends on what country you're in and what
their laws are around this. But what happened with him
was that he met someone online who said that he
wanted to invest in his business and they started chatting
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became friends essentially, is what Ralph thought. So this man
said his name was Laurence Green, which was not his
real name, and in twenty thirteen, Ralph got on a
plane for Johannesburg, South Africa to meet Green in order
to set up some big accounts to start this business.
As soon as he got there, he got a message
from Green saying, actually, oh, I had to leave for Fiji.
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I'm on vacation in Fiji. Can you meet me there?
And it was a very similar thing to this story.
He said, Oh, and by the way, I have this suitcase.
Do you mind grabbing it and bringing it with you.
Ralph also open the suitcase, looked through it, didn't see
anything suspicious, but of course there were drugs in the
lining of the suit that he didn't know about, and
(01:00:01):
so that is how he was tricked and caught. And
you know, fortunately he didn't have a longer sentence, But
eighteen months is still a long time, and for children
whose parents are in prison abroad is just a nightmare.
Speaker 1 (01:00:15):
Eighteen months is a long time to be anywhere that's
not home, and to think of your parent in prison
and their seventies in a foreign country is like terrorizing.
And you know, this idea, like Donna looked through the suitcase,
Ralph looked through the suitcase. Even that is like, I
think so wise of both of them to have done that,
(01:00:38):
because if I was so trusting of someone, felt like
I was so connected to someone to meet them in
another foreign country. I don't know that I would have
even thought to do that. And so the fact that,
like you still have people being cautious and still this
is happening just shows you how seasoned these con artists are.
(01:00:59):
I mean, this is like organ crime totally, and it's
so sad. I mean eighteen months of someone's life, that's
a long time.
Speaker 2 (01:01:06):
Yeah, you know the red flags look out for, I
guess now, and these cases are like, don't ever bring
a suitcase across international lines or any object that's not
yours that you don't know what it is.
Speaker 1 (01:01:17):
Yeah, and you know, this idea that someone wants to
invest in your business is like that could be perfectly plausible. However,
if they were requiring you to fly across the world
to open bank accounts, if they're not showing up where
they said they would be and wanting you to go
to another country, It's like, if someone is that serious,
you can always take a beat. If they disappear, then
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that's for the best.
Speaker 2 (01:01:42):
It's like that classic scam, the way scammers make you
feel that you're going to miss out unless you act now.
Speaker 1 (01:01:49):
Yeah, this sense of urgency all the time. Yeah, and
these wild stories like imagine even going to LAX, like
saying you would be at LAX and then just not
go and leaving someone stranded there to figure something out,
like I wouldn't sleep. I'd be so stressed to do
that to someone.
Speaker 2 (01:02:06):
Well, this is why you're not a scammer. Yeah, I never.
You don't have the personality for it, Thank goodness. Seriously,
you looked up some twenty twenty three stats about elder fraud, right.
Speaker 1 (01:02:19):
Yeah, and it's pretty staggering. So this is all according
to a report released by the FBI in twenty twenty
three scams targeting people aged sixty and older, the average
victim of elder fraud lost over thirty thousand dollars, which
is so much money. And you know, oftentimes that's when
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people are done working or close to being done working,
and they're relying on that savings and so the impact
on their life can be pretty astronomical. And in total,
in twenty twenty three alone, victims of elder fraud and
this is in the US, lost a total of three
point four billion dollars.
Speaker 2 (01:02:59):
Wow, that's why.
Speaker 1 (01:03:00):
Yeah, it's wild. And there are so many different types
of elder fraud, but the main one is tech support
scams like that could be a pop up on your
computer saying you need to fill this out right now,
or someone calling and saying you know, this is so
and so from your bank or whatever. They're finding you digitally. Yeah,
(01:03:21):
and that is a tricky thing, I think, especially if
you're elderly. But even now, I know people in my
own age group that have gotten these phone calls. Oh yeah,
I know people are falling for them because they're very believable.
Speaker 2 (01:03:35):
Totally believable.
Speaker 1 (01:03:36):
Yeah, so there's investment scams is the costliest to victims typically,
But good advice for everyone is that if you know
someone who think might be susceptible to these kinds of scams,
you can just encourage them to never give up any
personal information. If someone says they're calling from your bank,
hang up and call your bank up absolutely, and not
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at the number they called you on.
Speaker 2 (01:03:58):
If someone says, I just is you to confirm some information,
there's no reason why that would ever happen. You would
never have to give out any personal information to someone
who's calling you who supposedly already has your information. Yeah,
that's just never needed. Yeah, don't send money to anybody
you don't know. And if you haven't met them in
person and they're telling you, you know, a chaotic story
(01:04:22):
and telling you what they need this money right now,
it's still okay to take a beat. Yeah, maybe call.
Speaker 1 (01:04:27):
Someone else and get their opinion on it. I've heard
stories of bank tellers refusing to cash checks in certain
instances where they think someone's being scammed, And I don't
know exactly what their authority is or how often that's happening.
I doubt there's like stats on it, but I mean
that has to be a hard job for them if
they can see it happening in real time too. So
(01:04:48):
I actually tried to pay someone on Facebook marketplace over
Zell a couple weeks ago, and it just wouldn't let me.
Speaker 2 (01:04:55):
It was like, no, they're really trying to crack down
on scams.
Speaker 1 (01:04:58):
I yeah, yeah, but I was there trying to like
buy a tow here.
Speaker 2 (01:05:03):
This is real.
Speaker 1 (01:05:04):
Yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
I feel like a good rule of thumb if you
get a scam call is just like you said, just say,
I got to call you right back. Get their name,
their employer, and their number. Yeah, and if they get
weird about that, it's a red flag.
Speaker 1 (01:05:18):
Red flag or I would just hang up and like
they'll call back if it's important, and even then you
can just google the number totally.
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Speaker 3 (00:51):
And he was saying, I just left there or looking
for your mam. I was there for two hours. I
said to him, well, she landed this morning. Why weren't
you there this morning to pick her up?
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Welcome to the night.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
I'm Patia Eton, I'm Hannah Smith. This week we're speaking
with two sisters Ashley and Crystal. In January of twenty
twenty three, their fifty eight year old mother, Donna, was
arrested in Tokyo on international drug smuggling charges. The news
stunned her family, especially because Donna had long been fiercely
anti drug.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Immediately, Ashley and Crystal knew this had something to do
with a man named Kelly that Donna had met while
online dating and developed a relationship with. Together, Ashley and
Crystal tell their family's heart wrenching story of the elaborate
scheme their mother became entrapped in, and their ongoing efforts
for justice.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Let's get into the interview.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Ashley and I'm Donna's second eldest daughter and I'm Crystal,
Donna's eldest daughter. We are both in Perth, Western Australia.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
So tell us a little bit about what kind of
person and what kind of mother your mother. Donna Nelson is.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
So our mom. She's fifty nine years old at the moment.
She's a mother of five and a grandmother of three.
She's an Indigenous woman. I think she's always looked to
fall in love ever since the breakup with our dad,
and I guess she was a very devoted mother and wife,
(02:46):
so when the breakup happened, I think she had lost
a lot of her identity as well and didn't know
where she fit in the world.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Actually, in Crystal said, their parents separated in two thousand
and three after twenty years of marriage. They both remember
the divorce being pretty hard on their mother Donna.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
For a long time, she had hopes that the relationship
would reconcile, and I think it just got to a
point where she realized it wasn't really going to happen.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
She stopped going to church as well.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I guess she felt like she failed in that area,
and it was quite a few years later that she
started to date.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Like a long time later, wasn't it. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Mum's also the type of person who's always looking out
for younger people, like looking out for people who are
affected by substance abuse and you know, drugs and alcohol
and trying to help them move forward to have a
better life.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
That's like mum's life's work.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
She's always dedicated herself to people who need her, and
she's always been the voice people who don't have a
voice or comfortable speaking up.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Dina poured her time and energy into helping others in
her community, which was fulfilling, but the desire to find
love again never left her, and so she decided to
try online dating. Donna cast a wide net geographically. She
was looking for the right person and she didn't want
to limit herself to just dating someone who lived nearby,
(04:27):
and it seemed to work. She met a man he
lived in the US, and eventually Donna went to meet
him in person.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
She had met a man in Oklahoma and she had
flown over there to go see him, and they got
along really well, to the point where it wasn't really
a relationship, but they were able to remain friends.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
And I feel right up.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Until this happening even they were still friends. So she
did have I guess what you might call some success
in online dating. Actually met her husband through the internet
as well. I met my husband through the internet, So
she definitely saw it as a safe place to meet
(05:15):
like a potential husband or lifelong partner.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Yeah, I mean I met my husband online. It's a
very common way to meet people. So Tana ends up
meeting a guy online that actually lives in the US
and goes all the way there to meet him to
Oklahoma actually, and he turns out to be this really
nice guy, but in the end it's not a romantic connection.
I imagine that that maybe gave her some confidence that
(05:43):
dating someone, even if they're in another country, could still
work out. So then sometime during COVID she gets back
on the dating apps and how does that go for her?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
So she met this guy, She started to talk to
him quite frequently. He had adult children. He lived in Japan,
but traveled all around the world. He seemed very interested
in her life and what she was doing and her
(06:16):
children as well. And I think that's what really won
her over, because Mum's a real family oriented person.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
Oh his name is Kelly, That's what she said his
name was.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I remember it would have been in June of twenty
twenty two that I believe Mom first brought him up
to me.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Of Donna's five daughters, Ashley is the self proclaimed skeptic.
When she heard about her mother's new online long distance
relationship with this man named Kelly, she was cautious. She
warned Donna about online scammers and what red flags she
should look out for. She said things like, never give
out your bank account details.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Don't send him any money, don't accept anything from him
that sort of thing, but didn't really think too much
of it because she said, no, he doesn't ask me
for anything, and he's never asked me for any of
my personal information.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
So I gave her that pre warning and didn't really
think too much of it.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
After that tell us about like the progression of this
new relationship.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
She would talk to him all the time.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Sometimes Mum would come over to our house or I'd
pick her up to take her somewhere, and he would
call randomly. So we saw him on video calls and
it was a very regular I wouldn't even say daily thing.
Sometimes it was all throughout the day that they were speaking.
He never really spoke with us, it was just a
(07:53):
quick hello, I'll talk to you when you're back home.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
Let me know when you're home.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
So I guess in a way I should have maybe
saw that as a red flag. If he was so
interested to know more about the family, why did he
not really engage in conversation with us. He always would
want to only speak to Mum when she was alone. Yeah,
we definitely saw the frequency of the conversations.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
It wasn't until I think it was mid December twenty
twenty two that mum actually told me when she wanted
to go and meet him in person that I dug
a bit further and started to ask her, Okay, so
his name is Kelly, does he have any identification? What
(08:42):
does he do? Where does he live?
Speaker 3 (08:45):
Four sorts of questions, and that's when I found out
that he told her that his real name is Rex,
but his nickname is Kelly. And I didn't think it
was strange that his nickname was Kelly because we have
family members who have very strange nicknames as well, so
(09:05):
it's kind of normally in our family for someone to
be given a nickname that you can't really see where
it comes from. But she sent me a copy of
his Japanese residence card that looked kind of legit. I
asked her if she had any photos of him, and
she said no, They were on his dating profile and
(09:26):
he deactivated it. So I asked her, the next time
you have a video call with Kelly, can you just
take a screenshot off his face? And that's where the
original photo of Kelly came from.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
You had asked her what does she do for a
living and what was her answer to that?
Speaker 3 (09:46):
She said that he owned his own clothing design business
where he designed women's gowns, couture gowns, and that he
had shops in several locations worldwide.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Okay, yeah, how did your mom seem to be feeling
in the relationship.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
It seemed to be feeling really secure and really excited
about meeting him. She would say, Oh, I've finally got
someone that is going to look after me. He doesn't
want anything from me, because in the relationships that she
had had before this, it was always someone that she
(10:34):
was almost sort of I wouldn't say a project, but
maybe like they weren't set up or established the way
that she was, and it was more she would sort
of take care of them, or she would help them
to find a job and set them up and build
them up to be like a strong, independent person that
(10:55):
equally contributes in every way in the relationship. And this
was the first time that she was finding somebody who
needed nothing from.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Her, so she was really excited about that.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Crystal was happy for her mom. She could tell how
excited Donna was and it was nice to see her
feeling loved, especially after spending so much of her life
caring for others. But then Donna started to talk about
getting married to Kelly, and that was a little alarming,
after all, none of them had met him at the
same time, the wedding talk didn't seem all that real
(11:32):
to Crystal. Donna and Kelly had been planning to just
meet in person for over a year and that still
hadn't happened, So how real could this wedding talk be.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
So the wedding was going to be in Nigeria, where
he was from. So he lived in Japan but would
fly back and forth to Nigeria very often or his
family were back there. He wanted a big, traditional wedding,
and it was kind of like he was really proud
(12:04):
to be having her as his wife and wanted to
show her to all of his family and for us
to meet all of his family as well. I remember
thinking when she said that she was going to get
married to this guy and how the wedding would sort
of be. I sort of thought, well, that's nice, but
(12:26):
I wasn't really sure if it would really happen yet
because they hadn't met in person, and so I thought
once they meet in person, she'd know for sure and
have a better idea. And she had been talking about
meeting up with him, and I remember saying to her,
how about he come to Perth and meet you here first,
(12:49):
and then we all get to meet him. We can
see what we think of him as well. You're here
in your home city. And she had gone away and
spoken to him about that, and he sort of brought
up how busy he was with his work and that
it probably wouldn't be something that he'd be able to do.
(13:10):
Then she brought up Japan, and before that she brought
up Brazil, and I know I was thinking, these are
countries where the people don't really speak English. Can he
not come here first? Like I'd feel much better about
you coming here. She again would go away to him
and express her concerns, and his response, which I thought
(13:33):
was quite reassuring, was that he would be willing to
have one or several of us go over with her
if we're so worried, she can take some people with
her so that she feels more comfortable, so that we
feel more comfortable about her going.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
When he sort of said that, I thought, oh, well, someone.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Who's in it for something else would not care to
make an offer like that. It didn't really bring any
red flags for me. It actually made me feel like,
oh wow, He's really considering her and how we feel
and our concerns.
Speaker 4 (14:12):
He's got nothing to hide.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
Donna and Kelly continued to talk about meeting in person,
but there were still no concrete plans. In the meantime,
they spoke daily on the phone or on feast time.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
I think one thing to add about him in general
is the way that he structured his story to Mum.
He made himself very palatable to her as a divorcee
with children because he claimed to be divorce from his
Japanese wife.
Speaker 4 (14:44):
And had three sons.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
And I think that's a huge part for Mum, because
he didn't claim to be this young, fit, muscular like,
blond head, blue eyed guy who he wanted to be
in a relationship with her. He was an older guy,
wasn't a very strikingly handsome sort of person. He was
(15:10):
just like an average older guy. It was a divorce,
had his life sorted out.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
Yeah, And I mean they seemed very aligned and like
their station in life, and I can totally see that
would be reassuring, you know. I also wanted to touch on
something I read researching the story that you can maybe
tell me about, which is were they looking at homes? Together.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
During this time, he had inquired about homes in Australia,
so he wanted to move over here and build a
life with her so that she could be close to
her family. Yeah. I think she really.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Sold her on his commitment to family and supporting her
with her family commitments.
Speaker 4 (15:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
You know, you mentioned he said he had children as well.
Did she ever speak with his kids over FaceTime or
however they were communicating?
Speaker 3 (16:09):
No, I don't think these children of his really existed.
One was a doctor or studying to be a doctor,
one was a lawyer, and one was something else, like.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
It was a pharmacist or something.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
Yeah, so he really gave off this well grounded, successful
life and that his family were on that path as well.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
After two and a half years of dating remotely, Donna
announced she was finally going to meet Kelly in person.
This was September of twenty twenty two. Apparently Kelly said
he would cover the cost of the plane ticket. Initially
the plan was to meet up in Hong Kong, but
that changed.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Then after that it was going to be Brazil because
he also said he had a brother who had a
construction business and he was set up in Brazil. So yeah,
He just seemed to travel around a lot, and it
depended on where he would be at the time. And then,
(17:20):
oh gosh, it was very last minute that she said
she was going to meet him in Japan.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
In September of twenty twenty two, Donna and Kelly were
making plans to meet in person for the very first
time after dating remotely for two years. Kelly kept telling
Donna he wanted to purchase her plane ticket to Japan,
except the months started to go by and still there
was no plane ticket. They would decide on a date
for her to leave, and then Kelly would change that
(17:53):
plan last minute. Something would come up and it didn't
work for him anymore, and then they would set a
new date, but then that date would come and go,
no concrete plan, no plane ticket, And then suddenly it
was late December of twenty twenty two and the holidays
were upon them, and still Donna had no idea when
or even if she was going to Japan.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
So she was originally meant to go to Japan at
some point early in December, but she kept asking him like,
when am I going? When are you going to send
my flight details through? And it just seemed to not
be happening, so she focused her attention on like enjoying
(18:34):
Christmas with us all, and we had Christmas Day that
was really good. When she was questioning, why haven't you
got my flights yet? Is this even going to happen?
I really want to see you, he was having the
excuse that it's the Christmas period, things are really busy.
I'm trying to get the flight sorted.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
And then a few days after Christmas, Kelly told Donna
the ticket had been purchased. So Donna headed to the
airport excited to finally be going to Japan.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
She gets to the airport that night and she goes
to her put in her flight details on the machines,
and there's no flight.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
So she goes home.
Speaker 3 (19:18):
She's feeling really down, and I think she was sort
of giving up on hope of actually meeting him. And
then it was a few days later, when it might
have been the twenty ninth, where he says, oh, you're
going to go tomorrow, and so it was it was
(19:39):
a massive blur. We didn't really get time to sit
down and have a conversation with her. It was a
very hectic period where you know you're going to Christmas
and Boxing Day family things, and mums already said she's
going on a flight, which didn't eventually way. All throughout December,
(20:02):
she wasn't given flight details. I guess in a way,
I sort of didn't think she was going to go.
I thought he stalling, like he doesn't really want to
meet her.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
Even though Donna had been talking about meeting Kelly for years,
there had never been a plane ticket, and then suddenly
there was, and Donna was set to leave in less
than twenty four hours. It was in the middle of
the holiday rush, and Ashley and Crystal said everything was
so hectic they barely had time to talk with their
mom about the trip. Crystal said she felt like this
(20:36):
was something her mother was determined to do after two
years of talking online to Kelly. She wanted to know
if the relationship was real, if it was going anywhere.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
I think she really really had her heart set on
going to finally meet this guy.
Speaker 4 (20:52):
It had been so long.
Speaker 3 (20:54):
I feel as though in her mind it was like,
I need to go meet him now, like to progress
this relationship. You can't just stay at this point. I
don't think it's going to go any further. It's sort
of the vibe that I got, especially with the flights
that he was planning to take her on and never
(21:15):
really did. It just seemed like a lot of failed
promises at that point, and she just really wanted to
go meet him to see like are we compatible in person?
Is this going to work? But just before she left
it was such a blur. So I had a quite
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young daughter at the time.
Speaker 4 (21:40):
One of the other sisters had a quite.
Speaker 3 (21:43):
Young son, and I remember we were very flat out
with those two. And the last time I saw Mum
before she left, my other sister and I were at
a water park with the kids and Mum she was
really stressed out in that time. I think she was
(22:08):
just flustered trying to have everything organized. She didn't want
to forget her passport, and I guess it sort of
showed when the trial was on and we saw her
suitcase that she had, there was.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
Like very few belongings in there.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
You think that she was going there in December January,
when it's winter time in Japan. She didn't have any
winter clothes, she didn't have any jackets or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
So she does end up going to Japan. When do
you first hear that something has gone wrong?
Speaker 3 (22:48):
So before Mum left, we've got her to download the
Life three sixty apps so we can track her. So
once she landed at Mariita Airport in Tokyo, we could
see that she landed. She messaged us and told us
just landed, and told us how cold it was, had
(23:09):
a little back and forth laugh about the weather, and
then it was just silence. So that was first thing
in the morning that she landed, like seven am local time,
and it was about i'll say one pm Perth time,
(23:31):
which is two pm Japan time. We hadn't heard anything,
and I messaged all my sisters and said, has anyone
heard from Mum? I figured my sisters with the babies
would have heard from her first. And as everyone started
to come back and say no, I haven't heard from her,
then it started to make us all very worried. I
(23:53):
could see on the tracking app that she was still
at the airport, but she wasn't answering her phone or anything.
And it was very out of the ordinary that we
didn't hear from Mom. Because I just wanted to add
that Mum is the kind of person who we would
speak to her, not even just once in the day,
(24:15):
like there were constant conversations and video calls all throughout
the day.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
Donnah was usually in constant contact with her children, but
she'd gone silent on that very first day. Ashley printed
out any information that she had about Kelly, including a
screenshot of his face that she'd encouraged her mother to
take during one of their facetimes. She gathered it all
up and she headed to her local police station and.
Speaker 3 (24:42):
I told them I want to lodge a missing person's
report for my mum. She's overseas in Tokyo. She's landed there.
And I said, I know that it takes twenty four
hours at least until you can lodge a missing person's report,
but if it's out of the ordinary, then you can
do it sooner. And this is out of the ordinary
(25:04):
for my mom. So that night I did that missing
person's report. While I was speaking with a police officer
in an interrogation room, Kelly called me and he was
looking for my mom and he was saying, I just
left the airport looking for your mom. I was there
for two hours, and I said to him, well, she
(25:28):
landed this morning. Why weren't you there this morning to
pick her up? Why are you only there tonight and
the police officer was guiding me and saying what to
say to him to gain information from him, but not
tell him anything.
Speaker 4 (25:43):
And in our little report he.
Speaker 3 (25:45):
Had noted down that I received a phone call from
a man with a Nigerian accent and after that the
missing person's report was done. So I knew I had
to do that to open a consular case with the
Australian government. So the next morning I called our consular
(26:07):
emergency center and asked them to create a case for
my mum. They didn't have the missing person's report information,
so I made sure the police sent that through to them.
So that's on the fifth of January. She landed on
the fourth of January around yees seven am. Then the
consular case was created on the fifth of January and
(26:31):
they told us, look, it might take a few days,
or it could take a week, or it could take
a couple of weeks to locate your mum. And we
asked them if they could please, no matter what time
it was, as soon as they got information back about
our mum, could they make sure that someone calls us.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
At this point in all of this, what did your
local police, local law enforcement think, maybe happening during those
first twenty four hours, because you know, it was unusual
that she just went completely silent, and she's been at
the airport and the person that she was trying to
meet there can't find her, And what did they think
(27:17):
might be happening.
Speaker 4 (27:19):
The place?
Speaker 3 (27:20):
Didn't indicate what their thought process was. They did say
it was a little bit strange, and they did say
to me, once they heard Kelly call me and they
heard that conversation, they did say that that's very suspicious.
So that's all they indicated to me.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
What about the call that law enforcement overheard had made
them say that's suspicious.
Speaker 3 (27:48):
I think it's the fact that he wasn't waiting at
the airport for her when she was only there to
meet him, and.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
The fact that he wasn't there at the time that
she arrived.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
He was there at least twelve hours later, or maybe
over ten hours later. He went to the airport to
look for her. So she landed at seven am local
time and he wasn't there until six pm local time. Yeah,
that's like eleven hours later. But also it was how
(28:22):
he was talking. I think he mentioned that he knew
a lawyer who might be able to help, and they
were like, oh, why is he talking about that?
Speaker 2 (28:32):
At this stage, it was all so strange. Why had
Donna gone silent? And why was Kelly Colin Ashley, twelve
hours after he was supposed to pick Donna up from
the airport in Tokyo an even stranger? Why did he
think she needed a lawyer? Crystal Ashley and the rest
(28:58):
of the family had no idea where their mother was.
They called the airport, but it was hard to get
any information with the language barrier. They reached out to
Vietnam Airlines, the carrier Donna had flown on, and they
were told only this The flight had landed safely in Tokyo,
but Donna had not picked up her checked bag. All
they could do was wait and hope that she was
(29:20):
okay and that someone somewhere would call with news.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
You just feel sick for an endless amount of time.
You can't sleep, you can't eat, You're just worried. There's
no way to contact her. You go from thinking the
worst to I know the best that I was thinking was, Oh,
(29:46):
maybe she's filled out the immigration part wrong and they
have not accepted her. And she's just on a flight
right now coming home. And then you bounce to is
she dead somewhere? Did something happen to her? And this
person's not telling us anything. Is she in a hospital somewhere?
(30:07):
And you start googling all the different hospitals over there,
and you just don't know where to start. I know,
we had the thought of trying to call as many
police stations and hospitals as we could, but it just
felt like a needle in a haystack. You have no
idea where to start or where to get answers from,
and it's just a horrible feeling.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
Yeah, and so when do you learn what has happened?
And sort of take me to that moment.
Speaker 3 (30:37):
So in the days leaping up, we were really struggling.
Ash was over in Brisbane, the rest of us were
here in Perth. We weren't really eating or getting any sleep.
So our dad had kind of made it a commitment
that each day we're going to catch up at a
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park or something and just get out and get some
fresh air, have some time together. This was now on
the Saturday, and Dad wanted to take us out to lunch.
So this place where we went to go have lunch,
it was out in a pr and it was really
lovely on a sunny day, and it was about an
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hour's drive from where we all live. We got out
there and I remember it was the first real meal
that I had been able to eat in those days.
And just as I had gotten through it, I see
Dad's phone ring and he kind of quietly gets up
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and walks away, and then I just sense like, this
is not good. This is someone calling about Mum, and
it's not going to be good. A few minutes later,
Dad returns and we all leave the table where we're
eating and go to a I wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (32:00):
Even say a quiet spot.
Speaker 3 (32:01):
It's just a footpath out the front of the restaurant.
And Ash's on the phone at this point with Dad.
Dad's really serious and sits us all down and I
can't remember the words, but he just sort of breaks
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when news that Mum is okay, she's safe, but she's
been arrested. She's not coming home, and she's been arrested
for drug smuggling. And I remember thinking in that moment, oh,
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it's all a big mistake, like she would get allergies,
and I knew, like Japan, they were very strict on
what medications you can bring into the country. So I thought,
maybe she's taken some of her allergy steroids and that's
what it is. It's all just a big mistakes. No
way Mom would ever be involved in anything to do
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with drugs. This is all a big mistake. And I
asked Dad, is it her medication? And I didn't want
to know any details beyond yes or no, so he
just said no, it's not.
Speaker 4 (33:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
That's when he said she had one point eight kilograms
of methamphetamine. And that's where it was really confusing, because
we were all kind of like, how did this happen?
Because we know mum, and you know the person who
raises you. You know that they're totally against drugs, like
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their life's work has been helping the people affected by
drugs and alcohol. So we were kind of like, how
did this happen? I just had a weird feeling. I
just thought, Okay, it's Kelly. It's got to be Kelly.
So that's when I didn't speak to him again after
that moment. I blocked him because I thought, Oh, this
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man's in some really bad stuff.
Speaker 2 (34:02):
It was shocking for them to hear that Donna had
been arrested at the Tokyo Airport for the possession of methanphetamine.
This was their same mother who had devoted years to
helping her community combat the harms of addiction. Donna had
also carefully planned what medications she even brought on the trip,
knowing full well that Japan's drug laws are notoriously strict.
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Ashley said she knew immediately that Kelly was somehow behind this.
Many details would come out later during Donna's trial, including
something that happened during Donna's three day layover in Laos
before flying to Tokyo.
Speaker 3 (34:41):
So she was in Laos for three days and he
told her that she needed to stay there for three
days because it was the holiday period and there weren't
many flight options. They were like really busy, it's like
the busy period or whatever, And that's why she stayed
in Laos three days and then ended up going to Japan.
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But really, he had someone meet her in Laos at
her hotel, and he was a business partner of Kelly's.
Speaker 1 (35:11):
And why did Kelly need a business partner of his
to meet this woman that he's been dating at her hotel?
Speaker 3 (35:20):
So there were discussions that mum was having with Kelly
that we found out during the trial where they were
talking about he needed a certain type of suitcase for
his business. He was expanding his clothing design business to
include a line of suitcases and the specific type of
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one he needed. Mum tried looking for one in Australia,
but apparently there were none that were what he wanted.
Then he said, oh, I will figure it out, and
he ended up getting his business partner in Laos to
take a suit suitcase to Mum and said, like, put
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all of your stuff into this suitcase and get rid
of your own and bring this with you. And the
tricky part about the suitcase is firstly the timing of
when they brought it to Mum. She had like fifteen
minutes to leave the hotel and get to the airport
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to check in for her flight. So she's like flustered
and she just wants to just get on her flight.
And this guy brings the suitcase and it had some
fabrics like clothing in there that Mum and Kelly hadn't discussed,
and so instead of Mum being able to examine the
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suitcase on its own, it's like the clothing was put
in there to distract her and get her to.
Speaker 4 (36:52):
Focus on that instead of the suitcase itself.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
Because she did open it up and look.
Speaker 3 (36:57):
Yeah, and when she looked at the clothing, she called
Kelly and said, what is this clothing doing inside the suitcase?
We didn't discuss any clothing, and he said, these are
samples from my business. Please bring them with you. And
so she kind of like lifted the clothing, looked in it,
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didn't see anything of concern. She tried to examine the
suitcase a bit and didn't see anything concerning. So she
just put her things into the suitcase and quickly got
into a taxi and went to the airport.
Speaker 2 (37:34):
Donna's family knew their mother was in big legal trouble
in a foreign country. Once again, Ashley sprang into action,
collecting information that she thought might be useful for her
mother's case. She gathered email correspondence between her mother and
Kelly and any other documents she could think of that
might help prove that Donna was an upstanding person who
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just trusted the wrong guy. They also needed legal help.
Ashley said she just googled English speaking lawyers in Japan
and eventually found a firm that would take the case.
And that is when more details started to come out,
such as how the drugs were expertly hidden inside the suitcase.
Speaker 3 (38:17):
So the suitcase had like little grooves, you know how
you get the ones with the grooves.
Speaker 4 (38:23):
On the end.
Speaker 3 (38:25):
And the drugs were like finger shaped little lengths in
plastic and they were in the grooves. So even if
you are to press down and feel all around the suitcase,
you're not going to figure what's in those grooves.
Speaker 4 (38:44):
Right, it was really well hidden.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
Really well hidden, and your mom even went through the
contents of the suitcase. But like, how could she have
ever known how much time does Donnas spend from the
moment that she's seeking into custody to the trial.
Speaker 3 (39:03):
So she was taken into custody on the fourth of
January twenty twenty.
Speaker 4 (39:09):
Three, and her trial began with November twenty twenty four.
Speaker 3 (39:15):
From the moment mum was arrested up until she testified
in her trial, which started on a Thursday, I feel
like it was the nineteenth or twentieth of November. As
soon as Mum finished her testimony, that's when the communication
ban was lifted and we could finally communicate with our mum.
Speaker 4 (39:38):
So that whole time.
Speaker 3 (39:39):
We weren't allowed to write to her, speak to her anything.
Speaker 1 (39:44):
And am I understanding correctly, that's twenty three months.
Speaker 3 (39:50):
So the first time where seeing her, hearing her voice,
having any sort of interaction with her is looking on
with her when we're seeing her in her trial.
Speaker 4 (40:03):
And even then.
Speaker 3 (40:05):
The girls weren't allowed to hug Mum or even say
anything to her. It was kind of like a hello,
because you can get in trouble like Mum can get
in trouble, so it was sort of secretly like miming
I love you and hoping that the judges don't see.
Speaker 2 (40:26):
Donna was fifty eight years old at the time of
her trial. She'd already spent almost a year in jail
in Japan, unable to speak to or see her loved ones.
Her family flew to Japan for the trial, and they
were hopeful. They felt strongly that they could prove Donna
had absolutely no idea about the drugs and the suitcase
she'd been tricked.
Speaker 3 (40:48):
One of the customs officers being interviewed he had about
twenty years of experience in the job, and they asked him, you,
with all your experience looking at this suitcase, would you
have been able to tell that there were drugs inside
this suitcase? Not lifting it up, but by looking at it,
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would you have been able to know?
Speaker 4 (41:13):
And his answer was no.
Speaker 1 (41:16):
How did the Japanese court see it?
Speaker 4 (41:20):
Well?
Speaker 3 (41:21):
When they delivered their verdict, they admitted that Mum was
the victim of a romance scam, and they also said
that because she had been tricked by Kelly, her potential husband,
that she deserved sympathy, and that's why they gave her
a six year sentence, because realistically she was facing at
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least twenty But they also said she ignored red flags
as well, so I think that's where they based that
verdict on, is.
Speaker 4 (41:58):
Her ignoring red flags their opinion.
Speaker 1 (42:02):
What did it feel like to hear that verdict?
Speaker 4 (42:06):
It was very very hard.
Speaker 3 (42:10):
So in the courtroom everything spoken in Japanese, but there
was a translator there for Mum's benefit, and so Mum
had like a earpiece on and the translator had an
earpiece on, and she was speaking very very softly. But
I heard six years and something to the equivalent of
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ten thousand dollars in a fine. I didn't really register
at the time because the talking kept continuing, and then
I saw all of the media jump up and rush out.
Speaker 4 (42:48):
So I looked at my husband and asked, what is it.
Speaker 3 (42:53):
He said six years and he had to rush out
to quickly notify the rest of the family before that
found out through the media. So I was in there
watching mum trying to take in all this information, which
was really hard.
Speaker 4 (43:09):
She had her head down on the desk and was crying.
Speaker 3 (43:14):
And when she was leaving, I kind of mind to her,
don't worry, we'll get you home, and she just cried
and added, but my grandchildren, I think the thought of
you six years for such little people, They're going to
be completely different people by the time she gets to
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see them. And that was the hardest thing for her
to take in. It was just a real shock. I
felt like it wasn't right. I was worried about how
she was going to cope, Is her health going to
be okay?
Speaker 4 (43:53):
And it was just very difficult.
Speaker 1 (43:55):
What are her conditions in prison? What is her d
to day life like there right now?
Speaker 3 (44:03):
At the moment, I believe she's in her we like
to say room. We don't like to say anything else,
but she's in her room for twenty three and a
half hours per day. She showers twice a week, and
at this stage, because she's now changed from a detainee
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to a sentenced prisoner. She's undertaking some type of work
in there, which from what I understand, is done.
Speaker 4 (44:36):
In her room.
Speaker 3 (44:38):
We're hoping that she gets to interact with others. We're
not too sure on that at this point, because it's
the transition to being a sentence prisoner is a new one.
So we depend heavily on consular updates to know how
mum's doing because we don't get phone calls or anything
like that. So when we're say the letter from her,
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it's usually about three weeks after she's written a letter,
so we never really know how she's doing in real
time unless the consular officers have been able to visit.
Speaker 1 (45:12):
So as it stands today, when is your mother's release date?
Speaker 3 (45:19):
Her projected release date is early February twenty twenty nine.
Speaker 2 (45:25):
Donna's lawyers filed an appeal, but it was denied. Ashley
and Crystal say they've never been able to speak to
their mother on the phone. The only way to reach
her are through letters that take weeks to travel between
Japan and Australia, or through rare in person visits. Before this,
they've never even heard of an elder drug mule scam.
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But since their mother's case, they've learned about others people
lured in by online romance, unknowingly used to transport drugs,
now serving sentences in foreign prisons. Their family left behind
desperate to figure out how to help. Meanwhile, the people
who orchestrated it, all the ones who set the trap,
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are long gone. As far as we know, Kelly or
Rex or whoever he is, has never faced any legal consequences.
Speaker 3 (46:19):
Is he in Japan, is he in Nigeria? Is he
in one of these other places that he had invited mum.
Speaker 4 (46:26):
To go to.
Speaker 3 (46:28):
There were potential sightings of Kelly in Hong Kong after
a reporter started doing an investigation, but we're not sure
if anything came of that and if it is him.
But yeah, as far as we know, he hasn't been
held accountable for anything, and he's just free to find
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his next victims. Because we do know Mum wasn't the
only person he was speaking to. There were at least
two other women, even in the US, that he was
speaking to.
Speaker 1 (47:02):
How did you learn that?
Speaker 3 (47:04):
Through the lawyers they had reviewed evidence on Mum's phone
where he had accidentally screenshotted information and sent it to
Mum and it was it showed a name and it
said I think it was a name, age and location
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and it was for two women that were texting him.
So it's like text notifications and said, just say Donna
fifty seven or fifty eight in Australia. Even going back
to the Hong Kong part where there was a reporter
(47:48):
who went over there. So he went there to meet
with an Australian priest who helps women in the same
sort of situation.
Speaker 4 (47:57):
He's like a prison chaplain.
Speaker 3 (48:00):
He had met this reporter and he had a photo
of Kelly that he took into the women's prison and
showed it to some of the inmates there. And there
were several inmates there who said that this was the
person that they dealt with and they're in prison in
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Hong Kong for drug smuggling.
Speaker 1 (48:24):
Wow. So he has many victims.
Speaker 3 (48:28):
Yes, and it seems in various locations throughout the world.
Speaker 1 (48:33):
Wow, that is just unbelievable. So are there any other
sort of legal avenues or ways to potentially try to
appeal Dona's conviction.
Speaker 3 (48:45):
At this point, Mum has waived her right to a
second appeal to the Supreme court. The reasons being is
because there's only a zero point three percent chance of success.
They don't accept, they don't accept new evidence.
Speaker 1 (49:05):
I'm wondering just because I feel like the story is
so compelling. I think, because your mom did nothing wrong
and is this beloved member of her family and her community,
and yet she's in this unimaginable situation. And there are
many victims of a crime like this. She is at
the center. But of course her family who now misses her.
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How do you for your children, who are growing really
quickly while she is in custody in Japan? How do
you sort of keep her presence active in their minds
during this time.
Speaker 3 (49:45):
So my daughter, she's five now, obviously she doesn't understand
or doesn't have any awareness of where her grandmother is
and why we tell her that her grandmother works on
the planes and she flies around fighting fires and saving lives.
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So whenever she sees a plane flying over, she's like,
good night nanny or good morning nanny. She also would
always have these ice creams in her freezer, like these
little drumstick ones.
Speaker 4 (50:20):
I don't know if you guys have them.
Speaker 1 (50:21):
Like we're.
Speaker 3 (50:23):
Oh yeah, yeah, So those used to be Mum's favorite
ice creams, and her freezer was always stocked with them,
and my daughter, whenever she'd go to mum's house, would
go straight to the freezer and grab one. So whenever
my daughter's not home and I happen to have been
at the shops, I'll bring those back and put them
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in our freezer and we just sort of say, oh,
Nanny's been passed and she's dropped off some ice creams
for you. We play videos for her, we show her photos,
always writes letters, and in the letters, she'll include like
two pages that are sketches that she's done for the
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two little kids, and it will be like Lilo and
Stitch or Spider Man, or she'll always do a drawing
with their names on it for them.
Speaker 4 (51:19):
So it's a special treat that they get to have.
Speaker 3 (51:22):
I think something that's a little bit sad, and it
makes Mum sad as well, is whenever there's an eyelash
and you have to blow it and make a wish,
or when you blow out a candle and make a wish,
or there's a shooting star. My daughter's wish is always
I wish Nannie could come home.
Speaker 4 (51:41):
Now as she gets.
Speaker 3 (51:44):
Older, like, I really hope that we can have Mum
home as soon as we can have her home, because
I don't know how I would explain what the situation
is to her. I think it would break her little
heart to understand and where her grandmother is.
Speaker 4 (52:03):
And Mum also has an older grandson.
Speaker 3 (52:06):
He's sixteen, so it's obviously he knows exactly what's going on,
and he's got to deal with, you know, seeing the
media stuff. He understands that all of that stuff is
really good for Mum's situation because it highlights her case.
It keeps her in the public eye sort of thing,
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and applies the pressure where he needs to be applied.
But he still goes to school where his nan used
to drop him off and pick him up every day
and they'd have their own time. And he doesn't have her,
hasn't had her in almost three years now.
Speaker 1 (52:48):
How is she holding up in all of this?
Speaker 4 (52:51):
She's the strongest person I know.
Speaker 3 (52:54):
And when all of this started, if I was to
have known that she'd still be not home by this time,
I wouldn't have thought she'd still be the same her
that we know and love. But she's really focused on
her Christianity and her walk with God. That's given her
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a lot of strength. It's helped her that she can
now have letters, because up until December last year, she
wasn't able to have any letters. She's somebody who always
thinks of others, and as hard as this situation is
for her, she doesn't think of it like that. She
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thinks of how hard it is for us. She thinks
of the other women who are her neighbors over there
and how hard it is for them. She thinks about
how they may not get to have visitors, they may
not be sent money for food items. Like she is said,
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She's always looking at well, this person has it worse
than me.
Speaker 4 (54:06):
She's just such a strong person.
Speaker 1 (54:09):
Yeah, I mean it's you know, I think people like
her'll make everybody want to be better. It's like being
able to think of others when you're in that situation.
And it's definitely palpable how important she is to everyone
who knows her. And you know, her story is so
important because of the I think increasing prevalence of scams
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like this, and you know, there's a lot of shame
that some people carry when this happens to them. And
it's like these con artists, they do a really good
job finding out what is important to someone and praying
on that.
Speaker 2 (54:53):
Ugh, this episode was so heartbreaking to me.
Speaker 1 (54:57):
Yeah, there's no silver lining in these moments, but it
was one of those interviews where I was glad they
were together, Ashley and Crystal, which we typically don't do.
Speaker 2 (55:05):
Yeah, they told the story really well together, and I
mean there are only two of her five daughters, so
it was really they were representing her family. But you know,
we had been wanting to tell a story like this
for a while because we heard about this elder drug
mule scam a couple years ago and thought that it
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would be a great story, especially because I just feel
like a lot of people don't know about this.
Speaker 1 (55:32):
A lot of people don't know about it, and we're
in this. I feel like maybe it's just our age
group or our generation right now, where our parents are
aging and technology has changed so quickly that you know, recently,
I even told a story on here about a very
small time scam my grandpa almost got caught up in.
(55:52):
And so it's like, I just have to imagine our
listenership maybe know someone who could potentially be you know,
someone who's targeted for a scam like this yeah, which
is really scary.
Speaker 2 (56:06):
Totally and there was a bright spot in this otherwise
heartbreaking story. We actually ended up cutting it out for time,
but we wanted to mention it. Ashley and Crystal told
us that there is this American woman who lives in
Tokyo who had heard about Donna's story. She'd never met
Donna before, but now she goes and regularly visits her
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in prison, which I think is so sweet.
Speaker 1 (56:31):
It's so sweet, and it has to just feel so
good for Donna to have someone there in this place
that she's so unfamiliar with, where she doesn't speak the language.
Ye visit her, you know, show her support in person,
and also, you know, to then be able to communicate
with Donna's family, Hey, I saw her today. You know,
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just that someone laid eyes on her has to just be.
Speaker 2 (56:55):
So nice to hear. Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (56:57):
Ashley said something in the interview that I just think
is so insightful, and that is that seeing someone on
FaceTime or you know, any sort of visual like zoom
these days, it doesn't necessarily mean that they're credible or
that they're legit. And I think that maybe ten years
ago that's kind of the stories we were hearing about
online dating scams was oh, he could never FaceTime. His
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face time was always frozen or his computer didn't work.
And that doesn't always now act as like a gauge
of whether or not someone is actually who they say
they are, because you can get on FaceTime and you
can still be lying about everything.
Speaker 2 (57:34):
Oh yeah, the red flags to look out for. It
feels like a game of whack a mole, like it's
always changing. Because Ashley talked about warning her mom about
all the common red flags that she would think of
to warn someone, like don't give out your bank account information,
but none of that actually ended up being very relevant
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in this case because the red flags were so different,
and it made me think of this other their story.
Speaker 1 (58:01):
Well, yeah, I actually want to touch on that for
a second, because also one thing that stuck out to
me is like, Okay, you're traveling to Japan just like
they were. I would have my own hesitations about a
family member traveling alone to a foreign country to meet
someone that they'd so far only met online. However, it's
like Ghana had traveled internationally before to meet someone she'd
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met online and that person was who they said they were,
and even though it doesn't totally calm your fears. I
think it reinforces the idea that that's possible, that you're
not necessarily being scammed.
Speaker 2 (58:35):
Right, It's possible to date someone in a different country
and it not be a scam. Yes, of course. Yeah,
So there was this other case. There's multiple, but I
wanted to touch on this other case. It's actually from
twenty fourteen, but this man named Ralph Souls was caught
in a very similar type of scheme. He was seventy
four years old at the time, and he was caught
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transporting methamphetamine into New Zealand, was arrested and then spent
eighteen months in custody. He ended up getting out. You know,
it also depends on what country you're in and what
their laws are around this. But what happened with him
was that he met someone online who said that he
wanted to invest in his business and they started chatting
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became friends essentially, is what Ralph thought. So this man
said his name was Laurence Green, which was not his
real name, and in twenty thirteen, Ralph got on a
plane for Johannesburg, South Africa to meet Green in order
to set up some big accounts to start this business.
As soon as he got there, he got a message
from Green saying, actually, oh, I had to leave for Fiji.
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I'm on vacation in Fiji. Can you meet me there?
And it was a very similar thing to this story.
He said, Oh, and by the way, I have this suitcase.
Do you mind grabbing it and bringing it with you.
Ralph also open the suitcase, looked through it, didn't see
anything suspicious, but of course there were drugs in the
lining of the suit that he didn't know about, and
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so that is how he was tricked and caught. And
you know, fortunately he didn't have a longer sentence, But
eighteen months is still a long time, and for children
whose parents are in prison abroad is just a nightmare.
Speaker 1 (01:00:15):
Eighteen months is a long time to be anywhere that's
not home, and to think of your parent in prison
and their seventies in a foreign country is like terrorizing.
And you know, this idea, like Donna looked through the suitcase,
Ralph looked through the suitcase. Even that is like, I
think so wise of both of them to have done that,
(01:00:38):
because if I was so trusting of someone, felt like
I was so connected to someone to meet them in
another foreign country. I don't know that I would have
even thought to do that. And so the fact that,
like you still have people being cautious and still this
is happening just shows you how seasoned these con artists are.
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I mean, this is like organ crime totally, and it's
so sad. I mean eighteen months of someone's life, that's
a long time.
Speaker 2 (01:01:06):
Yeah, you know the red flags look out for, I
guess now, and these cases are like, don't ever bring
a suitcase across international lines or any object that's not
yours that you don't know what it is.
Speaker 1 (01:01:17):
Yeah, and you know, this idea that someone wants to
invest in your business is like that could be perfectly plausible. However,
if they were requiring you to fly across the world
to open bank accounts, if they're not showing up where
they said they would be and wanting you to go
to another country, It's like, if someone is that serious,
you can always take a beat. If they disappear, then
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that's for the best.
Speaker 2 (01:01:42):
It's like that classic scam, the way scammers make you
feel that you're going to miss out unless you act now.
Speaker 1 (01:01:49):
Yeah, this sense of urgency all the time. Yeah, and
these wild stories like imagine even going to LAX, like
saying you would be at LAX and then just not
go and leaving someone stranded there to figure something out,
like I wouldn't sleep. I'd be so stressed to do
that to someone.
Speaker 2 (01:02:06):
Well, this is why you're not a scammer. Yeah, I never.
You don't have the personality for it, Thank goodness. Seriously,
you looked up some twenty twenty three stats about elder fraud, right.
Speaker 1 (01:02:19):
Yeah, and it's pretty staggering. So this is all according
to a report released by the FBI in twenty twenty
three scams targeting people aged sixty and older, the average
victim of elder fraud lost over thirty thousand dollars, which
is so much money. And you know, oftentimes that's when
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people are done working or close to being done working,
and they're relying on that savings and so the impact
on their life can be pretty astronomical. And in total,
in twenty twenty three alone, victims of elder fraud and
this is in the US, lost a total of three
point four billion dollars.
Speaker 2 (01:02:59):
Wow, that's why.
Speaker 1 (01:03:00):
Yeah, it's wild. And there are so many different types
of elder fraud, but the main one is tech support
scams like that could be a pop up on your
computer saying you need to fill this out right now,
or someone calling and saying you know, this is so
and so from your bank or whatever. They're finding you digitally. Yeah,
(01:03:21):
and that is a tricky thing, I think, especially if
you're elderly. But even now, I know people in my
own age group that have gotten these phone calls. Oh yeah,
I know people are falling for them because they're very believable.
Speaker 2 (01:03:35):
Totally believable.
Speaker 1 (01:03:36):
Yeah, so there's investment scams is the costliest to victims typically,
But good advice for everyone is that if you know
someone who think might be susceptible to these kinds of scams,
you can just encourage them to never give up any
personal information. If someone says they're calling from your bank,
hang up and call your bank up absolutely, and not
(01:03:57):
at the number they called you on.
Speaker 2 (01:03:58):
If someone says, I just is you to confirm some information,
there's no reason why that would ever happen. You would
never have to give out any personal information to someone
who's calling you who supposedly already has your information. Yeah,
that's just never needed. Yeah, don't send money to anybody
you don't know. And if you haven't met them in
person and they're telling you, you know, a chaotic story
(01:04:22):
and telling you what they need this money right now,
it's still okay to take a beat. Yeah, maybe call.
Speaker 1 (01:04:27):
Someone else and get their opinion on it. I've heard
stories of bank tellers refusing to cash checks in certain
instances where they think someone's being scammed, And I don't
know exactly what their authority is or how often that's happening.
I doubt there's like stats on it, but I mean
that has to be a hard job for them if
they can see it happening in real time too. So
(01:04:48):
I actually tried to pay someone on Facebook marketplace over
Zell a couple weeks ago, and it just wouldn't let me.
Speaker 2 (01:04:55):
It was like, no, they're really trying to crack down
on scams.
Speaker 1 (01:04:58):
I yeah, yeah, but I was there trying to like
buy a tow here.
Speaker 2 (01:05:03):
This is real.
Speaker 1 (01:05:04):
Yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
I feel like a good rule of thumb if you
get a scam call is just like you said, just say,
I got to call you right back. Get their name,
their employer, and their number. Yeah, and if they get
weird about that, it's a red flag.
Speaker 1 (01:05:18):
Red flag or I would just hang up and like
they'll call back if it's important, and even then you
can just google the number totally.
Speaker 2 (01:05:26):
Well, that's our episode for today. Thanks for listening. We'll
see you next week.
Speaker 1 (01:05:33):
If you have a story for us, we would love
to hear it. Our email is The Knife at exactlyrightmedia
dot com, or you can follow us on Instagram at
the Knife Podcast or a Blue Sky at the Knife Podcast.
Speaker 2 (01:05:44):
This has been an Exactly Right production hosted and produced
by me Hannah Smith.
Speaker 4 (01:05:48):
And me Paysha Ey.
Speaker 1 (01:05:49):
Our producers are Tom Bryfogel and Alexis Samarosi.
Speaker 2 (01:05:53):
This episode was mixed by Tom Bryfogel.
Speaker 1 (01:05:55):
Our associate producer is Christina Chamberlain.
Speaker 2 (01:05:57):
Our theme music is by Birds in the Airport.
Speaker 1 (01:06:00):
Artwork by Vanessa Lilac.
Speaker 2 (01:06:01):
Executive produced by Karen Kilgareth Georgia Hardstark and Danielle Kramer.
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