May 13, 2025 • 7 mins
Our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey has advice for...
- Joann in Louisville – On my birthday, my husband wasn’t feeling well so I told him I’d go out with the girls and he and I could go out another time. It’s been 2 weeks and he’s fine and he went back to work. Should I remind him about my birthday or wait till next year?
- Simone in Brooklyn – I’m 39 and I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I started working at night and when I get off in the morning, he thinks we should have sex. I hate morning sex but I also don’t want him to cheat on me. What’s the best solution for this issue?
- Deandre in Columbia – I got married a year ago and my wife has a 24 year old son that asked if he could stay with us for a while. I told him NO and my wife and I had a cursing match. She stopped talking to me days ago. How can I get her to stop babying him?
- Tianna in Santa Monica – I was dating an older man and I found out he’s married so I blocked him. He got mad and said there’s no way he’d ever leave his wife for me. I want to seek revenge but I also don’t want to hurt my reputation. How should I handle him?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the celo. He said he'd
have to be stupid not to take it as a kip.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Come on, so all right, Colo. This is from Joanne
and Louisville.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Joanne writes, on my birthday, my husband wasn't feeling well,
so I told him I go out with the girls
and he and I could go out another time. It's
been two weeks and he's fine, and he went back
to work. Should I remind him about my birthday or
wait until next year?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Oh well, you can remind him. But he sought it
out in the free past, and he took it. I'm
gonna go out with my girls. It's your birthday now.
You're not a child. You do your birthday all month
long and all that. Anybody I don't anybody got time
for that. Your birthday is on your birthday all these
(00:51):
I'm doing my whole week and my whole month. I
don't like people like that. Your birthday today, I don't
like people like that.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
That's all week. You've missed it.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
But Steve, she just.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Wanted to spend her birthday with her husband.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
She wanted to do we went without girls, She said,
is all right, I just go out with my girl,
and now he better birthday gone, see you next year.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Don't let him off the hook.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Get a gift, yeah something, all right, moving on to
that's it.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Moving on to Simone in Brooklyn.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Simone rites, I'm thirty nine and I've been with my
boyfriend for two years. I started working at night, and
when I get off in the morning, he thinks we
should have sex. I hate morning sex, but I also
don't want him to cheat on me. What's the best
solution to this issue?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Girl? Sometimes I wonder what you're want to do.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
Yeah, mm hmm, girl, you better get on board, get
up and brush your teeth and get on back in here.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
That's the worst part.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
But see, she started a new job and she gets
off in the.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Morning, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, works, It ain't morning.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
It's your night lady.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Yeah, she's tired.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Yeah, I know you're tired, but.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
She doesn't want to mar It ain't gonna take that long.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Well you don't know that. Yeah, that's all we need
for you. I'm gonna let you go on, get you
some sleep. Man, I'm not gonna hold you up. She
is not married to you. Our boyfriend is boyd All right.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Well to Seelo was answering the question, I do we're
dealing with that attitude today. No, I'm just I mean,
it's over which you want me to Lady, it's nighttime
for you. You get off work, you all you know
not you can make go to bed quick. Thank you
this morning.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Change your way of thinking. Okay, gotcha?
Speaker 3 (03:05):
All right?
Speaker 1 (03:06):
DeAndre and Columbia says, I got married a year ago
and my wife has a twenty four year old son
that asked if he could stay with us.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
For a while.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I told him no, and my wife and I had
a cursing match. She stopped talking to me days ago.
How can I get her to stop babying him?
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Oh yeah, that's gonna be a hard one, dog, because
she already cussed you out about it because you told
the boy no. He twenty four. A lot of that
depends on the circumstance, like what he lost his job,
He didn't have his money right, he tried to save
(03:47):
up get an apartment. Maybe you know, would you have
to consider that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
You know, do you let your twenty four year old
son to stay there?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
I have, I haven't had to, but I would have
you will. I mean I would have to consider there's
been an out of question than my daddy out. He
told me, Yeah, I left your house for college. You
can't come back here.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
That's why you were homeless for a while.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
No, well, I knew not to call my daddy with dad,
and I was thirty years old. I can't call my
daddy tomorrow. I ain't got no harm. He said, you
chure don't.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
So then this guy in this clo is not wrong.
You're not saying he's wrong.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
I'm not saying he's wrong because I understand you got
to make these young men, you know, be accountable and
and plus like some people, just is it really an
emergency or is it just do you have your mama's
number and it's gonna be your out? Have you used
all your resources? Have you gotten your money back off
your apartment? Did you blow your money when you got
(04:49):
your deposit back? Or did you tear the people's place
up and ain't no deposit. It's a lot of things
coming to play right here. So's I would find out
what the circumstances are mm hmm to me.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
But you would let your son come back if.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
It's extenuating circumstances. Yes, okay, but I don't. And then
all again, it depends on the relationship. Yeah, you know,
has he ever gotten along with the boy?
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Not?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
The boy just needs something from him. Now here come
a lot. It's a lot in it that I don't know. Well,
I got a great relationship with my.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Son, so yeah, yeah, obviously he thinks she's been babying
him and he needs her to stop.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Well, my son's gonna go, you go stay with your brother.
That's gonna be first option. Where's daddy at.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Yeah, because that's her husband. Yeah, a year, a year,
a year new Yeah, yeah, that's his.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Rule of my son, go stay with your brother. M hm.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Okay, all right, Well he wants her to stop babing
in him, okay. Last one Steve moving on to Siana
in Santa Monica. Tiana says, I was dating an older
man and I found out he's married, so I blocked him.
He got mad and said there's no way he'd ever
leave his wife for me. I want to seek revenge,
(06:11):
but I also don't want to hurt my reputation.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
How should I handle him?
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Well, then, seeking revenge is you got to put yourself
out there for revenge. You know, you found out he
was married, so you blocked it. He mad, and I
told you he would never leave his wife for you. Okay,
I guess that news upset you. Yes, that that probably
(06:38):
didn't set well, that I would never leave my wife
for you, which he won't. That's why I keep saying
about the truth, y'all. I always say you want it,
then when we tell it, now here we go. Now
it's revenge, we all on social media. No, that ain't
it revenge. Sureley, she wants revenge, so she wants to
expose him as a cheetah. But she don't want to
(07:01):
ruin her reputation as a home record because she's gonna
get choosed now well you know now she no, you know,
ain't look, we make mistakes, chalk it up, you know,
But how you didn't know? I don't look. It's too many.
It's too much technology for y'all to quit talking about.
Y'all don't know these me and married Facebook, social media.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
She said she didn't know.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
We gotta take her out of word.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Oh no, you ain't see the uh you ain't see
when he pulled up in the winning bagona had to
swing set on.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
You do your homework.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
You can't say the real baby booty is hanging off
the rear of the mill. You didn't see, You ain't
never see that car seat in the best
Speaker 2 (07:51):
You're listening Hard Morning Show
It is time to ask the celo. He said he'd
have to be stupid not to take it as a kip.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Come on, so all right, Colo. This is from Joanne
and Louisville.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Joanne writes, on my birthday, my husband wasn't feeling well,
so I told him I go out with the girls
and he and I could go out another time. It's
been two weeks and he's fine, and he went back
to work. Should I remind him about my birthday or
wait until next year?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Oh well, you can remind him. But he sought it
out in the free past, and he took it. I'm
gonna go out with my girls. It's your birthday now.
You're not a child. You do your birthday all month
long and all that. Anybody I don't anybody got time
for that. Your birthday is on your birthday all these
(00:51):
I'm doing my whole week and my whole month. I
don't like people like that. Your birthday today, I don't
like people like that.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
That's all week. You've missed it.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
But Steve, she just.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Wanted to spend her birthday with her husband.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
She wanted to do we went without girls, She said,
is all right, I just go out with my girl,
and now he better birthday gone, see you next year.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Don't let him off the hook.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Get a gift, yeah something, all right, moving on to
that's it.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Moving on to Simone in Brooklyn.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Simone rites, I'm thirty nine and I've been with my
boyfriend for two years. I started working at night, and
when I get off in the morning, he thinks we
should have sex. I hate morning sex, but I also
don't want him to cheat on me. What's the best
solution to this issue?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Girl? Sometimes I wonder what you're want to do.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
Yeah, mm hmm, girl, you better get on board, get
up and brush your teeth and get on back in here.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
That's the worst part.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
But see, she started a new job and she gets
off in the.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
Morning, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, works, It ain't morning.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
It's your night lady.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Yeah, she's tired.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Yeah, I know you're tired, but.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
She doesn't want to mar It ain't gonna take that long.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Well you don't know that. Yeah, that's all we need
for you. I'm gonna let you go on, get you
some sleep. Man, I'm not gonna hold you up. She
is not married to you. Our boyfriend is boyd All right.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Well to Seelo was answering the question, I do we're
dealing with that attitude today. No, I'm just I mean,
it's over which you want me to Lady, it's nighttime
for you. You get off work, you all you know
not you can make go to bed quick. Thank you
this morning.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Change your way of thinking. Okay, gotcha?
Speaker 3 (03:05):
All right?
Speaker 1 (03:06):
DeAndre and Columbia says, I got married a year ago
and my wife has a twenty four year old son
that asked if he could stay with us.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
For a while.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
I told him no, and my wife and I had
a cursing match. She stopped talking to me days ago.
How can I get her to stop babying him?
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Oh yeah, that's gonna be a hard one, dog, because
she already cussed you out about it because you told
the boy no. He twenty four. A lot of that
depends on the circumstance, like what he lost his job,
He didn't have his money right, he tried to save
(03:47):
up get an apartment. Maybe you know, would you have
to consider that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
You know, do you let your twenty four year old
son to stay there?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
I have, I haven't had to, but I would have
you will. I mean I would have to consider there's
been an out of question than my daddy out. He
told me, Yeah, I left your house for college. You
can't come back here.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
That's why you were homeless for a while.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
No, well, I knew not to call my daddy with dad,
and I was thirty years old. I can't call my
daddy tomorrow. I ain't got no harm. He said, you
chure don't.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
So then this guy in this clo is not wrong.
You're not saying he's wrong.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
I'm not saying he's wrong because I understand you got
to make these young men, you know, be accountable and
and plus like some people, just is it really an
emergency or is it just do you have your mama's
number and it's gonna be your out? Have you used
all your resources? Have you gotten your money back off
your apartment? Did you blow your money when you got
(04:49):
your deposit back? Or did you tear the people's place
up and ain't no deposit. It's a lot of things
coming to play right here. So's I would find out
what the circumstances are mm hmm to me.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
But you would let your son come back if.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
It's extenuating circumstances. Yes, okay, but I don't. And then
all again, it depends on the relationship. Yeah, you know,
has he ever gotten along with the boy?
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Not?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
The boy just needs something from him. Now here come
a lot. It's a lot in it that I don't know. Well,
I got a great relationship with my.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Son, so yeah, yeah, obviously he thinks she's been babying
him and he needs her to stop.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Well, my son's gonna go, you go stay with your brother.
That's gonna be first option. Where's daddy at.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Yeah, because that's her husband. Yeah, a year, a year,
a year new Yeah, yeah, that's his.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Rule of my son, go stay with your brother. M hm.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Okay, all right, Well he wants her to stop babing
in him, okay. Last one Steve moving on to Siana
in Santa Monica. Tiana says, I was dating an older
man and I found out he's married, so I blocked him.
He got mad and said there's no way he'd ever
leave his wife for me. I want to seek revenge,
(06:11):
but I also don't want to hurt my reputation.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
How should I handle him?
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Well, then, seeking revenge is you got to put yourself
out there for revenge. You know, you found out he
was married, so you blocked it. He mad, and I
told you he would never leave his wife for you. Okay,
I guess that news upset you. Yes, that that probably
(06:38):
didn't set well, that I would never leave my wife
for you, which he won't. That's why I keep saying
about the truth, y'all. I always say you want it,
then when we tell it, now here we go. Now
it's revenge, we all on social media. No, that ain't
it revenge. Sureley, she wants revenge, so she wants to
expose him as a cheetah. But she don't want to
(07:01):
ruin her reputation as a home record because she's gonna
get choosed now well you know now she no, you know,
ain't look, we make mistakes, chalk it up, you know,
But how you didn't know? I don't look. It's too many.
It's too much technology for y'all to quit talking about.
Y'all don't know these me and married Facebook, social media.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
She said she didn't know.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
We gotta take her out of word.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Oh no, you ain't see the uh you ain't see
when he pulled up in the winning bagona had to
swing set on.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
You do your homework.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
You can't say the real baby booty is hanging off
the rear of the mill. You didn't see, You ain't
never see that car seat in the best
Speaker 2 (07:51):
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